Four Men and Their Reputations 3 John 1-14
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Four Men and Their Reputations 3 John 1-14 I. Gaius is a commendable Christian. 1-8 1. Live spiritually. 1-2 2. Walk truthfully. 3-4 3. Serve faithfully. 5-6 4. Minister generously. 7-8 II. Diotrephes is a conceited Christian. 9-10 1. Do not be driven by prideful ambition. 9 2. Do not display pompous arrogance. 9 3. Do not deliver perverse accusations. 10 4. Do not dominate with profane activity. 10 III. Demetrius is a consistent Christian. 11-12 1. Pursue a godly example. 11 2. Possess a good testimony. 12 IV. John is a caring Christian. 13-14 1. Desire the presence of fellow believers. 13 2. Desire peace for fellow believers. 14 FOUR MEN AND THEIR REPUTATIONS 3 JOHN 1-14 INTRODUCTION: 1. All of us share an invaluable possession. It goes with us wherever we go, but amazingly, it also goes where we do not go. Furthermore, what you think of this prized possession is not necessarily what others think of it. I speak of our reputation. Your reputation is the estimation or evaluation of your character, integrity, and standing as a person. It may be good or bad, positive or negative. But be assured of this: 1) We all have a reputation. 2) People will watch you and talk about you. Count on it! 3) You cannot escape or lose your reputation. It precedes you, goes with you and follows you all of your life and beyond. 2. Charles Spurgeon, the great British Baptist preacher in London, knew the importance of our reputation, especially for the Christian. “The eagle-eyed world acts as a policeman for the church… [it] becomes a watch-dog over the sheep, barking furiously as soon as one goes astray. Be careful, be careful of your private lives…and I believe your public lives will be sure to be right; but remember that it is upon your public life that the verdict of the world will very much depend.” 3. With that in mind let me raise 3 important questions for all of us to think about: 1) What do you think of yourself? 2) What do you believe others think about you? 3) What does God think about you? As you reflect upon these 3 questions I want us to examine the shortest book in the Bible, the letter of 3 John. Only 219 words, this postcard epistle has been too often neglected to the detriment of the church. Like 1 & 2 Timothy, Titus, Philemon [and possibly 2 John], it is written to an individual, a man named Gaius. Written by John between AD 80 – 95, Eusebius, the ancient church historian, says it was penned after John was released from the rock quarry island of Patmos in the Aegean Sea. If this is correct, 3 John may have been the last book written in our new testament (Bible). Though Revelation certainly fits best as the finale of Holy Scripture. 4. The book is similar in length and style to its twin sister 2 John, and yet there are some important differences as well. • 3 John revolves around 4 key men and their reputation. 2 John mentions no one by name. In 2 John the problem was showing hospitality to the wrong visitors. In 3 John the problem is not showing hospitality to the right visitors. In 2 John the major concern was truth. In 3 John the major concern is love. 5. It is easy to outline the book biographically, around the 4 men of the letter. As we look at each one of them, continue to examine yourself and see if anyone here looks something like you. I. Gaius Is A Commendable Christian. V. 1-8 • This letter begins in the same way as 2 John, identifying the author as the elder (Presbuteros). The word originally meant an older man, but cam to convey ideas of respect, authenticity and integrity. An elder is a man of courage, commitment, and conviction. He is a man of authority rooted in his spiritual maturity. John was such a man and because he had a tender relationship with the elect lady (2 John) and Gaius (3 John) there was no need to assert his apostleship. • John commends Gaius in 4 areas of his life, areas in which we also should seek to excel. 1. Live Spiritually. V.1-2 • 4 times John will address Gaius, the recipient of this letter, as beloved (Agapeto) or dear friend (NIV). It expresses deep, heart-felt love for this man. John loved this man and he told him so. He also knew his spiritual life was in good health and he told him this too. • Gaius was a common name in that day and 3 men by that name appear in the New Testament: Gaius of Corinth (Rom. 16:23); Macedonia (Acts 19:29); and Derbe (Acts 20:4). Gaius of 3 John is probably none of those. All we know of this Gaius we learn from this short letter, and what we learn is outstanding. • John’s love for him is genuine; it is accompanied by truth (7X). There is nothing false or superficial here. The I is emphatic: Whom I myself love in truth. • John is praying (cont.) for Gaius to prosper (cont.) in all things {fronted for emp.] and be in health as his soul prospers. Prosper means to have a good journey. Health is Hygiainein (Hygiene). • Gaius had a clean bill of health spiritually. Perhaps he was suffering some physical difficulty but his soul was “ship shape,” in top condition. Application: What if I were to pray for you and ask God to bless you physically to the same degree you are healthy spiritually and he answered my prayer. What would happen?! Would you be fit, in bed, or nearly dead? Would we need to rush you to the emergency room of the hospital and have you ushered into the I.C.U. or C.C.U.? We must live spiritually. Gaius was “soul healthy.” The same is God’s expectation for us. 2. Walk Truthfully. V. 3-4 • Living spiritually is intimately connected to walking truthfully. John could rejoice greatly (v.3) and have no greater joy (v.4) because of what others were telling him about Gaius. ∗ Truth is in him (What he believed). ∗ He walks in truth (What he lived). In doctrine and deed, Gaius was commendable, praiseworthy, a joy. There Was no contradiction between his profession (talk) and practice (walk). • My children may indicate John had led Gaius to Christ. John was fathering spiritual children into the kingdom of God and Gaius was a child of his in whom he took great delight. The great Spurgeon knew the importance of this calling for every child of God, but especially those called to the ministry. You may view, dear friends, the text as specifying the pastor’s greatest reward. “I have no greater joy that to hear that my children walk in truth.” The minister who is sent of God has spiritual children, they are as much his children as if they had literally been born in his house, for to their immortal nature he stands under God in the relationship of sire. No minister ought to be at rest unless he sees that his ministry does bring forth fruit, and men and women are born unto God by the preaching of the word. To this end we are sent to you, not to help you to spend your Sundays respectably, nor to quiet your consciences by conducting worship on your behalf. No, sirs, ministers are sent into the world for a higher purpose, and if your souls are not saved, we have labored in vain as far as you are concerned. If in the hands of God we are not made the means of your new birth, our sermons and instructions have been a mere waste of effort, and your hearing has been a mere waste of time to you, if not something worse. To see children born unto God, that is the grand thing. Hence every preacher longs to be able to talk about his spiritual sons and daughters. • Oh but Spurgeon was not satisfied to challenge ministers only in light of this text. He also walked into the home, looked parents straight in the eyes, asking them, concerning their children, what really mattered to them? It is very grievous to see how some professedly Christian parents are satisfied so long as their children display cleverness in learning, or sharpness in business, although they show no signs of a renewed nature. If they pass their examinations and promise to be well fitted for the world’s battle, their parents forget that there is a superior conflict, involving a higher crown, for which the child will need to be fitted by divine grace, and armed with the whole armor of God. Many who ought to know better think themselves superlatively blessed in their children if they become rich, if they marry well, if they strike out into profitable enterprises in trade, or if they attain eminence in the profession which they have espoused. Their parents will go to their beds rejoicing, and awake perfectly satisfied, though their boys are hastening down to hell, if they are also making money by the bushel. They have no greater joy than that their children are having their portion in this life, and laying up treasure where rust corrupts it. Though neither their sons nor daughters show any signs of the new birth, give no evidence of being rich towards God, manifest no traces of electing love or redeeming grace, or the regenerating power of the Holy Spirit, yet there are parents who are content with their condition.