Teaching Like a Spiritual Rock Star
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Teaching Like a Spiritual Rock Star Jeff Birk LLDS: So Jeff, how are you? Birk: I'm doing great, Kirk. Thanks for having me on. This is just an honor (00:00:30) and I am really excited to share some cool stuff with everybody. LLDS: Nice. Well maybe one thing and I want you to tell us a little about yourself, but just so nobody sits here and is distracted by what you're saying by thinking I've seen that guy somewhere. Where maybe somebody in the Mormon universe recognize you? Birk: So I've done a few Mormon Movies. You know, if anyone wants to think way back to when this whole thing started. When it really started to get (00:01:00) a lot of momentum was when the first "Singles Ward" movie came out. So I had a small role in the "Singles Ward" and the "Singles Ward 2" or the single second ward. I did some voiceover stuff for the "Saints and Soldiers" movies that, uh, that depict members of the church during a certain happenings during World War Two primarily. But I think that the big one that people might recognize me from is the "Home Teachers" where I co-started with Michael Berkland who's done a lot of stuff. So I was kind of the, you know, (00:01:30) the really, we got to get our home teaching done. And my co-star was the we gotta get home and watch the football game. But yeah, other than that, that's pretty much been where people might spot me and Costco and start following me around. LLDS: Have you had any weird interactions like that? Or is that why you shaved your head, so that nobody would recognize you? Birk: You know, it's that movie. We did it back in 2004. And so I've gotten a little lighter up top here since then. (00:02:00) I don't get a lot of recognition anymore. But every now and then I do. I will. For example, I remember I was walking into Costco once and there was a kid that was just kind of following me around, but I think the funniest on, Kurt, was I was flying and I had to connect through Minneapolis and so I'm going from somewhere like New York to Minneapolis, then home to Salt Lake City and on my connecting flight I'm leaving the plane, walking down the jet way or whatever they call it and I get to outside of the gate (00:02:30) and the flight agent says 'Home Teachers!" So that was kind of a goofy one, but it's fun. It's good. And uh, it's, it's been a great experience. LLDS: That's great. So tell us about what we need to know about you, about your background that may put you into context before we launch into your message today? Birk: Yeah. So just so everyone out there knows how you and I got in touch was I on a webcast with a friend of mine, Sean Repeater, (00:03:00) and, you heard my, interview that I did with him and found out a little bit more of what I do. And just so that everybody has a background of what I'm going to be talking about , when I was at BYU there was a comedy club in Provo, Utah, and all of my friends said, "You've got to go do this, you're just born to do this stuff". And I've been a goofy face maker and noisemaker my whole life. Right? And so I went to open mic night. Once, went onstage. I wrote down five minutes’ worth (00:03:30) of material and, Johnny Biscuit, the owner of the club at the time, he liked it and he invited me back and I kept going back and then five minutes turned into 10 and then 20. And then one thing led to another to where I've just had some incredible opportunities over the, over the past few years, quite a while ago, I opened for Jay Leno. I got to open for Martin Short, if any of you are familiar with him, he's done a lot of movies. A few big names. It's just been a lot of fun. And so, (00:04:00) from a comedy background, that's, that's where that comes from. But to continue the story, Kurt, what I've done primarily as my work is I'm a Corporate Presenter, so I go out and I speak with companies and organizations about a variety of topics. These could be companies such as Honda, Footlocker, a Virgin Trains, Liberty Mutual and New York Presbyterian. My real job I should say is with OC Tanner here in (00:04:30) Salt Lake City. And I go teach managers how to say thank you to their people. It's all about appreciation, recognition. But the one thing that we really, we're going to be talking about today has stemmed from my visit to a trade show one year. Excuse me in Dallas, Texas, it was a trade show about how to train. OK? So there's companies there that have their 10 by 10, 20 by 20 booths set up and we're going to teach you how to do this and train you how to do that. And the thing that (00:05:00) really amazed me, Kurt, was I was watching these trainers onstage and they were awful. Okay, now this is a trade show about training. All right? And so you got the one guy up there, he's got his shirt, kind of half un-tucked and he's looking around and he says, "are my slides working?" and it does this, you know, and OK, so, and it’s death by PowerPoint. There's these PowerPoints that are up there that have 500 words on them and they're all in (00:05:30) eight-point font and I'm just, Oh my goodness, you've gotta be kidding. And so it was, it was that experience that inspired me to actually write this book and I'll show it up for everybody and we'll show a screenshot of this as well, "Train Like a Rockstar Speaking Tips from a Stand Up Comedian". And so I've been able to go out and train a few companies on this. They'll have me come in and train their trainers on not just how to be funnier, but how to do a lot of things better in their training. And so I took the, the comedy (00:06:00) experience in the hundreds of thousands of stages that I've been on, and I said, how can I take that and move it into the corporate world to make sure that people don't get remembered as that was the worst training?. And that was the worst, most awful thing I've ever been through in my life, to make sure that they started to train like a rockstar. But the cool thing about what we're going to be talking about today is that I've gone through the material and I'm, uh, I'm going to apply it to make sure that at the end of this session that today you're going to be a better (00:06:30) sacrament meeting speaker. You're going to be a better Gospel doctrine instructor or Relief Society or Sunday school. And if you're a primary teacher, if you listen to the stuff that we have for you today and apply it, you're going to be the kind of primary teacher where when you are assigned another calling and you leave, your kids are going to beg you to come back. And here's why I say that for about a year and a half, I was, (00:07:00) me and my wife, we were instructors for the 10 to 11 year olds. And, uh, I had a really interesting experience just a couple of weeks ago at our state conference. We recently went through here in Draper, Utah. A ward split, I think in Draper, was split about every 20 minutes. It's just crazy. So we just went through a reorganization and we're going into Stake Conference and in the lobby, one of my former 11 year old, a kid named (00:07:30) Joseph, the hardest, most difficult. Okay, you primary teachers out there, you know exactly what I'm talking about. He was the one that every Sunday I thought, 'how are we going to handle them today?' You know, he comes running up to me and he says, "Brother Birk, you've got to come back! You're the best teacher. We've got new man, we need you back". And for me it was just one of those pause in time moments where (00:08:00) I just said, "Wow, it's all worth it." And the thing that made it worth it are some of the things that I'm going to be sharing with all of you today that I did in that particular class to make sure that these kids weren't wild and crazy and out of control, although they were a little bit sometimes, but how do I engage that group? Or how do I engage a Stake Conference group or my ward when I'm up giving that sacrament meeting talk, or it's my first time teaching Gospel doctrine.