Horses, Heart and Kentucky's Unbridled Spirit
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FEATURE 2021 How might we be inspired by the resiliency of our horses to gallop unbridled beyond conventional boundaries to reach new heights of success? United We Stand Divided We Fall Resiliency: Horses are united as they stand steady and gallop forward as one Horses stand steady, their hooves on the earth, aware of each other and their surroundings, ready to move as one should the need arise. Watching a herd of horses in the field on a peaceful morning it is common to see several horses napping on the ground with one or more horses standing guard over them. We might notice them touching Horses, Heart and Kentucky's each other in friendship or nipping to get one another moving. One horse discovers sweeter grass or shade on a Unbridled Spirit: hot day and the herd moves together to the next best place to be. If the herd is quietly grazing “United We Stand Divided We Fall” and one horse senses danger, maybe a coyote slinking Galloping Toward a Better World through the field or a loud unexpected noise, the message is passed instantly through by Jackie Stevenson, Kentucky culture and daily resilient realm of nature. the herd from one horse to MSSA, LISW, BCC life as a symbol of strength, Masters of resiliency, horses the other and they all move as dreams, resiliency, and forward trace their lineage back over one. Watching over and out And Spirit grasped a movement. 65 million years. Horses for one another and by moving handful of southerly wind, Change is all around us and have embodied resilience for together, the herd escapes Blew breath over it and for many of us within us, as generations, thriving inherently danger and moves safely. The created the horse...Virtue well. Now, more than ever, we through changing life survival of each horse in the bound in the hair of the need the ability to be resilient. conditions by: herd depends on them uniting forelock, What is Resiliency? • Being united as they stand into a strong resilient herd A gaze from the depths “Resilience is that ineffable steady and galloping and the well-being of the herd of dream, quality that allows some people forward as one depends on the resiliency of Given the power of to be knocked down by life • Responding with a big each individual horse. flight without wings and come back stronger than heart and brave sense-ability The great state of Kentucky — Bedouin Tale ever. Rather than letting failure • Being optimistic and motto, “United we stand, divided overcome them and drain their present to the moment we fall”, captures this resilient What does “Kentucky resolve, they find a way to rise • Adapting effectively and spirit of the horse. The seal of Unbridled Spirit” mean? from the ashes.” Psychology efficiently to change Kentucky depicts two men, one “Kentucky is a place Today • Seeking safety, belonging, in buckskin, and the other in where spirits are free to soar Resilience is born in the and connecting as a herd more formal dress. The men are and big dreams can be fulfilled. heart and we all have it. How might we learn from facing each other and clasping We relish competition and It involves behaviors, the unbridled spirit of the hands. The outer ring of the cherish our champions for their thoughts, and actions that can Kentucky horse (and all our seal is adorned with the words, willingness to push beyond be learned, developed, and horses) about developing “Commonwealth of Kentucky”, conventional boundaries to practiced by anyone. One of resiliency and come galloping and within the inner circle is reach new heights of success.” the ways we can cultivate and through unprecedented the state motto, “United we The horse is the central experience our natural internal personal and global changes stand, divided we fall.” image in the Kentucky brand resiliency is in relationship stronger, better, and more How might we be and is at the very heart of with our horses and within the resilient? better prepared and able to 58 Kentucky EQUESTRIAN DIRECTORY 2021 Photos courtesy of Spirit of Leadership successfully navigate our “coherence”, where the mind challenges if we lived more like and heart are connected, and the resilient Kentucky horse the intelligence of the heart and according to the Kentucky takes the lead. Horse hearts motto? and human hearts have more Resiliency: Horses have a big neurons than our brains and heart take in essential information This is literally true – an from our senses. However, average horse heart is about unlike horses, who listen seven times as large as a human primarily from the intelligence heart and weighs (on the of their heart, we humans average) seven to nine pounds override our heart intelligence compared to a half pound in favor of our mind. Horses, harmony of their big hearts, human heart. in their most natural state, live Resiliency: Horses live in we can feel the compassion of Thoroughbred horses’ hearts in heartfelt calm and harmony the present moment rather than our heart towards ourselves weigh an average of nine to with themselves, their herd the past or future and others, and a sense of inner eleven pounds, while the mates and their environment, Horses’ natural state is calm and well-being. “wonder horse”, Secretariat, allowing for resiliency, agility, always in the present moment, How might our human had a heart that weighed 22 and adaptability. not looking over their shoulder relationships and relationships pounds. Most of us can remember with regret to the past, or out with our horses be more The scientific research of a time hanging out with our beyond the present to fears satisfying - if we lived like the Heartmath Institute has horse in the pasture, riding of the future, but optimistic our horse buddies with their measured the electromagnetic comfortably along a trail, or that there is always a way out compassionate big hearts - not field from a horse’s heart sitting curled up in the stall of a difficult situation. Being judging or criticizing, but extending out to a range of with them while they munched present-centered and aware simply accepting ourselves 40 - 50 feet or more, while the hay. Magically, any stress of the world around them and others as we are? Can human heart was measured and worry melted away, our prepares them to be resilient; we create, in our human and extending out only 8-10 feet. negative thoughts and anxiety their choices and actions horse herds, resilient heartfelt Heartmath research has disappeared. relevant to the moment, and relationships of respect, trust, demonstrated that a horse’s In the presence of the and maybe even love? Continued on page 60 most natural state is one of horse, and the coherence and 2021 Kentucky EQUESTRIAN DIRECTORY 59 Photos courtesy of Spirit of Leadership Horses, Heart her authentic presence and her relationship with her pony, three basic needs: the need Continued from page 59 influence in the herds of her Lucky, and her “pony coach”, for safety, the need to belong, life. Tess, can be traced back to and the need for connection. In the good company of ancient drawings captured on Resiliency ensures that horses prepared for challenge, change, Tess and the open space of cave walls 25,000 years ago and humans have the capacity and opportunity. the pasture, Margo was able in France, and to the legends to meet these basic needs, In the presence of the horse to think more clearly, listen and stories of ancient tribal especially in times of challenge we can slow up, calm down, to her heart, and tap into her cultures throughout the world. and change. and come to our senses - being intuition - all ingredients found Today, in our hearts, the horse Horses ensure their safety present to our inner resources in resilience. Margo reflected still prances and our love by paying attention and being and what really matters to us. to me: affair with horses continues. aware of what is happening There are many things horses “Surprisingly, in the presence Horses inspire our dreams around them, moment to can teach us about living of Tess, the questions that and creativity, carry us farther moment. Calm, relaxed, and in the truth and honesty of emerged from within me were and faster than we can travel alert - they are ready and the present moment. In this not the ones I came with. alone, and bring us closer to prepared to take appropriate way, being fully present with Initially, my questions to Tess our instinctual and authentic action as needed. My heart is the horse, we can feel deeply were, how can I be more effective nature. warmed watching our herd connected and tuned in to our in my work, have less stress, and Horses carry us over the when one or two of the horses horse and we can also tune how can I be a more effective rough terrain of life and enable “stand guard” over the other into what is happening within and smarter boss in my law us to explore and move beyond horses out napping or relaxing ourselves as well. department? our previous limitations. They in the field on a sunny day. Margo, a well-respected But looking into Tess’s operate from an authentic, In our herd, no horse is attorney and executive vice compassionate eyes and inherent, and collective left behind. One of the herd president of a successful global stroking her soft body, I found intelligence, and they can guide members (usually our zebra) company, was in love with myself asking deeper and more us to that place of wisdom waits for the slower horse horses as a girl.