Happy Wife, Happy Life Dictated By: Gulya, Roberto, Alex, Maha, Julya, Ivan and Svetlana
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Podcast 45, September 2014 Happy Wife, Happy Life Dictated by: Gulya, Roberto, Alex, Maha, Julya, Ivan and Svetlana Hello everybody! You're listening to Let's Master English and my name is Coach Shane. Hello everybody, welcome back. This is Let's Master English podcast 45. We're getting close to number 50. Thank you so much for downloading and listening to the podcast. Today, we have an interesting news story, very interesting, a fact from Country Shane, 5 questions from you. And that's it. Nice, short, sweet and simple. But Coach Shane, where is the book club? Yes, we have a new book club podcast and that will come out later on this week. So, that's another podcast. The same channel, so you're not going to miss it if you subscribe. Ok, let's go ahead and get started. I really like today's news story, it's about marriage. Let's check it out... You may have heard that a happy marriage is good for your heart, emotionally and physically. The redaction in stress actually lowers the risk of heart disease. But, there is more. If the wife is happy the quality of life for the hubby will be great. And that means a longer, happier life together. The golden nugget - you're obviously gonna fight with your better half, but the key to happiness is how she feels after you fight. Then more she wins, the happier you'll be. Wow! Very interesting news! Once again, the reader, it is assumed is the guy, if you are a woman reading this story, you have to understand that a man or a husband is reading the news. Ok? Listen to it again and it's not that difficult, but listen again. Here we go: You may have heard that a happy marriage is good for your heart, emotionally and physically. The redaction in stress actually lowers the risk of heart disease. But, there is more. If the wife is happy the quality of life for the hubby will be great. And that means a longer, happier life together. The golden nugget - you're obviously going to fight with your better half, but the key to happiness is how she feels after you fight. The more she wins, the happier you'll be. 1 So I think, I, I think many married couples or married people who are listening to this podcast will agree. If the husband and the wife have an argument, if they have a fight, it seems to be better if the wife wins, even if she’s wrong hahahah right! Well anyway, I’m very curious as to what you guys think about this and not you young punks, I want to know about the people older than me, people in their fifties, their sixties, their seventies, anybody up there in their eighties? People have been married over forty years that would be really interesting. Thirty years is pretty good but forty years fifty years that’s amazing! If you’ve been married over forty years, over fifty years or more please tell us your advice. Is this true? Is this story sound true “Happy wife, Happy life”. Of..., I don’t know for me it’s sound like it might be right. Let’s go back to the first sentence: You may have heard that a happy marriage is good for your heart, h-e-a-r-t. Your heart, you, you’ve probably heard, maybe in the news from other people in a book that if you have a happy marriage it’s good for your heart emotionally. It makes you happy and physically, your physical health, you’re actually physically healthier if your marriage is good. Of course, if your marriage is happy then emotionally you’ll be happy too. It’s good. So, if you have a good happy marriage, it’s better for you, emotionally and physically. Of course you may have heard that. You probably already heard that. You might have heard that, you might have read that. And once again, how is it physically better for your heart? How is a happy marriage physically better? The next sentence: The reduction in stress actually lowers the risk of heart disease. So, the reduction in stress, reduction - the lower amount. So, if you are in a happy relationship, every time you go home, you’ll feel good, you’ll feel happy, you’ll feel relaxed. If you’re in a bad relationship – you don’t want to go home, going home is stressful, it’ll be an argument, it’s no fun, it’s not good and that extra stress in your life can actually cause heart disease. But if you are in a happy home that reduction in stress, that lower amount of stress actually lowers the risk, reduces the risk, it reduces the negative chance of heart disease. So, that’s good news. But there is more. There is more good news! If the wife is happy, the quality of life for the hubby will be great. So, in this happy marriage, specifically if the wife is happy… if you ask a woman who is married: “Are you happy?” “Yes!”… if she says “Yes”, if she believes she is happy in her relationship, then the quality of life for the husband is great. It’s excellent. That husband is living a very good life. And you know what? I think that makes sense. Because, not for every wife, not for every woman, of course, but many… my Mom, my aunts, yeah, I 2 think almost all of my aunts and my Mom, oh... they pretty much do the cooking and the cleaning and they take care of the house, they make it nice and clean and they cook Dad’s favorite meal, they’re nice to Dad, they’ll even have breakfast and maybe some coffee ready for Dad in the morning. Life is good for my dad. My dad’s like a king. However, my dad does his best to make my mom happy. And that’s the key. If the wife is happy - she will probably work even harder to show her appreciation, to show her happiness, to show her love for her husband. No, I didn’t say husband. I said hubby, h-u-b-b-y. Hubby is the same as husband. And for wife – do we say wifey? Yes, we do. W-i-f-e-y is possible. So, that sentence again. But there is more. If the wife is happy, the quality of life for the hubby will be great! Next sentence: And that means a longer, happier life together. That sounds so nice. That sounds really nice to me. If the wife is happy, the husband will have a great life. And if that’s true then those two people will have a long, happy life together. And it will be long, because a happy marriage is good for your heart. Physically they’ll be healthier, emotionally they’ll be happier. Life will be great. How wonderful is that. Now, the next sentence is important: The golden nugget, the most valuable thing to learn or to remember. So, when we talk about gold, we think of a gold ring, or a gold tooth, or in the Olympics a gold medal, m-e-d-a-l, however if you go into the mountains and looking for gold, you find like a rock or a stone, it looks like a rock r-o-c-k, we actually call that a nugget, so a golden nugget, something very valuable, something you want to keep. When we talk about a golden nugget as information, it's something you want to remember. Nugget n-u-g-g-e-t, the golden nugget, the thing you need to remember. Here we go: You're obviously going to fight with your better half, but the key to happiness is how she feels, after you fight. This is the important information, every married couple that truly loves each other they’ll fight, they'll have an argument, and when we say fight, we don't mean... No, no we don't mean like boxing, no of course not, argue, argue, fight, a verbal argument. So every couple is going to fight, you men, and I am taking to men, you are going to fight with your better half, another excellent expression, better half b-e-t-t-e-r h- a-l-f the better half is the wife, yeah, that's how we say it in America, so we can have a... let's say for example, I'm married and I introduce you to my wife, I would say - hey John, this is my better half, and the idea is: a husband and a wife are one, they're a couple, but if you split a couple in half, you have the man half and the woman half, but everybody knows the man half is not so good, the woman half is the good part, so the better half is the wife, the woman. So every man, every husband is going to fight with his wife, but the key to happiness, the most important thing for happiness is: how she feels after you fight. So, during the argument, 3 you know you're gonna argue, you're gonna say stupid things, but after the argument that's what's important; she needs to feel relaxed, she needs to feel as though she has communicated her point and sometimes, she needs to feel like the winner, that's true, that's what the science says.