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This thesis has been submitted in fulfilment of the requirements for a postgraduate degree (e.g. PhD, MPhil, DClinPsychol) at the University of Edinburgh. Please note the following terms and conditions of use: • This work is protected by copyright and other intellectual property rights, which are retained by the thesis author, unless otherwise stated. • A copy can be downloaded for personal non-commercial research or study, without prior permission or charge. • This thesis cannot be reproduced or quoted extensively from without first obtaining permission in writing from the author. • The content must not be changed in any way or sold commercially in any format or medium without the formal permission of the author. • When referring to this work, full bibliographic details including the author, title, awarding institution and date of the thesis must be given. The Explicitness of the Everyday: Pursuing Meaningful Lives in the Context of Intentional Community in the Northwest United States Heather Lynes PhD in Social Anthropology University of Edinburgh 2010 I declare that this thesis is entirely my own work and has not been submitted for any other degree or professional qualification. 2 Acknowledgements This thesis is dedicated to the four people without whom this journey would simply have been impossible. Each of you, in your own way, has been an essential part of making this happen. To Mom, for supporting me unendingly, unquestioningly and unconditionally To Akshay, for knowing I could do this long before I knew it myself To Neil, for giving me a chance and supervising me with warmth and dedication To Gethin, for being my companion every step of the way First and foremost, I‟d like to say a huge “thank you” to each and every person whom I met during my fourteen months of residence at “Cedar River”. You all shared your lives with me, without hesitation, and I will always feel grateful for the experiences I had while living amongst you all. I hope at least some of you are able to find something of use in this thesis, even if it‟s nothing more than a trigger for a forgotten memory that brings a smile to your face. I can not express enough love and gratitude for the members of my family, extended and otherwise. Each and every one of you has been endlessly supportive and encouraging. Especially… To Melissa who always expressed interest in knowing my dreams and fears, and continued to cheer me on right until the very end. To Mom and Dad who believed in my abilities throughout. To Lillian who is a constant reminder of all the good things in life. To Giles and Nell who remained enthusiastic about my work despite the fact that it kept their son on the other side of the planet. To each of my grandparents for being incredible influences. To Pia who has shown me how truly incredible friends can be. And to Gethin who has shown me the very depths of love and support in his daily quest to stand by my side on this journey. Throughout my time at the University of Edinburgh, an amazing bunch of people have helped to make this process an enjoyable one. It began with the group of 10 of us: Akshay, Anne-Laure, Fang, Kim, Kim, Louise, Nichola, Stuart, and Zeng-siu – each of you is dear to my heart. Kelly, Lucy and Pauline – I couldn‟t have asked for 3 better friends and thesis-writing role models wrapped into one incredible package. Richard – Thanks for all the good times, insane and otherwise. Brandi – You bring a smile to my face and warmth into my soul every time I see you. Sylvia – Having you here this last year has been a blessing in more ways than one. And Neil and Alan – Both of you gave your time and energy without fail and I will feel forever grateful for each and every comment. From August 2008, I‟ve had the pleasure of working with a bunch of wonderful people at Blackwell. In particular, Micha, Carolyne, Rachel, Callum, Julie and James have provided endless hours of encouragement, not to mention the warmth and friendship received from Rebecca, Ann and Claire… and Izi and Nathan, whose friendships extended well beyond the workplace. James Wirth deserves a unique „thank you‟, as his encouragement and respect for my way of thinking about the world has helped me to keep believing in myself. Finally, to all my other friends and dear ones around the world – who are too numerous to name – thanks for loving me and reminding me why life is beautiful. 4 Table of Contents Acknowledgements ................................................................................................ 3 Abstract .................................................................................................................. 8 Introduction ........................................................................................................... 9 What is intentional community? ..........................................................................10 Intentional Community in Social Scientific Thought ...........................................16 History of Intentional Community in The United States ..................................16 What About the „Mainstream‟ .............................................................................20 How Do We Define Meaningful Lives? ..............................................................23 Beliefs, Values and Morals ..............................................................................27 Everyday Lives – A Theoretical Approach ..........................................................29 The Field Site ......................................................................................................32 A Brief Note on Language...............................................................................39 Methodology and Positioning in the Field ...........................................................40 Thesis Overview .................................................................................................44 Emergent Themes – Self and Identity ..................................................................46 Some of Final Points ...........................................................................................47 Chapter One: The Conceptualisation and Actualisation of ‘Community’ .........49 What Do We Mean When We Say “Community”? ..............................................49 Residents‟ Conceptions of Community ...............................................................54 Multiple Meanings, A Shared Symbolic Form .....................................................59 „Community‟ and Selfhood .................................................................................62 Realising Community in the Eyes of the Community ..........................................65 Realising Community Through Everyday Activities ............................................68 Work Party ......................................................................................................68 Consensus Decision-Making ...........................................................................70 Cecilia .............................................................................................................71 Place for Community ..........................................................................................72 The Ideal Setting .................................................................................................74 Belonging to Place and Calling it Home ..............................................................78 Conclusion ..........................................................................................................80 Chapter Two: Intimacy as Central to Sociality: Negotiating Interpersonal Relationships .........................................................................................................81 Intimate Encounters ............................................................................................82 The Concept of Intimacy .....................................................................................84 Conceptualising the „Self‟ ...................................................................................86 Intimacy as Central to Sociality ...........................................................................87 Public Friendships, Meaningful Experiences .......................................................90 Let‟s Talk About Sex ..........................................................................................95 Polyamory .......................................................................................................96 Confusion, Curiosity, Jealousy and Fear ..............................................................99 Intimacy as Bodily Practice .................................................................................99 Conclusion ........................................................................................................ 103 Chapter Three: Organisational Matters: Consensus Decision-Making and the Threat of Bureaucracy ........................................................................................ 104 A Variety of Meetings ....................................................................................... 105 Core Group ................................................................................................... 106 5 Intention Circle ............................................................................................. 108 Committee Meetings ..................................................................................... 109 Board