CALM’s mission is to prevent, assess and treat child abuse in Table of Contents Santa Barbara County by providing comprehensive, culturally competent services for children, adults and families. 1 From the Executive Director 3 From the Board President

1236 Chapala Street 4 Statistics Santa Barbara, CA 93101 Revenue & Expenses 2008.2009 P.O. Box 90754 5 Looking Ahead: What’s New at CALM Santa Barbara, CA 93190-0754 6 CALM Clinical Services (805) 965-2376 PHONE (805) 963-6707 FAX 7 CALM Volunteers 8 CALM Staff 9 CALM Auxiliary 10 Design Showcase 13 CALM Family of Support 15 Children’s Legacy Society 16 CALM 2010 Calendar

www.calm4kids.org From the Executive Director

as 2009 draws to a close, I want to share with you one example of the difference your support of CALM has made to the children of our community.

John* is an 11-year-old boy whose father had very proud that he is “graduating” from CALM. been violent with his mother his entire life. This child feels a sense of safety for the first Not surprisingly, John was angry and showed time in his life, and we know from experience aggression at school, often picking fights with that his entire life will be different as a result. Cecilia Rodriguez, MFT bullies and getting suspended. His mother Every day I see children like John whose Executive Director was having difficulty managing his anger and homes are safer and lives are happier because tantrums at home, and often reacted with of the work we do at CALM. Despite the violence. Although she was separated from difficult economic climate, CALM remains John’s father, she continually compared John committed to maintaining the very highest negatively to him. When this young boy came quality and level of service that our children to CALM, he told his therapist, “I have no and families have always received and deserve. 1 friends. No one loves me. I want to die.” Our dedicated staff has implemented programs At CALM, John processed his grief regarding his to address all aspects of child abuse and You are invited father’s absence, and his therapist taught him neglect, and has led the way in breaking down to visit our center! techniques for managing his anxiety and anger. barriers to service in our community. In these If you would like to learn more challenging times, parents are under more John’s mother began to see that her attitude about CALM, please contact pressure than ever -- which means that our was negatively affecting her son’s self-esteem; Monica Intaglietta at (805) 965-2376 community needs CALM more than ever. she became more responsive and committed to or [email protected] improving her parenting skills, learning to praise I would like to thank you, our generous donors, to arrange a tour. her son and support his progress. for your unfailing support. With your help, John has grown in self confidence. He now has CALM looks forward to continuing to provide friends, and even ran for class president. He no outstanding service to the most vulnerable in longer gets in fights at school. Although he is our community. still sad about his father’s absence, he is able to express his feelings in appropriate ways. John is

Cecilia Rodriguez, MFT

*Client’s name has been changed for confidentiality. In one moment,

child abuse changes everything.

A child loses their innocence A family falls apart 2 A community is weakened

You can help make a difference.

2008-2009 Monte Fligsten Meredith Scott Advisory Board Silvio Di Loreto Thomas C. Parker Trustees Bridget Foreman Susanne Tobey Ruth W. Ackerman, PhD Jeana Dressel, PhD Joanne Rapp Jim Acos, MBA Alice Gillaroo Ira Weinstein, PhD Steve Barrett, PhD Susan Miles Gulbransen Marshall Rose Alex Altavilla Susan Day Hosea Marcia Wolfe William A. Below, PhD Nancy Harter, Esq Adele Rosen Donna B. Fisher-Yates Toni Kipp, Sheila Zimmerman, MFT Judy Bennett Jane Honikman Maryan S. Schall, PhD Dan Bifano Auxiliary Liaison Honorary Laura M. Bridley, AICP Shirley Ann Hurley Anne Steiner Nancy Bollay Shannon Miles, LMFT Trustees Daphne Bugental, PhD Irma Jurkowitz Leah Temkin Kevin Bourke George Rasher, MBA Margo Chapman Jeanette Carpenter Lauri Meyn Leighty Gerald Thede, Esq Barbara de L’Arbre Gilbert Reyes, PhD Donna L. Friess, PhD Jane Carlisle, PhD Steve Lyons Harvey Wolf, Esq Rick Erickson Ben Romo Anna M. Kokotovic, PhD William Cirone Joni Meisel From the Board President

just before my second daughter was born, my wife and I sat down to talk about how our priorities had shifted since having children. We reflected on how scary it was to become first time parents. We realized how lucky we were to have a strong support system, and a solid foundation to provide a happy healthy life for our children, and we also recognized the sad reality that child abuse does exist in Santa Barbara.

© We felt the responsibility to get involved and CALM is stronger than ever. Today, due to huge Rich Schuette, CFP make our community a better place for all cuts in government support, more competitive Board President children. We looked around at the many funding sources, and economic challenges faced organizations making a difference in our by our donors, we have had to make tougher community and one stood apart from the rest choices than we could ever imagine. This year, CALM has touched — CALM. our Board of Trustees, with guidance from CALM’s executive staff, agreed to keep 100% thousands of lives in CALM has touched thousands of lives in a 3 of our programs fully funded, even though a positive way. positive way. The things we do every day make it meant sacrifices by all. It is thanks to the a difference in children’s lives forever. CALM support of each of you that we have been able helps repair and piece lives back together after to stand strong and to reach these children abuse and neglect has occurred, but it’s the and families that need our help, our comfort, programs and services CALM does before the and our “home.” abuse ever begins that makes an even greater impact. Claire Miles had a vision of a world As the year draws to a close, please join me that was free from child abuse. Every day for in digging a little deeper. Every dollar we the past 40 years, CALM’s staff, board members, receive goes directly to funding programs auxiliary, generous donors, friends and family that desperately need extra support this year. of supporters take steps to make that dream a Together, we can help the children of Santa reality. Providing parents with the necessary Barbara County grow and carry the next tools and working with these families to prevent generation into the future. Founder Claire Miles abuse before it ever starts are the goals we work © Thank you for helping CALM to make a President Rich Schuette, CFP towards and are committed to every day. difference. Vice President Patricia Durham Even as CALM faces financial challenges in Financial Vice Pres. Bridget Foreman, CPA this challenging economic climate, I see the dedication of those who continue to work Secretary Eric Friedman tirelessly to fulfill our mission, and for that, Rich Schuette Calm Annual Report 2008.2009 2008.2009 Operating Revenue & Expenses

In 2008-2009, CALM: Total Revenue • Served 1,322 clients $2,676,332 • Provided 12,156 hours of treatment (Including Campaign Gifts and Pledges) • Conducted 162 forensic interviews to assess child sexual abuse Unrestricted Private Private Foundation • Presented 269 child abuse Donations $214,477 Grants $572,366 prevention workshops State and Federal 8% 21% • Reached 6,973 individuals in Contracts $197,689 7% Client Fees, Program Fees, local schools and community 3% Client Insurance $102,296 CALM Auxiliary 4% organizations Donations 1% Other Income, $90,277 Lease $19,647 CALM’s current clients breakdown by program 20% are adults receiving treatment 55% to prevent further abuse 4 Local Government Contracts $1,479,580 22% are children and teens who have witnessed domestic violence in the home, receiving treatment along with the battered parent 36% are parents learning prevention Total Expenses skills who are at risk of abusing or $ 3 ,762,711 neglecting their children 22% are children under 18 who are in therapy to recover from one or more CALM Endowment types of abuse Net Investment Loss Program Related $269,639 Types of abuse in 7% Santa Barbara County Expenses 85% $3,180,606 Neglect: 56% 8% Development Related Substantial Risk/Parental Expenses Substance Abuse: 17% $312,466 Physical: 11% Emotional: 8% Sexual: 8% Calm Annual Report 2008.2009 Looking Ahead: What’s New at CALM

CALM Comes to Carpinteria The goal is to implement a broad collaborative CALM is pleased to be one of the lead system of care that provides a full range agencies of the Carpinteria Family Resource of health and wellness promotion services Center (FRC), a nonprofit initiative for children and families, and increases that provides a comprehensive, integrated accessibility for the underserved population. network of community-based services and The FRC is a joint venture of the Carpinteria programs to strengthen families and support Unified School District, the James S. Bower children. Carpinteria has been identified as Foundation, the Hutton Foundation, the an underserved community with high risk Orfalea Foundations, the Carpinteria Education factors. With a population just over 14,000, Foundation, First 5 of Santa Barbara County, approximately 10.4% live below the poverty and other nonprofit agencies. level. Santa Barbara County Public Health CALM Kudos CALM & Storyteller estimates that 80% of the kindergartners are Jose Moctezuma of the Great Beginnings Collaboration Continues uninsured, and County Alcohol, Drug, and Program was selected to become a trainer Storyteller teachers are faced with the vital Mental Health Services identifies Carpinteria as and provider for Abriendo Puertas (Opening role of teaching at-risk and homeless children, an area of critical need. Doors), a new parenting curriculum. The which can be challenging and emotionally mission of this program is to improve the stressful. Now, thanks to CALM, the teachers 5 outcomes of the nation’s Latino children at Storyteller are getting the extra support they by building the capacity and confidence of need through a program CALM initiated last parents to be strong and powerful advocates year called “reflective supervision.” Reflective of their children, and to improve the lives of supervision helps teachers by giving them a safe young Latino children across several domains, place to process and learn to manage job stress, including education, health and social- handle challenging behavior, and understand emotional well being. Jose and colleague Estela how trauma affects young children. Campos are facilitating the parenting group at As part of the process, teachers talk about the new Carpinteria Family Resource Center. constructive ways in which to address Summer for Kids Donating All Profits difficult issues and situations they’ve faced From Store To Benefit Children in the classroom, such as violence, anger and tantrums. These conversations promote In an extraordinary effort to make a lasting impact in the lives of children, Summer For Kids boutique teambuilding and help teachers learn to owner Adriana Shuman and her husband Mark problem solve , identify strengths and decided to donate 100% of all store profits to weaknesses, and continue to build a stronger benefit local children’s charities in Santa Barbara. organization in collaboration with each other CALM is honored to be one of the recipients and the licensed professional from CALM. for 2010. To find out more about the Summer For Kids Children’s Charities initiative, stop by the store at 1235 Coast Village Road, Suite C in Montecito, visit www.summerforkids.com, or call (805) 565-2277. CALM Clinical Services

Child Abuse Assessment and Intensive In-Home Therapy provides Treatment program serves children and their individual and family therapy services to children families to help them heal from the devastating and families enrolled in Santa Barbara County’s effects of physical, emotional, and sexual abuse. Children System of Care. Services are provided Individual, group, and family therapy are offered in a place and at a time convenient for the family. in a culturally sensitive environment. Interventions include: parenting education, stress management, building communication, Family Violence Counseling is conflict resolution and anger management skills, offered to children and teens who have creating and implementing behavioral plans, and witnessed domestic violence. Parents who are empowering the family. Therapists are available to victims of domestic violence are also eligible for provide support and crisis intervention 24 hours a services. Family, individual, and group therapy are day, 7 days a week. available. Groups are in cycles of 13 sessions. Incredible Years Parenting offers Pa r e nt- Child Interaction Th e r a py evening classes for parents wishing to increase is an empirically-supported treatment for their knowledge of child development and young children (2-7 yr old) that places emphasis parenting skills. Classes—given in English and on improving the quality of the parent-child Spanish—are held in 12-week cycles and satisfy relationship and changing parent-child interaction the requirements for CWS and court-mandated 6 patterns. In PCIT, parents are taught specific skills parent education. Parents requiring more All programs are offered to establish a nurturing and secure relationship intensive counseling and education are seen in English and Spanish and with their child while increasing their child’s pro- individually or conjointly with their partners and/ social behavior and decreasing negative behavior. are free or on a sliding fee or their children. scale. No one is turned The program helps children between the ages of 2-7 who have behavioral issues and/or where H e lping Oth e r s in Pa r e nting away for inability to pay bonding and attachment need to be addressed. Environments (HOPE) was developed in recognition of the trauma experienced by Clinical hours include Great Beginnings Home Visitation children who enter the foster care system. is a child abuse prevention program designed to weekdays, evenings, HOPE is an array of intensive in-home services promote the health, growth, and development and Saturdays. available to children and parents in foster of children ages pre-natal to 5 and their families. home and extended family home placements. Services include developmental screening, parent The HOPE program combines skill-based education and case management. A multi-disci- intervention with maximum flexibility so that plinary team uses a strength-based approach to services are available to families and foster provide home and center-based services. homes according to their unique needs.

Calm Annual Report 2008.2009 School-based Prevention is offered Offender Treatment is part of CALM’s for children in the Santa Barbara County school mission to prevent child abuse. CALM provides system, who are visited by CALM’s prevention treatment for adults convicted of and juveniles educators on a regular basis during the school adjudicated for sexual offenses against children. year. In the prevention presentations, children CALM collaborates closely with SB County are taught how to keep themselves safe from Probation, the District Attorney’s office, and volunteer at CALM abduction and abuse. Internet safety and the SART in these cases. negative effects of cyber-bullying are also taught as Postpartum Depression Mothers part of the prevention program. CALM Needs suffering from postpartum depression and/ Sexual Assault Response Team or anxiety are able to access a comprehensive You provides medical exams and forensic interviews array of services including: individual and/or for children when sexual abuse is alleged as group therapy, psychiatric evaluation, and case You can help make a difference in well as emotional support to family members. management. Drop-in groups are available in the life of a child by volunteering Collaboration among team members ensures English and Spanish. that the victim is not subjected to repeated your time, talents and energy for In fant Pa r e nt P sych oth e r a py examinations and interviews, and contributes to treats problems in the infant-parent relationship, two hours a week. forensically sound evidence. prevents child abuse and disorganized attachment, Please contact: Angela Haydel, Adu lt s M olested as Childr e n and facilitates optimal infant growth and Volunteer Coordinator 7 provides group treatment for adults who were development. The program promotes secure (805) 965-2376, ext. 264 sexually molested in childhood or adolescence. attachment by strengthening the capacity of both Groups are offered for both men and women. All parents and by activating their support networks clients in group must also be in individual therapy to ensure that children live in stable and nurturing at CALM or elsewhere. family environments. 2008.2009 Volunteers SPIRIT is a family centered, community oriented, highly individualized, wrap-around strategy, available Darcy Alcantara Karin Lucero 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, to help families facing Shayne Brophy Mike Migita serious challenges to find solutions to keep children Lupe Cortez Lilla Megyei and teens safely in their home, be successful in Amy Dorland Holy Merrill school and function well in the community. Barbara Dubbles Spring Morrissey Sober Women Healthy Families Trevor Dunn Karla Munoz is collaborative program in which one of our Stephanie Garcia Neha Paymaster therapists works full time in the Good Samaritan Ashley Glenn Vanessa Riconose Residential Drug and Alcohol Treatment Facility in Brianne Henderson Ana Thomat Lompoc. Her clients are children who reside in the facility with their mothers. She provides individual Shannon Kirk Ashley Trygar therapy, parenting education, and family therapy Christine Klopstein Jeannette Weisskopf to assist with parenting skills, behavioral issues, Jennifer Lemberger conflict resolution, trauma and neglect. CALM Staff

Marshall Abrams, MFT Tonya Edwards Ken McKenna, MFT Sagrario Ruiz Independent Contractor Child/Family Specialist Bilingual Therapist Bilingual Receptionist Jessica Adams, Ph.D. Whitney Ence, MA Martha Mera Elly Rumelt, LCSW CALM is proud to recognize Bilingual Licensed Psychologist & Ph.D. Student, Assessment Specialist MFT Trainee, In-Home Therapist Clinical Director our devoted staff, who are Director of Psychological Services Anita Fernandez-Low, LCSW Alicia Mitchell, MA Christine Scott, MA, ATR Rachel Altman Bilingual Program Manager MFT Intern, Therapist Clinical Art Therapist collectively responsible Grant Manager Nikki Flint, MA Jose Moctezuma Ryan Smith, MA Janet Ames MFT Intern, Therapist Bilingual Home Visitor Psy.D. Student, Grants Supervisor/ for implementing CALM’s Controller Alicia Foronda, MA Tamara Nichols, MA Therapist vital programs. Mary Andrews-Dalbey MFT Intern, Bilingual In-Home Ph.D. Student, Therapist Richard Solomon, Ph.D. Bilingual Therapist Therapist Martha Nolasco Licensed Psychologist, Independent & Front Porch Coordinator Alison Forsyth, MA Bilingual Program Accounts Manager Contractor Thank you for providing Susan Arango MFT Intern, Therapist IT Specialist Daniel Spach outstanding service to the Office Manager/ Linda Gallegos, MA Jennifer Padilla-Burger, MFT MFT Trainee, Therapist Human Resources Manager MFT Intern, In-Home Therapist In-Home Therapist Caryll Sprague most vulnerable in our Ana Avila Adolfo Garcia, MA Mi Na Park, MA Ph.D. Student, Assessment Specialist community. Assessment Coordinator/ MFT Intern, Bilingual In-Home Ph.D. Student, Assessment Specialist Judy Stewart Quality Assurance Manager Therapist Ana Perez, MA MFT Trainee, Therapist Cristina Benki, MA Shikma Geffon, MA MFT Intern, Bilingual Therapist Summer Tawalbeh, MA Ph.D. Student, Assessment Specialist MFT Intern, Therapist Ashleigh Randell, MA Ph.D. Student, Assessment Specialist Alan Bleiman, MFT Angela Haydel MFT Intern, In-Home Therapist Andrew Teton, MFT Therapist Volunteer Coordinator Lily Reiss, MA Independent Contractor 8 Constanza Bordagorry, MA Mireya Hernandez MFT Intern, Bilingual Therapist Iona Tripathi, MD Bilingual Therapist/Intake Specialist Bilingual Data Base Manager Christina Relis, MA Psychiatrist Rose Bristol Martha Hines, MSW MFT Intern, Children Services Lisa Ulrich, MFT Bilingual Home Visitor ASW In-Home Therapist Screener Therapist, Sexual Offender Ann Bryant, MA Deborah Holmes, LCSW Donna Richards, MFT Treatment Coordinator MFT Intern, Prevention/ Associate Director Bilingual Therapist Linda Uribe, MA Parenting Coordinator Rachel Hopsicker Vanessa Riconose MFT Intern, In-Home Bilingual Sara Bukacek, MFT Ph.D. Student, Assessment Specialist MFT Trainee, Bilingual Therapist Therapist Bilingual Therapist Jennifer Hughes Sherry Robin, MFT Su Wyatt, R.N. Alma Calzada Ph.D. Student, Assessment Specialist Bilingual Therapist Nurse Practitioner Bilingual Child/Family Specialist Monica Intaglietta Cecilia Rodriguez, MFT Juan Carlos Calzada Director of Development Executive Director MFT Intern, Bilingual Therapist April Jackson Virginia Rohan, MFT Estela Campos MFT Trainee, Child/Family Specialist Program Manager Bilingual Home Visitor Elia Jimenez, MA Martha Ruiz Leonisia Caporal Ph.D. Student, Integrated MFT Trainee, Bilingual Family Specialist Assessment Specialist Bilingual Home Lisa Carlson Devereaux Langdoc, MFT Visitor MFT Trainee, Therapist Independent Contractor Maria Caudillo Jocelyn Levitan Bilingual Development Assistant/ Ph.D. Student, Integrated Client Representative Assessment Specialist Nimita Dhirajlal, MA Susana Lopez, MA MFT Intern, Multilingual Therapist Ph.D. Student, Bilingual Therapist Dora Dunlap, LCSW Maria Marquez, MFT Bilingual Therapist Bilingual Therapist, PCIT Coordinator James Earhart, M.Ed. Gerald Marr, MFT Ph.D. Student, Assessment Specialist Therapist, Child/Family Specialist Calm Annual Report 2008.2009 CALM Auxiliary

Ever since CALM’s founder, Claire Miles, began her vital work to prevent child abuse in Santa Barbara back in 1969, the CALM Auxiliary has played an instrumental role in helping sustain the great legacy of CALM.

The Auxiliary raises additional financial Progress: An Unfinished Woman’s Guide to Grace, support and community awareness through Leonard Downey Jr. The Rules of the Game, projects and events, allowing the organization Larry Wilmore I’d Rather We Got Casinos and to grow and continue to serve the children and Other Black Thoughts, and Selden Edwards families that need it the most. The Little Book who is also this year’s Honorary Chair. Jack Canfield, author of the Chicken Shirley Waxman Today 50 hardworking women make up the Soup for the Soul series, has been the Master of Auxiliary President CALM Auxiliary, including several of its Ceremonies for the last twelve years. founding members. The Auxiliary hosts the CALM Antique Shows and the Annual 2009 Claire Miles Award: Celebrity Author’s Luncheon; events that Richard & Marguerite Berti raise much needed support to continue the The CALM Auxiliary established the Claire important work Claire Miles began 40 years Miles Award in tribute and memory of Claire ago. 9 miles and her dedication and commitment to Auxiliary Officers 2008.2009 CALM Celebrity keeping children safe in our community. This Authors Luncheon annual award is an opportunity to remember President Shirley Waxman her work and to honor an individual or On March of 2009, the CALM Auxiliary individuals who embody her spirit and 1st Vice President Dale McCaskey produced the 23rd Annual Celebrity Author’s dedication. This year the Auxiliary honored Luncheon. Co-chairs, Sharon Bifano and 2nd Vice President Toni Kipp Richard and Marguerite Berti for their Stephanie Ortale have been driving forces Treasurer Carolyn Gillio outstanding support of CALM. The award was behind the event ever since 1987. Interviewed presented with our most sincere gratitude for Recording Secretary Martha Rodgers authors this year include Jaqueline Winspear their tremendous commitment and dedication Maisie Dobbs, Kristin Armstrong Work in Corresponding Secretary Carolyn Fryer to CALM. Parliamentarian Joanne Nelson

Members Phyllis Cox Carolyn Gillio Joanne Nelson Zoë Schultz Shirley Waxman Julie Freedman Laura Barella Eleanor Cunningham Ann Hammond Carol Newman Meredith Scott Beth Weinberg Terri Gough Jeri Beck Kathryn Dinkin Nancy Johnson Madi Nutik Marty Silverman Pegeen White Anna Kokotovic Sharon Bifano Diane Dukes Toni Kipp Stephanie Ortale Caroline Sweet Marcia Wolfe Rosemarie Marasco Bev Brier Suzanne Fairly-Green Marianne Kugler Marlene Perrizo Sissy Taran Natalie McFadden Honorary Jeanette Carpenter Terri Fawcett Louise Liscombe Blanca Presser Betty Tegart Bev Raber Members Margo Chapman Barbara Flanigan Maria McCall Judy Rattray April Thede Norma Jean Shaw Marguerite Berti Becky Cohn Carolyn Fryer Dale McCaskey Martha Rogers Sunny Thomas Joanie Chackel Darlene Cox Edith Fulco Doris Stitz Medved Jane Runyen Pam VanBlaricum Casa Robles

CALM Presented by Design Showcase 2009

In June of 2009 CALM celebrated a successful Design Showcase event, bringing thousands of visitors and raising Living Room designed by Christy Martin of Studio Encanto 10 over $100,000 to support CALM’s important work.

2009 Showcase Team Lindsey Adams Construction Annette Flower, Irvine Flower Design Harrison Design Associates Deborah Campbell Interior Designs Laura M. Bridley, AICP Cabana Home Christy Martin of Studio Encanto Nicole Kypreos, California Closets Gillian and Mike Amery, Pat Just, Lisa Krempasky, Greg Mroz, Garage Envy Teresa Mascagno, The Kitchen Company R.J. Foil Landscape, Inc. The Office of Katie O’Reilly Rogers, Inc.

CALM expresses there most sincere gratitude A Special Thanks to the 2009 Co-Chairs, Susan Day Hosea and To our incredible Showcase team and 805 Living magazine. Meredith Scott, for their dedication and commitment to the Design Showcase project.

Calm Annual Report 2008.2009 Thank you to our generous Event Sponsors!

Title Meredith and John Scott/ Davis Family 805 Living Harbor Restaurant* Elements Catering* Tiffany & Co.* Giffin and Crane Precious SBParent.com General Contractors Anonymous The Susanne and Gary T Steve and Cindy Lyons obey Family Foundation O’Malley’s and Old Kings Road DIAMOND James and Marcia Wolfe* Riviera Insurance Services, LLC K Frank Mark and Adriana Shuman Kum-Su Kim for Santa Barbara GOLD Steve and Anne Yungling Dance Center Bifano & Co., Inc and Frank and * in-kind gift Karen Caufield PLATINUM Classic Party Rentals* Susanne and Steve Hosea Christy Martin of Studio Encanto* Barbara Delaune Warren Montecito Bank & Trust California Homes* Salon Jia Rae I.D.O Events* Santa Barbara Bank & Trust SILVER Kitchen designed by the Kitchen Company Santa Barbara Magazine* Business First Trudi and Rich Schuette for Cabana Home 11 VIDA Wealth Partners Patricia and Larry Durham

Patricia and Larry Durham

Dining Room designed by Christy Martin of Master Bedroom designed by Christy Martin of Studio Encanto Studio Encanto Executive Director Cecilia Rodriguez and Bob Stanley

CALM Family of Support

Ambassadors Circle First Congregational Church Old Kings Road Saks Fifth Avenue Mr. Alfred Kummer Moir Susan Christensen $10,000 and above of Santa Barbara Rabo Bank Brian and Jane Schnier Carol Montgomery Jean Clarke Mary Ann Froley Riviera Insurance Services Zoe and Ken Schultz Glen Mowrer and Bernice James Maryann Conner Anonymous (3) Petar and Anna Kokotovic Gregory Rush Dale and Judy Seborg Robert and Holly Murphy Patricia Connors CALM Auxiliary Richard and Peggy Lamb Roney Family Foundation Mrs. Marilynn Sullivan Michele Neely Mr. Gordon B. Crary, Jr. Larry and Patricia Durham Steve and Cindy Lyons Sheppard Mullin Richter Samuel and Barbara Toumayan Bill and Sandi Nicholson Sara A. Cunningham Hutton Foundation Marilyn and Frank Magid & Hampton, LLP Tracy Zweig Associates Perry and Eileen Parker Walter and Delores David James S. Bower Foundation Lynn Montgomery and Santa Barbara Rotary Charitable Sam and Sandra Tyler Janet Sue Pickthorn and Margaret Jo Dawes Kum-Su Kim Richard Kriegler Foundation Wachovia Securities, LLC Darol Joseff David and Liz de L’Arbre William Ledbetter Henry and Nanette Nevins Robert and Leah Temkin Warsh-Mott Funds Brian and Joanne Rapp Ian Dickson Smith Mithun Family Foundation SAGE Publications The Waterman Foundation Lourie and Marc Recordon Barbara Duneier Montecito Bank and Trust Mark and Adriana Shuman James and Marcia Wolfe Gilbert and April Reyes W.R. and L.S. Elswick Ron and Susan Morrow Sandra Stamper Jason and Robin Yardi Patrons $250 - $499 Elizabeth Rumelt Dr. and Mrs. Robert Failing John and Heather Mozart Thatcher Foundation Stephen and Anne Yungling Terrence Ryken Anita Fernandez-Low Janet Ames The Nurture Foundation Ray and Sunni Thomas Santa Barbara County Podiatry Gary and Georgene Fettis Ralph and Lucy Archuleta Orfalea Fund United Way Of Santa Barbara Benefactors Group Barbara Flanigan Donna B. Fisher-Yates and Santa Barbara Bank & Trust Western Regional Children’s - Ray and Faith Stazzoni Annette Flower $500 $999 Steve Yates Santa Barbara Foundation Advocacy Center Michael and Judith Stulberg John and Marie Foley Anonymous(2) David and Laura Barella Jean A. Schuler William P. Neil Foundation Jacque Trembly Shannon Frew Pat Aptaker Jerry and Helene Beaver The Towbes Foundation Mrs. Fred A. Zannon Toyon Research Corporation Gamma Phi Beta Fundraising John A. Avis and Nancy Deville Tammy Bogetti Transformation Trust Inc. User Friendly Services Janet Garrutis Jeff and Margo Barbakow Tom and Nancy Bollay Wood-Claeyssens Foundation Guardians Beth Weinberg and Michael Stein Mary Garton Bartlett, Pringle & Wolf, LLP Beverly Burke 13 Yardi Systems $1,000 - $1,999 Karl Weis and Kristen Klingbeil- Patricia Gebhard Barry and Joanne Berkus Calla Gold Weis Harry and Gail Gelles Anonymous (3) Sharon and George Bifano Cars 4 Causes ZAD Fashion, Inc. David Gersh Presidents Club Thomas and Denise Allyn Joyce and Roland Bryan Trudi Carey $5,000 - $9,999 Heidi Zetzer and Gregory Ashby Corlyn Gettman B & B Foundation Kevin Bourke Linda G. Diamant Sheila Zimmerman John and Rosalinda Gettman Ann Jackson Family Foundation Richard and Marguerite Berti Thomas and Stephanie Calkins Monique Fay Hallie A. Goodall Charles and Barbara de L’Arbre John and Shelby Bowen Rick Erickson and Neil Korpinen Kevin and Kathleen Frank Sponsors Mary Gray Conners Barbara Delaune Warren Daniel Bifano and Allan Brostrom Dennis and Rikki Emory Jose and Edith Fulco $100 - $249 David and Ruth Green Alice Gillaroo and Susan Big Dog Foundation Gary David Goldberg and Diana Nancy Field Goldsholl Timothy Hale Jorgensen Business First National Bank Meehan Jennifer Guess Anonymous Pamela Hamlin The Herbert and Gertrude Cabana Home Shari Guilfoyle Peter Lee and Elizabeth Hasler Marshall and Marion Abrams Latkin Charitable Foundation Mr. and Mrs. Lawrence Hammett Michael and Nancy Casey Mr. and Mrs. Ron A. Hays Ruth Hochman Marshall and Carol Ackerman IN-N-OUT Burger Foundation Peter Lee and Elizabeth Hasler Frank and Karen Caufield Susan and Steve Hosea David and Jeanne Hoffman Jim and Patty Acos Evelyn Lyons Mr. Steve Hernandez Fred and Linda Clough J.J, O’Malley’s Monica Intaglietta and Marty Ronald and Sherri Adler Patty and John MacFarlane Geoff and Kim Crane Patricia Jackson Ensign Ali Ahlstrand Lourdes Herrera The Medtronic Foundation Edgar and Janet Davis Susan and Les Jones Irina Kerdman Laura and Ed Allbritton Stephen and Patsy Hicks National Children’s Alliance Denison Family Foundation Peter and Gerd Jordano Nicole Kypreos Avanti Roofing Inc. Henry and Joanne Holderman Trudi and Rich Schuette David Evans Robert and Jacqueline Laskoff Elaine Le Vasseur Jason H. Barber Warren and Edith Hollister The Susanne and Gary Tobey Bridget Foreman Maison K Bill and Thelma Locker Stephen and Edie Barrett Elaine Jacobs Family Foundation Christopher A. Fox Lisa and Charles Markham James and Suzanne Lombard Leon and Barbara Benon David Paul Jones Trinity Church Fiduciary Trust Michael and Nancy Martz Alice Love Sharon Berle Marilyn Jorgensen and Errol Jahnke Allen and Roberta Gersho Mosher Foundation Gun Malmstrom Dukes Charlie and Carrie Bissell Eric and Tracy Kanowsky Principle Sponsors Gary and Susan Gulbransen Old Kings Road Michael and Nancy Martz Carol Brookshire Joel and Dawn Kaufman $2,000 - $4,999 Mr. & Mrs. David Hart Ari Ritvo Penny Mathison Melinda Bunnin Toni and Bob Kipp The Allergan Foundation Jia Rae Hair Salon Cecilia Rodriguez and Robert A. Dr. Neal Mazer and William and Kathryn Calise Lynn and Frank Kirk Anait Foundation Junior League of Santa Barbara Stanley Dr. Zev Nathan Maria Caudillo Thomas and Colby Kline Bank of America The Lehrer Family Foundation Kathleen Roxby McGee Surveying Consulting Julie Chacko Donald and Sherry Lafler Cottage Hospital Northern Trust Virginia Sato Duncan and Suzanne Mellichamp William D. and Mona M. Chapin CALM Family of Support

Penelope Lusche Harold and Louise Joann Wayne Clelland and Yvonne Downs Malott Estate William and Rose Reed Blanca Viramontes-Bordas Luke and Barbara Maes Mr. Jonathan Weg Bernard Drury Jane Manasse Lily Reiss Ellen Wall Marilyn Manalis Beverly and Paul Weiss Landon and Laura Durham Maria Marquez Margie Rhinestein Gabriele Wenzel Robin McCarthy Juli Welsh Carol Durman Samuel and Constance Marquez Juan Riker and Jessica Adams Douglas and Gerlinde White William and Joyce McCullough Peggy and Kevin White David and Ann Dwelley Michele Martin Ms. M.W. Rindlaub Peggy and Kevin White Dr. and Mrs. Edward J. McGinn Peter and Kathleen Wilson Carl Easter and Gloria Navarro- Tony and Blanca Martinez Karen Robinson Lottie White Lowell and Shirley McLellan Peter and Linda Wisner Easter Lynn Menicucci Mr. Dorcas Robson Anna Wilmas Pat Menard George and Judith Writer Nancy Estes Lois Merlo Ginny Rohan Irwin and Joy Winer Shannon Miles, LMFT Dr. and Mrs. Robert Failing William and Luann Miller Martha Ruiz Dalia Wolinsly Beverly Morey Friends Robert and Colette Fischer Marla Miller Holly Russ Ronald Yoshida Nasif, Hicks, Harris, & Co. up to $100 Barbara Fitzgerald Jose and Olivia Moctezuma Pao John Robert Rydell II and Pamela and Robert Nelson Jessica Fox Linda Montross La Paglia Eleanor Cuthbertson Mr. and Mrs. Ross D. Adams Robert and Joanne Nelson William and Ellie Freudenstein Patricia S. Moore Christine L. Ryerson Susan Addison Elizabeth Newman-Smith Jane L. Galbraith Julie Newendorp Judith and Thomas Scarvie Lesley Alexander Mary B. Nuanes Fernando Garza-Sanchez and Helen Olson Deborah Schiller Rachel Altman Medeline Nutik Laura Elena Zizumbo-Alamilla Martha O’Neil Thomas and Toni Schultheis Anonymous Craig Park and Deborah Holmes Roy and Myrna Gaskin Mary O’Toole Ned Seder and Lilyan Cuttler Tina Argyropoulos Tom and Sue Parker Lois Gigstead Jennifer Padilla-Burger Mr. and Mrs. Lee S. Silverman Mrs. Ana Avila Steven R. Penn Gail Gillies Kari-Unn Paye Muriel Slevin Donna Ayscough This list represents gifts made Joseph and Karen Peus Mr. Joel Goldberg Daniel and Barbara Pearl Miles and Marsha A. Standish Patricia Azain and Cindy Vercota to CALM from July 1, 2008 Mr. & Mrs. Doug Pilkington Theodore and May Goldberg Gilbert and Lieselotte Perleberg William Stephens Eric and Stacy Baron Jane Poythress Gold Coast Miniaturists Katherine L. Peterson Thomas and Jean Stieglitz through June 30, 2009. Every Jean Bauma Armand F. Quiros and Louis Goleta Engineering Dr. and Mrs. Charles E. Piper Keith and Jackie Tenny effort is made to be accurate. Pascale Beale Groom Zandalasini Pamela Graham Judith Anne Pochini Michael Thompson Please bring any errors or 14 Rosanna Berendt William and Arlene Radasky Diane C. Green Joseph and Cynthia Prochot Mary and Hugh Thorson omissions to the attention of Walter and Gail Beust George and Kim Rasher Mary Polly Griscom Ira and Catharene Purdy Mike and Pam Van Blaricum our Development Office at Gina Bifano Sherry Robin Robert A. and Janet M. Guillermo William and Evelyn Raber Don and Sara Vickers (805) 965-2376, ext. 149. Judy Blankenship Ben and Geordie Romo Andrea Haefele Leslie G. Ramsey Mary Jean Vignone Thank you. Adele Rosen Ms. Louise Borad-Gerber Debbie Hambleton Brian and Kathleen Scarminach Albert and Aloha Borgaro Marilyn Harding Edward and Lisa Schatz Rose Marie Bristol Audree Hashibe Sandy School Field Joan Brooks Greagory and Bridget Hearon Susie Scribner Jo-Anne Brown Pam Heinz Dale and Judy Seborg Michael and Ingrid Brown Help Unlimited HomeCare Lanny and Holly Sherwin Ann Bryant Mireya Hernandez Robyn Smith Sara Bukacek Martha Hicks Stephen and Patricia Stark Eleanor Byrne Jerry W. Higgins Tanya Stevenson Margaret J. Campbell Terence C. and Jane Honikman Sarah Stokes Estela Campos Cecelia Hozman Sarah E. Struck Shirley A. Chabolla Lisa Icovich Sun Microsystems Inc. Ian and Suzan Cluderay Sheila Kamhi Mr. Stan Tabler Ray and Olga Cockel David and Kathy Kiefer Jennifer Todd Lynn Crock James and Shirley Kodak Town & Country Woman’s Club Georgina Dahill Elise Koelsch of Santa Barbara Michael and Kathryn Dean Teresa Kugler Blair Towsend Paula H. Deley Linda Lee Principe Mrs. John Van Wingerden Bill and Anne Dewey Margaret Lloyd Dr. and Mrs. Nicholas J. Vincent The Dehlsen Foundation Ms. Betty Longstreet Shirley and Kenneth Waxman Jack A. Dimock Lynn E. Luft Ann Donlon

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Join the Children’s Legacy Society! You can create a lasting legacy at CALM by including us in your estate plans. A bequest to CALM can help you and your family reduce or avoid estate taxes and at the same time help you realize your own philanthropic objectives. Joining the Children’s Legacy Society is a lasting way to establish a profound commitment to CALM’s future. Below are options you may wish to consider when making a gift to CALM: • Bequests in your will or trust • Charitable Remainder Trusts, Charitable Lead Trusts, Gift Annuities or a Pooled Income Fund, which can provide income during their lifetime, and ultimately go to benefit your favorite cause • Gifts of appreciated assets such as stocks, bonds, real estate, 15 or tangible properties MEMBERS • Naming CALM as the beneficiary in your retirement plan or life Anonymous insurance policy Tom and Nancy Bollay Ada-Marie Bowers Anna and Petar Kokotovic William Ledbetter Allegra Lewis Adele Rosen Charitable Giving Through Richard and Maryan Schall Individual Retirement Accounts Robert and Leah Temkin The Pension Protection Act of 2006 includes For more information the much awaited IRA Charitable Rollover on how you can make provision. This allows anyone who is 70½ years a planned gift to We express sincere of age or older to distribute up to $100,000 per CALM, please call our appreciation to the members of year through December 31st, 2009 to qualified Development Director, charities without claiming any increased income Monica Intaglietta our Children’s Legacy Society or paying any additional tax. Speak with your (805) 965-2376, ext. 149 who have made a commitment tax advisor and please consider this special to help secure CALM’s future. opportunity to make a gift to support CALM. In one moment, Child abuse changes everything.

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