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NEWS 9 News Analysis: Seven Candidates Vying to Be the Next Governor COMMUNITY CONNECTIONS NATIONAL HAPPENINGS 10 Flores Says ‘We’re Going Through a Process’ During Public Town Hall 12 Oklahoma Governor Signs First Anti-LGBT Law of 2018 16 Trump’s New Faith Initiative Raises Concerns Among LGBT Activists 16 Trumps New Faith Initiative Raises Concerns OPINION 22 Best of LGBT Events 8 Parting Glances 8 Transmissions VOLUNTEER NATIONAL NEWS 9 Creep of the Week: Donald Trump

LIFE 28 Senior Citizen of the Year Award Goes to Detroit LGBTQ Activist 21 Cool Cities: Lansing Volunteering Opportunities 22 Happenings Available at Prides 12 Oklahoma Governor 27 Puzzle and Crossword 28 Holland’s OOTL LGBTQ Center throughout Michigan Signs First Anti-LGBT Law Celebrates First Year of 2018

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May 17, 2018 www.PrideSource.com | BTL 3 COVER STORY The World Swipes Right on Adam Rippon America’s Favorite Out Skater on Finding His Gay Power, Sex-Inspired Costumes and His Post-Olympics Clapback for Tinder Ghosters

BY CHRIS AZZOPARDI And like any good mother, Sally Field tried to guess brothers who kiss. But no, I love him, set him up with her gay son. he’s so nice, and we’re very good friends. Yes, this is an interview,” a schoolgirl- My roommate was starstruck even before giggly Adam Rippon deadpans to Rippon rang me, so nervous just knowing You seem like the kind of person who likes a “fellow figure skater Charlie White Adam Rippon would be calling that she few nice things in his dressing room. What is on who, naturally, is curious about the left our Airbnb apartment. I share this with your “Stars on Ice” tour rider? current topic of conversation: sex Rippon, who’s, again, all giggles: “It’s a I try to keep it super simple so I don’t forget and harnesses, and how both come really high compliment that your roommate a lot of things. So, when I am traveling I together to inspire his uniquely needed to leave.” (Later, during our goodbye, literally just have my skates, my costume, nontraditional collection of he playfully says, “Tell your roommate I said and that’s basically it. I try to keep it so super on-ice ensembles. Rippon ‘hi.’”) simple or I’m gonna lose all my shit. is chatting while putting Rippon would make his “Dancing with the on his performance Stars” debut weeks after our call, slaying a Don’t you have people who can remember this makeup in a locker vogueing cha-cha to RuPaul’s “Sissy That stuff for you? An entourage? room inside a Walk.” But before he competed against Tonya It’s getting there. Slowly. But I still want to, Rhode Island arena, Harding with partner Jenna Johnson during the like, be able to be self-sufficient, you know about to serve a ABC dance-off, the skater opened up about what I mean? graceful two- how booze kills his wit game and what he tells song solo during guys on Tinder who want a second chance with For a while, at least. a “Stars on Ice” him and inspiring suicidal queer youth, all the At least for the rest of the month. stop, featuring his while, being his irresistible self. That’s all you Olympic peers. can really ask for – and in Rippon’s case, want. I think that’s a lofty goal. “(Charlie is) like, You know, dream big. ‘I’ve never done an I want to give you a phone hug and say thanks interview like this for giving this 35-year-old man a new level of So, “Dancing with the Stars”: Can you even before,’” Rippon tells realness to aspire to. believe that you’re competing against Tonya me. “He said he’s never I’m hugging you back. Harding? been honest and open.” Rippon takes a long, You stood next to Britney Spears at the GLAAD (Sighs) Ah, I cannot. very “Adam Rippon for Media Awards recently for a pic. I heard she What is that like? dramatic effect” pause, liked the way you smelled. It’s not a super big deal, but I think she’s got the kind you know and love if Yes, she did. It’s just, like, weird – you’ve a lot going on, so I’m just gonna let her do you’ve been obsessing over every fabulous, seen somebody your whole entire life, and her own thing, probably. Probably best. filterless turn of phrase our self-proclaimed then you walk up to them and you’re like, “glamazon bitch” has turned: “You should “Oh, you’re real.” But she was really nice. You’ve met? try it out!” We just congratulated her on her award and I did meet her. She’s very pleasant. No kidding: The 28-year-old ice champion she was like, “You smell really nice,” and I leads by example, proving with unapologetic was like, “Thank you so much, ’cause that’s Team Tonya or Team Nancy? defiance – he fiercely came at the vice so important to me.” Well, I mean, Tonya tried to kill someone, so president of the United States for I’m Team Nancy, probably. his anti-gay rhetoric – and iconic Is it weird that now I want to know how you Folsom elegance, like the S&M smell? Honestly think that’s probably the safe choice gear he wore during the Oscars this to make. year, that being yourself can take you I smell nice. I think it’s probably the right choice. places. If you’re Rippon, who’s from Like primrose? Scranton, Pennsylvania, it can take you to What did you think of “I, Tonya”? Pyeongchang, South Korea, where Rippon Yes. I loved it. I thought Margot Robbie (who set fire to the ice during the 2018 Winter And that night was special because gay played Harding) was great. Amazing. Olympics, becoming the first openly gay Olympian Gus Kenworthy kissed you on U.S. male athlete to win a (bronze) medal in stage. How exactly would you describe your Who would you cast as Adam in “I, Adam”? a Winter Olympics. relationship with Gus at this point? Well, Margot did so well, so maybe just Rippon’s mere existence as a brazenly gay Margot Robbie is a safe bet. global inspiration with a tongue as sharp as Umm (laughs), so, I mean, we’re just friends, the blades on his skates has been celebrated obviously. His boyfriend was backstage Who inspires your on-ice style? for his “faggy magic,” as coined by journalist laughing at him, and so he was just trying to The skating world inspires it a little bit, and Peter Moskowitz. And at a recent “Stars on be funny. Gus is a nut. then… you’re just gonna know that I’m Ice” show in Detroit, he elicited the wildest But you’re so close. And both of you being gay trashy. I look at like, um, sex stuff and stuff applause, from suburban moms to girl tweens Photos: Mitchell Haaseth/NBC people wear – harnesses and stuff – and the and a squadron of genuinely proud queers. Olympians, it seems you’ve really bonded. design is quite amazing. I will bring them to Reese Witherspoon loves him. So does Elmo. Oh, absolutely. We’re just like brothers. I my costume designer and we will make them 4 BTL | May 17, 2018 www.PrideSource.com more appropriate for a competition. I don’t think I would do a reality show – I mean, I’m doing “Dancing with the Stars.” For a PG audience? That’s a reality show. I’m not gonna do, like, Yes. But actually, it’s not for that audience. “Big Brother” or anything. But I make it for them. Are you getting a lot of offers? That harness you wore to the Oscars in March: Yeah, I’m getting a lot of offers to do stuff. A Where is it? lot of it’s ghetto. It’s in (fashion designer) Jeremy Scott’s office. The suit was by Moschino, and so it What percentage of these offers are you turning was from Jeremy’s office and he lent it to me. down? I’m obsessed with Jeremy. He’s amazing. I’m talking a little bit to everybody, and honestly my schedule’s so crazy right now Do you get to keep these costumes? I don’t even know who. I barely even know I keep my own costumes. Because, like, I where I am right now. bought them, outright. But the Oscars outfit was for the runway – from the carpet back to You’ve been asked to do a lot of things you may the office. not have done if it weren’t for the Olympics, such as getting custom-made condoms from Hard to give that up. So many opportunities to Thrillist because you thought the condoms in wear something like that. South Korea were “generic.” The New York Times I know! Like to a wedding. also basically wrote an entire feature on your abs. What is the most ridiculous request that’s Or a funeral. been asked of you? Yeah, anything. The grocery store. I don’t know if I’ve had a super ridiculous What’s the biggest difference between 12-year- request, one that I can really think that I took old Adam Rippon and the Adam Rippon I’m seriously. I think people have asked me to talking to right now? do crazy things and I’m like, “Hahaha.” And then I forgot about it a minute later. I think the biggest difference is all of the things that I’ve been through. I think now I The media loves getting you drunk. have a better idea of who I am, and I think Here’s the thing: I don’t drink a lot. Barely I had a lot of self-discovery to go through anything. And so everyone’s like, “Haha, when I was young. I was just as trash – but come on the show and just have drinks!” And now I’m just older. I’m like, “OK.” So, I’ll have one or a little More comfortable with the trash? bit, but I feel like I’m way funnier not drunk. I’m not as sharp, I’m not as witty; I’m not Yeah, I’m just more comfortable being trashy. myself when I’m drunk. I mean, I feel like Were you a sassy kid? I like to be in the moment, and if I’m in the moment, I can focus and then I can be quick I don’t think I realized how sassy I was till and witty. I was at the Olympics and people were like “Ahahaha, you’re so sassy” and then I was This wild ride: If you could relive any part of it, “Ahahaha… you think so?” And they’re like, which part would that be? “Oh yeah, you’re, like, SASSY.” And I was I don’t know, because I still feel like I’m like, I just thought I was fresh. Like, “No in the middle of a wild ride. I haven’t had – you’re sassy.” Oh. OK. a moment to really be like, “This Olympics Who inspires your sassiness? experience is over,” ’cause right now I’m still skating a bunch with “Stars on Ice,” and The person who inspires me to be sassy is my I think when I finally have a day off, I’ll be mom. like, “Oh, wow, there’s a lot going on.” But I So it’s in the blood. haven’t had a day off, which I actually think (Laughs) Yeah, it’s definitely in the blood. is amazing and great, and I’m trying to enjoy It’s something I can’t control. You know how every single second. I think one thing that you’re born – you sometimes have curly hair saved me is, I don’t really know what my or blue eyes, and I have curly hair, but I don’t schedule is. I just kind of plan a few days in have blue eyes. But I also have my mom’s advance; I don’t feel overwhelmed. I’m just sassy attitude. having a good time with it. Born this way. How will you spend that day off? Born this way, for sure. Genetics. Um, probably napping. Your future: What’s off the table? Where do you The whole day? draw the line? The whole day. Like, I’m not gonna do porn. That’s drawing Anything you haven’t been able to do since the line, I guess. you’ve been on this all-consuming ride? A reality show? Honestly, the only thing I haven’t been good

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When There Were Seven NEWS ANALYSIS What We Learned About the Seven Candidates Vying to be the Next Governor BY TODD A. HEYWOOD around calling the media fake news, when you go around destabilizing what is truth ome Jan. 1 there will be a new from falsehood, you have to ask yourself, Governor, but for now, there are seven Candidates State Candidates Attorney what actually is truth anymore?” El-Sayed competing for the position. And, with Sen. Patrick Colbeck General Bill Schuette said. “I respect deeply the work that you do, C seated and State Sen. seated and Lt. Governor all seven people vying to occupy the office because you’ve got to tell the story. There Gretchen Whitmer Brian Calley. sitting on a simple stage in East Lansing is no democracy without a free press, and Thursday, May 10, one would expect a clash when you have a president attacking that very of ideas and a battle of wills. But, the four GOP institution of a free press, you have to ask and three Democratic candidates answered yourself, where are we as a society?” questions for the Michigan Press Association The whole question of how fair the with relatively few bumps. media is also feeds another important issue: There was a cantankerous and divided Transparency. Republican field – consisting of Attorney General Bill Schuette, Lt. Gov. Brian Calley, State Sen. Patrick Colbeck and Dr. Jim Hines. Michigan has consistently gotten On the Democratic side, they heard a Bernie Sanders’ like rally call by Dr. Abdul El-Sayed, poor scores on governmental a reserved and middle-of-the-road former Sen. Candidate Shri Thanedar transparency. The state legislature Gretchen Whitmer and a billionaire on a vanity tour, Shri Thanedar. Candidate Dr. and the governor’s office are Abdul El Sayed Here are some key takeaways: both exempt from the Freedom Trump-mancing of Information Act, while the The GOP candidates don’t agree on much judiciary, which is tapped to fill except their undying devotion to President certain countywide posts when Donald Trump. In fact, despite Trump’s endorsement of Bill Schuette, the candidates they are vacant, is not subject are still vying to to wrestle that endorsement from the attorney general’s hands to clutch it to the Open Meetings Act. for themselves. On May 9, on a debate produced by WOOD Transparency TV 8, Colbeck made a plea for Trump to a ‘Mad Lib’ where people have actually filled “reconsider” his endorsement of Schuette. in the adjectives,” Colbeck said. “The story’s Here’s the deal: Michigan has consistently Hines in both his appearance on the television already written, the tone’s already set, and for gotten poor scores on governmental debate and the MPA conference made the me that’s disconcerting because our republic transparency. The state legislature and the case that he was for “always Trump” because depends upon the people who are electing governor’s office are both exempt from he saw him as disruptive as an outsider. people into office getting good information.” the Freedom of Information Act, while the Schuette, meanwhile, smacked Calley around Calley said he is troubled by the reliance on judiciary, which is tapped to fill certain verbally for withdrawing his support of then- unnamed sources. countywide posts when they are vacant, is not candidate Trump when the infamous “Access “It’s a gotcha-type of reporting, it tends to subject to the Open Meetings Act. Hollywood” tape surfaced. That’s the tape lead with conjecture and unnamed sources at And just how much do the various where Trump is heard discussing grabbing a level that I’ve never seen before,” he said. candidates have in the bank? Who do they women by their privates and forcing himself “And what I’ve come to tell people when I’m owe money to? What property do they own? on them. At the time, Calley said he would be asked about some sort of a sensational story None of that is required for disclosure either unable to vote for Trump and would write in about Donald Trump is, you have to wait 24 under Michigan law. Pence. He ultimately voted for Trump he said. to 48 hours because in most cases there’s other The candidates all agreed that transparency Candidate Dr. Jim Hines Colbeck argued Trump should rescind his information that comes out that provides a was important, but the reality of transparency endorsement of Schuette and instead give it more balanced view on what happened. And offered by the candidates is blurry at best. to Colbeck. I think it’s unfortunate because the media the folks that need to rebuild our infrastructure This issue also opened the door for an attack The only high-profile endorsement given does have such an important role to play as well,” he said. “They look down on people by Calley leveled against Schuette. and withdrawn so far, however, has been Fox in our democracy, we’re talking about first who work.” “Not only have I released my tax returns, News host Sean Hannity’s endorsement of amendment rights here.” Meanwhile, Democrats Whitmer, Thanedar but I did complete the federal form. And, I just Colbeck. More on that later. Schuette, for his part, accused the national and El-Sayed said they thought that Trump want to point out the hypocrisy here,” declared The candidates also showed a partisan media of being “elites.” was being covered fairly. El-Sayed however Calley. “Why put out a tax return but not the divide between whether the media was treating “These are the same elites that look down offered a more nuanced analysis of coverage federal form? Why do you have to wait for a Trump fairly. Colbeck accused the media of on the heartland of America in terms of the of Trump. law to pass? What is it that’s being hidden? doing “Mad Lib” reporting. nitty gritty tough plumbers and electricians “I think the right question is, is somebody What we have heard is that they can’t really “A lot of stories that I found get written and builders, the folks that built this state and who occupies the highest office in the land put out a financial disclosure, Bill Schuette about different events are actually more like fair to the media? 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NEWS community. And we all held our breath. Then you got the next person and we were all BY JASON A. MICHAEL holding our breath to see when Affirmations would get it together. We don’t have time. I FERNDALE – Members of the community would say we are in a unique position right were invited to Affirmations on May 11 to now. We have someone with a connection discuss changes at the LGBT community to the community and the qualifications. We center and to get input and ideas from the don’t have the money to spend on another organization’s supporters. The public town search.” hall was held following the resignation of the Reyes also received a vote of approval from executive director, Susan Erspamer, in late the staff at the center. March; the board president, Brad Bell, last “On behalf of the staff we want to 100 November; and the treasurer, Jon Beasley, percent back Liliana,” said Koch. “We last July. support her. We believe in her. And we’re The community conversation addressed committed in Affirmations succeeding and questions about the Center’s finances, the for Affirmations to succeed we want Liliana election of new board members, and what the to succeed.” future holds for Interim Executive Director When asked if she were interested in the Liliana Reyes, who hosted the meeting along Interim Executive Director Liliana Reyes during a May 11 public town hall meeting at Affirmatios. A second public position, Reyes, who has worked at the with Interim Board President Michael Flores. town hall will take place on June 21. BTL Photo: Jason A. Michael Center for almost four years, and served A small crowd of about 20 attended, and under three different executive directors, they were all passionate about the Center. Reyes discussed her plan to reach further in the previous two searches. beamed. Reyes made the effort to alleviate any doubt outside the realm of traditional LGBTQ work. “I do hear the concern that the previous two “Of course I am,” she said. “Of course I and speak to concerns. This month, Affirmations staff and volunteers searches did not yield [good] results,” said am. I really love Affirmations and I mean She said Affirmations sees about 30,000 will deliver water to Flint. Flores. “I don’t think anyone [on the board] really love it.” guests annually, offers 200 different support “Water has nothing to do with LGBT, was there to give us details on what happened. and discussion groups, has over 200 active but if water is supporting life, [then] life However, we need to evaluate everything volunteers and is conducting more LGBTQ is supporting LGBT,” said Reyes. “So it’s and determine what the most effective way The Money sensitivity trainings than ever before. thinking outside of just the gay sphere and to move forward with selecting a new ED is. Flores spoke about the Center’s budget and “From January 1 till today, we’ve trained pushing it ... We’re thinking of unique ways We need to outline all the available avenues expenses as well. about 750 individuals, and that’s a two-hour to push the LGBT agenda that isn’t the to the board. Then the board needs to select “In terms of finances, I sit down with Liliana training,” said Reyes. “Including last year, historical way of just going to other LGBT the best avenue and then proceed forward with on a weekly basis. We are basically to budget. we’ve trained over 2,000 professionals.” communities.” that avenue.” Moving forward we do see some gaps. But Affirmations does this with a small staff of Flores, who has been nominated for board as a whole over these next couple of months, nine that includes Katie Koch, Development president, said input is needed from everyone. we are in the black,” he said. “It’s something Director; Kyle Taylor, Development To Search or Not to Search “I’m leaning toward having some sort of that’s new to Affirmations to be in the black Coordinator; Becca Budde, Educating cross-functional committee that involves the As far as the search for a new executive but we’re confident that we’re going to end and Training Manager; Heather Aymer, board and staff and the community to be able director is concerned, at the meeting, Flores the year in the black again.” Community Resource Coordinator; Ian Unger, to look at different candidates and select the said, “We are going to go through a process One key to that is development, said Reyes. Youth Coordinator; Ryan Fowler, Facilities right candidate.” where we’re going to evaluate one – are we “Katie and I have met with every staff Coordinator; Angela Sawyers, Finance However, members of the community said going to conduct a national search, and two – member and board member to talk about what Director; and Shelly McCallister, Counseling the search should already be over as they are we going to solicit the services of a third development looks like. So every single staff Supervisor. voiced confidence in Reyes and her leadership party or are we going to do that internally? member is doing development. Every single Reyes spoke enthusiastically about reaching ability. And we’re obviously going to go through member of staff is thinking about their costs out and taking the center in new directions. “We don’t want to bring an outsider in who the process of interviewing any potential and expenses,” she said. “We’re actively working with almost every doesn’t know Detroit’s LGBT community candidates.” An audit of the center was recently major LGBT community center in Michigan,” because every LGBT community is different,” But for some in the crowd, the talk of completed though the auditor’s findings have she said. “We need to be everywhere. Part of said Jamesion King, LGBT Detroit’s social another national search was not encouraging. not yet been submitted. Flores said the board what I’m doing is expanding the borders of media coordinator. “We need someone who’s The board conducted a national search to find will review the budget after the first half of the Affirmations. We believe and I believe in real already here to continue to make it better.” executive director, Darrius D. Hilmon. When fiscal year is over. partnerships.” Fox-Phillips continued, “As far as I’m he left the Center, the board went back to their “The plan is not to make a change but if we Reyes pointed to the Human Rights concerned, we’ve found our executive director. original search to hire Erspamer, their number need to we will,” he said. “Moving forward Campaign and the Trans Sistas of Color I’m going to give her a vote of confidence.” two on the list. Both had brief tenures at the our income projections have to be realistic and Project, both of which have office space at A former Affirmations board member, Center. based on facts and probability.” the Center now. “You’ve gone through two search processes Michelle Brown, concurred. “This is the very first time Trans Sistas of and they both dudded out,” said Michelle Fox- “I want to second what Michelle said about Color Project has met outside of the city of Phillips, founder and executive director of the moving forward,” she said. “We have been Affirmations will host a second public town Detroit. And they’re not only renting space Gender Identity Network Alliance. waiting. You went on a search and found an hall on June 21 at 11 a.m. Visit facebook.com/ here, they’ve given us a grant to do Trans Flores deflected somewhat, stating that no executive director who didn’t have knowledge Affirmations/ for more information. Sistas of Color Project work,” said Reyes. one currently on the board had been involved not only of the LGBT community but of this

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BY CHRIS JOHNSON law. “We are going to litigate,” Stevenson said. klahoma Gov. Mary Fallin signed “I met with our attorneys [Friday] night, and into law on May 11 a “religious will meet with our national coalition and the Ofreedom” bill enabling taxpayer- broader legal team on Monday. We will be funded adoption agencies to deny placement announcing something early next week.” into LGBT homes, marking the first time in An opponent of same-sex marriage, Fallin 2018 a state anti-LGBT bill became law. has an anti-LGBT history as governor of In a statement on May 11, Fallin announced Oklahoma. When the Obama administration she signed Senate Bill 1140 into law “after ordered the U.S. military to provide spousal many hours of consideration and investigation benefits to service members in same-sex of Oklahoma’s current practice” amid a marriages, Fallin said the Oklahoma National groundswell of opposition from LGBT rights Guard would stop processing benefits for supporters and child care agencies. couples — gay and straight. Only after the “SB 1140 allows faith-based agencies Obama administration threatened a loss that contract with Oklahoma to continue to of federal funds to state withholding those operate in accordance with their beliefs,” benefits did Fallin agree to a a deal enabling Fallin said. “In a day and time when diversity same-sex couples to obtain them. is becoming a core value to society because Lucas Acosta, LGBT media director it will lead to more options, we should for the Democratic National Committee, recognize its value for serving Oklahoma also predicted Oklahoma residents would hold because it leads to more options for loving Republicans and Fallin accountable at the homes to serve Oklahoma children.” polls for enacting SB 1140 — pointing to LGBT rights supporters had criticized SB recent unexpected victories for Democrats in 1140 and urged Fallin to veto the measure Oklahoma Gov. Mary Fallin signed the first anti-LGBT law of 2018. Photo by Michael Vadon via Wikimedia Oklahoma during special elections. because it would enable religious-based Commons “With over 400,000 children in foster care adoption agencies in the state, which receive nationwide,​ including more than 16,000 in taxpayer funds, to deny placement into adopting.” Rights Campaign, said in a statement it is Oklahoma alone, the Oklahoma legislature homes with LGBT placement over “religious “It does not ban same-sex adoption or foster “shameful” Fallin would sign SB 1140. should be focusing on how it can attract more objections.” Conceivably, the bill could care in Oklahoma,” Fallin said. “Instead, the “Gov. Fallin has cemented her legacy, qualified and loving parents to the system – also permit these agencies to subject LGBT bill will help continue Oklahoma’s successful siding with discrimination and the legislature not rejecting potential homes based on the children in foster care to widely discredited placement of children with a broad array of in throwing kids under the bus to create a gender identity or sexual orientation of the “ex-gay” conversion therapy. loving families and basically maintain the ‘license to discriminate’ against LGBTQ parents,” Acosta said. A massive outcry from LGBT rights status quo by setting forth in statute practices Oklahomans,” Winterhof said. “With this Before Fallin signed SB 1140, the supporters emerged as SB 1140 moved which have successfully worked for the best action, Oklahoma has the negative distinction legislation wasn’t the only state anti-LGBT through the state legislature and to Fallin’s interest of Oklahoma children.” of being the only state to sign an anti- adoption bill headed toward becoming law. In desk. Joining LGBT groups in opposition As Fallin noted, other states — Mississippi, LGBTQ bill into law this year. Oklahoma’s Kansas, the state legislature has sent Senate to the bills are child welfare organizations Michigan, Virginia, Texas, Alabama, South leaders must live with that, and live with the Bill 284 to the desk of Gov. Jeff Coyler, who’s including the American Academy of Dakota and North Dakota — have similar reputational fallout that it may bring. This also expected to sign the measure despite Pediatrics, the Child Welfare League of laws on the books. A lawsuit filed by the is wrong.” opposition from LGBT groups. America and the North American Council American Civil Liberties Union against the Prior to Fallin signing the bill into law, Currey Cook, counsel and director for on Adoptable Children. Michigan law is pending in the federal courts. LGBT rights supporters had hoped none of the Youth in Out-of-Home Care Project at Others who spoke out against the bill were Insisting she’s “committed to preserving the 120 anti-LGBT bills pending before state Lambda Legal, urged Coyler not to follow Oklahoma native and “Will & Grace” star the rights of all Oklahomans who are eligible legislatures this year would make it into law. Fallin’s lead and veto the anti-LGBT adoption Megan Mullally, singer Kristin Chenoweth and want to be considered for parenting,” Now that Fallin has signed the anti-LGBT bill pending before him. and former U.S. ambassador to the United Fallin added she’ll sign an executive order to adoption bill, those hopes are dashed. “We hope that other governors, most Nations Samantha Power. According to order the Oklahoma Department of Human Troy Stevenson, Executive Director of immediately Kansas Gov. Colyer, will not Freedom for All Americans, more than Services to publish a list immediately of Freedom Oklahoma, said he’s “deeply follow Oklahoma’s example and will put 15,000 Oklahomans sent letters to their Oklahoma adoption and foster agencies disappointed” Fallin signed the measure, the needs of the child first,” Coyler said. “To lawmakers urging them to reject the bill. on its website “who are willing to serve but is “more concerned about the children deny qualified parents eager to foster or adopt Supporters of the bill are organizations everyone who meets the Department of – desperately looking for homes – that will children in need of loving homes because of supporting Catholic adoption agencies — Human Services criteria for being a foster be harmed by this disgraceful legislation.” their sexual orientation or gender-identity or such as Catholic Charities and the Catholic or adoptive parent.” “And the countless young people who will particular religious belief is not only wrong, Conference of Oklahoma — who say these But Fallin’s assurance the law isn’t be stigmatized by state sanctioned hate,” but impacts the most vulnerable the most.” agencies will have to shut their doors if forced discriminatory and she’ll take additional Stevenson added. “Make no mistake, we will to place children into LGBT homes. action for potential LGBT parents wasn’t fight for the most vulnerable Oklahomans This article originally appeared in the Washington In her statement, Fallin denied signing SB enough for LGBT rights, who condemned targeted by this law.” 1140 into law mean Oklahoma would be “in her for signing the measure. Stevenson also told the Blade LGBT Blade and is made available in partnership with any way restricting current practice allowing JoDee Winterhof, senior vice president rights supporters plan to file a federal lawsuit the National LGBT Media Association. LGBTQ individuals and couples fostering or of policy and political affairs at the Human challenging the new Oklahoma anti-LGBT

12 BTL | May 17, 2018 www.PrideSource.com Planned Parenthood Advocates of Michigan Endorse Dana Nessel for Michigan Attorney General BY BTL STAFF

LANSING — Planned Parenthood gay adoption and was consolidated into the Advocates of Michigan (PPAM) announced landmark Supreme Court case that legalized its endorsement of Dana Nessel for Michigan same-sex marriage nationwide. Attorney General. Nessel, a noted civil rights “For far too long, the people of Michigan attorney and former Assistant Wayne County haven’t had an Attorney General on their side,” Prosecutor, has worked “tirelessly to protect Nessel said. “Bill Schuette has spent his time as the people who need it most over her 25-year AG using the power of his office to undermine legal career,” said PPAM. women’s constitutionally protected right to “We’ve weathered some brutal attacks access safe, legal abortion, and to restrict on women’s access to vital reproductive access to basic health care for thousands of health care over the past few years, and it’s Michiganders. It is my honor to accept the time Michigan’s women and families had an endorsement of Planned Parenthood Advocates Attorney General who used their power to of Michigan, and with it the responsibility protect our rights instead of chipping away at of protecting all Michiganders from harm.” them,” said PPAM President and CEO Lori Carpentier. “Dana Nessel has spent her entire PPAM is the advocacy arm of Planned Parenthood career fighting – and winning – on behalf of of Michigan. PPAM works in conjunction with the people who need it most. The people of Michigan need Dana in office, fighting for us, Planned Parenthood Federation of America and and that’s why we are thrilled to endorse her.” Planned Parenthood Action Fund at the national Perhaps Nessel’s most noted case is that of level, as well as our health center/education affiliate a same-sex couple who wanted to adopt their Planned Parenthood of Michigan, supporters foster children. That case, DeBoer v. Snyder, and patients at the state level to ensure access to successfully overturned Michigan’s ban on reproductive health for all Michiganders.

www.PrideSource.com May 17, 2018 | BTL 13 Best of Sr. Scatterpin (2 of 3)

Parting Glances OPINION BY CHARLES ALEXANDER

had a tarot reading last Sunday by a psychic friend of Sr. Serena Scatterpin. I “She’s a marvel and a looker,” was Sister’s intro. “If just a tad off her ever-lovin’ spiritual rocker.” Glad that the holidays are over – and finding myself 40 pounds fruit cake heavier, I was intrigued – I have a persistent fondness for ever-lovin’ rockers. Tarot reader Lady Novena Knightly – 6′ 7″ in flats – self identifies as a pre-op recovering catholic and bisexual drag queen in hetero remission. She works at a popular bistro that caters to all psychic types – some short in crew socks, some tall in high heels – who themselves are, or who need to be, in remission: mentally, monetarily or morally. She’s also Sister’s makeup advisor and frequent fashionista euchre partner (Father Manly Evergrope, Sister’s on-again, off-again escort, prefers hands-on video games and late-night, non-fasionista Stud Poker playoffs.) My reading took place in the Convent of the Renegade Sisters of Mary multimedia room. A five-buck love offering was suggested, for which I got a taped reading, a bracing cup of essence of yohimba oolong tea, and a seven-chakra, let’s-get-really-acquainted, digital tappy tap. Transmissions “I see contradictory things in your spread,” began Lady Novena. “You bottomed out last year, but 2009 will see you on top for a welcome – if somewhat unbelievable – change. So, in a big way, put small things behind you.” For this remarkable reading I “Who knows, Sister? generously purchased three packets of RSM-marketed Lights Out for Being and Becoming Heaven works in Brotherly Love incense. mysterious ways its To say Lady Novena (aka, one-time IRS accountant Dudley Brownberry, BY GWENDOLYN ANN SMITH wonders to perform. Jr.) is striking is, well, understatement. She’s a towering presence and, obvious here is a certain popular culture view of transgender but they truly are the gender they sense within themselves. What does Father to all who meet her, she’s been around people that cannot be easily shaken: transgender This is why it is so disingenuous when people try to mock the parish block a few times. Her calves Evergrope say?” people are born as men or women, and choose to trans people by claiming we can simply decided one day are angelically well-honed. Her thighs, T become women or men. to change our genders out of the blue, or that we might heavenly suggestive of enterprising Aside from the above completely sidelining non-binary do so to gain entry into a changing facility or restroom. goal setting. Her hips beatifically redolent of metaphoric marathons and other identities, this view does a huge disservice to A majority of us may well spend years of our lives, yet to come – or, something like that. transgender people as a whole. It is also a view clearly starting as a child, grappling with feelings of wrongness. “What did you think?” asked Sr. Scatterpin. “Did the tarot cards crafted by people who don’t know a thing about being We may not exactly have a handle on what the issue is, have you pegged?” transgender. especially if we grow up in situations where information “Sis, I haven’t had a back rub like that in ages! And that cup of Those who might state such are looking at the body as on being trans is hard to come by – but we know there oolong tea worked wonders. You might get the Renegade Sisters to being the arbiter of who we are or are not, but it is likely is something. bottle it,” I said. “One question, ‘tho. What’s this about Lady Novena that these same people would not apply the same feelings It’s one of the bitter realizations I think many of us go being a tad off her spiritual rocker?” when applied too their own body; they would likely claim through, too: we may fight for years of our lives, feeling “Well, just between us RC girls. Lady Novena says she gets it is their brain that holds sway, and has ultimate sway that maybe were just not being man or woman “enough” dressing room visits at odd times from the Virgin Mary,” she said. over their being. in our day to day lives. I’ve known more than my share “She claims the BVM visited her the year she turned 21, inspiring That’s by and large how it is for those of us who are of people who shoehorned themselves into the most her eventually to go into show business. If you can believe that.” trans. stereotypical expressions of the gender they were assigned “Who knows, Sister? Heaven works in mysterious ways its Our bodies – that is, the skin-based wrapper you see at birth, hoping it would somehow “cure” them of feeling wonders to perform. What does Father Evergrope say?” overlaying a collection of bones, nerves and other squishy as they do – only to discover that it intensified the feelings “Evergrope says that if Lady Novena thinks she’s getting visitations bits – is just the container of our consciousness - and while of innate “wrongness” they felt. and it helps her drag queen performances, what’s the harm?” she it serves as an avatar which we pilot through this existence, While the access to information and support is changing said. “The problem’s that Pope Benedict XVI’s just decreed that our innate sense of “being” is firmly between our ears. So perhaps we can say that physically, a trans person See next page See next page may opt to adapt their bodies to align with their minds,

14 BTL | May 17, 2018 www.PrideSource.com To compare, imagine what it is like to have to hear, again and again, that one doesn’t need to be gay, or that one simple “hasn’t found the right man/woman,” or all of that claptrap? This is what its like for transgender people to have their identities Donald Trump BY D’ANNE WITKOWSKI reduced to their physical bodies, and be told that this collection of cells is who we are no matter what we may think. eing in prison sucks. Granted, I have never been in prison, but one All of the gains made for doesn’t actually have to spend time (71 percent) said that that pre-transition B trans rights under Obama are behind bars to know it’s awful. I’ve been ® person they saw in old photos did not feel Transmissions conditioned my entire life to recognize that being rolled back for no other like them, with an additional 24 percent Continued from p. 14 prison is not somewhere I ever want to go. willing to say that they sort of felt it was. reason than that the Trump And so it’s a pretty good motivator to be a Meanwhile, half of the non-transgender things, for some it’s years, even decades, law-abiding citizen (recognizing, of course, folks were more willing to say that it sort of administration doesn’t like trans before we’re able to truly be ourselves that being a cisgender white woman gives was, with roughly a third saying that those – and when we finally do come out, we me plenty of unearned and unfair advantage). people and they don’t like black old photos certainly felt like them. face rejection, discrimination and derision There is, unfortunately, a perception in When I look at old photos of myself, I people and they’ll be damned for doing so. Our very being is called into America that prison should be horrific. The remember the time and place, I recall the question, based in large part of the body we more horrible the better. We have a very if they let a black guy tell them experience just like anyone else - but it’s inhabit. punitive prison justice system. The goal of more like looking at a picture of someone To compare, imagine what it is like to have putting people in prison is to punish them, how they should treat trans folks. else, not me. I’m not delusional, and do to hear, again and again, that one doesn’t not rehabilitate them. We want people who understand the reality of the picture in need to be gay, or that one simple “hasn’t break the law to suffer (unless those people question – but there is a huge disconnect in facilities that aligned with their gender found the right man/woman,” or all of that are white and have lots of money. Those between what I see, and how I feel about it. identity. In other words, if you are a claptrap? This is what its like for transgender people apparently get to be president). It’s just not “me” per se. transgender woman, you shouldn’t be thrown people to have their identities reduced to And boy do we love to lock people up. That’s how this feels. We may know the into a men’s prison. For obvious reasons. their physical bodies, and be told that this The United States has the largest prison realities of our physical selves – sometimes But in case those reasons aren’t obvious, the collection of cells is who we are no matter population in the world. I’m not talking per all too well – while knowing that the essence intention behind the rules was to protect trans what we may think. capita, I mean total. We’re #1. We also love of our beings is something quite different. prisoners from sexual and physical assault. Not too long ago, I decided to try a simple to try children as adults and put them in adult To paraphrase a friend of mine, while many The change was prompted by a lawsuit experiment. I opened a poll on my Twitter prisons. Which is sick. might look into a mirror and be dismayed by brought by four evangelical Christian account. Now, I’m not going to try and claim But for those of us not in prison, it’s really a gray hair, a pimple, or some crow’s feet, we prisoners in Texas. These women argued that such a thing is in any way scientific, easy to say something like, “If you can’t do may see a face and figure staring back at us that being housed with “men” (as they refuse particularly given the relatively small the time don’t do the crime” and “It’s prison, that feels distinctly wrong, and that disunion to acknowledge or accept trans identity) sample size and otherwise non-controlled it’s not supposed to be a resort.” between who we perceive ourselves and what put them at risk and made them feel “icky” aspect of such a thing. Nevertheless, I found It’s easy to forget that the people in prison we see staring back in the mirror is so often (that’s a legal term, obviously). And Trump it interesting to get a small sample of my are, well, people. They are human beings. at the heart of the dysphoria a transgender and his ilk were more than happy to throw friends to give some feedback. So you can imagine that it’s especially person struggles with. trans inmates to the wolves. First, I asked my non-transgender friends hard for trans men and women to be in This is why that simple notion of us being This has, not surprisingly, drawn criticism to think about photos of themselves from 10 prison. Because even trans folks who are men or women who become women or men from the LGBTQ community. or more years ago, and tell me if the person in NOT in prison have to constantly defend just doesn’t fit. We are what we are, and we “Once again, the Trump Administration is those shots still feels like them. Then I asked their very humanity against constant assaults. may take steps to express that better, and to turning its back on those most vulnerable,” my trans friends about photos of themselves The Trump administration has been a literally feel like we belong in our own skins. Lambda Legal Staff Attorney and Criminal from pre-transition years, and if they felt that disaster for transgender people. For such an Justice and Police Misconduct Strategist person was them. Gwen Smith is a collection of some 37.2 trillion already marginalized and relatively small Richard Saenz said in a statement. “There Unsurprisingly, to me, the transgender group, they’ve sure been singled out for harm cells. You can find her at gwensmith.com. is no justification for this policy shift; it people on my timeline pretty overwhelmingly by this administration. All of the gains made is a deliberate recipe for violence against for trans rights under Obama are being rolled transgender people based in inexcusable back for no other reason than that the Trump prejudice.” administration doesn’t like trans people and ® “I’d really make it a first for all parties While I agree with Saenz, I don’t really Parting Glances they don’t like black people and they’ll be concerned, including fundygelical-du- think its accurate to say that the administration Continued from p. 14 damned if they let a black guy tell them how jour Rick Warren. A 15-second cameo is “turning their backs” on transgender they should treat trans folks. And so we’ve appearance in DC at Obama’s inaugural, people. After all, in order to turn away from persons claiming BVM drop ins – drag seen direct attacks on transgender service well, what can I say? The Republicans would someone you have to acknowledge they queens included – have to be examined for members and transgender students from go bonkers. The pope apoplectic. That’s exist in the first place. Instead, Trump and authenticity by a church-sponsored shrink” Trump and company. And now it’s prisoners. show biz!” his minions want to erase them entirely. As “It’s one way of getting 15 minutes of Unlike service members and students, for “deliberate recipe for violence,” that’s fame, I suppose, Sister. It certainly beats prisoners don’t have the advantage of being exactly what this is. Remember, if prison having stigmata. And a lot less messier, too,” Charles Alexander is prolific both as a BTL part of a group that many people like or even is supposed to be hell for cisgender folks, I said. “Come to think of it, as far back as admire. They have few advocates in actual columnist (700-plus columns) and as a well- it follows this sick line of reasoning that I can remember there’s never been a drag power. Transgender prisoners are the most known LGBT community artist (1000 Face it should be especially hellacious for trans queen with stigmata. At least outside of marginalized of the already marginalized. Book images). He is a Spirit of Detroit Award people the system barely sees as human. the Castro or New York’s club baths. But, Which is probably why the Trump recipient and an Affirmations LGBT CENTER Also, “Based in Inexcusable Prejudice” who knows? Could be a first for LGBT administration decided to undo rules put Jan Stevenson awardee. Connect with him at would make a great title for a book about Michigan.” in place during the Obama Presidency [email protected]. the Trump presidency. “If I were the BVM,” sighed Sister that allowed trans prisoners to be housed Scatterpin, herself a now-and-then virgin. www.PrideSource.com May 17, 2018 | BTL 15 Trump’s New Faith Initiative Raises Concerns Among LGBT Activists

to ensure that it does not promote policies that NEWS violate these core principles.” Sharon McGowan, director of strategy BY CHRIS JOHNSON for Lambda Legal, said, “there isn’t a lot of substance” in the executive order, but it President Trump’s new initiative to support reeks of earlier Trump administration efforts faith-based organizations with federal enabling anti-LGBT discrimination in the assistance is stirring unease among LGBT name of ‘religious freedom.’ rights supporters, who say they’ll keep watch “As we saw in the proposed rule coming out to ensure the program doesn’t enable anti- of HHS last January, this administration thinks LGBT discrimination. that it burdens someone’s religious belief to Trump, who created the initiative by have to provide appropriate health care to a executive order on May 3 on the National Day trans person, or even to make a referral to of Prayer, said during a signing ceremony in someone who will,” McGowan said. “This EO the White House Rose Garden the program is very much of a piece with last year’s EO, will “help design new policies that recognize Jeff Sessions’ proclamation from last fall, and the vital role of faith in our families, our what’s come out of HHS.” communities, and our great country.” McGowan said the executive order is “This office will also help ensure that President Trump signs an executive order creating a new faith initiative. also consistent with Sessions’ pledge to the faith-based organizations have equal access anti-LGBT Alliance Defending Freedom to to government funding and the equal right freedom” protections – a term often used supporters because it directed U.S. Attorney restructure the federal government to favor to exercise their deeply held beliefs,” Trump to mean anti-LGBT discrimination – and to General Jeff Sessions to create “religious religious freedom even at the expense of said. “We take this step because we know that, reduce the burdens on the exercise of free freedom” guidance seen to enable anti-LGBT protecting others from discrimination. in solving the many, many problems and our religion. discrimination under the law. “So while there isn’t really much in here great challenges, faith is more powerful than Tony Perkins, president of the anti-LGBT The new initiative also echoes the creation that’s new, it is another piece of the larger government, and nothing is more powerful Family Research Council, praised Trump in of the Conscience & Religious Freedom structure that this administration is building than God.” a statement. Division at the Department of Health & to weaponize religion,” McGowan said. Among those present for the ceremony were “The announcement of President Trump’s Human Services. Critics say that division “Faith doesn’t have to be synonymous with Vice President Mike Pence; Jean Bingham, faith initiative is further evidence that will enable medical practitioners to deny discrimination, but that certainly seems to be general president of the Relief Society for the this administration is not only committed services to women seeking abortions or what this administration means.” Mormon Church; Archbishop of Washington to protecting our First Freedom but in transgender people seeking transition-related Kasey Suffredini, president of strategy at Cardinal Donald Wuerl; and Narayanachar also acknowledging that our faith in God care, including gender reassignment surgery. Freedom for All Americans, went a step further Digalakote, priest at the Sri Siva Vishnu contributes to the guidance and well-being of Although LGBT rights supporters weren’t and said the initiative makes religion “a tool Temple in Lanham, Md. our country,” Perkins said. ready to pounce on the new Trump initiative, to cause harm.” The executive order renames as the The Obama-era program was itself a they expressed concern about the program and “By allowing agencies that receive taxpayer White House Faith & Opportunity Initiative restructuring of a program established in said they were wary of its impact. dollars to discriminate against LGBTQ people the program known under the Obama 2001 during the administration of George W. Daniel Mach, director of the American as long as they cite religion as the reason for administration as the Office of Faith-Based Bush. The Bush-era program was criticized Civil Liberties Union’s program on freedom doing so, this administration has weaponized & Community Initiatives. as a potential violation of the Establishment of religion and belief, said in a statement the religion in a way that prioritizes anti-LGBTQ According to the White House, the initiative Clause and as a payoff to faith leaders to new initiative must not direct taxpayer money bias over vulnerable children finding loving will provide policy recommendations for the encourage support for Bush’s presidency and to organizations that discriminate against homes,” Suffredini said. “President Trump’s administration’s faith-based and community re-election in 2004, which may be Trump’s LGBT people. continued attacks on LGBTQ families hurt programs, such as ideas on helping these aims as well as the congressional mid-term “Freedom of religion is one of our most everyone – and they will not stand.” programs deliver more effective solutions to elections approach. fundamental and cherished rights. But that combat poverty. Trump signs his executive order creating freedom does not give any of us the right to The initiative is also charged with apprising This article originally appeared in the Washington the initiative on the anniversary of a “religious harm other people, to impose our beliefs on Blade and is made available in partnership with the administration of any failures within the freedom” executive order he signed last year. others, or to discriminate,” Mach said. “The the National LGBT Media Association. executive branch in complying with “religious That order was criticized by LGBT rights ACLU will be watching this initiative closely

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16 BTL | May 17, 2018 www.PrideSource.com boogeyman conspiracy. The Detroit News ® Governor candidates called his “evidence” thin, at best. Continued from p. 9 “I have very deep concerns around that obviously,” Colbeck told the gathering of cannot put out a financial disclosure form journalists. “Regards to Dr. Abdul El-Sayed, because he put all of his assets into a blind you’ve got a handful of affiliation with trust, that’s been the story. But, it appears that Muslim Students’ Association, which has though, we’ve been directing the purchase been identified as an affiliated organization transfer of millions of dollars in offshore assets in that Explanatory Memorandum. And if while attorney general.” you guys go off and look at Muslim Students’ Schuette declared he’d happily release his Association across the nation, you’ll find that tax returns, but was refusing to fill out a federal they’ve had Al-Qaeda leaders speaking to their disclosure form. Calley jumped on that, noting people, and they’ve also found out that ... So it was likely because Schuette’s assets were there’s some serious concerns around that, and supposed to be in a blind trust and without frankly, this is one of those areas that got me his involvement. Calley raised the issue of ticked off in regard to the fairness of the media. millions of dollars of property owned by a They pitch this as a comment around concerns company listed at Schuette’s Midland address. around ties to the Muslim Brotherhood as a The property is located in the U.S. Virgin concern with Muslims in general.” Islands and has been sold. Each of the candidates were asked if they Crains Detroit reported that not only had it thought sharia was a threat to Michigan or been sold, but that Schuette used employees America. Interestingly, the GOP candidates of the attorney general’s office to witness and noted that the courts understood their role and notarize the property transaction paperwork. would never impose it. But the Democrats Schuette has also been under pressure for grasped on the question and Colbeck’s role in allegedly hiring political operatives on the promoting it alongside Kamal Saleem, whose state’s dime. claims to have been a member of the Muslim Schuette denied the allegations, calling Brotherhood before converting to Christianity Calley “desperate.” are questionable at best. “Now listen, Brian you go around the Thanedar called it “bigotry.” state,” Schuette said. “You go around the state Whitmer went further. making false accusations that are not true. All “I’m really horrified that so many people my assets are in a blind trust, I comply with use issues like this to divide us,” she said. that fully and completely. And I’ve released “The greatest strength of our state is the rich my income taxes for the last seven years, I do diversity of our state. We want to make sure so again this eighth year as attorney general. that this is a place that people come to for And you’re so desperate, you’re so behind opportunity so we hand grow our population there’s nothing you won’t do to try to make so we can diversify our economy.” false accusations and attacks.” But perhaps it was El-Sayed who hammered Another contention was the issue of FOIA it home the hardest. application. The candidates all said they said “Here’s the thing, one of the biggest supported extending the law, which allows frustrations that I’ve had is that the assumption citizens to access government documents, to that there should be some sort of association the legislature and the governor’s office. between me and some dastardly group, But here is where Schuette, again, fell short. functions simply upon the fact that I choose While talking about his compliance with FOIA to pray a particular way,” he said. “It is as attorney general, he failed to note that he is implicit that it used to raise the specter that currently being sued by Progress Michigan, a has everything to do with that concept ... what liberal activist group, for using private emails frustrates me more is not that you have blatant to avoid FOIA. racism on the part of certain people. But in This division and hammering by Schuette the words of Martin Luther King, ‘One of and Calley on each other could result in a door the most dangerous aspects is not when bad opening for Colbeck to garner the nomination people speak out, it’s when good people fail of the GOP come August. He’s a relatively to speak up.’ And what I have not heard is unknown statewide, and as a former, literal, the Republicans on this panel, decisively and rocket scientist, presents some policy solutions swiftly, call out this kind of Islamophobia, the Detroit News has said have merit. this kind of racism in the context that they are running to represent the state that has Islamophobia the highest per capita number of Muslim- Americans in the country.” But that alleged merit in his policy solutions Colbeck, who has backed resolutions calling should be clouded over by his blatant on the state to ignore the marriage equality Islamaphobia and outright drive for a Christian ruling from the U.S. Supreme Court, assured government. This straddles the transparency El-Sayed he had no ill will toward Muslims. issue a little because Colbeck was upset that “I love Muslims,” Colbeck said. “It’s not an Buzzfeed News reported on his claims that issue, the issue is terrorist organizations like Muslims were undertaking a “civilization the Muslim Brotherhood.” jihad” to impose sharia in America. El-Sayed shot back; “Now you might In the speech highlighted by Buzzfeed, he not hate Muslims, but I’ll tell you Muslims claimed El-Sayed was part of this modern day definitely hate you.” www.PrideSource.com May 17, 2018 | BTL 17 MARRIAGE NEWS LGBTQ Couples Shake Up Gender Norms in Wedding Industry

Report Shows Support For Same- BY MOLLY SPRAYREGEN | AP says Tietjen. “There was something will have both men and women standing really freeing and also really terrifying up for them. Sex Marriage Isn’t Unanimous raditional weddings are deeply about knowing you got to do an entirely Hamm says the trend of mixed- rooted in gender-based rituals, different script.” gender wedding parties is growing A majority of conservative Republicans (58 percent), Tbut the growing LGBTQ wedding In their wedding, Tietjen and in heterosexual weddings as well Republicans overall (51 percent), Mormons (53 percent), white industry is reimagining that. Many Skirvanos didn’t want it to appear that as LGBTQ ones. According to evangelical Protestants (58 percent) and adults in Alabama (51 couples are engaging with centuries of either of them was playing the man’s WeddingWire, the number of straight percent) oppose same-sex marriage, according to a survey tradition but crafting their own way to or woman’s role. “We walked down the couples dividing weddings by gender released last week by the Public Religion Research Institute. the altar. aisle together,” Tietjen says. “We didn’t has dropped 14 percent since 2015. “To The PRRI survey, which relied on more than 40,000 interviews “Structurally, what is required in the want our fathers to give us away. No me,” Hamm says, “This is a really clear nationwide conducted in 2017, made a lot of headlines for wedding planning process is the same,” one was giving us to anyone. We were example of straight people attending finding substantial gains in the number of Americans who says Kathryn Hamm, an education and same-sex weddings and saying, ‘I can support same-sex marriage over the past few years. Overall, diversity specialist at WeddingWire. do that too.’” 61 percent of Americans say gay and lesbian couples should be com, “but because traditionally Stripping away gender norms, legally allowed to marry, compared with 52 percent in a 2013 speaking, the gender roles in weddings however, doesn’t necessarily mean survey conducted by PRRI and the Brookings Institution. Only 30 are so deeply engrained, there is a very tossing out tradition. Plenty of LGBTQ percent are opposed to legal same-sex marriage, while the other concrete necessity for two grooms or couples still want traditional weddings. 9 percent said they didn’t know or declined to give an answer. two brides to figure out how to plan For instance, Palladino says, “a mother- A majority of black people (52 percent), Hispanics (61 percent) within that schema.” son dance is maybe just a parent-child and white people (63 percent) back same-sex marriage. The So how is it decided who does what dance.” majority of people in all but six states support it. And even in LGBTQ weddings? “I think straight readers would be in those six states – Alabama, Louisiana, Mississippi, North Unsurprisingly, there’s no single surprised just how traditional most Carolina, Tennessee and West Virginia – only in Alabama are answer. Because they can’t adhere to LGBTQ couples are,” she says. opponents an outright majority. gender norms, LGBTQ couples can be “They’re just two people committing PRRI also asked Americans whether they support small creative. Many are putting a new focus their lives to one another in front of the businesses being able to deny services to gay or lesbian people on equality between the two people people they love and respect.” if doing so would conflict with the business owner’s religious getting married. And LGBTQ weddings are beliefs. Overall, 33 percent of Americans support that idea, while “It’s very freeing from the idea that contributing to a trend in which many 60 percent oppose it. The majority of conservative Republicans there are these rules, and you must do couples of all sexualities are thinking (59 percent), Republicans overall (52 percent), Mormons (53 this and you must do that,” says Kirsten hard about the reasons behind rituals. percent) and white evangelical Protestants (53 percent) support Palladino, founder of the LGBTQ Millennials as a whole have shown such religious-based denials of services. wedding website EquallyWed.com. a strong desire for more customized According to Perry Bacon Jr.’s analysis in FiveThirtyEight, Among the innovations Palladino giving ourselves to each other.” weddings, industry experts say, although the headlines touting the widening acceptance of same-sex has seen are trains sewn into grooms’ PJ Painter and Ryan Bedinghaus, planning a traditional wedding also marriage weren’t wrong. But he said he thinks it’s worth looking tuxedos, drag-queen flower girls, and a who will marry in August in Louisville, remains popular. “We just want people closely at the 39 percent of Americans who don’t support same- double aisle, so both marriers can walk Kentucky, have similar concerns and to have a choice,” Hamm says. sex marriage, including the 30 percent who outright oppose it. at once and “not one of them comes first hope to avoid any illusion of gender If you peruse Google for what “That group really matters because it includes a majority bloc or second,” she says. roles in their ceremony. “I think there’s LGBTQ couples are asking about their in the Republican Party, which dominates U.S. politics nationally Proposals are planned based on a general mindset that whoever is in the weddings and engagements, you’ll and in many states. They haven’t exactly given up on this issue what makes sense for the couple. Lib lighter color clothing is the woman in find inquiries like, do gay men wear – the question of same-sex marriage itself has become less Tietjen and Claire Skrivanos, who the relationship,” says Painter, “which engagement rings? How do you know of a political football, but LGBT rights more generally may be married in Fairlee, Vermont, in May we obviously don’t want to portray who proposes? Who pays for what? taking its place,” he said. 2017, purchased their engagement because there is no woman in our Hamm’s advice is the same for both In short, the legal debate over same-sex marriage is over. But, rings together. Tietjen later proposed to relationship. So we decided to wear the heterosexual and LGBTQ couples: Do according to Bacon Jr., questions about the cultural and political Skrivanos, beating her by a week in what same color suit.” what you want. acceptance of same-sex marriage and other LGBT rights endure. they deemed a friendly competition for Painter and Bedinghaus will have Palladino agrees. “The only thing you who would pop the question first. three aisles: the middle one for their must do is send out thank you notes,” Read his full analysis online at fivethirtyeight.com/features/support- “It hadn’t really occurred to me how wedding party, and two outer aisles they she says. “Everything else is up to you.” for-same-sex-marriage-isnt-unanimous. engrained the script of a wedding was,” will walk down at the same time. They

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www.PrideSource.com May 17, 2018 | BTL 19 Voters Not Politicians Calls for Board of State Canvassers to Certify Proposal for November Ballot

LANSING – Volunteers and campaign The Bureau of Elections staff found – and leadership urged the Board of State Canvassers campaign consultants at Practical Political to certify the Voters Not Politicians proposal Consulting confirmed – that more than 92 for the November ballot at a meeting in the percent of signatures reviewed were valid, State Capitol on Thursday, May 10, which which means the campaign collected over would establish a transparent process to 100,000 more signatures than required under prevent manipulation of legislative and state law. No challenges have been brought congressional district lines for political against the signatures themselves. purposes. The Board of State Canvasser website says “We remain optimistic that the Board regarding constitutional initiatives, “If the of State canvassers will quickly move to petition is determined to contain a sufficient certify our proposal for the November ballot number of valid signatures by the Board of so the voters have a chance to decide on State Canvassers, the proposed amendment is this important reform for our democracy,” placed on the next general election ballot for said Katie Fahey, founder and executive the consideration of the state’s voters.“ director of Voters Not Politicians. “It’s clear “We have the signatures. They have been that the people of Michigan are eager to verified. They are not challenged. We expect enact meaningful reform that will make our the board to put the measure on the November government more transparent and accountable ballot at its next meeting,” said Jim Lancaster, so we can solve some of our state’s biggest campaign counsel for Voters Not Politicians. challenges like repairing our infrastructure, “The people of Michigan deserve a chance to ensuring safe drinking water and making sure end our current redistricting process, which every child receives a high quality education.” allows politicians working behind closed doors The all-volunteer petition collection effort to manipulate districts to their personal and culminated in turning in more than 425,000 partisan benefit, and replace it with an open, signatures collected in 110 days representing citizen-driven process.” each of Michigan’s 83 counties to the Bureau of Elections on Monday, Dec. 18, 2017, more Visit votersnotpoliticians.com for more than 140 days ago. information.

20 BTL | May 17, 2018 www.PrideSource.com Over 300 Cases of Lyme Disease Reported in 2017 Michiganders Urged to Take Tick Precautions

BY BTL STAFF 83 counties. Information about Lyme disease - Walk in the center of trails to avoid contact - To remove a tick, grasp the tick firmly risk by county is available at Michigan.gov/ with overgrown grass, brush and leaf litter at and as closely to the skin as possible. With a LANSING – The Michigan Department lyme. trail edges. steady motion, pull the tick’s body away from of Health and Human Services (MDHHS) “With the expansion of blacklegged ticks - Protect your pets too. Dogs and cats the skin. Cleanse the area with an antiseptic. is encouraging Michigan residents to protect into new areas in Michigan, the best way to can come into contact with ticks outdoors - Bathe or shower. themselves from ticks as the warm weather protect against Lyme disease is to prevent tick and bring them into the home, so using - Bathe or shower as soon as possible after approaches. Tick-borne diseases, particularly bites,” said Dr. Eden Wells, MDHHS chief tick prevention products on pets is also coming indoors (preferably within two hours) Lyme disease, are expanding across the state. medical executive. “If you find a tick attached recommended. to wash off and more easily find ticks that are Although ticks can spread multiple to your body, promptly remove it. Monitor - Use insect repellent. crawling on you. illnesses, Lyme disease is the most commonly your health, and if you experience fever, rash, - Apply repellent containing DEET (20 to - Washing clothing in hot water and drying reported tick-borne disease in Michigan. muscle or joint aches or other symptoms, 30 percent) or Picaridin on exposed skin. on high heat will kill ticks in clothing. Lyme disease is caused by the bacterium consult with your medical provider.” - Treat clothes (especially pants, socks and Borrelia burgdorferi and is transmitted by the The U.S. Centers for Disease Control and shoes) with permethrin, which kills ticks on Michigan citizens can submit ticks to MDHHS for blacklegged or deer tick. Prevention (CDC) reported last week that contact or buy clothes that are pre-treated. Do The blacklegged tick is well-established diseases spread by mosquitoes, ticks and fleas not use permethrin directly on skin. identification and possible Lyme disease testing, in Michigan’s western Upper and Lower tripled in the U.S. from 2004 to 2016. The - Always follow the manufacturer’s free of charge. Or residents can send electronic Peninsulas. However, it is expanding into report also concludes that Lyme disease is an instructions when applying repellents. photos of ticks to the MDHHS for identification new areas across the Lower Peninsula. In increasing concern for Michigan. To read the - Perform daily tick checks. to [email protected]. For more 2017, there were more than 300 human cases full report, visit the CDC website at cdc.gov. - Always check for ticks on yourself and information on how to submit your tick and/ of Lyme disease reported, and approximately People can protect themselves against your animals after being outdoors, even in or photos, visit Michigan.gov/lyme. For more two out of three cases reported exposure in Lyme disease and other tick-borne diseases your own yard. information about Lyme disease, visit Cdc.gov/ Michigan. Lyme disease-infected ticks have by following these tips: - Inspect all body surfaces carefully, and lyme or Michigan.gov/lyme. currently been identified in 34 of Michigan’s - Avoid tick-infested areas. remove attached ticks with tweezers.

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Soho’s 5th Annual Hot Daddies services/kulick-community-center www. Wednesday, May 30 OUTINGS Contest 8 p.m. Another great Ferndale ferndalepride.com Pride event happening at Soho! Come Get Your People: The Role of White Saturday, May 19 one, come all….It’s the 5th Annual Hot Otus Supply Featuring Kate Wright 8 People in Ending Racism 6:30 p.m. ‘Get Daddies Contest. Soho, 205 W. 9 Mile p.m. Another fantastic Ferndale Pride Your People: The Role of White People LezRead May: Girl Mans Up 4 p.m. ***Be event coming at you! Come listen to the in Ending Racism’ is an interactive sure to note the date change as we’re Road,Ferndale. 248-542-7646 julia@ ferndalepride.com julia@ferndalepride. music of Kate Wright in Otus Supply’s discussion and moderated panel on the meeting on the third instead of the fourth ‘The Parliament Room’. Check website for role of whitePhoto people by in endingRichie racism Hawtin. Saturday in May (May 19t at 4 p.m.) *** com www.ferndalesoho.com www. ferndalepride.com ticket pricing. Otus Supply, 345 E. Nine in metro Detroit and beyond. This is a We’re taking a break from N.K. Jemisin’s Mile Road,Ferndale. 248-291-6160 julia@ Birmingham Unitarian Church, 38651 Broken Earth Jim Toy Community Center, ferndalepride.com julia@ferndalepride. Woodward Ave.,Bloomfield Hills. 248-647- 319 Braun Court,Ann Arbor. 734-995- Wednesday, May 23 com www.otussupply.com www. 2380 bucmi.org. 9867 Ferndale Pride Volunteer Meetings ferndalepride.com Spring Fling Dance – Women Out And Update 7 p.m. All Ferndale Pride Sunday, June 3 About 7 p.m. DJ Carol, BYOB, Private Volunteer Meetings have been moved to Thursday, May 24 the Geri Kulick Center, 1201 Livernois, Stand with Trans 2018 Support Groups Dance Party at the Dance Scene. FREE Stand with Trans 2018 Support Groups 6:30 p.m. Hilltop Counseling, 115 Parking, Free Leis, and more! $15 Ferndale, MI 48220 Any questions, contact the event chair, Julia Music 7 p.m. Oakland United Methodist Church, W. Maumee Street,Adrian. 313-909- Advance, $20 at the door. the dance 30450 Farmington Road,Farmington. 248- 5408 www.standwithtrans.org www. scene, 25333 van dyke,centerline. 248- at [email protected] One event on May 9 at 7:00pmOne event on May 626-3620 www.oaklandumc.org www. hilltopcounseling.org 943-2411 womenoutandabout.net/event/ standwithtrans.org spring-fling-dance-2/ womenoutandabout. 23 at 7:00pm Geri Kulick Community net/event/spring-fling-dance-2/ Center, 1201 Livernois,Ferndale. (248) 544-6767 https://www.ferndalemi.gov/

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22 BTL | May 17, 2018 www.PrideSource.com Tuesday, June 5 choral music paying tribute the vast America The Beautiful: Songs from array of music that is contained in the the Great American Songbook, and Stand with Trans 2018 Support Groups Great American Songbook. You’ll enjoy a More! June 8, 7:30 p.m. An evening of 7 p.m. St. Mary’s In The Hills Episcopal variety of American popular music from male choral music paying tribute the vast Church, 2512 Joslyn Court,Lake Orion. the last 100 years, with An event every array of music that is contained in the 248-391-0663 www.stmarysinthehills.org day that begins at 7:30pm, repeating Great American Songbook. You’ll enjoy a www.standwithtrans.org until June 9 First Presbyterian CHurch of variety of American popular music from Ann Arbor Summer Festival 2018 Lansing, 510 West Ottawa Street,Lansing. Ferndale Pride Hot Daddies the last 100 years, with An event every Mainstage Lineup! 7:30 p.m. Passionate, lansingfirstpres.com www.lansingout.org day that begins at 7:30pm, repeating provocative, and charming, the iconic Contest in Ferndale until June 9 First Presbyterian CHurch of singer/songwriter, activist, poet, and Lansing, 510 West Ottawa Street,Lansing. auteur Ani DiFranco returns to the territory MUSIC & MORE SOHO Ferndale is hosting a Hot Daddies contest lansingfirstpres.com www.lansingout.org that brought her to the world’s attention Mysterium May 17, 6 p.m. Following last where contestants 35 years old and up are welcome Brandi Carlile – In Concert June 9, 7:30 backed by a full band. Born a gifted year’s sold-out inaugural event, Mysterium to strut their stuff. The event will be held on Friday, p.m. Brandi M. Carlile is a Grammy- songwriter, by age Power Center, 121 will feature DSO musicians performing in nominated American folk rock and Fletcher Street,Ann Arbor. (734) 647-3327 three unique settings for an exhilarating May 18. SOHO Ferndale is located at 205 W. 9 Mile Americana singer-songwriter. For our [email protected] [email protected] smtd.umich. musical experience. Ticket includes three Road. upcoming 2018 spring and summer tour, edu/about/facilities/central_campus/ unique performances, hors d’oeuvres, each online ticket order will include a power/index.htm a2sf.org/events/ani- signature drinks, and an afterglow. Max M. digital copy of our new album, By The difranco/ & Marjorie S. Fisher Music Center, 3711 Michigan Theater, 603 E. Liberty St.,Ann Woodward Avenue,Detroit. 3135765162 Arbor. 734-668-8397 www.michtheater. Thursday, June 7 https://www.dso.org/ShowEventsView. ferndalepride.com julia@ferndalepride. ferndalepride.com julia@ferndalepride. www.dso.org/ShowEventsView. org/show/brandi-carlile Safetalk Training 5 p.m. Hosted by aspx?id=4655&prod=4654 com www.ferndalesoho.com www. com www.otussupply.com www. aspx?id=5084&prod=5083 Ann Arbor Summer Festival 2018 American Indian Health and Family ferndalepride.com ferndalepride.com Ann Arbor Guitar Trio CD Release Ann Arbor Summer Festival 2018 Mainstage Lineup Continues! June 9, Services and American Foundation for Concert May 17, 7:30 p.m. The Ann Arbor Star Wars and the Power of Costume Cinetopia Film Festival at Ann Arbor’s Mainstage Lineup! June 5, 7:30 p.m. 8 p.m. It’s all part of the saucy, vintage Suicide Prevention, safeTALK is a half-day Guitar Trio, a new ensemble founded on May 20, 10 a.m. Star Wars™ and the Michigan Theater May 31, 7 p.m. Passionate, provocative, and charming, nouveau world of Postmodern Jukebox, alertness training that prepares anyone the idea that more guitar is better, will Power of Costume explores the challenges Created for the people of southeastern the iconic singer/songwriter, activist, a tongue-in-cheek musical project for 15 or older, regardless of prior experience release their debut CD, “Tides,” at the in dressing the Star Wars universe from Michigan, the Cinetopia Film Festival poet, and auteur Ani DiFranco returns all ages spearheaded by Scott Bradlee, or training, to become a suicide-alert Kerrytown Concert House. Kerrytown the Galactic Senate and royalty to the features the best feature-length dramas, to the territory that brought her to the a revered pianist and genius of song helper. For One event on July 19 at Concert House, 415 N. 4th Ave.,Ann Arbor. Jedi, Sith and Droids™. Featuring more comedies, and documentaries from the world’s attention backed by a full band. arrangement known for growing his 10:00am Affirmations, 290 W. Nine Mile [email protected] anestmusic@ than 60 hand-crafted costumes from An world’s best film festivals (e.g. Sundance, Born a gifted songwriter, by age Power Power Center, 121 Fletcher Street,Ann Road,Ferndale. 248-398-7105 gmail.com kerrytownconcerthouse.com event every week that begins at 10:00am Cannes, Venice, Toronto, Berlin, SXSW, Center, 121 Fletcher Street,Ann Arbor. Arbor. (734) 647-3327 [email protected] www.kerrytownconcerthouse.com/index. on Sunday and Saturday, repeating until Tribeca, etc.). 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Marianne Williamson’s National “Love Ann Arbor Summer Festival 2018 selected as the first Michigan appearance begins at 9:00am on Friday, repeating St.,Ann Arbor. 734-668-8397 www. FREE Parking, Free Leis, and more! $15 America” Tour June 8, 7 p.m. Historic Mainstage Lineup Continues! June 10, for internationally acclaimed author and until September 28 Detroit Institute cinetopiafestival.org Advance, $20 at the door. the dance Detroit Unity Temple is honored to have 1 p.m. ACROBUFFO’S AIR PLAY: Fabrics lecturer, Marianne Williamson on her of Arts, 2100 Woodward Ave.,Detroit. scene, 25333 van dyke,centerline. 248- Om @ The Max June 3, 10:30 a.m. been selected as the first Michigan dance, balloons have a mind of their own, Love America book and speaking tour. 313-833-7900 https://www.dia.org/ 943-2411 womenoutandabout.net/event/ Practice yoga to live music by French appearance for internationally acclaimed confetti turns into the night sky, and a Williamson will speak at Detroit Unity starwarsattheDIA spring-fling-dance-2/ womenoutandabout. composers. Certified yoga instructor and author and lecturer, Marianne Williamson gorgeous canopy becomes a river of silk Temple, 17505 Second Ave.,Detroit. net/event/spring-fling-dance-2/ Otus Supply Featuring Kate Wright May DSO Librarian Ethan Allen leads a group on her Love America book and speaking hovering over the audience in this modern 313-945-4848 [email protected] 23, 8 p.m. Another fantastic Ferndale yoga session open to all skill levels— tour. Williamson will speak at Detroit circus One event on June 10 at 4:00pm [email protected] www.detroitunity. Soho’s 5th Annual Hot Daddies Contest Pride event coming at you! Come listen to accompanied with music performed Unity Temple, 17505 Second Ave.,Detroit. Power Center, 121 Fletcher Street,Ann com www.detroitunity.com May 19, 8 p.m. Another great Ferndale the music of Kate Wright in Otus Supply’s live by a DSO percussion ensemble. 313-945-4848 [email protected] Arbor. (734) 647-3327 [email protected] Pride event happening at Soho! 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[email protected] smtd.umich.edu/about/ DSO Hosts Chamber Recital facilities/central_campus/power/index. htm a2sf.org/events/acrobuffos-air-play-1 Fans of the Detroit Symphony Orchestra can opt-in Sing Out Detroit Presents: Encore June to a more intimate chamber orchestra recital that 16, 7 p.m. Come Out and Support Sing features Mozart’s “Horn Quintet.” The evening will Out Detroit Chorus as we celebrate 10 years of making music together. We will showcase violin, viola, cello and horn music, and be performing some of our favorite songs the community-supported performance will feature and will be joined by chorus alumni. Join us Ferndale High School, 881 Pinecrest musicians Kimberly Kaloyanides Kennedy, James Drive,Ferndale. 248-943-2411 https:// VanValkenburg, Caroline Coade, David LeDoux www.eventbrite.com/e/sing-out-detroit- presents-encore-tickets-44325980200 and David Everson. Adult tickets start at $15. The show begins on Monday, May 21 at 7 p.m. More ticketing information can be found online at dso.org. eVenti Verticali’s Wanted June 19, 7:30 p.m. Aerial theater combines with video projections on a giant outdoor screen and concocts a mind-bending visual comedy than 60 hand-crafted costumes from An Arthur Miller Theatre, 1226 Murfin memorabilia. But even the best laid plans extravaganza for all ages. Suspended in event every week that begins at 10:00am Ave.,Ann Arbor. 734-764-2538 smtd. can go awry… An event every week a world of animation, two Italian brothers on Sunday and Saturday, repeating until umich.edu/about/facilities/north_campus/ that begins at 8:00pm on Friday and hang from ropes and harnesses One September 30An event every week walgreen/arthurmiller/ www.a2ct.org/ Saturday, repeating until June 16One event on June 19 at 9:30pmOne event that begins at 9:00am on Tuesday, junior-theatre/elephant-and-piggie event on June 7 at 7:30pmAn event every on June 20 at 7:30pmOne event on June Wednesday and Thursday, repeating until week that begins at 2:00pm on Sunday, Cinetopia Film Festival at Ann Arbor’s 20 at 9:30pm Top of the Park, 915 E. September 27An event every week that repeating until June 17 Milan High School, Washington St.,Ann Arbor. 734-994-5999 begins at 9:00am on Friday, repeating Michigan Theater May 31, 7 p.m. Created for the people of southeastern 200 Big Red Dr.,Milan. 734-681-0112 [email protected] [email protected] https://a2sf. until September 28 Detroit Institute [email protected] info@ org/category/top-of-the-park/ of Arts, 2100 Woodward Ave.,Detroit. Michigan, the Cinetopia Film Festival features the best feature-length dramas, roustabouttheatre.com roustabouttheatre. 313-833-7900 https://www.dia.org/ com roustabout.brownpapertickets.com starwarsattheDIA comedies, and documentaries from the ART ‘N’ AROUND world’s best film festivals (e.g. Sundance, Ann Arbor Summer Festival 2018 Cannes, Venice, Toronto, Berlin, SXSW, Mainstage Lineup Continues! June 10, Westside Art Hop May 19, 10 a.m. THEATER Tribeca, etc.). An event every week that 1 p.m. ACROBUFFO’S AIR PLAY: Fabrics Westside Art Hop is an art walk in begins at 7:00pm on Sunday, Monday, dance, balloons have a mind of their own, neighborhood homes, studios, porches A2CT Jr. Theatre Presents: Elephant Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday confetti turns into the night sky, and a and yards on Saturday May 19th, 10 A.M. and Piggie’s We are in a Play! May 18, and Saturday, repeating until June gorgeous canopy becomes a river of silk to 5 P.M Find cards and gifts from under 7:30 p.m. An elephant named Gerald 10 Michigan Theater, 603 E. Liberty hovering over the audience in this modern $5, up to fine art at and a pig named Piggie are best, best, St.,Ann Arbor. 734-668-8397 www. circus One event on June 10 at 4:00pm “bestus” (a word Gerald and Piggie made Star Wars and the Power of Costume cinetopiafestival.org Power Center, 121 Fletcher Street,Ann up that means “very best”) friends, but Arbor. (734) 647-3327 [email protected] May 20, 10 a.m. Star Wars™ and the All Childish Things: The Special Edition Gerald worries that something could [email protected] smtd.umich.edu/about/ Power of Costume explores the challenges go wrong that would One event on May 31, 7:30 p.m. In a galaxy far, far away in dressing the Star Wars universe from (Cincinnati), the caper of the millennium facilities/central_campus/power/index. May 19 at 1:00pmOne event on May htm a2sf.org/events/acrobuffos-air-play-1 the Galactic Senate and royalty to the 19 at 3:30pmOne event on May 20 at is underway: the theft of millions of Jedi, Sith and Droids™. Featuring more 1:00pmOne event on May 20 at 3:30pm dollars of Star Wars merchandise and

24 BTL | May 17, 2018 www.PrideSource.com ® Rippon I don’t mind being recognized at all. I Continued from p. 5 don’t mind it. But if I could go somewhere right now, I would wanna go to Maui. Just at doing is sleeping. a vacation. Get some sun. Doing “Dancing with the Stars,” it definitely changed my skin There you go: a 24-hour nap. tone – due to, like, sprays, not sun. A recharge, yup, exactly. Do you expect there will be a day when an Reese Witherspoon is one of your biggest fans. openly gay figure skater can just be a figure Which Reese movie do you most identify with? skater? “Legally Blonde.” It’s true. It’s the first Reese Yeah. And I think more than that, I hope movie that I ever watched and how I always there’s a day that an openly gay Olympian still think of her, which isn’t fair cause she’s will just be an Olympian. But I think that done so much. But yeah, I adore her. right now it’s important to share your story. It’s important for everybody to share your What is it about the character of Elle Woods you story, especially in a day and age when an most identify with? athlete can go to the Olympics and you can That she just thinks she can get into Harvard be like, oh, let me know a little bit more about and it’s not gonna be a big deal, and she does. that athlete. You go on their social media And I, in my life, am like, “It’s not a big deal, page, you know what their likes are, you I can do it, and I can make it happen.” know what they’re doing, you know where they are, you know what their interests are; You have a new man, named Jussi-Pekka Kajaala. you can just so easily find out information He’s very good-looking. about everybody that I think it’s important to show the world who you are, what you stand I do. He’s super cute, but more than that, he’s for, and what’s important to you. super nice and funny and everything that For me, it’s not being gay that I share – I everybody should be. share my coming out because it was really Before you met, what criteria did you have for a liberating for me, and when I came out, when boyfriend? I was able to share that, that’s what I found so much power in. It wasn’t like, “Oh, I’m So, I’ve known him for a little over half a gay and I’m powerful” – which is, like, so year, and really wasn’t looking for anybody. I true – but it was my coming out experience mean, I was on Tinder for just fun. You know of when I started to really own who I was how if you’ve ever been on Tinder you swipe and that’s where I found a lot of power. I was left and right and it basically turns into this always me, but I didn’t always own it. And game? when I owned it, that’s when I found that I Oh yeah, I have Tinder. was my strongest. So you know the game. Have you had any particularly moving exchanges It’s like the new Hot or Not. with young queer fans? It’s absolutely that. So we just started Yes. There have been many. I’ve run into chatting and basically I was looking for some a few young people who told me that they – my criteria for a good boyfriend would tried to kill themselves at one point, which be somebody who has passion. Passion is is incredibly hard to hear, especially from super important to me because no matter really young kids. It’s incredibly bizarre to what you do, if you have passion for it, then be thanked for just being who you are, and that’s kind of what life is all about – that you for someone to tell you that you really helped have passion for something. I think that it’s them. It’s incredibly humbling, but I can tell important to stay motivated, to always want you that I was not expecting that kind of more for yourself – yeah. I’m being serious. response after the Olympics. Usually when I get asked this question, I’m Is there a responsibility or pressure on you to like, a job, goes to the gym – which is also act or be a certain way because of that? important. No more than the way that I’ve been acting. When you were on Tinder, how many people actually thought you were really Adam Rippon? Good. To end, which Golden Girl are you? I think when I was on Tinder nobody really Probably Blanche. Isn’t everyone Blanche? gave a shit that I was Adam Rippon. But I can And I’m a little – OK, I’m mostly Dorothy. tell you that everyone I’ve ever matched with It’s the snark. who’s ghosted on me has messaged me since It is the snark. the Olympics. My favorite is, “Oh, it’s been a while. How ya doing?” And I’m like, “Bye.” As editor of Q Syndicate, the international LGBTQ wire service, Chris Azzopardi has interviewed a You give them more than they deserve, honestly. multitude of superstars, including Meryl Streep, Usually I don’t answer. Mariah Carey and Beyoncé. Reach him via his What’s a place you wish you could go where you website at www.chris-azzopardi.com and on wouldn’t be recognized? Twitter (@chrisazzopardi). www.PrideSource.com May 17, 2018 | BTL 25 CAGE FREE 24 / 7 HAPPY HOUNDS

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www.PrideSource.com May 17, 2018 | BTL 27 COMMUNITY CONNECTIONS Detroit LGBTQ Activist Cornelius Wilson to Receive Senior Citizen of the Year Award

BY BTL STAFF eighth year. “Cornelius has been an indispensable In recognition of over two decades of volunteer and cheerleader for SAGE service as an LGBTQ rights advocate, Metro Detroit since our founding in SAGE Metro Detroit has announced 2015,” said Angie Perone, director of that board member Cornelius Wilson SAGE Metro Detroit. “As programming will receive Michigan’s Aging and Adult chair, Cornelius works with diverse Services Agency’s (AASA) Senior communities throughout Southeast Citizen of the Year Award. PHOTO: By Alex Godin. Michigan to plan programs and events for During a special Older Michiganians SAGE Metro Detroit, including museum Day ceremony at the State Capitol in Program. “I always felt like the struggles outings, discussion groups, town hall Lansing on May 16, Wilson will receive I face as a black, same-gender-loving man forums on policy issues and caregiving the award with congratulatory recognition would inevitably impact other black men classes — among other programs.” from Gov. Rick Snyder and a $500 check and the African-American community She continued, “It is impossible to from Consumer’s Energy. Each year, as a whole. Our folks, all folks, needed quantify the countless hours community AASA, under the Michigan Department to see and witness the impact of positive leaders like Cornelius commit to our of Health and Human Services, grants affirmation that extends from our LGBT work. This award is a special opportunity the Senior Citizen of the Year Award to and now Q community. I hope this award, for SAGE and other community members someone 60 years or older for outstanding along with the other people who have to say thank you, Cornelius, for all you volunteerism and contributions to their received it, will continue to inspire people do.” local community. my age to get involved and be living proof SAGE Metro Detroit was established in Wilson was nominated by SAGE that activism is ageless.” 2015 after five years as the LGBT Older Metro Detroit for the award because of In addition to his involvement in Adult Coalition. They are dedicated to, his activism on behalf of LGBT older advocating for LGBT rights and social “Building awareness and promoting adults, community leadership and years of work in metro Detroit, Wilson plays a change so that lesbian, gay, bisexual and dedicated service in HIV/AIDS education significant role in galvanizing community transgender (LGBT) older adults may age and prevention. engagement through events. He chairs with dignity and authenticity.” “It is a distinct honor to be recognized the annual Hotter Than July festival in SAGE Metro primarily serves Macomb, by this award, and I share that recognition Detroit, the second oldest Black LGBT Oakland, Washtenaw and Wayne counties with the countless LGBT activists and pride event in the world, and serves in southeast Michigan but have worked allies who have laid the groundwork as SAGE Metro Detroit’s treasurer, with LGBT communities, caregivers, before me,” said Wilson, who works as programming chair, finance committee service providers and allies throughout a housing case manager at the Detroit chair and chair of the annual LGBT Older Michigan. Health Department and H.A.P.I Housing Adult Summit held each June, now in its Holland’s Out On The Lakeshore LGBTQ Center Celebrates First Year

BY BTL STAFF Because of its expanding programs and services, it moved from the north end p.m. every Thursday. Among some of Out On The Lakeshore will celebrate of the building at 451 Columbia Ave., to a the programs hosted by the center have the one-year anniversary of its community larger space at the south end in February. been a focus group on homeless youth, center located at 451 Columbia Ave., “Some of what’s happening is we’re area schools’ Gay/Straight Alliance with an open house from 6 to 8 p.m. on becoming more a resource to the events, pop-up hours the second Monday Thursday, May 31. community than we originally thought of every month by Michigan Equality’s The OOTL Community Center opened we would be,” noted the Rev. Jen Adams, Department of Victim Services and a last May to provide a place for LGBTQ an OOTL board member. “Just our Gender SAFE support group. residents and their allies to meet and existing has brought people to us that I Refreshments will be served at the free Open feel safe. It has provided numerous didn’t think would be connecting with House. For more information contact Jim educational and training programs as us. It’s grown in ways we didn’t expect.” Larkin at 616-610-9891, or go online to well as providing programs and outreach The center is open to the public from outonthelakeshore.org. for youth. 5 to 7 p.m. every Tuesday and 3 to 6

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