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Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays August 2012 Newsletter #22 www.torontopflag.org office@pflagtoronto. org TORONTO PFLAG VISION Next Support Meeting Toronto PFLAG is a charitable organization that speaks for a more accepting Canadian society by providing Wed nesday support, education and resources to all people who wish September 5, 2 012 to grow in their understanding of sexual and gender 7:30 p.m. diversity. Toronto PFLAG actively assists in the recognition and Kimbourne Park growth of gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, United Church transsexual, two-spirit, intersex, queer and questioning persons, and their families and friends, within their 200 Wolverleigh Blvd., diverse cultures and societies. Toronto, ON M4C 1S2 PRIDE 2012 Pogue Mahone’s 2012 Eskander’s lyrics call for violence against children, hatred towards A message from your President the gay community, and one specifically calls for violence against August 28, 2012 children to prevent them from becoming effeminate. Eskander’s lyrics contravene the Canadian Charter of Rights and Freedoms, the World Pride 2012 and 2014 Quebec Charter of Human Rights and Freedoms, and the Ontario This year’s Toronto Pride which was hugely successful. Everyone at Human Rights Code. Pride Toronto did a wonderful job and when most of us took a break after the festivities were over, the Toronto team from World In the past we have stopped homophobic performers by contacting Pride 2014 headed to London, U.K. the Venues and Organizers. Contact info is: PlaceVertu, Montreal [email protected] The Toronto team including Kevin Beaulieu, Peter McHugh, El Mazaj Restaurant, [email protected] Mr. Elie Abou Assi Carolynn Gludish, Jeremy Lachance, Daniel Garcia and the Co-Chairs of Pride Toronto Francisco Alvarez and Luka Amona, ensured Toronto’s presence at World Pride in London, U.K. Francisco and United Church Luka kindly provided this update for our newsletter. The United Church of Canada made history by appointing an openly gay man as Moderator. There was a good turnout at the Canada House Reception hosted by Rev. Gary Patterson is married to Tim Stevenson, and said “I see the the Deputy High Commissioner, Claude Boucher. possibility for so many young people who may still be struggling with their orientation being able to look up and see role models.” Proud FM's Mike Chalut Hosted World Pride in Trafalgar Square where At PFLAG we know how important it is to have positive role models for the World Pride Stage was located and drew in 15,000 participants our youth, and this appointment is affirming as well as ground- inside the main square and thousands more around the perimeter. breaking. Both Corey Hart and Debra Cox were very well received, and Corey performed right after Boy George and before the official handover to Toronto Sun article on Transgender Person rd the Toronto Pride team, and Debra closed the show! An August 23 article by Tom Godfrey, Toronto Sun entitled Transgendered Man in Uxbridge fears deportation to Brazil , was The Pride Toronto team joined with Tourism Ontario and other partners based on the struggle of Silvani Marques, living in Canada since 2007 in other activities and events including: World Pride Human Rights and now facing deportation to Brazil. Conference, the World Pride Gala, and various Media and other receptions. The article has lots of information, that Silvani speaks 4 languages, is an engineer and has a Masters Degree from Brazil, has been taking From their experiences in London Kevin, Francisco, Luka and the hormone treatments and dresses as a woman, and throughout the Toronto team members gained a lot of knowledge that will serve article the writer uses the male pronoun when referring to Silvani. them well in their planning for 2014. Stories in the Media this month continue to reflect that no matter how There has been comparison made about articles just months ago many positive steps forward we take towards equality, there is still relating to Jenna Talackova who participated in the Miss Universe much work to be done, and the following articles illustrate the gap contest. The press almost unfailingly referred to Jenna as she. which still exists. Perhaps a Lunch and Learn Information Session at the Toronto Sun is in No Pride till 2112 I, like many others, was shocked this month to order? learn that Russian authorities banned gay pride parades in Moscow for the next one hundred years! I thought I misunderstood the St. Francis of Millbrook newscaster when I first heard it. Sadly it was true. A top court ruled to Last week we saw a performance of this play by Sky Gilbert, at 4 th Line uphold a ban on Pride marches in Moscow for the next 100 years . Theatre. The play is about growing up gay in rural Ontario, and it is Needless to say this has been a rallying cry throughout Europe and sensational. The six of us who saw it are still talking about it. across the world and this past weekend in the U.K., one of Russia’s leading LGBT activists Polina Svachenko attended Manchester Pride. Luke, the play's main character, struggles with locker room issues and reactions to his emerging sexual identity; add in family Polina, one of the directors of Coming Out, a St Petersburg-based LGBT dynamics, some closed minds, a touch of homophobia and ….. group that provides vital support to gay people in the city and lobbies for LGBT rights, shared her experiences of living in St Petersburg. During this last week of performances (the play ends Sept. 1 st ) Millbrook's outdoor theatre invites the audience to don hockey Egale Canada brought to our attention that Mhamed Eskandar, a jerseys to support equality in sports, and they’ll give a free Pepsi to well-known homophobic Lebanese artist is scheduled to perform everyone sporting hockey shirts for Aug. 27 - Sept. 1 performances in Montreal on Sept. 1 st , and Ottawa on Sept. 2 nd to support the 'You Can Play' initiative, which aims to foster equality, respect and safety for all athletes, regardless of sexual orientation. Enjoy the last days of summer, Irene Friends for Life Bike Rally 2012 On Monday, July 30 th , Toronto PFLAG was out cheering on the riders as they approached Brighton on Day #2, the longest day of the ride to Montreal. Those of us lining the route get a huge thrill when the riders wave as they pass by! This is our 4 th year doing this and we are encouraging PFLAGers who live near the route between Toronto and Montreal to show their support next year, and cheer on the riders – they really do appreciate our support! One of the riders who stopped for a hug is a Toronto PFLAG supporter, Anil from BMO, and Stephen, a volunteer on a support vehicle who befriended us last year. The riders who smiled and waved to us made our day! Well done to all who rode! OACAS – Ontario Association of Children’s Aid Societies YouthCAN Conference 2012 August 14, 2012 Toronto PFLAG attended the second day of this year’s conference at Seneca College where Shane Hebel and Irene Miller presented a workshop and ran an information booth at their Poster Fair. The opportunity to meet and speak with hundreds of youth in care and their caregivers from across Ontario was much appreciated by us, and our workshop participants were fully engaged and enthusiastic in their participation. PFLAG Families Greeting PFLAG Families It is always a pleasure to meet with PFLAGers from other parts of Canada, the U.S. and the U.K. (FFLAG), particularly when previous communication has been by correspondence or telephone. In August Gary and Irene enjoyed a visit with Tana and Gary Hendricks from PFLAG Vancouver, who were in Toronto visiting their son Bryn Hendricks, Toronto PFLAG Board of Director. Recently having participated in Vancouver Pride on August 5 th , Tana brought us up-to-date on PFLAG Vancouver news. The group spent a morning at the ROM and enjoyed lunch in Yorkville. Gary Miller, C.A., a graduate of Touche, Ross attended the Breakfast Panel meeting on which Irene Miller joined panelists shown L-R, Jackie Perri, National Chair, Deloitte’s LEAD & Allies People Network; Irene; Brent Chamberlain, E.D. Pride at Work; Ron Puccini Sr. Manager of Corporate Diversity TD Bank Group; Kenneth Fredeen General Counsel and Secretary to the Board at Deloitte & Touche LLP; and Michael Lowndes Sr. Analyst in Business Information Services. The Panelists were speaking on the Importance of Allies in the workplace, and it was encouraging to see so many allies Brent Chamberlain, Ron Puccini, Kenneth Fredeen, Irene, present at this Breakfast Event. Jackie Perri, and Heino Dossing, Deloitte & Touche LLP Two Restaurants have shown additional support for Toronto PFLAG this summer Both 417 and Smith were Sponsors for Proud FM’s CLIMAX event in May this year at which they provided food for our guests, and both went one step further and made financial donations to Toronto PFLAG. We are grateful for their generous support. SMITH RESTAURANT , 553 CHURCH ST, AWARENESS AND FUNDRAISER In recent weeks there have been a number of assaults in or near the Village, with some victims reporting that their attackers used homophobic slurs. Smith Restaurant spearheaded a Safety Campaign to alert community members to be aware when on the streets at night, along with a fundraising initiative whereby they are donating 10% of food bills to August 23 rd to Toronto PFLAG. Toronto PFLAG appreciates the support of Renda Abdo at Smith, and Crystal Lite at ProudFM for promoting this venture. Enjoying a summer evening at Smith are Rick, Gary, Irene, Marla, Vera and John.