Indy For the best years of your life

BENNER BROTHERS Careers Parallel Indy Sports Growth

Boomer Dating with Confidence

Local Artists Decorate Billboards

Hoosier Beer Sundays at 10:30 Tastes Evolving MAY/JUNE 2017 IndyBoomer.com www.whisperhearingcenters.com

Enjoy the race, but don’t forget your hearing protection! Indy’s #1 Seafood Market & Restaurant … with a new twist. We’ve added a Fresh Meat Shop featuring Beef, Pork & Chicken!

Did you know? At Caplinger’s Fresh Catch & Cuts, we are family owned and operated • One-third of permanent hearing loss is preventable with proper hearing loss prevention strategies. with over 125 years combined experience in the seafood business. • Repeated and lengthy exposure to loud sound will eventually produce a permanent hearing loss

How loud is too loud? • You have to raise your voice to be understood by someone standing nearby • The noise hurts your ears • You develop a buzzing or ringing sound in your ears after exposure to noise • You don’t hear as well until several hours after you are away from the noise

How do I prevent hearing loss? • Avoid prolonged exposure to loud or noisy environments Caplinger’s Fresh Catch & Cuts • Wear proper hearing protection devices 15009 Gray Road, Noblesville • (317) 218-3221 20% • Call WHISPER HEARING CENTERS at 317-819-4545 to schedule your hearing Monday thru Thursday 10am to 8pm evaluation. Our audiologists can determine if a loss is present and recommend Friday & Saturday 10am to 9pm treatment and/or customized hearing protection to prevent loss later. Sunday Closed OFF any Fresh Seafood Carryout Caplinger’s Fresh Catch Seafood Market Not valid with any other offers. Avon Greenwood Indy – South Mooresville 317-217-2266 317-807-0727 317-865-2337 317-865-2337 7460 N. Shadeland Avenue • (317) 288-7263 Expires 7/31/17 1115 N. Ronald Reagan Pkwy, Ste 255 2020 S. SR 135, Suite 333 5255 E. Stop 11 Road, Suite 405 1001 Hadley Road, Suite 140 Tuesday thru Thursday 10am to 8pm Avon, IN 46123 Greenwood, IN 46143 Indianapolis, IN 46237 Mooresville, Indiana 46158 Friday & Saturday 10am to 9pm Carmel Indy – Downtown Kokomo Noblesville 317-819-4545 317-962-5690 765-455-3857 317-674-0183 Sunday & Monday Closed 15% 11725 Illinois Street, Suite 447 1801 N. Senate Bloulevard, Suite 548 2350B S. Dixon Road, Suite 415 18051 River Avenue, Suite 104 Carmel, IN 46032 Indianapolis, IN 46202 Kokomo, IN 46902 Noblesville, IN 46062 OUR NEWEST LOCATION Greencastle Indy – Nora Martinsville Shelbyville OFF 6685 Whitestown Pkwy, Zionsville 765-658-2713 317-819-4546 317-865-2337 317-421-1868, ext. 4284 Lunch/Dinner Entrée or Sandwich 1542 S. Bloomington Street 1070 E. 86th Street, Suite 72C 2200 John R. Wooden Dr., Suite 205 2451 Intelliplex Drive, Suite 250 Tuesday thru Thursday 10am to 8pm Greencastle, IN 46135 Indianapolis, IN 46240 Martinsville, IN 4615 Shelbyville, IN 46176 Not valid with any other offers. Friday & Saturday 10am to 9pm Greenfield Indy – Northeast Expires 7/31/17 317-462-0580 317-621-2282 Sunday & Monday Closed 1 Memorial Square, Suite 230 8040 Clearvista Parkway, Suite 350 Greenfield, IN 46140 Indianapolis, IN 46256 ORDER ONLINE: www.caplingersfreshcatch.com Indy BOOMER For the best years of your life TABLE OF CONTENTS TOPICS FEATURES 8 HOUSING Three Seconds for Curb Appeal 16 BENNER BROTHERS 9 GARDENING Careers Parallel Indy Sports Growth Getting Down and Dirty By Terri Horvath 12 FITNESS Time to Train for that 5K

13 COOKING BBQ Party Time

15 TRAVEL What Lies Beneath

19 PETS Using Reinforcement and Rewards to Train Your Pet

20 HEALTH Treating Osteoarthritis and 7 High Art for 24 Reinventing Yourself – Rheumatiod Arthritis Those on the Go Taking the Leap By Christy Heitger-Ewing (second in a series) 21 APPEARANCE Liquid Facelift? By Brenda Johnson 11 Outdoor Fun for 22 LEGAL the Young and 28 Nervous about Easing the Burden and Not-so-Young Dating Again? Directing Your Own Medical Writers Intern By Amands Evans-Clark By Carol Juergensen Sheets Care and Treatment Audrey Coots Cassie Knudsen Copyright © May 2017 by MPM Indy Marketing, Inc. All rights reserved. Amanda Evans-Clark No part of this publication may 14 Destination Breweries: 29 Kickstart Your be reproduced, stored in a re- BOOMER Christy Heitger-Ewing Graphic Design trieval system, or transmitted in Daredevil and Taxman Wedding Planning BOOMER For the best years of your life For Boomers Helping Their Parents+ any form by any means, elec- A directory of facilities, services, products and advice available Terri Horvath Blue Heron for Boomers to help their parents navigate their later years tronic, mechanical, photocopy- Leading the Way ing, recording or otherwise, with- In this issue: Publisher Todd Outcalt Publications, LLC By Todd Outcalt + Exercise Program Benefits People with Parkinson’s Disease out the prior written permission of + Looking for Ways to Pay for Mom or Dad’s Nursing Home? Mary Pat McKee Carol Juergensen Sheets MPM Marketing, Inc. + Nursing Facility 101: When Is it Time to Consider Nursing Facility Care? Subscription Opinions expressed by contribu- Editor Contributors Information tors and advertisers are not nec- Cover photo courtesy Ann C. Smith Dr. Bill Beeson US mail – $12 to: essarily those of Indy BOOMER magazine. Although care is Frank McGrath Shannon Cagle Indy BOOMER taken to see that errors do not PULL-OUT This Special Section occur, Indy BOOMER magazine to Read & Save Advertising Sales Carol Dixon 8918 Squire Court disclaims all legal responsibility MAY / JUNE 2017 [email protected] Steve Hadley Brenda Johnson Indianapolis, IN 46250 for errors and omissions or typo- Kristi Lee IndyBoomer.com 317-440-9376 graphical errors. Use of articles, Jamie James Helena Lil artwork, and photography is prohibited unless arrangements COMING IN JULY... Julie Patterson BOOMER+ Herb Olshever Julie Patterson Contact Us [email protected] have been made with MPM Mar- Women of Indianapolis Radio: Pull Out Section Patrick Pickett Patty Spitler keting, Inc. Terri Stacy MEET THE STAFF317-440-9376 for Boomers helping parents 4 Indy BOOMER May/June 2017 May/June 2017 Indy BOOMER 5 Got Aches and Pains? High Art for Those on the Go you have a fraction of a second to billboard was very dramatic. “The take in what you saw,” says Muney billboard advertising company did Humor Helps! Moore, also noting that many Indy a fantastic job with the print. The drivers have regular driving habits, color and clarity are outstanding,” resulting in repeated viewings. “A said Allee. “It looks especially good Recently I was sitting with some friends “I may have put on weight; just more to passerby may see a piece they like, lit up at night.” of mine, a gathering of lunch folks. We’re love.” so they’ll begin to look forward to Douglas David’s oil on canvas all former work buddies, and all about the “Insomnia is just nature’s way of telling seeing it again, perhaps picking up “Curious Cows” was another one something different the next time of this year’s selected pieces. A same age … Baby Boomers. I was prepared me I need less beauty sleep!” Indianapolis artist Mike Allee is shown for a sentimental yet uplifting get-together. Now there are major health conditions with his featured photography titled they drive by.” painter who sells landscapes, sea- I was ready for fun! But and life-threatening “40 Below.” The work of these artists is pri- scapes, floral and still lifes, David rather than talk about illnesses, and I would marily shown in galleries. The says that most everyone relates to current items in the never suggest those are “Hey, that’s different.” art somehow. news or future aspira- trivial or the material of “Wow, that’s cool.” “Art is everywhere,” he said. tions in our dreams, we jokes. But I will say that “Woah, that’s art!” “And color and design take dwelled on … our declin- a smile really can help If you’ve driven around people to a better place.” ing health. … you and your friends Indianapolis in recent years, Allee agrees. “I believe art is Ohhhh noooo. … when the going gets chances are you’ve encoun- a form of food. It’s something Egads! tough. tered the initiative conceived people need.” Stop the madness! As My mother had a by the Arts Council of India- Open artist submissions a kid, I remember my wicked sense of humor napolis, in partnership with for the next round of High mom and dad talking and was a tough old Fairway Outdoor Advertising, Art will be posted on the art Patty’s Page Patty’s to their friends and the gal (and I say that with which gives area artists the council’s website in June. To topics always seemed to love), and she’d scold opportunity to showcase their view artwork and billboard pivot back to aches and me when I was a kid work on print and digital locations, visit: indyarts.org/ pains. I swore I would and tell me, “Don’t cry billboards. highart. n never be like that. But now, it’s gonna hurt a High Art, now in its fourth Don Fitzpatrick, a local artist, gives a thumbs-up … seems I spoke too Patty and her mom, Hope lot more later.” So I’d do year, takes 10 works of art by to the billboard showing his digital photograph Photos courtesy Arts Council soon. my best to keep it in. Indiana artists, prints them in dreamscape titled “The Empty Chair.” of Indianapolis Spitler, who told Patty that a billboard format, and places So, there ya go, Boom- “Growing old isn’t for sissies!” In her later years, she ers. We’ve become our often said “Growing old them, on a rotating basis, around billboards provide a way to let a parents. isn’t for sissies.” I guess the city, through August 2017. greater majority of the public view I realize we ALL have some sort of medi- we’ve finally reached an age when we real- The selections came from a pool the art. cal issue and often it’s reassuring to have ize our moms were right! of several hundred submissions “Placing art outside takes away one of our contemporaries comfort us, but So SMILE, before you lose all your teeth! — works representing all differ- the fear factor of walking into a it can become a quagmire of complaints. HA! See what I did there? ent mediums, including drawings, gallery and not knowing what to do Oh, and then there’s “one-upmanship:” Now enjoy your new edition of Indy paintings, photography, charcoal or say,” says Muney Moore. “With “My knee hurts so badly I’m afraid to BOOMER magazine! and ceramic. a billboard, you just get to see it, walk down stairs anymore.” “We wanted to show the diversity enjoy it, and move on.” of the artists, who are all differ- Muney Moore says that because “You think that’s bad, my back is so out of Patty line, I can’t bend over to tie my shoes.” ent ages working in all different the vast majority of billboards are “Forgetaboutit! I’ve got it worse. I’m get- media,” says Julia Muney Moore, advertisements, folks are surprised ting ready to buy a wheelchair and I may To see more of Patty and great stories on director of public Art for the Arts when they realize that these bill- Council of Indianapolis. Muney boards exist purely for enjoyment. Local artist Mirvia Rivera Eckert stands never walk again.” BOOMER TV, make sure to tune in every in front of her featured acrylic on com- Wow. Sunday at 10:30 a.m. on WISH TV … for Moore notes that when making “I hope that this project helps pressed wood board titled “Embrujada.” Yeah, it can get heavy and depressing. the best years of your life! their selections, the review commit- people look for moments of surprise Solution? tee had to consider the type of art in their environment in the same By Patty Spitler I think humor is the best way to combat that reads well on a large scale. The way these billboards took them by team also considered the amount of surprise,” says Muney Moore. Host/Producer of this relentless disease of doom and gloom. By Christy Heitger-Ewing time the driving public would have Mike Allee, a featured artist, said BOOMER TV “Yeah, my eyesight is going … which Freelance Writer makes you look a lot younger!” Sundays at 10:30 a.m. on WISH TV to assess the art. that seeing his photography titled “When you’re driving by in a car, “40 Below” displayed on a 48-foot 6 Indy BOOMER May/June 2017 May/June 2017 Indy BOOMER 7 GARDENING Three Seconds for Curb Appeal Getting Down

HOUSING and Dirty

It was about this time last I don’t enjoy working outdoors year that you and I made our in cold weather. This puts me acquaintance in these pages. So, behind on spring cleaning. Don’t how did gardening go for you be like me; a little prep work these past 12 months? Did you goes a long way. And a personal score the harvest you’d hoped tip from my landscaping friends: for? Were your blooms bounti- if you’re ordering mulch, the ful? Whatever the outcome, earlier the better. hopefully you had fun, because If you don’t love it, get rid of it. otherwise gardening can become Face it, all plants require some tedious with chores. As for me, I maintenance. Why spend your Photo courtesy Noll Landscape Group was happy with my early-season time on plants you don’t even lettuces but somewhat disap- like? Another personal tip: you pointed in my container flower can make new friends by giving “It takes three seconds to form the well as the inside of a house. “Keep branches that need to be hauled plantings. your plants away. first impression of a person,” says it simple and clean, like the look of away? Such details can create an I don’t do exactly the same beans as much as I like the le- Get some help. For many of us, Mind Tools, a business training re- a white T-shirt and a pair of jeans,” impression of neglect. thing in the garden every year. gumes themselves. And don’t get gardening is a very personal en- sources firm, the same time required says Mike Noll, Landscape Architect Much of what has been discussed What would be the fun in that? I me started on the gorgeous flowers deavor and we own our results. But to form an opinion of the front of a at the Noll Landscape Group. can be changed with a little “elbow revisit my favorites, of course, but of okra and – swoon – squash. shoveling mulch, trimming edges home. What is it on the outside that Flowers - Everyone can benefit grease.” Soap and water or paint and there’s always something out there Yes, it’s May and I’m really and hauling bags of soil can bring draws you to this home enough to from the pop of color that annual a paint brush will do wonders for I’d like to try – a new plant (or excited about the growing season. on aches that take the fun out of ask for an appointment to see the in- and perennial flowers bring to a front doors. Power washing can reju- five) or a new look. True, there are Maybe too much. Okay, probably planting or your bowling game. side? Is it the inviting front door, the front yard or porch. Sellers should venate retainer walls and driveways. the hummingbirds and butterflies too much. Ask at church or the book club shape of the windows, the walkway match flowers to the color of the Mailboxes can easily be washed with to think of, so nicotiana and red I had a really insightful conversa- meeting. Find an industrious kid or the beautiful flowers? Conversely, house and front door. Yellow pansies a household cleaner or be repaired or salvia are typically on the shopping tion with Dottie Wright of Dam- who takes direction well – that way is the driveway cracked, does the (spring), fuchsia and knockout roses replaced. list. I try to support my local 4-H mann’s Garden Center recently. you’ll both benefit. roof need repair, is the paint peel- (summer) are good choices for front Take a long look tomorrow when and FFA plant sales, which almost Dottie’s in charge of education I can’t wait to hear how your gar- ing or are the trees or shrubs over- yards. “Baskets are a very simple, you pull out of your driveway. Does always involve geraniums. And in there, and she gave me some great den turns out! n grown? immediate way to add color rather your front entrance look inviting and a nod to my grandmother, I try to tips on reining myself in that I Here are some tips on creating than planting,” says Mike. ready for guests? Make note of what pot up some moss roses and start figure we could all use. Dottie’s a To see video of Shannon Cagle’s excellent curb appeal for selling your Front Door - Front door colors can needs attention, go to work and you four o’clocks from seed. Do you Boomer, too, and has things she’d gardening tips on BOOMER TV, home from a Realtor and a land- provide character to a house. Done might receive the greatest compli- have a sentimental favorite or two? like to enjoy in addition to her visit IndyBoomer.com/TV. scape company. correctly, the contrast may be the ment on your curb appeal. You could Some folks enjoy a nice lawn, oth- landscape, fun things like grand- Color - Is the color of the house first thing you see when arriving at receive a note in your mailbox or ers the showiness of flowers and children and travel. neutral to attract more buyers, or is the house. Making a front door stand knock on your door wondering when still others like to grow their own So I share with you Dottie’s great it more personal to the seller (green out can eliminate the newer house you will be selling your home. n vegetables. I know several people tips: vinyl with pink trim and door)? A from looking the same as others. who mix all three. I’ll confess that Get ahead of the season. I’m By Shannon Cagle buyer must decide whether they “For older and perhaps tired homes, I like the blooms of my peas and always late off the mark because Contributing Writer can live with a more personal color, a freshly-painted door can make which may not appeal to many them look lively again,” suggests people. Melissa Vurpillat, a Realtor with By Deborah F. Persic Clutter - Are there too many flow- F.C. Tucker. Freelance Writer er pots or is the porch crowded with Trees & Shrubs - Do the trees furniture and outdoor decorations? or shrubs touch the house and are Clutter rules apply to the outside as they unclipped? Are there any dead

8 Indy BOOMER May/June 2017 May/June 2017 Indy BOOMER 9 Outdoor Fun Indy Honors War Heroes for the Young and Not-so-Young Energy and kids seem to go to- gether. Now, what to do with all of that fun-loving and bouncing around? Local parks may have the answer. “We have so much to offer at each of our parks, more than meets the eye. From art classes to concerts, there’s so much happening across the city,” said Marketing Coordina- tor Andrea Watts of Indy Parks and 9/11 Memorial Recreation. Veteran’s Memorial Plaza Garfield Park is a must-see, tucked in the historic neighbor- Soldiers and Sailors hood. It’s the city’s oldest city park, Did you know Indianapolis is only second to Washington D.C. in Monument and Memorial but there’s always something new the number of monuments and memorials commemorating veterans? to see. Whether you’re visiting the As summer rolls around, walking tours through the large number of sunken gardens for a concert or let- ting the kids or grandkids run free memorials and parks is a great activity for Boomers and their grand-rand Kids brave the climbs at the West Common on Pleasant Run Trail, it’s sure to Park at Central Park in Carmel. Photo children, and an educationial experience. There is no better way to be a family affair. And don’t forget courtesy Amanda Evans-Clark get into a patriotic spirit than visiting a memorial or park that pays trib- the new Garfield Park Famers Mar- ute to those brave men and women who served. ket on Saturday morning. find that stretches to the ceiling slides and even a splash pad open You can visit the Indiana War Memorial and Museum, which There are so many new things to and challenges kids to head up the for summer. houses a special military museum featuring relics and a complete list do near Greenwood’s historic down- lucky climber. You’ll find shelves There are separate areas for the town, you’ll want to give yourself lined with pretend food items that younger ones and older children can of all the Hoosiers who were either killed or missing in action through the whole afternoon to explore. make up a fully functioning play find even more adventure as they the Vietnam War. You can read about the story of the last U.S. ship to Just inside the doors of the Green- grocery store inside. pull themselves to the top of the sink in World War II, the USS Indianapolis, on the Central Canal. wood Community Center you’ll be “We wanted to reach out to young daring climbs. Continuing along the canal is a tribute to 9/11, featuring two beams amazed at the new Kid City indoor families, young kids — and we For our friends in Brownsburg, from the original World Trade Center. play space. knew Kid City was the answer to there’s one spot in town you’ll need You’ll first be met with a unique create something special here in to know when the temps start to Whether you want to attend an event at the Veteran’s Memorial Greenwood,” said Greenwood Parks rise and the kids need to cool down. Plaza, or take a walk down the canal, there are many ways you and Recreation Director Rob Tag- The Williams Park Watermill is can enjoy downtown Indy and honor our veterans this summer. gart. full of splash-pad fun for the whole Vietnam War Memorial Along the walking trail, you’ll family. Water sprays down from find “pocket parks,” small stations several different water features spaced out for the young and not- and you’ll be able to relax under a so-young to learn about different shade awning and watch the kids nature themes. From butterflies to get soaked. A space-themed play trees and bumble bees, the kids will area called Blast-off Park keeps the be having so much fun they won’t fun going, or you can explore one of even know they’re learning. the many nature trails that lead to Head north to West Commons more learning and play opportuni- Playground at Central Park in ties as you head down to White Lick Carmel to find a futuristic space- Creek. n A Greenwood station styled play area full of rope grandpa helps his USS Indianapolis Memorial grand-daughter courses and climbing challenges. checkout groceries You’ll bring home some tired kiddos By Amanda Evans-Clark Freelance Writer Text and Photos at the play store after they run the 25,000 square By Cassie Knudsen at Kid City. Photo feet of rubber surface full of coves, courtesy Amanda Indiana World War Memorial & Museum Magazine Intern 10 Indy BOOMER May/June 2017 Evans-Clark May/June 2017 Indy BOOMER 11 COOKING Time to Train for that 5K SPRING BURGER TWIST BBQ Ever hear of “couch to 5K?” in all shapes and sizes and ability Boston, but it didn’t happen over- 1 lb. ground chuck FITNESSCatchy name for a training plan levels. Do not be intimidated if it is night. I do know that those accom- 1/4 teaspoon salt Party that prepares you for a race that is on your bucket list. What is it they plishments happened after my first 1/4 teaspoon pepper 3.2 miles long. WHAT?! To put that always say? You only regret the 5K. Looking back, I didn’t know 1/2 yellow onion, cut into 1/2-inch slices into perspective, there are 35,000 things that you didn’t do something what to wear, I didn’t know what Olive oil Time people training right now to run or like that. to eat, I didn’t understand what a 6 slices cheese May and June are perfect for relax- walk the 500 Festival Mini long run or a negative split 6 buns ing. One of the best options for late Marathon on May 6 which is was. I didn’t know that 6 lettuce leaves spring is to organize a BBQ. If you 13.1 miles so ... a 5K? You’ve Body Glide is a real thing want to make your party special, first got this! that runners use to prevent 1 violet sliced onion 7 oz. sauerkraut of all, think about a place for it, such If you’ve ever considered chafing. You get the picture. 2 tomatoes, sliced 1 bunch dill as a park, a place near the water or a training for a 5K race, you All of these things and so 1 small jar pickle slices Tomato sauce campsite. If you are a homebody and need a plan. Most of them many more I hope you learn 1 small jar roasted peppers American mustard enjoy backyard parties, there is no will be 12 to 16 weeks long. this spring. need to drive or pack. You can get them online, in Here is a list of some local Combine ground beef, garlic powder, yellow onion, basil, salt and Let guests know what’s on the menu. books or in magazines. Some running clubs you might pepper in a large bowl. Mix well. Shape into 6 patties. Refrigerate Try a captivating menu on a chalk- you have to pay for. My per- want to join. One of these until grill is ready. board on the lawn. Consider buying sonal favorite type of training locations is near you. Heat gas grill to a medium-high temperature. fresh wildflowers and placing them in is with an actual local group. The Circle City Go Lightly sprinkle burger patties with salt and pepper and place on small white vases. Decorate your table Why? You get accountability Girls the grill for 3 to 5 minutes. with napkins, plates and ribbon table- and support. You also get a www.circlecitygirls.com Flip over and continue to grill for about 3 minutes. Baste the tops cloth. Choose green, blue and yellow proven plan with an actual (Women-only running/ with tomato sauce. Top each burger with a slice of cheese just before colors to please nearly everyone. coach who has experience walking club, downtown removing from grill (internal temperature should be 320 Fahrenheit). A delicious burger is definitely a training people to learn to Indy) Place lettuce, pickle slices, mustard, tomato slices on buns, top with must-have this season. Hot dogs, run. More information on lo- Indy Runners burgers, violet onion, sauerkraut and more tomato sauce. steaks or tacos are great, too. Start cal running clubs and group www.indyrunners.org Decorate with dill, roasted peppers and pickles. your party with simple canapés for training is below. Essential tools for success include (Co-ed running/walking group) you friends. Try such delicious spring Who is the ideal candidate to time, commitment and determina- Athletic Annex options as light sandwiches with become a runner? It is anyone that tion. Dragging a buddy along helps www.athleticannex.com turkey, cranberry jam and mozzarella doesn’t have a chronic injury or immensely. Don’t overthink it (Co-ed running/walking group) cheese, potato salad served in small serious health problem. If you are and psych yourself out before you Runners Forum CHOCOLATE FUDGY BROWNIE paper cups, shots of bloody Mary with in doubt, please consult with your even begin. Rather, attend a group www.runnersforum.com oysters or a platter of fresh veggies physician. New runners come in all class or download a plan and dive (Co-ed running/walking group) 3 eggs with hummus dip. Prepare two drinks shapes and sizes and ability levels. in! Carve out some workout time Blue Mile 1 cup cacao from a hibiscus syrup – add the syrup Actual running clubs are also made that works best for your schedule. www.bluemile.com 4 oz. melted butter to ice tea and just a few drops of it to up of men and women who come Mornings are great because you (Co-ed running/walking group) 1.6 fl. oz. milk your bubbly wine to make it nice and can’t get to the end of Endurance House 1 cup brown sugar exquisite. the day and whine that www.indianapolis.endurance- 1 teaspoons baking powder The most elegant course is the des- you are tired or have house.com sert, so let’s stay traditional. Everyone other commitments. (Co-ed running/walking group) 2 teaspoons vanilla sugar will love your simple chocolate fudgy Don’t let other people’s Carmel Runners 2.5 oz. small chocolate pieces brownie with vanilla ice cream on top. negativism influence www.carmelrunners.com 1 cup flour Try basil, lavender, mint or custard- YOUR DETERMINA- (Co-ed running/walking 3 tablespoons fresh orange zest (grated) style ice cream for extraordinary TION! group) n options to impress your guests. Your As your body starts to Preheat oven to 350 Fahrenheit. To see video of Julie Patterson’s party is going to be over the moon! build stamina and your Melt butter in a small saucepan over low heat. Bon appétit! brain builds confidence, fitness tips onBOOMER TV, visit Mix the melted butter with sugar, eggs, vanilla sugar, cacao, milk, Find more Helena ooh la la! You might IndyBoomer.com/TV. flour and chocolate pieces in a bowl. Then place the dough into a pan Recipes on loveinlions. see those legs and arms and bake for approximately 30 minutes. com/recipes. n take on a new “tone.” Cool on a cooling rack. I’ve run nine mara- By Julie Patterson Decorate with orange zest. By Helena Lil thons including three in Contributing Writer Contributing Writer

12 Indy BOOMER May/June 2017 May/June 2017 Indy BOOMER 13 Destination Breweries: TRAVEL Daredevil and Taxman Leading the Way What Lies Beneath years ago in a renovated hardware store/nuts and bolts factory, Nathan and Leah Huelsebusch have contin- What Lies ued to add clout and class to their brew pub, and the catchy names Beneath which carry on their former work as tax accountants. Daredevil owners and Brewmasters Brewmaster David Yancey, who (from left) Shane Pearson, Michael came from Austin, Texas, to create Pearson and Bill Ballinger. Photo courtesy Daredevil Brewery the impressive lineup of Taxman beers, and Executive Chef, Joe Ta- Daredevil Recommendations: bor, are working in tandem to cre- Lift-Off • English Harvest Ale • Dunkels Bock • Schwarzbier ate spectacular beer and fare that Marengo Cave includes gourmet burgers, salads, Taylor Romweber at the Daredevil tap. Photo courtesy Daredevil Brewery soups and other culinary delights. to see the cave from a boat. muddy if you do the waterfall crawl Statistics don’t lie. Over the past but we know we are producing some John Perkins, who has worked at You’ll find native blind cave or if you go beyond that, you’ll five years, breweries across the of the top craft beers at Daredevil.” Taxman for some years, notes that fish and blind cave crayfish discover some of Indiana’s largest state of Indiana have been prolifer- Indeed, Daredevil’s flagship beer Taxman has become a destination living in this dark world in the underground passages. ating at a rapid pace. — Lift Off — has won accolades for couples and families. “We’re waters of the Mystery River. The Indiana Cave Trail takes With over 140 establishments and awards, locally and nationally, very busy on the weekends,” he At Bluespring Caverns Park at least two days to conquer. Get now, Hoosier breweries are more and the name resonates well with said. “And we also get large Squire Boone Caverns near Bedford, you won’t want your passport at the first cave you plentiful than wineries, and tastes Hoosier racing fans. “Lift Off still parties.” to miss the view of Indiana’s visit and when you’ve been to all are evolving. Many, in fact, are accounts for about 90 percent of our And because business is brisk, Did you know you could venture largest sinkhole. You can hike the four caves, you can get your trail taking their cues from the larger, sales, and as a West Coast Style Taxman will soon be opening a under Indiana to discover a world half-mile trail around the sinkhole, T-shirt. more established breweries when India pale ale made from Pacific second brew pub at Fortville in the of caves and caverns? Southern discovering the surface effects of Exploring rare underground cave it comes to discovering what people Northwest American hops, it still northeast part of the Indy metro Indiana is home to some of nature’s the caverns formed below. life — that’s Honest-to-Goodness enjoy. area. “We get a lot of most amazing treasures. There are Squire Boone Caverns allows Indiana. n Daredevil Brewing in traffic because of our over 4,000 known caves, stretch- you to get up close to all kinds Speedway — conveniently Taxman Recommendations: location,” John noted. ing hundreds of miles beneath the of formations and see under- located on the beautifully Deduction • Hop Collector “We see folks from surface of the Hoosier state. ground streams. This cave Carmel to Blooming- Get your passport for Indiana is perfect for exploring the revamped Main Street — Exemption • Gold Standard is one of these leaders. As ton because we’re just Caverns, Bluespring Caverns, growing ecosystem below the the fourth largest produc- a few minutes off of Squire Boone Caverns and Maren- surface. Rushing streams and tion brewery in Indiana, Interstate 69. Mostly, go Cave, which make up the Indi- underground waterfalls carry Daredevil is producing people are recogniz- ana Cave Trail. Touring all four more than a million gallon high-quality beers of ing that we make will allow you to see how different of water through the caverns distinction and elegance. great Belgian beers caves really are. every day. While you’re visiting, Owner Shane Pearson, served with fine food.” Indiana Caverns in Harrison check out Boone’s Mill, an Indi- who operates Daredevil Hoosiers looking for County is Indiana’s longest cave. ana Historic Site. The mill was with his brother — the Bargerville’s Taxman Brewing Company. Photo courtesy Taxman Brewing brewery experiences It is known for its ice age bones restored in the early 1800s and Bluespring Caverns Company lead brewer — has noted within an easy drive of many different animals during still works today. It’s powered the growth of breweries across the holds a unique place in Indiana.” of Indianapolis should put Dare- the Ice Age. These caverns are also by the water flowing from the cav- Photos courtesy Visit Indiana state and the place that brewer- Patrons visiting the Daredevil tap devil and Taxman breweries at the versatile. You can take a walking erns, and there are demonstrations ies are occupying in commerce and room will certainly enjoy these top top of their list. Neither is far from tour, along with an underground throughout the day. To see video of this Travel segment community growth. beers and will also discover that the home — and both have a homey feel boat ride, and you can catch a Get transported to another world, on BOOMER TV, visit IndyBoomer. “We built this $3 million facility beautifully-renovated Main Street filled with Hoosier hospitality. n glimpse of a 35-foot waterfall. For like to Crystal Palace or Sherwood com/TV. on the Speedway Main Street when in Speedway is a gem unto itself. those seeking a little more adven- Forest. Marengo Cave is quite the the town began redevelopment and Further to the south, in Barg- ture, there’s a new deep-darkness natural attraction and also a na- By Amy Howell relocated the brewery here two ersville, Taxman Brewing Co. is tour, where you can experience the tional landmark. The caves here of- Director of Communications By Todd Outcalt Visit Indiana years ago from the south side of serving up Belgian-style beers that lower level of the cavern. fer large rooms and an abundance Freelance Writer [email protected] Indy,” Shane said. Indiana is still are gaining recognition throughout The underground river in of beautiful formations, great for 800-677-9800 growing in maturity as a beer state, central Indiana. Established three Bluespring Caverns will allow you a walking tour. You could also get @VisitIndiana

14 Indy BOOMER May/June 2017 May/June 2017 Indy BOOMER 15 PACERS HIGHLIGHTS COVER Lifelong Hoosiers Score on Pacers’ Court STORY In 1967, the Indianapolis Pacers was formed as part of American Bill and David Benner have regu- sports events, not to mention the Basketball Association. lar opportunities to cavort with the opportunities it has created for our Bobby “Slick” Leonard was the longest-serving coach from one “Boomer” who never ages. All youth.” 1968-80. three have highly visible roles with David also followed many of these the . events and worked as a sportswrit- The Indiana State Fair Coliseum was the team’s home court until Bill serves as Senior Vice Presi- er at the Star for 16 years, covering 1974, when the Pacers moved to downtown’s Market Square dent of Corporate, Community and the Pacers for eight of those years. Arena. Public Relations. His younger sib- He also witnessed the effect of In 1970, 1972 and 1973, the Pacers won ABA Championships. ling, David, handles the responsibil- sports on the city. ities of the team’s Media Relations “The Pacers’ impact of moving The Pacers became a member of the NBA in 1976 as a result of Director. Team mascot “Boomer” downtown to the ABA–NBA merger. adds to the entertainment efforts of was obviously huge,” said David. Retired Pacer numbers are: cheering on Pacers fans at basket- “It not only added a large venue to ball games. Each has a role to play. host events of national significance • #35, Roger Brown, first player to sign with fledgling ABA Yet the Benner brothers have been (the 1980 Final Four), but brought franchise (1967–74, 1975) involved with the Pacers for much people downtown for something • #34, (1968–74, 1988) longer than “Boomer.” other than work. I remember my Bill (left) and David Benner have had home court advantages in watching the Pacers grow. Each Benner cites an early love Photo courtesy Terri Horvath early days at the Star and, basi- • #30, George McGinnis (1971–75, 1980–82) of sports that has led him to his cally, there being a couple places current position. Their father was school, the father found a job for include covering NCAA Final Four to walk to eat. I also think when • #31, (1987–2005) particularly influential. him at the paper. Bill started in tournaments, Olympic games, and Indianapolis hosted the National • #529, Coach Bobby “Slick” Leonard (1968-80) “Dad was a passionate fan. I the sports department answering any major sporting event held in Sports Festival, it created a ‘Hey, remember I’d sit in front of the phones at night. During the day, he the city. we can do anything’ attitude that TV, watching games with Dad and attended the Indiana University ex- “The sports initiative that was led to the ability to go after events keeping score,” said Bill. He went tension campus. A few years later, birthed in the ‘70s resulted in giv- and conventions. on to play sports at Center Grove David started as a copy boy. “God ing Indianapolis a regional, na- “Sports brings people together. High School. David, bless nepotism,” tional and even inter- It’s a form of escapism, who describes him- David said. national image where and while one may not self as the “nerd” They discovered previously none existed always like what they of the two, served their career direc- other than as a one- say, but they are talk- as the basketball tion laid in sports- event town (the India- ing about you. Anytime team’s equipment writing. Each had to napolis 500),” said Bill. the city can be featured manager and wrote go through learning “It redefined and rein- in the media on a na- about sports for the their craft and writ- vigorated not only the tional level, it’s a plus.” school newspaper. ing some “bad copy,” city, but its citizens, His current job means Their father was according to David, instilling us with pride, helping the Pacers also responsible for before advancing on a spirit of volunteer- and the city gain that landing these native to the top tier of the ism and as a place that attention worldwide. Hoosiers jobs lead- Star’s sports depart- could not just dream, David came to the Pac- Five National Basketball Association Hall of Fame selections Although David (left) and Bill ing to their long- David (left) and Bill Benner’s ment. but make those dreams ers after the former played with the Pacers for multiple seasons: Reggie Miller love for sports started early in Benner don’t have much contact (1987-2005), Chris Mullin (1997–2000), Alex English (1978–80), time sports-writing Older brother Bill a reality. via their jobs with the Pacers, media director decided their lives and they credit their Mel Daniels (1968–74), and Roger Brown (1987–2005). careers. start as sportswriters to their fa- started first and “We took risks that they do enjoy spending some of to retire. He recom- The elder Ben- ther. Photo courtesy Bill Benner spent over 30 years have reaped rewards their free time together, particu- mended David to take “Boomer” first appeared in the fall of 1991, and hasn’t aged since. ner worked in the writing for the Star no one could have larly attending Dave Matthews his place. concerts. Photo courtesy Bill The team moved into the (once known specialty print shop of The India- and The Indianapolis News, cover- imagined. Where once Benner “I really thought that napolis Star. There, he managed a ing the Pacers, the Indiana Uni- there was only the I’d always be a sports- as Conseco Fieldhouse) in 1999. crew printing the extraneous items versity Hoosiers, and eventually Indy 500, there is now the NBA, writer and wasn’t sure that I was The team has nine division titles won in 1969, 1970, 1971, 1995, needed for the daily newspaper, like the Indianapolis Colts. Bill became the NFL, the NCAA, numerous right for or wanted the job,” said 1999, 2000, 2004, 2013 and 2014. the payment tags given to subscrib- a columnist in 1990, remaining in amateur sports associations and David. “I took my time trying to ers. After each son graduated high that role through 2001. Highlights regional, national and international decide. Then (general On December 14, 2015, the Pacers and St. Vincent officially broke ground on the new St. Vincent Center, a state-of-the-art training facility for the team.

16 Indy BOOMER May/June 2017 May/June 2017 Indy BOOMER 17 PETS BILL BENNER Using Reinforcement and Rewards Other highly visible roles include stints as Vice President of Communications for to Train Your Pet Indiana Sports Corporation, Director of DAVID BENNER Communications of Visit Indy, and Senior The best way to train your pet been reinforced because the stimu- He attended Indiana University after Associate Commissioner for Operations and is through the proper use of posi- lus was removed (the mail carrier graduating from Center Grove High School. Communication for the Horizon League. tive reinforcement and rewards leaving). Previously he wrote a weekly column for Prior to joining The Indianapolis Star as while simultaneously avoiding Negative reinforcement can also a sportswriter, he covered area sports for the Indianapolis Business Journal and punishment. The goal of training be used for training when a pull on newspapers south of Indianapolis. He served as an adjunct faculty member of the is to “learn” the proper task and/or a head halter or a spray of citro- Butler University department of journalism. considers himself “the best sportswriter in the family.” behavior. nella is terminated as soon as the Currently he hosts a weekly First, you must be able to get desirable behavior is observed. He lives in the Center Grove area with his Inside INdiana Sports segment on the pet to perform the desired Positive reinforcement is anything Inside INdiana Business TV show. wife and two dogs rescued from shelters. behavior reliably. Then, add a cue that is added that increases the David enjoys spending his spare time The Indiana Sportswriters and or command prior to the behavior, likelihood that a behavior will be with his wife and dogs, playing golf, and Sportscasters Association selected so that it can be initiated by the repeated. There is a positive re- Bill for its Hall of Fame in 2017. attending Dave Matthews concerts. command or cue alone. Of course, lationship between behavior and He enjoys downhill skiing and rewards can and should be given consequence. The more the pet attending live music concerts. for any behaviors that are desir- behaves a certain way, the more He and his wife have two children. able, not just those associated as positive reinforcement. Remov- consequence it receives and what The other “Boomer” (the one who is forever young) with commands. ing a stimulus to increase the it gets is good. This makes that shoots some hoops with David (left) and Bill Ben- manager) told me it’s time to ner. Photo courtesy Frank McGrath than 61-year-old David. Generally, the most difficult behavior is known as negative re- behavior increase. By discovering either jump or not.” “I love my work, but I can see aspect of training is to find tech- inforcement. A great deal of what a what type of reinforcement works The direct approach worked, while Bill has a somewhat harder retirement coming,” said Bill. niques that immediately get the pet learns can be through negative best for your pet, you can pick up and David took the position. Out- edge. However, said Bill, “age He added he relishes the idea of desired response after each com- reinforcement. For example, when a consistent routine and soon you side of the first three months on the provides some perspective, and I’m spending more time with grandchil- mand. Increasing a behavior by a dog barks at an intruder (such will be on your way to perfect job when he questioned his decision, working on mellowing out.” dren living in Colorado and travel- giving something positive is known as a mail carrier), the barking has discipline. n David hasn’t regretted his choice. The mutual admiration may have ing to some of those “bucket-list” Bill also talks about “loving his always existed, but like all most places. Retirement is further away job.” siblings, they had their moments of for David, who indicates he’s happy Caring for your pets the way we care for our own “When Bill was considered for (his tormenting each other, particularly with the job and his coworkers. current job), management asked me in their youth. They said they have enjoyed work- what I thought,” said David. “I told “I had my older brother, Larry, ing through their boomer years and Find a VCA Hospital nearest you! them I thought he’d be good at it.” picking on me, and then I’d pick feel their lessons learned may help VCA has nearby locations to provide vaccinations and other preventive care for your pet. The praise from the younger on David,” Bill admits. Emphasiz- others. VCA Companion Animal Medical Center VCA Sugar Grove Animal Hospital VCA Stoney Creek Animal Hospital sibling is reciprocated. When asked ing the point, David tells about the The advice that Bill wants to im- 1455 S. Rangeline Road 5043 Bancroft Lane 14660 Herriman Blvd., Suite 800 Carmel, IN Greenwood, IN Noblesville, IN to describe David, Bill uses such time that Bill taught him to water part seems to reflect a key element 317-844-0049 317-889-0500 317-770-0399 24 Hour ER adjectives as “clever, hardworking, ski. David compared Bill to former in his success. “Keep getting after VCA Beech Grove Animal Hospital VCA Animal Hospital of Plainfield VCA Village Park Animal Hospital 4902 S. Emerson Avenue 2324 E Main St. and loyal — an all- Indiana University it,” he said.”Remain active and 15018 Greyhound Court Indianapolis, IN Plainfield, IN around good guy.” basketball coach Bob energized.” His next goal? “To be Carmel, IN 317-782-9120 317-839-8154 317-848-1898 VCA Shadeland Animal Hospital VCA Eagle Park Animal Hospital David answers Knight — “tough, the oldest guy at a Dave Matthews VCA Advanced Veterinary Care Center 4445 N. Shadeland Avenue 1008 West Oak St. that Bill “is the per- and cursed a lot.” concert.” 7712 Crosspoint Commons Indianapolis, IN Zionsville, IN Fishers, IN 317-547-9697 317-873-4679 son I always wanted Now as adults, they David’s advice reflects his overall 317-578-4100 VCA Swengel Animal Hospital to be. I hate to feed not only work for the personality. “I like to laugh and VCA Advanced Veterinary Care Center 6950 South East Street 7712 Crosspoint Commons Indianapolis, IN his ego, but every- same team, they at- have fun, so I advise that you don’t Fishers, IN 317-786-7923 317-578-4100 one has respect for tend Dave Matthews take everything seriously. Remem- 24 Hour ER and Speciality VCA West 86th St. Animal Hospital 4030 W. 86th Street him.” concerts together. ber, every day is a blessing.” n VCA Cross Pointe Animal Hospital Indianapolis, IN 9790 Lantern Road 317-872-0200 They agree on Retirement isn’t in Fishers, IN 317-841-3403 VCA Lafayette Animal Hospital some major dif- the immediate future 3532 South Street ferences between for either other. At Lafayette, IN By Terri Horvath 765-447-0521 themselves. For age 68, Bill tends Freelance Writer example, David As a young sportswriter during to think about the the 1980s, Bill Benner witnessed is more laid-back, major shifts in the city, partially possibilities more Ask Us About Our VCA CareClub® Wellness Plans* With Easy Monthly Payments due to the growth of sports. Photo *VCA CareClub® Wellness Plans are preventive pet healthcare plans and are not insurance plans. VCA CareClub® Wellness Plans do not cover any services which are not specifically identified in the VCA CareClub® Wellness Plan purchased. © 2016 VCA Inc., VCA CareClub is a registered trademark of VCA Inc.VCA CareClub® courtesy Bill Benner 18 Indy BOOMER May/June 2017 May/June 2017 Indy BOOMER 19 APPEARANCE Treating Osteoarthritis Liquid Facelift?

HEALTH and Rheumatoid Arthritis

Dermal fillers may not be a re- when fatty tissue and bone struc- Permanent Fillers - Permanent ––––––––––––––––– placement for facelifts, but many ture are lost with aging, disease fillers are composed of micro-beads people are finding them to be an or injury. Some semi-permanent suspended in collagen. The micro- Feeling any joint pain, stiffness joints limber and balance/agility reduce pain and swelling. Reducing attractive option to dealing with fillers stimulate a buildup of col- beads act as a foreign body and after sitting a long time, difficulty exercises help maintain daily living stress may be challenging but vital early aging changes without the ex- lagen in the dermis to thicken the stimulate collagen to form around climbing stairs or doing activities skills. Heat/cold therapy, massage, to pain-reduction. People with RA, pense or “downtime” of surgery. In skin and add volume to the face. the microscopic particles so that that require fine motor skills with nerve stimulation and nutritional especially if taking corticosteroids, fact, dermal fillers are the second Usually 3-5 injections spaced at as the collagen is absorbed by the the fingers? These symptoms could supplements may be additional are at increased risk of developing most common non-surgical proce- 4-12 week intervals are required to body, the spaces are placed in part be a sign of arthritis, the term for options. osteoporosis and should discuss dure, with more than 2.4 million obtain the best results. Effects usu- by our body’s own collagen. The joint pain or joint disease. Accord- Rheumatoid arthritis (RA) is prevention methods with their doc- performed in 2016. ally last two years or longer. drawback to permanent fillers is ing to the Arthritis Foundation, an autoimmune disorder, which tor. Most of the dermal fillers are Other semi-permanent fillers are that a skin test is required before there are more than 100 different means the immune system at- If you have arthritis, there are mixed with local anesthetic which made from a mineral similar to treatment to ensure you are not types of arthritis and related condi- tacks — rather than protects — several possible comorbidities to helps reduce the discomfort of the that found in our bones. It is mixed allergic to this collagen product. tions. Visit their website, arthritis. joint tissue, causing inflammation, understand. These include diabetes injection. Ice and topical anesthetic with a gel which helps to plump up Permanent fillers can cause de- org, to learn more about gout, swelling, warmth and redness. (a lack of insulin may cause joint creams can further lessen the mild tissues and reduce wrinkling. As layed allergic reactions that may chronic fatigue syndrome, fibromy- damage), heart disease (over 50 discomfort associated with injec- the gel is absorbed by our body, the occur 3-5 years following treat- algia, inflammatory bowel percent of premature deaths in tions, which are commonly done as minerals are left behind and stimu- ment. Because of this risk, they are disease, osteoporosis people with RA are caused office procedures in less than an late collagen to fill the spaces be- not used frequently as temporary and the many other by cardiovascular dis- hour. tween the particles. This filler was or semi-permanent fillers. n forms of arthritis. ease, and those with As we age, the natural volume of used to augment the cheek area This article will fo- OA also are at greater a youthful face diminishes. Ultra- and to treat deep folds. Results cus on osteoarthri- risk.), eye conditions violet rays from the sun and other tend to last one year or longer. tis and rheumatoid (inflammation can environmental exposure factors can To see video of Dr. William Beeson’s arthritis. damage eye tissue and cause collagen in our skin to break tips on BOOMER TV, visit Osteoarthritis the cornea), hearing down. This results in wrinkles and IndyBoomer.com/TV. (OA), also known loss, insomnia, gum folds developing in our skin and as degenerative disease, kidney disease the reduced volume results joint disease, is and skin conditions. in drooping and sagging of the most common Having type 1 diabetes, facial tissues. chronic condition of the also an autoimmune disease, Temporary Fillers - Most joints. Joint cartilage breaks may increase the chance of RA. of the temporary dermal fillers down causing swelling, pain and The Arthritis Foundation offers are composed of one of the problems moving the joint. The Pain may be of varying degrees but an array of educational programs natural components of the most commonly affected joints are when RA flares, the pain can be throughout Indiana for all ages and dermal or support layer of at the ends of the fingers, thumbs, excruciating. For some, RA may be types of arthritis. The organiza- our skin. It attracts water neck, lower back, knees and hips. active most of the time, leading to tion advocates for government and and helps to plump up areas At first you may notice achy joints serious joint damage and disabil- private sector action to improve the and decrease facial wrinkling after physical activity or stiffness ity. Unfortunately, the effects are lives of everyone living with the and lines. These fillers are after being in one position for a not only physical. Depression, anxi- disease. Their Indianapolis office commonly used to treat smile long time or when waking up in ety, feelings of helplessness and is located at 615 N. Alabama St. lines, the prominent skin folds the morning. Later, the pain may low self-esteem are common. The Call them at 317-879-0321 or visit that run from each side of become more persistent. OA may cause of RA is not known, but some arthritis.org to find local programs the nose to the corners of the be treated with exercise, weight risk factors are genetics, environ- and resources for help. n mouth, and drooping corners of control, alternative therapies, mental issues (something triggers the mouth, and help add volume medications, or surgery in severe the disease process) and hormones. to the lips. The results usually last cases. It sounds counterintuitive Treatment options include practic- six months to one year or longer. to exercise when your joints hurt, ing good lifestyle habits, medica- By Carol Dixon Semi-permanent Fillers - Semi- but the activity strengthens the tions or surgery. A good balance Regional Director American Diabetes Assoc. permanent fillers stimulate By William Beeson, MD supportive muscles in the joints. of rest and exercise is necessary. 317-352-9226 collagen. They are used to 317-846-0846 Range-of-motion activities keep Joint care by wearing splints may [email protected] add volume to the face www.Beeson.com

20 Indy BOOMER May/June 2017 May/June 2017 Indy BOOMER 21 BOOMERS@WORK Easing the Burden Reinventing Yourself – LEGAL and Directing Your Own Taking the Leap Medical Care and Treatment Leaving corporate life to become connect his marketing strategies to Taylor said. “I feel like I am part of an entrepreneur is a dream for his revenue stream. “As a business a bigger team. I have coaches that many people. Geneva Taylor and owner, I have to focus on return on are also owners who invest hours A recent injury that did not heal are either unable to speak or are do not wish to be resuscitated. Dave Meeker took different paths investment (ROI) to be successful,” weekly with me and with other fast or easily has reminded me of not mentally competent to make Physician Orders for Scope reinventing their careers to pur- explained Meeker. Central Indiana new owners we keep each other ac- the importance of the ability to choices. of Treatment (POST) – This is a sue business ownership, and both offers many resources for entre- countable.” direct our own health care. Every Indiana has a variety of forms of doctor’s order for individuals with turned the dream into reality. preneurs and innovators including Hard Work - Meeker admits that visit to the doctor includes one or Advance Directives, including the advanced chronic progressive ill- They had three success strategies SCORE Indianapolis, Launch Fish- being his own boss keeps him busy, more decisions about care. Some- ones summarized below: ness, frailty, or where death will in common: networking, lever- ers, Launch Indy, the Venture Club “I have to anticipate my custom- times the decisions are routine, Living Will – You may desig- occur in a short period of time. The aging their corporate skills and of Indiana and the Indiana Small ers’ needs; ensure that I’m exceed- such as making the next appoint- nate your wishes concerning life- order reflects your wishes on CPR, hard work. A recent ing their expectations ment or agreeing to get more prolonging procedures and feeding comfort measures, antibiotics, feed- Kauffman Founda- and focus on ROI.” The exercise. Sometimes they involve tubes in the event you are diag- ing tubes, etc. tion report explained, advice he shares with discussions of the benefit and risks nosed to be terminal or in a per- Organ and Tissue Donation “Americans are get- potential entrepreneurs associated with a recommended sistent vegetative state. You may – Donation wishes may be made ting older and work- is to “never give up.” course of treatment or new medica- choose yes to one or both, or no to known in writing in a variety ing longer. Some of He described working tion. After the discussion, you de- both. of forms. The most common is a their work later in two years to win the cide whether or not to undergo the Health Care Representative driver’s license. life is self-employ- business of a client. procedure or try the medication. Declaration – This is a declara- Additional information on one ment.” Taylor balances her Age, illness, injury or disease all tion designating an individual to or more of the options is available If you are thinking recruiting business are factors that can interfere with receive healthcare information and by consulting with an attorney. about entrepreneur- with teaching a sup- our ability to make healthcare make healthcare decisions for you The Indiana State Department of ship, consider these 3 ply chain course at the decisions. Even “routine” surgeries if you are unable to do so. Health also publishes helpful read- winning strategies: University of India- carry risks that can leave you tem- Powers of Attorney – These ing material on Advance Directives Networking - Tay- napolis and serving as porarily unable to make healthcare grant another person authority to which you can find online. Making lor started asking president of the insti- decisions. Advance directives are a act for you in financial matters, your own choices and communicat- people about busi- tute of supply manage- way to provide future instructions healthcare matters, or both. ing them eases the burden later on ness ownership years ment-Indianapolis. She for your healthcare choices. They Out of Hospital Do Not Resus- your family. before starting her credits the franchise do not take away your right to citate Declaration and Order – For many of us, the ability to company. Tellis Ex- coach with helping decide your health care while you If a physician has certified that you direct our own health care is ecutive Search is a recruiting firm Business Development Center. her discover a business she would can. They are to be used when you have a terminal condition or other vitally important. For others, it specializing in supply-chain profes- Leveraging Transferable enjoy working hard to grow. “I am specific qualifying conditions, you is important not to burden fam- sionals and part of the MRINet- Skills - Both Taylor and Meeker positive the recruiting business may execute a declaration that you ily with your healthcare decisions. work. “I started doing research on are using skills from their corpo- is the right choice for me, and I’m In either case, consider one of the potential options with a franchise rate careers as business owners. looking forward to what the future variety of available forms of ad- coach about a year before I left my Bringing Technology to You LLC, holds,” said Taylor. n vance directives. Also, be certain last corporate job,” she said. Meeker’s business, has several rev- to communicate your decisions to Meeker collaborated internally enue streams in addition to health- This is Part Two of a three-part your family. n during his 30+ year career as a care consulting. He mastered social series. Watch for Part Three for biomedical engineer for a health media early and expanded his another story on reinventing system. Since starting his health- business as a social media business yourself. By Anne Hensley Poindexter care consulting business three strategist, helping clients analyze Member years ago, Meeker networks social media metrics. Altman Poindexter & Wyatt throughout the city. “I joined the “My entire career I’ve mentored 75 Executive Drive, Suite G Indy Chamber of Commerce and and coached people,” said Tay- By Brenda Johnson Carmel, IN 46032 their Business Ownership Initia- lor explaining why she chose the 317-350-1000 Work, Careers and Jobs @ 40+ tive as well as other organizations,” recruiting business. Collaborat- 317-250-3366 said Meeker. He works with an ing with others was important in [email protected] accountability coach who helps him corporate life and in her business, workinglater.blogspot.com 22 Indy BOOMER May/June 2017 May/June 2017 Indy BOOMER 23 Hosted by Julie Patterson Saturday afternoons at 4:30 Freedom 95.9FM or 950AM RADIO

Our goal is for your business to be successful long term. It’s not just about airing commercials. We help you brand your organization as a successful first-class business. With repetition comes credibility, and with credibility comes loyalty.

WHY ADVERTISE ON RADIO? • More than 241 million Americans–or 94% of adults over the age of 12–listen to broadcast radio at least once a week. Approximately 74% listen to the radio daily. • Radio holds 92% of its lead-in audience through the average commercial break. Don’t let a lifetime of savings be lost… • An estimated 100 million Americans listened to online radio in the last month. 22% of Americans are using the internet to listen to the radio Call Senior Solutions Consulting today for or Tune-In app on mobile. a FREE CONSULTATION to see if you qualify! • Research shows that talk radio listeners are more than three times more likely to respond to an advertisement than music (317)863-0213 radio listeners. • Our listeners are 40+, conservative & educated. We specialize in... RATES Nursing home benefits $500 Month Sponsorship – Exclusive and monthly segment on show. –––––

BOOMER $200 Month Sponsorship – Exclusive in your industry and every month segment on show. Veteran’s benefits It’s more than $100 Month Sponsorship – Quarterly segment on the show. ––––– $100 One Time Segment – Showcase your business on show. just about the Asset Protection commercials. All packages include :30 commercial & social media promotion Protecting Assets & Creating Additional Income to Pay for Care

Serving Central Indiana for over 15 years. | No cost initial consultation. ––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––– 8310 ALLISON POINTE BLVD, STE 105, INDIANAPOLIS, IN 46250 | WWW.SENIORSOLUTIONSCONSULTING.COM

24 Indy BOOMER May/June 2017 May/June 2017 Indy BOOMER 25 2017 - 2018 PLAN FOR YOUR SEASON AMP AFTER DARK 2107 FUTURE HOUSING NEEDS Fridays @ 9pm NOW TO MAINTAIN June 2 Woomblies Rock Orchestra contact Phil Pierle YOUR INDEPENDENCE! WINNER! BROADWAY.COM’S AUDIENCE CHOICE AWARD FOR BEST MUSICAL June 9 Smashmouth M107 presents October 17-22, 2017 • Clowes Hall June 16 John Waite June 23 OPEN Freedom Fest June 30 Sounds of Summer The music of The Beach Boys

CRISTINE A. JONES November 28-December 3, 2017 • Old National Centre Associate Broker TUESDAY NIGHT LINE UP 2017 Cell: 317.442.4797 June 2 Patch Adams (1998) PG-13 [email protected] Tuesday @ 7pm ChrisJonesRealty.com June 6 Yellow Rickshaw June 20 Dude January 30-February 4, 2018 • Clowes Hall June 13 Innocent Band June 27 The Bishops June 9 The Philadelphia Story (1940)

June 16 August Rush (2007) (PG) TM © 1986 CMOL March 13-18, 2018 • Old National Centre June 23 Funny Face (1957)

June 30 Wild Hearts Can’t Be Broken June 12-17, 2018 • Clowes Hall (1991) (G) 5 Show Packages Start at $150 BroadwayInIndianapolis.com • 800.793.7469

IndyFor the best years of your lifeBOOMER Subscribe to an online version today at NEW! BOOMER+ Pull-Out Section for Boomers helping their www.IndyBoomer.com } A magazine delivered parents

For the best years of your life Indy BOOMER to your door or a link OR send your subscription information along to the electronic Bob & Tom 500 Miles + 100 Years = Champions of Cheeky Chat with $12 for six issues mailed to your door to Many Race Memories For the best years of your life SEPTEMBERIndy 2015 Bobby Unser • Janet Guthrie • Donald Davidson • Bob Jenkins RIDE TO END ALZHEIMER’S version delivered to and More! Indy BOOMER, 8918 Squire Ct., Indianapolis, IN 46250 Ageism: BOOMER It’s All In Our Minds!Women of the 500 your inbox MAY / JUNE 2016 Helping Hands of Freedom IndyBoomer.com Indiana BicentennialFree Summer Concerts Torch Relay Name: ______

JANUARY/FEBRUARY 2016 JUNE 24, 2017 } Topics covered: Address: ______HoosierDavid astronaut tellsWolf Boomers to reach for the stars Housing, Cooking, Pets, For Boomers & Their Parents Reinventing See pages 19-31 Retirement

My Empty Gardening, and more! N.E.S.T. Sometimes The Smallest Things Matter City/State/Zip Code: ______SUBSCRIBEEmail (optional): ______Sharing the moments that make the Southside of Indy great ... TheSouthsiderVoice “Positive news for Indy’s Southside” Rider $25 / Passenger $10 6025 Madison Avenue, Suite B • 317-781-0023 Riders and participants will meet at Indy West Harley Davidson and end at the (Southeast corner of Edgewood and Madison) SouthsiderVoice.com American Legion in Mooresville. Kickstands up between 10:30a and 11:00a Newsprint Home of the RSVP to Ride at http://act.alz.org/goto/ENDALZRIDE Under Event Details Digital Arts & Entertainment  Cars  Education Car Nutz Sponsors contact Angela Hershey - 765.810.3769 - [email protected] Social Media Southsidervoicetv High School Sports  Much more! cruise-ins!

26 Indy BOOMER May/June 2017 May/June 2017 Indy BOOMER 27 Nervous about Dating Again? Kickstart Your Wedding Planning Are you stuck in a motivational work to get there. I mean why else Getting back into the dating realm in the dating world: are friendly and approachable. slump, trying to find the excitement would a bride or her family hire a can be very anxiety-provoking • Let your friends know that you • Most people are meeting others you need to make some major prog- wedding planner? But if you don’t for Boomers. They admit to much are ready to start dating, since online. Go to online sites like ress on wedding planning? Then hire a wedding planner, then visit Wedding Planning Checklist trepidation about getting back they can pick out a person they meetup.com, which has an over check out these tips that we think IndyBride2B.com not only to save into the dating world because they think you would enjoy. 40’s group where you can devel- will help you to be more produc- money, but also relieve the stress of 9 to 12 months prior to wedding op friendships with new people, tive! Planning the perfect dream finding the perfect wedding ven- day: both male and female. It is wedding doesn’t happen overnight, dors. So, don’t freak out! That’s an opportunity to make other which is why it’s important to start why our blogs and website is de- q Book Venue friends who enjoy doing simi- planning months or even years voted to helping you plan your wed- lar things like playing cards, before the wedding date. Don’t lose, ding without the cost of an actual q Draft guest list going to the theater, attending your motivation. Pick a day to de- planner. q Register sporting events together and vote to planning and use these tips Before you start getting into the participating in events around to help yourself get cracking! thick of your planning for the day, q Pick an Officiant holidays like New Year’s Eve or Valentine’s Day. Another great site for Boomers is OurTime. Choose vendors 6 to 9 months com, which allows you to pe- prior: ruse men and women over the q Order your wedding dress age of 50. With this site, you’re worry that they will not match up • Make a list of like-minded putting yourself in a situation q Cake tasting and order to what others are looking for in activities you enjoy and can at- where you’re going to meet men q Begin hair and makeup trials a relationship. Boomers express tend so that you are having fun and women who are your age concern about not knowing what while looking for that desired and have shared similar back- q Send Save-the-Date dating sites are appropriate and companion. If you like to cook, grounds, taste in music and life right for them. As one might expect, take a cooking class. If you en- experiences. q Book Honeymoon their minds race with thoughts q Order bridesmaids dresses about how much affection should they show and how much of their own personal life they should share. Purchase wedding bands 3 to 6 They worry that they are not as months prior: attractive as they once were and wonder if they are “good enough” to q Select groomsmen attire date. They worry that if they like q Plan rehearsal dinner someone, when should sex enter the The first thing you should do is spend some time on our site view- picture? visit IndyBride2B.com. I don’t know ing “Real Indy Weddings” and look q Confirm vendors Dating experts agree that people about you but when I get ready to at our Vendors’ photo galleries. You just need to bring their best selves start planning I like to have all the may find that seeing what others to the date. They may need to make information I need at my fingertips. can create gets you excited about 1 to 3 months prior: a list of 25 things they like about There is no better place to find the what you will be able to create too. q Purchase day of accessories themselves and read them regularly joy yoga, find a convenient yoga The important thing is to look at information you need than Indy- We have included a simple timeline to remind themselves that they are class. Perhaps you enjoy long dating as an adventure to meet new Bride2B.com to keep you on track. If you don’t q Confirm day of transportation a catch and they should act as if walks and would benefit from people and enhance your life. And The next thing you should do is look have twelve months to plan, don’t q Get everything printed they are confident. a hiking group. Engage that in the process, you just might meet for a little inspiration. Of course, panic, just start at the top of the list They should use the mantra “relax person on a walk or in a class your soulmate! n every bride and her family, at first, and try to catch up as quickly as q Bridal Shower and have fun.” Their responsibility and show that you are inter- is excited to plan the wedding. It possible. is to enjoy the person that they are ested. You must spend energy does take work and a lot of effort You can do this! Just take it one q Bachelorette party Day of: meeting with and decide if there’s going up to a potential person Article by and sometimes after a long day at step at a time and before you know q Get married and live happily enough compatibility to share a of interest and find out more Carol Juergensen Sheets work, it’s hard to get motivated to it, the bride’s fairy tale wedding ever after! second date with him or her. about him or her. This shows Freelance Writer start planning the “big day”. Yes, will be complete! Good luck! n Here are some guidelines that may the person that you’re interest- it’s a joyful and exciting celebra- be helpful for Boomers getting back ed and sends a signal that you tion of love, but it takes a lot of Article by IndyBride2B.com 28 Indy BOOMER May/June 2017 May/June 2017 Indy BOOMER 29 weekday will ensure that you get his/ to go back inside ments, monthly her undivided attention and the very that RV. Sit down. payments and best service. Take it all in. Re- trade-in value I WANT TO BUY AN RV! member what you — all very im- WHAT TO EXPECT FROM are seeing. If it’s a portant in the A GOOD RV DEALERSHIP motorhome, take it decision-making When you go to the dealership, it for a test drive. At process. Without is important to find someone to work this point, you have this information, with who is more of an RV profes- some of the infor- you are no closer WHERE DO I START? sional than just a salesperson. “We mation you need. to going camp- put a great deal of time into training It’s time to get the rest. ing in your new RV than before you our staff to understand the needs and After you have selected the RV that started looking at RVs. wants of an RVer. Our sales profes- will work best for you, go back into Remember, the goal is to enjoy time sionals have an average of 12 years the office and find out the price. Most on the open road with your family, of experience in the industry and are RV dealers only post the manufac- friends and pets. The more time we irst off, sit back, relax and take a youtube.com/mountcomfortrv. well-trained in matching an RVer’s turer’s suggested retail price (MSRP) spend shopping, searching and re- deep breath. This doesn’t have to be In their “Playlists” section, needs and wants with the right RV at on the internet and in the RVs on searching, the longer we have to scary, stressful or long and drawn- their over 600 videos are sec- a comfortable budget,” says Ken Eck- their lot. Maybe they have discount- wait before we get to relax. When Fout. The key to making the buying tioned off into topics such as stein, owner of Mount Comfort RV ed or sale prices. However, this is not you partner with the right dealer- experience as smooth as possible is to part- “RV Entertainment,” “Mount and a 43-year RV industry veteran. necessarily the price they will sell ship and sales professional, it all gets ner with a local dealership and RV profes- Comfort RV Education,” “RV Over the years, Mount Comfort RV them for. easier. Happy camping! sional who can walk you through the steps, Demonstrations” and many has devised a simple questionnaire It is very important to understand narrow down your choices and help guide you others. They upload new vid- they refer to as a “matchmaker.” Five that every RV manufacturer has to the RV that best fits your needs. eos daily that allow someone minutes spent completing it with an different markups and discounts. to tour RVs with a qualified RV professional helps narrow down Therefore, one would not want to WHERE ARE THESE RV sales professional from the the hundreds of choices on their lot to buy an RV based solely on the dis- PROFESSIONALS? comfort of home. maybe a handful before ever stepping count. An example of this would be Finding someone to partner with can be foot in an RV. This can save hours of a car dealer who has a Chevrolet for tricky. There are people you can trust and DON’T JUST TAKE THEIR WORD research and a lot of frustration. $24,000 marked down to $12,000. those you cannot. If you have a bad experi- FOR IT! SEE FOR YOURSELF! Many people make the mistake of Half off seems like a great deal! ence with one, there are still good ones out Once you find a few dealerships with good looking at too many RVs, which gets Another dealer, however, has a there. online reputations and some interesting- confusing. After a while, they all start comparable Cadillac of the same The internet has a wealth of information. looking RVs, go visit a couple. Call and see if to look the same. Try to keep the RVs year for $16,000 marked down Google is a great place to find unbiased re- you can talk to one of their RV professionals. you look at to a minimum, less than to $12,000. Boo! That’s only a views left by customers. Go to google.com, This is a great opportunity to gauge whether 10 on one lot. As you go from RV to 25 percent markdown! Most of type “RV dealer Greenfield” (or fill in your you would like to do business with them. Ask RV, ask yourself this question: Do I us would agree that the comparable city) in the search box and hit the Enter key. preliminary questions such as: What can my like this RV better than the last one? Cadillac for the same price would be A few links to nearby RV dealers will appear vehicle tow? What types of RVs do you carry Then, forget every RV except your a better value, even with a smaller along with customer reviews. Most reputable that I can pull? What do you have in stock favorite and move on to the next, al- discount. The moral here is to look at RV dealerships will that I could come look at? A good salesper- ways comparing the features, con- have links to cus- son either knows the answers or is able to get only two models struction, and nuts tomer testimonials them for you quickly. at a time. This and bolts of the RV Specializing in… and recommenda- This phone call would also be a good time will greatly sim- and the value at a tions right on their to set up an appointment to go visit the plify things and particular price, SALES • PARTS homepage, but these dealership. Most RV dealerships take walk- make it easier to rather than the SERVICE • RV RENTALS may only be the best- in customers every day; however, many RV reach a decision. discount. of-the-best reviews. dealerships have peak times (like Saturday Once you have This is also a Just 5 minutes east of Indy on I-70 Another site with afternoons) when they cannot assist all the narrowed it down great opportunity information is You- customers who come in the doors. Setting up to one or two RVs, to find out about -fi 317.898.6676 Tube. Try going to an appointment with an RV professional on a take a moment nancing, down pay- MtComfortRV.com Return to the life you love.

Rehabilitation tailored to getting you back in the swing of things.

When life gives you bogeys, get things back on par. Our outstanding nursing and therapy teams have the knowledge, skills and experience to guide you through successful short- term rehabilitation and the post-rehabilitation recovery processes. Visit our website today for more information www.CarDon.us about the family-first services we provide.

FAMILY-FIRST SENIOR LIVING FROM CARDON ALTENHEIM (INDIANAPOLIS/BEECH GROVE) • ASPEN TRACE (GREENWOOD/BARGERSVILLE/CENTER GROVE) CARMEL HEALTH & LIVING • COPPER TRACE (WESTFIELD/CARMEL/ZIONSVILLE) • COUNTRYSIDE (ANDERSON) CUMBERLAND TRACE (PLAINFIELD) • GREENWOOD HEALTH & LIVING • HAMILTON TRACE/THE RESERVE (FISHERS) HARBOUR MANOR & THE LODGE (NOBLESVILLE) • RAWLINS HOUSE & FALL CREEK (PENDLETON) UNIVERSITY HEIGHTS HEALTH & LIVING (INDIANAPOLIS/GREENWOOD)