For Some Jews, Christmas Eve Is a Night of Romance
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THURSDAY, DECEMBER 21, 2006 T HE B OSTON G LOBE Style C9 For some Jews, Christmas Eve is a night of romance º CHRISTMAS EVE, Party guide Continued from Page C1 SATURDAY Christmas party and work. John JBall at the DoubleTree Hotel (40-plus), was in the coat room, Patrick was Waltham. $49. tjcboston.com with me walking the floor, and Mi- chael was behind the bar.’’ SUNDAY The Matzo Ball quickly spread Matzo Ball at Avalon, Boston. $25. to other cities, and spawned more matzoball.org dances, concerts, and comedy JBall at the Hard Rock Cafe (20s and shows for Jewish singles. With a little help from the burgeoning 30s), Boston. $15. tjcboston.com Jewish hipster movement, Christ- Quick Dates: A night of GLBT speed mas Eve parties have taken off. dating, Brookline. $36. boston- This year in Boston, Jewish singles keshet.org will be making the scene at the Matzo Ball, two parties staged by an organization called JConnec- has, however, spent time on the tion (one at the Hard Rock Cafe Jewish online dating site JDate for those in their 20s and 30s, and .com (and written a song about it), another in Waltham for singles 40 and imagines that the scene at the and up). There’s even a speed-dat- Clockwise from top left: Matzo Ball is the offline counter- ing party for gay and lesbian Jews. Allyson Abrams of Brookline part to that. Next year, these events will face and Harris Grandberg of ‘‘The idea of getting everyone increased competition when a Waltham get in the holiday on JDate piled together in a room, New York-based group called Let spirit, Lauren Klatsky of West drunk on $13 cosmopolitans, with My People Go brings its Christmas Roxbury chats with Aaron 20-year-old Madonna songs blast- Eve ball to Boston. Jeff Strank, the Block of Somerville, and ing at 120 decibels, isn’t really my founder of Let My People Go, Rabbi Mayshe Schwartz and idea of a fun night,’’ Tannenbaum claims attendance at his New York his wife, Shifra, enjoy the says. ‘‘I can understand the im- ball is bigger than the Matzo Ball. Kosher Casino in Boston on pulse. Being a Jew on Christmas Let My People Go holds parties at Monday. The rabbi says large Eve is really kind of horrible.’’ several venues in Manhattan, and singles events are a logical Tannenbaum, whose band offers complimentary Hummer evolution for young Jews at played in Boston last week, is part limousine service so attendees can Christmas. of a generation of younger Jews hop from party to party in VIP who are looking to create new tra- style. family dinner on Christmas day,’’ ditions. ‘‘It has become a phenom- she says. ‘‘We can just sleep in late ‘‘Most Jewish traditions involve enon,’’ says Strank. ‘‘Some years and go to the movies the next day. fasting, and that’s no fun,’’ says the there are as many as 15 events for If you have loads of young, single cheeky Tannenbaum. ‘‘The new Jewish singles happening in New Jews in a room, it’s inevitably go- traditions involve some element of York on Christmas Eve. And there ing to result in romance, or at least music, comedy, and sometimes are big parties in Los Angeles, Mi- a few fun, drunken hookups.’’ even alcohol.’’ ami, and Chicago. It’s really the Mayshe Schwartz, a Brookline- Molly Harris’s Christmas Eve one night that you have more Jew- based Orthodox rabbi who wears a tradition involves going to the ish people out looking for ro- baseball cap embroidered with JConnection’s annual party. The mance than any other night of the Hebrew symbol chai (which 29-year-old dental hygienist has year.’’ means living) and answers to the gone on dates with men whom she The answer to the question nickname Schwartzy, thinks the has met at the party, but unlike ‘‘Why, on this night, do we look for advent of Christmas Eve as Jewish PHOTOS BY JOHN BOHN/GLOBE STAFF Tannenbaum, she takes a less cyn- romance?’’ is as varied as the peo- Valentine’s Day has more to do acle on 34th Street.’ It was only tion veers toward the big Christ- who show up are usually a little ical approach to looking for love ple who are throwing and attend- with loneliness than the consump- logical that these giant singles par- mas Eve parties. That was certain- more serious about dating.’’ on Christmas Eve. ing these mixers. Sarah Maxwell, tion of large quantities of booze. ties would evolve from this.’’ ly the case among the singles who Not everyone is a fan of big ‘‘I’m basically there to hang out associate publisher of New York- ‘‘At some point, many Jews feel Schwartz, who runs the Cha- attended Chabad Chai’s Kosher mixers such as the Matzo Ball. Rob with my friends and have a good based Heeb magazine, says the isolated at Christmas,’’ he says. bad Chai Center in Brookline, reg- Casino party in the Theater Dis- Tannenbaum, music editor at time,’’ she says. ‘‘If you take it too equation of open bars and ‘‘hot ‘‘There’s a whole country celebrat- ularly hosts parties and looks for trict on Monday night. Blender and half of the musical seriously, it’s going to be stressful. Heebs’’ will inevitably result in ing something, and you can only ways to make religion accessible to ‘‘This will be my first one,’’ says comedy act Good for the Jews, I see Christmas Eve as a bonus multiple love connections. run with it so far, then at some singles and families who are not Debi Milkes, a 25-year-old teacher, confesses that he’s never been to holiday. It’s like the rest of the ‘‘None of us have to worry point, you can’t. You don’t have a members of a temple. This time of of Sunday night’s Matzo Ball. ‘‘I the Matzo Ball, but quickly adds world is off doing their own thing, about hangovers the next day, be- Christmas tree, stores are closed, year, he says the talk among the guess I’m hoping to meet some- that ‘‘all the wild horses in Man- so we get this night to party, and cause we don’t have to face a big everything you’re watching is ‘Mir- single members of his organiza- one. 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