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MAY—JUNE 2015 Website: FROM THE EDITOR’S DESK Our Annual General Meeting will take place on June 9th. Do come to hear all about our oraynu.org Shalom everyone — accomplishments and challenges during Spring is here, and the greening of the this current year and our plans for the grass, budding of trees, and sneezing from upcoming one. Be sure to check out Mark my grass and trees allergies have all Brender’s Board report on p. 5. arrived! And, so have some great spring On Saturday, June 13th, members and programs to be held in the next two months. school familes are invited to attend a First, thanks to a generous donation from Brunch and Community Appreciation event Sue and Rod McLeod, we are sponsoring a being held at a members’ home. Do plan to public event on May 4th with Paul Golin of join us to socialize, nosh and help thank Inside this issue: Big Tent Judaism/Jewish Outreach Institute your fellow members too. Kids are wel- in New York. He will speak on intermarriage come too. See p. 4 for details. Event Listings and how the lack of inclusion by many in Final event before the summer is a movie Rabbi’s Message the Jewish community threatens Jewish night on June 24, featuring the Israeli multi- continuity. Of course, we already know this Notes from the Board award winning film “Out in the Dark”, which at Oraynu and Humanistic Jewish groups focuses on the relationship between two Principal’s Report have been welcoming intermarried couples men: one Israeli, the other Palestinian. Join us! and families for years. We are excited about Israeli-Iranian Musical Initiative Lastly, we are looking for hosts for our the outreach possibilities of this event and annual summer social event. Here’s your Yad V’Lev (Hand and Heart) ask that you inform family and friends who opportunity! See p. 2 for more info. The Jews of Montreal may be interested in this topic. Also, do plan to attend yourself to help make it a Check out the notice on p. 11 about Acting Cemetery Price Increase ‘full house’! Watch for ads in the papers Up Stage’s latest theatrical venture. We A Humanistic Look at Shavuot and perhaps some media coverage too. have attended three previous productions, and they are offering Oraynu members a Science and Religion Next on the roster is another of our Intro- special discount for any performance. duction to Humanistic Judaism sessions. This time it’s at Miles Nadal JCC, as we are There are two pieces about newer members hoping to attract potential new members Noam Lemish and Natalie Doyle who are from that area of the city. Members are our involved in important and interesting pro- best PR tools, so kindly spread the word. jects. There’s a notice about cemetery price increases on the back page. And, from info Rabbi Denise Handlarski will be represent- emailed to me, I collated a bunch of facts ing Oraynu at the all-night Shavuot learn- about the Jews of Montreal (my old shtetl!). ing session “Where Sinai Meets Spadina” Makes for fascinating reading, to be sure. being held on Saturday, May 23rd, also at the Miles Nadal JCC. She was asked to co- Until next issue … lead the Havdallah service and will put the Humanistic Jewish spin on it. It’s great PR Sandi for Oraynu and will show what we offer! Sandi Horwitz, Editor Members and guests are welcome to submit articles, letters and photographs. Please email to [email protected]/ Generally submissions should be no more than 1000 words and should reflect a secular humanistic perspective. Please note that Oraynu reserves the right to decline or edit submissions in order to maintain the mutual respect our members enjoy and our reputation for fairness. Letters and articles printed in this newsletter reflect the opinions of their writers and are not necessarily those of Oraynu Congregation. RABBI’S Intermarriage: Optimism and Oraynu MESSAGE When I grew up, like many of you, it seemed Shabbat?), to basic values and human rights all Jews were fervently against intermarriage. (Equal roles for women? Gay marriage?), and My parents hoped I’d marry Jewish. Rabbis so on would be a much more difficult and Rabbi Denise hoped I’d marry Jewish. Counsellors at fraught “intermarriage.” Jewish summer camps hoped I’d marry th Handlarski Jewish. Marriage couldn’t have been further On Monday May 4 , Paul Golin from the from my mind, but it was very much on the Jewish Outreach Institute will speak to us minds of others. As a young feminist-minded about how damaging the traditional Jewish person, I was conscious that it seemed narrative about intermarriage has been and marrying someone Jewish was the only continues to be. Jewish communities are criteria people cared about. I had met many driving away droves of people because of Jewish men who did not treat their spouses this narrow-minded stance. I am proud to well and thought it was strange that people serve Oraynu as an intermarried rabbi (the weren’t encouraging me to marry a good only one in Canada!) because I know we are person, a thoughtful person, a generous doing the right thing when we say honestly person; only a Jewish person would do and and truly that we celebrate all marriages and nothing else seemed to matter. all families and welcome everyone who wishes to be part of our family. Years later I, like many Jews, did choose to marry someone who wasn’t Jewish. And The Paul Golin event is sure to be an although I come from the Jewish tradition inspiring and thought-provoking evening. I and culture and Charlie does not, we have do hope to see you there and also hope much more in common than I would have you’ll help us promote it. This is a great had with many Jews! We are both Human- chance to show family and friends the type ists, we share many of the same values and of Jewish community we are. And if you ever interests, and have similar goals and life- want to speak to me about your own styles. For me to marry, for example, a struggles, successes, or suggestions regard- Conservative or Orthodox Jew, with whom I ing intermarriage, you know that my door is would disagree about issues from how to always open to you. run a home (Kosher? No driving on SUMMER FUN COMING! WANNA HOST AN ORAYNU EVENT? We are planning another Summer Barbecue and Potluck Social for July. These have always been great events with terrific attendance. Past events have been graciously hosted by Roby and Jim Sadler, Sandi and Robert Horwitz, and Asi and Dror Orbach. Oraynu provides the barbecue food and fixings. Attendees are asked to bring salads and desserts. If you have a large home/backyard/BBQ and wish to offer your home for this year’s event, kindly contact: Roby: [email protected] | 416-385-3910 OR Rabbi Denise: [email protected] | 416-854-0133 More details will follow in the July-August issue. 2 UPCOMING EVENTS Monday, May 4 INTERMARRIAGE: OPTIMISM & OPPORTUNITY 7:30 pm An inclusive vision for a Jewish future U of T Multi-Faith Join Paul Golin of Big Tent Judaism/Jewish Outreach Institute (New York) in an interactive presentation that challenges the standard Jewish communal narrative Centre on intermarriage and instead presents an optimistic and inclusive vision for the future (in Koffler House) of Jewish families and Jewish life. Today, almost every Jew in the US and Canada is 569 Spadina Ave personally touched by intermarriage within their immediate families. Let’s discuss not just the challenges this represents, but also the many opportunities inherent in a more diverse and welcoming community. Introduction by Michele Landsberg, Journalist, Author, Social Activist, Officer of the Order of Canada, and Oraynu member Paul Golin is associate executive director of Big Tent Judaism/Jewish Outreach Institute, a national, independent, transdenominational organization reaching out to unaffiliated Jewish families with an emphasis on engaging intermarried households and helping the organized Jewish community better welcome them in. Paul is a frequent writer and speaker on Jewish inclusion. He co- authored two books with Rabbi Kerry Olitzky, How to Raise Jewish Children Even When You’re Not Jewish Yourself (2010) and Twenty Things for Grandpar- ents of Interfaith Grandchildren To Do (And Not Do) To Nurture Jewish Identity In Their Grandchildren (2007). Tickets: $10 – Register now! tinyurl.com/PaulGolin 416-385-3910 ● oraynu.org Sign up yourself and spread the word to others. Let’s make it standing-room only! Oraynu gratefully acknowledges Susan and Roderick McLeod for their generous sponsorship of this important public event Thursday, May 14 INTRODUCTION TO HUMANISTIC JUDAISM 7:30 pm What are the beliefs and values of Humanistic Judaism? Find out who we are and what we do Miles Nadal JCC Come for a refresher! Invite family & friends who want to know more about us. Rm. 302 Led by Rabbi Denise and Sandi Horwitz Bloor and Spadina No fee to attend | RSVP appreciated Unless otherwise indicated, kindly RSVP for ALL EVENTS: 416-385-3910 | [email protected] | via Oraynu website Event link Oraynu supports the right to die with dignity! On March 31 Oraynu members voted in favour of adopting our statement in support of Dying with Dignity legislation. The discussion was meaningful, balanced, and took into account all sides of the debate. The statement is in the final stages of editing and will appear on Oraynu’s website alongside our other position statements at: www.oraynu.org/about-us/philosophy/ 3 Saturday, June 13 Join us for a Sociable Saturday Schmooze! 11 am BRUNCH & COMMUNITY APPRECIATION Who doesn’t love brunch? Members’ home Bagels, lox, salads, and dessert will be provided.