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KY FEATURES | courier-journal.com/features THE COURIER-JOURNAL | TUESDAY,MAY 15,2012 | D5 Co-dependencytears familyapart DAILYCROSSWORD Across 43 Lake Tahoe’ssole 9“Uh-huh” 34 Wine datum 1Phone-to- outlet 10 Charge with a 36 Fret Dear Annie: My brother-in- stable home life? Can you spend computer link 47 Renaissance crime 37 Stuck in __ law,“Travis,” has been in arela- ANNIE’S more time with the children, 6Picture of health? 50 Stand up 11 Area of expertise 38 “Ugh!” tionship with his girlfriend, taking them out on weekends? 10 Doubtful 51 What the 12 Pizazz 42 Enlistees, “Kristin,” for eight years. They MAILBOX Your goal should not be to pro- 14 Mimic’sskill fashionably late 13 Shows boredom for short never are now have two young children. vide Travis with abetter mar- 15 Box office sight, 18 Early Atari video 43 Leaning Kathy Mitchell 52 Saharan Kristin has cheated on him too Marcy Sugar riage. It should be to help care often game 44 Like the smell of many times to count and contin- for those children so they can 16 The Big Easy 53 Many AARP 22 Company that soil mems. ues to do so. They fight about it grow up to be more mature than acronym made Japan’sfirst 45 Pennsylvania constantly. their parents. 17 Attire with deep 56 Having atiff plastic radio port The problem is that Travis is Dear Annie: Iread with pockets 57 Penniless, as in 24 Pennies: Abbr. 46 Conundrum He is lazy and thinks the world the opening of so wrapped up in what Kristin is amusement the letter from 19 Sketch 25 Spanish bull 47 Backsides owes him something. The two of “Me and Bobby doing with various other men “Santa Cruz,” the lesbian who 20 Nikon D3S, e.g., 26 Diana who played 48 Enjoy to the max them have tried counseling apart McGee” that both of them have put their objected to the way she was briefly Mrs. Peel 49 Salty solution and together,but they never 60 Mystical children on the back burner.At stared at in foreign restrooms. 21 Chops meat character 27 Old Chevy 52 Questions stick with it. the moment, the kids are living Ihave short hair,rarely 22 Peaceful protest 61 Egyptian symbol 28 Wide-eyed As afamily,wedon’tknow 54 Hindu princess with Kristin’sparents. wear makeup and have also 23 Cake layer of life 29 “The Chosen” what to do. We’ve talked to 55 Zany Laurel Kristin says the kids are the been treated rudely abroad. It 25 Bullets with 62 Helmsley dubbed author Chaim __ Travis until we are blue in the 57 Outlaw most important thing to her,but never occurred to me that it luminous trails “Queen of Mean” 32 Best way to cross face. aspeed bump 58 One, to Juan she definitely doesn’tshow it. was an issue of sexual orienta- 27 Place offering 63 Went lickety-split Why can’thesee that this is a 33 Bring down, as a 59 Gave alot of She’sonly amom when it’scon- tion, because Iamstraight. I good looks? 64 Snoopy toxic relationship? How do we house bologna, say venient for her.And Travis is the assumed it was because Iwear 30 Frittata needs 65 Longtime NBC get him to care more about his YESTERDAY’S SOLUTION same way. comfortable shoes, look people 31 Frenzied newsman children instead of their poor Newman Travis is being treated for in the eye and act more assert- indulgence excuse for amother? depression due to his relation- ively than women of that cul- 32 Martini —Worried Family request ship, but, Annie, he is never ture. Down Dear Worried:Travis and 35 Ra or Odin going to change her into the Your advice to be polite and 1Apples on many Kristin have aco-dependent desks woman he wants. He refuses to charming is spot on and works 36 “Good job!” (and relationship that is going ahint to the 2Play-of-color gem leave her,saying he wants to non-verbally,aswell. nowhere. beginning of 17-, keep his “family” together,but —Also from Santa Cruz 3Bold bravery And it will continue until one 27-, 43- or 57- they are hardly together as it is. Across) 4Work measure of them decides he or she has Idon’tsee how this is good for Kathy Mitchell and Marcy Sugar are long- 39 “The Color 5Mr. Magoo’s had enough. Youcannot make time editors of the Ann Landers column. malady the kids. Purple” actress __ this happen. Instead, please con- Email questions to Travis isn’tinnocent, either. Dawn Chong 6Bigger than centrate on those kids. Neither [email protected], or write to: average, He can’tkeep ajob because he Annie’sMailbox, P.O. Box 118190, 40 Past parent is fit to raise them. Are commercially would rather “babysit” Kristin. 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