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By Most Rev. C. Barber, SJ All the Catholic bishops of the USA meet twice a year. We just concluded our November meeting, during which we, as a body, had planned to vote on specific “Action Steps” to purify the Church following the Cardinal Theodore McCarrick scandal, the Grand Jury report and the Carlo Vigano revelations. For weeks, each of us bishops has been hearing from you, our people, that we need “action, not just prayers” and we were prepared to do just that. As our meeting opened, Cardinal DiNardo of Galveston-, our president, told us he had been

PACCIORINI/THE CATHOLIC VOICE CATHOLIC PACCIORINI/THE instructed by the hours . earlier that we were NOT to hold a vote on our two most important pro- Barber posals: 1. A lay-led “National Review Commission” to review complaints of misbehavior or “der- ALL: ALBERT C ALBERT ALL: eliction of duty” by bishops. 2. A “Protocol” on standards More than 1,000 people participated in the annual of conduct for bishops. celebration to honor the Vietnamese . The pro- The Vatican told us to wait until the February 2019 cession was so long it stretched almost four blocks. meeting in of presidents of episcopal conferences to At right, Bishop Michael C. Barber, SJ, honors the discuss the issue with Francis and the . . Cardinal DiNardo said he was “disappointed” in the Vatican’s decision. I think that was an understatement. Most of us bishops were more than disappointed. We were shocked. We were caught in the tension between Faith, discipleship equation for eternal life our profession of loyalty to the pope, the successor of St. Staff report Peter, AND our duty to be good and faithful shepherds of “The USA is a ‘Land of Opportunity.’ That is why, the flocks committed to our care. although many people in other nations love to criticize So we responded with respect. We did not hold the the USA, everyone wants to live here,” said Bishop votes. But we also did everything we could to show a Michael C. Barber, SJ, in his homily at a honoring full and strong consensus of the body of bishops to ’s martyrs. take action. We asked Cardinal DiNardo to bring to the The “equation” for success, he said, is education, Vatican our resolve to move as quickly as possible on plus hard work, plus the support of family, all traits of the five action steps: Vietnamese community. 1. A process for investigating complaints against “Education, hard work and family will give success (Continued on Page 3.) in THIS life,” he said, “But what about the NEXT life, our Eternal Life? To achieve that demands more. “It requires faith, friendship, and discipleship with Jesus Christ,” he said. “And the Vietnamese Catholic Community Vatican stalls US bishops’ are among the closest and most loyal friends of Jesus Christ and His Church.” The reason, as St. Paul says: “You were bought with abuse-prevention reform a price.” Catholic News Agency The first “price” was the blood of Jesus, paid on the BALTIMORE — Five months after Archbishop Cross. Theodore McCarrick’s suspension from public ministry Bishop Michael C. Barber, SJ, accepts the gifts at Mass. The second “price” was the blood of the Vietnamese sparked an unprecedented crisis that has alarmed, Martyrs. More than 1,000 people participated in the 20th annual angered and demoralized lay Catholics and clergy alike, “Not just one or two, but over 130,000,” the bishop Mass and procession to honor the Martyrs of Vietnam on the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops’ annual fall said. More than 100,000 Vietnamese Catholics were killed Nov. 18 at St. Anthony Church in Oakland. Bishop Barber assembly in Baltimore Nov. 12-14 was supposed to signal because of their religious beliefs; St. John Paul II canon- presided; Bishop Emeritus John S. Cummins concel- a sweeping course correction with new reforms designed ized 117 of them, slain between 1798 and 1861, in 1988. ebrated. They were accompanied by about 20 priests and to prevent future cover-ups. We should all learn from this glorious witness of the deacons. Entertainment and ethnic food followed the Mass. Atop the agenda were two proposals that would be put in Vietnam, and continued now in our See more photos at facebook.com/TheCatholicVoice. to a vote during the three-day meeting: a draft “Standards diocese, to the fidelity of Vietnamese Catholics, he said. There are about 8,000 Vietnamese Catholics in the of Conduct” for bishops and creation of an investigative Education, hard work and family are gifts of God, he Oakland diocese. For more information about the com- commission that would receive accusations made against said. “But Jesus must be the center. He holds the keys munity: Sister Rosaline Nguyen, LHC, at 510-628-2153 bishops and include lay specialists. to eternal life.” or [email protected]. But that plan was upended as Cardinal Daniel DiNardo of Galveston-Houston, the president of the USCCB, dropped a bombshell on the first day of the gathering. (Continued on Page 4.)

On our cover Young girls perform a traditional dance as part of the annual celebration to honor Vietnamese martyrs. More on Page 1 and at facebook.com/ TheCatholicVoice. Advent 18 Bishop’s Column 1 Classified 16 CYO 14 Datelines 17 Forum 19 Gift of Giving 9-11 Holiday Guide 5 Seniors 15 Simbang Gabi 18 Travel 6-8 The Church 2 Many school children were dressed as different . 2 — THE CATHOLIC VOICE THE CHURCH NOVEMBER 26, 2018

Cathy Fallon, BISHOP BARBER’S SCHEDULE center, embrac- Nov. 27: Office meetings, Chancery, Dec. 2: 10 a.m., Mass, first Sunday of es Shawna De Oakland Advent, Cathedral of Christ the Light, Long and April Oakland Smith Nov. 11 FACE auction reception: Principals’ in Paradise. Appreciation gathering, Bishop’s 5:30 p.m., Advent Lessons & Carols, Fallon stayed Residence, Oakland Cathedral of Christ the Light, Oakland behind to tend Nov. 28: Office meetings, Chancery, Dec. 3: Order of Malta fundraising event, her horses dur- Oakland Bishop’s Residence, Oakland ing the Camp Fire blaze, Nov. 29: Office meetings, Chancery, Dec. 4: Office meetings, Chancery, while De Long Oakland, including Presbyteral Council Oakland and Smith Nov. 30: Office meetings Chancery, Diocesan lawyers Christmas brought her Oakland appreciation dinner

horse supplies. STEPHEN LAM/REUTERS,CNS Dec. 1: Diocesan pilgrimage, Mass in Dec. 6-9: Archdiocese for the Military honor to , Services Discernment Retreat, Pontifical How to aid fire victims Oakland College Josephinum in Columbus, Ohio Staff report org/. The Support Wildfire Relief donation THE DIOCESE Catholic Charities USA is receiving option is on the home page. contributions to assist the victims of two For those who want to mail a check Lady of Guadalupe is also planned at wildfires that have ravaged California in — with California Wildfires in the memo Our Lady of Guadalupe Queen of All Saints , 2390 Grant recent weeks. line — the address is: Thousands are expected to take part in St., Concord, beginning at 4:30 p.m. Dec. The Camp Fire in Butte County had the Diocese of Oakland’s annual pilgrimage 12. Dec. 12, 1531 was the date at which claimed 77 lives and destroyed 11,713 Catholic Charities USA to honor Our Lady of Guadalupe on Dec. 1. Our Lady appeared to St. Juan Diego. For residences, 472 commercial and 3,388 2050 Ballenger Ave, Suite 400 Pilgrims will depart from St. more information, www.qaschurch.org. other buildings across 151,000 acres as Alexandria, VA 22314 Church, 1410 100th Ave., Oakland, at 9 of Nov. 19, according to Cal Fire officials. It Another way to support the Northern a.m .The procession, with floats, musi- Dec. 8 Holy Day was deemed 66 percent contained on that California fire victims is through the cians and costumes, will cover 7.5 miles Dec. 8, a Saturday, is the Solemnity of date. A missing persons list maintained by Diocese of Sacramento Fire Assistance on International Boulevard, go past Lake the of the Blessed the Butte County Sheriff’s Office listed 991 Fund, 2110 Broadway, Sacramento, CA Merritt, and arrive at the Cathedral of Christ Mary. It is a Holy day of obligation. people, as of Nov. 19. 95818. Online donations may be made the Light about 1 p.m. Bishop Michael C. The obligation is fulfilled by attending a In Los Angeles and Ventura counties, at www.scd.org/donate and choose the Barber, SJ, will preside at the Mass. For Vigil Mass on Friday evening, Dec. 7, or the Woolsey Fire had claimed six lives — Fire Assistance; donations may be made more information, contact Hector Medina, Mass during the day on Saturday morning; three firefighters and three civilians and by phone to The Catholic Foundation at head of Latino Ministries, at 510-496-7224 The Solemnity will end on the afternoon destroyed 1,500 structures across 96,949 916-733-0266. or [email protected]. of Saturday, Dec. 8. For more details, see acres as of Nov. 19, Cal Fire reported. That Donations to fire victims in the A very large celebration to honor Our https://bit.ly/2BhZJlW. fire was 94 percent contained. Archdiocese of Los Angeles may be made “The tremendous loss from the Camp at www.la-archdiocese.org/. Call 213-637- Fire ravaging parts of the diocese is dev- 7672 if you need assistance making a gift. THE VATICAN astating,” Bishop Jaime Soto said in a Nov. SVdP of Contra Costa County is also 15 statement. “The families in Paradise accepting donations to assist survivors of and the surrounding communities affected fires in Northern and Southern California. Helping poor not a fad, it’s a duty by the fire can rely on the support of our Donate: www.svdp-cc.org or send checks prayers. We also pray for the brave men to SVdP of Contra Costa County, 2210 As the rich get richer, the increasing the grace to hear the cries of all the poor: and women responding to this disaster and Gladstone Drive, Pittsburg, CA 94565, misery and cries of the poor are ignored “the stifled cry of the unborn, of starving battling the fires. May all those who have Attn: Fire Assistance. every day, said. children, of young people more used to the died in this catastrophic inferno be granted Parishioners at St. Raymond Parish in “We Christians cannot stand with arms explosion of bombs than happy shouts of eternal repose in the merciful hands of the Dublin held a Tri-Valley Food and Supply folded in indifference” or thrown up in the the playground.” Lord Jesus.” Drive for fire victims the weekend of Nov. air in helpless resignation, the pope said May people hear the cry of the aban- Donations to aid for victims may be 16-18, routing aid via the Hope Center in in his homily Nov. 18, the World Day of doned elderly, those who lack any support, made online at www.catholiccharitiesusa. Oroville. the Poor. refugees and “entire peoples deprived “As believers, we must stretch out our even of the great natural resources at their hands as Jesus does with us,” freely and disposal,” he said. lovingly offering help to the poor and all Referring to the Gospel story of the those in need, the pope said at the Mass poor man begging for scraps, Pope in St. Peter’s Basilica. About 6,000 poor Francis said many people today are just ADVERTISERS people attended the Mass as special like Lazarus and “weep while the wealthy guests; they were joined by volunteers few feast on what, in justice, belongs to all. and others who assist disadvantaged Injustice is the perverse root of poverty.” You now have the opportunity to reach the large communities. 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church from the scandal of . Resolve . . . It’s not just an “American problem.” (Continued from Page 1.) Look at Chile, Ireland, Australia and now bishops reported through a third-party Germany. My personal opinion is that the compliance hotline. We will complete a US bishops are ahead of the curve on proposal for a single national lay commis- the issue, and that the Holy See doesn’t sion and a proposal for a national network want us to get too far ahead of the rest of relying upon the established diocesan the Church. review boards, with their lay expertise, to On the other hand, I believe other be overseen by the metropolitan or senior countries are looking for us to lead — suffragan. since we were the first to come up with 2. Finalizing the Standards of the “Charter for Protection of Minors” in Accountability for Bishops. 2002, which has been very effective. Of 3. Finalizing the Protocol for Removed all the hundreds of complaints of abuse Bishops. mentioned in the Pennsylvania report, 4. Studying national guidelines for the which stretched back decades, only two publication of lists of names of those cler- priests from the seven were ics facing substantiated claims of abuse. identified as having offended since 2002. 5. Supporting the fair and timely The charter is working. completion of the various investigations One last thing. I have attended 10 ple- into the situation surrounding Archbishop nary sessions of the 250-300 US bishops McCarrick and publication of their results. since being installed in Oakland. At each We are grateful for the Holy See’s state- meeting, the first address is given by the ment of Oct. 6 in this regard. Papal to the , the I left the six-day meeting feeling we US Holy Father’s personal representative. At bishops were more united and determined every meeting all the bishops stood and than ever to lead the way in the protec- applauded the nuncio at the beginning and tion of minors, and the purification of the end of his speech. This time no one stood.

Bishop elected to Education Committee Staff and wire report religious and priests in assisting the mis- BALTIMORE — Oakland’s Bishop sion of Catholic education in our American Michael C. Barber, SJ, was selected chair- church.” man-elect of the Committee on Catholic Bishop Barber previously served Education of the United States Catholic as director of the School of Pastoral Bishops’ Conference on Nov. 14 during the Leadership in the Archdiocese of San bishops’ fall general assembly. Francisco. He will replace Bishop John Bishop Barber won out over Bishop M. Quinn of the Diocese of Winona- J. Malloy of Rockford, Illinois, 142-103. Rochester, . Bishop Quinn had “Years ago I entered the Jesuits with been serving as interim-chair of the com- the hope of being a high school teacher mittee following the departure of Bishop and coach,” Bishop Barber said. “I look George Murry, who resigned following a forward to working with our lay colleagues, diagnosis of leukemia.

Are you or a loved one experiencing homosexual/ attractions and looking for answers within the Catholic Church?

The Diocese of Oakland offers support to persons with same-sex attraction through the ministry of Courage, an apostolate of the Roman Catholic Church. For more information please contact us at [email protected] or call 650-450-2286 for information about Courage chapters throughout the Bay Area, and Encourage, which ministers to relatives and friends of persons with same-sex attractions. 4 — THE CATHOLIC VOICE NOVEMBER 26, 2018 Vatican stalls . . . Seeking racial justice in America (Continued from Page 1.) Facing an auditorium packed with hun- By Michele Jurich dreds of bishops, he announced that an Staff writer eleventh-hour directive from the Holy See Rev. Bryan Massingale wrote the book barred the assembly from voting on the on Catholic justice racial justice and the critical proposals. Catholic Church. The decision, he told his brother bish- A large and receptive audience at ops, was made at “the insistence of the Mary’s College of California proved Holy See” and reached him the previous to be enthusiastic listeners to Father evening. Massingale’s lecture Nov. 13, which he Later, he explained that the directive gave as the 2018 Montini Fellow. The had come from the Congregation for fellowship is awarded annually by Bishop Bishops, and he was told the Holy See John S. Cummins Institute for Catholic wanted to delay votes on such measures Thought, Culture and Action, on the Saint until the conclusion of the February 2019 Mary’s campus. meeting in Rome that Pope Francis has On the eve of the Bishops’ conference called to address the global clergy-abuse vote on its pastoral letter on racial jus- crisis. tice — four years in the making — Father “The faithful and the clergy do not trust Massingale offered some education to those many of you. They are angry and frus- in the audience who included not only stu- trated, no longer satisfied with words and dents and those affiliated with the college, even with prayer,” said Francesco Cesareo,

but a contingent from St. Columba Church VOICE CHRISTINE THE SCHRECK/SPECIAL TO CATHOLIC chairman of the , in in Oakland — where he will be a guest in a presentation on the board’s findings to Rev. Bryan N. Massingale, center, is recognized as the 2018 Montini Fellow in February — and other community members. the bishops. “They seek action that signals Catholic Higher Education at Saint Mary’s College of California, by President Father Massingale, the James and a cultural change from the leadership of James Donahue, left, and the Most Rev. Bishop John S. Cummins, bishop emeritus Nancy Buckman Chair in Applied Christian the Church.” of Oakland. The fellowship is awarded annually by the Bishop John S. Cummins Ethics at , is one of the Outside the Marriott hotel where the Institute for Catholic Thought, Culture and Action on the Saint Mary’s campus. nation’s leading Catholic social ethicists and assembly had gathered, protesters carried scholars of African American theological relationships.” signs calling for the “reform” of the Church. ethics, racial justice and liberation theology Learn more Discussion of racial injustice is difficult. Clearly worried that the unexpected The lecture — “When Order Masks “White comfort sets the limits on discus- order from Rome would stir further frus- Disorder: The Limits of Dialogue in “Racial Justice and the sion,” he said. But if the church is to make tration and anger, Cardinal DiNardo made Catholic Approaches to Racial Justice” Catholic Church” strides — calling racism a radical evil, clear that the USCCB leadership was — offered a look at how the US Catholic By Bryan N. Massingale for example — that discussion will have undeterred. bishops have responded to recent events. to begin. “We remain committed to the program Saint Mary’s College of California He suggested methods to improve those Radical evil calls for a radical response, of episcopal accountability,” he stated www.stmarys-ca.edu responses; encouraged the students in the which he said we have not seen in the emphatically. room to put the principles of their Lasallian Catholic Church. Most striking of all, perhaps, was education to work in the world; and left the a response from the faith community for Father Massingale likened his own Cardinal DiNardo’s repeated pledge of gathering on a hopeful note. the sake of the Gospel and the integrity participation in the quest for racial justice obedience to Pope Francis. Looking at the times through the lens of of its faith.” to a relay race. “When you run a relay race, Archbishop of the Class of 2019, Father Massingale not- Father Massingale dissected state- you’re not necessarily going to be the one San Francisco then gave a long interven- ed the social upheaval and responses from ments from US bishops after national who breaks the tape at the finish line,” he tion in which he described what he has Charleston, South Carolina, where a white events including involving racial violence said. “Your responsibility is to run the best been hearing from Catholics in his area. supremacist shot and killed nine African and said their suggestions — usually race you can run so the person after you From this listening, Cordileone said he Americans at a church prayer group, to involving calls for dialogue, calm and res- can run the best race they can run.” has found that Catholics tend to fall in one the police shooting of a security guard at toration of order — fell short. He pointed to the example of St. of two camps regarding the abuse crisis: a bar who was disarming a patron but was Dialogue with white supremacists John Baptist de La Salle, founder of the the first camp believes that the Church is mistaken by the police to be the one with in Charlottesville, , for example, Christian Brothers, whose mission to not talking about the real problem, which the weapon and killed just days ago. would nor prove fruitful. educate the poor was not an act of charity, is the prevalence homosexuality among “We are living at a time of increased “Racial injustice is not based on Father Massingale said. “It’s a revolution.” the clergy and its correlation with abuse, racial tensions, polarization and division misunderstanding or ignorance,” Father Addressing the students in the room, he said. that this country has witnessed in over Massingale said. “Racial injustice is about he said, “I want you to carry the baton. I The second camp believes that the real two generations,” he said. “This is the state the distribution of goods, advantages want you to run your race, for the sake of problem is an all-male hierarchy, “because of our country, and this is what calls for and benefits; a system of unequal social those who will come after you.” women would never have allowed this to happen,” and therefore women must be invited in to all levels of the clergy. He pointed to a recent study by Father Bishops overwhelmingly approve letter against racism D. Paul Sullins, a Catholic priest and retired Catholic University of America BALTIMORE (CNS) — The U.S. bish- Bishops speaking on the pastoral pastoral’s message is needed, as the sociology professor. Sullins’ analysis ops overwhelmingly approved a pastoral gave clear consent to the letter’s mes- civil rights movement “began 60 years found a rising trend in abuse and argued letter against racism Nov. 14 during their sage. ago and we’re still working on achieving that the evidence strongly suggests links fall general meeting at Baltimore. “This statement is very important and the goals in this document.” between sexual abuse of minors and The document, “Open Wide Our very timely,” said Bishop John E. Stowe Archbishop F. Naumann of two factors: a disproportionate number Hearts: The Enduring Call to Love — A of Lexington, Kentucky. He appreciated Kansas City, Kansas, said he was grate- of homosexual clergy and the mani- Pastoral Letter Against Racism,” passed that the letter took note of the racism suf- ful for the pastoral’s declaration that “an festation of a “homosexual subculture” 241-3 with one abstention. It required a fered by and Native attack against the dignity of the human in . two-thirds vote by all bishops, or 183 Americans, “two pieces of our national person is an attack on the dignity of life “The worst thing we could do is dis- votes, for passage. The voting is done history that we have not reconciled.” itself.” credit this study so we can ignore or deny by secret ballot. “This will be a great, fruitful docu- Bishop Thomas J. Olmsted of Phoenix this reality,” Cordileone said. “We have to “Despite many promising strides ment for discussion,” said Bishop Barry said the letter will be welcome among lean into it...to ignore it would be fleeing made in our country, the ugly cancer of C. Knestout of Richmond, Virginia, in Native Americans, who populate 11 mis- from the truth.” racism still infects our nation,” the pas- whose diocese the violence-laden “Unite sions in the diocese, African Americans The archbishop recommended fur- toral letter says. “Racist acts are sinful the Right” rally was held last year. Bishop in Arizona — “I think we were the last ther studies into the correlation between because they violate justice. They reveal Knestout added the diocese has already of the 50 states to be part of the Martin homosexuality and sexual abuse, one a failure to acknowledge the human dig- conducted listening sessions on racism. Luther King Jr. national holiday,” he that avoids “quick and easy answers” and nity of the persons offended, to recognize Bishop Robert J. Baker of Birmingham, noted — and Hispanics, who make up would attempt to find the root causes of them as the neighbors Christ calls us to , in what he called “ground zero 80 percent of all diocesan Catholics this correlation. love,” it adds. for the civil rights movement,” said the under age 20. Cordileone’s was the first intervention met with applause from many bishops. Remembrance Tree Celebration Start a new family tradition and join us for our Annual Remembrance Tree and Candlelight Vigil Prayer Ceremony. Honor the memory of your loved one by placing photos and notes within a personal ornament. (800) 498-4989 | cfcsoakland.org Holy Cross Cemetery | Friday, December 7th | 6:30pm Holy Sepulchre Cemetery | Thursday, December 6th | 6:30-8:30pm Queen of Heaven | Saturday, December 1st | Following 11:00am Mass St. Joseph Cemetery | Saturday, December 1st | Following 11:00am Mass Sorensen’s Chapel | Saturday, December 8th | 5:00 PM NOVEMBER 26, 2018 THE CATHOLIC VOICE — 5 Ministry journeys with those who experience same-sex attraction By Michele Jurich Staff writer Courage goals Contact Courage Catholics who experience same-sex attraction may walk a lonely road. That • Live chaste lives in accordance with the Roman Catholic Church’s teaching on Courage and Encourage International doesn’t have to be the case. homosexuality. (Chastity) is an apostolate that offers support Courage International, an apostolate for those who experience same-sex of the Catholic Church, is there to journey •  To dedicate our entire lives to Christ through service to others, spiritual reading, attractions and their loved ones. with them. prayer, meditation, individual spiritual direction, frequent attendance at Mass and In the Diocese of the frequent reception of the of Reconciliation and Holy . [email protected] Oakland, that com- (Prayer and Dedication) 650-450-2286 panion is Rev. John Direen, of • To foster a spirit of fellowship in which we may share with one another our thoughts St. David of Wales and experiences, and so ensure that no one will have to face the problems of my son or daughter to have a same-sex Parish in Richmond, homosexuality alone. (Fellowship) relationship? who serves as the “I have to reassure them about the ministry’s chaplain • To be mindful of the truth that chaste friendships are not only possible but also church’s teaching but also reassure them in the Oakland dio- necessary in a chaste Christian life, and to encourage one another in forming the ministry is here for everybody.” Rev. Direen cese. Father Francisco and sustaining these friendships. (Support) A particularly heart-wrenching example Figueroa-Esquer, parochial vicar at St. would be parents who are invited to a Joseph Parish in Pinole, is the chaplain • To live lives that may serve as good examples to others. (Good example/Role child’s same-sex wedding. for the Spanish-speaking. model) There are different ways for us to be Father Direen’s ministry is, for the most present to people, Father Direen said. Source: Courage International, https://couragerc.org part, individual. A group meets from time “We don’t abandon our children. We don’t to time, he said. alienate them in any way, shape or form. “Most of my ministry is one-on-one,” mission: to help people live the Gospel. It’s Sometimes people looking for more pri- We reassure them. Your mother, father Father Direen said. “Our Courage group a ministry for adults. “People who have a vacy, prefer going to a meeting outside your pastor, we love you and want to be does not meet regularly. We meet as often certain sense of who they are, and their their own communities. Groups meet in part of your life. as people want to meet. We don’t have a faith, and how they fit together,” he said. the Archdiocese of San Francisco and the “But at the same time, here’s regular day of the week we’re currently In this ministry, Father Direen has met Diocese of San Jose. where we are in our faith. We have meeting; in the past we have.” people at various points in their lives, from Father Direen also ministers to the our priorities. When members request a meet- college students to retirees. “It’s a wide loved ones of those with same-sex attrac- “God is No. 1. That’s the First ing, they do get together at St. David of range,” he said. tion. Mostly parents, often the mother, is Commandment. After that, we discern, Wales Parish. The parish setting provides Courage groups generally work better the one to make the call to Courage. how do we live out that priority? For every an opportunity for the Sacrament of when there are separate groups for men “A lot of our ministry is not just to people single one of us, it’s a struggle. It doesn’t Reconciliation, or to be present at a daily and for women. who have same-sex attraction but to family matter what our tendencies are, tempta- Mass or Eucharistic Adoration. Father Direen has worked with a members or friends who don’t know how tions are: We all struggle to make God A meeting would include prayer, goals, Courage group that had both men and to cope, or talk about the issue,” he said. No. 1,” he said. “That’s what we all have Scripture and reflection. “We close with women. “When a group gets large enough, “Having some other resource, someone to in common.” prayer, and the option for confessions,” he it’s probably better to have their own turn to, is helpful.” That’s the starting point, he said. said. There are guidelines for sharing, and group,” he said. Father Direen meets with the family; Everybody struggles to make God No. 1. for confidentiality. A person interested in Courage would they usually meet a couple of times, he Courage International does offer Over the past nine years of the minis- begin by meeting with Father Direen. “I said, but it can be more. Encourage, a ministry for family members. try, he said, there have been about three don’t invite anyone to come to a meet- A family member might have questions There is an active group in the Bay Area dozen members. People come and go, he ing until I’ve had a chance to meet with about the Church teaching. that Father Direen can refer to family mem- said, some move from the area, or may them personally, to make sure this is what “I reassure them of the Church’s bers. Although there is not such a group in decide to join another Courage group in they’re looking for,” he said. teaching,” Father Direen said. “That’s one the Oakland diocese, he said he is open to the Bay Area. He also lets them know there are of the first questions they have. Has the the possibility and always welcomes those Courage is a ministry with a simple three Courage groups in the Bay Area. Church changed its teaching ? Is it OK for who wish to speak with him. Holiday Guide COURTESY PHOTO COURTESY

Court of the Year Join us at Scott’s Members of Court 336 of the Ladies Auxiliary to celebrate of — Lil Brown-Parker, LeAnn Hall, Mallory Trevigne, Linda Palmeri, Wallitia your holiday Sykes-Bush and Lottie Sonnie — gathered around Grand Lady Tamara Bell-Murray moments after tradition. the group was named Court of the Year at the As a Courtesy to our Loyal national convention of the fraternal organization guests we are now accepting in August in Anaheim. The court, which is based advance reservations for your at Oakland’s St. Benedict Parish, is extensively involved in the life of the parish with members HOLIDAY EVENT serving as Eucharistic ministers, lectors, choir Exclusive Private Dining Rooms members and as CCD director and teachers and Offsite Catering available for First Communion and Confirmation candi- 510-444-5969 dates as well as on various parish committees. The court also hosts fundraisers for its annual scholarship fund, awarded each year to a young woman of color attending a Catholic high school in the Oakland diocese. Members of the court are Jack London Square, Oakland #2 Broadway (510) 444-3456 Validated Parking also active in outreach activities involving the | | | St. Vincent de Paul Society, St. Mary’s Center in Since 1976 Walnut Creek | 1333 No. California Blvd. | (925) 934-1300 | Complimentary Valet Parking Oakland and the Alameda County Community www.scottseastbay.com Food Bank. 6 — THE CATHOLIC VOICE NOVEMBER 26, 2018 Pilgrimages CNS The portrait of St. Marianne Cope of Molokai is seen DARLENE DELA CRUZ/HAWAII CATHOLIC HERALD, CNS HERALD, CATHOLIC DELA CRUZ/HAWAII DARLENE in a display at St. Francis Church on the Hawaiian This exterior view taken July 24 shows Honolulu’s Cathedral Basilica of Our Lady of Peace. Island of Molokai. Hawaii’s two saints move hearts Staff and wire report dedicated in 1843, claims to be the oldest cathedral in Hawaii’s two saints have a spiritual power that can continuous use in the United States. It is the church where heal and move hearts. St. Damien was ordained a priest in 1864 and which St. Damien de Veuster, the 19th-century Belgian mis- greeted St. Marianne when she arrived in Hawaii. The sionary, ministered to people with relics of both saints are kept there. leprosy in Hawaii before dying of the The cathedral was named a disease. basilica in 2014. St. Damien was His story has been the subject of canonized in 2009 and St. Marianne two secular movies, “, in 2012 the Leper Priest,” a 1973 TV movie, Honolulu Bishop Larry Silva, a and the more recent “Molokai: The Hawaii native and former priest of the Story of Father Damien,” a 1999 film. Oakland diocese, said the cathedral St. Marianne Cope and six com- is “a spiritual destination for visitors panion sisters arrived in Hawaii in from all over the world.” Bishop Silva Rev. Landeza 1883 from Syracuse at the request “It is a place of pilgrimage for visi- of the Hawaiian Kingdom to help care for natives who tors and residents alike,” he said when the cathedral was had contracted the then incurable Hansen’s disease, or made a basilica. leprosy. What was supposed to be a temporary assign- Bishop Silva will accompany pilgrims on a Catholic ment for the nun, who was the superior of her New York Voice visit to the island of Molokai, where St. Damien HARING/CNS PAUL community at the time, turned out to be a permanent one ministered to those with Hansen’s disease, also known as A tapestry showing St. Damien de Veuster was dis- as she chose to stay where she felt she was most needed. leprosy, in the late 1800s. The Voice pilgrimage is sched- played at St. Peter’s Basilica at the Vatican at the Honolulu’s Cathedral Basilica of Our Lady of Peace, (Continued on Page 7.) saint’s .

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Join The Catholic Voice & Unitours, Inc. for a Informational Q & A meeting Spiritual Guide about the Marian Shrines Pilgrimage. Have your travel questions answered or find a roommate. Saturday, January 12, 2019 • 12:30 – 1:30 p.m. at St. Columba Church – Parish Hall 6401 San Pablo Ave., Oakland (between 64th Street and Ocean) RSVP: [email protected] or 510-419-1081 Fr. Richard Mangini

The Catholic Voice invites you to enjoy an incredible journey! A Marian Shrines Pilgrimage Fatima, Santiago de Compostela, Santander, Lourdes, Montserrat & Barcelona September 23 – October 2, 2019 • 10 Days $3,999* from SFO Includes round-trip airfare from SFO, taxes, surcharges, hotel, breakfast & Table D’ Hote dinners daily as noted on itinerary, air-conditioned motor coach & full-time tour manager. *Double occupancy. NOVEMBER 26, 2018 THE CATHOLIC VOICE — 7 Pilgrimages Hawaii’s . . . (Continued from Page 6.) uled to leave Sept. 8-14, 2019. It is limited to 42 pilgrims. Rev. Jayson Landeza, pastor of St. Benedict Parish in Oakland and who is partly of Hawaiian descent, will be the group’s spiritual guide. In addition to many liturgical events and visits to reli- gious sites, the trip will also include stops at Pearl Harbor, Hanauma Bay, the Pali Lookout and the Waimea Valley. For more details, see the advertisement below. At the time of her canonization, Bishop Silva said the bones of St. Marianne have a spiritual power that can heal and move hearts. “It is the ‘mana’ of St. Marianne that brings us together,” he said at the time. “The mortal remains of this frail crea- ture of God, made from dust and returning to dust, have an incredible spirit of their own, an aura that makes us want to be near them. “We want to touch the relics of this woman who dedi- cated herself to healing, so that we may be healed and may be healers,” he said. Bishop Silva said St. Marianne’s “‘mana’ radiates from these mortal bones so that the Holy Spirit may penetrate into our bones and lead us to feed the hungry on our streets, to welcome the stranger on our borders.” St. Marianne opened a hospital on Maui and a home

for the healthy children of leprosy patients before moving CNS in 1888 to the leprosy settlement in Kalaupapa. Among Protestant, Catholic and Orthodox clergy take part in a special church service for the famous “Passion Play” other duties there, she ran Bishop Home, a complex (Passionsspiele) in Oberammergau, Germany, May 15, 2010. The play is a 350-year-old tradition of bring- of cottages for the female patients. She died of natural ing the life of Jesus to the stage every 10 years. A half million people saw the play in its last run in 2010. causes in 1918 in Kalaupapa and was the only Sister of St. Francis to be buried there. She was canonized by Pope Benedict XVI in 2012. In the 125 years since her arrival, her sisters have Second pilgrimage set to see Oberammergau continued their ministry in Kalaupapa in addition to open- ing hospitals and schools on other islands and attracting By Rev. Richard Mangini In addition, we will visit Prague, Czech Republic, one hundreds of local vocations. Special to The Catholic Voice of the most beautiful and enchanting old cities of Europe, St. Marianne’s remains were exhumed in 2005 in From the time I attended Queen of All Saints School which hosts the ancient statue of the Infant of Prague in preparation for her that year and enshrined in Concord more than 60 years ago, I have heard about the Church of Our Lady of the Victorious. in her motherhouse chapel in Syracuse. Their return to the Oberammergau Passion Play in We will also see the stunning 10th Century Benedictine Hawaii was necessitated by the closing and relocation of Germany. Abbey of Melk perched on the high promontory over the the motherhouse. The staging, the acting and the River Danube — all to end with the beautiful cities of St. Damien, a member of the Congregation of the orchestral music involves the entire Mozart’s Salzburg and Vienna. Sacred Hearts of Jesus and Mary, worked on the island small town. Celebrated and re- One Oberammergau pilgrimage has been filled of Hawaii for eight years before volunteering in 1873 to enacted every 10 years, this is my last already. This will be the last opportunity as no more tickets work at a leprosy colony on Molokai, where he served opportunity to see this extraordinary to the production will be available. as pastor, doctor and counselor to some 800 patients. production before I die. Let us go to be inspired. Our Holy Week at home will In 1884 he contracted leprosy but, refusing to leave the I am inviting you to accompany me never be the same. island for treatment, continued to work until the month and 45 others to this one of a lifetime (Father Richard Mangini is pastor emeritus at St. Rev. Mangini before his death at age 49 in 1889. experiences. Parish, Concord.)

The Catholic Voice invites you on a Hawaiian Pilgrimage! Honor the Great Saints of Hawai’i! Saint Damien of Molokai & Saint Marianne Cope September 8 -14, 2019 (7 days) $2,899* from SFO NONSTOP Includes: round-trip airfare from SFO to Honolulu, Molokai excursion, taxes, surcharges, hotel, breakfast, meals per itinerary , tours, Royal Hawaiian Luau, air-conditioned motor coach, & full-time tour manager. (*per person based on double occupancy) Highlights include: Celebrate Mass at St. Church with Bishop Larry Silva on Kalaupapa with a private tour of Molokai, discover St. Damien’s teaching of the Catholic faith to Hawaii, St. Patrick’s Church with the collection of artifacts of St. Damien, Mass at St. Augustine by the Sea, Mass at the Cathedral Basilica of Our Lady of Peace, a tour of Pearl Harbor and Mass at the Pearl Harbor Catholic Chapel, tour of Honolulu and the Dole Planation & Royal Hawaiian Luau on Waikiki Beach.

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Join The Catholic Voice & Unitours, Inc. for an Informational Q & A Meeting About the Shrines of France Pilgrimage. Have your travel questions answered or find a roommate. Sunday, January 13, 2019 • 12:00 p.m.–1:00 p.m. At Our Lady of Lourdes–Parish Hall 2808 Lakeshore Ave., Oakland R.S.V.P. [email protected] Or 510-419-1081 NOVEMBER 26, 2018 THE CATHOLIC VOICE — 9 Gift of Giving

“ The best thing I did in ministry was to teach children the Gospel through plays,” says Sister Clare Vandecoevering, 88. “Oh, they were just delighted!” A member of the Sisters of St. Mary of Oregon, she spent over 50 years in the classroom. AL DONNER/SPECIAL TO THE CATHOLIC VOICE AL THE DONNER/SPECIAL TO CATHOLIC Thrift store volunteer Robert Harris is one of 800 SVdP volunteers. Wheelchair no barrier to Retirement SVdP Contra Costa volunteer By Al Donner homeless, those needing transportation, Special to The Catholic Voice people seeking medical and dental help Amid the challenge of helping people in and people who are among the most - need during 2018, perhaps one St. Vincent challenged among the unemployed. Fund for de Paul of Contra Costa volunteer is both SVdP’s 800 volunteers give more than typical — and more remarkable than most. 50,000 hours a year to help fulfill its mis- With a smile on his face and a friendly sion of helping people in need. greeting for all, Robert Harris is a cheer- SVdP outreach provides more than ful volunteer in the Pittsburg SVdP Thrift 107,000 meals or food to people in Store, helping wherever needed. Robert need, medical help to 1,500 through the Religious sorts donations, sweeps and mops, moves RotaCare free clinic in Pittsburg operated items, even furniture — from his wheelchair. cooperatively with Rotary Clubs, a winter “Robert embodies the rich spirit of the day shelter for homeless families, plus Vincentian volunteer, ever ready to help 7,000 winter coats distributed. SVdP also Please give to those who have given a lifetime. those less fortunate to improve their lives,” trains chronically unemployed people in a says Ron Costanzo, president of Contra six-month workforce development program Costa SVdP. that builds their job success skills while With knowledge Harris gained working providing a modest income. with his father, an antiques dealer, he often Volunteers in the 28 parish-based helps evaluate donations that come to the SVdP Contra Costa conferences work Thrift store. closely with people in need in their immedi- Why does he volunteer? ate areas. They assist in a range of ways “I like to help people,” Harris says sim- — food packages, transportation, clothing, ply. At the thrift store he helps and also rental assistance and more. brightens lives. Helping certainly requires Costanzo summed up 2018 as “a year an effort, for travels by public bus from his marked by unexpected disaster both at the Antioch home to volunteer in the store. store and in the individual lives of people Just as Harris’ volunteer effort is far we help. from routine, 2018 was far from routine “Yet 2018 ended up as a year of huge for Contra Costa SVdP as it helped more success through the tremendous energy of than 48,000 people in need. the Vincentian volunteers, the generosity A fire badly damaged the SVdP Thrift of hundreds of people who donated time, Store in Pleasant Hill in late 2017. A monu- goods and funds to help the poor in our Sister Clare (top) is one of 31,000 senior Catholic sisters, mental scramble to rebuild and reopen community in so many areas of need, plus followed — at the same time SVdP was the work of our small full-time staff,” says brothers, and religious order priests who benefits hurrying to complete a third Thrift Store, Costanzo, who is a 12-year Vincentian from the Retirement Fund for Religious. Your gift helps long planned for Brentwood. volunteer. The new store opened in February; the “We are blessed and humbled by the religious communities care for aging members and plan rebuilt store in May. good work accomplished. It is Robert and for future needs. Please be generous. Amid those challenges SVdP vol- the many other volunteers who make unteers and staff continued to help SVdP such a wonderful and effective way people deep in need — the hungry, the to help people in need.”

Clinic collaboration receives recognition Almost 94 percent of donations Staff report and San Ramon Valley. Since opening, directly aid senior religious. St. Vincent de Paul of Contra Costa the clinic has provided more than 11,000 County is a recipient of a 2018 East Bay patient visits to the uninsured. Philanthropy Award. SVdP was recog- Hundreds of volunteer medical pro- nized for its contribution of time, leader- fessionals donate their time to treat the To donate: ship and financial support for this year’s patients’ free-of-charge. The clinic is led Diocese of Oakland Outstanding Collaborative Project, the by volunteer Dr. Hamid Khonsari, medical Office for Mission Advancement RotaCare Pittsburg Free Medical Clinic director; Drea Riquelme, clinic operations 2121 Harrison Street, Suite 100 at St. Vincent de Paul. The clinic is a col- manager; and Pamela Di Franco, clinic laboration by St. Vincent de Paul of Contra nurse manager. Oakland CA 94612 Costa, RotaCare Bay Area, local Rotary About two dozen organizations, includ- Make check payable to Diocese of Oakland/RFR. Clubs and many other community organi- ing civic groups, foundations and health zations and volunteers. care providers, are part of the collabora- Or give at your local parish December 8-9. In 2010, SVdP built a four-exam-room tion. clinic at its Family Resource Center in The clinic sees patients by appoint- Pittsburg. The clinic operates in partner- ment only from 4 to 7 p.m. Wednesdays, ship with RotaCare Bay Area for the and 9 to 11 a.m. on the second and fourth clinic’s license and malpractice insurance. Saturdays of the month. The clinic serves retiredreligious.org The clinic is sponsored by the Alamo and adults who are 18 and older and have Pittsburg Rotary Clubs, and co-sponsored no health insurance. Dial 925-439-2009 by the clubs of Antioch, Brentwood, between 1-3 p.m. Wednesdays for either Photos: Meet them at retiredreligious.org/2018 photos. Danville, Danville-Sycamore, Delta- a same-day appointment or a Saturday ©2018 United States Conference of Catholic Bishops, Washington, DC. All rights reserved. Photographer: Jim Judkis. Antioch, Dougherty Valley, San Ramon appointment. 10 — THE CATHOLIC VOICE NOVEMBER 26, 2018 Gift of Giving Support our elderly Sisters, Brothers and order priests Special to The Catholic Voice each eligible community’s central house. providing data to the NRRO, only 4 per- The annual Retirement Fund for Visit retiredreligious.org Although women and men religious often cent are adequately funded for retirement. Religious collection will be held Dec. 8-9 to learn more minister outside their home dioceses, they Compounding the financial crisis are the in the Diocese of Oakland. Coordinated by may benefit from the allocations disbursed rising cost of care and the increasing the National Religious to their individual orders. number of those needing care. Retirement Office and their communities, with the remaining “Donations to the Retirement Fund for Catholic bishops of the United States in Washington, the funds used for administration and promo- Religious have a far-reaching impact,” said initiated the national collection in 1988 appeal benefits 31,000 tion of the national appeal. Presentation Sister Stephanie Still, who to help address the deficit in retirement elderly Catholic sis- The 2017 collection raised just more grew up in the East Bay and is the NRRO’s funding among U.S. religious communi- ters, brothers and than $28 million, and the NRRO disbursed executive director. “Most importantly, they ties. Since the collection was launched, religious order priests. $25 million to 360 religious communities help communities care for aging members, U.S. Catholics have donated $844 million The Diocese of for the direct care of elderly members. but they also underwrite initiatives aimed to the appeal, helping many communities Oakland donated Communities combine these funds with at addressing the underlying causes of the stabilize their retirement outlook. $232,860.68 to the last their own income and savings to help funding shortages.” “We are overwhelmed by the ongo- Sister Still collection. In 2018, the furnish necessities such as medications Religious orders are financially autono- ing generosity toward the annual appeal following religious congregations with cen- and nursing care. Throughout the year, mous and thus responsible for the support and by the love and thanksgiving for tral houses located in the diocese received additional funding is allocated for congre- of all members. Traditionally, Catholic sis- the service of our elder religious,” said a combined total of $266,515.93 in finan- gations with critical needs and for retire- ters, brothers and religious order priests Sister Still. “Our office is committed to cial assistance made possible by the ment planning and educational resources. — known collectively as women and men stewarding these funds in ways that Retirement Fund for Religious: Conventual Religious communities apply annu- religious — served for little to no pay. help religious communities care for older Franciscans and Franciscan Friars. Almost ally for financial support from the national Today, hundreds of orders lack sufficient members while continuing to serve the 94 percent of donations aid senior religious collection, and distributions are sent to retirement savings. Of 547 communities People of God.” Local charities deliver Christmas season wish lists Alameda County frail or isolated seniors remain safely in of the Holy Names. for women and children who experienced their own homes as long as possible while Need: Volunteer tutors, cash donations homelessness because of domestic vio- Community Food Bank also helping ensure that each senior has for literacy books; financial assistance for lence, rent increases, job loss, substance ACCFB serves 1 in 5 Alameda County a compassionate friend. Seniors who students unable to afford a bus pass or to abuse and mental health challenges. Our residents by distributing 30 million meals, might otherwise feel lonely and despairing pay the cost of high school equivalency mission is to support women and children through more than 200 community part- receive support and companionship from examination fees. in their transition to independence by cre- ners, as well as mobile market and school kind, trained volunteers. The program cre- Where: 2222 Curtis St., Oakland ating and maintaining a nurturing, coop- programs. ates long-term one-on-one relationships 94607 erative living environment that provides In 2016, ACCFB was named Feeding which become an enriching experience Contact: Lisa Stringer, executive direc- resources, hospitality and respect. America Food Bank of the Year. For 12 for the seniors who receive care as well tor or Peggy Presley, program director, Need: Gift cards (Safeway, Target, consecutive years, Alameda County as for the volunteers. Some of the services 510-251-1731 Walmart, Ross, Trader Joe’s), household Community Food Bank has received provided are friendly visits, social out- goods (bleach, wipes, dish-washing liq- Charity Navigator’s top rating — Four ings, transportation and escort to medical Nights on the Streets uid, detergent for washing clothes, toilet Stars — ranking the organization among appointments, respite assistance to give a paper and paper towels); personal care the top 1 percent of charities nationwide. break to a family caregiver, reading mail, — Catholic Worker items (shampoo, deodorant, shower gel, Learn more at www.accfb.org letter writing, and help with shopping and Hospitality to the Body of Christ (the lotion), baby items (diapers and wipes); Need: Monetary donations; non-perish- errands. Founded in 1998 as a collabora- homeless and needy in local communi- canned goods (green beans, cranberry able food items; volunteer time. tion between John Muir Health, social ties) by providing food, clothing, shelter, sauce, peas, black eye peas, corn, pinto Where: 7900 Edgewater Drive, service agencies and congregations of counseling and referral, and assisting beans); children’s clothing (coats, pants Oakland 94621 various faiths, Caring Hands serves those others who do so. and jackets). Contact: www.accfb.org or 800-870-3663 over the age of 60 in Central, East and Need: Prayers for health, guidance Where: 6423 Colby St., Oakland 94618 South Contra Costa County, and is always and the support of our continuing works of Contact: 510-658-1380 free of charge. mercy; financial support for our 22nd year Website: www.oakehouse.org Bay Area Crisis Nursery Need: Volunteers who are available of hospitality for our unsheltered brothers The Bay Area Crisis Nursery’s mission 1-3 hours for a weekly match or to provide and sisters; volunteers to prepare and St. Vincent de Paul of is child abuse prevention. The only crisis occasional rides; monetary donations for service thrice-weekly “soup nights” each nursery in the Bay Area, it provides short- program support winter (this includes cooking 10 gallons of Contra Costa County term residential care for children to give Mail address: 2855 Mitchell Drive, soup and distributing the same evening); Founded in 1964, the Society of St. parents time to focus on solving a crisis Suite 100, Walnut Creek, CA 94598 servers for our Sunday breakfast served Vincent de Paul offers Thanksgiving and and for parents under extraordinary stress Contact: Stacy Appel, Volunteer al fresco at two locations in Berkeley. (Our Christmas programs to support the needy that need a break and support. Knowing Coordinator, 925-952-2999 or Caring. bishop, Michael C. Barber, SJ, comes and from its centralized District Council-Family their children are safe, the parents can [email protected] serves at this event — get to know and Resource Center in Pittsburg and 28 par- make better use of other services to serve with your bishop!). Sleeping bags ish-based branches throughout the county. resolve crisis like homelessness, mental Catholic Charities are always needed and forever in short Christmas Food Program: Registration or physical illness and a myriad of other supply. A structure capable of housing required, food gift cards provided to 100 unexpected emergencies. of the East Bay 8-10 workers and guests including an families with children. Need: New toys (no war, violent toys, Catholic Charities of the East Bay helps expanded kitchen; a food storage area Need: Volunteers, cash donations, food guns or violent action figures) for ages six families in need rise above poverty and live and extended bathroom/shower facilities to donations for our food pantries to 18 months and 18 months to five years self-sufficient lives. Founded in 1935, it is supplement existing shelter and hospitality Where: SVdP, 2210 Gladstone Drive, of age, clothes (for all ages), books for all devoted to providing social services and facilities in the East Bay. Pittsburg 94565 age groups, sports equipment, and G-rated advocacy to the working poor in Alameda Mail address: P.O. Box 13312, Contact: Barb Hunt, 925-439-5060; DVDs and E-rated game cartridges. and Contra Costa counties. Berkeley 94712-2312 or send checks to Society of St. Vincent Deliver to: 1506 Mendocino Drive, Need: Gift cards to Target, Safeway, Contact: J.C. Orton, coordinator, 510- de Paul of Contra Costa County (SVdP) Concord. Walgreens, CVS; BART or other public 684-1892; [email protected] Attn: Christmas Program, 2210 Gladstone Contact: Catherine Dieterich, 925-685- transportation passes such as Clipper Drive, Pittsburg 94565. 6633 or [email protected] Cards or passes for AC Transit, County Oakland Donate: www.svdp-cc.org Connection or Muni. Address: 433 Jefferson St., Oakland Catholic Worker Holiday One Warm Coat: SVdP is Birthright of Brentwood 94607 A hospitality house for American distributing donated coats to the needy A nonprofit crisis pregnancy center Contact: Stephen Mullin, Chief immigrants and refugees which has as its throughout the holiday season. offering free, confidential, non-judgmental Development Officer, 510-768-3165 or mission, “living simply and communally in a Contact: Stephen Krank, 925-439- service to pregnant women. We operate [email protected] community of multicultural volunteers and 5060, [email protected] with the belief that “every woman has the guests; helping those most in need; sup- right to give birth, and every child has the Mercy Brown Bag porting an extended community in keeping Christmas Food/Gift Basket pro- right to be born.” itself organized and healthy; changing the grams: The 28 SVdP branches provide Need: monetary donations, maternity Program unjust structures of our society.” help via Christmas food/gift baskets to clothes; diapers size 3, 4 or 5, wipes, Sponsored by Mercy Retirement & Need: Financial donations to assist more than 13,000 needy individuals volunteers. Care Center, this program provides bags our many needs; food donations, such as throughout the county. The 28 SVdP Mail address: 857 Second St., Suite D, of nutritious groceries to more than 5,000 rice, beans, and canned goods; cleaning Conferences in Contra Costa County Brentwood, 94513 needy seniors twice monthly, free of supplies; gift cards for Smart and Final, are providing special Christmas food/gift/ Contact: Deena Foley or Rose Deitz charge. The program helps seniors make Safeway, Home Depot and Office Depot. blankets programs to more than 3,300 925-634-1275 or by email brentwood@ ends meet, retain their health and stay in We accept donations on our website, needy families. birthright.org. their own homes. oaklandcatholicworker.org, and we also Need: Turkeys, hams, hygiene items, Need: Cash donations, large-sized accept donated cars. We need volunteers toys and books for children, socks for paper or plastic bags, produce bags, to help prepare and serve hot meals from 9 children and adults (preferably bundled Birthright of Concord Ziploc bags and strong volunteers to help a.m. to 2 p.m. Mondays and Wednesdays, in packages of three by size so it’s easy A nonprofit crisis pregnancy center with groceries on our mobile grocery truck and to help with our grocery distribution to distribute), pajamas for children and offering free, confidential, non-judgmental twice a month. from 10 a.m .to 1 p.m .Thursdays. We adults, diapers and baby wipes, blankets service to pregnant women. Where: 3431 Foothill Blvd., Oakland sometimes need volunteers for our ESL and sleeping bags, food (uncooked and Need: maternity clothes, diapers to size 94601 program. unopened), paper and/or plastic bags 4; baby clothes to 18 months; volunteers; Contact: Krista Lucchesi, director, 510- Where: 4848 International Blvd., (zipper-lock sandwich and gallon size monetary donations welcome. 534-8540, ext. 369 Oakland 94601 bags), messages of hope and love dur- Mail address: 3106 Clayton Road, Contact: 510-533-7375; oakland- ing the holidays in the form of letters and Concord 94519 Next Step [email protected] drawings and cash donations Contact: 925-798-7227. Contact: Steve Krank, 925-439-5060, Learning Center Oakland [email protected] Caring Hands Volunteer An older youth and adult literacy, high Send checks to: SVdP of Contra Costa school equivalency preparation, high Elizabeth House County, 2210 Gladstone Drive, Pittsburg Caregivers Program school diploma completion and college Oakland Elizabeth House is a 12- to 94565, Attn: Christmas Basket program. Caring Hands is committed to helping transition program operated by the Sisters 18-month transitional housing program Donate: www.svdp-cc.org NOVEMBER 26, 2018 THE CATHOLIC VOICE — 11 Gift of Giving New president for SVdP Walking for the poor Danville teens — Sasha Williams and Isabelle of Alameda County Frasca, seniors at Carondelet High School, By Michele Jurich Concord, and Staff writer Dante Barsi, Jim Lee is the new president of the a sophomore Society of St. Vincent de Paul of Alameda at De La Salle County, which has more than 30 parish- High School, based conferences, a downtown Oakland Concord, and dining room and drop-in centers for men Michael Barsi, and women, and two thrift stores in a pupil at St. Livermore and Fremont. Lee’s three-year Isidore School, term began Oct. 1. Danville — Lee, a retired deputy district attorney served as coor- for Alameda County, said his involvement PHOTO COURTESY dinators for the with St. Vincent de Paul was a “step-by- St. Vincent de Paul Friends of the Poor Walk on Oct. 13, which raised more step process.” than $3,000 this year. With the teens is Stan Bochenek, president of SVdP at He grew up in Oakland’s St. Jarlath St. Isidore-Danville. The walk was promoted by Maria Ward, principal of St. Parish, and was graduated from St. Jarlath Isidore School, and Keith Machi and the St. Isidore Confirmation program. School. He first became aware of the orga- In the past six years, the walk has raised more than $20,000 to support nization as he was growing up. safety-net programs provided by St. Vincent de Paul of Contra Costa County. His education took him to St. Joseph All of the funds remain in Contra Costa County. Notre Dame High School in Alameda and the University of San Francisco, where

he earned his undergraduate and later PHOTO COURTESY law degrees. Jim Lee At St. Philip Neri-St. Albert the Great Parish in Alameda, he took a bigger step A major reorganization is in place at St. CCEB luncheon raises $570,000 in the process. Vincent de Paul of Alameda County. “The “I was at hospitality Sunday, the fifth big job is done,” he said. Staff report sider attending a Transforming Lives Tour. Sunday of the month,” he said. He was “The reorganization has provided us At Catholic Charities of the East Bay’s This one-hour, mission-based tour is held invited to join the parish conference. “I greater financial stability,” he said. The fourth annual Transforming Lives luncheon from noon to 1 p.m. on the second Tuesday went to the meeting,” he said. organization is reaching out to create at the San Ramon Marriott on Oct. 12, the of the month at CCEB headquarters in Later, he became secretary. Later, he new partnerships with organizations and 250 guests were treated to much more Oakland. Visit the website to register or stepped in as president. businesses. than lunch. learn about other dates. www.cceb.org/ The St. Philip Neri-St. Albert the Great “We strive our best to maintain out The guests learned about CCEB’s get-involved/transforming-lives-tour/ or dial conference serves not only the needs financial stability to maintain services,” he success in assisting refugees who are Stephan Pippen at 510-768-3133. of those in the Alameda parish, but also said. A goal for the organization, which is resettling in this country; immigrants who Margaret Peterson, who had been serv- assists those in need at St. Elizabeth celebrating its 80th year, is to “continue to are on the path to legal residence or ing as assistant treasurer of the agency Parish in Oakland, which does not have a serve as we have.” citizenship; young people who have been and Finance and Investment Committee St. Vincent de Paul conference. One of those areas of service is the exploited; people seeking housing in the Chair on its Board of Directors, became A next step, he said, was an invitation Kitchen of Champions, which provides tightest of markets; and those who have interim CEO of CCEB on Nov. 5. Chuck to volunteer in the St. Vincent de Paul Free culinary training and helps feed the guests faced a crisis. Fernandez, who served as CEO for Dining Room in Oakland. “I found it enjoy- who come to the dining room Tuesdays As a result of the luncheon, CCEB more than four years, has become CEO able and rewarding,” he said. “The people through Saturdays. raised close to $570,000 to support its work of COTS, a Sonoma County organiza- are very nice.” You can find Lee in the dining room in Alameda and Contra Costa counties. tion whose mission is to assist people Lee said he is looking forward to the on Fridays. It’s a volunteer spot the new To learn more about the work of in transitioning from homelessness to a opportunity and challenges in his new role. president has no plans to give up. Catholic Charities of the East Bay, con- permanent home. 12 — THE CATHOLIC VOICE NOVEMBER 26, 2018 REGINA PANGELINAN/COURTESY PHOTO REGINA PANGELINAN/COURTESY Above, SPRED Friend Dan Quinn, from left, and cat- echists Marguerite Chatigny and Sandy Pimperton. SPRED is a one-to-one ministry, with each partici- PACCIORINI/THE CATHOLIC VOICE CATHOLIC PACCIORINI/THE

pant — a friend — paired with a catechist. At right, . congregants inside a very full St. Raymond Church join in the liturgy. More photos at facebook.com/

TheCatholicVoice. C ALBERT ‘I want you to be my friend’ Staff report “Jesus says to you today, become fol- What is SPRED lowers of me. I want you to be my friend.” So Bishop Michael C. Barber, SJ, Special Religious Education — encouraged friends, family and the spe- SPRED — assists parishes in the cial needs members of SPRED to follow Diocese of Oakland reach out and Christ’s call to “come to me” in his homily integrate children, teens and adults at a Mass for the group at St. Raymond with special needs into the parish Church on Oct. 14. family. Volunteer catechists play This morning in Rome, Pope Francis a vital role in assisting individuals named seven new saints for the Catholic with autism, intellectual disabilities, Church, Bishop Barber said. Two of severe cerebral palsy and severe them are well known: Pope Paul VI and epilepsy so they may grow spiritu- Archbishop Oscar Romero. ally among friends, receive ongoing For the canonization Mass in Rome, faith formation and participate in the Pope Francis wore the blood-stained liturgical and community life of the cincture, the rope belt used with Church Church. , that St. Romero was wearing Information: 510-635-7252 or at the time of his assassination. And Pope [email protected] Francis wore the blood-stained T-shirt worn by St. Paul VI in a knife assassination attempt on his life in Manila in 1970. to be a nun. It was important she honor The other five saints canonized that day the Fourth Commandment: Honor they are relatively unknown, the bishop said. father and mother. But one of them, he said, is an example After her mother died, she was able to of putting Jesus Christ front and center. answer Jesus’ call. In 1851 she organized That saint, María Katharina Kasper, a religious order, the Poor Handmaids of PHOTO REGINA PANGELINAN/COURTESY was born in Germany in 1820 into a poor Jesus Christ, who are dedicated to serving SPRED catechists Patrica Height, left, and Maria Ramos lead the congregation family. Her father and brother died, and the sick and poor. in liturgical gestures, joined in the background by Revs. Lawrence D’Anjou, she was left to be the breadwinner, split- Like St. Maria Kasper, the bishop said, St. Raymond pastor; Alexander Castillo, director of Faith Formation and ting stones with a sledgehammer to build “Put Jesus first in your life. He makes all Evangelization; and Bishop Michael C. Barber, SJ. Rev. Paul Vassar, retired, a roadways and putting a halt to her desire things happen.” longtime SPRED supporter, also participated in the Mass. PACCIORINI/THE CATHOLIC VOICE CATHOLIC PACCIORINI/THE . ALL: ALBERT C ALBERT ALL: Hundreds of people gathered for a daylong forum, liturgy and discussion of Professor Joaquin Jay Gonzalez III and his associates from the University of Filipino faith and community. San Francisco. Survey results begin discussion of Filipino Catholics’ experience Staff report Department of Public Administration at the theme that will propel the Diocese of were concerned about the Church’s lack A survey of East Bay Filipino Catholics Golden Gate University and an adjunct Oakland through four years of symposia of action regarding sexual abuse. indicates many similar sentiments to all professor at the University of San and thoughtful study and reflection, lead- One difference: Average regular Mass Catholics: Francisco. He was aided by USF students. ing up to a celebration in 2021 marking attendance was about 70 percent among They see young people less involved The survey results “present to us indi- the 500th year Catholicism came to the respondents, though it is only about 20 in the Church, while the older people are cators that show whether or not Filipinos . percent of all Catholics. time-challenged, and they are turned off and Filipino-Americans experience being The survey of Filipinos and Filipino- Young people looked at the Church like by the clerical sexual abuse scandal and home in our local Catholic church com- Americans focused on about a dozen East Facebook — they feel they can “subscribe papal inaction. munities,” wrote Rev. Gerald Pedrera Aug. Bay churches and drew 462 respondents. and unsubscribe” from the Church. And, The discussion was part of a daylong 13. “With the information we will learn, we What did people like about their church: they are more interested in action — giv- symposium “Celebrating our Faith, from hope to come up with concrete pastoral meeting people and family and friends, the ing back to the community — vs. prayer or the Islands to the Mainland,” held at St. action proposals that can help in fostering music, the homily, when the priest talks to going to a service. Isidore Parish, Danville, on Sept. 29. better church relations and experiences. In and meets people afterward. Most were in agreement that young Clergy, religious and hundreds of lay this way, all — not just Filipinos — can find There were concerns: Some priests are adults needed to be encouraged with people participated. a home in our communities.” not personable or not approachable, older youth and young adult parish programs; The survey was led by Professor The event marked the beginning of people are overburdened with responsibili- some suggested building youth interest Joaquin Jay Gonzalez III, chair of the “Our Faith, Our Journey, Our Mission,” ties and have less weekend time and they via programs. NOVEMBER 26, 2018 THE CATHOLIC VOICE — 13 Tell the truth, with love, bishop advises Upcoming events Natural Family Planning Intro Class When: Dec. 15, 1-4 p.m. Where: Immaculate Heart of Mary Parish Hall, 500 Fairview Ave., Brentwood Dr. Tom and Debbie Lenz, instructors Free Registration and information: 510-271-1936 For local instructors: www.oakdiocese.org/nfp-instructors

Rachel’s Vineyard Retreats What: For those who have lost a child through , miscarriage and sudden infant death When: March 1-3, 2019 (Spanish) May 17-19, 2019 (English) Sept. 20-22, 2019 (Spanish) Oct. 25-29, 2019 (English) Contact: Gloria at 510-485-2574 or [email protected]

Issues4Life Annual rally and walk sponsored by the Issues4Life Foundation, founded by Rev. Walter Hoye

StandUp4Life Rally and Walk When: Jan. 25, 2019, noon to 2 p.m.

ALL: MICHELE JURICH/THE CATHOLIC VOICE MICHELE JURICH/THE CATHOLIC ALL: Where: Oakland City Hall At left, Jesse Orenge and Genesis Gutierrez, missionaries from The Culture Project, Bishop Michael C. Barber, SJ, greeted the Information: www.issues4life.org/ are spreading the pro-life message in the Archdiocese of San Francisco, and the Respect Life gathering, and thanked the greater Bay Area, this year. people for “being witnesses to the truth.” By Michele Jurich provided the dates for four retreats in 2019. Walk for Life West Coast Staff writer They are open to women and men. Related column What: The 15th annual, largest pro- Leaders in the Diocese of Oakland’s Joan Batista, who held her first Ethos life rally on the West Coast Respect Life ministry came together at the Dr. Tom Lenz — living a California event this year, asked par- Cathedral of Christ the Light Parish Hall chaste marriage ticipants to look forward to her second When: Jan. 26, 2019, 12:30-1:30 p.m. in Oakland Nov. 3 to hear from speakers, — Forum, Page 19 Theology of the Body conference Oct. 12, Where: Civic Center Plaza, and from each other. 2019, in Walnut Creek. San Francisco About 60 participants were welcomed by The room got a jolt of youthful enthu- Bishop Michael C. Barber, SJ, who thanked spoke on St. Pope John Paul II’s Theology siasm from the missionaries from the Followed by walk down Market them for “being witnesses to the truth.” of the Body, and from Rev. Mario Rizzo, Culture Project, who are serving in the Street “One thing you can do in addition to parochial vicar at Christ the King Parish in Archdiocese of San Francisco this year. Additional events include Mass being witnesses for life,” he said, “is to Pleasant Hill, who offered a reflection on The missionaries — most of them fresh at St. Mary’s Cathedral, info faire, support our priests when they speak out St. Pope Paul VI’s “Humanae Vitae” (“Of out of college — are available to present Silent No More rally from the pulpit and support them.” Human Life”). programs on “Human Dignity,” “Sexual The pro-life message is not always Among those who shared their stories Integrity” and “Social Media” to students Information: www.walkforlifewc.com/ popular. was Jim Crowley, who had been among and young adults. “We have to be able to tell the truth, but those standing vigil at the Planned Two of the missionaries, Jesse Orenge with love,” the bishop said. “We accompany Parenthood office in Walnut Creek during of Minnesota and Genesis Gutierrez of Theology of the Body Conference people. We listen to their story. We’re there the 40 Days for Life campaign. On the last Florida, spoke about the need for young What: Second annual conference to help them. Then they need to listen to day of the campaign, he said that three people to hear the respect life message sponsored by Ethos California our truth when they see we are good and babies had been saved. from young people. loving people.” Representatives from Rachel’s The Walk for Life West Coast is sched- Where: Oct. 12, 2019, Walnut Creek The attendees heard from Ed Hopfner, Vineyard, which provides retreats for uled for Jan. 26, 2019 in San Francisco. Contact: www.ethosca.org director of marriage and family life for those who have lost a child through abor- Cristina Hernández, coordinator for Life the Archdiocese of San Francisco, who tion, miscarriage and sudden infant death, and Justice in the diocese, told the audi- Diocese of Oakland Office for Life ence that Bishop Barber would be concel- and Justice ebrating the Mass at St. Mary’s Cathedral Contact: Cristina Hernández, at 9:30 a.m. After Mass, she invited groups coordinator from the diocese to go together to the rally at Civic Center Plaza, which begins at chernandez@oakdiocese. org or 12:30 p.m., and to walk together on Market 510-267-8379 Plan ahead Street at 1:30 p.m. to get the most for your ad dollars CLEARANCE! 1 in 2018-2019 Now ⁄2 PRICE Only $10.00 each for remaining Mailed to 90,000 households DELUXE EDITIONS of the 2018 www.catholicvoiceoakland.org/advertise.htm Oakland Diocesan Directory Call the Advertising Dept., 510-419-1081 Information about administrative offices, schools, service organizations and religious Issue date Features for 2018 Ad deadline orders of men and women in the diocese, December 10* Christmas Liturgies November 28 plus an alphabetical telephone directory. 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Please make check payable to The Catholic Voice. 14 — THE CATHOLIC VOICE NOVEMBER 26, 2018 ANTHONY DELOS SANTOS/COURTESY PHOTO ANTHONY DELOS SANTOS/COURTESY BILL FORD/SPECIAL TO THE CATHOLIC VOICE BILL THE FORD/SPECIAL TO CATHOLIC Whether runners are fast or not-as-fast, there is the sense of accomplishment of Faustina Altamirano, left, an Eighth Grader from St. , San Ramon, running a mile over often difficult courses in park settings with sun, wind, dust and Alexa Lawson, a Sixth Grader from St. Patrick, Rodeo, in the 6th-8th Grade or even sand. Girls Race at the Diocesan Meet at Crown Beach, Alameda. 800 runners join in CYO Cross Country Championship Meet By Bill Ford with friends and the support by caring 6th-8th Grade Boys score wins. No team awards are presented Special to The Catholic Voice coaches and families. Whether runners 1st – Justin Peterson, St. Michael, 4:15.3 for the K-2 race. The top three teams in On a warm, sunny Friday afternoon are fast or not-as-fast, there is the sense 2nd– Justin Snow, St. Joan of Arc, 4:15.3 each division with points were: in late October, runners from around the of accomplishment of running a mile over 3rd – Alex Lamoureux, Christ the King, Team awards Oakland diocese gathered for the annual often difficult courses in park settings 5:27.4 3rd-5th Grade Girls CYO Cross Country Championship Meet with sun, wind, dust or even sand. And, Half-mile event 1st – St. Joan of Arc (23) at Crown Beach, Alameda. Eight hundred of course, there is the post-meet snack K–2nd Grade Girls 2nd – Corpus Christi, Piedmont (33) runners from Kindergarten through Eighth or pizza. 1st – Bella Gilman, St. , 3rd – St. Bonaventure (36) Grades, both girls and boys, lined up for Individual winners 3:39.0 3rd-5th Grade Boys the joy of running, over the long park With times over the mile course 2nd – Lucia Johnson, St. Theresa, 1st – St Michael (24) trail. Teams at the meet represented 37 3rd-5th Grade Girls 3:46.5 2nd – St. Isidore (34) parishes and Catholic schools in CYO 1st – Kerrigan Sauder, St. Michael, 3rd – Kara Schlegel, Corpus Christi, 3rd – St. Francis of Assisi (55) Cross Country. 6:38.1 Fremont 3:51.1 6th-8th Grade Girls The diocesan meet was the final event 2nd – Remi Hayes, Corpus Christi, K–2nd Grade Boys 1st – St. Joan of Arc (24) in a five-meet CYO Cross Country season. Piedmont, 6:44.0 1st – Cody Harrington, St. Theresa, 2nd – St. Michael (28) Weekly meets began with a prayer with 3rd – Aurora Nicolas, CC of Pleasanton, 2:39.2 3rd – St. Bonaventure (30) all runners and families, and then the first 6:46.1 2nd – Dylan Walker, St. Michael, 3:19.0 6th-8th Grade Boys race began with inspiring excitement of the 3rd-5th Grade Boys 3rd – Cooper Snow, St. Joan of Arc, 1st – St. Michael (23) Kindergarten through Second Grade group 1st – Ryan Nix, St. Isidore, 6:17.6 3:24.7 2nd – St. Joan of Arc (30) over a ½-mile course. The next races were 2nd – Theodore Mui, St. Joseph, (Times are rounded up to the nearest 3rd – Christ the King (35) individual races for boys and girls groups Fremont, 6:20.7 1/10th) For complete meet results or for more over mile-long courses. 3rd – Callan Mak, St. Michael, 6:23.7 For Diocesan Meet Team Award win- information on CYO Cross Country, The “thundering herds” of multiple Third 6th-8th Grade Girls ners, points are awarded with one point visit the Cross Country page of the CYO through Fifth Grade runners were then 1st – Jana Barron, St. Michael, 5:44.2 for the first place runner, two points for Website: www.oaklandcyo.org. followed by the mature, expert running of 2nd – Mia Rueb, St. Joan of Arc, 5:48.2 the second place runner, etc. Teams are the Sixth through Eighth Grade groups. 3rd – Laurel Davies, Corpus Christi, scored with the number of points given for (Bill Ford is CYO director for the Diocese Meets concluded with the “Fun Run,” Fremont 5:52.6 their first three runners. 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CYO Cross Country 831-423-8093 David Richo on de Chardin – December 1 attracts young runners with E-mail: [email protected] Advent Day of Prayer – December 7 not only competitive races, Web site: www.stclaresretreat.com but with the fun of running Year End Silent Retreat – December 27-January 1 Staffed by Franciscan Missionary Sisters of Our Lady of Sorrows Mercy Center Burlingame Br Don Bisson: Beyond Resolutionswww.mercy-center.org – January 5 and 6 Jungian ToolsFor for more Spiritual information, Growth – emailJanuary 12 Holy [email protected]. – January 13 Our bookstore is open for Christmas shopping Wednesday 12-2 p.m. Thursday-Sunday 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Taize Friday DecemberMERCY 7 untill 9:30 p.m.

Mercy Center Burlingame www.mercy-center.org For more information, email [email protected]. NOVEMBER 26, 2018 THE CATHOLIC VOICE — 15 COURTESY PHOTO COURTESY America Needs Fatima St. Felicitas Parish in San Leandro and the Catholic Daughters, Court Mary Queen of the World, participated for the first time in the America Needs Fatima — Public Square Rosary Rally, joining thousands across the nation in prayer for the people of the United States and the world. Held at the San Leandro Marina Park, a live representation of Our Lady was provided by 17-year-old Yareli Moreno, who remained impressively composed for the PHOTO COURTESY duration of the rosary. Comforting those who grieve Pupils at St. Michael School in Livermore created prayerful butterflies for participants of the grief ministry of the Catholic Community of Pleasanton’s New high school shares its story St. Augustine and St. churches. The sympathy cards by the seventh-graders offered a message of encouragement as well as a Bible Bryan verse for inspiration. Granados, Daisy Torres, Linh Nguyen and Johnathon Holley, freshmen at Cristo Rey De La Salle East Bay High School, St. Elizabeth Campus, were among the stu- dents at a Nov. 8 “Friendraiser” where about 40 guests learned about the new

high school. PHOTO COURTESY Members of the Oakland school’s inaugural class of 2022 presented articulate and heartfelt speeches about their school and work experience. In addition, the guests watched a school video and heard from President and CEO Mike Anderer. The school opened Aug. 15. For a tour of the campus or to find out more, email [email protected] or dial 510-532-8947.

Harvest PHOTO COURTESY Fair a Thanksgiving collection community St. Peter School pupils collected 80 boxes of food to provide event Thanksgiving dinner to needy families in East Contra Costa County. From left, back row, Mauricio Perez and John Arricidiacono; middle row, Madden At the heart of Belleci-Arroyo, Katerina Blanco and Emiliano Franco; front row, Lugo, fall festivities Violet Halverson and Alexander Mendoza. at Our Lady of Guadalupe School in Fremont is the annual Harvest Festival. A day of entertainment, Senior multicultural

food offerings, a PHOTO COURTESY Scholastic Book Fair, face painting and nail polish, cake walk, field games Living and Halloween-themed carnival games was coordinated by Harvest Festival co-chairs, from left, Stacey Cariaso, Alejandra Siqueiros, Dawn Fuentez and and Ajella McGarry. A booth at the Oct. 20 event sold “spirit” wear — T-shirts, hoodies and tote bags displaying the school logo, along with a quote from St. , which is this year’s school theme: “Be who God created Resources you to be, and you will set the world on fire.” Experienced REVERSE MORTGAGE Trusts & Estates Attorney If you are 62 or older and own your house, Jeffrey Hall MBA, CPA, Esq. a Reverse Mortgage may benefit you! • Turn Home Equity into Cash • Revocable Trusts Serving the • Wills and Probates • Pay off Bills & Credit Cards Bay Area • Trust Administration • Zero Mortgage Payments For a free 30 minute consultation • FHA Program Designed for Seniors 925-230-9002 Call for a free information package www.HallLawGroup.com

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SMCHS volunteers Job Openings at St. Columba Church aid firefighters Members of the Saint Mary’s College High, Berkeley, Softball Team volun- Job Title: Director of Music teered with mascot Sparky the Dog at the Albany Firefighters’ Annual Pancake St. Columba is located in the San Francisco Bay Area. It has been inspired Breakfast on Oct. 13. The event capped through the years by celebrations filtered through a wide prism of off Fire Prevention Week and benefitted African American Music and prayer forms-both Catholic and cultural. the Alisa Ann Ruch Burn Foundation. The applicant should be familiar with the range of African American “Sparky” is Saint Mary’s sophomore, religious music as witnessed through traditional hymns, gospel music, Viola Coty-Moran, and Sparky’s helper and folk songs. A strong knowledge of the Catholic Liturgical seasons and

is senior Olivia Green. PHOTO COURTESY traditional hymns is essential. Please contact Fr. Aidan McAleenan or Maria Creer at 510-654-7600 for more information or to set up an interview.

Job Title: Office Manager St. Columba Parish in Oakland is seeking an Office Manager. The Office Manager reports to the Pastor and is responsible for the day to day running of the Parish Office. It includes, but is not limited to scheduling, supervising and training staff as well as establishing office record keeping. Responsibilities also include the maintenance of the parish contributions COURTESY OF CITY PITTSBURG COURTESY system and the parish calendar and facility schedule. ‘Above and beyond the call of duty’ Please submit your resume to Fr. Aidan McAleenan or the Parish Office Performing “above and beyond the call of duty” is what it takes to earn for consideration. Pittsburg’s Anchor Award. That description fits the police chaplains of the East Contra Costa County city, who have been honored with the Anchor Award. The city recognizes employees who perform above and beyond the Job Title: Office Assistant/Receptionist call of duty and/or provide dedicated service to the city. From left are Chief Brian Addington, Pastor Juan Castro, Rev. Henry Perkins, Pastor Timothy St. Columba Parish in Oakland is seeking an Office Assistant/Receptionist. Manly and Father Helmut Richter, who although retired as pastor of Church The Office Assistant/Receptionist is responsible for assisting the Pastor of the Good Shepherd in Pittsburg, continues to serve as chaplain to the and the Office Manager in routine office duties (answering the phone, police department. scheduling and organizing use of the Parish Hall, and assisting all church ministries, as needed. This is a part-time position, 19-20 hours per week and does not include benefits. Please submit your resume to Fr. Aidan McAleenan or the Parish Office and for consideration. Cemetery Services To be considered for any of the above positions, please contact: Fr. Aidan McAleenan or Maria Creer Diocese of Oakland St. Columba Catholic Church 6401 San Pablo Avenue Oakland, CA 94608 Employment Opportunities Phone: 510-654-7600 Catholic Funeral and Cemetery Services (CFCS) is seeking Managers, Fax: 510-654-7600 Sales Associates (Family Service Advisors), Funeral Directors (Family Email: [email protected] Service Directors), Funeral Assistants, Preparation Employees and https://stcolumba-oak.com/job-openings Administrative Assistants. For full job descriptions: Be the first to get the latest: http://www.cfcsoakland.org/about-us/job-opportunities/ www.catholicvoiceoakland.org Classified Advertisements • 510-419-1081 The Catholic Voice next edition: December 10 • Deadline:

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510-917-2390 or [email protected]. PHOTO COURTESY Christmas Concert — Celebrate the Season with Vintage. 7:30 p.m. at St. Bonaventure Church, East Bay Singers: ‘The Journey Home’ 5562 Clayton Road, Concord. Admission: free. Contact: www.vintagetrio.com. The East Bay Singers, students attending Cal State East Bay, ask the question, “What is home?” and will sing songs Annual Advent Tea — “Follow the Star.” Doors that describe the yearning for a home real and imagined, new and old, worldly and spiritual in a concert at 7:30 p.m., open at 11:30 a.m. and the event begins at noon at St. Dec. 1 at St. Augustine Church, 3999 Bernal Ave., Pleasanton. Tickets are $10 in advance, $15 at the door. Children Felicitas Parish Hall, 1620 Manor Blvd. San Leandro. and students are free with student ID. The concert features performances of Ariel Ramirez’ “Navidad Nuestra” with $5 per person. Gather friends and reserve tickets or alumni soloist Liboiron-Cohen; Jake Runestad’s “We Can Mend the Sky” based on texts by middle school Somali tables now! (No tickets will be sold at the door.) Hosted immigrants; Morten Lauridsen’s “Prayer” and Leonard Cohen’s “Hallelujah.” Purchase tickets at csueastbaytickets.com. by Catholic Daughters Court Mary Queen of the World. Contact: Laura Vacca at 510-357-6886 for details. Dec. 1 and 2 Nov. 27, Dec. 11 Tuesdays u RETREATS St. Gerard Women’s Club of St. Fil/Am ministry. 7:30 p.m .second and fourth 8 a.m. to 6:45 p.m. benediction in Mary’s Chapel Church’s Famous Christmas Bake Sale and Tuesdays, St. Clement Parish Center, 750 Calhoun at St. Jarlath Church, 2620 Pleasant St., Oakland. Dec. 7 to 8 Raffle. Dec. 1: after the 4:30 p.m. Mass; Dec. 2: St., Hayward. Simon Medrano, 510-303-2965. Spirituality and Conscious Aging: Finding after all Masses starting at 7:30 a.m., in the com- First Tuesdays Purpose and Meaning in Retirement Years munity room, St. John Church, 264 E. Lewelling Nov. 28, Dec. 5, 12, 19 7 to 8 p.m., Eucharistic Adoration in Vietnamese, with Jim Briggs. At San Damiano Retreat, 710 Blvd., San Lorenzo. There will be a continental Perpetual Help Devotion Baclaran format. at St. Joseph Basilica, 1109 Chestnut St., Highland Drive, Danville. Cost: $125 (private room) breakfast Dec. 2 and the raffle will be held after the 8:15 a.m. Wednesdays after last morning Mass, Alameda. 510-522-0181. or $110 (shared room). Information/registration: 11:30 a.m. Mass. You do not need to be present Our Lady Queen of the World Church, 3155 www.sandamiano.org or 925-837-9141, ext. 315. to win. Information: contact Evelyn Long, 510-276- Winterbrook Drive, Bay Point, 925-550-0679. 7239 or Pat Forsythe, 510-278-4161. Wednesdays Mondays 6 to 7 p.m. Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament; u Sunday, Dec. 2 Confessions: 6 to 6:45 p.m. at St. Joseph the TAIZÉ Rosary in Spanish. 7:30 p.m., St. Joseph Parish Worker Church, 1640 Addison St., Berkeley. (An ecumenical, candlelit service of prayer in Christmas Open House at San Damiano. 2 to 5 Center, 2100 Pear St., Pinole. 510-741-4900. 510-843-2244; www.stjosephtheworkerchurch.org. simple chant, Scripture readings, silent worship p.m. at 710 Highland Drive, Danville. Enjoy cookies, and veneration of the cross.) meet friends new and old, and do some gift shop- Wednesdays 6:30 to 7:30 p.m. at St. David of Wales Church, 5641 Esmond Ave., Richmond, 510-237-1531. ping. No reservations needed but RSVP helpful WINGS (Women in God’s Spirit). 9 to 11:15 Friday, Dec. 21 for planning. Information: www.sandamiano.org or a.m. at St. Raymond Parish, Moran Hall, 11555 8 p.m. at , 1109 Chestnut St., 925-837-9141, ext. 315. St. Joseph Basilica Shannon Ave., Dublin. A different faith topic is pre- Thursdays Alameda. Every fourth Friday, (every third Friday sented each week followed by discussion and shar- Immediately following 8 a.m. Mass until noon, in in November and December). www.facebook.com/ Saturday, Dec. 8 ing in small groups. Kathy Morte, 925-833-7819. the Chapel at St. Anne Church, 1600 Rossmoor TaizeOnTheIsland. Advent Day of Renewal — Rediscovering Hope Pkwy., Walnut Creek, 925-932-2324. Divine Mercy Devotion. 7 to 8 p.m. at St. Lawrence 8 to 9 p.m. at Dominican Sisters of Mission San with Father Rusty Shaughnessy, OFM and Jan O’Toole-St. Cyril Church, 3725 High St., Oakland. Jose Chapel, 43326 Mission Circle, Fremont, (off Stegner. 9:30 a.m .to 3 p.m .at San Damiano We celebrate the Divine Word devotion which Thursdays, Fridays, Mission Tierra). 510-657-2468. Retreat, 710 Highland Drive, Danville. $40 cost includes praying the Divine Mercy Chaplet in song, includes lunch. Information/registration: www.san- adoration and Confession in both English and Saturdays damiano.org or 925-837-9141, ext. 315. 7 a.m. to 9 p.m. Thursdays and Fridays, 9 a.m. to Sunday, Dec. 16 Spanish. 510-530-0761. 7:30 to 8:30 p.m.at Resurrection Episcopal “Night of the Father’s Love” — A Christmas 3 p.m. Saturdays at St. Mary Church, 2039 Mt. Meditation of the next Sunday Gospel and Church, 399 Gregory Lane, Pleasant Hill. Musical Celebration by Pepper Choplin. 8 p.m. Diablo Blvd., Walnut Creek, 925-891-8900. Coronilla in Spanish. 7:30 p.m .at St. Joseph Ecumenical services held every third Sunday at at St. Bonaventure Church, 5562 Clayton Road, Parish Center, 2100 Pear St., Pinole. 510-741-4900. 9 a.m.to 6 p.m .Thursdays, 9 a.m .to mid- different worship sites. Concord. Presented by St. Bonaventure Catholic night Fridays, midnight Fridays to 8 a.m . Community’s Resurrection Choir and Orchestra. Free First Wednesdays Saturdays, Immaculate Heart of Mary Church, will offering supports our ministry. Refreshments after 7 p.m. at St. Mary of the 500 Fairview Ave., Brentwood. 925-634-4154. u SUPPORT the concert in the church hospitality room. Catholic Men’s Night. Immaculate Conception Parish, 2039 Mt. Diablo Blvd., Walnut Creek. Adoration, Confession and Thursdays, First Saturdays GROUPS Sunday, Dec. 9 rosary for men. Food and drink follow. Contact: 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. Thursdays, 6 p.m. to 7 a.m. Sunday Christmas Nativity Display — Celebrate the [email protected]. (first Saturdays), St. Isidore Church, 440 La Dec. 13, Jan. 10, 22 Wonder of Our Savior’s Birth. 9 a.m. to 8 p.m. at Gonda Way, Danville. 925-837-2122. Grief Support. At St. Elizabeth Seton Church, St. Elizabeth Seton Chapel, 4001 Stoneridge Drive, Thursdays 4001 Stoneridge Drive, Pleasanton. Call 925- Pleasanton. See treasured displays of Christmas Holy Hour for Vocations. 7 p.m. at Corpus Christi Fridays 846-8708 for more information. All are welcome Nativity Scenes from around the world. Sponsored Parish, 37891 Second St., Fremont. 510-790-3207. regardless of religious affiliation. by Italian Catholic Federation. Contact: Nancy Noon to 5 p.m. at St. Catherine of Siena Church, Navarini, 925-640-6334 or [email protected]. 606 Mellus St., Martinez. 925-324-3589. Tuesdays First Thursdays 1 to 8 p.m. at St. Monica Church, 1001 Camino Holy Hour-First Thursday (or Thursday before first Pablo, Moraga. 925-376-6900. Divorce Support Workshops. 7 p.m .at St. Friday.) 7 p.m. at St. Margaret Mary Church, 1219 Joan of Arc Parish, 2601 San Ramon Valley u 7 a.m. to 7 p.m. at Church of the Good Shepherd, NEW EVENTS Excelsior Ave., Oakland. Every Thursday before the Blvd., San Ramon .This is a video series by 3200 Harbor St., Pittsburg. 925-439-6404. First Friday is a day of special prayer for the new DivorceCare. Questions/registration, email Saturday, Dec. 1 vocations to the priesthood and religious life and Rosemarie McKenney, [email protected]. Sex Abuse Scandal – What Does This Mean for for our priests, religious, deacons and seminarians. First Fridays the Lay Faithful? 8:30 a.m. to noon in the Sacred 510-482-0596. 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. at St. Philip Neri Church, 3100 Second and Fourth Tuesdays Heart Parish cafeteria, 4025 Martin Luther King Jr. Van Buren St., Alameda. 510-373-5200. St. John Vianney Grief Ministry. 7 p.m .in Way, Oakland. Presenters: Alison M. Benders and 9 a.m. to 8 p.m. at St. Raymond Church, 11555 Mullins Common, 1650 Ygnacio Valley Road, Lisa A. Fullam, faculty, Jesuit School of Theology u EUCHARISTIC Shannon Ave., Dublin. Walnut Creek. Facilitator: Rev. Padraig Greene. of Santa Clara University. Sponsored by Sacred Information: Eileen Matthews, 925-939-8199 or 12:30 to 4:45 p.m. at St. Felicitas Church, 1662 Heart Parish Adult Religious Education. ADORATION [email protected]. Manor Blvd., San Leandro. 510-351-5244. Saturday, Dec. 8 Perpetual 8:45 a.m. to 1 p.m. and from 7 to 10 p.m. at St. Third Wednesdays St. John the Baptist Divine Mercy Adoration Magnificat SOTI, a Ministry for Catholic Women, Joseph Basilica, 1109 Chestnut St., Alameda. Military Peer Support Group. 7 to 8 p.m. in the Chapel, 11152 San Pablo Ave., El Cerrito. 510- Prayer Breakfast. 9:30 a.m .to 1:30 p.m .at 510-522-0181. rectory at St. Augustine Church, 3999 Bernal Ave., 230-4325; [email protected]. Crowne Plaza, 45 John Glenn Drive, Concord. Rev. Pleasanton. Veterans share life challenges and Matthew Spencer, host of “St. Joseph’s Workshop” Holy Spirit Parish, 37588 Fremont Blvd., Fremont. First Saturdays opportunities. Contact: Dom Pietro at 925-462- on Immaculate Heart Media /Relevant Radio, will 510-797-1660. Immediately following 8:30 a.m.Mass until 4665 or [email protected]. celebrate Mass and share testimony. Tickets: $40. St. Michael Parish, 458 Maple St. at Fourth 3:30 p.m. at St. John Vianney Church, Mullen The event is open to women and men. Information: St., Livermore. To schedule: Adoration@ Commons Library, 1650 Ygnacio Valley Road, Fourth Wednesdays https://magnificat-ministry.net/chapters/chapter- StMichaelLivermore.com. Walnut Creek. 925-939-7911. Family Caregiver Support Ministry. 7 p.m .in states-a-d/ca-walnut-creek/. rooms 214 and 215 in the Ministry Center at St. Daily Every last Saturday Isidore Church, 440 La Gonda Way, Danville. Tuesday, Dec. 11 6 a.m. to 10 p.m .at St. Agnes Parish, 3966 Family caregivers are invited to our monthly meet- Immediately after 7 p.m. Spanish Mass; ends with Catholics@Work Breakfast Event. 7 a.m .at Chestnut Ave., Concord. ings which include prayer, handouts on caregiving Crow Canyon Country Club, 711 Silver Lake Drive, benediction at 9 p.m., St. Joseph Church, 837 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. at Most Holy Rosary Church, and discussion related to coping when caring for Danville. Begins with Mass at 6:30 a.m. followed by Tennent Ave., Pinole. 510-741-4900. 1313 A St., Antioch. 925-757-4020. loved ones. Dave Clare, 925-314-5784. presentation. Guest speaker: Andy Rivas, executive director, California Conference of Bishops. Register Monday to Thursday Thursdays online at www.CatholicsAtWork.org. u EVENTS 2:30 to 3:30 p.m.,St. Felicitas Church Widows/widowers grief support group. 5 p.m. Saturday, Dec. 15 Chapel (inside St. Joseph Center/Office), 1662 at Immaculate Heart of Mary Parish, 500 Fairview Manor Blvd., San Leandro. 510-351-5244. Sunday, Dec. 2 Ave., Brentwood. Sandy Heinisch, 925-513-3412 Free NFP Seminar. 1 to 4 p.m. at Immaculate Good Shepherd Church Craft Fair and Cultural or [email protected]. Heart of Mary Parish Hall, 500 Fairview Ave., Monday to Saturday, Fashion Show. 9 a.m. to 3 p.m. at 3200 Harbor Parents Who Have Lost a Child Grief Support Brentwood. Presents Catholic teaching on chaste Ave., Pittsburg. Lots of good vendors and raffle Group. At Immaculate Heart of Mary Parish, 500 marriage, birth regulation, Theology of the Body First Friday prizes and a fashion show to enjoy. Food too. Fairview Ave., Brentwood. Sandy Heinisch, 925- and the science of fertility awareness. Open to all. 9:30 a.m. to 7 p.m .Monday to Saturday, 9:30 Contact: Awilda, 925-642-0876. 513-3412 or [email protected]. Sponsored by the Diocese of Oakland Marriage a.m. to midnight every first Friday at Our Lady of and Family Life Office. Information: 510-271-1936. Good Counsel Chapel, 2500 Bermuda Ave., San Dec. 2, 8 Third Thursdays Leandro. 510-614-2765. Voci Women’s Vocal Ensemble December Catholic Divorced Widowed and Separated of u Concerts. Dec. 2: 7 p.m. at St. Mary Magdalen Contra Costa. 7 to 9 p.m. at St. Mary Church, 2039 SPIRITUALITY Mondays Church, 2005 Berryman St., Berkeley; Dec. 8: 4 Mt. Diablo Blvd., Walnut Creek. Those who are Nov. 26, Dec. 3, 10, 17 7 to 8:30 p.m. in the chapel at St. Francis of p.m. at St. Paul’s Episcopal Church, 114 Montecito struggling from a loss due to separation, divorce, Assisi Church, 860 Oak Grove Ave., Concord. Ave., Oakland. Join Voci Women’s Vocal Ensemble death of a loved one or loneliness and depression Weekly meditation groups in the John Main, 925-682-5447. for Season of Peace, interweaving Christian and are welcome to participate in these peer group OSB, tradition. 5:30 and 7:30 p.m. Mondays in meetings. Joan S., 925-939-1007. the Keeley Center, St. Charles Borromeo Church, Mondays, Tuesdays, Jewish musical traditions. Tickets: $20 advance; 1315 Lomitas Ave., Livermore. Claire La Scola, $25 at the door. Ticket and venue information at 925-447-9800 or [email protected]. Thursdays, Fridays www.vocisings.org or 510-531-8714. Next Voice: December 10 . Submis­ ­ 9 a.m. to 6 p.m., in the convent chapel and 2 to sions by November 28 to Carrie Nov. 27, Dec. 4, 11, 18 9 p.m. in the church on Wednesdays at St. Monday, Dec. 10 McClish, 2121 Harrison­ St., Suite 100, Parish, 26950 Patrick Ave., Hayward. 510-782-2171. Men of St. Joseph meeting. 7 to 8 a.m. Tuesdays Gianni’s Tips for Change Dinner benefitting Oakland, CA 94612; Datelines@ in St. Anthony room at St. Mary of the Immaculate San Damiano Retreat. 5 to 8 p.m. at Gianni’s Conception Church, 2039 Mt. Diablo Blvd., Walnut Mondays, Wednesdays Italian Bistro, 2065 San Ramon Valley Blvd., San oakvoice.org (text/photos); phone 510- Creek. Information: michaelgallagher1025@ 12:45 to 6:30 p.m., St. Elizabeth Seton Church, Ramon. Reservations are required; call Gianni’s at 419-1074; or by fax at 510-893-4734. outlook.com. 4001 Stoneridge Drive, Pleasanton. 925-820-6969 or [email protected]. 18 — THE CATHOLIC VOICE NOVEMBER 26, 2018 Make plans for early Advent events in December Staff report Advent (“ad-venio” in Latin or “to come to”), is the beginning of the Church year; this year, beginning Dec. 2. The Advent season is a time of preparation that directs our hearts and minds to Christ’s second coming at the end of time and The Advent also to the anniversary of the Lord’s birth wreath, with on Christmas. Advent devotions remind us of the a candle meaning of the season. Special Advent marking each devotions include the lighting of the Advent wreath; the Advent calendar which helps week of the remind us of the season with daily thoughts season, is a and activities; Advent prayers that prepare us spiritually for the birth of Jesus Christ. traditional The Advent wreath, with a candle symbol of the marking each week of the season, is a traditional symbol of the liturgical period. liturgical Four lit candles are set in a wreath. One period. candle is lit each Sunday leading up to Christmas. Many parishes are offering workshops to create wreaths and other Those who keep symbols of the season. Check parish bul- the tradition of an letins to find out when and where. Many Advent wreath will will also have speakers during the season, light the first of its as preparations are made for Christmas. four candles A series of events leading up to on Dec. 2. Christmas will take place at the Cathedral of Christ the Light, 2121 Harrison St., CNS Oakland. Michael C. Barber, SJ, will preside at Mass du Seigneur.” Free-will offerings will be celebrate Mass; with Cathedral Choir and These events include: to begin the tradition at Filipino observance. accepted. orchestra. Advent Procession with Carols, More details on this page. Filipino clergy will Blue Christmas Prayer Service, 5:30 Christmas Day Mass, 10 a.m. Dec. 5:30-6:30 p.m. Dec. 2. Bishop Michael C. concelebrate, and a reception will follow. p.m. Dec. 21. On the longest night of the 25. Bishop Michael C. Barber, SJ, will Barber, SJ, will preside at Lessons and Chanticleer Concert, 6 p.m. Dec. 16. year, a service of reflection, with prayer celebrate Mass; with Cathedral Choir and Carols, with readings from Scripture and Ticket information is available at chanti- and music, offers comfort to those who orchestra. carols for the Cathedral Camerata and cleer.org. are finding the joy of the season elusive. Epiphany Lessons and Carols, 5:30 congregation. Concert, 7:30-9 p.m. Dec. 18. Christmas Eve Mass, 10 p.m .Dec. p.m. Jan 6. The Cathedral Choir of Men Simbang Gabi, 7 p.m. Dec. 11. Bishop Johnathan Dimmock performs “La Nativité 24. Bishop Michael C. Barber, SJ, will and Boys will be featured. Simbang Gabi season begins December 11 at the cathedral By Rev. Erick Villa Masses followed by breakfast in the hall. Special to The Catholic Voice Information, Villa Serrano, villa.mser- The Filipino clergy of the Diocese of [email protected]. Oakland will kick off the 2018 Simbang Our Lady of Good Counsel, 2500 Gabi (Misa de Gallo) season with the cel- Bermuda Ave., San Leandro, Masses at ebration of the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass 7:30 p.m. Dec. 16-23 and 6 a.m. Dec. 24. presided by Bishop Michael C. Barber, SJ, Information, Mila Daulog, milard106@ at 7 p.m. Dec. 11 at the Cathedral of Christ yahoo.com. the Light, 2121 Harrison St., Oakland. Our Lady of Guadalupe, 41936 The tools for a better career “I have always enjoyed this beautiful Blacow Road, Fremont, Masses at 6 a.m. liturgy: a time to be reminded of Christ’s Dec. 16-24. Information, Gloria Lara, 510- Top 40 Colleges Honored birth in the spirit of festive celebration inter- 657-4043 or [email protected]. Colleges That Change Lives twined with faith and culture authentically, St. Anne, 32223 Cabello St., Union but not exclusively, Filipino,” said Very Rev. City, Masses at 5:30 a.m .Dec. 15-24. James Matthews, rector of the cathedral Information, Zella Yanos, 510-471-7766 and supporter of the nine-days of Masses or [email protected]. in anticipation of Christmas. St. Anthony, 971 O’Hara Ave., Oakley, Earn a Global Executive MBA in 12 months from a Last year, about 800 people from Masses at 5 a.m. Dec. 16-24. Information, top-ranked program tailored to develop business leaders almost 35 participating parishes within Emma Arcayena, 925-325-5249; Florie the diocese, wearing their barongs Brice, 925-354-0107 or Rev. Giopre Prado, who have a genuine sensitivity to the ethical, socially (embroidered formal shirts) and Filipiniana 510-755-3608. (traditional women’s dresses) and with St. Clement Parish, 750 Calhoun St., responsible, and sustainable aspect of a global society. colorful Christmas parols, or lanterns, in Hayward, Masses at 5:30 a.m. Dec. 16-24, tow, attended the Mass and later took part followed by breakfast in McCollum Hall. in the fiesta celebration, where they were Information, Nenette Ebalo, nebalo68@ treated with native food and entertained gmail.com or 510-582-7282. Program Highlights: with folk dances and Christmas music by St Francis of Assisi, 860 Oak Grove the combined choir under the direction Road, Concord, Masses at 5:30 a.m . • Online, On-campus and On-location evening and of Ariel Mayormita, including a surprise Dec. 16-24. Free breakfast after every caroling medley from the Filipino clergy. Mass; Christmas program on Dec 24. weekend classes A fiesta will follow this year’s celebration Information, Beng Beza, 925-285-2613 or at the cathedral. Parking is available at the [email protected]; Tony Lansang, • Small class size taught 100% by accomplished faculty Kaiser Center Garage, entrance on 21st 925-330-9391, [email protected]. Street across from the Chancery offices. St. , 3351 Contra Experience the warmth of Christmas Loma Blvd., Antioch, Masses at 5 a.m . • Consult on global projects from Australia, , and the joy of growing in faith. For more Dec. 16-24. Information, Cecille Mirano, information, contact Rev. Ken Sales at [email protected], 925-451-1613. India, Peru, , Thailand, Dubai and more. 510-456-4964 or frken@holyspiritfremont. St. Isidore, 440 La Gonda Way, org; or Rev. Erick Villa at 925-634-4154 or Danville, Mass at 6 a.m .Dec. 15; fol- [email protected]. lowed by traditional Filipino breakfast. Parishes that have not yet submitted Information: Cecille Lapuz, FAPSI @ their Simbang Gabi events may submit [email protected] or their information to The Catholic Voice 925-984-4146. no later than Nov. 30 for inclusion in the St. James the Apostle, 34700 Fremont Dec. 10 issue. Be sure to include the Blvd., Masses at 5:30 a.m .Dec. 16-24. To Learn More or Apply: parish name, type of event (full nine-day Breakfast after Mass. Information: Solita www.stmarys-ca.edu/global-executive-mba novena, triduum or other), dates and times Rivera Cruz, 510-566-8181 or stjamesa- of Masses and parish contact person [email protected]. and means of contact (phone number St. John the Baptist, 11150 San or email address). Send that information Pablo Ave., El Cerrito, Masses at 5 p.m. via email to Al Pacciorini, apacciorini@ Dec. 15; 6 p.m. Dec. 16 (Brazilian); 7 p.m. oakdiocese.org. Dec. 17-21; 5 p.m. Dec. 22; 6 p.m. Dec. 23 Simbang Gabi parish events include: (Brazilian). 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Unjust jury hood left home after elementary school Letters to the editor provide a forum for readers to engage in an open exchange Discouragingly, many Voice Forum to go to the minor . They lived of opinions and concerns in a climate of respect and civil discourse. The opinions writers seem quite ready to accept the in an all-male environment and lacked Pennsylvania grand jury report as proof opportunities for friendship with girls their expressed are those of the writers, and not necessarily of the Catholic Voice or that hundreds of clergy are absolutely age. These boys were teenagers and the Diocese of Oakland. While a full spectrum of opinions will sometimes include guilty of heinous crimes. The report con- certainly not emotionally/sexually mature. those which dissent from Church teaching or contradict the natural moral law, it clusions should not, no, cannot be allowed They didn’t really know themselves. As is hoped that this forum will help our readers to understand better others’ think- to ruin lives by such immoral usurpation was common at the time, they did not ing on critical issues facing the Church. of power. receive much guidance in their personal/ Thus, our scary new legal system on emotional development at the seminary. is in a very tight race with Democratic can- lems, personality disorders, affective or mood display: The psychological testing and screening didate Stacey Abrams who could become disorders, brain injury as well as an inability to “J’accuse; ergo guilty; no trial need- that are common today didn’t exist. the state’s first Black female governor. As maintain mature, intimate, sexual or non-sex- ed!” Such a view was presciently predicted Thankfully, seminaries for boys 15-19 it happens, most of those 53,000 names ual relationships with adults. Often a sexual in a 1948 Humphrey Bogart movie, where years of age are things of the past. There is Kemp was holding back are people of color. crime and behavior (violating a child) is more his character challenged the bandit-leader acknowledgement now that making a choice In the case, where Ted Cruz was than just that they can’t help themselves with to “Show me your badges.” The bad-guy for the priesthood, as for any life choice, re-elected after Beto O’Rourke gave him their sexual attractions and desires. angrily answered: “Badges? We ain’t got requires maturity and the self-knowledge serious competition, Waller County has had Many pedophiles are indeed sexually no badges. We don’t need no badges! that comes with real life experience. a long history of doing whatever it could to attracted to pre-pubescent children but I don’t have to show you any stinking Surely most of us would acknowledge prevent the students of the historically African 80 percent of clergy sexual offenders badges!” Substitute the word “proof” for the great scientific advances of the last American college from voting in elections. violated a post pubescent teen and are “badges,” and voila, one has the rationale 50 years. And so we must admit that These are just two examples of the not pedophiles at all (but are described of this grand jury’s callously omitting that our knowledge of human sexuality has steps being taken to disenfranchise people as ephebophiles). Many report that teens all-important word “alleged.” also been expanded over time. Well- of color, particularly African Americans. are not the object of their desire but what In God’s name, how could any Catholic, adjusted homosexual individuals are There are probably more that haven’t seen was available to them at the time. clergy or lay, approve of such a system? just as capable of being good priests as the light of day ... yet. Perhaps prison sexual behavior is Opposing opinions sought — with com- well-adjusted heterosexual persons. The I ask you: If your vote doesn’t matter, a good example. Often heterosexual men plete rationale, of course. Church (that’s us) needs priests who are why are people trying so damn hard to find themselves engaging in homosexual Some facts: well-adjusted, fully developed persons prevent you from doing so? Vote! behavior while in prison and return to het- Grand juries, by law, do not by law, deter- seeking the Lord and able to minister to all. Morris Soublet erosexual behavior once released. Abusing mine guilt. It is there solely to decide whether The greater burden of responsibil- Hayward priests, especially during the 1960s and prosecutors seem to have enough evidence ity for the scandals goes to the bishops 1970s when most of these crimes were to have a jury trial. There is no judge, no jury, and hierarchy. Coming from a posture of committed, had power, control, access and no defendants and no defense attorneys clericalism, it seems that most perceived Unsupported claim trust with boys much more so than with girls. allowed in grand jury hearings. safeguarding the reputation of the Church Jim Crowley and Matt Lopez (Forum, Certainly some homosexual priests The only attorneys allowed are pros- as more important than protecting vulner- Nov. 12) in separate letters resurrect the did in fact abuse boys. But so did hetero- ecutors. Jurors hear only from the pros- able children and adults. Until structures unsupported and unsupportable claim that sexual priests as well as priests who were ecutor. Prosecutors are the only ones to are developed where bishops can be held sexual abuse is significantly caused by unclear about their sexual orientation and question witnesses and are free to leave accountable, the People of God will be homosexuality in priests. desires. I have evaluated or treated about out anything favorable to the defense or loathe to trust that we are safe in their care. This is an old canard, which has been 60 of these men during the past several unfavorable to the prosecution. Marilynne Homitz disabused by many, including Thomas decades and have found this to be true Illegally obtained evidence can be used. Oakland Plante, in a 2010 article in Psychology clinically as well as true based on research Defendant(s) need not even be made Today (https://bit.ly/2FsDq0X). findings. Sexual crimes against children aware s/he is a defendant(s) or that a Some of his findings: are much more complicated than merely grand jury has been convened. No cross Votes matter “First, no research suggests that an issue of sexual orientation. examination by the defense is allowed; one With the November midterm elections homosexuals are at higher risk of being In my view, sexual orientation is a red reason: the defense is not there. behind us, it is time for those people who sex offenders, committing sexual crimes herring in this debate. If we truly are inter- Joe Moran are in the “my vote doesn’t matter” cat- or having impulse control disorders that ested in protecting children from harm and Orinda egory to ponder the following: result in sexual crimes than heterosexuals. doing the right thing, we shouldn’t blame If you really believe your vote doesn’t Sexual orientation by itself is not a risk homosexuals but focus our attention on the matter, why is it that Brian Kemp, the factor for crime. Almost all of the profes- various well known and established risk Lack of trust Secretary of State of Georgia (and poten- sional medical, psychiatric and psycho- factors that are more likely to result in the It is a mistake and a grave injustice to lay tially the next governor) tried to keep logical associations (such as the American sexual victimization of children and youth. the blame for the scandal of clergy sexual thousands of people from voting until his Psychological Association, the American These include a history of sexual and abuse at the feet of homosexual priests. efforts were stopped by a judge? Psychiatric Association, the American other victimization, impulse control prob- Sexual orientation alone does not cause a If you really believe your vote doesn’t mat- Pediatric Association) have position lems, the inability to maintain satisfying person to prey on someone with less power. ter, tell me why is it that the registrar of voters papers that articulate this understanding.” peer/adult relationships, maladaptive cop- It is important to consider the historical in Waller County, Texas, has tried to throw Second, sexual crimes against children ing styles, substance abuse and several context of the abuse cases. Most of the up registration obstacles for the students of are not merely an issue of sexual desire. co-morbid psychiatric disturbances. Sexual cases in the Pennsylvania report occurred Prairie View A&M, a state university? Most men who are sex offenders struggle orientation isn’t one of them. from about the 1940s to the 1980s. In Don’t think too hard. The answer is very with a variety of co-morbid disorders such Jim McCrea those days, boys considering the priest- simple. Your vote does matter. Brian Kemp as substance abuse, impulse control prob- Piedmont

VANTAGE POINTS Natural family planning key to living a chaste marriage By Tom Lenz, MD and should not be considered health care. homosexual acts. for the physical and emotional needs but Pope Paul VI’s encyclical “Humanae Despite popular opinion, scientific evi- From a medical perspective, free also for the faith formation of their children. Vitae” (“Of Human Life”) prophetically dence also shows that condoms have a sex has resulted in widespread sexually Parents are the primary educators for their warned that contraception would demean high rate of failure in preventing pregnan- transmitted infections. Oral copulation and children. women as sex objects (#MeToo), break cies and sexually transmitted infections, sodomy can also cause throat and rectal Because we are made in the image apart marriages (60 percent-plus divorce so it is really not safe sex at all. cancers. and likeness of God, we are all called to rate) and allow governments to dictate Chastity is using the gift of sex appro- Married couples must be chaste and be chaste and holy. the number of children allowed in a family priately in marriage between a man and holy in their marital union and avoid Do I desire chastity and holiness? Do (China policy). a woman. Chastity is abstinence from unnatural disordered sexual behaviors. I search for chastity and holiness like a Most contraceptives act as abor- unnatural disordered sexual activity. Sex is meant to be a sign of marriage, parent who searches for a lost child? Do tifacients, a new life is conceived but Natural law directs the marital sex union to whereby couples renew their covenant I struggle for chastity and holiness? To be implantation in the womb is prevented with be both unitive (bonding) and procreative vows by their union in the marital embrace. chaste and holy is what God wants you to artificial hormones or intrauterine devices, (baby making). In marriage, love is freely Natural family planning respects God’s be in your state of life. which create a hostile uterine lining and given, a full complete giving of self without design. Natural Family Planning is healthy Daily meditative prayers, like the daily result in a very early abortion. barriers, faithful until death and fruitful, and scientifically proven to be 99 percent rosary, is a requirement for chastity and In addition to the serious cardiovas- open to the gift of a child. A man should effective. After prayerful and generous holiness, to obtain God’s graces to over- cular health risk associated with the leave his parents and become one with his discernment by a married couple to decide come temptations. Unite yourself with the birth control pill that include blood clots, wife. What God has joined together, let no on the number of children for their family, universal church by immersing yourself in pulmonary embolism, heart attacks and one take apart. responsible parenthood involves using the daily Scripture readings at Mass. strokes, scientific studies by the World Contraceptives take apart God’s natural methods to plan their family. What is God saying to me today? Do I Health Organization in 2005, and again design. Sins against chastity include not Serious reasons to limit family size love others enough to lead them away from in a recent 2017 Danish study, deter- only contraception, but also sterilization, may include health, psychological, social evil? Do I detest sin or do I tolerate sin? mined that the birth control pill is a Class IVF, masturbation, pornography, fornica- and economic reasons, but should not be 1 Carcinogen for breast cancer. The pill tion, adultery, sex abuse, sex trafficking, for only selfish reasons. Parents have the (Dr. Thomas Lenz of Clayton is an East attacks the normal reproductive organs, rape, impure thoughts, dirty jokes and awesome responsibility to provide not only Bay emergency room doctor.)

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