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April 2010 YALE Volume 25 Issue 1 GALA YALE’S LGBT ALUMNI/AE NETWORK NEWSLETTER YALE GALA STARTS YEAR WITH PLANNING RETREAT, wgss & ANNUAL BANQUET Yale lgbts to kick off a long term planning process for the Anniversaries Conference future of Yale GALA, 16 GALA members gathered at the AYA (Association of Yale Alumni) office April 16–18, 2010 on Chapel Street on Saturday, February 13 for a daylong working session. The focus of the retreat was to build on the remarkable success of the April 2009 LGBT Alumni Reunion that brought Photo of 1986 Gay and Lesbian Rally. 420 alums to campus for three days of panels, receptions, and all-around celebration. Participants included co-presidents Mickey CONFERENCE CELEBRATES ACCOMPLISHMENTS, COMMUNITY Dobbs TC ’92 and Natasha Haase ES ’91, four members of the board of directors, and interested By Anna Wipfler members of Yale GALA, ranging from its found- ing days to graduates of the Class of ’09. Billed featuring a wide variety of panels, events, and activities, Yale’s Women’s, Gender, and as a Retreat, the event was co-facilitated by Libby Sexuality Studies and its Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender Studies programs will jointly Halstead MBA ’00 and Bob Barnett MFA ’89, celebrate their founding with a first-of-its-kind WGSS & LGBTS Anniversaries Conference Newsletter Editor and board member. from Friday, April 16 to Sunday, April 18. Mark Dollhopf ES ’77, Executive Director, AYA, gave opening remarks, encouraging the With wgss celebrating its 30th anniversary their education at a particularly exciting time for group to think broadly and ambitiously about and lgbts nearing its 25th, the Conference will wgss and lgbts at Yale. its future. Mickey and Natasha gave a brief certainly not be the first conversation on gender history of Yale GALA from its founding in the and sexuality that Yale has hosted. However, it Walking tour of women’s history 1980s. Benjamín González BK ’09 provided a will be the first conference devoted to an expan- The Anniversaries Conference—hosted by demographic analysis of membership, includ- sive focus on the scholarly communities that Yale’s wgss and lgbts with generous support from ing geographic distribution (see graph, page 3). lgbts and wgss programs have fostered, both the Yale Provost’s Office, the Women Faculty Finally Maria Trumpler PhD ’92 who heads the on campus and in the larger academic world. Forum, and the Whitney Humanities Center— Office of LGBTQ Resources, gave an update on “This conference is as much a scholarly will officially begin Friday morning with a walk- campus LGBT student activities and her goals endeavor,” said Conference Chair Melanie Boyd ing history of women at Yale, designed by gradu- for the resource office for the future. ’89 who is the Director of Undergraduate Studies ate student Alice Moore. Libby opened the morning by inviting every- for wgss, “as a hybrid out-of-the-box combina- Those history buffs arriving Thursday night one to share their personal reflections on what tion of conference, reunion, and anniversary cel- are invited to Amy Kesselman’s lecture “Coming made GALA meaningful to them. Bob asked ebration all in one weekend.” Out, Coming In, and ‘Be-Coming: Lesbians and members to first reflect and then share what In planning the anniversary celebrations, the Women’s Liberation Movement in New Haven they as individuals wanted for the organization organizers recognized that Yale’s programs and its from 1970–1977” sponsored by the Yale Research going forward. Responses varied widely from graduates have been instrumental in shaping the Initiative in the History of Sexuality. a more robust and interactive website to more fields of gender and sexuality studies nationally. Friday’s activities include the first of two mentoring of LGBT students upon graduation With that in mind, the Anniversaries Conference panels, framed as Intellectual Autobiographies to taking a more active leadership in LGBT is designed to offer the programs’ graduates and affairs in society. Mickey added one more: the students an opportunity to return to the site of > continues on page 8 > continues on page 3 from the editor Yale GALA, Yale’s LGBT Alumni/ae Network Newsletter, is published by OUR YALE GALA COMMUNITY… Yale GALA for members and friends. Yale GALA is the official LGBT in assembling this edition of the Yale gala Newsletter, I was struck with just how vibrant and alive our Yale lgbt alumni/ae Association open community really is, both off and on campus. But the articles in this edition are just the tip of the iceberg. to graduates, students, faculty, administration, staff, and friends. Granted it’s a pretty impressive tip with profiles of two operas in the making, a young dancer, an alumnus honored for his service, a major Conference celebrating (in part) lgbt Studies —even a first-ever Yalegala Pride Tour in the offing! To join our e-mail list and receive notification of GALA events, send We’ve got a letter from China, courtesy of a recent graduate, and a report from a member of the Class of ’10 about the your contact information to: first IvyQ Conference. To remind us that the battle we fight today for our rightful place in society has a long and often www.yalegala.org/joingala painful history, we also have a letter from a graduate from the Class of ’66, recalling a time when the “unspoken” was the Yale GALA website: norm and therapy five days a week was the consequence. www.yalegala.org In counterpoint, we have a story about The Gay Ivy, a one-night-only ensemble performance in which a group of recent Follow us on facebook: http://www.facebook.com/group. grads—of all stripes on the Kinsey scale—take on the recent furor over the “One In Four” cover story in the Yale Alumni php?gid=19596347888 Magazine. The Gay Ivy was light-hearted as it was serious but it took no prisoners, accepted no second-class citizenship. LGBT Studies at Yale: www.yale.edu/lgbts So that’s the tip of the iceberg. In coming issues, I hope to explore what lies below. Want to help? After all, it’s your newsletter, your iceberg. the yale gala Bob Barnett ’89 MFA board of directors mickey dobbs tc ’92, Co-President [email protected] natasha haase es ’91, Co-President letter to the editor [email protected] tim bertaccini es ’77, Treasurer In the November 2009 issue of the GALA Newsletter celebrating our LGBT Reunion in April, [email protected] I invited readers to send in their “most defining memory of Yale as a LGBT student or alum” —BB bob barnett mfa ’89 in response to your call for memories of GLBT submitting a 17 year-old to that kind of rigorous self- Secretary, Newsletter Editor examination, when the contours of my personality and [email protected] life at Yale: In 1962 I was 17 years old and about to enter Yale. sexuality were still in formation. dennis blackwell td ’87 From New Haven originally, in high school I presented What I never had access to during my adolescence [email protected] as a bright but morose and moody late-bloomer largely and college years was a sympathetic mentor who would estranged from my peers. My parents thought I needed tell me, “Eric, you’re young yet: Maybe you’ll turn out to graham boettcher pc ’95, phd ’06 be homosexual as you think, but be patient and don’t be [email protected] therapy, and before I knew it had begun, Dr. Seymour Lustman assured me that this was not the kind of therapy afraid of your capacities for sexual and romantic expres- tom burke mc ’85 for everyone, but I was an ideal candidate. sion as they will certainly reveal themselves in time. If [email protected] So I began. I experienced some sense of shame over you are homosexual, be assured there are plenty of others this and went to great lengths to avoid explaining to my like you and you’ll not be denied a chance at happiness thom cantey sy ‘00 and success in life. Try not to let it worry you and feel free [email protected] roommates where I was headed so early five mornings a week. Underlying my need for therapy was what I knew to to come back and talk any time.” joseph daniel mba ’92 be my homosexuality, but in those “pre-gay” years there But in the early 1960s no one spoke to me in those [email protected] was barely a suitable vocabulary with which we could dis- terms and I struggled alone. My entire four years at Yale cuss it in a sober, realistic and supportive way. I remained are overshadowed by this experience. jason kramer mc ’96 Los Angeles Rep in psychoanalysis all through my four years at Yale. [email protected] I never really knew there was any kind of gay “scene” Eric A. Gordon, YC ‘66 at Yale. Once or twice I hooked up with a stranger encoun- michael rosanova sy ’72, phd ’80 tered at a bar, but these were episodes of “acting out” that Eric is Director of the Southern California District of the Arbeter Chicago Rep Dr. Lustman strongly discouraged me from repeating. [email protected] Ring/the Workmen’s Circle, a national Jewish cultural and I was graduated in 1966 and continued psychoanalysis social action organization founded in 1900. He has authored eric shiner ma ’03 (again, four or five days a week) in graduate school in biographies of American composers Marc Blitzstein and Earl [email protected] another city.