Introduction

Answering the quick-fire questions below will create a PDF of your limits. This is by no means an exhaustive list but a great tool to start the conversation with your partner (or prospective dom/sub) about your limits and interests.

It is important to review these limits regularly... you may find something you thought you'd enjoy becomes a hard limit and vice versa!

A hard limit is something you do not want to try under any circumstance. This can be for any reason.

A soft limit is something you do not think you want to do but would be willing to try with the right partner or scenario.

Your Results

Question Your Answer

Oral sex giving Yes

Oral sex receiving Maybe

Vaginal sex (penetration) Yes

Anal sex (penetration) Yes

Double Penetration (oral and anal) Yes

Double penetration (anal and vaginal) Yes

Hand jobs receiving Yes

Swallowing semen No

Facesitting Yes

Rimming receiving (i.e licking the anal area) Maybe

Rimming giving (i.e licking the anal area) Yes

Massage (receiving) Yes

Massage (giving) Yes

Hand jobs giving Yes

Spitting Maybe

Blindfolds Yes

hand cuffs Yes

Plugs (i.e butt plug) Yes

Vibration on genitals Yes

nipple play Yes Question Your Answer spanking Yes

Paddling Yes

Flogging Yes

Wooden Paddles Yes

Choking Maybe

Pain (mild) Maybe

Pain (strong) No

Strapons (penetrated by) Yes

Strapons (wearing) Yes

Strapons (sucking) Yes

Cock worship No

Pussy worship Yes

Clothes pegs Maybe

Collars Yes

Sex in public No

Group sex No

Outdoor sex Maybe

Watching partner with others Maybe

Humiliation (private) Maybe

Humiliation (public) No

Humiliation (verbal) Maybe

Given to others (i.e to be used sexually) No

Gags (i.e gag in the mouth) Yes

Full head / isolation hood (i.e a mask covering the entire head) Maybe

Forced servitude Yes Question Your Answer

Forced nudity (public) No

Forced nudity (private) Yes

Forced masturbation Yes

Forced dressing Yes

Foot Worship Yes

Following orders Yes

Fantasy Rape Maybe

Public exposure No

Examination (physical) Yes

Washing mouth out with soap Yes

Infantalism Maybe

Ice Play (i.e using ice for sensations) Yes

Kidnapping scenes Yes

Interrogation scenes Yes

Kneeling Yes

Standing in the corner Yes

Proscribed postures Yes

Begging Yes

Speech restrictions (when, what, who) Yes

Bathroom restrictions Maybe

Medical scenes Yes

Mummification/saran wrapping (i.e the whole body wrapped) Yes

Pussy whipping Maybe

Chastity devices Yes

Testicle weights Maybe Question Your Answer

Nipple weights Yes

Sensory deprivation Yes

Shaving (i.e body hair) Yes

Speculums (vaginal) Yes

Speculums (anal) Yes

Religious Scenes Yes

Spreader bars Yes

Used as furniture Yes

Suspension (i.e being suspended with rope/other) Yes

Cages (i.e being locked inside) Maybe

Straight Jackets Yes

Uniforms Yes

Recording Scenes (i.e video) Maybe

Being photographed Maybe

Tickling Yes

Swinging (i.e swapping partners) No

Cucking No

Cock and ball torture Maybe

Uretheal sounds (i.e metal rods in uretha) Maybe

Harems (i.e serving with others for one partner) No

Castration fantasy Maybe

Ball stretching Maybe

Tattoos Yes

Pony Play Maybe

Piercing Yes Question Your Answer

Knife/edge play Yes

Injections Maybe

Human Puppy Play No

Fisting (vaginal) Yes

Fisting (anal) Yes

Dilation (anal/vaginal) Yes

Fire Play (i.e a candle flame or similar near the skin) Yes

Cutting Maybe

Chosen Clothing Yes

Chosen Food Yes

Golden Showers Maybe

Brown Showers / Scat No

Branding Maybe

Enemas Maybe

Figging (insertion of ginger rectally) Yes

Catheterization Maybe

Whipping Yes

Voyuerism (i.e watching others) Maybe