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The Christmas season is upon us once again and it’s a wonderful time of year. We can relax and be with Published by our loved ones, celebrate our faith, reflect on our good fortune to live in our home land, the Philippines. Smart Way International Ltd Success Brighter Co. Ltd Of all the joys of the season, perhaps none is more 5D Sun King Building satisfying than the joy of giving. Not just the gifts 580 Queen’s Road West exchanged between family and friends, but the gifts Hong Kong of time, money and effort many give to people less Tel: 2541 2510 / 9010 9183 fortunate than ourselves. That spirit of generosity is one of the things that defines Email: [email protected] us, as Filipinos. Different OFW associations in Hong Kong and around the world has prepared their Christmas gifts to various charitable institutions to donate and INTERNET share the blessings to the less fortunate and needy community in the Philippines. www.friends-intl-mag.com During the Christmas season, our thoughts turn to the source of joy and hope born in a humble manger on a holy night more than 2,000 years ago. Each PUBLISHER / EDITOR year, Christians everywhere celebrate this single life that changed the world and Capt. Rosendo C. Herrera continues to change hearts today. The simple and inspiring story of the birth of Jesus fills our souls with gratitude for the many blessings in our lives and promises MANAGING EDITOR that God’s purpose is Love and Peace for every one. Arnold P. Grospe At this special time of year, we give thanks for Christ’s message of love and mercy, ART DIRECTOR and we are reminded of our responsibility to serve. The Philippines is blessed to Willy Castañar have fine citizens who reach out with a compassionate hand to help brothers and sisters in need. We also remember our brave OFW community here in Hong Kong COLUMNS who have sacrificed their time to work abroad for the welfare of their family and Bro. Eddie Villanueva for their children’s future. Many of those who have answered the call of duty will spend Christmas far from home and separated from family. We honor their Bro. Rolly Estrella sacrifices, ask God to watch over them and their families, and pray for their safe Barrister Ody Lai return. Noel Asinas Cora Carsola There are lot of ways in expressing your thought in these Yuletide Season. Dra. Gertrude P. Chan, FPDS Whether it is by means of poems or through the quotes from the Bible. Messages Ruel Y. Quezon appearing on the Christmas cards bear a special significance during the festive season, because the words that are imprinted on the cards are more than just words, they are the means to wish our dear ones well in the holiday and the festive PHOTOGRAPHY season. In our modern style or fashion, text messages and phone calls are common Bobby Campus ways to communicate and greet our family this Christmas . Of course, being Jo Mabalot together with our family is the happiest moment that everybody is dreaming and Nery/Leo Jimena preparing of. Aside from a time of break from our work, it is also a traditional Rodel Concha celebration around a great religious festival and one of the most important in the Letty Romero Christian year.

CONTRIBUTORS Our unity, solidarity and feelings of tolerance and brotherhood are virtues that Adelaida Mogol have made our OFW’s in Hong Kong strong despite of the recession and global Bernadette Benitez economic downturn that the world is facing. April Joy Remely Valdez Christmas is a time to rejoice and remember the birth of Jesus Christ. Friends Violy Pascual International editorial staff and I pray that your Christmas will be blessed with Noemi Paniza family and fellowship, and we wish you a day of glad tidings. Terry Buen Lucida Maingpis I also take this opportunity to express my heartfelt thanks to all our readers, My dela Roca advertisers, regular columnists, volunteer contributors, Luzon Federation, Novo Riza Guevarra Ecijanos, Association of Filipino Leaders and different associations in Hong Kong for the support you have given us for the last 37 months. Rest assured that PRINTING we will continue to provide you with the best reading material that will ease your Smart Way International Ltd boredom and loneliness while working abroad in the coming year.

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Gina Montero CFCB PMS 30 laugh Lines Gie Ignacio DOMOHK FNA Mayvie Acosta Black Eagle Mindanao Alliance 31 FIM Outlets Olive Lasat Calabarzon KUSOG Juvy Aldea Novo Ecijano Association LEBAK 32 gebyar Ul-Tah Ck’funky Dancer Yang Ke-2 Fely Bunso S. Naoe OFWIE BENGFED Mario de los Reyes GOAL ANIBA-HK 33 Horoscope and Mind Games LOFWA Oriental Mindoro Society Distribution Team MIGA Damayan 34 Birthday Corner / Just 4 Kids / Text From The Heart IMAP-HK WOMED LUZFED LOFM FILCOMSIN BSK-HK BOWA FILREFLEX MMWA 4 friends International Magazine DECemBER 2008 5 friends International Magazine DECemBER 2008 at ano ang kanilang kahilingan sa Paskong kapwa, masaya tayo kahit may dumarating na Tinig Ng darating. mga pagsubok. Wish ko sa paskong darating na sana ito na ang serious relationship for me and Terry Laurio my boyfiernd for us to start planing of having a Masa Siu Sai Wan new happy family and children of our own. The History ofChristmas and Santa Claus ni Adelaida C. Mogol Malungkot at walang Christmas sa aking Rose Perido In the Western world, the birthday of gift-giving and frequent excesses presented sixteenth century, the feasting and veneration pinaglilingkurang pamilya. Miss na miss ko ang Shatin imula nang tayo ay aking pamilya at ayaw kong marinig ang mga Jesus Christ has been celebrated on December a drastic contrast with the simplicity of the of Catholic saints were banned. But people maglakbay upang 25th since AD 354, replacing an earlier Nativity, and many people throughout the had become accustomed to the annual visit awiting pamasko kasi lalo akong malulungkot. Ang pinakamalungkot ay nang mamatay Sm a g h a n a p b u h ay Wish ko lang na makaraos ako at ang aking ang tatay ko. Ang pinakamasaya sa bawat date of January 6th. The Christians had by centuries and into the present, condemn such from their gift-giving saint and didn’t want to sa malayo bilang dayuhang manggagawa then appropriated many pagan festivals and practices as being contrary to the true spirit of forget the purpose of the holiday. So in some pamilya sa financial na pangangailan. Ang pamilya ay ang magkasama-sama ang bawat nakararanas tayo nang sari-saring pagsubok at ginagawa kong sakripisyo ay alang alang sa mga pamilya. Hindi lang sa pera at karangyaan traditions of the season, that were practiced in Christmas. countries, the festivities of St. Nicholas’ Day karanasan araw araw. anak ko. Bilang isang single mother ako kasi ang ang diwa nang pasko. Ito ay nasa puso at many parts of the Middle East and Europe, as were merged with Christmas celebrations, and tumatayong ina at ama para sa aking mga anak. pagmamahalan nang bawat tao. Ang wish ko sa a means of stamping them out. The earliest English reference to December although the gift-bearer took on new, non- Sa panahon nang kapaskuhan may mga alaala paskong darating ay manumbalik ang masaganang 25th as Christmas Day did not come until religious forms, he still reflected the saints tayong di makalilimutan. May lungkot at saya. Hilda Geron pamumuhay at malinis ang pagpalakad sa ating Ngunit anuman ang mga ito iyan ay bahagi There were mid-winter festivals in ancient 1043. generous spirit. Hong Kong Place bansa lalo na ang mga namumuno. Babylon and Egypt, and Germanic fertility nang migration. Our life journey as an ocw festivals also took place at this time. The birth The History of Santa Claus In Germany, he appeared as is complicated and yet we tried our best to Wala. Kasi pakiramdam ko pareho lang dahil Mercy Nazareno cope with everything because of our dream for of the ancient sun-god Attis in Phrygia was Santa Claus hasn’t always looked like the Weihnachtsmann, in England as Father parang Christmas palagi. Wish ko makatapos ang South Horizon celebrated on December 25th, as was the birth jolly old fellow we know today. Like so many Christmas, and in France, as Pèrè Noël, who our children. mga anak at ito ang pinakamahalagang pamasko of the Persian sun-god, Mithras. The Romans other American traditions, he’s a product left small gifts in the children’s shoes. na ipagkakaluob ni Lord sa akin. Masaya at malungkot lalo na kung di ka makauwi celebrated Saturnalia, a festival dedicated to of the great American melting pot - a blend I can still remember my first Christmas here sa pamilya. Wish ko sana pagbigyan ako nang Saturn, the god of peace and plenty, that ran of many different cultures and customs. His In the areas where St. Nicholas was still in Hong Kong, I was at Star Ferry, Tsim Tsa Celeste Ocampo amo ko na makauwi ngayong paskong darating Tsui when I heard the song from the 17th to 24th of December. Public earliest ancestors date back to pre-Christian portrayed as the gift-bearer, a host of other “I Have A Blue The Peak upang magkasamasama kami ng aking pamilya. Christmas Without You, I’ll Be So Blue Thingking gathering places were decorated with flowers, days, when sky-riding gods ruled the earth. characters developed to be his assistants. Two About You. Decoration Of Red On The Green gifts and candles were exchanged and the The mythological characters Odin, Thor, and of his most well-known helpers were Knecht Simula nung dumating at magstart magtrabaho Cris Agarin Christmas Tree. Would Not Be The Same If You Are dito wala akong serious boyfriend relationship Tsuen Wan population, slaves and masters alike, celebrated Saturn gave us the basis for many of Santa’s Ruprecht and the Belsnickle. Depending on Not With Me.” Hindi ko mapigilang tumulo ang the occasion with great enthusiasm. distinctive characteristics. the local tradition, they were either attendants at para sa akin ang lahat ay mga kalokohan luha at nang tumawag ako sa aking mga mahal sa tulad nang mga maririnig ko sa ating mga Masaya, malungkot ang pasko lalo na kung to St. Nicholas or gift-bears themselves, but buhay ay hindi na rin mapigilan ang humagulgol In Scandinavia, a period of festivities But the most influential figure in the in all cases, both were fearsome characters, kababayan. Hiling ko sa daratiing na kapaskuhan malayo ka sa pamilya. Saan ka man naruruon nang malakas, hindi ko alintana na maraming tao ay matagpuan ko na ang isang tunay at serious may saya at lungkot tayong madarama. Kahit known as Yule contributed another impetus shaping of today’s generous as loving Santa brandishing rods and switches. It was not only sa aking paligid. Habang nagdaraan ang panahon to celebration, as opposed to spirituality. Claus was a real man. St. Nicholas of Myra their dusty to reward good children but also relationship na at makapagsimulang pagisipan na tayo ay magkaproblema ating hilingin sa ating ay natutuhan ko na ring ma-adjust ang sarili sa ang pagkakaruon nang pamilya. Makasama ang Panginoong Hesus na lunasan niya ang bawat As Winter ended the growing season, the (now Turkey), a fourth century bishop. As a to reprove children who were naughty and malayo sa tulong nang MAYKAPAL. serious boyfriend ko sa Paskong darating. problema nating nararanasan. Siya lang ang opportunity of enjoying the Summer’s bounty champion of children and the needy, he was couldn’t recite their prayers. ating sandigan sa lahat nang oras. Anuman ang encouraged much feasting and merriment. legendary for his kindness and generosity. Habang nasa malayo rin tayo hindi natin Adel Logmao nararanasan natin araw-araw ito ay kalooban ng makalilimutan ang kaugaliang Filipino tuwing Knecht Ruprecht (meaning Servant Shouson Hills Maykapal at Siya rin ang makapagbibigay lunas The Celtic culture of the British Isles revered Patron Saint Rupert) was also by other names such as darating ang kapaskuhan. Kaya nagpasya ang sa ating problema. To God be the Glory and thy all green plants, but particularly mistletoe Because of his wisdom and sensitivity, Black Peter (so called because he delivered the Friends na alamin sa ating mga kababayan kung Ang pasko ay mararanasan natin araw araw will be done Lord. and holly. These were important symbols of many groups claimed St. Nicholas as their presents down the chimney for St. Nicholas ang anung karanasan nila sa araw nang Pasko kung tayo ay nagtataglay nang pagibig sa ating fertility and were used for decorating their patron saint. Children, orphans, sailors, and and became blackened with soot). homes and altars. even thieves often prayed to the compassionate saint for guidance and protection. Entire In some places, the images, of Knecht New Christmas customs appeared in the countries, including Russia and Greece, also Ruprecht and St. Nicholas merged to form Middle Ages. The most prominent contribution adopted him as their patron saint, as well as Ru Klaus (meaning Rough Nicholas - so was the carol, which by the 14th century students and pawnbrokers. named because of his rugged appearance), had become associated with the religious Aschen Klaus (meaning Ash Nicholas - observance of the birth of Christ. Throughout his life, St. Nicholas tried to because he carried a sack of ashes as well as a help others while inspiring the to imitate his bundle of switches), and Pelznickle (meaning In Italy, a tradition developed for re- virtues. Legends of his unselfish giving spread Furry Nicholas - referring to his fur clad enacting the birth of Christ and the construction all over Northern Europe, and accounts of his appearance). of scenes of the nativity. This is said to have heroic deeds blended with regional folklore. been introduced by Saint Francis as part of Eventually, the image of the stately saint Not all of St. Nicholas’ companions were his efforts to bring spiritual knowledge to the was transformed onto an almost mystical frightening. In fact, the Christkindl (meaning laity. being, one known for rewarding the good and Christ Child) was thought to accompany punishing the bad. him in many countries. Often portrayed by a Saints Days have also contributed to our fair-haired young girl, this angelic figure was Christmas celebrations. A prominent figure The date of his death, December 6th, was sometimes the gift-bearer too. in today’s Christmas is Saint Nicholas who commemorated with an annual feast, which for centuries has been honored on December gradually came to mark the beginning of the 6th. He was one of the forerunners of Santa medieval Christmas season. On St. Nicholas’ Claus. Eve, youngsters would set out food for the saint, straw for his horses and schnapps for Another popular ritual was the burning his attendant. The next morning, obedient of the Yule Log, which is strongly embedded children awoke to find their gifts replaced in the pagan worship of vegetation and fire, with sweets and toys, found their offering as well as being associated with magical and untouched , along with a rod or a bundle of spiritual powers. switched. St. Nicholas’ Day is still observed in many countries, and gifts are exchanged in Celebrating Christmas has been honor of the spirit of brotherhood and charity controversial since its inception. Since that he embodied. numerous festivities found their roots in pagan practices, they were greatly frowned upon by The Making Of Santa Claus conservatives within the Church. The feasting, After the Protestant Reformation in the 6 friends International Magazine DECemBER 2008 7 friends International Magazine DECemBER 2008 Overseas Domestic Worker’s Union - HK DOMOHK Celebrates 3rd anniversary; Inducts Officers by Fely Rose Pulmones 1st General Assembly Punctual, Mr. Popularity 1st runner up and by Julia Buen Terry Mr. Suaveng Jologs. Arnel Carrera of Stanley Filipino association was Named Mr. Suaveng counseling on labor, immigration, and Henyo, Mr. Popularity 2nd runner up, Mr. employment problems faced by distressed Suaveng Simpatiko, And Mr. Photogenic. migrant worker.

Other winners were Mr. Raul Feliciano of Bal- “We will fight and rally for anti- migrant ungao Overseas Workers Association who was workers policies set for us. The Union will named Mr. Suaveng Kilabot ng Hong Kong protect and serve its membership as well as and Barkadahan sa Smartone Users Club’s those other Foreign Domestic Workers in Mr. Roger Payos was the Mr. Suaveng Bibo. Hong Kong.” Said ODWU General Secretary, Chloe Belle D. Dogeno.

The Unions Executive Committee for 2008- 2009 were; Chairman: Sheila Grace Estrada, Despite the initial difficulties in finding the and members of different associations, friends Vice- Chairman: Aida Alvarez, General candidates for the show, DOMOHK had to and guests. She also wished the seven can- Secretary: Chloe Belle D. Dogeno, Asst. Sec.: pursue seven courageous and talented gentle- didates good luck and hoped that everyone Rowena Borja, Treasurer: Wilma Aque, Asst. men to compete for The second search for Mr. would enjoy the whole afternoon. Treas.: Mercedes Opena, P. R. O.S: Cynthia suave. Talamor, Wanda Ramirez, and Lita Draguin. The show kicked off with the opening num- Adding to the list of Foreign Workers Unions Foreign Domestic Workers in Hong Kong” Miss Rosalinda Mendoza was appointed as Indeed, it wasn’t easy to convince a guy to go ber from DOMOHK members known as the in Hong Kong is the Overseas Domestic was held at the Conference Room of the Jesus ODWU’s Auditor. up stage and present himself in front of hun- “Metro Bank Angels” joined by two former Workers Union. Is Lord Church, Yuen Long, New Territories Mr. Suave Candidates. The afternoon fun and dreds of people composed mostly of women. List of officers on November 09, 2008. ODWU’s Committee Chairmans were; Some would say it’s a “girl thing” as we are entertainment also showcased DOMOHK’s Established to serve and protect the interest Education and Welfare: Corazon Eustaquir, talent in dancing as group members performed used to watching beauty contests week after President : Remedios Borlaza of Foreign Domestic Helpers in the territory, ODWU with License Registration # 1175 is Organizing and Campaign: Flordiliza Liban, three times throughout the show. week. Some thought it was embarrassing to Vice President : Marilyn Tadeo ODWU-HK marked its 1st General Assembly a registered Trade Union under the Registry and Finance and Socio: Louelyn Villanueva. do. Some guys say it’s not worth their time. Secretary : Fely Rose Pulmones with the election of its first set of officers. of Trade Union of the Hong Kong Labor Guest speaker Hon. Labatt Romy Salud deliv- Asst. Secretary : Rosita Andrada Department. It will organize educational Special Guest during the event were; Miss ered his message and congratulated the group Treasurer : Mercedes Moncayo The gathering with the theme “Unity and seminars, trainings, and activities deemed Rosalinda Mendoza, Mr. Jerry Noot, and Ma. for its success. Later, he swore into office the Asst.Treasurer : Marietta Cerenio Unionism for the interest and service of for the betterment of its members. It offers Cecilia Barrientos. new set of officers. Auditor : Jesusa Sayas Asst. Auditor : Josefina Mabalot Oriental Mindoro HK Society’s Mr. Arnel Di- P. R. O. : Alma Aquileña mapilis bagged the title for Mr. Suave 2008, : Juliet Garsano he was also named Mr. Suaveng Maginoo, : Marilyn Nefulda Mr. Suaveng Performer, Most Friendship, Mr. Business Managers : Marilyn Rodriguez Popularity 2008, Darling of the Crowd and : Emma Dales Mr. Suaveng Romantiko. : Rowena Veluz Coordinators 1st runner up was Mr. Mel Penira of Love Events & Program : Alma Milano Peace and Unity Pinoy HK Group. He also In her welcome address, DOMOHK Presi- : Helen Selvestre won the title of Mr. Suaveng Rugged and Mr. dent Remedios Borlaza said “three years na : Florenda De Los Santos Suaveng Japorms. po kami at sana’y madagdagan pa, salamat Livelihood, Seminars & Training sa mga kasama ko sa DOMOHK, to the of- : Josefina Manjares Mr. Alejandro Bautista of OWWA Migrants ficers and members who stood by me in times : Ofelia Baquirin Cantonese Association was the 2nd Runner of problems and difficulties and showed their : Evangeline Mundo up, Mr. true love and dedication to our group, I owe Sports : Lourdes Salongsongan Suaveng Maporma And Mr. Suaveng Kar- you a million thanks. three years of existence : Leah Amorante inyoso. in the Filipino community was a great oppor- : Amada Dujali tunity and at the same time a big responsibil- Advisers : Corazon Carsola Mr. Enrique Lizo of Sai Kung Filipino associ- ity, a very challenging and full of excitement : Adelaida Mogol ation won the Ambassador of goodwill, Most service. : Flora Virtudazo

Borlaza also thanked all the sponsors and do- nors, as well as the guest performers, leaders

8 friends International Magazine DECemBER 2008 9 friends International Magazine DECemBER 2008 At Your Service Imap - Hk Celebrates Midwifery Week With Election Of By: Rolando E. Estrella MAGTANONG PO KAYO New Officers The author has been in the public service of the Filipino Overseas Workers in Hong Kong for the past 20 years. He gives free advice and by Julia Buen Terry counsel, as well as practical solutions on employment-related problems, family matters, etc. Mr. Estrella or Brother Rolly, as most people call him, is currently the Vice President of INSURANCE OF THE PHILIPPINE ISLANDS CO., INC. For free counseling, please send Continuing to pursue the Midwifery Profession your letters/inquiries to: AT YOUR SERVICE COLUMN, c/o Friends International Magazine, Rm 1102, 11/F Sunny House, and its goal, the Integrated Midwives 12-16 Li Yuen Street West, Central, Hong Kong. (Attention to Bro. Rolly) Association of the Philippines. Inc. Hong Kong Chapter celebrated its Midwifery Week with the election of its new set of Officers for MORE THAN A SISTER are away from your children , and your sister religious belief between me and my husband. 2009- 2010 and the Search for Miss IMAP- I went to Hong Kong in 2003 to work as who takes care of them obviously could not I am a religious free-thinker as I attend HK 2008. domestic helper and one year thereafter my give genuine parental guidance like you could Catholic Mass and sometimes I do attend Born- husband was fortunate to land a job in Dubai as an to your children. That is why I have always Again Christian Sunday service. My husband on The gathering held at Admiralty, Hong Kong electrical engineer. We left the custody of our two admonished in this column that parents the other hand is a member of a religious group was attended by IMAP-HK members, friends, children to my older sister and for the past five (5) should avoid the situation where both of them in Cavite which promotes talisman and power of and invited guests from other migrant groups years she has been looking after their needs while are working abroad leaving their children mind to control things though believing in one God. in HK. Special Guest during the occasion was we send money for their expenses regularly every behind in exchange for money. The results What I detest about is he is forcing my three Miss Lorna Pagaduan of the Philippine Nurses month. such as the above and many more problems children, aged 11, 14 and 17 to attend to the church Association, Hong Kong. It was before Christmas of 2007 when my sister could be expected. he belongs to even as they have been baptized as informed me of an impending problem involving You cannot discipline your children by Catholics. According to my oldest son, they were Miss Amabelle Raganda won the title Miss our two children. I just shrugged it off as I felt “long distance call” or exercise “love by beaten up by their father for quite a number of IMAP-HK besting four other candidates it wasn’t true. It was a big mistake that I did not remittance”. Growing children need the times when they refused to go to his church. Several during the contest. take immediate step because such problem has now physical presence of at least one parent, times in the past their father would lock them up blown out of proportion. May I therefore seek your preferably the mother, who can direct and inside the house so that they cannot leave for church advice to once and for all find a solution to such guide them in their growing years. mass on Sundays. problem. I would agree with you to tell them I also learned recently that he is seeing another I almost died due to complications in my the truth and reality about your adopted woman and I learned that he spends his salary pregnancy when I gave birth to my only child, a daughter and that they do not have any blood with that woman. He used to share the domestic boy, in 1988 and so my doctor advised me that I relationship at all. This will relieve them of expenses with me but for the past three months our cannot give birth anymore as it will endanger my their anxieties, worries and depression and electricity were almost cut off due to non-payment life. enjoy a normal life. The saying “the truth of bill if not for my timely rescue. When my son turned two in 1990, my shall set you free” holds true every time. I want to end our relationship and file a legal husband and I decided to adopt a 2-month old Unfortunately your desire to marry them separation case but I do not know on what grounds baby girl. Our adopted daughter turned out to be a is impossible under the Family Code of the and if I will be successful. pretty mestiza and as she reached her teen years her Philippines which prohibits the marriage I will appreciate your advice. beauty became even more prominent. between an adopted child and a legitimate Rita, Chai Wan “IMAP-HK will spearhead its bid for the hosting We treat her like our real daughter and give child of the adopter. Marriage of such nature of the Midwifery Licensure Examination here her genuine love and care as we do to our own son. is considered void from the beginning. Dear Rita, in Hong Kong. We will continue to work for However we decided to keep the adoption matter as Acceptance of realities is very important I would advise that you discuss these it until its materialization. ”Said IMAP- HK a sacred secret between me and my husband and especially in this situation your family is problems first with him seriously before President Brenda Atrero. among our close relatives. facing now. You have to live and adapt with you take the unpleasant decision of legal As they grew up together, they share the same it. separation. Both of you should do your Concurrently, IMAP-HK is conducting a bedroom, play together, attend the same school As it is now, such relationship is the best to come up with possible solutions Refreshers Course for Midwifery Graduates together and they are practically inseparable. equivalent of a common-law relationship even a compromise. The family is always interested to take the Licensure Board But for whatever reason, they both fell in love which means your son and your adopted worth saving especially if it is in the brink of Examination. It is coordinating with IMAP with each other. And even worst, she became daughter are mere “live-in” partners as far collapse. National in Philippines for a possible Review pregnant and gave birth to a baby girl August of as the law is concern. Technically each one But if everything fails, you may file for Course to be held in the territory early next this year. of them could marry another person in the legal separation based on the following year. I took a one-month leave last month and noticed future if they so desire without violation of grounds: how they suffered mentally. They have both lost law. 1) Repeated physical violence or grossly The highlight of the affair was the election weight, sad and worried from the persecution However no law could stop them from abusive conduct directed against your of IMAP-HK new set of officers for 2009- of people around them who detest such “illicit” loving each other genuinely. It is how they children; 2) Physical violence or moral 2010. They are as follows: President: Brenda relationship between a brother and a sister. live this life in the absence of a lawful marital pressure for compelling you or your children Atrero, 1st Vice- President: Maricel Sauza; I am almost tempted to tell them the real truth bond that will determine their future and to change religious affiliation; 3) His sexual 2nd Vice- President: Nelly Navarro; Secretary: that they do not have any blood relationship at all happiness as a family. Everyone knows how infidelity – this must be substantiated and Faith Campillanos; Asst. Sec.: Rachel Abella; to end their suffering as well as to arrange their many relationships bonded by legal marriages proven. Treasurer: Fatima Pina; Asst. Treasurer: Agnes subsequent marriage. have been broken. In other words being Both of you have to consider custody of Ardan; Auditor: Edithe Pipo; P. R. O.: Neneth Brother Rolly, please counsel me as I face the legally married cannot guarantee a happy and your children and their financial support. Bermudes toughest problem in my life. successful marital relationship; only genuine Remember too that if legal separation is Rheena, Causeway Bay and uncompromising love can, especially one granted by court, neither of you could For Committee Heads, Committee for where the center of such relationship is the remarry. Membership: Evelyn Magno; Legislation and Dear Rheena, Lord Himself. Bro. Rolly Appointment: Ethel Ramos; Education: Jhona In my 24 years of counseling, there Bro. Rolly Bernabe; External Affair: Helen Bacarce; have been three problems of incestuous Internal Affairs: Aeolie Ada Rosimo; and relationship I handled. FORCED RELIGION To All Readers & Suki of this for Grievances and Midwifery Ethics: Lina In a poor family setting where children I will be finishing my two-year contract as column, Asuncion. are forced to stay and sleep together in a small helper at the end of this month and before resuming crowded bedroom and share the same bed or my new contract with my employer, I will take my Bro. Rolly Wishes You A IMAP-HK Advisers are: Patricia Gomez, “banig” incestuous affairs may happen. home leave to spend at least one month with my Babes Mercado; Dr. Angel Ramos; Joel Your problem has been aggravated further children and face a seeming unsolvable problem. Merry Christmas And A Almeda; Ericson Sim and Arnold Grospe. by the fact that both you and your husband Our problem is brought about by differences in Blessful New Year!

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“Kalimutan na natin si Vesta inay. Nakaraang Philippine Association of Hong Kong Activities Nobela ni Cora P. Carsola kabanata na yon, please. Mahal ko si Mona, ng higit pa sa aking buhay. Utang ko ang Ang Nakaraan: sila nagkikitang mag-ina. Pero hindi naman aking buhay sa kanya, alam niyo ‘yon.” 2009 Board It was also a despedida party for him for he is The seminar started at 10:30 am and ended nagkulang si Monaliza sa pakikipag-usap sa anak scheduled to leave Hong Kong to take up his at 5:30 pm. In part I, the topic was about the Iniuwi ni Victor ang anak at pagpapadala ng mga materyal na bagay. “Alam ko! Pero mahal ka rin naman kaya? Election new post as Ambassador to Libya. legality in making of wills on inheritance. nila ni Monaliza na si Vimo While in part 2, the topic circulated on pagkatapos ng civil wedding Ang kay nanay Esther naman, kalinga ng ina ang Hindi nakasagot si Victor. Mahal nga ba siya The Philippine Association of Hong Kong held The said activity was organized by Sports leadership, values, commitment and the sa Liborno at binyag ng bata. kailangan ng isang anak. Nag-aalinlangan talaga ni Monaliza? the election of the 2009 Board last November Committee Chairman Arnold P. Grospe behavior of a leader in tackling the issues siya sa katapatan ni Monaliza kay Victor. 27, 2008 and the Annual General Meeting at and Ms. Chato Carlos which was held at the behind the association. Sinalubong sila sa airport nina nanay Esther at “Bakit hindi mo na lang siya iwaksi sa iyong the Grappas Cellar in Central Olympian City Super Fu Bowl in Shop 148, 1st ang dating katipang si Vesta. Tanggap man ng huli IKA-11 KABANATA: isipan? Alam mo ba na nahihirapan din ako Floor, Olympian City Mall Olympic Station, Barrister Ody Lai and Barrister Eugenia from ang pagtalikod sa kanilang relasyon, nasaktan din kapag nakikita ko kayong mag-ama?” patuloy Kowloon on Nov. 22, 2008. Open University of HK discussed the topic on “Nagpapasalamat ako sa pagtatagpo ng siya nang makitang napalitan na ng wedding ring ni nanay Ester. making wills, the important provisions and ang kanilang engagement ring. Ipinakita rin niya landas ninyo ni Monaliza, anak sapagkat Participating Teams and their members ordinance. meron tayong munting anghel na nagsisilbing kay Victor ang giliw sa inuwing sanggol. “Sorry ‘nay. Pero papaano ko iwaksi ang were: inspirasyon natin araw araw.. Siguro nga ina ng aking anak at taong nagbigay sa BPI - Gary Flores, Eric, Danny Cruz. According to Barrister Lai, a will is a piece of kaloob ng Diyos ang batang bibo upang Nagpasya si Victor na lisanin ang Dumaguete akin ng pangalawang buhay? Sa bawat Anthony Cruz and Iris Chan paper that contains your wishes but making pamunas sa lahat na nararamdaman lalo upang hindi na madagdagan pa ang pasakit hakbang ng tao ay may pagkakamali. Puso’y Brastel - Joel Almeda, Vince Gonda, Eric a will is entirely voluntary especially if you na sa ‘yo. Bakit hindi mo na lang ibaling na dulot niya sa dating katipan. Nagpatayo siya nagkakamali. Ngunit ang pagkakamaling yon Goyena, Ody Lai and Gina have children. If you don’t have a will, there ang pag-ibig mo sa iba. Nariyan si Vesta ng bahay sa Quezon City, bilang paghahanda ang siya ring nagiging daan ng pagwawasto.” Cashsense - Jun Carlos, Benray Francisco, are some rules to follow on how to divide sa pagdating ng asawa sa oras na magdecide na na hanggang ngayo’y wala pang asawa. Isa Jon Suarez, Stephen Chan and Chato Carlos assets and inheritance. Sometimes it is a cause kang inhinyero na may matatag na hanap siyang uwi-an sila. “Paano mo maiwasto ang mali? Ano ka ba Friends/Builders - Arnold Grospe, Jimmy of troubles and misunderstanding among buhay. Nararapat sa ‘yo ang isang masayang Victor?” Ms. Dina Mae Flores, Country Manager of Mackay, Edwin, Roland and Myra Ma the members of the family. That’s why every Lumaki ng lumaki si Vimo na hindi pa rin pamilya. Sayang anak, anak saying ang Philippine Airlines, topped the new Board of Metro Bank - Val Miquiabas, Fred, Joseph, person with family responsibilites should make “Sa paglingon sa pinanggalingan… ang Directors for the term year 2009. Reese and Baes Mercado a will. In some cases, it is advisable to make a nakaraan, inay. Hindi ba’t sa pagtahak natin PAL - Dina Mae Flores, Rita, Sacki, Marky, will in the presence of a lawyer and to be kept sa mundong ating kinagagalawan ay kaakibat Below are the other winners. Wilson in a safe place. natin ang mga pagsubok. Ang paglingon sa PNB - Jimmy Balios, Rodel, Cora, Lani, mga ito ang magdadala sa atin ng pagtutuwid 1. Dina May Flores Emily The main topic about leadership commenced ng kamalian. Magsisilbi silang aral. Biyaya 2. Joel Almeda San Miguel - Arnel Villaroza, Victor on valuing and commitment. As leader of a rin ang pagsubok. Si Vimo ay biyaya sa atin di 3. Val Miquiabas Amisola, Onie Lorenzo and Beng W group, commitment is very important. If the po ba?” pilit niyang pagpapaliwanag sa ina. 4. Jay Martinez leader is committed, there will be a greater 5. Arnold P. Grospe chance for the followers to be committed as “Papa, I want to go to bed na’, tawag ni 6. Voltaire Medina well. As a committed leader, you must also Vimo. 7. Jhell Palomaria know your member’s innermost thoughts 8. Ody Lai and predicaments, and you must take time to “Sorry anak, napahaba kasi ang kuwentuhan 9. Ning Espiritu understand the talents, strength and potentials namin ng papa mo” sabat ng lola. 10. Al Panlilio that they acquired. If the members had no 11. Eric Goyena more interest in your group, must have to take “Is it about my mama?” 12. Jaypee De Guzman to them and solve the problem. Being a leader, 13. Rex Caldez you have to inspire your members to create Nagtinginan ang mag-ina. 14. Chato Carlos new things for the benefit of the group. 15. Richard Del Valle “Sabi sa ‘yo Victor, mahaba ang tenga ng Before the seminar ended, the directors of anak mo,eh!” ConGen’s Cup Team Prizes PAHK handed certificates to all attendees. Team High Series (Total Pin fall for 3 games) The notable directors/officers of PAHK who Sa wakas, napatawa rin si Victor. - Cashsense total 1,608 pins joined in the whole day seminar were Scylla PAHK had an exciting year 2008, filled with High Game (Highest Pin fall o nay games) Kwong of Prime Credit, Dina May Flores of events and activities that brought members “Sige na anak, susunod na ako. Don’t forget - Metro Bank total 555 pins PAL, Arnold Grospe of Friends Int’l Mag, fun-filled and memorable moments which to… Individual Prizes Joel Almeda of BDO, Voltaire Medina of were shared with each other. High Series Man (Total pin fall for 3 games) BPI, Vinson Gonda of Gen-Ex Cargo, Val “Alam ko na po ang sasabihin niyo. Don’t - Reese of Metro Bank 622 pins Miquiabas of First Metro, Jhell Palomaria of forget to brush your teeth, wear pajamas and High Game Man (Best out of 3 Games) Jollibee, Barrister Ody Lai. pray to Mama Mary” pangunguna ni Vimo sa - Reese of Metro Bank 247 kanyang ama. High Series for Ladies - Myra Ma of Friends Int’l Mag/Builders Pagpasok ni Victor sa kuwarto, himbing High Game for Ladies na himbing na si Vimo. Nakatagilid ang - Myra Ma of Friends Int’l Mag posisyon nito kaya kinabig niya ito upang ilagay sa tamang posisyon. 4th Legal Workshop And “Ha?” nakapa niya ang kuwadro ng larawan 1st Leadership Workshop ng ina na yakap yakap pa. by Remely Valdez Before the year end PAHK organized another “Pobreng bata!” bulong ng habag na ama. exciting event for bowling enthusiasts which The Philippine Association of Hong Kong The sponsors of the seminar are PLDT and was called the “Con Gen’s Cup” PAHK Open conducted a whole day presentation of Dahan-dahang hinugot ni Victor ang PNB who gave away bags to lucky participants. Bowling Tournament 2008 in honor of the learning and motivation through its 4th Legal kuwadro at ipinatong sa headboard. Tinitigan Some lucky participants also received prizes Hon. Alejandrino Vicente, Consul General of Workshop and 1st Leadership Workshop held ang larawan ng asawa nang matagal. from PAL. the Philippine Consulate Hong Kong at Grappas Cellar, Jardine House Central last October 12, 2008. . . . sundan sa pahina 16 12 friends International Magazine DECemBER 2008 13 friends International Magazine DECemBER 2008 The Tremendous Outpouring of God’s Glory Legal Matters by Barrister Ody A. Lai and Revelations During the Ministry’s 19th Year Got questions regarding legal matters? Write us and we’ll get your Anniversary queries answered by our knowledgable columnist. Send all corre- by Apostle Renato D. Carillo spondence to Friends International Magazine by post or email. God blessed His people as His precious was so great. Amidst their song presentation, • Those who suffered from kidney problem, revelations and mighty miracles lavishly the lights were turned off and everyone blurred eyesight, cyst, migraine, heart problem, divulged during the 19th year anniversary of participated in lighting candles as the Pastors asthma, painful arthritis, high blood, and lung Support the Victims of Spouse Abuse - Part 1 Jesus Is Our Shield Worldwide Ministries with continued to sing. problem were all healed by God! Praise His theme, “I am with You Always” last October holy name! I am a Filipina married to a local Chinese. I am spouse. The first thing is to assess the safety Conditional Tenancy Scheme available for 15-17 & 19, 2008. The 3-day anointed services physically and verbally assaulted by my husband of the young children and yourself. If the those undergoing divorce proceedings and were held at the ministry’s main church for the last 8 years. I cannot leave him because risk is high, you must protect the children those awaiting court decisions regarding while on the last day, it was held at Marikina we have 3 young children ages 7, 5 and 2. I am and yourself. If danger is imminent, you custody of young children. Starting Gymnasium, Marikina City, just one ride from a housewife and fully dependent on the financial must immediately seek the protection of November 2001, this Scheme has extended the ministry’s main church. support of my husband. Please help me. Mrs. the police. If not, call the centre in North its services to cover victims of domestic Chan of North Point. Point and ask for admission to a temporary violence having petitioned for divorce who shelter. I encourage you to discuss with the have no offspring or have not brought along Mrs. Chan, I applaud you for coming forward social worker assigned to help you about their dependent children when leaving their and asking help for your domestic problems. the safety plan and other services you need matrimonial homes. You are stronger than most housewives who before you make the move. But do not wait prefer to remain quiet regarding the abuse till you or your children are already in the The husband can be the abused spouse. This As the Man of God stepped on the platform, they constantly experience and pretending hospital, it is too late. is not common but it happens. It may not the wave of God’s glory came down and filled Right after the testimonies of the people there is nothing wrong with their marriage. be physical abuse but verbal harassment, each one. In the midst of worship, the Man of were heard, the Man of God shared a very There are various factors that need to be by the constant nagging, complaining God declared, “God is healing the sick right powerful truth entitled, “The Wealth from Spouse battering is a complicated social considered such as the timing of the move, of the wife. Husbands can contact those now!” and the healing wave of God descended Heaven” which truly blessed the people of and flowed the sick and afflicted. God. He instilled to all to live a life of giving, problem involving the very intimate which route to take: call the police, engage stated above or approach urban hostels for educating the people to prosper amidst the relationships between husband and wife and the social service centre, hire lawyers, single persons through the referral of social The final day was a whole day celebration, Mighty healing testimonies included: worldwide crisis. He then declared again a well as their children. It is a reality of most approach the religious and charitable workers. These hostels will provide short consisted of 2 services. In the morning, it was number of prophecies and promises of God marriages across different economic and associations, etc. A safe destination for the term accommodation and counselling. The just a celebration of praise. Prior to the morning • An elderly woman who couldn’t walk for and this reminded and boosted the faith of social levels of any society, be it in developed children and the spouse should be high in social workers will also provide you details service, there was a caravan from the ministry’s 2 years due to paralysis was gloriously healed! God’s people. or undeveloped countries, irrespective the list especially where the abusive spouse of long-term accommodation if necessary. main church to Marikina Gymnasium, By the healing power of the Lord, her wheel of religion or educational attainment. It threatens further violence. The address of The SWD hotline is 23432255. Marikina City, escorted by a police mobile chair was emptied as she can now walk! Her comes in various forms and guises. There the refuge house should not be revealed. patrol car. In support of the grand episode of daughter shed tears for joy and gratefulness at is the more blatant physical attack and the Pack lightly and bring only the essential Short term financial assistance is available the “Mission of Love”, several barangay of what God did to her mother. Praise God! constant verbal abuses left unchecked for belongings such as basic clothing, identity for emergency purposes and there are many Quezon City lent their barangay patrol vehicle, prolonged period of time. The victims, be it cards, medications, and telephone book of charitable organizations with trust funds as a transportation of the people in their the spouse or the children suffer silently and important numbers. that will cater to this need. For real financial community to the service’s venue. the problem is swept through the carpet. difficulty, apply for assistance under the This is mainly due to lack of understanding There are currently 4 refuge centres for CSSA scheme. There will be eligibility of the nature of violence/abuse inflicted women in the territory that serves as requirements under this scheme such as and the lack of information how to deal temporary accommodation for providing residency in Hong Kong, financial means with it and the consequences. safety, providing counselling and treatment test that include income and other assets of and regaining the self-confidence lost due value, and additional criteria for able-bodied Subsequently, there was a “Mission of Love”. After the needy people were saved, Recently, Hong Kong government has to the threat of violence or abuse suffered. adults ages 15 to 59. Those below 15 and healed, and set free, they were then blessed. implemented public campaigns and These houses provide 24 hour admission above 60 are not subject to the able-bodied Goods were gladly distributed to them. awareness to effectively prevent the problem and you can call anytime at 25220434, test. • A woman who couldn’t walk without and offer solutions to protect the abused 27876865, 28908330, and 27930223. The crutches was healed by God! She thanked As interviewed, they cheerfully testified spouse and children, at the same time addresses are kept confidential to protect the Any injury suffered as a result of a crime God for the miracle as she can now walk with how blessed they were by the service. And encouraging harmonious reconciliation of victims of harassment. of violence could claim compensation Even in the morning, the venue was already crutches off! Glory to God! needless to say, their lives will never be the same. families. The Social Welfare Department under the Criminal and Law Enforcement jam-packed with a capacity of people who And the Man of God culminated the service (SWD) has published information kit on If the marriage is falling apart, you and Injuries Compensation Scheme (CLEIC). came from different places all over our country with a prayer of thanksgiving to the goodness the various services available for the victims the children may have to consider looking This scheme is non-contributory and non- and those who were the fruits of the ongoing of God for making the ministry’s anniversary of Spouse Battering, training the frontline for a long-term accommodation. You can means tested. The payments come from “Mission of Love”, specifically residents of a successful one and touching countless of workers who deal with the issues and rent a private property or apply for a public public funds. There are strict criteria and Marikina and Quezon City depressed areas. precious souls. To God be the glory! educational kit for the children of spouse housing. In case you cannot solve the housing time limitations when to make the claim for And these indigent people received free lunch abuse. Please contact your nearest SWD in problem, you approach the social workers compensation. Ask further details from the after the morning service. your district. You can also ask assistance who will give you advice. You can apply for social worker. from the Medical Social Workers (MSWs) government assistance for rental allowance In the afternoon, more attendees arrived, or social workers of other agencies. The under the Comprehensive Social Security My prayer to all readers of Friends overflowing the aisles and hallway of the Family and Child Protective Services Units Assistance Scheme (CSSA). You can also International Magazine is for you to enjoy venue. After the praise and worship, the (FCPSU) as well as the Integrated Family apply for Compassionate Re-housing which each day as it comes. In God, there is no people enjoyed viewing a few wonderful, God- glorifying presentations, though the heat could Service Centres (IFSC) in North Point can is a form of housing assistance aimed at financial crisis, only financial abundance. be felt due to a congested environment. • Another woman who couldn’t walk and be reached by phone at 2231-5859. individuals and families who have genuine Claim the blessings this Christmas season even stand without any support was healed by and imminent housing needs but cannot and for the year 2009. The presentation of the ministry’s Pastors the Lord! Praise Him! I reckon you are still living with your meet the needs by themselves. There is a

14 friends International Magazine DECemBER 2008 15 friends International Magazine DECemBER 2008 UMELA offers different programs for OFWs like Food Processing, Beadscraft Making, ... mula sa pahina 13 niya sa asawa. Mga Kwentong OFW Ribbon Cutting/Folding, Card Making and “I’m tired lola.” Soap Carving led by trainiors Fely Baquirin, ni Violy C. Pascual “Hanggang kailan kaya ang pagtitiis na ito?” Nalungkot si Monaliza. Au Ramirez, Sherlie Sadang, Regie Ahig and “Tired ka lang naman sa paghalungkat sa box Purnadang Boracay ang mga tao sa gulo sa Thailand. Itutuloy Marites Ancajas. Itinaob ang kuwadro. Lalong naglaro sa “Cheer up friend..Harapin mo na kasi ang di ba?” na rin ang pagpunta sapagkat hindi pala sila kanyang isipan ang mukha ni Monaliza. katotohanan. Huwag mo nang patagalin at Oktubre pa lang, masayang masaya si lalapag sa main airport. Food Processing with basic and advanceed baka mahuli ka na sa pagluha.’ payo ni Pacita “Lola, I want my mama.” Angel nang sabihan siya ng amo na sa courses, include many kinds of longganiza, Kinaumagahan, habang binibihisan niya ng sa kaibigan. Boracay sila magpapasko. Kahit papaano Dinadasal-dasal ni Angel na magkakalakas chorizzo de bilbao, meat loaf, corned beef, uniporme si Vimo, “Dadating si papa mo anak. Hintayin natin ay maipagmamalalaki niyang nagustuhan loob din na itutuloy ang pagpunta sa Boracay chicken ham, soimai, fishballs, kikiam etc. Hindi siya kumibo. Malayo ang narating ng siya at makakasama natin siyang mag ng amo ang kanyang lugar. Lalo pang sa mga darating na bakasyon upang matupad “Papa, when is my mama coming home?” kanyang isipan. Mahigpit pa ring bilanggo ng decorate sa Christmas tree.” natuwa sa pamasko sa kanya na isasama ang pangarap na marating dahil hanggang Beadscraft Making basics produces simple vases kanyang palad ang kinusot na liham. siya doon. Uuwi muna si Angel sa Manila Luzon lang ang naabot niya. & baskets, while advanced can have designs of Napikon si Victor sa tanong ng anak. “Ang mama ko po, wait din natin?” at susunduin ang kanyang asawa’t dalawang Hello Kitty & other animal characters. “Mahal ko ang mag-ama ko. Oo na-miss ng anak upang makasama ang mag-asawang “Vimo, wala ka na bang alam na itanong anak ko ang kalinga ng isang ina during the Hindi nakasagot ang lola. amo at ang baby sa tatlong araw at dalawang Ribbon cutting/folding may be a good business kundi tungkol sa mama mo?” past years pero sa kabila naman non, hindi gabi. Sagot lahat ang gastos ng amo na taga for bridal accessories from hair dressers to ako nagkulang sa pagpapadala ng kanyang “Lola, sagot!. Yes or No?” Germany at nakatira sa South Island. coursages. Nabigla si Vimo. Sa isang batang apat na pangangailangan.” taong gulang, walang ibang maisagot kundi… “Ubusin mo na ang pagkain mo. Mamaya, Biglang gumuho ang hinihintay-hintay ni Cardmaking is available for any occasion “Ngayon at magaling na si Mama Martina bago ka matulog, pray to mama Mary.’ Angel ng malathala sa pangunahing pahayagan with the help of cartolina and patience of the “Hindi kita bati papa’, you’re naughty.” mo, kaya mo na rin sigurong ipagtapat ang na may gulo sa Boracay. Magkasunod-sunod trainee. katotohanan?” “Sana dadating ang Papa at Mama ko sa sa tatlong araw na ang balitang hindi maganda Niyakap ni Victor ang anak Pasko mama Mary. Kase po makulit si Miss kaya’t napilitan magpalit ng destinasyon ang For those interested to join, call Fely 94385782, “Oo, kaunting panahon na lang friend, Valencia. Lagi pong tinatanong ang mama ko. mga amo niya. Nakabili na ng tiket patungong Connie 93027765. “Sorry anak, lambing ko lang yon. Di ba I patotoo ni Monaliza.” Si Rene rin po, lagi akong tinutukso, taimtim Thailand, kalagitnaan ng Nobyembre matapos UMELA Opening told you, darating si mama sa Pasko? na hiling ng bata. tanungin si Angel kung gusto pa nitong Upang malibang si Monaliza, niyakag niya sumama. Ang asawa ni Angel ang hindi United Migrants Entrepreneur and Livelihood “Talaga Papa, peks man?” ang kaibigan upang mag-shopping para sa sumang-ayon kaya tiket papuntang Manila na Association (UMELA) started different anak. “Ma’am, fried chicken po ang donation ko lang ang binili kay Angel. Nagkagulo din sa livelihood trainings on November 2, 2008 at Sai Ying Pun Park near the UMELA Hindi na naman sinagot ang anak. sa Christmas party, pag-aalok ng kaklaseng si Airport sa Thailand kaya nagkibit balikat na headquarters. “Tuwang-tuwa si Vimo, habang isa-isa niyang Rene. lang ang mag-asawa. “May pirma na ako sa assignment book mo, inilalabas ang laman ng door-to door box Co-founder and adviser Fely Baquirin, and anak. Pakisabi sa teacher mo na pupunta ako mula sa kanyang ina. “Ano naman sa ‘yo Vimo?” tanong ni Miss Ika 13 ng Disyembre ang alis at pabalik sa 20 President Connie Malsi led the training ss school niyo bukas.” Valencia. kaya pinag-iisipan pa kung tutuloy o hindi. sesssions. …Mmm from my ninang Pacita..” Laking pasalamat ni Angel nang mahawi na “Batam-bata pa pala ang papa mo Vimo?” “Itatanong ko muna po sa lola ko.” “Wow Lola! Ang laki ng Teddy Bear, ye hey!” “At saka mabait po siya at mapagmahal. Di “Ako po, Spaghetti”, sabat ng isa. ba Papa? Pero minsan po makulit siya.” “Lola meron ka rin po!” “Ice cream po sa akin” pangako pa rin ng isa. Napatawa ang ama, ganun din si Miss “Teddy Bear?” tanong ng lolang kasalukuyang Valencia. nasa kusina. “Ayaw kong pumasok Lola. Ayaw ko sa Christmas Party. Kayo na lang magdala sa “Bibo ang anak niyo Engr. Asuncion at may “Lola naman, ano ka po baby?” hotdog at sa regalo ng mama ko para kay angking talino.” Miss Valencia.” “E di baby lola?” “Ano ang ibig sabihin ng bibo papa?” tanong “Kung hindi ka a-attend sa Christmas party, na pabulong ni Vimo Binuhat niya ang regalo para sa Lola. malulungkot ang mama mo. Hindi mo rin mai-susuot ang damit na bigay sa yo ng “Smart ka daw anak.” “From my mama Lola.” ninang Pacita mo. Ikaw din, wala tayong maikukuwento sa mama mo. At saka, Natuwa si Vimo at nangislap ang ngiti sa “Salamat Vimo at sa mama mo.” dadalhin natin si Teddy Bear para makipa kanyang mukha. party rin siya” pamukaw sigla ng lola. Lumbay ang nadama ni nanay Ester noong Natuwa rin si Victor sa mga narinig mula sa mga sandaling yon na pilit niyang ikinubli sa “Ang laki-laki lola?” guro. Subalit sa kabila ng pagkatuwang yon, apo. “Eh ano? Hindi tayo sasakay sa school bus, nadama niya ang lungkot sapagkat kung Pasko na naman. Darating na nga kaya ang magpapahatid tayo kay tito Manuel mo, naroon si Monaliza, natuwa rin sana. kanyang manugang? pangungumbinsi pa rin ng mahal an lola.

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5. Realizing that I was all alone doing all these things, Notes from some former DOLE staff who migrated to Canada came to my help and did volunteer work for me. Their presence gave me enough confidence to finally open the POLO to the public on 2 POLO June. Vancouver 6. Again it was pure hard work. In between attending to people who immediately came in droves, answering countless By: Labatt Bernie B. Julve queries through email, phone calls and acting on a good number of documents, I had to meet with Canadian officials to discuss our rules and regulations in relation to theirs. In particular, with the Province of British Columbia, I had to discuss with concerned officials the guidelines implementing Part One: The Beginnings the Memorandum of Agreement ( MOU) which was signed earlier in the year and with the Province of Alberta, I had to Greetings to all of you there in Hong Kong, my beloved second iron out with them some wrinkles in the proposed MOU whose home. I’ve been here in Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada signing was delayed precisely because of disagreement on a for almost 6 months and it may please you to have an update number of provisions particularly those which call for Alberta of what I’ve been doing. and/or its employers to invest in training and human resource development in the Philippines. 1. I left Manila on 10 May 2008 for Toronto for some orientation with my colleague Atty. Frank Luna of POLO- 7. POLO was housed at the PCG-Vancouver for a little Toronto. After a couple of days, I drove to Ottawa (a good over 2 months, from 16 May to 31 July. On 1 August, we 5-hour drive of beautiful scenery) and made a courtesy call decided to move to a building a block from the PCG given on our Ambassador, the Honorable Jose S. Brilliantes (who the limited space we had at the Consulate. It is now located incidentally was my former boss at the DOLE in 1994-1998 in one of the so-called “heritage” buildings in Vancouver, the when he was Undersecretary and later, Acting Secretary). Royal Bank of Canada building specifically at 814-675 West I stayed there for a couple of days where we had a series Hastings Street, Vancouver, B.C., Canada V6B 1N2. The new of strategy meetings on how to approach and manage the office was officially opened last 10 September with DOLE western Canada labor market, my area of responsibility. Undersecretary Minda G. Padilla (who flew in from Manila) and Consul General Ruth Morales-Prado doing the ribbon cutting. 2. I drove back to Toronto and stayed for a couple of days After the blessings by Fr. Mario, the guests were treated to a more, this time meeting with a number of Filipino communities sumptuous lunch catered by Sandy Daza of Sandy Cuisine, a and getting insights from them as well as exploring the city favotite hang-out of Filipino expats and professionals. Sandy itself and its surroundings including the world- famous wonder is the son of the famous culinary diva, Nora Daza, who can that is Niagara Falls. also be seen on Sunday television in “Cooking with Sandy”

3. I left Toronto for Vancouver on 16 May and reported 8. After a couple of months, I’ve slowly adjusted to immediately for work at our Consulate. After a late lunch with both work and environment and plunged deeper into work of Consul General Ruth Morales-Prado, she called for a general laying a solid and strong foundation for our workers on the staff meeting and introduced me. In the same meeting, I western Canada labor market. outlined before the general staff my plans and programs for the western Canada labor market and emphasized the need [On the next issue: Part 2: Canadian Labor Market for all of us to work together as a team to achieve our mission. Assessment] In Vancouver-PCG, I noticed a familiar figure and I’m sure his name is also familiar to you. I refer to Deputy Consul General Raul Hernandez who was, in the mid to late-90s, the Consul there in HK-PCG. He has been promoted and transferred to Xiamen as Consul General commencing September this year. (In Ottawa, I also noticed a familiar figure, that of Consul Shirley Banquicio who also was Vice-Consul in Hong Kong in the late 90’s).

4. Then came the hardest part: looking for an apartment to stay while at the same time canvassing and buying office equipments, furniture and the like for the office, negotiating with utility companies and opening bank accounts. I stayed at Sheraton Hotel for a good 2 weeks before I was able to find an appropriate condo unit in the downtown area, just a block away from the Consulate. It was really hard looking for an apartment because Vancouver is a lessor market and the prices are high. At one time during the search I almost fell into a scam where I was told to remit my advance rental and deposit to the “lesssor” because he was still in Africa doing humanitarian work for the U.N. I was about to do so Strategy meeting at the Philippine Embassy in Ottawa with when wisdom and prudence set in and told me not to as Ambassador Jose S. Brilliantes, Consul Shirley Banquicio, it was likely a scam. It turned out to be and a week later, Labatt Frank Luna of POLO-Toronto and Labatt Bernie Julve the Vancouver police arrested a number of people deceiving of POLO-Vancouver. would-be tenants.

20 friends International Magazine DECemBER 2008 21 friends International Magazine DECemBER 2008 Appreciating APPRECIATION Lucida C. Maingpis by Bishop. Eddie Villanueva Christmas Lessons Through pain, you learn something. It is important lesson I’ve learned this year. and those who were late in congratulating me. when you were hurting that you realize many Should they had expressed their appreciation Christmas is just gift of salvation from one of the sinners who himself. He had equal status with God but didn’t things that in the past you just took it for Appreciation is as appreciation does: in earlier, I wouldn’t have learned a lesson around the corner. was crucified with Jesus that day on Calvary think so much of himself that he had to cling to the granted. This occured to me recently. I went order to be a truly appreciative person, you because I would have been overfilled with joy. And whenever this ~ he acknowledged his guilt and his need for advantages of that status no matter what. Not at through some sort of physical and emotional must learn to verbalize, to voice out your particular season Jesus (Luke 23:39-43). all. When the time came, he set aside the privileges pain that taught me a very valuable lesson - the appreciation. Thinking or merely showing it My gratitude also goes to the Publisher comes, it especially of deity and took on the status of a slave, became value of appreciation. isn’t enough because others may fail to get the and the Editorial staff of this magazine for message. I may have been appreciated by our welcoming my articles. I believe that this is evokes wonderful nvest your life in matters of eternal human! Having become human, he stayed human. How many of us readily expressed group but maybe I just failed to notice. the most read magazine for OFW’S because feelings from people. Isignificance. This is the benchmark for It was an incredibly humbling process. He didn’t our appreciation - in words and in action? it contains valuable information, amusing and In fact, even marketing gurus believe that genuine living: That you exist for things that claim special privileges. Instead, he lived a selfless, Appreciation is one thing that is seldom From now on, I promise myself to express entertaining write ups also photography. people who do not usually spend tend to would outlive you. “What good will it be for a obedient life and then died a selfless, obedient expressed by many people and I am no my appreciation whenever it’s needed. Let splurge during this time of the year. Hence man if he gains the whole world, yet forfeits his death—and the worst kind of death at that—a exemption. I used to believe that I don’t need me start through this article. I’ll take this As we celebrate the Christmas season, let’s the frills of the Christmas preparations and the soul? Or what can a man give in exchange for his crucifixion” (Philippians 6:5-8, The Message). to always express my appreciation in words oppurtunity to express my appreciation to my get busy. Our family and friends need all the because like others may say it, “It’s already family, friends, teachers, those I’ve worked appreciation that they can get from us. For thrills of hunting for gifts, wrangling for prices, soul?” (Matthew 16:26, NIV). understood”. Besides, the Bible also teaches with and all people I’ve encountered that those who worry about what gift they can and hopping from one bazaar to another for lways pay it forward. “The Son of Man that when we do good, we shouldn’t expect made impact on my life. I may not have been give this Christmas, sincere words and acts of bargains and sale goods that have all become eek Him first at all times. Christmas Adid not come to be a slave master, but a slave anything in return. So I thought, why expect very vocal about my appreciation but let me appreciation will do. We shouldn’t think that part of the lavish Paskong Pinoy tradition. Spromises not only eternal salvation, but who will give his life to rescue many people” (Mark appreciation? Until a circumstance in my life tell all of you now that I deeply appreciate all gifts need to be something material, though even blessings unto overflow. All we have to 10:45, CEV). At the heart of Christmas is the made me realize that appreciation really needs your good deeds. giving material things isn’t at all bad. Lest we miss the whole essence why there is do is to always put Him first, over and above heart of giving. May it become a personal to be expressed. More importantly, I’d like to thank those I wish everyone a Christmas filled with Christmas and why we celebrate it, in the first all. “Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and lifestyle, not a hypocritical seasonal trend. Last November 30, the Benguet Federation who didn’t express their appreciation to me joy. place, it is essential that we take a quick look live righteously, and he will give you everything you - HK organized Adivay di Kabenguetan, a back at the lessons to be learned from the first need” (Matthew 6:33, NLT). For Jesus came ubmit to Him in worship and holy celebration that commemorates our home Christmas ever! The word points us to the into the world that we may have and enjoy life, Sreverence. The distinction of being wise Province’ foundation day. I was one of the 13 truths: and have it in abundance ~ to the full, till it was given to the first group of people that candidates for the Search for Ms. Benguet- HK overflows (John 10:10b, Amplified). intentionally went on a mission to seek the ‘08. hrist is the reason for the season. “For prophesied Messiah from Bethlehem. They Halfway through the program, I was already rust His sovereignty. Life is hard, should came to Him in reverence, with gifts in their CGod so loved the world that he gave his one feeling cold because we’re only wearing our and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not Twe make it harder? Of course not! We hands and worship in their hearts (Matthew tapis, our native costume. I had also muscle perish but have eternal life. For God did not send must remember that one of the blessings 2:1-12). The lesson they carved in history rings cramps on my legs and feet but I’ve managed his Son into the world to condemn the world, but of Christmas is the guarantee of the Lord’s true to this day: The wise submit to the King. to do my part till the end of the program. I to save the world through him” (John 3:16-17, absolute sovereignty. All we have to do is to ended up winning the Miss Faith award. NIV). Yes. “God showed how much he loved us by trust Him. “The LORD All-Powerful has made The manger of the Messiah was cradle to Honestly, I was a bit disappointed with myself. Heaven’s many mysteries. Yet they are not sending his one and only Son into the world so that this promise: Everything I have planned will happen When I went home that evening, I started we might have eternal life through him” (1 John just as I said” (Isaiah 14:24, CEV). secret to the real seeker. This Christmas season, having chills, my eyes were also feeling hot and 4:9, NLT). To celebrate Christmas therefore, go beyond tradition and get to really know puffy, my head was throbbing and my joints minus a personal relationship with Christ, is aster the heart of humility. The manger Christ ~ the sinners’ only Savior (1 Timothy were aching. This was when sad emotions nothing but a charade. If we take Him out of Msays it all, and compels us to “Think 1:15). came rushing to me and I’m not ashame to the picture, we will be left with nothing but of yourselves the way Christ Jesus thought of admit that I cried. trimmings without meaning. I was hurting physically because of flu and hurt emotionally because I was disappointed onor the truth of His Word. “...For I am Looking for Gowns to wear? Party dress? and more so because I felt that I wasn’t at Ha King. [Certainly I am a King!] This is why For Tailor-made costumes or for gown/dress rentals... call Rutchie. all appreciated. I could barely count on my I was born, and for this I have come into the world, fingers those who expressed their appreciation to bear witness to the Truth. Everyone who is of the 2512 0677 or 9018 0120 or email [email protected] to me after the contest ended. I don’t know but that night I’ve been waiting for calls or at Truth [who is a friend of the Truth, who belongs Philippines Products, Internet, MP3 downloads, Phone cards also available least text messages that (you know would say, to the Truth] hears and listens to My voice” (John Congrats you did your best!) so as to at least 18:37, Amplified). Surely Jesus is the Way, ease my pain. I didn’t get any. the Truth, and the Life. No one comes to the Father except through Him (John 14:6). “Only From there, I started to ponder my feelings. Jesus has the power to save! His name is the only Where is this sad feeling coming from? How come that I’m looking for appreciation from one in all the world that can save anyone” (Acts others when I wasn’t an expert at expressing 4:12, CEV). my own appreciation? Why do I feeI disappointment when I knew about the value espond to the call of the Cross. Jesus of humility. Rstretched forth His arms on the cross to bridge the gap between the Holy God and the I remember one author who said that, “ We need to balance humility with confidence sinful world. This was the culmination of the visit us at - confidence that oftentimes comes from plan of salvation that was birthed upon the appreciation”. Perhaps its because of the flu birth of Jesus, the Messiah, in a manger. Let Friendshoppe that I grew a bit sentimental. But that very us learn how to correctly respond to this free night, I’ve learned a lesson - it’s the most Shop 78B, Ground Floor, City Garden, 233 Electric Road, North Point 22 friends International Magazine DECemBER 2008 23 friends International Magazine DECemBER 2008 Marian Rivera, kaya nang maka- afford ng mamahaling clothes at Balitang Showbiz accessories ni Noel Asinas IBINUKING ni Ruffa Gutierrez sa presscon ng Desperadas 2 na si Marian ay can afford na ng mamahaling damit at accessories ngayon. Successful na nga ang Aljur Abrenica: Balitang gusto rin actress ngayon dahil nga’y star na siya at maraming endorsement buhat nang makuha ng kabilang network nag-hit ang Marimar at Dyesebel. Nang unang nagshooting sila ng Desperadas 1, wala pang stylist si NAKINIG kami sa isang interview kay Aljur Abrenica na dito’y may nagtanong na alam Marian. Pero, sa Desperadas 2, asensado na rin Marian. May sariling wardrobe ba niya na gusto rin siyang “kunin” ng kabilang network para gawing siyang star ng staff na siya. kanilang mga programa. Tulad nang ginawa kina Angel Locsin at Cristine Reyes ngayon. Hindi naman daw nagpapatalbugan ang apat na actress sa wardrobe nila sa Desperadas 2. May kanya-kanyang taste naman sa pananamit sina Tanging nasabi lang ni Aljur sa isyu: “May nagsabi sa akin na ganoong nga. Ruffa, Rufa Mae Quinto, at Iza Calzado. Pero, wala pa akong formal na alok na tinatanggap sa kabilang network.” Sa kanilang samahan, walang yabangan, kuwento pa ni Ruffa, bagkus, Identified si Aljur sa GMA 7 dahil produkto siya ng StarStruck batch 4. Bale nagging magkakaibigan silang apat. Napaiba lang si Ogie Alcasdi dahil lalaki ang grupo ni Aljur ang pinakahuling batch so far. Sa taong 2008 ay walang StarStruck siya. Kaya lang naging close si Ogie sa set kay Iza. Madalas naman nagkikita na Search ang GMA 7. Pero, balita sa aming ng isang reliable source na early 2009 ay kasi sina Ogie at Rufa Mae sa set ng Bubble Gang muling magse-search ang StarStruck. Pang-Metro Manila Film Festival ang Desperadas 2. Ipalalabas na sa Si Aljur ngayon ay kinukonsider ng mga nag-aalaga sa kanya sa GMA 7 na isa sa December 25. Isa namang obra maestro ito ni Joel Lamangan at screenplay ni most talented stars nila. Marunong siyang kumanta, sumayaw at umarte sa mga teleserye. Roy Iglesia. In fact, ang nilabasan niyang episode ng Dear Diary, ang afternoon drama anthology ng Siyete tuwing Sunday pagkatapos ng SOP, ay malakas sa ratings game. Paolo Bediones, malayo pa sa vocabulary ang Ogie Alcasid, halos malapnos ang salitang pag-aasawa balat dahil sa costume niya sa Desperadas 2; most awarded actor recently si Ogie, nakatanggap ng tatlong awards na sunud-sunod.

HANGGANG ngayon ay hindi malimutan ni Ogie Alcasid ang mga hirap na dinanas niya sa shooting ng Desperadas 2 na kung saan ay nagsuot babae siya sa buong pelikula. Babaing-babae ang role niya kaya may eksena ritong naka-wedding gown siya na sa palagay niya’y pinakamahirap na costume na isinuot niya dahil nagkasugat-sugat ang dibdib niya. Bunga ito ng sobrang higpit ng gown sa FAITHFUL si Paolo Bediones sa Survivor Philippines . Kung papipiliin siya ng bagong programa sa GMA 7, eto pa rin ang Survivor Philippines ang kanyang gagawin. Breaking the record ang idinulot ng programa sa network. Kasi, nadaig pa ng katawan niya. Tuloy nalapnos ang balat niya sa upper torso niya. show ang top ratings primetime program ng GMA 7 nang kasagsagan ng pagpapalabas ng reality show. Ani Ogie: “Di lang costume na mahirap isuot, ang make-up ko ay tatlong oras ginagawa ng special make-up aritist. Bukod sa mukha ko, all over my body ay may Gusto naman ni Paolo na maganap ang ikalawang Survivor sa mas malayong lugar. Tulad ng Madagascar sa make-up. Kasi, ginawa akong maitim sa pelikula. Eh, may beach scene pa man din continent ng Africa . ako. Ani Paolo: “Kahit marami na akong shows na nagawa sa GMA 7, gusto ko pa rin ang iba pang trabaho. Gusto ko “Saka, mahirap kapag nakasuot na ang costume ko. Hindi ka puedeng umihi. Mahirap ilabas ang “armas” ko. pa ring ibang challenges. Kaya wala pa akong balak mag-asawa sa ngayon kahit ako’y over 30s na. Kailangan bago ka magsuot ng costume ay nakapagbanyo ka na.” “Pareho naman kami ni Abby na marami pang ibig marating sa buhay. Gusto kong ma-accomplish lahat ang mga Walang regrets si Ogie sa kanyang role sa pelikulang idinirek ni Joel Lamanga. Kasi, malaking honor na sa kanya ito bago ako lumagay sa buhay may-asawa. “ na maidirek ni direk Joel. Ibang director, kasi ipagagawa sa iyo ang inaarte niya sa eksenang kukunan. So, naiiba talaga ng Kahit pa raw dumating si Paolo sa edad na 40, hindi pa rin siya magmamadaling pakasal. Katwiran niya’y kahit acting ni Ogie sa movie. anong edad ang isang lalaki ay puedeng mag-asawa. Comedy ang movie, pero may touch of drama rin ang ilang eksena. Sabi’y isa ito sa pinaka-hilarious comedy Ipinagdiriwang ngayong taon ni Paolo ang kanyang ika-10 anibersaryo sa showbiz bilang TV host, anchorman at movie ng Regal at GMA Films. Sinulat ang script ni Roy Iglesia. actor.Sa haba ng pinagdaanan niya sa showbiz napanatili niyang malinis ang kanyang pangalan. Pinagpipitaganang TV Samantala, tuwing Sunday ay balik-singer si Ogie Alcasid dahil pangunahing star siya ng PMPC best musical show of the host. year. Kasama niyang host ditto ang kanyang “mahal” na si Regine Velasquez, Jaya at Janno Gibbs. Sa kabila ng tagumpay ng kanyang mga TV shows, tulad ng Exta Challenge, Tok Tok Tok at ang recently top rating Most Awarded ngayong taon si Ogie, bukod sa Star Award for TV best comedy actor, nahirang siya sa Aliw Award Survivor Philippines na malapit nang magtapos sa December 12, gusto pa rin niyang matupad ang kanyang iba pang bilang Hall of Famer ng Entertainer of the Year category. Ang pangatlong award recently ni Ogie ay sa FAMAS. Tinanggap pangarap.. niya ang award na Best Theme Song of the Year.

24 friends International Magazine DECemBER 2008 25 friends International Magazine DECemBER 2008 Lea Salonga: Walang pang Joel Lamangan: Mas riot sa katatawanan ang balak sundan ang baby Nicole Desperadas 2 ng Regal at GMA 7 Films niya kahit dalawang taon at kalahati na ngayon TAKOT pang mabuntis ni Lea Salonga sa taong 2009. Naka-schedule na ang kanyang mga commitment sa susunod na taon. Hindi pa masusundan ang baby Nicole nila ng asawang si Robert Shien. Kasama sa plano next year ni Lea ay maisingit ang comeback movie nila ni Aga Muhlach. Balitang ang Star Cinema ang nag-alok kay Lea ng project na pagsasamahan muli nila ni Aga. Nakausap namin si Lea sa presscon ng Metro Manila Film Festival entry entitled Dayo sa Mundo ng Elementalia na ipalalabas sa December 25. Isang full length animation film na produced ng local production, ang Cutting Edge. Ginastusan ito ng US$ 3 million. Bale si Lea ang umawit ng theme song, ang Lipad. Ani Lea: “ Bagong baby, not now. Happy na muna ako kay Nicole. Siya’y 21/2 years old na ngayon. Gustong kumanta at sumayaw na. Bibo talaga! Pero, hindi ko alam kung kailan magiging sa tono ang kanyang pagkanta. Mahilig siya kumanta talaga! “Ako, I carry a note when I was three years old. Ganyan naman ang bata, habang tumatanda ay nade-develop din AYON kay Direk Joel Lamangan, mas riot sa katatawanan ang Desperadas 2 kaysa sa naunang serye. Kasi, mas pinalawak ang boses. Kung hilig at wholehearted niyang papasukin ang pag-awit at pag-arte ay hindi ko pipigilan. Kung hobby lang ang character ng bawat isang bidang nagsisiganap. niya ito ay hindi. Dapat buong concentration ang ibinigay niya sa ganitong trabaho.” Tampok muli ang original cast Desparadas 1 na sina Ruffa Gutierrez, Rufa Mae Quinto, Iza Calzado at Marian Sa ngayong, bukod sa acting ay puring-puri niya ang asawa na bukod sa guwapo ay very shrewd sa negosyo. Sa Rivera. Nadagdagan ng isa pang character, kasama pa ang pan-limang kapatid, si Ogie Alcasid. Tiyak na mag-e-enjoy ngayong ay magbusiness partner na si Robert at ang kapatid ni Lea na si Gerard Salonga. ang lahat sa get-together nila na mas pinaganda at pinabongga at mas lalo pang pinakwela ang istorya at karakter nilang Desperadas. Si Gerard din ang conductor ng FilhamoniKA na sumaliw sa awitin ni Lea sa theme song ng Dayo, ang Lipad, na composed ni Jessie Lasaten at Temi Abad Jr. Ipapakita ng Desperadas 2 ang mga naging pagbabago sa buhay nina Ruffa Gutierrez (Isabella), Rufa Mae Quinto (Patricia), Iza Calzado (Stephanie), Marian Rivera (Courtney) at Ogie Alcasid (Luga Luda) na nakuha pa ring Soon, ire-release ng Sony-BMG ang soundtract ng Dayo Sa Mundo ng Elementalia. magsama-sama at magkita-kita dala ng pagmamahal nila sa isa’t isa. Sa kabila ng kanilang pagkaka-iba ng pag-uugali at karakter, hindi maikukubli na sa silang lima ay pare-pareho ang naisin sa buhay, ang maging masaya sa piling ng kanilang minamahal. I-Witness, nakatanggap Si Ruffa ay si Isabella, na ngayon ay isa nang matagumpay na entrepreneur ng mga beauty products. Dahil sa ng 2008 ABU CASBAA kanyang pinasok na propesyon, naipit si Isabella sa isang malaking eskandalo na babago sa kanyang buhay. Si Rufa Mae ay si Patricia na may boyfriend na politician sa katauhan ni Christian Vasquez. Sa kabila ng kanilang UNICEF Child Rights Award masayang pagsasama, matutuklasan niyang corrupt pala ang kanyang nobyo. NAKAMIT ng I-Witness team ni Jay Taruc ang coveted title Si Iza ay magbibigay-buhay sa katauhan ni Stephanie, na matapos magkaroon ng anak ay dumaraan sa post- na 2008 ABU CASBAA UNICEF Child Rights Award para taong partum blues. Sa lahat ng pinagdadaanan niyang mga problema, tumatakbo si Stephanie sa kanyang mga kapatid upang 2008. humingi ng payo at suporta. Mula sa 69 entries ng 10 bansa sa Asya, ang Si Marian naman ay si Courtney na isa nang successful na fashion designer at ikinasal na kay Patrick (Will dokumentaryong “Batang Kalabaw” ang napiling gawaran ng Devaughn). Lingid sa kaalaman ni Courtney may stalker siya sa katauhan ni Alex Castro. parangal na “best television programming on children’s rights At si Ogie ay si Luga Luda, ang Kwelali Princess na nawawalang kapatid pala nina Isabella, Patricia, Stephanie at produced in the Asia-Pacific region.” Nakadadagdag pa sa Courtney. Kahit matagal nawalay sa apat, nagawa pa rin ni Luga Luda na maging close at maging ate sa kanilang lahat. ningning ng parangal ang malamang isang awardee lang ang pinipili kada taon para tumanggap ng ABU CASBAA UNICEF Ihahandog ng Desperadas 2 ang ilan sa mga sikat at mahuhusay na showbiz personalities sa bansa ngayon Child Rights Award. kabilang sina Ruffa Gutierrez, Rufa Mae Quinto, Iza Calzado, Marian Rivera at Ogie Alcasid sa iba’t ibang karakter na Inilahad ng “Batang Kalabaw” ang kuwento ni Cherilyn, 14 taong gulang, at ang mga kaibigan niyang akyat– hahasa sa kanilang talento at galing sa pag-arte. Si Roy Iglesias ang scriptwriter ng pelikula sa ilalim ng direksyon ng baba sa mga bundok ng Agusan del Sur ng anim na oras para magbuhat ng mabibigat na troso. Tinitiis ni Cherilyn ang award-winning director Joel Lamangan. pagbubuhat ng 15 kilong troso araw-araw para buhayin ang limang kapatid na umaasa sa kaniya. Ang Desperadas 2 ay isa sa official entries ng Regal Entertainment sa Metro Manila Film Festival. Mas pinalaki, Ito ang ikalawang dokumentaryo ng I-Witness na ginawaran ng award na ito kasunod ng “Selda Inosente” ni mas pinaganda at mas pinasaya ang Desperadas 2 kasama ang masayang barkada nina Ruffa, Rufa Mae, Iza, Marian at Kara David na nanalo noong 2003. Ogie. Ilang karangalan na rin ang natanggap ng “Batang Kalabaw” ngayong taon tulad ng Certificate for Creative Excellence sa 2008 US International Film and Video Festival at sa 2008 Catholic Mass Media Awards. Ginanap ang awarding ceremony noong Nobyembre 24 sa Westin Resort sa Bali , Indonesia . 26 friends International Magazine DECemBER 2008 27 friends International Magazine DECemBER 2008 BALIW NA PAG-IBIG ni Edelina Daligcon IKAW Sai Kung Filipino the presence of the majority of the church ni Pines Noble featured Poems members, as one way of recreation. 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Ang tanong nagawa ko b ang tama? Ipinalasap mo sa pusong Kay sarap samyuhin ng ihip ng hangin, Filipinos in Sai Kung gathers in Wai Man Life Way will celebrate its 6th year anniversay nangungulila buong buhay ko sayo ipinagkatiwala, Aliwalas ng paligid ay ating damhin, Basketball Court to witness the “ Saikung on November 30, 2008. They are located at 6B Pagmamahal Ikaw lamang Nagkikislapang bituin waring nakabitin, Filipino Association ( SAFILA ) Basketball Booman House, 37U Jordan Road,Yau Ma kahit para sa sarili ko di ako nagtira, makapagbibigay sinta. ganyan kawagas ang pag-ibig ko sinta.. Parang nag-aanyaya na sila’y sungkitin. Tournament 2008 “ openning ceremonies held Tei or call 22648748 for more info. on November 23, 2008. Puno ng lungkot Di ko na inisip ang aking kahihiyan, ang buhay ko noon Bakit nga ba ang pasko’y kay sarap gunitain, Filipino Community in Hong Kong launched basta’t pag-ibig ko sayo’y maiparamdam, Hapdi’t pighati nadama ng pusong sawi, Mga tao sa paligid wari’y kay lalambing, subalit ito’y iyong sinuklian, its First Cyber Parish lead by Father Robert Cuyapo Women’s Society Salamat sa buhay ko Ngiti dito, ngiti duon pagsalubong sa atin, ng pagkukunwari’t puro kasinungalingan. Ikaw’ydumating Reyes last October 26, 2008 at Chater Road, bids it President Adieu Kay sarap ng pakiramdam pag pasko’y padating. Binigyang kulay by Emalyn Beltran Central. Kayhirap tanggapin pasakit na dulot mo, Mundo kong madilim. labis mong sinaktan ang aba kong puso, Septyembre pa lamang ay nasasabik na, The web, www.Parokyasaweb.org is a Members and officers of Cuyapo Women’s ano bang kasalanan ang nagawa ko sayo, Hiling ng pusong nagmamahal Sa kostumbreng kinagisnan, mula pa nuong una, community borne out of Kubol Pagasa’s forty Society of Hong Kong gathered in City Hall at pinaglaruan puso’t damdamin ko. Kaligayahan magpakailanman Wala yatang taong di makapupuna, four days (July 10, 2008 to August 22, 2008) on October 26 for a despedida party for their Na tanging ikaw lamang Sa di mapigilang paghahanda ng balana. Makapagbibigay katuparan, of prayer, fasting and discernment. It was President Lucena Dumandan. Subalit sinaktan mo na ako’t lahat, Nawa’y mga pangako’t pangarap first launched at ISKO, Ang Kompyuteran itong baliw kong puso ikaw pa rin ang hanap, Sa pagdating ng tamang panahon Ang lahat ng tao ay abalang abala, ng Iskolar ng Bayan, UP Shopping Center in Dumandan who has been their leader for the kailan ko ba lubusang matatanggap, makamtan. Sa okasyong darating lahat natataranta, past three years since the group was formally Parading with manager, coach, asst. coach Manila last September 21, 2008. na sa pag-ibig ko’y di ka karapat-dapat, Paglilinis ng paligid kabahayan inuuna, organized in 2005, came to work in Hong and muse, to judge the Best in Uniform that Paghahanda ng kalooban, saka na! Kong in 1981 and for over 27 years as OFW, Ang kabiguan ko’y kayhirap tanggapin, KAHON goes to LOLA team and Best Muse to Teams Parokyasaweb comes to compete includes; Angus Angel ( UTOL ), alive, moving, flowing, she has returned to their home town for good parang di ko kayang ikaw ay limutin, ni Sheryl Salazar kahit alam kong mayro’n ka ng iba, Bili dito, bili duon, balot dito balot duon, Samahang Ilocano, Eagles Quest, Xplosion, flying, journeying, on November 2. Nakakamangha, nakakalito, Panay gasta, panay labas sa perang ipon, running, clicking, surfing, puso ko’y umaasang balang araw sa akin magbalik Clear Water Bay Equestrian and LOLA. Linggo-linggo sila’y nagkakagulo Waring nalilibang sa pagiisip lasa ng hamon, and spreading the Good ka. Sige...balot dito, balot doon, At ano pa ba ang maihahanda sa araw na yaon. News of Salvation. Its Di ko alam kung kailan kita makakalimutan, ParkNshop,wellcome,pricemart, paroo’t parito theme song, “ Parokya panahon na lang siguro ang nakakaalam, Hinalughog mula Tsimshatsui hanggang Sham- Tunay na diwa ng pasko’y ano nga ba? ng Mundo” was sung by sa ngayon hayaan mo munang ibigin kita, shuipo Ang kahulugan nito’y tila nakalimutan na, Dong “ Yano” Albay. hanggat hibang kong puso’y kusa ng magsa- Makapaghagilap lang ng murang baratilyo Nababase ba sa kapal ng sobreng iyong makukuha? wa...... It is hosted by Father Lumang sapatos, damit ni amo O sa laki ng regalong iyong ipadadala. Lahat ilalagay, para kahon ay mapuno Robert Reyes known as the Running Priest Sa mga taong maraming pera ang pasko’y di and an Outstanding Critic of the Arroyo The Past Heto pa, kumapit ka...DVD, Hi-Fi, PSP Administration. Currently, Father Reyes by Rowie Kahit hulugan sapilitang binili problema, is working with the Asian Human Rights Binalot ng mainam, langkap ay ngiti. Sapagkat umaapaw ang kanilang mga bulsa, Commission in Hong Kong. Manang “Lucing” to many has full hope and You left me without saying goodbye Kasiyahan ng mga mahal, pinangarap nang Kahit anong uri ng pagkain maihahain sa mesa, Medy Borlaza, latest adviser of SAFILA aspiration that the leadership she has left will And I don’t know the reasons why gumabi. At maraming tao ang sa kanila’y makakaalala. continued by the officers in full support of all I was clueless why you just gone away leads the program and represents in behalf of Listahan inisa-isa, tanong nya, “lahat meron na POLO and OWWA. Rannie Huinda, SAFILA the members, that every project they planned And never told me that you can’t stay. Pero paano kaya ang pag-gunita ng mga taong Life Way Celebrates 6th ba?” President supported by officers and members will be done and shared to kababayans who maralita? I thought I was just dreaming Shampoo, toothpaste, hanggang sabong panlaba to make the event sucessful. Anniversary are in need. “Ay syanga pala!”, gulat na sambit nya Ang mga batang kumakalam sa gutom ang sik- That it wasn’t really happening by Riza B. Acosta Ang pahabol ni byenan, kape at saka krema mura? But why tears kept falling Lola Team easily beat Xplosion, 87-84 with The group has awarded her a certificate of Ang mga pamilyang di ginustong maging dukha, Life Way a full Gospel Church has been in appreciation for the leadership she has shown And my eyes were swelling. Kahon...iba’t iba ang laki...jumbo, regular, bulilit the highest 20 points by Cezar Atienza during Mahirap tanggapin, masakit maging paksa! existence for five years now serving OFWs. in the presence of their adviser Arnold Grospe Hapo man sa pagbabalot, ibayong tuwa ang kapalit the 1st game. Only one point lead, Samahang You broke my heart into pieces Pastor Wendell S. Aquino leads in giving Holy and some friends they invited. Cuyapo is one Said ang bulsa...tiis na lang bulong niya Ilocano with the good score done by Rady And life became worthless and meaningless Sa susunod na day-off, biscuit at kape, pwede na Bato-bato sa langit tamaan wag pong magagalit, service during Saturday and Sunday. of the municipalities in Nueva Ecija, and the Balanag, win over Angus Angel, 86-85. On Dreams shattered and turned ashes Sa mga nasabi ko pag-ibig ang kapalit, group has at least 50 active members. the other hand, Eagle Quest didn’t allow Clear Every new day comes seemed hopeless. Sa laki ng kahon na iyong padala...Pinoy, bayani Sa mga salita kong pasingit-singit, Water Bay Equestrian to lead specially Manny ka Mismong sarili ko ay nabibingit. Ilan kaya ang nakakabatid, hirap mong dinadala Gazmin who contributes many baskets, 83- Why u needed to left and moved away Without saying any words that I wanted to hear Sino’ng nakakaalam ng malungkot mong gabi 74. Dalangin ko po lamang sa paskong darating, You left me unprepared and why it happened Sa mga luha ng pag-iisa na pilit ikinukubli KAPAYAPAAN at PAG-IBIG ang maghari sa that way So painful inside knowing you weren’t here. Pinoy dakila ka, sa mga imported mong bigay atin, Puso mo sa kahon, di magkasya kung ilalagay Parokya sa Web Launched Pagtalikod?Kalimutan?masasamang gawain, Ikaw na ang puhunan sa kahong ipinadala Pagsilang ni Hesus atin pong gunitain. in Hong Kong It felt everything stopped when you gone Ay sakit at dusa na mawalay sa kanila by Julia Buen Terry Feeling so lost,so empty and so alone It was hard to accept that we were really done (alay ko sa mga bayaning Filipino ng Hong Kong) From the streets to the parish, from the parish Coz I was hoping that you were the one. to the streets, from the streets to the Internet, With the joint effort of his wife Leonor, they Members of NOVO ECIJANO Association of HK from the Internet to the world, from the world managed as well to give and share their untiring I tried to kept going and moving forward Want to get your poems published? Share it with us. packed two boxes courtesy of GEN EX CARGO To live my life without you being around to the cosmos…. To the Kingdom of GOD… service to all members of the church.Serving as on December 7 as their “Pamaskong Handog Years gone by and I’m glad I surpassed You just might see your literary creation on this page. Send Thus, the spirit moves towards freedom from advisers and motivators, their deepest concern 2008”.The recipient of the goods is the Home The past that didn’t lasted. anything that undermines and destroys the is the spiritual life of people. for Girls in Palayan City, Nueva Ecija. More than all your poems by email to [email protected] dignity of persons, preventing them to grow 70 kids will benefit from the said project. NEAHK would like to thank all members and friends into the fullness of the daughters and sons of During statutory holidays they spare their time who donated items/goods for the children. 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30 friends International Magazine DECemBER 2008 31 friends International Magazine DECemBER 2008 HOROSCOPE ... alamin ang iyong kapalaran Gebyar Ul-Tah Ck’funky Dancer Yang Ke-2 Scorpio (Oct 24 – Nov 22) Today it might be a good flattery to a few serious conversations and watch that’s how powerful your observation skills will be. idea to adopt a more analytical attitude, especially when what happens. There will be a lot of fun loving This means it’s a great day for negotiations! You’ll by Adepunk it comes to dealing with people you don’t like. If they rub people hanging around you today, and they like be able to read the other person’s body language you the wrong way, so what? They don’t have an impact your style so much that they want in to your social like it’s an open book. And you’ll be able to sense cukup panjang, dewan juri memutuskan siapa on your life, so skip past them and never look back. If circle! Lucky Numbers: 25,22, 14, 34, 29 & 35 ; how close their offer is to what they are really you pay any attention to folks who have nothing nice to Lucky Color: Brown. capable of giving you. Lucky Numbers : 1,26, 28, sajakah yang berhasil membawa pulang piala say, you are giving them more power than they deserve 11, 24, 9. Lucky Color: Peach sebagai tanda kemenangan diacara lomba over your life. Your time and energy should be devoted to Libra (Sep 23-Oct 23) Despite the fact that you Gebyar Ultah CK’Funky Dancer Yang Ke-2. the people who bring out the best in you. Lucky Number: always try to seek equality in your life, you know Capricorn (Dec 21 – Jan 19) The new people you 1,13,3,6,28. and 19; Lucky Color: Red that the world can be an unfair place. So if someone meet today hold a lot of opportunities for you, but Pemenang Lomba Duet Karaoke: you care about gets the short end of the stick today, keep in mind that there is more to them than meets Virgo (Aug 2 – Sep 22) Your social energy is you should focus more on consoling them than on the eye. People are very different on the inside 1. Amy & Honey slower today, and you might find it difficult to getting righteously indignant about their situation. than their appearances may lead you to believe, 2. Nita & Jane communicate with people who don’t already know Lucky Numbers: 13, 6, 28, 11,15 and 1 8 Lucky especially right now, when they are on their best 3. Awin & Hellu you inside and out. In conversations with newer Color: Yellow behavior. If you make any assumptions about acquaintances, you might start to feel like you are their beliefs, you should keep them to yourself, Juara Harapan: waist-deep in mud, immobile and incapable of Aries (Mar 21 – Apr 19) Try to be the person who or risk offending someone. For safety’s sake, wait making any forward progress. Lucky Numbers: takes on the more passive role in today’s activities. until you know them better before sharing your 1. Shinta & Dhina 3,8,22, 38,12,& 4; Lucky Color: Orange This is not the greatest time for heavy action for opinions. Lucky Numbers: 1, 31 , 23, 37, 24, & 44; 2. Rangga & Egi you -- in fact, it is quite the opposite! Let someone Lucky Color: Peach Leo (Jul 23 – Aug 22) You are learning to appreciate else call the shots for a while and see how it feels. Pemenang Tradisional Dancer: the fact that when a goal is too easy to attain, it is You might find that you like it quite a bit! You Aquarius (Jan 20 – Feb 18) Changes in life are Dalam memeriahkan hari ulang tahunnya juga dibantu oleh panitia dari Terali Dancer, 1. Balinese Dancer not as valuable as something that takes your sweat shouldn’t let anyone boss you around, but there is inevitable. How you deal with them determines and toil to reach. So don’t hesitate to take a more no reason to feel threatened if someone else has your level of stress. When you are flexible with yang ke-2, CK’Funky Dancer menggelar acara Borneo Dancer dan DIF Dancer. 2. Shine Dancer difficult route than everyone else is taking. They better ideas than you do. Your ego can handle it, unexpected obstacles it’s easier to deal with what dan berbagai perlombaan. Acara digelar di 3. NBF Dancer might get there faster or more easily, but they are and your energy level will be invigorated by it. fate has in store. Take a deep breath and move Causeway Bay, Ho Tung School pada Minggu, Para tamu undangan juga hadir not going to learn as much from the experience. Lucky Numbers: 36, 45, 9 , 34 , 17 & 43. Lucky forward with confidence. Lucky Numbers: 16, 21, (30/11/08). Digelarnya acara tersebut selain ikut memeriahkan acara tersebut, tepuk Juara harapan: Lucky Numbers: 18, 37, 29 11, 6, 20, & 12; Lucky Color: Green 18, 9, 23, & 29.: Lucky Color: Brown bertujuan untuk menjalin persahabatan antara tangan meriah membahana memenuhi 1. Terali Dancer Color: Blue Gemini (May 21 – Jun 21) Music is likely to play a Pisces (Feb 19 – Mar 20) The most powerful grup dan bertujuan untuk menggali potensi ruangan gedung Hotung School disaat acara 2. Alexa Dancer Cancer (Jun 22 – Jul 22) Your wonderful generosity more important role for you this Sunday morning. motivator for you right now isn’t your ambition -- para BMI yang selama ini terpendam. Adapun lomba dimulai. Peserta berlomba-lomba is legendary, and it’s going to come into play in a Some of you have the music writing talent--why it’s your emotions. So trust them and follow them acara lomba dibagi dalam tiga kategori yaitu: menunjukkan kebolehannya dalam bernyanyi, Pemenang Modern Dancer: big way, today. You are going to utilize it to help not give it a try? There is tremendous psychological wherever they take you today! Good or bad, they Lomba duet karaoke, Lomba tari tradisional menari tradisional bahkan menari hip-hop 1. DIF Dancer lots of people before you even get to your lunch growth--which can lead to great personal success are genuine and honest. So if you want to spill your dan Lomba tari modern. ala modern dancer. Dewan juri yang didaulat 2. Terali Dancer break! But putting smiles on faces will make your this Monday; if you follow through with it. You guts to someone who you’re seriously crushing day. Lucky Numbers: 30, 20, 12, 44, 27 & 6 ; Lucky might also find that you will put on the pounds if on, do it -- whatever the result, it will make you untuk menilai para peserta lomba adalah, 3. I M Dancer Color: Green you are not careful. Lucky Numbers: 34 , 18, 3, 22, stronger and remind you how powerful you are. untuk kategori lomba duet karaoke: Mrs.Milk 12, & 46. Lucky Color: Maroon Being direct in your communication might be Leung, Mr.Ammad, Mr.Toyo, Mr.Bambang, Juara Harapan: Taurus (Apr 19 – May 20) You are feeling awfully hard, but it will save you time and help you grow. untuk kategori lomba tradisional dancer: Mrs. 1. K.J Dancer good this morning, which bodes well for your Sagitarius (Nov 23 – Dec 21) The smallest details Lucky Numbers: 12, 35, 11, 36, 23, & 43: Lucky Jenny Tjio, Mr.Li Ping Chao, Ms.Aspi, dan 2. Nongkrong Bareng Fans Dancer entire day! Add a little bit more flirtation and of this day will be like blinking neon signs for you -- Color: Blue Green. untuk kategori modern dancer: Mr.Calum Ogg, Ms.Patricia, Ms.Rebecca Low. Mind Games Word Search P H P L E N I I N R C V L N T N R N D E T E M O C D U R A S E L E M Dewan juri sengaja dipilih by Kuya Willy Find the words hid- dari orang-orang yang berpengalaman den within the grid. S E V X E R O R P R E R A C D H R Words can be found dibidangnya masing-masing, karena tidak Anagrams T F I R R H A I T R E C N A D I I ingin mengecewakan para peserta lomba. Rearrange the letters to form the correct horizontally, vertically, E V T T A C D A R H A M T U O X X Acara berjalan lancar tanpa hambatan, word(s) or phrase. The (clues) will help diagonally, backwards Acara dimulai tepat pukul 10.30 ucapan syukur tak henti-hentinya terucap dari you guess the correct answers. or forwards. O O C E S R E E N E P N A P N D R dan diawali oleh doa yang langsung para panitia yang mengatur jalannya acara. 1 A class a nut (Jolly Old Fellow) Christmas & Santa R S D R N L T M L U H O C R D E D dipimpin oleh pembawa acara yaitu Amellia. Kekhawatiran sempat muncul dari benak ______T E T E R D L E E D Y S L E E S C Setelah doa bersama, langsung disambung panitia dan juga pembawa acara, karena Santa Claus R F L R L N I R M E R Z A E R L E sambutan oleh ketua CK’Funky Dancer yaitu banyaknya peserta lomba dan waktunya yang 2 I tilt some (Parasitic Plant) Adepunk. Dalam sambutannya, Adepunk sangat terbatas. Namun kekhawatiran tersebut North Pole R D T O I C D S E R I S U D F B H ______mengungkapkan rasa bangga dan bahagia seakan sirna setelah acara berjalan lancar, Masing-masing pemenang berhak membawa Reindeer E N N C E S R A E L V E S N L E O atas terlaksananya acara yang telah lama itupun tak lepas dari kerja keras para panitia piala, piagam, dan hadiah lainnya dari para 3 IN red ere (Animal with Antlers) dinantikannya yaitu hari jadi grup CK’Funky untuk mengatur peserta lomba dan pembawa N B A E E L I N L E P R D I O T D sponsor. Para sponsor yang mendukung dalam ______Elves dancer yang ke-2 tahun. Sebelum acara lomba acara yang berhasil membagi waktu dengan acara tersebut adalah, Tabloid Apakabar, E A A E U N D Z O S Y O T E D Y P Last Month’s Answers: Toys dimulai, acara pembukaan diisi dengan baik. Indonews, Liberty, Asia Telecom, Smartone, 1. Central Park 2. Niagara Falls 3. Pyramids of Egypt D U Z N R D I P B R I Z I R U L O tarian kolaborasi antara CK, DIF dan Terali H.K TKI POWC Agency, PJTKI Nuraini Dasher H E S A S E X S O R E L O S R S F Dancer. Tarian modern lagu dari Mulan Indah Perkasa, PJTKI Assanatama Karya K A T U N G G A L I A Jamella dengan judul Makhluk Tuhan Paling Mandiri (AKM), Globe Shine Agency, Dragon A L A S I A S A L Dancer N I D N C U C V I N O O T Z E C N Seksi menjadi acara pembuka yang menarik Star Grup dan PRISMA. Wajah puas dan P A L A I N P U E N R E D A P T R D E E A R C E M dan mempesona, penari meliuk bergoyang bangga terlihat dari para pemenang, acarapun Prancer I G I O L A S A P D S A N O U O A I N T R I C D I L sesuai irama lagunya dengan gaya khas yang berakhir dengan foto bersama panitia dan Vixen membuat decak kagum penonton. para pemenang. Tak lupa Adepunk sebagai S A N A O I S A L I Contest Guidelines A H A S T H penyelenggara acara mengucapkan banyak Comet Submit your answers. Winners will receive one year FREE member- Acara Gebyar Ulang Tahun terima kasih kepada para sponsor yang N A L A A A L M A ship and subscription of Friends International Magazine. CK’Funky Dancer Yang Ke-2 dengan tema telah mendukung, kepada para panitia yang Cupid A N G H E L N O O N 1 Always remember to include your complete name, contact “Tunjukkan Seni Kreasimu, Untuk Menjadi telah banyak membantu jalannya acara N A A A R E G L O Donder number and address for entries to be considered valid Sosok Yang Kreatif Dan Percaya Diri”. dan Adepunk juga minta maaf, jika acara 2 Write legibly T I B A O N Gedung yang berkapasitas 400-500 orang Selain para peserta menunjukkan tersebut masih banyak kekurangan dan kurang Blitzen 3 Mail entries (cut this half page) to Friends International itu telihat penuh sesak. Para peserta dan kebolehannya dalam berlomba, acara juga berkenan dihati para penonton, peserta dan I T A N A N Magazine pendukung hadir penuh semangat mengikuti diisi oleh penampilan dari grup CK’Funky tamu undangan. Semoga kedepannya kami I N A L A Y A K O Rudolf 4 Mark “Mind Games” on envelope jalannya acara. Terlihat kesibukan para Dancer sendiri yaitu tari jaipong juga modern akan lebih baik dari yang sekarang. Salam Last Month’s Winner: Ms. Adela Mata of Kingswood Villa, Tinshuiwai, NT Names of winners will be published in the next issue. panitia yang terdiri dari CK’Funky Dancer dancer. Setelah melewati penilaian yang Kayau & Peace!!!! 32 friends International Magazine DECemBER 2008 33 friends International Magazine DECemBER 2008

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