DAYTONA BEACH • ORLANDO • TAMPA • ST. PETERSBURG • SARASOTA ISSUE• 19.17 • AUG. 16 - AUG. 29, 2012 • WATERMARKONLINE.COM 2 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. AUGUST 16-29, 2012 // ISSUE 19.17 watermarkonline.com SATURDAY, SEPTEMBER 8 Vinoy Park, St. Petersburg

SIGN UP TODAY! AIDSWalkTampaBay.org

Follow Us: AIDSWalkTampaBay

#AIDSWalkTB

A COPY OF THE OFFICIAL REGISTRATION (#CH3696) AND FINANCIAL INFORMATION MAY BE OBTAINED FROM THE DIVISION OF CONSUMER SERVICES BY CALLING TOLL-FREE 1-800-435-7352 WITHIN THE STATE. REGISTRATION DOES NOT Sponsors: IMPLY ENDORSEMENT, APPROVAL, OR RECOMMENDATION BY THE STATE.

AUGUST 16-29, 2012 // ISSUE 19.17 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. 3 Sell Your Car to Us Even If You Don’t Buy From Us!

We Buy Cars, Motorcycles, Watercraft, RV’s, Golf Carts & Luxury WatchesSM

FREE APPRAISAL Tallahassee Jacksonville 99% of the time we will BEAT any valid

Sanford Longwood SUPERSTORE or ONLINE appraisal offer. Orlando Email: [email protected] or Text: Tampa Bradenton 407-417-7101 your valid SUPERSTORE Palm Fort Beach or ONLINE appraisal offer and let us Myers Naples BEAT their offer SIGHT UNSEEN.

*All vehicles subject to physical inspection. Please see website for details.

1300 Rinehart Road Sanford, FL • 32771 407.688.5888 brought to you by

Visit our new location in Tampa 6601 West Hillsborough •Tampa, FL • 33634 813.440.2366

4 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. AUGUST 16-29, 2012 // ISSUE 19.17 watermarkonline.com DEPARTMENTS This has become a 6 // MAIL 8 // ORLANDO NEWS PAGE defining moral 12 // TAMPA BAY NEWS 16 // STATE 17 question of our time. 17 // NATION & WORLD —SCOTT DIBBLE, MINNESOTA 25 // ARTS & ENTERTAINMENT SENATOR SPEAKING OF 31 // EVENT PLANNER MARRIAGE 33 // TAMPA BAY OVERHEARD EQUALITY 35 // ORLANDO OVERHEARD 36 // TAMPA BAY MARKETPLACE 37 // TRANSITIONS 38 // ADVICE 39 // ORLANDO MARKETPLACE 44 // CLASSIFIEDS 46 // GALLERY W

ON THE COVER PAGE 08 FINDING COMFORT: A supporter hugs Orange County Commission candidate Gina Duncan on Primary Election night. Duncan lost her bid for office when incumbent Ted Edwards took 60% of the vote. PAGE Representatives of the Preview WATERMARK ISSUE 19.17 // AUG. 16 - AUG. 29, 2012 conservative groups 12 and GOProud will be in Tampa to enthusiastically endorse as ORLANDO NEWS TAMPA BAY NEWS FABULOUS FILM FEST GALLERY W the Republican presidential nominee. Illustration by Jake Stevens Photo of Mitt Romney by Gage Skidmore Read it online! In addition to a Web SCAN site with daily LGBT QR CODE FOR updates, a digital WATERMARKONLINE.COM version of each issue PAGE As expected, voter turnout PAGE The Republican National PAGE LGBT cinema is alive and PAGE When St. Petersburg of the publication is was low for the Aug.14 Convention will bring LGBT well in Sarasota, thanks to cleared the way for its made available on 08 primary and we take a look 12 conservatives to Tampa the 25 the Fabulous Independent 46 domestic partnership WatermarkOnline.com at two of the closest watched races last weekend of August; AIDS Walk Film Festival, which offers two days registry, couples didn’t waste any in Orlando; The Fringe Festival will Tampa Bay has a new name and a of films at Burns Court cinema. time to make sure they protected expand in 2013, thanks to a banner new location in September; more. We provide a schedule for your themselves. We share some photos year in 2012; more. viewing pleasure; more. of happy couples who registered within the first week.

WHITNEY FANS! WIN A SPARKLE PRIZE PACK AT WATERMARKONLINE.COM!

AUGUST 16-29, 2012 // ISSUE 19.17 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. 5 LETTERS TO THE EDITOR

BEYOND WAFFLE FRIES “Controversies about waffle fries HILE I AGREE aren’t going to get us there, but WITH STEVE WBLANCHARD that true communication with those supporting Chick-Fil-A is a direct attack on the rights who love us certainly will.” of gay people everywhere, —KATHRYN FRANGIE I don’t think the statement of one restaurant chain will ultimately make marriage equality a reality [Editor’s Desk, Issue 19.16]. whose primary focus is to The franchise operators I’ve learned my straight dehumanize LGBT people and I’ve spoken with were friends don’t understand to pass laws that treat us as the personal attack that Dan second-class citizens. Among they generate are being Cathy directed at me. Chick-Fil-A’s benefactors usedunaware and ofthey how lament the pro�its being Achieving equality must is Exodus International, tarnished with corporate’s start with our circles of infamous advocates for anti-gay image. They friends, and it’s easier to do discredited and harmful “ex- understand that a one-day than most think. While you’re gay” reparative therapy. The bump in sales is nothing discussing Dancing With the American Family Association compared to the long-term Stars, remind them about and the Family Research damage being done. Council also receive Chick- your relationship and the NADINE SMITH Fil-A dollars and are both importance of acceptance. EQUALITY FLORIDA Controversies about designated hate groups with close ties to those calling for to get us there, but true the execution of gay people FOND FAREWELL communicationwaf�le fries aren’t with going those in Africa. JUST GOT A CHANCE TO who love us certainly will. The fuel that continues PEEK AT WATERMARK I[ISSUE 19.16] and KATHRYN FRANGIE knowledge that a portion of you guys are so sweet to SARASOTA everyto feed dollar this �ire spent is the at Chick- include me! Fil-A winds up supporting I love Central Florida JUST A the discriminatory work and will miss it incredibly. ONE-DAY BUMP of these anti-gay groups. Hopefully, I can establish a While some will protest at good relationship with the HE FIRESTORM Chick-Fil-A establishments,, Georgia Voice as I have with CURRENTLY most will not. They have you guys these 4 years. ENGULFING CHICK- T simply chosen to spend their There are great things FIL-A HAS BEEN YEARS IN money elsewhere, resulting going on at Joy and Central THE MAKING and reaches far is a devastating 40% decline Florida, but duty calls and off beyond the recent incendiary in the health of company’s to Augusta I go! remarks of its President, brand since this controversy Dan Cathy. Chick-Fil-A has REV. LISA HEILIG arose, according the donated at least $5 million INTERIM PASTOR industry experts. dollars to organizations JOY MCC, ORLANDO

6 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. AUGUST 16-29, 2012 // ISSUE 19.17 watermarkonline.com State, the California marriage CONTRIBUTORS thanks to Amendment 2, which voterscerti�icate approved is invalid that in same Florida, year in GREG order to prevent the recognition STEMM of marriages like ours in this state. lives in Gulfport, That marriage in California was Fla., and has worked as a an eye-opener. Our registration in freelance writer Once my partner and I entered, St. Petersburg was not. for several local publications. the city staff was polite, kind and While I thanked many for their He is a founding member of St. we even shared a few laughs with wishes and told them how proud Pete Pride and active politically in the clerks. After we paid our $30 I was following our registration, I Tampa Bay. Page 14 and handed over the completed, never shared how incomplete the entire experience felt. Something MARY MEEKS is missing. is an Orlando- asof�icial partners. looking form, we received While the few protections we based attorney who is also an a certi�icateWe smiled recognizing as the clerk us took now have in our home city are editor’s LGBT activist. appreciated, they are incomplete. our photo at our request and then She is a long-time whe shared it on Watermark’s A domestic partnership registry is contributor to Watermark. Page 29 Facebook page. Hundreds of not a marriage. well wishes and congratulations Had we registered a week STEPHEN sooner, my sentiments may have WARNE immediately afterward. is the founder of �loodedA few the comments post and wished my email days before we registered in Step Out Sarasota Steve Blanchard us luck as we ‘began our lives St.been Petersburg, less critical. we But attended just �ive the and is a social EDITOR together.’ wedding of a long-time friend media strategist [email protected] While those sentiments were in Bradenton as she married for the Manasota Diversity her husband. The wedding was Conference. He lives and works well-meant, they aren’t accurate. in Sarasota and is a contributing beautiful—adorable, in fact—and Desk I met my partner more than 14 writer to several publications and years ago as a at the reception we websites. Page 25 college student told the bride how T’S OFFICIAL. I AM DOMESTICALLY in Central A domestic proud we were of Greg Burton, Erik Caban, Missouri. In her while reminding Scottie Campbell, Amy Dees, registered to my partner in St. Petersburg. 2000, we invited partnership the groom of his Kirk Hartlage, Rev. Phyllis Hunt, That one awkward statement, isn’t it? close friends to registry is not responsibility to take Joseph Kissel, Ken Kundis, celebrate our care of our friend, Mary Meeks, Stephen Miller, ISince moving within the City of St. Petersburg opened its relationship a marriage. his new bride. David Moran, Anthony Paull, city limits in 2006, the local domestic partnership registry with us when I don’t wish to Greg Stemm, Brett Stout, to unmarried couples as a way we held a Holy take anything away Louanne Walters, Stephen Warne us as cohabitants or roommates. to protect themselves in cases of Union in our Missouri church. In from that wedding. In fact, it was Nowgovernment that we’ve of�icially registered, classi�ied we emergency, end-of-life planning 2008, we took the next step and a perfect day for a perfect couple. and hospital visitation, my partner stood before a clerk in the San But that new husband and wife PHOTOGRAPHY expected to feel overjoyed with of 14 years and I drove to the Bernardino County Courthouse do not have to redo their wedding ourare of�iciallynew status, more sharing than that.the news I and re-exchanged our rings as multiple times, complete more Nick Cardello, Angie Folks, with friends and family and appropriate paperwork. we took vows to become legally paperwork once they settle into Tom Eckert, Julie Milford, Travis Moore, resting comfortably knowing cityOn clerk’s our way of�ice into to City�ill out Hall the we married in the State of California. their new home or have to worry Chris Stephenson, Lee Vandergrift that as a couple, we are granted a met a couple exiting. The What began as a political about the status of the viability of handful of rights that will protect two women from Clearwater statement ended up being an their relationship in the eyes of us in an unpredictable future. were all smiles, saying that after eye-opening experience. the local government as they cross DISTRIBUTION But that’s not how I feel, being partners for more than 25- Immediately after saying our city and/or state lines. plus years, they were thrilled the “I do’s,” in September of 2008 They are married no matter Debbie Oliver, Phil Garris, Ken Caraway step for St. Petersburg—and we felt the importance of a where they are at any given time manydespite other recognizing cities across this signi�icant the state their relationship. I even took the governmental entity respecting in the . My partner CONTENTS of WATERMARK are protected by federal copyright law and may not be reproduced which have implemented their opportunitygovernment to�inally snap recognized a photo of and understanding the meaning of and I—and countless other same- in whole or part without the permission of the publisher. Unsolicited article submissions own registries. our relationship. Of course, since sex couples—are not. And that is will not be returned unless accompanied by a self-addressed, stamped envelope. Although On Aug. 8, a week after the the steps of City Hall. we are not residents of the Golden |  | WATERMARK is supported by many fine them holding their certi�icate on advertisers, we cannot accept responsibility for claims made by advertisers. the de�inition of inequality. Publication of the name or photograph of any person or organization in articles, advertising, or WATERMARK STAFF listing in WATERMARK is not to be construed as Tampa Bay Sales: Selena Fuller any indication of the of such Ext. 306 • 941-284-1029 • [email protected] persons or members of such organizations. Publisher: Tom Dyer • Ext. 305 • [email protected] Tampa Bay Sales: Bill Jeffries ORLANDO OFFICE WATERMARK is published every second Thursday. P. O. Box 533655 Subscription rate is $55 (1st class) and $26 Chief Financial Officer: Rick Claggett • Ext. 108 • [email protected] Ext. 301 • 813-454-9064 • [email protected] (standard mail). Orlando, FL 32853-3655 Administrative Assistant: Erik Caban • Ext. 100 • [email protected] The official views of WATERMARK are expressed Orlando Advertising Sales: Sam Rennels TEL: 407-481-2243 only in editorials. Opinions offered in signed Editor-in-Chief: Steve Blanchard • 813-470-0899 • [email protected] Ext. 103 • [email protected] columns, letters and articles are those of the writers FAX: 407-481-2246 and do not necessarily represent the opinions Online Media Director: Jamie Hyman • Ext. 106 • [email protected] Orlando Advertising Sales: Scott McCauley of the newspaper’s owner or management. We reserve the right to edit or reject any material Proofreading: Ed Blaisdell Ext. 302 • 407-256-9871 •[email protected] TAMPA BAY OFFICE submitted for publication. Art Director: Jake Stevens • Ext. 109 • [email protected] Orlando Advertising Sales: Don Williams TEL: 813-655-9890 WATERMARK is not responsible for damages due to typographical errors, except for the cost of Production Assistant: Andrés Duputel • Ext. 107 • [email protected] Ext. 307 • [email protected] FAX: 813-849-2986 replacing ads created by WATERMARK that have such errors. Sales Manager: Mark Cady • Ext. 102 [Orlando] • [email protected] Nat’l Ad Representative: Rivendell Media Inc. • 212-242-6863 Watermark Media Inc. est. 1994

AUGUST 16-29, 2012 // ISSUE 19.17 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. 7 Fringe reveals plans for 2013 expansion Erik Caban

[email protected] orlando RLANDO | The record-breaking attendance in 2012 has made way for the Orlando Internation- Oal Fringe Festival to expand into nearby Ivanhoe Village for 2013. During “Fringe First Monday” on Aug. 6 at The Shakespeare Center, it was announced that after a 23% increase in attendance at May’s festival, three venues will be added, including The Theatre Downtown and Baby Blue’s newly opened home base, The Venue. NEWS George Wallace, general manager of Fringe, said that DIFFERENT PATHS: Orlando candidates Joe Saunders and Gina Duncan, pictured marching together at a Martin Luther King the move is part of the organization’s strategy to boost Day parade Jan. 14, fared differently in their respective campaigns for political office Aug. 14. PHOTO COURTESY JOE SAUNDERS visibility of the annual festival and will allow for an increase in the number of shows it offers next spring. “It’s time,” said Wallace. “We want to keep the positive momentum going. We said as an organization that we weren’t going to expand unless we sold out more than we did in 2011.” There were 32 sold out shows in 2011 and in 2012, the Joe Saunders number of sold out shows doubled, with more than 29,000 tickets sold. “The demand is there; demand for the artists and for the patrons,” said Wallace. “This year, we had to turn away 40 artists.” heads to general election Not only will the expansion allow for more artists— there is the possibility to schedule at least 10 more shows—it will allow artists to do more with the new space, night at The Abbey downtown. including the option for more 75- and 90-minute shows. Gina Duncan loses Orange “We sent a message to Ted According to Wallace, this will also do away with the Edwards that it’s time to bring outdoor venue—something he’s particularly happy about. County Commission seat to government back to the people,” a tearful Duncan said. and no more helicopters overhead,” he said. incumbent Ted Edwards She was sunburned from Wallace“No more said worrying Fringe aboutcarefully �looding, planned getting to ensure electrocuted all standing at the corner of Virginia added venues are no more than a mile away from Loch and Mills, campaigning in extreme Haven Park. The Fringe will move its headquarters Jamie Hyman [email protected] and teachers unions, as well as Orlandoendorsed Mayor by police, Buddy �ire�ighters Dyer and rainstorm—all day long. community-development organization will sponsor the City Commissioner Patty Sheehan. weather—�irst brutal sun then a Theatrenext to the Downtown Ivanhoe Villagevenue. Main Street of�ice, and that RLANDO | Orlando’s Gina seeking two candidates who are Duncan, “When I �irst talked about adding an economic boom,” said Scottie Campbell, members of the LGBT who faced “I think we opened people executive“By Fringe director expanding of Ivanhoe into IvanhoeVillage Main Village, Street. it’s de�initely O community fared very differently incumbent toldthis of�iceme “[Business owners] should take advantage of it. This is the door and I know at in the Aug. 14 primary race. Ted Edwards that it huge step for us and them.” Joe Saunders, in his bid to for Orange sometime in the future couldn’t become the Democratic candidate County be done “We’ll be more present in the community, allowing us for State Representative, enjoyed Commission a candidate and with to continueWallace seesdeveloping the move our as organization bene�icial for and all. build more a decisive win by earning 65% of seat District 40% of the partnerships, like Ivanhoe Village,” he said. the vote. If elected in November, 5, lost in a will win office in Florida.” vote today, He hopes this merger will open the door for Fringe Saunders would become 40-60 split. —GINA DUNCAN I think we sponsorships by neighborhood businesses. Had Duncan proved “There are so many great restaurants and antique representative. unseated Edwards, she would that it can be done and it will be shops, et cetera, that patrons may not even be aware Florida’sIn November, �irst openly Saunders gay state will done at sometime in the future,” of,” he said. “By opening up the festival, we’re opening face off against former UCF transgender candidates elected to Duncan said. “I think we opened student body president and have been one of the �irst the door and I know at sometime Campbell said Fringe is already gearing up for next Republican Marco Pena. Saunders Duncan thanked a crowd of in the future a transgender up foot traf�ic.” aboutpublic 150of�ice supporters in a major at city. her Continued on page 10 |  | Equality Florida who’s been Campaign Victory Party, election Florida.” |  | is a former �ield director for candidate will win of�ice in 8 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. AUGUST 16-29, 2012 // ISSUE 19.17 watermarkonline.com 10% OFF MSRP on any gallon of Regal® Select Interior* This o er can only be redeemed at:

thevillagepaintshoppe.com • Locations in Lake Mary and Ocoee • 407.Benmoore or 407.236.6667

Name: eyeglasses Address: Zip/Postal Code: contacts Email Address: sunglasses  Sign me up today to begin receiving communications from my local Benjamin Moore store O er expires 703 n. orange ave. | downtown orlando © 2011 Benjamin Moore & Co. Benjamin Moore. Regal and the triangle “M” symbol are registered trademarks licensed to Benjamin Moore & Co. *O er good only at retailer listed above. Regal Select Interior products (primer MSRP: $34.99, all other  nisheS $49.99). Certain exclusions apply. Subject to availability Benjamin Moore (407) 245-7800 reserves the right to cancel this o er at anytime. Limit one coupon per customer. While supplies last. Only original coupon will be honored–no photocopies or faxes will be allowed.

The Natural Approach for Healing & Wellness

Empowering YOU to make safe, wise, and informed decisions about your health care and wellness. Non-Drug Solutions for Healthy Living Aesthetic Medicine and Facial Rejuvenation Natural Hormone Replacement Classical Homoepathy Pulsed Electro-Magnetic Field Therapy Detoxifi cation Joe Saunders Acupuncture and Neuro-Regulatory Therapies Nutritional Guidance Heather Crider, ND • Joya Schoen, M.D. • Claudia Chica, PT, DOM heads to general election The Lee World Center • 1850 Lee Road, Suite 240 • Winter Park, FL 32789 • 407-644-2729 • www.midfl oridamedicalgroup.com 

AUGUST 16-29, 2012 // ISSUE 19.17 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. 9 Candidate calls for Amway, Magic boycott Staff report

AITLAND | Rights Equal Rights, a California- orlando based marriage equality group, is calling for Ma boycott of Amway and all its subsidiaries, including the Orlando Magic and the RDV Sportsplex, which is located in Maitland. Republican Fred Karger, who is an openly gay presidential candidate, is presi- dent of Rights Equal Rights. The group’s reasoning for the boycott is Amway’s $500,000 donation—given via the Douglas and Maria

NEWS DeVos Foundation—to the National Organization for Marriage (NOM), a notorious group working against marriage equality. Doug DeVos is the president of Amway. The National Gay & Lesbian Chamber of Commerce (NGLCC) honored Rights Equal Rights set up BoycottAmway.com to the Metropolitan Business Association (MBA) with its Rising Star Award explain the boycott, collect donations for the cause and RISING STARS: Aug. 8 MBA Membership Director Robert Carnes (left) and MBA Corporate give visitors ways to communicate with both DeVos’ Development Director Jason Fox Holstein accepted the award at the NGLCC’s 2012 Certify Your Success National company and other supporters of the boycott. Business & Leadership Conference in Chicago. The Rising Star Award is given to a chamber that exhibits vitality NOM’s activities have run the anti-gay gamut, from and relevance in its community, brings a unified voice to the LGBT business community it serves, and proves its commitment to being part of the broader national movement. PHOTO COURTESY THE MBA uphold Prop 8, the California law banning marriage equality.supporting |  so-called | “ex-gay” therapy to �ighting to Zebra Coalition Alleged rape reported at P-House Staff report Creuzer told the police that he want to press charges. While talking engaged in a sex act with the alleged to detectives, Creuzer admitted raises nearly $1,800 victim, but denied the rape. that he has been HIV-positive Staff report RLANDO | Police are in- “The door was open and he for 10 years. vestigating an alleged rape was lying on his stomach and I Creuzer was taken to Orlando at The Parliament House. penetrated him,” Creuzer said. He Regional Medical Center to have his The Zebra Coalition, a network of O injuries treated. He’s charged with RLANDO | According to the police report, 18 businesses and organizations that support at a little after 3 p.m. on Aug. 4, common knowledge that if a door burglary of a dwelling with a battery OLGBT youth, raised $1,797 in 11 hours, said Kenneth Creuzer entered a hotel waswent ajar on toand tell the the blinds of�icer were “that opened it was therein, sexual batter and crimes Dexter Foxworth, Zebra Coalition’s director. The funds room where a male victim was and someone was on their stomach, against a person for having sex with were raised at “Gays and Straights Fight the Hate Day” sleeping face down in the nude. The then someone could go into the someone and not informing that on Aug. 10. Supporters were encouraged via social victim said when Creuzer entered room and have sex with whomever person of HIV status. media to make a donation to The Zebra Coalition, as a the room, he thought he was his in the room.” Parliament House pro-active response to Chick-Fil-A Appreciation Day. boyfriend. But when Creuzer The victim told police Creuzer management did not respond to a The Zebra Coalition is organizing a donation drive penetrated the victim, he realized it is a stranger to him, he didn’t give request for comment. |  | was a stranger and started to punch Creuzer permission to enter his needs for LGBT youth who may be homeless. him until Creuzer stopped. room or penetrate him and he did for“They Aug. 18, are this not time attending seeking school, items therefore to ful�ill speci�icthere is

housing, reintegrate them back into the school system, they both acknowledge is going to Wallace thinks a lot of that is due providea need for transportation us to �ind them for emergency school, work and and short-term job |  | Fringe Expands be a challenge but they are currently to Fringe being held right before Gay interviews, and basic needs such as food, clothing and from pg.8 exploring options. Days. shelter,” said Foxworth in a media release. year’s event. With help from The With its location to so many LGBT “From mid-May to mid-June, There is a long list of client needs (available at Main Street Project, an expanded businesses, many see Fringe as a there’s a lot of gay in Orlando,” he WatermarkOnline.com) including bus passes, cleaning Lymmo route is being added, gay festival. joked. supplies, hygiene items and gift cards. pending funding, which would offer “We’re very pleased that we Campbell acknowledged the Donors are asked to drop off items at 911 N. Mills free transportation from downtown have high-gay content,” Wallace said. area’s diversity and hopes it will up Avenue, the future location of the Zebra Coalition through Loch Haven Park to Mills “Based on a 2010 survey, 24% of the festival’s—as he calls it— “queer House. |  | to Virginia and back. The only quotient” in Ivanhoe Village. |  | foreseeable issue is parking, which up to 30% this year.” patrons identi�ied as LGBT, which is 10 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. AUGUST 16-29, 2012 // ISSUE 19.17 watermarkonline.com If you’re considering LASIK…

Dr. Kelly Herschel Board Certi ed Ophthalmologist & Cornea Specialist

Consider… • ONE-ON-ONE CARE—from your free consult • EXPERIENCE–20 years of surgical excellence through all visits, with your surgeon • ADVANCED, ALL-LASER TECHNOLOGY • CORNEA SPECIALIST—it’s the part of the eye • BOUTIQUE PRACTICE, spa-inspired center, where the surgery is performed individualized care • OPTIONS—LASIK, PRK, Visian ICL, • AFFORDABLE-competitive pricing, multi-focal lenses 24-months no-interest nancing

Come explore your options. Meet Dr. Herschel. Find out why those who know choose Herschel Lasik.

407-894-8081 | www.LasikEyeOrlando.com 1911 N. Mills Ave., Suite 100 | Orlando, FL 32803

AUGUST 16-29, 2012 // ISSUE 19.17 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. 11 New name, location greets 9th AIDS Walk Zach Caruso [email protected]

T. PETERSBURG | The ninth annual AIDS Walk Tampa Bay is Saturday Sept. 8. While Smany aspects of the event will stay true to tradition, there are a few things that will make this tampa bay tampa year’s event a little different.

the annual walk. In previous years, the fundraiser was calledThe AIDS �irst andWalk most St. Petersburg. notable change However is the this name is the of

Walk Tampa Bay. RNC BASE: The Tampa Bay Times Forum will be teaming with Republicans—including members of the gay conservative groups �irst“We year changed the title it hasto be of�icially more in-line been changedwith our toother AIDS Log Cabin Republicans and GOProud— the weekend of Aug 24-26. events,” said AIDS Service Association of Pinellas

NEWS (ASAP) executive director William Harper. “There’s the Santa Speedo Run which is a Tampa Bay event, we have Dining Out For Life, which covers the whole Tampa Bay area, so we wanted to have all of our events be consistent and really acknowledge all of the areas that we serve.” is ASAP’s largest fundraiser and has traditionally Pink Elephants beenAIDS held Walk at North Tampa Shore Bay, Park,an of�icial but will 3.1 bemile held 5k thisevent, year at Vinoy Park. And with a new venue comes new features. “I disagree with [Romney] “This year it’s going to be expanded a bit,” on same-sex marriage, but said Harper. “There’s actually going to be more every issue is a gay issue. Gay entertainment along the route itself. Heretofore, that’s conservative, people are living in the Obama just been at the park itself at the start location, but Tampa prepares for an in�lux of economy too. We’re at a critical this year we’re going to have more support for the Steve Blanchard LGBT issues. point in our country’s history walkers along the route, more things going on for the [email protected] But the pair, and the party, and we have a failed president walkers along the route, and that’s going to be the have their supporters within on our hands. biggest change.” the LGBT community, and “That’s why we endorse Mitt Harper also says that he has seen support for the AMPA | Soon, the City those supporters plan to be Romney. He has the best shot of event grow over the years. of Tampa and its neigh- front and center in Tampa at beating Obama.” “We had one little hitch one year where we got bors will be swarming the RNC. Representatives of T GOProud, the only national rained out,” he said. “But believe it or not, we still had with delegates and supporters the gay conservative groups gay organization that has very strong donations just from people going online of the Republican National Con- GOProud and the Log Cabin vention. During the weekend endorsed Romney, will not up last year and we’re anticipating it being up again of Aug. 24-26, former Mas- only attend the thisand year.”coming by the of�ice. Participation was also way sachusetts governor Mitt “This is not a political RNC within the Harper added that sponsorship has risen in 2012, Romney will accept the party’s Tampa Bay Times and ASAP is happy to see the increased support from nomination for president. event, this is an economic Forum, but it will the corporate community. In addition, he says there This comes two weeks after development opportunity.” also hold its annual are numerous groups and individuals within the local his major announcement that Homocon celebration community who are steadfast in their dedication to Rep. will be his Vice —TAMPA MAYOR BOB BUCKHORN at The Honey Pot in Ybor the event in the way of participation and donations. Presidential candidate. City on Tuesday, Aug. 29, And with a goal of raising $125,000, Harper is For many , the views Republicans will support the beginning at 10:30 p.m. A list optimistic that the corporate sponsors and local of the Romney-Ryan team Republican nominee. of conservative speakers (see community will help that goal be realized. translates to a threat to equality. “The issues affecting our sidebar) are slated to attend the “It’s a challenge goal, it’s something to aim for,” Both men oppose marriage country and that are facing party held at one of Ybor City’s he said. “Last year we went over our goal with the equality and are criticized voters are bigger than one most popular LGBT night spots. by gay rights groups like the single issue,” said Jim LaSalvia, Also coming to Tampa are the Continued on page 10 |  | Human Rights Campaign GOProud executive director, regarding their stances on referring to same-sex marriage. Continued on page 15 |  |

12 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. AUGUST 16-29, 2012 // ISSUE 19.17 watermarkonline.com Live Music Series At Hyde Park Village Upcoming Concert Dates: September 26 and October 31 Wednesday, August 22, 7-10 pm Benefiting: Big Brothers Big Sisters Featured Band: Ben Bryan Band Rain Date: August 24

Celebrating 25 Years of Live Music in the Village! Complimentary Parking & Admission | Swann and Dakota Avenues, Tampa | hydeparkvillage.net

AUGUST 16-29, 2012 // ISSUE 19.17 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. 13 The Button Lady’s story of misplaced Pride Couples register in Greg Stemm said she was approached outside [email protected] Georgie’s Alibi by a male stranger. “Sitting at a table there was St. Pete, Clearwater a young man who admired my T. PETERSBURG | Anyone buttons,” said Fisher, adding that at Staff Report who’s ever been to a Pride 75, ‘young’ is relative. “He caught me Scelebration in Tampa Bay off guard by asking for one.” area has probably met Eunice Fisher. Fisher isn’t sure why, but she T. PETERSBURG | More than 20 couples Fisher says she has been to every refused to part with the button, lined up to register as domestic partners on Pride celebration on both sides of despite the man’s insistance. S the bay since the early 1990s. Be- However, moments later, she had a began registering couples in compliance with a new cause of the large number of inter- ordinance.Aug. The 1, thenew �irst domestic day the partnership City of St. Petersburg registry, esting and often provocative buttons the stranger in the crowd. modeled after a similar one put into place in Tampa she has pinned on her suspenders, change“Suddenly of heart, the but enormity she couldn’t of �ind tampa bay tampa earlier this year, allows unmarried couples, both gay jackets and clothing she may be my rudeness and heartlessness and straight, to register for protections within the city wearing, she has been affectionately was gnawing at me,” said Fisher, limits. dubbed by many as “the button lady,” sharing that the message on the In fact, Fisher has well over 500 but- button was a Christian statement. “I Councilman Steve Kornell and his partner, Bobby tons in her collection. realized I had just committed a very The �irst couple to register was St. Petersburg City Fisher said she’s collected unchristian act.” executive director Nadine Smith and her partner, buttons since the ’93 March on Fisher contacted Watermark in AndreaPoth. Also Hildebran on had the Smith. �irst The day women was Equality had their Florida young Washington and now has nearly hopes that its large readership will BUTTON LADY: Eunice Fisher has well over 500 buttons in her

NEWS son, Logan, in tow. help her reconnect with the stranger The registry allows for unmarried couples to be and peace-related events collection, and she wants to give one away to a man she met briefly at St. 500.“One She set �inds has buttons mostly gayat Pride “Even if I never hear from the Pete Pride. PHOTO COURTESY EUNICE FISHER visitation, funeral planning and a child’s education. messages, one set has a lot of peace youngshe only man, met this brie�ly. incident will remain noti�iedOn Aug. in cases6, the ofCity emergency, of Clearwater allows began for hospital registering buttons and one set has mainly a painful reminder that I should “The the button has been Christian or general religious be more tuned in to the feelings of replaced on my clothes by another,” the northern part of the county. Soon, the City of Largo messages,” said Fisher. “ everyone I encounter, rather than she said. “The one you want is in my coulddomestic join partners, the growing which list bene�itted of cities offering many livingDPRs in Now Fisher is attempting to suffer another lost opportunity to be pocket, ready to give you.” |  | Tampa Bay. right a wrong she felt that she kind,” said Fisher. If you are the man Fisher is seeking, “The Largo City Commission will bring the domestic precipitated at the most recent St. Fisher won’t share the button’s please contact Watermark editor Steve partnership registry to the Sept. 10 work session,” said Pete Pride celebration. message, but she›s ready to part Blanchard at Editor@watermarkonline. Largo commissioner Michael Smith. He added that After the 2012 festival, Fisher with it. Her message to the stranger? com and share the button’s message. the public won’t be able to speak at that particular meeting, but that the DPR is on its way to becoming a reality in the city, which has a checkered past with the LGBT community. Jackson falls in School Board race If the registry survives the Sept. 10 work session, the public will have a chance to voice its opinion on the Staff Report Clark’s 35%, Elliott Stern’s 25% County Commissioner who ordinance later in the month. and Shelly Ladd-Gilbert’s 21%. If ‘banned’ in 2005, took Pinellas County commissioners expect to discuss a no one gains more than 50% of more than 70% of the vote to beat county-wide registry at its Sept. 25 meeting. |  | T. PETERSBURG | Based the vote, the top two contenders incumbent Rob Turner. Storms on early returns Aug. 14, will face each other in a run-off targeted Turner’s position after out Pinellas County School election this November. the incumbent made headlines for S On the other side of the bay, sending inappropriate e-mails to Board candidate Jim Jackson Hillsborough creates won’t be representing District 1 the usually ho-hum race for co-workers. this school year. The candidate property appraiser received More election results are garnered 18% of the vote at press special attention when Ronda available at WatermarkOnline. Diversity Advisory group time, trailing incumbent Janet Storms, the former Hillsborough com. |  | Staff Report with their brothers and sisters community is one that is priceless. |  | AIDS Walk Gets a New who are there for the same cause, “Everyone is having a good Name from pg.8 AMPA | Hillsborough County Commissioners that is worth a million dollars time, but really they’re also have approved a proposal presented by Com- corporate sponsorships and of advertisement,” Harper said. helping to provide services for Tmissioner Kevin Beckner to create a county- private donations, so we keep it “Because when they tell their those living with HIV and AIDS,” wide Diversity Advisory Council. reasonable, but we also challenge friends and family about it, and he said. “It’s a real community- The group will work to facilitate communication ourselves.” someone needs our services, that driven event.” between the county government and diverse But in the end, Harper says the word of mouth has educated them For more information on AIDS populations throughout the county, including the LGBT event is really about one thing— and they’ll know what we can Walk Tampa Bay or to register or community. The council will also advise the County camaraderie. do for the community and what donate, visit AIDSWalkTampaBay. Commission and county staff on issues related to “When people come out and services we can provide.” org. For more information on diversity affecting the County Government. |  | participate and they see what’s In addition, Harper feels the ASAP and its services, visit going on and feel the camaraderie connection between ASAP and the ASAPServices.org. |  |

14 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. AUGUST 16-29, 2012 // ISSUE 19.17 watermarkonline.com |  | Republican National Convention from pg.12 Log Cabin Republicans, the older gay conservative group which [Paul] Ryan is a strong choice

Romney for president. But that’shas yet not to outof�icially of the endorse ordinary, for vice president, and his addition according to executive director R. Clarke Cooper. “We don’t endorse [before to the GOP ticket will help Republican the RNC],” Cooper explained. “It’s out of protocol. Normally organizations are ancillary candidates up and down the ballot. pieces of the party and we don’t endorse until the convention. —R. CLARKE COOPER, EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR, LOG CABIN REPUBLICANS One of two things will happen in Tampa: Organizations will endorse a candidate or they won’t. It’s either A Point Drive in Tampa and on strong choice for vice president, the discriminatory death or B, and it’s not until the Aug. 27, the group will celebrate and his addition to the GOP tax and for free market GOProud Homocon convention is underway.” the Gay and Lesbian Victory ticket will help Republican reforms to healthcare ANNOUNCES GUEST SPEAKERS In May, Romney secured Fund at Oystercatchers within candidates up and down that will expand access to the Grand Hyatt Tampa Bay the ballot,” Cooper said. “As The Honey Pot, Ybor City, enough delegates to secure the Tuesday, Aug. 29, 10:30 p.m. nomination, so the convention from 3-5 p.m. chairman of the House Budget domestic partner bene�its.” David Keene: former chair of is essentially a party celebrating The GOProud contingent Committee and author of the MAKING THEIR POINT According to both LaSalvia the American Conservative that, rather than choosing a Republican ‘path to prosperity’ and Cooper, being a gay Union and Vice-Chair of CPAC Republican contender to face where its members will stay, that provided the blueprint hasn’t announced speci�ically Mary Matalin: Author, President Obama in November. but LaSalvia said he encourages for serious spending cuts members to get as close to the in this Congress, nobody is especially among the left- CNN contributor and long- Tampa Bay Times Forum, and leaningconservative LGBT can community. be dif�icult, But time GOP operative ECONOMIC BOOST Richard Grenell: Former U.S. Regardless of political Ybor City, as possible. conservative economic vision to conservatism is the way to a “I came to Tampa last fall restoremore quali�ied the American to articulate economy a prosperous future in America, Spokesman for the United Nations to scout it out,” LaSalvia said. and stimulate job creation.” both say, and sharing that Amy Kremer: Chair of the RNC will bring a much the Tea Party Express welcomeaf�iliation, economic it’s obvious boost that to “Mariruth Kennedy of the While both Cooper and message while in Tampa is the Dana Loesch: Contributor the Tampa Bay area. Local Tampa Bay Business Guild LaSalvia praised Ryan’s 2007 goal of both groups. showed me around and vote in favor of the Employment But many question why the to Breitbart.com, radio host businesses like restaurants and and CNN contributor hotels are expecting an uptick Mark Bias and Carrie West Nondiscrimination Act, the RNC is necessary, given that the showed me around Ybor City. Human Rights Campaign sees Romney-Ryan ticket is a shoo-in Larry O’Connor: Editor of in their coffers and the national Breitbart.tv and radio host media spotlight is invaluable for I loved it there and knew it his selection as counter to for the nomination. would be a perfect setting for LGBT equality. “The reason the convention S.E. Cupp: Author and co- the Tampa Bay region, according host of MSNBC’s The Cycle to Tampa Mayor Bob Buckhorn. our main event—Homocon. “Paul Ryan does not support is happening, is to nominate LaSalvia said Homocon LGBT families, and has voted Romney to be President of Will Cain: Analyst for The “The convention is an Blaze and CNN contributor international event of the is a tradition now for gay against allowing gay and lesbian the United States,” LaSalvia Margaret Hoover: Former magnitude of nothing we’ve conservatives and bringing the couples to adopt,” the HRC said. “Any right-of-center signature event to a premier said in a statement. “He voted organization going to Tampa FOX News contributor, author ever done before,” Buckhorn and CNN contributor said. “Other than the Olympics, stage like the RNC is an against protections. darn-well better be going to this will be the most watched opportunity the organization did He opposed repealing Don’t elect Romney as president. television event in the world not want to miss. Ask, Don’t Tell, and he does not That’s why we’re going.” this year. We will have support marriage equality.” LaSalvia is excited about Log Cabin Republican 15,000 journalists alone STRANGE BEDFELLOWS? LaSalvia disagrees with the Romney’s presidential run, and For many in the LGBT HRC’s point of view. he believes the RNC will boost SCHEDULE OF EVENTS in Tampa for this.” Note: Guests must RSVP through And it’s an opportunity to community, hearing about “The selection of Ryan is a Romney’s popularity. strong, gay support for a bold and inspired pick,” LaSalvia “Most gay Americans, like LogCabin.org to attend events showcase Tampa and to relay a Sunday, August 26 positive message, Buckhorn said. presidential candidate who said. “He has been the architect their straight counterparts, are “This is not a political event,” openly opposes same-sex not better off than they were Florida Welcome Reception: The Rusty Pelican, 5-7 p.m. the democratic mayor said. “This marriage and supports a all Americans, especially gay four years ago,” LaSalvia said. of policies that would bene�it is an economic development constitutional amendment Americans. Like all Americans, “The truth is that gay people are Monday, Aug. 27 opportunity.” gays and in this country living in the disastrous failed ‘Republicans Out to Win’ with the The LCR will set up at the one man and one woman is are concerned with the out-of- Obama economy too. President Gay and Lesbian Victory Fund: confusing,de�ining marriage if not frustrating. as between control spending and growing Obama and his friends on the Oystercatchers at the Grand Sheraton Sand Key Resort Hyatt Tampa Bay, 3-5 p.m. on Clearwater Beach and its With the recent news that mountains of unsustainable left want this election to be Romney chose conservative federal debt.” about divisive social issues Wednesday, Aug. 29 directed to The Flamingo Resort Rep. Paul Ryan as his running LaSalvia added that GOProud because the President’s record ‘Young Conservatives for the inover�low St. Petersburg. guests have Throughout been mate may cause more LGBTs believes Ryan’s Social Security on jobs and the economy is Freedom to Marry’: Holland & Knight, 10 a.m.-noon the weekend, the LCR will hold to scratch their heads at the reforms would end the indefensible.” special receptions throughout enthusiasm of gay conservatives. government’s LaSalvia, and GOProud, Thursday, August 30 Tampa Bay. On Aug. 26, a mix But Cooper is excited by the against gay couples through believes Romney has the ‘Celebrating Congressional and mingle is slated for 5-7 p.m. Romney-Ryan pairing. personal savings accounts. experience to “turn the economy Allies’: 108 S. Morgan at The Rusty Pelican on N. Rocky “Congressman Ryan is a “He has voted to end around.” |  | St., Tampa, 4-6 p.m.

AUGUST 16-29, 2012 // ISSUE 19.17 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. 15 Gay ‘Welcome Back, Kotter’ star dies S. Florida town hall Staff Report Gramm, called for an ambulance Boy, which was produced in 2005 at around 4 a.m., Tuesday, Aug. 14. in New York. He also appeared in addresses Palillo was pronounced dead at numerous Broadway productions.

state ALM BEACH GARDENS, FLA. the hospital. Although Palillo shared his life Staff Report | Openly gay Ron Palillo, who From 1975 through 1979, Palillo with a man for more than four Pis best known for playing high starred alongside John Travolta’s decades - including during the run of school student Arnold Dingfelder Vinnie Barbarino and others on the the show - he was not widely known NORTH MIAMI | Former CBS news reporter Aleen Horshack on the ABC comedy ABC sitcom. to be gay. Sirgany publicly came out as a lesbian and introduced sitcom Welcome Back, Kotter, has Palillo authored two children’s Palillo had been teaching at the died. He was 63. books, The Red Wings of G-Star School of the Arts in West 3 breast cancer, during an emotional town hall meeting TMZ.com reported that Palillo’s Christmas and A Gift for the Contessa, Palm Beach for the past three years, inher North longtime Miami partner, to discuss Andrea anti-gay Deeb, bulling who is and �ighting marriage stage longtime partner of 41 years, Joseph and wrote a full length play, The Lost according to TMZ. |  | NEWS equality on Aug. 8. “I never spoke out, ever, ever, ever,” Sirgany said. “But it’s really the death rate of these kids that’s so troubling to me. Shame on me for not saying something sooner. Jacksonville HRO may ax transgender protections The town hall meeting at Temple Beth Moshe in North Miami was moderated by synagogue Rabbi Jory Lang Staff Report Jones’ bill removes “gender is taking an “all or none” approach and featured panelists from conservative and liberal identity” and “” in arguing for protections for the organizations and churches. as protected classes, both of which LGBT community. Executive Director During the meeting, 21-year-old gay Haitian-American JACKSONVILLE, FLA. | An updated were included in the original Nadine Smith called the changes Human Rights Ordinance submitted bill. The change could make the “absolutely unacceptable.” broke down in tears, sharing his story of trying to defeat by councilman Warren jones could legislation more likely to pass since If the new language is adopted his . ax protections for transgender several council members said they and the HRO passes, Jacksonville’s Most of the discussion at the forum focused on individuals in Jacksonville. Equality are now more likely to vote for the transgender residents would no marriage equality and bullying, which is what prompted Florida is challenging the changes updated ordinance. longer be included and could face Sirgany to speak out. |  | that could eventually include As with other HRO battles discrimination based on gender sexual orientation. across the state, Equality Florida stereotpes. |  |

We Are Pleased To Announce Three New Programs: Mental Health Counseling Substance Abuse Counseling Department of Health Eligibility Screening for Ryan White Programs and Services We Continue To Offer: Family Case Management Ryan White Case Management Project AIDS Care (PAC) Case Management Comprehensive Risk Counseling and Services (CRCS) VOICES (Condom Negotiations Skills classes) Limited Emergency Financial Assistance Medical Co-Pay Assistance Program Food and Personal Needs Pantry Brighter Seasons for Children Free Rapid HIV Testing Advance Care Planning ANNOUNCE IT. Monthly Client Dinner RENT IT. Social Support Group HIV Update Classes SELL IT. • Eligibility Requirements Apply • POST IT. Visit us or call one of our three locations in Pinellas County: 3050 1st Ave South 1214 Cleveland Street 4601 34th Street South St. Petersburg Clearwater Flamingo Resort/St. Petersburg watermark 727-328-3260 727-449-2437 727-321-7600 www.asapservices.org and LIKE us on Facebook classifi eds

16 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. AUGUST 16-29, 2012 // ISSUE 19.17 watermarkonline.com NEWS Gay ‘Welcome Back, Kotter’ star dies Democrats embrace marriage equality IN OTHER NEWS WOMAN BECOMES FIRST OPENLY GAY GENERAL issues and national defense and “We also support the freedom Wire Report On Aug. 11, Tammy S. Smith, 49, a 26-year veteran next goes for approval to the of churches and religious entities of the Army, was promoted to brigadier general in national convention in North to decide how to administer a ceremony at the women’s memorial at Arlington nation+world ETROIT, MICH. | The Carolina in September. marriage as a religious sacrament National Cemetery. Smith openly acknowledged her national Democratic Scott Dibble, a committee without government interference,’’ wife, Tracey Hepner, when Hapner pinned a star to DParty’s platform member and a state senator from the platform says. her uniform, thus becoming the first openly gay officer committee on Aug. 11 endorsed Minnesota, said support for gay In May, President Barack of flag rank in the United States military. The couple marriage can attract new voters. Obama said he personally married in March 2011 in the District of Columbia. time and called for the repeal “Young people are looking for a supported marriage equality. ofmarriage a federal equality law that for recognizes the �irst political home right now. This has The platform also calls for NEVADA JUDGE SETS DATE FOR marriage as only between a man repeal of a 1996 law, signed by MARRIAGE EQUALITY ARGUMENTS and a woman. of our time,’’ said Dibble, who is Democratic President , The committee let stand gay.become a de�ining moral question which recognizes marriage as Las Vegas U.S. District Chief Judge Robert Jones said he’ll hear oral arguments Nov. 26 on a national gay rights the work of a separate group The platform says Democrats between a man and woman. Some that drafted the platform in advocacy group’s lawsuit challenging Nevada’s ban on support “marriage equality’’ federal courts have struck the law same-sex marriage. The Lambda Legal lawsuit focuses on Minneapolis. The platform is a and the “movement to secure down as unconstitutional. |  | differences between rights granted by the state Legislature broad statement of the party’s equal treatment under law for with a domestic partnership law in 2009 and a gay marriage priorities on the economy, social same-sex couples.’’ ban that voters made part of the state constitution in 2002.

OBAMA OPPOSES BOY Federal judge rules against Hawaii marriage equality SCOUTS’ BAN ON GAYS On Aug. 8, President shared his belief that the Boy Scouts is a valuable organization but to intervene in the case. they need to be married in order Wire Report that he opposes discrimination in all forms—including “Accordingly, Hawaii’s marriage the youth organization’s policy of excluding gays as laws are not unconstitutional,’’ Co-plaintiff Gary Bradley wants members and adult leaders. The Boy Scouts say it HONOLULU | A federal judge on the ruling states. “Nationwide, to marryget certain his foreign federal national bene�its. respects Obama’s opinion and believe that “good Aug. 8 ruled against two Hawaii citizens are engaged in a partner to help him change people’’ can disagree on the subject and still work women who want to get married robust debate over this divisive his immigration status. Their together to “accomplish the common good.’’ instead of enter into a , social issue. If the traditional attorney, John D’Amato, said they handing a victory to opponents of institution of marriage is to will appeal. MAN FALSELY REPORTED BEATING marriage equality in a state that’s be reconstructed, as sought by been at the forefront of the issue. the plaintiffs, it should be done protecting and strengthening A man who reported being beaten outside a bar because U.S. District Court Judge Alan by a democratically elected marriage“The ruling as the af�irms union thatof one man he’s gay pleaded guilty Aug. 7 to filing a false police report after a video surfaced of him trying to do a back flip off C. Kay’s ruling sides with Hawaii legislature or the people through and one woman is legitimate, a curb and hitting his face on the sidewalk. Police say Health Director Loretta Fuddy a constitutional amendment,’’ and reasonable, and good for society,’’ Joseph Baken claimed three men beat him early Aug. 5 and Hawaii Family Forum, a not through the courts. said Dale Schowengerdt, an after he went into a bar, announced it was his birthday Christian group that was allowed The lawsuit by Natasha attorney representing Hawaii and asked if anyone knew where he could find a . Jackson and Janin Kleid argues Family Forum. |  | HRC: $1M IN GAY MARRIAGE FIGHTS The country’s leading gay rights group is donating U.S. to weigh gay relationships in deportation cases $1 million to campaigns in four states where gay marriage is on the ballot this fall. The Human Rights Campaign is donating $250,000 apiece to allies in Marsha Catron, a spokeswoman Wire Report possible deportation. Maine, Maryland, Minnesota and Washington. for the Department of Homeland The Obama administration Security. last year said it considers DOMA SAN FRANCISCO, CALIF. | However, the Obama unconstitutional and would no OUTED CANDIDATE WITHDRAWS Amid pressure from Democratic administration will not longer defend it in court. A Democratic state House hopeful who was lawmakers, Homeland Security automatically shelve deportation Catron’s statement, which accidentally outed as a bisexual by a party colleague cases or process green card builds on comments Homeland earlier this year withdrew from his race on Aug. 6. a foreigner’s longstanding same- applications involving foreign Nate Murphy, 23, of Pocatello was accidentally outed in March after Idaho’s only openly gay lawmaker, sexof�icials relationship on Aug. 3with reiterated a U.S. citizen that citizens married to same-sex summer, came three days after 84 Security of�icials made last Sen. Nicole LeFavour of Boise, told The New York could help stave off the threat of American partners. lawmakers led by House Minority Times that Murphy would be taking up her legacy. deportation. Catron said Homeland Security Leader demanded Bi-national gay couples are will continue to comply with the the agency put its position eligible for consideration under Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA), in writing and disseminate it PROP 8 COMMITTEE FACING FINES a federal program designed to a 1996 law that prohibits the to Immigration and Customs California’s anti-marriage equality Proposition 8 campaign focus resources away from low- government from recognizing committee is facing $49,000 in fines for its handling and priority deportation cases and let same-sex relationships, even as same-sex couples together. |  | reporting of political contributions. The enforcement it takes these relationships into Enforcement of�ices to help keep staff of the state Fair Political Practices Commission has down convicted criminals, said consideration when evaluating proposed the fines on 18 counts against ProtectMarriage. of�icials spend more time tracking com—Yes on 8, stemming from the committee’s repeated failure to properly disclose contributions.

AUGUST 16-29, 2012 // ISSUE 19.17 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. 17 MEET JOHAN & BRANDON

Johan and Brandon met at work and a whirlwind romance later, they made a lifetime commitment. Each wanted to start their new life in a new home. After an exhaustive search, they chose Savannah at Park Central. They can join friends for drinks at Blue Martini, find the most recent fashions at the Mall at Millenia or relax at home in one of several pools, one of two fitness centers, 4 tennis courts, 2 sand volleyball courts or in the comfort of their spectacularly large 2 bedroom apartment. They are also looking to add a four-legged friend to the family. This is Johan and Brandon’s life at Savannah at Park Central. What will yours be like?

2691 Charleston Town Place Orlando, FL 32839 888.711.4353 LiveSavannahPC.com

18 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. AUGUST 16-29, 2012 // ISSUE 19.17 watermarkonline.com And I thought “My, how things have calling for equal treatment for same- role in advancing the cause, but this changed!” sex adoptive parents President has passionately embraced I recall the last President pounding all of us. No matter what political housing discrimination based on ideology, or economic philosophy, defend the country from the evils of sexual• Announced orientation HUD andrule genderpreventing identity you may support, nothing is more his �ist on a podium and swearing to important than securing our civic every LGBT civil rights initiative, equality and our dignity as human andsame-sex cynically marriage, using homophobia�ighting against as beings. President Obama is doing • Nominated numerous gay nominees a campaign strategy. That President courageous and amazing things and con�irmed to the federal bench repeatedly punched us in the gut. receive respectful care through the he deserves our full-throated and President Obama did something Veterans• Ensured Health transgender Administration veterans unequivocal support. When I recover truly extraordinary. He became the from the swoon from “The Kiss,” I to the U.S Supreme Court intend to return his embrace of our • Appointed two pro-gay rights judges community, and will do everything I �irst sitting President, and the most endorse same-sex marriage and our That Presidential kiss on my cheek can to make sure he gets re-elected to in�luential person ever, to publicly right to enjoy all of those 1,138 rights was• Publicly a sweet endorsed reward marriagefor my small equality! another term, so that our journey to Me equality will be complete. |  | and Potus: I remember speaking at the LGBT rallyand bene�its. at Orlando City Hall right after the ‘The Kiss’ 2008 election, when our community was elated at the election of Barack Obama but simultaneously devastated by the passage of Amendment 2. I said then, “We have to look ahead. The election of Barack Obama will represent a sea change for our community.” I admit I had some doubts and concerns early on. Was he moving fast enough? Was he passionate enough? But all doubts are long gone. Consider just some of the President’s LGBT accomplishments:

Mary Meeks Hate Crimes Act. [email protected] • The Matthew Shepard/James Byrd living loud

of• Repeal Marriage of “Don’t Act, and Ask supports Don’t Tell” it’s• Ceased repeal enforcement of the Defense UG. 2 WAS A REMARKABLE day for me. After President sex• Ordered partners cabinet secretaries to Obama’s campaign appearance extend all possible bene�its to same- atA Rollins College, I met privately with Pride reception • Hosted �irst-ever White House LGBT him as a reward for my activism on LGBT Elders behalf of the LGBT community. The • Created National Resource Center for Conference on Bullying Prevention in most powerful man in the world gave America’s• Hosted �irst-ever schools White House me a hug and thanked me for my efforts. Leave Act to ensure family leave for Amazingly, he even planted a kiss on my right cheek! LGBT• Clari�ied employees Family and Medical During these two surreal minutes, I thanked the President for his incredible support for LGBT equality, and he went out of his way to send greetings to my wife, to receive true gender passports Vicki, by name. If I didn’t have photographic evidence of without• Allowed surgery transgender Americans our meeting, I could easily believe I had dreamt it. The President of the United restore ‘sexual orientation’ States (“POTUS”), who • Led a United Nations measure to has transformed the That Presidential kiss worldwide conversation on my cheek was a sweetto theever de�inition U.S. government of human about LGBT rights in a rights;strategy created dedicated �irst- way that now leads me reward for my small role to combating human to believe we will achieve rights abuses against equality in my lifetime, in advancing the cause. LGBT persons abroad thanked me? After I left his side, my mind drifted back to that “family” to include LGBT relationships, helping to protect• bi-national Clari�ied meaning families of world planted that kiss on my cheek in appreciation for threatened by deportation meearlier having moment waged when that thetoxic most battle in�luential for LGBT person equality. in the

• Issued presidential proclamation AUGUST 16-29, 2012 // ISSUE 19.17 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. 19 It’s all about pride!

• Specializing in Gynecomastia Reduction (Male Breast Reduction) • Facelift • Eye Lift • Rhinoplasty • Liposuction • Laser Hair Removal • Injectables & Fillers • Professional Skincare • Private, on-site accredited surgery center • Financing available

Before gynecomastia surgery After gynecomastia surgery Actual patient of Dr. Pope “There is really no way to say thanks that does justice to the fact that I am a completely new person. The past year has been the best of my adult life. I went from avoiding any social contact at all to a full date book. I know I have said it 1000 times, but I really don’t know how to thank you for changing my life”.--T.G.

407.857.6261 orlandoplasticsurgerycenter.com 3872 Oakwater Circle • Orlando, Florida George H. Pope, MD, FACS [email protected]

20 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. AUGUST 16-29, 2012 // ISSUE 19.17 watermarkonline.com accountability and market constraints government by lowering taxes, should be riveting. and is wasteful and de-motivating. mostly for middle and upper class Of course, the choice for LGBT Most Americans believe these Americans, and diminishing the social voters is stark. Obama has advanced things to at least some degree. They lie safety net comprised of Medicare, at the heart of our capitalist economy. Medicaid and Social Security. It is and would continue to do so during While wholeheartedly endorsing naïve, philosophically limited and aLGBT second equality term. inRomney signi�icant and ways,Ryan free enterprise, Democrats emphasize unsupported by fact or history; the both support a federal constitutional the importance of government product of a privileged white Roman amendment banning marriage to provide essentials—schools, Catholic male who discovered Ayn equality. But they prefer to sidestep infrastructure, health care—that Rand in the bedroom of his family’s issues of LGBT equality. Since 2004, create opportunity and security for stately Janesville, Wis. home. the percentage of Republicans under all. And they note that government But it is pure, and will force 30 who favor marriage equality has must monitor and regulate greed and President Obama to similarly focus his grown from 28% to 37%. It could be Tea Time vision for addressing unemployment, more than half by the next election. in Tampa ultimately penalize everyone. In the future, perhaps concurrence otherWe sel�ish forget humanthat elections behaviors are that looming unsustainable entitlements. on that issue will serve as a reminder supposed to be the means by which Theeconomic upcoming investment, candidate the debates de�icit and that we’re all in this together. |  | we debate and determine the balance between these competing philosophical impulses. The common

our nation’s challenges is all but lost in thegoal land of �inding of 24-hour the best cable solutions news, special to interest super-PACs and negative ads. Two different types of Republicans have risen to prominence. Both will be on display in Tampa later this month. One is evil, the other worthy of consideration and even respect. Tom Dyer Power-based Republicans want [email protected] PUBLISHER’S perspective

control of government to bene�it a few Ronaldin�luential Reagan—that constituencies. they They elect tend withto cultivate fear-based �igurehead campaigns candidates— and then HE REPUBLICANS ARE COMING! For Democrats in Tampa Bay, Compromise is counter-productive. Themanipulate overall well-beingtoward sel�ish of the ends. nation is home turf is being turned secondary at best. over to the rival team. And for many The best expression of this power- T based focus was made by Senate Watermark readers, the invasion will Minority Leader Mitch McConnell feel downright hostile. (R-Ky.). With high-unemployment, Let’s face it: the GOP has consistently obstructed circumstances and two ongoing wars, every step toward full LGBT equality. Access to open hecrushing was asked de�icits, to list precarious his priorities economic if military service and same-sex marriage rights are just Republicans gained the majority in the most notable recent examples. the Senate in 2010. His response: “For Political conventions bring out the most extreme, President Obama to be a one-term obnoxious partisans. president.” The Republican National Judging the GOP Policy-based Convention at the “Tea Party” Tampa Bay Times Forum based on their convention Republicans, will be no exception. But on the other judging the GOP based on is like judging Florida hand, sincerely their convention is like Gators based on believe that small judging Florida Gators based government is the on the frat section at Ben the frat section at Ben key to our nation’s future well-being the last quarter of a Florida Hill Griffin Stadium. and productivity. StateHill Grif�in game. Stadium during Their evangelical They’re not all like that. And in important ways the certainty is off-putting, and their current presidential ticket marks a refreshing change. recent unwillingness to compromise is With the addition of vice-presidential nominee Paul arrogant. Ryan, we are closer to engaging the key political issue Republican presidential candidate of these dark economic times—the role and size of Mitt Romney nonetheless shed light government—than in past election cycles. on his perspective with his choice of At their core, Republicans believe in limited a running mate. Ryan of is certainly a government. They believe if productive people are policy-based Republican. unencumbered by taxes and regulations they will create His proposed federal budget abundance. Government, on the other hand, lacks plan would fundamentally reshape

AUGUST 16-29, 2012 // ISSUE 19.17 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. 21 A   e pain…   e ine,   hole o  u. A   Innoa e A A Entertainmen perience • Step-by-Step Instruction • Paint & Canvas Provided • Leave with a completed One-Of-A-Kind Work of Art 2-Hour Classes: $35/pp 3-Hour Classes: $45/pp Piate Par e Aailable Make  Resera o & Vis‡ ˆ Pain n‰ Calendar Online 6700 Conroy-Windermere Road, Suite 125 • (407) 601-7800 www.paintingwithatwist.com/orlando Painting with a Twist-Orlando-FL

OVER 12,000 sq. ft. Amazing Dealers VintagE, antiquEs & aRt fOR thE hOmE OF SPECTACULAR VINTAGE SHOPPING {undER O n E ROOf} OPEN DAILY 1215 E. aLtamOntE dR. ALTAMONTE SPRINGS 10 AM - 7 PM 407.900.9825 f LORida 32701

22 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. AUGUST 16-29, 2012 // ISSUE 19.17 watermarkonline.com TALKING POINTS I accept people as they are; that’s not my place to judge. I ain’t God and I ain’t runnin’ for office. —DOLLY PARTON, DISCUSSING HER GAY FAN BASE

The rating to an article in The Examiner, RUSSIA TAKES ON MADONNA % Maisani was photographed GOP Vice Presidential COOPER’S MAN kissing a dark-haired man at a New York park nominee Paul Ryan earlier this summer. received from the Human Rights CHEATING? Cooper had announced 0 he hoped to marry his Campaign for his anti-gay stances partner of three years as soon as Labor Day weekend. The “secret relationship” ORGET MADONNA VS. ELTON JOHN. Now it’s Russian between the two hasn’t President Vladimir Putin’s staff vs. the Material Girl. been all that secret over that FMadonna has become an advocate for the jailed Rus- UST A MONTH AFTER time, and they live together sian band Pussy Riot and released concert footage in Rus- PUBLICLY ACKNOWL- in Cooper’s townhouse sia in support of LGBT rights. Her not-so-candid thoughts $10,000 EDGING HE IS GAY, An- apartment in New York. sparked threats of violence to concertgoers in the notori- J ously anti-gay former Soviet Union The amount MItt Romney has donated to the derson Cooper is back in the No word on how headlines, but not for a good legitimate the news Madonna has refused to back down, saying on video, “I National Organization for Marriage, which reason. It seems his long- of Maisani’s supposed am here to say that the gay community and gay people here opposes marriage equality and LGBT rights. time, hunky boyfriend Ben and all around the world have the same rights!” Maisani may be cheating on hadn’t responded to the Putin’s spokesperson wasn’t impressed, tweeting, “Every the CNN anchor. According newsin�idelity as of is, press and Coopertime. |  | ex-whore tends to lecture everybody with age. Especially —Source: MSNBC, Kinsey Institute, June 20, 2012 during world tours and concerts.” |  | CHICK-ON-CHICK FILET AT BEAVER’S WATERMARKONLINE.COM POLL ES, YOU READ THAT the Chick-Fil-A folks have re- described as “two loving HEADLINE RIGHT. The ceived backlash (and support) chicken breasts married Ynewest, tasty treat at thanks to its CEO’s opposition on toasty buns with honey a lesbian-owned restaurant to marriage equality. Calls for mustard witness and joined in ARE YOU A VOTER? ironically (or not) named Bea- boycotts have made chicken a celebration with tolerant fries.” ver’s Restaurant in Houston is political statement. Two breasts have having its say (and raking in But at Beaver’s, chicken never sounded so good to Yes, I voted in the primary some cash) on the Chick-Fil-A isn’t a means for hate. The , ever. |  | and will vote in November. controversy. For the unaware,

new Chick-on-Chick �ilet is Yes, but I skipped SEE YOUR PEOPLE ARE TALKING AT WATERMARKONLINE.COM 14% the primary. NOT EVERYONE AGREED “If I were in Orlando I would “A corporation contributing WITH WATERMARK’S vote for Joe Saunders.” millions towards global hate 7% Sometimes COMMENT I try to vote but 2012 PRIMARY —JIM MERRITT groups that condone the VOTERS GUIDE: murder of LGBT people? sometimes don’t. What is supposed to be ON CHICK-FIL-A HERE! “[Antoinette] Plogstedt for more pressing?” head over to judge not [Adam] Mcginnis BOYCOTT, PROTESTS: —COCO PAZZO watermark0nline.com like you have recommended. “We really need to focus on 7% No. and tell us what He has no experience.” more pressing issues.” I opt out of politics. YOU think. —ROB NICOLETTI —MARCUS RANDALL SPEED

AUGUST 16-29, 2012 // ISSUE 19.17 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. 23 24 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. AUGUST 16-29, 2012 // ISSUE 19.17 watermarkonline.com ARTS & ENTERTAINMENT

FabulousThe Fabulous Independent Film Festival keepsfor LGBT films relevantfilms in Sarasota

Stephen Warne [email protected] second year Aug. 17-19. presenting a ticket for the According to Magida She was on the board Sassy Pants ARASOTA SARASOTA HAS A WELL- Diouri, managing director and oftoken directors LGBT at�ilms. ALSO Youth presented by Watermark, will programmer of the festival, the for several years in the receiveopening a night free cocktail. �ilm Food deserved reputation for being a town festival is organized by Broken mid-2000’s, and last year and drink specials are available that devotes much of its time and talent Rules Production in association she founded the Fabulous throughout the night. with the Harvey Milk Festival, Independent Film Festival. The FIFF closes on Sunday, S Aug. 19, with a 9:30 p.m. party which celebrated its third This year, the Fabulous anniversary earlier this year. Independent Film Festival at Caragiulos, 69 South Palm to the arts. Theater, music and �ilm thrive “The Fabulous Independent begins on Friday, Aug. 17, with Ave., Sarasota. particular have seen a boon in recent years. Film Festival celebrates a 10 p.m. pre-party celebration Film lovers can see the festival’s selections at Burns alongBut up Florida’s until last year, West there CoastFestival and showcased �ilm festivals some in diversity and acceptance and at Throb Nightclub. Admission Court Cinema at 506 Burns seemed to be a missing part fabulous movies. is sponsored by the Sarasota is $5 at the door—$3 if patrons Lane. Here’s a quick look at this in the overall wheel of the But it wasn’t until last Film Society,” Diouri says. She is year’s selections: summer that residents also the founder of the FIFF and On Saturday, Aug. 18, the Sarasota Film Festival squeezed witnessed the arrival of the worked with the Sarasota Film openingmention nightthe �ilm party festival. begins at celebration of �ilms. Sure, the Fabulous Independent Film Society in the past to make sure 9:15 p.m. at Eat Here, 1888 Continued on page 28 |  | and the small LGBT Film Festival, which returns for its each year included more than Main St., Sarasota, and those in some LGBT-focused �ilms

AUGUST 16-29, 2012 // ISSUE 19.17 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. 25 Arie Groen’s property maintenance Commercial and Residential Licensed specializing in:

■installation ■Mulch of sod ■Irrigation ■Ornamentals ■pressure ■Trimming washing ■Elevating Palms ■Trees

servicing orlando & tampa

Arie Groen’s Property Maintenance (727)505-0205 • [email protected]

26 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. AUGUST 16-29, 2012 // ISSUE 19.17 watermarkonline.com Cillian Murphy in Red Lights. CJ Adams in Timothy Green.

Red Lights The Odd Life of Timothy Green Starring Sigourney Weaver, Robert DeNiro, Cillian Murphy, Elizabeth Olsen Starring Jennifer Garner, Joel Edgerton, ED LIGHTS IS AN INTERESTING CJ Adams, Dianne Wiest FAILURE, with a black-hole logic gap so gargantuan, it’s a wonder HAT THIS DISNEY FLICK R LACKS IN SUBTLETY, it is how to describe why this is terrible makes up for in cloying, Zoe Kazan and Paul Dano in super-sweet Ruby Sparks. W stuffthe �ilm without ever gotdestroying made. The the challenge purported diabetes-inducing sweetness. My plot twist, because the subject is friend who saw this with me said that probably something that audiences are clamoring for. just smack you over the head, it drags the �ilm’s saccharine approach doesn’t Weaver and Murphy are doctors you into a dark corner, beats the hell in an underfunded university department. They investigate your pockets for extra sugar packets. out of you, and then ri�les through paranormal activity for hoaxes Edgerton and Garner are Screened Out and charlatans. They both have a small-town couple who’ve longed for a child. When the their reasons for uncovering RATINGS GUIDE MOVIE REVIEWS frauds, and they’re good medical report comes back at what they do. However, that they can never succeed, when megastar, blind psychic they mourn. Their grief takes Overflowing DeNiro comes out of a 30-year a special tact. They write with glittery down attributes of their Miracles for Morons retirement, Murphy wants fabulousness to take him on while Weaver perfect child and then bury inexplicably shies away. these papers in Garner’s The cast list is impressive, Pretty damn beloved garden. That night a good, but it’s no miracle occurs and the garden OME MOVIES ARE LIKE QUESTIONABLE Sunset Boulevard Director/writer/editor Roberto sprouts Timothy (Adams). Ruby Sparks miracles, meaning you have to give them Cortesand the attracted �ilming is great slick. talent— He’s a small boy with leaves and a few million in production An entertaining growing out of his ankles, and money—despite the fact that, enough flick he’s come to teach his ersatz Starring Paul Dano, Zoe Kazan, with perhaps Swork. I wish I could believe charming at the end, the movie makes no parents some skills. Chris Messina, Annette Bening, Ruby a few holes Antonio Banderas, Steve Coogan the, but bene�it it’s just of thea mite doubt too or full they of itself. don’t sense whatsoever. Sparks It’s a cool concept, it’s for parents, why do the Who’s this �ilm for? If There’s a pretty obvious underpinning fatally executed. The trick Ever so slightly dialogue and plot sound pretentiousness on its of feminism here. Kazan spins the old yarn is how I can explain this to watchable, just like they were written for a sleeve,This right�lick wearsnext to about straight men trying to manipulate audiences without ruining it for that hot actor kindergarten play? If it’s for its heart. their perfect women, instead of setting them for an audience who I think kids, why are the parents the protagonists? If this is a Dano portrays a famous deserves better. Two hours of author clumsily named a little heavy-handed, as in Bening’s hippie Let’s try this: if you spent a your life you’ll magical allegory, why is the Calvin Weir-Fields. For no dippyfree like mother the butter�lies character—who women onceare. Itherself gets never get back art direction so realistically Stephen Miller reason, he works on an old-fashioned broke free of the fetters of an Alpha male, and try to boil water, and then the dull and the pace so slow? typewriter. He also suffers writers who has apparently had little to no positive endwhole reveals �ilm watching he is a four-star someone chef, you’d Garner is pretty wooden, and the block in all the cliché ways. Then he be pissed. Another example: if a pianist plot is also fairly stiff. Adams plays one note: precocious. Edgerton scripts the perfect girlfriend (Kazan, It’s easy to spot that fellow writer Coogan can play the Rach 3 (which is insanely [email protected] tries to inject some nuance, but he’s who also wrote the script), and one in�luence on her sons. then playing Chopsticks day—it’s a miracle—quirky-girl Ruby shows to swallow is that Dano and Messina are shouldn’t be a problem. Do intelligent brothers,is going to despite be evil. their What’s obvious more rapport.dif�icult In actorsdif�icult), and experienced producers have visual moments still work, but the �ighting a dying battle. Sure, some about her via his writing. fact, that casting is the only really surprising a blind spot for massive plot holes that overall, syrupy experience is about as up.It’s Dano never soon happened �inds he before,can control except everything in thing in this affable but heavy-handed, exciting as watching grass grow. |  | Weird Science in 1985. lecture-riddled romance. |  | camera was turned on? |  | should’ve been spotted before the �irst AUGUST 16-29, 2012 // ISSUE 19.17 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. 27 |  | The Fabulous Independant Film Festival from pg.25

HE WISE KIDS— is never ORTH SEA TEXAS—This ‘coming OVE OR WHATEVER—Corey and Jon HE COVER— easy, but for Tim in The Wise Kids it’s of age’ story is about a teenage have a great relationship, but when created by syndicated columnist, Tespecially intimidating. Tim and his best Nboy’s search for love, and how that LJon begins ‘sewing his wild oats’ with T This short �ilm was friends Brea and Laura live in Charleston, S.C., a woman, Corey is devastated. He quickly contributor Anthony Paull and will be and are part of Southern Baptist families. Tim door. Raised by an alcoholic and ex-beauty recovers though, after his lesbian sister author, �ilmmaker and Watermark seeks to understand his sexuality and plans queensearch mother,leaves him the �ixatedmain character on the boy ‘Pim’ next introduces him to Grindr and he begins to festival at the showing of Sassy Pants. faces obstacles that might be unique to his see a hunk named Pete. Everything is going debuted at the opening night of the �ilm Brea, a preacher’s daughter, struggles with her situation, but that most people can relate great for Corey, and then Jon comes back faith.on leaving Laura his plans home to attendfor �ilm a school Christian at NYU. college. to—including unrequited love and a sexual As three friends reach their own realizations relationship that means much more to one love, or settle for whatever? on what adulthood means and how their new begging for forgiveness. Will Corey �ight for found freedom affects their relationships, they and features English subtitles. SCHEDULE struggle to understand the changes. partner than the other. This �ilm is in Dutch Friday, Aug. 17 10 P.M.: Celebration Pre-Party at Throb Nightclub / $5.00 donation, $3 if you mention FIFF

Saturday, Aug. 18 3 P.M.: United in Anger: A History of ACT UP 5:15 P.M.: North Sea Texas 7 P.M.: Opening Night Film: Sassy Pants w/short The Cover 9:15 P.M.: Opening Night Party at Eat Here

Sunday, Aug. 19 NITED IN ANGER: A HISTORY OF LOUDBURST—Oscar®-winning ASSY PANTS—If you have a ‘Sixth Sense’ 3 P.M.: The Wise Kids A documentary about the actresses Olympia Dukakis and for comedy, you’ll enjoy this movie. In ACT UP— 5:15 P.M.: Cloudburst lives and struggles of people with Brenda Fricker are well known and fact, if you enjoyed the movie ‘Sixth U C S 7 P.M.: Love or Whatever HIV/AIDS in the early days of the disease, Sense’, you’ll probably like this movie too, and who came together to form ACT UP, the since the young star of that movie, Haley Joel 9 P.M.: Closing Night country’s most famous HIV/AIDS advocacy aexcellent comedy actors, adapted and from this a �ilmstage is playanother and Osment, is now an adult and stars as Chip, Reception at Caragiulos group in history. FIFF says: “What makes this Dukakisgreat example and Fricker of their play talents. Stella The and �ilm Dot, is a the young ‘boy toy lover’ who lives with Dale extraordinary documentary so special is the lesbian couple with 30-plus years together. (Diedrich Bader of the Drew Carey Show) and The pair are suddenly faced with the becomes fast friends with Bethany, Dale’s with the disease that are unfortunately no prospect of being shipped off to a nursing daughter who’s come to live with the couple in MORE INFORMATION rare, contextual interviews of those af�licted home by Dot’s granddaughter. To avoid suburbia. The plot revolves around the quirks writer/activist Sarah Schulman, superbly their fate, Dot and Stella take a road trip to of each character, and the journey Bethany WHAT: Fabulous Independent longer living. The producers and the proli�ic Nova Scotia to get married and along the makes from a home-schooled valedictorian Film Festival is the precursor to movements like Occupy way pick up a ‘pseudo hustler’ hitchhiker to a self-assured woman living with her Gay WHERE: Burns Court Cinema, Wallcaptured Street a magneticwhere people and signi�icantsimply set timeout to that who enlivens their trip. father and his younger partner. |  | 506 Burns Lane, Sarasota change the world.” WHEN: Aug. 18-19 TICKETS: FabulousIFF.com

28 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. AUGUST 16-29, 2012 // ISSUE 19.17 watermarkonline.com AUGUST 16-29, 2012 // ISSUE 19.17 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. 29 30 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. AUGUST 16-29, 2012 // ISSUE 19.17 watermarkonline.com TAMPA & Electile Dysfunction: ARTS The Kinsey Sicks for President ENTERTAINMENT OMETIMES POLITICAL SEASON CAN GET TO BE EVENT PLANNER a bit much—negative political ads, constant debates over the morality of chicken sandwiches and the closure Sof roads in Tampa for the Republican National Convention. It’s stressful, but it also offers an their special show, Electile Dysfunction. QUICK PICKS opportunity for entertainment unlike Not only do they tackle issues any other when the Kinsey Sicks like immigration, unemployment, arrives at the Tampa Theatre scandal, sex, pandering and Tampa on Friday, Aug. 24, just a mile corruption, they do it all in amazing Avenue Q from the RNC hoopla! four-part harmony. The dragapella Winnie, Rachel, Trampolina THROUGH AUG. 19 divas offer their and Trixie, who most recently Straz Center political satire for appeared in Tampa over the 813-229-7827 one night only in holidays, are back with a MadTheatre.com political show complete with songs like “Sell the Poor,” Hot Summer “Eliminate the Schools,” and the Show III campaign anthem, “Vote for Me THROUGH SEPT. 15 (I’m Not From Kenya).” Clayton Galleries 813-831-3753 Tampa International Gay & Lesbian ClaytonGalleries.net FilmThis Festival bene�it takes performance place at 8 forp.m. the on Aug. 24 at the Tampa Theatre, 711 N. Franklin St. Tickets are available Melbourne at TampaTheatre.org/Kinsey-Sicks, Creed 274-8981. |  | AUG. 30 at the box of�ice or by calling 813- King Center 321-242-2219 KingCenter.com Orlando Slippery When Wet AUG. 24 House of Blues 407-934-BLUE HOB.com ORLANDO ST. PETERSBURG Venice Surviving Mommie Dearest Beer demo for charity Random Acts THROUGH AUG. 25 her experience and share her F YOU EVER NEEDED A appetizers provided by Bayou HE FILM MOMMIE Venice Theater new documentary, Surviving REASON TO DRINK A catering will be on hand and the DEAREST HAS 941-488-1115 Mommie Dearest. BEER OR TWO, NOW IS $10 door charge will help the BECOME A CULTURAL I VeniceStage.com T to take advantage of charity. Get there early for $1 off PHENOMENON, but have you THE TIME ever wondered about the people Jacksonville businessman and the generosity of The Ale and all drafts and a free Ale and the who lived the story of Joan MetroThe Night �ilm is Club produced co-owner by Jerry the Witch, 111 2nd Ave. NE, in Crawford? Rosenberg. The showing of the St. Petersburg. The pub will hold Those interested in attending Now’s your chance. The a special demo and tasting at areWitch encouraged beer �light to glass. RSVP through MORE INFORMATION Footlight Theatre within the will be the Florida premiere of 7:30 p.m. on Thursday, Aug. 23, the group’s Facebook page. Parliament House will bring the�ilm documentary. at the Parliament House to raise money for The Children’s Entertainment from Wild Love For more events or to Christina Crawford, real-life Show time is at 7:30 AIDS Foundation, a 501c3 going and The Fear of Nothing will kick submit your upcoming show, adopted daughter of Joan p.m. Tickets are available at to the needs of children and their off at 9 p.m. and donations of Wal- concert or performance, Crawford, to the stage on WanziePresents.com. |  | families battling HIV/AIDS. Mart gift cards, school supplies Thursday, Aug. 30, to talk about A selection of light Cajun and diapers are all welcome. |  | visit WatermarkOnline.com.

AUGUST 16-29, 2012 // ISSUE 19.17 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. 31 TIGLFF Presents America’s Dragapella® Phenomenon Electile Dysfunction: Kinsey Sicks for President! “One act that should not be missed.” ~ Billboard Friday, August 24 • 8:00 pm Tampa Theatre • 711 Franklin Street (Outside perimeter of RNC; parking at Poe Garage, 800 N Ashley Dr) ANNOUNCE IT. FMI & Tickets: tampatheatre.org/kinsey-sicks RENT IT. You know the RNC is coming. BUT did you know that the finest in political satire is in Tampa SELL IT. just 2 days before — for 1 night only? Songs include “Sell the Poor,” “Eliminate the Schools” and “We Arm the World, We Harm the Children.” POST IT. ~ Promotional Sponsors ~ Hillsborough County GLBTA Democratic Caucus • hcglbtadc.org ~ Stonewall Democrats Pinellas County • stonewallpinellas.org watermark Florida GLBT Democratic Caucus • floridaglbtdemocrats.org ~ WMNF Community Radio • wmnf.org Equality Florida • eqfl.org ~ Gasparilla International Film Festival • gasparillafilmfestival.com Democratic Progressive Caucus of Florida • progressivedemcaucusfl.org classifi eds

You can get a virus as simple as your computer can. And you can protect yourself just as easily.

AIDS Service Association of Pinellas (ASAP) is a community resource for HIV education and prevention and for those already infected or affected by HIV/AIDS. With one in five U.S. adults or teenagers unaware of their HIV status — which may later turn to AIDS without care and treatment — it’s something you shouldn’t ignore for your own health. Get the facts. Visit ASAPservices.org to learn more about HIV testing in our community. For those 20 and under, visit our youth site at GTECCH.org. OctOber 5-13

tiglff.com • facebook.com/TIGLFF FOLLOW US

32 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. AUGUST 16-29, 2012 // ISSUE 19.17 watermarkonline.com 4 ShotonSite 1 Tampa Bay 1- BAM! MORE SCREEN TIME: Local celebrity and RuPaul Drag Race alum Alexis Mateo speaks with Telemundo at Hamburger Mary’s in Ybor City as part of the Spanish speaking network’s coverage of the RNC from a gay perspective. PHOTO COURTESY CARRIE WEST

2- TIED UP: The women who attended the 1st Thursday Mingle at Mythos in Tarpon Springs took the theme of ProSuzy’s upcoming retirement party of “Tie-ing the community together” to heart on Aug. 2. PHOTO COURTESY PROSUZY.COM

3- STUNNING: Performer Kori Stevens patiently awaits her turn to 2 3 5 entertain during the Michael Keefe benefit at Pepperz Nightclub in Gulfport on Aug. 3. PHOTO BY STEVE BLANCHARD

4- REMEMBERING THE REASON: Garry Bruel of the Suncoast AIDS Theater Project welcomes a full house at American Stage for the second encore performance of A Wizard of Oz on Aug. 2. PHOTO COURTESY PROSUZY.COM

5- A WICKED SPIN: Matthew McGee played “The Wicked Witch” during the Suncoast AIDS Theater Project’s encore performance of A Wizard of Oz at American Stage on Aug. 6. PHOTO COURTESY PROSUZY.COM

6- POLITICAL HOPE: The GaYbor District Coalition welcomed former Florida gubernatorial candidate Alex Sink, center, at it’s Aug. 10 meeting at Bradley’s on 7th. PHOTO COURTESY CARRIE WEST

7- NOT YOUR MAMA’S OZ: The cast of the Suncoast AIDS Theater Project’s A Wizard of Oz performed to a sold out the American Stage Theater for its third show on Aug. 6. PHOTO COURTESY PROSUZY.COM

8- HEARTFELT THANKS: Muffy Vanbeaverhausen listens as Michael Keefe thanks attendees at a benefit for him at Pepperz 6 7 8 Lounge in Gulfport Aug. 3. PHOTO BY STEVE BLANCHARD

OVERHEARD

TELEMUNDO TV is by far the most popular show in for several minutes. Hamburger Mary’s, the Ybor Social, During intermission, Breul O’Leary, who was this year’s GOES GAY King�ilmed Corona, along 7thEl Centro Avenue Espanol, at history and is usually a one-time once again came on stage to MistressPlayhouse of in Ceremonies Ridge�ield, atConn. St. Pete ELEMUNDO, THE SPANISH the candle bridges and several eventthe non-pro�it as a “Prelude theater to Pride”company’s acknowledge volunteers, and also Pride, shared her preparatory SPEAKING TELEVISION historical buildings in the area. The let it slip that next year’s Prelude moments with her Facebook TNETWORK OWNED BY crew even enjoyed Latino Night at American Stage in St. Petersburg to Pride show could very well be a friends, referencing an accident NBC/UNIVERSAL, will offer its Liquid Tampa where Lady Janet onin June. Aug. A6 whenpacked project house honcho �illed re-imagined version of Gone With she had on a Segway during the viewers a different view of the was the special guest performer. Garry Breul spoke to the audience. The Wind, starring none other than Promenade in June: “My fat left Republican National Convention. Breul acknowledged several McGee as Scarlett O’Hara, of course. Host Grace Solorzano toured notables in the audience for their boots now. I’ve waited years for a Ybor City and the GaYbor District RECORD-BREAKING support and leadership in the chancefoot doesn’t to wear �it in them my pinkand tonightcowboy with coalition president Carrie SHOWS LGBT community and became OVULATION AND PINK is kd lang! Help queens or bloating West. She said she wanted to OR THE FIRST TIME emotional when he remembered COWGIRL BOOTS swellers. What is your advice?” do a show on the RNC from an EVER, THE SUNCOAST those we’ve lost to AIDS. But tears T. PETE PRIDE DARLING Fortunately O’Leary managed LGBT point of view. AIDS THEATER PROJECT were short-lived. When the staged CHRISTINE O’LEARY, WHO to get her boots on and was ready According to West, Solorzano F NOT ONLY SOLD OUT IT’S reading began, laughter started SACTUALLY LIVES IN THE to perform in front of a packed ONE ANNUAL SHOW, but two immediately from the audience. NORTHEAST, HAD A ONCE-IN- theater. She couldn’t be more throughout the historic district encore shows as well. This year’s And when McGee made his huffy A-LIFETIME OPPORTUNITY to ready, she shared. and conductedher camera several crew �ilmed interviews presentation of A Wizard of Oz, appearance in green face at the open for music sensation kd lang “I ovulated and can feel my with not only West, but with local starring Matthew McGee in the top of a staircase, the audience on Tuesday, Aug. 14, when the heart rate in my molars,” she celebrity and RuPaul’s Drag Race hilarious role of The Wicked Witch, reaction literally stalled the show wrote. “But for kd, anything!” |  | star Alexis Mateo. Telemundo singer performed at the Ridge�ield AUGUST 16-29, 2012 // ISSUE 19.17 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. 33 CLUB ORLANDO

Join Our Mobile VIP Club COME OUT TO PLAY! Get a Free $5 Gift Card! Gyms come and go…… Text: Premier Scan the Code To: 71441 to Text Club Orlando’s Gym has been here for 14 years and is still going strong! We Offer Monthly and Annual Memberships. Stop in for a tour and Premier Adult Factory Outlet 407.857.2050 | www.premieradult.com a complimentary work out. 5009 S. Orange Blossom Trail, Orlando 32839

$ 4 HOUR LOCKERS 8 M – F • 10AM – 2PM 450 E. COMPTON STREET ORLANDO, FL (407) 425-5005 WWW.THECLUBS.COM

® THE CLUB ORLANDO GOOD. CLEAN. FUN.

34 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. AUGUST 16-29, 2012 // ISSUE 19.17 watermarkonline.com ShotonSite

1 2 3

1-ORLANDO WORK ETHIC: Zebra Coalition volunteers prep the new Zebra Coalition House for construction. PHOTO BY SAMANTHA MCHARG

2- PRESENTATION: During July, State Representative Scott Randolph became the first civilian to have a U.S. Flag flown in his honor at the Veterans Memorial at the GLBT Community Center. On July 31, his flag was retired and presented to him at a reception. PHOTO COURTESY OF OUT AND PROUD VETERANS OF ORLANDO

3- CHICKEN SPEECH: Protesters gathered outside of the Bumby/ Colonial location of Chick-fil-A on Aug. 3 to speak out against the company’s stated stance against marriage equality. PHOTO BY DAVID MORAN

7 4- MUSIC HISTORY: Planned Parenthood volunteer Ida Vishkaee Eskamani talked about the organization’s services to music fans attending the Warped Tour, July 27 at Central Florida Fairgrounds. PHOTO BY DANIELA GONZALEZ 4 5-TEAM EFFORT: Team MyOptics paused for a photo break partway through the North American Gay Amateur Athletic Association World Series, which runs through Aug. 18 in Minneapolis. PHOTO COURTESY NORM GENTRY

6- EQUALITY REUNION: EQFL staffers (L to R) Michael Farmer, Joe Saunders and Mallory Wells reunite in Saunders’ Orlando campaign headquarters to do a final push for Saunders’ bid for Florida House District 49. PHOTO BY ALEX BARRI

7- POOLSIDE PARTY: Women gather poolside at a T-Dance held at Tropical Resort LGBT in Palm Bay. The gay and lesbian-focused resort just opened its doors June 17. PHOTO BY CHERYL CUOMO

8- BIRTHDAY BOY: Scott Dunkle (right) celebrated his birthday with friends at Hamburger Mary’s Wednesday night trivia, hosted by Doug 5 6 8 Ba’aser. PHOTO BY JAMIE HYMAN

OVERHEARD

A VENUE FOR BLUE for the arts community and other announced that The Venue will be Off Limits Nightclub launched in was suspected in, bankruptcies, events. as a venue for weddings a locale for performances as part July, listing its address as 5310 denied liquor licenses listing the OCATED IN THE UP AND and fundraisers. “[The Venue] will of Orlando International Fringe E. Colonial Drive, the address for current owners as the owners of COMING IVANHOE VILLAGE, also be a way for me to be able to Festival’s expansion into Ivanhoe the now defunct MrSisters and the soon-to-be Off Limits Nightclub ENTERTAINER BLUE STARR L perpetually raise money for The Village for 2013. marketing itself as a straight/ and ongoing litigations with the will unveil her very own venue Barber Fund and other charities,” hip-hop club. On July 23, a post club owners. On Aug. 9, SIN posted, in September. Aptly named The she adds. She says a portion of read, “we have now gotten fully “updates will be coming shortly! all ticket sales will go to a charity. SIN-FULLY SCANDALOUS inspected and have passed all We have been working behind the to babybluestar Productions, “I am also trying to work with inspections. Now we are going to scenes to provide Orlando with the includingVenue, it will VarieTEASE. be the of�icial Beginning home ATERMARK REPORTED the venues that have supported be preparing for our opening. Get best club that has yet to come!” It in September, it will run a EARLIER THIS YEAR me throughout my journey.” Ready for the Hottest Nightclub was rumored that SIN could not VarieTEASE-R for about three THAT A NEW LGBT This would include partnering W to come around in a long time.” In open in the initially desired former weeks and then a variety of NIGHTSPOT, SIN ORLANDO, was that same time period, a website MrSisters venue due to ongoing shows in October. Starr says this slated to open March 23 at the or Savoy to offer patrons a full litigation against the clubs owners. will include the ladies of the former MrSisters location. Since eveningwith local experience; �lare like Tako dinner Cheena and/ which simply offers the headline A source close to the situation Peek-a-Boo Lounge, boy-lesque, then, we learned that SIN began or drinks and a show. “We need “Arelaunched, you ready of�limitsorlando.com, to experience shows, improv nights scouting other locales. In July, the something fresh that will lend another rerun of Mr Sisters?” currently underway and told us and even coffee house-esque club posted on its Facebook page, itself to the growth of Orlando and Beneath that are links to articles thatveri�ied part that of the indeed depositions, litigation taken is nights. She hopes the space will “we’re looking at a few warehouse I really do believe [Ivanhoe Village] pertaining to the owners of last month, entailed disclosing a offer something for the entire spaces in the downtown area that will become and Orlando staple,” MrSisters, including a murder-for- number of accusations, including community such as rental space we are considering.” Shortly after, a she says. Earlier this month, it was Facebook page going by the name hire case that one of the owners the murder-for-hire scandal. |  |

AUGUST 16-29, 2012 // ISSUE 19.17 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. 35 attorney lawn care

Build & Protect Your Family Today! Legal Services include: All Types of Adoption | Surrogacy | Donor Agreements Guardianships | Wills | Living Wills | Power of Attorney Designation of Guardians for Self or Children | Health Arie Groen’s Care Surrogate Designation | Co-parenting Agreements property maintenance Co-habitation Agreements Commercial and Residential Licensed Maria T. Bates, Esq. Your local family attorney specializing in: Law Offices of Maria T. Bates, P.A. 1405 Dr. MLK, Jr. St. N. | St. Petersburg, FL 33704 | 727.641.9686 installation of sod [email protected] | www.mariatbateslaw.com Ornamentals Trimming Elevating Palms counselor Trees Mulch Irrigation pressure washing

servicing orlando & tampa NOW HIRING EXPERIENCED LANDSCAPERS Arie Groen’s Property Maintenance (727)505-0205 • [email protected]

massage+bodywork

counselor web site

DESIGN YOUR OWN LIFE

Anthony Quaglieri, Ph.D Licensed Psychotherapist MH 486 website

1006 West Platt Street ■ Tampa, FL 33606 813-258-4252 [email protected] Call 813-655-9890 35 years experience FOR MORE INFORMATION

36 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. AUGUST 16-29, 2012 // ISSUE 19.17 tampa bay marketplace ANOTHER YEAR: ASAP Executive director William Harper, pictured with Sheryl Hooslema, celebrates Bánh Mi • Sandwiches • Vietnamese Iced Coffee his birthday Aug. 19. Fresh Fruit Smoothies & Boba Tea • Vegetarian Dishes

VIRGINIA DR.

MONTANA ST. yum-mì 1227 N. Mills Ave. Transitions Orlando, FL 32803 407-894-1808 N. MILLS AVE. E. COLONIAL DR. CHANGE-OF-LIFE COMMUNITY ANNOUNCEMENTS www.YummiSandwiches.com

and softballer LJ Sosa (Aug. 19); Clearwater Congratulations bear Keith Schorr and Brandon restaurant Tampa Bay’s Grahame Harte and Wendell executive Rob Roberts (Aug. 21); Largo mom Wilson enjoy another year together on Aug. 22. and social worker Megan Szczepanik and Ryan Skipper’s father and LGBT activist Lynn Altamonte Springs residents Sammy Goldstein Mulder (Aug. 22); Tampa Bay retailer and and Bill Yahner celebrate their 20th anniversary leather cub Charles Germaine and Orlando on Aug. 26. graphic artist Marcus Vale (Aug. 23); Sunnyland Slammer Shana Moshen, founder of Tampa’s Walt Disney World entertainment specialists The Taylor Company and PR god Scott Taylor A Naughty and Exotic Mixed Lifestyle Club John Bearse and Ray DeChiara mark 17 years and St. Petersburg actor and director Steven together on Aug. 27. Flaa (Aug. 24); Come Out With Pride board member and OrlandoJobs.com sales manager Brad Partridge, Spring Hill psychologist David GAY, STRAIGHT, BI, TS Chandler, St. Pete Twirling Project veteran Passing Steven Caruso and Tampa bear and softballer Longtime volunteer and supporter of Central Andrew Cohen (Aug. 25); Orlando’s Eddie Florida performing arts, Wallace “Wally” Mora, Central Florida singer and actress Jill Harper, passed away in August. He was 73. Wilson and Watermark writer and film critic Stephen Miller (Aug. 26); Chiropractor Jason McWhirter, Tampa’s shirtless softballer Scott Local Birthdays Lenker and St. Pete Allstate superstar Carl Tony-winner Kenny Howard, former Watermark Lovgren (Aug. 27); Orlando artist Keith Theriot, sales rep Jim Nixon and St. Petersburg interior St. Petersburg and Gypsy Productions’ Darryl designer and artist Scott Velez (Aug. 17); Tampa Epperly, St. Pete songstress-turned-student Bay performer and recording artist Macaviti, Lorna Bracewell, Clearwater bear and Bucs Sarasota orthodontist Michael Radall and superfan Chris Miller and handsome Tampa handsome Orlando lawyer Paul SanGiovanni Otters softball star and Verizon guy Jim Green (Aug. 18); Lakeland American Idol Hollywood (Aug. 28); Leather stud Randy Sullivan, week singer Danny Pate, Tampa pastor Scott Seminole painting expert Karen Santos, Manning, St. Pete ASAP Executive Director Studio@620 founder and friend to the arts William Harper, Georgie’s Alibi bar maiden Bob Devin Jones and Orlando artist and CLOTHING OPTIONAL Duffy Iorio and Tampa economics specialist photographer Lee Vandergrift (Aug. 29). Pub, Delicatessan Full Contact Health Club

Are you making a Transition? Having a birthday or anniversary? Did you get a new job or promotion? See your news in Watermark! Send your Transition to [email protected] 12517 66th Street N. • Largo, FL 33773 or go to WatermarkOnline.com/Submit-a-Transition - it’s that easy! WWW.CLUBQUEST.NET

AUGUST 16-29, 2012 // ISSUE 19.17 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. 37 watermark is now available in Mt. Dora! Do This! To become a distribution location, please contact: SAGE ADVICE FROM ‘THE TRUTH’ Erik Caban Tell child’s parents what’s expected (407) 481-2243 x100 [email protected] DEAR TRUTH, DEAR TRUTH, XACTLY WHEN DID IT BECOME A AM A 30-SOMETHING GAY MALE SINGLE PERSON’S RESPONSIBILITY WHO HAS A BIG PROBLEM WITH MY ETO PARENT OTHER PEOPLE’S IBOSS, MR. HOLDEN. I suspect that CHILDREN? I am a successful, single woman he frequently views straight porn on with a beautiful home in Longwood and my computer and he isn’t very adept at no children. Five years ago, however, I covering his tracks. Sometimes I suspect agreed to be a godparent when my friends he actually wants me to know what he’s RAPHSODIC BAKERY Kate and Paula had their son, Jake. Last up to—I’ve found vast numbers of straight U R BA N PAS T RY A R T H O U S E weekend, Kate and Paula showed up x-rated website titles that he apparently unannounced with Jake, but without any visits almost daily, either before I arrive or food or toys. I ran out to get snacks and after I leave the of�ice. returned to total chaos. Jake had trashed I think Mr. Holden’s behavior is my living room while Kate and Paula extremely creepy. I almost feel like I’m merrily drank beer out by the pool. When being sexually harassed. I’d look for I raised my voice to Jake, they proceeded another position, but with the exception of to berate me, saying “We don’t talk to the porn problem, I love my job and don’t our child that way,” and told me I should want to lose it. I don’t know if I should childproof my house! They scooped up Jake confront him. Any advice? and left in an uproar. Now neither of them —Disgusted in Downtown Tampa is speaking to me. Your thoughts? —No Child Dear T-Diddy, Left Behind This is a sticky While I agree his behavior one, and an odd one Child Leaver, is creepy, I don’t quite see to boot. So just to be If it is the clear, you feel sexual responsibility of how it’s creating a hostile harassed because a single person your boss is viewing to parent the work environment for you. straight porn on your children of computer? It’s super their friends, I must have missed a memo. weird, yes. But I’m not sure it’s harassment. I don’t think the problem is a societal one, He’s not leaving it up on your computer for

The behavior you describe here is absolutely your ability to investigate his poorly hidden terrible,though. Iwhere think yourthey friendsignore their are just child sel�ish. doing tracks.you to �ind;While you’re I agree only his aware behavior of it is because creepy, ofI harm to your things and then chastise you for don’t quite see how it’s creating a hostile work Yay for the Domestic Registry! trying to establish some boundaries. environment for you. Let us make your special day an elegant and delicious occasion. I’m tempted to wish you congratulations What, in my opinion, you should be more for extricating yourself from an awkward concerned with is the potential that you’ll get circumstance, but I’m guessing that’s not a blamed for all the smutty searching. I think very satisfying response. But here comes the you could actually kill two birds with one stone Truth: Kate and Paula have inappropriate here. I would schedule an urgent meeting expectations regarding how much care you’re with your boss and bring to his attention what supposed to give to their child. Don’t allow you see transpiring on your computer. As them to put the blame on you for their shoddy your manager, it is important he ‘know.’ Don’t parenting. Before they come over again, accuse him at all, but rather seek him out for set very clear ground rules about what is his ‘advice’ on how to handle it. “Should I go acceptable in your home and what isn’t. to HR and report it? Should I work with the RAPHSODIC.COM You’re the godparent, and that’s an honor. But you’re not the parent. That’s their job Don’t give him any hint that you suspect him. *Please note that we do use these ingredients in our facility and they are doing a poor job at it. While JustIT staff let himto �igure know out that when you itknow. is taking I’m guessingplace?” and while we strive to maintain exceptional standards, (407) 704-8615 you’re at it and since they’re not sparing you cross-contamination may occur and can be beyond our control. Those with allergies should always notify staff 710 N Mills Ave. their opinion, a well-timed lecture about dirty on, or he’ll just start searching porn from and consume our products at their own risk. Orlando, FL 32803 drinking and driving—particularly with their hishe’ll home either computer, �ind another like terminala normal to person. do the That child in tow—would seem appropriate right way, you’ll also go on record that it is no t your about now. doing before anything goes down. |  | 38 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. AUGUST 16-29, 2012 // ISSUE 19.17 watermarkonline.com accountant attorney attorney

Law Office of Michael E. Morris, P.A.

accountant Michael E. Morris

Jeffrey A. Miller • Bankruptcy (Chapter 7, 11 & 13) Attorney at Law • Civil Litigation/Foreclosure Defense • Family Law • Criminal Defense • Estate Planning

2014 E. Robinson Street Orlando, FL 32803-6045 P: 407-894-0853 F: 407-835-6613 [email protected] www.mikemorrislegal.com

accountant attorney attorney

TOO BUSY FOR TAXES? WE HAVE OPTIONS! PERSONAL/BUSINESS TAX PREPARATION, e-fi le QUICKBOOKS ADVANCED PROADVISOR ® Leah G James, CPA, MSTax Judy L Hines, CQA 407.478.4513 • [email protected]

air conditioning MAXIMUM AIR CONDITIONING SERVICES, INC Providing A/C & Heating Services for more than 20 years. ORLANDO (407) 297-1354

Licensed & Insured • Lic #CAC036895 www.maxacservices.com

attorney attorney BANKRUPTCY LAW GROUP Trusted in our community. FREE initial consultations Weekday & Evening appointments Abogado habla Español 407.219.3975 2816 E. Robinson Street floridabankruptcypros.com Ana De Villiers, Esq.

The hiring of a lawyer is an importan decision that should not be based soley upon advertisements. Before you decide, ask us to send you information about our quali cations and experience. Bankruptcy Law Group

orlando marketplace AUGUST 16-29, 2012 // ISSUE 19.17 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. 39 attorney attorney cleaning service BANKRUPTCY PROUDLY SERVING THE COMMUNITY SINCE 1997

• Chapter 7 & Chapter 13 • Free 60 minute consultation • Evening Appointments • 18 years Bankruptcy Experience • Payment Plans

“Do not go gentle into that good night, rather, ride fast and hard, we can rest when we die.”     

LAW OFFICE OF WARREN C. WARBURTON, PA www.warrenwarburton.com

934 N. MAGNOLIA AVE., SUITE 227 ORLANDO, FL 32803 407.841.4912 1629 E. ALFRED ST. TAVARES, FL 32278 352.343.5554

The hiring of a lawyer is an important decision that should not be based solely upon advertisement. Before you decide, ask us to send you free written information about my qualifi cations and experience.

attorney attorney cleaning service

F D • B • E SEAGLELAW.COM 407-770-0100 924 West Colonial Drive | Orlando, Florida 32804 The hiring of an attorney is an important decision that should not be based solely upon any information included on this page, nor upon any advertisement that you might view. Before you decide to retain any individual attorney or law fi rm, you are strongly encouraged to ask that you be sent free written information about qualifi cations and experience.

Read It Online! Head to WatermarkOnline.com and click on the Digital Publications link to a read a digital version of the printed newspaper!

40 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. AUGUST 16-29, 2012 // ISSUE 19.17 orlando marketplace coaching counselor counselor Jase Interactions Services CENTRAL FLORIDA Performer/Entertainer Culture Event SEASON HAS BEGUN!!! · Instrumental · Vocal · Dance · Battle of the Bands · Actors · Models · Fashion Designers · Hair Creations · Sports www.jaseinteractions.com 407-435-9995 mEDIA mEDIA

construction counselor cremation

Serving Central Florida Since 1978 Certifi ed Building Contractor 1254459

• All phases of commercial and residential construction electrician • Energy Conservation Expert • Renovation Specialist • Free in-house design and consultation DAVID L. CASE President

407-832-8551 • [email protected]

counselor For and in-depth listing of LGBT businesses visit the Purple Pages on WatermarkOnline.com!

orlando marketplace AUGUST 16-29, 2012 // ISSUE 19.17 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. 41 funeral services home improvement lawn care

Arie Groen’s property maintenance Commercial and Residential Licensed specializing in: installation of sod Ornamentals Trimming Elevating Palms Trees CARDINAL MEMORIALS Mulch Designers of Distinctive ( 407 ) 599-1228 Irrigation and Innovate Memorials pressure washing BETH SHALOM MEMORIAL CHAPEL servicing orlando & tampa Dedicated to Serving James R. Cardinal Our Community For Sammy Goldstein NOW HIRING EXPERIENCED LANDSCAPERS Over 25 Years. Locally ( 407 ) 599-1180 Arie Groen’s Property Maintenance Owned and Operated. 640 Lee Road, Orlando (727)505-0205 • [email protected]

garden/nursery home improvement personal chef

•FREE ESTIMATES •FAUCETS HANDY •CEILING FANS ANDY •WINDOW BLINDS • BONSAI HOME MAINTENANCE •PRESSURE WASHING • ORCHIDS & REPAIRS •SCREEN REPAIR Best orchids • EXOTIC PLANTS •FLOOR COVERING in town 407.467.7100 •ASSEMBLE SWEDISH • LANDSCAPING FURNITURE LICENSED & INSURED •GARBAGE DISPOSAL • PLANT RENTALS VISA & MASTERCARD ACCEPTED

1214 N. Mills Ave., Orlando, FL 32803 • 407-898-8101 ANDY PRIETO • [email protected]

health food store insurance I’ll come to your home or offi ce and prepare delicious meals for you and your guests. TREAT YOUR PERSONAL CHEF BODY RIGHTHT! Find It Locally For Less & We’ll Match Or Beat The Price rr -a- Save up to 70% off MSRP 407 421 8216 [email protected] • www.thecookingcraft.com Vitamins, Herbs, Sports & Dietary Free Consultations lab For in-depth Nature’s Market Because CONFIDENTIALITY Matters LGBT businesses Discount Nutrition Instant HIV Testing listings S T D Testing visit the 3074 Curry Ford Road Wellness Testing (Between Crystal Lake Dr. & Primrose Ave. in the Winn Dixie Plaza) Purple Pages on 270 S. Northlake Blvd, Suite 1004 Altamonte Springs, FL 32701 407.951.7575 WatermarkOnline.com 17 arcpointlabs.com/altamonte_springs

42 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. AUGUST 16-29, 2012 // ISSUE 19.17 orlando marketplace physician real estate WE KNOW THIS TOWN

AIDA R. MARTIN NATALIE ROSARIO We Specialize In: BROKER SALES MANAGER • Residential CELL: (407) 222-0930 CELL: (407) 468-7465 • Commercial [email protected] OFFICE: (407) 481-0900 • Development [email protected] [email protected] • Management

WWW.MIDTOWNREALTY.COM

plastic surgeon web site

407.857.6261

Trust your face and body to a board certified plastic surgeon

• Gynecomastia reduction • Liposuction • Laser hair removal • Sculptra®, Botox®, Radiesse®, Juvederm® youth group • Laser skin rejuvenation George H. Pope, MD, FACS • Rhinoplasty [email protected] • Facelift & eyelift • Cosmetic breast surgery • Professional skin care • Accredited in-house surgical suite

Voted Best Plastic Surgeon by 407-244-1222 Orlando Magazine readers www.OrlandoPlasticSurgeryCenter.com Peer-to-peer support group and social 3872 Oakwater Circle at South Orange Avenue activities for LGBTQ youth ages 13 – 24. Read It Online! Head to WatermarkOnline.com and click on the Digital Publications link to a read a digital version of the printed newspaper! Call 407-481-2243 FOR MORE INFORMATION

orlando marketplace AUGUST 16-29, 2012 // ISSUE 19.17 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. 43 407-481-2243 • Deadline for classifieds is August 24, at 5:00pm. [CLASSIFIEDS] Visit WatermarkOnline.com for Brand New Listings Every Day! Looking For IN-HOUSE real estate for sale personal services central florida Professional Dynamic Website Engineer (SW Orlando) - NOTE MAN-TO-MAN - very friendly, masculine, POSITION IS IN-HOUSE. PLEASE DON’T good looking man with solid athletic body. announcements SEND INFORMATION UNLESS YOU’RE Total relaxation & stress reduction. Rick LOOKING FOR AN IN-HOUSE POSITION. 813-349-6789 OnTimeRX -FREE!! - The BEST FREE We are currently looking for an Intelligent, Pill Reminder App for iPhone & Android. Organized Professional Website Engineer Manage meds like a PRO - 1pill/day or a who can take a project from concept to Everyone Needs to Be Touched - 1 - 1 1/4 handful. Download at www.ontimerx.com completion in a professional and timely hours full body workout. Also body shaving. or call (866)944-8966. manner. You must also possess the VIZCAYA LUXURY CONDO - Discount rates for students & ethnic. By following skill sets: -Very Familiar with Lakefront 2 bedroom, 2 bath. Over 1800sf appt. only - Call Jim 727-698-9505 Joomla CMS, WordPress and others. located in exclusive gated community, Blogs Forums -Prefer knowledge of Gantry framework. walking distance to Sandlake Road Groups Should there be a swimsuit SexCam Video Chat -Graphic Design Skills Restaurant Row. Relaxing lake views Instant Message Unlimited Friend Request competition for Realtors?? Free Giveaways and more. -Social Media skills including SEO, SMM from all windows. Incredible opportunity! Join Now FREE! Sure that may seem silly but what is your LIKE US on FB DaddysGuyX -All projects are conducted using our SHORT SALE priced to move at $279,000. project management system where; criteria for selecting an agent to represent Danny Veal, Realtor Coldwell Banker you, management, sales and clients will you with the most expensive asset you will (407)496-2662 / www.DannyVeal.com have access from beginning to end. Must probably ever own? Although my swimsuit develop exactly what our clients want in a days are over, my real estate career is very professional and timely manner. still in full force. If you are thinking of -Excellent people skills and professional buying selling or investing in real estate, appearance. You will be working in our think of me first. Stan Madray–Keller DaddysGuy.com - The New Gay home office located in SW Orlando. We Williams Realty (407)928-7791 / www. Adult Social Network. Everyone is in are masculine bisexual men and prefer StanMadray.com My commitment to you! DaddysGuy. working with masculine bi or gay males. •Communicate Effectively - Answer calls, This is a full time IN-HOUSE position respond to emails and keep you informed. 9 am to 5 pm Monday through Friday •Be Knowledgeable - Know the market with 1 hour for lunch. We perform an place, follow the trends and track the employment offered initial and ongoing background and drug numbers. •Have Fun - It’s not just about testing on all employees. You must have the destination, It’s also about the journey. Small Bi/Gay Company Needs B2B Sales dependable transportation, email address •Keep Integrity - Integrity is doing the right Pro Support Plus (SW Orlando) - We are and cell phone. If you are qualified for thing when no one is looking. •Seek the in search of an Intelligent, Organized, and this position please email your current Win-Win - Negotiate effectively to meet Dynamic B2B Sales Professional with a resume today along with sample our needs and our objectives. Making proven sales record to setup qualified* sales websites you have done to tcb2k9@ real estate dreams come true! *BTW... If appointments. We require not less than 5 yahoo.com. Thanks for checking out our you do require your prospective agent to appointments from the first week. Thereafter, posting... Location: Attractions Area compete in talent, I will be twirling a fire not less than 10 appointments per week. Our Compensation: $15.00 per hour Plus baton to “Half-Breed” by Cher. historic closing rate on sales appointments $200.00 Bonus on completed* / client is above 60%. We are not looking to train or approved* websites done ahead of deadline. achieve sales goals months down the road. Completed* = Totally completely to contract, Did you know you could be Our candidate must have excellent phone including updates and Client’s Approval in your new home in 45 days etiquette, a great English speaking voice, Client Approved* = Totally Complete To or less? Call me to find out how! Buyer excellent people skills and must enjoy talking Client’s Final Approval & Payment services are FREE! David@DavidDorman. on the phone. We want a sales pro who can com or 321-293-2240 very quickly get people to like them over Part Time Administrative Assistant. - Must the phone and ultimately set up qualified have Microsoft Office experience. Fax sales appointments. This position’s priority is resume to (407)574-8040. qualified* appointment setting by developing list of qualified contacts and making outgoing cold business to business qualified* sales appointments for our sales staff. Use our CRM System (Create complete record of professional services every prospective, new and existing client. Solicit new business, schedule appointments House Cleaning - Free estimates, for sales team, track leads, and document Reasonable rates, No contracts. Call all activities in data base). Other light duties John at 407-592-8774. include; scanning, filing, billing, answering phones, other general office duties and errands. We are a small (3 guy) professional LSAT Tutoring & Related Matters - By company in south Orlando working out of Licensed Attorney, $75/hr Individual & $35/ sarasota our home office. We are masculine bisexual hr Group rate, Visa/MC Accepted. Available Danny Veal, Realtor GRI, men and prefer working with masculine bi Evenings & Weekends. Office in Downtown CLHMS & CDPE - I made a or gay males. This is a full time job 9 am to 5 Kissimmee (407)301-5822 commitment to provide a high level of personal services pm Monday through Friday paid hourly with professional services by securing a strong 1 hour for lunch. You will be reimbursed 20 educational foundation in significant HEAD-TO-TOE BODYRUBS - Session cents per mile gas allowance for company areas of real estate to better serve and includes: Hot oil rubdown, Great hands, related errands. Compensation: $10.00 per protect my clients. My designations: GRI $60 In only: Call Ken 941-720-1731. hour plus a $100.00 bonus for every qualified - Graduate REALTOR Institute, CLHMS Sarasota/ Bradenton. appointment you book that becomes a - Certified Luxury Home Marketing paying client. You must have dependable Specialist, CDPE - Certified Distressed transportation, auto insurance, email address Property Expert. Please feel free to and cell phone. We perform an initial and contact me with any of your real estate ongoing background and drug testing on all needs. www.DannyVeal.com tampa bay employees. If you feel qualified for this position please email your current resume today ( [email protected] ) Thanks for adult clubs checking out our posting...Looking forward to hearing from our new Sales Pro! 350.00 +35 Tres Equis Adult Superstore & Theater hours @ $10.00. 600.00 + bonus (based on - Lingerie/DVDs/Adult toys. Couples minimum requirement of 10 appointments welcome. 6220 E. Adamo Dr., Tampa, Fl. weekly with estimated 60% closing rate) 6 33619. (813)740-8664 @ $100.00. 950.00 + total weekly potential earnings. Qualified* will be discussed directly with qualified candidates...

Watermark does not knowingly print advertisements for sexual services. Beyond printed content, Watermark does not inquire into the nature of personal or professional services advertising. Payment for sexual services is illegal in the State of Florida, and respondents to classified advertising should govern themselves accordingly. As required by law (Florida Statute 480.0465), Licensed Massage Therapists include their license number in all advertising.

44 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. AUGUST 16-29, 2012 // ISSUE 19.17 watermarkonline.com 10 out Olympians medal in London 14 Florida teams battle sports Staff Report for World Series titles ONDON, ENGLAND | Staff Report While literally hundreds of metals were earned by L INNEAPOLIS, MINN. | A total of 14 teams athletes from around the world during the XXX Olympiad earlier from throughout the State of Florida this month, 10 from four countries Mtraveled to Minneapolis this week to have the special recognition of participate in the annual North American Gay Amateur being openly gay medal winners Athletic Association Softball World Series Aug. 13-18. this year. The United States, Great Britain, from Orlando and four are from Tampa Bay. Of those 14, �ive are from Fort Lauderdale, �ive are Germany and the Netherlands GOLD STANDARD: Out Olympian Seimone Augustus, pictured with USA women’s Among the 11 teams competing in the A-Division basketball teammates Maya Moore and Lindsay Whalen, was one of 10 out athletes to all have openly gay Olympians are the Fort Lauderdale Noize and the Orlando Force. medal at the London Games. who brought an extra souvenir Only one Florida team, the South Florida Metz, is home after the worldwide hockey team; and Megan Rapinoe, Edward Gal of the Netherlands competing in the B-Division, which totals 35 teams. sport spectacular. of the USA women’s soccer team. Equestrian team, which placed in Florida has its most entries in the 53-team Gold medalists include Seimone Rapinoe had two big goals in the Team Dressage; and Lisa Raymond, C-Division. The Fort Lauderdale Alibi Angels and Augustus, a member of the USA a USA tennis doubles player who Mayem are joined by the Orlando Royalty, Orlando women’s basketball team; Carl Sundhage is also out as a lesbian. medaled with partner Mike Bryan Fusion, Tampa Crocs and Tampa Venom. Hester, Great Britain’s equestrian semi�inal match and team coach Pia on the court. And in the crowded 48-team D-Division, the who, along with his two teammates, the London Games and that was This year’s Olympics had 23 Tampa VooDoo, Tampa Eagles, Orlando Sliders, JudithOne Arndt out silver of Germany, medalist who �inished took out athletes participating. The Orlando Myoptics and Fort Lauderdale Renegades are Dressage gold; Marilyn Agliotti, second in women’s cycling. Arndt 10 medals won by those athletes competing for the trophy. Carlienwon Britain’s Dirkse �irst-ever van den Heuvel,Team Kim translate to 43% of out athletes For tournament results, visit TwinCities2012Series. |  | Lammers and Maartje Paumen this year in the road race time trial. walking away with Olympic wasOut the bronze �irst out medalists athlete to include medal hardware in 2012. |  | org or �ind NAGAAA on Facebook. of the Netherlands women’s �ield

John R. Dickson, OWNER

AND TAKE YOUR PERSONAL TRAINING BUSINESS TO NEW HEIGHTS AT FLORIDA FITNESS CONCEPTS! VISIT WWW.FLORIDAFITNESSCONCEPTS.COM/NEWTRAINER

TO HIRE AN FFC TRAINER OR FOR MORE INFO, VISIT WWW.FLORIDAFITNESSCONCEPTS.COM

AUGUST 16-29, 2012 // ISSUE 19.17 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. 45 Partners Steve Kornell and Bobby Poth and partners Amanda Hildebran Smith and Nadine Smith, along with son Logan PHOTO COURTESY TODD RICHARDSON

Frank Clemente and Toby Anderson Jacob Hamm and Chris Rudisill Lisa Meyers and Amanda Edenfi eld Peggy LaRosa and Pamela Scott Rich Hughes and Doug Nederveld Steven Barefi eld and Kyu Yamamoto PHOTO COURTESY TODD RICHARDSON PHOTO COURTESY TODD RICHARDSON Patanow PHOTO COURTESY TODD RICHARDSON PHOTO BY STEVE BLANCHARD PHOTO COURTESY DOUG NEVERVELD PHOTO COURTESY TODD RICHARDSON

PHOTOGRAPHY

N AUG. 1, THE CITY OF OST. PETERSBURG ALLOWED UNMARRIED COUPLES to register as Galleryw domestic partners. Here are a few of the couples who have registered since that

�irst, historic day.

46 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. AUGUST 16-29, 2012 // ISSUE 19.17 watermarkonline.com AUGUST 16-29, 2012 // ISSUE 19.17 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. 47 mIssIng ThIs wOuld be lIke weArIng FlIP-FlOPs wITh sOcks.

$ 0% FInAncIng FOr 19 9 60 mOnThs sIgn & drIve leAse on all new 2012 available with FIAT vehicles in stock * nO mOney dOwn^ MPG MPG Plus 90 dAys TO 30CITY 38 HWY yOur FIrsT PAymenT! Fields FIAT always beats our competitors’ out-the-door price! cOmPlImenTAry OIl chAnges On new FIAT mOdels FOr The lIFe OF The lOAn!!

Fields FIAT of Orlando 131 N. Orange Ave. • Orlando, FL 32801 • (407) 674-8830 / FIELDSFIAT.COM

Plus tax, title, and license fee. All offers end 8/31/12. Abarth model excluded from all incentives other special offers or rebates. EPA estimated 30 CTY and 38 HWY MPG for 2012 FIAT 500. Actual mileage varies. MPG available on manual transmission only. Your actual mileage may vary depending on how you drive and maintain your vehicle. Please see dealer for details.*Finance offer available for 60 months. Must qualify and finance with Ally Bank or Chase Tier 1-3. !Valid on a 60 month finance term only. ^Offer valid for qualified customers leasing through Ally Financial or US Bank from now through January 3 pay no money at lease signing and $199 per month for the base 500 Pop with manual transmission. Valid for a 42-month lease with 12,000 miles per year. ©2011 Chrysler Group LLC. FIAT is a registered trademark of Fiat Group Marketing & Corporate Communications SpA, used under the license by Chrysler Group LLC.