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New Annual Appeal spent a day of discussion, prayer and discern- For Trinity Catholic High School Bishop at Ecumenical Service 5 chair-couple named ment before voting on the five global challenges of Synod 2014. ANNUAL WHITE MASS 23 AN UNFORGETABLE PRIEST 11 Meet the pro-life generation ABOVE THE MAST—Delegates confer 18 Focus on the ethics of genetics Remembering Fr. “Bo” Birge Please visit us on: during a group discussion of the issues.

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By BRIAN D. WALLACE chaos which is the power of the Church would benefit from grace,” he said. using “organizing principles” Nearly 350 delegates to The bishop asked the delegates as it seeks renewal. Noting there Synod 2014 turned to solutions to think of the final challenges as is an inherent tension between at the Third General Session the prism by which they can see “bureaucratic and relational” on February 7 when they voted the many themes of the synod. models of institutions, he urged to approve the final pastoral “It is an idea of where we should the Church to experiment and and temporal challenges in the begin, but we’re not leaving any- take risks in order to revitalize its ongoing renewal of the Catholic thing behind,” he said. outreach to people. Church in Fairfield County. While challenges on Catholic “There has to be some dis- The delegates met in the Family Social Teaching, Stewardship, organizing if you’re going to Center of St. Catherine of Siena and Building Faith Communities effectively reorganize,” he said. Parish in Trumbull did not make the final cut, the “We’re all for re-organizing, but The adoption of the five global Bishop assured delegates who disorganizing can be painful, challenges followed months of worked on the issues that they because institutions tend to do study by synod delegates, consul- would be incorporated into the things the same way, whether tative meetings held throughout five challenges. they work or not. the diocese and listening sessions AT ST. CATHERINE OF SIENA PARISH in Trumbull, delegates voted to Using a digital voting system, adopt five pastoral and temporal challenges to be addressed by the synod going He said one reason that par- with the laity that began last spring. the delegates approved the follow- forward. ishes end up with a few leaders In all, the diocese received nearly ing global challenges for action: doing all the work is because, 4000 comments, ideas and sug- Every Catholic is called to “We do things anyway, even if gestions to help the Church make “fully conscious, and active par- movements, and communi- The bishop empowered del- people don’t want to do it. We changes and plan for the future. ticipation” (Sacrosanctum Concilium ties. (Evangelization) egates to now begin researching don’t listen.” Describing the discernment as 14) in the worship life of the There is a need to continually solutions and best practices to Gecan said vibrant organiza- “divine chaos,” Bishop Caggiano Church. (Liturgy and Worship) call, form, and support clergy, address the many problems such tions are characterized by strong thanked delegates for their humil- There is a need to strength- religious, and laity in active as reaching out to alienated relationships, a learning environ- ity and willingness to compro- en and support family life and leadership roles in the life of the Catholic, inspiring youth, and ment, and the ability to act effec- mise as they reached consensus empower and assist parents to Church. (Leadership) becoming more welcoming com- tively on commonly held values. on the major challenges facing be the primary teachers of the We must renew the ministry of munities of faith. Mary Ellen O’Driscoll, regional the Church. Catholic Faith. (Family Life) faith formation throughout our dio- During the afternoon ses- director of the Ignatian Volunteer “The process was a bit messy, We must create concrete cese, leading each person to a deep- sion, Michael Gecan, national Corp, said Catholics are called to but when we approach things in plans for evangelization in, ening relationship with the Lord co-director of the Industrial “act on the common good and to a way that is too neat, clean and with and through our par- in and through his Church. Areas Foundation/CONECT see God’s presence in the midst of organized, we cut out the divine ishes, schools, ecclesial (Catechesis and Education) ( Affiliate), said ➤ continued on page 5 New governance model for Cathedral Academies BRIDGEPORT—Bishop marketing, facilities, and financial Bishop Caggiano said that Frank J. Caggiano has introduced needs enabling principals to focus while the board will have much a new governance model for on their role as educators and greater responsibility, the schools Bridgeport Catholic schools that spiritual leaders in their respective will remain under diocesan will lead to greater participation schools. auspices. He and Sister Mary and involvement of the laity in “This is good news. The mea- Grace Walsh, ASCJ, PhD, the mission and planning for the sures we are taking will help us superintendent of schools, and four schools. to spread an excellence in edu- Msgr. William Scheyd, vicar gen- On January 29, the bishop cation to many more students,” eral, will serve as a three person spoke with teachers, board mem- said the bishop. The board will “Member Board” whose function bers and parents in three separate plan for the long-term growth will be to oversee the board of meetings held at St. Raphael and vitality of schools, which are directors. Parish to explain the new plan, expected to increase enrollment. When introducing the plan which is “all about further Currently, the enrollment in all to more than 50 faculty mem- strengthening the schools and four campuses totals 950 students bers and administrators, Bishop helping them continue to grow in and represents one of the most Caggiano said that transition to the future.” diverse student bodies in Fairfield the board of directors model will The bishop said that Catholic SISTER MARY GRACE WALSH, superintendent of schools, consults with County. be largely seamless in terms of schools are first and foremost a parents at a January 29 meeting with the bishop to discuss a new governance Under the new plan all four present operations and leadership. ministry to form children in the model for Bridgeport Catholic schools. campuses will legally become one However, he expects the board faith within a framework that school, sharing the same board of will bring great expertise to the encourages academic excellence. to share the gift of Catholic edu- vidual principals. In this new directors and a large number of schools and increase resources in “Education is the pathway cation with as many children as model, a single board of directors committees to support its major the long term. to success in life,” the bishop we can.” will oversee all three Bridgeport initiatives. However, this change The new board of directors told teachers and parents as he Each Bridgeport Catholic Catholic schools. The board will will not alter the everyday expe- will consist of some of those who announced plans for the new school presently has a school provide professional expertise in rience of the children who attend presently serve on the individual governing board, “and we want advisory board to advise indi- governance, strategic planning, the academies. ➤ continued on page 4 4 February 2015 Annual Catholic Appeal Appeal Education Awareness Weekend BRIDGEPORT—The Annual members of one family united in Catholic Appeal 2015 will Christ, we can do great things.” begin throughout the Diocese As a follow-up, the ACA of Bridgeport the weekend of has designated the weekends of February 21-22. Formerly called March 14-15 or 21-22, depend- the Annual Bishop’s Appeal, it ing on the individual parish, as has been renamed the Annual Commitment Weekend, offering Catholic Appeal to emphasize the opportunity for those parish- more clearly its vision. ioners who have not already The opening weekend of the returned their 2015 Annual Annual Catholic Appeal (ACA) Catholic Appeal gift or pledge by has been designated as Education mail, to do so by bringing their Weekend. In this new initiative, completed appeal pledge card and designed to help parishioners envelope to Mass and placing it understand the ministries and in the offertory collection. services supported by the appeal, ACA 2015 Large Banner.indd 1 12/23/14 3:44 PM will ask parishioners pastors will speak about it to single parish could provide. Contributions to the appeal resources. While everyone’s to contemplate prayerfully the parishioners at all Masses and “It is their gift to the appeal assist the Church in Fairfield financial situation is different, generosity of God in their lives introduce a ministry represen- in response to God’s love that County in many different ways, even families who find a dona- and to decide upon a suitable gift tative speaker or parish appeal will provide the diocese with the training new priests, educating tion to the appeal to be a sacrifice that reflects their appreciation for co-chair, or show the 2015 financial means to fund a broad young people, serving the needs can participate with a gift pay- his gifts. Appeal video. range of essential ministries, pro- of the homeless and poor, com- able over several months,” says Parishes will have the option The appeal theme, “Building grams, and agencies that deliver forting the infirm and counsel- Rittman. to participate in the “in-pew” Communities of Faith,” calls pastoral care and human service ing families in crisis. She urges parishioners to keep process on a weekend after parishioners to look beyond where it is most needed,” says Parishioners will receive their in mind that while their local Commitment Weekend. their own parish. It calls them appeal director Pam Rittman. Annual Catholic Appeal mailing parish is their spiritual home, (For more info, contact the to become sharers in the life and Pastors will emphasize the several days afterward. “We are all part of a much larger Development Office: 203.416.1470 mission of the Church, to come need for 100 percent participa- “Most Catholics in Fairfield Church. If we act together as or www.2015acabridgeport.com.) n together as a family of faith to tion and the critical importance County have been especially support the diocesan-sponsored of every gift to the ministry blessed by God: in health, with ministries and services that no and mission of the diocese. family, and very often with Ministries assisted by the ACA

New Governance from page 3 Gifts to the Appeal enabled the 35 ministries advisory boards, along with new reach,” says Sister Mary Grace, of $1.8 million in scholarship aid of Catholic Charities to reach out to help those members who will be identified ASCJ, PhD, diocesan superinten- was given to 600 students who in need through special initiatives that: based on their interest and tal- dent of schools. would not otherwise have been ents in key areas such as finance, This is particularly important able to afford the cost of enroll- • Served 1.3 million nutritious meals last year to needy persons building and academics. for families who enroll multiple ment. through food programs in Bridgeport, Danbury and Stamford “We don’t want to lose a children in a Catholic school. Bishop Caggiano fielded ques- and lower Fairfield County single advisory board member,” Scholarships will be renewable tions following the meetings and • Administered counseling to 15,000 individuals/families in crisis the bishop said. “We really need each year for as long as the stu- also encouraged teachers and to help with a variety of social issues, medication management, to put everybody to work,” he dent attends a diocesan elementa- parents to promote the Catholic and marriage and family therapy added, noting that advisory board ry or high school and remains in schools they love so much. members will be asked to serve good standing. The fund will dis- He told parents that they must • Continued to provide mental health counseling to individuals on key committees that will cre- burse its scholarship grants begin- become the “bishop’s ambassa- and families affected by the Sandy Hook tragedy in Newtown ate plans and recommendations ning in the 2015-16 school year. dors”—active collaborators in • Helped provide disaster recovery assistance to 600 struggling for the schools. The first year of the fund will Catholic education. “I want all families impacted by Hurricane Sandy During the hour-long meet- be reserved for PreK-grade 8 ele- parents to become ambassadors • Opened a second Room to Grow Program location to expand ings, the bishop also distributed mentary school students. After of Catholic education to the com- “school readiness services” to the working poor families the application form for the that, high school students will munity at large and to share the and their children. The program now serves 129 children new Bishop’s Scholarship Fund also be able to apply for schol- great treasure that our schools in Norwalk 2015-2016. The fund will make arship aid. The bishop said he represent.” $1.45 million available in schol- hopes to see the total scholarship The bishop also urged teachers Gifts to the Appeal also helped make it possible to: arships to families with children amount grow to $3.5 million in and principals to “share the news • Award financial scholarships to 65 percent of students attending a diocesan-sponsored three years. of the scholarship fund,” and to in inner-city Catholic Academies Catholic school throughout the As part of the application let people know that the diocese diocese. process, families will have to is doing everything it can to make • Ensure that 38,000 children and young adults had the The Bishop’s Scholarship fill out a FACTS Grant & Aid Catholic education an affordable opportunity to participate in religious education programs Fund is designed to help fami- Assessment as well as an applica- choice for families. • Educate and train 24 men for ordination to priesthood in this lies afford a Catholic education. tion form. (For more info, contact your local diocese “Through the generosity of Children who enroll in school or visit www.dioceseofbridge- • Care for 59 senior priests in their dignified retirement donors who believe in the mis- Bridgeport Catholic schools also portcatholicschools.com. The Bishop’s • Afford youth with meaningful opportunities to mature as holy sion and impact of Catholic edu- benefit from the existing schol- Scholarship Fund application form and active members of society through a wide range of cation, this new fund will bring arship program set up by the is available at www.bishopscholar- faith-based programs n a Catholic education within their advisory board. This year, a total ship.org.) n 5 February 2015 Welcome New Chair Couple Appeal co-chairs live their faith

By PAT HENNESSY devotion, but was not part of it. after they both joined the Order “I can remember the moment of Malta, their faith deepened. When she first became inter- when the light came on,” he says. Julie was on the parish council ested in the annual appeal of They were in Italy with Julie’s par- and taught religious education; the Diocese of Bridgeport, Julie ents, traveling down from Florence Rowan was on the finance com- Taylor was most drawn to the to , and stopped in Assisi. mittee. More than that, they diocesan Respect Life ministry. It was Good Friday. moved beyond the “little cocoon “As a mother, it was totally the Following a tradition dating of our parish.” In addition to support of life,” says Julie, this back to the Middle Ages, or even their other activities, Julie is a year’s Annual Catholic Appeal earlier, the Taylors joined the delegate to Synod 2014. co-chair with her husband, crowd of the faithful watching the As parents, they are particularly Rowan. The couple are the par- emotional Processione del Cristo interested in the first synod theme: ents of four daughters, now ages Morto, as the image of the cru- Empower the Young Church. 20, 16, 15 and 4 years old, and are cified Christ was carried through “Studies show that 53 percent of members of St. Aloysius Parish. the streets, along with one of his people will leave their childhood As their children grew older, sorrowing mother. faith by adulthood,” Julie says, in addition to the Respect Life “The sun begins to set in this clearly upset by the statistic. ministry the Taylors found their Roman town, the lights go out, When Bishop Caggiano met interest growing in the inner-city and the narrow streets are lit by the Taylors, he recognized imme- schools of Bridgeport, now known hundreds of torches. They carry diately that they would make as the Cathedral Academies. “We out the statue of Christ, and an ideal lay chair couple for the live in New Canaan, where good another of Mary, followed by Annual Catholic Appeal. Among schools are a given,” Rowan about 40 people in robes, walking their other activities, they hope to points out. “The Cathedral Rowan and Julie Taylor barefoot, carrying crosses, with spend time learning more about Academies provide excellent edu- their faces covered to emphasize parish ministries across the dio- cational opportunities in an area class advisor and knew each other backgrounds. The most import- that in God there is no difference cese, talking to priests about cler- where the average family lives from day one, they didn’t imme- ant: Julie came from a devout between the mayor of the city and gy formation, and visiting schools below the poverty line.” diately start dating. It may have Catholic family. “My parents someone who cleans the streets. and Catholic Charities sites like In keeping with her pro-life been because, in many ways, were among the most devout, I heard people praying the Hail the Thomas Merton Center in commitment, Julie began volun- they were so different. Rowan faith-filled people I ever knew. Mary in half a dozen languages.” Bridgeport. teering for Malta House, a home was from Portland, Oregon; Julie My parents met at a church Rowan describes himself as a “It’s time, it’s treasures, it’s tal- for women in crisis pregnancy. grew up in Fairfield County. He bazaar. Two of my mother’s “0-1 person in all phases of my ent—that’s how we’ve ingrained That led to an invitation to join was an economics major; she brothers were priests.” life. You do a thing well or you Christ’s faith into our lives,” says the Order of Malta and a deep- took a double major in European Rowan had no religion at all. don’t do it.” He came back from Rowan. “This is what we have ening of faith, devotion and a history and French. Rowan, “Religion was not part of my that vacation, enrolled in the Rite to do. We want to keep the faith realization of the many works who has over 25 years of private life,” he says. “It wasn’t import- of Christian Initiation of Adults growing and strong for ourselves, supported by the diocese. “Now equity experience, is the founding ant to my parents.” (RCIA) at St. Aloysius, and was for our children, for everyone.” it’s hard for me to single one partner of Liberty Hall Capital Although Julie’s religious baptized, confirmed and received (For more info about the 2015 thing out,” Julie says. Partners, a private equity firm practice had been “on and off, First Holy Communion during the Annual Catholic Appeal, contact the Rowan and Julie met on the based in New York City. like most kids,” in her early Easter Vigil the following year. Development Office: 203/416/1470 first day of freshman year at For whatever differences, they college years, by the time she Over the years, particularly or www.2015acabridgeport.com.) n Washington and Lee University didn’t start dating for months— graduated it was “mostly on.” in Lexington, Virginia. They not until after they came back She doesn’t know why her faith quickly discovered a surprising from the Christmas break their deepened even while she was dat- coincidence: they were born on freshman year. “The third ing a “heathen;” that’s just how it the same day. “I was born earlier Sunday in January, January 18, happened. in the day, which is why I’m so was the 29th anniversary of our They were married at St. mature,” says Rowan with his first date,” Rowan says, flashing Patrick’s, the trademark grin. another grin. near Washington and Lee in “I married an older man,” Their relaxed enjoyment in Virginia. From that time on, Julie is quick to counter. each other’s company contra- Julie was in church every single Although they had the same dicts their strikingly different Sunday. Rowan respected her

Synod Pivots from page 3 the poor and suffering. get agreement. “If we start with visioning and excellence. “If it’s “We should be asking, who political filters then we’ll leave not working, stop doing it,” he is vulnerable here in this diocese, Jesus behind. People will always said with emphasis. “We need to who is on the margin, and who feel challenged by certain issues. see things in a new way.” are the people to whom we are We have to constantly ask, what Msgr. Lang said that as the not attending.” did Jesus tell us to do and where Church seeks to change, it’s When a delegate noted that did he say he would be.” important “not to throw the many Catholics often are uncom- In a humorous and insightful baby out with the bath water. fortable with the Church’s social presentation Msgr. James P. Engage your tradition and be true teachings, O’Driscoll joked that Lang, episcopal vicar for parish- to yourself and don’t forget the she learned that during national es for the Diocese of Syracuse, core values that have guided the elections was not the best time to spoke about parish planning, Church for over 2,000 years.” n 6 February 2015 March for Life 2015 Witnesses for Life travel to D.C. (On January 22, the Catholic “Participating showed faithful from this diocese, including me how precious life is. It’s a large number of youth, traveled to not just important to pre- Washington, D.C., to join the 2015 vent abortion but to protect March for Life. This year’s theme all life.” was “Every Life is a Gift.”) —Maddie Werdann, Freshman Kolbe Cathedral, Bridgeport “This year, I had the oppor- “People came from so tunity to attend the March many different places and for Life in Washington, D.C., different religions.” which included attending Mass —Claire Koch, Freshman with thousands of other people, learning about Catholic liturgical “The March gave me a dance, hearing an official letter strong sense of confidence from the , and marching for that as a large group, we what I firmly believe in. I was able to connect my life and opin- ions about abortion with many other people who treasure the gift of life as much as I do. Life school, so many people were inter- is precious and valuable, and it ested in what I did, and a few of is my duty, along with everyone my teachers congratulated me for else who shares in this gift of life, knowing what I believe in at such to protect it.” an early age.” —Daniela Trotman, Senior —Clare Wagner, Freshman

St. Theresa Parish, Trumbull “The media does not cover “This year’s March for Life the March for Life because they was my first and it won’t be my don’t want to show the hundreds last. Father Brian Gannon, our of thousands of people, many of , celebrated a 4 am Mass could beat the issue. This feeling “The experience was amazing God calls us to be.” them youth, who stand up to our for our group and then the bus of strength threaded throughout because you were fighting for —Grace Wagner, Senior country every year in attempts to was quickly loaded and we were the whole March.” life with 650,000 people. You save innocent lives. Going back on the road with 47 Catholic —Lona Ludanyi, Freshman had something in common with “Walking into the Verizon to school after the March makes faithful from the Diocese of people you didn’t even know. I’m Center was amazing. There were me sad because no one knows Bridgeport. St. Catherine of Siena Parish, definitely doing it next year.” so many people, and they all what just occurred in the nation’s I was filled with great hope Riverside —Pilar Buscaglia believed in the same ideas about capital. That’s where we come in; and wonder as I witnessed “Going to a Catholic school how life is sacred and we should it is our job as Catholics to spread the enormous and respectful- in Argentina, I was well edu- St. Aloysius Youth Group, preserve it. The youth rally itself the word and make known what ly exuberant Pro-Life crowd—all cated on the topic of abortion. New Canaan was like a mini retreat. The songs is right, just, and humane.” marching for the most vulnerable When I moved here, I saw how “The March for Life gives me were awesome and the witness —Annelise Butler, Senior among us.” people were accepting of the idea the courage and energy each year talks were astounding and person- — Mary Beth DeSantis and it scared me. That’s why to go back home and to school al. It was amazing that the Papal “Attending the Youth Rally it was crucial for me to go to and share what I’ve done to get Nuncio was there delivering a got me in the spirit of the pro-life Immaculate, Danbury March for Life. Seeing 650,000 other people thinking about the message to us all directly from movement. Seeing my fellow “At the kick-off Mass in the people advocating and believing right to life. It’s amazing to see the Pope! marchers and clergy and worship- Patriot Center, there was a sense in the same thing as me was hundreds of thousands of peo- “Standing up for what I believe ping along with them was joyful of preparing to do something truly encouraging. Now, more ple who are fighting for life the in makes me more comfortable to as well as satisfying for me.” important together. The March than ever, I won’t stop fighting same way we are, for all different talk about it. When I came back to — Nolan Fitzpatrick, College n inspired me to do what I can to for the voiceless until this issue reasons. It’s a perfect way to be give witness to the cause.” stops.” the hands and feet of Christ and —AJ Vitiello, Freshman —Agus Buscaglia be the voice for the voiceless, as 7 February 2015 Local News John T. Grosso: New Social Media Leader

By BRIAN D. WALLACE bishop’s office with social media responsible for research, analysis outreach. and development of outreach John T. Grosso of Stamford “John represents a new gen- operations. In his role he created has been named social media lead- eration that has grown up with a comprehensive social media er of the Diocese of Bridgeport. social media and instinctively marketing strategy and produced His appointment was announced understands the opportunities and managed all content across by Bishop Frank J. Caggiano. it provides for communications Twitter, Facebook, Wordpress, Working with the diocesan and evangelization,” said Bishop and YouTube. Office of Communications team, Caggiano. “He is also active He also served an internship he will be responsible for over- in his parish and brings a deep as correspondence associate seeing strategic social media respect and understanding of in the White House Office of and digital initiatives to expand Catholic teaching and traditions.” Presidential Correspondence in communications between the Grosso is a member of St. Leo 2012, where he became versed in diocese, parishes and the general Parish in Stamford. online constituent management public. He will also manage the He comes to the diocese and communications systems. new diocesan mobile app, design from the Debicella for Congress He graduated from Boston online campaigns for youth Campaign, where he served as College in May 2014 with a BA and other groups, and assist the urban outreach/digital director, in political science and theolo- 84% would ban abortion after three months John T. Grosso gy. During his time at Boston users. In both cases, simply NEW HAVEN—The vast “Four decades after Roe v. By nearly three to one, College, he served in a number of search for “Bridgeport Diocese” majority of Americans are Wade, the American people Americans see abortion as internships and other positions, and you will find immediate and uncomfortable with abortion, remain unhappy with its legacy,” doing a woman more harm including the Fedele for Stamford easily accessible information on according to a new Knights said Knights of Columbus CEO than good in the long run (59 mayoral campaign, the Boston Mass times, events, news, and of Columbus-Marist poll. The Carl Anderson. “The survey percent to 22 percent). College Law School Admissions other areas of interest. survey finds support for abor- makes clear that the American By 20 points (57 percent to Office and the Stamford Town The social media efforts of tion restrictions among both people understand that abortion 37 percent), Americans support Clerk Office. the diocese are a function of the “pro-life” and “pro-choice” is far too common, and causes proposed legislation that would Grosso has volunteered at the Communications Department, supporters. great harm. And even those who permit medical professionals Stamford Peace Office and served which also publishes Fairfield Eighty-four percent of consider themselves ‘pro-choice’ and organizations to refuse in the “Best Buddies” program County Catholic (the monthly to provide abortions or refer back in Boston. newspaper of the diocese), and patients for abortions. One of his first assignments an ENewsletter, maintains In light of the ongoing con- will be to build the strategy of Facebook, Twitter and You Tube troversy over the HHS contra- rolling out the new diocesan accounts, provides print graphics ception, sterilization and abor- mobile app, which provides the for diocesan events and manages tifacient mandate, it is notable latest news, events, Mass times, media relations. that 70 percent of Americans and videos on Catholic life. The (For more info, visit www.bridge- also support religious liberty app can now be downloaded portdiocese.com or visit the app store rights when religious values from the iTunes App Store for (search Diocese of Bridgeport). conflict with the law. iPhone users or from the Google To contact John Grosso, email: The survey of 2,079 adults Play Store for Android phone [email protected].) n was conducted January 7-13, 2015, by the Marist Poll and sponsored by the Knights of Americans want significant want it reduced significantly. It is Columbus. Adults 18 years of restrictions on abortion, and time that our lawmakers respond age and older residing in the would limit it to, at most, the to this public consensus with continental were first three months of pregnan- appropriate legislation.” interviewed by telephone using cy. This includes almost 7 in Other key findings of the sur- live interviewers. Results are 10 (69 percent) who identify vey include: statistically significant within themselves as “pro-choice.” • 64 percent say the nation’s ±2.1 percentage points. The The same percentage (84 abortion rate is higher than error margin increases for percent) also says that laws can it should be. Only 7 percent cross-tabulations. protect both the well-being of think it is too low. The Knights of Columbus a woman and the life of the • 78 percent support parental has worked with the Marist unborn. notification before a minor Poll to survey Americans on In addition, by more than can obtain an abortion. moral issues since 2008. 20 points (60 percent to 38 per- • 68 percent oppose taxpayer (For more details about the cent), Americans say abortion funding of abortion, while survey results and methodology is morally wrong. only 28 percent support it. visit www.kofc.org/polls.) n 8 February 2015 Connecticut Catholic Conference Frequently asked questions An important message from the bishop about Assisted Suicide Dear Brothers and Sisters in Christ, A bill in support of What is physician-assisted statutes providing for physi- against physician-assisted suicide Assisted Suicide has now suicide? cian-assisted suicide. The most in state after state. been introduced in the Physician-assisted suicide occurs recent attempt through a referen- Organizations representing Judiciary Committee of the when a doctor writes a prescription dum to legalize physician-assisted the medical, hospice, disability General Assembly of the State for a patient who has a terminal suicide was in Massachusetts and elderly communities are all Legislature. illness and is told they have only and this effort was defeated on strong opponents of this type of So I am joining with six months to live. The patient then November 6, 2012. The New legislation. Physician-assisted Archbishop Leonard Blair of must have the prescription filled at Hampshire legislature over- suicide legislation is also strong- Hartford and Bishop Michael a local pharmacy and self-admin- whelming rejected physician-as- ly opposed by the American Cote of the Diocese of Norwich ister the drug, which in most cases sisted suicide in March, 2014. Medical Association. Any effort to ask all of the Catholic faithful occurs at home. Over 100 legislative proposals in to call this a religious issue is throughout the state to make The physician is almost never various states—and numerous clearly an attempt to detract from your voices heard. The time has present at the patient’s suicide. referendums—have consistently the serious problems relating to come once again for a mobilization of consciences as we address The physician or another health failed to enact physician-assist- the legalization of physician-as- the moral, medical and social issues that are at stake in this pro- care professional cannot admin- ed suicide laws. Two states, sisted suicide. posed legislation. While we must vigorously oppose so-called “right ister the drug. The patient must Montana and New Mexico, allow to die” legislation and its potential abuses, we must also do all we consume the medication, which physician-assisted suicide through Is physician-assisted suicide can to promote compassionate palliative care, which is increasingly may number around 100 pills, court decisions. good public policy? recognized as a medically sound, morally appropriate and effective by oneself. The physician’s role Many proponents of physi- way of dealing with basically ends once the prescrip- Is uncontrollable pain the cian-assisted suicide believe that end-of-life-situations. tion is provided to the patient. biggest concern of patients who this procedure is a private per- In the coming “We must promote com- Physician-assisted suicide is participate in physician-assisted sonal matter and the state should weeks, you will hear suicide? allow individuals to end their more about this issue passionate palliative Again the answer is “no.” lives if they so desire. The only on our website and in “The physician is Actual pain, combined with problem with this thought process our social media efforts, care, a medically sound concern about possible pain in is that once a legislature enacts a and you will be given not present at the the future, is only a motivating physician-assisted suicide law, it the opportunity to sign way of dealing with factor in the minority of cases. impacts everyone. an online and print peti- patient’s suicide. Although advocates for physi- It now places the option of tion circulated by the end-of-life-situations.” cian-assisted suicide would like suicide on the “table of options” Connecticut Catholic The patient must con- one to believe that uncontrollable to be considered when a per- Conference during the last two weeks of this month. pain is the primary reason that son is facing a serious illness. It It is also timely to note that we recently observed the annual sume the medication.” individuals seek to end their lives; presents opportunities for the ill, “World Day of the Sick.” In his message for the occasion Pope this is simply not supported by the elderly and the disabled to Francis says this: “How great a lie…lurks behind certain phrases the facts. be manipulated by those around which so insist on the importance of ‘quality of life’ that they not related to the withdrawal of In the words of the Oregon them who would benefit from make people think that lives affected by grave illness are not feeding tubes, intravenous fluids, Public Health Division concern- their death. The right to die may worth living!” breathing tubes, etc. The with- ing physician-assisted suicides in soon become the responsibility to I ask your active involvement and prayerful solidarity in this drawal of these devices is already 2013, “As in previous years, the die for the sick, the elderly and effort, and I urge you to read the Q&A below, which provides an allowed under law and under three most frequently mentioned the disabled. excellent overview of the issue and the reason both for our oppo- Catholic medical directives. end-of-life concerns were: loss sition to assisted suicide and for the Church’s support of improved of autonomy (93%), decreasing What is the solution to diffi- palliative care as people struggle with devastating illness. Is there a difference between ability to participate in activities cult end-of-life situations? Let us pray for all those who are ill and embrace them within “aid in dying,” “death with that made life enjoyable (88.7%), Most people facing a devas- the faith that represents true compassion, loving care, family sup- dignity” and physician-assisted and loss of dignity (73.2%).” Fear tating illness are usually seeking port and redemption of their suffering through the grace of our suicide? of being a burden on family and true compassion, loving care, Lord, Jesus Christ. No. “Aid in dying” or “death friends was a concern in 49.3% of family support and quality pain with dignity” are more socially the cases, while fear of pain was a control. Instead of enacting a law Sincerely, tolerable terms for physician-as- concern in only 28.2%. that opens up a Pandora’s Box sisted suicide. These terms are of possible abuses, we as a soci- used by advocates of physi- Does opposition to physi- ety should work on refining the cian-assisted suicide in order to cian-assisted suicide laws come existing system of medical care to Frank J. Caggiano, avoid the use of the word “sui- primarily from religious groups? reflect the 1993 statement of the Bishop of Bridgeport cide,” which most people find No. Supporters of physi- American Medical Association objectionable. Assisted Suicide cian-assisted suicide argue when it took a position against means nothing more than having that religious groups are its stron- physician-assisted suicide: respond to the needs of patients ing and other modalities. Patients a physician provide lethal medi- gest opponents. This also is not “Physician-assisted suicide is at the end of life. near the end of life must continue cation to a patient who wishes to true. Although religious groups, fundamentally incompatible with Patients should not be to receive emotional support, take his or her own life. such as the Catholic Church and the physician’s role as healer, abandoned once it is deter- comfort care, adequate pain con- How prevalent are physi- other denominations, strongly would be difficult or impossi- mined that cure is impossible. trol, respect for patient autonomy cian-assisted suicide laws? oppose this type of legislation and ble to control, and would pose Multidisciplinary interventions and good communication.” Currently, only three states, have been known to actively fund serious societal risks. Instead of should be sought, including spe- (For more updates on the current Oregon (1994), Washington efforts to defeat it, many other participating in assisted suicide, cialty consultation, hospice care, legislation, visit the Connecticut Catholic (2008) and Vermont (2013), have groups have spoken out loudly physicians must aggressively pastoral support, family counsel- Conference: www.ctcatholic.org.) n 9 February 2015 High School News Trinity Catholic building sports complex STAMFORD—The Diocese of alumni, parents, corporations The planned improvements, of Bridgeport; Roger Fox, chair with support by the Diocese of in the planning stages for the of the School Advisory Board; Bridgeport. There will be more past three years, will include and Mark W. Karagus, EdD, opportunities in the future for a complete refurbishing of the principal of Trinity Catholic donors to collaborate in the campus field to include a brand High School, have announced campaign to renew, rebuild and new multi-purpose turfed field for the commencement of construc- revitalize Trinity Catholic as the varsity and JV football, boys’ and tion of a brand-new, multi-mil- campaign continues. girls’ soccer, lacrosse, and girls’ lion dollar sports complex to be Phase One, launching this field hockey. located at its 26-acre Newfield winter, includes a total renova- Additionally, the complex Avenue campus. A groundbreak- tion of the TCHS athletic fields will include renovations to the ing ceremony is planned for The athletics program at Trinity baseball and softball fields, April 23, at 11:30 am. Catholic High School has a installation of new grandstands, The announcement follows long legacy of participants and press box, concessions and field three years of planning, and is programs, several of which have lighting. part of the school’s multi-year earned regional and national rec- (For more info on the ENVISION Campaign or Trinity Catholic High School, please contact the school: 203.322.3401.) n

ENVISION Campaign to com- ognition. pletely upgrade and renovate its “The new sports complex is facilities and provide the latest one part of an overall strategic educational technology. plan for Trinity Catholic High The multi-million dollar School. Our goal is to offer the campaign is the largest in the highest level of contemporary school’s history since its open- educational services in a faith- ing in 1958. Phase 1 of the based environment, as well as campaign was approved by accommodate an anticipated the zoning board of the City growth in students over the next of Stamford last fall. To date, two decades,” said Sister Mary generous donations have been Grace Walsh, ASCJ, Ph.D., made by dozens of alumni, par- superintendent of schools for ents and corporations towards the diocese. “As the only dioc- the Phase 1 goal of $2.3 million. esan high school in this area of With the support of the Diocese Fairfield County, it is import- of Bridgeport, Phase 2 of the ant to the diocese that Trinity campaign to renew, rebuild and Catholic have a strong and bright revitalize Trinity Catholic will future.” commence upon the completion Dr. Karagus describes the of Phase 1 and will include a effort as helping the school fulfill new media center and audito- a critical part of its mission. “We rium upgrades, plant improve- have an outstanding academic ments, and renovations to the program and a growing reputa- baseball and softball fields. tion for educating the whole stu- The $2.3 million dollar reno- dent—body, mind and spirit. This vation, the largest in the school’s will only add to the “trinity” of history, is been funded by the pillars this school offers the area’s generous contributions of dozens youth,” he said. 10 February 2015 Finance Diocese projects balanced operating budget BRIDGEPORT—A balanced produce a balanced operational operating budget and a change budget, while at the same time in the fiscal year highlight the decreasing the Annual Catholic January 1-June 30, 2015 six- Appeal goal by $500,000 in order month budget of the Diocese of to take some of the burden off Bridgeport. parishes. Michael Hanlon, chief finan- Hanlon said he has worked cial officer of the diocese said with Bishop Caggiano and other the new operating budget proj- Catholic Center leadership to ects approximately $11,132,000 reduce operating expenditures in revenue and $11,127,000 in by approximately $500,000 to expenses. achieve this goal. He said that in January the “We’ve looked at areas where diocesan finance council for- we can cut costs, particularly

The Bridgeport Roman Catholic Diocesan Corporation Operational Budget January - June 2015

Revenue Annual Catholic Appeal...... $5,499,991 Cathedraticum and School Support ...... 3,268,172 Cemeteries’ Contribution...... 718,500 Contributions and Bequests...... 684,228 Salary Reimbursement...... 496,140 Rental and Other Income...... 212,898 Advertising Income...... 137,502 Program Fee’s...... 115,068 Total Revenue...... $11,132,499

Expenses Salaries...... $3,418,536 Employee Benefits...... 1,579,530 Employer Payroll Taxes...... 212,184 Insurance and Worker’s Compenstion...... 184,834 Grants and Contributions...... 2,687,514 Occupancy...... 1,053,816 Professional Fee’s and Services...... 688,224 Travel,Seminars, Dues, Subscriptions and Other...... 404,339 Other Professional Services...... 349,656 Other Labor and Purchased Services...... 273,726 Interest...... 275,124 Total Expenses...... $11,127,483 to Catholic schools, Catholic the past several years with an cial and organizational process- Income from Operations - Before Depreciation...... $5,016 Charities and other program annual operating deficit, primar- es with the aim of improving initiatives that reflect the spiri- ily due to the inability to collect management and accountability, tual and service mission of the all of the insurance premiums fostering greater effectiveness mally approved this budget and hard costs such as property and Church. due from some of its schools and and efficiency, and empowering the changing of the fiscal year casualty, fleet auto and worker’s “We’re continuing to look at parishes. While these operational employees in the decision making to a June 30 year end from a compensation insurance prod- all of our expenses to determine shortfalls have been reduced, process. December 31 year end, which ucts. In these areas we reviewed how we can gain efficiencies the diocese has also created a In December of 2013, Bishop will align the diocese with the fis- costs, sought competitive bids and cost savings, so that we may strategic planning process with Caggiano took a major step cal years of our parishes, schools and renegotiated agreements,” re-direct more of our resources the main purpose of establishing toward financial transparency and most other related entities. he said. to support the mission of the dio- long-term viability for all our when he released the financial Due to this change, the next Hanlon said that approxi- cese,” Hanlon said. diocesan schools. statements for the diocese. The Financial Statement Audit will be mately 48 percent of all diocesan Diocesan revenues come from Along with revenue enhance- full audits for fiscal years 2010 for the 18 month period ending operating expenses are related parish assessments, the Annual ment measures and reduction of through 2013, can be found June 30, 2016. to employees’ salaries and ben- Catholic Appeal and other contri- expenditures, the bishop has also online. In his recent State of the efits. The diocese also expends butions, program fees and limited announced a plan to reorganize (To learn more, visit the diocesan Diocese Address, Bishop Frank approximately $2.7 million in rental income. the Catholic Center to address website: www.bridgeportdiocese.com/ J. Caggiano said his goal was to grants and program support The diocese has struggled over immediate administrative, finan- financialreports.) n 11 February 2015 Annual White Mass White Mass speaker to focus on ethics of genetics DANBURY—The 22nd Invasion, Metastasis Program at This is the seventh year that guests are invited to attend the White annual White Mass and breakfast the Lombardi Comprehensive the Father Rufin Compassionate Mass. Breakfast tickets: $35. For honoring health care profession- Cancer Center. Care Award will be presented at more info and tickets, contact Debbie als will be held on Sunday, April His research interests have the White Mass breakfast. Charles: 203.416.1352 or dcharles@ 12, at 8:30 am at St. Aloysius included the investigation of (All healthcare workers and their diopbt.org.) n Church in New Canaan. abnormal gene regulation in The Mass, open to the general cancer and ethical issues in public, will be celebrated by human genetics, including the Bishop Frank J. Caggiano. ethical and social ramifications Breakfast will follow at Woodway of molecular genetics research. Country Club in Darien. He is also a Jesuit priest and Father Kevin FitzGerald, S.J., an expert on ethical issues in associate professor of bioethics at personalized medicine, phar- Georgetown University’s School macogenomics, human cloning of Medicine and an expert in research, stem cell research, and ethical issues related to cloning genetic testing. and genetic testing, will be the He earned a second PhD in featured speaker. bioethics in 1999 at Georgetown Father Kevin FitzGerald, S.J. He brings a strong background University, after also achieving of experience and expertise to a doctorate from Georgetown in his topic. Father FitzGerald is a 1996 in molecular biology. His from the ranks of physicians, research associate professor in undergraduate degree is from nurses, dentists, healthcare work- the division of biochemistry and Cornell University (1977) in biol- ers or healthcare volunteers in pharmacology of the Department ogy. He was awarded his masters Fairfield County who exemplify of Oncology and the Dr. David in divinity from the Jesuit School the compassionate and loving P. Lauler chair for Catholic of Theology in 1988. care for the sick for which the Health Care Ethics. He is also a At the breakfast, two area late Father Rufin Kuveikis, a member of the Center for Clinical healthcare professionals will Capuchin Franciscan, was known Bioethics, the Advisory Board for be presented the Father Rufin as chaplain at Norwalk Hospital the Center for Infectious Disease Compassionate Care Award. The for 18 years. He died in 2008 at (CID), and the Angiogenesis, recipients are traditionally drawn age 86.

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EDITORIAL EDITOR’S CHOICE Discontent Assisted suicide is a slippery slope “Now is the winter of our discontent.” I have been very surprised by the number of people defending assisted suicide. If you’re buried to your overflowing gutters in snow, you might People have been able to commit suicide in astonishing numbers forever; what is new and at issue is the agree with that familiar statement. But in the opening lines of his play, demand that others participate. Richard III, Shakespeare was heading in a different direction. The argument always begins with the discovery of a new so-called “right,” but as we have seen with abortion, “Now is the winter of our discontent it very quickly morphs into the “duty” of others to provide that “right” to you, even against their own wills. Made glorious summer...” Then comes very strong pressure to abort your child or kill yourself rather than cost the system or your family The play, like our own lives, has its share of good and evil, disaster any more money. You are seen as “selfish” if you don’t comply. And as we have seen in Europe, where people, and triumph. We are certainly in the middle of discontented winter even children, are “assisted” to die for everything from depression to tinnitus, “safeguards” rarely last long. now, and the world around us is seeing a distressing amount of vio- A letter from Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg says it is wrong to use one’s beliefs to force policy on others. lence and tragedy. Our personal lives, too, have their share of strain, This is a straw man. Only the government has the power to impose actions that are consequences of beliefs. guilt, and even some of that old-fashioned word—sin. All that religious and other thoughtful, ethical people can do is to try to rationally persuade the elector- Winter deepens. Lent starts. Ash Wednesday, February 18, heralds ate or the bench that, however often something is advertised as “the freedom to do what I want with my a time of austerity and taking an honest look at the less-than-pret- own body,” what is delivered is “the tyranny to be complicit, either indirectly through taxes or directly ty aspects of our lives. It’s important that we know, as we struggle through coercion of health-care workers, in the taking of innocent life.” through it, that Lent heralds a glorious summer. Lent leads to the Mary Taylor, Sandy Hook magnificent, unending sunlight of God’s love, made manifest in the Resurrection of Jesus Christ. After tragedy and suffering beyond mea- sure, Love emerges triumphant. This winter, with suffering, sin, evil and tragedy all around us, we CLERGYAPPOINTMENTS need to cling to that promise of God’s light more than ever. Embrace The Most Reverend Frank J. Caggiano, Bishop of Bridgeport, the austerity of Lent. Accept the season of discontent. Believe in the has made the following clergy appointments in the Diocese of Bridgeport: triumph. Retirement REVEREND MATTHEW BERNELLI, Pastor, Saint Mary Parish, Bridgeport to retirement. Synod at halfway mark Msgr. Bernelli will be remaining at Saint Mary. Effective date is 6/30/15. The synod hit the halfway mark last Saturday and it has already REVEREND MONSIGNOR J. PETER CULLEN, Pastor, Saint Michael the Archangel Parish, Greenwich to retirement. Effective date was 12/31/14. Msgr. Cullen will be remaining at Saint Michael the Archangel as been a remarkable journey. Administrator effective 1/1/2015 through 6/30/15. At the Third General Session, 350 delegates arrived at the final five “global” challenges that will be the work of the synod and the dio- REVEREND MONSIGNOR PETER DORA, Chaplain, Stamford Hospital, Stamford to retirement. Effective cese in coming years. (see story on page 3). Throughout the process, date is 4/30/15. Bishop Caggiano has guided, listened and encouraged with his own REVEREND RAYMOND PETRUCCI, Chaplain, Danbury Hospital, Danbury to retirement. Effective date is many thoughtful insights: 2/28/15. • “Dig deeper, ask more questions and get to the root of the prob- REVEREND ROBERT POST, to retirement, remaining at Catherine Dennis Keefe Queen of the Clergy lems,” Bishop Caggiano continually urged delegates—and they did. Residence. Effective date is 2/28/15. They have spent months studying issues such as the growing num- ber of Catholics who have left the Church, the exodus of young REVEREND GEORGE SANKOORIKAL, Pastor, Saint Marguerite Bourgeoys Parish, Brookfield to retire- people in their teens, and the sense that many Catholics are “sacra- ment. Effective date is 6/30/15. mentalized” but not evangelized. Residence • “Youth aren’t the future, they’re the present,” the bishop has often REVEREND PHILIP BOCHANSKI, Associate Director at Courage International, Inc., Norwalk, new to the reminded us. And youth have been much in evidence at the synod. diocese, to reside at Saint Catherine of Siena, Trumbull. Effective date was 2/1/15. In addition to serving as delegates, young people have met with Special Assignment the bishop in many consultations to celebrate and strengthen their REVEREND DONALD GUGLIELMI, is released from his diocesan assignment as Pastor of Saint Mark faith. Parish, Stratford, in order to be assigned to the Seminary Faculty, ’s Seminary, Yonkers, NY. • “Nothing will be left behind,” the bishop reassured the delegates Effective date is 6/30/15 7/1/15. who championed challenges that did not make the final cut. And Reverend Ian Jeremiah, Episcopal Vicar for Clergy he also thanked them for their spirit of “humility and compromise” February, 2015 in working toward the greater good. • “Think of the people who are not here,” the bishop has urged throughout the synod. In particular, he has asked delegates to con- sider the poor, marginalized, newcomers and alienated Catholics. Most Reverend Frank J. Caggiano Circulation “I must be the custodian of those voices.” Publisher Every registered Catholic household Now the synod works to find solutions to the many challenges Brian D. Wallace in Fairfield County is entitled Executive Editor [email protected] defined during the discernment process. Delegates will be searching to a subscription. 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Copy Editor (Consultant) 13 February 2015 Editorial The hidden curriculum advance in holiness this way. shows up for the scheduled oppor- sions. The parishioners need to Without holiness, we cannot be a tunity—those fleeting fifteen min- know that their shepherd is there, Catholic by Grace people on mission. utes before Sunday Mass. waiting. The people need to be In his papal address on the But this is what the one with reminded (often) that a merciful By Denise Bossert Sacrament of Reconciliation in venial sin thinks: I don’t want Lord is waiting for them. During March of 2012, Pope Benedict to bother my priest before Mass Advent and Lent, the opportuni- XVI made it clear that, “The because it’s just a venial sin, and ties for Confession should be even New Evangelization draws its he’s so busy right before Mass, more generous, highlighted by Denise Bossert is a national lifeblood from the holiness of and I would guess there are others every means of communication. the children of the Church, from far more sinful who need these Here is what will happen in Catholic writer and columnist. the daily journey of personal and few minutes more than I do. the parish: community conversion in order This is what the one with mor- People will become holy. to be ever more closely con- tal sin thinks: If I go to Confession People will be on mission. The t is the key to unleashing the numerous other special Masses formed to Christ.” right now, then my parents (wife, New Evangelization will come New Evangelization. It is throughout the year. Because personal holiness children, husband, friends) will to your parish. The faithful will essential to carrying out the And they come. People show depends upon the Sacrament of know that I have mortal sin that I begin to discern vocations to reli- I Gospel mission. What is the up at every Mass. Reconciliation, Pope Benedict need to deal with. Who wants to gious life. key? It is the confessional. But we are sinners. As much XVI went on to say that the new open that can of worms? I’ll just Here is what will happen in You might have expected as we do not wish to do it, we fall evangelization begins in the con- go another time. individuals: me to say the Eucharist. The back into sin—often. And so the fessional. But there is no other time. They will be healed of mortal Eucharist is the source and sum- net result is that many people are While most parishes are That’s it. Sunday before sin and lose their attachment to mit of our faith. That is true. approaching the Eucharist while incredibly accommodating in Mass—if you can find the priest. it. Then they will begin to address But I would posit that priests carrying the baggage of sin, per- providing opportunities for Mass And expect a whirlwind chronic sin. Jealousy. Gossip. already carry out this part of their haps even mortal sin. attendance, many are abysmal— Confession because the priest is Gluttony. Bitterness and unfor- ministry with great faithfulness That is a problem. Receiving tragically so—when it comes to bound to have his mind on Mass giving spirits. Laziness. Then and devotion. My own parish has Our Lord while in a state of providing opportunities for the and his eye on his watch. they will become stronger, more four Sunday Masses, daily Mass serious sin only adds mortal sin Sacrament of Confession. Every parish should have one accustomed to walking in grace. Monday through Saturday, and on top of mortal sin. One cannot Some may say that nobody night a week set aside for confes- ➤ continued on page 14 Fifty Years a Priest St. Ann’s in one way or another. And they were intense years. decade at the cathedral was fol- “Dinners, dances, basketball The was lowed by a decade as pastor of St. A Dad’s View games—the parish was the center of happening. The old ways were Thomas the Apostle in Norwalk. our life,” he says. “The Church was rapidly changing. For the last 13 years, he’s shep- By Matthew Hennessey at the heart of our community.” Father Scheyd was ordained herded the flock at St. Aloysius High school for Billy was by Bishop Walter Curtis on Parish in New Canaan. Fairfield Prep. One day a Jesuit February 10, 1965, and went to This month, Msgr. William Matthew Hennessey and there asked if Billy had ever thought work as an associate pastor at St. Scheyd celebrates his 50th anni- of becoming a priest. Billy said that Mary’s in Norwalk, just around versary as a priest. He has held his family are parishioners he had, but he didn’t think he’d the corner from the hospital. every position of high respon- of St. Aloysius in New Canaan. make a good Jesuit. “I’m not a real With proximity came responsi- sibility in the diocese you can academic guy,” he says. “Once in a bility. “It’s one of the few jobs think of. “He has been vicar while I read a whole book.” where you’re asked to just about general since Columbus arrived,” welve year-old Billy okay. But doctors were expen- Teenage Billy didn’t really everything on the first day,” he quipped former Bridgeport bish- Scheyd of St. Ann sive, and polio had the potential know what he was aiming for. He says. The young priest went right op, Edward Cardinal Egan. Parish in the Black Rock to cripple a child for life. Father thought about becoming a police- in at the deep end—anointing the Yet Msgr. Scheyd has never Tsection of Bridgeport got Walter McCarthy was the pas- man, a lawyer, maybe going into sick, comforting the bereaved, lost his affinity for people. “I’ve polio. It was 1952, and the coun- tor of St. Ann’s. He told Billy’s business of some kind. He applied praying for lost souls. always tried to create an atmo- try was in the middle of the worst father to find the best care avail- and was accepted at Fairfield U. As the years rolled on, Father sphere where all are welcome,” outbreak in its history. Nearly able. Father McCarthy would and Boston College. Scheyd realized that his min- he says. “And I’ve been lucky to 58,000 people fell ill. More than pay for everything. But during senior year, the istry was for people. He loved have had the support of wonder- 3,000 died. Billy got better, but he never principal came on the P.A. and fellowship. Talking with people, ful people in wonderful parishes.” That summer, Jonas Salk forgot the priest’s generosity. “He announced that the vocations hearing their problems, celebrat- The Bridgeport that Billy administered the first experimen- was a good man,” Scheyd says director of the diocese was in the ing their blessings—these were Scheyd grew up in is largely tal polio vaccine to 30 children now. “In those days, the parish office and that any boys thinking his strengths. “As a priest, you gone. Thanks to Jonas Salk, so in his lab at the University of priests did a lot of good for people. of becoming priests should come see people at their best, and you is the polio virus that killed and Pittsburgh. But it would be sever- That was always my impression of talk to him. see them at their worst. I offer crippled so many people in the al years before the vaccine went them. They were good men.” Billy surprised himself by get- my help, but I try to be humble summer of 1952. But Monsignor mainstream. In 1952, all Billy’s Billy’s parents were Catholic, ting up out of his seat. “The Holy enough to know that I don’t William Scheyd of the Roman family could do was wait to see but not “religious fanatics,” he Spirit must have been working know everything,” he says. Catholic Diocese of Bridgeport, how bad his case would be, and says. They were just decent, ordi- on me,” he says. First stop was On July 2, 1982—30 years to Connecticut, isn’t gone. He’s still pray for a speedy recovery. nary folks. Billy’s mother was a minor seminary at St. Thomas in the day after Jonas Salk found here and still a priest. Billy’s father fretted. As a nurse. Mr. Scheyd worked nights Hartford. Next stop, major semi- his polio vaccine—Father Scheyd That is to say, he’s a good personnel manager at the Stanley at the post office during the war. nary at St. John’s in Boston. returned to Bridgeport as pastor man. He does a lot of good for a Works factory, Mr. Scheyd did They were always helping out at He was in Boston for six years. of St. Augustine Cathedral. A lot of people. n 14 February 2015 Black History Month Reflections on the March on Washington, 1963

By PETER GEORGE thousands of soldiers to be on standby for a catastrophe. (Editor’s note: Peter George, then Of course, thousands upon president of the Catholic Interracial thousands marched peacefully. Council of the Diocese of Bridgeport, No rough action of any signifi- joined Dr. Martin Luther King’s cance took place. Never had the March on Washington in 1963. nation seen anything so enor- Thousands of Americans headed to mous in the past, and it was com- Washington on Tuesday August pletely peaceful. 27, 1963. On Wednesday, August During the day I, like so many 28, 1963, Martin Luther King, others, sought shade. Many hud- Jr., standing in front of the Lincoln dled close to trees, while others Memorial, delivered his historic “I sat on the grass with their feet in Have a Dream” speech in which he the pool leading up to the stairs called for an end to racism.) of the Lincoln Memorial. Many of the great civil rights leaders My best recollection of that spoke of leading issues, while we day begins with our meeting at waited most of all to hear Dr. the station about 5 am for the Martin Luther King speak. train to Washington, D.C. There We were all enthralled, mes- were about eight of us, who were merized and hypnotized by what all on the trip to D.C. to empha- he said. We left feeling energized size the necessity for jobs and and determined to try to make justice, not only for blacks but things better for the future. for people of all colors, races or Today, while things are actu- religions. determined to undergo, with- we boarded the train, which had hotter and hotter. There was no air ally better in many ways, a new Truly, you could feel its stand and tolerate the heat and originated in Boston and traveled conditioning in those days. There “Jim Crow” has arisen. For conviction in the air, hot as it humidity, for the gravity of the through Springfield, Hartford were too many of us to count and example, voting opportunities, was on that day. Everyone was time demanded no less of us. As and New Haven, we could not so crowded that we looked and felt the heart of democracy and the help but notice the motley group like sardines in a can. bedrock of representative gov- of whites, blacks and others of At last we arrived in the ernment, has been denied and various ethnicities. Everybody, Capitol, got off the train, and eviscerated for many blacks and although tired, was excited, ener- were surprised to be met by hun- the poor by curtailing early voting getic and happy. We were going dreds of buses to take us to the registration, shortening the hours to see and hear the “King.” Lincoln Memorial. As the buses of voting, limiting the voting Now this train, a special one, traveled through the streets, to locations and demanding drivers’ was commissioned for this jour- my amazement, I saw no one. licenses or other IDs which many ney. As it traveled through New The place was a ghost town— can’t get because of their cost. York, New Jersey, Delaware except for one, far too obvious, I think if Dr. King were living and on our way south, thing. There was a policeman and today, he would be saddened by hundreds of people joined us. a soldier in full gear with a fixed what he would hear or see—but They carried placards, banners bayonet on each corner of every he would not be defeated. His and anything that highlighted the street. Years later, I learned that determination and activities importance of this trip. We were the legislators of both Houses would be just as strong as ever. men and women, young and old, and a large number of other peo- The only difference would be that and clergy men and women of ple had left the city in fear of an he would expect us to help fulfill every denomination. impending riot. In fact, President the “Dream” by being do-ers and As the day progressed, it got Kennedy had quietly ordered not onlookers. n

Catholic by Grace from page 13 When I was a teacher, we That is the situation right now. have availed themselves of the used to talk about the hidden cur- When the scheduled confessions Sacrament of Confession weekly. riculum. By hidden curriculum, are right before Sunday Mass or If even two people in every parish we meant those things students at a time when most people are decided they wanted to emulate learned that we did not set out unavailable, we are teaching our that kind of holiness, the current to teach. Youngsters figure out parishioners that Confession is confessional schedule would not what is important and what isn’t a last-minute sacrament, a kind be sufficient. important. They learn which of triage-only sacrament, a rare- If evangelization depends on corners can be cut and what ly-needed sacrament, a practical- holiness, we need to throw open the the teacher really cares about. ly-unnecessary sacrament. doors on every confessional. We Sometimes, to our dismay, we While we do not believe any need to say, “Come soon; come realize that the students jettisoned of these things, it is the hidden often.” Let them know that Jesus things that are really important curriculum—the catechesis we Christ is waiting just for them. because we inadvertently fostered did not intend to teach. Holiness and Gospel mission. problems and created issues we Reality check. The first opens the door for the never meant to foster or create. Some of the holiest people second. n 15 February 2015 Meet Sister Mary Ann Rossi, CND As part of the coverage Years in Vowed Profession: If I could have lunch with a 50+ saint it would be: Our founder of the Year of Consecrated St. Marguerite Bourgeoys or Pope Life, the Communications Ministry, now or former- John XXIII Department has devel- ly: Right now I am one of two vocation ministers. In the past, I What “rocks my world” oped a survey to highlight have been a pastoral minister in today: I am moved by the ter- the diversity of person- a parish, director of a college vol- rible suffering and the violence, unteer program, campus minister, especially where children are the alities, interests and We hope this simple survey teacher. victims. will give readers a chance to ministries of consecrated think of people in consecrated life Something I most appreci- A favorite image or title for Sister Mary Ann Rossi, CND in a new way. ate about community life: It women and men in this Jesus that resonates with me: For our first respondent, meet is a “home” for me where we Beloved Friend diocese. Readers will find Sister Mary Ann Rossi in her are all on the same page in our Slogan that I would give my them in Fairfield County own words: total commitment to Christ and life: “Look! God is here!” Person who influenced my Christ’s people. We LIKE to be Catholic over the coming Name: Sister Mary Ann Rossi, faith life: My teachers and an together. What I would say to some- months, and will be able CND aunt, a spiritual director, my one considering choosing CND Sisters An interesting fact about me: Consecrated life: It is a life where to see more responses Hometown: Waterbury, CT I love teaching and cooking! one can experience the deep love on the diocesan A Connecticut place I espe- of God with all its adventures, sur- website: www.bridgeport- Order/Institute/ cially like: Not Connecticut—my I really like this author: prises, challenges and compassion Congregation: Congregation of favorite place in RI is “Quonnie, Fiction, Louise Penny; spirituali- for others. And you get to live it diocese.com. Notre Dame of Montreal a CND Place by the Sea” ty, Timothy Radcliffe with great people. n

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By KAREN KOVACS exchange ideas, mentor each the St. Philip Youth Group has DYDZUHN other and talk about upcoming paid for the trip in full through youth events. fundraisers. She plans to send a “When I first started out as a “You get invigorated by peo- list of these successful fundraising youth minister 16 years ago, we ple who are doing the same min- programs to Rodgers so she can had a lot of training,” said Kali istry as you,” DiMarco said. disseminate the information to DiMarco. “I learned so much, so She presented information youth ministers throughout the fast. This is what I would love to about the National Catholic diocese. see come back to the diocese.” Youth Conference, which has One of the highlights of last For the past three years, been held for the past four years year’s conference was listening DiMarco has performed two in Indianapolis, Indiana. Last to Bishop Frank J. Caggiano’s jobs at St. Philip Parish in year’s event drew more than closing prayer in the crowded Norwalk: youth minister and 25,000 attendees. stadium. YOUTH MINISTERS GATHERED in a series of sessions around the diocese to exchange ideas, mentor each other and talk about upcoming youth events. director of religious education. “It’s really a class act,” “He walked out onto the stage The round-table discussions were organized by the Pastoral Services Office and This month she joined her col- DiMarco said. “There’s a large and just rocked it,” DiMarco led by Julie Rodgers, MCR, diocesan director of youth ministry. leagues at a round-table discus- opening and closing, and unbe- said. sion organized by the diocese’s lievable music and unbelievable She said he spoke candidly director of youth ministry, Julie key note speakers.” from his heart and even agreed to last year’s conference. A non-re- For youth ministries to Rodgers. Workshops on a variety of trade his bishop’s hat for a red, fundable deposit is required to flourish, though, the support of This meeting, held at St. Rose topics are available throughout hot chili pepper head covering reserve transportation, housing the pastor is the vital element. of Lima Parish in Newtown, the day. “A lot of kids wear that he enthusiastically put on his and conference fees. “Support from your pastor is was the first of three sessions for hats and they trade buttons,” head. “And, that’s when I knew Blessey advised the gathered key,” Father Couture told the youth ministers. The following DiMarco said. “They have what good shape we (the diocese) youth ministers, “Pick a secure youth ministers. “A priest can sessions were held at St. Philip’s a lot of fun. I’ve had very was in,” DiMarco said, smiling. number that you feel comfortable make or break a youth group. in Norwalk and the Catholic church-ed kids with me and kids “We’re really blessed.” with and start to recruit kids. All When cuts have to be made to Center in Bridgeport. The youth that weren’t, and it works for Rodgers emphasized Bishop of the other paperwork will get the budget, youth ministry always ministers gathered for this first everyone.” Caggiano’s commitment to the done. If you get more kids, which gets cut. You have to let your session agreed that it was use- The cost is $800 to $900 per diocesan youth, noting that John is really a great problem to have, pastors know that you need their ful to get together frequently to person. However, DiMarco said Grosso was recently hired to you can call and try to get more support. And if you ask for help coordinate social media, with spots.” and they say, ‘no,’ ask again. If a special emphasis on targeting Father Jeff Couture, chaplain they say ‘no’ again, ask again.” you are invited to youth. Youth groups also now at , (For more info on the dioce- have a room at the Catholic said he encourages high school san youth ministry, contact Julie discover lauralton: Center where they can film pro- students to get involved in their Rodgers: [email protected] Live the Lauralton Life! motional videos for events and parish’s youth groups. or 203.416.1449.) n programs. Additionally, a new free Bridgeport Diocese telephone app was launched. Rodgers expects the ongoing Synod to produce “a common vision,” one that will benefit all Catholics, young and old. Rodd Blessey, youth minister at St. Rose, agreed. “There’s a unique opportunity in the diocese to work with youth than there’s ever been before,” he said. Blessey and Jenna Donovan, also a youth minister at St. Rose’s Parish, spoke positively about bringing the parish youth to the For one fun-filled and informative day, find out Steubenville East Conference, what it’s like to be a high school student at Lauralton Hall. which is located in Lowell, Girls in grades 5, 6 and 7 and their parents will Massachusetts. This year’s con- enjoy on-campus activities, while living the exciting and ference is July 17-19. rewarding experience that is Lauralton Hall. “It’s a unique opportunity to take your groups away and have a lot of fun and also encounter sunday, april 26 | 1:00–3:30 pm God a special way,” Blessey registration deadline friday, april 10 203.878.3333 stated. His first trip to Steubenville East changed his life and led to Lauralton Hall his long-term tenure as a youth Connecticut’s First Catholic College-Prep School for Girls minister. Twelve youth attended the 200 high street milford, connecticut lauraltonhall.org academy of our lady of mercy first trip to Steubenville that he coordinated, and 68 traveled to 17 February 2015 Faith Formation Intentional disciples want to serve! TRUMBULL—Sherry have too many of them. Church because of Pope Francis. Weddell, nationally acclaimed Weddell described a “Double- Weddell challenged those in author, was the main speaker in-Five Challenge” in which attendance to boldly live their at the January 13 “Forming parishes set out to double their faith like the saints. Many dis- Intentional Disciples” seminar number of intentional disciples in ciples, she noted, do not have held at St. Catherine of Siena five years. To do so, intentional the impact that they could have Parish. The conference was based disciples are given the opportu- because they are suppressed to on Weddell’s popular book of the nity to speak openly about the “fit” into a current parish culture same name. More than 235 peo- possibilities of a relationship with of non-discipleship. They are ple attended the event. Jesus. “Parishes that attract and “underground” disciples who Conference attendees were support new disciples in an ongo- would emerge easily if prompted. stunned to learn that the fastest ing way could quadruple their Father Towsley summed up growing “religious” group in number of intentional disciples in Weddell’s message by stating that the United States are those who 10 years,” she said. “We are called at this moment to describe themselves as “unaffiliat- “Some conversions are gradu- understand that we are not only ed” with any organized religion. al,” Weddell said, “while others seeking Jesus, but we are also sent SHERRY WEDDELL, nationally acclaimed author, was the main speaker at “The goal of evangelization is the January 13 “Forming Intentional Disciples” seminar held at St. Catherine are dramatic.” What is most by him to be missionary disciples.” more than just putting bodies in of Siena Parish in Trumbull. important is that people begin (On April 18, the Diocese of the pews,” Weddell said. “It is their journey. She credits Pope Bridgeport will welcome Dr. Scott leading them, especially the lay Francis with rebuilding trust in Hahn and Kimberly Hahn, and Dr. faithful, to a personal encounter Statistics also reveal that retained “if they were connected the Church, especially among Allen Hunt for an event offering inspi- with Jesus Christ.” about 50 percent of fallen-away with people who are on fire with those who have stopped practic- ration, encouragement and creative Father Peter Towsley, vicar for Catholics eventually participate their Catholic faith.” ing the faith. Her statistics reveal solutions to the challenges of married evangelization for the Diocese of in the life of Protestant denomi- People who are on fire with that some 26 percent of lapsed life and parenting. For tickets, go to Bridgeport, stated that “It is easy for nations; many others who leave their faith are “Intentional Catholics (14 million Americans) www.popefrancisandthepromiseoffam- people to drift away from their faith the Catholic Church simply no Disciples,” and parishes cannot are considering a return to the ily.eventbrite.com.) n if they do not have a personal rela- longer desire to participate in any tionship with Jesus.” He added that organized religion. “We need to move from merely tell- These statistics carry profound ing people about Jesus… Encounter consequences for the life of the is essential for all disciples.” Catholic Church going forward, Weddell said that “People including areas such as stew- who are disciples want to serve.” ardship, attendance, apostolic She co-founded and serves as creativity, pastoral governance, co-director of the Catherine of evangelization, vocations and Siena Institute (www.siena.org). religious education for children According to her research, at least and adults. 25 percent of American adults are Weddell believes that on a spiritual journey, searching for Catholics who are at the margins St. Thomas Aquinas Church a church, and parishes need to be of Church life and who are at 1719 Post Road, Fairfield, Connecticut inviting and ready to receive them. risk of leaving the faith could be LENT 2015 Diocese of Norwich “A TIME TO ‘LET GO’ & ‘LET GOD’!” On the Sunday evenings of Lent – at 7:30pm we will celebrate Office of Prison Ministry “Evening Prayer of the Church & Benediction of the Most Blessed Sacrament” with a reflection by Father Victor Martin for our Lenten journey. A Restorative Justice Forum with panel discussion led by Award-Winning Director, Leslie Neale 1st Sunday of Lent – February 22 OUR COUNTDOWN TO ETERNITY! at Christ the King Church Hall, Old Lyme on April 25, 2015, 10am-1pm 2nd Sunday of Lent – March 1 A TIME FOR A NEW “YOU!” Screening of Documentary Unlikely Friends 3rd Sunday of Lent – March 8 Screening and Panel Discussion FORGIVENESS IS THE JOURNEY HOME! Explores Forgiveness, Friendship, Between Victims of Brutal Crimes and Perpetrators 4th Sunday of Lent – March 15 THE MESSAGE OF THE CROSS! 5th Sunday of Lent – March 22 To purchase tickets to the screening of Unlikely Friends please call 1.860.848.2237, ext. 211 WHAT HAVE WE DELETED OR ADDED Pre-Registration is Required. THIS LENT? For more information on Unlikely Friends and to view the trailer, PALM SUNDAY – March 29 please visit www.unlikelyfriendsforgive.com HOLY WEEK – EVERYTHING CHANGES! 18 February 2015 Respect Life We need to protect all life

By CAITLYN MITCHELL hood due to abortion or lost sib- we all got ready for the March. lings to abortion and regret it and The March started at 1:00 at the My name is Caitlyn Mitchell mourn the loss of the babies. They National Mall. Over 600,000 and I AM THE PRO-LIFE were very brave to admit their GENERATION. I’m twelve mistakes and carry signs, fighting years old and I am a seventh- to make others understand that life grader at St. Mary’s School in begins in the womb. Ridgefield. The next morning we went This was my second time to the Youth Rally and Mass for going to the March for Life and Life at the Verizon Center. There CAITLYN MITCHELL AND HER MOTHER, Jennifer, spent some quality personally it was better than the was an enthusiastic pro-life DJ “mother-daughter time” together during their pilgrimage to Washington, D.C., first time I went in 2014. My mom that made us get on our feet and for the annual March for Life. (l) Caitlyn’s T-shirt reads, “Pretend I am a tree and I drove down to Washington, dance; after that a band sang and save me.” D.C., on the Wednesday before and praised God. It was really the March to attend the Youth exciting to see over 28,000 young When we got to the Supreme that all who read this will be Conference and Expo. The pre- people who feel the same way Court we saw about one hundred inspired to attend the March for senters were both inspiring and as I do. After lots of singing and angry pro-choice protesters but Life with us next year! We need informative. Their testimonies dancing, we all prayed a they were nothing compared to to protect all life from conception made me feel strong and renewed and celebrated the Mass for Life. the size of our pro-life group. The to natural death. After all isn’t my commitment and passion to The Mass was celebrated by the “Silent No More” testimonies the Fifth Commandment “Thou one day abolish abortion. Archbishop of Washington and had so much conviction and emo- shall not kill!” One of the groups that was was concelebrated with Cardinal people marched all the way to tional power that I hope and pray (I made a small video of my really inspiring was called “Silent Dolan, 20+ bishops, and hun- the Supreme Court. My mom that pro-choice protesters may trip this year that I invite you to No More.” They are a group of dreds of priests. The homily was and I followed the group “Silent realize the truth. view it at https://www.youtube. people who have had abortions, really powerful. No More” because we wanted to Overall the March for Life was com/watch?v=odhtBBr3DkQ&fea- performed abortions, lost father- Once the Mass was finished hear their powerful testimonies. another great success and I hope ture=youtu.beWarm.) n

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Palm Sunday Weekend, March 28/29 Confessions: Saturday: 4:30 PM to 5:00 PM Vigil for Palm Sunday at 5:15 PM Sunday: Masses at 7:30 AM, 9:00 AM (Family Mass), 11:30 AM, and 5:00 PM

Monday, March 30 Masses at 7:00 AM and 5:15 PM

Tuesday, March 31 Masses at 7:00 AM and 5:15 PM Confessions at 7:00 PM – 9:00 PM

Wednesday, April 1 Mass at 7:00 AM and 5:15 PM

Holy Thursday, April 2 No Regularly Scheduled Masses Mass of the Lord’s Supper at 7:30 PM Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament from 9:00 PM to 11:00 PM Good Friday, April 3 No Regularly Scheduled Masses Solemn Liturgy of the Lord’s Passion at 3:00 PM (Main Service) at 7:00 PM Holy Saturday, April 4 No Regularly Scheduled Masses Blessing of Easter Food at 11:00 AM The Easter Vigil at 8:00 PM Easter Sunday, April 5 Masses at 7:30 AM, 9:00 AM (Family Mass), and 11:30 AM No 5:00 PM Mass 19 February 2015 Ecumenical Service Bishop prays for Christian unity

By FATHER COLIN eyes on Jesus Christ.” MCKENNA He concluded by emphasizing that in order to find true unity in BRIDGEPORT—“Amens” diversity, Christians need to pray and applause greeted Bishop for the grace of humility in order Frank J. Caggiano’s homily at the to be healed. His homily received “Unity in Diversity” service at St. many heartfelt “Amens!” from John Episcopal Church in down- the congregation, consisting town Bridgeport. largely of non-Catholics, and a The Week of Prayer for round of enthusiastic applause. Christian Unity, celebrated this Three separate red-robed year from January 18-25, con- choirs from different churches cluded in the Bridgeport area on brought joyous, soulful singing to Sunday afternoon, January 25, the event, and two other musical with a joyous two-hour worship groups and some liturgical danc- service in which the bishop and ers made the entire service enter- other religious leaders participated. taining and spiritually uplifting. Nearly 100 members of choirs One of the intercessory and praise teams from Catholic, prayers summed up the purpose BISHOP CAGGIANO’S HOMILY Protestant and Orthodox con- and spirit of the worship service at the prayer service produced many gregations participated in the and the weeklong celebration: heartfelt “Amens!” and enthusiastic applause. ecumenical prayer service, and THE PRAISE TEAM of the Bethel AME Church presented a “Musical and “God of eternal compassion... another 100 people attended the Dance Offering” as part of the ecumenical service at St. John Episcopal Church grant us wisdom to listen to your service as congregants. in Bridgeport. (Photos by Father Colin McKenna) voice that calls us to unity in our conclusion of the ceremony, For most Roman Catholics diversity.” participants were dancing in the in the Diocese of Bridgeport, ters,” and that “the division that expressed hope that one day, all The afternoon’s worship church to the rhythms of the the annual Week of Prayer exists among us is a scandal to Christians will worship in one service and festivities were spon- Latin Band from Bridgeport’s St. for Christian Unity, held each the larger world.” Church, professing one faith. sored by the Council of Churches Charles Borromeo Parish. Many January, can come and go with Despite the challenging tone “Jesus Christ is the Lord of us of Greater Bridgeport. After the were hugging each other joyfully barely a notice. In the years of his homily, Bishop Caggiano all,” he said. “We must fix our prayers of sending forth, at the and praising God. n immediately following the Second Vatican Council, Roman Catholic laypeople and clergy approached ecumenical dialogue and prayer with enthusiasm, but since then, ecumenical activities for many Catholics have fallen to a low level of priority. Despite serious differences with other Christian churches, Catholics do have a responsibility to try to find common ground Saint James Parish with their fellow Christians. Clergy from the Diocese of > Lent 2015 > Bridgeport and ten Protestant and Orthodox churches and organiza- “Come back to the Lord with all your heart. Leave the past in ashes and turn to God with tears and fasting, for He is slow to anger and ready to forgive.” Joel 2:13 tions officiated at the ceremony. Ash Wednesday — February 18 Prayer and Devotional Opportunities Prayer Opportunities Bishop Caggiano was the desig- Ashes will be distributed during Eucharist For Men–Beloved Sons’ Gatherings nated homilist. 8:00 am, 12:10 pm, & 6:30 pm Stations of the Cross All parishioners are invited to participate Saturday: February 21 and March 31 at 6:15 am The prayer service cen- Thursday: March 5 at 7:30 pm Daily Eucharist in personal stations at anytime. tered around the theme of the For Women 8:00 am Monday, Wednesday, Friday & Saturday Stations of the Cross: Samaritan woman at the well, 5:30 pm Tuesday & Thursday Lenten Retreat – Saturday, March 21 – Parish Center Fridays at 7:30 pm in the Church Breaking Bread – March 7 – 8:00 am – Parish Center who met Jesus and to whom on February 20, 27, March 6, 13, 20 Jesus said, “Give me to drink.” Sacrament of Reconciliation There will be reserved parking For Teens–Youth/Teen Holy Hour & Fellowship Tuesdays: 7:00-9:00 pm – February 24, “The Living Stations of the Cross”: Gatherings Every Monday from 6:00-8:00 pm The theme revolved around bap- March 3, 10, 17, 24 in the Chapel and Parish Center tismal waters, and how baptism Thursday: March 5 before 1st Friday – 4:45 pm with the children of St. James School, Friday, March 27, 12:30 and 7:30 pm Last Supper Meal March 23 – 6:00 pm-8:00 pm into Jesus Christ unites us all as Saturdays: 12:15-1:30 pm “The Passion of the Christ” March 16 – 5:30 pm-9:00 pm Christian brothers and sisters. First Reconciliation: February 19, 21, & 23 – 6:30 pm in the Parish Center Teen Stations of the Cross March 30 – 6:00 pm-8:00 pm Building on the theme of A Day for the Sacrament of Reconciliation Practice the art of solitude and silence • Walking the Sacred Path one common baptism, Bishop Tuesday: March 24 – 9:00 am-10:00 pm Monday-Friday: 8:00 am-8:00 pm (during Lent) A six week retreat beginning February 18, based on the writings Fr. Tom and other clergy will be available Friday: 3:00 pm – Recitation of the Divine and music of Dan Shutte, a Catholic composer. At-home reading, prayer, journaling combined with the group gatherings. There are Caggiano proclaimed at the out- for Confession and healing prayer. Mercy Chaplet set of his homily that “we gather two sessions available: Wednesday – 1:00-2:15 pm or 7:15-8:30 pm here as the larger Church of Communal Penance Service Recitation of the Rosary • Taize Prayer Services for Adults, Youth and Children Monday-Friday: 5:00 pm in Parish Center Chapel Spend an hour before the Eucharist in prayer and the contemplative Christ—as the baptized.” chanting of the monastic community of Taize, France. Wednesdays- Monday, March 30, 7:00 pm in the Church Saturday: 7:30 am in the Church He then captivated his listen- 6:00-7:00 pm - Parish Center Chapel - February 25-March 25 ers by stating that “we come here 2110 Main Street, Stratford, Connecticut • 203.375.5887 • Rev. Thomas Lynch, Pastor today divided as brothers and sis- 20 February 2015 Lent Is Sunday the ‘Sabbath’?

By FATHER COLIN MCKENNA old way of counting, that’s when Jewish people who observe the where we can honor Jesus by the first day of the week, Sunday, Shabbat take great pains to avoid refraining from ordinary activities Catholics often refer to Sunday begins. Jesus himself rested in the doing any work between Friday on the Lord’s Day. as the “Sabbath” rather than the tomb from sundown Friday until evening and Sunday morning. The Lord’s Day should be a “Lord’s Day.” The Catechism of the before sunrise on Sunday. With his As Catholics, we are not time for spiritual renewal. Like Catholic Church (CCC), published Resurrection, Jesus made Sunday bound by the laws of the Shabbat, the Shabbat, our Sunday begins in English in 1994 attempts to his day—the Lord’s Day. so the Lord’s Day is not one nec- at sundown the day before, correct this terminology. Some For the Jewish people, our essarily free from all work. Like which we call the “vigil” of the Mass, so most restricted day, with the help of proper cat- brothers and sisters in the Lord the Sabbath, however, we should Lord’s Day. In the early 1970s, the celebration of the vigil Mass echesis, Catholics may unfailingly who first received God’s word strive to make Sundays a day of many of our parishes moved to 4 pm at the earliest. refer to Sunday as the “Lord’s and experienced God’s real pres- rest and renewal. their first Sunday Mass to 12 Whether it is our custom to Day” rather than the Sabbath. ence, the Sabbath remains a day Do you wait until Sunday noon on Saturday. These Masses attend Mass on Saturday or on The Sabbath is still in effect, of rest. In the time of Jesus, there to do your grocery shopping? were very popular because one’s Sunday, participation at Mass in our but the “Shabbat” begins at sun- were myriad prescriptions regard- Is Sunday your day to mow the Sunday obligation could be ful- local faith community is the prima- down on Friday and ends with the ing Sabbath rest, and violations lawn? Do you own a store or filled by about 1 pm on Saturday. ry way to “make holy” the Lord’s appearance of the first three stars in of these laws were considered a restaurant that remains open Eventually, the bishops realized Day. In our present economic situa- the sky on Saturday night. By the serious infractions. Even today, on Sundays? These are all areas that noon was too early for a vigil ➤ continued on page 21

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By BARRY WALLACE sonal generosity. He had been yourself too seriously, and don’t Birge’s death, I took in a breath captain of the basketball team at lose your sense of humor—and for a moment and I was that When I retired from teaching Stratford High School, so he was common sense. young man again at Christ the last June after a 42-year run in named coach as our new school We knew we were lucky to King. Now I look at the pictures, the classroom, one of the first of 60 boys tried to get a sports have him for a friend and men- and realize he was a young man, things I did was to sit down and program off the ground. tor. Over the years I would run too. In our youth, we form bonds write a thank you letter to my To my relief he picked me into classmates and there wasn’t that last a lifetime, and we’re for- high school basketball coach. for the team and made me his one who didn’t break into a tunate if men like Father Bo Birge Msgr. George D. Birge He was also my theology teach- shooting guard. Sometimes at smile when Father Birge’s name come into our lives. er, but most people knew him as practice, he would show us his came up. Never stuffy or rigid In his nearly 58 years of minis- Father (later Msgr.) George D. moves—a quick dribble through in his teaching, he was a man’s try, I’m sure Father Birge had his smoke, but he saw through it all Birge. pressure defenses and a sneaky man who was always present stress, loneliness and disappoint- to what was important in life: the Fellow priests, friends, and little double delay layup to get to people—and that made his ments—but he loved the life of a need to live joyfully and faithful- family called him “Bo.” It was under the arms of bigger shot priesthood a human, joyous priest and treated all those who ly. May the living God bless and an affectionate nickname that blockers. He had some , witness. crossed his path with affection. reward him for all the goodness suited him well, a handsome, a classy little guard who could When I learned of Father His car may have been full of he brought to our lives. n bright and affable man. His stu- fake left and streak right toward dents at Christ The King Prep in the basket in his cassock and the 1960s called him “Smokey.” street shoes. When we piled into his car after Father Birge was the kind of games, we would sing to him, priest who might show up in a “No you can’t J. F. Powers get to heaven in short story— Father Birge’s “Father Birge was an unforgetta- car cause the ble man with smoke’s so thick the kind of priest golf clubs in you can’t see the car and his where you are.” who might show breviary on This was the front seat. in honor of up in a J. F. Powers We appre- the stogies he ciated his chewed on and short story.” easy-going occasionally style in class. lit to our utter An avid reader amazement, a man of the clergy and first-rate intellect, he taught who smoked cigars with gusto. us the Old and New Testaments When we drove to away games, in a way that deepened my faith he also amazed us by pulling and also introduced me to some out this strange plastic slingshot, great Bible stories that I still think and shooting quarters into the about. tollbooth baskets along I-95. That In our senior year with the was Father Birge, always fun to ‘60s veering out of control, be with! Father Birge taught us some of Christ the King was a the theories and criticism direct- Preparatory Seminary founded ed at the Church and religious by Bishop Curtis in the spirit belief. One chapter in our lesson of Vatican II, and located in plan covered the “Death of God Southport. Most of us did not Theory,” that had gained so go on to become priests, but we much attention in the media in were given the extraordinary April 1966, when Time magazine good fortune of being formed by ran a bold cover line that said, “Is three good men, who were totally God Dead?” unlike each other but brought Father Birge labored through great gifts to our lives: Father some awkward explanations, Andrew Gilbride, the tough and tripping over his own words, until fair father who served as rector; he shut the book in front of us Father John Giuliani, artist and and said, “Why are we doing this visionary; and Father “Bo” Birge, damn stuff anyways!” The class an avuncular figure, bright, full of exploded in laughter. fun, not above flaunting the rules It was one of the many ways here and there, and always rock that this amiable priest showed solid in his faith and guidance. his faith in God to a group of Father Birge was a young boys. In his own unassuming priest in the 1960s and we all way he was also telling us some- loved him, a genuinely nice man thing important during a time of with a self-deprecating sense of change: don’t get caught up in humor and a good deal of per- ideology and extremes; don’t take 24 February 2015 Column: Joe Pisani Let go and let God—easier said than done

card that said, “Jesus, I trust “Lord, a lot of people depend rendering.” Another favorite say- in you.” I, however, could say, on me. I can’t get sick.” ing in his vast AA repertoire was Swimming Upstream “Jesus, I trust in you,” a hundred “Lord, HEAL ME!” “You have to surrender to win.” times a day, but at the end of the I told my story to a woman at The woman also gave me a By Joe Pisani day, I was always waiting for the rectory when I went to have prayer from Padre Pio’s spiritual the other shoe to drop. You see, Masses offered for friends who adviser, which said, “O, Jesus, I trust Jesus if his will is a close were sick, and she reached into I surrender myself to you; take approximation of mine. her purse and pulled out some care of everything!” This priest, Joe Pisani has been a writer I recently realized yet again prayer cards for me. One was I thought, must have been in the how miserable I am with “trust” titled,“The Divine Mercy Chaplet same AA group as my father. and editor for 30 years. when I had to have a biopsy. for the Sick and Dying.” When Whoever surrendered his worries, I’m ashamed to admit I failed—I she gave it to me, she discreetly difficulties and problems to Jesus didn’t fail the biopsy; I failed the recommended that I “ignore the would receive special care, the fter decades of booz- about my problems and let them “trust” test. ‘dying’ part.” priest said. ing, my father finally fester rather than turn them over All my family members, Another was “A Prayer of the I later learned that the woman found Alcoholics to my “Higher Power.” friends and coworkers were pray- Sick to ,” who gave me the prayers was suf- AAnonymous and spent He had dozens of sayings ing for me, and several hundred who certainly knows a thing or fering from a debilitating illness. the last 25 years of his life sober. and aphorisms he learned in AA times a day, my personal prayer two about miraculous healings. You would have never known And he would never let a day about the importance of accepting went something like this, “Thy It said, in part, “Lord, help me because she suffered in silence pass without sharing some of his God’s will. “Get out of the driv- will be done. Thy will be done. to see that my illness has an and picked up the cross Christ AA wisdom with us, like “Let go er’s seat,” he’d advise me when Thy will be done.” Which even- important part to play in bringing had given her without complain- and let God.” Easier said than my life seemed to be careening tually turned into “My will be me to the fullness of the person ing. done. off the cliff because I was driving done.” you have destined me to be. . . . 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inability to hold a job as a Oliver, for a business loan. Biff room, his sons leave him bab- betrayal and rejection of himself. thinks he made a good impres- bling in the toilet and ditch him Potpourri Willy’s other son, Happy, has a sion and is hopeful Oliver will for two girls they pick up. decent job and apparently endless give him a loan. He recalls Oliver One might even say that By Thomas H. Hicks women at his disposal, but he is as saying, “Biff, if you ever need Willy’s death involves a final lonely. Willy perceives his philan- anything come to me.” Later Biff betrayal. Willy expects his funeral dering and lack of great success tells his brother what happened to be “massive.” “They’ll come as an act of betrayal. with Oliver. “I waited six hours from Maine, Massachusetts, Thomas Hicks is a member There are three very poignant for him. Finally, he came out. Vermont, New Hampshire. All the scenes in the play. One is when Had no idea who I was. I saw old-timers; I am known! Rhode of St. Theresa Parish in Trumbull. Willy decides to ask his boss, Island, New York, New Jersey—I Howard, to give him a local am known!” Willy’s actual funer- office job at the New York head- “I know Isaiah is, al is sparsely attended, and his saiah prophesied during the success and self-worth are mea- quarters. Willy thinks that getting wife, Linda, wonders “why didn’t eighth century B.C. He is sured by one’s financial prosperi- the new job is a sure thing. He and I wonder if Arthur anybody come? Where are all the said to be the prophet who ty. Many view it as a harsh criti- is certain that Howard likes him people he knew?” Ibrings out the eloquence in cism of American capitalism and and feels happy and confident as Miller is, telling us not I know Isaiah is, and I wonder God (“For the mountains may its view that it is the career that he meets with his boss. But rather if Arthur Miller is, telling us not depart and the hills be removed, makes a person successful. than giving Willy a transfer to the to put ultimate trust to put ultimate trust in humanity. but my steadfast love shall not Death of a Salesman is about New York office, Howard fires Don’t put too much trust in other depart from you” (Isa.54:10)). many things. I wonder if the play him (“I don’t want you to repre- in humanity.” people and their institutions. A general theme of Isaiah is could also be about what Isaiah sent us. I’ve been meaning to tell Human beings are not sufficient trust in God instead of in human says about not trusting human you for a long time now.”) Willy for themselves, nor sufficient for beings. There are a series of judg- resources. literally begs Howard for a job. him for one minute. He walked others. No one is sufficient to be ments against human perversity Death of a Salesman is full of He recalls how he held Howard away.” “THE trusted one.” Don’t trust and failure. Isaiah consistently betrayal. We learn that the father, in his arms when Howard was a The third scene is when Willy humanity for what only God can counsels king and people to live Willy, was abandoned by his own newborn. He begs to be allowed and his two sons meet to have give. by faith in God, rather than father when Willy was still a baby to keep his traveling job, offering dinner together. Willy has looked “But those who hope in relying in any ultimate way on (“I never had a chance to talk to himself on lower and lower pay forward to it all day. He is still Yahweh shall renew their human beings or political alli- him”). Willy betrays his wife’s rates. Howard refuses and walks shattered by his experience with strength, they shall mount up ances. The message Isaiah tries love by an affair with another out on Willy. Howard, and then hears about Biff with wings like eagles, they shall to get his compatriots to hear is woman. Another poignant scene is and Oliver. He becomes delusion- run and not grow weary, they that God is faithful and humans Willy understands his son when the son, Biff, decides to ask al and starts talking to himself. shall walk and never tire” are not. Humans will fail you, so Biff’s failure in business and the man he once worked for, Bill When he goes to the bath- (Isaiah 40:31). n if you are putting your trust in them, prepare to be disappointed. There is the fickleness of human promises. Isaiah keeps reiterating SAINTLYLIVES BY ED WALDRON the message: “Stop trusting in man” (Isa.2:22). This idea is echoed in other parts of Scripture, for example: Psalm 118:6-8: “The Lord is with me; I will not be afraid. What can man do to me?. . . It is better to take refuge in the Lord than to trust in man.” There is the disturbing decla- ration concerning Jesus in John 2:23-25: “While Jesus was in Jerusalem during the Passover Festival, many believed in him as they saw the miracles he per- formed. But Jesus did not trust himself to them, because he knew what men were really like. There was no need for anyone to tell him about them.” Ever since it was first per- formed in 1949, Death of a Salesman, by Arthur Miller, has been recognized as a milestone of the American theater. The play is generally interpreted as a depressing but truthful reflection of our society, a criticism of the American Dream where personal 26 February 2015 Bits & Pieces ENCOURAGE apostolate for the diocese: Mon., Feb. 16, at CATHOLIC YOUNG friends and family of loved ones St. Bridget of Ireland Parish in ADULTS of greater Danbury with same sex attractions meets Stamford at 7:30 pm; Thurs., (age 18-35) Adoration chapel monthly on Saturday morn- Feb. 19, at St. Mary Parish, & social, Fri., Feb. 20, at St. ings at 10:30 am and is strictly Bethel at 7:30 pm; Thurs., March Marguerite Bourgeoys Parish, confidential. For more info, 5, at St. James Parish, Stratford Brookfield, from 7-9 pm. Open contact the Norwalk Chapter: at 7:30 pm. For more info, to all! Refreshments served. [email protected]. email [email protected]. What is For more info, call Maria: LITHUANIAN Cursillo? Find out at www.natl. 203.798.6923 INDEPENDENCE DAY spon- cursillo.org/bridgeport/. WOMEN’S LENTEN sored by Knights of Lithuania of MARDI GRAS International RETREAT: “Our Lenten St. George Parish, Bridgeport on Dinner at St. Leo Parish, Spiritual Bouquet” at St. Leo Sun., Feb. 15, at noon and spe- Stamford, Tues., Feb. 17, from Parish, Stamford, on Sat., Feb. cial program at 1 pm. For more 7:10 pm featuring homemade 21, from 9 am-2 pm. Prayer, info, call 203.878.0519. dinners.Cost: $20/adults, $10/ Scripture, music, friendship, quiet, MASSES OF HEALING children. Reservations needed. meditation and inspiration! For AND HOPE Mon., Feb. 16, at Email daesposito1229@gmail. more info, or to register, email 7:30 pm, Christ the King Parish, com or call 203.322.1669. Rita Logan: timritaker@yahoo. Trumbull, with Fr. Larry Carew; MOMs+DADs Down syn- com. Mon., March 16, at 7:30 pm, drome prayer/support group MASS MOB III Coming St. Lawrence Parish, Shelton, meets the third Thurs. of the to Danbury! Join us on Sun., HELP SR. THERESA TREMBLAY’S PRESCHOOL with Fr. Bob Kwiatkowski; and month, (Feb. 19) at St. Mary Feb. 22, at 10:30 am at Sacred AND RESCUE MISSION Thurs., March 19, at 7:30 pm, Parish, Norwalk, at 7:30 pm. Heart of Jesus Parish, Danbury, Recently, the convent, pre-school and rescue mission have been Sacred Heart Parish, Greenwich, Michelle O’Mara, Director of for Mass Mob III! Mass Mob burglarized. Let’s help our Sisters in Christ continue their import- with Fr. Larry Carew. For Pastoral Care and Outreach for of Fairfield County encour- ant work! Join us for a fundraiser dinner, with raffles, entertain- more info, call the Charismatic St. Catherine’s Center for special ages gathering together in the ment and special guests on Thurs., March 5, at Vazzano’s Four Renewal office: 203.268.8253 needs will be speaking. For more Church’s greatest prayer. It is Seasons, Kenyon St., Stratford, from 6:30-9 pm. Sponsored by CURSILLO ULTREYAS info, email Andee at aschanne@ essentially a flash mob for Mass! Knights of Columbus, Bridgeport Police and Fire Unions. Dinner are held at locations around optimum.net. For more info, go to: http:// $40pp with cash bar. We are also taking donations to present to massmobfc.webs.com. Sr. Tremlay; make checks payable to: Daughters of Charity. LANCER LEGACY GALA For more info, call Fred: 203.257.2176; Vazzano’s: 203.377.3067; Cemetery Offices to support Notre Dame Catholic or Jay: 203.650.8526. BRIDGEPORT-STRATFORD High School held Sat., Feb. 28, St. Michael Cemetery at at 6 2205 Stratford Avenue RETREAT: “Mary, A Model for retreat director Fran Fraleigh Stratford, CT 06615 pm. Lancer Legacy Awards, ND Karpiej, OFS, of Sharing Christ (203) 378-0404 Hall of Fame and ND Athletes the Modern Woman” will be held Ministry. Registration open until DANBURY Hall of Fame. Tickets $125. For the weekend of March 27-29, St. Peter Cemetery Fri., March 6. For more info, or more info, register contact Notre at St. Edmund’s Retreat Center, 71 Lake Avenue Extension to register, call St. Edmund’s, Danbury, CT 06810 Dame’s Alumni Office: tmarzik@ Enders Island, Mystic, with (203) 743-9626 notredame.org or 203.372.6521. DARIEN St. John Cemetery “A LITTLE NIGHT 25 Camp Avenue MUSIC” at St. Catherine of Darien, CT 06820 Siena Parish, Riverside, will be (203) 322-0455 held Sat., Feb. 28, at 8 pm. An To our families, GREENWICH intimate selection of chamber St. Mary - Putnam Cemetery By 399 North Street works spanning the great roman- Monuments Greenwich, CT 06830 (203) 869-4828 tic and neo-romantic compos- www.curtissryan.com and Markers (203) 869-7026 ers. Tickets: $25 general; $10 NEWTOWN student. They can be purchased Resurrection Cemetery online at www.stcath.org, or Are available c/o Gate of Heaven Cemetery 1056 Daniels Farm Road for more info or to charge by for purchase Trumbull, CT 06611 phone, call Mark Kaczmarczyk: through any of our (203) 268-5574 203.637.3661 during normal busi- NORWALK ness hours. St. John - St. Mary Cemetery Catholic Cemetery 223 Richards Avenue CARDINAL SHEHAN Norwalk, CT 06850 CENTER Red Ribbon Ball Black Offices. (203) 838-4271 Tie event on Sat., Feb. 28, at STAMFORD the Trumbull Marriott honor- Call for an appointment Queen of Peace Cemetery c/o St. John Cemetery ing Ernest & Agnes Kaulbach ONE OF CT’S LARGEST VOLUME HONDA DEALERS 25 Camp Avenue Foundation. Cost: $150; $1,500 or visit us. Darien, CT 06820 (203) 322-0455 table of ten; $2,500 silver spon- CT’S FIRST ESTABLISHED HONDA DEALER • APRIL 1973 ( TRUMBULL sor; $5,000 gold sponsor. For • Open All Day Saturday for Service & Parts Gate of Heaven Cemetery more info, call 203.336.4468. • Senior Citizen Discount We can give you a FREE 1056 Daniels Farm Road Trumbull, CT 06611 BEREAVEMENT SUPPORT estimate on adding an inscription (203) 268-5574 GROUP at St. Stephen Parish, CALL CURTISS RYAN AT to your existing family monument. WESTPORT Trumbull, a series of ten consec- Assumption, Greens Farms utive weekly meetings, begins 1-800-523-4190 Assumption, Kings Highway c/o St. John Cemetery Thurs., March 5, from 4:30-6 333 Bridgeport Ave • Shelton Catholic Cemeteries Diocese of Bridgeport 223 Richards Avenue pm. For info, call the parish M-Th 9am-9pm • Fri 9am-6pm • Sat 9am-5pm 203-929-1484 Administrative Office, Catholic Center Norwalk, CT 06850 (203) 838-4271 office: 203 268.6217. 238 Jewett Avenue, Bridgeport, CT 06606 WOMEN’S LENTEN NEW & USED VEHICLES • SALES • SERVICE • PARTS • BODY SHOP 27 February 2015 Bits & Pieces 860.536.0565, ext. 110, or visit Bring friends! For more info, benefit Caroline House will be am breakfast and talk. An 8:30 accept clients with incomes up www.endersisland.com. contact Theresa Raytar: raytar. held Fri., March 20, from 6:30- am art tour of the Chapel of the to $60,000. Appointment need- CATHOLIC YOUNG [email protected], or Dominick 11 pm at The Inn at Longshore, Holy Spirit icons is offered. Open ed. For more info and for an ADULTS of greater Danbury Angiolilo: Dominick.angiolillo.3@ Westport. Tickets: $165/ person, to all. For more info, contact appointment, contact Patricia (age 18-35) game night & social, hotmail.com. table of 10/$1500. There will be Ralph Burke: ralphburke@opton- Pivarnik: ppivarnik@fairfield. Fri., March 6, at St. Marguerite “COME & SEE” MASS: great food, libations, music by line.net. For registration, call edu or 203.254.4307. There are Bourgeoys Parish, Brookfield, by the Secular Franciscan Holy Voo Doo Carnival and an over- 203.396.8201. also VITA offices in Bridgeport, from 7-9 pm. Open to all! Spirit Fraternity at St. Emery the-top live and silent action. For FREE TAX PREPARATION Stamford, Norwalk. At those Refreshments served. For more Church, Fairfield, on Sat., March more info for for tickets, contact for individuals and families with locations, the annual income info, call Maria: 203.798.6923 14, at 9:30 am. Fr. Norman Christine Paine: 203.605.2728 or annual incomes $60,000 will be limit to have your taxes pre- CONVIVIO HIGH SCHOOL Guilbert will celebrate Mass, visit www.thecarolinehouse.org. available at Fairfield University’s pared is $54,000 and below. For YOUTH EVENT set for Sat., followed by a social. “Come CAPP EDUCATORS’ Dolan School of Business. The more info, visit www.irs.gov/ March 7, from 9 am-9 pm. and See” if you are being called COMMUNION BREAKFAST service is part of the Volunteer Individuals/Find.a.Location.for. Bishop Caggiano will be present. to a vocation in the Secular will be held Sun., March 22, in Income Tax Assistance (VITA) Free.Tax.Prep. For more info, email youthminis- Franciscan Order. For more info, the Chapel of the Holy Spirit program, sponsored by the FREE COUNSELING for [email protected]. call 203.255.8801. at Sacred Heart University, Internal Revenue Service (IRS). health insurance and Medicare ST. PATRICK DAY BINGO GOSPEL OF LIFE SOCIETY Fairfield. Mother Dolores Hart, The VITA site on the Fairfield available by appointment at St. for the women’s group at Christ meets the second Sat. of the O.S.B., from Regina Laudis campus will be open Fridays, Vincent’s Medical Center. To the King Parish, Trumbull, on month (March 14) at St. Mary Abbey, Bethlehem, CT, will be from 9:30-11:30 am, from Feb. schedule an appointment or for Mon., March 9, at 10:30 am. For Parish, Norwalk, at 10 am after the guest speaker 9 am Mass; 10 13-March 13. This site will more info, call 203.576.5111. n more info, call 203.261.8020. the 9 am Pro-Life Mass. Physician PHYSICIAN-ASSISTED Assisted Suicide will be the topic. SUICIDE Information Session For more info, contact Eileen Thurs., March 12, at St. John the Bianchini: 203.847.5727 or stmar- Evangelist, Stamford, from 7-9 [email protected]. pm. Learn the Catholic under- TAIZE PRAYER standing of physician-assisted MEDITATION at St. Gregory suicide, hospice care and current the Great Parish, Danbury, fea- events at the state legislature. For turing music by the parish choir more info, contact the Respect on Sun., March 15, at 2 pm. For Life Ministry: 203.416.1445 or more info, email Maynard Robin: [email protected]. [email protected]. SKI & SNOWBOARD trip for ST. CASIMIR celebration & young adults (ages 21-35) to Mount Mass sponsored by Knights of Snow, Vermont, on Sat., March Lithuania of St. George Parish, 14, leaving from St. Theresa Bridgeport on Sun., March 15, Parish, Trumbull, at 5 am. Even if at noon; luncheon at 1 pm. For you don’t ski—come along. Lots more info, call 203.878.0519. to do at the resort for non-skiers! STARRY NIGHT GALA to

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