Thursday, 9.17.15 ON THE WEB: www.yankton.net ress akotan NEWSROOM: [email protected] P &D life PAGE 5 Grandparents’ Day Dave Says At Beadle School Don’t Freak Out ... BY DAVE RAMSEY in the future. Work- He says he can’t find time to study and ing those kinds of work. How do people do it? Dear Dave, hours, and bringing —Justin I started my own small bakery from home just $35,000 home two years ago, providing wedding a year, is no way to Dear Justin, and specialty cakes. I just found out help support a fam- I’m glad you’re thinking ahead, and I’m pregnant, and while my husband ily the way he would trying to make your college experience a and I are really excited about the baby, like, I’m sure. If his successful one. It’s really just a matter of we’re worried about how we’ll handle hours are going to using your time wisely. You know how I things after the baby is here. We both back down soon always tell people to budget their money? work long hours, but we don’t make a and his income You can do the same kind of thing with lot of money. I made about $20,000 last Dave is going to go up, your time. year, and he currently makes $35,000 that’s one thing. There are 24 hours in a day. Set aside working 60 to 70 hours a week. Do you RAMSEY If not, he needs to seven for sleep and that leaves 17 hours. have any advice for us now and after Let’s say three meals combined takes SUBMITTED PHOTO look into getting three hours. You’ve got 14 hours left. If the baby arrives? some additional Beadle School Team First Grade hosted a Grandparents’ you’re in class for four or five hours a —Lindsay education, making modifications to his day, that still leaves you with about nine Day Celebration on Monday, Sept. 14. Students invited current career or finding another line their grandparents and ‘honorary’ grandparents to come hours. That’s plenty of time during the Dear Lindsay, of work. With some careful and realistic week to study hard, hang out with friends into our classrooms. About 70 grandparents attended! Congratulations! You’re going to be The students sang songs, colored name tags, and enjoyed planning on your end, and him doing a little and take care of other things. the company of these very special people in our lives. a mom, and you’re running your own something to make things better on his, Then, you can work weekends, and have a Teachers know the important role grandparents play in our business. a lot of the stress will fall off. little down time to relax, study more and students’ education. Grandparents not only provide taxi I think more than anything you just Many people do the kind of things run errands. service when needed, but a lap to crawl into to share our need some good business planning we’re talking about, and it ends up I worked 40 hours week in college, and books and let our students practice their reading skills. and time management. The good news being an awesome experience. Just sit I still graduated in four years with good We had a wonderful celebration! is that you have a little time on your down together, and talk it through. Help grades. You can do it, Justin! hands before the baby gets here. You each other out, and decide what it will —Dave can begin scheduling things now and take to get where you want to be as a COMMUNITY laying out a plan. If you get into a busy family and with your careers. Dave Ramsey is America’s trusted voice time — say around wedding season — —Dave on money and business. He has authored you may want to bring in a baby sitter five New York Times best-selling books. The Dave Ramsey Show is heard by more or some part-time help for your busi- BUDGET YOUR TIME, TOO! ness. I don’t think I would do daycare than 8.5 million listeners each week on CALENDAR every day. You’re probably not that Dear Dave, more than 550 radio stations. Dave’s latest busy 12 months out of the year or even I’m going to college next year, and project, EveryDollar, provides a free online The Community Calendar appears each Monday and Thursday. at the height of some seasons yet. I’m pretty scared. My older brother is budget tool. Follow Dave on Twitter at @ Contributions to this list of upcoming events are welcome and should smart, but his grades aren’t too good. DaveRamsey and on the web at daveram- be submitted two weeks before the event. Submissions MUST be Your husband also needs some relief sey.com. typewritten or legibly printed and include the name and phone number of a contact person. Send items to P&D Calendar, 319 Walnut, Yankton, SD 57078, or email to [email protected]. THURSDAY Bishop Swain Visits Yankton Community Table Tennis, 8:30 a.m., The Center, 605-665-4685 Wii Bowling, 9:30 a.m., The Center, 605-665-4685 Billiards, 10 a.m., The Center, 605-665-4685 Bishop Paul J. Swain came hope,” the bishop said “is not ASHH Toastmasters Club 6217, noon, Avera Sacred Heart to Bishop Marty Chapel on based on statistics but on ac- Pavilion, conference room no. 2, Yankton, 605-665-6776. Sunday, September 13, to complishments, on awareness Pinochle, 12:45 p.m., The Center, 605-665-4685 celebrate Mass in light of the that the Holy Spirit stirs us to Dominos, 1 p.m., The Center, 605-665-4685 Year of Consecrated Life. He keep moving on.” Love Addicts Anonymous, 7 p.m., for women, 120 West Third Street, Yankton. 605-760-5307. was assisted by Mount Marty After Mass Bishop Swain AA, Alano Group, 8:30 p.m., speaker, 1019 W. 9th St, Yankton. College’s Champlain, Father visited the Sisters in the Weight Watchers, 5:30 p.m. (weigh-ins 30 minutes prior), 413 W. Thomas Wordekemper. Care Center and then joined 15th Street. For more information, call 605-665-2987. Bishop Swain’s homily that the rest of the Sisters and Take Off Pounds Sensibly (TOPS #SD 45), Weigh-in 5:30-6:30 Sunday, September 13, was the college Ambassadors for p.m., meeting 6:30-7:30. RTEC building, 1200 W. 21st St. For more a powerful message for the brunch in the main monas- information call 605-665-3738 Yankton Area Banquet, 6-7 p.m., United Church of Christ, Fifth Sisters and also for the rest of tery dining room. He greeted and Walnut the community gathered. the student guests, who English as a Second Language classes, 6:30-8 p.m., United In his homily, Bishop Swain were just beginning their Church of Christ, Fifth and Walnut (entrance in the alley), Yankton. shared excerpts from Pope training as Ambassadors, (605) 660-5612. Francis’ apostolic letter on SUBMITTED PHOTO and then blessed the entire Bishop Paul J. Swain (center) sharing a message in the THIRD THURSDAY Consecrated Life in which the group. After the meal Sister pope focused on three main monastery dining room after brunch with Sisters and stu- Margretta Doyle expressed HSC Friendship Club, 5 p.m., September: Delmonico’s, Fordyce, points. The first was, “Look dent guests. Neb. 605-665-5956. to Bishop Paul J. Swain what at the past with gratitude.” seemed to be the feeling of Catholic Daughters (Court Willard 967), 7 p.m., at Sacred Heart The Bishop commented: “It Catholic Church/Community Gathering Space, 509 Capitol, Yankton, pause the bishop asked, “Is to love in truth and mercy everyone present when she 605-665-4485. (September through June). increases our sense of belong- Jesus really our first and only anyone who crosses our ing.” The second papal admo- said to him, “I’m so glad you love?” He said, “Only through path.” The pope’s third point, came to visit, thank you.” nition was, “Live the present this will we be empowered “Embrace the future with FRIDAY with passion.” After a short Alanon, 8 p.m., open meeting for all newcomers, Riverview Reformed Church, 1700 Burleigh, Yankton. Line Dancing, 9:30 a.m., The Center, 605-665-4685 Quilting, 10 a.m.-3 p.m., The Center, 605-665-4685 State Fair Showcased Talents Of More Than 2,800 4-H Members Exercise, 11 a.m., The Center, 605-665-4685 BROOKINGS — During the ceived purple ribbons, to any Learning how to use con- million for this building,” Partnership Bridge, 1:30 p.m., The Center, 605-665-4685 2015 South Dakota State Fair, exhibits members and their structive direction “To make explained Nielson of the $4.2 AA, Alano Group, 7 p.m., Big Book Study, 1019 W. 9th St, Yankton. more than 2,800 4-H members family showcased at their lo- the Best Better,” as the 4-H million currently raised for Bingo, 7-9 p.m., The Center, 605-665-4685 (open to the public) from across the state entered cal County Achievement Days motto states, is a cornerstone the new 44,000-square-foot more than 8,000 exhibits and wanted to take on to the of 4-H programming. “The exhibit hall which will replace showcasing their skills in the South Dakota State Fair. changes made to the entry Clover Hall which was torn SATURDAY areas of livestock, judging “This really made the qualifications by the State 4-H down in 2013 due to struc- Yankton Toastmaster Club 1294, 7:30 a.m., Fry’n Pan contests, fashion review, pub- decision on which projects Office were made to provide tural issues. Restaurant. Open session; call 605-665-8448. lic speaking, photography, to take on to State Fair a the State Fair experience to “Folks are generous! Yankton Alcoholics Anonymous, 10 a.m., Women’s meeting, sewing, robotics and numer- family one. Because families all 4-H members,” Nielson Thanks to the donations non-smoking session, 1019 W. 9th Street. Narcotics Anonymous “Road To Recovery” Group, 8 p.m., ous other static exhibits. knew what they were taking explained. of families, individuals and open meeting, First United Methodist Church (northeast door), 207 W “The talent demonstrated to State Fair, they could plan organizations we only have 11th St, Yankton by South Dakota youth ahead,” explained Audra BUILDING FOR THE FUTURE $500,000 to go,” Nielson said. AA, Alano Group, 7 p.m., discussion, 1019 W. 9th St, Yankton. through state fair exhibits Scheel, an SDSU Extension Nielson is encouraged by Weight Watchers, 9 a.m. (weigh-ins 30 minutes prior), 413 W. was incredible,” said Peter 4-H Youth Program Advisor. RESULTS AND PHOTOS 15th Street. For more information, call 605-665-2987. Nielson, SDSU Extension 4-H Also a 4-H mom, Scheel’s the positive impact this new Youth Development Program daughter, Carissa, 9, showed change had on 2015 State Fair Visit the State Fair page on SUNDAY Director. goats, lambs and rabbits dur- 4-H exhibitors. He is eager iGrow.org to view photos and results for 4-H static exhibits, AA, Alano Group, 7 p.m., discussion, 1019 W. 9th St, Yankton. Judges and fairgoers ing the 2015 State Fair, Scheel to share another exciting echoed Nielson’s comments, said the entry allowance change with the state’s more livestock shows and youth in added Audrey Rider, SDSU also allowed 4-H members to than 9,000 4-H members and action contests. This page in- MONDAY Extension State 4-H Events implement the feedback given volunteers in 2016 with the cludes links to results (as PDF Line Dancing, 9:30 a.m., The Center, 605-665-4685 Field Specialist. “Feedback to them by County Achieve- completion of the Nordby files) and Flickr albums for Exercise, 11 a.m., The Center, 605-665-4685 from visitors and judges alike ment Day judges. “Youth Exhibit Hall for 4-H, Youth each contest. Entire albums Interchange, noon, Minerva’s Bar and Grill, 605-760-7082. and Community which is on can be downloaded using the Whist, 12:30 p.m., The Center, 605-665-4685 was that they were impressed have always been able to with the quality they saw make modifications to their schedule to be completed by download arrow that appears Pinochle, 12:45 p.m., The Center, 605-665-4685 on the cover image. Download Cribbage, 1 p.m., The Center, 605-665-4685 this year,” Rider said. This projects between the County June 1, 2016 on the southwest corner of the State Fair- individual photos using the Hand & Foot Cards, 1 p.m., The Center, 605-665-4685 was an important benchmark Achievement Days and State download arrow that appears English as a Second Language classes, 2-5 p.m., United Church because this year the State Fair, but now all youth had grounds in Huron. of Christ, Fifth and Walnut (entrance in the alley), Yankton. (605) 660- “4-Hers, volunteers and in the lower right hand corner 4-H Office changed State Fair the option - whether they of the image. 5612. entry rules from only allow- received a white ribbon or a SDSU Extension staff have English as a Second Language classes, 6:30-8 p.m., United ing those exhibits which re- purple ribbon.” been working to raise $4.7 Church of Christ, Fifth and Walnut (entrance in the alley), Yankton. (605) 660-5612. Narcotics Anonymous “Road To Recovery” Group, 8 p.m., open meeting, First United Methodist Church (northeast door), 207 W 11th St, Yankton 35th Anniversary Celebration Meditation Sessions, Olde Rectory at Christ Episcopal Church, The family of Terry and Eileen 513 Douglas, Yankton, 7-8:30 p.m, 665-3344 or 665-2456. Sestak of Tabor, SD is requesting Sweet Adelines, First United Methodist Church, 207 W. 11th, Yankton, Anyone interested in singing is welcome. Call 605-661-3029 a card shower in honor of the or 605-668-0659 for more information. couple’s 35th wedding anniversary. Eileen (Cole) and Terry Sestak THIRD MONDAY were married on September 20, 1980 in Hawarden, IA. Servant Hearts Clinic, a free, Christ-centered medical clinic, 5:30- Their children are Becky and Tim 8 p.m., Technical Education Center (RTEC), 1200 W. 21st St., Yankton. Veldhuizen - Dillon Reverend Rodney and Deborah Veldhuizen of Yankton, SD and David and Reck, Gayville; Paul and Kala Ses- Yankton Lions Club, 6 p.m. dinner, 6:30 p.m. meeting, JoDeans, tak, Aberdeen; and David Sestak, 605-665-4694. Sharon Dillon of Seaforth, MN are pleased to announce the engagement and Yankton American Legion Auxiliary, 7:30 p.m., VFW Building, upcoming wedding of their children Erin Elizabeth Veldhuizen and Matthew Lincoln, NE. They have ve grand- 209 Cedar Street David Dillon. children, Dilyn and Autumn Reck, The bride-elect is a graduate of Yankton High School and a graduate of Bellev- Lana Easton and Mia Sestak. ue University with a BA in Marketing. She is employed at Ace Home and Hard- ware Store in Marshall, MN. The groom-elect is a Wabasso High School graduate Greetings may be sent to: and is completing his graduate studies at Bridgewater College in Willmar, MN. Mr. and Mrs. Sestak 30538 427th Ave., Tabor, SD 57063. Yankton Transmission The couple is planning an October 17, 2015 wedding at Riverview Reformed Church in Yankton. •Transmissions • Drive Lines SSpecialistspecialists • Transfer Cases • Differentials 2409 East Highway 50 2 Year/24,000 Guarantee The family of Iva Hovden would like to thank the many individu- (605) 665-1175 als who have cared for Iva over the past few years including the staff, Thank you from the family of Kenny Weisz nurses and doctors at the Yankton Medical Clinic, Sacred Heart During his hospital stay, Drs. Wickersham, Hoenke, Van- Hospital, Autumn Winds, Sunset Manor and Yankton County Am- bulance. We appreciate your true compassion and patience during derpol, Deacon Barry, Chaplain Elaine, and the entire staff Walz-Kocmich some of Mom’s most difficult days. of Avera St. Benedict - we are thankful for your compassion A special thank you to Pastor Velma Larson for her visits to Iva, and helping to make our stay there comfortable. Julia Walz and Josh Koc- including her final visit with us and Iva at the time of her death, as Pastor Tammy Craker - Thank you for your guidance and mich would like to an- well as her assistance in planning the funeral service. We also want comfort. nounce their engagement to thank the ladies at Vangen Lutheran Church for coordinating, Many thanks to those who attended the visitation preparing and serving the wonderful lunch. and funeral for the support you provided. and upcoming marriage. Thank you to Scott Olson for playing the organ and to the ushers To the people taking care of the church and those who Parents of the couple are at Vangen along with the members of the Vangen Cemetery Board. We express our appreciation to Goglin Funeral Home staff for served the lunches - thank you for providing for us to come Glenn and JoEllen Walz of their professionalism and assistance with the visitation, prayer together and share memories. Freeman, SD, and Joe and service and funeral. To our relatives and friends - for the food, flowers, memori- Thank you to all the friends and neighbors who have helped Iva als, kind words, and thoughtfulness. Ella Kocmich of Yankton, throughout the years. Additionally, thank you to everyone for your To all who supported Kenneth throughout his struggle with SD. The bride-to-be is a thoughtful prayers, gifts of flowers, food and memorials. Your kind- Parkinson’s, most especially, the Tripp Good Samaritan graduate of Northeast Community College and the ness is greatly appreciated. Nursing Home staff - thank you for showing great love, caring and future groom is a graduate of Wyoming Tehchnical Lianne & Yoni Suarez and family Karen & Bruce Avilla and family compassion. Institute. The couple is planning an October 10, 2015 All of you are a blessing to us. wedding in Yankton, SD, where they reside. David and Diane Hovden