San Diego County Edition
Vol. 31, No. 4 April 2013 www.christianexaminer.com
Mark Larson Eric Metaxas Community
Did you hear? Sunsets Facing opposition: Ministry shares clothes, FREE and meteors speak to us Let’s be disliked for love, the gospel the right reasons page 4 page 5 page 7 When healing doesn’t come Carol Garlow clings to Christ and family in protracted cancer battle
By Lori Arnold this doctor was telling my family. … He felt like my body was shutting down, or beginning to. I ne year ago, while Carol Garlow was came into the emergency room with some prob- sedated after a fi fth hospital visit in four lems, but I didn’t feel like I was close to death,” Omonths due to complications from che- she added, chuckling at the prognosis. motherapy, the doctor told her pastor husband, When she awoke in the mid afternoon, she was Jim Garlow from Skyline Church, that his wife’s confused by the group that had gathered around condition had deteriorated and she only had three her bedside and was wondering what was going to six months to live. on. Garlow called in the troops: their immediate “All of a sudden they heard from me, ‘Did I family, extended family and several close friends miss something?’” who had been their support system for her then Later she learned that while she was under se- fi ve-year battle with ovarian cancer. They all gath- dation her husband “just fell apart.” ered around her bedside awaiting the doctor to “If I had been awake I could have fought them fi ll them in on what was next. on it. ‘No I’m not. I am not dying. I have longer “I had no idea this was going on,” Carol Garlow PHOTO BY ERICACA SCHNEIDERSCHNEIDER// said about the experience. “I had no idea what See GARLOW, page 8 ACRES OF HOPEE PHPHOTOGRAPHYOTOGRAPHY San Diego ministry provides food, clothes and hope to Baja’s poor
By Lori Arnold
CHULA VISTA — After a while, sometimes brightly colored pack- ages are not enough to quench a soul bent on giving. “I think most ministries start with an ‘aha’ moment, and ours is certainly no exception,” said Judd Wheeler, co-founder of Hilarious Audrea Taylor, 17, is co-founder and president of im2moro, a young-adult led Givers, an outreach ministry to Baja organization that espouses constitutional principles. California. Wheeler’s came after two years of casual outreach south of the bor- Future voices der. “We would pass out brightly col- ored gifts and hang out with the Im2moro teens spawn conservative kids and put a little loving on the dialog through social media orphans down there,” said Judd, who served with his wife, Debra. By Lori Arnold there was a huge need right now “That’s all well and good.” for this message to get out there.” Then came a close encounter EL CAJON — At age 15, when While their Christian faith helps with 7-year-old boy. most teens are focusing on gaining to shape their worldview, the minis- “His little feet were bare,” he independence through their motor try operates as a secular, non-parti- said. “I put him up on the tailgate vehicle license, Audrea Taylor was san entity, which opened doors for of my pickup and washed his feet driven by something else: Indepen- im2moro’s college video campaign and put the shoes on. The whole dence born by America’s Constitu- to be featured on 20 swing-state time he wasn’t watching what I was tion. campuses ahead of last year’s presi- doing. He was looking in my face. So in 2010 she, her older broth- dential election. The look on his face—once he real- A child peers into the outside world from her dilapidated home in Baja. The er Caleb and two of their friends, “One of the reasons why these ized he got this brand new pair of shelter was pieced together with scraps of wood. brothers Blake and Luke Ander- campuses were willing to partner shoes—just absolutely touched my sen, founded im2moro, a national with us is because we are nonparti- heart and Debra’s as well.” somehow fasten that to spreading “Most translations, says God loves organization that promotes consti- san,” she said. “We were able to talk Suddenly, trinkets seemed insig- the Good Word of the gospels, then a cheerful giver. But in the original tutional principles among young about principles like free market nifi cant. it’s absolutely priceless.” Paul says God loves a hilarious giv- people. and that sort of thing without nam- “What they have is what they That encounter initiated Hi- er. The idea is that one should give “We know our Founding Fathers ing a party. The idea is that people were able to carry up from Chiapas larious Givers, which the Wheelers and serve, not out of a sense of duty founded them in biblical truth,” become informed on the princi- or Oaxaca or wherever they came founded in 2008. or not grudgingly, but should really said Audrea, who serves as im- ples, and they can make their own from,” he said. “The kids work in “I can thank the apostle Paul for rejoice in the act of giving. 2moro’s president. educated decisions.” the fi elds for a few dollars a day. the name of the ministry,” he said, “(It’s a) topic of conversation “We just realized that there was a Their credibility is fostered, Audrea Whatever we do to help them genu- adding that it comes from an origi- big disconnect with my generation nd inely changes their lives. If we can nal version of 2 Corinthians 9. See GIVERS, page 2 understanding principles. We felt See im2moro, page 3 For information about advertising, subscriptions, or bulk delivery, please call 1-800-326-0795 2 • CHRISTIAN EXAMINER • April 2013SD www.christianexaminer.com Prop. 8 in the hands of the GIVERS… Supreme Court justices Continued from page 1 and I welcome that. It gives me an By Lori Arnold TV or any other prized hobby or opportunity, like today, to be able entertainment. to tell you what our mission is about WASHINGTON — With dozens of just by quoting a Bible reference.” legal briefs submitted, oral arguments Pulpit Freedom Sunday presented and thousands of traditional Noting the signifi cance of the pend- Filling a void marriage marchers heading from the ing ruling, organizers of the annual The ministry operates out of a nation’s capital, the fate of marriage Pulpit Freedom Sunday have moved the temporary building in Miramar rests in the hands of the U.S. Supreme event from the fall to June 9 and are after losing donated warehouse Court. asking pastors to preach the “biblical space in Chula Vista when that do- The nation’s highest court will de- truth about God’s design for marriage.” nor needed the space for rental cide, probably in June, whether Califor- “Marriage—it is the basic building income. On Saturdays, volunteers nia’s Proposition 8, the constitutional block of society. Yet it is under attack from Hilarious Givers pack and sort amendment declaring that marriage is like never before,” said the website, thousands of donations from across only between one man and one woman, sponsored by Alliance Defending the country, including a nutritional is legal. It will also decide the legality Freedom. mix that comes from Minnesota, of the federal Defense of Marriage Act, Pulpit Freedom Sunday is an an- reclaimed food from the Central which does not recognize same-sex nual protest action that encourages Valley and canned goods from the marriage for taxpayer-funded benefi ts. pastors to preach boldly about issues Bay Area. It also allows states to decide whether and candidates and send copies of the Once the goods are sorted, they to recognize same-sex marriage. taped sermons to the IRS to challenge are packed for distribution to as While most of the pre-activities have its restrictions on pulpit topics. many as 60 different church and died down, there are several prayer and “We know that the pulpit must be missions groups working in Baja. fasting efforts that will continue until free to convey biblical truth on the great In all, Hilarious Givers serves 5,000 the decision is made. moral and social issues confronting our children annually, providing food, “The preparation for this brief, half culture,” it says. clothing, shoes, backpacks and hour before the nine justices has been school supplies, primarily at urban exhaustive, not to mention the thou- Salt & Light Council orphanages, hostels and rest homes sands of pages of written argument,” Another effort, coordinated by San in Tijuana and a migrant farm com- said Ron Prentice, executive director Diego-based Salt & Light Council, is munity south of Ensenada. of Protect Marriage, the coalition a national, 30-minute, live prayer line “In Mexico, among the really des- behind Proposition 8. “Now we call six days a week through its Repentance perately poor, it’s not uncommon Volunteers with Chula Vista-based Hilarious Givers unpack supplies at the upon people to seek God’s direct in- and Restoration website. to fi nd families who will just leave ministry’s headquarters. All of the supplies head south to Baja where they are tervention in this critical decision for Each day the call includes a guest their children with an orphanage distributed to orphanages, migrant communities and rest homes. children and culture.” speaker from a variety of organi- because they can’t care take of their Prentice also serves as CEO of zation, including the American kids,” Wheeler said. foreign concepts to people who larious Givers is to facilitate church- California Family Council, which Prayer Initiative, Ruth Institute, They also have a heart for homes are really wandering laborers, es who are looking for a way to has called for “Marriage Fast 2013,” Justice Seekers, Day of Repentance, called guardieras, which serve as day migrants in the true sense of the serve but don’t know quite know a season of fasting and prayer Spirited Pen, Answers in Genesis, care centers while parents work. word,” Wheeler said. “The families how to get a handle on it,” he said. through the end of June. The American Family Association and They then head home with their who come out of really pagan back- “We make it quite easy. …Volun- group suggests several options, in- Eagle Forum. families at night and weekends. grounds in the jungles of Chiapas teers who want to serve but don’t cluding fasting one day through Salt & Light is also sponsoring several The guardieras will also serve moth- come up (and are) encouraged to have the wherewithal to really make the end of June or until the end of other initiatives including a postcard ers by teaching basic parenting join a church and learn about Jesus a big impression can lean on us. We the year. In addition to food, partic- initiative and a white bow campaign skills such as nutrition, sanitation Christ and His saving grace.” can get them going. We are happy ipants may also choose to fast from that encourages supporters of tradi- and hygiene to do that.” technology, food, gaming, sports, tional marriage to wear white bows. “All of those things are really Too poor for education For the long term, Wheeler is Complicating the cycle of pov- seeking a donor who could provide erty, Wheeler said, is the fact that a permanent warehouse with at migrant children cannot attend least 4,000 square feet to accommo- Health care for school because most of them lack date the ministry six days a week. the required birth certifi cate, uni- “Everything we do is volunteer WE TEACH forms and shoes. and donated,” he said. “We have people of Biblical faith SKIN CARE “All of these things are impedi- several hundred volunteers to help Mary Kay has a proven effective ments to these precious children us with the warehouse and carry- skin care program for you. All living a decent life, and it’s so ing materials across. Recruiting basic skin care products are non- easy to change it,” a disheartened orphanages, beating the bushes comedogenic and clinically tested Wheeler said. for contributions and all of those for skin irritancy and allergy. Because of the immense need, things, and its two aging people Call today! Hilarious Givers also serves as a with a heart for the kids and God Sandy Hertzberg matchmaker of sorts for American keeping it together.” (619) 265-0138 congregations searching for mis- Independent Beauty Consultant sion opportunities. For more information, visit www. “The real central mission of Hi- hilariousgivers.org. If you are a committed Christian, you do not have to violate your faith by purchasing health insurance that pays for abortions and treatments of conditions resulting from other immoral practices that are included in the federal “Patient Protection and Affordable Care Act” (PPACA) You can live consistently with your beliefs by sharing medical needs directly with fellow believers through Samaritan Ministries’ noninsurance approach. This approach satisfi es the individual mandate in PPACA (Sec. 1501 (b) of HR 3590 at pg. 327,328) Every month the more than 23,000* households of Samaritan Ministries share more than $6 million* in medical needs directly— one household to another. They also pray for one another and send notes or encouragement. The monthly share for a family of any size has never exceeded $355*, and is even less for singles, couples and singleparent families. There are also reduced share amounts for members aged 25 and under.
To request an info packet, call 888-268-4377 or email: [email protected] Visit us online at www.samaritanministries.org/intro
Follow us on Twitter (@samaritanmin) and Facebook (Samaritan Ministries) *As of February 2013
Biblical faith applied to health care www.christianexaminer.com SD April 2013 • CHRISTIAN EXAMINER •3
IM2MORO… “So our goal would be to create a movement, and how we would do National Day of Prayer event list growing Continued from page 1 that is by social media, edgy vid- By Lori Arnold eos, blogs. All those things are re- “The problem is that many biblical line Church, 11330 Campo Road. For said, because im2moro is using its own ally looked at in our generation. All things are considered partisan, and more information, call (619) 660-5000. SAN DIEGO — With just a few weeks they are not,” she said. “They are just National City: A lunch hour prayer young voices to reach other young those things will spawn meetings, left before the annual National Day moral.” gathering will be held from noon to voices. Their topics of concern are re- will spawn education and move- of Prayer, set for May 2, the Southern Those who are planning events 12:30 p.m. at National City City Hall, sponsibility, justice, security, prosperity, ment and change, kind of an awak- California coordinator is seeking in- may supply the information to the 1243 National City Blvd. Chaplain happiness, life and liberty. ening within our generation. formation on local events to post on local website, which will post it for Harry Bennett, from Paradise Village “This isn’t from someone in their The youth leader cautions older the regional website. the public. Below is a list of the early Retirement Community, will host. For 40s or 50s,” she said. “We’re talking Americans against pre-judging her “There are a lot of reasons and contributions. All events are on May 2, more information, call (619) 475-0383. about this, which is one of the things generation as disinterested and things coming up that I think really unless otherwise noted. San Diego: The 10th Annual Com- that kind of makes im2moro different. self-centered. will be driving people to prayer, so I’m Escondido: The North County munity Lunch will be held from noon We believe we should have a say in the “I think that it’s not that they anticipating it should be a very good Prayer Breakfast will be held from 6:45 to 1:30 p.m. at the Doubletree Hotel, decisions and the policies that are be- don’t care, I think it’s that they just year,” said Anne Subia, who oversees all to 9 a.m. at the Escondido Center for 1515 Hotel Circle South in Mission ing made today because they directly don’t understand the impact fully,” of the prayer gatherings in San Diego, the Arts. The guest speaker will be Valley. The keynote speaker will be affect our generation.” the Heritage Christian School se- Los Angeles, Orange, San Bernardino, William Huff. For more information, author and pastor Tim LaHaye. For Although im2moro is nonpartisan, nior said. “Part of that is an educa- Riverside and Imperial counties. visit www.ncpbsd.com or call (760) more information, call (619) 222-3688. most of their seven main principles tion system that’s not teaching the This year’s theme is “Pray America.” 746-3696. Vista: The Vista Community Nation- traditionally align with the Republican principles of freedom, the fact that “I think they try to be broad,” she Escondido: Community Lutheran al Day of Prayer gathering will be held party. At the same time, though, Audrea these principles have never been said of the theme. “It is particularly Church, 3575 East Valley Parkway, will at 6 p.m. at the Community Flagpole said the Grand Old Party has done an communicated to my generation. broad this year.” open its sanctuary for drop in prayer at South Citrus and East Broadway. enormous disservice to its own party by I think when that happens we’ll In selecting its annual focus, Subia from 8 a.m. to 4 p.m. For more infor- Community leaders, officials and not fostering input from young people. be surprised by how many young said the national task force is cognizant mation, call (760) 739-1650. pastors will participate. There will be “We’ve had a party that hasn’t put an Americans will start to care and will of reaching out not only to evangelicals, La Mesa: An evening prayer gather- an opportunity for people to submit emphasis on reaching our generation understand the importance and but also to Catholics, Orthodox and ing is planned for 7 to 8 p.m. at Lake personal prayer requests and receive and doesn’t value our generation’s the impact it will have on them.” mainline congregations. Murray Church, 5480 Lake Murray information on local benefi cial re- opinions,” she said, pointing to the “We’ve got people with slightly dif- Blvd. The event is hosted by Pastor sources. For more information, send campaign success of Barack Obama. Leading by example ferent perspectives on things,” she said. Jim Reed. For more information, call an email to [email protected]. “In 2008 we lost the large majority Believing that action instills In preparing her local materials, (619) 697-7770. of youth, young Americans who did movement, the group is imple- including an 11-point prayer plan us- La Mesa: A community evening For more information about the not vote for constitutional principles, menting a project where college ing the letters of the theme, Subia has prayer gathering will be held from 7 to National Day of Prayer, visit www. and I think a lot of people recognized students can donate unused meal focused on biblical topics. 7:45 p.m. in the worship center at Sky- ndpsandiego.org. that. But in this election a lot of people tickets to local charities. In doing put a lot of emphasis that this was it, so, they will focus on the concept of this was the election to win. While they responsibility and self-government. put a lot of emphasis on it, they spent “We realize that if we don’t want the Bethel Seminary San Diego very little time, very little energy on government giving out lots of hand outs my generation. Looking back, I think then we need to step in and fi ll a void people realize that if they had, the in our society,” Audrea said. Distinguished Lecturer Series election would have gone differently.” “It’s an easy way for college stu- dents to live out personal responsi- Hard facts bility. One of the things that we’ve -AY s PM NIGHTLY To prove her point she noted learned about my generation is that that Obama won 60 percent of the we don’t want to sit around and talk youth vote, while Romney logged about things. We want to actually “Faithful To God’s Word: Worldview And Witness” just 30 percent. put something into action. We want Featuring Dr. John Walton & Dr. Esteban Voth “If he had won 50 percent of the to be making a difference in our (youth) vote, it would have been a community and in our world.” landslide election,” she said. “If he As part of her effort to lobby fi - Dr. John Walton holds a Ph.D. in Old Testament Studies from had won any more than he did, it nancial support to help them pro- Hebrew Union College. He is currently Professor of OT at Wheaton College wouldn’t have even been close. So duce more outreach videos, Audrea & Graduate School. Among his publications are The Lost World of Genesis this is a huge percent of voters that enjoys spending time outlining One, Ancient Near Eastern Thought and the Old Testament and the IVP Bible people weren’t focused on. their vision with adult groups. Background Commentary: OT. His Genesis speaking series on “Origins Today” has “Seeing those statistics and un- “We realize that the only way we been widely praised for uniting dedicated scholarship with historic Christian faith. derstanding what they’ve always can turn our nation back to con- been saying but haven’t necessarily stitutional principles is by reach- Dr. Steve (Esteban) Voth holds a Ph.D. in Old Testament been focusing on, is they are doing ing the next generation,” she said. Studies from Hebrew Union College and, in addition to extensive teaching, has this for the next generation. The “I think even more so than before served as Dean at BSSD (1996-2000) and the Biblical Institute in Buenos Aires best way to preserve freedom for the election, people are listening. I (1982-1995). He has written a commentary on Genesis 1-11 for the Comentario the next generation is to be sure think they realized that the answer Bíblico Hispanoamericano series, and articles in both Spanish and English. that they understand how to pre- lies with our generation. They are Currently Dr. Voth serves as worldwide director of Bible translation consultants serve freedom.” hopeful, and they are wanting to for the United Bible Societies. The group specializes in using hear from us.” technology to promote their views. “Things catch on really quickly For more information, visit www. Wednesday, May 8, 7pm with my generation,” Audrea said. im2moro.org. “Origins Today: Genesis Through Ancient Eyes” This lecture invites a close reading of the Genesis creation account (rooted in the Hebrew language), embraced by ancient Israel in the context of Near Eastern cultures and worldviews. Dr. Walton presents a sound theological framework for thinking about the cosmos and its functions – detailing the conviction that “God made everything and is sovereign over it.” In this, he addresses perceived conflicts between science and scripture, and offers insights inspiring a deeper understanding and worship of Almighty God as Creator Jennifer O’Neill – and the Good News of Jesus. Thursday, May 9, 7pm “Traducción o traición? La Biblia en idiomas indígenas” `i Dr. Voth’s initial lecture will be in Spanish. It will begin with his survey of how the Bible has been translated into Spanish versions. Then he will present in detail today’s missional challenge of translating God’s Word into the heart languages of indigenous peoples in Latin America. Finally, as an in-depth illustration, he will present a biblical/theological term with rich meaning in Hebrew and Greek, in Spanish and in translations VÌÀiÃà reaching new peoples with the Good News of Jesus. ÕÌ À Friday, May 10, 7pm “How Does [a] Bible Translation Shape Verbal, Culturally-sensitive Christian Witness?” -«i>iÀ This annual Clifford Anderson Missions Lecture will explore in English the interaction between translation and Christian mission at several levels. What are the linguistic and the ethical principles involved? What’s required in global translation work and its life-giving outcome – the Word of God authentically in the hands /ÊÃV i`ÕiÊiviÀÊ"½ iÊvÀÊÞÕÀÊiÝÌÊëiV>ÊiÛiÌ]Ê of the peoples? The implications for witness are both global and local: how does the Bible translation in your VÌ>VÌÊ >ÀÊ>Àð hands shape the theology and language you may use to share the Good News of Jesus.
,i«ÀiÃiÌi`ÊLÞÊ >ÀÊ>ÀÃÊ i`>Ê-iÀÛViÃ]ÊV° Bethel Seminary San Diego 6116 Arosa Street, San Diego, CA 92115 619.325.5200 * i\ÊÈ£®Ênn£Ónx£ÊUÊ >\Ê>ÀJ>À>ÀðV www.SpeakersGroup.net 4 • CHRISTIAN EXAMINER • April 2013SD www.christianexaminer.com
Did you hear? Sunsets and meteors speak to us Sometimes it just hits me. Call it the midst of a normal, somewhat allows wake-up calls loved one or an abrupt woods yet, and his story continues what you like: A rude awakening, overcast day, suddenly a bright or- into our lives. Some- change in career, on his personal public blog online. two-by-four between the eyes, a ange fl ame streaked across the sky, times they’re tiny. challenges with family hack beside the head or even a me- coupled with a loud boom. Some And sometimes they issues and personality Thankful moments teor. I’m talking about those things workers on the right side of the are major and cannot confl icts and regrets So why share these personal re- in life that pop and command im- fi eld looked up to see what was hap- be avoided. that never seem to go fl ections? It’s not that every wake- mediate attention, calling us to fo- pening. But others continued with away. These are the up disruption in life is life or death. cus, mind and heart, and get some their heads down, digging away, A mindful eye personal meteors that But these accounts illustrate the needed redirection. oblivious to what was going on. I pay attention to can bear down on us, importance of always appreciating A few weeks ago people in Russia Some of us go through life like the little things when just when all seems what we have every day, never miss- found out the hard way about real- that. We’re so busy in our own I sense a nudge from well. ing the beauty around us and being life meteors when one entered the “stuff” that we miss truly unusual God. Mark Larson My friend, Carol Le- thankful for blessings in each day. atmosphere and broke apart, creat- occurrences that help us see new Maybe it’s a spec- Beau, was hit by hers When we have moments that com- ing a huge sonic boom and causing changes and opportunities that are tacular sunrise over the mountains last year when she found out that mand our attention, it can be God’s damage and injuries over a wide ready to be discovered, often right or a sunset on the Pacifi c horizon she had breast cancer. As revealed way of making us watch and listen and area. under our noses. that makes me pause to have a in a recent article in the Christian pray at a deeper level for those around While most of us know that me- Each morning we rise, go quick “Yea God, nice work!” moment Examiner, it’s been a struggle, but us and for those closest to us. And it’s teors crash into earth’s neighbor- through the routine regimen and or quick prayer. Or it’s a fresh view she’s made great progress back to important to pray that the Lord reveals hood occasionally, until one actu- plow into some great days and of a beautiful San Diego canyon, good health and is fi rst to give God what we are supposed to learn person- ally shows up they’re easy to avoid some not so great ones. There are tucked away in an urban area look- the credit. ally through the process. or ignore. mountains and there are valleys to ing more beautiful than I remem- Now another media buddy of What’s YOUR “meteor” today? With today’s cell phone technol- travel. Sometimes weeks can blow bered, even though I drive past it mine is battling brain cancer. Fox If one is heading your way, are you ogy, hundreds of eyewitness cam- by so fast we don’t even know what every day. 5 News anchor Loren Nancarrow prepared to deal with it, using all of eras went into action recording the has happened. We go through the Wake-ups can be a baby’s cry or had assumed some numbness in his the promises and strength God has Russian event from every angle— motions to just get things done. a puppy’s love or a kind word from hand was nothing more than some- made available to you? from classrooms where windows In these days, just like the heads- a friend or stranger. It can also be thing normal when pushing age 60. blew out to debris falling onto city down workers in the fi eld, we can actually seeing a homeless person we Then one day when talking with a Larson is a veteran Southern Cali- streets. be so mindlessly into the 24/7 cy- choose to look beyond each day. We friend, he found he couldn’t speak fornia radio/television personality One of the most fascinating cles and rhythms that we don’t even all have these situations, but we’re well. The diagnosis was a malignant and media consultant. His voice is video images I saw was from a se- hear or see what God is really doing often too busy to experience them brain tumor. Surgeons removed heard on KPRZ 1210AM, and his curity camera above a construction all around us. or say thank you for the moments. it, but in recent weeks he’s had to weekday talkshow airs mornings 6-9 fi eld where workers were busy do- Life is more than routines. Or it Then there are the major-league endure regular chemo treatments on KCBQ 1170AM. Email: mark@ ing some late winter digging. In should be. That’s why God often disruptions in life: The death of a and radiation. He’s not out of the marklarson.com. Our government’s uncontrollable thirst for legalized bribery I’ll never minimize the battles restraint and smaller sequestration deba- tax, borrow and spend? Besides class, blacks against whites and raging over abortion, same-sex government, but cle; and continuing voting every two years, I believe the young against the elderly (Ti- marriage, illegal immigration, gun when pushed they also resolution “continu- biblically we’re to publicly speak tus 3:10-11). control, states’ rights and even the believe government is ations.” out in two ways: openly encour- It’s shameful to foolishly prom- role of our military in the world. an agent of good and But all this drama age and support those trying to ise unsustainable growth in enti- These important moral issues con- should grow in power does nothing to re- implement fi scal sanity (Romans tlement programs, then demand tinue to impact who we are as a na- and infl uence. solve this year’s one 13:7) and proper government fo- tax increases to meet those fool- tion, and what worldview will carry Uncontrollable and a half trillion cus (Romans 13:1-5; 1 Peter 2:13- ish promises (Luke 14:28-30). the future: a fl awed, dangerous, growth in govern- dollar budget defi cit 14), as well as publicly shame It’s shameful and petty to humanistic one or one based on ment has resulted and an unsustain- those unworthy of our respect warn of dire sequestration con- able national debt. (Ephesians 5:11). What kinds of biblical truths that have stood the in an astronomical Frank Kacer sequences, then ensuring the test of time? increase in federal Pure and simple: actions are shameful? greatest numbers of people are But there’s another battle- spending so massive The president and It’s shameful to spend us into harmed instead of minimizing ground moral issue we can’t that it defi es any ability to com- his willing accomplices in Con- massive national debt that will the pain as much as possible ignore: irresponsible theft and prehend it. What’s equally trou- gress are stealing the fruit of our bury future generations (Exodus (Proverbs 20:14). spending by our government. bling is the political theater that nation’s labor to prop up every 20:15). Progressive (liberal) politicians our president and Congress use ineffective, troublesome, unnec- It’s shameful to borrow more Corrupting power clearly believe government is to score political points instead essary program and agency it than 40 percent of our federal Our national leadership is in capable of being an almighty, of doing their jobs. For months can conceive of, with or without budget with little justifi cation love with money and power. In- all-knowing force to meet every- we’ve endured talk abou the “fi s- constitutional authority. By do- of need and no open, public ac- stead of inspiring our nation to one’s needs (Proverbs 14:12). cal cliff”; reformed Bush tax cuts; ing so, they economically enslave countability for effectiveness work hard and improve our col- On the other hand, many moder- the richest one percent “paying millions of people and countless (John 3:19). lective prosperity, our elected ates and pseudo-conservative politi- a little bit more”; eleventh-hour businesses with entitlement and It’s shameful to call something representatives have chosen cians talk a good story about fi scal increases to our debt ceiling; a handout bribes that become dis- a “budget cut” when spending to confi scate and re-distribute incentives to personal initiative still increases much faster than wealth for their own ideological and free-market enterprise. the infl ation rate (Proverbs 18:2). and prideful purposes (Proverbs Scripture is right: the love of It’s shameful to ignore hun- 17:8). money is the root of all kinds of dreds of billions of dollars of Where this will end, I don’t evil (1 Timothy 6:10). It buys loy- waste in existing government know. But I do know that the fruit Publishers: Lamar & Theresa Keener alty, prestige and dependence (1 programs and claim every dime of our labors belong to the Lord Managing Editor: Lori Arnold John 2:15-16). What’s insidious in a $3.6 trillion budget is desper- fi rst, not to a corrupt, incompe- is that government can legally ately needed (Matthew 7:1-5). tent, power-hungry government Proofreading: Cassie LaFollette steal money any way it sees fi t and It’s shameful to lie about a “bal- bent on bribing the nation into Advertising: Cynthia Quam-Patterson use it any way it wants—includ- anced” approach to debt reduc- becoming its servants. Calendar/Classifi eds: Brittany Keener ing playing to mankind’s sinful tion (tax now, cut later) when Copyright © 2013 Selah Media Group nature by garnering allegiances there’s no legally binding obliga- Kacer is founder of the Chris- with public bribes. tion or intention to cut spending tian Citizenship Council and is a The Christian Examiner, formerly known as the Christian Times and fi rst established in 1983, is an in de- Washington Times Communities pen dent Christian newspa per published monthly by Selah Media Group with an audience of Evangel i cal in the future (Proverbs 12:22). Christians. It is available in fi ve regional editions throughout Southern California and the Twin Cities. All A way out? It’s shameful to create divisive- columnist (Biblical Politics). Fol- our regional newspapers are available without charge at Christian bookstores, churches, and Christian Is there any way out of this im- ness and envy by pitting the rich low on Twitter @FrankKacer or businesses. Mail sub scrip tions are $19.95/year. The com bined press run monthly is 150,000 copies. moral economic death spiral of against the poor and middle #BiblicalPolitics. The Christian Examiner welcomes press releases and news of interest that is relevant to our readership. All unsolicited material is subject to the approval of the publishers and is not returned. Viewpoints expressed in the Christian Examiner are those of their respective writers, and are not neces- sarily held by the publishers. Advertising in the Christian Examiner is open to anyone desiring to reach the Christian community. Reasonable CENTURY 21 AWARD effort is made to screen potential advertisers, but no endorsement of the publishers is implied or should be PROVERBS 3:5-10 inferred. The publishers can accept no responsibility for the products or services offered through ad ver tise- ments. The publisher reserves the right to refuse any ad ver tis ing. Deadline for submission of ad copy, calendar events, and articles is the 15th of the month preceding Gary L. Ryerson publication for the San Diego edition and the 18th for the other editions. 619/593-4300 or 619/590-3053 Address all correspondence to: Christian Examiner, P. O. Box 2606, El Cajon, CA 92021 Phone (619) 668-5100 • Fax: (619) 668-1115 • E-mail: [email protected] 10% referral for Advertising and Bulk Delivery Information buyers and sellers to your church or ministry. (619) 668-5100 or 1-800-326-0795 www.christianexaminer.com SD April 2013 • CHRISTIAN EXAMINER •5
The sound of inevitability squelches truth Given his track record on mari- on both sides of the predicted as much “‘When I use a word,’ Humpty It doesn’t take a prophet to tal fi delity, former President Bill issue argued two key in 2003 in his dissent Dumpty said, in a rather scornful see where this is headed. A na- Clinton is not the person I would cases regarding same- of the Lawrence v. tone, ‘it means just what I choose tion that legalizes abortion and consult about “committed, loving sex marriages before Texas case, in which it to mean—neither more nor applies no stigma to cohabita- relationships.” Clinton used those the Supreme Court. the Court struck less.’ ‘The question is,’ said Al- tion and out-of-wedlock births is words in a Washington Post op- The justices are ex- down the sodomy ice, ‘whether you can make words not about to suddenly discover ed in early March, urging the Su- pected to rule in June. law in Texas. So I mean so many different things...’” the moral courage to say “no” to preme Court to overturn the 1996 It will be the Court’s ask, if “fairness” and Recently in Sacramento, Ca- same-sex marriage. Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA), most important social “equality” are the lif., Justice Anthony Kennedy la- In the 1999 fi lm “The Matrix,” which defi nes marriage as the legal and cultural ruling standard, isn’t it also mented that the Supreme Court Agent Smith has Neo pinned down union of one man and one woman, since its 1973 Roe v. Cal Thomas “unfair” to “discrimi- is asked to settle too many politi- on a subway track. As the train ap- which he signed into law. Wade decision. nate” against polyga- cally charged issues. Responding proaches, Agent Smith says: “You In his column, Clinton said that What advocates for same-sex mists who wish to live in “loving” to reporters, Kennedy said, “A hear that, Mr. Anderson? That is 1996 “was a very different time.” No marriage should be asked is and “committed” relationships? democracy should not be depen- the sound of inevitability. It is the state recognized same-sex marriage whether they consider any other Since we are rapidly discarding dent for its major decisions on sound of your death.” and supporters of DOMA “believed human relationship worthy of the rules for living and social order what nine unelected people from If, as I suspect, the Supreme that its passage ‘would diffuse a similar constitutional protection set down in a book found in most a narrow legal background have Court strikes down DOMA, it will movement to enact a constitutional and based on what standard? motel room drawers, what is to re- to say. And I think it’s of tremen- be the inevitable result of an in- amendment banning gay marriage, The Constitution doesn’t guar- place it? Opinion polls? Clever le- dous importance for our politi- creasing number of Americans which would have ended the debate antee the right to marry. States, gal arguments? Fairness? What ex- cal system to show the rest of the abandoning the Source of mo- for a generation or more.’” Clinton not the federal government, issue actly does “fairness” mean and who world -- and we have to show our- rality and goodness. As Calvin says he now supports same-sex mar- marriage licenses. Current laws decides what’s fair? Many things selves fi rst -- that democracy works Coolidge said of our Declaration riage based on justice, equality and restrict “underage” marriage, as may seem “unfair,” but not all can, because we can reach agreement of Independence, “We cannot the Constitution. well as polygamy. If same-sex mar- or should, be addressed by courts. on a principle basis.” continue to enjoy the result if we All of the arguments for and riage is approved, what’s to stop I am reminded of this ex- The states, or Congress, should neglect and abandon the cause.” against same-sex marriage have polygamists from demanding change between Humpty Dumpty be allowed to sort out how they been heard and were heard again legal protection and cultural ac- and Alice in Lewis Carroll’s “Alice wish to defi ne and license mar- © 2013 Tribune Media Services, on March 26 and 27 when lawyers ceptance? Justice Antonin Scalia in Wonderland”: riage, not the Supreme Court. Inc. Facing opposition: Let’s be disliked for the right reasons Okay, so Christians are called “sign that will be opposed” or study estimates that One obvious ex- friends and advocates than the “haters,” “deluded,” “theocrats,” “contradicted.” Whichever word Christians are ac- ample is our un- people of God. Which is precise- you name it. But, what did you ex- you prefer, the meaning is the tively persecuted in equivocal support, ly why Chuck founded Prison pect? same: faithfulness to God’s call 131 of the world’s in word and deed, Fellowship—to bring the love You’ve heard me refer to our and His truth on our part will be 197 countries. Ap- of the sanctity of hu- of Christ to prisoners and their culture as being “post-Christian.” met with opposition. proximately 100,000 man life and mar- families—and Justice Fellow- It’s a shorthand way of noting the It could hardly be otherwise. As are murdered every riage. I say “word ship—to bring biblically based decreasing infl uence of Christian Benedict XVI wrote in his book year because of their and deed,” because reforms to the justice system. ideas and values on cultural norms, “Jesus of Nazareth: The Infancy faith. we Christians are of- So instead of being just an- attitudes, and habits. Narratives,” “man’s ‘contradic- So what should be ten better at demon- other aggrieved interest group, Obviously, this is far from tion’ of God runs all the way our response? Well for Eric Metaxas strating what we’re let’s pray God will give us grace a good thing. But it’s in this through history.” We live in a time starters, how about no against than articu- to become those signs of con- post-Christian culture that the when “God himself is constantly whining. As I just told you, at the lating and modeling a Christian tradiction. Instead of complain- Church can and must be what regarded as a limitation placed very least, Scripture warns us to alternative of what it means to ing when people speak ill of us, her Lord called her to be: a sign upon our freedom that must expect opposition and rejection. be truly human. As Chuck Col- we should recall Jesus’s words of contradiction. be set aside if man is ever to be When faced with opposition and son might say, we’re good at op- in Matthew 5, “Blessed are you The phrase comes from Luke’s completely himself.” hostility, our principle response posing, we’ve got to be better at when people insult you, perse- Gospel. After Jesus is presented God is love, but this love “can should be to ensure that we are be- proposing. cute you, and falsely say all kinds in the Temple, Simeon holds be hated when it challenges us ing opposed for the right reasons. Another, unfortunately less- of evil against you because of me. the One he has waited his entire to transcend ourselves.” If people are to speak ill of us, they obvious example is being cham- Rejoice and be glad, because life to see. He proclaims Jesus to This hatred of the love that should do so because our message pions of the weak, oppressed great is your reward in heaven.” be “a light for revelation to the redeems sent Jesus to the cross. and our lives are inescapable re- and marginalized. For instance, Gentiles, and for glory to your And it’s why we ourselves should minders of what it means to tran- the American criminal justice © 2013 Prison Fellowship. Metax- people Israel,” and then gives expect to be rejected. By the scend ourselves and live as if there system is in desperate need of as is the voice of “Breakpoint,” a Mary the news that will “pierce way, we in the West should count were something greater than our reform. Offenders and their radio commentary, formerly featur- her heart”: Her son will be a our blessings. A Pew Forum own desires. families should have no better ing the late Chuck Colson.
Metaxas misses the mark partisan should consider adoption, Study Center, has penned more than with disease, emotionally unstable, void what we believe,” seeking unity at the I’m not sure exactly what Eric not abortion. 70 books in the areas of history, cul- of a wholesome intimate love and the expense of truth is utter nonsense! Metaxas was trying to say in his February Ultrasound tests reveal that a baby ture, politics and the arts, and has co- inability to enjoy the awesomeness of More and more we hear, “God loves 2013 commentary “Not sermons but with a heart beat is living in the womb. authored titles with Arkansas Gov. Mike procreating. you,” a glorious statement that has no stories: Engaging in culture the right Life begins at conception. The egg Huckabee and presidential candidate My heart goes out to families en- equal. The disturbing other side is, way.” Sorry, I don’t feel good about unites with the sperm and life begins. Alan Keyes. twined in the gay lifestyle. I would “God hates sin,” all of it—mine and replacing sermons with stories. That is a scientifi c fact seen through Erich G. Lukas encourage them to pray and seek yours. But for God’s mercy none of us We reach out to the culture but the the lens of a microscope. Perkasie, Penn. counseling to restore self-respect to would escape his wrath. truth is nothing but the truth, so help Support your local pro-life counsel- these lost souls. We all need support, Catering only to Scriptures that me God. It seems like the gospel has ing centers, which can train volunteers, No need for same-sex marriages love and compassion. It takes persever- soothe our self-centered consciences, been watered down enough: liberal distributed baby clothes and help moth- Marriage is defi ned as a legal con- ance and working together. That’s what that make us feel good, is to reject the pastors, NIV, bad Bibles, etc. ers in choosing life for the unborn. tract between a man and a woman families are for. only source of inner peace and rest What we need is the old-time gos- Choose life when you vote. only, the relationship as husband and Everyone has the choice to commit awaiting those who submit to all Scrip- pel. We want a revival but Metaxas’ Francis Kazerski wife, which procreates and propagates to any gender and to live as she or he ture. It demands belief, repentance way will not get us one. What ever Carlsbad, Calif. a healthy family. This has been forever pleases with equal legal protection, but and obedience. Materialism can never happened to fasting? and ever. Homosexuals are secure with let’s keep protecting traditional mar- satisfy the human spirit. Francis Reed The truth about Planned legal benefi ts in civil union. Society riage. It has worked since time began. Do we understand the biblical San Diego, Calif. Parenthood does not need to address this issue Mary Calgaro criticism of religion? No book is more Defunding Planned Parenthood any further. The nation is experienc- Escondido, Calif. scathing of anemic religious ritual. Support pregnancy centers has been hot in the news. What’s a ing ramifi cations from adapting such To affi rm that which is true is not ar- Approximately 66 million babies huge reason why many Americans laws. Schools are indoctrinating the The cross is path to eternal truth rogant. Jesus is not simply great; He is have died in America through abortion. want Planned Parenthood, not only children with these ideas rather than In quest of absolute truth, we must the only; no peers or rivals, no parallel Planned Parenthood receives literally defunded, but also dismantled? the basic education they need to make examine the authority we espouse. in other faiths. hundreds of millions of dollars in U.S. “Killer Angel,” by George Grant, is their own decisions in life. One is scriptural. The other, in direct The cross of Christ destroys belief in government taxpayer funds to advocate a free online biography of Planned The Bible is the No. 1 book, with true contrast, is based on past tradition self-salvation. Jesus is the only Savior. abortion to pregnant mothers. Parenthood’s Founder Margaret stories of people who were disciplined and present teaching of religious phi- The self-righteous and intellectually Adoption is a solution the abortion Sanger. “Killer Angel,” describes in and nation’s cursed for not adhering to losophies that embrace human reason. proud fi nd the gospel of Christ hu- issue in America. Please write your detail Margaret Sanger’s close associa- God’s laws. I believe we are under God’s The Word of God ranks above all miliating and unacceptable. U.S. Congressman or U.S. Senator to tion with Nazi eugenics offi cials and curse. Babies to be killed in the womb other views. No man can destroy eternal truth. advocate for adoption. her racist motivations in establishing and out of the womb! Shame on us. Christ’s prayer for unity was not Hate Him if we like; but in the end we Every Democrat should the “adop- Planned Parenthood to target racial Grown ups are choosing to live lives of based on a sentimental niceness cou- will be accountable to Him, who is truth. tion option” serious action. Every and religious minorities. unnatural relationships. Statistics show pled with a dreamy, innocuous, “let’s Richard Ellison Republican, independent and non- Grant, director of the King’s Meadow them to be troubled, unsteady, riddled all get along with each other despite Yucaipa, Calif. 6 • CHRISTIAN EXAMINER • April 2013SD www.christianexaminer.com National yoga expert joins parents in suit against Encinitas schools By Lori Arnold already solid case. said of his public policy fi rm’s affi li- my and heresy,” Broyles said. funded by husband and wife team “She wrote a very powerful and ation with California’s constitution- Brown said that in the practice Paul Tudor Jones and Sonia Jones. ENCINITAS — Parents who op- persuasive piece,” Broyles said of al amendment banning same-sex of Ashtanga yoga, “the physical and The couple also established the Jois pose a districtwide yoga program at her declaration. marriage. the religious are two sides of the Foundation, which provided the the Encinitas Union High School Because of the rise in popularity same coin,” adding that its found- yoga grant at Encinitas schools. District are hopeful a judge will of Yoga in the United States—even Wide implications ers and teachers believe the Asthan- “Do you think they are really go- put a stop to the program at a May among Christians—the case has The attacks, he said, have dis- ga poses foster a union with god, ing to give an objective study when hearing. gained national and international tracted from the seriousness of the whether intended or not. they are being funded by all of the The parents are challenging the attention and prompted heated discussion. “There is empirical evidence that same people?” Broyles said. school board’s decision to accept a discussions from both sides. Com- “Right now there are approximately doing yoga can result in a religious $533,000 grant by the Jois Founda- ments on numerous news sites have 5,000 to 6,000 students in the Encinitas transformation that is so gradual An unholy alliance tion to implement yoga at all of its pegged the suit as both ignorant Union School District being immersed that the practitioner does not While Broyles said he’s not sur- schools. In February they fi led suit and a waste of money. and marinated in Asthanga yoga, even notice that a change is taking prised by secular reaction to yoga against the district saying the pro- “These parents are a bunch of which is an inherently and pervasively place,” the professor said. in school he has been fl abbergasted gram’s religious underpinnings vio- idiots who have no business breed- religious practice,” Broyles said, adding Even more disturbing, Broyles said, by the views of practicing Christians late the state constitution. ing,’” read a post by Chris Thomas, that yoga means yoked. is the district’s intention of integrating who defend the mystical exercise. Helping them to make their case a top commenter on UT San Diego. “What you are yoked with when yoga into other subject areas, including “The church is very compro- will be Candy Gunter Brown, a Har- Fellow UT poster Thomas Coyne you engage in yoga is actually wor- health, science and history. mised in an area that is very spiritu- vard-trained professor in Eastern also resorted to name calling. ship and acknowledgement of Hin- “It’s a whole worldview package,” ally dangerous,” Broyles said. “It is religion and yoga, who has signed “Those that cry the loudest are du deities.” he said. really frightening for me, now that on as an expert witness for the usually the most closed minded and Both Broyles and Brown, an associ- In an effort to prove its effective- I have dug into this for more than plaintiffs. Brown learned about the least informed as well as greedy, ate professor in the Religious Studies ness, and with an eye toward ex- fi ve months, to see how divided and case from media coverage she saw money-worshipping charlatans.” department at Indiana University, warn panding to school districts across compromised American churches while on sabbatical in England and Broyles clients, however, are not that the ultimate goal of Asthanga the country, the yoga grant includes are over this issue. offered her services to Dean Bro- seeking monetary damages, only to yoga is to reach the “eighth limb” of a monitoring element in which data Ultimately, though, Broyles be- yles, founder of the National Cen- have the program tossed. Samadhi, which is a “super conscious” from each child is being recorded lieves his clients will prevail in ter for Law and Policy, which is rep- “The level of attack and vitriol state in which the practitioner is uniting and reviewed by the University of court. resenting the parents. Broyles said that we are receiving in the yoga with the divine. Virginia’s fl edgling Contempla- “The state has no business pick- Brown has impeccable credentials matter far exceeds that which we “For a biblical Christian saying tive Sciences Center. The problem, ing religious winners and losers,” that will only serve to strengthen an received in Prop. 8,” the attorney that you are God would be blasphe- Broyles said, is the Virginia center is he said. www.christianexaminer.com SD April 2013 • CHRISTIAN EXAMINER •7 Thanks to taco shop, ministry shares clothes, love, the gospel By Lori Arnold the dollar sale goes back into the ministry,” she said. SAN DIEGO — As Melissa Al- varez’s husband, Ramon, orches- Quarters add up trates the operational details of his They also receive revenue 19-store Los Primos Mexican Food through a Share-a-Quarter display chain from its corporate headquar- at each of the Los Primos restau- ters in Grantville, Melissa and her rants, which her husband co-owns team of volunteers are working in with a cousin. a rear warehouse to provide prom “They are the owners, and they dresses to the needy. allow us to be there and help us out “I just wanted to be able to give as far as funding,” she said. back for the things that God had The value of that help, she said, given me,” Alvarez said. “I wanted is priceless in that it allows them to to be able to bless others. When we provide much needed goods for are able to bless others with tangi- free. ble things we are able to give them “Jesus gives His love to us free of hope. In return, it opens their cost,” she said. “There’s nothing mind and their heart in order to that He wants in return, just for us receive the gospel, in order to let Dozens of donated prom dresses await their new teen owners at the Share to be in His presence and to love them know who God is.” Ministry headquarters in Mission Valley. The gowns will be distributed as part of Him and for us to be obedient to The Share My Dress project is the ministry’s Share My Dress project. His Word. That’s pretty much the just one component of her Share reason why God put this in my Ministry, which she and Ramon return because of it. It’s just simply Funding for the ministry comes heart, to be such a passion of mine. launched eight years ago as a part- because we love them and we want through a monthly dollar sale of “When you are in a desperate ner program to the Rock Church’s to show the love of Christ through items they don’t need for the minis- situation you tend to lose hope that annual Toys for Joy Christmas cam- these things that we are giving.” try. Although most of the items are anybody even sees you. (My desire paign. While the church provided Share is also open by appointment sold for $1, some of the larger items One of the teens receiving a free prom is) just to let them know they are the toys, the Alvarezes took on the for numerous ministry partners that are sold for $5. dress models one of the gowns at seen. They are important, and God clothing distribution. serve foster children, the military, re- “All that money that we get for Share Ministry. has a plan for each of us.” About four years ago, the Alva- entry programs for inmates and family rezes expanded the project year- reunifi cation efforts. round after acquiring a building “It takes a lot of work to be able on Mission Gorge Road. Today, to go through and sort through the the ministry provides clothing and clothing and then put them up on small household items to the needy racks,” the ministry founder said, at a monthly distribution it calls adding that they operate with a “Share Your Blessing.” corps of 15 to 20 volunteers. “On “That was a tangible way for me our Tuesday night outreaches there to start talking to them, for me to is usually only fi ve of us there for have a conversation with them,” she 150 people. So, it’s really heard to said. “For me to just love on them even be able to talk to them. Prayer- right where they are at.” fully, we can get more volunteers To accommodate the giveaway, who have a heart for people and a held the fi rst Tuesday of every heart for Jesus and wanting to love month, a team of volunteers gath- on people.” ers for a couple of hours each Tues- day and Thursday morning to sort Gospel and glitz and organize donations. All of the Alvarez said that while they are clothes are organized by size and rewarded during all of the distribu- gender. As many as 150 people par- tions, the annual prom dress give- ticipate in the monthly Share Your away is particularly special. Blessing outreach. “It is such a big deal for girls,” “They are not used to being able she said. “It’s awesome. It’s great. to just go into somewhere and get In that setting it’s not as busy as whatever they want because they when we do our Share My Blessing, are on a limited income—or no in- so we are able to really pour into come sometimes,” she said. “(They) the girls’ lives and really able to talk have the freedom to really go and with them.” shop and look for things that they She admits the prom dress give- are able to take home, and they away is not unique since a handful don’t have any shame or guilt put of other organizations do the same on them for wanting something. thing. They are full of joy. The parents are “I think the difference between full of joy. The kids are full of joy. us is that we are really sharing the They are totally excited that they gospel and sharing Jesus with them are able get something and they as they are getting their dresses,” are not asked for anything back in she said. Share Ministry projects Share Your Blessings: Held Share-a-Quarter Drive: Allows from 5 to 7 p.m. the fi rst Tuesday local companies to support the of every month. Guests may se- ministry by placing a contribu- lect up to 25 free clothing items. tion box in prominent locations Used toys are sometimes avail- at the business. Boxes are also able. Guests, who may participate available at all 19 Los Primos res- every other month, must provide taurants in Southern California. a photo ID. No appointment is Dollar sale: Held from 8 a.m. required, but lines begin form- to noon the fi rst Saturday of each ing at 3 p.m. month. The ministry sells most Share My Dress: Annual free items for $1, although some mer- prom boutique for girls. Each chandise is $5. Proceeds from the year the ministry collects prom sale benefi t the ministry work. dresses from the community to Volunteer opportunities: Vol- distribute to teens in need. The unteers are needed to help with dresses are suitable for prom, all of the ministry’s outreach op- sweet 16 parties, quinceanera or portunities. If more volunteers other formal occasions. In ad- were available for the Tuesday dition to the dresses, the teens outreach, Alvarez said they would receive shoes and accessories be able to spend more time shar- as available. The next planned ing the gospel with guests. Week- distribution, organized by Kim ly sorting hours are 9 to 11 a.m. Wolfe Powell, will be in April. Tuesdays and Thursdays. Call the ministry to make an ap- pointment. A raffl e for hair and For more information, visit nail appointments will also be www.shareanddonate.org. held. 8 • CHRISTIAN EXAMINER • April 2013SD www.christianexaminer.com
culture wars. GARLOW… “I have to develop an inner cour- Continued from page 1 age, an inner strength to go for it,” she said. “Possibly that’s where to live than three to six months. I I started developing it. Now, at my can feel it.’ You know, you can just age—I’m 62—I don’t have those feel it,” she said in a 90-minute ex- fears anymore. I just plunge in.” clusive interview from her El Cajon That strength has not gone un- home where she continues to be noticed by her doctor, who early on treated for the cancer, which has asked Carol about her reaction to since spread to her liver. the cancer diagnosis. “The Lord hadn’t spoken to me “Are you in denial about what’s and said, ‘Carol, you are on your going on or is it a faith that you last. I know that He will speak to me have?” the doctor asked her. “I said, and He will say to me, ‘It’s time.’ I ‘It’s my faith.’ There was probably haven’t received that yet,” she said. some denial there. I didn’t under- As has been her pattern since she stand everything about what I was dealing with with cancer, but I PHOTO BY ROSIE DIAZ was diagnosed in July 2007, Carol Carol Garlow places her hand on the rallied after her treatment and wasn’t going to let it take me down. Healing Wall at Skyline Church during by that evening was feeling much I wanted to stand strong against it.” the congregation’s grand opening stronger. in March 2012. The congregation “I was a totally different person • • • surprised Garlow, the church’s pastor than the person who came in the of prayer and intercession, by creating morning,” she said, proudly boast- Although the Garlows have the wall in her honor. ing that she was “ruining the doc- tapped into every conceivable ad- grieve while still trying to concen- tor’s pronouncement that I only vance in cancer treatment, prayer trate all of your energies on fi ght- had three to six months to live.” has been the biggest weapon in ing to live. “I’ve had these experiences their arsenal, a fi tting tool since In “God Still Heals” I know my where I’m just really down, I’m re- Carol, who is ordained in the Wes- husband talks about that sometimes ally sick, I’m having trouble, and all leyan denomination, serves as Sky- line’s pastor of prayer and interces- healing comes through death,” she of a sudden I rise up and I’m strong PHOTO BY ROSIE DIAZ said. “I think I have some practical Carol Garlow, with her husband, Jim Garlow, by her side, shares with the Skyline sion. She admits that it has been again and I’m moving forward.” things to say about grief and how to The cycle has been repeated doz- congregation during a March worship service. It was the fi rst time she felt able diffi cult to turn over the reigns to to attend church in several weeks. others, but in the process, she has grieve. Some people are afraid to ens of times and more frequently grieve, I think, and don’t know how in recent months, prompting the discovered even more about its said, is obvious and dates clear back her diagnosis, two of her four chil- power as people around the globe to grieve and bottle it up inside.” family—for the fi rst time ever—to to the eve of her fi rst cancer sur- dren were still in high school, and She said she enjoyed the wisdom discuss hospice. Just four days be- have dropped to their knees on her gery. at that time she had four grand- behalf. in the book “A Grace Disguised: fore her interview with the Christian “While I was in the hospital, just sons. How the Soul Grows through Loss,” Examiner, Carol spent an entire day “They are learning how to pray,” before surgery the Lord spoke to “In that naïve, simple trust I just she said of the congregation. “The by Jerry Sittser, which she read pre- rolled up in a ball, wracked with me and it was very clear,” she said. plowed ahead, just counting each cancer. In the book Sittser recounts pain. She was non-responsive and irony of this is that I’m the pastor “He said, ‘Carol, you are going to day as a day that I’m living and of prayer and intercession at Sky- his recovery after his wife, daugh- unable to move around. have to go through everything, but I that I’m going to live,” she said. ter and mother were all killed in a “We had a long, hard cry,” Jim line and I really can’t do my job, will be with you through it all.’” “I wanted to be there for them. I but I am doing my job. I’ve been crash caused by a drunk driver. Garlow confessed. “I gave her per- She admits, though, to a case of wanted to see my grandsons grow teaching people to pray because “There’s a lot of little griefs in mission to stop fi ghting. We went naïveté. up. I wanted to see my teenagers they have had to pray without me life, just a lot of little things,” Car- through that day and then Mon- “I went ohhh-kay, I can do that graduate, graduate from college, teaching them. The Lord has been ol said. “(Sittser) said when you day she rises up and she is fi ghting because I have a very strong belief get married. I was planning on that, teaching them to pray. are in a moment of grief just walk again. She’s going for it.” in God,” she said. “I trust Him. I so I lived each day as I was going to “He’s been doing the teaching. into that pain, just move into that have a strong trust in Him because keep going on forever.” I’m just giving them the problem pain and just keep going into it. • • • I have seen Him at work before in She also credits her parents, to pray,” she said, a weak chuckle It was so freeing for me to think my life. I had seen Him at work in Richard and Vivian Luckert, and emerging from her lips. “My prayer that you don’t have to stop the Her strength and courage have other people’s lives, so I know His their “stubborn” German and is that they take that concept and grieving. You don’t have to stop been legendary, fueled by the bru- Word. When He speaks it, it’s real. Dutch descent. Now in their 80s, pray for other things, which I think the pain. You can let it happen tally honest and transparent blog It’s on target and what He says is the couple lives in Oklahoma City. they are. There’s other people that and, as you let it happen, it’s re- that Jim Garlow has maintained what He means. “It comes from them,” their need prayer as much I as I do. I’m leased from within you. Because throughout their protracted jour- “So I guess I took that statement daughter said. “It also defi nitely not the only one, but because I am trying to stop the pain just adds ney with cancer. Carol, who has as a simple trust in Him. I say simple comes from God. I have to give public, I’m a focal point.” more burden to your heart.” received traditional treatment in because at that time I had no idea Him credit. When I came along, The Garlows have become na- San Diego, alternative treatment in what ‘everything’ was going to be. somehow that strength was instilled tionally recognized personalities • • • Mexico and groundbreaking treat- And, at this point, after fi ve years in me from experiences in my life, because of Jim Garlow’s very public ment at the MD Anderson Cancer and six months, I feel like I’ve been the things that I would see around stand on traditional family values, Although Carol said she has still Center in Houston, has already far through an awful lot of things, just me.” having been the lightening rod for not heard God telling her to pre- exceeded the expectations of doc- a lot of things. I don’t know if I’ve Some of it, she added, is born out the passage of California’s Propo- pare for the end of her journey, the tors. Less than 1 percent of the pa- been through everything, but I’ve of a shyness that has forced her to sition 8. He’s also written numer- thought of heaven comes a little tients with her form of cancer live been through enough.” become bold, especially in light of ous high-profi le books, including more often now as her bad days as long as she has. She admits being motivated by a church ministry that has become “Cracking Da Vinci’s Code,” “Mir- compete with the good. The source of her strength, she being with her family. At the time of a prominent player in the national acles are for Real,” “A Christian’s “I really didn’t think too much Response to Islam” and “Heaven of heaven, except of how great it and the After Life.” In July 2005, is, and everybody understands you two years before Carol was diag- want to go to heaven and not hell,” Financial Planning Seminar nosed, the couple released “God she said. “That’s the place I’m plan- Still Heals: Answers to Your Ques- ning to go. It is more enticing to Saturday, May 4 tions about Divine Healing.” In ret- think that part of healing is going rospect, Carol said she would like to heaven. to add a new chapter. “At times now, I’m at a place in Free event “It would be on grief, and this this new year of 2013, where I have sponsored by... goes along with life,” she said. “I’ve more pain, and having to do more had to grieve a lot of little things.” chemo, and this last chemo that Christian experts from various She shared how much she misses I’m on is making me sick. It gives driving, particularly her current car, me the feeling of I’d rather be in fi elds to present workshops in: a 2003 Mercedes they bought used. heaven than have to endure this anymore. This is the fi rst time that s &IVE