LINDA LEE CADWELL INTERVIEW
— By Chris Kent — LINDA LEE CADWELL INTERVIEW
By Chris Kent
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Introduction I have had the privilege of knowing Linda Lee Cadwell for over forty years, and I can say without hesitation that she is one of the most courageous and admirable people I have ever had the honor of knowing. In spite of the tragedies she has endured in her life she exudes a positive attitude towards life and a zest for living. Following Bruce Lee’s untimely passing, Linda returned with her children, Brandon and Shannon, to live in her hometown of Seattle, Washington. After a year there they returned to Los Angeles, California, where she continued her education at UCLA and Cal State University Long Beach, graduating with a BA degree in Political Science, and being admitted to Phi Beta Kappa. Linda then went on to get her teaching degree, and taught kindergarten class for a number of years in Torrance. Through relatives in Boise, Idaho, she met and eventually married Bruce Cadwell, who at the time was a stockbroker for Morgan Stanley and also a highly-rated amateur golfer. Linda and Bruce are now both retired yet very active and enjoying their nine grandchildren.
Linda is also a very private person who prefers not doing interviews. However, she graciously agreed to this one, which took place on the patio in the peaceful back garden of her home. My daughter, Sarah, who has known Linda since she was two-years old and refers to her as “Auntie Linda,” accompanied me to videotape the interview and shoot photographs.
Self-effacing in manner and soft-spoken, there were, however, several points during the interview when Linda’s enthusiasm bubbled over and she became quite animated in making a particular point, such as when describing an altercation Bruce had with another gung fu person. Linda gave each question she was asked the time and thought it deserved then answered by expressing herself honestly and openly.
In the interview we discuss the role that Linda played in Bruce’s development – Personally, I have said numerous times that I believe she was instrumental in Bruce achieving his goals, etc. – She has always downplayed it and said that “it was Bruce, he was the one would do it all.” -- But personally I think it would have been much more difficult for Bruce if he didn’t have Linda in his life -- They were like Yin/Yang, two halves of an indivisible whole --
Here is the interview: 1 “I think the most important thing in Bruce’s life was his family.”
C: I know for a fact that you are a very private person and their father. They were very young when he died – Brandon prefer to remain out of the limelight. However, as the woman was eight and Shannon was four, and so I thought it was always who was the wife, best friend, confidant, and partner of Bruce necessary for them to remember their father, remember the Lee, you hold an esteemed position within the hearts and minds significance of his life and know how it has affected their of countless people around the world. I am sure that, like me, growth as well. So I think it just goes without saying that is they thank you for agreeing to do this interview. what the mother of children does.
C: In the nearly 42 years since Bruce’s passing, a lot of things C: There is an old saying which states, “Behind every great have happened. For many people it would have been easier to man, there’s a great woman. A lot of people talk about the forget about everything, but you’ve always been there for both things Bruce did for other people, how he helped them grow – Bruce and the fans. I want to thank you for that and ask you -- myself included. Can you take a moment and tell us how, in where do you find all that strength and courage to walk on? your opinion you helped Bruce to grow as a person, or enriched him as a human being? L: I think you just answered the question, Chris. And that is from Bruce’s philosophy – you walk on. And that’s what he L: Well, I tell you what, I think the most important thing in would have wanted me to do. And, as the mother of his children Bruce’s life was his family. Before all the stardom and publicity I have always felt that it was important for my children to know and attention – I think he would have given all of that up for his PhotobyLinda Palmer A proud Bruce Lee with wife Linda and their children, Brandon and Shannon. Photo by Linda Palmer. 2 family. That was the most important thing to him. And so as to were there any things you my role of being his wife and mother of his children, I think kind of picked up from each that I grounded him in that way. And together we were a unit. other (and specially Bruce He and I were very complementary partners. He was vibrant, from you)? full of energy, right out there, you know – and that’s not my personality. I’m more “behind the scenes” and prefer to stay L: (Thinking) Well, I would that way. And I think that that was something of value to him. say that everyone has to find And I think the fact I was someone who just, as he said once, I their own way of life – the just let him be, be who he was, and not try to change him or way that they express interfere with his personality. And I think also that I was themselves. I saw the way someone in his life that he completely and thoroughly trusted. that Bruce would express And when he was in a business like he was, that is something himself, how he would stand of a rarity, or something that you have to search for, is those up for what he believed in, friends and family who you can always depend on. And of and I think he gave that gift to course it was two-way. me as well -- especially after he was gone. But as far as little mannerisms go… (Smiles and shakes her head, no) C: My next question is built right around that. We know that you and Bruce complemented each other well. You were like C: If you could have changed anything about Bruce's Yin and Yang, if you will. In what aspects of life do you think personality, his way of being, his quirks... would there be you were the yang and he was the yin? Were there specific something? times when those roles were sort of reversed and you had to take the stronger or Yang role? What are the subjects in which your help was the most requested by Bruce? L: I don’t think you should go into a marriage with the idea of changing the other person. However, life changes as you go L: You know, I think probably in every marriage, a really good along, and as Bruce always used to say, “To change with marriage, there are times when the partners switch between Yin change is the changeless state.” So it’s like that water flowing – and Yang. And of course he was the more Yang figure in our you never step in the same water twice in a river. It’s always relationship and in his own expression of himself. However, I flowing. So you always have to go with the change. So I think think that fact that he went through many struggles in his life, that in the relatively short time that we were married, nine many obstacles to overcome, and sometimes felt down – and I years, I think we were able to achieve that. Because there were think that’s when I could at least be a listening post to him and so many changes –we moved often. perhaps achieve more of a Yang role there – but not as explosive, or wanting to change him in any way, but to be there You know, I married a gung fu instructor, and he turned out to when there were times when he was trying to overcome be a worldwide movie star … (Smiling) There were a lot of something. changes along the way. And there were times when we were very, very poor. And then, better times. And so to be able to C: That’s what I meant. For instance, when he suffered his back adapt to that and keep the same relationship – And so no, I injury and was required to stay in bed for a period of time. And don’t think I would have tried to change anything in him. And I that relationships are rarely fifty-fifty (percent), sometimes they think you have to remember in answering all the question is are seventy-thirty, and those do switch and they do move that Bruce passed away when he was only thirty-two years old. around… So he was very young, really. I say that from the vantage point of having become much older… (Smiles) – But, I think that his L: Yes, that’s absolutely right. But also, I would have to say, personality was so fiery, so vibrant, so driven to achieve, that I that after Bruce passed away was when I probably had to think, hopefully, with age, and maybe with the influence of assume more of a Yang role – because then I had to be the myself and our family, that maybe he might have mellowed a mother and father to our children. little bit, and found a little bit more patience, and found that “sometimes slow and easy does it” – So I would hope that, just C: You have done an admirable job there… for the sake of his own personal happiness, because sometimes he would get so upset about certain things, like script changes L: (Smiling) You can tell that by my children. or whatever – Or incompetence, that’s what used to drive him crazy. So I think as he aged he would have adapted those C: When a couple spends years together, they tend to become a personality traits more. little like the other person in some aspects, or they pick up, manners, gestures, etc. With the time you spent with Bruce, 3 Linda and Bruce, training in the back yard.
C: I think it is very easy for people to tend to forget the age he scenes” – as I said, you have always been a very private was when he did leave us, and they gear everything around person… today and what is going on. They just forget that he was thirty- two years old… C: The 1960’s were years of massive changes and revolution in the USA (racism, Vietnam, social revolution…). How did you L: Yes… and Bruce live that time and what were yours and Bruce’s thoughts about what was happening? C: Do you think that Bruce would have become the great Bruce Lee that we know nowadays without you? L: Well, I have to tell you again, that Bruce was just in his twenties, and was so focused on his career path. We didn’t L: Yes. He was really driven to achieve, and he had so many really pay a lot of attention to current events. Of course we great plans and projects that he was always thinking about. So, were aware of them. And the Vietnam War was so close to yes, I think he would have continued to achieve. I think, China and Hong Kong. So we were aware of what was going however, without the grounding of his family, that he might not on – that China was closed – that we could not visit China have achieved the same degree of happiness. So it’s hard to say, during those years was influential. We didn’t really read the but I think that was very important to him. newspapers or watch the news much just because we were involved in other things, and our children were very young. C: I think that is another thing that has been neglected by However, there were incidents that happened during that time people for years. It’s plainly obvious from your comments how period, like Martin Luther King was killed, and Robert important that family was to Bruce’s overall being. Everybody Kennedy, and of course John F. Kennedy as well, and others. sees this personality, but few people have been “behind the 4 “You know, of course I miss Bruce and always will, but he lives within my heart, and my mind…”
And it all reflected on some of the themes and cultural changes wear that white wedding dress – but those are little extras and which were going on -- and the racism factor. And then there superficial things. I’m not proud that we did it that way, but was the fact that Bruce experienced the negative side of racism knowing how my family felt about it, that was the way it was. himself, when he was trying to make his way into the Hollywood film scene, and you know, like after he did the C: What is it that you miss the most about Bruce? What did Green Hornet, which was a terrific breakthrough for him , he you appreciate most about his everyday life? had a great deal of trouble getting other roles in Hollywood. And everybody knows that he was the inspiration for the TV L: You know, of course I miss Bruce and always will, but he show that finally became “Kung Fu” – and should have starred lives within my heart, and my mind, because I still know the a Chinese person. But the studios wouldn’t bank on an Asian things that were important to him and the philosophy of his life, star at that time. And lo and behold, when we look back in and that has helped me as well. I miss him mostly as the father hindsight, he was instrumental in some of the ways that people of my children, and how things might have been different had looked at different races and cultures. he been there and seen them grow up. But we try to do our best – and always keep him in mind about how he would have been C: I think a large part of the new generation didn’t experience as a father to his children. I miss his vibrant personality. He was any of that, which is part of what this interview is all about. always so much fun. I always say no one has ever made me They don’t read about it or have never read about it, and so they laugh as much as Bruce did – all the little antics and jokes. He just automatically thing, “Oh, he’s this person…” – and it’s, was a great joke-teller. “No, no, he went through a lot of different things and was instrumental in creating a lot of changes.” C: Again, I think those things are important because people have preconceived views and misperceptions of individuals L: But that’s ancient history… (laughs). through the time. You know, “He was always serious,” etc. – Other people such as Taky have mentioned the fact that Bruce C: But I think it’s something that, to use Bruce’s vernacular, to was a jokester too. A lot of people didn’t see that side or were see the “totality” of an individual as a human being, I think not privy to that side of him. that’s necessary.
C: Among the thousands of public pictures of Bruce Lee, there aren't any pictures of your wedding day. Is there any special reason? Were there any photographs taken that day?
L: (Smiles and laughs) – There were no photos taken on our wedding day – and I don’t say this with any pride at all – in fact, I’m kind of embarrassed, that our wedding happened kind of suddenly – because we had planned to elope, to run away and get married. My family would not have approved of me marrying outside my race. And while I have to say -- my mother had genuine concerns for my well-being; that I might have suffered discrimination or had a hard life marrying outside my race. That was the thinking then, especially for my mother’s generation.
So we kind of surprised them with, “Guess what, we’re getting married.” (Laughs) – It’s a long story there, but… So my mother and my grandmother attended the wedding, and Bruce’s wonderful friend Taky Kimura was his best man. And we did get married in a congregational church, but there was nobody taking pictures, because it was just that many people there. And Taky Kimura with Linda in Seattle. then we got on a plane and flew to Oakland. Yes, I never got to 5 “. . . he liked the idea of just sitting around in a place like this – the beautiful outdoors.”
C: Andre Morgan referred to Bruce as “a man who walked in Just to make clear, Bruce was born in America, in San two worlds” with regard to Asian cinema and Western cinema. Francisco, but at three months of age he went back to Hong But he was also a man who lived in two different cultures; Kong, and grew there until he was eighteen years old. So he Chinese and American. What did Bruce like and dislike the was totally immersed in his Chinese culture. most about the American way of life? C: What did Bruce like and dislike the most about the Chinese way of life? L: He did like the American way of life. He thought America was a place of new ideas. From the very beginning – the L: He loved the Chinese way of life as well. On the American creation of America -- and all the ideas that spring from being side you have - New! - Fresh! - Ideas! In the Chinese you have an American. As we can see over all the years – very age-old wisdom, going back thousands of years, right? So he innovative, inventive people came from America. And so it was loved that and studied a great deal of Chinese philosophy. He a new place, a fresh place, a place where he could display his liked the Confucian principles for a model of a way to live… ideas and find an avenue for their expression. And he liked Chinese food!
He liked the living here -- the fact that there’s more space. You C: Rice? know, Hong Kong is a very crowded place – many, many people. So he liked the idea (indicates garden in which we are L: Oh yes! Must have rice! That’s the first thing I learned about sitting) of just sitting around in a place like this – the beautiful Bruce. He loved the way Chinese people eat. He loved that a outdoors. He loved that idea -- more privacy because of that. Chinese meal has a lot of variety in it. In a Chinese meal there And for the most part he liked American people, because are several different plates, several different dishes. As opposed there’s a lot of diversity. And most people he found outgoing to, say, an American diet where you have a piece of meat on the and nice, and he liked that. plate, then a potato and a vegetable or something. He thought that was a little boring.