Handbook on Sensitive Practice for Health Care Practitioners:
Lessons from Adult Survivors of Childhood Sexual Abuse Handbook on Sensitive Practice for Health Care Practitioners: Lessons from Adult Survivors of Child- hood Sexual Abuse was researched and written by Candice L. Schachter, Carol A. Stalker, Eli Teram, Gerri C. Lasiuk and Alanna Danilkewich
Également en français sous le titre Manuel de pratique sensible à l’intention des professionnels de la santé – Leçons tirées des personnes qui ont été victimes de violence sexuelle durant l’enfance The opinions expressed in this report are those of the authors and do not necessarily refl ect the views of the Public Health Agency of Canada. Contents may not be reproduced for commercial purposes, but any other reproduction, with acknowledgements, is encouraged.
Recommended citation: Schachter, C.L., Stalker, C.A., Teram, E., Lasiuk, G.C., Danilkewich, A. (2008). Handbook on sensitive practice for health care practitioner: Lessons from adult survivors of childhood sexual abuse. Ottawa: Public Health Agency of Canada.
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Lessons from Adult Survivors of Childhood Sexual Abuse
Researched and Written by...
Candice L. Schachter, DPT, PhD Adjunct Professor, School of Physical Therapy University of Saskatchewan, Saskatoon, SK
Carol A. Stalker, PhD, RSW Professor, Faculty of Social Work Wilfrid Laurier University, Waterloo, ON
Eli Teram, PhD Professor, Faculty of Social Work Wilfrid Laurier University, Waterloo, ON
Gerri C. Lasiuk, RN, PhD Assistant Professor, Faculty of Nursing University of Alberta, Edmonton AB
Alanna Danilkewich, MD, FCFP Associate Professor, College of Medicine University of Saskatchewan, Saskatoon, SK Table of Contents
Acknowledgments ...... vii Epigraph ...... ix 1 The Handbook as a Tool for Clinical Practice ...... 1 1.1 Audience and focus ...... 1 1.2 An issue for all heath care practitioners ...... 1 1.3 Organization ...... 2 1.4 Suggested uses of this Handbook ...... 2 1.5 Terminology ...... 3 1.6 Limitations ...... 4 2 Background Information about Childhood Sexual Abuse ...... 5 2.1 Defi nitions ...... 5 2.2 Childhood sexual abuse survivors...... 5 2.3 Perpetrators of childhood sexual abuse ...... 6 2.4 The dynamics of childhood sexual abuse ...... 6 2.5 Childhood sexual abuse and health ...... 6 3 What Childhood Sexual Abuse Survivors Bring to Health Care Encounters ...... 9 3.1 Gender socialization: Women’s experiences ...... 9 3.2 Gender socialization: Men’s experiences ...... 10 3.3 Societal myths about the cycle of violence ...... 11 3.4 Transference and counter-transference ...... 12 3.5 Specifi c behaviours and feelings arising during health care encounters ...... 12 3.6 Questions about sexuality and sexual orientation ...... 15 4 Principles of Sensitive Practice ...... 17 4.1 Overarching consideration: Fostering feelings of safety for the survivor ...... 17 4.2 The nine principles of Sensitive Practice ...... 17 4.3 Using the principles to avoid retraumatization ...... 23 4.4 Questions for refl ection ...... 24 5 Guidelines for Sensitive Practice: Context of Encounters ...... 25 5.1 Administrative staff and assistants ...... 25 5.2 Waiting and waiting areas ...... 25 5.3 Privacy ...... 26 5.4 Other issues related to physical environment...... 26 5.5 Patient preparation ...... 26 5.6 Encouraging the presence of a support person or “chaperone” ...... 27 5.7 Working with survivors from diverse cultural groups ...... 28 5.8 Collaborative service delivery ...... 29 5.9 Practitioners’ self-care ...... 30 5.10 Community resources for survivors and health care practitioners ...... 31 6 Guidelines for Sensitive Practice: Encounters with Patients ...... 32 6.1 Introductions and negotiating roles ...... 32 6.2 Clothing ...... 32 6.3 Task-specifi c inquiry ...... 33 6.4 General suggestions for examinations ...... 36 6.5 Time ...... 37 6.6 Informed consent ...... 38 6.7 Touch ...... 39 6.8 Pelvic, breast, genital, and rectal examinations and procedures ...... 40 6.9 Body position and proximity ...... 41 6.10 Pregnancy, labour and delivery, postpartum...... 42 6.11 Oral and facial health care ...... 43 6.12 Care within the correctional system ...... 46 6.13 After any physical examination ...... 46 6.14 Questions for refl ection ...... 46 7 Guidelines for Sensitive Practice: Problems in Encounters...... 48 7.1 Pain ...... 48 7.2 Disconnection from the body ...... 48 7.3 Non-adherence to treatment ...... 49 7.4 Appointment cancellations ...... 50
v Table of Contents 7.5 “SAVE the Situation”: A general approach for responding to diffi cult interactions with patients ...... 51 7.6 Triggers and dissociation ...... 52 7.7 Anger or agitation ...... 56 8 Guidelines for Sensitive Practice: Disclosure ...... 57 8.1 The challenge of disclosure for survivors ...... 57 8.2 Possible indicators of past abuse ...... 59 8.3 Inquiring about past abuse ...... 59 8.4 Responding effectively to disclosure ...... 63 8.5 Additional actions required at the time of disclosure or over time ...... 65 8.6 Responses to avoid following a disclosure ...... 68 8.7 Legal and record-keeping issues ...... 68 8.8 Questions for refl ection ...... 70 9 Summary and Concluding Comments ...... 71 9.1 Clinicians’ contributions to survivor’s healing from childhood sexual abuse .... 71 9.2 Sensitive Practice and patient-centred care ...... 71 Appendix A: Empirical Basis of the Handbook ...... 72 Appendix B: Prevalence of Childhood Sexual Abuse ...... 74 Appendix C: Traumagenic Dynamics of Childhood Sexual Abuse ...... 75 Appendix D: Diagnostic Criteria for Stress Disorders ...... 77 Appendix E: Sample Introduction to a Facility ...... 80 Appendix F: Using Plain Language in Consent Forms ...... 81 Appendix G: Working with Aboriginal Individuals ...... 82 Appendix H: A Note about Dissociative Identity Disorder ...... 86 Appendix I: The Evidence Debate Pertaining to Inquiry about Interpersonal Violence ...... 87 Bibliography ...... 89 Works Cited ...... 89 Recommended Reading and Resources ...... 100 Index ...... 105 Sensitive Practice At-a-Glance ...... 107
vi Handbook on Sensitive Practice for Health Care Practitioners Acknowledgements
The authors are deeply grateful to all of the Ginny Freeman MacOwan, for their work on the survivors, health care practitioners, students, and Handbook. mental health practitioners who participated in this research project. These individuals gave The authors are grateful for permission to reprint generously of their time and energy; without previously published material: them, this Handbook would not have been Table 6, Traumagenic Dynamics of Childhood possible. Sexual Abuses has been adapted from We are indebted to the many individuals Finkelhor, D., & Browne, A. (1985). The who assisted with recruitment of participants traumatic impact of child sexual abuse: throughout this project. We wish to acknowledge a conceptualization. American Journal and thank those whose assistance made this of Orthopsychiatry, 55(4), 530-41, with second edition of the Handbook possible. Don permission of author David Finkelhor. Wright and the staff of the British Columbia Appendix D, Diagnostic criteria for Acute Society for Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse, Rick Stress Disorder and Post Traumatic Stress Goodwin and the staff of the Men’s Project, Disorder has been reprinted from American Duane Lesperance and the staff at the Men’s Psychiatric Association. (2000). Diagnostic Resource Centre, and Joy Howatt and Elsie Blake, and statistical manual of mental disorders of the Stratton project, Family Service Association (4th ed., Text Revision), pp. 471-72 and 67-68. assisted with recruitment, allowed us to conduct Washington, DC: Author, with permission of interviews and working groups in their offi ces the American Psychiatric Association. and offered much encouragement for the project. Fran Richardson, College of Dental Hygienists of The authors gratefully acknowledge the assistance Ontario, Shari Hughes and Ariadne Lemire, College of the National Clearinghouse on Family Violence, of Physiotherapists of Ontario, Donna Beer, School Public Health Agency of Canada in translating, of Physical Therapy, University of Western Ontario designing and printing the second edition of the helped to organize and host focus groups in the Handbook. We would also like to thank Stacey fi nal phase of this project. Angela Hovey, Liz Scott, Croft and Salena Brickey, Policy Analysts at the Julia Bidonde, Leane King and Jennifer Ewen Family Violence Prevention Unit, for their work on contributed valuable research assistance. the publication of this Handbook. We would like to thank Rose Roberts, Faculty of The authors gratefully acknowledge the fi nancial Nursing, University of Saskatchewan for writing support received over the duration of this project the sections titled Working with Aboriginal from the following: Individuals. We would like to express our Health Canada appreciation to Sanda Rodgers, Faculty of Law, University of Ottawa, for taking time to review Physiotherapy Foundation of Canada the information on legal and record keeping University of Saskatchewan College of issues, to Diana Gustafson, Faculty of Medicine, Medicine Scientifi c Teaching and Research Memorial University, and Shoshana Pollack, Fund Faculty of Social Work, Wilfrid Laurier University University of Saskatchewan Internal Grants for their thoughtful and important comments. Program (New Faculty Start-up, President’s We are indebted to our editors, Bob Chodos and SSHRC and Publication Fund Grants)
vii Acknowledgements Wilfrid Laurier University Internal Research photocopying, mailing costs, and ongoing support Grants Program throughout the project and the faculty and staff of the School of Physical Therapy, University of Lastly, we wish to thank the Lyle S. Hallman Saskatchewan for their ongoing support and Faculty of Social Work at Wilfrid Laurier University for assistance with research assistants, encouragement.
viii Handbook on Sensitive Practice for Health Care Practitioners This may be a person who’s gone through something very traumatic ...[who needs] some really safe technique ... Because otherwise you’re going to have a certain segment of patients that are going to walk away feeling as though they’ve been abused all over again, quietly abused, just walking away and seeking another health care practitioner, just going through the cycle, again and again and again, and maybe not understanding why, maybe not knowing how to say it, how to voice that, just keep going through that whole cycle over and over again. There’s a huge populace out there that just needs that extra gentle care. It’s because of that, maybe the whole populace needs to be treated the same way.
– A male survivor of childhood sexual abuse –
1 The Handbook as a Tool for Clinical Practice
1.1 Audience and focus 1.2 An issue for all heath care This handbook presents information that will help practitioners health care practitioners practise in a manner As many as one third of women and 14% of men that is sensitive to the needs of adult survivors are survivors of childhood sexual abuse.31,62,25 of childhood sexual abuse and other types of Childhood adversity – including sexual, physical, interpersonal violence. It is intended for health care and emotional abuse – is associated with a greater practitioners and students of all health disciplines risk of a wide variety of health problems. This who have no specialized training in mental health, means that all health care practitioners – whether psychiatry, or psychotherapy and have limited they know it or not – encounter adult survivors experience working with of interpersonal violence in adult survivors of childhood All health care practitioners - whether their practices. Survivors are sexual abuse. This second they know it or not - encounter health care consumers of edition includes experiences survivors of interpersonal violence in every age who seek all types and ideas of both women their practices. of health services, and our and men survivors as well hope is that the principles as of practitioners from and guidelines of Sensitive more than ten health disciplines. The Handbook Practice will become “universal/routine procedures” is not meant to encourage health care providers in all health care encounters and that all health to step outside their scope of practice, nor is it a care consumers136 will benefi t from them. substitute for the specialized training required to provide intensive psychotherapy or counselling for survivors. Section 2.5 – Childhood sexual abuse and health The Handbook is based on extensive interviews, Examinations and procedures that health group discussions, and a national consultation care providers might consider innocuous or process involving adult routine can be distressing survivors, clinicians, and The principles and guidelines of for survivors, because they mental health practitioners. Sensitive Practice can be adapted may be reminiscent of the Direct quotes from to all health care venues. original trauma. Exclusive participants are included focus on the body, lack of to illustrate selected issues and to connect control, invasion of personal health care providers in a more personal way boundaries, exposure, vulnerability, pain, and to survivors’ thoughts and feelings. To our sense of powerlessness are common experiences knowledge, the Handbook is the only work in print in the health care environment and may be that has employed a process of bringing adult extremely diffi cult for survivors because they can survivors and health care practitioners together mirror aspects of past abuse. An appreciation to develop an empirically grounded account of of the dynamics and long-term effects of the issues and problems that adult survivors of childhood abuse is the fi rst step toward a better childhood sexual abuse encounter in health care understanding of survivors’ needs and responses settings. The empirical basis of the Handbook is to care. Sensitive Practice builds on core competencies to help health care practitioners found in Appendix A. be more understanding of and responsive to the specifi c needs of adult survivors of violence and Chapters 5, 6, 7, and 8 outline the abuse. guidelines for Sensitive Practice. These guidelines operationalize the principles of Sensitive Practice and are meant as Chapter 2 – Background Information about Childhood Sexual Abuse practical suggestions that health care practitioners can incorporate into their Chapter 3 – What Childhood Sexual Abuse Survivors clinical practice. Bring to Health Care Encounters Chapter 5 presents those guidelines Although our research focuses primarily on related specifi cally to the context of Sensitive Practice in traditional health care health care encounters. settings, health care providers work in widely diverse areas including client homes, rural and Chapter 6 details guidelines applicable remote areas, and school systems. We believe the to all interactions between health principles and guidelines of Sensitive Practice can practitioners and their clients. be adapted to all health care venues. Chapter 7 offers health care practitioners guidelines for coping Chapter 3 – What Childhood Sexual Abuse Survivors with the problems that can occur in Bring to Health Care Encounters encounters with child sexual abuse survivors. 1.3 Organization Chapter 8 highlights guidelines focused on disclosure of past abuse, especially The Handbook is divided into nine chapters. as it is related to survivor-clinician Readers are alerted (watch for a blue “i” in a blue interactions. circle) when the topic addressed in one section is clarifi ed or expanded upon in another section. Chapter 9 explores the contributions which health care practitioners can make to an Chapter 1 offers an introduction to adult survivor’s healing and recovery, and terminology and suggestions for using the elaborates on the relationship between Handbook. Sensitive Practice and patient-centred care. Chapter 2 provides basic information about Chapters 4, 6, and 8 conclude with the nature and scope of childhood sexual questions intended to stimulate refl ection abuse and health problems associated about the application of the principles and with a history of childhood sexual abuse guidelines to health care practices. to assist health care practitioners to understand the signifi cance of Sensitive Nine appendices augmenting the text and Practice. a bibliography detailing both works cited and recommended readings and resources Chapter 3 presents information about how fi nish off the Handbook. experiences associated with a history of childhood sexual abuse may be manifested in health care settings. 1.4 Suggested uses of this Handbook Chapter 4 describes the principles of Sensitive Practice derived from our Students, practitioners, and administrators are research; we consider these principles urged to think about the information on violence foundational to ethical health care. and abuse and Sensitive Practice provided in this Handbook, and to refl ect on its potential
2 Handbook on Sensitive Practice for Health Care Practitioners for informing their own practice and workplace Teach administrative personnel and policies. Specifi cally, health care providers should assistants about childhood abuse and its consider: implications for their work; How the information applies to them; Disseminate ideas from the Handbook to colleagues with the intent of creating an How to implement the principles and integrated and responsive network of care; guidelines into their practices; Infl uence policies and practices within How they might best respond to the public agencies to be more sensitive to various situations described in the survivors; Handbook. Coach students and colleagues to critically We believe the information in the Handbook applies analyze professional practices; to everyone in health care environments. Many of the diffi culties that adult survivors experience Refl ect on their philosophies of care and how in these environments arise they are expressed in day-to- because practitioners who The information in the Handbook day practice, with the intent work in them are unaware applies to everyone in health care of becoming more ethical, of the effects of violence on environments. congruent, and sensitive in their health and health care or work; because organizational policies and attitudes have Develop clear guidelines to address their not taken this information into consideration. concerns about best practice with a specifi c Before dismissing a suggestion as inapplicable to patient or treatment procedure. their practices, clinicians are encouraged to refl ect upon the following questions: 1.5 Terminology What aspects of this suggestion do not apply? The following is a clarifi cation of terms the reader will encounter in this Handbook. Many health care If a suggestion is not completely applicable, providers have various preferences for the words what element(s) of it could be relevant? patient and client, clinician, and practitioner, The Handbook can be used to help health care and for the terms they use to describe their work practitioners: (examination, treatment, etc.). However, all readers are encouraged to look Learn more about the All readers are encouraged to beyond the terminology we effects of interpersonal look beyond the terminology to use in the Handbook and to see violence on health; fully consider how the information that the information applies to applies to their own practices. Work more effectively all health care providers. and compassionately Survivor or adult survivor is used instead with affected individuals; of victim when referring to adults who Identify and respond sensitively to have experienced childhood sexual individuals who are triggered or dissociate abuse to acknowledge the strength and in a health care encounter; resourcefulness of individuals who have lived through the experience.23 Attitudes Feel better prepared to work with patients about the words survivor and victim vary who disclose past abuse; among those who have experienced childhood abuse, as well as among those who work with these individuals.
3 The Handbook as a Tool for Clinical Practice Victim is used when referring to the abused range from eating well and exercising child. regularly to adhering to clinicians’ specifi c recommendations. The person seeking care is referred to interchangeably as survivor, patient, client, Participants’ words appear in italics. or individual. When referring to violence and abuse 1.6 Limitations we use the terms child sexual abuse, childhood sexual abuse, child abuse, abuse, The experience and long-term effects of childhood interpersonal violence, violence, and sexual abuse are affected by a complex interaction trauma. In the Handbook, the word trauma of factors including: (a) those related to the is used only with this connotation. individual (e.g., genetics, stage of development at which the abuse occurred, personal coping Recovery and healing are both used to resources); (b) the abuse itself (e.g., frequency, refer to survivors’ efforts to address issues duration, relationship between perpetrator related to childhood sexual abuse. and victim); (c) the presence and quality of social support at the time of the abuse and into Clinician, practitioner, health care adulthood; and (d) those related to the larger practitioner, health care provider, environment, including culture, ethnicity, and and health care professional are used other social determinants of health. Adult survivors interchangeably. who participated in our studies were recruited Survivor participant refers to survivors who from agencies, groups, and individuals offering participated in the interviews, working counselling and support. Thus, they are individuals groups, and consultations that were part of who have worked or are working towards recovery this research project. with the assistance of external support. Health care practitioner participants and Notwithstanding the diversity and uniqueness of health care provider participants are the these participants, the Handbook cannot claim to health care practitioners who participated address Sensitive Practice for adult survivors with in the working groups. every abuse experience, of every ethnicity and culture, of every sexual orientation, or at every Assessment and examination refl ect initial stage of recovery. Similarly, although we have tried and ongoing collection and evaluation of to address a wide range of health practitioners subjective and objective information about working in various settings by incorporating a broad an individual’s health. consultation in the research method, we cannot Protocol, procedure, treatment, and claim to address every aspect of Sensitive Practice intervention describe types of care that for every type of health care practitioner. health care practitioners offer. While acknowledging these limitations, we believe Appointment, encounter, and interaction that this second edition of the Handbook presents are used to refl ect ways that health care a framework for working with adult survivors of providers see patients/clients in various interpersonal violence in all types of practice that health care settings. is both accessible and empirically derived. We hope that health care practitioners will adapt and Self care represents the array of actions refi ne the guidelines as they work with survivors that a person can take to promote general whose unique needs and reactions were not health and/or as a component in the represented by the research participants. management of health problems. They
4 Handbook on Sensitive Practice for Health Care Practitioners 2 Background Information about Childhood Sexual Abuse
2.1 Defi nitions on an unwilling human victim, committed by one or more individuals, as part of a prescribed While the sexual exploitation of children and ritual that achieves a specifi c goal or satisfi es the adolescents is a criminal act, legal defi nitions of perceived needs of their deity.27,140 childhood sexual abuse vary across jurisdictions. There is, however, wide agreement that childhood 2.2 Childhood sexual abuse sexual abuse involves: (a) sexual acts with children and youth who lack the maturity and emotional survivors and cognitive development to understand or to The great paradox of childhood sexual abuse is consent; and (b) “an ‘abusive condition’ such as that, while it has become more prominent in coercion or a large age gap between participants, the public consciousness, it remains shrouded in indicating lack of consensuality.”62p.32 In general, secrecy. Media coverage of high-profi le disclosures children and younger adolescents are unable to and investigations provide evidence that childhood consent to sexual acts with adults because of their sexual abuse does exist – in “good” families and lack of maturity and relative lack of power.* An “trusted” institutions, at all socioeconomic levels, abusive condition implies a difference in power and among all racial and ethnic groups. Frequently between the perpetrator and the victim. Children we hear and read stories about can also be abused by other survivors who are men and children or adolescents who have An abusive condition implies a women from all walks of life – more power by virtue of age, difference in power between the students, sports fi gures, clergy, physical strength, life experience, perpetrator and the victim. entertainers, educators, police intelligence, authority, or offi cers, judges, politicians, and social location. The Canadian Incidence Study of health care practitioners. They are our friends and Reported Child Abuse and Neglect tracked eight neighbours, our colleagues, and sometimes even forms of child sexual abuse: penetration (penile, ourselves or members of our own families. Despite digital or object penetration of vagina or anus), this prevalence, most childhood sexual abuse attempted penetration, oral sex, fondling of the survivors are invisible to us, particularly given that genitals, adult exposure of genitals to child, sexual it is estimated that fewer than half disclose their exploitation (e.g., involving child in prostitution or abuse to anyone.62,105 Some are silent because they pornography), sex talk (including proposition of a fear reprisal from their abusers; others worry they sexual nature and exposing a child to pornographic will not be believed or that they will be blamed or 168p.38-39 material), and voyeurism. even punished.56,113 Still others say nothing because An extreme and controversial type of abuse they harbour the erroneous belief that they are is ritual abuse, which has been defi ned as responsible for their abuse. psychological, sexual, and/or physical assault
* According to the Criminal Code of Canada, when sexual activity is exploitive (such as sexual activity involving prostitution, pornography, or a relationship of trust, authority or dependency) the age of consent is 18. For sexual activity which is not exploitive, the age of consent is 16 years. The exceptions are that a 12 or 13 year old can consent to engage in non-exploitive sexual activity with another person who is less than 2 years older; and a 14 or 15 year old can consent to engage in non-exploitative sexual activity with another person who is less than 5 years older. A 14 or 15 year old can also consent to engage in sexual activity with a person to whom they are married. These laws governing the age of consent for non-exploitative sexual activity came into force on May 1, 2008. Transitional provisions allow 14 and 15 years old who were in common-law relationships on May 1, 2008, to continue engaging in non-exploitative sexual activity. Appendix B: The Prevalence of Childhood Sexual little consideration for their effect on the child. Abuse Some child abusers use physical force or explicit threats of harm to coerce their young victims If you are both a health care practitioner and a survivor of childhood abuse, before reading further into compliance, while others develop long-term please refer to Section 5.9 Practitioners’ self-care relationships with their victims and carefully groom them with special attention or gifts. While The most current and reliable childhood sexual abuse does not always involve lifetime prevalence estimates physical injury, it is a violation Childhood sexual abuse survivors 23 are that as many as one third of body, boundaries, and trust are our friends and neighbours, and is typically experienced as of women and 14% of men are our colleagues, and sometimes traumatic.81 survivors of childhood sexual even ourselves or members of 25,31,62 abuse. our own families. While people who report a history of childhood sexual 2.3 Perpetrators of childhood abuse are at increased risk for a wide range of sexual abuse diffi culties in adulthood, studies suggest that “in the region of 20% to 40% of those describing Individuals who are sexually abused as children CSA [childhood sexual abuse] do not have are, in adulthood, men and women of diverse ages, measurable adult dysfunction that could be ethnicity, occupation, education, income level, and plausibly be related to abuse.”60p.89,61 A number marital status.16,31,48,73,114,139 Most studies of sexual of factors affect how a particular individual offending have focused on males as perpetrators. may respond to childhood sexual abuse. Some Although the majority of perpetrators of childhood of these include the gender of the perpetrator, sexual abuse are male,31,48,49,60 recent research the number of perpetrators, the nature and suggests that females engage in sexually abusive closeness of the relationship between victim and behaviour with children more often than has perpetrator, the duration and frequency of the been previously recognized.31,48,60 abuse, characteristics of the Common to all perpetrators is that As many as one third of women abuse itself (e.g., contact vs. they have more physical strength, and 14% of men are survivors of noncontact, penetration, etc.), social power, and/or authority childhood sexual abuse. the use of threats or force, and than their victims. the age of the victim at the time of the abuse.18,29,31 The most recent report of the Canadian Incidence Study of Reported Child Abuse and Neglect – 2003168p.53 found that, in contrast to physical abuse Appendix C – Traumagenic Dynamics of Childhood of children, non-parental relatives constituted Sexual Abuse the largest group of perpetrators (35%) of child sexual abuse. Other groups of perpetrators include 2.5 Childhood sexual abuse and the child’s friend/peer (15%), stepfather (13%), health biological father (9%), other acquaintances (9%), parent’s boyfriend/girlfriend (5%), and biological While not everyone who reports a history of mother (5%). childhood sexual abuse develops health problems, many live with a variety of chronic physical, 2.4 The dynamics of childhood behavioural, and psychological problems that bring them into frequent contact with health care sexual abuse practitioners. Because health care practitioners do not routinely inquire about childhood sexual All sexual encounters with children are intended abuse, its long-term effects are under recognized, to meet the needs of the perpetrator, with its related health problems are misdiagnosed,
6 Handbook on Sensitive Practice for Health Care Practitioners and it is often not met with a sensitive, integrated endocrinology, and psychosomatic medicine has treatment response. demonstrated clear physiological relationships among stress, illness, and disease (e.g.,71,95,101,104). Childhood sexual abuse often co-occurs with other types of childhood adversity, including physical abuse, marital discord, separation from Chapter 3 – What Childhood Sexual Abuse Survivors or loss of parents, parental psychopathology Bring to Health Care Encounters and/or substance abuse, and other types of Chapter 8 – Guidelines for Sensitive Practice: abuse/neglect.31,60,108 Even when these other Disclosure types of adversity are controlled for, childhood Because most health care practitioners Table 1 lists the fi ndings sexual abuse remains do not routinely inquire about childhood of a number of studies a powerful predictor sexual abuse, its long-term effects are that have examined the of health problems in under recognized, its related health correlation between adulthood.30,33,145,183 It problems are misdiagnosed, and it is histories of childhood sexual is suggested that the not met with a sensitive, integrated abuse and later health and underlying mechanism treatment response. function. Considerably more for these diffi culties is studies have examined “that childhood sexual abuse causes disruptions these relationships in women, and when male in the child’s sense of self, leading to diffi culty in survivors have been studied, the relationship relating to others, inability to regulate reactions between past abuse and the mental health of to stressful events, and other interpersonal and male survivors has been the primary focus. Guy emotional challenges”.108p.753 Kathleen Kendall- Holmes, Liz Offen, and Glenn Waller85 argue that Tackett93p.716 describes two pervasive myths – that behavioural, emotional, Two pervasive myths - that males are males are rarely sexually social, and cognitive rarely sexually abused and that childhood abused and that childhood pathways by which sexual abuse has little effect on males - sexual abuse has little effect childhood abuse affects deter boys and men from disclosing their on males – deter boys and health, pointing out that abuse and, in turn, prevent society from men from disclosing their “adult survivors can be legitimizing it as a problem. abuse and, in turn, prevent affected by any or all of society from legitimizing it these, and the four types infl uence each other. as a problem. The increasing societal recognition Indeed, they form a complex matrix of inter- of the prevalence and seriousness of sexual abuse relationships, all of which infl uence health.” In of boys is likely to lead to further investigation of addition, research in the fi elds of immunology, physical health correlates.
7 Background Information about Childhood Sexual Abuse TABLE 1 Correlates of childhood sexual abuse and measures of health and function: A selected list of fi ndings from research studies
In females, a history of childhood sexual abuse or a range of childhood traumas including sexual abuse is correlated with: poorer physical and mental health and a lower health-related quality of life than non-traumatized individuals59,145,176 chronic pelvic pain129 gastrointestinal disorders53,141 intractable low back pain146 chronic headache58 greater functional disability, more physical symptoms, more physician-coded diagnoses, and more health risk behaviours, including driving while intoxicated, unsafe sex, and obesity176 ischemic heart disease, cancer, chronic lung disease, skeletal fractures, and liver disease59 high levels of dental fear177,185 greater use of medical services35,87,102,116,150,178 drug and alcohol use, self-mutilation, suicide, and disordered eating156 adult onset of 14 mood, anxiety, and substance use disorders108 higher rates of childhood mental disorders, personality disorders, anxiety disorders, and major affective disorders, but not schizophrenia154 diagnosis of Borderline Personality Disorder79,82,100 In males, a history of childhood sexual abuse is correlated with: anxiety, low self-esteem, guilt and shame, depression, post-traumatic stress disorder, withdrawal and isolation, fl ashbacks, dissociative identity disorder, emotional numbing, anger and aggressiveness, hypervigilance, passivity and an anxious need to please others22,28,32,45,147 adult onset of fi ve mood, anxiety, and substance use disorders108 substance abuse, self-injury, suicide, depression, rage, strained relationships, problems with self- concept and identity, and a discomfort with sex49,54,133,161 increased risk of HIV5 anxiety and confusion about sexual identity and sexual orientation85,133 increased risk of “acting out” aggressively85 contact with criminal justice system85,96
8 Handbook on Sensitive Practice for Health Care Practitioners 3 What Childhood Sexual Abuse Survivors Bring to Health Care Encounters
3.1 Gender socialization: A female abuse survivor may also be mistrustful Women’s experiences of authority fi gures, which stems from having been betrayed by the trusted adult who abused Gender socialization affects both children’s her. This helps to explain the diffi culty that some responses to sexual abuse and how the experience survivors have trusting health care practitioners affects them in adulthood. Throughout the and why they experience health care encounters research for this handbook, survivor participants as distressing. It also helps explain why so many described ways in which gender socialization female survivors report symptoms of depression shaped their interactions with health care and anxiety: practitioners. I didn’t want to state what my needs were Although many would argue that gender because ... [with] the abuse ... you don’t get to socialization has changed choose what happens to you. What happens to considerably in the past century, you happens to you, you just Socialization to be submissive many female children continue accept it and that’s the way I coupled with children’s to be encouraged to be non- thought for a long time. I still normative tendency to blame aggressive, submissive, and “nice.” probably think that way but themselves for negative They receive multiple messages I’m trying to change the way I experiences involving adults that to be female is to be less think because I do have choice leaves many female survivors valued and less powerful than now. (Woman survivor) believing that they are “bad” males, and that the appropriate people who are responsible Girls learn that it is important role for females is to please for the abuse. for females to be objects others, especially males. Rebecca of male sexual desire and Bolen states, that appearing young and innocent is sexually Females develop a sense of their lack of appealing. “We dress fashion models up to look entitlement and vulnerability to the more child-like and sexually provocative and set this powerful members of society. Females standard for all women,” writes Calgary social internalize this message ... they are socialized worker Lois Sapsford.138p.76 Girls may also learn to be less powerful than, and to defer to, the that, to be valued, they must be sexually “pure”; more powerful and more entitled males.26 p.146 at the same time, they receive the contradictory message that they should be not only beautiful These aspects of normative female socialization but also “sexy.” Sexual abuse objectifi es a girl’s may exacerbate girls’ tendency to be submissive body to serve the needs of her abuser and may and to blame themselves for negative experiences leave her believing that her sole value is as a involving adults, which can leave many female sexual object. The message that females should survivors believing that they are “bad” people be sexually “pure” along with the stigma attached who are responsible for the abuse and that their to sexual abuse contributes to some female bodies, which they have come to hate, somehow survivors’ perceptions of themselves as “damaged caused the abuse: goods” and to the shame and guilt that many describe. This may be manifested in a survivor’s Most survivors I know hate their body, disown ambivalence about her body and reticence to seek their body ... become disconnected from it. care for health problems: (Woman survivor) The other thing is the big shame and the society’s notions of masculinity and victimhood; secret ... We may have an ailment that could and (c) the fact that services for childhood sexual be addressed ... [early] but let it go and let it abuse survivors, which grew out of the second go until ... it takes longer to mend or to heal. wave of feminism, were historically designed for (Woman survivor) women and not for men. The historical and current societal factors that For a man to acknowledge that he has been encourage people in our society to deny or sexually abused is an admission of vulnerability in minimize the signifi cance of child sexual abuse a society that has few models for the expression also affect female survivors’ perceptions about of masculine vulnerability. Indeed, applying the wisdom of disclosing the label victim of their experience. Many The stigma attached to sexual abuse sexual abuse to a man women participants talked contributes to some female survivors’ juxtaposes vulnerability about their fear of not perceptions of them-selves as “damaged with masculinity, an being believed; some gave goods,” as well as their ambivalence uneasy pairing that examples of being told about their bodies and reticence to seek further contributes to directly that they must be care for health problems. the under recognition lying or imagining things. and underreporting Another aspect of female gender socialization of childhood sexual abuse among boys and is the message that it is the female who is men.3,43,52,86,105 responsible for setting limits on sexual behaviour, which contributes to women survivors fearing The socialization of men to be strong and 15,85 that they will be blamed for what happened, independent complicates the situation for even though the sexual behaviour occurred male survivors who consider sharing their history 165 when they were children and the perpetrator of abuse with a health care practitioner. As was older and more powerful. One health care Michel Dorais puts it in his book Don’t Tell: The practitioner responded to Sexual Abuse of Boys, the “masculine conception a woman’s disclosure of of virility is incompatible For a man to acknowledge that he has past abuse by asking, “How with the factual experience been sexually abused is an admission did you let it happen?” of having been a victim of of vulnerability in a society that has These societal messages sexual abuse, or needing few models for the expression of strongly discourage women help following such a masculine vulnerability. 52p.17 survivors from sharing their trauma” (see also 117 experience with health care O’Leary ). Men in our study practitioners, which in turn impedes the clinician’s spoke about their need to appear “tough” and “in ability to assess all factors that may contribute to control” despite feeling anxious and fearful during health problems. encounters with health care practitioners: Men are tough. Men are macho. Men don’t 3.2 Gender socialization: Men’s need [help]. All we have to do is to “get over it! experiences Get over it – be a man!” You know, men don’t cry. (Man survivor)167p.509 The men in our studies repeatedly reported Some participants also spoke about their diffi culty feeling invisible as survivors of childhood sexual in identifying and expressing their feelings: abuse. Among the major factors contributing to the invisibility of male childhood sexual Women appear to me more aware of the abuse survivors are: (a) the widespread lack of names of things. Such as “I’m feeling knowledge about the prevalence of childhood depressed” or “I’ve been having a real struggle sexual abuse of boys; (b) incongruence between for the past couple of weeks and these are the
10 Handbook on Sensitive Practice for Health Care Practitioners circumstances.” I don’t know what half of that of the men in our study talked about their fear stuff is called. (Man survivor)167p.510 that health care practitioners would think they were homosexual if they revealed their history There is a pervasive belief that boys and men of childhood sexual abuse. Others talked about are rarely victimized and that a central feature how their abuse experiences had led them to of masculinity is the ability to protect oneself develop strong negative feelings about individuals 96 (Mendel as cited in Lab, Feigenbaum, & De Silva ); (including health care practitioners) whom failure to do so is seen they perceived to be as evidence of weakness The participants suggested that health care homosexual: and can be a source of practitioners are sceptical about men who great male shame. Thus, disclose sexual abuse and tend to take their I had to go into the the “dissonance between experiences less seriously than those of hospital where I had the male role expectation their female counterparts. a problem with some and the experience of medication I had victimisation”117p.83 may seriously compromise the [taken] and there was a male nurse there and health care of male survivors, often because their he was obviously very effeminate, and he had feelings of shame and unworthiness affect their to give me an IV, I refused him because I didn’t ability to seek care: want him touching me. (Man survivor)167p.506 One of the reasons why for a long time I Such reactions can be seen as internalized didn’t go [to a health care practitioner was homophobia. These fears may also refl ect the that] ... quite frankly, I just didn’t feel worthy pervasiveness of the myth in our society that ... Worthy of the care, the attention. I mean childhood sexual abuse causes boys and girls to doctors are busy. (Man survivor) become gay or lesbian.132 Most of the men in our studies expressed the belief that different reactions to male and female Section 3.6 – Questions about sexuality and sexual childhood sexual abuse survivors shape their orientation help-seeking behaviours and, in turn, infl uence how health care practitioners treat them. In 3.3 Societal myths about the general, the participants suggested that health cycle of violence care providers are sceptical about men who disclose sexual abuse and tend to take their The emotional cost of childhood victimization is experiences less seriously than those of their intensifi ed especially for male survivors by the female counterparts. In addition, some regard societal belief that it is only a matter of time sexual abuse by a woman as something that the before they become abusers themselves, if they “fortunate” male survivor should have enjoyed. have not already done so. The media typically give Ramona Alaggia3 and Guy Holmes and colleagues85 more attention to the erroneous belief that male reiterate that such perceptions are common. The survivors will likely become perpetrators43 than media also contribute to these views by framing to information that disputes this belief.117 Despite the sexual abuse of boys by adult women as a the lack of conclusive evidence regarding this “sexual relationship” (e.g.,36,149). The fact that boys causal link (e.g.,68,137) and the fact that many male are more often sexually abused by a female than perpetrators do not report a history of childhood girls31 may fuel the myth that sex between boys sexual abuse,99 the public and even some male and women is normative rather than abusive and survivors themselves continue to fear that they perpetuates the “male gender role of seeking early are destined to become perpetrators.85,117,133 Some sexual experiences with women.”15p.225 female survivors may also fear that they will sexually abuse children or that others will see Notwithstanding the general progress made in them as potential offenders. addressing homophobia in our society, some
11 What Childhood Sexual Abuse Survivors Bring to Health Care Encounters 3.4 Transference and by behaving in a hostile manner towards a counter-transference practitioner whom he incorrectly believes does not care about him just as his parents did not seem to The concepts of transference and counter- care about his wellbeing. A health care practitioner transference were originally identifi ed by Freud who responds with anger and defensiveness can be in the context of psychoanalysis, and refer to said to be allowing counter-transference feelings to common human experiences that are important be expressed. for everyone working in human service to While it is understandable that health care understand. Transference is said to occur when providers have negative feelings in response an individual displaces thoughts, feelings, and/ to a patient’s negative transference, they must or beliefs about past situations onto a present strive to contain these feelings and respond experience. It is widely agreed that we all engage professionally. Inquiring about the reasons for in transference to some extent. While transference the patient’s hostility, for example, is likely to can be positive or neutral, it can also be negative be more productive than responding with anger. and may interfere with healthy and adaptive Health care providers have an ethical obligation functioning. For example, an adult who was to work continuously at being self-aware and constantly criticized by an authority fi gure may to refl ect critically on their practice in order to grow up expecting all authority fi gures to be recognize when they may be responding harmfully critical and may hear criticism where none is to a patient’s transference intended. Similarly, or experiencing counter- survivors of childhood The media typically give more transference. Further, health sexual abuse may react attention to the erroneous belief that care providers need to remind negatively towards a male survivors will likely become themselves repeatedly of their health care practitioner perpetrators than to information that obligation to respond to a patient whose appearance, disputes this belief. professionally, even when they gender, or mannerisms believe they have been judged are reminiscent of someone who abused them. harshly, have been provoked, experience negative The dynamics of transference help explain why feelings about the patient or are personally upset. a survivor may respond to an interaction with a When practitioners have diffi culty meeting these health care practitioner in ways that are unrelated ethical requirements, they need to refl ect on the to the encounter or to the specifi c health care situation and the reasons for their responses and practitioner. Understanding transference may take appropriate steps to prevent harming their also help health care practitioners to avoid taking patients directly or indirectly. If a health care patients’ negative responses personally. practitioner notices a recurring strong reaction to Counter-transference involves the same dynamics a particular individual or to certain behaviours, as transference, but occurs when a health care personal characteristics, or events, it may be practitioner responds to a patient with thoughts, useful to talk to a supervisor or trusted colleague feelings, and/or beliefs associated with his or her about it. own past. For example, a patient who reminds a practitioner of an angry and demanding teacher 3.5 Specifi c behaviours and may evoke feelings of anxiety that seem out of feelings arising during proportion to the current situation. health care encounters Counter-transference can also refer to the health care practitioner’s expectable emotional reaction Distrust of authority fi gures. Throughout this to a patient’s behaviour – in particular, when the project, survivors told us how, as children, patient is transferring experiences from the past. they experienced violation at the hands of an For example, a survivor may engage in transference authority fi gure and how the distrust from these
12 Handbook on Sensitive Practice for Health Care Practitioners past experiences affects their interactions with happened, but I just didn’t like the fact that health care practitioners. Although this distrust I was in a room by myself with my pants off, originates in the past and should not be taken as with two men. That was really eerie. (Woman a personal affront, survivors constantly scrutinize survivor) health care providers for evidence that they are taking active and ongoing steps to demonstrate My abuser was my mother. I don’t like to be their trustworthiness. It is crucial to recognize that touched by women, especially strange women. some survivors may (Man survivor) associate a health care While it is understandable that health care Triggers. Examinations or practitioner’s attempts practi-tioners have negative feelings in treatments may “trigger” to verbally assure them response to a patient’s negative transference, or precipitate fl ashbacks, that they are safe with they must strive to contain these feelings and a specifi c memory or the perpetrator’s empty respond professionally. overwhelming emotions assurance of safety such as fear, anxiety, terror, during their abuse. grief, or anger. A fl ashback is the experience of reliving something that happened in the past and Section 4.1 – Overarching consideration: Fostering usually involves intense emotion. Some survivors feelings of safety for the survivor are particularly susceptible to fl ashbacks and some are overwhelmed by them: Fear and anxiety. Many survivors spoke at length about their tremendous fear and anxiety And the goop that they put on me for the during health care encounters. The experiences ultrasound gave me fl ashbacks, nightmares, of waiting, being in close contact with authority insomnia; I just couldn’t deal with it. (Woman fi gures, and not knowing what is to come all survivor)143p.257 resonated with past abuse. Some survivor participants said that they were even afraid of Section 7.6 – Triggers and dissociation being abused by the health care practitioner: Dissociation. Survivor participants also spoke [In the clinic waiting room, I felt] nervous, about dissociating during interactions with health apprehensive, not exactly knowing what was care providers. The Diagnostic and Statistical going to happen ... as far as clothing was Manual of Mental Disorders, Fourth Edition (Text concerned or ... touch, just not knowing. Revised) (DSM-IV-TR)11p.519 explains dissociation as 143p.252 (Woman survivor) “a disruption in the usually integrated functions of Discomfort with persons who are the same gender consciousness, memory, identity, or perception of as their abuser(s). For some survivors, the gender the environment” that may be sudden or gradual, of a person in a position transient or chronic. Some 120,155 of authority is a powerful For some survivors, the gender of a authors (e.g., ) liken it to a “trigger” that can leave person in a position of authority is a state of divided consciousness them feeling vulnerable powerful trigger that can leave them in which aspects of the self that and unsafe. This strong feeling vulnerable and unsafe. are normally integrated become reaction prevents some fragmented. Dissociation is survivors from seeking care from practitioners who also understood to be a process that exists on 120 are the same gender as their abuser: a continuum, with one end being “common experiences such as daydreaming and lapses in [A male health care provider and assistant attention, through déjà vu phenomena ... [and were] in the room with me, and I had my pants the other end of the continuum involving] a off, and this guy’s putting [ultrasound] gel pathological failure to integrate thoughts, feelings, on my leg. And I felt really uncomfortable ... and actions.”111p.806 even though ... probably nothing could have
13 What Childhood Sexual Abuse Survivors Bring to Health Care Encounters DSM-IV-TR states that “dissociative states Physical pain. For some survivors, the experience are a common and accepted expression of of acute and/or chronic physical pain may be cultural activities or religious experience in associated with past abuse. This association many societies”11p.519 and in these cases they can manifest itself in various ways (e.g., some do not usually lead to the “signifi cant distress, individual have learned to ignore or dissociate impairment, or help-seeking behaviour”11p.519 that from pain, while others are hypersensitive to it): is required for them to be diagnosed as a disorder. A common experience of dissociation that most of I think sometimes when survivors are in pain, us can relate to is highway hypnosis, in which an and coming for physical therapy, it hooks us individual driving a car suddenly realizes that he back into…our childhood where we were in or she cannot remember all or part of the trip.121 pain and ... no one responded. And if you did indicate you were in pain ... the pain was The International Society for the Study of trivialized or you were threatened [so that you Trauma and Dissociation89 takes the position did not tell] anyone. (Woman survivor)143p.256 that traumatic experiences play an important role in the development of various pathological Section 2.5 – Childhood sexual abuse and health dissociative disorders. Many believe that dissociation is an effective strategy for coping Section 7.1 – Pain (in the immediate situation) with extreme stress Recommended Readings and Resources – such as childhood sexual abuse. However, if Childhood sexual abuse and trauma (especially van der Kolk & McFarlane172 and van der Kolk170) it becomes a long-term coping mechanism, it may Ambivalence about the contribute to a variety of Examination or treatment may body. Many survivors feel mental health problems and “trigger” or precipitate flashbacks or overwhelming emotions such as fear, hate, shame, and guilt interfere with relationships, anxiety, terror, grief, or anger. about their bodies. As self-concept, identity children, many believed that development, and adaptive something about them or their bodies invited or functioning.4,77 caused the abuse. This belief is reinforced if the A number of the survivor participants told us survivor enjoyed some aspects of the abuse (e.g., that they do not have consistent control over this special attention, physiological arousal).85,133 This mechanism through which they “escape” from a shame and guilt may lead some survivors to feel current (usually stressful) situation; some even ambivalent about and disconnected from their report that for many years they were unaware of bodies: their tendency to dissociate. When they are in a And [the amount of attention that I give to dissociative state, some individuals experience my body] ebbs and fl ows too, depending on themselves as being outside their bodies, watching where I’m at and how well I’m choosing to take the present situation from a distance. Others care of my body. Which is a very diffi cult thing simply go silent, stare blankly into the distance, for me physically to do, because when you or seem unaware of their surroundings. When don’t live there, it’s just sort of a vehicle to get the dissociative episode is over, individuals may around. (Woman survivor)143p.255 have no memory of what occurred and may have diffi culty orienting themselves back to the The confl ict between the need to seek health care present: for a physical problem and the ambivalence or dislike of one’s body can affect treatment. For [In a physical therapy session] I would just get example, an individual may ignore symptoms that same dread feeling inside, and I would do that might contribute to an accurate diagnosis, the same coping that I would have done when explain an individual’s response to treatment, or I was abused ... just trying to not feel my arms and not really be there. (Woman survivor)158p.182
14 Handbook on Sensitive Practice for Health Care Practitioners interfere with the ability to self-monitor effects of 3.6 Questions about sexuality an intervention or medication. and sexual orientation Conditioning to be passive. Abuse can teach Survivors of child sexual abuse, like many other children to avoid speaking up or questioning people in our society, may have questions about authority fi gures. In adulthood, survivors may their sexuality or sexual orientation. Some male then have diffi culty expressing their needs to a participants who had been abused by men said health care practitioner who is perceived as an they had struggled with uncertainty about their authority fi gure. own sexual orientation: [The health care practitioner did something I just realized in sexual abuse, it seems very, and] I really freaked but ... I didn’t show her very common that the issue of homosexuality I was freaking, because our history is that when dealing with a male [survivor] of you don’t let on if things are a problem for sexual abuse comes up. It’s an issue: “Am I a you. You just deal with it however you can homosexual?” (Man survivor) ... by dissociating or what have you. (Woman survivor)143p.254 Some women survivors report similar struggles: Self-harm. Self-harm Female survivors of female- (e.g., scratching, Abuse can teach children to avoid perpetrated abuse also cutting, or burning speaking up or questioning authority experience this confusion the skin) is a way figures. In adulthood, survivors may then around their sexual identity that some survivors have difficulty expressing their needs to a and orientation. (Woman attempt to cope with health care practitioner who is perceived survivor) long-term feelings as an authority figure. of distress. Health For participants who self- care practitioners may see evidence of self-harm identifi ed as gay, public assumptions about the in the form of injuries or scars on the arms, legs, “cause” of their sexual orientation and about their or abdomen. Self-harm may take more subtle potential to be abusers were also problematic: forms as well, such as ignoring health teachings They assume that because it was your mother or recommendations for treatment or symptom [who abused you] that’s why you’re gay. management (e.g., refusing to pace one’s activity Because it was a woman doesn’t make much in response to pain or fatigue, or failing to adhere sense. Or that then because you’re gay, you to a diabetic treatment regime). were abused, you’re going to be a pedophile There are many reasons why survivors harm yourself. These attitudes come out from others themselves. It may serve to distract them from that I’ve disclosed to. Lots of layers there; emotional pain, focus the pain to one area of the biases would be one of the big problems there body, or interrupt an episode of dissociation or with health practitioners. They’re going to numbness. Some survivors may harm themselves make assumptions. (Man survivor) to regain a sense of control or ownership of their Relatively few survivor participants raised the bodies. For others, it may be a punishment or issue of sexual orientation in the context of an effort to atone for wrongs they believe they their interactions with health care practitioners. 47 107 have committed. Dusty Miller argues that However, a number of health care practitioner self-harm is one example of a range of self- participants who commented on drafts of the destructive behaviours that can be thought of as Handbook pointed out that the phenomena of an unconscious effort to reenact past trauma. sexual identity and sexual orientation are often overlooked or ignored by health care practitioners. Certainly, it is important to recognize that
15 What Childhood Sexual Abuse Survivors Bring to Health Care Encounters women and men who have Participants who were abused been sexually abused in The conflict between the need as children and who are (or childhood may experience to seek health care for a physical have been) involved in same- challenges around sexuality problem and difficulty in caring for sex relationships often have to and intimacy in general. one’s body often affects treatment. deal with negative thoughts This is true of a proportion about themselves based on of survivors in heterosexual relationships as well negative societal stereotypes. For example, some as for some in same-sex relationships and for some may think, “I’m bad because I was abused,” or “I survivors who identify as gay, lesbian, bisexual or am really bad because I was abused and it made transgendered. me be attracted to the same sex.” These thoughts should be recognized as internalized heterosexist Because of the general societal perception that and homophobic social attitudes that need to being gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transgendered be challenged and worked through. (Shoshana (GLBT) is “abnormal” or “wrong,” abuse survivors Pollack, 2007, personal communication) (and health care practitioners) may sometimes attribute their same-sex attraction to past sexual No research studies have supported the claim abuse. Shoshana Pollack, professor of social that childhood sexual abuse is associated with work at Wilfrid Laurier University, notes that the development of GLBT identity.132 In an online “fostering this assumption in patients misses the questionnaire study of lesbian and bisexual important point that childhood sexual abuse women between 18 and 23 years old, fewer than involves traumatic sexualization and often leaves half of those who had experienced childhood survivors confused about how to engage sexually sexual abuse thought that the childhood sexual in general, what their sexual abuse had affected their feelings preferences are (not only No research has supported about their sexuality or how gender, but practices), what it the idea that childhood sexual they “came out.” Among those means if they experience same abuse is associated with the who did identify effects on their sex attraction, what it means if development of GLBT identity. feelings about their sexuality they don’t experience it but as and coming out process, some a child their abuser was the same sex etc.” (2007, said that the abuse had not affected their feelings personal communication). about their sexual orientation, which they believed was unconnected to the childhood sexual abuse experience.
16 Handbook on Sensitive Practice for Health Care Practitioners 4 Principles of Sensitive Practice
4.1 Overarching consideration: are safe can trigger fear and anxiety. Thus it is Fostering feelings of safety clearly not enough for health care practitioners to simply assure their patients that they are for the survivor safe. To facilitate survivors’ feelings of safety, practitioners need to make every effort to follow I now am beginning to understand that my the principles of Sensitive Practice. To paraphrase physical wellness is really very connected to my one of the health care practitioner participants, emotional state, and if I’m not comfortable, the principles of Sensitive Practice articulate a if I’m feeling unsafe, then I’m not going standard of practice and provide a concrete and to progress as quickly as [the health care specifi c “how to” guide for doing this. practitioner] would want me to. (Woman survivor) Since all health care practitioners – knowingly and unknowingly – work with individuals with The primary goal of Sensitive Practice is to histories of sexual, physical, and emotional facilitate feelings of safety for the client. The nine abuse and other forms of themes below were identifi ed violence, these principles by virtually all participants The primary goal of Sensitive represent a basic approach to as important to facilitating Practice is to facilitate feelings care that should be extended their sense of safety during of safety for the client. to all clients. The principles of interactions with health care Sensitive Practice are analogous practitioners. These themes are so critical to to the infection control guidelines (commonly survivors’ feelings of safety that we term them the termed “routine practice” or “universal principles of Sensitive Practice. Through the course procedures”) that have become part of everyday of our research, we have come to conceptualize practice in all health care settings. Just as safety as a protective umbrella, with the principles clinicians may not know an individual’s history of of Sensitive Practice being the spokes that hold past infection, they may not know an individual’s the umbrella open. When the umbrella is open, abuse history. By adopting an individual feels safe, the principles of Sensitive and can participate in the Since all health care practitioners Practice as the standard of examination or treatment work with individuals with histories care, health care practitioners at hand. While most of the of violence, the principles of make it less likely that they principles are components Sensitive Practice represent a basic will inadvertently harm their of patient-centred care (see approach to care that should be patients or clients. Stewart163), they take on even extended to all clients. greater signifi cance within the context of childhood sexual abuse and other 4.2 The nine principles of interpersonal violence. Sensitive Practice Child sexual abuse is a betrayal of trust and the antithesis of safety. Survivor participants First Principle: Respect frequently described to us how perpetrators, while abusing them, assured them that they were safe [Feeling respected], to the person who has been when just the opposite was true. For some adult abused, it certainly means a great deal. (Man survivors, the experience of being told that they survivor) FIGURE 1 The umbrella of safety
The Oxford English Dictionary118 defi nes respect ... that I feel like I’m being respected ... [and] as to give heed, attention, or consideration that I have information about myself that’s to something; to have regard to; to take into valuable for them to have … [I need to know account. Conveying respect for another involves that I will] be allowed to be confused in their seeing the “other” as a particular and situated offi ce, that’s it okay for me to be upset and individual, with unique beliefs, values, needs, afraid in front of them. Not that I want to be and history. It means ... but sometimes that happens acknowledging the Conveying respect for another involves when you’re dealing with illness. inherent value of each seeing the “other” as a particular And [I need] not to be put individual, upholding and situated individual, with unique down for it or ... judged for it. basic human rights beliefs, values, needs, and history. (Woman survivor) with conviction and compassion, and suspending critical judgement.46 Second Principle: Taking time Because abuse undermines an individual’s Time pressures – a reality in today’s health care personal boundaries and autonomy, survivors system – constantly challenge clinicians to balance often feel diminished as human beings and effi ciency with good care. Sadly, this often leaves may be sensitive to any hint of disrespect. Many individuals feeling like one of many objects in survivors said that being accepted and heard by a never-ending assembly line, and compounds a health care practitioner helped them to feel survivors’ feelings of being depersonalized and respected: devalued. For some, being rushed or treated like an object diminishes their sense of safety and I need to have ... the ability to connect with the undermines any care that follows. practitioner ... so [that] I’m not ... a number
18 Handbook on Sensitive Practice for Health Care Practitioners Escalating patient-clinician ratios may lead many participants agreed that rapport is strengthened practitioners to become exclusively task-oriented, when clinicians are fully present and patient-centred. questioning whether they can afford the time to really listen to their patients. It is important to The balance of professionalism and friendliness remember that feeling that contributes to positive rapport is partly a genuinely heard and function of interpersonal Feeling genuinely heard and therefore therefore valued is healing style, but it can be developed valued is healing in itself, and in some in itself, and in some cases with practice. Clinicians cases may be the most effective may be the most effective who are distant and cold intervention a clinician has to offer. intervention a clinician has in their professionalism to offer: are unlikely to facilitate a positive connection with clients. Conversely, an It’s the health care practitioners that ... stop overly familiar style may be perceived as invasive and give you a moment, and that’s one of and even disrespectful. Developing a tone that the biggest healing things right there, that is professional and yet conveys genuine caring moment. (Man survivor)159 promotes a sense of safety and helps to establish and maintain appropriate boundaries.