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ISSUE NO. 28 JUNE 03 published by Joe Renna for the Sons of Peterstown Sports Club IT’S TIME TO GET BACK TO BASICS t's ironic how the same technology that has made the world small has also caused Icommunities to disseminate. The necessity to cluster in urban centers is less crucial to survival. Value systems were once rooted in physical, spiritual and emotional interaction. To achieve the same level of community life has now become a challenge. At one time, the family was at the base of the community, but that is no longer true in fact, even the meaning of the word "family” has changed. Today the word “family” refers to parents and their children. Anyone outside that core group is strictly an arms-length relationship. Up to the 1960's, families were extended past the range of second cousins, once removed. What was more remarkable than the family's social bonds was their geographical relationship. Generations were born and raised within city blocks of each other. In most cases, the units of a multiple dwelling were all occupied by the same family. The next tier of the community consisted of relationships between neighbors. Friendships were so tight that they would blend together with family ties. The trust and love between neighbors was just as strong as family. Marriage between different families within the community strengthened ties even deeper. This was the way it was for many neighborhoods, especially the immigrant communities that huddled together out of necessity, before they assimilated or were even given the opportunity to assimilate. Life centered around the family, the Passport photo of Sal Angelo's grandmother Caterina church and work. These aspects of living were so paramount that (Coniglio) Ciaccio, age 39. His mother, Mary and everything else played second fiddle. Entertainment, recreation, and of Uncle Joseph, ages 10 and 11, taken in Ribera Sicily course, socializing, revolved around those three mainstays. September 1919. Sal traced his family tree back 5 Between the Industrial Revolution and WWII, society was turned on generations to the 1700’s. His second article on the its ear. When the baby boomers hit the scene, all heck broke loose. subject is inside on page 10. America had another revolution. This time it was social. New freedoms of expression and mobility upset the status quo. There were new ways of living. It was a time to tune out, turn off and drop out. The effect on the communities was shattering, like dropping a bowl of M&Ms on the floor. The core of the communities scattered. In the new order of things, the role that family played was diminished. Today the "me" generation looks out for number one. There is no time left to think of others. Life is defined by personal satisfaction. Peterstown stuck to the traditions that brought it along into the new millennium. Many families have stayed within the geographic boundaries of the neighborhood. Those who didn't are faced with a task of preserving the value structure that was inherent with living there. That would mean leaving the cul-de-sac and making an effort to reach out to the community at large. Getting back to sharing and experiencing life together and helping others. Some people yearn for things to be the way they remember they once were. But they speak as if it is impossible. The reality is that it is possible. There are enough people with the values that made the old neighborhoods so wonderful. The biggest hurdle is to understand the concept that thinking of the welfare of others first, results in the fulfillment of oneself. Mother Teresa said "Do not wait for leaders; do it alone, person to person." By starting with the elders and working on down, it is possible to touch every life in a positive way. But first someone has to get on their knees and pick up all those M&Ms. On May 30, 2003, Carmella Fortunato celebrated her 102nd birthday. On hand to share in the celebration were neighborhood friends from Peterstown, along with her children, her children’s children and their children. Pictured with Carmella is her great granddaughter, Tiana. LETTER POLICY Around About Peterstown welcomes Letters to the Editor at our postal, fax or e-mail addresses. Letters must include sender’s name, address and phone number (only name and town will be printed). Letters should be typed. Letters appear as space permits. We reserve the right not to print a letter June 03 without notifying sender. Around About Peterstown is published by Joe Renna. Ten thousand newspapers are printed and distributed Dear Joe, bi-monthly, free throughout the County of Union and I'd like to share a story about my brother, Bob Lesniak, and his dog, Rusty with parts unknown and by subscription across the country. the readers of Around About Peterstown. Although great care has been taken to ensure the Bob Lesniak and his wife Barbara (the former Barbara Wade from Spring Street information contained within is accurate, Around About in Elizabeth) are crazy about this dog and treat him like their child. Bob and Barb Peterstown assumes no liability for errors or omissions. have no children. They are so proud of him they had t-shirts and sweatshirts made Around About Peterstown welcomes the comments and with his picture on them and gave them to family members. concerns of its readers put into writing and sent to: Several years ago, Bob and his co-workers, while having lunch outside, came AROUND ABOUT PETERSTOWN across this pup, who was obviously starving and in poor condition. Bob took him 202 Walnut Avenue home, and pending the approval of his wife, intended to keep him. She fell in love Cranford, NJ 07016 with the pup, and the rest is history. (908) 709-0530 Bob visits his parents (Loretta and Frank Lesniak) every Sunday morning for Fax: (908) 709-9209 breakfast, along with Rusty, and Bob's dad makes Rusty a scrambled egg, which E-mail: [email protected] Rusty loves and goes over to the area in the kitchen where he knows the egg will be JOE RENNA as soon as he goes through the door. Publisher / Editor Rusty is an exceptionally smart dog and Bob has taken much pleasure in training him to perform many tasks. TINA RENNA Bob was born and raised on Fourth Avenue in Peterstown, 3rd generation, and Copy Editor while a member of the "Sons of Peterstown" held the distinction of being the only member of Polish descent. Best regards, (above) Ed Boyle, ready to do his Darlene Boyle gardening, wears his “Rusty” T-shirt that Rahway, NJ he received from his brother-in-law, Bob. Bob gave the shirts out to his entire SONS OF PETERSTOWN SPORTS CLUB Happy father's day, Bob.- family for Christmas. It was a thoughtful 412 South 7th Street Love Rusty Elizabeth, NJ 07202 gift but what was he thinking? JOHN SACCO Hi Joe Dear Joe, President The article of my trip to Japan was really good. I liked the way you set Thank you so much for your article about up the photo with the text. I'm going to send a copy of the paper to Japan. our son Joe. We are so proud of Joe and his ANTHONY SACCA They will be reading the Peterstown news in Komoro City, Japan. brothers. Vice President Thanks! We received several calls from family and LOUIS L aBRUTTO Len Merlo friends. As a life long friend you painted a true Secretary picture of Joe. He has achieved all the goals he Dear Mr. Renna, set out to do and I'm sure he has not finished JIM PALERMO I love the paper and look forward to each edition. Such memories. The yet. As you know he would be the last one to Treasurer April 03 Issue had a picture of my beloved Paul with his 1937 blow his own horn. championship basketball team. Thanks, CHRIS COLLETTI Thank you, good luck and God bless, Sergeant-at-Arms Joe & Pat Brennan Santina Novello Spring Lake, NJ Delray Beach, FL President’s Message (right) Regular (below) A detail of the map of Elizabeth indicating the nd now it ow this winter a had a record sn el contributing We s all spring. I fe parameters of an old neighborhood called New Mexico. d by record rain is followe st this writer Charles prepare for locu like we should Cusumano NEW MEXICO, ELIZABETH, NJ summer. on the rutal, all is well weather being b e must and his wife Aside from the the world but w ess stressful in nt. Things are l , though it was Carmela home fro ic went off well tious. The picn time we still be very cau is was the first ause of rain. Th te it oned a day bec er plan a rain da Dear Tina & Joe, postp nd since we nev on a Saturday a eautiful Sunday The prodigal son has returned penitent and awaiting his planned it hat gave us a b e intervention t as almost divin penance. I can't seem to shake the cobwebs from my brain w following day. ll e the picnic the ho helped and a but I'm back anyway, and with a flourish. to hav the members w like to thank all man of the I would us to honor our By the way, here's something very few people know. nce who joined those in attenda We had a section in Elizabeth called New Mexico. It's ino.