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How to Stay Married (And Why) by Belinda Luscombe JUNE 13, 2016 How To Stay Married (and why) By Belinda Luscombe time.com VOL. 187, NO. 22 | 2016 4 | Conversation The View 6 | For the Record Ideas, opinion, The Brief innovations News from the U.S. and 21 | Jeffrey Kluger around the world on the death of 9 | What’s behind a Harambe the gorilla The Gospel According recent spate of digital and the fallacy of to Trump bank heists parent-shaming 10 | Mass pardons 22 | A book about the throughout the world present—as seen from the future 12 | Ian Bremmer: By Elizabeth Dias 30 Why Brexit could 25 | Behind the trigger turmoil idea of Islamic exceptionalism 14 | Some states end the tampon tax 26 | E-bikes face an uphill battle in the U.S. 14 | The cell-phone- cancer link 28 | Joe Klein on how Hillary Clinton can 15 | Will Brazil pull off beat Donald Trump at the Olympics? winning the news cycle 16 | Ethiopia’s megadam 18 | A deadly start to summer intensifes the migrant crisis Time Of 59 | Paul Simon’s great What to watch, read, latest album see and do Trump is endorsed by Jerry Falwell Jr., president of Liberty University 60 | Movies: Popstar 53 | ESPN docu O.J.: and The Fits Made in America 61 | Quick Talk with 55 | Emma Cline’s Emilia Clarke; a review Cover Story debut novel, The Girls of Me Before You How to Stay Hitched 56 | New music from 63 | Susanna Tegan and Sara and Schrobsdorff on Chance the Rapper learning to talk like a college student TRUMP: PATRICK SEMANSKY—AP; SIMPSON: SPORTING NEWS/GETTY IMAGES By Belinda Luscombe 36 64 | 13 Questions for General Motors CEO Mary Barra Trailblazers for the Next Generation 42 O.J. 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