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THE CHRONICLE Thursday, October 31, 2013 1B Tindall’s Electric Electrical-Heating-Cooling-Walk-in Coolers Walk-In Freezers-Ice Machines- Cooler Boxes Phone: (864) 489-3704 - Cell: (864) 838-4036 SportS 125 Lacewood Rd., Gaffney By JON MARTIN Chronicle Writer Fabian’s File “Fabian.” Nina McKever entered one name into a search engine in 2008 and began the quest to find her stepson. Nina’s husband, Tim, had Fabian when he was Position Class only 17-years-old. Tim, Tight End Freshman along with Fabian’s birth Height High School mother, decided to give 6-4 South Florence their newborn son up for Weight Hometown adoption. 230 Florence, S.C. Spontaneously, 14 years later, without any High School Notes idea of exactly what she Named All-State as senior with the Bruins... was looking for, Nina Selected to 2012 Shrine Bowl of the scoured the Internet in Carolinas... Earned All-Region and All-Pee hopes of finding Fabian. Dee Conference honors as a senior... Named Somewhere. team captain... Also served as team captain for the Bruins basketball team... Graduated FINDING A HOME with honors from South Florence High School Fabian Jefferson, a (Information provided by Ernest Meyers, tight end on Limestone Limestone Sports Information) College’s football team, was born in Florence, ter chance.” “She beat us with pipes SC to Tim McKever Sharing the home with and extension cords,” and Theo Ballard, both Fabian, Rodney and Fabian said. “Just me teenagers and both con- their adoptive mother and my brother. She’d cerned with how they (who we will call Mrs. come home one day mad would support their new Jefferson) was an aunt, and that’d be all it took. son. two uncles and two of She’d bring her biologi- Limestone’s Fabian Jefferson goes through blocking drills during a recent Ballard, Fabian’s bio- the adoptive mother’s cal kids food and not practice. (All Photos By Jon Martin) logical mother, found a biological children. bring us anything.” family friend in Santee, Eight people under So Fabian and Rodney told anyone else. would do whatever nec- happened to his son. He SC to adopt Fabian and one roof. would wait out the night, “I was afraid some- essary to protect his had discussed it with his his half-brother, Rodney. Fabian’s new sur- counting down the hours thing would happen to younger sibling, who new wife, Nina, on a Tim never knew where roundings quickly turned until the next day’s me,” Fabian said. “Or shared his birth mother. handful of occasions. his son was taken. violent, as Mrs. Jefferson school schedule began. It somebody would come “I always had him So Nina, along with “My parents just became abusive to both was then, during lunch, and take my brother and there to protect me,” Tim’s sister, went to couldn’t afford me at Fabian and his brother. that they would receive me away, and split us Fabian said. “When we work to find Fabian. the time,” Fabian said. Whether verbal or their next meal. up.” were being abused, he’d “All they had was my “Them being young and physical, growing up in Fabian never asked Fabian got his strength take the majority of the first name,” Fabian said. kids themselves, they the Jefferson household Mrs. Jefferson why she from his brother – three punishment. I knew as Poring over web wanted to give me a bet- was a difficult challenge. hit them, and he never years his senior. Rodney long as I had Rodney, pages, Nina finally found nothing else mattered.” Fabian on MySpace. Fabian’s birth mother Even though she didn’t would come by about know his last name, she once every two years, knew she found her hus- and would send money band’s son. when necessary. But the “My dad and I are mother-son relationship basically twins,” Fabian was never there. laughed. “It wasn’t hard “I was told when I once she saw the pic- was 12 that I was adopt- ture.” ed,” Fabian said. “So So Nina sent 14-year- I knew who my birth old Fabian a MySpace mother was. We never message. had a very good relation- “She said, ‘Hey ship. I don’t think it was Fabian, I know you don’t anything she did, I just know who I am but I’m resented her because of your father’s wife,’” the adoption. She was Fabian remembers read- never there when I need- ing. “She told me that ed her.” she knew I wouldn’t understand everything FINDING A right now and if I needed FATHER anything to contact her. Tim McKever had She ended it with, ‘From always wondered what (Cont. on page 2B) 2B THE CHRONICLE Thursday, October 31, 2013 Limestone Blue And White Football Game - Saturday, Nov. 2 - 1 p.m. Fabian Jefferson (Cont. From Page 1B) this point on, we want “There’s FINDING to be in your life.’” LIMESTONE Fabian kept the mes- nothing anybody Limestone Offensive sage to himself for a can throw at him Coordinator Craig Kerr while before sneaking that he hasn’t was the coach who found and calling Nina one Fabian, and immediately night. Mrs. Jefferson experienced. It’s took a liking to the 6-4, never knew. an honor 230-pound senior. “We talked for a while, Fabian came to started communicat- having him on Gaffney for his official ing more on MySpace,” this team.” visit with a pair of South Fabian said. “That’s - Limestone Coach Florence teammates when I decided I wanted Bobby James and was thoroughly to meet them.” impressed. Fabian met his step- “It was a football mother first, going with as well. community and a coach Nina to a local Wendy’s Tim, 31 years old at who’s not only fiery after a basketball game. the time, was now a about football, but actu- Nina took Fabian back manager at both Yahni’s ally invested in the home that night, again Company and Stefano’s kids,” Fabian said. “That without Mrs. Jefferson’s Italian Restaurant in was huge.” knowledge. Florence. He was ready Fabian was recruited “She still doesn’t to be a part of his son’s to play tight end, which know to this day that I life. will be a position heavily was at Wendy’s with my “We met for the first utilized in Limestone’s stepmom,” Fabian said. time at a Waffle House,” offensive packages. Three months after- Fabian laughed. “We “Our offense leads wards, plans began tak- talked more and more. to tight ends being ing shape for Fabian to After a while, I wanted extremely successful,” move in with his father. to move in with him.” Limestone head coach Rodney was about to Mrs. Jefferson refused Bobby James said. “His graduate Lake Marion for several weeks before athletic ceiling is to the High School and move Fabian’s other aunt, a sky.” Fabian Jefferson (Photo By Jon Martin) out. Fabian wanted out lawyer, made a phone Fabian decided call. to decommit from “They had a conversa- Newberry, and become tion,” Fabian said. “I’m part of the first recruit- not sure what was said, ing class in Limestone but that was it. I left and football history. moved in with my dad.” “It’s a new opportu- nity and a great envi- FINDING ronment,” Fabian said. FOOTBALL “Coach James is so Fabian played a year invested in our success. of football at Lake At times you hate doing Marion, but was never the running and all the very active in sports. drills, but at the end of “Mrs. Jefferson didn’t the day, when you’re want us to be involved in lying in bed, you know sports,” he said. it was all for a purpose. After moving in I came here for a rea- with his father, Fabian son, and I’m happy to be enrolled at South here.” Florence High School Fabian, who held a and began naturally tak- 3.1 GPA in high school, ing to the gridiron. is majoring in Physical Fabian played both Education. tight end and defensive His dream? end for the Bruins, and “Taking Coach James’ by his junior year he was job,” he laughed. “I real- beginning to receive col- ly want to be a coach.” lege interest. “I only had eight sacks FINDING in my junior year but my HIMSELF defensive coordinator Fabian said that, to a told me I had the body certain extent, he still of a college football bears some disappoint- player,” Fabian said. “I ment towards his father never paid any attention for the 14 years missed. to it. I didn’t know any- body that went to col- But those feelings are lege. But I started work- slowly, and surely, being ing hard and suddenly I worn away. was receiving interest.” “I don’t hold a grudge Tennessee showed towards him,” Fabian early interest in Fabian. said. “I’m glad he decid- Newberry, Hampton and ed to find me.” South Carolina State Through all of the ups were there as well. and downs, Fabian has All through Fabian’s maintained an even keel, high school career, he knowing his best days finally had some fans in are still in front of him. the stands. “What doesn’t kill you “My dad and step- makes you stronger,” he mom never missed a said. game,” he said. “At Lake Coach James said that Marion, my brother was with all of the adversity the only person there to Fabian has faced in his support me and he was life, college football and on the sidelines.