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Toward a Feminist Sexual Revolution Author(s): Ellen Willis Reviewed work(s): Source: Social Text, No. 6 (Autumn, 1982), pp. 3-21 Published by: Duke University Press Stable URL: http://www.jstor.org/stable/466614 . Accessed: 26/01/2013 22:26 Your use of the JSTOR archive indicates your acceptance of the Terms & Conditions of Use, available at . http://www.jstor.org/page/info/about/policies/terms.jsp . JSTOR is a not-for-profit service that helps scholars, researchers, and students discover, use, and build upon a wide range of content in a trusted digital archive. We use information technology and tools to increase productivity and facilitate new forms of scholarship. For more information about JSTOR, please contact [email protected]. Duke University Press is collaborating with JSTOR to digitize, preserve and extend access to Social Text. http://www.jstor.org This content downloaded on Sat, 26 Jan 2013 22:26:58 PM All use subject to JSTOR Terms and Conditions Towarda FeministSexual Revolution ELLEN WILLIS PREFACE The feministmovement is currentlyengaged in a passionate,explosive debate- or rather,a seriesof overlapping,intertwined debates - aboutsexuality. The argumentshave crystallizedaround specific issues: pornography;the causes of sexual violenceand how best to oppose it; the definitionof sexual consent;the relationof sexual fantasyto actionand sexual behaviorto politicalpractice (is theresuch a thingas "politicallycorrect" sex?); the natureof women'ssexuality and whetherit is intrinsicallydifferent from men's; themeaning ofheterosexuality for women; the political significance of "fringe"sexualities like sadoma- sochism.Each of theseissues has become a focusof deeply felt disagreement over the place of sexualityand sexual moralityin a feministanalysis and program.In one way or another theyraise thequestion of whethersexual freedom,as such, is a feministvalue, or whether feminismought rather to aim at replacingmale-defined social controlsover sexualitywith female-definedcontrols. Whilethere has alwaysbeen tension among feminists with differing sexual attitudes, it is only recentlythat the differenceshave come to the surfaceand definedpolitical factions, creatinga seriousintramovement split. The reasonfor this development, I believe, is therise of thenew right.The women's liberationmovement emerged in a liberalpolitical and social climate;like therest of theleft it devotedmuch of itsenergy to makinga radicalcritique of liberalism.Since sexual liberalismappeared to be firmlyentrenched as thedominant cultural ideology,feminists put a highpriority on criticizingthe hypocrisies and abuses of themale- dominated"sexual revolution."But as liberalismfell apart,so did the apparentfeminist consensus on sex. Confrontedwith a right-wingbacklash bent on suppressingall non- marital,non-procreative sex, feministswho saw sexual liberalismas deeply flawed by sexismbut nonetheless a sourceof crucialgains forwomen found themselves at odds with feministswho dismissedthe sexual revolutionas monolithicallysexist and sharedmany of the attitudesof conservativemoralists. In thisessay I argue thata sexual liberationistperspective is essentialto a genuinely ? ELLENWILLIS, 1982. A shorterversion of thisarticle will appearin TheScholar and theFeminist, Volume II: Class, Race, and Sex: theDynamics of Control, ed. AmySwerdlow and Hanna Lessinger,to be publishedby G. K. Hall & Co. Ellen Willis is a staffwriter at theVillage Voice and theauthor of Beginningto See theLight (Knopf, 1981), a book of essays on cultureand politics. She has been a feministactivist since 1968 and was a co-founderof the originalRedstockings. 3 This content downloaded on Sat, 26 Jan 2013 22:26:58 PM All use subject to JSTOR Terms and Conditions 4 Willis radicalanalysis of women's condition.Much of myargument centers on thepsychosexual dynamicsof thefamily, where children first experience both sexism and sexual repression. This discussionrefers primarily to thefamily as itexists - actuallyand ideologically- for thedominant cultures of modernindustrial societies. Clearly, to extendmy focus backward to feudalsocieties or outwardto the ThirdWorld would require(at the veryleast) a far longer,more complex article.I stronglysuspect, however, that in its fundamentalsthe processof sexual acculturationI describe here is commonto all historical(i.e., patriarchal) societies. The traditionalpatriarchal family maintains sexual law and orderon two fronts.It regulatesthe relations between the sexes, enforcingmale dominance,female subordination, and thesegregation of "masculine" and "feminine"spheres. It also regulatessexuality per se, definingas illicitany sexual activityunrelated to reproductionor outsidethe bounds of heterosexual,monogamous marriage. Accordingly, the new right'smilitant defense of the traditionalfamily and its values has a dual thrust:it is at once a male-supremacistbacklash againstfeminism and a reactionby culturalconservatives of bothsexes againstthe "sexual revolution"of the past twentyyears. There is, of course, an integralconnection between sexism and sexual repression.The suppressionof women's sexual desire and pleasure, the denial of our rightto control reproduction,and the enforcementof female abstinenceoutside marriage have been - togetherwith our exclusionfrom equal participationin economicand politicalactivity - primaryunderpinnings of male supremacy.Conversely, a restrictivesexual morality inevita- bly constrainswomen morethan men, even in religioussubcultures that profess a single standard.Not onlyis unwantedpregnancy a built-inpunishment for female participation in sex (assumingthe prohibition of birthcontrol and abortionon theone hand,and lesbianism on theother) and thereforea powerfulinhibitor; it is visibleevidence of sexual "delinquen- cy," whichsubjects women who breakthe rules to social sanctionstheir male partners never have to face. Still, it is importantto recognizethat the right's opposition to sexual permis- siveness- as expressedin itsattacks on abortion,homosexuality, "pornography" (defined as any sexuallyexplicit material), sex education,and adolescents'access to contraception and abortionwithout parental consent - has consequences for both sexes. Gays and teenagersare obvious targets.But the success of the "pro-family"agenda would also impingeon the lives of adult heterosexualmen, who would have to contendwith the unwantedpregnancies of theirwives and lovers, women's increasedsexual fears and inhibitions,restrictions on frankdiscussion and public legitimationof sex and sexual fantasy,and a generalchilling of the sexual atmosphere.While some men are willingto acceptsuch constraints on theirown freedomin orderto reassertcertain traditional controls over women,many are not. The dual focus of pro-familypolitics, on feminismand on sex itself,has serious implicationsfor feminist theory and strategy.It means thatfeminists cannot define their oppositionto the pro-familymovement solely in termsof defendingfemale autonomy againstmale power, nor can theyignore the fact that conflict over sexual morality cuts across genderlines. If the women's movementis to organizeeffectively against the right,it will have to develop a politicaltheory of sexualityand in particularan analysisof therelation This content downloaded on Sat, 26 Jan 2013 22:26:58 PM All use subject to JSTOR Terms and Conditions Sexual Revolution 5 betweenfeminism and sexual freedom.Such an analysiswould help feministsto identify and avoid responsesto sexual issuesthat unwittingly undercut feminist aims. Itwould clarify many disagreementsamong women who regardthemselves as feminists.It would also enable feministsto seek alliances with male opponentsof the right'ssexual politics- alliancesthat are undoubtedlynecessary if the battle is to be won - on thebasis of a clear understandingof mutualinterests, differences that need to be resolvedto achievea working coalition,and issues on whichit is possible to agree to disagree.The intensityof current debateon sex amongfeminists and gay activistsreflects a visceralcomprehension - if not always an articulateunderstanding - of how much is at stake. At present,the right has its feministopponents at an enormousdisadvantage. The pro- familymovement has a coherentideology and programwhose anti-feministand anti-sexual aspectsreinforce each other.In contrast,feminists are ambivalent,confused, and dividedin theirviews on sexual freedom.While there have beenfeminist sexual libertarians in boththe 19thcentury and contemporarymovements, for the most part women's liberation and sexual liberationhave developed as separate,often antagonistic causes. The sexual libertarian movementthat began in the 1950s was conspicuouslymale-dominated and male-suprema- cist. Thoughit advocateda singlestandard of freedomfrom sexual guiltand conventional moral restrictions,it displayed no insightinto the social reasons for women's greater inhibitionand conformityto moralnorms. On thecontrary, women were blamed - oftenin virulentlymisogynist terms - foradhering to thesexual prohibitionsmen and a patriarchal societyhad forcedon them.At the same timemale libertariansintensified women's sexual anxietiesby equatingrepression with the desire for love and commitment,and exaltingsex withoutemotion or attachmentas theideal. Fromthis perspective liberation for men meant rebellingagainst the demands of women,while liberation for women meant the opportunity (read obligation)to shucktheir "hangups" about casual sex. The questionthat remained unasked was whethermen had sexual hangupsof theirown. Was