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Year 3, Vol. 8 • Sept. 3-30, 2009 The www.therainbowtimesnews.com FREE! Boston’s Latin Vision by Rhode Island’s Voices: ainbow imes Wilfred labiosa Gay Marriage T p. p. R 22 3 Your LGBTQ News in MA, RI, North Central CT & Southern VT BARTON & Provincetown p. B-19 Photographer: Felix Drobek Sandra Bernhard NEW! NightTimez Hottest Summer songs p. 15 p. B-1 p. B-2 Photo by Aaron Fallon, Interscope Records 2 • Sept. 3-30, 2009 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Opinions The Controversial Couch Fight with us for our rights Lie back and listen. Then get up and do something can religion then be used to hate, discrimi- By: Nicole Lashomb/TRT Editor-in-Chief By: Suzan Ambrose*/TRT Columnist curve here? nate, abuse, mistreat, and even murder others ringing the Message Home, that is aving kids is bad for the Quite astonishingly, the world's just because God created them/us different- exactly what PFLAG is doing with planet's health (not to population has nearly doubled in my Bits Seventh Annual Guide to work- ly? Over $2 million is going to fight same- Hmention your figure, your lifetime. In 1969 there were only 3.6 ing with Elected Leaders to Move Equality sex marriage, should this money not be used sanity and your wallet.) At least some people billion people. Today there’s 6.8 billion. And, it's estimated there will be 9.1 billion of us by Forward. There is no stronger voice than for something that is really a worthy cause think so. It appears the best way to reduce 2050. Talk about tight. At least we know the that of our family and friends in this move- (hunger, homelessness, poverty, etc.)? your carbon footprint, if you are so inclined, However, to speak for LGBT people you is not to reproduce at all. But does that matter gay boys won't be complaining. ment to attain and maintain equality. Maine With so many gay people getting married, is being targeted by “religious” groups to know effectively, I urge you to pick up a at all to those who feel they must thrust their copy of this PFLAG Guide. In it you will DNA into the next generation? children appear to be part of the modern day stop same-sex couples from marrying. We equation of what makes a queer family. It find valuable information about how to Children: most people think it's the most cannot let this happen. We cannot observe used to just be us, our pets and all the nieces advocate using the right tools and tech- natural thing in the world to want to repro- another Prop. 8 disaster take over the lives duce. But, there are many of us in the LGBT and nephews we could handle for a few hours; and rights of Maine LGBT same-sex cou- niques. Visit www.pflag.org to read and print that was enough. But now, if one chooses to the Guide. world that would argue there's nothing natu- ples! ral about it! be child free, the world, and even our own While in this topic, The Human Rights I urge you: parents, friends,siblings, sons, You'd think this wouldn't be a concern for community, can look upon our 'freedom from daughters, grandparents, aunts, uncles, etc., Campaign, HRC, has also compiled an most LGBT folks. Let's face it: you have to go child-raising' sisters as bitter, selfish and cold. to speak up, to stand for civil rights for all “LGBT community resource” called “Out in out of your way, when you're gay, to get Can I help it if I love my white shag carpets members of the LGBT community. I ask you Scripture” whose purpose is to “provide con- prego; mistakes don't just "happen." But, with and glass tables with elegant sculptures more than Fisher Price toys? Is it morally bankrupt particularly to join us in the fight for our versations on Bible passages from more than modern technology and in vitro fertilization, to enjoy the idea of only being responsible to Maine same-sex marriage community so that 100 scholars and pastors representing 11 many gays and lesbians have chosen to bear denominations.” These are tools that you the fruit of their loins instead of just the Fruit one's self and one's desires? What's wrong we can count on you, our straight allies, to with loving play and enjoying life, without help us keep equality. Let’s show the rest of need to fight the “religious” Right. You can of der Looms. read this complete collection online at One of Hollywood's most well-known ever having reproduced a carbon copy of the country that New England stands for the one's self? Not one thing! www.hrc.org/Scripture. I urge you, please actresses, Carmen Diaz, recently told UK's rights of ALL of the people of in this region, Cosmopolitan Magazine that the choice to not As Adrianne Trust says in her book "I Hate as it should be in the entire country. arm yourself, for the fight is not over, not Other People's Kids," Jesus loved the little even close and we need your help! Best, have children is "one of the most selfless Division was not something that Jesus things a woman, or man, can do for the plan- children but he never had to dine with them; advocated for, according to the Bible. How Nicole Lashomb et." (One U.S. person = 20 tons of C02 per he chose the lepers. Amen, sister. year). Hello! Did someone just say gay peo- See Couch on Page 14 ple, and other non-breeders, are ahead of the C’mon Out – Just Ask! Advice column The Rainbow Times By: Tetty Gorfine* overstated. 351 Pleasant St., #322 If there is a way that parents, Letters to the Editor Hi Tetty, You seem to know quite a bit about Northampton, MA 01060 teachers and health care pro- Dear Editor, transgender issues so I have a question. Recently fessionals can identify trans- I wanted to extend a special thank you www.therainbowtimesnews.com [email protected] I heard that some people are giving children hor- sexual children, imagine the to all at the TRT (& all the sponsors too!). mones to transition. How could that be? Kids are It has only been recently in my life (at 52) [email protected] positive benefits possible when [email protected] into fantasy play so much, how could any respon- this child has the opportunity to that I've been able to "come out" (so to speak) slowly, bit by bit. Your publication MA: 413.204.8959 • NY: 518.391.2617 sible parent do this? Thank you for your time. grow into who she/he really is, Priscilla TETTY GORFINE has been a wonderful portal of thought, Boston & RI: 617.438.4364 instead of something that will education, and entertainment. Being a Fax: 617-987-0059 Hi Priscilla: only bring deeper trauma. A life that is headed "hetero-cross dresser" I thought, put me Let me give you some perspective so this can towards catastrophe can instead head towards in some sort of painfully unique category. Publisher Deja N. Greenlaw make more sense to you. Giving children/preteens wholeness. But NOT SO, it turns out Lorelei's recent Gricel M. Ocasio Tetty Gorfine It is true we must be very careful not to go this piece (Ask A Transwoman) was a great Editor-In-Chief J.M. Sorrell hormones has been controversial both for social Lorelei Erisis and medical reasons. There are understandable route if there is a question about a child's gender. romp through the "garden of variations," Nicole Lashomb which just goes to show that we're all in Sales Manager Sales Associate: arguments and questions such as yours, given that At the same time we have become sophisticated Liz Johnson as health care professionals in our ability to identi- this beautiful, often times trying, "mix" Bill Berggren children are so changeable and affected by many (lgbt...hijk..lmnop) together. I want to Chris Gilmore fy these children. While we should not make this Distribution Mgr. outside influences. There are medical concerns thank you too for DeJa, & all of the good Suzan Seymour Reporter: too, since administering hormones to children decision lightly, trained and experienced profes- hearts and sharp minds you have collect- Tynan Power sionals know enough about transsexual children's Columnists: before puberty prevents many bodily changes ed. And, thank you for publishing my per- Suzan Ambrose Webmaster: associated with puberty and these changes may experience to make an informed decision. sonal ad, for free, for so long! Peace to all Paul P. Jesep Jarred Johnson be important for the overall health of that person. You question is a good one. Mainstream society near & far. Let's keep talking, reading, needs to gain access to a lot more information con- and thinking, with cool minds & warm The Rainbow Times is published monthly by The Understand Priscilla, that before puberty trans- Rainbow Times, LLC. TRT is affiliated with sexual children usually have already suffered trau- cerning transgender/transsexual people so they hearts. AP/Newsfinder, QSyndicate, & the National Gay ma in being so different than their peers and being are met in this world with more understanding and —Jennifer "DJ," Northampton, MA & Lesbian Chamber of Commerce. The articles support. I hope this clarifies things a bit for you. written by the writers, columnists, and correspon- "found out" by their families.