Studland Parish News June 2021
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Studland Parish News June 2021 St Nicholas Church Studland See the Parish News in full colour – www.studlandchurch.com Note from the editor… Welcome to June, the start of the summer months. Though as I write this the rain and wind does not make it feel very summerlike! Here’s hoping for an improvement. Another month and another target date in relation to the pandemic – On June 21st the government hopes to be in a position to remove all legal limits on social contact. As we move towards this goal, we must all remember that COVID-19 remains a part of our lives. We must carry on with ‘hands, face, space’. If we all continue to play our part, we will be that bit closer to a future that is more familiar. June brings our community lots to look forward to, as you will see when you read through this edition - plenty for everyone to enjoy, you will be spoilt for choice. I still have plenty of raffle tickets (£2 a ticket/£10 a book) and packs of sunflower seeds (suggested donation £1) – both to support Lewis-Manning Hospice care, should anyone be interested. And don’t forget June 20th brings us Father’s Day too. Have a lovely start to the summer and I wish you all well. Sharon Westman, Editor Gratefulness “Small grateful acts every day can uplift us, make a difference for others, and help change the world.” Blessing of the month You bless us with air travel – that amazing human invention that connects continents like the flight of migrating birds and carries us safely and in comfort more swiftly than wing beat. May we use this gift responsibly and see to it that our travelling will not do more harm than it does good for people. July edition submission deadline is: 9am JUNE 23rd [email protected] - 01929 450358 Late contributions cannot be guaranteed. 2 Swanage and Studland Team Ministry Team Rector The Very Revd John Mann The Rectory, 12 Church Hill, Swanage, BH19 1HU Tel. 01929 422916 Email: [email protected] Team Office Tel. 01929 421117 Email: [email protected] St Nicholas Church, Studland Resident Priest Rev’d Tony Higgins The Old School House, School Lane, Studland BH19 3AJ Tel. 01929 450691 Email: [email protected] Church Wardens Barbara Matthews Old Harry, The Glebe, Studland BH19 3AS Tel. 01929 450218 Email: [email protected] Mr Eric Stobart Knapwynd, School Lane, Studland BH19 3AJ Tel: 01929 450222 Email: [email protected] Hon. Treasurer Mr Andrew Goodwin St Nicholas Church Hall, Church Road, Studland, BH19 3AT Email: [email protected] Hon. Secretary Mrs Carol Wadley 34 Jubilee Road, Swanage, BH19 2SF 01929 424388 [email protected] 3 The Team Rev’d Writes… Every June since 2005, the U.K. celebrates Pride History Month. The intention is to raise awareness and educate against prejudice towards LGBTQIA+ people. This year, it takes an even greater significance for us Christians, as the campaign to encourage our government to keep its promise to ban all forms of so called ‘’conversion therapies’’ is in full swing. You may have been following this debate in the news. Although I suspect most of us are either totally unaware of what ‘’Conversion Therapy’’ is; or have never been directly affected by it, to the point we might not even know this is happening right under our noses. So firstly, it may come as a surprise, but yes, in England, in 2021, so called ‘’conversion therapy’’ is indeed still a legal practice. Including both religious and secular practices. Secondly, you may be wondering, what is this ‘’therapy’’? In a nutshell, it ranges from prayer ministry, to full scale deliverance ministry (also called exorcism), in order to change or suppress someone’s sexual orientation or gender identity. These are of course not ‘therapy’ at all, and is described as abuse by survivors. Needless to say, it has also never worked. Praying the gay away, or asking someone to change whom they were born as, is as useful as telling someone to change their skin colour, or their ethnic background. What it does successfully however, is leave a trail of trauma, deeply hurt and shattered lives, and tragically often suicide. Do read the chilling testimonies and personal accounts of survivors, available on www.viamedia.news. This comes with a massive trigger warning, survivors give harrowing, and detailed account of spiritual, emotional, psychological abuse by church leaders, please look after yourself while reading their stories. One of the main clashing points in the current debate to ban those practices, is the call by fundamentalist church groups, such as the Evangelical Alliance, to not infringe on their religious liberty. The E.A. has sent an open letter to the government calling for a clearer definition of what is meant by conversion therapy, and that any legislation could end up ‘’restricting individual freedom and impinging on essential religious liberty – potentially criminalising Christians and common church activities’’. Essentially claiming a ban would result in priests being prosecuted if they preach against LGBTQIA+ people. Although a clearer, detailed, and exhaustive legal definition of what would be considered criminal behaviour is most definitely needed to put a stop to those harmful practices; what those fundamentalist organisations are trying to push for is a more subtle and insidious form of abuse that is by and large very difficult to trace and address. Their argument being that some people come forward of their own volition asking to be healed of their ‘same-sex attraction’, and that any ban would criminalise church leaders/clergy persons answering those prayer requests. What those church organisations don’t mention, is the constant leitmotif in preaching and prayers and pretend pastoral support, that being 4 LGBTQIA+ is wrong, it’s a sin, they must be healed, and delivered from it. If this has been someone’s whole world for years, if not their whole lives; they are indeed likely to come forward voluntarily and ask to be healed. And this can easily be done without any force or threats. Now imagine that person being a young teen, as they sadly often are; can you see the vulnerability and the disposition for being influenced by someone in position of leadership and authority? And can you see the spiritual damage resulting from the inevitable failure of those prayers? The United Nations stepped in the discussion recently as well. Clarifying that an all-inclusive ban on those so called ‘conversion therapies’ does not in fact infringe on religious freedom, “that it could easily include safeguards to protect private beliefs, as long as those don’t cross over into harmful practices”. (Although it’ll be interesting to see what will be considered harmful). Adding that ‘’banning such discredited, ineffective, and unsafe practices that misguidedly try to change or suppress people’s sexual orientation and gender is not a violation of the right to freedom of religion or belief under international law.’’ So, in this pride month, keep an eye out for further conversations on this. It really is likely to have a huge impact on the Church of England, for the better, I hope. And if you feel called to write to your M.P. about this, the campaign to ban conversion therapy has a template you might wish to use, available here: www.banconversiontherapy.com. On there you might also find out more information about this subject. Rev’d Solveig Sonet Rectory Ramblings It seems that our thoughts are never far at the moment from the effects, for better or for worse, of the pandemic that is still raging with such devastating effects in some areas of the world - recently, of course, primarily in India. Where we shall be in a matter of a few weeks from now is hard to say, but we remain hopeful and positive as many of us have now received our second vaccination and younger people are being called for their first. Hearing the dawn chorus through May has brought such a joy to the beginning of each day, as light and birdsong come together and remind us of the unchanging nature of springtime, even as the weather varies and the days lengthen. That sort of consistent message is one that helps us to come to terms with the more fluctuating elements of our existence at the moment. However, it is the changelessness of Christ that is ever the rock upon which we build and the security within which we rest. May his presence continue to carry our concerns and fill us with hope and joy, even in the face of things over which we have no control or capacity to change. John Mann 5 Team Vicar Appointment - A Statement from Bishop Karen: Following a process of application and interview, the Team Rector and I have concluded (considering amongst other things the range of views of the advisory panel) that no candidate met fully the personal specification and role description as set out in the Team Profile and therefore have not made an appointment to the post of Team Vicar at this time. We wish to thank all who took part in the process. In view of this outcome, which has highlighted the broad range of needs across the team, and the readjustment of our different congregations to church life post Covid we have agreed to postpone the process of appointment at this time. We are grateful to all who provide leadership across the team, particularly our retired clergy, and because of that willingness we are confident that each church has the necessary resources for ministry so time can be taken to discern together what leadership (lay and ordained) is required for the whole team going forward.