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Asexuality Awareness What Is Asexuality? ASEXUALITY AWARENESS WHAT IS ASEXUALITY? “Asexuality is defined by a lack of sexual attraction or intrinsic desire for partnered sex. Another way of wording it is as being sexually attracted to no gender.” (Asexual Visibility & Education Network, 2018) “Many asexual people may experience forms of attraction that can be romantic, aesthetic, or sensual in nature but do not lead to a need to act out on that attraction sexually.” (AVEN, 2018) Asexual people often feel the need to specify both sexual and romantic attractions to make it clear what drives them and what they’re seeking from other people.” (AVEN, 2018) MYTHS ABOUT THE ACE COMMUNITY AVEN (2013) MYTHS ABOUT THE ACE COMMUNITY AVEN (2013) MYTHS ABOUT THE ACE COMMUNITY AVEN (2013) (Trevor Project, 2018) A FEW COMMON TERMS TO EXPLORE: Aromantic: People who experience little to no romantic attraction, and are content with close friendships and other non-romantic relationships. Demisexual: People who only experience sexual attraction once they form a strong emotional connection with another person. Grey-A: People who identify somewhere between sexual and asexual. Queerplatonic: People who experience a type of non-romantic relationship where there is an intense emotional connection that goes beyond a traditional friendship. Aces commonly use hetero-, homo-, bi-, and pan- in front of the word romantic to describe who they experience romantic attraction to. For example, a person who is hetero-romantic might be attracted to people of a different sex or gender, but not in a sexual way. (Trevor Project, 2018) EIU Center for Gender & Sexual Diversity The EIU Center for Gender & Sexual Diversity aspires to create an inclusive community by instilling a culture WANT TO LEARN of respect, advocacy, and empowerment towards an MORE? open, safe, and just campus. Stevenson Hall Lower Level Phone: 217-581-7117 Email: [email protected].
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