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PAGE 2 The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter Kislev-Shevat 5779 • December 2018-January 2019 continued from page 1 Campaign your Jewish community. Help us reach YOUR GIFT MATTERS. this year’s goal of $220,000 by making Your contribution ensures that cultural your pledge today! programs like our New Hampshire Jew- ish Film Festival continue enabling us to gather and experience the Jewish world Ways to Give through the lens of cinema. YOUR • Answer the call on “ Tues- GIFT MATTERS. days & Sundays” in December, and let Whether it’s providing young people a volunteer learn more about what in- with aid to attend Jewish summer camps spires you to support Federation and Presented by the or to visit Israel for the first time, or en- take your pledge over the phone. Jewish Federation of NH richment for seniors, the founding gener- • Pre-empt our call by giving online at nhjewish lmfestival.org ation of our Jewish community, YOUR www.jewishnh.org/give. 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Become a Friend of the Festival Safety continued from page 1 new year, and utilizing the information The 11th Annual New Hampshire Jewish In mid-November, work began on an gathered (confidentially) to plan work ses- important long-term collaboration at the sions, trainings, and other activities that Film Festival premieres April 4-14, 2019 NH Department of Justice for a discus- Federation can offer to better equip our sion with top-level officials from the At- partner agencies on a deeper level. Playing in Theaters Statewide torney General’s office (Civil Rights One thing we do know is that our coun- Manchester, Merrimack, Concord, Unit), Department of Homeland Secu- terparts in Pittsburg had (only 6 weeks rity, Federal Bureau of Investigations, prior to the attack) participated in Active Peterborough and Portsmouth and NH Department of Public Safety/ Shooter training. Reports indicate that the State Police. With their guidance and ex- actions taken on that day by those who pertise, along with input from the lead- had received the training went a long way YES, I want to support the 11th Annual NH ership of all of New Hampshire’s Jewish toward protecting many, and reducing the Jewish Film Festival and be a Friend of the Festival organizations, we are proud to collabo- number of fatalities -- despite a difficult Name: rate to aid in further hardening of our reality I’m sure they could not have ever facilities and to ensure that New Hamp- anticipated in the weeks prior. Address: shire’s Jewish community (synagogues, Regardless of the likelihood of a viable preschools, Hillels, summer camps, etc.) threat, or the possibility of a similar inci- Phone: are better prepared in the event of a dent here in New Hampshire, it is critical threat or natural disaster. that we continue to protect what we hold so Email: These important planning efforts have dear. 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Kislev-Shevat 5779 • December 2018-January 2019 The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter PAGE 3 Saturday, Dec. 1 reading. There is no cost for this class, but you are Community Chanukah Candle Lighting and Thursday, Jan. 10 required to purchase the text book for $13.95. Prayer for Peace Raymond Street Klezmer Band Concert Seniors Forever Young Luncheon With Please RSVP to the Temple office at 436-5301, ext. 5 PM, Temple Israel Courtyard (off State St.), 7 PM, Temple Adath Yeshurun, Manchester Special Guest Shlicha Noam Wolf 10 or [email protected]. Portsmouth 12 noon, Temple Adath Yeshurun, Manchester MVJF Spotlight Presents — Merrimack Wednesday, Dec. 5 Light refreshments will be served. For more Valley Premiere Night: Sammy Davis Jr. Film information, contact the Temple Israel office at 436- Friday, Jan. 18 MVJF Adult Education Series “Jewish Art I’ve Gotta Be Me 5301, ext. 10 or [email protected]. Family Shabbat & Tu B’Shevat Seder 7:30 PM, Theatre at: Temple Emanuel, 7 Haggetts and Artists”: ’s Greatest Hits Through Visual Sunday, Dec. 16 6 PM, Temple Israel, Manchester Pond Road, Andover, MA Reservations required. Call 622-6171 for more 7 PM, Osgood Landing, 1600 Osgood Street, Media MVJF Adult Education Series “Jewish Art To reserve a seat, visit www.mvjf.org. information. Room (front entrance), North Andover, MA and Artists”: Reinventing Ritual Objects Sunday, Dec. 2 – For more information, visit www.mvjf.org. 2:30 PM, Congregation Beth Israel, 6 Dundee Park, Monday, Jan. 21 – First Night of Chanukah Thursday, Dec. 6 Suite 301, Andover, MA Tu B’Shevat, MLK Day Family Menorah Lighting at the State House For more information, visit www.mvjf.org. Seniors Forever Young Chanukah Party PJ Library Martin Luther Family Day of 4 PM, New Hampshire State House, Concord Thursday, Dec. 20 Kindness With Jayme’s Fund Join Chabad Center for Jewish Living – NH and PJ 11 AM, Temple Adath Yeshurun, Manchester To reserve your space, contact Allyson at outreach@ “Shifting Boundaries” Photography Exhibit 1 PM PJ Our Way program begins, 2 PM PJ Library Library – NH for a heartwarming family menorah program begins. lighting. Watch the largest menorah in the state be jewishnh.org or call Federation at (603) 627-7679. Opening Reception heBrew Happy Hour 5-8 PM, Temple Israel Shmoozatorium, Portsmouth Listen to the story of Jayme’s fund and help stuff lit on the first night of Chanukah. Hot chocolate and bears that will be donated to local children’s 5:30 PM, Thirsty Moose Taphouse, 795 Elm St., For more information, contact Aimee Margolis: jelly doughnuts for everyone. Special PJ Library hospitals. Snack included. RSVP to pjlibrary@ Manchester [email protected]. craft and free book giveaway. Free for all. jewishnh.org by Jan 16. Chanukah Menorah Lighting Reservation are not required. Call Norri at 582-3838 Monday, Dec. 31 for more information. MLK Celebration and Observance 5:30 PM, Bethlehem Town Hall Lawn, Bethlehem First Night Portsmouth Musical Celebration 2 PM, Temple Adath Yeshurun, Manchester Ceremony, songs, and light refreshments. Sunday, Dec. 9 – 8 PM, Temple Israel Social Hall, Portsmouth For more information, please contact the Temple Tu B’Shevat Service Monday, Dec. 3 Last Night of Chanukah 6 PM, Temple Israel, Manchester Brotherhood Chanukah Party Israel office at 436-5301, ext. 10 or templeoffic@ Learn Hebrew in Less Than a Week templeisraelnh.org. Reservations required. Call 622-6171 for more 7 PM, Temple Israel, Portsmouth 11 AM, Temple Adath Yeshurun information. This 4-night class (Dec. 3-6), led by Rabbi Ira Temple Israel, Manchester Chanukah Party Friday, Jan. 4 Saturday, Jan. 26 Korinow, meets in the Temple Israel Board Room, 12 PM, Temple Israel, 66 Salmon St., Manchester Kabbalat Shabbat Musical Service with 2nd floor. The class is meant to teach mechanical Reservations are required by November 30. Call 622- Cantor Shira Nafshi Brotherhood Deli Night 6 PM, Temple Adath Yeshurun, Manchester reading and will provide you with skills to continue 6171 for more information. 6:15 PM, Temple Israel, Portsmouth to learn to read and understand what you’re For more information, please contact the Temple Limited tickets available for purchase in advance. Israel office at 436-5301, ext. 10 or templeoffic@ See what’s happening in the community at templeisraelnh.org. www.jewishnh.org

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PAGE 4 The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter Kislev-Shevat 5779 • December 2018-January 2019 Feeling the Sting of Anti-Semitism, We Continue to Push On — Together I’m writing yet another article for The Jewish Reporter in the shadow of horri- Noam Wolf ble events. It seems like lately, that’s all there is to think and talk about. I must say that this is the first time in my life I JFNH Shlicha am actually feeling the sting of anti-Sem- itism. I know, I’m from Israel, where my people are so frequently attacked, mur- dered, stabbed, and hated, but I never felt one feel better about the fact we had to as if it was personal to me. In Israel, it have these masks so handy -- that we was our whole country, so I never felt like might die any day. Almost every day, a target. In the United States, it’s person- there were 20 to 40 sirens, and that be- al to all the . came the norm after a few weeks. I feel as if my heart kind of closed it- I hope we can go back to our routine Noam participates in a planning meeting with Dartmouth College students who will be self off from feelings lately, to cope with of life fast; I don’t like being in this place traveling to Israel. Noam is leading this trip on behalf of Federation in collaboration everything that has been happening. On in time. Locking the doors behind me, with Hillel International and Taglit-Birthright Israel this December! the same night the Pittsburg shooting looking suspiciously under my car for happened, 40 rockets were shot overnight bombs, and not being able to trust any few museums, and spend time with my feel very lucky that I went on this path of to the south of Israel, and many of the stranger. Since the shooting, I have been parents, whom I miss so much. being a Shlicha; so many good things have people that I know were up all night run- thinking about it a lot -- I’m a Jewish and I’m also very excited about the next happened to me, and I have had a chance ning to their shelter. A good friend of Israeli figure in this state. As a Shlicha, amazing opportunity this December: a to do so much good as well. I am full of Avi’s (my significant other) has moved to this is what I represent. Anyone can find new collaboration I am leading for JFNH ideas and fun stuff to do during this trip, study in the south, in Sderot. Sapir Col- me -- it’s easy to feel vulnerable. So I push in partnership with Hillel International. and I have even organized a stop at my lege for communication and media is lo- forward, eager to make sure that doesn’t The Hillel at Dartmouth reached out to us parents’ house on the way from cated there, and this poor guy was run- weigh on me too heavily. at the Jewish Federation asking me to lead to Tel Aviv, so that they can all see an Is- ning all night long, going to bed for a few On another, and a more positive note: a Birthright trip for their students. This is raeli house from the inside, talk to a Brig- minutes and waking up 10 minutes later I’m going to see my family soon! In about a connection I have been looking to create adier General in the IDF (my father), and to the sound of a siren that sent him to a week (from the moment I wrote this) I for a while now, and I am so glad it is hap- try some of my mother’s food. These stu- the shelter again. will be going to a conference in New Jer- pening. A few days ago, I met 40 students, dents have no idea what’s coming!!! I can’t even imagine that kind of life. sey with the hundreds of Shlichim who most of whom have never been to Israel. I will be staying a few more days after The house I grew up in was only once in are serving at JCCs, Federations, syna- We met at the Roth Center for Jewish Life Birthright so I can spend time with my fam- the fire range of rockets, when I was gogues, and campuses. There will also be in Hanover and went over the details, itin- ily and friends, and when I get back a little probably 10 years old. Back then, it was many Shinshinim (Shnat Sherut is one erary, and common questions before go- before Christmas, I will be ready to start missiles that released chemicals that were year of service you can volunteer for ing on that kind of a trip. I cannot tell you winter in New Hampshire with new energy dangerous to breathe in. I remember go- right before the army. Shinshinim is their how excited I am to go with these young and new friends, and I just can’t wait. ing to school with my personal box con- nickname, and they are spread all over people and introduce them my country. I taining my own gas mask, and the whole the United States and Canada.) Together, can’t wait to see their faces when they To connect with Noam Wolf about her day was about decorating it alongside my we will be almost 1,000 Israeli Shlichim meet the six Israelis joining us and become educational offerings, or to discuss your classmates. Each kid had their own favor- at that conference, and after it is over my friends with them; I can’t wait to show interest in visiting Israel or making Ali- ite television show, and we printed stuff parents will meet me in NYC! Avi will them the sunrise from the top of Masada; yah, please email her at shlicha@jewishnh. and cut photos out of magazines, then join us, and we are excited to see the Ma- I can’t wait to watch them eat Israeli food! org or contact her through her Facebook collaged them on the box. It made every- cy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade, go to a I am sure they will enjoy that so much. I page Noam Wolf NH Shlicha. Did You Know? Your Required Minimum Distribution From Your IRA Can Support JFNH!! If you are taking required minimum RMDs or distributions made at other made on or after the IRA owner has may not be able to deduct the full distributions (RMDs) from your IRA, times during the calendar year) and (2) reached age 70½. amount of the charitable donation in please consider using your RMD to sup- fulfill the donor’s charitable intentions. • The charitable distribution must be the year that the donation is made. port JFNH. In addition to your support- Here are the simple requirements to made to an organization that would However, by making a charitable IRA ing our New Hampshire Jewish commu- make a charitable distribution (some- qualify as a 501(c)(3) charitable orga- distribution directly from the IRA to nity with your RMD, you may find that times called a charitable rollover) directly nization under the Internal Revenue the charity, the problem is completely using your RMD in this way may benefit from your IRA and exclude it from your Code, other than a private foundation avoided because the entire donation is you as well. gross income: or donor advised fund. completely excluded from the donor’s The Internal Revenue Code permits • The charitable distribution must come Instead of making a direct contribu- gross income. charitable distributions of up to $100,000 from a traditional IRA or a Roth IRA. tion to charity, charitable IRA distribu- Individual circumstances may vary, made from traditional IRA or Roth IRA • The charitable distribution must be tions have important tax benefits, the and so if you wish to take advantage of accounts to be excluded from gross in- made directly from the IRA trustee to most important of which is that the this tax benefit, we encourage you to ob- come. 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Kislev-Shevat 5779 • December 2018-January 2019 The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter PAGE 5 What Do You Know About Israeli Wines? By Evelyn Miller Psagot Winery in the Northern Jerusalem Mountains and Yiftach Peretz from Yatir Manchester — My knowledge about Winery in Tel Arad. Wines from Carmel wines could barely fill a thimble, and to Winery in Zichron Yaakov were also prove this, my wine at the Passover table available for tasting. The vintners talked is always the largest bottle of Manisch- about their vineyards’ historical origins, ewitz sold. When I saw the notice that agricultural techniques, and wine process- The Jewish Federation of NH was spon- ing, aging, and varieties. Israel's climate, soring a wine tasting event featuring two soils, and drip irrigation method are per- wineries from Israel, I thought that fect for vineyards and wine production. sounded like fun and that I might learn These vineyards produce award-win- something to boot. ning wines. I can vouch for how tasty a The evening was really lovely. It was number of them were. But when I asked held in the Millyard Museum in Man- where I could purchase this wine, we all chester. Many attended in dress attire, learned that Israeli wine IS NOT SOLD although Noam, our Shlicha, stole the IN NEW HAMPSHIRE. It was whis- show, as she looked like she had stepped pered in my ear that I could travel to off a fashion runway. Wonderful appetiz- Boston and buy some Israeli wine, but JFNH staff welcomed the Israeli Consulate to New England staff and the Israeli wine ers that complimented wine were beauti- being an independent New Hampshirite, delegation. Pictured (L-R): Austin Sedaghatpour, Juan Gilves Coronel, Noam Wolf, fully displayed and served for all to enjoy. that didn't settle well with me. As I Marty Hymowitz, Yiftach Peretz, Joshua Greenstein, Melanie Zalman McDonald, And finally, there was a table completely pressed further, I was told that New and Allyson Guertin. overflowing with empty wine glasses that Hampshire citizens needed to be proac- royalwine.com and request Israeli wines fully we will see results soon. I for one we were encouraged to use to sample the tive and request that Israeli wines be sold to be sold here in New Hampshire.. He will say: Evelyn Miller requests that Is- wines that had been brought from Israel. in our state. Marty Hymowitz is the East said it was important to list the stores raeli wines be sold in the NH State Li- After much socializing, eating, and coast regional manager representing the and the locations that interest you. He quor Store in Goffstown and in the Mar- sampling of wine, the guests were treated Israeli vineyards. If you have a few min- will take our requests and deliver them to ket Basket in Bedford. I hope your re- to a presentation from Yaakov Berg of utes, please email Marty at mhymowitz@ our state liquor commissioner, and hope- quest will join mine!

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PAGE 6 The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter Kislev-Shevat 5779 • December 2018-January 2019 Preschool Celebrates Grandparents

Manchester — This year on November 20, JFNH Preschool held a Grandpar- ents Day celebration. Grandparents and parents had the opportunity to visit their child’s classroom and enjoy muffins, yo- gurt parfaits, and lemonade spritzers, all made by the children. Each family went home with a wonderful gift made by their child. What a great morning! This year we have been co-hosting monthly PJ Library Tot and Playgroups. The next one is scheduled for Friday, December 7, at 10 AM at Pre- school. To join in the fun, RSVP to Ally- Last year’s NH Jewish Film Festival Gala was a big hit at the Currier Museum. son Guertin at [email protected]. Thank you to Rabbi Jeremy and Rabbi Grandparents Day celebration at JFNH Preschool You Can Become a Sponsor Jon for sharing a Friday morning with us. Looking forward to Rabbi Robin’s visit. Jewish Federation Preschool or would like Our spaces are filling up quickly, if you to set up a tour, contact Alane Sabel at or Friend of the NH Jewish are interested in learning more about the [email protected] or call 782-5174. Film Festival The festival will be showing on screens in six cities with compelling films for 11 days, made possible through the gener- The New Hampshire Jewish Film Fes- osity and patronage of the Friends of Become a Film tival is proud to present our 11th Annual the Festival, individual and corporate Festival Sponsor Festival from Thursday, April 4, to Sun- Sponsors, and our statewide audiences’ day, April 14, 2019. Please save the dates attendance. The Festival is open to the The 11th Annual on your calendar so you won’t miss an- general public. New Hampshire Jewish other outstanding film festival season! Become a Friend or Sponsor Our Saturday night gala event will be As a Friend or Sponsor, your valued Film Festival premieres held at the Currier Museum on April 6. support directly impacts our ability to April 4-14, 2019 Please stay tuned for the announcement present the Festival and to provide cut- of our film schedule. ting-edge Jewish-themed films, along The Festival films provide a unique in- with noteworthy guest speakers and en- Presented by the sight into Jewish themes and values. We gaging, film–enhancing programs. Jewish Federation of NH are planning an exciting line-up, from You or your organization can have an op- nhjewish lmfestival.org fascinating documentaries and mysteries portunity to sponsor a specific film of your to serious drama. The movies are cultur- choosing as a Film Star and to see your al, educational, funny, thought-provok- name in lights. Please join us today with A celebrated NH tradition, the Festival draws 1,200 plus attendees statewide. ing, and inspirational. your contribution to the New Hampshire Jewish Film Festival as a Friend or Sponsor. JFNH oers its Film Festival Sponsors a wide array of benets: Contact us today! The Festival is an annual tradition for our We offer a comprehensive community that supports and enriches Jew- • The opportunity to connect with the statewide Film Festival Sponsorship program ish cultural life across the state. Jewish community and general public. to fit your strategic objectives. Thank you for supporting JFNH’s • Sponsors receive broad exposure in a multitude of largest cultural event of the year. The print and broadcast media channels. For more info, please contact: NFestivala S%is an annual traditionS for our Patricia Kalik community,Shows enriching in Manchester Jewish cultural, life • Introduce your business to the NH statewide Jewish at (603) 627-7679 or across the state. community during the largest Jewish cultural event Merrimack, Concord, of the year. [email protected] PoForrtsmouth more information, and pleaseKeene contact the Jewish Federation office and see • Reach an established and significant demographicof over our Aadvertisementspril 4 -14, on 2019 this page 3,200 homes and a statewide lm going audience. and page 3 of this issue for spon- sorship details. Thank youPresented for supporting by the JFNH’sJewish largest Feder ationcultural of NH event SUPPORT OUR ADVERTISERS of nhjewishlmfthe year. estival.org Tell Them You Saw Their Ad in The Reporter!

Kislev-Shevat 5779 • December 2018-January 2019 The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter PAGE 7 It’s Getting Worse and Getting Better The murders at Tree of Life Congrega- Rabbi in the House the night of escape; the fear that we have nukah or the Shoah or anything, we need tion in Pittsburgh were only a degree of only run away, but the anti-Semitic threat to capitalize on all our willing partners. separation for me. My friend is married will come and find us. We need to be watchdogs in the interest to one of the rabbis there. Community Rabbi Jon Spira-Savett Usually in these expoundings, the groups and political groups we are part members in and near Nashua grew up at Temple Beth Abraham point is that one view is superior to the of -- whether it’s the rhetoric of “global- that synagogue and nearby, became Jew- other: “You might have thought this, but ists” who hate America, or the canard of ish there, got married there. Like every really it’s that.” This month, I hear Rabbi the Israeli military teaching American attack that kills or harms a Jew in Israel, Elazar saying, Ben Zoma helps me real- police to beat African-Americans. in North America, anywhere in the ize that it’s both. And then there is the Sages’ perspec- world, this is family. days of your life’ means the nights. For the past few decades, Jews have ar- tive -- that when we think about all of During the week after the shooting, I But the Sages say: ‘the days of gued about whether it is getting better for this, we have to think of both the battles tried to get some perspective and some your life’ means this world; ‘all the us or worse for us. Look how much we of this world and the dreams of the footing in Torah. What jumped into my days of your life’ means to bring are accepted, how many barriers to Jews World to Come. consciousness part way through that the days of the Messiah.” no longer exist, how strong Israel has be- In the outpouring of support we re- week was a teaching from the . The Exodus is the original story of an- come. Or -- look at the rise of white na- ceived after Pittsburgh -- from churches You might recognize it because it is quot- ti-Semitism. The sudden turn against the tionalism in America and its tropes, how and mosques and Hindu temples, in let- ed in the Pesach Haggadah: Jews, with the flimsy rationale. The vio- terrible it has become in Europe, how ters from elected officials and protection Rabbi Elazar Ben Azariah said: lence against us. Then the redemption -- many gains the BDS movement has from police forces, in the personal calls “Indeed I am like a 70-year old, the awareness that the divine force for made. For a long time, there have been every rabbi received from Senator Maggie and I did not get that the Exodus protection and liberation can overpower two camps, the camp of seeing light and Hassan -- we have to see our own achieve- from Egypt is said at night until even the strongest human power of op- the camp of seeing darkness. ment in building a better America. Ben Zoma interpreted this verse pression and violence. Well, says Rabbi Elazar Ben Azariah, And we have to see a challenge to pay for me: ‘In order that you will re- Rabbi Elazar Ben Azariah says, I used We have to see both sets of things. We it forward, to stand by other groups who member the day of the Exodus to think that the Exodus is a story of the have to look at the places where anti- are misunderstood, hated, targeted. We from Egypt all the days of your day of redemption, a story of light. But Semitism is rising, on the white national- cannot let the bullying talk go, from the life’ (Deut. 16:3). ‘The days of Ben Zoma explained that it is both. It is ist right and on the BDS-sympathetic president and other leaders or would-be your life’ means the days; ‘all the also the story of the night –- the fear of left. And we ought to be able to see that leaders. We have to show up at the places Jews have never, ever had as many allies where other people are afraid as they as we do now. In every facet of society, came to #showedupforShabbat. We have among all kinds of different groups. to make the phone calls like the ones we It’s getting worse and it’s getting better. received. I have always been in the “daylight” We should not only react and sit back. perspective, and I am sorry to say that I The God of the Torah created all people Happy was too often impatient with people in the divine image. The God of the To- pointing to the darkness. Since Charlot- rah reached down, out to the lowest tesville a year ago and since Pittsburgh points and to the lowest people, to show now, I feel like it is my responsibility to that love and justice are unstoppable. Chanukah take the darkness seriously. And I believe That is the Torah we have to teach our that for those of you who have been own children better. That is the Torah we warning about the darkness, it is impera- have to live better, within our own com- tive to look for the signs of hope and alli- munities and toward other people in our ance that are everywhere around us. society. We need to build on our alliances. Our We mourn the terrible losses in Pitts- interfaith dialogues should be more burgh, and keep so many families and probing. Our work especially in New communities in our hearts. There is dark- Hampshire, teaching people who don’t ness, but there is light, and there is a know much about Jews needs to grow. If World to Come that we can still see. there are teachers in your community There Is still a Tree of Life in Pittsburgh, who want someone to speak about Cha- and everywhere we are as well. Kehilat Har Lavan Holds Online Wednesday Service North Conway — At Kehilat Har La- for weekday prayers. The tefillah in- from your friends at van (KHL), we don’t let snow drifts, cludes Misheberach for the ill, Kaddish, frigid temperatures, or even a bad cold and traditional blessings and prayers. keep us from joining in community Zoom is free and easy to download. Our prayers. Our community comes together services are open to all. For more infor- virtually on the internet via Zoom.com mation, write: harlavancommunity@ from 9:00 to 9:30 AM each Wednesday gmail.com.

PAGE 8 The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter Kislev-Shevat 5779 • December 2018-January 2019 Chanukah Chanukah Reminds Us That Even at the Darkest Times, There Is Hope By Rabbi Boaz Heilman, Temple B’Nai But it never was about latkes and ap- dence to our history as a persecuted mi- Jewish celebrations are rarely without a Israel, Laconia plesauce, or sour cream, or whatever side nority). Today, whether the hatred comes few tears shed. It will be the same this year. Laconia — At first blush, it would seem dish you like with your favorite fried veg- from anti-Zionists or neo-Nazis, from And yet, celebrate we will. With lights, that Chanukah is yet another of those an- etable. All that came later. Much later. the political left or the alt-right, we can songs, games, and -- yes -- special foods. cient Biblical holidays that have to do Originally, in the days that preceded find hope in the support and friendship At Temple B’nai Israel in Laconia, our with, “They tried to kill us, they didn’t both the Greeks and the Jews, it was a of our many friends, Jewish and gentile. Chanukah celebration will take place on succeed, let’s eat.” How wrong that is! festival of lights, with rituals intended to We saw that support in Pittsburgh, site the weekend of December 7-9. On Friday First, Chanukah (however you spell it) is bring back the light and warmth of the of the horrific synagogue shooting, with evening, we will have a community dinner not a Biblical holiday. It was instituted by sun. However, even that changed through members of the Muslim community rais- for members, children, and grandchil- the Talmudic Rabbis sometime in the 4th the ages. It’s still about lights, but also ing a generous sum of money to help out dren, followed by a special family service. or 5th century. Though the events it com- about so much more. the families of the victims. We saw that Saturday evening, TBI will host our an- memorates took place many centuries ear- It’s about Jewish survival despite all support in the letters, emails, calls, hugs, nual Chanukah party, with more candles, lier, when the Bible was still in the process odds. and flowers that were delivered to our food, games, prizes, and Israeli dancing. of being compiled, the story doesn’t appear Today, when we see anti-Semitism on houses of worship. Every synagogue With each year and each celebration, anywhere within the authorized Scriptures. the rise again, we are reminded that we throughout the country, every communi- we say “Shehecheyanu,” the prayer And yes, they (the Greeks, that is) tried are still surrounded by the darkness of ty that held memorial vigils and special thanking God for enabling us to exist, to destroy Judaism by forbidding not prejudice and hatred. Yet, hope shines services, experienced incredible turnout. live, and reach joyous times yet again. only Jewish worship and rituals, but also through. We survived every attempt on Over and over again, we were reminded The Jewish people has learned not to by forbidding the teaching and learning our existence (though the unimaginable that the oldest hatred cannot win out in take its existence for granted. Gratitude of Torah and Hebrew. numbers of our martyrs give sad evi- the end, that “love is stronger than hate.” is the least we could offer in return.

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PAGE 10 The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter Kislev-Shevat 5779 • December 2018-January 2019 Chanukah Chanukah at the Palace Returns for a 12th Year of First-Class Family Entertainment Manchester — Chanukah at the Palace fessional sporting venues, including Citi the imagination of millions and reminds Sponsors will be treated to a VIP des- is entering its 12th season this winter, and Field, home of the New York Mets; per- people of all ages what it is like to believe sert reception after the event. Thanks to promises to share an exciting evening forming at the annual Celebrate Israel in the impossible and, most importantly, the Jewish Federation of NH for spon- with the greater NH community. This an- Parade along Manhattan’s Fifth Avenue; have fun! soring our reception this year! nual program is organized by Chabad and post-parade performances in Cen- All children in attendance will go home For tickets ($14 for adults, $8 for chil- Lubavitch of NH. tral Park. The group incorporates its ex- with a Chanukah goodie bag, filled with dren), call the Box Office at 668-5588. See The program on Tuesday, December tensive repertoire and interactive perfor- treats to bring the Chanukah magic home. you at The Palace Theatre! 4, will feature Pella Productions, an a mance style to amaze crowds worldwide. cappella ensemble, and Jay Mattioli, a The singers’ energetic personalities and magician, as well as a menorah lighting complex arrangements will have the on stage, to celebrate the third night of crowd cheering and singing along. the festival of lights. The evening begins Jay Mattioli was hailed by the Interna- at 6:30 PM at The Palace Theatre in tional Brotherhood of Magicians as a Manchester. “Champion of Magic” at 18 years old, Pella Productions is the result of a re- becoming one of the youngest magicians cent merger between two of Jewish a cap- ever to receive this honor. Then, in 2006, pella’s most popular and experienced en- Jay was awarded 1st Prize at the Society sembles: Kol Zimra and Harmonia. Pel- of American Magicians International la’s combined experience and depth of Stage Contest of Magic. More recently, talent are unparalleled in the industry, Jay electrified the nation and stunned the with performances worldwide. Their col- judges with his appearance on NBC’s #1 lective experience includes: performances hit show, “America’s Got Talent.” at the White House for the President of A native of New York but now based the United States in 2004 and 2008; sing- out of the Washington, DC, area, Jay’s ing the national anthem at various pro- unique style of illusions has captivated

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Kislev-Shevat 5779 • December 2018-January 2019 The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter PAGE 11 In Solidarity With Pittsburgh The Community Responds to the Attack in Pittsburgh With Words of Warning, Unity — and Hope In the weeks following the terrible Oc- As a movement, we stand firmly with "The shooting in Pittsburgh is a pain- from all around the country telling me tober 27 attack on the Tree of Life –Or HIAS, and we believe in the Jewish val- ful reminder of continuing anti-Semi- about vigils and services that had over- L’Simcha Congregation in Pittsburgh, ues that undergird their work on behalf tism. Jews across the world continue to flow attendance, bringing together entire Pennsylvania, our inboxes were flooded of refugees today, the vast majority of be attacked for no other reason than communities. Now that’s the right kind with messages from all of the national and whom are not Jewish. As HIAS’s CEO, their identity. Anti-Semitism is a menace of response! That’s how faith and trust international Jewish organizations. At the Mark Hetfield, often puts it, “At HIAS to democratic values and peace, and are restored and rebuilt. same time, our local Jewish communities we used to help refugees because they should have no place in the 21st century. – Rabbi Boaz Heilman, Temple B’Nai expressed their horror and grief, and our were Jews. Now, we help refugees be- – UN Secretary General Antonio Israel wider communities reached out with ex- cause we are Jews.” Amen. We will not be Guterres pressions of sympathy and love. Below are deterred from our commitment to re- Reflecting on the horror and pain of some excerpts from these messages. member the stranger, to empathize with The United Synagogue of Conservative Pittsburgh, I had two reactions. The first refugees, and to pursue immigration pol- Judaism and our network of Conservative was to remember the 1979 World Series, Today’s events are yet another remind- icies of generosity and compassion to- Jewish communities across North Ameri- when the Pittsburgh Pirates won it. Their er that the age-old evil of anti-Semitism wards those who come to our borders ca are heartbroken and devastated by the team’s theme song throughout that sea- remains a uniquely dangerous and de- seeking asylum or refuge. Our spiritual horror of the shooting and murder today son was the disco hit "We Are Family." structive force in our world. Slaughtering and moral roots in the journey of Abra- at the Tree of Life Congregation in Pitts- The murders were a tear in the Jewish Jews whether they are worshipping at a ham and Sarah, our migrant ancestors, burgh. We grieve for those who died and family fabric. It was my family, my peo- synagogue in Pittsburg, shopping at a compel us to take this stand. pray for the recovery of those who were ple. I was and am connected to all Jews. I Kosher supermarket in Paris, or walking – Reconstructing Judaism wounded, extending our condolences to mourned. But also, as the Pennsylvanian on the streets of Jerusalem is just the ex- all their families and friends. We are out- governor said, it was a rip in the Pitts- treme manifestation of this ongoing The tragedy in Pittsburgh is, for so raged by the hatred this senseless act dem- burgh, the Pennsylvanian, and the Amer- scourge. We must remain united and vigi- many of us, intimately personal, and thus onstrated, and distraught by the blood- ican fabric. The second response was to lant against this heinous evil and fight it we feel it so deeply. Its familiarity to us as shed brought once again by gun violence. the caring and healing outpouring of wherever it rears its ugly head. Jews and its geo-cultural proximity makes As our Torah teaches us, we are each re- sympathy, concern, and condolences – Israeli American Council its victims closer to each of us. That is sponsible for one another, and command- from my gentile friends. They reached natural, and it is ok. But, we aspire to de- ed to honor the image of God in one an- out to me by phone, by email and in per- JCPA believes that the Pittsburgh mas- velop further, as individuals and as a com- other. Our sense of justice compels us to son to voice their support, and many sacre should galvanize an enhanced and munity. We can achieve this growth by address the core issues facing not only the folks have come to my synagogue Etz sustained effort to create unity and fight expanding the spectrum of all whose loss- Jewish people but all people in our coun- Hayim to show their love. against hate. The community relations es we mourn and whose joys we celebrate. try in pursuit of a civil society. – Steve Soreff, MD model of building and maintaining bilat- Perhaps we can build upon our current – United Synagogue of Conservative eral relations and multilateral coalitions grief and fear by seeking to close the dis- Judaism We stand with your temple and the on issues of common concern has never tance between ourselves and others. temples around the country. We are all been more important. – Orthodox Union This was an attack specifically target- connected. – Jewish Council for Public Affairs ing the Jewish community, in a deliberate – A Belmont family This time the Jewish community was and callous manifestation of anti-Semi- The anti-Semitism and xenophobia that targeted, in what may be the worst anti- tism and hatred, and it should serve as a I am a 73-year-old Christian and yes- led to this unspeakable bloodshed while Semitic attack in American history. Oth- wake-up call to all Americans that such terday I cried. Prayers were offered at Jews are engaged in peaceful worship -- or er times it has been African-Americans. horror can and has happened here. We First Parish UCC in Somersworth this anywhere in the world under any circum- Or Sikhs. Or Muslims. Or members of must be vigilant in making sure that this morning. stances -- must be condemned in no un- the LGBTQ community. Or too many never happens again. – A Dover resident certain terms by leadership and the gener- others. What we know is this: the fabric – World Jewish Congress president al public alike. Hatred and vitriol must holding our nation together is fraying. It Ronald S. Lauder We are so sorry for this terrible thing, have no quarter in any aspect of our coun- is our task to ensure that it does not and for your loss as a community. Our try, for they not only contravene the sa- come apart. We mourn as one people [Evil] did not win out. Over the past prayers are with you, as were the prayers cred promise of America; they violate the along with all people of conscience. few days, we received countless emails, of our church today. Email if or how we moral and ethical core of our society.” – Rabbi Rick Jacobs, president, Union calls, hugs, and messages of support. I can help. Peace. – Jerry Silverman, president & CEO, for have heard from colleagues and friends – An Exeter family The Jewish Federations of North Ameri- ca, and Mark Wilf, chair of the JFNA Board of Trustee Temple B’nai Israel It is our hope that the love and support The Unity Service at Temple B’nai Israel in Laconia on the Shabbat after the of millions of Americans, from all faiths murders in Pittsburgh filled the sanctuary and social hall with temple members and and backgrounds, will help the commu- friends from the larger community. Rabbi Boaz Heilman, Cantor Melody Funk, nity there to heal, secure in the knowl- and Board president Marsha Ostroff crafted a meaningful service designed to heal edge that such dreadful actions are anti- and inspire. JFNH Shlicha Noam Wolf also participated in the service. Pictured: thetical to the beliefs of good people ev- Karen Rines, Noam Wolf, and Cantor Melody Funk offering the song “One Voice” erywhere. by the Wailin’ Jennys. – Mazon (A Jewish Response to Hunger)

PAGE 12 The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter Kislev-Shevat 5779 • December 2018-January 2019 In Solidarity With Pittsburgh

Left to right: Reverend Linda Lea Snyder, Hampstead Congregational Church; Rev. Visiting clergy and law enforcement spoke movingly to a packed sanctuary at Temple Ray Bonin, Derry Episcopal Church of the Transfiguration; Pastor Nory Vedon Israel Portsmouth’s Community Prayer Vigil Service, led by Rabbi Ira Korinow, on the Leachon, St. Luke's United Methodist Church in Derry; Rev. Dr. Deborah Roof, First evening of Monday, Oct. 29. Photo by Fred Feldman. Parish Congregational Church in East Derry; Rabbi Peter Levy; Amy Dattner; and Rev. Zac Harmon, St. Christopher's Episcopal Church in Hampstead. Temple Israel Portsmouth Etz Hayim Synagogue: An Interfaith Filled to Overflowing to Share Service for Unity and Solidarity Prayers of Unity Derry — On October 31, Etz Hayim Mourner's Kaddish. In addition to Etz Synagogue, 1-1/2 Hood Road in Derry, Hayim Synagogue's Rabbi Peter Levy Portsmouth — Several hundred peo- cluded prayers, readings, and songs. hosted an Interfaith Service for Unity and Amy Dattner Levy, clergy from five ple, both congregants and members of Clergy from the interfaith Portsmouth and Solidarity to provide an opportunity churches and approximately 40 visitors the greater Seacoast community, assem- Ministerium and many members of lo- for clergy and congregants to stand in participated in the event. The clergy were bled in the Temple Israel sanctuary on cal law enforcement also participated. support of those affected by October 27's Reverend Linda Lea Snyder of the the evening of October 29 to support The sanctuary was decorated with bou- deadly anti-Semitic attack on the Tree of Hampstead Congregational Church; the Pittsburgh Jewish community. Rabbi quets of flowers left on the Temple steps Life Synagogue in Pittsburgh, Pennsylva- Reverend Ray Bonin of the Derry Epis- Ira Korinow led the service, which in- by local well-wishers. nia, as well as in support of a more toler- copal Church of the Transfiguration; ant and peaceful world. Pastor Nory Vedon Leachon of St. As is usual at Etz Hayim Synagogue, Luke's United Methodist Church in Der- the service was filled with heart-felt ry; Rev. Dr. Deborah Roof, First Parish prayer and music. The offerings included Congregational Church in East Derry; a “Prayer for the Tree of Life Synagogue and Rev. Zac Harmon, St. Christopher's in Pittsburgh”; “Salaam, Shalom,” a Episcopal Church in Hampstead. song anticipating that “peace will come, Two videos of the service are posted on to us and all the world”; the hymn "Let Etz Hayim's Facebook page at https:// There Be Peace On Earth"; and the www.facebook.com/EtzHayimDerry. ISRAEL BOOK SHOP INC. —BEGINS DECEMBER /%— CHANUKAH ITEMS NOW ON DISPLAY .FOPSBITt$BOEMFTt%SFJEFMT $IPDPMBUF$PJOTt%7%Tt$%T #PPLTt5PZTt(BNFT 410 HARVARD ST., BROOKLINE, MA t www.israelbookshop.com [email protected] H: - -; Concord Vigil H:H: S-S-W -;-; The candlelight vigil in Concord in response to Pittsburgh, on Sunday, October 28, T  - ; 9-8;- ;  F - am-- was led by Temple Beth Jacob’s Rabbi Robin Nafshi and Cantor Shira Nafshi.

Kislev-Shevat 5779 • December 2018-January 2019 The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter PAGE 13 In Solidarity With Pittsburgh My Boyhood Shul and the Sadness We Share By Joseph D. Steinfield chased an old building on Putnam Street, had gathered to observe the Fourth Com- for emotions, and my feelings of sorrow where my father had gone to grade mandment, to honor and observe the over what happened in Pittsburgh took [Originally published in the Monad- school, and turned it into “Temple Mey- Sabbath. up most of my space. nock Ledger-Transcript on Nov. 13, er David.” Meyer was Meyer Satzow, and My first thought when I heard the news Eighty years ago, starting on Novem- 2018. Reprinted by permission of the au- David was David Blumberg, Mr. Blum- on the radio was, “Not again.” My sec- ber 9, 1938, Nazis conducted a pogrom thor.] berg’s son. They were the two Jewish ond thought was to recall what a woman throughout , burning syna- boys from Claremont who died in World in Japan told me a few years ago when I gogues, killing Jews, wreaking havoc. I loved the 2018 Red Sox. With my War II, fighting for our country. They asked whether she would like to live in Broken glass from Jewish homes and team leading the World Series against the knew that Europe, where they lost their the United States. “No,” she said, “It isn’t shuls littered the streets, which is why it is Dodgers, two games to one, I was look- lives, was not a safe place. They could not safe there.” called Kristallnacht, the Night of Broken ing forward to the fourth and fifth games have known that a few years later a syna- To call these killings “senseless” doesn’t Glass. If not the beginning of the darkest on Saturday and Sunday, October 27 and gogue in their home town would be quite capture the enormity of the act. time in , it was surely a 28. Then, that Saturday morning, a man named after them. According to Scripture, whoever destroys turning point, seen by some as the begin- killed eleven men and women in a syna- The Jewish community not only ac- a single life is considered to have de- ning of . gogue in Pittsburgh. Suddenly, baseball quired a building, but we got our first stroyed the whole world. Last Thursday, I attended the annual didn’t seem important. rabbi, a Holocaust survivor from Hun- How ironic it is that that these murders commemoration of Kristallnacht, held at I thought back to my childhood days in gary. Michael Szenes was tall, handsome, happened in a shul during a bris, the tra- the Colonial Theatre in Keene. This gath- Claremont. Until I was nine, we had no soft-spoken, learned, and kind. I can’t ditional Jewish ceremony of circumcision ering of over a thousand people from all rabbi, but we did have a shul, the say that I loved going to shul as a boy. I and naming, which is held on the eighth over Cheshire County, and beyond, oc- word that many Jews use instead of “syna- would have preferred playing baseball. day of a baby boy’s life. It is a joyous oc- curred just days after two mass killings in gogue” or “temple.” The word, which But being in the presence of Rabbi Szenes casion, with parents, grandparents, fami- our country. The theatre was full, as peo- means “school,” has a homelike sound to was and remains one of the privileges of ly members, and close friends celebrating ple of all races, ethnicities, and religions it. In postwar Claremont, it really was my life. And being at Temple Meyer Da- the gift of life. gathered to remember, to mourn, and to hamish (homelike) because the shul was a vid was safe, or so I thought. How troubling it is to realize, once join hands. room in Mr. Blumberg’s house on Central October 27, 2018, was just another again, that even a house of worship is not I felt safe there. Avenue. He was a kosher butcher Sabbath at Pittsburgh’s Tree of Life - Or safe. And yet, Scripture also tells us that (shochet), and he was also a learned man L’Simcha synagogue. Then it became a to save a life, as did first responders in Joseph D. Steinfield lives in Keene and (hakham) who conducted the services. Sabbath unlike any other. A gunman Pittsburgh, is like saving the entire world. Jaffrey. He is a lawyer at Prince Lobel in (Disclosure: My grandparents spoke Yid- shouting anti-Semitic threats entered I was glad the Red Sox won those two Boston and of Counsel to the Law Office dish; I do not. These are a few of the that house of worship and violated the games, but I didn’t watch very much, and of Thomas R. Hanna in Keene. He can be words that I managed to inherit.) Sixth Commandment when he opened I was not as joyful as I would have reached at [email protected]. In 1948, the Jews of Claremont pur- fire on innocent men and women who wished. A person has only so much room Copyright 2018. Wiesenthal Center Study Finds Large Disconnect Between Jewish and Non-Jewish Perceptions of Anti-Semitism in America Los Angeles — The Simon Wiesenthal gogue in Pittsburgh is the finding most other Americans are shocked and the past year. Center (SWC) has released results from a that more than 70% of the Jewish re- devastated, but the failure of society at “While we expected that Jews would September survey of nearly 2,000 regis- spondents believe anti-Semitism is on the large to see what most Jews have seen has have heightened sensitivity, the con- tered voters, with an over-sample of rise, while only 30%of the entire polling led us to this very dark and frightening trast between Jews and non-Jews is nearly 500 Jewish voters, regarding their group agrees with this assessment. place. The world has done nothing about both shocking and disturbing,” said perceptions of the current political cli- “The wounds from this unthinkable anti-Semitism in Europe, which has got- Rabbi Abraham Cooper, SWC’s associ- mate and its impact on American society. act of evil and hate are still raw,” said ten worse in recent years, while the UN ate dean and director of global social Particularly noteworthy in the wake of Rabbi Marvin Hier, founder and dean of gives terrorist groups like Hamas and Is- action. “The awful tragedy in Pitts- the October 27 mass shooting at a syna- the SWC. “The Jewish community and lamic Jihad a free pass, allowing them to burgh is instructive. He left a long trail indoctrinate children in UN-funded of overtly anti-Semitic language on so- schools with messages that preach hate cial media that would raise red flags Help Wanted! and glorify the killing of Jews. The Squir- with even the most obtuse of observers. rel Hill tragedy must be a wake-up call At the same time, he had other posts Do you live in Keene, Laconia, Bethlehem, that if we don’t confront anti-Semitism that would be far less easy to detect Hanover, or another NH community head-on, we’ll soon see in America what without a deeper understanding of the Europe has seen for years.” various dog whistles. Even with his and want to help produce the Jewish Reporter? The disconnect between Jews and non- most vile anti-Semitism online for ev- Jews is especially stark when it comes to erybody to see, he was still able to carry defining anti-Semitism or identifying it out his evil. Over time, we’ll learn why, We are looking for people all over the state when it happens. According to the study, but we must also realize that not every- who are interested in writing about their 19% of the Jewish respondents reported body seeking to harm Jews will be so local Jewish community. having either experienced or witnessed overt. Society must learn to detect the anti-Semitism over the past year, while less obvious forms of anti-Semitism To get involved, contact [email protected] 70% overall reported that they have not that many Jew-haters have become seen or experienced anti-Semitism over good at employing.”

PAGE 14 The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter Kislev-Shevat 5779 • December 2018-January 2019 $3.2 Million Student Hub Opened by Dartmouth Chabad By Ashira Weiss [Reprinted from Chabad Lubavitch World HQ website]

Hanover — The details fell into place like the pieces of a puzzle perfectly com- pleted. That, say those in the know, is how the October 14 grand opening of the Hillary Chana Chabad House of the Rohr Chabad Center at Dartmouth Col- lege came to be. “It can only be described as miracu- lous,” Chabad director Chani Gray says of the moment three years ago that cata- Chabad director Chani Gray addresses the crowd at the October 14 dedication of the pulted their Chabad from a small family new Rohr Chabad Center at Darmouth College. home on School Street to a spacious two- The Grays with the Ezrapour family. patio and fire pit, provide further invitation the demand.” And expand they will. The acre plot just a couple of blocks from the for students to feel at home. Grays now have plans to introduce new center of campus. campuses, pledged to cover the rest as The rabbi is thrilled with the “beautiful Jewish learning programs and are raising Gray and husband, Rabbi Moshe, have long as Gray would find a donor to match new space” but insists that the focus is funds to add an associate rabbi to their been directing Chabad at Dartmouth his last $150,000. Moshe put in a quick still on individual connections. “If we team, furthering their reach, both on since its very tentative beginnings in the call to a parent of one of the students who don’t relate to each person as an individ- campus and in the wider community. fall of 2003. They moved out to America’s was also in his final year, inviting him to ual, then we’re wasting our time.” To learn more about and support the smallest Ivy League college from New match the funds. He agreed, and with the The new facility, says Chani, “will al- Rohr Chabad Center at Dartmouth, visit York with their infant son and a dream. funding secured, by early May the prop- low us to expand our activities to match www.DartmouthChabad.com. Dartmouth is a small college with erty was theirs. roughly 6,000 students. Chances of suc- In mid-October, Rohr and his son Alex, cessfully bringing a religious organiza- Sue Ann and her daughter Hillary, joined tion to this Liberal Arts college were dean of admissions and vice provost Lee Raffle Supports Hadassah’s deemed slim at best. “You won’t last long Coffin, donors, friends and alumni for a here,” was an opinion they kept hearing Shabbat dinner at the new 9,000-square- Round Building from students they met in those early foot student hub. Elisabeth B. Jenkins, a Manchester — The Manchester Chap- ter) now to take action on policy pri- days. The naysayers were no match for junior at Dartmouth who grew up at- ter of Hadassah is having a ticket drawing, orities that matter to you, including their determination though, and the tending a Reform temple, was one of the with the donations going toward the Full this bill that would expand Holo- Grays pressed on, meeting students and hundred or so people there. “At first I Circle Campaign and the renovation and caust Education and anti-hate curri- faculty - on campus, at frat houses, in ca- thought I wouldn’t fit in at Chabad,” she expansion of Hadassah’s Round Building cula. When one life is taken all our fes, or wherever they could find them. said, “but soon I was part of the family in Jerusalem. The first prize winner will re- lives are affected in common grief Their efforts paid off. By 2015, they and if I missed Friday night dinner I felt ceive a $175 gift certificate to Taipei & To- and conviction to make the world a were hosting up to fifty students for Shab- unhinged for the rest of the week.” kyo Restaurant in Bedford. The second better place. May we go from bat dinners on Friday nights. The events The Shabbat guests returned on Octo- prize winner will receive a $50 gift certifi- strength to strength. were standing room only, and when stu- ber 14 to dedicate the center with the cate to a restaurant of their choice. Tickets In the wake of rising anti-Semitism, at dents started making makeshift chairs out community. Daveen Litwin, dean of reli- cost $5 each or five tickets for $20, and pay- home and abroad, educating students of their kids’ toy boxes, the Grays knew it gious life at Dartmouth, and Rabbi Levi ment must be received by December 18. about the Holocaust is as important as was time to grow their space. Krinsky, director of Lubavitch of New In an excerpt from a statement made in ever. The Never Again Education Located a few blocks away from their Hampshire, addressed the crowd. Rob- response to the tragedy in Pittsburgh, Act (H.R. 5460) was introduced to ex- cozy home was 19 Allen Street, a four- ert and Debbie Ezrapour, whose dona- Hadassah’s National President, Ellen pand and encourage Holocaust educa- family house on a sizeable plot of land. tion included dedicating the library, were Hershkin, stated: tion and its lessons for contemporary Moshe knew it would be the perfect place honored alongside Rohr and Arnall and According to a report by the ADL, conflict. The legislation would authorize to build a student center, but when he her daughter. anti-Semitic incidents and attacks the Department of Education to award mentioned it to his real estate agent in In order to turn the building into the vi- have risen by 60% in the United Holocaust education grants, funded by early February 2016, the agent laughed at brant student hub they envisioned, the States in the last year alone. This private donations, to educational institu- the thought; the property was not for Grays had to raise another $2 million for shocking escalation in hate both at tions offering classes, resources, teacher sale. Well, not yet. Ten days later, Moshe renovations. Now the three-flour facility in- home and abroad requires swift and training, and student trips. To ensure that received an urgent email. cludes a custom fitted 2,500 book library, a broad action by our leaders. We must we never forget, we must remember the “Call me,” wrote the agent. “It’s for 1,400 square foot dining and social hall, continue to stand strong against an- millions of lives lost during the Holo- sale.” It took the Grays just three days to and a top-of-the-line kitchen - “the heart ti-Semitism and hate wherever it is caust and educate future generations come up with the $1.3 million needed to of the home,” Chani says. They built a 12- present. As the NGO (non-govern- about the dangers of hate. Urge your leg- purchase the property. Sue Ann Ar- foot island with bar stools so students can mental organization) convener of islators to support the Never Again Edu- nall, whose daughter Hillary Chana was schmooze as they prepare meals. The base- the Never Again Education Act, Ha- cation Act today! Please go to Hadassah. then in her final year at Dartmouth, ment level boasts a lounge, where the Grays dassah members have a unique role org for more information. pledged $750,000, a sum that had become hope students will come to hang out, relax, to play in ensuring this bill becomes For more information about Hadas- available to her just then, at the moment it study or chat, and a two-bedroom apart- law. Head to our National Action sah, book club. or chapter meetings, was needed. Philanthropist George Rohr, ment where visiting alumni or student fam- Center (at Hadassah.org click on please contact Michele Bank at michele. who supports Chabad activities on many ilies can stay. The grounds, complete with a Take Action, then click Action Cen- [email protected] or 488-5657.

Kislev-Shevat 5779 • December 2018-January 2019 The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter PAGE 15 Candidates Breakfast Forum Rises Above Politics By Sol Rockenmacher Temple Adath Yeshurun president Bob Bersak then discussed the need for main- Manchester — Sunday morning, Oc- taining the best security situation at the tober 28, saw a traditional political event temple. -- our Temple Brotherhood Candidates Brotherhood member George Bruno, Breakfast Forum -- rise above the sphere former Ambassador to Belize, was once of politics. An audience of about 150 again the moderator of the program, a filled the auditorium. role he has taken for many of these po- Candidates for NH Governor Chris litical gatherings. Sununu and Molly Kelly, candidates for In the sessions for NH Governor, 1st Congressional District Chris Pappas U.S. Congress representative, and Ex- and Eddie Edwards, and 4th District Ex- ecutive Councilor, each candidate gave ecutive Council candidates Ted Gatsas opening statements, then answered and Gray Chynoweth had already ar- questions from the audience before giv- rived so that they could present their case ing concluding comments. In their for election (or re-election in the case of opening comments, they all called for a the Governor) to their desired office. united front to combat bigotry. The Because of the tragic events at Pitts- program evolved into an uplifting burgh’s Tree of Life – Or L'Simcha Con- event. We were reminded that we can- gregation the day before, the atmosphere not let the forces of evil change the way at the onset of the event was somber. we live our lives, including the way we After the Pledge of Allegiance led by choose to worship. An atmosphere of Boy and Cub Scouts (including Temple cutline? passionate enthusiasm and civility de- Adath Yeshurun’s own Ryan Rosenberg), veloped, a wonderful combination. It Rabbi Beth Davidson led us in prayer violence can walk through our doors at gious and ethnic minorities, immigrants was democracy in action, moving for- and then reminded us in her opening re- any time.” and refugees, and members of the LG- ward with the spirit of brotherhood, marks, “The frightening reality is that the Rabbi Beth told us that gatherings BTQ community. She stressed “the need community, and solidarity. Tree of Life Synagogue is one much like such as the Breakfast Forum were crucial for us to listen carefully, courteously, and One congregant said succinctly, “I our own….Yesterday’s events serve as a if we are to combat the growth of the civilly, especially when listening to those needed to be here.” She wasn’t the only stark reminder that senseless hatred and cancer of discrimination: against reli- with whom we may not agree.” one. It was a special morning indeed. Temple Beth Jacob Learns About Entebbe Hero to Speak at Jewish War Veterans Chabad Center December 20 Concord — On Sunday, November 11, Manchester -- Meet an amazing hero Temple Beth Jacob was honored to have as he shares his first-hand account of David Magidson present “Honoring Our how Israel pulled off the greatest hostage Veterans: A Conversation and Presenta- rescue in history. Rami Sherman will tell tion About America’s Jewish War Veter- his tale of the Entebbe mission at the ans.” Many in attendance brought arti- Chabad Center for Jewish Living in facts, pictures, and memorabilia related Manchester on Thursday, December 20, to family military service. This was a at 7 PM. The Center is located at 1234 wonderful learning and sharing opportu- River Rd. nity for both our TBJ Religious School In July of 1976, Rami Sherman par- students and our TBJ adults. ticipated in the famed Entebbe mission, The presenter, David Magidson, is the the counter-terrorist hostage-rescue op- past Nation Commander of the Jewish eration code named Operation Thun- War Veterans and has served as the presi- derbolt. He was the Operations dent of National Museum of American of the unit, under the command of Yoni Jewish . He has also Netanyahu z”l. They flew thousands of served as the Chairman of the Jewish miles over enemy territory to rescue War Veterans USA Foundation, which Jewish hostages being held by terrorists has honored Medal of Honor Recipients in Uganda. Rami Sherman and Gold Star Families. David Magidson discusses the history of Rami was one of 33 officers and sol- In addition to his other involvements, Jewish war veterans in the United States. diers who comprised the first assault time, Uganda was ruled by infamous dic- David served on the Commission on So- son, Ben Magidson, was a captain in the group, which freed the hostages at the old tator Idi Amin. cial Action of Reform Judaism, a joint U.S. Army serving in Afghanistan and was terminal in Entebbe. Some 100 Israeli Rami's story is the story of Israel's body of the Central Conference of the recipient of the Bronze Star Medal, stormed the airport and mi- courageous fight to live in freedom and American Rabbis and the Union for Re- awarded to members of the U.S. Armed raculously rescued 102 people who were G-d's miraculous hand in its survival. In form Judaism. Forces for either heroic achievement, hero- taken hostage when an Air France airlin- the words of Rami Sherman, “I flew to During his service in the U.S. Army, Da- ic service, meritorious achievement, or er was hijacked by Arab terrorists and the Entebbe operation as an Israeli and vid served in Military Intelligence. David's meritorious service in a combat zone. flown to an airport in Uganda. At that landed back in Israel as a Jew.”

PAGE 16 The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter Kislev-Shevat 5779 • December 2018-January 2019 NH4Israel Learns About Life in an Israeli Settlement By Ken Kowalchek Shmuel also covered the miracle that is the Jewish return to the land and making Manchester — NH4Israel’s third an- the desert bloom. NH4Israel has CDs nual main event, the springtime run-jog- from CFOIC covering this aspect of walkathon 5 kilometer race, “Walk – Run what happens when Jews return to the for Healing” (this year for pancreatic biblical heartland and will notify the cancer), will take place on the Sunday be- community of their screening at a future fore the Boston Marathon/Patriots’ Day, Wednesday NH4Israel meet-up. Readers on Monday, April 15. We invite the NH of this article might want to go to the supporters of Israel and medical research CFOIC website to find out more as well to defeat pancreatic cancer to come to as ponder their next remarkable tour race planning meetings starting in Janu- package scheduled for March 22–30, ary 2019 and to help administer the race 2019, for $2,195 (airfare extra). on April 14. The race planning meetings With the exception of holiday conflicts will generally replace regular NH4Israel and summer break, NH4Israel is hosting meetings of early 2019. talks with refreshments at Manchester's On Wednesday, October 24, NH4Israel Temple Israel (TIM) at 6:30 PM on most kicked off the 2018-2019 season with a Wednesdays each month. talk by a bona fide settler in the Jewish If other venues and weekdays are biblical heartland of and Samaria, scheduled, the change will be publicized Shmuel Junger. The venue of the lecture Shmuel Junger describes life as a settler in Judea and Samaria. (generally emailed) in advance, as well as was the new Chabad Center on River posted on the calendar of events at Road in Manchester. Rabbi Krinsky gra- (disputed because in the 1967 war, Israel going to sleep wondering if there is a ter- NH4Israel.org. NH4Israel guest speak- ciously hosted the nonpartisan speaker won over these areas from their Arab oc- rorist tunneling beneath their beds; par- ers, films, and documentaries address and audience with superb kosher pastries. cupiers, most notably Jordan). ents waking in the middle of the night to current issues in or about the state of Is- Shmuel (Samuel in Hebrew, but he also Although Shmuel came to America to herd themselves and their weary eyed rael. Given special attention are topics on answers to “Sam” in Anglophone coun- address his core constituency, after which children into the home bomb shelter ev- the Diaspora, Jew-hatred, and the story tries) Junger (pronounced “Younger”) his organization is named, Christian ery hour; commuters hoping the oncom- of Israel from its biblical beginnings to gave a dynamic description of what it is Friends of Israeli Communities (CFO- ing car or truck does not swerve towards the current time. like living through attacks and incursions IC), our Jewish community also needs them while waiting at the bus stop… Find out more about NH4Israel and both in undisputed Israeli territory, such speakers like Shmuel to remind us of the these are the daily events we in cozy New sign up for email updates on guest speak- as that neighboring the Gaza strip, as relentless terrorist butchering of Jewish England living rooms tend to forget or ers and other hosted events (events al- well as living under fear of terrorist at- babies, toddlers, their parents, and all worse, become immune to, as they repeat ways have complimentary refreshments/ tacks in so-called “disputed territories” other innocents. These include children over and over again. finger food) at NH4Israel.org. TAY Observes National Refugee Shabbat Organized by HIAS Manchester — On Friday evening, Oc- needs went on, by 1904 a bureau was estab- Following the fall of Saigon in 1975, the need, our government has halted and tober 18, Temple Adath Yeshurun was lished to provide translation services guid- U.S. State Department requested HIAS’s cut humanitarian aid for U.S. refugee the only congregation in New Hampshire ing them through medical screenings, ob- assistance with resettlement of Vietnam- admissions. to participate in the National Refugee tain bonds to guarantee employable status, ese, Cambodians, and Laotians. For the The struggle for freedom is ongoing. Shabbat, a project of HIAS, the Hebrew locate relatives detained on Ellis Island and first time, HIAS assisted with the resettle- We are reminded of our ancestors’ first Immigrant Aid Society. This Shabbat ex- many other services. ment of non-Jews. HIAS is uniquely qual- view of the Statue of Liberty and what it perience was dedicated to the plight of As HIAS’s reputation spread world- ified to lend its expertise for the modern represented when they sailed into New refugees worldwide. wide, by 1921 laws were changed to recog- refugee situation, which has mushroomed York harbor: freedom from tyranny and The parsha for this shabbat was Lech nize the need for safe havens. The United into a global humanitarian crisis. oppression. Lecha, which describes the beginning of States established legal requirements for Better than anyone, HIAS is dedicated Emma Lazarus’s poem, “Colossus,” the experience of wandering in search of resettlement, and Jewish refugees found to providing welcome, safety, and free- rings true today: freedom for the Jewish people. This par- welcome and safety. With the outbreak of dom to refugees of all faiths and ethnici- Give me your tired, your poor, your sha made it a particularly meaningful op- , the largest influx of Jews ties from all over the world. HIAS be- huddled masses yearning to breathe portunity to deepen our understanding from Eastern Europe arrived: 138,000! lieves that hatred, bigotry, and xenopho- free, the wretched refuse of your of today’s global refugee crisis, connect Over the next several decades, more re- bia must be prohibited in domestic and teeming shore. Send these, the with the Jewish movement for refugees, strictive admissions policies were estab- international law. HIAS was founded homeless, tempest-tossed to me, I commit to taking action, and either cele- lished by the U.S. government. with the belief that persecuted people lift my lamp beside the golden door! brate our community’s efforts in working After World War II, HIAS was instru- have the universal right to seek refuge, Whether or not one is a refugee, a dis- with refugees or launch new efforts. mental in evacuating displaced persons that this is a human right. placed person, a migrant or asylum seek- Today, HIAS has grown from its early camps in Europe and aiding in resettle- Why now should our focus be on the er, this is the moment when we must give roots in 1881 to assist Jews fleeing pogroms ment of over 150,000 persons. The Uni- plight of refugees? voice to our values as Jews and as Ameri- in Eastern Europe and Russia. In the be- versal Declaration of Human Rights as Currently, 65 million people have fled cans. One thing everyone can do is to ginning, HIAS provided meals, transporta- well as the 1951 Refugee Convention be- their homes due to persecution or vio- stand up to hate speech. If you hear or tion, and jobs for new arrivals. As time and came the basis for U.S. asylum law. lence. In this moment of unprecedented see something, say something!

Kislev-Shevat 5779 • December 2018-January 2019 The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter PAGE 17 Kristallnacht Commemoration in Keene Inspires, 80 Years On plained that we need to be aware of evil our organization, Courage to Care ( a whole-heartedly supports this annual sol- By Evelyne Perks and Joel Cohen around us and combat it. program of B’nai Brith), which uses sto- emn event, treating it with silent and Keene — The eleventh Kristallnacht Roland Tec, also the son of survivors, ries from the Holocaust to teach second- thoughtful respect, arriving and depart- Commemoration, held at the packed Co- and a writer and movie director of Defi- ary school students (aged 13 to 18) that ing quietly in contemplation. We applaud lonial Theater in Keene, was a communi- ance (2008), spoke at length about his every person can make a difference by the Cohen Center for its initiative and ty event challenging us to “Remember. family story. What we found particularly taking some action and by not being a painstaking diligence in providing such a Witness. Intervene.” It is 80 years since interesting was his opinion about what bystander. After a short film on the his- meaningful occasion 80 years after the that fateful day, chosen by the Nazis as motivated people to assist victims, even tory of the Jews and anti-Semitism, a events that were commemorated. coincident with the 20th anniversary of in a small way, despite personal danger. Holocaust survivor tells his or her story The Cohen Center for Holocaust and the German capitulation that led to their The typical “upstander” as opposed to and the people whose actions saved their Genocide Studies is named for Lester signing of the WWI Armistice the next “bystander” was a bit different from the life. In small groups, we show students an and Norma Cohen, who have been ex- day, while blaming Jews and others for norm, had some community involve- exhibition of the righteous among the tremely generous benefactors; their son “stabbing them in the back.” Anti-Semi- ment, such as scouts, clubs, or helping nations: individuals like Oskar Schindler Rick and his wife Jan have financed the tism continues in much of our world, professions, or had some shared interest and Chiune Sugihara, families who took new premises being added to the Mason even here in the United States. The pro- with the victim. in Jewish children such as Anne Frank, Library at Keene State College. The aim gram was well planned, starting with The program was imbued with symbol- cities like Assissi, and countries like Den- of the Center is to “ remember and “We remember,” then “We create,” and ism and meaning, which enhanced the ex- mark, plus examples of young, local he- teach” so that students and the commu- lastly, “We go forth.” perience for the audience. It was an honor roes who are presently doing good deeds nity can attain a better understanding of The welcome, by Alec Doyle (Colonial for each person taking part to represent for others. We then sit down with the prejudice, anti- Semitism, and genocide, Theater), was moving in itself, as he not- their section of the community. The blow- group to discuss what they have learned and apply this knowledge to help repair ed that he is proud to offer the venue and ing of the shofar awakened us to our ac- and how they can apply it in their lives. the world. explained how much this annual event countability and to take action for our- For many young people, this is an eye- means to him. Following this, Tom White selves and others. Six panes of glass were opening and life-changing event. In the Evelyne Perks and Joel Cohen are mem- (educational outreach coordinator of the smashed to remind us of “the night of same way, those who attend the annual bers of Congregation Ahavas Achim Cohen Center) explained that democracy broken glass” and the six million Jews Kristallnacht commemoration ceremony (Keene, NH) and the Leo Baeck Centre ( is fragile; then, Hank Knight (director of murdered by the Nazis. Six memorial can- are reminded and so increase their aware- East Kew, Victoria, Australia). Evelyne is the Cohen Center) encouraged us to re- dles were lit, not only for the six million, ness of hatred and injustice in order to the daughter of survivors who fled Berlin member for others. Key Keene personnel including one and a half million children, combat them. The Keene community after Kristallnacht. -- the mayor, fire chief, police captain, in- but also for refugees, for the righteous terfaith clergy representative, and Cohen among the nations ( those who helped vic- Center director -- promised to continue tims), for the life of Jonathan Daniels ( the to serve and protect all members of the minister from Keene murdered during the community, unlike the officials who quest for civil rights in Alabama), and for stood by on November 11, 1938. The our community. Rabbi Amy Loewenthal, Keene Middle School choir sang “In- of Congregation Ahavas Achim, sang “El scription for Hope,” from a text found in Malei Rachamim” in Hebrew, which we a cellar in Cologne that had been a hid- repeated in English, and we all recited a ing place for Jews. moving prayer to ”remember Kristall- In the section on creating art, Elise Gi- nacht and remind ourselves to care for rabaldi, whose parents survived the Ho- one another, to build peace, and to be a locaust, described how art can penetrate community in which compassion, respect, indifference to prejudice and victimiza- and justice thrive.” tion. She presented a powerful perfor- The printed program of five pages was mance of a song from her rock opera, well produced, and the explanations were Linda Rockenmacher and Roslyn Block Cate Tanzer, TAY Sisterhood’s Woman ”Oh God.” Patricia Perez (Keene State easy to follow. We will be taking some (holding flowers) of the Year College Global Fellow) from Chile ex- back to Melbourne, Australia, to show TAY Sisterhood Enjoys Moroccan Feast Manchester — The annual Sisterhood presented a program about the fascinat- NaS%S membership dinner at Temple Adath Ye- ing history of Jews in Morocco. shurun this year began with an array of The 2018 Sisterhood Woman of the Shows in Manchester, six vegetable salads, each with different Year award was presented to Cate Tan- Merrimack, Concord, seasonings. Herbed goat cheese and pita zer. Even though she could not attend Peterborough and bread accompanied these, with soup, en- the dinner, she had helped with prepa- Portsmouth trees, and dessert to follow. Members had rations the day before. Catie has been worked for three days preparing the outstanding in her service to both our April 4 -14, 2019 meal. They were supervised by Roslyn Sisterhood and Temple, having served Block, who not only selected the recipes, on both boards in multiple positions, a Presented by the but preserved lemons and shopped for leader in our temple fundraising ef- Jewish Federation of NH the herbs and spices to ensure authentic forts, and immediate past president of nhjewishlmfestival.org Moroccan flavors in all the dishes. Fol- our Temple. Mazel tov for an honor lowing the dinner, Linda Rockenmacher well deserved.

PAGE 18 The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter Kislev-Shevat 5779 • December 2018-January 2019 A Concert of Hope in Light of Dark Events Laconia — Saturday October 27, was a around us; to put an end to the anti- memorable day for so many different rea- Semitism, the racism, xenophobia, sons. “We Care” of Temple B’nai homophobia, and misogyny Israel presented the folk trio that poison our nation. May Gathering Time in a benefit con- we all come to comprehend cert for Central New Hampshire fully the power that words VNA & Hospice. The Red Sox have on us -- the power to were playing in the World Series. move us to love, help, and sup- The weather brought an early light snow to port; but also the power to provoke the Lakes Regions. But the unspeakable hatred, violence, and bloodshed. events in Pittsburgh, PA, at the Tree of Life May our thoughts and prayers to- Synagogue overshadowed the excitement night be accompanied by acts of and anticipation of what should have been loving-kindness and righteousness. an enjoyable evening. Nonetheless, the May God bless us all with safety, se- “show must go on” and so it did. The beau- curity, and peace. May God comfort tiful and meaningful music from the era of all mourners and console all the be- iconic folk songs was just what was needed reaved among us, to which we say, to mend broken souls. Amen. The evening began with an invocation, Then Gathering Time’s Stuart Markus, a Prayer for Pittsburgh, by Rabbi Boaz Hillary Foxsong, and Gerry McKeveny As the evening’s performance contin- eryone was on their feet. The evening was Heilman: “Another active shooting took over the stage with a most beautiful ued, the spirit in the room began to lift an overwhelming success, emotionally, scene. Sabbath peace broken, Sabbath rendition of “Turn, Turn, Turn.” Origi- with each memorable song, from Phil spiritually, and financially. holiness desecrated. There are no words, nally composed by Pete Seeger, the lyrics, Ochs, Peter, Paul and Mary, Joni Mitchell, The funds raised from ticket sales and no words of consolation. There are no except for the title, which is repeated and so many more of the great artists and event sponsors Meredith Village Savings prayers, even God is mute tonight.” throughout the song, and the final two composers of the 60s and 70s. A rousing Bank, Golden View Health Care, and He continued with words of comfort lines, are adapted word-for-word from rendition of “White Rabbit” was per- Miracle Farms Landscaping will enhance and ended with these thoughts: the English version of the first eight vers- formed as a vocal solo by Hillary Fox- the work of Central New Hampshire My friends, during the next few es of the third chapter of the bibli- song. “Teach Your Children Well” a Cros- VNA and Hospice. This local agency, days, we will pray not only for God’s cal Book of Ecclesiastes. What could be by, Stills, Nash, and Young hit, brought based in Laconia and Wolfeboro, pro- comfort and consolation, we will more appropriate on a night of such sad- everyone back to a time when life gave us vides health care services at home, from also pray to find within us the ness? The audience swayed, sang along, lessons through popular music. Even The birth to bereavement. We Care is proud strength to end the hatred, to silence and began to feel at peace with the mes- Grateful Dead were represented by their to have been able to provide additional the hateful rhetoric we hear all sage of the music. hit “Ripple.” By the end of the night, ev- funding to this most worthwhile agency. Learn More About the Israeli Version of NPR’s This American Life Nashua — End your Chanukah cele- and share stories of how he built the bration at Temple Beth Abraham in show, how he and his team find their sto- Nashua with an hour of radio-style sto- ries, and what they’ve learned over the rytelling with Mishy Harman, cofounder course of the show’s rise in popularity. and host of Israel’s leading podcast and Dr. Mishy Harman is the show's co- radio show, Israel Story. founder and host. Following his military Israel Story is Israel's most popular service in the , he podcast and national storytelling radio studied history at Harvard, archaeology show. Many, including Ira Glass himself, at Cambridge, and wrote his PhD -- a call it the Israeli This American Life. The biography of the first Protestant mis- show aims to tell the story of a different, sionary in Ethiopia -- at the Hebrew diverse Israel, to amplify voices rarely University. heard on the mainstream media, to ex- Listen to the podcast at https://israel- plore the drama, complexities, and social story.org/. tensions of daily life in Israel. This program is free and open to the On Monday, December 10 at 8 PM, public. Donations will be accepted at the Mishy will play clips from the podcast door or at https://www.tbanashua.org/. The staff of the Israeli radio show and podcast, Israel Story.

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Kislev-Shevat 5779 • December 2018-January 2019 The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter PAGE 19 From Bimah to Broadway Portsmouth -- Temple Israel of ing both Jewish tradition and Portsmouth invites you to a very modern life: a concert that will special musical performance on take us on a musical journey Saturday, March 9, 2019, at 7 PM from Bimah to Broadway. in the main sanctuary. The con- The program will begin cert features two talented and up- promptly at 7 PM with lifting performers, each a storied Havdalah, followed by the con- cantor and musician: our part- cert. Attendees are also invited time Cantor Shira Nafshi, and to enjoy dessert and discussion Cantor Micah Morgovsky, from Cantor Shira immediately following the per- Temple Sinai in Stamford, CT. Nafshi formance in the downstairs so- These two remarkable cantors cial hall. studied together at the Hebrew All proceeds will benefit the Union College School of Sacred Temple Israel Portsmouth Mu- Music and will perform together sical Enrichment Fund. for the first time ever at this con- Tickets are $36 for adults, $18 cert. In addition to their accom- for children. You may also From L to R: Prof. Schweitzer, Amie, Charlotte, Prof. Hernandez, and director Signe Taylor. In front row, Dina Michael Chaitowitz, president, Etz Hayim Board of plished cantorial careers and mas- choose to offer additional sup- Directors. tery over several musical instru- port for this program by elevat- ments, each of these cantors has ing your donation: Donor level: also chosen a rabbi as a life part- Cantor Micah $72 (includes 1 ticket), Patron Morgovsky It’s Criminal, and It’s Important ner, is a devoted parent, and en- level: $180 (includes 2 tickets), or Derry — Over three hours were devot- co-producer of the movie, Dartmouth Col- joys rich and diverse passions: Shira can be Sponsor level: $360 (includes 4 tickets). ed to social justice issues at Etz Hayim lege professor of English, and chair of the found around horses as a rider, trainer, in- Please reserve your tickets early by Synagogue on October 28, when movie Women’s and Gender Studies Program; structor, and farrier; Micah is a certified calling Heather at the synagogue office director Signe Taylor showed her deeply Pati Hernandez, founder of the nonprofit zentangle teacher, miniature enthusiast, 603-436-5301 x10, by email at templeof- moving, award-winning documentary organization Telling My Story and adjunct and Broadway fanatic. [email protected], or by sending film,It’s Criminal, and led a lively discus- professor of women’s and gender studies at Please plan to join us as they offer up an checks to Temple Israel, 200 State St., sion about economic disparities in our Dartmouth College; and Amie and Char- evening of inspiration and joy encompass- Portsmouth, NH 03801 society, inequities in our criminal justice lotte, two formerly incarcerated women system, the importance of empathy, and who participated in Prison, Women, and the possibility of rehabilitation. Performance and who are now both suc- ASK It’s Criminal documents a 10-week cessfully employed. Professors Schweitzer US ABOUT... Dartmouth College class (Inside Out: and Hernandez were co-creators of the Prison, Women, and Performance) that Prison, Women, and Performance class. • Our new Athletic & Wellness and brings together Dartmouth College stu- Members of the audience stayed long after Science & Innovation facilities opening dents with women incarcerated at the Sul- the tears and panel discussion ended to Fall 2019! livan County House of Corrections to chat with the panelists. write and stage a play at the prison about In conjunction with the movie, Etz • A $2 million grant in recognition of our the prisoners’ lives. As the documentary Hayim collected gifts for Children of In- gifted and talented education chronicles the journeys of students and carcerated Prisoners, a program of the prisoners through the class, and the devel- Episcopal Church of the Transfigura- • The Derryfield Pathway, a oping relationships among the partici- tion, (located next door to the syna- personalized roadmap matching pants, it illuminates the divide between the gogue) that enables prisoners to choose your child’s strengths and interests privileged and the disenfranchised and the Christmas gifts for, and then give gifts to, with a meaningful high school consequences of that divide, and demon- the children in their lives. experience strates the power in our lives of awareness, If you are interested in arranging a communication, and understanding. showing of this important film, please ADMISSION The movie was followed by a panel dis- contact Signe Taylor at itiscriminal@ OPEN HOUSE cussion with Ms. Taylor; Ivy Schweitzer, gmail.com. 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PAGE 20 The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter Kislev-Shevat 5779 • December 2018-January 2019 Etz Hayim Offers Hot Topics and Cool Contemporary Stuff Programs in December and January Derry — Etz Hayim Synagogue will host two talks in its “Hot Topics and Cool Contemporary Stuff” adult educa- tion programs in the next few months. These programs are open to the public at no charge; however, donations to the syn- agogue are welcomed. On Thursday, December 6, at 7 PM, the focus is on “Roots and Routes of : ‘What He Brews’ and the Families enjoy a craft activity as part of the Yedidim program. Power of Humor,” presented by Stephen Soreff, M.D., a/k/a “Doc Steve.” This program focuses on humor in three ways. Yedidim — Bringing Jewish As the title indicates, it explores the ori- gins of Jewish humor. There are more Dr. Stephen Soreff Families Together books written on this topic than any oth- ous practices will talk about their experi- By Jessie Mocle For now, I have settled on this: let us join ers religion’s and ethnicity’s humor. Why? ences in the medical field and will answer together not in sadness, but in hope. Let The presentation answers that by looking questions. Panelists will include Dr. Sar- Nashua — On the morning of October us build a vibrant community of young at the history and literature of Judaism. ah Finne Sandler, dental director at New 27, the Pittsburgh Jewish Community families in Southern New Hampshire. Next, the talk looks at the anatomy of a Hampshire’s Department of Health and and worldwide Jewry came together in Yedidim is a way to show those that joke: What makes a joke funny? It con- Human Services; Dr. Stacie E. Perlman, grief and sadness at news of the tragic would seek our destruction that we are cludes with the role of humor in health. a surgeon at Concord Hospital specializ- shooting at the Tree of Life Synagogue. indestructible. We do it one Shabbat at a It shows how humor is the best medicine ing in minimally invasive and robotic sur- That evening, Nashua saw four young time, one Sunday school class at a time, by enhancing your immune system, de- gery; Dr. Susan E. White, director of di- families come together to repudiate the each time we come together to laugh creasing heart attacks, and relieving dactic curriculum and assistant professor terror and destruction wrought by one while our children play. Help us bring stress, to name some of its benefits. of obstetrics and gynecology at Boston deranged individual. As night fell, chil- Jewish families together in joy and peace. Members of the audience will not only University School of Medicine; and Dr. dren’s voices, innocent of the news that I can’t wait to see you -- we have a big job hear a lively narrative, which includes Sarit Itenberg, a dermatologist in private broke their parents’ hearts, rang out ahead of us, but I have faith that we will some interesting history and jokes, but practice. If your daughter is interested in around the light of the Havdalah candle succeed. will be encouraged to share their own pursuing a medical career, this is THE as we said goodbye to a day that will live Visit our website at https://www.tban- funny stories. Join us and feel good! program to attend in history as the deadliest attack on the ashua.org/yedidim.html for more infor- On Tuesday, January 15, at 7:30 PM, All programs are held at Etz Hayim Jewish community in the United States. mation on how you can participate. Up- Etz Hayim features “Why Women Should Synagogue, 1½ Hood Road, Derry. For There are many responses to terror, coming events include Build-a-Shabbat, be Doctors and Your Doctors Should be more information, please contact Ste- and I, like many others in America right Popup Potluck Havdalah, Yedidim Fam- Women.” Several highly-accomplished phen Soreff, MD, at [email protected] now, have cycled through a myriad of ily Sunday School, and Yedidim Mom’s and successful female doctors from vari- or 603-895-6120. emotions and reactions to Pittsburgh. Night Out.

It’s Time Again! Manchester — The annual call is out Volunteers are needed for these activities: chester Veterans Administration Hos- Horizons. for volunteers for the TAY Brother- 1. Delivering of Meals on Wheels on pital on Christmas night. Each year, over 100 volunteers partici- hood-sponsored Christmas Mitzvah Christmas Day. 4. Delivering lunch and refreshments to pate, often as families. They enjoy cama- program. In existence for over 35 years, 2. Taking charge of the information the police and fire stations in Man- raderie, but especially enjoy a sense of ful- this program was formed to help our desks at both Manchester hospitals, chester and Bedford on Christmas fillment as neighbors helping neighbors. Christian neighbors at Christmas time, Elliot Hospital, and Catholic Medical Day. If you are interested, or have any taking over certain functions and allow- Center on Christmas Eve and Christ- 5. Preparing, serving, and cleaning up questions, please call Sol Rockenmacher ing them to enjoy their holiday with mas Day. Christmas Eve and Christmas Day at 232-3477 or e-mail rockenmacher@ family and friends. 3. Running the Bingo event at the Man- meals at the local soup kitchen, New comcast.net.

Kislev-Shevat 5779 • December 2018-January 2019 The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter PAGE 21 Book Review Reviewed by Merle Carrus Etz Hayim Recognizes Three How's Your Mom? What You Really Engaged in Tikkun Olam Want to Say When Your Mom Has MS Written by Michelle Lebs and Tamra Devine Derry — On November 17, Etz Hayim Synagogue (EHS) Board of Directors Michelle Lebs has chroni- all, they were there for each president Dina Michael Chaitowitz pre- cled the story of her experi- other. Michelle was furious sented Cheryl Haas (Etz Board of Direc- ence being the daughter of that during her teenage and tors vice president) and her two daugh- Tamra Devine, a mother young adult years, when she ters (Anna and Laura) with three awards: who suffered with multiple wanted a mother who would the Federation’s Shem Tov award and sclerosis. How's Your Mom? bake with her and go shop- two federal Corporation for National & What You Really Want To ping with her, and that was Community Service President Volunteer Say When Your Mom Has taken away, but she was there Service Award certificates, one for Anna MS (Mindstir Media, 2018) for her mother. She took care and one for Laura. is both touching and inspir- of her mother and loved her As anyone with children or grandchil- ing. Michelle is incredibly mother. Her father had taken dren knows, young folks these days are brave as she helps her moth- a vow to love and take care very busy with academics and sports, and er wrestle with the disease of her, til death do you part, that is true for Anna and Laura Haas, that will slowly incapacitate her. Togeth- and he took that very seriously. Her broth- who are both successful students and er, they try to understand and make sense er was there also, helping to hold them all athletes. Nonetheless, they manage to of the turns theirs lives take when Tamra together as a family. carve out time to “give back to the com- is diagnosed with this debilitating illness. I personally knew this family for many munity,” and each of them devoted many Through alternating chapters that in- years, having been friends with Tammy hours last year volunteering at the syna- clude the thoughts and feelings of her fa- and watched the children grow up, and gogue (as teen tutors and indispensable ther, Chris, and her brother, Alex, the that made this book even more incredible assistants at various events) and at their reader has an inside look at what happens for me. They have been through the town library. The Haas ladies were not Three Haas women received three awards to a family when one member is diag- toughest of times and have stayed strong for volunteerism on November 17 at Etz able to receive their Shem Tov award at nosed with a life-threatening disease. As and resilient. I hope writing this memoir Hayim Synagogue. From left to right: Michelle points out, the illness does not has helped them heal. Tammy will never the Federation’s Annual Meeting because Anna Haas holding her President's they were competing at a sporting event. Volunteer Service Award certificate for just affect the patient; it changes the lives be forgotten. Her memory will be for a In the photograph that accompanies this performing 75 hours of volunteer work in a of the entire family. blessing, and her strength will help others article, the Haas ladies are getting ready 12-month period between 2017 and 2018; This book is written from the heart. in their personal struggles. to run the EHS gift shop at its November Cheryl Haas holding her family's Shem Michelle does not sugarcoat the day-to- Michelle Lebs, 27, is an elementary 17 Klezmer and Israel Dance Night. Tov award; and Laura Haas holding her day struggles her mother went through, STEAM (science, technology, engineer- Mazel tov and thank you to these three PVSA award certificate for performing or the harsh feelings Michelle had while ing, art, and math) teacher. This is her amazing women! 100 hours of volunteer work in 2017-2018. everything was happening. It also does first publication. She holds a BS in ele- not try to make it seem like everything mentary education, BA in general sci- works out in the end. The family mem- ence, and M Ed in technology integra- bers here are angry at the disease, they tion. She lives in New Hampshire with are angry at life throwing them this curve her husband, Tyler, rescue puppy Sato, ball, and they get angry at each other. Anna, and a newborn baby girl. Michelle The book shows all those raw, exposed (Devine) Lebs grew up in Nashua with moments when life really hurts. her family as members of Temple Beth There Is Historical Evidence of the Exodus This book also shows how, through it Abraham. Rabbi Ira Korinow (The Report- the sons of Israel ,and created Israelite er, November 2018) wrote that the story communities over 3,000 years ago. A of the Exodus has no basis in historical thirteenth century BCE Egyptian object fact. I recommend that he read a book called the Merneptah Stela contains a by one of America’s most distinguished reference to Israel, for .example. Keeping you connected biblical commentators, Carol Myers, re- Ancient Egyptians did not make refer- tired professor from Duke University, ence in their monuments or hieroglyphics NEWS entitled Exodus. to military defeats. They certainly would e That book examines textual and arche- not have commemorated a successful ological evidence for the existence of slave revolt. jewishnh.org people who arrived in Egypt and later moved to , who self-identified as Rick Sirvint, Rindge

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On November 13, Etz Board of Directors president Dina Michael Chaitowitz (not On November 9, Shlicha Noam Wolf, assisted by Israeli SNHU student Lior Pacha, pictured here) led a group of religious school parents in a Havdalah-bag-creation class. engaged Etz Hayim Synagogue members in a lively and fascinating discussion about We hope they'll use the bags soon for a home Havdalah service! posters that were created by Israeli artists tasked to imagine Israel on its 100th birthday.

On Nov. 4, The Visiting Scholars Program, sponsored by The Abraham and Lillian Heifetz Gruber Fund and Temple Israel Manchester, presented “Understanding the History & Morality of U.S. Refugee Policy.” Speakers included (L-R) Prof. Peter I. Rose, PhD; Lauren W. Herman, JD, MTS, JFNH Shlicha Noam Wolf enjoys a civil rights lawyer and activist; and 2016 lighthearted moment with a child from New Hampshire Civic Leader of the Temple Beth Jacob in Concord during a Year Arnold Mikolo, team leader with On November 4, members of Etz Hayim Synagogue's women's group gathered to watch visit this fall to celebrate Sukkot. the Immigration Initiative. RBG, the award-winning film about U.S. Supreme Court Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg, a brilliant lawyer and jurist, trailblazer, “bubbe,” and pop culture icon. Photo by Dina Michael Chaitowitz.

Rabbi Jeremy Szczepanski’s first day of teaching the Miller Introduction to Judaism Program at Temple Israel Manchester was a hit! Classes will continue for 26 weeks. Rabbi will offer Intro again, so don’t worry if you missed this one!

Rabbi Boaz Heilman showing the Temple B’nai Israel Religious School students how to remove the arils from a fresh pomegranate.

Kislev-Shevat 5779 • December 2018-January 2019 The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter PAGE 23 On Nov. 7, Temple Israel Manchester members were treated to a private tour of the Currier’s exhibit, “Myth and Faith in Renaissance Florence: The Sculpture of Giovanni Angelo Montorsoli and his Circle.” Sponsored by Barbara and Harry Shepler, the tour was led by curator Kurt Sundstrom.

On October 7, the amazing Chef Paula Winer shared her top-secret shakshouka recipe with other Temple Israel Manchester members at Norri Oberlander’s house. Mimosas were also enjoyed by all.

On November 17, Etz Hayim Synagogue members had a rollicking good time with the Raymond Street Klezmer Band's special mix of Klezmer, Israeli dancing, jazz, and good humor. So much fun!

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Kislev-Shevat 5779 • December 2018-January 2019 The New Hampshire Jewish Reporter PAGE 25 AUTOBODY REPAIR ORTHODONTICS JUDAICA Prestige Auto Body, Inc. Gary S. Lindner, DMD, DMSc. 200 Frontage Rd., Manchester Lindner Dental Assoc., PC JUDAICA BOOKS AND GIFTS Keeping you (603) 669-0015 72 So. River Rd., Bedford Israel Book Shop, Inc. Put your body in good hands! (603) 624-3900 “New England’s Judaica superstore” connected www.prestigeab.com Tracy Pogal-Sussman, MS, DMD 1 day shipping to N.H. Lindner Dental Assoc., PC 410 Harvard St. Brookline, MA 02446 jewishnh.org DENTAL SERVICES 72 So. River Rd., Bedford 617-566-7113, Toll Free 800-323-7723 (603) 624-3900 www.israelbookshop.com NEWS GENERAL DENTISTRY www.lindnerdental.com e Sarah K. Katz PEDIATRIC DENTISTRY 514 South Street LEGAL SERVICES Luis S. Englander, DMD Bow NH, 03304 ATTORNEYS 603-224-3151 Lindner Dental Assoc., PC [email protected] 72 So. River Rd., Bedford Devine Millimet www.bowfamilydentistry.com (603) 624-3900 Steven Cohen, Esq., LLM, CPA [email protected] (603) 695-8504 Heidi Lindner Kurland, MS, DMD James B. Haas, DDS Lindner Dental Assoc., PC 4 Manchester Ave. Estate Planning, Corporate, 72 South River Rd Derry NH, 03038 Business Sales and Acquisitions Bedford, NH 03110 603-434-1586 111 Amherst St., Manchester www.haasdentalnh.com (603) 624-3900 PERSONAL INJURY LAW www.lindnerdental.com Gary S. Lindner, DMD, DMSc. Lindner Dental Assoc., PC Stephen E. Borofsky, Esq. Rochelle H. Lindner, DMD Borofsky, Amodeo-Vickery & Bandazian, P.A. See what’s happening Lindner Dental Assoc., PC 72 So. River Rd., Bedford 708 Pine Street, Manchester 72 So. River Rd., Bedford (603) 624-3900 in the community at (603) 625-6441 (603) 624-3900 [email protected] www.jewishnh.org Elizabeth Sandler Spindel, DMD FINANCIAL SERVICES www.attorneysnh.com Victoria Spindel Rubin, DMD 862 Union St., Manchester CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNERS (603) 669-9049 Daniel Cohen, CFP® CEO& Chief Investment Officer Advertise in our Vanguard Dental Group Cohen Investment Advisors, LLC Business & Professional 19 D Manchester Rd., Ste 3, Derry 264 South River Road, Suite 422, Bedford Quality of care through continuing (603) 232-8351 Services Directory. education & technology. Cosmetic www.investwithcohen.com dentistry, implant dentistry, Call JFNH office at 603-627-7679 pediatric dentistry. (603) 276-1000 CERTIFIED PUBLIC ACCOUNTANTS or contact our sales rep. ENDODONTICS David J. Penchansky, CPA Penchansky & Co., PLLC Douglas J. Katz, DMD, PC 70 Stark Street, Manchester, NH Katz Endodontics Michelle Harrison (603) 647-2400 1310 Hooksett Rd., Hooksett (603) 437-0167 [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] (603) 628-2891

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