Hospital CEO Is Gay, Partnered—And Ready to Marry by Ross Forman
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BLACK LGBT ActIVISTS AND ALLIES CELEBRATE MARRIAGE LAW PAGE 8 WINDY CITY THE VOICE OF CHICAGO’S GAY, LESBIAN, BI AND TRANS COMMUNITY SINCE 1985 DEC. 4, 2013 VOL 29, NO.10 www.WindyCityMediaGroup.comTIMES First same-sex couple marries PART twO OF wct’S GIFT GUIDE pageS 32-35 Vernita Gray (left) and partner Pat Ewert made history Nov. 27, becoming the first same-sex couple to marry in Illinois. Read more text and see more images on page 7 and at www. WindyCity MediaGroup.com. Photo by Hal Baim LEGENDS LUNCH page 7 HONORS TRANS, HIV HEROES SUCH AS GLORIA ALLEN pagE 6 Hospital CEO is gay, partnered—and ready to marry BY ROSS FORMAN The joy Alan Eaks now experiences as an out gay man with a partner of 12 years and two adopted children certainly overshadows the issues he endured years ago. Eaks, 56, is the CEO of Chicago Lakeshore Hospital, a position he has held for close to 13 years—and he is admittedly “completely comfortable as an openly gay man in this field.” However, when he entered the hospital administration field in the ear- ly 1980s, the field “was not welcoming to the gay community,” he said. WCT TALKS WITH “Partially due to my own maturity, and partially due to the non-friendly gay world that existed in those early years, I was somewhat closeted and ‘SCROOGE & protective of my gay identity. I feel so fortunate that I was able to come MARLEY’ ActOR totally out over time due to the trail blazers who paved the way for me to DAVID PEVSNER live an open, transparent and dignified life as a gay man.” pagE 30 Eaks and life partner Alberto Senior live in Lakeview with their two chil- Turn to page 16 Chicago Lakeshore Hospital CEO Alan Eaks. Photo courtesy of Eaks 2 Dec. 4, 2013 WINDY CITY TIMES WINDY CITY TIMES this week in Dec. 4, 2013 NEWS WINDY CITY TIMES Tenth anniversary of Goodridge Legends Lunch; Durbin Gray-Ewert marriage makes history 4 6 ENTERTAINMENT/EVENTS Black activists note marriage law Scottish Play Scott Trans Latina town hall Web: ‘Gay Agenda’ talk show 7 Ad defaced with anti-gay slurs Knight: I Am Divine, amfAR 3 Thanksgiving event; hospital CEO 8 Q List: Kiam Marcelo Junio 19 Gay in the Life 10 Talking with actor David Pevsner 27 VIEWS: Schenck, Flowers 11 Holiday gift guide, part one 28 16 Lisa Lampanelli interview 29 Photos on cover (left, from top): Photo by 17 Dish: Hot Doug’s and Doug Sohn 30 Hal Baim; photo of Marilyn Monroe from the 18 Billy Masters 32 book An Evening with Marilyn by Douglas 36 Kirkland; photo of Gloria Allen by Andre 38 A man is not Perez; photo of David Pevsner by Cameron OUTLINES 41 Classifieds “ Radice Calendar Q Celebration: Oostenbrug/Kelly 38 “ BLACK LGBT ACTIVISTS AND ALLIES CELEBRATE MARRIAGE LAW PAGE 8 WINDY CITY 40 THE VOICE OF CHICAGO’S GAY, LESBIAN, where he lives, BI AND TRANS COMMUNITY SINCE 1985 DEC. 4, 2013 VOL 29, NO.10 www.WindyCityMediaGroup.comTIMES First same-sex 40 couple marries PART TWO OF WCT’S GIFT GUIDE PAGES 32-35 Vernita Gray (leftDOWNLOAD) THIS! and partner Pat Ewert made history Nov. 27, becoming the first same-sex couple to marry in Illinois. Read more text and see more images on page 7 and at www. WindyCity MediaGroup.com. Photo by Hal Baim Go to www.WindyCityMediaGroup.com LEGENDS LUNCH page 7 HONORS TRANS, HIV HEROES SUCH AS GLORIA ALLEN PAGE 6 Hospital CEO is gay, partnered—and to download complete issues of Windy City Times and Nightspots. but where he loves. ready to marry BY ROSS FORMAN The joy Alan Eaks now experiences as an out gay man with a partner of 12 years and two adopted children certainly overshadows the issues he endured years ago. Eaks, 56, is the CEO of Chicago Lakeshore Hospital, a position he has held for close to 13 years—and he is admittedly “completely comfortable as an openly gay man in this field.” However, when he entered the hospital administration field in the ear- ly 1980s, the field “was not welcoming to the gay community,” he said. WCT TALKS WITH “Partially due to my own maturity, and partially due to the non-friendly gay world that existed in those early years, I was somewhat closeted and ‘SCROOGE & protective of my gay identity. I feel so fortunate that I was able to come MARLEY’ ACTOR totally out over time due to the trail blazers who paved the way for me to DAVID PEVSNER live an open, transparent and dignified life as a gay man.” PAGE 30 Eaks and life partner Alberto Senior live in Lakeview with their two chil- Turn to page 16 Chicago Lakeshore Hospital CEO Alan Eaks. Photo courtesy of Eaks Then click on any ad and be taken directly to the advertiser’s Web site! ���� � online exclusives at T�� www.WindyCityMediaGroup HE’S STILL ST .com Windy City Times reviewsANDI NEltonG John’s (left) weekend concert at the Allstate Arena. 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Bonauto, order to register for the census decreed our world in profoundly new ways. The civil-rights project director for Gay & Lesbian by Caesar Augustus. If you have ever strangeness of the stranger has many Advocates & Defenders (GLAD), gave Nov. 20. been to Bethlehem, you know that the forms; it is not just about being a for- The title of her talk was “The Goodridge Deci- people of Bethlehem scoff at the idea eigner or a person from another culture sion: 10 Years Out.” that Mary and Joseph had to apply to or religion. The stranger can be found The event was held at Old South Meeting an inn for shelter. Their sense of hospi- in a friend, a family member, a condi- House, located in downtown Boston. tality is so strong they affirm categori- tion, or a situation. Birthplace of the Dec. 16, 1773 Boston Tea cally that Joseph and Mary were housed Joseph shows hospitality to Mary by Party, Old South Meeting House also gave voice by relatives in their stable. Stables were accepting the strangeness of her preg- to abolitionists a century later in their efforts to usually beneath the living quarters of a nancy; he shows hospitality to Jesus by end slavery. family household and immensely pref- accepting him as his son. On the feast Ten years ago, Bonauto argued on behalf of erable to an inn. They were filled with of St. Joseph ( 19 March ) Sicilians GLAD’s seven plaintiff couples before the state’s Gay & Lesbian Advocates & Defenders’ Mary L. the warmth of the animals and provided honor the hospitality of Joseph by of- Supreme Judicial Court (SJC), which on Nov. 18, Bonauto. Photo by Chuck Colbert good protective shelter for humans. fering a fabled array of delicious foods 2003, issued its Goodridge v. Department of Pub- The code of hospitality plays a key called a St. Joseph’s Table open to all lic Health ruling in favor of them. role in the ethics of the Abrahamic who come to their door. It was a multimedia lecture, featuring a slide- adequate reason for denying civil marriage to faiths: Judaism, Christianity, and Is- Luke 24: 13 -35 narrates my favor- show presentation and video testimonials to the same-sex couples.” lam.