Inland Empire Edition
Vol. 24, No. 4 April 2013 www.christianexaminer.com
Cal Thomas Eric Metaxas Phil Cooke
The sound of inevitability Facing opposition: Is it time to rethink FREE squelches truth Let’s be disliked for ‘old fashioned’ values? the right reasons page 4 page 4 page 4 National Day of Prayer offers focused time on repentance and prayer By Greg Laurie must not take for granted. These are perilous times for our Prayer is a benefi t that we all country. More than ever, America share as children of the risen Sav- must realize that our hope lies not ior! It is one of those in its political, its edu- few activities in which cational or even its all believers can partic- religious institutions. ipate, no matter what Our hope is in Christ! their denominational What we need in our stripe. We all have ac- land is revival. cess to the throne of At the root of His grace due to the America’s problems shed blood of Jesus. is a spiritual malaise. That’s one of the We need to pray reasons I enthusiasti- for our country like cally support the Na- Greg Laurie never before. And tional Day of Prayer we need to reach out and its efforts to bring the church to a lost world with the gospel together on May 2. That we have like never before. We need more the support of our government for this day is a rare blessing that we See LAURIE, page 2 National Day of Prayer Feeding hungry hearts By Patti Townley-Covert The fi rst time Garcia met the calls “cruise-ship” Christianity— event list growing homeless man, Dan was sitting in worship, coffee and feel-good fel- ONTARIO — “Dan went home a wheelchair on the side of the lowship. They wanted to be more By Lori Arnold I’m anticipating it should be a very today.” At fi rst glance, the Face- road. like a “battleship” going into the good year,” said Anne Subia, who book post might have meant that “He needed clean bandages fi eld and making a difference. SAN DIEGO — With just a few oversees all of the prayer gather- the Burrito Breakfast Club had for his wounded leg, so we found Wanting to serve the Lord by weeks left before the annual Na- ings in San Diego, Los Angeles, helped another homeless person some,” Garcia said. ministering to “the least of these,” tional Day of Prayer, set for May 2, Orange, San Bernardino, Riverside get off the street, but a second That’s only one of the many Garcia said he and four friends the Southern California coordina- and Imperial counties. post mentions his memorial ser- ways the Burrito Breakfast Club headed to John Galvin Park where tor is seeking information on local This year’s theme is “Pray Amer- vice. has served the indigent since its they saw Jesus among the faces of events to post on the regional web- ica.” “It’s the third we’ve performed beginning in 2010. the homeless. The small group site. “I think they try to be broad,” she for a person on the streets in the Back then, Garcia said he was pulled money out of their own “There are a lot of reasons and said of the theme. “It is particularly last four years,” said Garcia, one part of a small Christian men’s things coming up that I think really of the club’s founding members. group that got tired of what he See PRAYER, page 9 will be driving people to prayer, so See PRAYER, page 2 When healing doesn’t come Pastor’s wife clings to Christ and family in protracted cancer battle
By Lori Arnold to. I came into the emergency room with some problems, but I didn’t feel like I was close to ne year ago, while Carol Garlow was death,” she added, chuckling at the prognosis. sedated after a fi fth hospital visit in When she awoke in the mid afternoon, she Ofour months due to complications from was confused by the group that had gathered chemotherapy, the doctor told her pastor hus- around her bedside and was wondering what band Jim Garlow that his wife’s condition had was going on. deteriorated and she only had six weeks to live. “All of a sudden they heard from me, ‘Did I Garlow, senior pastor of Skyline Wesleyan miss something?’” Church in La Mesa, called in the troops: their Later she learned that while she was under immediate family, extended family and several sedation her husband “just fell apart.” close friends who had been their support system “If I had been awake I could have fought them for her then fi ve-year battle with ovarian cancer. on it. ‘No I’m not. I am not dying. I have longer They all gathered around her bedside awaiting to live than (six weeks). I can feel it.’ You know, the doctor to fi ll them in on what was next. you can just feel it,” she said in a 90-minute “I had no idea this was going on,” Carol Gar- exclusive interview from her El Cajon home low said about the experience. “I had no idea where she continues to be treated for the cancer, what this doctor was telling my family. … He felt PHOTO BY ERICACA SCHNEIDERSCHNEIDER// ACRES OF HOPEE PHOTOGRAPHY like my body was shutting down, or beginning See GARLOW, page 8 For information about advertising, subscriptions, or bulk delivery, please call 1-800-326-0795 2 • CHRISTIAN EXAMINER • April 2013 IE www.christianexaminer.com
To make reservations, call (909) LAPD chaplain Kenneth Crawford, tion required at kkla.com or call DAY OF PRAYER… 356-7166. Holly Wagner of Oasis Church, 1-888-744-3777. Continued from page 1 Steve Mays of Calvary Chapel South Hollywood: An Evening Prayer Bay, Netz Gomez of Iglesia Casa de For more information about the broad this year.” Gathering, hosted by Pastor Scott Luz and Steve Wilburn of CORE National Day of Prayer, visit www. In selecting its annual focus, Erdman, will be held from 7:30 to Church Los Angeles. Pre-registra- ndpsandiego.org. Subia said the national task force is 9:30 p.m. in the sanctuary of First cognizant of reaching out not only Presbyterian Church of Hollywood, to evangelicals, but also to Catho- 1760 N. Gower St. Notice to whom God directs lics, Orthodox and mainline con- For more information, call (323) LAURIE… His remarks. God didn’t say, “If gregations. 463-7161, ext. 257. Continued from page 1 Congress will turn from their “We’ve got people with slightly wicked ways” or “If Hollywood different perspectives on things,” Mission Viejo: An Evening All would turn from their wicked she said. people hearing about who Jesus is City Prayer Gathering will be held ways.” Rather, God points His In preparing her local materi- and what He promises. We need from 7n to 8 p.m. at Mission Viejo fi nger at His house—at you and als, including an 11-point prayer City Hall, 200 Civic Center Drive. to get back to the true God of the Bible, the God of Abraham, Isaac me as believers. plan using the letters of the theme, About 30 area churches are expect- So while revival is ultimately Subia has focused on biblical top- ed to participate, with as many as and Jacob—the God who sent His Son, Jesus Christ, to be born in God’s work, we do have a part to ics. at Chino Hills City Hall, 14000 City 1,000 people in attendance. play. It begins with repentance “The problem is that many bibli- Center Drive. For more information, call (949) the manger, to die on the cross and to rise from the dead three and prayer—humble, earnest cal things are considered partisan, For more information, call (909) 465-1940. and fervent. and they are not,” she said. “They 606-7856. days later. If we turn back to that God, then Revival is a work of the Holy are just moral.” Universal City: KKLA 99.5 FM is Spirit; it’s what God does for us. He promises He will bless us. Here Those who are planning events Fontana: A Community Prayer sponsoring a free prayer breakfast But listen to this: evangelism is is the promise of God in Scripture may supply the information to the Breakfast will be held from 7:30 to for pastors and church leaders at what we do for God. Preaching to any nation, including ours: “If local website, which will post it for 9 a.m. at Jessie Turner Center at the Universal Hilton in Universal the gospel is our responsibility. My people who are called by My the public. Below is a list of the ear- Fontana Park, 15556 Summit Ave. City. The 9am event will feature na- Christ commissioned us to go into ly contributions. All events are on San Bernardino County Supervi- tional broadcaster David Jeremiah, name will humble themselves and the world and spread the Good May 2, unless otherwise noted. sor Janice Rutherford will be the host of Turning Point radio and pray and seek My face and turn News. America needs to turn back master of ceremonies with guest pastor of Shadow Mountain Com- from their wicked ways, then I will to the Lord again, and we should Chino Hills: Calvary Chapel Sol- speaker Pastor Vince D’Acchioli munity Church in El Cajon. Other hear from heaven and will forgive pray for that, but in the meantime, id Rock is sponsoring a community and special music by Tim Kepler. guests will include David Rosales their sin and heal their land” (2 we should be busy about the work prayer event from noon to 1 p.m. Donations will be accepted. of Calvary Chapel Chino Valley, Chronicles 7:14). that He has given to us.
Flushed with prayer If we learn anything from past periods of revival, we will note that they are all marked by fervent, pas- sionate prayer. If we would see our nation turn back to righteousness, then we must pray. If we would see souls saved, then we must pray and we must proclaim the gospel. These are the two passions I have, and in 2013 we have two national events that accomplish those objectives. The fi rst is the National Day of Prayer. The second is Harvest America. On May 2 we will come together as a nation to pray for our country, its leaders and its citizens. We will pray for our nation to return to the values that made this country strong and unique. We will pray for an outpouring of God’s Spirit to draw Americans into a life-chang- ing relationship with Jesus. And we will pray for the strengthening of the family, which is the foundation for any civilized society. If we pray, God will hear. If He hears, who knows what He might do!
Seeking a Harvest Then, this Sept. 28 and 29, we are asking churches all across the nation to open their sanctuaries for a presentation of the gospel that we are calling “Harvest America.” We are providing all the tools a church or an individual needs to host a successful evangelistic event that will be streamed live from Philadelphia. I will bring a simple gospel message and will be joined by musical guests MercyMe, Kirk Franklin, Jeremy Camp and Lec- rae. All the information a church needs to participate is found on the Harvest America website. Last year we had more than 2,400 host sites, with over 300,000 in combined attendance. It was one of the largest live evangelistic events in American history! Let’s do all we can, while we can, to seek revival for our great land. Our great country needs it like never before.
Laurie, founder of Harvest Chris- tian Fellowship in Riverside and the international Harvest Crusades, is the 2013 honorary chairman of the National Day of Prayer. For more information, visit www. nationaldayofprayer.org or www. harvestamerica.com. www.christianexaminer.com IE April 2013 • CHRISTIAN EXAMINER • 3 Wife of slain pastor tells of peace, hope Annual Christian education By Meredith Flynn tions that were overwhelming her. souri were on hand for a March 10 BP News “I would leave that writing ex- open house to celebrate the book’s conference in Pasadena perience with a sense of renewed release at the Wildey Theater in PASADENA — Christian Ministries Kathy Collard Miller, Dr. James Meyer, MARYVILLE, Ill. — Cindy Win- strength,” Winters said. “Often- nearby Edwardsville. Training Association will hold its an- Darcie Maze and Eric Buehrer. ters didn’t set out to write a book. times, peace would sweep in over Winters feels a close connection nual Impact Convention April 19 and Among the workshop topics are But as she journaled about her me, and then hope. And just a with the Maryville community that 20 at the Pasadena Convention Center. “Equipping Ministers with a Bible Study grief and pain after her husband sense of ‘OK, you know what, I’m protects her husband’s memory and Founded in 1951 as the Greater Tool Belt,” “Five Doors into Anyone’s Fred was killed in his Maryville, Ill., going to be able to make it through legacy, evidenced in part by Fred Los Angeles Sunday School Associa- Heart,” “Comics and the Bible,” “Spiri- pulpit four years ago, she realized the rest of the day.’” Winters Memorial Park, scheduled tion, the organization held its fi rst re- tual Mentoring of Teenagers,” “Loopy how healing the writing process In brief devotion-like sections, to be completed this year. source convention a year later. Over Learning: How Kids Learn Today,” could be. And she wanted to share Winters shares her thoughts in As for her family -- Winters has the years the organization expanded “Can You Defend What You Believe?” that with others on a similar jour- hopes of easing some of grief’s two teenage daughters -- she admits its reach beyond the Los Angeles area “Dealing with Church Antagonists,” ney. isolation. The book also includes life still feels like a roller coaster. and added broader resources than “Engaging Culture,” “Disciples Don’t Pastor Fred Winters was killed at Scripture passages, nature pictures, “We still have so many transitions that Sunday School curriculum. Grow in Pews,” “Experience Freedom First Baptist Church in Maryville prayers, poems and space for read- we are making,” Winters said. “That is The annual convention is one of the from your Hurts,” “Hang ups and in 2009, when a gunman entered ers to write their own journal en- so odd to say after four years, but we largest Christian education conven- Habits, “Hope and Help for Special a Sunday morning worship service tries. are. There’s still a lot of things that are tions in the country with more than Needs Using the Arts,” “Marriage and on March 8 and shot him in the “They’re all highly personal, and kind of unsettled and a lot of aspects of 120 workshops in a variety of subject Ministry: Disaster or Delight?” “Learn pulpit. Media outlets immediately they all come out of a feeling of be- our life that are still extremely diffi cult tracks, including adults, counseling, to Do It Better, Kiddo,” “Puppetry descended on Maryville, pushing ing overwhelmed,” Winters said of to try to navigate through. early childhood, elementary, evange- 101,” and “Every Christian is Calledto the story into national headlines. her entries. “They’re not all sad, “But there is a level of normalcy lism and outreach, family, leadership, Counsel.” Just days later, Cindy Winters ex- they’re not all dark. Some of them to our life now that there wasn’t a special needs, men’s ministry, women’s In addition to the convention, the tended forgiveness to the shooter are funny. Some of them come couple years ago. There are things ministry, technology, youth and Con- all-volunteer CMTA offers programs to on CBS’ “Early Show.” from really good places; some of we do now that don’t have the same cerns in Today’s Christian Community. “We have been praying for him,” them are obviously from a really kind of sting to them, you know, benefi t Sunday School teachers, Sun- This year’s convention faculty will she said. “... We really fi rmly believe bad spot.” because we’ve done them now four day School superintendents, Christian that he can fi nd hope and forgive- And the book isn’t just for people times in a row.” include Mary Rice Hopkins, Steve Education directors, pastors and other ness and peace through this by going through grief. “I think it’s for And God has sustained them. Karges, Steve Russo, Carolyn Stand- Christian workers. coming to know Jesus.” anybody who has found themselves “... It all comes down to just erfer, Mike Shipman, Marcia Sevilla, For more information, visit www. Hope, forgiveness and peace are in the pit, regardless of how we get knowing that God is faithful and Randy Rodden, Nancy Tichy, William cmtaconvention.org. among the themes in Winters’ new there. The pit can be very painful, that He’s good, and trusting Him, Peters, Lisa Pham, Annette Mulligan, book “Refl ections from the Pit,” and very dark, and very hard to get and looking at that every day. And available now on www.amazon.com. out of. So I think it’s for anybody not relying on ourselves or our cir- Southern California Festival & Her writing process started simply, who can say, ‘You know what? My cumstances to be our comfort. And when she sat down with pen and life’s in the pit right now.’” knowing that only truly God can paper to express some of the emo- People from Illinois and Mis- heal and comfort us.” Sale returns May 17 and 18 UPLAND — The 16th Annual The marketplace includes items So-Cal Festival & Sale will be held from Ten Thousand Villages, which Chris Tomlin ‘most prolifi c songwriter’ in U.S. May 17 and 18 at Pacifi c Christian offers fair trade, hand-crafted items BP News students in January, as the “undis- the worship pastor at Passion City Center. The free festival is a fund- from around the world; a country puted king of worship music.” Church in Atlanta, said. raiser for the ministry work of the kitchen with homemade pies, breads, Mennonite Central Committee, cookies, cookbooks, jams and honey; NASHVILLE — Worship leader But CNN noted the secret to Tom- Unlike mainstream musical ce- which serves people struggling with a farmer’s market with fresh fruits and Chris Tomlin “is the most prolifi c lin’s success: “The stage, the lights, the lebrities, Tomlin isn’t driven by natural disasters, famine, war, dis- vegetables, plants and fl owers; and a songwriter in the United States band aren’t about him. As lively as his money or his own fame, the article ease and poverty. variety of used books. now, in this past decade,” a Chris- shows are, the point is not to get you said. Friday’s opening day schedule, The food court will include tri-tip tian music executive said in a CNN inside the doors. The point is to get “I feel like I have a responsibility, which includes a deep pit barbecue, barbecue, teriyaki chicken, tamales, feature highlighting the differences you singing in church.” that God has given me a gift to write runs from 4 to 9 p.m., and Satur- carne asada, Korean cuisine, burgers, between Tomlin and secular stars. Churches across the spectrum— songs for His church that people day’s hours are 7 a.m. to 4:30 p.m. hot dogs, German sausage, funnel cake, Howard Rachinski, CEO of black, white, Asian, large, small—con- listen to and that people are com- The Saturday event begins with a strawberry shortcake, homemade ice Christian Copyright Licensing In- nect with Tomlin’s songs, the article ing to expect now,” he said. “... The make-your-own-omelet breakfast. cream and fair trade coffee. ternational (CCLI), the company said. His goal, he told CNN, is to write difference to me in the music is A cornerstone of the event is live A favorite draw for children is the that tracks what music is used in songs that communicate what people that I ask that God’s presence be on bidding at numerous auctions, in- Penny Power machine, which collects churches around the world, said would like to say to God. it and that people, when they sing cluding household items, antiques change for the needy. In addition to last year churches used 128 songs Tomlin, 40, grew up learning these songs, sense that God does and quilts. A special auction will be their own auction, children will be Tomlin wrote or co-wrote. country music in Texas, he said, something.” held for children. There will also be able to assemble school kits that MCC According to CNN.com March and he didn’t give any thought to Tomlin added that when he’s on a variety of silent auctions. Among will distribute worldwide to refugee 9, CCLI estimates that every Sun- a career writing worship music. stage, it’s not about him. In fact, he the featured items are vintage art, and displaced children. Other ac- day in the United States, between But in college, as he starting writ- prefers to step back from the micro- pottery, china, jewelry, toys, records tivities include a balloon artist, bounce 60,000 and 120,000 churches are ing worship songs, he was invited phone and listen to God’s people and memorabilia. houses, face painting, story-telling and singing Tomlin’s worship songs. to lead Christian conferences with praising Him in unison. Other sales on the center cam- a playground. The article identifi ed Tomlin, 10,000 students, CNN reported. “It’s about a greater name than pus include a bargain yard sale, who leads worship for Passion con- “I was just writing songs for the my name,” Tomlin told CNN. “My with such items as furniture, appli- For more information, visit or ferences and helped pack the Geor- church and from there they just name is on the ticket, but this is ances, household items and tools, a www.socalfestivalandsale.org call gia Dome in Atlanta with college started taking off,” Tomlin, now about a greater name.” marketplace and food court. (909) 981-1965.
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The sound of inevitability squelches truth Given his track record on mari- on both sides of the predicted as much “‘When I use a word,’ Humpty It doesn’t take a prophet to tal fi delity, former President Bill issue argued two key in 2003 in his dissent Dumpty said, in a rather scornful see where this is headed. A na- Clinton is not the person I would cases regarding same- of the Lawrence v. tone, ‘it means just what I choose tion that legalizes abortion and consult about “committed, loving sex marriages before Texas case, in which it to mean—neither more nor applies no stigma to cohabita- relationships.” Clinton used those the Supreme Court. the Court struck less.’ ‘The question is,’ said Al- tion and out-of-wedlock births is words in a Washington Post op- The justices are ex- down the sodomy ice, ‘whether you can make words not about to suddenly discover ed in early March, urging the Su- pected to rule in June. law in Texas. So I mean so many different things...’” the moral courage to say “no” to preme Court to overturn the 1996 It will be the Court’s ask, if “fairness” and Recently in Sacramento, Ca- same-sex marriage. Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA), most important social “equality” are the lif., Justice Anthony Kennedy la- In the 1999 fi lm “The Matrix,” which defi nes marriage as the legal and cultural ruling standard, isn’t it also mented that the Supreme Court Agent Smith has Neo pinned down union of one man and one woman, since its 1973 Roe v. Cal Thomas “unfair” to “discrimi- is asked to settle too many politi- on a subway track. As the train ap- which he signed into law. Wade decision. nate” against polyga- cally charged issues. Responding proaches, Agent Smith says: “You In his column, Clinton said that What advocates for same-sex mists who wish to live in “loving” to reporters, Kennedy said, “A hear that, Mr. Anderson? That is 1996 “was a very different time.” No marriage should be asked is and “committed” relationships? democracy should not be depen- the sound of inevitability. It is the state recognized same-sex marriage whether they consider any other Since we are rapidly discarding dent for its major decisions on sound of your death.” and supporters of DOMA “believed human relationship worthy of the rules for living and social order what nine unelected people from If, as I suspect, the Supreme that its passage ‘would diffuse a similar constitutional protection set down in a book found in most a narrow legal background have Court strikes down DOMA, it will movement to enact a constitutional and based on what standard? motel room drawers, what is to re- to say. And I think it’s of tremen- be the inevitable result of an in- amendment banning gay marriage, The Constitution doesn’t guar- place it? Opinion polls? Clever le- dous importance for our politi- creasing number of Americans which would have ended the debate antee the right to marry. States, gal arguments? Fairness? What ex- cal system to show the rest of the abandoning the Source of mo- for a generation or more.’” Clinton not the federal government, issue actly does “fairness” mean and who world -- and we have to show our- rality and goodness. As Calvin says he now supports same-sex mar- marriage licenses. Current laws decides what’s fair? Many things selves fi rst -- that democracy works Coolidge said of our Declaration riage based on justice, equality and restrict “underage” marriage, as may seem “unfair,” but not all can, because we can reach agreement of Independence, “We cannot the Constitution. well as polygamy. If same-sex mar- or should, be addressed by courts. on a principle basis.” continue to enjoy the result if we All of the arguments for and riage is approved, what’s to stop I am reminded of this ex- The states, or Congress, should neglect and abandon the cause.” against same-sex marriage have polygamists from demanding change between Humpty Dumpty be allowed to sort out how they been heard and were heard again legal protection and cultural ac- and Alice in Lewis Carroll’s “Alice wish to defi ne and license mar- © 2013 Tribune Media Services, on March 26 and 27 when lawyers ceptance? Justice Antonin Scalia in Wonderland”: riage, not the Supreme Court. Inc. Facing opposition: Let’s be disliked for the right reasons Okay, so Christians are called “sign that will be opposed” or study estimates that One obvious ex- friends and advocates than the “haters,” “deluded,” “theocrats,” “contradicted.” Whichever word Christians are ac- ample is our un- people of God. Which is precise- you name it. But, what did you ex- you prefer, the meaning is the tively persecuted in equivocal support, ly why Chuck founded Prison pect? same: faithfulness to God’s call 131 of the world’s in word and deed, Fellowship—to bring the love You’ve heard me refer to our and His truth on our part will be 197 countries. Ap- of the sanctity of hu- of Christ to prisoners and their culture as being “post-Christian.” met with opposition. proximately 100,000 man life and mar- families—and Justice Fellow- It’s a shorthand way of noting the It could hardly be otherwise. As are murdered every riage. I say “word ship—to bring biblically based decreasing infl uence of Christian Benedict XVI wrote in his book year because of their and deed,” because reforms to the justice system. ideas and values on cultural norms, “Jesus of Nazareth: The Infancy faith. we Christians are of- So instead of being just an- attitudes, and habits. Narratives,” “man’s ‘contradic- So what should be ten better at demon- other aggrieved interest group, Obviously, this is far from tion’ of God runs all the way our response? Well for Eric Metaxas strating what we’re let’s pray God will give us grace a good thing. But it’s in this through history.” We live in a time starters, how about no against than articu- to become those signs of con- post-Christian culture that the when “God himself is constantly whining. As I just told you, at the lating and modeling a Christian tradiction. Instead of complain- Church can and must be what regarded as a limitation placed very least, Scripture warns us to alternative of what it means to ing when people speak ill of us, her Lord called her to be: a sign upon our freedom that must expect opposition and rejection. be truly human. As Chuck Col- we should recall Jesus’s words of contradiction. be set aside if man is ever to be When faced with opposition and son might say, we’re good at op- in Matthew 5, “Blessed are you The phrase comes from Luke’s completely himself.” hostility, our principle response posing, we’ve got to be better at when people insult you, perse- Gospel. After Jesus is presented God is love, but this love “can should be to ensure that we are be- proposing. cute you, and falsely say all kinds in the Temple, Simeon holds be hated when it challenges us ing opposed for the right reasons. Another, unfortunately less- of evil against you because of me. the One he has waited his entire to transcend ourselves.” If people are to speak ill of us, they obvious example is being cham- Rejoice and be glad, because life to see. He proclaims Jesus to This hatred of the love that should do so because our message pions of the weak, oppressed great is your reward in heaven.” be “a light for revelation to the redeems sent Jesus to the cross. and our lives are inescapable re- and marginalized. For instance, Gentiles, and for glory to your And it’s why we ourselves should minders of what it means to tran- the American criminal justice © 2013 Prison Fellowship. Metax- people Israel,” and then gives expect to be rejected. By the scend ourselves and live as if there system is in desperate need of as is the voice of “Breakpoint,” a Mary the news that will “pierce way, we in the West should count were something greater than our reform. Offenders and their radio commentary, formerly featur- her heart”: Her son will be a our blessings. A Pew Forum own desires. families should have no better ing the late Chuck Colson. Is it time to rethink ‘old fashioned’ values? “Personal leadership Every day is made Every day we have multiple op- night. Perhaps just as importantly, ter than others. Some decisions is the process of keeping up of many decisions portunities to express our values, it allows us to relax. The mental make sense, and others don’t. your vision and values based on what’s real- and, frankly, many of us drop the toll of cheating, lying or stealing before you and aligning ly important. In fact, ball. But what seems like some- is draining. Trying to remember “No amount of ability is of the slight- your life to be congruent I would go so far as thing insignifi cant now can easily the lie you told your boss the last est avail without honor.” with them.” to say that most un- become something huge tomor- time so today’s lie will match up — Andrew Carnegie, — Stephen Covey, successful people are row. can literally wear you out. industrialist, businessman, leadership consultant unsuccessful because and philanthropist and writer they either can’t or “We may defi ne therapy as a search “Education without values, as use- won’t decide on the for value.” ful as it is, seems rather to make man a Your power to choose is remark- One of the most important priorities — Abraham Maslow, more clever devil.” able. Your ability to change your competitive catego- Phil Cooke in their lives. psychologist and philosopher — C. S. Lewis, author of “The life is directly connected to your ries of computer apps these days In writing my latest book, I Chronicles of Narnia” ability to make choices and to take is the category everyone terms learned that the secret to under- The problem really isn’t hav- responsibility for those choices. In productivity. I’ve discovered that standing your priorities is having ing values; the problem is living Values matter. They’re the map other words, your daily decisions half the battle of getting things values. Values are the bumpers on them out. Sure, we all value hon- on the journey of self-discovery determine your destiny. The point done is just getting them down. the bowling alley of life. They de- esty, integrity and forgiveness, that leads to discovering your is that your career and your life Grabbing a swirling list of things termine our boundaries—how far but when pressed, do we really purpose in life. Discovering that need to be aligned with your values. to do out of my head and order- we’ll go on questionable issues. live them out? And what about purpose without a sense of values Whatever you choose to do can’t ing them in a prioritized list helps Knowing what matters—what you when it costs us? Are we willing is like being unable to make a de- contradict or confl ict with your ba- me relax. value—is absolutely the key to to be honest when it’s so easy to cision about which turn to make. sic principles. But the greatest aspect of these living a life of meaning and pur- change our tax return? Or tell the In many ways our culture has lost The foundation of your life is apps for me is priorities—high- pose. truth when it comes to helping a its sense of values; I worry about what gives you the confi dence to lighting the tasks on the list that Values determine what’s im- coworker get the raise you want? a generation that’s been brought make strong decisions, and that really matter. Imagine making portant and help determine your Or supporting your spouse when up afraid to make choices for fear foundation is ultimately created daily decisions without a sense of daily decisions. And while values he or she is driving you crazy or of offending someone. We’ve be- from what you value. what’s important. Do I work on infl uence the big choices—your not paying attention to you? come a culture afraid to make my new book, or answer e-mail? chances of cheating on your Pursuing a life of value can be judgments and proscribe values Cooke, Ph.D. is a media producer Do I plan my wife’s birthday or spouse, robbing a bank or killing costly. It comes with a price. But to anything because of our over- and strategist. His new book is “One work on a blog post? Do I do my your neighbor—they also govern what we exchange for that price is whelming fear of offending. But Big Thing: Discovering What You taxes or fi x the plumbing prob- a million small decisions we make the ability to hold our head high something inside knows that’s Were Born to Do.” Find out more lem? every day. during the day and sleep well at not true. Some choices are bet- at philcooke.com. www.christianexaminer.com IE April 2013 • CHRISTIAN EXAMINER • 5
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