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Milford Reaches Orange Selectmen Hear Contract $5 Million Grievances From Police Retirees Settlement In By Brandon T. Bisceglia Maren Sanchez Retirees from the Orange Police Department aired their grievances about Murder contradictions regarding retiree benefits in their contracts at the Dec. 11 Board of By Brandon T. Bisceglia Selectmen meeting. Orange resident and former police officer The City of Milford has reached a George Geane took the stand during the settlement for $5 million with the estate of public participation portion of the meeting a student who was murdered by a friend at and said he and other retirees from the Jonathon Law High School. department felt that several questions Maren Sanchez, 16, was stabbed to death about their contracts had not been properly by fellow student Christopher Plaskon in addressed. They argue that certain portions the school’s hallway on April 25, 2014. She of the contract spelling out their life was attacked in retaliation for turning down insurance and medical benefits are not being his invitation to the junior prom. enforced properly. He said that fellow department retiree The lawsuit, filed by Sanchez’s estate Frank Esposito had sent the board a notice in 2016, alleged two school counselors claiming an anticipatory breach of contract and a school nurse failed to follow school and had followed up in November, but that district protocol after Sanchez told them he had not received a response from the in November 2013 that Plaskon had board since then. threatened suicide and acts of self-harm by “All we’re asking is in good faith Retired Orange police officer George Geane and several of his fellow retirees addressed the Board of Selectmen cutting himself with a knife and could be a at their Dec. 11 meeting about an ongoing dispute over their contract benefits. Image courtesy of Orange information on this,” Geane said, “and Government Access Television. danger to others. we’re requesting the board take a second Five months after Sanchez brought look at this. We don’t want this to go any “does not request that this go to the Board as the Board of Selectmen was concerned. her misgivings to a guidance counselor, farther than this board, and I don’t think of Selectmen to be addressed at a meeting.” Zeoli said one of the concerns relating to Plaskon killed her on school grounds. anybody else does either.” He pointed out that board had been a deduction for Social Security was set at The lawsuit, led by plaintiff attorney First Selectman Jim Zeoli said he thought advised about the complaint in an executive the federal level, not at the town level. David Golub, alleged Plaskon “articulated that the retirees had received a response session, and that the retirees should already “Our contract says ‘no cost to the express intent to harm Maren Victoria from the town’s labor attorney on the matter. have received a letter from the town. Zeoli employee,’” Geane replied, adding that the Sanchez” leading up to her death. “This document you refer to,” Zeoli said, said that was the end of the discussion as far Continued on page 11. State law requires that school personnel who are informed of students who may be considering harming themselves or others to take certain actions, including report Milford Digital Billboard Measure Fails the information, interview the student and create a safety plan. The guidance counselor did not comply with these requirements, the lawsuit said. “In particular,” it said, the counselor “did not report the information Maren Victoria Sanchez reported about Christopher Plaskon to the high school administration or DCF, did not cause Christopher Plaskon to be interviewed or evaluated by the school nurse, and did not create a safety plan.” The settlement still must be approved by the Probate Court but will not incur any out-of-pocket expense to the Milford Board The Milford Planning & Zoning Board at its Dec. 17 meeting narrowly failed to allow digital billboards along I-95. Photo by Dwight Burdette. of Education or the city. The settlement will be paid by the board’s insurer. By Brandon T. Bisceglia Attorney Kevin J. Curseaden of Milford- detract from the New England charm of the Plaskon was convicted of murder after based Curseaden & Moore had brought the region. pleading no contest in June 2016 and is You won’t see any of those digital proposed change before the P&Z on behalf Digital billboards allow for displays to serving a 25-year prison sentence. billboards with rotating displays along I-95 of his client, Dominic DeMartino, who change, often at a rate of around every 10 Donna Cimarelli, who is Sanchez’s mother through Milford – for now. owns an industrial building at 45 Banner seconds. Though research has shown that and executor of her estate, has used the The city’s Planning & Zoning Board Dr. that already has a non-digital billboard such displays do attract drivers’ attention to tragedy of her daughter’s death to build the failed by one vote at its Dec. 17 meeting that faces the highway’s northbound lanes. a greater degree than billboards with static Maren Sanchez Home Foundation, a nonprofit to approve changes to the zoning laws that At public hearings in November and images, there is little conclusive evidence dedicated to educating and empowering girls would have allowed the billboards. December, Milford residents came out to date that they have any impact on traffic and young women to defend themselves The vote, though 5-4 in favor, failed against the electronic billboards, arguing safety. against emotional, psychological and verbal because regulation changes require at least among other things that they would In opening the discussion, P&Z Chair manipulation and physical violence. six votes to pass. contribute to distracted driving and would Jim Quish came out in favor of the of the Continued on page 11. Continued on page 2.

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The New Haven and Derby Railroad in 1927. Photo courtesy of the Orange Historical Society.

Continued from page 1. Milford Digital Billboard Measure Fails billboards. He said he had heard some of the Board members John Grant, Robert Satti community or neighborhoods. It doesn’t billboards. arguments against them and rejected some and Scott Marlow, however, all pushed back promote new development. It doesn’t do Kader described own experience driving of those that cited safety. on the perceived benefits. anything for our open space. It doesn’t along I-95 and seeing a sign for a concert “The DOT allows them in cities and states Grant said he always goes back to do anything for public facilities. There’s that interested him. The sign had just all over the country,” he said. the purpose of zoning regulations when basically no benefit to this, other than maybe changed, and he was watching it, waiting Board member Tom Panzella concurred considering such decisions, and couldn’t a little bit on the economic side.” for the display to change back. with Quish, saying it would increase find how allowing digital billboards served He also pointed out that because billboards “I said, ‘What am I doing? I’m supposed tax revenue to the city and allow greater that purpose. are taxed as personal property, their taxable to driving,’” he said. visibility for small businesses. “It doesn’t do anything about protecting value declines over time. Quish and Panzella voted for the change “You could have public service messages, or promoting the public health, safety or Member Jim Kader said he had initially along with Carl S. Moore, Nancy Austin and amber alerts – it’s got a lot of good benefits welfare of the community,” Grant said. “It supported the regulation change but was Brian Kaligian. Grant, Satti, Marlow and to it,” he said. has nothing about preserving the existing moved by public testimony against the Kader voted against it. COLDWELL BANKER The Law Office of HAPPY NEW YEAR! ORANGE 855 GRASSY HILL ROAD ON DEPOSIT! LISTED AT $339,000 David Crow, LLC Well cared for 4 Bedroom, 2.1 Bath, 2286 sf Colonial. Thinking of Selling? Inventory is Low! Call me for a complimentary market evaluation of your home. SARA TUFANO ~ 203.623.8402

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Register by Feb. 28 on the Orange Public Schools website at oess.org. You can click on the pop-up for “Kindergarten Registration.” Save the date for kindergarten parent orientation on Wednesday, April 22. Milford Rotarian Receives Prestigious Award The Rotary Club of Milford has chosen its cracker at the annual Milford Rotary Lobster own Bill Parry III as this year’s recipient of Bake and has helped to cook and serve Rotary District 7980’s Norman K. Parcells meals at the Beth-El Center’s soup kitchen. Award. This award, presented each year in He was one of the founding members of memory of Parcells, is given to a Rotarian the club’s Blues, Brews, and BBQ event, who exemplifies his spirit of service above and has been part of the team distributing self, leadership, and dedication to Rotary dictionaries to third graders in the Milford and community initiatives. schools. He currently serves as a member of During Parry’s more than 13 years of the club’s Board of Directors. membership in the Rotary Club of Milford Parry is a lifelong Milford resident and is he has been the assistant chair for the a local realtor with Joy Real Estate Services, Milford Rotary Food Tent at the Milford located downtown on the Milford Green. Oyster Festival, works each year as a lobster For more information visit milfordrotary.org. Swimmers from the West Haven Wizards hold encouraging signs. Photo courtesy of Rebecca Charron. The Wizards swim team, which includes individual medley to win second by only members from Milford and Orange, lost a 4/10 of a second. Aarya Mulmi of Orange Orange’s Belfonti Chosen close meet to the Madison Marlins by a score made third place in the 11-12 girls 200-yard of 310-349. They are now 2-1 for the season. individual medley by 3/10 of a second, and To Lead Amity BOE Despite the loss, 116 swimmers had Kaleigh Morton of Milford did the same for The Amity Regional School District No. from Worcester Polytechnic Institute and personal best times in one or more of their the 13-14 girls by 4/10 of a second. Mulmi 5 Board of Education elected John Belfonti, an MBA from Fairfield University. He events. Wizard swimmers won first place again touched out her competition by less an Orange resident, to serve as chair at its is a Connecticut Registered Professional in 29 events and swept the top three spots than 3/10 of a second to win the 11-12 girls Dec. 9 meeting. Belfonti began his tenure Engineer and currently serves as president of in three events. One team record was also 50-yard freestyle. on the Board of Education in April 2015. Environmental Engineering, Inc. in Milford. broken. The closest race of the day was in the girls During his time with the board he has served At the same meeting Patricia Cardoza of Macie Rascoll of Milford finished strong 15 and over age group. Kaya Vital of Milford on the Facilities Committee and has been Woodbridge was reelected as vice chair; Dr. for the 13-14 girls in the 200-yard freestyle, finished third in the 100-yard breaststroke by chair of the Amity Finance Committee. Jennifer Turner of Bethany was elected as earning a third-place finish by 4/10 of a just 6/100 of a second. A 1990 graduate of Amity Regional treasurer; George Howard of Orange was second. Gianna Cassone of Milford finished For more information on the Wizards, visit High School, Belfonti earned a Bachelor of selected to serve as deputy treasurer; and Carla strong for the 9-10 girls in the 100-yard westhavenwizards.org. Science degree in mechanical engineering Eichler of Orange was chosen as secretary.

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State Sen. (D-14) State Rep. (R-114) State Rep. (R-119) State Rep. (R-117) James Maroney Themis Klarides Kathy Kennedy Charles Ferraro 2019 was a year where great progress With the advent of the new year, was made in several crucial areas. The Connecticut will log a number of new laws In December, the General Assembly held The 2020 legislative session is right advancements made in the previous year on its books. Whether they prove wise or a Special Session, to vote on an agreement around the corner, starting on Wednesday, reached between Connecticut hospitals and set a solid foundation for the road ahead. wasteful remains to be seen and, of course, Feb. 5. Compared to the odd-numbered the state that settles a nearly five-year-old In this edition, I’d like to touch on some that is in the eye of the beholder. Let’s hope years in the legislature, the even-numbered lawsuit that could have exposed the state to of the positive legislative moves made in your lawmakers proved sage in the past years are a short session generally focused a roughly $4 billion liability. 2019. year – my guess is not in all cases. But there on budgetary, revenue or fiscal matters. Milford Hospital was one of the affected Something I am incredibly interested in is always a new year and a new legislative The major issues that I believe we will be hospitals in the lawsuit, and before the and excited about are opportunity zones, session around the corner. Mark the first discussing next session will be transportation fiscal repercussions permanently damaged or OZs. A recently established federal infrastructure, the legalization of sports Wednesday of February on your calendar the state or the hospital it became clear to designation created by the Tax Cuts and betting and marijuana, the state’s budget for the start of the session. It extends until me that this agreement was the best way to Jobs Act of 2017 incentivizes long-term deficit and structural budget reforms – just the first week of May. rectify missteps taken by former Gov. Dannel investment, typically in lower-income The state sales tax of 6.35 percent was to name a few. Malloy and the previous legislatures. Ideally, Last year, Gov. Ned Lamont and areas, through certain advantages such as expanded to some new goods and services we wouldn’t be in this situation to begin with, payment deferment. OZs are “challenged not previously covered. For instance, it legislative Democrats tried pushing through but given that the hospital industry provides nearly 82 toll gantries throughout the state. but promising” areas. Our state has 72 OZs will cost more to park your car and launder an essential service to our community and spread across 27 municipalities. your clothes this year. But if you are a The majority party, after public outrage, is one of the fastest-growing job sectors in scaled back their plan and now are pushing Legislation I authored that we passed will small business owner, you will get a slight the state, we in state government owe them layer state incentives on top of the federal break on your overhead because the $250 for trucks-only tolling, “for now.” The fairness and transparency. governor is insisting that there be a special incentives, strengthening the prospects of Business Entity Tax you currently pay for The hospital lawsuit dates back to a 2011 investing in our state’s OZs, making them the privilege of just opening your doors has session in January to vote on trucks-only expansion of the provider tax to include tolling, but members of his party are saying more attractive and drawing investments gone away. hospitals. At that point, the entirety of the he doesn’t have the votes. My colleague from out of Connecticut as well. Insurance companies will now be required annual $350 million paid by hospitals – on the other side of the aisle, state Rep. This legislation is already in motion. In to extend coverage for breast ultrasounds plus $50 million more – was returned to the Bob Godfrey (D-Danbury) said in a recent October, a new website was unveiled which for all women over 40. Out-of-pocket costs industry. article with Patch that he doesn’t believe the will enable investors and developers to for ultrasounds and mammograms will be But as the state struggled to recover from governor has the votes for tolls. search available projects with information banned. The legislature in 2019 also passed the recession and budget deficits grew, “I think people and legislators don’t trust updated by cities, towns and property a law to expand coverage for hearing aids. the user fee increased while payments to owners. The site, ctopportunityzones. Each person will get coverage increased to hospitals decreased, prompting the hospital Gov. Lamont and his proposals,” Godfrey com, will include shovel-ready projects, pay for two hearing aids within a two-year industry to sue the state in 2015 for abusing said. “I think that’s a real issue in people’s transit-oriented development and pertinent period, regardless of cost. its fiduciary responsibility and violating opposition to his proposal.” facts about local geography in our state. Lawmakers also saw fit to create greater federal guidelines. Godfrey said the commercial trucks tolls Municipalities with OZs will also be able to safeguards against blighted properties that Gov. Ned Lamont announced earlier this will make consumer items “more expensive” post and promote projects as they become can pose hazards to neighborhoods and month that the state had struck a settlement as a result of the additional shipping costs. available. This legislation presents our state towns and cities. Courts can now appoint with the Connecticut Hospital Association, I think Democratic Rep. Godfrey and I see with the potential to unlock an estimated $6 receivers, or people with interest in the the state’s leading hospital industry group eye-to-eye on tolls and trucks-only tolling. I trillion in unrealized capital gains. abandoned properties to rehabilitate them. and the plaintiff in the suit. don’t believe tolls are the answer and I will Health, wellness and security are The structures must be uninhabited and Under the agreement, the state will make continue to speak out against them. important parts of a thriving community exhibit at least three conditions that are of a one-time payment of $79.3 million in Lamont’s budget secretary recently as well. Last year I am proud to have led concern to localities such as blight. The unappropriated monies and unpaid Medicaid announced that the state is again looking passage of legislation that established an new law applies to communities with more payments to hospitals, as well as increase at a budget shortfall of more than $20 elder abuse registry. than 35,000 residents. Medicaid reimbursement rates and decrease million and that “the governor is prepared Connecticut has one of the oldest During the long sessions of five months taxes on hospitals between now and 2026. to exercise rescission authority if necessary populations in the country, making this that we conclude in June we typically pass Altogether, the agreement costs the state to mitigate against ending the year with an legislation necessary to protect many as many as 400 pieces of legislation that $180.7 million over the next two fiscal years. operating budget.” state residents. According to the National become effective at various times of the Both the House and Senate unanimously Once again, our state enters a new year Council on Aging, elders who have been year. This list just represents a sampling of approved the agreement in a special session with a budget deficit and little hope that we victims of abuse have a 300 percent higher the newest laws that may make a difference on Dec. 18. won’t see one at the end of 2020. risk of death compared to elders who have in your lives. The hospital settlement is an important I am urging the governor and the not been abused. Additionally, in the last lesson for the state, and we must learn from majority in the legislature to sit down with seven years in Connecticut, the number of it going forward. The state must keep its Republicans next session to find common elder abuse investigations has doubled. Maroney Continued commitments and not continue to kick the ground and not rule our state by themselves. can down the road to avoid our budgetary I always remain optimistic about the The registry is a public, easy-to-find Jonathan Law High School to ban the usage problems. future of our state and will be looking next database that will be compiled from six of harmful polystyrene containers in our There is a lot of mistrust of both state and year to find bipartisan solutions to move our other registries of offenders who have schools, I led passage of a bill which will federal government right now, and my hope state forward. been convicted of assault or other forms add dementia training to the continuing is this hospital settlement will set us on a new As always, feel free to contact me with of abuse. This user-friendly online tool education component for doctors and nurses, path of fiscal responsibility in 2020 – not any questions, concerns or ideas you may will be maintained by the Department of and many more important legislative moves. just more tax increases, tolls and more state have at [email protected] Emergency Services and Public Protection; I am also proud to be part of a caucus that spending as the only way to dig the state out or call 860-240-8700. the Department of Health will also publish passed the Time’s Up bill. This will increase of the fiscal mess that we find ourselves in it on its website. The Commission on certain sexual harassment penalties, extend each and every year. Women, Children and Seniors will also the time limits people have to file lawsuits If you have any questions, concerns or provide a portal to the database on its for sexual assault, allow more time for ideas please feel free to contact me by phone website. You can view the repository at criminal prosecution of sexual assault and at 1-800-842-1423 or by email at Kathy. We Regret wp.cga.ct.gov/cwcseo/registry-repository. require more employer-sponsored sexual [email protected]. The registry will give families peace of harassment training. The Error mind and a useful tool to ensure the safety These successes made 2019 a productive Two photographs on page 6 of the of their loved ones. year which will improve the lives of Dec. 19, 2019 issue for the Goodspeed I also authored legislation to assist our Connecticut residents and working families. Opera House’s “A Connecticut state’s veterans in finding good jobs in I am optimistic about what is to come in Christmas Carol” attributed the wrong the advanced manufacturing field via 2020 and as always, remain open to ideas photographer. The pictures were taken the Military to Machinist program. I and input from the community I am so proud by Diana Sobolewski. worked with high school students from to serve. January 9, 2019 Milford-Orange Times Page 5 Opinion & Editorial Editorial: Billboards Illustrate Fine Line Of Progress By Brandon T. Bisceglia also fundamentally unfair, according to this & Zoning Board at its Dec. 17 meeting. revamp the Firelite Plaza as a mixed residential attitude, to use the levers of power granted and Board members who supported the development with multiple apartments because The recently-concluded debate over digital funded by current residents to do things that billboards made the case for progress: it’s it was deemed too intense for the area. At the billboards along I-95 in Milford illustrates a might adversely affect some of them. done all over the country already; it generates same time as they were rejecting that specific perennial line that both Milford and Orange It’s a tricky line to walk, though Milford additional, albeit limited, revenue; it provides development, they cited their desire to accept must walk between progress and preservation. has for the most part done it expertly. Take a businesses and the city itself new opportunities more proposals of a similar nature. The argument on the side of progress says stroll around downtown any time and witness to advertise and communicate. They also That’s the dilemma. Everyone recognizes that municipalities benefit by encouraging new the seamless integration of bustling businesses pointed out that old-school billboards already that towns need to change, to remain dynamic. ideas and practices, not being too restrictive with duck ponds and waterfalls. tower over that stretch of highway. But no one wants to change too much too about who can come in or what they can do. Still, that bucolic impression isn’t likely Opponents, though, also made worthwhile quickly. You want to be open to innovation, because what anyone passing through the city on I-95 points. Regardless of the safety implications Connecticut, with its 169 separate municipal it attracts young people, businesses and other is getting. What you see instead are the NRG – which are disputed in the scientific literature governments and a longer buildup of local opportunities. Disruption may happen, but Energy plant on one end as you cross over and appear minor if they exist at all – do we laws than most other states, already has some that’s the price of admission. the Housatonic River and the Pilot truck stop really need more messages bearing down of the most difficult-to-navigate zoning rules The preservationist impulse, on the other as you pass exit 40. A quick trip off any exit upon us, especially when our focus should be in the country. They have helped at times to hand, argues that the higher priority should puts you onto the highly developed Boston on driving? The economic benefits are hardly conserve the state’s history and character. But be to protect those who already have a stake Post Road in front of a McDonalds or the make-or-break for the city. Is the sacrifice in they have also at times been an impediment to in the community – the current residents and Connecticut Post Mall. “Historic charm” isn’t the city’s quality of life truly worth those small adaptability. taxpayers. Especially in history-laden, forested the first phrase that comes to mind. monetary gains? We probably don’t need digital billboards. Connecticut, people expect a certain small- The preservationist impulse won out in the Orange has had its own run-ins with these But we do need to be willing to shake things town atmosphere, a New England charm. case of the digital billboards, with the proposal questions over the years. Most recently that up once in a while. Without some short-term You don’t want to drive those people out. It’s narrowly falling to defeat before the Planning town’s zoning board turned down a proposal to disruption, all you get is long-term stagnation. The Book Club: Vintage Rachel Maddow Rachel Maddow, Blowout, Crow, 2019 For true addicts of Rachel compelled to fold its tents and Maddow, one hour every night return to the U.S. All of Russia’s is simply not enough. Her book campaign interference in the 2016 supplies the boost needed for U.S. election was, according to us to get through the long hours Maddow, motivated by the need until her next show. The subject to install an administration that is the global oil and gas industry was committed to reversing the and how it crushes democratic sanctions. Contributing to these governance, puts lives and health efforts, of course, was ExxonMobil, at risk and frustrates our ability to Peter which enriched Republican achieve a carbon-neutral energy Hechtman political action committees by balance. close to $200 million. The book has many villains, but at the top There are, in addition to the Russian story, of the heap is Vladimir Putin. Chief among quite a few other gems in this book among the supporting villains is Rex Tillerson, which the story of the politics of fracking in former CEO of ExxonMobil and former U.S. Oklahoma is really juicy. Secretary of State. If you are particularly attached to The Russia that Putin intends to govern Maddow’s way of telling a tale you will will be a petrostate in which the country’s not be disappointed. All her stories begin vast reserves of oil and gas with documenting the banal are harvested and sold through details of ordinary lives companies that are either state- before meandering around to owned or owned by oligarchs significance, and all her stories whose fortunes are deeply tied are told with highly colorful to Putin. This process leads to epithets. unaccountable billions that are These include the following: not derived from taxpaying “with the climate crisis bearing citizens and so do not need down like Godzilla over to be employed in providing downtown Tokyo”; “The meek services or social and economic may inherit the earth, but the development. They simply bold could certainly screw it up enrich a gangster empire. in the interim”; “When Sechin The problem is that did smile, he looked like a fairy- Russian hydrocarbon reserves are locked tale ogre who had just swallowed a small in forbidding Siberian tundra or frozen tasty child”; and “Qorvis Communications, a Arctic waters and require highly advanced public relations firm specializing in lipstick- technology to recover – technology that only on-a-pig operations.” the West can supply. Enter Tillerson with a No wonder oil is called “the excrement of set of more up-to-date extraction toys. The the devil.” collaboration produced one highly successful This is a journalist’s book, not a scholarly Milford-Orange Times Arctic well whetting appetites in the world’s exercise. That frustrates the attempt to find Stephen Hechtman, Publisher: [email protected] oil boardrooms for more. some sources for her statements. Patricia Miller, Entertainment Editor: [email protected] But politics reared its ugly head. Putin’s Brandon T. Bisceglia, Editor: [email protected] Creative Director: Wendy Macomber Photographers: Steve Cooper • Lexi Crocco land grab in the Crimea and encroachments Peter Hechtman is the founder and owner of in Eastern Ukraine resulted in a declaration The Book Maven. Peter can be reached at In The House: Rep. Themis Klarides (R-114) Rep. Charles Ferraro (R-117) Kathy Kennedy (R-119) of sanctions against Russia. ExxonMobil was [email protected]. Senator’s Seat: Sen. James Maroney Columnists: Christine Angeli , Milford Library Thomas P. Hurley, Commentary Carol Smullen, Orange Chamber Cathy Bradley, Running Barbara Lehrer, Real Estate Raymond Spaziani, Wine Milford Announces Christmas Tree Joanne Byrne, Retirement Annamarie Mastrangelo, Flooring Pam Staneski, Milford Chamber Cynthia V. Catapano, Local Wildlife John Moffitt, Life Online Hon. Beverly K. Streit-Kefalas, Probate David Crow, Conversations Amir Mohammad, MD, MPH, Health Eric Tashlein, Finances Pickup, Recycling Pat Dray, Gardening Trish Pearson, Insurance Fern Tausig, Hypnosis The Milford Public Works Department a.m. to 1 p.m. The Department of Public Richard Dumbrill, Rotary Club Karen Quinn Panzer, Travel Roger Tausig, Rotary Club will pick up Christmas trees this year. Works will be there to chip the trees. Steven P. Floman, Legal Tedra Schneider, Interior Design Michele Tenney, Health However, Mayor Benjamin G. Blake is For those residents who choose not Peter Hechtman, Books Priscilla Searless, Town Historian Trish O’Leary Treat, Profiles encouraging residents to recycle their trees. to recycle their trees, the Public Works The Milford-Orange Times is published by The Orange Times LLC, P.O. Box 584, Orange, CT, 06477 Anyone wishing to recycle trees can bring Department will pick up Christmas trees Phone: 203.799.7500 Online: www.milford-orangetimes.com them to the Walnut Beach or Tri-Beach throughout the month of January. Uncut Facebook: @milfordorangetimes Instagram: @theorangetimes Twitter:@OrangeTimesCT Parking Lots on Saturday, Jan. 11 from 9 trees should be left at curbside. Page 6 Milford-Orange Times January 9, 2019 Arts Matters “Arts expand the mind, the heart and the soul.” –Anonymous By Patricia Miller actor, singer and storyteller performs MILFORD ARTS COUNCIL (40 his favorites from Broadway and other Railroad Ave. South, Milford) presents a American songs. laugh-inducing new comedy, Four Weddings The National Ballet of Odessa performs and an Elvis, by Nancy Prick and directed by the ballet Romeo and Juliet, which tells the Tanya Feduck-Smith on Fridays, Saturdays tale of the star-crossed lovers in dance on and Sundays from Jan. 31 to Feb. 16 at the Saturday, Feb. 1. Eastbound Theatre. For tickets, go to shubert.com, go to the The action takes place in Las Vegas, where box office or call 203-562-5666. we meet the owner of a wedding chapel, who stages four hilarious weddings. Bev LONG WHARF THEATRE (222 Sargent and Frank are getting married by the King, Dr., New Haven) presents “I Am My Own Elvis, as revenge on their exes. Vanessa Wife,” the inspiring true story of Charlotte and Bryan, aging stars, are getting married van Mahsdorf, an openly transgender Jewish as a publicity ploy. Martin and Fiona, a woman. She bravely survives both the Nazi gentle postal worker and a tough ex-con, and the Communist regimes of East Germany are trying to get married before the police with her unique blend of strength, savvy, arrive. And the final wedding is the funniest and grace. It is a powerful and life-affirming of them all. Twists and turns of the plot Mandy Patinkin will be appearing in concert Jan. 25 at the Schubert Theatre. Photo by Valerie Hinojosa. masterpiece, and this is the first major revival will keep the audience engaged and humor making skills with a professional chocolatier. Storrs Campus. Producer and musical of this work in a decade. It promises to leave suffuses it all. The cast includes Stephanie Her presentation will include a discussion of director Daniel Sneed presents “We Shall audiences speechless. Jacobs of Stratford, Jennifer Ju of Milford, the kinds of chocolate available and how to Overcome” to celebrate and honor the legacy For tickets, call 203-787-4282 or go to Cody Knox of Fairfield, Colleen Leary of work with them. She also will demonstrate of King. The Storrs performance is a stop on longwharf.org. Milford, Herman Livingston of Bridgeport, the making of chocolate truffles. the 40-city national tour. The musical event Nicky Nunez of Stratford, Thursday Savage The second program, a mellow and warm features African American musical traditions NEW HAVEN SYMPHONY of Stratford, Kevin Sisointhone of Shelton one, with be on Saturday, Feb. 8 at 2 p.m. interwoven with words from King’s recorded ORCHESTRA (500 College St., New and Paul Templeton of Orange. Ju, Savage featuring Richard “Cookie” Thomas and his speeches. Haven) does not have a Classic Series and Templeton have all appeared in several trio. Artie Dixon, “drummer extraordinaire” Call 860-486-4226 or go to Jorgensen. concert in January. The next Classic Series Orange Players shows. Ju also served as co- and an Orange resident, will perform as uconn.edu. concert is Thursday, Feb. 6 at 7:30 p.m. at president of the Orange Players. well as Dave Daldario on bass and Joe Woolsey Hall. The program will include Friday and Saturday night performances McWilliams on keyboard. All are great THE BRUCE MUSEUM (1 Museum Dr., Haydn’s Symphony No. 4 and Mozart’s begin at 8 p.m. and patrons are encouraged musicians and have performed with musical Greenwich) will grow into the New Bruce Symphony No. 38. Also included are two to BYOEEE (bring your own everything, icons Ahmad Jamal, Janis Ian, Michael Museum, as it is now in the early stages of dramatic works for solo violin orchestrated except entertainment). Concessions will also Bolton and many others. renovation and expansion. The $45 million by Arvo Part and Aaron Kernis. The concert be available. The Sunday performances are project will double the museum’s size to master and violin soloist will be David matinees starting at 2 p.m. with traditional “Cookie” began his career in the 1950s in 70,000 square feet. There will be a dedicated Southorn. The NHSO will be conducted by seating. For more information or tickets, call Philadelphia, where, at the age of 14, he auditorium and four galleries for permanent Music Director Alasdair Neale. 203-878-6647 or go to milfordarts.org. opened for B.B. King. It is said that King was collections. Education is a focus too, and an For tickets, call 203-782-4282 or go to wowed by the young singer’s voice. Today, extra classroom or two will allow the Bruce newhavensymphony.org. To reserve a seat FRIENDS OF THE CASE MEMORIAL his performances are filled with classic to host about 50,000 students a year, about on the bus from High Plains Community LIBRARY (176 Tyler City Rd., Orange) standards. He draws inspiration from King, twice the number it can accommodate now. Center in Orange, call 203-878—7417. have scheduled two programs they are Frank Sinatra and Johnny Hartman. You will There will also be four times as much space sponsoring at the library that are free hear of bit of each of these vocal stylists for special exhibitions. WARNER THEATRE (68 Main St., and open to the public. The first is called when he sings. He has appeared throughout The areas of the old museum being Torrington) is holding a performance of “The Chocolate Wars,” which is all about New England, including appearances at renovated this winter will be open to the MOMIX in honor of its 40th anniversary on chocolate delights. Nancy Brandif will Foxwoods, the Levitt Pavilion in Westport, public on Feb. 1. The project will continue Saturday, Jan. 18 at 8 p.m. and Sunday, Jan. demonstrate many classic chocolate desserts the Palace in Stamford, the Silvermine with an expected date for the opening of the 19 at 2 p.m. that will not be disastrous for one’s diet or Tavern in Westport and the Jackie Robinson new Bruce in the summer of 2022. MOMIX sprang from the creative genius lifestyle on Saturday, Jan. 26 at 2 p.m. Festival. He has also appeared in New York The new museum director, Robert of Moses Pendleton, artistic director and Brandif was interested in dessert cooking City at the Carlyle, the Waldorf-Astoria and Wolterstorff, says that the focus of the new founder of the famed Pilobolus dance troupe. since her childhood. She was brought up in a the 21 Club. His melodious speaking voice Bruce will be more on Connecticut, and MOMIX is a company of dance-illusionists Ukrainian household that featured Viennese- can be heard on corporate videos made for he hopes that the collections will allow who create a world of surrealistic images. style pastries, tortes and pies. She decided Piney Bowes, St. Vincent’s Hospital, the Connecticut to be seen in the context of Pendleton leads the company, using props, that she would develop the recipes into Connecticut Science Center and General the world. The new Bruce will enrich lights, shadows, humor and the use of the versions that were lighter, healthier and more Electric. Connecticut’s artistic scene. body in ever-startling ways. fitted to today’s lifestyle – but still delicious. To register for either event, call the library MOMIX 40 is a collection of the troupe’s To illustrate her thesis, there will be an at 203-897-2170 or go to orange.lioninc. SHUBERT THEATRE (247 College St., most iconic pieces from five different audience taste-off to determine the winning org/. New Haven) offers an array of shows. On shows, plus some pieces from their new version. There will be ample recipes and Saturday, Jan. 18, it’s Angelina Ballerina, show. For tickets, call 860-489-7180 or go to samplings for individual taste-offs as well. JORGENSEN CENTER FOR THE a family-friendly show based on one of warnertheatre.org. Brandif graduated from the gastronomy PERFORMING ARTS (2132 Hillside Rd. Katharine Hubbard’s books. There are shows program at the University of New Haven Unit 3104, Storrs) will host a musical tribute at noon and 3 p.m. Have an event, an idea or a comment? in 2011. In 2014, she traveled to Arles in to Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. on Thursday, Mandy Patinkin appears in concert on Send it to [email protected]. Provence, France, to hone her dessert- Jan. 13 at the University of Connecticut’s Saturday, Jan. 25 at 8 p.m. The acclaimed

MAC Gets State Grant For Bench Project The Connecticut Department of Economic the project. culminating with a gala in September 2021. Presbyterian Church; Bill Bevan, parks and Community Development’s Office of the This grant comes as the MAC is headed The bench project is just the beginning.” commissioner; local artist and muralist Brec Arts has awarded the Milford Arts Council toward celebrating its 50th anniversary in A committee of local artists, city Morgan; George Amato, local artist and one of only 28 project grants for 2020. 2021. representatives, downtown businesses, founding MAC board member; and Miglio. These grants encourage and support arts- “To see art outside, up-close, tangible and service organizations will review The deadline for submissions is Feb. 21. based projects exhibiting artistic excellence and accessible to so many people is very submissions and match them to sites. Six Final selection by the committee will be aligned with the state arts initiative. powerful,” said Paige Miglio, the MAC’s locations have been suggested as bench sites. awarded by late March, leaving four months The MAC’s project grant, titled “Meet Me executive director. “To be granted the The committee members include state Sen. for fabrication. Installations by the city will at the Bench,” calls for creatives, artists, and ability to produce six such experiences is James Maroney; Milford alderman Bryan take place during the summer and early craftsmen to create and install six unique immeasurable and very important to our Anderson; Milford Public Library director fall of 2020. Projects must be designed to benches reimagined as artistic and community organization’s mission to grow and impact Christine Angeli; Beth-El Center executive withstand the elements and public use for experiences throughout downtown Milford. our community through our vision. We director Jennifer Paradis; Tracy Bonosconi, at least three to five years, with little or no The MAC is reaching beyond its pool of couldn’t be prouder or more excited to bring owner of LOVET Shop and Downtown maintenance. artists to equitably challenge, engage and this project to fruition, leading us into our Milford Business Association chair; Carol Visit milfordarts.org for details, requests hire individuals or groups of engineers, 50th year. The MAC has started planning Kuryla, Metro Star marketing director; Nell for proposals, project narrative and artistic architects, woodworkers, metal-forgers, tile- exciting events to celebrate our anniversary Moll of the Milford Regional Chamber of inspiration. Questions may be sent to layers, masons, craftsmen and artisans for and we will begin to roll them out next year, Commerce; Curran Bishop, pastor of Christ [email protected]. January 9, 2019 Milford-Orange Times Page 7 Beatty Joins Board Of Orange Foundation Awards Boys & Girls Village Scholarships, Grants The Milford leadership talents to our team,” said Kim The Orange Foundation, which supports who received $9,710 from the Horbal Fund. Boys & Shaunesey, president of BVG. “She brings a residents of the town, has awarded its annual Grants were awarded to the American Legion, Girls Village wealth of experience and expertise that will student scholarships and grants to community Camp Cedarcrest, the Orange Fire Marshal, the announced Dec. be instrumental in helping us continue to organizations. Orange Conservation Commission, the Orange 18 that Dr. Ellen grow and meet the changing needs of those Four students were awarded scholarships: Senior Center, the Amity Teen Center and the Russell Beatty we serve.” Spencer Shepard, who got $2,600 from the Orange Arts and Culture Council. had joined Beatty has had careers in nursing and Charles Flynn Fund; Olivia Pisano, who Members of the Foundation Distribution its Board of higher education in addition to her experience received $2,600, $100 of which came from Committee include chairman Robert Directors. This serving as a three-term alder in Milford. the Thomas Birmingham Fund, $609 from the Archambault, Frank Bailey, Katalin addition brings She has served in many educational, health Harry Haynes Fund, $776 from the Downey Baltimore, Carla Birmingham, Paul Davis, the total number care and business capacities throughout Foundation, and $215 from the Vincent Jaqueline Koral, Santo Galatioto, Jr., Patricia of BGV board her career, including as Vice President of Timmons Fund; Jacob Lettick, who got Miller and John Wesolowski. Milford Alder Dr. Ellen Russell Beatty has joined the Boys members to 13. Academic Affairs at Southern Connecticut $2,600, $971 from the Charles Flynn Fund, For more information about the Foundation, & Girls Village Board of The nonprofit State University. Beatty earned her masters $319 from the Vaughn Fund, $592 from the including the establishment of a fund or Directors. Photo courtesy of Boys & Girls Village. organization and doctorate degrees in education from Benedict Giangarra Fund, and $718 from the application for funds, call Archambault at 203- provides mental Columbia University and also holds a Master Susan Lewin Fund; and Joseph Szewczyk, 795-3716 or go to theorangefoundation.org. health treatment, permanency planning and of Arts degree from New York University. educational services to Connecticut’s most “I am eager and honored to join hands with vulnerable youth and their families. With board colleagues dedicated to the mission of Orange Legislators To Have Office additional locations in Norwalk, Bridgeport Boys & Girls Village,” Beatty said. “The and Waterbury, the organization has been 77-year history of BGV serving youth and Hours With Constituents serving the needs of the state’s at-risk families on their path to successful futures is House Republican Minority Leader Themis constituents and encourage them to talk about children and families for over 77 years. to be applauded.” Klarides (R-114) along with state Reps. any issues, questions or concerns related to “We welcome Dr. Beatty to the board To learn more about Boys & Girls Village, Charles Ferraro (R-117) and Kathy Kennedy state government. Residents are encouraged and look forward to adding her extensive visit BGVillage.org or call 203-877-0300. (R-119) will be holding a legislative office to bring their ideas forward for possible hour in Orange for constituents on Thursday, consideration. The 2020 legislative session Jan. 30. begins on Feb. 5. The coffee hour will take place from 8:30 For anyone who is unable to attend but a.m. to 9:30 a.m. at Orange Town Hall in would like to talk to their state representatives the Lower Meeting Room at 617 Orange you can contact them at 1-800-842-1423 or Center Rd. send an email to Themis.Klarides@housegop. The three legislators that represent the ct.gov, [email protected], or Town of Orange want to hear from their [email protected]. Mental Illness Group To Hold Meeting In Milford The National Alliance on Mental Illness in cases of inclement weather or holidays. will hold its monthly meeting at Bridges Meetings begin at 5:50 p.m. and end at 7 Healthcare in Milford Feb. 4. The p.m. Parking and entrance are at the rear organization holds its meetings on the first of the Bridges building, located at 949 Tuesday of every, with alternative dates Bridgeport Ave. Page 8 Milford-Orange Times January 9, 2019 Home & Garden Real Talk: You Ask, A Pro Answers Start The Year Off Right If you are thinking about moving at all, long term and experienced with to avoid them. The best realtors do 40 transactions a year. then why not sit down with the right agent your needs? As a homeowner you will Over 30 years that is a lot of experience. and review the pros and cons of selling your Perhaps there are reasons why partner with the listing agent Find someone you can trust and maybe you property? now is not exactly the right time you choose. By doing this, you will give it some serious consideration in There are many parts to this puzzle to move. Your family, along both share a process that is 2020. and the perfect person to help you will with the market expert, can set continually changing. Whether it We live in an area that is very desirable. have an assortment of skills. Besides sale expectations that are realistic. is the climate, holidays, personal Orange and Milford set the stage for the New skills, this professional always builds a For example, if you have elderly situations, or just the day-to-day Haven County community. With interest rates relationship with the client first. In order parents who need to move, where busy stuff, you need a buddy, the down, there are droves of buyers looking to for you to be comfortable and feel there is will they go? Is their property one person who has been through get into our towns. Study the market. There a solid foundation between you, you should ready to market? Barbara these issues hundreds of times. is no obligation when you pick the brain of research both an agent and an agency. Planning, problem-solving Lehrer That kind of confidence, that a specialist. Perhaps that trusting feeling you Review the product expertise of the realtor and decision-making skills are straightforward discussion about need is right around the corner. who may become your representative; this is all specialties of the agent. A good agent will the complete future of the transaction, will Best of luck, and happy New Year. Be well. one of the moving parts. Business plans and be aware of the challenges in front of you help you decide if you want to give it a go. trust are always intertwined. Is this person a and pick up on emotional strains that can go How many years has this idea been on your If you need more information on these good listener? Is he or she committed to the along with the process no matter how we try mind? And yet is seems too complicated. issues, email [email protected]. The Garden Spot Plan Ahead To Grow These Winter Beauties Now that most of the garden has gone color to winter landscapes, but turn bright red after the leaves yellow in December or January. Both of these dormant, I like to take the time to admire what they also attract birds that love drop. Like the winterberry, it has natives have a strong pleasing scent that will I consider the winter beauties. to eat them. Remember, this is a berries in the fall which the birds attract pollinators. They are pretty much care- It’s a challenge for those of us in New native shrub, so it supports the love to eat. It will do well in wet free shrubs that just need a sunny location. England to keep color and visual interest in the insect and pollinator ecosystem areas and likes to be cut back in the As with the red twigged dogwood, they can winter garden after all the fall color is gone, in our area. Winterberry is easy spring, removing any branches that grow quite large, so manage them with a little but the season doesn’t have to be a time of a to grow and remains compact. did not turn the bright red color. I spring pruning. colorless landscapes. Some of my favorites for It’s a dioecious plant, which like to cut some of the branches Although it’s a little late for planting these the winter garden are winterberry, red twigged means there are separate male around the winter holidays to add beauties to enjoy this winter, plan for them to dogwoods and witch hazel. Planting these in and female plants, so you should drama in floral designs. It’s a real go into the garden as a backdrop to your lower the garden along with any perennial grasses mass several females with at least Pat Dray standout against the snow. growing plants in the spring and enjoy the full will give your garden color and interest until one male together to give a pop of Witch hazel is another great beauty of them next winter. the early spring flowering bulbs pop up. color in the garden. choice in the garden. The name may be If you’d like to learn more about design You’ve probably noticed bare-branched Another winter favorite is the red twigged familiar to you since they have been used and horticulture, consider joining a garden shrubs with bright red berries. These are a type dogwood shrub, not to be confused with a for centuries for medicinal purposes, such as club. The Garden Club of Orange will be of holly called winterberry or Ilex verticillata. dogwood tree. Although both are in the plant treating insect bites and soothing burns. One of celebrating its ninetieth year in 2020. We just Winterberry is a deciduous holly shrub that is genus Cornus, the shrub will never grow the native varieties is Hamamelis virginiana, keep on growing. native to the eastern U.S. and produces bright into a tree. It will, however, grow quite tall which has rust-colored flowers in October red berries that last through the entire winter. and wide if you don’t prune it annually. Its and November. A later blooming native is Pat Dray is a past president of the Orange Not only do the bright berries add important branches are green while there is foliage and Hamamelis vernalis, which will bloom bright Garden Club. Room 911 When To Consider A General Contractor Sometimes I have clients who ask me to Paying someone for pre- when a worker is needed. Their Most often, the general contractor, who help them on a design/decorating project construction costs based on plans work is inspected. They are held knows your house well, will turn out to be that is pretty straightforward. We pick from an architect or designer is accountable. That alone is worth someone you will call years from now when out furniture, a paint color and artwork far more realistic. Some clients its weight in gold. you have ice dams or a leak emanating from arrangements. I have had said, “What’s the big How much does this service the bathroom sink. To this day, I have peace Other times, it becomes apparent that deal? We’ll put a sink here and cost? It depends if you have the of mind because I can still turn to my original a general contractor may be the way to a bathtub there,” only to find plans or the general contractor’s general contractor who built an addition for go. This is especially the case when a out that a professional such as company has a designer on staff, me 20 years ago. He has been a life saver. client wants to really overhaul an existing a general contractor will know the cost of the building materials, One caveat: too often we hear of people bedroom, bathroom or expand and add that plumbing lines may have to coordination of workers (thus giving sums of money to someone who calls structural elements to a room. Increasing the be moved and electrical outlets Tedra taking a percentage of their fee) himself a general contractor or handyman bathroom space by borrowing space from a reconfigured and more technical and the actual labor of putting or whatever, only to have these people Schneider closet or expanding a closet into a walk-in aspects have to be considered. this project together. disappear. People are scammed – especially closet would be examples. The general contractor will purchase All general contractors will ask for a the older population that may be more If you use a general contractor, you building materials and hire laborers or percentage upfront before the work is vulnerable. should vet them and do due diligence before subcontractors that they have worked started. Often 25 percent of the project Do your homework, and the general employing them. Visit business bureaus or with before. Their reputation is based on cost is a number you’ll hear. That is going contractor can save you hours, weeks and ratings on certain websites – even actually how well these subcontractors do the job. to the purchasing of some of the materials months of aggravation. After all, you’re go and inspect their work. Many people The tile person, the mason, the plumber, and starting the project. From there on in, worth it. want a quick answer, a free estimate, but the electrician, the millworker – all get you will pay incrementally as aspects of the I guarantee you that number will not be involved. Here is the beauty of a general project are completed. Usually, there is a Tedra Schneider can be reached at: accurate. contractor: they coordinate and sequence warranty on the project – a year or more. [email protected] Retired and Rejuvenated Gratitude: A Catalyst To Aging Well Thanksgiving, Christmas, Chanukah and way. But can a simple “thanks” even help you formulate stronger grateful for that happened during the week, Kwanza have come and gone, but it may not really change your life and help you relationships. All of these things while another group wrote about things that be too late to stop and take a second out of age for the better? are important not only when annoyed them each day. A third group wrote your day to say, “Thank you.” In fact, it might A lot of people seem to think so. it comes to aging, but when it about events without any emphasis on them be a great New Year’s resolution to put more There has been a growing trend in comes to life. being positive or negative. After 10 weeks, gratitude into our lives, and even go one step positive psychology research that A study by Robert A. Emmons those who wrote about what they were further by telling others just how much we consistently links gratitude with of the University of California, grateful for reported feeling better about their appreciate who they are and what they do. greater levels of happiness and, in one of the world’s leading lives, exercised more and had fewer hospital These simple gestures could go a long way some cases, more positive health scientific experts on gratitude visits over that time period. in making this world we live in much more outcomes. Being thankful, experts and positive psychology, asked Sometimes we hear about those gratitude “user-friendly.” argue, allows you to feel more Joanne participants to write a few journals where you write each day those Gratitude, it turns out, could be another one positive emotions, better equips Byrne sentences each week. One group things for which you are thankful. This of those ever-elusive keys to aging in the right you to deal with adversity and may wrote about things they were Continued on page 9. January 9, 2019 Milford-Orange Times Page 9 Lifestyle On Your Mind Why Bother Making New Year’s Resolutions? I’m not sure if anyone still goes through your goals. Many people begin I was able to begin every school behind the unconscious mind’s reason for the process of writing down resolutions by imagining or recalling a time year with renewed energy, new the struggle. For example, when someone anymore, but I’m encouraging it, even if you in the past when they failed. They kids and new goals for how I comes for smoking cessation, the part of choose not to keep them. I hope this inspires therefore plan to fail again and would do better in the new year. them that wants to smoke isn’t trying to kill you to consider mindfully putting a few either don’t bother or quit. If you fail to plan, you are them. That part believes it’s helping them to down on paper. Remember, you can’t fail planning to fail. cope with their stress. When they establish I’m reminded of an old Chinese proverb: unless you quit. Failure doesn’t Resolutions can be about coping skills without smoking, that part no “A journey of a thousand miles begins with exist unless you quit. Challenges improving your relationships, longer needs to smoke. The same applies a single step.” It doesn’t matter how long the and setbacks are only feedback improving your habits, improving with every other bad habit. There is always list of resolutions is or how difficult the goals or life lessons. If you learn from your attitude, giving back in some a positive intent in the subconscious mind to are; it’s the start that stops most people. a mistake, it’s not a mistake. The Fern way or finding areas of your life comfort or to protect you against danger, real If you are making resolutions, you are most successful people in the Tausig that you feel need improving. or imagined. setting goals and identifying areas of your world have had the most failures, Even just getting rid of clutter, one Have I inspired you enough to put pen to life that you would like to improve. If you but they don’t call them failures. Yesterday’s room at a time, can have a profound effect on paper and take inventory of your life? Are are doing this you are being mindful and experiences do not have to be an indication your emotional health and attitude. These are you willing to jot down a few things? I’d taking inventory of your life. That alone is of future successes. the most common types of resolutions, but love to hear from you. It could be the best a worthwhile activity. That is the first step in The New Year is the perfect time to do you can get creative. five minutes of your day. your journey. this. Another good time is your birthday. It’s Every client that comes to me has a Always begin by creating images in your another beginning of another year. goal they haven’t been able to accomplish Fern is a certified hypnotist, lifecoach and mind of how you’re going to look and feel and As a former teacher, one of the best parts without help. Generally, all I need to do in health educator. She can be reached at sound when you have already accomplished of the job was that it ended every year and hypnosis is uncover the positive intention www.myhealinghypnosis.com. Here’s To Your Health Here’s To Your Health If I could change one thing in my industry, themselves and throw in the What if we made a decision to buy, and that’s time. Live in the now, love I would have the word “fitness” replaced towel altogether by week four. turn off our smartphones during your neighbor, spend time touching the with the word “wellness.” What if the only resolution key times of the day such as dinner lives of others, even if it’s a simple smile to I have said that we are a spirit that has we had for the year 2020 was or two hours before bedtime? I’ve someone you pass on the street. Be the change a soul that lives in a body, and all three of to simply make better choices got another great idea: how about our world so desperately needs. It’s already those components need to be healthy in order for our health? Choices like we mark time on our calendars in you. Love is the greatest gift we have for us to live a life of wellness. This time of getting our 10,000 steps a day, every week to actually speak over been given and we were created to pass it on. year, the gyms are crowded, the shakes are in eating two more servings of the phone, have lunch or coffee Wellness is way more than getting buff for the the blender and we are determined to get in vegetables a day, drinking less with a friend we haven’t seen in beach friends. It is three-dimensional. You are shape. I’m all for being charged up for a new wine and more water, getting a a long time or go to dinner with worth every bit of effort you put into it. you in 2020, but let’s take a look at what that full night’s sleep and spending someone who could use a hug? Happy New Year! Here’s to your health. Michele really means. 10 to 30 minutes a day praying, There are so many ways we can Most people will set their goals way too meditating or sitting on a park Tenney achieve better health and wellbeing. Michele Tenney is a Certified Personal high, like training to run a marathon in 10 bench by the water to lower Trash your gym membership if Trainer and Nutritionist & Wellness Coach. weeks. Then they will quit their training by stress levels. you’re not using it and get creative with She is the Chair of the Healthy Lifestyles week three. Some people will self-abnegate Those are things which will absolutely ways to exercise that you like and will be Committee for the Orange Elementary sugar and carbs and then eat an entire sheet change your life one day at a time. They’re committed to. Each day make a decision to School System and is a member of the Orange cake because they “deserve” it, feel guilty, also sustainable and if continued long be more mindful and eat better. Board of Health. She can be reached at 203 eat some chips and ice cream to comfort enough will become a lifestyle change. There is one thing on this earth we cannot 668 2969 or email of [email protected]. Travel Matters Puerto Vallarta: Jewel of the Pacific Riviera Every year since 1991 I have visited our I’ve ever seen. Weather is just overlooking the lights of Puerto including in the midst of the former film favorite place in the sun on the Mexican about perfect. Vallarta. location of The Terminator movie. Riviera: Puerto Vallarta. The Malencon (ocean walk) Did you know that Caesar salad All the top hotel chains, and many boutique Once a sleepy fishing village, Richard offers sculptures by artists such was invented in Mexico by Caesar hotels, offer accommodations stretching from Burton and Elizabeth Taylor changed all that as Sergio Bustamente every 100 Cardini, an Italian-American who the Mismaloya beach backdrop for “Night back in the 60s when they had their romantic yards or so. An ever-changing arrived in Mexico in 1924? As a of the Iguana” south of town, up through tryst on location for the movie “The Night variety of sand sculptures rivals result, the best Caesar salads we Nuevo Vallarta that offers broader beaches of the Iguana.” Suddenly, Puerto Vallarta the permanent sculptures by have ever tasted have been in but is further away from the lively cultural became a jet-setter romantic destination. well-known artists. There are art Puerto Vallarta. Many restaurants scene of the Malencon and Romantic Zone. In fact, the old town is called Zona walks in two different areas of prepare them tableside for you Some of our favorites include Garza Blanca, Romantica. Now home of many art galleries, town, very festive events with Karen with the freshest ingredients. Hyatt Ziva and Grand Fiesta Americana (the trendy boutiques, theaters and fabulous refreshments and local musicians. Quinn-Panzer Lest you think this resort is all last two are all-inclusive resorts). restaurants offering all types of cuisine, the Puerto Vallarta also happens food and art, rest assured there There is a new expanded cruiseport in Romantic Zone is where many expats from to be the culinary capital of Mexico – a is so much to do for active vacationers as town and Puerto Vallarta is now a regular Canada and the U.S. live either part-time or true foodie destination. Cafe des Artistes, well, especially for those into sport fishing, port of call for Mexican Riviera cruises from full-time. the renowned restaurant founded by parasailing and snorkeling. Plus, you can California. Did I mention the great shopping Puerto Vallarta is known as the Jewel of Thierry Blouet, is considered the finest go horseback riding on the beach, explore for silver jewelry and tequila? the Pacific Riviera, as it is located in the by most. It serves French cuisine, Mexico the second largest blue-footed boobie bird middle of the Sierra Madre mountains and inspired. There are hundreds of restaurants population outside of the Galapagos at Karen Quinn-Panzer is the owner of Dream the sea, on the same latitude as Hawaii, and with breathtaking locations ranging from Marietas island, take an ATV tour of the Vacations Quinn Panzer Travel. She can be offers the most incredible sunsets I believe beachfront to beautiful villas in the hills Sierra Madres and zipline in the jungle, reached at [email protected]

Retired and Rejuvenated - continued from page 8. exercise sometimes feels like a lot of work. help fend off negative emotions. By savoring A sense of gratitude and humor has nothing your recipe for successful aging. It just might Perhaps it might be better to keep a mental life and living in the present you may be whatsoever to do with age and has everything be a great way to start 2020 by bringing a journal on what brings you pleasure, because able to increase your energy, reduce stress to do with the sort of attitude you bring into greater sense of gratitude, thankfulness and this is what you should focus on. What was and strengthen social bonds – all important the room. The most important bottom line humor into the world around us. the most amusing thought you had today? aspects not just for aging, but for life. is that humor and gratitude are all about What made you smile today? Those are the Another study from the University of kindness, a thing we just need more of in the Joanne Byrne served as Senior Services things that make a difference. California San Diego’s School of Medicine world. Coordinator for the Town of Orange. She is Keeping a sense of curiosity alive by found that people who were more grateful Gratitude isn’t a cure-all remedy, but a little now actively and happily retired. Email her connecting gratitude with a sense of humor experienced better heart health, with less bit of optimism, playfulness and a sense of at [email protected] to share your gives us a more hopeful outlook and can inflammation and healthier heart rhythms. humor might not be bad ingredients to add to thoughts on retirement. Page 10 Milford-Orange Times January 9, 2019

By Jessica Esposito How UNH Saved My Life Dr. Mario Gaboury and Assistant Dean Dr. with A’s and B’s. Special to the Milford-Orange Times David Schroeder. I was fortunate to meet some On Dec. 21, 2017 I was officially diagnosed Everyone gets asked the same question extraordinary people and make professional with Sjogren’s Syndrome. There is no cure for when they are in high school: Where do you friendships with the full-time faculty. I was this disease, only medication to help cope with see yourself in five years? grateful for the opportunity to work there, symptoms. My answer today would be, “finishing my because in December 2017 my life would Over the holiday break my parents suggested degree in criminal justice and procuring a change forever. that I take a semester off to focus on my health. career as a probation officer.” However, if At the end of October 2017, I thought I was I told them absolutely not. After talking with someone told me in high school what my life getting a virus. One day in early November, I my doctors I decided to change my status would look like in five years, I would have was leaving my house and heading to school. from full time to part time. Through the many laughed and probably called them crazy. As I started driving, I felt very weak, like I was hospital visits in 2018 and 2019 and all of the When I graduated Amity Regional High going to pass out. I turned around and had my symptoms, I still found the strength to continue School in 2014, I knew I was going to go to mom called 9-1-1. as a student worker and take courses to finish the University of New Haven for a criminal When the paramedic arrived, I was in my my bachelor’s degree. In the fall of 2019, I justice degree. I chose to go to UNH because car, sweating with clammy hands. My blood decided to apply for the master’s investigation my family has a history with the school. My pressure and oxygen levels were low. degree. father, Frank Esposito Jr., graduated from I went to the hospital for tests, but we left This is not your typical M.S. program; the UNH in 1984 with a bachelor’s degree in with no explanation as to why this happened. I courses were only seven-and-a-half weeks criminal justice. He worked for the Orange followed up with my primary care doctor, who long. I knew it would be a lot of work, but I Police Department for 23 years, and after determined that it was a fluke. was determined to do it because I was not able retiring in July 2004 began working at the About a week later my legs felt heavy and to obtain a full-time job. Jessica Esposito. Photo courtesy of Joyce Esposito. university. He is retiring this month after like pins and needles. I went back to the doctor I just finished my master’s degree this month. to achieve, but sometimes life has different working there for 16 years. to run some blood tests. As you can image, I In the summer, as my schoolwork was plans. We have to learn to adapt to curve My brother, Anthony, graduated from UNH was frustrated because I had no idea what was coming to an end, I was getting nervous balls that are thrown our way. in 2015 with a bachelor’s degree in fire science going on, but I knew something was not right. because I knew I would not be able to obtain I am so grateful for my family that has been and was employed between 2010 and 2013. My family was also frustrated and worried. a full-time job. One day, my father ran into there for me through the good and bad times. I knew that UNH was where I would end A few days later I got a call from my doctor. Gaboury, who was concerned for my situation, They have been my backbone through all of up because I wanted to follow in my family’s He told me I most likely had an autoimmune and asked if I would consider teaching for the it. I am also grateful for all of our friends who footsteps. disorder, but more testing had to be done and I criminal justice department. My father was have been there for us through the past few When school started in the fall of 2014, would need to see a rheumatologist. told I was offered the position due to my work years. I’m thankful to everyone at UNH who I was lucky enough to get a job as student Between then and the time I saw the ethic and academic achievements. have helped me succeed these past few years, worker. I had the honor to work for the late Dr. rheumatologist in December, I became I would be reunited with my criminal and for the amazing opportunity that I will be Richard Ward in the Henry C. Lee College of extremely weak, unable to lift even five justice family again. This was not where I embarking on soon. Criminal Justice. After his unexpected passing pounds. I lost 25 pounds. But I was still going thought I would be after finishing college. Never take anything for granted, because you in 2015, I had the opportunity to work for Dean to school and was able to finish the semester People have a plan and set goals they want do not know what your future is going hold. Service Above Self On Display In Orange By Richard Dumbrill plans that honor our past and embrace our The evening was a resounding success Ewen, Roger Tausig, Trish Pearson, Karen future. They guide our organization, our thanks to a variety of individuals who Quinn-Panzer, Robin Cavello and Richard In 1989, the Rotary organization formally members and supporters toward projects, contributed their time to a worthwhile Dumbrill – encouraged customers entering established “Service Above Self” as its opportunities and activities. A club’s to- enterprise. Harry Garafalo, owner of the the Stop & Shop in Milford to purchase an principal motto. Ever since, it has conveyed do list is open-ended. The Rotary Club of Milford ShopRite, generously had the food item for the community pantry at the Senior the philosophy of unselfish volunteering to Orange is no exception. We evolve and keep cooked and delivered to the post. Ewen’s Center in Orange. We collected $165 and those in need in local communities in the Rotary not only relevant but thriving. daughter-in-law took pictures of the table a $25 coupon in donations. Many received U.S. and throughout the world. A case in point was November’s lead- settings and Steve Cooper of Milford Rotary an Orange Rotary shopping bag for their Inspiration for this motto originated up to the Thanksgiving weekend. The took photos of the gathering. Orange Rotary generosity in this annual food drive. at the second Rotary convention in 1911 celebrations are now past, yet memories of and the veterans appreciate and thank Never was “service above self” better in Portland, Oregon when the delegates this most favored of family weekends still ShopRite and others for their outstanding exemplified than on these three occasions. For responded enthusiastically to the idea that linger. So do the memory of the occasions contributions. a Rotarian they were opportunities to give back. service came before self. The motto became when a diverse group of Orange Rotarians Three days later, Orange Rotarians Baxter As the saying goes, “You may make a living by a mini-mission statement that encompassed assisted local residents in three different Walsh, Ned Martin and Richard Dumbrill what you earn or get but you will make a life Rotary’s evolving beliefs. humanitarian and community activities, all were among 150 volunteers who participated by what you give back.” Helping people less The world today is not the same as it was with a Thanksgiving flavor. in the Food in Service to the Homebound, or fortunate than oneself is a noble activity. when Rotary began in 1905, nor in 1989. On Nov. 20, five Rotarians (including Cathy FISH, of Greater New Haven Thanksgiving As president of the Rotary Club of Orange, Demographics have shifted, the pace of Bradley, Don Lewis, Bob Sigler and Ned turkey drive. Almost 350 individuals received I take pride in volunteering alongside these change has accelerated, and technology has Martin) served dinner to 65 veterans, widows of a turkey plus extra trimmings for their later and other redoubtable Rotarians. I invite you created new opportunities for connections and veterans and relatives at the American Legion celebrations. They too were grateful to receive to put “service above self” into your own life. service. What hasn’t changed is a need for the Post 127 in Orange. Earlier, Sharon Ewen had their gifts. This Saturday is the biggest day on Come and explore Rotary. Yours will be a life- values that define Rotary: service, fellowship, helped plan the dinner, bought various paper FISH’s 2019 calendar. changing experience. I speak from personal integrity, diversity and leadership. goods and donated candle holders and flower On the following day, a cold and wet experience. You can call me at 203-298-0402 Every year, Rotary clubs develop actions arrangements for the tables. Sunday, six Orange Rotarians – Sharon or reach me at [email protected]. Getting To Know You The Fine Art Of Standing In Line No one likes it, but we all do it from time to of grim resignation and got in line during the holidays but couldn’t be to new people because I had viewed standing time. We have to do it because that is the way behind me. helped. With the ice broken, people in line as, at best, an inconvenience and at the world works. In fact, we’ve all just been Then a woman behind me said, began to chat more amicably. The worst some kind of cosmic test of character. through a season where we do it more than at “Happy holidays.” line quickly bent into a knot of Because of Sara the economics major who any other time of the year. I didn’t look up immediately people all facing one another and wants to pursue an MBA or maybe go to law What am I talking about? Standing in line, because I was lost in cyberspace, conversing. More people came in, school, I’ve got a pocket full of peppermint of course. so she said it again. I looked up and after receiving their candies candies and I’ll be leaving my cell phone I was standing in line at the bank the other this time. I didn’t recognize her as joined the knot of chatting people. in my pocket as I take my place at the rear day with seven or eight other people. I didn’t anyone I knew, but I nodded to her Suddenly standing in line didn’t of the line. I’ve resolved in 2020 to relearn like it, but I couldn’t come up with a way to and returned her greeting. That’s seem like such a chore. the fine art of standing in line. So if the bald avoid it. So I made a face of grim resignation, when she offered me a peppermint It seemed that I got to the front guy behind you says “hello” and offers you a which was the same face everyone else in line candy. I felt myself smile as I said, David Crow of the line sooner than I expected. I peppermint candy, don’t get creeped out. Just at the bank that day was making, and took my “Thank you” and took the candy. was a little disappointed that it was smile and we’ll help each other pass the time. place at the end of the line. Once I got my While I popped it in my mouth, she began my turn to go to the window to conduct my Until next time, y’all come out! spot I did what everyone else was doing and passing out candies to all the other people business, because it meant stepping out of the whipped out my cell phone to do nothing in standing in line. knot of people and the bubbling conversation. particular but distract myself from the fact That’s when a strange thing happened. After I finished my business, I went back to David Crow lives in Orange with his wife and that I was standing in line. Everyone stopped making that face of grim the knot to say goodbye. As I walked to my three children. He practices law and he asks As happens from time to time with lines, resignation and we all put away our cell car, I didn’t really remember what we talked everyone to call him “Dave.” Only his mother this one was not going anywhere in a hurry. phones. Smiles were exchanged. Then, very about but I knew I enjoyed my time in line. and his wife call him “David,” and only when A couple more people came in after me and (I cautiously, a conversation broke out. First we I also admonished myself a bit that a person they’re mad at him. You can contact Dave at assume – I had my nose buried in one of my just commiserated about having to stand in who enjoys conversations like I do had [email protected]. He’ll always six to ten email accounts) made that same face line, agreeing it wasn’t our favorite thing to do missed so many golden opportunities to talk find a half hour for a good chat. January 9, 2019 Milford-Orange Times Page 11 Orange Girls Win In Basketball Tourney AMSO Students Recognized For Good Character

Amity Middle School in Orange has recognized students (pictured from left) Kristin Feuerstein, Bella Louros, Colin Spoerndle, Ryan Slugoski, Jillian Barnes, Agatha Freitas, Todd Evans and Dante Hardt for displaying the Jackie’s Nine character trait of justice in their interactions with peers and adults. These students consistently treat others fairly and are passionate about doing what is right for the school community. The school has been using Jackie Robinson, the first black man to play professional baseball, as a role model for the students in a program called “Jackie’s Nine.” Robinson lived by nonviolent actions and by values that the teachers, staff, and administrators at Amity use today as an example for the student body. Photo by Aleisha Zawadski.

The Holy Infant Lady Orange grades 6 and 8 girls basketball teams recently competed in the InSports Milford’s St. Mary School Holiday Tourney, capturing the championships in their grade levels. The grade 6 girls defeated Monroe in the championship 40-15. Players on the team include Fiona Curis, Mackenzie Smith, Lily Simons, Addy Pivovar, Ava Storz, Sarah Donegan, Sienna Murphy, Nina Nardecchia, Marlee Lyons and JJ Kirck. Meanwhile, Announces Honor Roll the grade 8 girls defeated Trumbull 30-29 on a three-point buzzer beater by Jill Barnes. Players on the team St. Mary School in Milford recently Grande, Caden Piselli and Alyssa Zinker. include Mackenzie Martin, Vivian Cain, Jillian Barnes, Bridget Lowder, Grace Cavallaro, Tatiana Bell, Lucci Dottori, Grace Launder, Kylee McLain and Meghan Kirck. Photos courtesy of Holy Infant Lady Orange. released its honor roll for the recent semester. Grade 7 Honors: Sara Andreesen, Ava Grade 8 High Honors: Andrew Benjamin, Bottino, Faith Doyle, Jackson Doyle, Isabella Molly Ciuci, Aida Ehlers, Fayrose Hussain, Eyler, Suixan Gonzalez, Charlotte LaVecchia, Alexi Paranal, Maya Pinto, Atiana Tandon, Jackson LaVecchia, Jack McInnis, Aubrie OCC Nursery School Margaret Wetmore and Amanda Zurolo. Nichols, Tyler Nicholenko, Mackenzie Pelosi, Hosting Open House Grade 8 Honors: Joshua Aspden, Chase Kaleigh Richards, Mackenzie Richards, Bryant, Danielle D’Avignon, Christopher Tatum Santos, Megan Vella, Bridget Vitti, Orange Congregational Church Nursery 4-year-olds three days a week. The school DeProfio, Griffin Fisher, Chloe Franke, Audrey Voges, Madelyn Wolfe and Bohdan School will be holding an open house for also offers a five-day program for returning Christopher Harry, Daniel Kron, Taylor Zazulak-Collins. fall 2020 on Sunday, Feb. 9 from 12:30 p.m. students. LaFountain, Max Lula, Claire Moulton, Grade 6 Honors: Layla Alogna, Ava to 2 p.m. Come and learn about the program, Follow the balloons at 205 Meetinghouse Derek Rainey, Michael Roney, Gabriela Aspden, Robert Baird, Reese Caterbone, tour the classrooms and meet the teachers. Ln. in Orange. The snow date will be Feb. Santiago, Matthew Savo, Abigail Savoie, Katelyn Coleman, Kaitlyn Dzialo, George The nursery school has served Orange for 23 from 12:30 p.m. to 2 p.m. Peter Swanson, Tim Swanson, Will Swanson, Ganim, Molly Gunning, Addison Harry, Clare more than 50 years and is open to all faiths. For more information about the school Andrew Tkacs and Leni Wisniewski. Hayes, Bianca Maciel, Hannah Newman, Eli The school day runs from 9 a.m. to 1 p.m., or to schedule a visit with your child, email Grade 7 High Honors: Lily Baird, Gabriella Ssenyange and Josh Tandon. with 3-year-olds attending twice a week, and [email protected].

Orange Selectmen Hear Contract AMSO Students Raise Money Grievances From Police Retirees For Central American Families Continued from page 1. retirees had any new information they wanted to present to the labor attorney, they town should therefore be reimbursing the could approach Marino or Zeoli to deliver retirees. it – but that they couldn’t act on it outside of Geane said he had never received a response that process. letter. Zeoli said he would get him a copy. Hendrick said that his grievance began Fellow retired officers Mark D’Onofrio because of the dental portion of the contract. and Bill Hendrick echoed concerns about He said he never received a line-by-line the contracts. comparison for the dental plan between two D’Onofrio said that Esposito had policies. Zeoli said the coverage plans had suggested it be shared with the board. Zeoli been compared, and the current plan was reiterated that the selectmen had heard the negotiated with the police union. claim and didn’t intend to act on it further. “They negotiated new things. We weren’t Town Attorney Vincent Marino interjected there,” Hendrick said. “A line-by-line that the proper procedure would be for comparison would show you that – that we are the retirees’ attorney and the town’s labor getting an inferior plan compared to the one I counsel to continue their discussion and see had in 2005. Based on the work I had done on if they could come to a resolution that could my teeth, I found out the hard way. Something then be brought before the selectmen for was covered, it was covered, it was covered… consideration. all of a sudden, boom – it wasn’t covered.” “There’s a legal process,” he said. “This Selectman Mitch Goldblatt said he was body at this moment has nothing before it to “kind of in a vacuum” because he had not consider, because it’s currently pending with been given any documents about the ongoing labor counsel and Mr. Esposito’s lawyer.” legal discussions. Students at Amity Middle School in Orange raised over $800 selling items to benefit Central American students Zeoli said there is continuing dialog Marino said, though, that the board would and families through the Pulsera Project, a fundraiser facilitated by an advisory group led by Stephanie Sanchez, between the lawyers for both sides. an eighth grade Spanish teacher. Artisans from Guatemala and Nicaragua sent handmade bracelets and cross- not receive information about the day-to-day body bags to be sold to help provide education, clean water and housing to the people in those countries. Top “So our opinions don’t matter anymore?” interactions. row, from left: Erica Manandhar, Paige Boguniecki, Caroline Tirollo, James Morrin and Charlotte Pellegrino. D’Onofrio asked. Selectman John Carangelo cautioned Bottom row, from left: Christopher Nam, Hayden Chetwynd and Kenneth Ganun. Photo by Stephanie Sanchez. “Once you chose to retain counsel,” against the board prematurely discussing Marino responded, “that changed the posture anything that might involve potential of the table. This table has to operate through litigation. He did, however, echo Goldblatt’s its labor counsel.” concern that the retirees had not received the Milford Reaches $5 Million Settlement D’Onofrio said that only Esposito – not he town’s response letter. or the other retirees – had hired a lawyer. “They’re saying they didn’t receive it, In Maren Sanchez Murder “We did not know that this board reviewed and that’s not good. So we need to work on Continued from page 1. our labor contract, and we didn’t know that to make sure that they get the letter and Bridgeport Sound Tigers on Nov. 29 for a what the outcome of that executive meeting get the respect that they deserve, because The foundation has been growing in its “Maren Sanchez Home Foundation Night” reviewing our contract meant for this board they’ve been here multiple times. That’s not offerings across Connecticut and launched at the Webster Bank Arena in Bridgeport, or to us,” he said. fair to them,” he said. a fundraising effort this past autumn to with a portion of ticket revenue from the Marino said if D’Onofrio or the other build a national profile. It partnered with the game donated to the MSHF. Page 12 Milford-Orange Times January 9, 2019 January 9, 2019 Milford-Orange Times Page 13 Insuring Your Future Unexpected Medical Bills: Not The Kind Of Surprise You Want You go to the doctor, describe your will cost. Know the medical code range. It is important to know possible. Costs for care at a hospital are two symptoms, she orders some tests – perhaps and description of the test(s). what the negotiated rate will be to three times as much as at a freestanding an x-ray or an MRI. Two months later, you Also make sure that the facility is to determine how much you will facility like a walk-in clinic or surgery center. receive a bill from the diagnostic facility for in your insurance network. If the have to pay. This is more difficult This is true for most medical care. Try to use several hundred dollars. Surprise! estimate seems high, call other to determine in advance, and is non-hospital connected facilities if possible. This scenario has become far too common facilities to compare costs. in many cases how surprise bills It is less expensive and can provide the same and has created a lot of financial burden, Second, understand the details occur. Your final cost is based care or results. putting people in a position of having to of your insurance plan. Are there on the amount the insurance Medical care is one of the most expensive choose between recommended medical care upfront deductibles? To what do company allows, not what the services we can use. But unlike other large and affordability. There are ways to manage they apply? In some plans the doctor, hospital or facility bills purchases where we would get two or three these expenses without having to sacrifice deductible applies to all medical initially. estimates such as replacing a car engine or proper medical care. costs, and in others it only applies Trish Sometimes the bill arrives to renovating a home, we often just go where First, ask the doctor what the test or to certain procedures such as Pearson the patient before it has gone we are directed without considering the cost. procedure could cost. Medical providers outpatient surgery, inpatient through the insurance company. We should be as savvy consumers when it try to avoid such questions by responding hospital stays and certain tests Do not pay any bills until you comes to medical care as we are to most “it depends on your insurance” or “it is not such as MRIs and CAT scans. receive the explanation of benefits from other large expenses. in my control.” If the test or procedure will Know the difference between a copay the insurance company. If you need help be done at a separate facility, that is a fair and coinsurance. A copay is a flat dollar interpreting those documents, call your Trish Pearson is a licensed independent response, but you can contact the diagnostic amount for which you are responsible – insurance agent or the customer service/ insurance agent and certified long term care imaging facility or the lab or the surgical that is all you should pay. Coinsurance is a claims department or the provider. specialist. Contact her at 203-640-5969 or center and ask them for an estimate of what it percentage of the cost and vary over a wide Third, avoid the emergency room if [email protected]. Wine Talk Champagnes And Other Sparkling Wines Champagne and sparkling wines: what is the The next step is to riddle the method or méthode classique. with carbon dioxide, similarly to how soda is difference? wine. The person riddling the Many other sparkling wines are made. The wines are not considered of good Champagne is a wine made in the wine makes a one-quarter turn per made in the tank method. This is quality, and generally the bubbles disappear Champagne method and from the Champagne day with the wine upside down. also referred to as the Charmat rather quickly. region of France just outside of Paris. This is When all the lees are located in method. This is much less expensive Some great sparkling wines include Vivet generally considered to be the finest sparkling the neck of the bottle and sufficient than the classic method. They do a Cloket brut, at about $54 a bottle. Castell wine in the world. It is high quality, can be a time has passed for the lees to add secondary fermentation in a large Roig Brut Cava is $13, Agrapart Jess Brut complex wine and will age well. complexity to the wine, the neck is stainless steel tank. Rather than Champagne is $44 and Schrambirg Blanc de The Champagne method used to produce frozen and the wine is disgorged. having wines that stress richness Blanco 2015 is $34.95. Try these and other this wine is labor intensive and difficult, and The beer cap is removed and the and complexity, they make wines sparklers and let us know the ones you like. as a result very expensive. The secondary bubbles forced out of the frozen Raymond that are easy to drink and youthful. fermentation must take place in the bottle. neck with the debris from the Spaziani They are much less expensive. This Ray Spaziani is chapter director of the New The winemakers must introduce some yeast secondary fermentation. Then the is how most Prosecco is made, as Haven Chapter of the American Wine Society. He has taught wine appreciation classes at and sugar to cause a second fermentation after winemaker tops the wine with a dose of wine well as several California sparkling wines. Gateway Community College, the Milford producing a still wine. They put a temporary and sugar and caps it. There are other ways to make sparkling Board of Education, at Maltose wine and cap on that looks like a beer cap. When the wine This method is used in other parts of wines. There is a transfer method that takes parts beer making suppliers and is a member of has completed the secondary fermentation, the the world, but if it is not being done in the of both the Champagne and Charmat methods. the International Tasting Panel of Amenti debris left over is referred to as the lees. Champagne region it is called the traditional There is also the continuous method, which del Vino and Wine Maker magazine. He is is how the German Sekt wines are produced. an award-wining home wine maker. Email The carbonation method is another, in which ray with your questions and wine events at they make a large vat of still wines and zap it [email protected]. From The Bar Keep Your Estate Planning Up To Date The 2019 session of the to make investment decisions, Connecticut legislature made while a family member, such as a significant changes to Connecticut sibling, might be named to make law concerning trusts, including distribution decisions. revocable trusts (also called Change 3: A third change was “living trusts”). Here are just a few the adoption of the Connecticut important changes: Qualified Dispositions in Trust Change 1: The state adopted Act. This allows a settlor to put the Uniform Trust Code, a statute assets into an irrevocable trust in previously adopted by many other a manner that protects those assets states. The UTC became effective Steven from the claims of many (not all) Jan. 1, but many of its provisions Floman creditors of the settlor. Many other will apply to trusts that were signed states have adopted these “asset before that date. The UTC will protection trusts.” Connecticut now govern the way trusts are created, administered, joins that group. and terminated. The UTC contains detailed Previous cautions about myths and truths rules concerning notice to beneficiaries, non- concerning revocable trusts remain. Even judicial settlement agreements, liability of with a revocable trust, you still need to file trustees, claims by creditors, time limitations a Connecticut Estate Tax Return with the for contesting the validity of the trust, and time probate court, you still are subject to statutory limitations for contesting the administration probate court fees, the assets in the trust remain of the trust, as examples. The person creating “available” to you if you need help with long- the trust (called a “settlor”) can opt out of term care costs, and the trust, by itself, does certain parts of the UTC by expressly saying nothing to reduce estate taxes. so in the trust document, but other parts of the UTC, including provisions about notice to beneficiaries, are mandatory. Steven P. Floman of the law firm Floman Change 2: A second change was the DePaola, LLC is the author of this article. adoption of the Connecticut Uniform Directed This article has been prepared for general Trust Act. The act recognizes the fact that informational purposes only and is not different people have different skills. It allows intended to constitute legal advice or to a settlor to divide responsibilities, naming one create an attorney client relationship. person to make distribution decisions, while a Readers should not act upon the information different person is named to make investment contained in this article without seeking decisions. For example, a professional, such advice from an attorney regarding the specific as the family’s accountant, might be named facts and circumstances of your case.

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One Year In Chamber Membership Happy New Year! Have you seen – the chamber will continue to There are many reasons you launch a new business, open the lineup for 2020? Our Chamber advocate on behalf of the business why social media cannot a new location for your business, of Commrce schedule for January community this coming year. replace Chamber of Commerce celebrate a milestone anniversary alone is chock-full of activities you Other initiatives that we will memberships. People think a or some other accomplishment. won’t want to miss. continue to promote include: chamber membership is only about The chamber will be there with The new year marked 12 months - Awarding scholarships from networking and they perceive it as a social media mention, perhaps that I have been with the Milford the Scholarship Program to the being out of touch. They think they an article, help on a press release Regional Chamber of Commerce. graduates of our area high schools; can just meet other businesspeople and draw attention to your I would like to be really profound - Continuing to grow online and it’s not necessary to join business venture. about my first year, yet the words our chamber by increasing the chamber. The chamber also provides Pam are not coming that easily. It’s been HAPPYmembership; That perception will not help Carol opportunities for business leaders a whirlwind of a year. Our team has Staneski - Offering high-quality events, their business growth. Smullen to meet and have a dialogue with worked hard to fulfill the chamber’s such as the new monthly Lunch Saying that participating in state legislators. Many businesses mission statement by supporting businesses, ‘n Learn and business-to-business networking social media programs for business replaces forget this valuable opportunity. Most promoting tourism and working toward quality opportunities;BIRTHDAY!the need for a chamber membership is like businesses can’t afford their own lobbyists, of life in our community. - Enhancing our partnerships with other placing a nickel in your coin jar and claiming but membership in the chamber is affordable. No one person can take credit for these business groups and nonprofit organizations to have a retirement plan. Sure, the two are Social media programs can be extremely accomplishments; everybody gets credit. This that promote our community and its quality of kind of similar, but you’ll never get the same helpful with your marketing to the general chamber has been blessed with extremely life.Congratulationsamount of return from that social media as public. However, they will never cover dedicated and caring business leaders who Don’t miss out. If you are new to the you will from a chamber membership. everything your chamber can do for your ensure the success of our business community. community or to doing business in our region, Chamber participation ensures you will business. There really is no need to choose I am enormously grateful to be a part of this we welcome you. Please introduce yourself to have a connection with the community and between them. A comprehensive approach is organization. me,and other board members……… and our staff. We a marketable designation. The chamber is the best one for business growth. Multiple tools Chamber activities in 2019 brought want you to feel welcomed and included. Call a well-respected community organization. and expenditures are required, and chamber businesses, residents, visitors and dignitaries us at 203-878-0681 to get started. Business is Most people see it as comparable to the Better membership is an excellent investment. together to celebrate and support the progress our business. Business Bureau. Your membership lets in our area. The enthusiasm of our board customers know that you intend to stay in the members, ambassadors and business members community for a long time. Being a member of was contagious, and the breakfasts, lunches and a social media group is not a reputation builder. networking events were very well-attended. Chambers will hold ribbon cuttings when 2020 will be just as exciting a year for the chamber. There are new chamber initiatives coming and new ways for you to stay engaged. Learn how to increase your bottom line by either increasing your market share or reducing your costs. There will be many opportunities to maximize the benefits that accrue to you through chamber membership. If you are not a member yet, don’t fret

Recycling Tip It’s that time of year: flu season, colds, coughs. What are you using to blow your nose or cover your mouth? A cotton handkerchief? That’s fine. Kleenex? Okay, but how are you disposing of it? Compassionate Senior In your toilet? That’s not a good idea. There’s the potential to plug your drains and septic tanks and create expensive plumbing problems. Put them with your trash – don’t recycle them. Or better yet, Care in Your Community compost them. Disposable tissues are paper and, like paper towels, can be composted. Wipes are a bigger no-no for toilets. Companies • In Home Care who make them claim they are “flushable.” Sure, • Assisted Living Referrals anything that fits in your toilet is flushable. Remember trying to get that rubber toy your two- • Transportation Services year-old flushed? Put wipes in your trash. Wipes can really create havoc with your septic tank. Services can include: assistance with showers, personal care, meal preparation, All parts of paper towels are recyclable: the plastic medication reminders, Alzheimer’s and dementia care, and housekeeping. wrap goes to participating retailers or the transfer station, the cardboard roll in your recycle bin, and used paper towels in your home compost bin. White or brown paper napkins can also be composted at home. Composting is another way Call Today! (203) 877-1377 of recycling. Let’s keep as much out of trash as we can. www.ABCFairfieldCounty.com For more, visit orangerecycles.com. Locations independently owned and operated throughout the United States. License # HCA.0000831 January 9, 2019 Milford-Orange Times Page 15 Obituaries Full obituaries and pictures (if provided) of the deceased are on our website at www.milford-orangetimes.com and are published at no cost to residents of Milford and Orange.

William Balamaci, age Francesca Makusevich, 93, 76, of Milford, entered into of Milford, entered peaceful eternal life on Monday, rest on Dec. 18, 2019. December 30, 2019. Robert C. Booth, 92, of Joseph A. Mazziotti 82, Milford, died peacefully on of Orange passed away on December 25, 2019. December 23, 2019.

Myron Russell Brochinsky Muriel Ann McManus, 94, of Orange passed away (“Bro”), age 92 of Orange, • Meet a Diverse Group died January 1, 2020. peacefully on December 15,  of Professionals 2019. Phyllis H. Davis, 79, of Matthew Leo Musante, • Expand Your Network Milford, passed away 55 of Orange, passed away • Get Plugged Into Milford December 21, 2019. December 28, 2019.

Antoinette Melone Del Herbert Edward “Bert” QUESTIONS? WANT TO JOIN? Prete (Mema), 85, of Paradis, 82, of Milford, 203.878.0681 | MilfordCT.com Milford, passed away on passed away on Dec. 29, [email protected] Saturday, Dec. 28th. 2019. Mary A. Falcone, 93, of Elaine S. Pavlik, 82, of Milford, entered eternal rest Orange, CT, passed away on December 17, 2019. on December 28, 2019.

Patricia Callahan Barbara C. Pepe died Galligan, 95, of Orange, peacefully on Thursday, passed away on December December 26, 2019. 31, 2019. Margaret (Anziano) Catherine C. Porcu, 86, Harry, 88, passed away on of Milford, passed away on Wednesday, December 25, December 26, 2019. 2019. Victoria “Jo” Kapral, 85, Bob Tomczyk, 68, of Milford, passed away passed away on Thursday, on Sunday, December 22, December 12, 2019. 2019. Norman Joseph Stafford MaryAnn L. Wilcock, 74, Kraft, 78 of Milford, of Milford, passed away on December 17, 2019. passed away on Thursday,  December 12, 2019. Donald D. Yarson, 66, of Erwin H. Levine (Earl), Milford, passed away on 77 of Orange, passed away December 27, 2019. peacefully on December 24, 2019.

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