Sigma Phi FLAME NUMBER 116 • DECEMBER 2010

Convention 2010 in Vermont, pages 8-11. PAGE 2 THE FLAME The Chairman’s Message: ‘Priorities’ by Marshall Solem, F’79 [email protected] ur ever-vigilant editor has been thing be lowered: not an easy trade-off on my case for a few weeks to to make. To do so requires some intro- O get this written. I’m a bit spection about why we’re involved in embarrassed, in fact, to confess that certain activities and organizations. my article was the last to make it to his For me, the experience of being desk in support of this Flame. No way involved in Sigma Phi is rich. (One of for the Chairman to comport himself, Webster’s definitions for ‘rich’ is deep, for crying out loud! intense, and delivering pleasurable quali- There’s a reason, of course. ties.) I thoroughly enjoy my interaction (There are always reasons in my life. with Sigs across generations. I learn Yours, too?) I am blessed to work for a something new from my brothers all company that continues to grow the time, and the variety of our dia- through these difficult economic logues and shared perspectives is times. Our cautious strategy regarding always fresh and rewarding. I get Marshall Solem, F’79 hiring while growing has put a lot of charged up and energized being back pressure on everyone at the firm, from on campus visiting our chapters. Is in a small way) on a more frequent top to bottom. there anything more fun and exhilarat- basis – so the realization of these bene- While my ‘busyness’ is the truth, ing than being back on campus on a fits stays front-and-center in our minds. it’s an Al Gore kind of truth: inconven- fall Saturday? Perhaps it’s a feeling of As we enter the season of giving in ient, as my wife reminded me on a recapturing some of our youth, delu- 2010 – and with absolutely no regard recent Saturday when she asked me sional as that fleeting feeling may be! for dollars or for dues – I recommend when (if?) I was going to quit working On a deeper and a far more authentic giving just a little bit more … to the and join the rest of the family for the level, I know that my involvement – Thrice Illustrious. The difference our activities we’d planned. Ultimately, I just like yours – helps perpetuate an personal efforts can make in our chap- delivered ‘the best of both worlds’ by organization which builds character ters and/or in the larger Society is finishing this message at my two girls’ and offers so many growth opportuni- dramatic. There’s no such thing as too swim meet, which provided me and my ties for young men. Those efforts con- much alumni care, input and involve- laptop adequate time between events tribute, I believe, to a one-of-a-kind ment … on any Sig campus or in any to put on the finishing flourish. men’s organization which has certainly leadership group. Best of all, it’s a As I reflect on my conflicted but stood the test of time. two-way gift, with a great return for perhaps common saga, it seems like The other thing I’ve realized is each and every giver. a microcosm of at least one of the that the more often I’m actively Precisely because our ‘busyness’ is challenges Sigma Phi faces both engaged with Sigma Phi, the clearer both inescapable and inconvenient in nationally and locally – our alumni these benefits become. So, perhaps the these demanding times, the response volunteers are so busy with demanding best way to elevate Sigma Phi on our we make to Sigma Phi is that much daily lives that Sigma Phi often gets priority list is to stay involved (even if more important … and rewarding. put on the back burner. So, how do we change this? If I knew the right Sigma Phi answer, of course, I wouldn’t The Sigma Phi Flame is published twice yearly by the Sigma Phi Society. be getting nearly as many terse e-mails from our editor! Please direct all inquiries, suggestions, photos and changes of address to I do have a few thoughts on Sigma Phi National Headquarters, the matters, however. Post Office Box 4633 I’m certain a big part of Chapel Hill, NC 27515-4633. the solution is rearranging EDITOR: MIKE IMIRIE M’69 our priorities and elevating [email protected] Sigma Phi on our respective NORTH-AMERICAN priority lists. But, making INTERFRATERNITY such a change is far easier CONFERENCE MEMBER said than done. Elevating one thing on the list neces- Sigma Phi Home Page: www.sigmaphi.org sarily requires that another DECEMBER 2010 PAGE 3 From the Secretary: ‘What’s Your Story?’ by Scott McCrae, V’82 [email protected] y wife bought me a belated them. Dare I say all? birthday present recently. It About halfway through the story M was a Bonsai tree and I was telling I was asked, “What’s your delighted to receive it. The beautiful story?” So I told them how I was invit- little tree came with a second present ed as a sophomore to the house for a which was a book teaching how to take coat and tie dinner by Ward care of it. I have since read much of Cunningham IV, V’81, a friend from the book and realize that these beauti- freshman year. Without telling me he ful little trees require a lot of care and was Greek, Ward conned me into get- work to keep them alive and healthy. I ting dressed up for a dinner at the was thinking how much these trees are place that he currently lived. I walked like our active Sigma Phi chapters. over to 420 College Street and – when Instead of pruning and watering, our I saw the Sigma Phi house – I froze. I chapters require insurance, mainte- didn’t know Ward was in a fraternity Scott McCrae, V’82 nance and active participation from and I was intimidated by the majesty of alumni. the Sig house. I was getting ready to moment was in my life. If I had decid- Mike Imirie, M’69, and I had a turn around and “beat feet it” back to ed to beat a hasty retreat when I first chance to play the role of the “caretak- the dorm when I heard a friendly recognized Ward’s home as a fraterni- ers” a month ago while facilitating a voice calling to me from the Sig house ty, who knows how my life might have recruiting program as part of the lawn. Ward was washing his car (a late changed? My point in making this National Convention’s Undergraduate ’70s Grand Prix called “The Mint statement is for us all to think about Workshop. That Friday afternoon, we Mobile”) and motioned for me to our stories and how one little event engaged the actives on how to recruit come on over. Trapped! could have caused us to take a very dif- in today’s college environment. One of He brought me inside to intro- ferent path. In the recruitment work- the best ways to recruit is to be able to duce me to his friends and I have to shop, I shared this with the undergrad- relate your personal story as to why say I did not expect what I saw. First, uates. In very short order, they got this you became a Sig in a salient way. With the house was beautiful with the smells truth: that recruiting well takes a com- a little editing, one can put together a of bounteous repast emanating from mitment to make sure we don’t miss pretty convincing argument for the the lower regions. Secondly, there out on the guy who could be your best merits of the Society. The best part were several 70 year old men mixing friend forever … or your best man … about this exercise, though, was listen- with the brotherhood. Ward quickly or the business partner with whom you ing to the undergraduates tell their introduced me to Chet Eaton, V’30, launch the next Google. stories. It wasn’t just the content of and Bob Pond, V’40, and I was quickly Recruitment really is and has their stories but the excitement with made to feel at home. You all know always been the heart and soul of which they told them. It was obviously the story from here. our beloved Society. I believe it is a life-changing event for many of It is amazing how pivotal that incumbent on all of us to support and encourage our Kudos & Thanks … chapters to hone these skills. It takes … to the following Sigs for their articles, information or encouragement a little care on our supporting this issue of the Flame: Todd Campau, M’88, Jeff Chandler, parts but, as illustrat- H’08, Tex Currie, I’72, James Dong, I’09, Ax Hayssen, V’09, Gregor ed above, the per- Nelson, I’76, Dan Neumann, F’71, Robert Orr, V’67, David Pauls, M’65, sonal upside and John Rawley, V’05 & Jack Romaine, L’90. Special thanks must go to membership rewards Rick Bingham, V’87, for sharing his stellar photos of Convention ’10! are tremendous. Issue after issue, we solicit real Sig perspectives from real Sigs. Just like having a Each shared viewpoint improves the quality and readability of Society Bonsai tree, a little communications. Each one is a genuine gift to Sig readers, coast to coast: care taking and a personal testimonial about brotherhood and this Society’s continuing support can yield a imprint on each of us. beautiful thing. Now Contact editor Mike Imirie, M’69 ([email protected]) to share your … just what did I do feedback, suggestions, photographs and – of course! – Sig stories. with my pruning shears, anyway? PAGE 4 THE FLAME

My Many Fraternities by Todd Campau, M’88 [email protected]

ictionary.com provides some numerous mortar attacks and the ups interesting definitions of the and downs of a deployment. She and I D word fraternity, including: a will meet up with Tony, who’s driving group of persons associated by or as if from Dallas to Austin to hang out. by ties of brotherhood and any group Why? Because our shared military or class of persons having common experiences are bonds of fraternity and interests, etc. I guess both pertain to we will maintain them. Could you say me, each special and significant in our deployment was similar to the four- its own way. I never really thought year “deployment” we undergo at about it, but couldn’t the concept of Vermont, Hobart, Michigan, UNC and fraternity pertain to everyone, whether others? Well, kinda … We didn’t have or not you joined a fraternity? Brothers weekly beer bashes or the Naked Mile of the Thrice Illustrious are fortunate each February and couldn’t drop by to have experienced the ups and downs the Diag to toss the Frisbee, but we ate of our Society-initiated friendships chow together, suffered the unhygienic during our collegiate years. The Society stench of Afghans together and silently will continue to grow and add mem- worried about each other when one of bers to our Brotherhood who share a us was on a mission off base. common bond. Yet, it’s my view that My first deployment to Afghanistan the unenlightened can also experience was a very heady experience, occurring similar bonds of “fraternity.” Please in November of 2001, soon after the allow me to explain. invasion. The United States justly went I recently returned from my sec- after the Taliban and UBL (Ooo-ble, ond deployment to Afghanistan. Wow! as we call him) in retaliation for the What an enriching, frustrating, mind- September 11th attacks. Our small opening, maddening, humorous, cadre of military specialists morphed fulfilling experience. I served as a into a close knit group of guys after Todd Campau, M’88 team leader for a five-person team of experiencing the hardships of war. intelligence collectors. We met with Yeah, we became a fraternity of sorts steady hand offering friendship and and obtained, cajoled, persuaded, through our common experiences and guidance to which I’ve turned well purchased, threatened, coaxed (insert suffering. No one had been drafted in beyond my days at Michigan. He’s like verb of choice) information from local the Army, just as no Brother was forced all of our alumni – a brother for life Afghans. We took that information to join our Society. We chose to go will- and one with whom maintaining the about criminal activities and insurgents ingly, to experience life together. And bonds of brotherhood is easy. to the Infantry guys who in turn raided some of us have willingly chosen to For me, the main take-away from the hideouts and snatched up the maintain the bonds of friendship which all this writing is this: our Society is criminals and all their evidence. My grew from our shared experiences. very much like the fraternities of team worked hand in hand with many I’ve come to view our Sigma Phi friendship each of us will build at other organizations to affect a positive through the same lens as my non- different points in our lives. When change in our area – positive for the collegiate fraternities. It’s like a tree. touched periodically, it both maintains Afghans and for the Coalition Forces. It needs a good foundation and the bonds of brotherhood and enriches We became a “fraternity” of sorts, continuous nurturing to grow. our lives yet again. The visit by Mary inspiring soon-to-be lifelong associa- Sometimes, the tree can sit unattended Danger and Tony will both help me tions and reunions. for months or years and thrive, but relive some of the ‘crazy’ we dealt with We returned to the States mid sometimes it needs a little TLC. I stay while overseas and afford us the chance August 2010 and soon afterward went in touch with pledge brothers like Joe to be connected in one another’s lives. our separate ways – similar to college Cebina (Beenah), Steve Miller, Greg Reconnecting is something which graduation. It would be easy to remem- Kerwin and guys from others classes brings me fulfillment on many levels. ber the memories and be content with like Ed Campaniello (Duardo the Brothers, I challenge you to main- that but our bonds remain strong. Baker), Bob Garcia, and Matt Saleski tain and grow the various “fraternities” One of my team members will visit me (Slim Sexy) thanks to Facebook. Who you’ve experienced in your lifetimes. this weekend. Emmy, aka ‘Sister Mary doesn’t connect with Mike Imirie? If Sigma Phi has been an integral part of Danger,’ is one of my fraternity you don’t, man, you should. Mike my life since fall 1987 when I first met “brothers” with whom I shared many might’ve graduated before you were the lifelong friends with whom I’d uneasy nights, exhilarating successes, born but that guy is cool: a constant study, party, go (continued on page 5) DECEMBER 2010 PAGE 5 Lehigh Days by Jack Romaine, L’90 [email protected]

Lehigh Sigs gathered for Jack Romaine’s 2003 wedding. The bridegroom is wearing the boutonniere! t’s a cold Saturday morning in who had graduated and had jobs and Mark Rothenberg, L’86, has done a October in Bethlehem. The phone lives but still took the time to visit and great job keeping the Sigs in NYC I rang this morning and got me out care about the actives. And it wasn’t organized with First Friday events. of bed at 10 A.M. or so. I know how just Mike; there were lots of Sigs both But it’s really not the same. I think you’re reacting. “What are you doing in young and old who would drop in at the last time a majority of the L’90s bed that late?”, you’re asking. “Don’t the house. Do you remember the first were together was at my wedding you have responsibilities?” Well, I was time you met Chet Eaton, V’30? Or back in 2003. up at 4 A.M. last night with a good idea Bob Pond, V’40? So when Mike asked I became Lehigh’s Alumni for work and off I went for a couple if I would write something for the Corporation President and S&A hours to try and turn the crazy Flame, it was hard to turn down. Delegate last year. In those roles, I’d thoughts in my head into something My theme here is simple. I miss like to find ways to rejuvenate and reor- usable. The worries of work and the our house at Lehigh. ganize Lehigh Sigs again. Over the world are different than I imagined Well, OK, maybe not so much the next year, we need to rebuild our com- when I graduated from Lehigh all house itself as what that structure rep- munication links so we can better stay those years ago. My office is located on resented. A meeting place. A compass in touch and plan more events. It the fringe of Lehigh’s Mountaintop point. A way back to something special. needs to be easier for Alpha of PA Sigs campus and I often find myself reflect- It was a place that Sigs who had left the of all eras to get together and be in ing on my time at Lehigh, and particu- active fold and ventured out into the touch with old friends. I hope you feel larly on the good times and good real world could come back to at any like I do; I hope you’re hungry to friends at the Sigma Phi Place. time and see friends both old and new. reconnect. Which brings me back to the It was a gathering place that, week after Please share your ideas for ‘renew- phone call. It was former National week and semester after semester, ing the ties that bind.’ Do we need a Secretary Mike Imirie, M’69! I knew renewed Sig spirit. newsletter? A larger website (consult Mike when I was an active in When there was a Swing or the www.sigmaphi.com for our interim Bethlehem. He was one of the Sigs Lehigh-Lafayette game or even Greek site). An updated e-mail distribution Week in the Spring, the house was list? How can you help with any of packed with alumni. Whole classes of those forms of Sig outreach? (You (from page 4) camping, attend Sigs a couple years out of school would know how it is in volunteer organiza- weddings, visit periodically, and share escape their everyday lives and show tions …) Please share your ideas, life’s challenges and joys. Some of up! Wandering birds would venture in Brothers. We’re a remarkable band of those brothers were my peers. Some from far and wide. Those were great brothers with roots going all the way came before me and some came after. times! back to 1887, just 22 years after Lehigh In all cases, the common thread of this The house has been gone for years was founded by Asa Packer. We owe it Society knits our lives together. And now, turned into a haven for Gamma to ourselves to remain connected and our Society is my warm overcoat in the Phi Beta. We Lehigh Sigs have drifted proud! winter and my umbrella in the rain to apart as a result. We still get together I hope to be in touch with you which I turn periodically when I need for Lehigh-Lafayette every two years soon and see you soon thereafter! some nurturing. when the game is here in Bethlehem. (Phone: 917-601-7244) PAGE 6 THE FLAME ‘What Is the Sigma Phi?’ by James Dong, I’09 [email protected]

his is the question we are asked influence. as pledges. Again. And again. This year, I was excited to travel as T And again. Yet as pledges, stand- an initiated brother to Vermont for the ing there before the gazes of the broth- annual convention. After a chilly ers – some mirthful, some bored, others evening walk up College Street, the condescending, others encouraging – house greeted me with its tall and we just don’t get it. It’s no wonder every imposing columns. This design fittingly answer is met with resounding hisses. A matches the pride the brothers within brotherhood. Ssssss. A secret society. have for the Society. Many new friends Ssssss. A death cult? Ssssss. A fraternity! eagerly shared the interwoven history James Dong, I’09 SSSSSS! And when the nouns fail, we between the chapter and the university, try our hands at adjectives. Sigma Phi is pointing out the important names on the front façade. I quickly realized, how- infinitely tall and profoundly deep; it is plaques mounted throughout the ever, that Hobart is very distinctive, with beyond the ken of this world. Sssss … house. As they spoke, their passion and its own set of colors and a boldly inno- and who talks like that, anyhow? admiration showed brightly through. vative pledging process. Clearly, Sigma When we finally swing into brother- Wow, I thought, Sigma Phi runs deep Phi is unique, and – for the record – it’s hood, the question recedes to the back and Sigma Phi is loved. also quite the party. of our minds. It only surfaces again Vermont is so close to upstate New Clearly, my experiences at each when we, as actives, nod sagely to the York that, in the immediate aftermath chapter have been limited. Already, next group of pledges hearing it for the of Convention 2010, I took a two week however, my odyssey has brought to first time. I disagree with this approach; road trip through the four active chap- mind many diverse phrases and words it’s far too lackluster for such an impor- ters there. My next stop was Hamilton, to answer my original question. Yet tant question. So I challenge my broth- the chapter I was most intrigued with rather than being exclusive, those ers to ask themselves anew: What is the when I left California. Long have I descriptors build upon each other. Sigma Phi? heard stories about the Beta, where – Some of my conclusions surely over- If this question were so easy, then with no house, no discernible parapher- lap with those I had formed as a pledge. surely we’d all come up with something nalia, and only a few whispers among So what’s different? Why the lack of similar. But I doubt this is the case, and the student body – Sigma Phi is fully hisses now? As a pledge with a pressing the myriad possible answers reinforces underground. Yet it is a testament to need to understand, I was too busy try- my belief that this is not so simple – not the dedication of the actives that they ing to ‘package’ the Society with a sin- even for brothers. have found ways to perform our most gular definition. It didn’t occur to me My first thought was that the Sigma sacred rituals and ceremonies to the that Sigma Phi is simultaneously differ- Phi is a community with a strong and complete unawares of the general cam- ent things to different people in differ- everlasting bond. But my conclusion is pus. So then, I mused, Sigma Phi really ent chapters and across different gener- naturally molded by my experience with is a secret society. ations. As a brother, I now have the the Alpha of California. Who knows In stark contrast to this image are experience and wisdom to realize that what a brother of another chapter the portrayals of Sigma Phi at Union every answer to the question of ‘what is might say? So I set a goal in my mind to and Hobart, where, I was happy to the Sigma Phi’ can only be a partial visit all 10 active chapters before the learn, our Society is deemed the best one. No single word – no noun, no age of 25 (i.e., before I start to forget fraternity on campus. At Union, I adjective – is robust or adequate how it feels to be in college), and get enjoyed my first chance to meet a enough to capture the multidimension- just a little insight into the nature of the group of pledges from a different chap- al essence of our illustrious Society. Sigma Phi from their perspectives. ter and to actively participate in their The best way we have of getting As a pledge, I had already visited first few events. I am most impressed by closer to a viable definition is to delve Cornell on an unrelated conference, the pledges. They are deeply loyal from more deeply into the Sigma Phi. For and had the fortune of staying with the day one and many stop by the Society’s me, this means visiting all the chapters Epsilon. The house at 1 Forest Park assigned housing daily to study the at least once and trying to arrange a Lane is a mansion, yet upon walking in, Catalogue and discuss the finer details time for drinks or dinner with a local I felt strongly at home. I was equally of our history. A string of thoughts hit Sig whenever I travel. (Luckily, our astounded that no one really treated me me: Sigma Phi is a great fraternity, it is brothers are quite pervasive!) Such like a pledge! Instead, everyone invited the oldest fraternity, and its members are meetings remind me repeatedly that, me into discussions about California, quite proud. despite our differences, we are unified Sigma Phi, and the like. Over the next My first reaction upon pulling up to by one golden chain. And, through our few nights, full of dinners and parties, I the Western Lion’s Lair was that the challenges, our rivalries and our Sig remembered thinking that, truly, our Delta’s house looks a lot like Vermont’s, adventures, we continue to strengthen Society is one rich with prestige and with the same regal columns framing this remarkable, enduring bond. DECEMBER 2010 PAGE 7 100 Years Later, Viele Legacy Continues Francis Viele passed away in 1944, but he is constantly present in all of our chapters.

rancis S. Viele, G 1885, was a successful businessman who never lost sight of how much Sigma Phi meant to him. The bequest of his wife in 1948 fulfilled his intent to F create the Viele Scholarship Trust for Sigma Phi. With this bequest, Francis Viele has “… (grants) be a lasting impact on all our young Brothers. Through this stirring generosity and forward thinking approach to philanthropy, hundreds of young Sig men have been offered oppor- given to Sigma Phi tunities to challenge themselves and grow as leaders. students … who

While the Vieles’ generous gift will enhance the leadership development and scholarship have shown an of our student Brothers for many years, Sigma Phi continues to have greater programming outstanding needs than the Sigma Phi Educational Foundation can fund. Francis Viele believed that Sigma Phi could make our Brothers better citizens by providing unique opportunities to aptitude for encourage excellence in all endeavors. Just imagine the impact you can have on Sigma Phi college work and and future generations by making a planned gift. good citizenship.” Brothers who include the Sigma Phi Educational Foundation as a beneficiary in their estate plan through their will, insurance policy, trust, or other deferred gift are recognized Francis S. Viele in the Foundation’s Founders Circle. For information on making a planned gift, contact: Scholarship Trust

Scott McCrae General Secretary, Sigma Phi Society [email protected] • 802-658-1951

Cal Fence Need Brings Out Artistic and Musical Best

The Alpha of California hosted a benefit concert featuring legendary Sig house band, Short Notice on 16 October to raise money for construction of a new wooden fence for the chapter’s back yard. Aesthetics, privacy and liability issues drove this facility’s need, estimated to cost about $16,000. Gregor Nelson, I’76, and Christina Nelson, ISS’82, donated a beautiful 11-by-17-inch poster (shown here) to commemorate the day and further encourage generous donations to the Alpha’s “ReFence Fund.”

In an unique artistic series dating back to 1978, this is the twelfth poster Gregor has designed for Short Notice. Produced in a limited edition of just forty color giclée prints, a few are still available for a contribution of $100 or more to the cause. For more information, contact Bill “Tex” Currie, I’72, at [email protected]. PAGE 8 THE FLAME Convention Reflections by John Rawley, V’05 [email protected]

ou know, a few days ago I was other documents printed, archival asking myself ‘Why am I doing displays constructed, bartenders and Y this?’ and now … wow, man.” I security arranged, catering between was enjoying a cocktail with Narayan four different vendors organized, a Campbell, V’03, the Friday evening of banquet planned and speakers con- Convention on one of the small porch- firmed, upwards of ten conference calls es off the front of the Alpha of conducted, logistics mapped out … it Vermont. Together with several other had been hard, incessant work. I was Vermont actives and alumni on the worried that none of it would be recog- Convention Planning Committee, nized if the minor details in front of Narayan and I had spent the past three me weren’t properly handled … and weeks making significant professional now. People pay attention to the and personal sacrifices supporting the details, I’ve learned. Losing a function- 2010 Convention. It had been a much ing driver’s side door at that particular more involved undertaking than any of moment had, in my mind, put all of us had expected. Narayan laughed, this hard work in jeopardy. I was locked eyes with me and smiled. I flipping out. The aforementioned smiled back. No words were exchanged favors were sitting in the back of my for a few moments. Each of us knew car. Clearly, I could not walk away what the Planning Committee had without securing the door and – holy gone through to make the cocktail Catch 22! – I could not tackle lingering Conv ’10 planners Campbell and Rawley party taking place inside possible: to convention details if I had to take care make the weekend possible. It was an of my car issue. Flipping out, indeed … I was fortunate to have the Sigma awesome feeling to have pulled it off. At that moment, Tim LaPrade, Phi in my life. Isn’t it funny how the Narayan knew the feeling; in that V’01, who was staying the weekend in universe answers the questions we moment, we shared it. It was one of the the apartment next to mine belonging pose? Looking back on Convention most poignant bonding experiences I’d to George Dean Martin III, V’02, 2010, I can now laugh at the answer I felt in a long time. popped his head out of a window. “Is got to my tortured “Why am I doing Twenty-four hours earlier, on the that John Rawley?! Let’s party!” I was this?” question. In unmistakable terms, eve of the first day of Convention, I had too enraged to respond and didn’t look the universe showed me why. officially lost it under the stress of sev- at him. “I’m busy right now, Tim.” It’s It’s for Tim. It’s for Narayan. It’s eral small talks that had to be pulled uncharacteristic of me to be short with for all of my Brothers, graduate and off by morning. In fact, they were only anyone; two minutes later he was stand- undergraduate, and for their friends minor things, but I knew they would ing over me with an umbrella and both and families who come in contact with make the Alpha look either sharp and of us were trying to fix the Volvo’s door. our Society. Working to organize organized or like a bunch of conven- Tim reassured me that everything was Convention weekend put me in a spot tion amateurs depending on how well going to work out OK. (He was right. where my commitment was tested … they were done. I was hustling to knock I spent the rest of the weekend with a and how. In that time of trial, the inter- them off that Thursday when, stepping belt strapped around my leg while actions I’ve mentioned here answered out of my car into my apartment’s park- driving to hold the door shut!) That my question. ing lot in the pouring rain, the driver’s interaction with Tim was important; I do it because I love this Society. side door on my 1993 Volvo Classic 240 it resonated with me for a long time. I prize the friendships. I enjoy being Wagon decided after 17 years of open- He had recognized my distress and near it and being involved. I am ing and closing it had had enough – immediately come to my aid, going so pleased to think that the work I do to and remained permanently open! “No! far as to offer me the use of his car for ensure that the superficial expressions No! No! ” I screamed, repeatedly slam- the weekend. It was sincere friendship. of it – those which were obvious at ming the door in anger. I was frustrated I was fortunate to have it – to have Convention and needed in other Sig … in spades. We’d spent the past five Tim – in my life. circles, too – will contribute to its months prepping for this weekend. longevity, 183 years later. Meeting rooms had been reserved, call Sigma Phi is one of the few things I banks organized to drum up support, believe in without question. I want it to convention favors funded and ordered, be here for generations to come. $40,000 in repairs to the chapter house Including even coming to grips with a completed, large scale marketing balky Volvo in a rainy parking lot, I’ll do efforts undertaken, brochures and anything to make sure that happens. DECEMBER 2010 PAGE 9 Report from the 2010 National Convention: ‘The Alpha Society’ by Robert Orr, V’67 [email protected]

attended the 179th National Convention at the Alpha of Ve rmont last month. It had been a while since I I attended a Sigma Phi event; in fact not since the day I graduated from college forty years ago. The late ’60s were heady times that are hard to imagine now. Peacenik stu- dents at two college campuses were cut down by firing squads like a Goya painting, and every guy hung by the thread of his lottery number (not the Powerball type but the one that queued you up for the rip-line to Vietnam, where one’s fate seemed sealed by the grim body count on the nightly news). Mine was 257, a number you never for- get. The gaiety of drinking songs and fraternity life melted that year. And so for many departing seniors, the irrelevan- cy of fraternities got stuck for the next four decades. I spent a career aimed at restoring civic life to America’s cities, so thoroughly ripped apart by forces greater than any war machine, an entire generation has grown up without even knowing what a city is. In that work, I had come to recognize the role ritual and pageantry used to play back when American cities were the pride of American achievement. If the streets, blocks and architecture of American cities were the armature, ritual and pageant were the glue that held the bonds of commu- nity together within the armature. Back then, community defined who you were … not a Facebook page. Like an archeological expedition, I began “digging” several years back trying to unearth any vestiges of ritual and pageantry still extant to test whether they still con- tained their stem cell-like powers to grow community. The Robert Orr, V’67 scattered bits I found here and there often seemed like reliquaries in museum vitrines, fascinating but long sev- penultimate Vermont Sig artifact: the Tome. For those Sigs ered from any useful purpose. Then opening the invita- from other chapters, the Tome is a small volume contain- tion to the National Convention this summer made me ing the signatures of all who have been initiated in recall the ritual and pageant of the Sigma Phi Society from Burlington. I noted with interest that its leather cover had my college days, and I wondered if the Convention might holes worn through by centuries of thumb and finger offer opportunity for a new “dig.” impressions, like so many fingerprintings pressed in the Armed with handpick, loupe and brush, I headed off same places over time. The awe of my swing experience to Burlington. To my surprise, very little had changed with was such that I remembered the Tome being huge, so the the Society from the way I remembered it. Sure, there diminutive Octavo size splayed so comfortably in my hands were new interpretations and variations on the theme, but was alarming. As I leafed through its pages, a stream of sig- the ritual and pageantry of my focus were pretty much the natures fanned by, including my own. That stream extend- same. In fact, a swing of four new Sig Sisters on Saturday ed back to the original Starbird and Warner signatures, afternoon revealed ritual and pageantry that were exactly marking the founding of the Alpha of Vermont in 1845. (I the same. still marvel that all those signatures fit so compactly in that My “dig” continued into the shrouded halls of little book!) Conclave. To my surprise, an artifact I felt leaning against With 43 years separating me from my own signature, my chair turned out to be a framed Brother’s picture from the ones from 122 years earlier seemed that much closer, 1967, my swing year. Staring back at me from behind their making the ritual of this small book become obvious for its glass enclosure of all those years were cameos vivid in my tight-bound community stretching across centuries. memory, locked in the innocence of youth. I thought, Everyone attached to those signatures shared the exact “What are the chances?” But, as I digested that thought, same experience as my own. My eyes rose up and took in someone distracted my attention by handing me the the assembled Brothers pressed in (continued on page 10) PAGE 10 THE FLAME Convention Confirmation by Jeffrey Chandler, H’08 [email protected]

aking the trip to a conven- Icarus, candlelight, and the tales tion is something I’d been of dead men, I watched looks of M meaning to do for the past curiosity form in the audience. two years – Obligations got in the This was why I was speaking here. way. School obligations when I was a I had spent all day talking with sophomore: last year, participation brothers of the Sigma Phi, but I in a canoe race with two other Beta did not yet know them as my Sigs. Being a senior this year and brothers. The experiences I spoke holding the position of chapter of in my oration were the ele- president, I knew it was time to ments of Sigma Phi to me. They make the commitment to go on were what I had learned from the the road. brothers before me and what I A few nights before this year’s had taken to heart to share with convention, I went for a walk to fin- brothers to come. Each of us with- ish up the final lines of my poem for in Sigma Phi takes something dif- the Hicks Oratorical Contest. ferent to hold on tight to. Though Reciting the lines to myself over and they all came to this Society from over in my head, I began to wonder different places in life … and had how it would be received Friday differing viewpoints on many night. Gathered there would be peo- aspects of our organization … the ple I had never met before … yet brothers I met at Convention all could still called ‘brothers’. This felt the same passion for the idea confused me and made me bonds. They saw what friendship, stop walking to sit down. I knew Jeffrey Chandler, H’08 love and truth had created and what bonded me to the brothers of how those values continue to the Beta, of course. That bond is what I had spent so long enrich their lives. thinking about as I wrote my poem. What was it, though, I found myself in the company of a remarkable group that I would learn about brotherhood beyond Clinton? of men at Convention 2010. I hope to be able to attend And why was I driving four hours alone on a rainy night to convention again – sooner rather than later – to learn share this in Vermont? The questions would stay with me from new brothers and reconnect with those I met at the for the whole drive, stubbornly resisting answers. Alpha of Vermont. In that place, I learned anew that the It wasn’t until Friday night as I recited the poem at the flame kindled in me in 2008 lives on … and not just in me, Hicks that it began to become clearer to me. As I spoke of but in each of us, my brothers.

(from page 9) the room. Although they represented a slight- graduates were in attendance at the Convention, that so ly smaller stretch of years and far-flung realms, the con- many actives had traveled great distances, and that the nectedness symbolized by the Vermont Tome became special nature of the organization was reiterated so many apparent anew. These assembled Sigs were likewise a single times during the course of the weekend was proof of community through the bonds of this ritual, even if some the shared bonds that arched over time and distance. of their signatures weren’t in this particular Tome. Just as the ritual of signatures in the Tome connected a Ritual and pageantry continued to mark the remain- continuous line of shared experience over time, likewise der of the weekend. For me, the highlight was The Hicks all the other pageants and rituals of the Society formed Oratorical Contest, with the cleverness, wit and emotion the glue that held the bonds of community together that marked each contestant’s earnest debate for the prize. within the armature of physical place. In fact, the more Without irony, all these rituals confirmed my thesis of their powerful agent of community now pushing 200 years – role in forming the bonds of healthy community. It made the Thrice Illustrious Sigma Phi – seemed to hold the me understand the Society better. I understood in a new virtual world represented by Facebook at bay. It never way why it had survived where others had failed. came up. Archeological samples from the weekend filled It’s a fact of life that an alpha character will lead an my virtual exhibit chest and confirmed why the sense of assembled group. My convention experiences suggested to community at the Sigma Phi Society is just as strong and me – personally and vividly – that, due to its strength in healthy as what had attracted me to join 43 years earlier. community, our Sigma Phi is the Greek world’s Alpha Despite the small size of the Society, the fact that so many Society. DECEMBER 2010 PAGE 11 Hicks Oratory by Alexander ‘Ax’ Hayssen, V’09 [email protected]

(The Hicks Oratorical Contest is a unique brotherhood highlight for each convention. In this year’s Hicks in Burlington, nine different undergrads representing six chapters took part, regaling their large and Sigly audience on Friday evening with poignant, personal viewpoints about this Society. This year’s winner was sophomore Ax Hayssen, V’09, from Stratham, Vermont.)

hen I was pledging just last fall, I was told by broth- ers and grads alike that the Vermont Sigma Phi W house was as tall as it is deep. I marveled at the thought of there being secret levels to the house. The idea was enough for me to throw any reservations I had away, Alexander ‘Ax’ Hayssen, V’09 and commit myself to both the Sigma Phi and her secrets. It has dawned on me, however, during my first year as ones will surely reach equal representation. What I’ve an active that the Sigma Phi Society is far deeper, and offered here is simple tribute to the remarkable depth and infinitely taller, than I had thought it was during my time impact of the Sigma Phi Society. as a pledge. In the 183 years since our Society’s founding, our uni- Our Society was founded in 1827 – 183 years ago – versities, colleges, and nation have seen incredible changes. before Michigan, Wisconsin, and California, now hosts to Society history proves that we continue to weather such some of our strongest chapters – were even parts of the changes. Our founders built a framework which brought us United States! That’s before the Civil War, which pitched farther and built us stronger than they could ever have our nation and Sigs into the bloodiest battles our country imagined. Judging by the actives and brothers I’ve met thus has ever fought. During that war, the Alpha of Vermont far at Convention 2010, I have no qualms in saying that we alone saw 21 of 22 actives march off to war. Only one are indeed an organization “just as tall as it is deep.” remained and reluctantly, based on medical unfitness for Illustrious Sigs are found in all walks of life. We have military duty. These were boys I’m speaking of, younger members who pioneered open-heart surgery and one who than most in my current chapter, myself included. Of those owns the Toronto Maple Leafs. We have two actives here in from our Society who served, two rose to the rank of major Vermont who have started a highly successful cookie delivery general and six returned from the war having earned the business. I heard recently, a Wisco grad blew through school Medal of Honor. Of these, Daniel Butterfield, U’1846, saw in three years with a nuclear engineering and physics degree his low-keyed, respectful trumpet tune adopted throughout and is at MIT this fall. We have a CEO at Dominos, and a co- the military. You may have heard of it: “TAPS.” chairman at Berkshire Hathaway. We have a branch of Sig duty and military service – in the Civil War and all Northwestern Mutual called Sigma PhiNancial which which followed – certainly represent authentic slices of this employs three actives and three grads. A good friend of Society’s rich history. mine is entering U.S. Navy Seals training. Another Sig There are others. The University of Vermont, for exam- friend started his first company – Career Explorations – at ple, is forever indebted to our Society. The men of the age sixteen. While this short speech only permits me to Alpha have left their mark on the University. Benedict touch on our history, that history finds Sigs doing amazing Auditorium, for example, is named for the Benedict Family, work all over the world! which pioneered its Sig legacy with George Greenville It’s no accident that Sigs have tested the sands of time Benedict, V’1845 and – until 1889 – saw nine brothers or year after year and still remain leaders. I believe two close relatives graduate. Buckham Hall was named after principles, passed on from our founders and exemplified Matthew Henry Buckham V’1848, the longest serving in our actives and grads, have enabled this Society to reach President in the University of Vermont’s history. Bailey these heights. Howe Library is named in honor of David Howe, V’1910. First, as men of the Sigma Phi, we have character both This library only exists because the two previous libraries – of mind and heart. Our lives and values have not and Billings Library and Torrey Hall, both given by and named cannot be reserved just for inside our chapters. The after Sigs – were either outgrown or burned down! Finally, Society was never intended to be a boundary for our most our campus hosts Wheeler House, named after John Brooks sacred values. We strive cautiously, of course, to remain the Wheeler, V’1845, which most appropriately houses the exclusive band we have always been. But the key ideals History Department. instilled and cultivated within our walls are also visible in This is one chapter I’m speaking of: one-twelfth of everything we endeavor beyond our Society. Our practice our dear Society. Some older chapters no doubt have a of Friendship, Love, and Truth must remain so strong legacy far exceeding Vermont’s! With time, the younger and so radiant that those around (continued on page 12) PAGE 12 THE FLAME Comforted By Ritual by Mike Imirie, M’69 [email protected]

recently saw a marketing placard in Starbucks which ding silver goblets. Close inspection revealed that it was advised “We are comforted by our rituals.” It carried solid silver, not mere plate – and an authentic product of I a larger-than-life photo of a steaming pumpkin latte Tiffany Jewelers, to boot! Closer inspection still disclosed cupped by a pair of hands. Starbucks’ meaning was clear; an inscription which explained that it was a gift from Philip in life, there is a special place for those things which give Ross, V’1891, the Society’s first General Secretary, 1911- us comfort. 1929. That heirloom set has been used to mark special This fall’s Burlington convention reminded me that occasions at the Vermont Alpha ever since. such wisdom is no less true within Sigma Phi. The Alpha of Travel purists will insist that being in Burlington in the Vermont provides a particularly good example, for she is a fall is its own reward. While that’s surely true, Convention chapter which takes Sigma Phi tradition very much to 2010’s rewards had more to do with it being a weekend full heart. During Convention 2010, the Society’s rituals were of Sig meaning – a “Starbucks weekend,” if you will – than very much in evidence. it being geographically splendid. Sigs are comforted by the Examples developed as early as Friday night’s late rituals they know when those rituals are performed faithful- conclave, when the formal, closed doors meeting opened ly, often and well. Our initiation service itself dates back to with the brothers standing the Society’s earliest days. and singing all three The brilliant, heartfelt verses of ‘Sigma Phi creation of Chester Ter Inclyta.’ The 90- Averill, U’1828 – minute program a member of the which followed Alpha’s charter was driven by a pledge class – it formal, prescribed has welcomed agenda featuring and informed an orderly mix of Sigs ever since. purpose and mirth. While that serv- There were Brothers ice is beautiful in the Hall from the for its poetry and ’50s. ’60s and ’70s to the purpose, I believe present day, and all seemed there’s an added to thoroughly enjoy the conclave experience … and the satisfaction for each of us which comes from knowing that prescribed order of events which drove it. every initiated Sig at all chapters in all the years since has Another vivid reminder was found in the Sig Sistering been welcomed and bound by those same ritual phrases. which took place on Saturday afternoon. While this Is it possible that Starbucks’ slogan is wiser than the Sistering was certainly noteworthy for welcoming four new coffee giant’s marketing mavens know? Sigs are comforted women into the circle simultaneously (!), that surprising by our rituals, to be sure. Within the Thrice Illustrious, that number was only one aspect of the story. A truly poignant comfort and our corresponding sense of membership grow demonstration was made by luminaries Chris Williamson, with each initiation service, chapter meeting, and shared V’79, and his wife, Ginger, VSS’95. Their emotions were Sig song. They remind us of our ongoing, Thrice Illustrious clearly visible in the excellent ritual work they performed commitment. They underscore the singular fraternal priori- in welcoming and informing the four new candidates: ty you and I established long ago. More vividly than any indeed, as they informed all of us gathered in the Eaton cup of pumpkin latte – no matter how divine – Sig rituals Room that afternoon. remind us of the important, personal membership choice A third reminder? Post-Sistering refreshments were we made back in the days before we knew anything about served in a formidable silver punch bowl with correspon- life’s other rituals.

(continued from page 11) us recognize and learn from it. our nearly two centuries of existence. We live in an ever-changing world.The Society has I confessed earlier that I’m an enthusiastic student of survived war after war and one school policy change after history. When I look into the window of our past, and mar- another. We know that Greek Life can change … and that vel at the stature of those here today, I am both proud and it will. I have no doubt Sigs can meet these changes just as confident. I am proud of the depths of our history and our we have for 183 years. While being flexible regarding members’ continuing embodiment of Sigma Phi’s most changing rules and regulations, we remain true to the sacred values. I am confident that, because of those time- values we’ve learned from our founders. This is what has honored things, this Society will surely rise to new heights enabled us to remain relevant … and leaders … throughout in the 21st century. DECEMBER 2010 PAGE 13

of Purchasing for Ford Argentina. Resource was also responsible for Before that, he served with Ford in a Michigan’s 1st and 2nd such homes, purchasing capacity in Thailand. Karl’s and construction will begin this year News of not complaining: “While the global on another … with all due respect to odyssey I’m on was never part of my Kermit! Michael can be reached at INTEREST plan, I’ve lived and traveled in parts of [email protected] the world I’d never have been able to The Michelin Guide 2011 provided visit if I hadn’t raised my hand and vol- Ross Blaufarb, I’80, lives in Bangkok, some very good reading for unteered to go to Brazil 17 years ago!” Thailand, where he works as a copy Christopher Kostow, H’96. That [email protected] editor at an English-language lifestyle accomplished gentleman is the chef at magazine. He’d love to hear from any Big news at the home of Sarah and Joe St. Helena, California’s The Restaurant brothers who visit the Land of Smiles. Grossman, M’96. On 20 September, at Meadowood, which has earned a Contact Ross at [email protected] or Joe reported: “Sarah just gave birth to coveted, oh-so-rare three stars from the [email protected]. a beautiful baby daughter named always critical folks at Michelin! A After 20 years Ted Bosley, I’73, still Hannah Shoshana – our first child. My Chicago native, Christopher says he’s enjoys his duties as director of The wife and I are both in medical school been cooking since the age of 14. A Gamble House in Pasadena, especially at Brown University. I’m in third year; Hamilton College graduate with a when the new pledge class travels 400 she’s in fourth. We’re adding ’parent- degree in philosophy, Christopher fig- miles from the Alpha of California, as ing’ to the very top of our demanding ured that he should turn his part-time they did recently, to learn more about ‘to do’ list, right now!” The Grossmans passion into a profession immediately the architects of our Sig home in live in Providence, Rhode Island. after graduation. The rest, as they say, Berkeley. Ted happily welcomes all Sigs [email protected] is history. His formula for success from near and far to the “other” along the way? A sense of humor, per- Greene & Greene landmark at 4 Ryan Johnson, M ’99, made the long- haps. Asked what goes into his best Westmoreland Place, Pasadena, CA distance trek from Kabul, Afghanistan, dishes, the accomplished chef replied: 91103 (gamblehouse.org). where he works, to Chicago, IL, to “50% inspiration; 50% angst!” The [email protected] attend the wedding of Jon Sabol, M’01, chef receives mail at 14820 Caminito in early October. Anthony Cece, M’94, Lorren, Del Mar, CA, 92014. After years of moving around and 12 was also in attendance. Ryan notes, “It years living in Texas, Todd Campau, was one for the ages; a great time was M’88, finally signed a contract on a had by all.” Wearing his unfailing “host house. This one is in Austin, TX. “It with the most” hat, Ryan adds: won’t be ready until spring 2011,” “Wandering birds are more than wel- Todd advises, “but when it is, I’ll be come to stop by and visit me any time.” able to host Sigs visiting the ‘Live [email protected] Music Capitol of the World.’” [email protected] At press time, the ever resolute and robust Larry Ikard, H’94, reported: Alec Denton, H’04, is looking forward “Not sure how interesting it is to to graduating from Vanderbilt Univer- others, but I’m running my fifth NYC sity Law School, where he studied Marathon on Sunday 7 November. So appellate and class action litigation. far it seems like it’s me, Phil Smyth, After his December 2010 graduation, H’84, and Jean Gruss, H86. Do other he is hoping to practice in those or Sigs run this race?” Christopher Kostow, H’96 related areas, and he would love to [email protected] do so in the company of other legal- There is no one is fonder or more minded Sigs. He currently resides at Isn’t it Kermit the Frog who has always respectful of Toyota’s Prius than Glens 419 Village at Vanderbilt, Nashville, maintained “It’s not easy being green”? Falls, NY, dentist Tony Romanazzi, TN 37212, and is available at Michael Klement, M’78, demurs. He U’76. He’s owned one for so long … [email protected]. advises with pride that his residential and loved the fuel efficiency so much – architectural design firm, Ann Arbor that he’s been commissioned by a Veteran Ford executive Karl Gigante, based Architectural Resource, has White River (VT) Toyota dealer to M’86, is on the move again. In a sixth recently completed Michigan’s 3rd script and star in a video which teaches foreign service assignment over a 20- USGBC LEED for Homes Platinum the best way to drive a Prius for maxi- year career, this move will take him certified whole house residential mum fuel efficiency! Congratulations from Buenos Aires to Sao Paulo, where remodel. (‘Platinum’ homes achieve may be sent in – and autographs may he will serve as director of commodi- the highest standards of third party be requested – by reaching the always ties Purchasing for Ford South green certification, including energy affable Dr. Romaazzi at this e-mail America. Previously, Karl was Director performance.) Happily, Architectural address: [email protected] PAGE 14 THE FLAME

Eric Sharfstein U’93, files this Sigly report: “I’m still in NYC. After getting hit by the ‘layoff monster’ earlier this year, I’m searching for a job again in the communications/media relations field. While I’m at it, I’m continuing to work on meeting a nice Jewish girl. I see many Alpha of New York Sigs on a regular basis. If you find yourself in NYC, send me an e-mail at: [email protected].” Pete Smith, U’67, combines ‘fraternity’ with ‘family’ in the following report: “I wanted to let you know that my daughter, Diana Smith, was married on 17 July in Johnstown, NY. In atten- dance, of course, were the “Unholy Wink Mayer, L’1910. The attached bride) and a Sig Sister, myself (the Three” of the Alpha of New York – Len photo was taken at the reception with proud father of the bride), Cara Kagan, U’66, Steve Schultz, U’68, and our wives, all of whom are Sig Sisters. Kagan, a Sig Sister and worthy wife myself – who have teamed up to per- From left to right are Annie Crowell, of Len Kagan and – of course! – the form every initiation ceremony at the Sig Sister and wife of Steve Shultz; inestimable Brother Kagan.” Alpha since the passing of our beloved Steve, Jane Smith (the mother of the [email protected]

Society Considers New Catalogue he Standing & Advisory Together, let’s work to create a histori- prompt and Thrice Illustrious coopera- Committee has a plan to cal record that can represent this tion is earnestly solicited. T replace a small but important Society well and stand the test of time. For the latest Catalogue informa- reference in the lives of Sigs. When the time comes and that tion, contact General Secretary Scott The Sigma Phi Catalogue was last envelope from PCI makes its way to McCrae, V’82, at this e-mail address: published in 1977. Small in size, you your mailbox or in-basket, your [email protected] might say that this blue hardback nonetheless carries the weight … and the history … of Sigma Phi within. It very probably shaped your earliest view of this Society when you were an impressionable newcomer. The S&A hopes to soon partner with Publishing Concepts (PCI) of Dallas, Texas, to create a worthy succes- sor. This successor periodical will be a full year in the making, and will be driven by personal surveys via mail or e-mail to each locatable member. In that event, it follows that you’ll want your current contact information to be on file with the Society’s national office. If you have new address particu- lars, visit our www.sigmaphi.org website and update, posthaste! We hope that this important effort can begin shortly after the new year. Let’s do all we can, Brothers, to make the new Sigma Phi Catalogue a repre- sentative successor to those of 1977, 1949, 1929, 1891 and even earlier. DECEMBER 2010 PAGE 15

We have this report from Lloyd Stamy, have operations around the world, so S’70. “I had the splendid opportunity I spend way too much time traveling to to take part in an exceedingly funny the Far East and central Europe. Sue play called ‘Twentieth Century’ with and I live in Topeka, Kansas, where The Stage Right Players of Pittsburgh we’ve been for 15 years. We are avid in early October. Although absent golfers, although not as good as we from the stage now for 13 years, the would like to be. With Kansas’ winter allure of greasepaint and a stage kiss at the doorstep, that’s not likely to with a gal young enough to be my change much before next spring.” daughter was far too strong for me to [email protected] resist. (By the way, after the kiss, she Doniel Winter, I ’94, has a new job. slaps me silly in a scene that a number He’s retired from editing TV commer- of friends (?) have insisted was easily cials in Los Angeles and moved to worth the price of admission!) As an Asheville, North Carolina, to be the added benefit, my costume found me proprietor of a family business, ASIA wearing an excellent old hat – finally, Bed & Spa, a boutique Bed and an opportunity to cover my bald Breakfast Spa: www.ashevillespa.com. head!” [email protected] Wandering Birds are always welcome. Sean Tice, H’03, has been hard at Contact Doniel directly @ 323-810- work developing Brooklyn Slate women and men who had graduated 0836. Doniel Winter, 128 Hillside Company (http://www.chantyce.com), the past five years – and to witness the Street, Asheville, NC, 28801. FLT. a manufacturer of slate cheese boards energy and enthusiasm they were [email protected] and coasters for restaurants and gour- bringing to their experience as pas- Grant Zubritsky, H’04, continues to met shops. Since co-founding the tors.” [email protected] pursue his music career in Brooklyn, company with his partner a year ago, We have this update from Rick New York. In addition to his main the company’s products have made Wienckowski, M’70. “Am still working band, Monuments (www.monu- their way into dozens of cheese and at 59. No thoughts of retirement mentsmusic.com), Grant continues to gourmet shops across 13 states, and because I’m still having fun as CFO of tour and play around New York with this fall will make their national debut Hills Pet Nutrition, Inc, a Colgate various other musicians. His website with the addition of Williams-Sonoma Palmolive subsidiary. Our company highlights all his performances and and Whole Foods. designs, makes and markets the discography. www.grzlstar.com [email protected] Science Diet and Prescription Diet (site built by Sean Tice H’03). Lew Towler, M’47, has celebrated brands of pet nutrition products. We [email protected] another pastoral milestone. This sum- mer, Lew took part in his 55th class reunion at the Virginia Theological Seminary in Alexandria, Va. He writes: “In June, 1955, 60 of us (all male, women were admitted later) received our Divinity Degrees from VTS. Around the gothic arch over the chapel’s altar are the words GO YE INTO ALL THE WORLD AND PREACH THE GOSPEL. As students, we looked at these words often, antici- pating when we would try to put into Alfred Bernard III, S’59 ...... 11 Nov 05 Richard A. Hunsdorfer, W’41 . . . . 21 Jan 10 action those words of Jesus. On gradu- Robert L. Bienert, G’39 Nelson C. Hyde Jr., H’50 ...... 3 Sept 05 Peter N. Blumenfeld, G’85 . . . . . 17 Nov 04 ation day so many years ago, we looked William A. Keiss Jr., G’47 ...... 10 Jun 08 Clifton R. Brooks Sr., F’44 ...... 8 May 09 at those words again and said to our- Oscar R. Kruesi, U’42 ...... 27 Jun 10 Willard H. Connor, V’32 ...... 30 Aug 10 William L. MacVane Jr., W’34 . . . . 1 Aug 10 selves, “Now I am going to do that.” Edward D. Czaja, U’67 ...... 3 Jun 08 Edward L. Nyhagen, G’46 ...... 15 Mar 10 Last week, nine of us – plus six wives Robert M. Dunn Jr., W’57 ...... 18 Feb 10 and one son – came back to the Lawrence F. Edgerton Jr., V’44 Montgomery G. Pooley Sr., H’35 . 28 Jan 09 Seminary. As we sat in the chapel and William Everdell III, W’34 ...... 30 Sept10 Ralph W. Prince MD, W’38 ...... 2 Dec 08 saw those words over the altar, we Robert J. Harten, G’47 David B. Stewart, I’40 ...... 1 Oct 10 thought with some satisfaction: ‘Been Robert D. Hartshorne Jr., H’42 . . 19 Feb 10 William D. VanIngen, G’50 ...... 29 Jul 07 there; done that.’ I was especially Franklin K. Hoyt, W’27 ...... 6 Jan 10 Charles D. Warner Jr., V’43 . . . . . 26 Mar 10 happy to meet the younger alums – William H. Hudson, W’47 ...... 3 Sept 10 Richard C. Weiler, L’42 ...... 10 Aug 97 Sigma Phi FLAME Please check the name and Nonprofit Organization NATIONAL HEADQUARTERS address below and notify us U.S. POSTAGE PAID of any corrections. And send POST OFFICE BOX 4633 us your “News of Interest” for Permit No. 4416 CHAPEL HILL, NC 27515-4633 the next edition of the Flame. Columbus, Ohio CHANGE SERVICE REQUESTED

Nominations Open for Distinguished Sig and David Brown Awards he Standing and Advisory Committee is was instituted in 1999 to recognize Sig Brothers who soliciting nominations for its two highest have demonstrated their enduring love for our T awards conferred on Sig Brothers. Society through their boundless energy and contri- The Elihu Root Distinguished Sigma Phi butions to its brotherhood and well-being. Award Award, initiated in 1989, is to recognize and honor recipients have included Ted Bosley, I’73, Wally Sigma Phi alumni for lifetime achievements that Gates, V’50, Calhoun L.H. Howard, S’54, Mike reflect Sigma Phi’s values and bring credit to the Imirie, M’69, Rex Jones, F’72, George Mercer, M’68, Society. The award is intended to provide inspira- Sam Moore, F’70, Steve Moore, V’41, Jim Jenkins, tion for all Sigs, and in particular, for undergradu- S’58, and Doug Tudhope, V’47. ates, our leaders of the future. Nominations are due by July 1 and welcome Worthy candidates for selection are graduate sooner. Any individual or group may make them, brothers who have distinguished themselves by with or without the knowledge of the nominee. achieving national or international prominence, providing There is no prescribed format for submitting a nomination broad public service to others in society, and/or rendering out- other than providing a comprehensive description of the candi- standing service to the Society or to the fraternity system. Over date’s contributions, ideally in publishable form. Nominations the years, the award has been conferred to Charlie Boswell II, will remain confidential, revealed only to those brothers who G'47, Chet Eaton, V’30, Hastings Keith, V’34, Art Nielsen, Jr., are directly involved in the selection process. F’38, Larry Perkins, F’25, Barney Rocca, I’34, and Chet Nominations are being accepted by Dan Neumann F’71, Sawtelle, U’29. the Society’s Awards Co-chairman, who may also be contacted The David S. Brown Distinguished Sigma Phi Service concerning additional details at [email protected] or 120 Award, named for longtime Sig stalwart David. Brown, S’70, Campbell Road, Trumbull, Connecticut 06611. 2010 Dues Notice As 2010 draws to a close, some facets of our remarkable Society remain constant. Brotherhood. Sharing. Expanded horizons. A profound and thankful awareness for the remarkable fraternal vision given birth by Brothers Bowie, Bowie, Cromwell and Witherspoon 183 years ago. And the ongoing need for … your personal support. Your dues each year enable the Society’s publishing, training, and expansion efforts. Without active support from Sig alumni, there’s no progress in those ‘lifeblood’ areas, just as there would have been no Sigma Phi at all had the Brothers Bowie, Witherspoon and Cromwell not put a brave fraternal stake in the ground in Schenectady in 1827. If you haven’t yet responded to the dues letter sent earlier by Society Chairman Marshall Solem, F’79, please invest a moment now. Mail your dues check ($50 before 2005; $30 for those initiated after), payable to Sigma Phi Society, to Sigma Phi, P. O. Box 4633, Chapel Hill, NC 27515-4633. Esto!