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VOL 9, NO 36 ■ SEPTEMBER 10, 2010 / 2 TISHREI 5771 WWW.THEJEWISHSTAR.COM Struck down Father of four recovering; needs help By Michael Orbach
Ilan Tocker, a father of four from Cedar- hurst, fainted and was badly injured at a kosher restaurant in Atlantic City, N.J., on the night after Tisha B’Av, July 21. The 33- year-old, a popular member of the Young Israel of Lawrence-Cedarhurst, hit the right side of his head on the restaurant’s marble fl oor. A friend immediately called 911 but noticed that something was seriously wrong only when Tocker, normally very laid back, became aggressive with the paramedics. The aggression, the paramedics explained, was a Photo by Claudio Papapietro sign of brain trauma. Dmitriy Salita, 28, training at Universal Boxing Gym in Ozone Park in June. Salita was born in Odessa, Ukraine, Tocker’s wife, Rachel, immediately drove from the Beaver Lake bungalow colony in up- and moved to Brooklyn as a child. state New York, where the family was spend- ing the summer, to the hospital in Atlantic City. Surgeons there relieved pressure and swelling on Tocker’s brain by removing the right side of his skull, but then they noticed Salita, future rabbi, wins something worse: The left side of his head was also swelling, a sure sign of intracranial bleeding. According to Stacy Mayer, Tocker’s sister-in-law, Rachel was given a stark choice: comeback on home turf “[They could] remove the left side of his skull but there’s only 10 percent chance of survival and, most likely, he will be a vegetable,” May- er recalled being told by the doctors. Or the Brighton Beach brawl ends in decision family could do nothing and Tocker would By Dan Klein Nine months ago, Amir Khan trounced The sold-out event, billed as “Redemp- “pass away in a few hours.” the Ukrainian-born rabbi-in-training in a tion,” featured a very Brooklyn crowd, The family was frozen by the decision. On Sept. 1, boxer and Orthodox semi- match in England. Salita later told Tab- which waited through seven preliminary Tocker’s parents had just made Aliyah three cha student Dmitriy “Star of David” Salita let Magazine that the extremely hostile fi ghts for the main bout. The audience, weeks before and were on the phone with (31-1-1, 16 KOs) pulled out a tough victory crowd was to blame and received some many wearing yarmulkes, some shout- Rachel struggling to decide if it would be by decision over Franklin Gonzalez (13-6, friendly advice: Fight in Brooklyn next ing in Spanish and English at the opening better for their son to die rather than live his 9 KOs) at Brighton Beach’s Oceana Hall. time. Continued on page 3 Continued on page 3
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Photo courtesy of Sara Rosenberg Sara of courtesy Photo Reprinted from Tabletmag.com with Reprinted Tabletmag.com from To donate money to the Ilan Tocker foun- money donate the Ilan Tocker to To ghting Malignaggi and, moreover, to to ghting Malignaggi and, moreover, As for theAs for looks future, while he forward In theIn introspec- was Salita lockerroom, “It’s not to pay for food and electricity food for for pay “It’s to not cated at 501A Central Avenue in Cedarhurst. Avenue Central at 501A cated cookbook is available at Blue Door Books,cookbook is available lo- dation, visit http://ilantockerfoundation.com groove.” He praised the crowd, describing He praised the crowd, groove.” theexperience “theas, o opposite polar “This,” he concluded, “is ght.” the fi [Khan] Brighton Beach.” to fi a rematch with good going Khan, he “feels with this. redeemed.” I feel theinto Yontif the for last of anger had a lot He added, “I’ve nine months.” knocking out someone like Gonzalez.” This knocking Gonzalez.” out someone like ed, because “I live be identifi man refused to Heights, and I just bad-mouthed in Crown euphoric But the mood was general Dmitriy.” with fans. photos as Salita posed for and ex- himself a “C+ or B-,” He gave tive. m get rounds to me a few plained, “It took and follow the “Donate” link. Lake the “Donate” The Beaver and follow at Beaver Lake have begun selling cookbooks have Lake at Beaver they’ve sold his treatment. So far, for pay to 300 of the 500 editions they published and they’ll earnbelieve $8,000 from the close to charitable Through donations the endeavor. $25,000. Tock- has raised close to foundation er’s friends and es- are also selling lulavim his treatment. Any for raise money rogim to medical raised will go strictlymoney towards thereShould extra money be Tocker. for care Shabbos, where Tomchei to it will be donated has been a regular volunteer. Tocker him explained. “It’s get to Mayer the family,” better.” As all three judges ruled 78-74 for Salita, for As all three ruled judges 78-74 The total, by conservative will by estimates, The total, up a set friends have and family Tocker’s Sara Rosenberg began a challah baking campaign for Tocker. for campaign began a challah baking Rosenberg Sara the of trainer Norman advice Lorrick, the on supernova, relying went of David” “Star under Gonzalez’s get to superior footwork and score punishing combinations to guard a the into face. Gonzalez, forced body and pushed repeatedly was strategy, defensive against the at its ropes; his endurance was nal bell rang. ebb when the fi lowest journalists rushedand well-wishers the stage, big-time Malignaggi, a fairly including Paulie Amir who nonetheless also has lost to boxer 1st, round). not Khan (albeit in the 11th, Malignaggi, another local son, congratulated his left with “keep Salita and joked up” him to At ght in 2011. fi to promised the before two there were the outskirts of the ring, however, grumblings about Salita’s performance. “It “Theman. one said issue ght,” fi good a was Salita should be ghter, fi is that be an elite to another daunting challenge: paying for his for anotherpaying challenge: daunting insurance astronomical medical bill. Tocker’s plan on Blue Cross and Blue Shield covered acute of rstdays 30 the surgeries and the fi up. were 30 days Tocker’s 7, care. On Sept. Yom Erev surgerynext The 14, Sept. on is him in the keep hospital for and to Kippur, the raise the to needed extra week, family pro- insurance also only $25,000. Tocker’s one month care and 60 vides for of sub-acute a complete of therapists make days visits; to several require will likely Tocker recovery, months care in a full rehabilita- sub-acute of and a therapisttion center visit every for day the next year. $40,000 a month.be close to Ilantocker- him. A website, for foundation periodic updates provides foundation.com, linksas donate to well as condition his about friends his medical care. Tocker’s for money fth, upon The fi rst four rounds had the crowd won- rounds had therst four crowd The fi With such loftythat mentioned few hopes, After one connected in theAfter one connected third, leav- At the moment, Tocker’s family faces yet faces yet family At the Tocker’s moment, A full recovery for Tocker is a long way is a long way Tocker A full recovery for “He said that she keeps coming into his “He said that coming into she keeps Over the last two months Tocker has has months theOver Tocker last two The surgeryThe theand successful was swell- Within several hours, Tocker’s brain pres- hours,Within Tocker’s several “On Facebook, hundreds of women all hundreds of women “On Facebook, “We were trying to gather 43 women to trying to gather were to 43 women “We Mayer and some friends sent out a mass Mayer ghts, defeated Salita, it would be a major be a major Salita, it would defeated ghts, roadblock to Salita’s “Redemption.” roadblock to if Gonzalez, who had lost his previous three fi the boxer-next-door. “He has to win,” he said, win,” “He has to the boxer-next-door. “It’s his hometown.” ing Salita with a cut under his left half- eye, heartedchants seconds. in faded and rose through the halfway fi However, dering if they would be able to call it a come- call deringto be able if they would back. Gonzalez came out with far more ag- gression than Salita; while they exchanged Salita was numbers of blows, equal roughly Gonzalez visibly on theforced defensive. circling dent while Salita faltered, grew confi the counter to and grappling, unsure how the to (he roundhouses face punishing wild “awkward”). me these tell were later would off but the years, and take family and could his celebrated Tocker are optimistic. doctors birthday 33rd Cen- Medical Sinai Mount at after moved in Manhattan, where he was ter oldest son, Benjamin, the Tocker’s surgeries. him a surprise plans on throwing party as 7, out of the hospital. soon as he gets room to try him and ask him ques- room to talk to to May- that not just is he and tions interested,” er related. beat the odds and is making progress to- taken When he was a full recovery. wards induced coma his eyes out of a medically he began mouth- began tracking. later, Days and he currently talksing words in full sen- with is playing iPhone and his Tocker tences. beating friends On a blog dedicated at cards. he offered to how recounted Mayer Tocker, to out him get anything”to nursea “literally pay of the After hospital. a session witha cogni- and turned his wife to therapisttive Tocker was. who theasked woman ing decreased further. sure began to drop precipitously; so fast, the drop precipitously; sure began to a herniation. it was believe began to doctors that,” anything like saw “The never doctors said. At 3 a.m. when the pressure had Mayer and with level, just a slim a safe decreased to underwent surgery Tocker hope of recovery, theleft remove side of his skull.to said, ‘I will do it,’” Mayer said. “We posted posted said. “We Mayer said, ‘I will do it,’” on posting pictures recipes... and people kept who don’t know of their challah. Women challahbaked in who [Ilan] is, who never Ilan.” for their all baked lives, bake in his zechus [merit],” Mayer explained. his zechus in bake [merit],” Mayer What happened surprised them. text message asking people to say tehillim. tehillim. say asking people to message text She called the of Bingham- rabbi of Chabad with close in her college ton, whom she was a group and arranged for to of people days, the course of 24 over read the entire Tehillim hours. Another friend, de- Sara Rosenberg, begin a challah group,cided to placing hope in a Kabalistic belief that baking challah for help him. would sake Tocker’s Shabbos for “We all began praying at that point... We that at all began praying We point... “We thinking the his funeral about going to were next day.”
However, many, like Reuvain Stoll of Stoll Reuvain like many, However, Many, like Salita’s friend Chaim Tovshteyn Salita’s friend like Chaim Tovshteyn Many, The family waited for several hours and several for waited The family “It looked very“It looked grim,” recalled Michal “The swelling was so high that was “The if it goes swelling
einstein of Woodmere, a friend of the fam- of Woodmere, einstein atched the nor read in sixty years news he pressure in Tocker’s skull had skyrock- he pressure in Tocker’s rayed. ne point higher he’ll be brain dead,” Mayer Mayer ne point higher he’ll be brain dead,” ut impossible. ecame moot as the as ecame moot worsened. dire situation ted, making furtherted, surgery at that time all ag that was later taken into the ring into with taken thatag later was ecalled. ife unconscious. Moments later the Moments later unconscious. decision ife ly who drove with Lake. Rachel who drove ly from Beaver Continued from page 1 page Continued from Continued from page 1 page from Continued Crown Heights, were there simply to support to there simply were Heights, Crown can fi ght back and win.” can fi the strength of the people: That they Jewish Barney Ross) suggested, “If he wins, it means Barney suggested, Ross) Douglas Century’s Nextbook Press biography, Douglas Century’s Press biography, Nextbook w fl has neither (who apparently Salita. “David” Jewish world.” “David” was waving an Israeli waving was “David” world.” Jewish to prove his professional identity in a non- identity his professional prove to through with adversity identity his Jewish nian-born Brooklynite said. “He strugglednian-born Brooklynite a kindred spirit. the “He’s me,” Ukrai- like saw in the newly junior middleweight boxer boxer junior middleweight in thesaw newly fered was why. why. was fered win, but that win. Where they dif- he had to boxers, all agreed not only that Salita would that all agreed only Salita would not boxers, Salita, future rabbi, wins boxing comeback comeback wins boxing rabbi, future Salita,
son. son. Ilan Tocker in a skating rink with his in a skating Ilan Tocker Father of four recovering; needs help needs recovering; four of Father W i p r o b T e l b 4 Deal for the books Peninsula Library intends to
THE JEWISH STAR THE JEWISH buy land on Central Avenue By Mayer Fertig “The Nassau library system publishes per capita square footage per library and we are Peninsula Public Library and Temple Israel of dead last in Nassau County,” she said. Lawrence have signed a letter of intent for the It’s been 13 years since the Peninsula Public Li- library to buy several pieces of property from brary won approval of a bond to cover the cost of the congregation totaling a parcel large enough putting up a new, larger building. Since then there for a three-story, 30,000 square foot library and have been a number of delays and false starts, adequate off-street parking. most recently a several-years-long fl irtation with The library board and the board of the Re- the Village of Lawrence over a piece of property it form temple at 140 Central Avenue made a deal owns adjacent to the LIRR station there. after the JCC of the Greater Five Towns, which “Our board has worked very hard for a very rents classroom space from Temple Israel, de- long time and we are very excited that we fi nally
September 10, 2010 2 TISHREI 5771 2 TISHREI 5771 2010 10, September cided to not exercise an option to purchase a have a site that we think can be beautiful and portion of the temple’s property. adequate to meet the needs of the community,” “I approached the library and asked them if said Lepelstat. they would be interested in looking at part of A number of regulatory hurdles must be
400717 our front lawn and at our offsite parking,” said crossed, including an environmental review. James Rotenberg, the president of Temple Israel While the library is not subject to local zoning of Lawrence. The congregation owns several laws, answering instead to the NYS Department adjacent homes on Fulton Street that would be of Education, Lepelstat pledged that the library razed for parking. “It was a quick process and a would be “a good neighbor.” friendly process and a win-win for the temple The library and an architect are working on and for the library. We’re the people of the book a building design to present to the public before and this is a perfect partnership.” seeking a bond issue for construction. The temple sanctuary and other facilities In an interview on Friday, Sept. 3, library would not be impacted by new construction. president Joseph Fuller told The Jewish Star, The search for a bigger, better Peninsula Pub- “The fact that it’s taking place the week before lic Library has been underway practically since Rosh Hashanah, to me it’s symbolic that we can it opened its doors in 1961, said Joan Lepelstat, start a new year with a big step forward and vice president of the library’s Board of Trustees. hopefully by this time next year we’ll have ac- The current building is the smallest library in complished a lot in terms of providing a new Nassau county when measured by the number library for this district.” of people it serves. Holiday fi tness SUMMER SELF New thinking for a new year By Ian Digiacomo etables in this category include celery, carrots, STORAGE Special Rosh Hashanah, all the holidays that fol- broccoli, spinach, caulifl ower, cabbage, turnip, low, and Shabbat year-round, pose challenges onion, zucchini, and cucumber. Now keep in to health and fi tness, and weight loss. Massive mind, how you prepare them may completely Need More Space? meals, hours in shul and Shabbat naps equal void this entire concept, so easy on the oil. Fruits much less physical activity than usual. that enjoy the same effect are apples, honeydew, Many people get carried away with the papaya, blueberries, strawberries, tangerine, amount of food they consume and the choices mango, cantaloupe, and grapefruit. they make. It is only natural to want to clean As far as challah and honey goes, just re- GET THE your dessert plate and ask for more. Unfortu- member: moderation. Take small pieces of nately with these meals comes a slight or per- challah and do not slather them in honey and haps signifi cant weight gain. I am not saying, do you’ll be fi ne. Also, keep water intake high and not enjoy yourself over the holidays. However, eat healthier foods fi rst, so you won’t be raven- weight gain can be lessened or avoided with a ous when you are thinking of taking yet another ST few modifi cations to the overall holiday meal ex- piece of challah and honey, or other sweet foods perience and if you are trying to lose weight or that lead to extra pounds. thinking about starting a fi tness program there For physical activity, I recommend leaving month are certain things you should keep in mind. early for shul and taking a much longer walk- There are many options in front of you when ing route than you normally would. Those extra 1 you sit down at the dinner table. However, steps will add up, and make sure to bring a bot- while some can actually help speed up your tle of water with you. Even before you start your metabolism, others can send you into a fat stor- day, take a chair and sit down, then stand up, ing frenzy. For example, there are a number of twenty or more times. If you do not exercise at fruits and vegetables that require your body to all this may cause you to breathe a little heavier burn more calories in order to digest them, than or even break a sweat. If you do exercise regular- FREEWith a minimum of a 3 month agreement they are actually worth in calories. These are ly this may not be challenging enough to inspire not to be combined with any other offer. referred to as “negative calorie foods.” An ex- a metabolic response. However, increasing your cellent idea to keep in the back of your mind is activity level on and around these holidays will that a piece of cake that may contain +500 calo- help decrease the effects of overwhelming meals ries, will require your body to use less than half and additional snacks. of that amount in calories to digest it. On the Knowing a few hints and tricks to keep the other hand a celery stalk that is valued between weight off during the holidays is one thing, put- fi ve and 10 calories will take many more calo- ting them to use is a whole other story. Now it’s up ries — much more energy — to break it down to you. Have a happy and a healthy New Year. and extract the nutrients from it. The concept 381734 BIG BOB'S SELF STORAGE is to ultimately have your food work for you to Ian Digiacomo, AAPTE, ISSE, LMA offers help you lose weight. Imagine eating an entire personal training sessions at Healthtrax 2 Endo Blvd., Garden City • 516-227-0200 meal and actually having a net loss of calories in Garden City and at Legacy Fitness located 1 block south of Stewart Avenue, just west of the Meadowbrook Parkway (Exit 3M) Adjacent to north campus of Nassau Community College. Offer Expires 10-01-10. that will tap into your fat stores and put you that above Brach’s Supermarket in Lawrence. He much closer to being one waist size down. Veg- can be reached at [email protected]. 5 Rabbi Sholom Axelrod THE JEWISH STAR Young Israel of Woodmere welcomes new associate rabbi By Michael Orbach my experience in Great Neck was that a rabbi
can enjoy a very beautiful relationship with As of Sunday, Rabbi Sholom Axelrod is of- the congregation, that has an impact and is September 10, 2010 2 TISHREI 5771 fi cially the associate rabbi at the Young Israel profound, both in terms of the infl uence the of Woodmere. rabbi has in the lives of his congregants and “It’s defi nitely a challenge to get to know all the things that a rav can learn from his everyone,” Rabbi Axelrod admitted on join- tzibur,” Rabbi Axelrod explained. ing the largest Young Israel in the United He says he is looking forward to “mak- States, with more than 900 member families. ing a positive contribution” in Woodmere by His previous position as assistant rabbi of the adding several learning programs and shi- Great Neck Synagogue, a shul with 600 fami- urim to the schedule. Additionally, he hopes lies, was good preparation, he added. to “build upon the sense of community that “I saw you could have a very personal already exists.” relationship with your congregation,” Rabbi “We’d like to take it to other levels,” Rabbi Axelrod said. “It can be done especially when Axelrod asserted. He succeeds Rabbi Kalman you’re working with a very good rabbinic Topp who accepted a position in the Los An- team that can see to the needs of the shul geles-area last year. members. That was one of the reasons why Rabbi Hershel Billet said he is looking for- [Young Israel of Woodmere] interested me.” ward to having Rabbi Axelrod and his wife at Rabbi Axelrod also praised the rabbi of the Young Israel of Woodmere. the Great Neck Synagogue, Rabbi Dale Po- “They bring fresh energy, new ideas, and lakoff, with whom he worked since 2001. great enthusiasm to our shul and entire com- “Rabbi Polakoff was a true mentor in my rab- munity,” Rabbi Billet said. binic career,” Rabbi Axelrod explained. “He’s Rabbi Axelrod views the move as a like a rabbi’s rabbi.” homecoming of sorts, he said. His mother To prepare for his new post Rabbi Axelrod and grandmother are both from Far Rocka- spent three weeks in Israel with his family for way and two of his brothers live in the Five the bar mitzvah of his oldest son. Towns. “It was very meaningful,” he explained. Photo by Andrew Vardakis “My children are enjoying being in close “There was a lot of time to recharge in antici- Rabbi Sholom Axelrod with Young Israel of Woodmere President Shlomo Zuller. proximity to their family,” he said. pation for the new position.” Rabbi Axelrod said he’s looking forward to working with the other rabbis in the com- Rabbi Axelrod and his wife, Ruchi, bring a at Yeshivat Kerem B’Yavneh for a year, then Axelrod also worked as the youth director for munity. full house with them to Woodmere, kein ayin went on to Yeshiva University where he re- the merged youth divisions of Young Israel of “They have built a model community for horah, including Kayla, 15; Eli, 13; Shani, 11; ceived semicha and a Masters in Jewish edu- Queens Valley and the Young Israel of Kew the American-Jewish scene,” he said. Shira, 9; Tamar, 5; and Nomi, 3. cation. He learned in the YU kollel for a year Gardens Hills. In 2001, he became assistant Rabbi Axelrod was born and raised in Kew before joining the faculty of Rambam Mesivta rabbi at the Great Neck Synagogue. Gardens Hills. After high school he learned in Lawrence in 1995. During that time, Rabbi “I think the biggest thing I learned from
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September 10, 2010 2 TISHREI 5771 Gershon Veroba, a Far Rockaway resident, is so much a local booster that he named his production company Town 6 Entertainment. So why would he go to the trouble of produc- ing a concert in a venue 6,000 miles away? “A lot of Americans are in Israel for Suk- kos, both visitors and yeshiva kids,” Veroba told The Jewish Star. “I wanted to offer wholesome entertainment for yeshiva kids that would attract Americans tourists as well. A concert offering quality music, but in Is- rael, where music is truly appreciated.” That’s how Rock Ami (Rock My Nation) was born last year, and the formula worked. Veroba teamed up with an Israeli producer, RNY Productions, and featured performanc- es by the Moshav Band, SoulFarm, Yossi Photo courtesy Town 6 Entertainment Piamenta and by Veroba himself. Over 700 Gershon Veroba onstage, above, with acoustic guitar and at far right. people attended and the concert was so suc- cessful, Veroba recalled, that long after the music ended, large circles of people still sat Veroba has big hopes for the Rock Ami solo debut, Man to Man, in 1983, made him explaining that he felt he had taken that par- on the fl oor singing. festival which will also feature street per- the fi rst Jewish music artist to perform all the ticular style of music as far as he could. His “People in Israel are connecting with their formers, local artists and family activities. vocals and instruments on an album. He re- most recent album was the a cappella “Little core,” Veroba continued. “No more secrets, “I hope this grows and grows till we out- corded the album himself in his home. David,” released in 2009. Veroba also regu- no more worrying about what people will grow this stadium and move on to a bigger Veroba is best known to some fans for his larly performs with high end simcha bands. think. So when they go to a concert, they are venue,” he said. Jewish-themed parodies of popular songs. Rabbi Eytan Feiner, rav of the White Shul, happy to sing along, something they would With appearances on over 50 Jewish al- One of his more popular tunes was a take praised Veroba’s music, describing it as an never do in the States, because they feel less bums, Veroba’s is one of the most storied ca- on Billy Joel’s “Piano Man,” titled “Chazan “intricate tapestry woven from widespread inhibited in Israel.” reers in Jewish music. The son of a mixed Man.” Both Paul Simon and Ringo Starr have diversity.” Rock Ami 2010 takes the stage at Jerusa- marriage between a chazan (his father) and heard Veroba’s parodies and said they liked “It is music that moves you with lyrics that lem’s Kraft Stadium on Sept. 28, with a line- an opera singer (his mother), Veroba’s music them, he said. Knowledgeable listeners to his captivate and stir the soul to really think,” up that includes SoulFarm, Hamakor, Y-Love, career began in high school when he record- “Variations” series recognize the musician- Rabbi Feiner said. Sabbo and Veroba’s fellow-Far Rockaway ed his fi rst song. He offi cially hit the Jewish ship Veroba demonstrated in recreating the “Music can be like a good sefer,” Veroba resident, guitarist Aryeh Kunstler. music scene in 1983, appearing on an album original music. maintains. “In Israel they aren’t afraid to use with his band The Jewish Blues. Veroba’s He has ended his parody project, he said, music to deliver a meaningful message.” Ram tough
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