DECEMBER 2015

2015 GIFT GUIDE: A very gay Christmas

+ Men's grooming makes the Cut

Palm Springs fashionistas join forces

Trans musicians face the music

Creating community with The Center's Mike Thompson GETGET CONNECTEDCONNECTED

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CULTURE 28 Ideas We Love Two Palm Springs hotties give the “man cave” a posh 16 The Chat twist, the McCallum spotlights aspiring entertainers, and a When your favorite diva belts out a tune, she may be telling nonprofit group celebrates fashion in the desert. a story written by Allan Rich. The lyricist discusses the art of songwriting for some of music’s biggest stars. 32 Design Insider Whether you’re naughty or nice, you can have a fabulous, 20 Buzzworthy sexy and fun Christmas with these gift ideas from Kurt Cyr. The gay men’s chorus gets sassy about the holidays, and Danny Pintauro shows us “Who’s the boss” when it comes to raising HIV awareness. THE OUTLOOK

22 Muse 38 Cover Story From Montreal to Palm Springs, with a few diversions in The LGBT Community Center of the Desert is on a mission, between, Shaktima Brien blazes a trail as an avant-garde with an executive director, board and staff who believe its artist that’s distinctly her own. rightful place is in the heart of uptown Palm Springs.

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CONTENTS DECEMBER 2015

42 In the Spotlight Christopher Durbin has some big shoes to fill as Mr. Palm Springs Leather 2016, but he’s up for the challenge.

46 News The Ukraine broadens LGBT protections, and the White House Administration speaks out for full equality.

48 Now residents seeking health care encounter belittling and inadequate service, a survey shows.

PEOPLE

52 Trans Life Who’s on your iTunes play list? Paulina Angel introduces a few talented and courageous musicians who self-identify as transgender.

54 Palm Springs Personified For people living with HIV, getting back into the workforce has benefits beyond earning a paycheck. Valerio Iovino helps Desert AIDS Project clients land a J-O-B.

DATEBOOK

60 Calendar December offers a feast for the senses with the Festival of Lights Parade, Tamale Festival, Reindeer Run, Jeremiah Clark performance and much more.

66 Worth the drive Indulge your mac and cheese craving, bid on a date with an Andrew Christian underwear model, and let Leslie Jordan tickle your funny bone.

68 Gadabout Downtown Palm Springs bustles with Pride, and beautiful guys and gals don swimsuits for a cause.

80 Our Pick The Palm Springs International Film Festival will have you seeing stars – on the red carpet and multiple desert screens.

BUSINESS DIRECTORY

65 Looking for last-minute Christmas, Hanukkah, or Kwanzaa gifts? Browse the products and services of these Coachella Valley businesses.

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THIS LIFE FROM THE EDITOR

A YEAR OF LIVING EXPECTANTLY

AS 2015 DRAWS TO A CLOSE and we look back over the events of the year, what will you remember most? For the LGBT community, this year brought hard-won, life-affi rming change. Many may refer to it as the year of marriage equality, with the Supreme Court of the United States in June granting the right to marry to same-sex couples nationwide. We won’t soon forget that victory, though I hopefully look forward to the day when future generations see a couple of husbands or wives as nothing out of the ordinary. The year also brought increasing awareness of the experiences and struggles of transgender people, with Caitlyn Jenner stepping into the spotlight to live fully and courageously as the woman she always felt she was. While her supporters and detractors alike are quick to point out she isn’t a spokeswoman for all trans people, Jenner undeniably

PHOTOGRAPHED BY ROB LEBOW ROB BY PHOTOGRAPHED sparked a national conversation about non-binary gender identity and expression that hadn’t occurred before. It’s enough to prompt a spontaneous rendition (and slight lyric revision) of Dinah Washington’s “What A Difference A [Year] Makes.” However, as LGBT leaders such as Evan Wolfson and Aisha Moodie-Mills have reminded us in recent Desert Outlook features, more work and community-building are needed to obtain full LGBT rights. In the desert, one of the strongest resources and proponents of connecting community is the LGBT Community Center of the Desert. Mike Thompson, The Center’s executive director, tells us in the cover story on page 38 why it’s important and how a new home for center programs and services will aid its mission. (Thompson’s cover portrait was created by artist Curry Mendes.) On a lighter note, for those on a mission to find the pitch-perfect gift for friends and family, we reveal on page 32 fun and quirky ideas for just about every personality represented in the LGBT rainbow. From leather daddies to la femmes, there’s something to inspire holiday cheer. And during a season when beloved holiday songs can be heard everywhere, we’re spotlighting music- makers with desert ties. Songwriter Allan Rich and his writing partner won the proverbial lottery when one of their songs earned a place on “The Bodyguard” soundtrack. Rich discusses on page 16 his illustrious career penning tunes for pop stars and a recent collaboration with a Palm Springs entertainer. Desert music fans may be surprised to discover there are a number of openly transgender artists recording music. Trans Life contributor Paulina Angel sounds off about a few of her favorite musicians on page 52. The holidays likely will be significantly brighter for Valerio Iovino’s clients. Through his work with Desert AIDS Project, he’s trained and helped many who are served by the organization to re-enter the workforce. On page 54, he shares his approach to gaining opportunities to earn an income or volunteer for a nonprofit group. But if you’re fortunate enough to have a few of the holidays off from work, there’s plenty to do in the desert and across Southern California. Check out our calendars starting on page 60.

Thanks for reading, and Happy New Year.

Will Dean, Editor [email protected]

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ON THE COVER

Portrait of Mike Thompson, executive director of the LGBT Community Center of the Desert in Palm Springs, created by Curry Mendes for Desert Outlook. Based on a photograph by David A. Lee.

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16 DESERT OUTLOOK | DECEMBER 2015 THE CHAT

HOW OFTEN DO YOU WITH BARRY MANILOW COME TO THE DESERT? FOR HIS 1985 I come to Palm Springs “MANILOW” ALBUM He writes THAT YOU WERE several times a year and have such a great time FINALLY ABLE TO QUIT when I’m there. My dear YOUR TWO DAY JOBS. the songs friend Josh Levin lives HAVE YOU STAYED IN there, and that’s where I TOUCH? usually stay. Then there’s I can’t say enough good LYRICIST ALLAN RICH FINDS my dear friends, Realtor things about Barry. Love INSPIRATION IN THE DESERT Mark Freeman and Glenn him to pieces. I was a Rosenblum, who have a totally unknown entity BY DANIEL VAILLANCOURT second home there, and recommended by record songwriting buddy Marvin producer Howie Rice, and rooklyn-born, Los Angeles-based lyricist Allan Rich Marrow. And real estate he took a chance on me. agent Patrick Stewart and And Barry was always one Bis a multiple Oscar, Grammy, and Golden Globe Mitch Chen live there as of my favorite performers nominee who’s put words into the melodious mouths of well, as does Neil Cohen, before I ever met him. I many a musical legend, including Barbra, Natalie, Tina, with whom I wrote the gay played his records over and Dolly, Chaka, Patti, Toni, LeAnn, and Kristine W, to name wedding song [“Here We over again. He moved me Stand”]. I love shopping and touched me. And Marty but nine whose appeal to gay men is indisputable. Perhaps on El Paseo and going Panzer, one of Barry’s most famously, Rich co-wrote the Oscar-nominated “Run to to Macy’s and all the fun main lyricists, is one of the You,” Whitney Houston’s smash hit from the soundtrack to restaurants. It’s two hours reasons I’m a lyricist. “The Bodyguard,” a 1992 album that’s sold a whopping 45 away from hectic LA but One of the most exciting it feels like a world away moments was seeing Barry million units worldwide, and that remains the best-selling when I’m there. open up his show at the soundtrack of all time more than 20 years later. A man with Greek Theatre coming several desert ties, Rich sat for a chat. TELL ME MORE ABOUT down the steps singing THE “HERE WE STAND” our song, “I’m Your Man.” COLLABORATION. Unfortunately, it was Neil, who’s a longtime pouring rain that night. I friend of mine, called and was so nervous and excited told me he was getting that I left my tickets home married to his longtime and someone had to drive partner, Claude, and he back home and get them. OF THE NEWER GENERATION OF TALENTS, FOR wanted to surprise him I will always be grateful to WHOM WOULD YOU LIKE TO WRITE? with an original song to Barry for his friendship and play at the wedding after incredible talent. I haven’t he walked down the aisle. I seen him in quite a while, said “Sure,” and I suggested but email him several times John Legend, Pink, Marsha [Malamet] join us. during the year. And the rest is history. By Sam Smith. And, of the way, the song worked YOU’VE WRITTEN FOR beautifully and Neil sang SO MANY OF THE course, Beyoncé. the you-know-what out of GREATS. IS THERE ONE it. You can go [to YouTube] OR TWO THAT GOT and check it out. There’s a AWAY — PERFORMERS lovely video that goes along YOU WISH HAD with it using many longtime RECORDED ONE OF gay married couples. It’s YOUR SONGS? THE SONGWRITER very touching and sweet. I would’ve loved Aretha to have recorded one. Or For more on Allan Rich’s KEEPING WITH THE Celine Dion. Or Pink. Or career and a full list of PALM SPRINGS THEME, Christina Aguilera. songs he’s written, go to IT WAS AFTER CO- AllanRichSongs.com. WRITING THREE SONGS » Continued on PAGE 18

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Allan Rich. SUBMITTED PHOTO

» Continued from PAGE 17 And one Babyface and Whitney wrote, “Queen of the Night.” So OF THE NEWER there was only one slot left for GENERATION OF TALENTS, every songwriter in the world to FOR WHOM WOULD YOU try and land. LIKE TO WRITE? Both Jud Friedman, my writing John Legend, Pink, Sam Smith. partner of 25 years, and I had And, of course, Beyoncé. our publishers strategically get our song to Gerry Griffith, who IS THERE A SONG YOU worked for [Arista Records head DIDN’T WRITE THAT YOU honcho] Clive Davis. I still have WISH YOU HAD? the message Clive left on my Well, my favorite song is “Ain’t answering machine telling me No Mountain High Enough.” that Whitney and Clive loved Wish I had written any of those the song, and to please call him. Motown hits. But I do love I thank God that every star “Brave” by Sara Bareilles. Or “I aligned and that “Run to You” Can’t Make You Love Me,” a hit happened for us. Believe me, it for Bonnie Raitt. Or “Get Here,” takes a miracle sometimes for the wonderful Brenda Russell things to happen. song that Oleta [Adams] had the hit with. Or “Beautiful” for WHAT CAN YOU TELL US Christina Aguilera. Or “All of ABOUT “THE BODYGUARD” Me,” the John Legend song. Or THE MUSICAL, WHICH “Say Something” by A Great Big COMES TO THE U.S. IN World. 2016 AFTER A SUCCESSFUL RUN IN LONDON? HOW DID YOU BECOME I went to the opening in INVOLVED IN “THE London, and the show is what BODYGUARD” PROJECT? we call a jukebox musical. Well, when we heard about the It’s not only the songs from movie, every songwriter who “The Bodyguard” but the hit had a publisher got a breakdown songs that Whitney had in her of the songs that were needed. career. The audiences were There were approximately swinging from the chandelier. four or five slots. One ended And Heather Headley was so up being [Dolly Parton’s] “I spectacular. There were no Will Always Love You,” which words. Deborah Cox is supposed was a cover. The other cover to play the Whitney Houston was “I’m Every Woman.” And role [in America]. She is as David Foster, who produced the talented as she is gorgeous. I record, wrote one with Linda think she will bring it. I can’t Thompson, “I Have Nothing.” wait to see it in Los Angeles.

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CULTURE BUZZWORTHY

Ellen DeGeneres @TheEllenShow “Whoever decided to put the question mark right next to the exclamation point on a keyboard was a ‘BEEKMAN BOYS’ monster?”

Augusten Burroughs BRAND GLOBETROTTING @augusten “I hate pretention. It’s just insecurity in drag.”

Russell Tovey @russelltovey “How long should you really own a pair of underwear for? I have a few pairs here with me that are at least 4-5 years old? X”

Alan Cumming @Alancumming “I literally lost my shirt last night. Tequila was involved!”

Wilson Cruz @wcruz73 “Your aisle seat on a delta flight at 6AM is not an appropriate place to have LEFT: “The an awkward and, clearly, Fabulous Beekman intimate call on your Boys” are SPEAKER PHONE!” married couple Dr. Brent Ridge (RIGHT) and Josh Ronan Farrow Kilmer-Purcell. @RonanFarrow SUBMITTED PHOTO “‘Work it. I need a glass of water.’ Who said it, Missy Elliott or Marco Rubio?” It’s a fabulous Beekman world after all. Dr. Brent Ridge and Josh Kilmer-Purcell, known as “The Ke$ha Fabulous Beekman Boys,” have added international travel to their lifestyle brand. In addition to producing home, garden, food, beauty and clothing products, the couple made a lasting impression @KeshaRose in many American households as winners of the 21st season of “The Amazing Race” reality show. “how you know he's the With the recent launch of Beekman 1802 Trip of a Lifetime, they offer a yearly small-group travel one: experience to a highly desirable destination. Each trip is expected to emphasis culinary, cultural and 1. he always misses you charitable components. 2. he lets you serenade Cuba is the first destination, Feb. 24 to March 6. The trip will consist of: him • Mojito-making workshop on the beach 3. he’s always • Visit to a community health clinic where the group will volunteer its time painting the clinic down for a • Dinner and a private film screening in Havana, featuring Mariela Castro, a gay rights activist and cuddle daughter of Cuban President Raúl Castro sesh” • Guided tour of the world renowned Bellas Artes Museum of Cuban Art • Educational tour of a tobacco farm in the hills of Valle de Viñales The cost is $3,395 per person and covers all meals except one dinner, museum/club entry fees, and other group costs. Roundtrip airfare/ferry between the U.S. gateway city and Havana are not included, but assistance with travel arrangements is available upon request. Learn more at http:// shop.beekman1802.com/collections/beekman-1802-tours-experiences. BUZZWORTHY CULTURE

He designed it as a more inclusive alternative to Fortune Feimster hyper-sexualized queer apps. @fortunefunny Chorus presents holiday ‘sass’ With funds from a $25,000 Kickstarter campaign, “Menus that put the calories With an organist providing the class and horn Cervini also designed the app to foster human on them are total bummers. musicians bringing the brass, you might guess connections. Users can filter and chat, and they Ignorance is bliss!!!” who’s generating the third ingredient of a “Brassy are required to display their faces and first names. Classy Sassy” holiday concert. Yep, the singers. In Q is now available in New York City. It will be made this case, it’s the Palm Springs Gay Men’s Chorus. Bret Easton Ellis available in other cities based on demand, aka the The ensemble will present “Gloria” by English @BretEastonEllis number of app downloads. Go to QIsForAll.com to composer John Rutter and other classic holiday “There was a time when download the app as an iPhone user or to join the music, during two performances at the Jewish people were fans and had waiting list for Android users. Community Center, 332 W. Alejo Road in Palm opinions and could like Springs. The first show will be at 8 p.m. Dec. 12, things and dislike things and followed by a second show at 3 p.m. Dec. 13. Both it was all OK. But those days are over.” will include a sassy look at holiday traditions, Playwrights spotlight LGBT greats “The Night before Christmas”, holiday letters, Resurrecting the legends of celebrated LGBT Tegan and Sara memories of holidays together, and startling family literati is an accidental theme among this year’s @teganandsara announcements. winners of the Arch and Bruce Brown Foundation “Be kind to each other out Tickets are $25 to $50 and available at (760) playwriting competition. The first-place prize of there. In the world and on 219-2077 and Psgmc.com. $3,000 went to Cody Daigle, whose “The Bottom of the internet. Life is short and Sea” positions Tennessee Williams in a New Orleans complicated and we need hotel with actress Anna Magnani, a Hollywood each other. Spread love. Xo” screenwriter, and a trick Williams picked up in an D.A.P. honors former child star alleyway. It makes sense that Judith Light’s TV son would Spencer Day Second-place winner Edward Einhorn wrote “The grow up to be an out and proud gay man. The @SpencerDay Marriage of Alice B. Toklas and Gertrude Stein,” actress has long been an LGBT rights advocate and “Some of my friends in PV taking readers back to the 1920s for a ceremony ally, and in 2008 she was awarded the Arts and have made this Go Fund attended by the lesbian couple’s famous friends. Activism Award at the Steve Chase Humanitarian Me site for Hurricane relief Einhorn and Norman Allen, who tied for second Awards Gala in Palm Springs. in Mexico. Check it out! @ place, both were awarded $1,500. Allen’s play, On Feb. 6, Danny Pintauro, the actor who portrayed donpickens https://www. “Operators,” revisits 1919 and efforts in the U.S. to her son Johnathan Bower on the “Who’s the Boss?” gofundme.com/wv745d7c” purge the navy of homosexual sailors. sitcom, will receive the same award for his work in To learn more about the Arch and Bruce Brown raising awareness about HIV. Pintauro, who came Alec Mapa Foundation, go to AaBbFoundation.org. out as gay in 1997, has lived with HIV for 12 years. @AlecMapa Though his coming-out was coerced by a tabloid, “Just saw an ad where LONDON Pintauro took control of how the story was told. people get Audis for And, he revealed his HIV status on “Oprah: Where LGBT icon to drop new album Christmas. All these years Are They Now?” In doing so, he helped to reinforce I've been asking for a dyson Musician and provocateur David Bowie plans to the fact that HIV affects people from many types of vacuum. #aimhigher” release a new album, titled “Blackstar,” on Jan. 8, backgrounds. which will be his 69th birthday. “We hope that by honoring Danny’s story with our Rachel Maddow Few details are available about the new music, Arts and Activism Award, we can help him and so @MaddowBlog other than it contains an epic title song that runs many others to come into the light without shame,” “It’s all fun and games until for 10 minutes. And it’s expected to consist of Desert AIDS Project CEO David Brinkman says in a someone asks an expert. straightforward rock, which is a departure from news release, “and to tell the world that they are a #KnowableUnknowns” “The Next Day,” his last album. Innovation was a person living with a disease, that while infectious, top priority with the 2013 release, according to a can be dealt with as a chronic illness that doesn’t Robbie Rogers reviewer with The Guardian. have to be passed on to others, and that we are @robbierogers For diehard fans, Bowie’s avant-garde approach to sure will, one day soon, be cured.” “The impact a publicly music, such as “Ziggy Stardust,” “The Man Who Sold The awards gala will take place Feb. 6 at the Palm out athlete has on our the World” and “Space Oddity,” is a huge part of his Springs Convention Center. DesertAidsProject.org. younger generation appeal. It’s often been interpreted as reflecting an is powerful. I applaud experimental life. all of the men and Bowie, who is married to model Iman and is the women that find that father of two children, has at times identified New app expands gender ID courage.” as gay, bisexual and straight. Still, he retains Users of a new social networking app called icon status among LGBT fans. And diverse LGBT Q can now select from more than 100 genders, –Staff Report entertainers, from Adam Lambert to RuPaul, have sexual orientations and gender pronouns. The app cited Bowie as an early influence. was developed by its CEO Eric Cervini when he was an undergraduate student at Harvard University. —Staff Reports CULTURE MUSE

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BOHEMIAN’S JOURNEY

SHAKTIMA BRIEN’S ART REFLECTS MULTICULTURAL INFLUENCES

STORY & PHOTOGRAPHS BY VICTOR S. BAROCAS where she continued to refine her artistic vision. For artist Shaktima Brien, the core of her Like her time in Northern California, Brien worked ever-evolving personal journey is her ability to at a number of companies that were tied to the arts acknowledge her past, work to remain in the present, community. and allow for a future. She is an energetic, spirited, Her passion for the creative process is always divergent thinker who appreciates multiculturalism present. Given her range of interests and activities, and artistic expression in its various forms. These Brien might be described as an artistic explorer for qualities immediately become evident when talking whom the medium is far less important than the with her, experiencing her art and reading her writing. way to get there. The latter is a creative process that Her cadences, rhythms and enunciation, especially the allows her to push herself to another level. lilts, practically shout that she’s French-Canadian. Brien’s past and present demonstrate a passion to Though she has lived in the United States for be both a creative explorer and creative opportunist much of her life, Brien’s style of dress has the vibe (in a positive sense). In other words, how her artistry and sophistication of an androgynous, continental is expressed (e.g., writer, painter, theater producer, European. She moved from Montreal to San curator) is much less important than a primal drive to Francisco during the 1980s. At that time she was be creative. “living the Bohemian lifestyle,” with the curiosity In addition to painting, Brien is closely connected and desire to try as many creative venues as possible. to her work as a writer, speaker and curator. For During her Bay Area years, she studied Sumi more information about Brien’s work, visit http:// painting, worked as a visual artist, became a writer, www.gallery446.com/artistinresidence.html, and developed relationships with several small http://www.artslant.com/global/artists/ theater companies. show/18308-shaktima-brien, or her blog at http:// Between leaving the Bay Area and moving to the shaktimabrien.blogspot.com/. desert, Brien spent several years in the LA area, » Continued on PAGE 24

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‘ANIMUS-ANIMA’ 66 X 80 INCHES

Rooted in Jungian analytic psychology, the Animus and Anima are key elements of what Jung calls the “collective unconscious,” that part of unconsciousness that is greater than any one individual’s unconsciousness. Like “Creatora,” Brien’s canvas transforms Jungian concepts and theories into a visual experience. In front of a deep purple, nighttime sky stands a highly textured brown tree whose branches sport orange and pinkish flowers. Brien then paints a foreground — consisting of a grassy knoll, two trees and two standing figures (i.e., Animus and Anima) — in a bright, almost harsh, canary yellow. The juxtaposition of the bright yellow against the darker purple pushes the canary yellow figures, trees and grass forward. Easily overlooked is the almost hidden outline of a larger figure looking down upon the foreground figures. According to Jungian psychology, this larger figure might well be the “shadow,” that part of our consciousness that we do not recognize. For Jung, the shadow often reflects the less positive parts of an individual’s personality. True to Brien’s figurative style, the bright yellow Animus and Anima, along with the shadow, are either sexless or androgynous. By leveraging an already present sense of depth, Brien’s short crisp brushstrokes produce the experience of motion. More specific, her figures and trees provide a structural integrity, allowing the grasses and flowers to appear to be swaying in the wind. ‘THIRD EYE” ACRYLIC ON CANVAS, HANDBAG AND SOFA CUSHIONS

With “Third Eye,” Brien provides her visual interpretation of the invisible, inner eye, a mystical concept tied to many Eastern religious traditions like Hinduism. The third eye provides perception beyond ordinary sight. Brien’s full-face portrait presents an exotic-looking woman whose face is painted in reds, yellows and purple. The woman’s blouse, like her face, is also colorful. While not as dense or exaggerated as the Fauvists, the colors in the portrait indicate that the artist knows and can reinterpret earlier art movements. The woman’s eyes, especially her third eye in the center of her ‘YIN YANG’ forehead, are compelling. To bring 48 X 68 INCHES greater attention to the eyes, Brien used at least four colors to create Swirls of icy blue-white paint stand each disproportionately large eye. out against a dark blue-grey canvas. During the past months, Brien has The brushstrokes reflect Brien’s rethought this acrylic painting as a training in Sumi brush-painting sofa pillow and canvas bag. techniques, an artistic technique that dates back to fifth century China and Japan. While the artist did not use the traditional paper, ink and pen, Brien’s “Yin Yang” contains elements common to successful Sumi drawings. These include: capturing the literal and emotional meaning of the subject, creating drawings from a limited number of individual brushstrokes, and emphasizing the brushstroke to create shading and nuance. “Yin Yang” employs neither the traditional Sumi painting techniques nor the Yin Yang icon. Instead, Brien rethinks the recognized symbol into what might be thought of as two loosely put together balls of fi ber, one in front of the other. In other words, Brien’s deconstructed Yin and Yang are ultimately interpretations of the traditional symbol. Essentially, Brien’s approach to “Yin Yang” and her other Sumi drawings demonstrate a clear respect for the Sumi painting tradition and how it can be re-conceptualized in the 21st century.

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‘CREATORA’ (FROM “GODDESS JOURNEY” SERIES, #19 OF 34) 72 X 120 INCHES

Vibrant, bright colors, figures are doing. It is also unclear some reminiscent of French if both figures are facing forward impressionists, and quick staccato or whether the figure on the brushstrokes are all part of right side of the canvas is facing Shaktima Brien’s acrylic on forward or backward. Because canvas, “Creatora.” Against a Brien’s brushwork produces backdrop of warm yellows and a highly dynamic canvas, it is oranges, the artist presents two unclear if the forms are sitting, androgynous figures. standing, moving or stationary. While her palette makes An alternative understanding the canvas both engaging and could be tied to Jungian theories approachable, she also forces of masculinity and femininity, the viewer to give the painting concepts found in many of meaning. Essentially, the Brien’s paintings. A Jungian painting can be likened to a analysis might suggest that the highly ambiguous psychological two figures represent the male projective assessment. It is not and female persona that co-exist clear what, if anything, the in each individual.

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designson the Desert

Designs by Despite the desert climate and resort vibe of the Coachella Valley, or Gemma Kahng perhaps because of them, residents have long aspired to represent more of New York than a T-shirt and flip-flops vacation destination. Yes, they wear them, but (center, in not as a uniform. An occasion still dictates attire for many, though rules black and white) were about colors, fabrics and garment lengths are a bit more relaxed than in shown Nov. other fashionable communities. 15 during a For about 25 years, a contingent of designers, other fashion industry types, poolside show and stylish residents has celebrated fashion in Palm Springs and other desert put on by Fashion Group cities. That’s how long the regional branch of Fashion Group International International has been around. The mission of the all-volunteer organization is threefold, of Palm according to member Jack Williams of Palm Springs. FGI showcases local Springs. fashion business owners, promotes international trends, and raises scholarship COURTESY OF MKO funds to support aspiring designers. PHOTOGRAPHY A recent fundraiser took place at a private desert estate, with 100 people attending an elegantly catered poolside fashion show featuring the designs of Gemma Kahng of New York. Kahng participated earlier this year at Fashion Week El Paseo. The event was “highly entertaining,” Williams says, but “one of the best feelings I get is seeing the reaction and gratitude of one of our scholarship recipients.” To learn more about the group, go to Fgi.org and Facebook, or email Williams at [email protected].

—Staff Report IDEAS WE LOVE CULTURE cutMaking the Imagine walking into a chic but comfortable salon that caters to men. They’re gay, straight, bi — getting a soothing shave or fresh modern fade, perhaps enjoying a cold beer as they wait for their turn in the chair. The décor includes the black and white checkerboard flooring that’s a staple of traditional barbershops, with stylish accents like Serrano tables and red Murano glass chandeliers. Now imagine this hub of groomed masculinity in burgeoning uptown Palm Springs, and you have an idea of what you’ll find at Cut Barber. Slated to open in mid-December at 1109 N. Palm Canyon Drive, this joint venture of Brien O’Brien and Scott Cullens aims to present to the desert a deluxe barbershop with a salon experience — one of the hottest trends in men’s grooming. Cut’s slogan is “Testosterone meets glam.” O’Brien, the proprietor of a hair salon bearing his name at Palm Canyon and Alejo, brings nearly eight years of experience to Cut. Cullens, who builds luxury homes in the Coachella Valley as the man behind Palm Pacific Construction, brings the aesthetic. And as a fitness model and Instagram personality, Cullens also sees Cut’s potential as a place to make community connections. O’Brien agrees. “I think guys are looking for more of a sense of community again,” he says. They “want to be well taken care of, and Brien O’Brien (left) and just want it to be done more efficiently and at a better Scott Cullens of Cut Barber price” than salons with a mixed clientele. are poised to serve stylish www.facebook.com/cutbarberps Coachella Valley men seeking grooming services. SUBMITTED PHOTO —Staff Report

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Breakout performers

The desert may be only a two-hour drive (on a good day) from Hollywood, but it can feel as if it’s two states away for aspiring Coachella Valley entertainers. Fortunately, there are opportunities to gain stage experience and a following in the Coachella Valley. For instance, the McCallum Theatre Institute hosts an open call for anyone with the talent and drive to perform. Singers, musicians, dancers, comedians and more are encouraged to participate. Competitors must be at least 8 years old and live within a 45-mile radius of the Palm Desert theater. They will compete for a chance to work with the theater’s professional, artistic and production team, as well as for cash prizes. The finalists will be chosen by live audiences at 7 p.m. April 14, 15 and 16. They will go on to perform at the McCallum, where a grand prize winner will receive $2,500, and both second place and audience favorite will get $750. To be a part of open call, submit an electronic application and upload a video here: MccallumTheatre.com. The submission deadline is Dec. 7.

—Staff Report

The McCallum Theatre Institute offers the regional talent who win open call an opportunity to perform with a professional artistic and production team. SUBMITTED PHOTO

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DESERT OUTLOOK GIFT GUIDE The LGBT of holidays FUN & FABULOUS GIFTS FOR JUST ABOUT EVERY PERSONALITY TYPE

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BY KURT CYR

WITH THE HOLIDAYS DRAWING NEAR, GIFT-GIVING CAN BECOME FRAUGHT WITH ANXIETY. RELAX, HERE ARE SOME HELPFUL HINTS FOR EVERYONE ON YOUR HOLIDAY LIST.

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THE OUTLOOK

THE CENTER

BY WILL DEAN

Donated by philanthropists John McDonald and Rob Wright, this building at 1301 N. Palm Canyon Drive in uptown Palm Springs will undergo renovation to become The Center’s new home. SUBMITTED PHOTO. Former Center board chairman Randy Lowe (left), who’s overseeing construction, and executive director Mike Thompson anticipate moving in sometime next year. DAVID A. LEE

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GROWS UP LGBT CENTER DIRECTOR & BOARD COURT SUPPORT FOR NEW HOME

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uring a holiday just two months after getting brunch on Dec. 13, involved, Lowe was asked to Mike Thompson, serve as board chairman. Two along with members years later, the organization Dof his staff and moved to its current location board at The Center, on South Palm Canyon Drive. will meet with about 150 of “The biggest difference was their staunchest supporters taking an organization that to announce what they hope was senior men only and will cinch efforts to move convincing gay society [The programs and services to a Center] was for everyone,” new, prominently located, Lowe says about its various 12,000-square-foot building incarnations. They’re “two in uptown Palm Springs. The different organizations. You main objective of this Ocotillo have to change the public’s Club event is to rally support perception of who we are, John McDonald (left) and Rob Wright bought the building that for a $3.5 million capital is being converted into the new LGBT Community Center of the especially among women.” campaign. Desert. SUBMITTED Through it all, Lowe Ocotillo Club members, who dreamed of the day when acquire that designation by vibrant community.” And since Springs Leather Order, and the The Center would occupy contributing to The Center he started as executive director desert chapter of the Golden a space that reflected the $1,200 or more each year, can on June 2, 2014, he’s seen State Gay Rodeo Association organization’s intention to expect to hear some good evidence of that burgeoning all meet there. become the heart of the news. Because of a generous community. It’s the type of community LGBT community. “I am donation by philanthropists This year’s gala, now connection and buy-in most proud of being able to John McDonald and Rob considered to be one of Palm that many who are closely provide a space where people Wright, who bought the Springs’ significant social associated with The Center feel comfortable, a true building for The Center, the events of the season, drew believed was possible, though community center,” he says. campaign is already half way 700 people and raised close it seemed elusive at times. Lowe, who also serves on to achieving its goal. A balance to $200,000, Thompson Randy Lowe, who retired the Palm Springs Planning of $1.5 million in cash is being says. Both attendance and as board chairman this year Commission, considers it to sought as the “community fundraising surpassed last to assume a consulting role be a part of his legacy to bring phase” of the campaign, year’s gala, the latter by about that oversees the five-month the new center campus to Thompson says. $20,000, he adds. construction of the new center fruition. When the property is “We want to go to the “The value of our programs project, recalls that in the early completed sometime in 2016, community one time,” he hasn’t changed, but we seem days of his involvement any they’ll move into the third adds. “We want this to be to be on people’s radar like hint of expanding The Center’s floor and part of the second, a broad community-based we haven’t been before,” says purpose was met with nervous which consist of about 5,400 campaign. We want people, Thompson, who has 20 years reluctance. square feet. There are now regardless of their level of of experience with nonprofit Lowe was brought in to commercial tenants in the giving, to feel that this is their organizations. create a counseling program other parts of the building, center.” Various community in 2009, after The Center but eventually The Center will It’s a sentiment that for organizations now use The relocated from Cathedral occupy the entire building. Thompson encapsulates Center’s current space, about City to a building on Palm The new facility will include the LGBT Community 3,700 square feet on the Springs’ Tahquitz Canyon four community rooms, Center of the Desert’s second floor at Palm Springs’ Way. Around this time, its each over 700 square feet, mission. As he announced Sun Center near downtown. name was changed to broaden where groups like Narcotics Nov. 6 during Center Stage, In addition to the groups its mission, from the Golden Anonymous will meet. And the organization’s annual that evolved from center Rainbow Senior Center to the it will house additional space fundraising gala, the new programming, the Human LGBT Community Center of for mental health counseling, property and the work that Rights Campaign, Sisters of the Desert – now commonly which is among The Center’s will be done there are “creating Perpetual Indulgence, Palm referred to as The Center. And most active community

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10 THINGS TO KNOW ABOUT THE CENTER services. building donors McDonald “We’re at capacity,” and Wright, who have long Thompson says about mental been financial supporters of More than 40,000 people crossed The Center’s health services. “We can’t the Williams Institute think- 1 threshold last year, accessing one or more of its take another new client until tank at UCLA Law School programs and services. someone rotates out.” In the and the Los Angeles LGBT meantime, The Center also Center. “We believe in what The Community Food Bank @The Center served makes use of community the organizations are doing, 2 more than 16,000 who were either 55 and older, partnerships to address and we feel The Center here or disabled, or both. A majority of clients with food mental health needs, such as in the desert has never grown insecurity are working poor or seniors on a fixed income with Mizell Center, where a to its true potential due to its and families. therapist from The Center location,” McDonald says. visits one day a week, he says. And like the 30,000-square- Its scope of work falls into four categories: Health The new center will have five foot building they secured 3 & Wellness, Advocacy & Awareness, Creative instead of the three existing for the Los Angeles LGBT Expression and Just Plain Fun. counseling rooms, as a part of Center, where Wright served the Scott Hines Mental Health on the board, the Coachella Volunteers gave approximately 12,000 volunteer Clinic. The name honors Valley center will bear their 4 hours last year. the life of Hines, the former names. With the property and Rancho Mirage mayor who upgrades factored in, their More than 22,000 individuals participated in earlier this year committed total gift to The Center is 5 a program, group, workshop or the Bohnett suicide after battling liver about $2 million. The couple CyberCenter. cancer, depression and bipolar is optimistic other community disorder. The clinic is made donors also will support The Center is a soft place to land when looking to possible through a donation The Center’s big move and 6 find community upon arrival in Palm Springs. by Hines’ husband, Kevin operating costs. Blessing. “It shouldn’t be a problem The Scott Hines Mental Health Clinic serves The new campus also will here in the desert,” McDonald 7 approximately 80 clients a week, providing low- be the hub for many other says. “There are a lot of gay cost therapy to those who would otherwise not be able programs, including the and transgender people who to access mental health services. anti-bullying and anti-suicide need services, and there program that’s presented to are lots of retired people The mental health clinic is one of only two ninth-graders in the Palm here doing estate planning. 8 agencies in the Coachella Valley that offer a free Springs Unified School It should have no problem Prevention and Early Intervention (PEI) evidence-based District, and a weekly therapy maintaining its funding.” treatment program for depression in older adults. In group for an average of 20 Nonprofit organizations partnership with Mizell Senior Center, it now offers a transgender residents. In past always face financial treatment program “off-site” to older adults in need. years, some residents seeking challenges, Lowe says. Still, these and other services have The Center’s operating Four MFT registered interns and two pre- and had difficulty finding them expenses could be covered by 9 post-doctoral psychological assistants complete because of The Center’s increasing its Ocotillo Club an internship that prepares them to become LGBT location. Its new location on membership from around culturally competent therapists in the community. Eight the west side of North Palm 122 to 300, Lowe says. And interns have successfully completed their placement Canyon Drive, across the street fundraising above that would during the past four years. from Denny’s restaurant, gives support new programs, he it substantially more visibility. adds. 10 Implemented by Dr. Jill Gover, the Suicide Bullying “I’m excited to be in the hip “It’s going to change the Prevention Program has served more than uptown district,” Thompson future of The Center,” Lowe 8,000 ninth-graders in the Palm Springs Unified School says, “among the first to says about the building project. District. welcome [visitors] to town.” “It’s a dream come true. I –Courtesy of the LGBT Community Center of the Desert staff The location chosen by would’ve never believed we The Center also appealed to could do it in seven years.”

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s millions of costumed revelers made their way to Aparties and events Halloween night in pursuit of fantasy and frivolity, Christopher Durbin of Palm Springs was outfitted head-to-toe in garments that have become an essential part of his identify — his leather gear. That’s the night Durbin competed for and was selected as Mr. Palm Springs Leather 2016. Representing the Greater Palm Springs Chapter of the Golden State Gay Rodeo Association, Durbin eclipsed five other contenders for the title. As a result, the 49-year-old SpurLine bartender was passed the proverbial torch from this year’s titleholder, Clifton Tatum. As Tatum did, Durbin will represent the Palm Springs Leather Order during Memorial Day weekend at the annual International Mr. Leather competition in Chicago. But before he heads to the Midwest, he has plenty to BY WILL occupy his time in the desert. Durbin, who’s married to Bill DEAN

Bass-Durbin, reveals here the causes he’s spotlighting as Mr. LEATHERED Leather and who he is when he isn’t all leathered up.

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Mr. Palm Springs Leather Christopher Durbin will compete in May in Chicago for the International Mr. Leather title. JAY HOOKER PHOTOGRAPHY

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WHAT WERE THE grocery store and do I've been getting the AREAS YOU EXCELLED laundry and pay bills — “daddy” comments and IN DURING THE PALM just like everyone else. I’m really starting to SPRINGS LEATHER embrace that. [Laughs] COMPETITION? WHAT’S THE I don't know, I think the I did really well with PLATFORM OR salt and pepper hair may the personal interview CAUSES YOU’RE have something to do portion. This is where RUNNING ON AS with that. each contestant is alone MR. PALM SPRINGS in front of the panel LEATHER? WHAT’S YOUR of judges. There is no The causes I will be ALL-TIME FAVORITE audience for this portion. working for are animals. MOVIE? It can be intimidating, In particular, abused The grown-up in me but I felt positive when and abandoned animals. says “The Silence of the I'd finished that part. White Rock Horse Lambs.” I love horror and Rescue, Palm Springs scary movies. Of course, WHAT’S AN AREA Animal Shelter and the kid in me says “Willy YOU NEED TO WORK Animal Samaritans are Wonka and the Chocolate ON? all charities I've worked Factory.” [Laughs] I know, Physique is something with before, and I will I know. I think many people continue with them as Christopher Durbin’s duties and responsibilities as Mr. are extra self-conscious Mr. Palm Springs Leather Palm Springs Leather include promoting charities for WHAT’S AN ALBUM about, and I'm no 2016. animals in need. JAY HOOKER PHOTOGRAPHY YOU COULD LISTEN exception. So I feel, for TO ALL DAY? me, there is always room WHAT ARE THE Again, I've got a bunch for improvement there. GOALS YOU HOPE TO WHAT’S THE BEST of sides to me on this ACCOMPLISH? ADVICE THE 2015 one. I’m a huge hard- WHAT’S A HIDDEN During my reign I hope MR. PALM SPRINGS rock fan. Nirvana’s TALENT THAT MOST to bring all facets of our LEATHER CLIFTON “Nevermind,” in my PEOPLE WOULD BE Palm Springs community TATUM HAS GIVEN opinion, is one of the SURPRISED TO LEARN together. It is my belief YOU? greatest complete YOU HAVE? that one person or group I love Clifton. He's been albums of all time. Alice [Laughs] I think many can achieve certain goals, MANY BELIEVE amazing. He has given me in Chains’ “Dirt,” I know would be surprised to but many people or groups so many great pieces of every word. Then there learn that I sing. Most coming together can THAT WE ARE advice. Most of all, he has is the other side that people don't associate literally change the world. ONLY INTERESTED said to carry the title as my says Madonna. “Erotica” being a leather man with IN SEX, BUT THAT own man. Not to try and is so brilliant, I find singing, but I really am TELL ME ABOUT emulate him, or any other something new every a huge music fan and THE TIME YOU REALLY ISN'T titleholder. But to stay true time I listen. singing is something I REALIZED YOU WERE CORRECT. SEX to myself and my goals. love. INTO LEATHER AND IS ABSOLUTELY IF YOU COULD GO WANTED TO BE A WHAT IS YOUR BACK IN TIME AND WHAT IS THE BIGGEST PART OF THE LEATHER PART OF WHAT FAVORITE LEATHER TALK TO YOUR MISPERCEPTION COMMUNITY. WE HAVE IN ITEM OR GEAR TO 10-YEAR-OLD SELF, ABOUT GAY MEN From the time I was a COMMON, BUT WEAR? WHAT WOULD YOU WHO ARE INTO very young boy, I wanted My favorite leather item SAY? LEATHER? a leather jacket. The look, WE ARE SO MUCH ... my boots. No question. Invest in Apple. Many believe that we the feel and that amazing MORE THAN THAT. And boy, if those boots [Laughs] Seriously, I are only interested in smell just did something could talk. Yikes. would tell him not to be sex, but that really isn't to me. I didn't even know so scared. The bullies correct. Sex is absolutely what it was at the time. DO YOU FIT INTO mean nothing. There will part of what we have in As I grew up, and came ANY OTHER GAY be a day when people will common, but we are so out, I realized there were SUBCULTURES: BEAR, love you and celebrate much more than that. lots of others that had the TWINK, DADDY, you for exactly who are. We own businesses. We same feelings as I did. It OTHER? Stay strong, stay true, and have everyday jobs. We was then I knew I'd found I never really thought I be the change you want still have to go to the my tribe. did. Although, recently, to see in the world.

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OUTLOOK NEWS

TEXANS STOP LGBT ORDINANCE Despite having an openly gay mayor, voters in Houston, Texas, soundly defeated in November a nondiscrimination ordinance. While the ordinance would’ve put workplace, housing, public spaces and other protections in place for LGBT residents, its opponents focused their message on granting bathroom access corresponding to gender identity. It was dubbed “the bathroom ordinance,” employing a scare tactic that suggested male sexual predators would be allowed to use women’s restrooms. According to the Associated Press, LGBT rights advocates caution that a similar campaign may be used in California, where signatures are being gathered to overturn a 2013 law that allows transgender students to use the restroom of their choice.

PHILANTHROPIST REDIRECTS LEGACY With the closing of Circus Disco and Arena Café nightclubs, and the sale of their Los Angeles properties, Eugene La Pietra plans to establish the La Pietra Foundation Permanent Fund. It was announced in early November that the fund has an initial gift of $3 million and will be a part of the San Diego Human Dignity Foundation. Approaching its 20th year of service, the foundation funds programs and projects that promote equal treatment, tolerance, wellness, well- being, and human dignity. La Pietra is a leading philanthropist for LGBT causes on the national stage, as a founding donor of AIDS Healthcare Foundation, AIDS Project LA, the Los Angeles Gay and Lesbian Community Center, The Lambda Archives, Gay and Lesbian Latinos Unidos and many more.

POTUS ENDORSES EQUALITY ACT The Equality Act bill got a whopping stamp of approval in November from the Oval Office. President Barack Obama and the White House endorsed the proposed legislation, which aims to provide federal nondiscrimination protections to LGBT Americans in employment, housing, public accommodations, education, public funding, credit access and jury service. In other words, if passed, it would extend full equality across the nation. “It is now up to Congress to act on this comprehensive LGBTQ civil rights legislation and ensure that LGBTQ people are treated fairly under the law across the country,” Rea Carey, executive director for the National LGBTQ Task Force Action Fund, says in a news release.

KIEV, UKRAINE

GLOBAL LGBT ACTIVISM SCORES WIN LGBT citizens of the Ukraine will soon be able to work in that country free of discrimination and abuse based on their sexual orientation. The Ukrainian Parliament passed an addition to its labor code that some say demonstrates the progress of LGBT equality. However, violence and discrimination against LGBT Ukrainians persist. During the summer, LGBT activists were attacked and beaten in the Ukraine, and then two men were assaulted a month later for holding hands in public. That reflects a global reality for LGBT people. While 19 countries have marriage equality, 75 countries look upon same-sex relationships as a crime. And according to the Human Rights Campaign, 10 countries punish same-sex activity with death.

—Staff and Wire Reports

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OUTLOOK NOW

PRESCRIPTION FOR EQUALITY Trans patients cite health-care disparities in survey

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2015 TRANS HEALTH AND WELLNESS AT A GLANCE

BY BARRETT NEWKIRK 70% Many Have been diagnosed with transgender depression or anxiety people living in the Inland Empire say they’ve been denied needed health care or otherwise felt discrimination 61% while seeking care because Have been emotionally or of their gender status, physically abused by a partner according to a new survey. in the past One in five transgender respondents living in Riverside or San Bernardino counties say health 67% professionals refused to Seriously considered touch them or otherwise committing suicide used excessive precautions. Slightly more say health professionals blamed them for their health issues. 70% Two-thirds of respondents Feel there are not enough health providers. survey is planned for the say they've seriously adequately trained health OPPOSITE PAGE: Steve Wybenga (left) and Clay Cross man the professionals considered suicide. Even Transgender Community Coalition’s booth, where tea lights spell out “Hope,” during the Transgender Day of Remembrance more say they have dealt at Ruth Hardy Park in Palm Springs. Also on Nov. 20, a two- with depression or anxiety. PERCEIVED page report on the health disparities of trans residents was The survey's findings are DISCRIMINATION released. ABOVE: Coachella Valley residents and city officials based on 113 respondents to gather for speeches and presentations during the Transgender Day of Remembrance ceremony in Palm Springs. PHOTOS BY JAY an online survey. Researcher IN HEALTHCARE CALDERON Aaron Gardner with Riverside County public “I had a feeling it was spring. health says the small sample going to be disturbing, but Like 42 percent of survey can still help determine what 21% I didn't expect it to be that respondents, Clinton says she needs can be better met. I was refused needed disturbing,” says Thomi has faced health-care workers “With a population that health care Clinton, a Coachella Valley who didn't use correct a lot of service providers transgender activist who pronouns with her and don’t know a tremendous is part of the Transgender didn't seem open to using amount about, this at least Community Coalition. “she” instead of “he.” She’s gives us an opportunity to 20% The group and the also fought with insurance start exploring their health Health care professionals Riverside County public companies and pharmacies and wellness needs,” Gardner refused to touch me or used health department organized over access to hormones. says. excessive precaustions the survey earlier this year. “Just to find a doctor The survey echoes other They released a two-page who will take you and who national surveys that show report with some findings in is trained, you have to go transgender people are often advance of Transgender Day through 10 or 15 before you given unequal services or of Remembrance on Nov. find one,” Clinton says. denied services all together 29% 20. A longer report on the from doctors and other Health care professionals used findings from the 70-question » Continued on PAGE 50 harsh or abusive language

Data and quotes provided by a joint project of the Transgender Community Coalition www.transcc.org and Riverside University Health System -Public Health www.rivcoph.org

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IN THEIR WORDS “ I am generally very wary about to anyone that I do not know very personally. So far, only my girlfriend knows. I present myself as, for lack of a better term, a soft butch lesbian to the world, but deep down I have severe dysphoria about the way my body looks. I feel more masculine than I let on, and have felt that way for as long as I can remember. I wear a binder, and if presented with the opportunity to have my breasts removed, I most certainly would. Transgender people and allies celebrated the Transgender Day of Visibility on March 31. TATIANA I wish so badly that SANCHEZ/THE DESERT SUN I could look the way that I feel, but I don't know if or when that PERCEIVED will ever be possible. DISCRIMINATION I fear for my safety » Continued from PAGE 49 as it is, and if I were IN HEALTHCARE Gardner says. “It’s particularly profound to start transitioning There are between 2,300 and because we expect that when we that fear would grow 7,000 transgender people living seek out health care that we're in exponentially.” in Riverside County, according 23% a safe place,” he adds. “And that’s to estimates in a 2014 county Health care professionals blamed a reasonable expectation to have report. me for my healthcare status for somebody. Here we see an Nearly half of those surveyed indication that that's not always say they live day-to-day in a the case.” My doctor who gender different from the gender The World Professional prescribed my they were assigned at birth. More 14% Association for Transgender hormones was not very than half report being poor, Health care professionals Health has a searchable nice & his offi ce staff earning less than $10,000 a year. were physically rough database where the transgender actually said they do Gardner says this is a sign that or abusive community can find a health not want to work with along with health discrimination, provider with an interest and many transgender people face or expertise in working with people like me.” challenges around employment. transgender people. To learn “It’s indicative of the problems 42% more about health-care rights Datae and quotes provided by a joint Health care professionals project of the Transgender Community that the transgender population used improper pronouns even for the transgender community, Coalition www.transcc.org and faces, and they face it in lots of after being corrected visit the National Center for Riverside University Health System -Public Health www.rivcoph.org sorts of venues in everyday life,” Transgender Equality.

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magine you are in a kindergarten classroom in the late 1980s at Jackson IElementary School in Indio, and the teacher asks, “What do you want to be when you grow up?” Many of the boys want to be firemen, doctors, policemen; the girls want to be nurses, ballerinas, models. Then, the teacher asks the same question of the shy kid who is sitting at a desk drawing guitars. “I want to be Paul McCartney,” the shy student replies, confusing some peers and surprising the teacher. “That's an odd response, but OK,” the teacher says. That kid was me. I was always a Beatles fan and wanted to be Paul McCartney, but it was not a common answer from a Hispanic kid living in a Hispanic neighborhood in the Coachella Valley, more than 20 years after the band’s heyday. When I started to come out as transgender, I was always asking myself, “Does this mean I can't be Paul McCartney? Does this mean I have to do dance music and be like Divine or, worse, RuPaul?” I was lost as a songwriter and artist, wondering if trans musicians can play music that sounds like their heroes or do they have to do dance club music? In answer to that question, here are a few of the awesome trans musicians who rock and inspire. Leslie Mariah Andrews is the guitarist and front woman of the critically acclaimed Joshua Tree outfit Small Wonder Experience. As you'll hear in the band’s indie release, “Love's Flaming SOUNDTRACK Desire,” the music can easily be compared to many great classic rock bands such as Bad Company, Led Zepplin and The Beatles. Andrews is one helluva guitarist as well, her stage presence and playing comparable to blues greats Eric Clapton and Jimi Hendrix, and from what I saw of TO LIFE PAULINA ANGEL its Greater Palm Springs Pride performance this year, Small Wonder Experience can put on a TRANS LIFE + 7 TRANS great show. Lora G co-founded with Nikki venues, including our very own Diana Regan is this wonderful Lunden a highly acclaimed rock Coachella fest in Indio. In 2010, songwriter/singer in the East MUSICIANS band from Los Angeles called Grace publicly came out and Bay area of northern California Lunden Reign. If you attended began her transition, which were that I've been following for a few this year’s Greater Palm Springs documented by Rolling Stone years now. On her latest release, Pride Festival, you may have magazine and MTV. Released in “Unanswered Questions,” the WHO ROCK heard the band perform. It 2014, “Transgender Dysphoria cover of which I co-designed, has a sound that can easily be Blues” became one of the highly her music can be compared to compared to many new wave acclaimed rock albums of the Joan Baez, Ella Fitzgerald, Billie TO THEIR rock bands from LA’s 1980s year, yielding a song that was Holiday and Dusty Springfield. scene. Lunden Reign has been embraced by some as a trans Her primary instrument is praised by many awesome bands, battle cry, “True Trans Soul the ukulele, but she also plays including Teri Nunn of Berlin Rebel,” which she has performed acoustic guitar during her sets. OWN BEAT and Dale Bozzio of Missing live with Joan Jett and Miley Through my facebook group Persons. Signed to Cleopatra Cyrus. Trans Role Models, I have the Records, it released its first Namoli Brennet is a performer pleasure of meeting many other alternative music that came out album, “American Stranger,” who, upon my coming out as trans musicians from various in the mid to late ’90s. He is one in 2014, and is rumored to be trans, inspired me to continue parts of the world. I connected of the musical acts highlighted in working on a follow-up. Let’s to rock an acoustic guitar. with Ryan Cassata there, and LOGO’s “9 Trans Musicians You hope the rumors are true. Brennet’s music really resonates I’ve been a fan since 2010. A Need To Get Into”; was the focal Jennifer Leitham is one of to my songwriting ears. She has singer from New York, he now point in the documentary, “Songs the trans musicians who find a sound that is her own, though resides in the San Francisco Bay For Alexis”; and is touring to an alternative way to rock. she cites Patty Griffin and Eliza Area. Cassata’s music reminds promote his second release, She is someone I've been a fan Gilkyson as primary influences. me of some of the great “Soul Sounds.” of since 2004, and we have She has performed since 2002 a “favorite instrument” in and released nine albums on her common. Leitham is known as own, and has been dubbed as one a left-handed virtuoso on the of the best folk-rock artists in the upright bass. She has been in the country. business longer than those artists There are so many other previously mentioned, having musicians and recording artists played for many great jazz I wish I could name, a lot performers such as Mel Torme, of talented trans musicians, Peggy Lee and k.d. lang. Though songwriters and singers out primarily known for her upright there. Some are finding a way bass skills, she’s also known to get their music heard and for going electric by playing a some have yet to be discovered. Hofner violin bass. Many of us who identify as trans Representing true trans perform as a way to get our story visibility, Laura Jane Grace is the and message out there — that we front woman for the Gainsville, are talented and we have a song Fla., rock/punk band called to sing. I’m also still finding ways Against Me! Founded in 1997, to get my voice out there, and the band has become one of the I hope my next album, “Virgin top rock acts in America, playing Sounds,” will be another way to and headlining many concert share my story.

OPPOSITE PAGE: Leslie Mariah Andrews (center) of Small Wonder Experience channels the soulful guitar playing of Jimi Hendrix and Eric Clapton during a recent performance. The band hails from the high desert. PAULINA ANGEL / SPECIAL TO DESERT OUTLOOK LEFT: Musician Laura Jane Grace of Against Me! was recognized in March as the Oustanding Music Artist during the 26th Annual GLAAD Media Awards in Beverly Hills. GETTY IMAGES

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THE WAY BACK

Job seekers fi nd training, support & success with Desert AIDS Project

BY LAWRENCE KAROL PHOTOGRAPHS BY DAVID A. LEE

As Desert AIDS Project's career building coordinator, Valerio Iovino (center) helps the unemployed re-enter the workforce and volunteerism. The more than 100 people he's helped include (left to right) Bridgette Picou, Kim Collins, Edward Williams and George Thomas.

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Since I started, I have been able to help 85 people—and that's all employed—plus 20 more to fi nd volunteer positions.” —VALERIO IOVINO

Since launching a career building and job search program with Desert AIDS Project, Valerio Iovino has helped more than 100 people fi nd employment and volunteer opportunities.

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Everyone deserves a second chance.

While Valerio Iovino didn’t come up with this He moved to the U.S. to study at the Keller age-old expression, he brings its promise alive Graduate School of Management where he earned on a daily basis. In his role as the career building a second master’s degree in human resources with coordinator for Desert AIDS Project, Iovino a specialization in employment counseling. has developed a program that’s helped over 100 “I first fell in love with Palm Springs when I was people — many of them HIV-positive men who writing my dissertation and that’s when I decided have been on disability and have not worked in 10 that I wanted to live in the peace and quiet and or more years — find employment or volunteer the beauty of the desert,” he says. “Since I started positions. [with D.A.P.], I have been able to help 85 people Iovino began working with D.A.P. as a volunteer — and that’s all employed — plus 20 or more to in February 2014 and was responsible for find volunteer positions. I specifically remember administering HIV tests. But his supervisor soon the employed number because it’s such a reward recognized that there was much more he could to know that you’re working with somebody and contribute. then they go for an interview and get the job, and “He asked me to put together a [career building they come back with an offer letter and a badge and job search] program and it was all about and you feel they have a completely different writing a resume, preparing a cover letter, and energy.” getting ready for an interview,” says Iovino. Other One of those people is Kerry Deal who is aspects of the course included assisting clients now the operations manager at The LGBT in identifying their interests, as well as providing Community Center of the Desert. “Valerio has them with the tools to expand their skill set and such enthusiasm for what he does and sincerely research potential employers. wants to help you be successful,” says Deal. “But soon after I started the class I realized that “He was a real pleasure to work with and I now aside from just helping clients write a resume consider him to be a good friend.” In his job, or look for a job, a real need was getting them Deal is responsible for accounting and financial to believe in what they were doing 10 years ago reporting for The Center, as well as performing or whenever,” Iovino adds. “There was a lack of administrative duties. “I love what I do and all confidence because they’d been out of the work the people I work with, as well as those I come environment for so long that they didn’t really into contact with at The Center. It is a dream believe they still had those skills. Or they think, ‘I job.” still have those skills but I’m not as good as I used Aside from helping people find employment to be.’ So the class changed and the job search or volunteer work, Iovino also places them in was the end of a journey — a journey that was internships or prepares them for going back to based on building confidence and self-esteem and school. “It’s a mix of everything,” he says. And he believing again in being able to go back to work adds that the main goal of the program — which and perform.” has moved from a classroom setting to working Iovino’s own journey brought him to Los one-on-one with Iovino — is getting people out Angeles in 2008 and then to Palm Springs in of the house and encouraging them to become January 2014. Now 34 years old, he’s originally proactive in their lives. from Sicily and received a master’s degree in “Some people volunteer and then after six business psychology with a specialization in positive psychology from the University of Turin. » Continued on PAGE 59

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The fi rst task Valerio Iovino (center) had at Desert AIDS Project was administering HIV tests. He’s now helping adults like (left to right) Bridgett Picou, Kim Collins, Edward Williams and George Thomas fi nd work.

» Continued from PAGE 60 inventory. He also manages the Raymond months they tell me, ‘I feel physically OK, | Lawrence hotel gift stores located at The emotionally strong,’ and they come back and Ritz-Carlton in Rancho Mirage and The tell me they want to go back to work full- Saguaro in Palm Springs. time,” he says. “Valerio is very talented as a coach and Richard LaFerriere had only been out of mentor,” adds LaFerriere. “He allowed me to work for nine months, but still credits Iovino find my strengths from past successes. As I with getting him back on track. “My resume developed my resume and interview talking was very focused on my retail experience,” points it was easy to communicate what I says LaFerriere. “With Valerio’s help we were have to offer from real situations and results.” able to expand the scope of my employment Thinking about the people he’s been able to search using my skills and accomplishments help is a constant source of pride for Iovino. to show potential employers the value I “I’ll get something like a receipt from a [could] bring to their organization.” shopping center with a note saying, ‘Thank LaFerriere now works with local retailer you so much, this is the first time I’ve been Raymond | Lawrence helping the many shopping in such a long time.’ And I love boutiques and pop-up stores manage their that.”

With Valerio’s help we were able to expand the scope of my employment search using my skills and accomplishments to show potential employers the value I [could] bring to their organization.”

RICHARD LAFERRIERE

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RAINBOW TREATS DEC. 3 (2 P.M.) If confections are a highlight of the holidays WILDLIGHTS for you, you can learn a few tips to make your own delicious desserts of the season. Chef Roman Blas of Over the Rainbow Cupcakes in Palm Springs will lead a demonstration, tasting, and question-and-answer session during the Chef’s Table program at Palm Desert Community Center, 43-900 San Pablo Ave. in Palm Desert. Free admission. (760) 346-6552.

LINDA GRAY DEC. 3 (6-8 P.M.) Before Joan Collins blew the hinges off network TV as its fiercest diva or Donna Mills slithered onto the primetime soap landscape as Abby Ewing, there was Linda Gray’s fabulously tragic Sue Ellen Ewing on “Dallas.” But Gray is hardly one to dwell in victimhood. In fact, the actress has penned her memoir called “The Road to Happiness Is Always under Construction.” She’s meeting the public and signing copies of the book at Just Fabulous, 515 N. Palm Canyon Drive in Palm Springs. Free admission. (760) 864-1300, BJustFabulous.com. DEC. 3-5, 10-12 & 17-31 (6-9 P.M.) CINEMA FOR CANINES The Living Desert Zoo and Gardens is transformed into a winter wonderland. Visitors can DEC. 3 (6:30-8:30 P.M.) expect to be dazzled by lights galore, including a walkway under a canopy of lights. Other More than a few movies have been made with features include holiday music and entertainment, a visit with Santa, train and carousel a dog as a central character, from “Lassie” rides, and a decorated model train display — all at 47900 Portola Ave. in Palm Desert. and “Benji” to “Turner & Hooch” and “Beverly Admission: $8-$10. (760) 346-5694, LivingDesert.org. Hills Chihuahua,” so it may not be surprising that dogs may enjoy watching movies. Paws and Hearts Animal Assisted Therapy hosts festive settings for a holiday party. Just HOLIDAY PARADE this fundraiser, Take Your Dog to the Movies, Fabulous at 515 N. Palm Canyon Drive in Palm DEC. 5 (5:45 P.M.) at Cinemas Palme d’Or, 72840 Highway 111, Springs hosts its ninth annual bash featuring The 24th Annual Palm Springs Festival of Lights Palm Desert. Tickets: $15. (760) 836-1406, libations, nibbles and music. Attendees Parade illuminates Palm Canyon Drive with scores PawsAndHearts.org. are encouraged to wear their favorite ugly of floats adorned in dazzling lights. Partake in sweater to be eligible to win a store gift the festive mood as spectators line the street ‘SIMPLE GIFTS’ certificate for the ugliest. Free admission. between Ramon and Tamarisk roads. Actor and DEC. 3 & 6 (7 P.M. THURSDAY, 3 P.M. SUNDAY) (760) 864-1300, BJustFabulous.com. former professional skateboarder Tony Hawk will This Modern Men holiday concert features serve as the community grand marshal. Free to songs that mention “gift” or gift-giving in VICKI & MAMA watch. PSFestivalOfLights.com. some form, such as “Little Drummer Boy” DEC. 4 (9 P.M.) and “Feliz Navidad.” The all-male chorus is Remember that zany sitcom, “Mama’s UNIFORM APPEAL led by artistic director Bruce Mangum with Family,” which was spawned by “The Carol DEC. 5 (9 A.M.-3 P.M.) Jim Gillen’s accompaniment. See them at Burnett Show”? The matriarch was played It goes without saying there’s more to protecting the Church of St. Paul in the Desert, 125 W. by the talented Vicki Lawrence, a Burnett and serving a community than meets the eye. Alameda in Palm Springs. Tickets: $30 at show regular. Well, Vicki and Mama are back, Desert Hot Springs citizens can learn what ModernMen.org. performing in a “two-women show” at The goes into it firsthand. This police department Show at Agua Caliente Resort Casino, 32250 community policing class will take place at the A FAB PARTY Bob Hope Drive in Rancho Mirage. Tickets: Carl May Community Center, 11711 West Drive DEC. 4 (4-8 P.M.) $20-$40. (760) 321-2000, HotWaterCasino. in Desert Hot Springs. Participation is free. (760) With an assortment of posh coffee table com/TheShow. 329-2904, Ext. 340. books, fun holiday ornaments, and glam tchotchkes, it’s undoubtedly one of the most » Continued on PAGE 62

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VIVA LA VINTAGE DEC. 6 (8 A.M.-2 P.M.) A collection of vendors displays their THE TEN TENORS vintage wares for sale, including clothing, furniture and accessories, art, books and more in the north parking lot at Spa Resort Casino, 450 N. Indian Canyon Drive in Palm Springs. Admission: $5. (7600 534-7968, [email protected].

WREATH AUCTION DEC. 7 (8-10 P.M.) Flex your creative muscle and make a holiday wreath to be auction during this 21st annual event at Streetbar, 224 E. Arenas Road in Palm Springs. Or if you’re looking for a one-of-a-kind decorative wreath, here’s the opportunity to browse original designs and submit your bid. A portion of the proceeds benefits The Center. Info: TheCenterPS.org.

‘LIFE IN STILLS’ DEC. 8 (8 P.M.) DEC. 4 (8 P.M.) & DEC. 5 (2 & 8 P.M.) For a night at the movies unlike any other, Bask in the musical tradition and nostalgia of the holidays in this concert, aptly titled consider this Chanukah and movie. “Life “Home for the Holidays.” The Ten Tenors take the stage at the McCallum Theatre, 73000 in Stills” is about Israel and family with an Fred Waring Drive in Palm Desert. Tickets: $47-$97. (760) 340-2787, MccallumTheatre.com. unexpected gay storyline. See it at the Jewish Community Center at Temple Isaiah, 332 W. Alejo Road in Palm Springs. Admission: » Continued from PAGE 60 memorable cinematic action heroes in recent $10. (760) 325-2281, TempleIsaiahPS.com. years: “Rambo.” He’s now offering insight into TAMALE FESTIVAL the writerly side of Hollywood for the Palm WEDNESDAY FLICKS DEC. 5 (10 A.M.-8 P.M.) & DEC. 6 (10 A.M.-5 Springs Writers Guild. Check him out at the DEC. 9, 16, 23 & 30 (10 A.M.) P.M.) Rancho Mirage Public Library, 71100 Highway The Tolerance Education Center hosts a They’re savory, sweet and in demand. In addition 111, Rancho Mirage. Free admission (760) weekly film screening at 35147 Landy Lane in to tamales, the Indio International Tamale 992-4973, PalmSpringsWritersGuild.org. Rancho Mirage. Ranging from 1939 to 2014, Festival features a carnival, parade, live music the December films are “Shine” on Dec. 9, and entertainment, beer garden, art and wine THE REAL DIVAS “Boyhood” on Dec. 16, “Bachelor Mother” garden, wine tasting, car show, kiddie-land, DEC. 6 (3 P.M.) on Dec. 23, and “From Here to Eternity” on and two community stages. Check it out at They’ve got big voices and often bigger Dec. 30. Free admission. (760) 328-8252, Old Town Indio, including Miles, Towne, Smurr personalities. And they’re competing in the ToleranceEducationCenter.org. and Requa streets between Highway 111 and Palm Springs Opera Guild’s annual vocal Indio Boulevard. Free admission. (760) 832- contest at the Helene Galen Performing Arts ARTIST ROBERT BRADSHAW 8620, Ext. 43. TamaleFestival.net. Center, 31001 Rattler Road, Rancho Mirage. DEC. 11 (5-8 P.M.) Mezzo-soprano Guadalupe Paz will also He created his own art form and aesthetic A SUSTAINABLE LIFE receive the Rossini Award. Info: (760) 325- resulting in paintings that are at once DEC. 5 (2-4 P.M.) 6107, PalmSpringsOperaGuild.org. hauntingly beautiful and whimsical. Check Explore the options available if you want out the artworks of Robert Bradshaw in the to create a more sustainable home. The CELEBRATE THE STARS exhibition, “PS ... There’s More to Palm Springs,” Palm Springs Office of Sustainability hosts DEC. 6 (1-5 P.M.) at Archangel Gallery. The gallery is located at this open house, providing information on Do you have a favorite honoree along the Palm 1103 N. Palm Canyon Drive in Palm Springs. No its programs. There will be vendor booths Springs Walk of Stars? Recognize them all cover. (760) 864-8569, Figurist.net. and activities at the Welwood Murray during the second annual Celebration of the Memorial Library, 101 S. Palm Canyon Stars Homecoming Soiree, a benefit for the LISA LOEB Drive in Palm Springs. (760) 668-9114, organization. It takes place in the Grand Ballroom DEC. 11 (8 P.M.) HealthyPlanetHealthyYouPS.com. at the Riviera Resort and Spa, 1600 N. Indian The bespectacled singer-songwriter rose to Canyon Drive in Palm Springs. Tickets: $50. (760) fame when her song, “Stay (I Missed You),” HEROIC WRITING 416-5811, PalmSpringsWalkOfStars.com. was featured in the film “Reality Bites.” DEC. 5 (2-4 P.M.) David Morrell created one of the most » Continued from PAGE 64

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Since then, she’s recorded many other tunes, been nominated for a Grammy, and appeared on television shows, such as “Gossip Girl.” She’s performing at Copa, 244 E. Amado Road in Palm Springs. Tickets: $25- $45. Attendees must be 21 and older. CopaRoomTickets.com.

REINDEER RUN DEC. 12 (7:30 A.M.) Don’t worry, you aren’t racing Rudolph. You’re competing with yourself and/or other 5K participants. The Eisenhower Reindeer Run takes place on the Eisenhower Medical Center campus at 39000 Bob Hope Drive, Rancho Mirage. Fee: $25. (760) 773-1888, EMCReindeerRun.com.

LOS ANGELES BALLET DEC. 15 (7 P.M.) If the holidays aren’t complete for you until you see a production of “The Nutcracker,” here’s one to consider. The Los Angeles Ballet performs the seasonal classic at the McCallum Theatre, 73000 Fred Waring Driving, Palm Desert. Tickets: $27-$87. (760) 340-2787, MccallumTheatre.com.

JEREMIAH CLARK DEC. 19 (8 P.M.) His roots are in Memphis, Tenn., which is known as a blues capital, and he now resides in the indie music haven of Portland, Ore. Jeremiah Clark has played more than 400 shows in more than 75 cities, including multiple visits to Palm Springs. He’s bringing his musical act to Copa, 244 E. Amado Road in Palm Springs. Tickets: $25. All attendees must be 21 and older. CopaRoomTickets.com.

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DEC. 20 (3 P.M.) Possessing one of the most phenomenal voices to come out of country music in recent years, LeAnn Rimes brings a Christmas show with special guest Ellee Duke to the McCallum Theatre, 73000 Fred Waring in Palm Desert. Rimes is also aware and appreciative of her LGBT following, performing earlier this year at the White Party in Palm Springs. Tickets: $37-$87. (760) 340-2787, MccallumTheatre.com. Reach the affluent LGBT audience here! PALM SPRINGS JUMP DEC. 19 (7 P.M.) Over 10,000 copies of Desert Outlook A group of musicians and singers revisits are distributed to over 80 locations a great star and Palm Springs favorite, performing the music of artists such as across the Coachella Valley monthly. Carol Channing, Sonny Bono, Dinah Shore Place your ad today. and Frank Sinatra. The live performance Call (760) 778-4660 takes place at the Purple Room Restaurant and Stage, 1900 E. Palm Canyon Drive in PHYSICIANS Palm Springs. Tickets: $20. (760) 322-4422, PurpleRoomPalmSprings.com.

JOAN JETT & THE BLACKHEARTS DEC. 31 (10:30 P.M.) If you love rock ‘n’ roll the way Joan Jett loves rock ‘n’ roll, this New Year’s Eve concert is exactly how you’ll want to bring in 2016. Jett and The Blackhearts are performing at The Show at Agua Caliente Casino Resort Spa, 32250 Bob Hope Drive in Rancho Mirage. Tickets: $60-$80. (760) 321-2000, FantasySpringsResort.com.

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‘THE WIZ’ DEC. 4-20 (7 P.M. FRIDAYS & SATURDAYS, 2 P.M. SUNDAYS) TREVORLIVE If watching NBC’s live broadcast of “The LOS ANGELES Wiz” on Dec. 3 whetted your appetite for the stage version, or you missed the TV event, DEC. 6 (5 P.M.) here’s your opportunity to see it. Common ’s annual evening of musical and Ground Theatre presents its production, comedy performances raises funds to support crisis featuring the music of Charlie Smalls, at the intervention and suicide prevention services for Educational Cultural Complex at 4343 Ocean LGBTQ youths. Joel McHale hosts the event, View Blvd. in San Diego. The show gives “The which will feature entertainment by Wizard of Oz” an urban twist. Tickets: $15- Cheyenne Jackson, Sarah Silverman $25 at 619) 272-3209 or cgtsd.org. and many more. Presenters include Julia Louis-Dreyfus, Guillermo Diaz and BEAR ESSENTIALS Niecy Nash. This year’s honorees are DEC. 5 (9 P.M.) the Walt Disney Company and HBO Bear Night SD, an event that caters to executive Michael Lombardo, who the bear subculture, celebrates its eighth oversees the production of “Game anniversary at Numbers, 3811 Park Blvd. in of Thrones,” “Girls,” and special San Diego. There will be drink specials, DJ programs such as “The Normal performances, and a free anniversary T-shirt Heart” and “The Case against 8.” for all of the bears, cubs and admirers who Dinner will be served at 7 p.m., arrive early. And attendees are encouraged followed by the 8 p.m. show at the to wear “Star Wars” costumes. Admission: $7. Hollywood Palladium, 6215 Sunset Search Facebook.com for details. Blvd., LA. Tickets are $200-$2,500 and available at TrevorLive.org. MAC & CHEESE SMACKDOWN DEC. 6 (NOON-2 P.M. & 2:30-4:30 P.M.) The holiday season is your excuse to forget his support of the LGBT community through presents on two consecutive Sundays the about watching the carbs and your caloric his underwear brand, is putting on this bash boating community’s San Diego Bay Parade of intake, as you dive into decadent desserts to raise awareness and funds for the Los Lights. More than 80 boats will be decorated and gooey comfort food like mac and Angeles LGBT Community Center’s efforts to depict “Christmas around the World.” cheese. Time Out Los Angeles challenged to help homeless youth. And it’s shaping up Not sure where to watch the procession? several of the city’s restaurants to create to be a fun night, with Christian creating gift Starting near the south end of Shelter Island, mac and cheese dishes, and invited the bags to be sold for the cause and auctioning the parade is expected to pass Harbor Island public to sample them as a benefit for Best off dates with his underwear models. Check at 6 p.m., the Embarcadero at 6:30 p.m., Friends Animal Society. It all goes down at it out at Bar10, 8933 Santa Monica Blvd. Seaport Village at 7, and the Coronado ferry LA River Studios, 2025 North San Fernando Details: LaLgbtCenter.org. landing at 7:30. For more on parking, go to Road, LA. Tickets: $30. See more info on SDParadeOfLights.org. Facebook.com. ECHO PARK CRAFT FAIR DEC. 12 & 13 (ALL DAY UNTIL 11:59 P.M.) ‘SO YOU THINK YOU CAN DANCE’ GLAAD TIDINGS Looking for unique, quality, handmade gifts? DEC. 15 (7 P.M.) DEC. 9 (6:30-9:30 P.M.) Check out this artisan haven, featuring a If you’re a fan of the reality TV dance Get festive with the Gay and Lesbian Alliance variety of crafts from hand-dyed clothing competition show, “So You Think You Can Against Defamation, which hosts an annual and jewelry to bath oils and ceramics. Dance,” you likely will enjoy seeing this troupe winter Tidings mixer for the LGBT community. They’re all on display by their makers at of talented dancers spring into performance on Presented by Ketel One Vodka and Southwest the Echo Park Craft Fair at Mack Sennett stage. The live tour is on the road and includes Airlines, it will take place at The Line Hotel, Studios, 1215 Bates Ave., LA. Adm ission: this stop at the Fox Performing Arts Center, 3515 Wilshire Blvd., LA. Recommended attire: $10 per day or $16 for the weekend. 3801 Mission Inn Ave. in Riverside. Tickets: wintertime chic/business casual. Tickets: $75 EchoParkCraftFair.com. $39.50-$59.50. Concerts.LiveNation.com. at Glaad.org/tidings/la. HOLIDAY CRUISING MILEY CYRUS HUNKY SANTA BENEFIT DEC. 13 & 20 (5:30 P.M.) DEC. 19 (7 P.M.) DEC. 12 (8 P.M.-2 A.M.) Experience the holidays with a decidedly With catchy pop hits such as “We Can’t Stop,” Andrew Christian, who’s widely known for international vibe, as the Port of San Diego “Party in the USA” and “Wrecking Ball,” Miley

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DEC. 15-17 (8 P.M.) The uninhibited actor from “Will & Grace,” “The Help,” “American Horror Story” and “Sordid Lives” tells stories of his upbringing and holiday traditions. Expect an intimate evening of laughs with Leslie Jordan as the diminutive star presents “Unwrapped – Southern Holiday Stories” at Martinis Above Fourth, 3940 4th Ave., Suite 200, San Diego. Tickets are $60 and available at MartinisAboveFourth.com. A $15 food and drink minimum is required.

Cyrus proved she has the musical chops to by Newmindspace + Lightsaber Academy, break free of the child-star limitations of the battle will take place in downtown “Hannah Montana.” In recent years, she’s also San Diego. Details: Facebook.com/ emerged as an artist unafraid of pushing events/184741991861622. cultural and performance boundaries. See her show, Miley Cyrus & Her Dead Petz, at MS. BULLET LEATHER 2016 The Wiltern, 3790 Wilshire Blvd., LA. Tickets: DEC. 19 (10 P.M.) $69.69 at Concerts.LiveNation.com. Who says daddies are the only ones to have fun with leather gear? The Bullet Bar HOLIDAY SING-ALONG is hosting its competition for women who DEC. 19 (11:30 A.M. & 2:30 P.M.) are into leather, leading up to the Ms. Los Sing along to the holiday classics with Angeles Leather event. See which candidate hundreds of other people, accompanied by has what it takes to advance. The bar is at a choir, jazz combo and huge pipe organ. 10522 Burbank Blvd. in LA. BulletBarLA.com. Conducted by John Sutton, with special guest Melissa Peterman of “The Singing COURTNEY ACT Bee,” this performance takes place at Walt DEC. 21 (8 P.M.) Disney Concert Hall, 111 S. Grand Ave., LA. She’s the Australian beauty who took the Tickets are $31-$83 and available at U.S. drag world by storm, appearing and LAPhil.com. slaying on “RuPaul’s Drag Race.” Since then, Courtney Act has been busy recording her LIGHTSABER BATTLE own music and performing on stages across DEC. 19 (9-11 P.M.) the U.S., including in Palm Springs. She brings Aside from Christmas and New Year’s Eve, her holiday show, “Head to Mistletoe,” to the opening of the new “Star Wars” film is Rockwell, 1714 N. Vermont Ave. at Hollywood expected to be one of December’s most Boulevard, LA. It features old and new fun weekends. Reflecting the spirit of the yuletide tunes, original songs, and stories of film, this nighttime event encourages fans Christmas Down Under and around the world. to pick up a lighted gadget as a Jedi or Sith Our Lady J accompanies on piano. Tickets: and go for it. Thousands of participants $25-$45 at Rockwell-la.inticketing.com. are expected, with all contributing $10 for every saber they want to reserve. Presented —Staff Report

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12 13 1. Douglas Woodmansee and Marshall Pearcy join the crowd of parade spectators. 2. Robert Janes, Fredrick Janes and Isaac Torres attend Pride festivities. 3. Nolan Knightly’s performance is the first thing HRC Garden Party attendees see as they arrive. 4. Gabriel Valle, David Brinkman and Odessa Christiana at the Pride parade. 5. Amanda Witman, Yazz Alali, and Kyle Roll join musician Stephen Wrabel at the HRC Garden Party before his Pride festival performance. 6. A 14 15 parade angel rocks rainbow-colored wings. 7. A couple imitates a display of Pride and affection. 8. Tom Batok shares a sweet morsel with Wallace Skok. 9. Celebrity impersonator KC emcees the street party as Joan Rivers. 10. Bill Nelson and William Dey check out the HRC Garden Party silent auction items. 11. Parade participants reimagine the ’50s with a rainbow drag motif. 12. Jack Lam, Dennis Lee, Keith Kincaid and Rob Scott chat over cocktails during the HRC Garden Party at Jill and Ed Perry’s Palm Springs home. 13.A proud pooch is featured in the parade. 14. Appetizing bites are passed among HRC Garden Party attendees during the speeches. 15. HRC Garden Party co-chairmen Dr. 16 17 18 Kimberly Yang and Dr. Ossie Saguil welcome attendees. 16. Not Exactly performs a tribute to deadmau5. 17. Wrabel performs during the Arenas Road Block Party. 18. Tony Lopez, Nayeli Ramierez, Sandra Lucero and Luis Granados of the Coachella Valley High School Gay Straight Student Alliance at the Pride parade. PHOTOS BY LANI GARFIELD

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Cate Blanchett DESERT stargazing

The new year gets off to a luminous start in Palm Springs, where scores of international and domestic stories will be presented Jan. 1-11 during the Palm Springs International Film Festival. Festivalgoers can expect to see movies in just about every genre, representing more than 60 countries. As in past years, there also will be plenty of cool extras for serious film buffs, such as forums, panel discussions and the recognition of emerging directors. And let’s not forget the sexy after-parties. The swankiest night of the festival will be Jan. 2, when many of Hollywood’s most brilliant stars descend upon the desert to celebrate the work of their peers. Topping the list of honorees at this year’s film festival gala are Cate Blanchett and Johnny Depp, both of whom will receive the Desert Palm Achievement Award for acting. Depp is drawing rave reviews for his portrayal of gangster James “Whitey” Bulger in “Black Mass,” and Blanchett’s performances in “Truth” and the lesbian love story, “Carol,” are creating award season buzz. For more information about festival events and film screenings: (760) 778-8979 or PSFilmFest.org.

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