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From the desk of ll educational institutions the world over are charged with EDITOR a responsibility of educating and preparing children to Abecome informed and enlightened citizens of our planet. This journey and the process however, begins only after a child has spent a few initial years under the exclusive care, protection and guardianship of his or her parents. His first connect and awareness of the world really begins with parents. The words spoken, the warmth of mother's body, suckling, father holding his hand and teaching him how to walk, and many more things are EMPATHY HONESTY indeed, an integral part of parenting. Every parent has a vision in the context of what his or her progeny should grow up to be, and assiduously works towards achieving SHARING that vision. Somewhere down the line, this becomes an overarching ambition because of over possessiveness and concern for the welfare of the child and his or her future. Some Vinod Malhotra parents also tend to impose their own will on the child's future ABRATIVE callings, under a mistaken impression of the child being their own COLL HUMILITY extension. This is where many parents make a mistake in assuming the role of an architect of their child's future. Every child is unique in his ATTITUDE own way. He may possess a similar composition of the DNA CELEBRA acquired through a biological process, but he is not necessarily TIVE the same xerox copy of his parents. A child learns through a deep sense of hearing, observation and other cognitive faculties that are in the process of making. What he needs is love, sense of security, confidence and above all good ATION values. For that to happen, every parent has to become a role COMMUNIC model, a friend and guide him or her on to the journey of life which is both challenging and exciting. If a parent has nurtured the child with these strong values (we in the Indian context call them sanskars), he becomes strong, confident and capable of ENCOURAGEMENTPERSPECTIVE leading his life on his own terms. TRUTHFULNESS EDITORIAL BOARD A parent should not endeavour to become the arbiter of child's destiny, but help him to shape it. Vinod Malhotra COURAGE Kavita Mathur Manju Rana Sikha Banerjee Poonam Kochitty Yusuf Mehdi POSITIVE PARENTING Ajay Tripathi Glimpses of Alumni Meet 2017 QUEST A good parent strives to make decisions CELEBRATING WITH EX-JAIPURIANS in the best interest of the child. A good parent doesn’t have to be perfect. No one is perfect. No parent is perfect. No child is perfect either … keeping this in mind is important when we set our expectations. But it doesn’t mean that we shouldn’t work towards that goal. Set high standards for ourselves first and then our children second. We serve as a role model to them. #11000+ JAIPURIA ALUMNI #112+ YEARS OF EXCELLENCE #8+ INSTITUTIONS ACROSS UTTAR PRADESH INTERNATIONAL COLLABORATION FOR STUDENT TO GET GLOBAL PERSPECTIVE October 6, 2018 (Saturday) From the desk of ll educational institutions the world over are charged with EDITOR a responsibility of educating and preparing children to Abecome informed and enlightened citizens of our planet. This journey and the process however, begins only after a child has spent a few initial years under the exclusive care, protection and guardianship of his or her parents. His first connect and awareness of the world really begins with parents. The words spoken, the warmth of mother's body, suckling, father holding his hand and teaching him how to walk, and many more things are EMPATHY HONESTY indeed, an integral part of parenting. Every parent has a vision in the context of what his or her progeny should grow up to be, and assiduously works towards achieving SHARING that vision. Somewhere down the line, this becomes an overarching ambition because of over possessiveness and concern for the welfare of the child and his or her future. Some Vinod Malhotra parents also tend to impose their own will on the child's future ABRATIVE callings, under a mistaken impression of the child being their own COLL HUMILITY extension. This is where many parents make a mistake in assuming the role of an architect of their child's future. Every child is unique in his ATTITUDE own way. He may possess a similar composition of the DNA CELEBRA acquired through a biological process, but he is not necessarily TIVE the same xerox copy of his parents. A child learns through a deep sense of hearing, observation and other cognitive faculties that are in the process of making. What he needs is love, sense of security, confidence and above all good ATION values. For that to happen, every parent has to become a role COMMUNIC model, a friend and guide him or her on to the journey of life which is both challenging and exciting. If a parent has nurtured the child with these strong values (we in the Indian context call them sanskars), he becomes strong, confident and capable of ENCOURAGEMENTPERSPECTIVE leading his life on his own terms. TRUTHFULNESS EDITORIAL BOARD A parent should not endeavour to become the arbiter of child's destiny, but help him to shape it. Vinod Malhotra COURAGE Kavita Mathur Manju Rana Sikha Banerjee Poonam Kochitty Yusuf Mehdi POSITIVE PARENTING Ajay Tripathi 2018 12th Issue - 2018 C o n t e n t s From The Desk of Editor From The Desk of Chairman 2 Major Events 3 Jaipuria School of Business 11 Indirapuram, Ghaziabad Jaipuria Institute of Management 25 Indirapuram, Ghaziabad Seth Anandram Jaipuria School 39 Vasundhara, Ghaziabad Seth Anandram Jaipuria School 53 Kanpur Seth Anandram Jaipuria School 65 Lucknow Little one The Jaipuria preschool 76 Kanpur Seth Anand Ram Jaipuria School 78 Alambagh, Lucknow Little one The Jaipuria preschool 82 Sarvodaya Nagar, Kanpur Little one The Jaipuria preschool 83 Ghaziabad From the desk of ll civilizations the world over recognize, indeed promote the CHAIRMAN existence of a small group defined as a family wherein its Amembers, live and grow in an atmosphere of freedom, love and fraternity. Family thus becomes a basic unit of a society that is largely insulated and protected from the challenges of the outside world, which can be hostile especially to the young ones. Parents lay the foundation of a family, enforce order and discipline, nurture and guide their progeny to lead a life that is productive and meaningful. This is where the role of parenting assumes importance. Interestingly, there are no set or fixed rules of parenting. While there are no objective or scientific criteria for evaluating the quality of parenting, there is a complete clarity on the purpose, which is to make a child independent, strong and a good human being. Positive parent-child relationships are important for all areas of children’s development. By being in the moment, spending quality time and showing warmth, care and respect, parent- child relationship can be strengthened. Parenting is also a huge responsibility, because by that you are profoundly impacting the life of an individual in a variety of ways. The values that you impart will remain and guide his or her conduct and behaviour for the rest of his or her life. While there are certain non-negotiable imperatives of transmitting good values, parenting is a dynamic concept and is also age- SHISHIR JAIPURIA appropriate. You cannot treat your ten years old the same way as you Chairman treat a two years one. The paradigm of parenting for a twenty one JGEI years old would be altogether different and so on and so forth. This is extremely important to keep this reality in mind. Having said that, your role as parents assumes criticality in the early and formative years of the child when he follows you, and almost apes you in all respects. This becomes a part of his or her sub-conscious and stays with them for the rest of their lives. Some of the essential mandates of good parenting can be summarized as follows. - Give them lots of love. - Spend quality time with them. - Do not say or do anything to them, or in front of them that you would not like others to do, or say to you. - Provide complete emotional security by your own conduct and behaviour. - Encourage them to achieve their full potential in the area of their perceived strength without being overbearing. - Lastly, and that I trust is perhaps the most important part of parenting-help them become good human beings by becoming useful to the society and the world at large. 02 2017-18 2018 Pg 5th Annual Corporate Summit 04 Prarambh 2018 06 Awards and Accolades 07 Global Issues 09 Razzmatazz 10 5th Annual Corporate Summit on Talent Management 04 www.jaipuria.edu.in “Conceptualizing the talent requirements for the future is more critical than managing the existing talent for running the existing business.” ith the aim to provide a platform for sharing best practices, insights and industry experiences, the 5th WCorporate Summit on “Talent Management: Driving Success Through Talent”was hosted by Jaipuria Institute of Management, Indirapuram, Ghaziabad on 3rd February, 2018 at Hotel Radisson Blu, Kaushambi, Ghaziabad. The Corporate Summit is a flagship event of the MBA program. This annual summit is overseen by 500+ participants through 3 sessions taken up by 15+ speakers. The summit was formally inaugurated by lighting of lamp by the Chief Guest, Mr. P. Dwarakanath, Director – Group Human Capital, Max India Ltd, Mr. Shishir Jaipuria, Chairman, Jaipuria Group of Educational Institutions, Prof. (Dr) Daviender Narang, Director, Jaipuria Institute of Management, Indirapuram, Ghaziabad, Mr. Partho P Kar, MD, Brookes Enterprises.