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By BRIAN D. WALLACE “Your energy and commit- Donovan shared a print- ment have blessed us in this dio- ed report of the Catechetical Delegates expressed a sense of cese,” said a delegate. Task Force Findings and gratitude, personal transformation “For me, the high point of the Recommendations. He said that and ongoing commitment to the synod is the fact that you are our the diocese is working to totally renewal of the diocese at the final bishop,” said another. “You are a renew how young people are post-synod session held in the man of vision and are not afraid introduced to the faith and how Family Center of St. Catherine of to walk among us. It’s such an to accompany people of all ages Siena Parish in Trumbull. More honor to have been part of this on their faith journey across a than 100 delegates to Synod 2014 movement.” lifetime. returned to the Family Center to The bishop was quick to “These are proven best prac- receive an update on synod ini- return the compliment, praising tices,” he said of the report sum- tiatives and share personal reflec- delegates who have given almost mary that included recommen- tions on their synod journey. three years to the planning, dis- dations for improving catechesis. “We are at a moment of cerning and review process. Donovan said that 48 parishes grace after three years of walk- “You’ve helped to teach me WE LIT A FIRE—Synod 2014 delegates convened recently for the final prioritized catechesis and reli- ing together, and the fun is just how to be a shepherd,” the bish- post-synod session to reflect on the challenges, opportunities and achievements gious education in their pastoral in the diocese. “We lit a fire and that fire continues to grow,” said one delegate beginning,” said Bishop Frank op said. “One of my great faults of the ongoing programs and initiatives for renewal of the diocese. planning process. J. Caggiano to start the conver- is that I am an impatient man, “The goal is that every parish sation. “I am grateful for your and I like to get things done takes the challenge for lifelong journeying with each other and as quickly as I can. During the listening sessions held throughout together, and shared our faith formation,” Donovan said. with me for the last three years. I synod, I’ve come to learn that it’s the spring of 2014 were a mem- journeys. Out of that, we put “There are people watching from hope and pray that you are differ- in God’s time, not Frank’s time. orable and moving moment that forward a mission statement and all over the country, just like they ent because you have walked this The Lord has taught me that it’s set the tone of honest searching a series of principles that have watched the synod. They want journey, and that the Lord has his Church, not my Church, and and open dialogue that character- underpinned our work and estab- to see how it’s done, how to touched you in a way you did not that has rekindled a sense of trust ized the synod. lished priorities for our parishes,” re-imagine faith formation.” expect.” in me. We must surrender our- “So many people spoke so said Turner, who thanked dele- Patrick Turner officially closed In a candid and relaxed con- selves and allow him to lead. If honestly and from the heart, and gates for their commitment. the meeting by thanking delegates versation with Bishop Caggiano, we dedicate ourselves to our Lord they had so much hope,” said a “This does not mean that our and remembering three who have delegates said that what has and to our lady, we will find a delegate. “Sometimes I wonder if work is done and we can sit back passed away. impressed them most about the way forward.” the people who came out to those and bask in the glow of a job well “Your participation, your synod isn’t simply the many new Many delegates pointed to sessions are aware of all that has done. In fact, as we have seen, enthusiasm, your discernment programs and initiatives it has the Synod Closing Mass, which happened. Do they know that we our work is just beginning. In and your prayers have started launched, but the spirit of renew- drew 8,000 people to the Webster have addressed things and made the words of the Romero Prayer something here that will leave a al and change underway through- Bank Arena at harbor Yard in connections with many of their written by Bishop Ken Untener lasting legacy. You have been an out the diocese. September 2015, as the high point concerns?” of Saginaw, we are planting the incredible support to me. Some “We lit a fire and that fire is of the synod process. During the three-hour morn- seeds that one day will grow and of our delegates have started continuing to grow,” said one “The vision of you coming ing session that culminated in we water the seeds already plant- college, graduated college, and woman delegate. “We’re on the down to the arena with all those an 11 am Mass in St. Catherine ed, knowing that they hold future moved to new opportunities. In right track.” young people following you was Church, Patrick Turner, the promise.” a special way, I want to remem- “Over the years as a diocese a moment of great joy for me. former synod director who now Bishop Caggiano praised ber three women who began this we have talked about many That moment told me that young serves the diocese as director of Turner’s leadership during the journey with us and who unfortu- things that never went any- people are ready to come back strategic and pastoral planning, synod and the follow-up sessions. nately have passed away. Linda where,” said another, “but look and ready for us to reach out to updated delegates on the imple- The delegates also recognized his DeMarkey, Madelyn Ghilardi, at all we have accomplished over them,” said a delegate. mentation synod recommenda- effort by giving him a standing and Jackie Reck.” the past three years.” “Seeing all that energy and tions including the development ovation at the end of the meeting. After the meeting, the del- In reflecting on the fruits of the people coming together for the of the Leadership Institute, the During the morning, dele- egates and Bishop Caggiano synod, many delegates took the Lord and dedicating the diocese Catholic Service Corp., ongoing gates also heard from Patrick joined Father Joseph Marcello, opportunity to personally thank to the Sacred Heart of Jesus and pastoral and parish planning, and Donovan, director of the dioce- St. Catherine’s pastor, and St. the bishop for his leadership and Immaculate Heart of Mary was the recent reorganization into a san Leadership Institute, which Catherine parishioners for a Mass praise the spirit of change he has amazing,” said another. new deanery structure. was one of the major recommen- celebrating the Solemnity of Saint brought to the diocese. Other delegates agreed that the “We prayed together, ate dations of synod delegates. Catherine of Siena. n

ON THE COVER | CONTENTS THE FACE OF PRAYER— 5 NEW DIOCESAN IT LEADER 16 DYNAMIC CATHOLIC Bishop Caggiano launched the new Chris Gillespie of Ridgefield Author Matthew Kelly at St. Paul’s Inside this issue Face of Prayer campaign in the diocese on Divine Mercy Sunday 8 RETIRED CLERGY HONORED 18 WOMEN’S HEALTHCARE CENTER Couples Celebrate 6 Wedding Jubilees at St. Augustine Cathedral. for ‘Profound and generous giving’ Bringing pro-life care The bishop is encouraging all

Ladies Luncheon 11 DIOCESAN SERRA CLUB 20 A REFLECTION ON PENTECOST 12 for Catholic Academy Catholics, particularly young Cultivating a culture of vocations Dr. Francis DeStefano people, to deepen their prayer life. For more information, 13 DEACON CONVOCATION 24 GOD TOOK ONE OF MAN’S RIBS visit www.thefaceofprayer.com Growing in solidarity and unity Columnist Thomas H. Hicks 3 May 2017 Latest News Three new priests to be ordained BRIDGEPORT—On this spring. Saturday, June 24, Bishop Frank Father Iannacone will cele- J. Caggiano will ordain three brate his first Mass at St. Mary’s men as priests for the Diocese of in Norwalk at 9:30 am on Bridgeport. Sunday, June 25. Father Edward Because two of the men are of J. Enright, OSA, associate pro- Hispanic background, both born fessor of religious and theological in Bogotá, Colombia, readings at studies at Merrimack College, the ordination will be in Spanish will give the homily. and English. Harry Prieto and “I heard it once said that one José Vásquez came to this dio- should not become a priest if one cese from Colombia; Timothy does not love people. Indeed, it Iannocone was born in Stamford. is my love for God’s people that During the Mass the mothers has brought me here,” Father of all three men will bring up the Iannacone says. “The Church offertory gifts. Sandra Riano, needs strong and intelligent cousin of Father Vásquez will Timothy A. Iannacone Harry Alfredo Prieto José Abelardo Vásquez priests who will be defenders deliver a reading in Spanish; of the truth in the face of every Elizabeth Nichols, godmother of the presbyterate of this diocese, his home parish is another St. from Merrimack College in North obstacle that confronts them. This Father Iannacone, will read in and we pray that their witness Mary’s, the proud mother church Andover, Mass., in 2012, where is why I want to become a priest; English. will inspire many other young of Norwalk. His parents, Timothy he was inducted into Theta Alpha not for myself, but for the service “The day of priestly ordina- men to respond to God’s offer of and Patricia Zygmont Iannacone, Kappa, the National Honor soci- of God’s Church and his people.” tions is one of the most beautiful the priestly vocation. We pray and his brother Christopher ety for Religious and Theological Harry A. Prieto days for the diocese, because it is that they may be good, holy are members of St. Thomas the Studies. Harry Alfredo Prieto, 30, was a day of great hope, says Father happy priests of Jesus Christ.” Apostle in Norwalk. He attended He was ordained to the tran- born in Bogotá, Colombia, and John Connaughton, director Timothy A. Iannacone Wolfpit Elementary School and sitional diaconate by Bishop grew up in a family of three boys of vocations for the Diocese of Timothy Albert Iannacone, 27, All Saints Catholic School, and Frank J. Caggiano in 2016 and and one girl. His parents, Alfredo Bridgeport. “We’re very proud of was born in Stamford and bap- graduated from Norwalk High completed his seminary studies Prieto and Luz Jaramillo are the men who are being ordained. tized in St. Mary Church there. School in 2008. at the Theological College of the parishioners at Santiago Apóstol They will be great members of He now lives in Norwalk, where Father Iannacone graduated Catholic University of America ➤ continued on page 8 Bishop names nine territorial deans for leadership BRIDGEPORT—Bishop Gannon; Deanery D: Father Msgr. Powers said each Frank J. Caggiano presided Nicholas Cirillo; Deanery E: Deanery takes into account the over the installation of nine new Msgr. Laurence Bronkiewicz; diversity of pastoral situations Deans at the Chrism Mass held Deanery F: Father Thomas in a given region, improves the during Holy Week. Thorne; Deanery G: Msgr. efficiency and collaboration of The new Deanery model Walter Orlowski; Deanery H: organized pastoral initiatives and replaces the former Vicariate Msgr. Kevin Royal; and Deanery better provides for the needs of a structure related to the territorial I: Msgr. Alan Detscher. particular area of the diocese. organization of the diocese. The Deanery A includes the 11 On February 2, 2017, the deaneries are designed to assist parishes and St. Margaret Shrine Feast of the Presentation of the bishop and priests in regional in Bridgeport; Deanery B, the the Lord, the bishop signed planning and decision-mak- eight parishes in Stratford and the decree that replaced the six ing, and improve collaboration Shelton; Deanery C, the six Vicariates with nine Deaneries, between parishes. parishes in Trumbull, Monroe, reconstituted the membership During the service, the bishop and Newtown; Deanery D, the of the Presbyteral Council and also presided over the installation 11 parishes in Danbury, Bethel, replaced the Assignment Board of the new deans. Msgr. Thomas Brookfield, New Fairfield and ACCEPTING THE CHALLENGES—At this year’s Chrism Mass at St. with the Council of Deans. The Powers, vicar general of the Sherman; Deanery E, the seven Augustine Cathedral, the bishop appointed nine priests as deans who will lead new structure came into effect diocese, called the new deans for- parishes in Wilton, Redding, the newly formed territorial areas of the diocese, now organized into deaneries. on April 11, the day before the ward for a brief oath installation Georgetown, Easton, Weston The news structure replaces the former vicariate model. Chrism Mass. ceremony. and Ridgefield; Deanery F, the The membership of the “May you become another nine parishes in Fairfield and to the territorial areas of the dio- the priests in attendance voted Presbyteral Council will now sign of unity and fraternity in the Westport; Deanery G, the 10 cese and should foster “greater overwhelmingly in favor of also include the episcopal vic- diocese,” the bishop said as the parishes in New Canaan, Darien, collaboration between parishes establishing a committee to study ars for the African American, new deans gathered around the Norwalk; Deanery H, the 12 par- and renewed fraternity among the possibility of moving from a Haitian, Brazilian, Hispanic and altar for the installation oath. ishes in Stamford; and Deanery I, clergy.” Vicariate structure to a Deanery Vietnamese communities. The The new deans include the seven parishes in Greenwich The priests themselves had structure. The Deanery structure Council of Deans will serve as a Deanery A: Father Peter Lynch; and Riverside. requested the reorganization. is designed to allow for greater consultative body to the Bishop Deanery B: Father Thomas The bishop said the new dean- At the General Meeting of the regional planning and account- of Bridgeport regarding clergy Lynch; Deanery C: Father Brian ery structure better corresponds Presbyterate on April 21, 2016, ability. assignments. n 4 May 2017 Annual Catholic Appeal Now is the time to drive the Appeal over goal! BRIDGEPORT—The Annual Bridgeport. “We’re very pleased June 4. Catholic Appeal has reached 72 with the response,” said William McLean said the average gift percent of goal with over more McLean, chief development offi- is $548, making it the largest in than 14,700 donors participat- cer for the Diocese of Bridgeport, the country, but he would also ing in the campaign, which was but we have more work to do to like to see a broader base of giv- launched in January. The theme finish the campaign and hopefully ing with more people participat- of the 2016 Annual Catholic come in over goal.” ing in the campaign at whatever message of support for the bishop delegates and the progress that Appeal is Sharing God’s Gifts, McLean said more than ten level they can. and his efforts in renewal.” the diocese has made in the three Transforming Lives. parishes have already met or “Our message to men and Pam Rittman, director of the years since Synod 2014 was for- To date the campaign has exceeded their goals, and he women in our parishes is that now Annual Catholic Appeal, attend- mally launched. raised over $8 million of the expects others will join the ranks is the time to give,” said McLean. ed the final post-synod session “So many good things have $11 million goal needed to when proceeds are tabulated from “Making your gift now helps the held recently at St. Catherine come out of the synod, includ- fund the major ministries and the April 29 in–pew weekend. A diocese in the budgeting process Parish in Trumbull and said she ing the Diocesan Youth Choir, programs of the Diocese of second in-pew weekend is set for for next year and sends a strong was inspired by the faith of the ➤ continued on page 17

Roxanne, Jason, and baby Justin Matthew Melaragno June is ‘Text to Vicariate 3 Appeal Chairs Donate’ month BRIDGEPORT—Donors to this year’s Annual Catholic Appeal (ACA) now have another giving option: “Text to Donate!” “We have just added this exciting new way to donate from smart phones and devices. It is simple, safe and secure and can be made from anywhere,” said Pam Rittman, director of the appeal. Rittman is hoping that during the month of June, parishioners will make their appeal gift by texting the word, SHARING, to 50555. She said the idea for the use of “Text to Donate” came from the growing use of digital communications in retail, marketing, and philanthropy across the country. “People are on their smart phones and other devices all day, and many prefer to transact with the world in this way. The digital marketplace is where peo- ple get their information, and to purchase, donate and interact with each other.” A quick text can also have a major impact on the appeal and the services it provides throughout the year, she said. “It is fast, easy and secure and supports diocesan programs on a larger scale, including the formation of priests and deacons; pastoral care of the sick and elderly; nutrition, housing and coun- seling programs; evangelization and catechesis and much more.” Rittman said the ACA office is providing communications materials for the parishes and social media outreach to inform “When we think about all the organizations that request donations, parishioners. it’s easy to decide where to place our support: The new “Text to Donate” campaign works with Androids and iPhones and any device that has text messaging capabilities. THE ANNUAL CATHOLIC APPEAL Donors simply type the keyword SHARING to the number: 50555 (it is not case sensitive). They are then prompted to make We treasure our Catholic faith. We want to see the future of the Church continue with great their donation and confirm their gift before they finalize the trans- ministries and help to those in need. And now, as a new family ourselves, passing our faith action. on to our child is so important. Growing up, our pastors and the parish community helped Rittman said the diocese will receive the donations generally form us in our Catholic faith through their example. Our parents supported their parish and in two to three days and can take up to five business days. “If the diocese, and we want to continue the tradition.” your gift is made using your credit or debit card, it will show up on your credit or debit card bill. Standard text messaging and data rates may apply on your phone bill. Donors can feel confi- dent in making a text gift; their credit and debit card information is secure and the card’s numbers or information is not stored,” she explained. “If a donor chooses to join in the mobile community they will FOR MORE INFORMATION, PLEASE VISIT WWW.2017ACABRIDGEPORT.COM OR CALL 203-416-1479 be asked if they would like to opt-in to receive up to four texts ➤ continued on page 17 5 May 2017 Diocesan News Harnessing social media to the power of prayer

By BRIAN D. WALLACE “This new effort uses social media to ask young people and The Diocese of Bridgeport has all the faithful in our diocese to launched “The Face of Prayer,” a learn about the power of prayer, social media and web-based cam- to pray with each other, and paign that brings together social to recognize that each of us is, media, text alerts, and the power indeed, the face of prayer,” said of prayer. Donovan. Bishop Frank J. Caggiano Donovan said the new online formally announced the effort prayer initiative is particular- on Divine Mercy Sunday at ly close to the bishop’s heart St. Augustine Cathedral. The because of his commitment to campaign is among the many engaging youth in the Church new initiatives being sponsored and evangelizing through by the Diocesan Leadership social media. The campaign Institute. will be dedicated to the Blessed “Over the next four months, Mother. we will invite participants, espe- It is hoped that the online cially youth and young adults, prayer effort will pave the way to encounter more deeply the for a diocesan pilgrimage to the mystery of prayer, to encourage Basilica of the National Shrine prayer every day and to deepen of the Immaculate Conception our personal knowledge and rela- in Washington, D.C., on tionship with the Lord Jesus,” the September 23. bishop said. More than 1,600 young people Bishop Caggiano will be have responded to the bishop’s spending the next few weeks invitation to share their thoughts explaining this historic outreach about faith, prayer and their in greater detail as he encourages relationship with Jesus Christ via young people to meditate on the the recent online survey: www. beauty, mystery, nature and invi- tellbishopfrank.org. tation of prayer. Donovan said that, in all Young people are being aspects of the campaign, parents asked to text a selfie, a prayer can be assured the diocese is intention, or the word “pray” with a call to prayer. holiness. Our message is, ‘Be the a text alert from the bishop following all Child Protection to 55778 and join in the faith “The goal of the campaign face of prayer and join today,’” either every day or three times a guidelines to ensure a safe envi- journey to learn more about the is to have thousands of people, said Patrick Donovan, director of week. These alerts will include ronment, and acquiring parental power of prayer. Participants especially our young Church, the Leadership Institute. prayer intentions and reflections. consent where necessary. will receive a daily prayer inten- praying each day alongside the Once people join the cam- Each will end with a call to (For more information, visit the tion from the bishop that ends bishop as we grow together in paign, they can choose to receive prayer. website: www.thefaceofprayer.org.) n Gillespie named IT leader of diocese BRIDGEPORT—Christopher entrepreneurial use of technology. and applications. worldwide pc managements sys- Gillespie of Ridgefield has As we work to unify the diocese He comes to the diocese tems for corporations including been named senior director of into a contemporary communi- from Sustainable Waste Power UBS Warburg. Information Technology and cations network, we welcome Systems (SWP), where he served In the past, he also served Process Improvement for the his leadership, vision and experi- as chief executive officer and as director of network service Diocese of Bridgeport. ence,” said Bishop Caggiano. president. In partnership with his for Dime Savings Bank of New He began working for the dio- “As an active parishioner of son, Gillespie created the startup York. He began his career as cese on May 1. The appointment St. Mary Parish in Ridgefield, business, which invented, pat- a communications engineer at was made by Bishop Frank J. Chris also understands the chal- ented and commercialized the General Motors in 1984. Caggiano. lenges and opportunities ahead world’s only Wet Gasification Gillespie earned his B.S. in Gillespie will be responsible as our diocese and parishes move waste-to-energy system. electrical engineering from the for developing and executing a into a new era of communica- His extensive IT background University of Southwestern global information technology tions,” the bishop said. includes serving as chief infor- Louisiana in Lafayette, La., in strategy that supports the overall Gillespie will report directly mation officer (CIO) of Prestige 1983. He has also undertaken mission of the diocese by integrat- to Msgr. Thomas Powers, vicar Brands, a consumer packag- extensive continuing education in ing technology used in its parish- general and chief operating ing goods company; CIO of business leadership. He is a mem- es, schools and other institutions. officer of the diocese. He will National Retail Services, a ber of the Society for Information “In his various positions as direct the day-to-day operations nationwide in-store merchan- Management. chief information officer and of the IT staff and manage all CHRISTOPHER GILLESPIE, senior dising company; and executive He and his wife and family are business leader, Chris has led technology assets in the diocese director of information technology consultant for Adaptive Business parishioners of St. Mary Parish in business transformation through including infrastructure, support Consulting, involved in creating Ridgefield. n 6 May 2017 Family Formation Wedding Jubilees TRUMBULL—“We give “This Wedding Jubilee Mass thanks for graciously blessing the is a sign of joy and hope not only family life of these gathered here,” in our diocese, but in a culture said Bishop Frank J. Caggiano, where marriage is under attack,” celebrating the Mass of Wedding said Kim Quatella, coordinator of Jubilees held on April 30 at St. family formation for the Diocese Theresa Parish in Trumbull. of Bridgeport. “As a young wife Of the 147 couples gathered myself, celebrating five years mar- for the celebration, representing ried, it is affirming and encouraging as you have sustained their com- 47 different parishes, an amazing for me to see the lived witness of munion amid joys and struggles, 75 have been married 50 years these married couples, their faith, renew their marriage covenant or more. Recognition as the commitment, sacrifice, and joy.” each day, increase their charity longest-married couple went to At the close of the Mass, and strengthen them in the bond Lawrence and Ruth Schmidt of Bishop Caggiano gave a bless- of peace so that, together with (Photos St. Bridget of Ireland Parish in ing to the assembled couples the circle of their family that sur- by Stamford, who have been married and their families. “Look with rounds them, they may forever Michelle for 71 years. kindness upon them today, and enjoy your blessing.” n Babyak)

Havilan & Arlene Tweedy Wedding Jubilarians Alan & Barbara Vallillo Scott & Sandra Miller Frank & Barbara Gagliardi Anselmo & Mercedes Espinal Ron & Syndi Buckley Rocco & Maria Veltri Jeffrey & Kathleen Agonito Richard & Mary Harrington William & Judy Gerth Paul & Armida Budd Aleksander & Helena Wegiel Christopher & Roxanne Amiot Brian & Theresa Hellauer Robert & Sharon Leidy George & Eilen Cassidy Robert & Yvonne Wilkins Martin & Miriam Campos Carlos & Samara Hernandez Luis & Victoria Moreno Raimundo & Ramona deCastro Thomas & Barbara Bruderman Michael & Lori Candela Roberto & Katia Huertas Michael & Patricia Novajosky John & Loretta Donovan Richard & Susan Haig Mario & Patricia Ciufo Brian & Maureen Hunter Hector B. & Maria E. Ortiz Warren & Marie Edwards Emanuel & Frances Cambra James & Maureen Forno Peter & Eva Karpiel Danny & Eileen Pannese Robert & Sharon Fischer John & Delores Dunn Rosendo & Maria Franco Joseph & Ileana Kotulich Robert & Maria Panza Rudolph & Frances Funke William & Pamela Huth Antonio & Karen Gil Richard & Catherine Malek Aleksander & Kazimiera Rdzak Raymond & Diane Ganser Francis & Mary Hyson David & Catherine Gosselin John & Nora Marciniak Daniel & Deborah Terenzio Robert & Katherine Geckle Peter & Ann Izzo Arthur & Dorothy Jordan Paul & Lorraine Mazzo Lester & Gail Young Robert J. & Deborah Grosso Louis & Phyllis Polonkay Lew & Coleen Lerman James & Sharon Palumberi Alexandre & Celeste Albuquerque Robert & Margaret Haborak Alfred & Elizabeth Sanseverino Michael & Karen Marcinko Mark & Dawn Ringes Robert & Kathleen Coppola J. Gerald & Susan V. Hricik Ivan & Frances Capella Mario & Balvina Martinez Anton & Mary Ellen Yarshevitz Harold & Christine Davis Ralph & Carol Iassogna Jack & Paula Finnegan William & Marguerite Morrison Jorge & Ana Guzman Francis & Mary Fedanick Brian & Mary Jane Jones Angelo & Patricia Panettieri John & Laura Moulder James & Cheryl Csizmar John & Linda Fracassini Robert & Catherine Koritko Bart & Mary DeSanto Gordon & Sheila Oppenheimer George & Anne Marie De Stefano Bill & Peggy Fry Ronald & Dolores Kosarko Jospeh & Deanne Donia William & Mary Beth Rauser John & Rosemarie Egan Steve & Patricia Hira Mark & Sandra Lefler John & Elizabeth Fleckenstein Scott & Mary Jo Runkle Russell & Theresa Geibel Nelson & Carol Ladue Robert & Mary Legnard Edwin & Carol Hellauer Gregory & Mary-Beth Salinsky Alessio & Angela Giannitti William & Susan Lenahan Carmine & Lucille Limone William & Josephine Kovac Timothy & Holly Shea Egbert & Elra Harris Edward & June Machia Jerry & Agnes Macisco Jose & Maria Mercado Dave & Lisa Sheehan Luis & Rose Jimenez Claudio & Alicia Nieves Ettore & Giovanna Mancini Louis & Rita Molgano Jorge & Digna Suscal Steven & Mary Ellen Kother Joseph & Barbara Bennett Oligino Thomas & Dorothy Mangone John & Mary Powers Mark & Marianne Williams Dominic & Robin Lisi Peter & Carol Pavone Martin & Gloria Nissly Andrew & Diane Prucinsky William & Suzanne Wright Michael & Diane McNamara John & Barbara Pezzullo Thomas & Mary Ann O’ Grady Robert & Caroline Vesciglio Edmond & Rosemarie Yalda Jose & Sandra Rivera Frank & Rita Phillips William (Bill) & Diane Parrett Joseph & Gail Francomano Timothy & Eileen Brennan Michael & Kathy Ronan Herminio & Ana Planas William & Carol Pisani James & Esther De Mayo Mark & Debra Bresnan James & Jane Patricia Sherry Richard & Cynthia Stone Joe & Lucy Riccio Albert & Margaret Forno Manuel & Sarita Cadena-Alvarez Steve & Anne van Geldern Charles & Nancy Tomlinson George & Patricia Ross Gerard & Margaret Mohyde Juan & Jenny Coba Orlando & Luz Perez John & Susan Tschirhart Edward & Carol Roth Henry & Marie Sodaro Hugo & Elsa Condori Kevin & Mary Ann Barney Alfred & Joyce Baran Dennis & Catherine Rotunno Joseph & Florence Romano Richard & Christine Earls Thomas & Christine Berte Peter & Elaine Bartkus Dennis & Lynne Sadlowski Jay & Joan Topham Dwight & Lynne Everlith Thomas & Regina Campfield Joseph & Kathleen Bender Robert & Sandra Smith Henry & Ruth Monachelli Thomas & Tracy Fascio Charles & Ruth Chiusano Dennis & Kathleen Bonetti Martin & Judith Tristine Lawrence & Ruth Schmidt

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KNIGHTS OF COLUMBUS AprilApril 6,6, 2017-2017- MUSEUM Dec.Dec. 30,30, 20182018 1 State Street, New Haven • 203-865-0400 • kofcmuseum.org • Free admission & parking 7 May 2017 Local News Couple receives SHU Leadership Award FAIRFIELD—Ruben and as Grace noted, Ruben was certain- Susan, and her extended family. fall academically behind their grade. The program not only helps Grace Rodriguez are the recip- ly with them in spirit. She shared “We chose to honor Grace peers attending school in middle participants improve in math and ients of the Horizons at Sacred with the students, their families and Ruben because of the won- and high-income areas. The most reading, but also teaches them life Heart University program’s and those gathered that she and derful example their life provides significant gap emerges in reading skills—in particular, swimming. first-ever Horizons Leadership Ruben had come to the United for our students and their fami- and math skills. This contributes The gala featured musical lies,” said Jeffery Rumpf, exec- to an achievement gap, leaving performances by the Horizons utive director of the Horizons at some low-income kids as much students and three-time Grammy SHU program. as three years behind by fifth Award winner Tom Chapin. n Approximately 200 attended the gala, and a record amount of money was raised that will directly support the Horizons at SHU program. Horizons at SHU is a tuition-free, academic sum- mer enrichment program serving students who reside in the City of Bridgeport. Together, Horizons National and Sacred Heart University are helping Bridgeport students close the urban-suburban achievement gap. A LIFELONG EXAMPLE of hard work and deep faith earned Grace Now in its sixth year, the pro- Rodriguez and her late husband Rubin the first-ever Horizons Leadership Award. (l-r) Grace’s daughter Susan, her husband Tony Deahl, Grace, and gram began in 2012 with 32 rising grandsons Evan and Cameron Deahl. first- and second-grade students. Each year since then, a new class of rising first-graders has been Award. The award was bestowed States from Cuba in the 1960s to added. The students remain with at the program’s second annual escape the Fidel Castro regime the program, which includes six gala on April 22 at the Frank and became American citizens. weeks in the summer and 10 and Marisa Martire Business and The couple found success—he as Saturdays during the school year, Communications Center at SHU. CEO and chairman of Bacardi and through their senior year in high In accepting the award, Grace she as manager of Westport Bank school. This summer, the program Rodriguez said she and Ruben had & Trust—through hard work in will include students from K-6. fallen in love with the program and their studies and their careers and The Horizons program its students during a visit to Sacred through their faith, she told the addresses summer learning loss, Heart more than a year ago. Ruben students. She was joined at the gala a phenomenon in which students passed away on May 5, 2016 but, by her two daughters, Grace and from low-income district schools Inner-City luncheon to feature best-selling author BRIDGEPORT— York Times best sellers. Four of worst ravages of hunger and Internationally acclaimed spir- these have been #1, including her poverty throughout the world. itual author, lecturer and #1 wildly popular first book, A Return Bonnie Levison is a lead This Scripture Puzzle is sponsored by: New York Times best-selling to Love. A quote from the book storytelling instructor with The author Marianne Williamson which reads, in part, “Our deepest Moth, a not-for-profit organi- will speak in Greenwich on fear is not that we are inadequate. zation dedicated to the art and Thursday, June 1, at a benefit Our deepest fear is that we are craft of storytelling, Levison has held by Fairfield County’s powerful beyond measure…” is performed stories on The Moth Inner-City Foundation for considered an anthem for a con- Mainstage and Story Slams and Charity & Education. The temporary generation of seekers. has appeared on the Podcast and benefit Ladies Luncheon at A native of Houston, The Moth Radio Hour on NPR. the Belle Haven Club will also Williamson founded Project A co-founder of the Nantucket feature speakers who have been Angel Food in 1989, a meals- Comedy Festival, Levison pro- affected by the charity’s work. on-wheels program that serves duces comedy and storytelling Comedienne, story-teller and homebound people with AIDS shows and created and hosts Greenwich resident Bonnie in the Los Angeles area. To date, Greenwich Historical Society’s Levison will serve as master of Project Angel Food has served long-running “Story Barn.” ceremonies for the event. more than 10 million meals. She Proceeds from the June 1 Marianne Williamson is a also co-founded the Peace benefit will provide critical New York Times best-selling Alliance, and serves on the board funding for the Inner-City author several times over. Seven of directors of the RESULTS Foundation’s support of of her books have been New organization, working to end the ➤ continued on page 12 8 May 2017 Vocations James Bates to be ordained transitional deacon On Saturday, June 17, Bishop goodness and his own unwor- priestly vocation.” for an MA in theology from Holy unworthiness he has called me Frank J. Caggiano will ordain thiness is one of the reasons he’s James Kenneth Bates, 55, was Apostles College and Seminary by name and set me on the path James K. Bates as a transition- going to serve the Lord so well as born in California but grew up in in Cromwell before entering into to be a servant of his people. It al deacon for the Diocese of a deacon and eventually a priest. Brookfield, attending Huckleberry priestly formation at Pope St. is with a sense of awe and inex- Bridgeport. The Ordination Mass His witness always inspires me Hill Elementary School and John XXIII Seminary. pressible joy that I give thanks to will be celebrated at 11 am in St. to be more grateful for my own Brookfield High School, and He worked as an engineer for God for so great a gift.” Augustine Cathedral. Traditionally, graduated from Western Executone Information Systems, Deacon Bates will assist at his ordination as a transitional deacon Connecticut State University Inc., in Milford and Pitney Bows, first Mass in his home parish, St. is the last step before ordination to (WestCONN) in 1974. The son Inc., in Danbury before discern- Joseph in Danbury, on Sunday, the priesthood. of Westbrook and the late Daryll ing a call to the priesthood. June 18 at 12 noon. Father Deacon Bates will complete Bates, he grew up with two “As a convert and an older Samuel Scott, St. Joseph’s pastor, his theological studies at Pope St. sisters. His sister Jill Citron is vocation approaching ordination, will be the celebrant. Deacon John XXVIII National Seminary deceased; Jennifer Marazzo lives I find myself ever more keenly Bates will give the homily. in Weston, Mass., during the with her family in New Jersey. aware of the working of Divine (The beautiful ordination cer- coming year. A convert to Catholicism, Providence in my life. It is pro- emonies are open to all. Deacon “Certainly, Jim’s path to ordi- he holds an MS and an MBA foundly humbling to contemplate Bates’ ordination will be held in St. nation has been unconventional. from Albertus Magnus College that, even in my waywardness, Augustine Cathedral on Saturday, And I think that’s the reason why in New Haven and was studying God has led me here; even in my June 17, at 11 am.) n he is so sincerely grateful,” says Father John Connaughton, direc- New Priests from page 3 tor of vocations for the Diocese Parish in Bogotá. José A. Vásquez the Church of the Assumption in of Bridgeport. He attended Annunciation José Abelardo Vásquez Westport. He completed his dea- “The Lord has done such great Elementary school and gradu- Romero, 33, was also born con internship at Assumption this things for him in his life and he James K. Bates ated from Neruda High School in Bogotá, where his parents, past year. Father Vásquez gradu- knows it. That sense of God’s in Bogotá in 2003. Discerning Bernardo and Elsy Campos ated from St. Joseph’s Seminary a religious vocation, he went Vásquez, are members of Santiago in Yonkers, N.Y., this year. to the Seminario Mayor de Apostol Parish. His brother, Father Vásquez will celebrate his Cemetery Offices Bogotá and then earned a bach- Rodrigo, also lives in Bogotá. first Mass at Assumption Parish on BRIDGEPORT-STRATFORD elor of science degree from A complex young man, he June 25 at 12 noon. 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By BRIAN D. WALLACE have shown a willingness to say cession of the priests and deacons ‘yes’ to Christ thousands of times into the Church, some of them “We come to celebrate retire- each day. Their life is all about recently retired, others visibly ments, but no one retires from Christ.” advanced in age after a lifetime of offering their life to Christ,” More than 300 turned out service. Bishop Frank J. Caggiano said for the Mass and reception to In his homily the bishop said at the First Annual Clergy honor priests and deacons. The that each priest and deacon Retirement Celebration Mass in bishop was also joined around brought different gifts and talents St. Matthew Church in Norwalk. the altar by many active pastors to their ministry and represented Gesturing to the retired priests and priests. Diocesan seminarians a collective 2,000 years of service and deacons who surrounded assisted as altar servers during the in the diocese. MASS FOR RETIRED PRIESTS AND DEACONS—More than 300 turned him on the altar, the bishop liturgy. “It’s amazing to think of all out recently at St. Matthew Church for the First Annual Clergy Retirement Celebration Mass. People stood and applauded three different times during said, “They may be free from Three times during the Mass the lives touched and blessed by the Mass in an affectionate show of appreciation and gratitude for those who assignments, but they are still the family, friends and faithful these men in their ministry. In the have dedicated their lives as priests and deacons. (Photo by Michelle Babyak) giving profoundly and generous- rose to their feet to offer pro- sacraments celebrated and in their ly. This is a remarkable, diverse longed and appreciative applause. breaking open the word of God and talented group of men who The evening began with a pro- they have brought many indi- the Battle of Normandy and flew means ‘to give thanks,’ and we viduals and families to faith, not 55 sorties in dangerous combat have so much to be grateful for in simply because of what they’ve that took the lives of many of their lives of service.” done, but because of who they his fellow soldiers. The deacon The Mass honored all priests After Bishop Caggiano’s homily are,” he said. just celebrated his 72nd wedding and deacons who have retired at the First Annual Clergy In brief remarks following anniversary. from active ministry since 2013, Mass, the bishop recognized in “Every single one of these when the Bishop Caggiano Retirement Celebration Mass, particular 95-year-old Deacon men is remarkable,” the bishop was installed as Bishop of Msgr. Thomas Powers, vicar general Joseph Melita, who fought in said in praise. “The Eucharist Bridgeport. n of the diocese, read the names of the deacons and priests honored at the Mass:

Honored Priest Retirees Honored Deacon Retirees

Rev. Michael Bachman Deacon Renato Berzolla, Rev. Stephen Balint Deacon William Bissenden Rev. Msgr. Matthew Bernelli Deacon Robert Blankschen Rev. Lawrence Carew Deacon James Brown Rev. William Carey Deacon Donald Brunetto Rev. Msgr. J. Peter Cullen Deacon Loreto Buzzeo Rev. Msgr. J. James Cuneo Deacon José Cabral Rev. Msgr. Peter Dora Deacon Salvatore Clarizio Rev. Msgr. Jerald Doyle Deacon Anthony Detje Rev. Msgr. Thomas Driscoll Deacon Francis Foyt Rev. Gilbert D’Souza Deacon Lance Fredricks Rev. Stephen Gleeson Deacon Joseph Gagne Rev. Roger McDonough Deacon Robert Henrey Rev. Guido Montanaro Deacon Daniel Ianniello Rev. Martin Nikodem Deacon Brian Kelly Rev. Michael Palmer Deacon John Linsenmeyer Rev. Joseph Parampath Deacon Frank Masso Rev. Raymond Petrucci Deacon Joseph Melita Rev. Robert Post Deacon William D. Murphy Rev. David Riley Deacon William O. Murphy Rev. Msgr. John Sabia Deacon Emmet Murray Rev. George Sankoorikal Deacon Daniel Myott Rev. Msgr. William Scheyd Deacon Paul Pilkington Rev. Msgr. Richard Shea Deacon Paul Reilly Rev. John Smolko Deacon Russell Rigg Rev. Msgr. Edward Surwilo Deacon Robert Salvestrini Rev. William Verrilli Deacon Michael Saranich Rev. Msgr. Aniceto Villamide Deacon William Shaughnessy Rev. Frank Winn Deacon Rudolph Trankovich Deacon David Vaughn 10 May 2017 Vocations St. John Fisher candidacy

By PAT HENNESSY Four of the men, Juan Colon They range in age from 54 to 21, and Guy Dormevil from St. and their backgrounds include a “To build up the person of Joseph Parish in Norwalk, André widower with grown children, Christ in each man who comes Escaleira from St. Peter Parish a young man breaking off a here is the mission of this house; in Bridgeport, and Guillermo long-term romance and a casual to clarify in his mind and in Jimenez from St. Mary Parish in Catholic unexpectedly finding the mind of the Church wheth- Stamford have completed their himself called to serve the Lord. A STRONG SENSE OF COMMUNITY shows in the faces of the seminari- er the Lord is calling him to pre-seminary formation at St. For each man the call came ans at St. John Fisher. Sometimes when they’re out for pizza or for a game at be a priest,” says Father Paul John Fisher. from a personal encounter, Harbor Yard, their shared enthusiasm is so contagious that people stop them to Check, rector of St. John Fisher David Klein, former star whether it was the Franciscan ask where they’re from. (Photo by Amy Mortensen) Seminary in Stamford. forward with Trumbull High priests working with the poor that “Above all, this is a house of School’s Golden Eagles bas- Guillermo knew during his child- “Something happened at that for the richness of the Gospel and prayer, of interior and constant ketball team and a member hood in El Salvador or the direct Mass,” Juan says with a shake of fosters charity and zeal. Yes, conversation with the Christ, of St. Margaret’s Shrine in suggestion of a parish priest. his head, unable to put the aston- they close a chapter when they which each man will take with Bridgeport, finished his for- “When I was little my grand- ishing, stunning experience of arrive, but they begin a new him wherever he goes.” mation at Redemptoris Mater parents babysat for me and took faith into words. He came home, adventure in faith.” This May, five men have Seminary in Stamford, which me to Mass every morning,” attended a discernment retreat “With our pastoral work in achieved Candidacy for the Diocese operates under the auspices of recalls Juan, describing how as at St. John Fisher, and faced the parishes and on mission trips, we of Bridgeport. At this point, they the Neocatechumenal Way. a small child he would practice difficult prospect of explaining have a chance to see Christ in know where their conversation with “Our family was very active in celebrating Mass for them. The God’s call to his girlfriend. other people,” says André. “It’s a the Lord is leading them. The five the Church, being members of the thought of a priestly vocation Once entering formation, way to take the classroom, what will be confirmed as Candidates for Neocatechumenal Way,” David stayed with him for several years. whether coming straight out of we’re learning, and apply that in the priesthood in a ceremony at St. says, explaining his choice. “This “Then high school hit. Our cul- high school or bringing decades real time.” Augustine Cathedral on Saturday, community opened my eyes to ture doesn’t really promote that.” of life experience, the men begin Their sense of community May 20, at 5:30 pm. the universality of Catholicism, A star baseball player at Norwalk a community life rooted in prayer strengthens as they go out for “At this ceremony, the men showing me that the barriers High, he went on to college and and study. Some will pursue an pizza together or head for a game become official candidates for placed in our society between began a serious, long-term rela- undergraduate degree; others will at Harbor Yard. Sometimes their preparation for the sacrament of race, class, and cultures disinte- tionship with a girl in his class. complete studies of theology and shared enthusiasm is so conta- Holy Orders,” explains Father grate with the Catholic Church.” A visit to his grandparents and philosophy in preparation for gious that people stop and ask John Connaughton, director All five men will be going on a bolt-from-the-blue experience major seminary. Their rule of life where they’re from. of vocations for the Diocese of to major seminaries this fall. changed his trajectory. “I had to includes daily Mass, Adoration “One of the charms of Fisher Bridgeport. “It’s a confirmation The discernment process was take my grandmother to early of the Blessed Sacrament, regular is that we’re from this diocese by the diocese that their discern- different for every man, as was morning Mass,” he recalls. Only conferences with the rector and and we’ll be working in this dio- ment has proved them ready the way they heard God’s call to half awake at that early hour, he spiritual director and days of cese after we’re ordained,” says to begin formal studies for the the priesthood and the amount was astounded when the sacristan recollection, as well as time for André. The friendships begun at priesthood.” of time they spent in formation. beckoned him to help serve at Mass. study, jobs around the house and Fisher may last a lifetime. recreation. “I pray that their time at “To move into this house Fisher has been a gift of grace,” requires courage and humility,” says Father Check. “Above all, says Father Check. “The men I hope that they know and love give up a measure of freedom, Christ with greater trust and con- other good plans and perhaps fidence and greater intensity than even some friends. As they gain when they came.” a sense of the rhythm of priestly (St. John Fisher is located at life, what they discover warms 894 Newfield Ave., Stamford. To their hearts, challenges their intel- make an appointment for a visit, call lects, deepens their appreciation 203.322.5331.) n Admission to Candidacy Because of the number of men who will be going on to major seminary this fall, the formal liturgy of Admission to Candidacy will take place on Saturday, May 20, at 5:30 in St. Augustine Cathedral. All are invited to attend the beautiful ceremony. “This is normally held at St. John Fisher,” explains Father John Connaughton, director of vocations. “We needed a larger venue this year, and what better location than our own cathedral?” The five men have completed formation and are now being sent forth as Candidates for Preparation for the Sacrament of Holy Orders. “The Church is confirming that they have reached this level in their discernment process,” explains Father Connaughton. n 11 May 2017 Vocations Serra Club encourages vocations

By ANNA JONES founded the first Spanish mis- the community is surprised. sions in California. Father Serra “That shouldn’t be some- There have always been was canonized by Pope Francis thing that surprises us,” Father priests for every major moment in 2015. Connaughton said. “It should be in religious life, from baptisms to Serra International has worked seen as a normal thing.” weddings to funerals. But that’s closely with every pope since Support from the Serra a luxury we soon won’t be able Pope Pius XII. Their internation- Club for those considering the to take for granted, said Deacon al convention will take place in priesthood comes in the form of David Flynn, who serves at St. Rome in June, including a private prayer, meetings for coffee, com- Jude Parish in Monroe. audience with Pope Francis. munity meals, attending ordina- “We have to be aware of our Deacon Flynn founded the tion Masses, and being involved role in encouraging vocations,” local Serra Club chapter in 2015 with seminary events, said Thom Deacon Flynn said. “It’s not as a project for his own ordi- Field, the current president of the someone else’s role. Our fellow nation as a deacon that year. It ENCOURAGING VOCATIONS, the Serra Club in Bridgeport celebrated its Serra Club chapter in Bridgeport. Catholics need to be aware of the second anniversary with a Mass and dinner at the St. John Fisher Seminary on celebrated its second anniversary April 19, and is looking to grow its membership. “We have to be aware of our Field said the club has hosted need for priests.” with a Mass and dinner at the St. role in encouraging vocations,” said Deacon David Flynn. “Catholics need to picnics for seminarians and their Deacon Flynn is the founder John Fisher Seminary on April be aware of the need for priests.” families, members have attend- of the Serra Club in Bridgeport, 19, and is looking to grow its ed ordination Masses for new a chapter of the USA Council membership. priests, and each member has a of Serra International. The There are three Serra Clubs director of vocations for the people who God is calling. The calendar with names of priests first Serra Club was founded in in Connecticut: in Bridgeport, Diocese of Bridgeport and chap- priesthood is a life in which they and seminarians who each get 1935 to encourage vocations. Hartford, and Norwich. The goal lain for the Serra Club chapter will be happy.” their own day of prayer through- Serrans are lay Catholics, men of the Serra Club is to promote in this diocese, echoed Deacon He said the Serra Club is all out the year. and women of all ages and from vocations to the priesthood and Flynn’s sentiments of the need about “cultivating a culture of “We are rooting for them as all walks of life. They take their other forms of consecrated reli- for vocations. “Like everywhere vocations” because too often they go through this,” Field said. name from Father Junípero Serra, gious life in the Catholic Church. else, the need for priests here is when a young man announces A prayer calendar for a Franciscan missionary who Father John Connaughton, great,” he said. “We want to help his intentions to become a priest, ➤ continued on page 20 Select Gift Cost Quantity Total Breakfast for the Morning Glory Program $25.00 ______Notebooks, Pencils and Art Supplies for Catholic Schools $25.00 ______Bible for a Seminarian $25.00 ______

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Bridgeport has four campuses in at Woodway Country Club in They also underwrite the Jump Bridgeport: St. Andrew, St. Ann, Darien on April 5. More than 200 Start summer enrichment program St. Augustine, and St. Raphael. guests attended the event, which on the campus of St. Augustine, Because more than 80 percent honored New Canaan resident which offers a stimulating, educa- of its students cannot afford the and St. Aloysius parishioner tional, fun and safe vacation alter- average tuition of $4,800, the Anne-Marie Queally, and which native for current students. Catholic Academy must raise raised more than $225,000 for Guest speaker for the lun- more than $2 million each year financial assistance, technology cheon was Annette Ross, author- for financial assistance, and and professional development ess of Where Fairy Tales Go and receives no Federal or State needs of the Catholic Academy’s mother of five, who recounted money save limited Title II funds. four campuses. her valiant efforts after a life-alter- (To learn more about the Catholic Queally was recognized for her ing medical error during the birth Academy of Bridgeport, visit www. love of the mission of the Catholic of her second child left her unable catholicacademybridgeport.org or call Academy as well as her eagerness to walk. Guests were visibly RECOGNIZED FOR HER LOVE of the mission of Catholic education for 203.362.2990.) n to pass on to youth her strong moved as Ross shared her many inner-city children, Anne-Marie Queally (r) received congratulations from faith and generosity. She and her personal challenges and struggles, Sister Joan Magnetti, rscj, executive director of the Catholic Academy of Inner-City husband, Paul, have supported the as well as what it takes to keep Bridgeport at the Annual Ladies Luncheon. It raised more than $225,000 for from page 7 academy for years, most notably relationships strong in the midst financial assistance, technology and professional development needs of the programs serving the neediest Catholic Academy’s four campuses. (Photo by Amy Mortensen) families in Fairfield County, and this year’s event is particularly of suffering. cheon’s butterfly theme. “Just as important as a cornerstone for “The event was a huge suc- a butterfly can overcome hard- the charity’s 25th Year Appeal. cess” said Sister Joan Magnetti, ship, setback and the confines of The foundation hopes to raise rscj, executive director of the a cocoon to break forth into new $2.5 million with their appeal this Catholic Academy of Bridgeport. life and vision, so too can our year, more than twice what they “We drew the largest number of students and our school,” Sister typically raise in a year. new attendees in our history and Magnetti explained. “We felt it was the right time we were able to surpass our fund- Academy board member Dan to set the bar high,” says Richard raising goal.” Henson and his wife, Lauren, Stone, executive director of the The tagline for the academy generously underwrote the lun- Inner-City Foundation. “Need is is “Something More” and this cheon, and Queally underwrote up, but funding is down. State bud- motto came to life in the lun- signed copies of Ross’ book for get cuts last year had a devastating impact on the most vulnerable members of our community.” Last April more than $70 mil- lion was cut from Connecticut’s state budget. Cuts have hit local education and area “safety net” services hard, with $31 million cut from education funding for . . . municipalities and $40 million it ir Thank you, cut from programs providing p S food, shelter and medical aid. Jubilarians! e Needy children and families have h Daughters of t been especially affected. n i SSND is grateful for your The luncheon is chaired g th oing for generous service to the people of God. by Audrey Dornier, Helen the Holy Spirit FitzPatrick, Janie Gestal, ...from 1706 into the future 75 YEARS Missy O’Shaughnessy, Pam Mary Amalia Menardi Pagnani and Geri Roper, all of Called by the Holy Spirit to bring 70 YEARS Greenwich. The event is gen- Genevieve Marie Kelleher erously sponsored by Chuda, the tenderness of God’s love PHACE BIOACTIVE, and 60 YEARS Richards and the Mitchell Stores. to the children, the sick, the lonely, the hungry, the homeless, Mary Carlann Buscemi Media sponsors include Fairfield Marie Justine Nutz County Look, Greenwich the imprisoned, the neglected, the oppressed, the abandoned Margaret Mary O’Brien Is this your mission? Loreen Spaulding Magazine/Moffly Media, and The Greenwich Sentinel. YES 50 YEARS (For more info on the Inner-City If your answer is , please contact: Eileen Denny Foundation or for tables and tickets Sr. Therese Vanasse, DHS Charlaine Fill to the Ladies Luncheon, visit www. 152 Prospect Street • Moosup, CT 06354-1441 innercityfoundation.org, email com- 860-564-2243 munications@innercityfoundation. Web: daughtersoftheholyspirit.org • Email: [email protected] www.amssnd.org Transforming the world through education org or call 203.416.1363.) n

DHS 4x4 ad Black.pdf 1 1/17/11 2:46 PM 13 May 2017 Christ the King Parish Catholic Academy of Bridgeport raises $225,000 Father Walsh installed TRUMBULL—“Father sales representative for a com- Terrence Walsh is a man with pany that took him to Florida, a great, generous and priestly the Carolinas, the Midwest and heart,” said Bishop Frank J. New York. While working in Caggiano at the installation of New York, he lived in Fairfield Father Walsh as pastor of Christ County and became a member of the King Parish in Trumbull. “He St. Mary Parish in Greenwich. is a man who fixes his eyes on Discerning a call to the priest- the Word of God, a man who hood that had always been on his deeply loves the Lord.” heart, he entered St. John Fisher hearted service, parishioners and priests The people of Christ the King Seminary and was ordained by from St. John’s traveled to Trumbull for needed no encouragement to Bishop William E. Lori in 2004. his installation. welcome their new pastor. Father Father Walsh served at St. “I’m grateful to the bishop for giving Walsh came to the parish as paro- Luke Parish in Westport and St. me this opportunity to come and serve chial vicar on September 1, 2015. John the Evangelist Parish in the parish of Christ the King,” said Father A late vocation, Father Walsh Stamford before coming to Christ Walsh, gaining enthusiastic applause worked for a dozen years as a the King. In a tribute to his kind- from parishioners. n Deacon’s gather at Fairfield U for Convocation “A convocation is an opportu- also provided for a special group for a closing address, evening nity to bring permanent deacons gathering for deacons’ wives. prayer and Mass, which included and their wives together to pray, “The choice to join formation a Renewal of Commitment to share experiences, gain pastoral for the permanent diaconate Diaconal Service. enrichment from talks and small is a cooperative decision by a The day concluded with group sharing and build a greater man with his wife and family,” dinner in the university’s Kelly sense of fraternity,” said Deacon Deacon Cassaneto stresses. “By Center. Anthony Cassaneto, director offering them time to reflect as a “I especially want to thank of deacons for the Diocese of couple, the spiritual orientation of Fairfield University for their Bridgeport. the day was applied to both hus- extremely helpful hospitality,” “A deacon is ordained for the band and wife.” said Deacon Cassaneto. “They whole diocese, not just for his Bishop Frank J. Caggiano provided the perfect venue for the home parish, and this gave us joined the men and their wives convocation.” n time to grow in solidarity and a sense of unity,” he added. PRAYING TOGETHER—Bishop Caggiano joined the permanent deacons The Deacon Convocation was and their wives for a convocation held at Fairfield University. Convocations held at Fairfield University on give deacons a chance to pray, share experiences and build a greater sense of April 22. Father Gerry Blaszczak, fraternity. (Photo by Michelle Babyak) SJ, director of the Center for

Ignatian Spirituality at Fairfield presented the inspirational talks, Saint Pius X Parish focusing on Jesus’ parables of the Rev. Samuel Kachuba, Pastor; Rev. Robert Crofut, Parochial Vicar; Kingdom. “He took his talk from a dif- Rev. Msgr. Ernest Esposito, Priest in Residence ferent perspective than you would 834 Brookside Drive, Fairfield • www.st-pius.org • 203.255.6134 normally hear,” says Deacon Cassaneto. “He gave it a diaconal viewpoint, looking at the ways The Parish Family of St. Pius X we serve the Church.” “We need to contemplate Jesus’ way of acting, and to lead congratulates our parishes and our people, so often overburdened by the stress the newly ordained of everyday life, to the refresh- for the Diocese of Bridgeport! ment and ease of the Lord’s yoke,” Father Blaszczak said, emphasizing the purpose of the We extend our heartfelt gratitude day. Following each presentation, for saying “yes” to the call to Priesthood. deacons and their wives took time for personal prayer and Be assured of our prayers, reflection, then joined in small St. Pius X Parish group sharing before coming together in a large group. The day 14 May 2017 EDITORIAL EDITOR’S CHOICE All of us Students ‘traveled the world’ People have a natural tendency to create categories. It’s the way our brains make sense out of the world. Sometimes, though, that useful NORWALK—All Saints tendency is mistaken. Catholic School celebrated its Take an easy question: Who does the Lord call to carry his word Fifth Annual International Night into the world? The first answer is all of us, of course. But to break it on April 26. down into more comfortable categories—who does he call specifically “This event provided a first- to serve him in the priesthood and religious life? hand look at the diversity of As you read the vocations articles in this issue, one thing stands our school population, and is out—aside from the call of the Lord, there is no common thread. They designed to promote the impor- were sports stars and engineers; straight out of high school or married tance of multiculturalism and with children; from devout families or families with no faith at all. tolerance in our school and While this issue is devoted to priestly vocations, women and men in in our children’s education,” religious orders come from equally diverse backgrounds. A Sister may explained foreign language teach- have been a sales rep, a biologist or a journalist. Religious Brothers er Margaret Perez. have been tailors and teachers. Their talents are as varied as their back- More than 30 countries from grounds, and each has an unexpected story to tell. every continent were represent- Next time your brain tries to tuck a priest or women religious into ed. Families of All Saints stu- a neat category, take time to look beyond the collar or the habit. Talk dents prepared their own tables, to them—and more importantly, listen. You’ll discover that they were featuring food and artifacts from called by the Lord because they are exactly like all of us. each country, and were proud to showcase and share their heritage. On Silence The event included food, music At a time when we live with the constant background noise of the culture and entertainment, including tradi- and many people feel unrestrained in the comments they make on social media tional dances and a fashion show. and other forums, Bishop Caggiano offers us some thoughts on silence and The students worked hard and acceptance. His reflections were occasioned by his recent trip to Ireland, where were involved in all preparations he was invited to lead a day of prayer and reflection for young people from for the event, including the fun in the event, from the excitement the different countries and found schools throughout County Cork. While in Ireland, he stayed with the monks parts like decorations and dance of planning until the last dish was out facts about each one. Then of Mount Melleray Abbey. recitals but also the hard work of cleared away. they returned to the “Passport “The monks of Mount Melleray Abbey have been very gracious to wel- set-ups and clean up. On International Night, the Station” to have their passport come me into their monastery while I am visiting Ireland. To share in their They truly enjoy participating “young world travelers” visited stamped with the country’s flag.n daily life is a great privilege because it has reminded me of many important spiritual lessons. Chief among them is the great blessing of silence. “The monks maintain silence during their normal activities, includ- ing during meals. As I sat in the refectory this morning sharing break- CLERGYAPPOINTMENT fast with two other monks, we all sat in quiet. It was a beautiful and peaceful time when I felt very much connected with them without the The Most Reverend Frank J. Caggiano, Bishop of Bridgeport, use of any words. After they left to attend to other chores, I stayed has made the following clergy appointments in the Diocese of Bridgeport: behind enjoying the quiet as I reviewed the remarks that I plan to share with the students who will attend today’s retreat. Afterwards, I contin- ued to sit at the table in silence with the Lord. Residence Other REVEREND CHARLES “In my ordinary life, I often experience great trouble silencing my REVEREND GRAZIOSO REVEREND DONALD IKWUEGBU, Chaplain to Saint mouth, mind and heart. I allow myself to become preoccupied with so ARTUSO, Retired, Italy to ANYAGWA, Chaplain to Vincent’s Medical Center to home many worries, questions and even fears. This morning, while sitting in Catherine Dennis Keefe Queen of Stamford Hospital to home Archdiocese of Owerri, Nigeria. silence for nearly two hours, the Lord gently reminded me that I have the Clergy Residence, Stamford. Archdiocese of Owerri, Nigeria. Effective date was April 30. nothing to fear or worry about. He is in charge, not me. When I need Effective date was April 1. Effective date was April 24. Monsignor Thomas W. Powers, words, he will grant them. When I worry, he will take the lead. When Vicar General, May, 2017 I am afraid, he will guide me to do what he wills. The only thing I need to do is remain in the silence. “It is only in silence that you and I can hear the Lord speaking clearly and directly to our hearts, minds and spirits. This morning I was reminded Most Reverend Frank J. 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always thinking the worst, won- experience in ministry,” he con- ture I encounter is Luke 14:11— ders if my first job in the Catholic tinues. “Do you have any interest “For everyone who exalts himself A Woman’s Voice Church is coming to an abrupt end. in campus ministry?” will be humbled, but the one who “Come in,” says Father Bob, “You mean as an assistant humbles himself will be exalted.” By Carlene Joan Demiany spinning around in his chair. He faces chaplain, here?” I ask, slowly put- I close my eyes and remember me with a smile and brown eyes twin- ting it together. once questioning this. Really, Jesus? kling. “And, please shut the door.” “Yes.” Then why do we live in a society I shut the door and hover I sit in stunned silence. I had where those who exalt themselves Carlene Demiany is an assistant in the corner of his office. He never even considered applying seem to gain all the power? chaplain at St. Thomas More, the doesn’t look upset, I think. But for the assistant chaplain job. It But, suddenly in that moment, Catholic chapel at Yale University. then, why am I here? was a job everyone seemed to something shifts. That scriptural “Take a seat,” he encourages, want, a job that received so many promise of old becomes real. Peace “And, would you like some water?” applications, a job I considered flows within, the kind of peace that he internal line on my Pastoral Programs Manager at “All right,” I respond, trying beyond my reach. only results when someone you office phone beeps— St. Thomas More, the Catholic to be polite. But, my throat feels “Do you have any interest in love has kept a promise. In my Father Bob’s name flashes Chapel and Center at Yale so dry, I don’t know if I can swal- campus ministry?” Father Bob humility, Jesus has worked through Tacross my phone screen. I University, for three days. Why is low anything. I take a seat in one repeats, lifting his Yale glass and Father Bob to exalt me. drop my pencil. Three days on the he calling me into his office? of his office chairs. taking a sip of water. “Thank you, Jesus,” I say, job, and the boss is already calling. As I walk towards his office, He sets the water glasses on “Yes, yes,” I answer, nodding fast. with eyes closed and head bowed The anxious part of me wonders if I walk with doubt in my mind. I the table. I stare at their “Lux et “All right,” he responds, look- over my desk. “Thank you for I have done something wrong. hear the voices of those question- Veritas” Yale insignia. Father ing at me and smiling. “How granting Father Bob the grace to The phone beeps again. I grab it ing my decision to take this job. Bob sits down, folds his hands, about we each take some time to see me. Please grant this gift to and hold it firmly against my ear. You have two degrees equipping and eyes me closely. pray about this?” all priests and Church leaders, so “Hi, Father Bob,” I say, trying you for professional ministry, I smile weakly. “That sounds good,” I reply, that through them your promise to sound normal. why take a job more administra- “I just spent the last few hours still somewhat shocked by this of exalting the humble might find “Hi, Carlene,” he replies. “Will tive than pastoral? Why take a in prayer,” he begins, “And, I unexpected turn of events. fulfillment.” you come see me in my office?” job for which you are overquali- want to know—do you have any I pick up my nearly full water And, now I offer this prayer “Okay.” fied? My answer—I have a sense interest in being an assistant chap- glass, open the door, and return to my for myself, as I continue in my I hang up the phone, crack God wants me in this job. lain, here at St. Thomas More?” office. I try to focus on my work— leadership position as an assistant my knuckles, swirl around in Two of my knuckles knock “What?” I gape, leaning for- editing our small church community chaplain at St. Thomas More, my chair. Why does Father Bob weakly on Father Bob’s open office ward in my chair. journal for the fall semester. blessed to learn from the prayer- want to see me? I have been the door. The anxious part of me, “Well, you have degrees and I turn the page. The next scrip- ful guidance of Father Bob. n Not if you have to force it

ing in my arms. He has only a planned a backup column. her as she received the Blessed month for every one of Lilly’s Funny how this racket works. Sacrament for the first time. A Dad’s View years. I wanted him to sleep so I So much of what ends up in the We may have gotten to that, but could do the interview. newspaper under Hennessey’s I made a rookie mistake. I started By Matthew Hennessey “I’m just saying,” Maura name actually belongs to some- with a “yes” or “no” question. shrugged. “It’s a free country is all.” one else. The columnist can’t “Were you excited when you My plan wasn’t to corner Lilly help taking and using what he got up this morning knowing that with a bunch of questions about sees and hears. Sometimes he you were going to have such a Matthew Hennessey the real presence of Christ in the does it without permission. special day?” and his family are parishioners Eucharist. This child comes from It’s a wonder he hasn’t been “Yup,” answered Lilly. And of St. Aloysius in New Canaan. a superb Catholic family, as well punched in the nose. The day then—Zoom! Swoosh!—inter- catechized and as exemplary of may yet come. view over. Off she flew, a vision, the living faith as any I’ve met. I The problem is that while all wild-haired and barefoot. oor Lilly Grace. She Hennessey trying to ask her ques- was going to start with a few casu- newspapers are published on a Somewhere a tray of watermelon was only trying to enjoy tions for his newspaper column. al inquiries about the party and deadline, the best ideas pop up out slices was waiting. A frog had a Saturday afternoon “I’m going to try to interview then sidle on to more pious things. of nowhere, like rabbits vamoos- reportedly been discovered down Pin her own backyard. Lilly. Is that okay with you?” I “Do you think she’ll talk to ing from their holes. When a by the brook. It’s a free country It was the day of her first Holy asked her mother, Maura. She is me?” I quizzed her father, Eddie, nine-year old makes an offhand is all. Communion, a blessing that the kind of Yonkers-Irish hostess a man whose unflappable good philosophical comment at a back- I went back to bouncing baby comes but once in a lifetime. And who makes you feel like you humor is legendary in the parish. yard party, you know you’ve got Billy on my lap, and wondering it wasn’t the only blessing. are the only person at the party Though surrounded by strong the makings of a column. When what I was going to write about. The sun was shining, kids like who matters. She also knows a women, he bears up manfully. In you’re running around trying to The whole thing served me right. her were being left to their own few Wolfe Tones songs, which addition to Lilly and Maura are manufacture philosophy, well, the I don’t know what I was devices, and no one was guarding earns her a double shamrock in the 12 year-old twins, Anna and magic just isn’t there. thinking, poking around, trying the cake. How often does that Hennessey’s book. Noelle, die-hard Giants fans who As expected, Lilly played it to make rabbits jump up out of happen? “Okay with me,” she replied. possess a remarkable inner light close to the vest. We go way holes. It was Lilly’s day, not On such an occasion, “If she’ll talk.” in the way that twins, who are back, having met when she was mine, and some things are so nine-year-old Lilly deserved “What do you mean, ‘if’?” I never alone, often do. two. I’d hoped our long history beautiful and so right that they every blessing that the Lord said. “She knows me. I’m not “I don’t know,” Eddie said. of high-fives in the narthex meant can’t be put it into words. Or, had bestowed upon her. She scary, am I?” “She might. Give it a shot.” I was she’d open right up to me about maybe they can, but not if you didn’t deserve to have old Mr. I looked to baby Billy, bounc- starting to think I should have the quiet grace that came over have to force it. n 16 May 2017 St. Paul Parish Matthew Kelly speaks on ‘Living with Passion’

By RON KUZLIK Kelly founded the Dynamic attention when those decisions Catholic Institute in 2009, with were made.” St. Paul Parish in Greenwich a mission to re-energize the The next group he expects hosted internationally acclaimed Catholic Church in America by to see is the older than 55 set. Catholic speaker and author developing world-class resources “These people are thinking about Matthew Kelly April 8. Kelly’s that inspire people to rediscover what comes next. They’re more work has appeared in the New the genius of Catholicism. aware that they are actually LIVE EVERY DAY WITH PASSION—Several hundred men and women turned out at St. Paul’s in Greenwich recently to hear author and inspirational York Times, USA Today and Anne Farb is on the St. Paul’s pilgrims passing through this speaker Matthew Kelly reflect on living with faith and passion. Kelly is the The Wall Street Journal, and parish council. “About two place.” founder of Dynamic Catholic Institute. (Photo by Amy Mortensen) he speaks at events across the years ago, we started researching He’s always surprised when, United States and Canada each events that we can host during as frequently happens, “I look out year. He has been in the Diocese Lent,” she said. “We contact- there and see kids 10 or 12-years Fulshear, Tex., about 40 miles As Kelly said, “We need a of Bridgeport before, but this ed Dynamic Catholic to see if old. After talking with them, I west of Houston, to hear Kelly’s game changer. We need to be is the first time he brought his Matthew was available to come learn that they’ve read a couple of message. “It’s all part of the engaged—pray about it and see “Living Every Day With Passion to St.. Paul’s. Matthew is won- the books, or listen to the CDs on transformation. Matthew is just what God wants us to do.” and Purpose” message to St. derful, he is amazing.” the way to school. They just get so practical and I’ve learned so (More information on Dynamic Paul’s. According to St. Paul’s pas- the message. And I love that!” much more about my faith and Catholic Institute can be found at Several hundred people filled tor, Father Leszek Szymaszek, Chloe Banino is a sev- how to live it.” http://dynamiccatholic.com.) n the parish center to hear Kelly’s “Matthew Kelly is a layman, and enth grader from Immaculate message. people don’t hear from a layman Conception Parish in Irvington, “God wants us to be a phe- what you hear from the pulpit on N.Y. She became aware of Kelly nomenal decision maker,” said Sundays. This is what makes him while her mother listened to his Kelly. “We learn to make great so popular.” CDs. “It was really interesting. decisions by getting clear about According to Kelly, the prima- The way he speaks is very engag- ChristLife who we are, what we’re here for, ry audience for his talks is folks ing. So I wanted to come and and what matters most and what 35 to 55 years of age. “This tends hear him in person.” matters least. The world doesn’t to be the time in people’s lives “I first read his book, Resisting Evangelization give us the answers to these ques- when they are trying to work out Happiness, when our pastor was tions. We have to have a daily life. They’ve made most major passing it out in our parish,” Training habit of taking a few minutes for life decisions and they’re strug- Lanh Tran said. She and her prayer and reflection so we can gling to live with them, especially husband, Hieu Nguyen, trav- BRIDGEPORT—A two-day training conference offered by become a great decision maker.” if they didn’t give that much elled from St. Faustina Parish in ChristLife Catholic Ministry for Evangelization will be offered on June 9-10, and is open to all parishes. Patrick Turner, director of Strategic and Pastoral Planning, said the site for the workshop will be determined based on the Attention Educators! number and location of participating parishes. Please join us for Fairfield County Catholic’s special upcoming Education issues “We are very excited to bring this resource to Fairfield County and encourage you to participate to help fulfill the goals Make your ad pop add 4-color for just $150! identified in the pastoral planning process,” he said, adding that representatives from ChristLife had been in the diocese in June Issue—Graduation, copy due: June 1; in homes: June 17 February for several information sessions. “Based on those ses- sions, at least eight parishes have expressed interest in utilizing July/August Issue—Back to School/Health, copy due: July 6; in homes: July 22 the ChristLife series for parish evangelization and small group faith sharing. September Issue—Back to School, copy due: August 18; in homes: September 2 ChristLife.org, based in Baltimore, Md., equips Catholics for the essential work of evangelization, helping individuals October Issue—Open House, copy due: September 21; in homes: October 7 personally encounter Jesus Christ and be transformed into his missionary disciples. The ministry partners with parishes, priests, 10% off second consecutive ad deacons, religious and lay leaders who are seeking to answer the Book three of the four issues for extra discounting! Church’s call for the new evangelization through a proven meth- 25% off Web Advertising when combined with print. od of parish evangelization and outreach. “They have developed the ChristLife Series to help all peo- Please reserve your space early by calling ple discover, follow, and share Jesus Christ as members of the Ralph Lazzaro 203.667.1622 or email [email protected]. Catholic Church,” Turner said. The approximate cost per parish for the training conference and the materials needed to participate in the seven-week Fall Thank you! 2017 Discovering Christ series will be $1,500. The cost will be less as more parishes participate. (Anyone interested in learning more about ChristLife will find a brief introduction video at https://christlife.org. Those interested in partici- pating in the ChristLife Evangelization training conference can contact Patrick Turner: [email protected] or 203.416.1633, or Father Peter Towsley: [email protected] or 203.748.9029.) n 17 May 2017 Immaculate High School, Danbury Gala honors Casey, Rosenblum At its Annual Spring Gala on April 1, Immaculate High School (IHS) in Danbury hon- ored Kathleen Casey and Jennifer Rosenblum for their support and com- mitment to Immaculate, Catholic education and their communities.

With 320 guests and numerous sponsors and donors, “A Night of Magic and Intrigue” raised $140,000 in total to support the Kathleen and Chris Casey Jennifer and Sam Rosenblum school’s continued efforts to afford an opportunity for students to experience an excellent col- efforts to raise monies needed for Recipients have served the school Sports Club and of the IHS Gala would not have been the lege-preparatory program. scholarships and capital projects; community and have directly Enrollment Committee, and great success that it was,” said The event was held at the they epitomize our slogan, Once aided IHS students in striving to also launched the annual IHS Debbie Basile, director of advance- Amber Room Colonnade in a Mustang, Always a Mustang.” be the best they can be both in Grandparents and Special ment. “Together, our sponsors, Danbury and featured a profes- Kathleen Casey was the first and out of school. Rosenblum Persons Day event. She is the donors, committee and other vol- sional magic performance by IHS female leader in education to has made vast volunteer con- proud mother of Immaculate unteers ensured that the gala was alumnus Tom Pesce ‘99 as well receive the Nancy K. Dolan tributions to Immaculate High High School alumni Samantha not only a fun, magical evening, as dancing and silent and live Leadership Award. Nancy School, including serving as ‘14 and Andrew ‘15. but helped raise over $140,000 to auctions. Lucky guests “won” Dolan was the first chair of president of the Immaculate High “Without the help of our gen- support Immaculate High School’s trips to Napa Valley and Disney, the Immaculate High School School Parent Association and erous sponsors and the volunteer academic and extracurricular pro- lobster bakes, gourmet barbecues, Advisory Board and a strong as a member of the Hospitality committee led by chair Bonnie grams that provide students with wine tastings, baskets full of priz- community leader committed to Committee, the Mustang All Zuccala, Immaculate’s Spring an excellent education.” n es, signed sports memorabilia and Catholic education and commu- more. nity service. Casey’s leadership The winner of the $10,000 roles included service as presi- Appeal from page 4 cash raffle prize was Terry dent of Immaculate from 2008 Tortora of Newtown; raffle ticket to 2014, and then as associate the Leadership Institute, the Melaragno of Fairfield; Carol give a gift to the Annual Catholic proceeds benefit programs for superintendent of schools for the Parish Planning Process, and the and Conrad Calandra of Shelton; Appeal, we continue the Gospel IHS students. Diocese of Bridgeport. Prior to Catholic Service Corps,” she said. Anne LeClercq of Danbury; and message and make a difference “On behalf of Immaculate joining IHS, she began her career “Donors should be proud Angelo Cocco of Bridgeport. in the lives of those around us,” High School, I would like to in Catholic education at Holy to know that their gifts support She said they have done a tre- Rittman said. thank the many people and orga- Redeemer Catholic School in this important work and positive mendous job explaining the The Pastors’ Advisory nizations that continuously sup- Alpharetta, Georgia, and then at change in our diocese. I can’t appeal at the parish level and Committee (PAC) for the port us and help us remain rated St. Thomas Aquinas Elementary imagine where the diocese would encouraging others to give. Appeal is led by Msgr. Laurence as one of the top Catholic high School in Fairfield. be without these programs. They Rittman said the vicariate Bronkiewicz, chair, and Father schools in Connecticut and in the Jennifer Rosenblum received have brought hope and renewal. chairs give witness to the larger Reginald Norman, vice chair. top 50 percent nationally,” said the Immaculate High School Rittman credits the positive scale of the diocesan programs The committee meets throughout Mary Maloney, Immaculate’s Distinguished Service Award, response to this year’s campaign and encourage the faithful to look the year to discuss strategy. president. “Additionally, our which recognizes individuals to chair couple Elena and Steve beyond the parish boundaries Rittman said there are many alumni have become increasing- who aid and support IHS and Schlegel of New Canaan and vice and see the needs assisted by ways to give to the appeal that ly involved with Immaculate’s its young men and women. chair couple Carol and Conrad the Church throughout Fairfield include online giving and the Calandra of Shelton. County. new “Text to Give” program. If “Many people say that ‘I give Text to Donate from page 4 “They’ve been all over the parishioners work for a company diocese working tirelessly to shine to my parish so I don’t need with a matching gifts program per month on ongoing activities,” Donate is one more way we can a light on the good work of the to give to the appeal,’ but they she encourages them to inquire she said. However, the donor’s encourage people to make their appeal and to encourage others don’t realize the appeal gives the about it, particularly if their phone number is used only to gift to the appeal to expand to give.” diocese the ability to reach out appeal gifts are designed toward make donating as easy as possi- and continue to meet the needs Rittman also praised the beyond the means of any given supporting Catholic Charities and ble. It will never be sold, traded, of our parishioners and the vicariate (now deanery) chairs, parish and provide programs of education. or shared. Church. Thank you for support- a new addition to this year’s outreach and charity, while also “We are grateful for support, “The diocese has made great ing the 2017 Annual Catholic campaign, who have helped to fulfilling its major mission in edu- no matter what level you give,” strides in engaging parishioners Appeal.” get the word out across the dio- cation, vocations, catechesis and she added. in digital communications and (For more information or to cese. This year’s team includes: social and pastoral services. (For more information on is providing the Gospel to peo- donate to the Annual Catholic Jennifer and Kevin Keating of “The parish alone cannot programs and ways to give, go to ple in ways that is transforma- Appeal, contact Pam Rittman: pritt- Darien; Sue and John Steitz support all these programs effec- www.2017ACAbridgeport.com or call tive,” Rittman added. “Text to [email protected] or 203.416.1479.) n of Wilton; Roxanne and Jason tively, but together, when you 203.416.1470.) n 18 May 2017 Health and Social Service Bringing Pro-Life Healthcare to Stamford STAMFORD—Plans for estab- ly based fertility management that ultrasound, as well as social ser- lishing a Comprehensive Women’s is totally natural and enhances vices and a small chapel within Healthcare Center that upholds the health; the clinic. dignity of women and promotes Place women’s reproductive “The presence of the Holy the Culture of Life were unveiled healthcare in the proper context Eucharist changes everything. in an informational meeting at of the total person’s physical, psy- Women coming into the Bella Basilica of St John the Evangelist chological and spiritual health. clinic sense that there is some- in Stamford on April 27. The team explained that this thing different about the place, a The organizers of this proj- need for a Catholic Women’s sense of hope and love,” Noelle ect, Noelle Gross of the Basilica healthcare center became appar- said of her visit there. parish and Tom Amann of St. ent in assessing women’s needs “Open to all women, Catholic Gabriel’s parish made the case for during hundreds of hours of side- and non-Catholic alike, this life-af- a Catholic approach to Women’s walk counseling outside Planned firming approach to healthcare Healthcare as a much needed Parenthood. “Many women will be a true gift to our diocese,” alternative to the destructive would like a better option, and Noelle said. “A community effort, the beauty of a shared work, can and dismissive approach that is would be empowered to choose TO OFFER A MUCH-NEEDED alternative to women’s health care, plans for currently on offer in most med- life and choose a different path a Comprehensive Women’s Healthcare Center were unveiled in an informa- make this vision a reality.” ical practices and at Planned for themselves, but do not know tional meeting at Basilica of St John the Evangelist in Stamford on April 27. The founding team is actively Parenthood, under the guise of where to turn for real help, nor seeking help in finding medical “healthcare.” With the blessing do they receive life-affirming sup- staffing, people with counseling and support of Bishop Frank J. port from their healthcare provid- Planned Parenthood gave way with pro-life, pro-woman meth- expertise, community clinic man- Caggiano, the team outlined a ers,” observed Noelle. “To truly to the realization that the Holy ods developed by the Paul VI agement and billing, assistance vision of cutting edge Catholic help the women that we are able Spirit was calling for action. Institute as well as more recent in establishing a donor base and healthcare: to reach through sidewalk coun- With prayer and extensive due clinical delivery models like interested donors, in order to Provide care that affirms the seling, the resources to meet their diligence, Noelle studied and vis- the Bella Clinic in Denver and build the medical clinic. dignity of life at every stage; needs must be in place.” ited existing Catholic Healthcare Guiding Star in Tampa, the clinic (For more information or to offer Empower women to appreci- Moments of discouragement clinics around the country to find would offer primary and gyneco- assistance in forming the Women’s ate their fertility as a unique gift, and frustration about not having a model that would best suit the logic care, emergency/crisis preg- Healthcare Center, contact Noelle rather than a disease state; a life-affirming healthcare sub- needs of Fairfield County. Based nancy care with availability of Gross: 857.345.0808 or noelle.gross@ Offer education in scientifical- stitute for the women entering on decades of clinical experience abortion pill reversal, and onsite gmail.com.) n NCC’s Celebrity Breakfast a smashing success

By ELLEN MCGINNESS Dr. Donna Shalala, the keynote morning, John Gutman, execu- and stocks them on the NCC you know that YOU are my speaker. Kearns then turned tive director of New Covenant food pantry shelves. arms?” New Covenant Center’s over the microphone to Walter Center, presented John Lodato “Johnny is a dedicated, pas- Lodato looked at the crowd 13th Annual Celebrity McNulty, Sr., the youngest living with the Founder’s Award for his sionate and selfless individual and said, “That’s what we vol- Breakfast was one of the most veteran of World War II, who twenty years of volunteerism at who helps us without reservation unteers are…his arms.” successful ones yet! A sold- led the audience in singing the the center. Lodato, now 91 years and for that we are grateful,” Keynote speaker Dr. out crowd of nearly 300 peo- National Anthem. old, regularly picks up groceries Gutman said. Donna Shalala, president ple turned out at Woodway During a highlight of the at the Food Bank, then delivers The program brought polit- of the Clinton Foundation, Country Club in Darien on ical star power too. Stamford engaged the audience with April 19 to show support for Mayor David Martin took the stories from her experiences New Covenant Center’s mis- podium to announce that April in the fields of education and sion of feeding the hungry and 19 had been officially proclaimed human services. In a one-on- helping those in need. With “John Lodato Day” in the city one interview on the stage, Al an almost 50 percent increase of Stamford, and United States Barber asked Shalala who she in sponsors and a 25 percent Senator Richard Blumenthal thought was most responsible increase in donations from last awarded a Certificate of Special for looking out for the mar- year, the event was an amaz- Recognition to Lodato for his ginalized in society. Without ing success. “extraordinary service to the state hesitation, Shalala replied that “We raised $115,000—a of Connecticut.” “The social safety net depends record for that event,” said Al In his acceptance speech, on us, the people. The Judeo- Barber, president of Catholic Lodato recounted how, while Christian heritage is all about Charities. cleaning up a church property giving back to the community, Celebrity Breakfast co-chair years ago, he came across a which is a responsibility for all and New Covenant Center statue of Jesus that was miss- of us.” Advisory Board chair, Ed ing both arms. Repeatedly, he (For more information on RECIPIENT OF THE FOUNDER’S AWARD—Long-time New Covenant Kearns, opened the event Center volunteer, ninety-one year old John Lodato was presented the Founder’s asked himself, “What is any- how to get involved with New by thanking everyone in the Award at the 13th Annual Celebrity Breakfast held at Woodway Country Club one going to do with a statute Covenant Center, visit www. room and acknowledging John in Darien. Stamford Mayor David Martin also proclaimed April 19 at “John of Jesus with no arms?” Then NewCovenantCenter.org or contact Lodato, the recipient of the Lodato Day.” suddenly he heard a voice in his John Gutman: 203.964.8228, ext. Founder’s Award, as well as head which said, “John, don’t 401, or [email protected].) n 19 May 2017 Divine Mercy Mass A ‘blessing’ for the diocese BRIDGEPORT—A diverse lives and to ask his grace to gathering of almost 800 people become his missionary disciples filled St. Augustine Cathedral on of mercy in the world.” a beautiful Spring afternoon for In his homily, the bishop the Divine Mercy Sunday Mass reflected on Jesus’ invitation celebrated by Bishop Frank J. to Thomas to touch his hands Caggiano. and side in contrast to his tell- “I had the privilege of celebrat- ing Mary Magdalene to go and ing our annual Diocesan Mass announce his Resurrection to in honor of Divine Mercy with a the Apostles. He said the Lord upon Christ, who remain faithful to Christ.” cathedral filled to capacity with gave each different commands will give each of us After Mass the bishop pro- people of every age, culture and because he offers each of us whatever we need to cessed outside the cathedral background, from every corner of “what we individually need to one day share in his and led the recitation of the the diocese. It was a true bless- accept him in faith and love him Resurrected Life,” he Divine Mercy Chaplet at an ing,” said Bishop Caggiano. more deeply.” to emphasize the differences said. “The differences between outdoor shrine donated by the “We came together to give “His gifts are not equal but between what I and someone us are not important if we Vietnamese community. A thanks to the Lord for his mer- tailored to our personal needs. else may receive. Rather, we remember that the destination is reception followed in the Kolbe ciful, forgiving love in our own Our attention must not be drawn must all keep our eyes fixed the same for all who believe and Cathedral gymnasium. n Fatima children to be canonized VATICAN CITY (CNS)— apparitions May 13. Cardinal Angelo Amato, anniversary of the Marian appa- died April 4, 1919, at the age of Pope Francis will declare the The date was announced on prefect of the Congregation for ritions, which began on May 13, 10, while Jacinta succumbed to sainthood of Blessed Jacinta Marto April 20 during an “ordinary pub- Saints’ Causes, addressing the 1917, when 9-year-old Francisco her illness February 20, 1920, at and Blessed Francisco Marto, two lic consistory,” a meeting of the assembly noted that, “In our time, and 7-year-old Jacinta, along with the age of nine. Pope John Paul II of the shepherd children who saw pope, cardinals and promoters of when young people often become their cousin Lucia dos Santos, declared them venerable in 1989 Our Lady in Fatima, Portugal, sainthood causes that formally objects of exploitation and com- reported seeing the Virgin Mary. and beatified them in 2000. during his visit to the site of the ends the sainthood process. merce, these young people excel The apparitions continued once a The children’s cousin, Lucia, as witnesses of truth and freedom, month until October 13, 1917. entered the Carmelites. Sister Lucia messengers of peace and of a new A year after the apparitions, died in 2005 at the age of 97. The humanity reconciled in love.” both of the Marto children became diocesan phase of her sainthood Pope Francis will preside over ill during an influenza epidemic cause has concluded and now is NCC’s Celebrity Breakfast a smashing success the canonization ceremony of that plagued Europe. 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By DR. FRANCIS DE STEFANO a bird. I know that the tradi- tional image of a dove given us Reading 1: Acts 2: 1-11 by Christian artists is probably Reading II: 1 Corinthians ingrained in all of us. It is hard 12: 3b-7, 12-13 to portray a purely spiritual Gospel: John 20: 19-23. being in art, for a spirit has no (Receive the Holy Spirit) body to paint or sculpt. In one Gospel passage the movement of In today’s first reading from the Holy Spirit is likened to the the Acts of the Apostles, St. Luke fluttering flight of a dove and so gives us the well-known account I guess the early artists used the of the extraordinary appearance of dove as a kind of artistic short- the Holy Spirit to the Apostles in hand. the upper room. The Apostles had Speaking about images, I gathered together for the Jewish have to confess that as a child I feast of Pentecost, a feast which thought that the “tongues as of commemorated the giving of the fire” that rested on the Apostles But in today’s readings we see kinds of spiritual gifts but the cious, bad, mean-spirited, offen- law to Moses on Mount Sinai. at Pentecost were actually human that although we cannot see or same Lord; there are different sive, unfaithful, immodest, waste- The week after Pentecost, June tongues on fire. It took me feel or hear the Spirit of God, he workings but the same God who ful, or promiscuous? 11 this year, we will celebrate years before I realized that the dwells in us and works through produces all of them in everyone” We don’t need miraculous, the feast of the Holy Trinity. “tongues” were actually similar us. St. Luke says of the Apostles (1 Corinthians 12:4-6). mystical, or ghostly experiences But Pentecost is about the Third to the darting flames that we “they were all filled with the Then, talking to us as well as to encounter the Spirit today. Person of the Trinity, the Holy would see in our own fireplaces. Holy Spirit.” to the Corinthians, Paul says that After all, we have all received Spirit. Let’s start out by clearing Also back then it was more com- So who or what is the Holy to “each individual the manifesta- the Spirit at Confirmation. Right up a few misconceptions that mon to refer to the Holy Spirit as Spirit? First, let’s think about the tion of the Spirit is given for some after Pentecost, the Apostles saw some of us may have about the the Holy Ghost, which only con- word “spirit.” In my bedroom benefit.” In other words, we all that it was necessary not only to Holy Spirit. jured up images from Abbott and there is a picture of me as an have a role to play in bringing the preach the Word but also to lay First of all, the Spirit is not Costello movies. infant. Next to it is a picture of Spirit of God to each other. their hands on all the baptized in me as a young man taken a short What are the signs that the order that the Spirit might dwell while after my wedding day. Spirit dwells in us? In years past in them. Generation after genera- Next to that I can look into the we used to speak of the fruits tion have continued this practice. mirror and behold a senior citi- of the Holy Spirit. If you pick a Every Confirmation is a kind of zen. Which of these three pictures fruit from a tree and it tastes and Pentecost. is me? I guess that even though I smells and feels like an apple, Even though the Apostles look different, they all are me. In then you can conclude that it’s had walked with the Lord and other words, my “spirit” is in all an apple tree. The same goes for had seen his risen body, they still of them. My spirit is the real me. a peach or pear tree. In his letter needed to receive his Spirit before Another word for spirit is “soul,” to the Galatians, St. Paul lists they could leave the upper room a word that is somewhat out of the fruits or signs of the Spirit as and go out and face the world. St. Catholic Cemeteries fashion today. love, joy, peace, patience, kind- Paul says the same for us. Diocese of Bridgeport So when Jesus, on the evening ness, goodness, generosity, faith, of that Easter Sunday after he gentleness and chastity. “For those who are led by the Pre-planning your final resting place  rose from the dead, breathed on Some of these words might Spirit of God are sons of God. will give you and your family peace of mind the Apostles, and said, “Receive sound outdated to us today but For you did not receive a spirit the Holy Spirit,” he was giving we surely get the general idea. of slavery to fall back into fear, Purchasing a crypt in advance affords you the opportunity them his own self or spirit. He Who would not want to receive but you received a Spirit of to have up to two years to pay interest free also makes it clear that he is send- the Holy Spirit? Would we want adoption, ing them to continue the work to be uncharitable, miserable, through whom we cry, Abba, that his Father had sent him to quarrelsome, impatient, mali- Father!” (Romans 8:14-15) n Crypts are available at the following cemeteries: do. “As the Father has sent me, St. Michael Cemetery St. John Cemetery so I send you.” His Spirit will Serra Club from page 11 2205 Stratford Avenue 223 Richards Avenue give them the strength and cour- Stratford, Connecticut Norwalk, Connecticut age to continue the work. seminarians and priests can tion came later in life, Deacon 203.378.0404 203.838.4271 Fifty days later he comes to be found on the Serra Club of Flynn feels he can be empathetic them again in the roaring wind Bridgeport website or on their with those discerning religious life St. Mary — Putnam Cemetery and in tongues of fire. Facebook and Twitter pages. and the priesthood. Being a mem- 399 North Street If we can’t see or feel or hear Field has big dreams for the ber of the Serra Club is just being Greenwich, Connecticut the Spirit, how do we know that group’s future. “It’s my goal as willing to walk with someone on 203.869.4828 he dwells in us? As Christians we president to increase the size of their journey, he said. have to learn to read the signs. the club by 50 percent this year,” “It’s as simple as mentoring to By choosing a Catholic Cemetery, one selects a final resting place Just as the shipwrecked Robinson he said. The group began with a young man or woman as they that reflects the beliefs and values from life’s personal journey. Crusoe knew that there was about 30 members. Field would think about the priesthood or reli- It is a resting place that is sacred and shared with all believers another man on his lonely island also like to continue to reach out gious life,” he said. “We’ve been awaiting the resurrection of the dead and the promise of everlasting life. when he beheld his footprints, we to youth groups and altar servers working hard to make an impact will know the Spirit by his signs. to talk to them about vocations to on creating an understanding St. Paul says in the letter to the the priesthood and religious life. of the need for vocations in the Corinthians “there are different For someone whose own voca- Church.” n 21 May 2017 Nuestra Voz Dos colombianos entre tres ordenados sacerdotes BRIDGEPORT—El sábado Asistió a la Escuela Primaria gelización para el futuro de la 24 de junio a las 11 am, el Obispo Antonio Nariño y al colegio Iglesia”. Frank J. Caggiano ordenará a tres Politécnico Mayor graduándose Timothy A. Iannacone nuevos sacerdotes para la diócesis en el 2005. Entró en el Seminario El tercer sacerdote, Timothy de Bridgeport en la Catedral de St. Mayor de Bogotá y obtuvo una Albert Iannacone, tiene 27 años de Agustín. Dos de los futuros orde- licenciatura en la Universidad edad. Hoy vive en Norwalk y es nados sacerdotes son de origen his- Javeriana en el 2010. miembro de St. Mary. pano nacidos en Bogotá, Colombia, Respondiendo a una llamada Sus padres, Timothy y por lo que las lecturas en la cere- de los sacerdotes de esta diócesis, Patricia Iannacone son miem- monia serán en español e inglés. entró en el Seminario St. John bros de Santo Tomás Apóstol Harry Prieto y José Vásquez lle- Fisher y estudió en Sacred Heart en Norwalk. Asistió a la escuela garon a esta diócesis desde el país University en Fairfield. Su parro- primaria Wolfpit y All Saints cafetero; mientras que Timothy quia es la Iglesia de la Asunción Catholic School, y se graduó de Iannocone nació en Stamford. (Assumption) en Westport, en Norwalk High School en el 2008. Durante la Misa, las madres SACERDOTES: (i-d) Timothy Iannacone, José Vásquez, Harry Prieto. (Article donde completó su diaconado el El Padre Iannacone se graduó de los tres futuros sacerdotes in English on page 3) año pasado; además se graduó en el Colegio Merrimack en entregarán las ofrendas del en el Seminario St. Joseph de North Andover, Mass., en el ofertorio, mientras que Sandra pletó su maestría en el 2017. esperanza y confianza para servir Yonkers, N.Y. este año. 2012. Fue ordenado al diaconado Riano, prima del Padre Vásquez, El Padre Prieto celebrará su a los fieles en Cristo, el Buen El Padre Vásquez celebrará su de transición en el 2016 por el ofrecerá la lectura en español y primera Misa en la parroquia de Pastor, como inspiración y mo- primera Misa en la Iglesia de la Obispo Frank J. Caggiano; en ese Elizabeth Nichols, madrina del St. Joseph en Danbury, en donde delo”, expresa el Padre Prieto. Asunción el 25 de junio a las 12 del mismo año, completó sus estu- padre Iannacone, leerá en inglés. empezó en este país su vida religio- José A. Vásquez mediodía. El Padre Thomas Thorne, dios de seminario en el Colegio “El día de las ordenaciones sa, el 25 de junio a las 12 del medio- José Abelardo Vásquez pastor, precederá la homilía. de Teología de la Universidad sacerdotales es uno de los días más día. El Padre Samuel Scott, pastor Romero, de 33 años de edad, “Una de las cosas que más me Católica de América. hermosos para la diócesis, porque de San José, precederá la homilía. nació en Bogotá. Sus padres, gusta es trabajar con grupos parr- “Oí decir una vez que uno no es un día de gran esperanza. “El sacerdocio es un llamado a Bernardo y Elsy Campos Vásquez oquiales y estar presente en sus debería ser un sacerdote si uno Estamos muy orgullosos de que servir y crecer como un líder en la son miembros de la Parroquia actividades”, dijo, mencionando no ama a la gente. De hecho, es estos tres muchachos estén siendo comunidad cristiana, tratando de Santiago Apóstol en su país natal. en particular a los estudiantes mi amor por el pueblo de Dios ordenados. Serán grandes miem- ser no sólo ‘alter Christus’, sino Tiene un hermano de nombre de educación religiosa, estudios lo que me ha traído aquí. La bros del presbiterio de esta dióce- también ‘alter Jesús’, en prepa- Rodrigo, que también vive en la bíblicos y grupos de hombres y Iglesia necesita sacerdotes fuertes sis, y pedimos que su testimonio ración para la misión de salir capital colombiana. mujeres con los que tuvo la opor- e inteligentes que sean defensores inspire a muchos otros jóvenes a y hacer discípulos de todas las Es un hombre joven que le tunidad de trabajar el año pasado. de la verdad frente a cada obstá- responder a la oferta de la vocación naciones. En vista de esto, Dios gusta jugar fútbol y le gusta estar “Como los jóvenes son el presente culo que se les presente. Por eso sacerdotal de Dios. Oramos para me ha bendecido con un tiempo con la naturaleza. Al mismo y el futuro de la Iglesia, creo que quiero ser sacerdote; no para mí, que sean buenos, santos y felices de gracia y disciplina. En el cum- tiempo, le encanta la teología hay que apoyar y alentar sus acti- sino para el servicio de la Iglesia sacerdotes de Jesucristo”, señala el plimiento de la misión, el amor y y le gusta reflexionar, meditar vidades. También creo en la de Dios y su pueblo”, dice el Padre John Connaughton, director la gracia de Dios que me inspiran y estudiar la palabra de Dios. importancia de la nueva evan- Padre Iannacone. n de vocaciones. Harry A. Prieto Harry Alfredo Prieto, de 30 años, nació en Bogotá, Colombia, CATHOLIC PROFESSIONAL NETWORK y creció en una familia de tres niños y una niña. Sus padres, Alfredo y Luz Jaramillo Prieto son feligreses de la parroquia Law Office of James M. Hughes Santiago Apóstol en Bogotá. 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Twenty-five Lawrence Arszyla, Sr., age 76 Sophia Michalenko of the of her family members from of Bridgeport, beloved husband Community of the Mother Ireland joined her to celebrate of 53 years to Janice Fazekas of God of Tenderness her 100th birthday in January. Arszyla, passed away suddenly passed to eternal life at Kathleen Ruth was born on at home on April 21. Born in the Regional Hospice of January 18, 1917 in Waterford, Bridgeport on September 23, Western Connecticut Center Ireland. She entered the 1940, to the late Joseph and for Comfort Care and Congregation of the Ursuline Margaret York Arszyla, Larry Healing, Danbury, having Sisters of Tildonk on September served in the Marine Corp during served our Lord for 70 years 8, 1940, and professed her final Vietnam. as a religious in consecrated vows six years later. He began his career in bank- life. Sister Carmel ministered for Sister Mary Carmel Ruth Born in Adams, MA many years as a teacher. Her min- ing, managing both the South Lawrence Arszyla, Sr. End and Trumbull branches of on July 11, 1928, Sophia istry was extensive and included teaching in Queens, N.Y., and in CT National Bank. He moved was the fifth child of immi- Connecticut, and at Our Lady Star of the Sea School in Stamford on to a long and loyal career A kind, patient and fair man, grant parents from Eastern from 1969-73. with the Diocese of Bridgeport, Larry leaves his wife Janice, his Europe. Her father was In 2003, after many years of active service, Sister Carmel starting in the finance department children Michelle Steinfeld of a Ruthenian Byzantine retired to Blue Point, N.Y., where she continued a ministry of then becoming the director of Monroe, Larry Jr. of Bridgeport Catholic from what is now prayer and visiting the sick. cemeteries. After 30 plus years and Kristin and her husband Slovakia and her mother a A Mass of Christian Burial was celebrated for Sister Carmel on of service, Larry retired as the Steve Balazsi of Black Rock, Roman Catholic from what March 17 at the St. Ursula Center Chapel in Blue Point. Burial Bishop Curtis Homes director. his brother Joseph Arszyla, Jr., is now Poland. followed at the cemetery of the Ursuline Sisters in Blue Point. n Larry spent a few years driving several grandchildren and a great She graduated from Adams a school bus with Durham Bus grandchild. High School as salutatori- Co., where he enjoyed being with In abiding with Larry’s wishes, ➤ continued on page 23 kids every day. his memorial service was private. n Father Clifford Grisé The obituary for Father Grisé ran in the April issue of Fairfield County Catholic. 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By DON HARRISON During his acceptance speech, winning the Class M state title in Matakevich informed the gath- 1979. Kelley Gray, who became an Among the nine people ering at the April 22 dinner of outstanding rebounder at Sacred inducted into St. Joseph High the impact St. Joseph had on Heart University, was among School’s Athletics Hall of Fame his life. “He spoke about Betsy his protégées. Later, he coached last month were two men who Sorrentino, his English teacher, Cadets baseball for eight seasons, are poles apart and yet connected: and the prayer card she gave winning the school’s first FCIAC Tyler Matakevich, Class of 2011, him,” Hayes related. “He still championship in any sport. Hayes and Christy Hayes, who coached carries it in his wallet.” capped his 30-year career at St. championship teams in three Excelling on both sides of Joseph by serving as director of sports and will admit to recently the ball at St. Joe’s, Matakevich athletics his final two years. turning 70 years young. scored 61 career touchdowns, The Hayes-St. Joe’s connec- “He was one of my ball boys,” rushed for nearly 2,500 yards and tion continues to this day. His Hayes recalled with a chuckle. gained 1,400 yards receiving—all wife, Patricia, is in her 44th year Matakevich’s progression from school records at the time. On as a teacher at the school and for- St. Joe’s football team ball boy defense, he made big play after TYLER MATAKEVICH, left, in all probability the greatest football player in merly served as dean of students. to the National Football League big play and recorded a school-re- St. Joseph High School history and the first St. Joe’s graduate to play in the All three of their sons played took few detours: cord 400 tackles. National Football League, and retired multi-sport coach Christy Hayes share sports there: Brendan ’97 as an a moment at the school’s AthleticS Hall of Fame dinner on April 22. They • Two-time Walter Camp All- “I told UConn to take him,” All-State nose guard in football; were among the nine Hall-of-Fame inductees honored that evening. (Photo by State selection in football and Hayes said, “but they didn’t listen.” Matthew Fitzgerald) Christy Jr. ’02, indoor track; and a star on the Cadets’ back- Hayes’ lengthy coaching Jack ’04, football running back to-back state championship career at St. Joe’s embraces foot- and team captain. teams (2009, ‘10). ball, girls’ basketball and baseball, and it ended against Fairfield (332),” Hayes noted. Others inducted into the St. • Consensus All-American line- and he was successful in all three Prep, 13-12. We went for the The New Haven born and Joseph Athletics Hall of Fame on backer at Temple University sports. His teams captured CIAC two-point conversion, but didn’t bred Hayes played football April 22 were: and the recipient of the state titles (1983, ’84) in his first make it.” Hayes said. at Hillhouse High, Cheshire Liz Barker Balanis ’90, ten- Chuck Bednarik and Bronko two seasons as head football Hayes served as an assistant Academy and Southern nis; Brian Barker ’83, tennis; Joe Nagurski awards as the coach, and then they won three coach under McCarthy, includ- Connecticut State, earning Della Vecchia ’11, football and nation’s top defensive player. more state championships (1988, ing three straight state title years B.S. and master’s degrees from baseball; Dave Donnelly ’78, • Most recently, selected by ’89, ’90). Across 15 seasons, his (1980, ’81, ’82), before the latter Southern. He arrived at St. Joe’s baseball, football and swimming; the Pittsburgh Steelers on the Cadet squads won 101 games, resigned and moved on to West as an assistant football coach in Dick Shea ’74, basketball and seventh round of the 2016 lost just 53 and tied four times. Haven High. 1972 and began teaching English baseball; Manny Torres, Jr., ‘95, NFL draft and then became “We had a 30-game winning “Eddie was a fantastic mentor the following fall. baseball; and Alexandra Uscilla the first St. Joe’s alumnus to streak, which began under my to me, and he still holds the state He coached the St. Joe’s girls’ ’08, soccer, indoor track and play in the NFL. predecessor, Eddie McCarthy, record for most wins in football basketball team for eight seasons, lacrosse. n

Sister Sophia from page 22 an in 1946. In July of that year, Penn., and working as secretary she entered the Congregation of of the Waterbury Evangelization Felician Sisters in Enfield, Conn. Center and as pool typist at John She graduated Summa Cum Paul II Center for Health Care in Laude from St. Danbury. She was John’s University the author of The in N.Y. with a BA Life of St. Faustina in education and Kowalska: The earned a master’s Authorized Biography. degree in English, The Community also from St. John’s. of the Mother of For 25 years, she God of Tenderness taught in schools in resettled in Danbury MA, CT, NY, and in 1987. The Sisters RI. are affiliated with In 1974, she St. Ann Melkite moved from the Greek Catholic Felician Sisters to the new- Parish in this city and minister in ly-founded Community of the other parishes in the area. Sister Mother of God of Tenderness, Sophia always served with an founded by Archbishop Joseph infectious smile and touched the Tawil of the Melkite Greek lives of many people in whatever Catholic Eparchy of Newton, capacity she ministered. Her love Mass. knew neither barriers nor bound- Throughout the years, Sister aries. Sophia ministered in various The Divine Liturgy of Christian capacities including teaching, act- Burial was celebrated for Sister ing as dean of Longview College Sophia on April 5 in St. Ann in Enfield, serving at St. Joseph Church. Interment followed in St. Melkite Church in Scranton, Peter Cemetery, Danbury. n 24 May 2017 Column: Thomas Hicks God took one of the man’s ribs

without each other, something is way it is meant to be, this is what the following scene in his novel lacking. God wants. Yet we know from Couples: Potpourri The tale goes on to say “there- experience that this is not the She: Adultery—it is so much fore a man leaves his father and way things usually are. trouble. By Thomas H. Hicks mother and clings to his wife, and We come to learn that love He: It’s a way of giving your- they become one flesh” (Genesis and commitment are not certain- self and a way of getting out in 2:24). The bond which is created ties upon which one can rely. the world and seeking knowledge. between a man and woman in the Research indicates that few mar- She: What do we know now? Thomas Hicks is a member marriage relationship is superior riages turn out well. Commonly, He: We know God is not to every other interpersonal bond, promises are violated and love mocked. of St. Theresa Parish in Trumbull. even the one between parent and betrayed. Everywhere marriages In the first century AD., the child. A spouse is essentially dif- blow up, and marriage counsel- Jewish philosophy Philo wrote: ferent from and more than any- ors, child psychiatrists, lawyers, “A wife is best honored when she o the Lord God from Adam is clearly symbolic. one else in the world. and real-estate agents prosper in sees that her husband is faithful caused a deep sleep Symbolically the story is saying The account in Genesis con- the ruins. to her, and has no preference for to fall upon the that woman is the equal of man; cludes by teaching that marriage So many children have no another woman, but loves and “Sman…then he took she is of the same nature. It is fur- is monogamous and cannot be real sacred model of marriage trusts her and holds her as his one of the man’s ribs and made it ther saying that man cannot fully dissolved, as one flesh cannot be to emulate. They grow up with- own.” into a woman and brought her to understand himself except in rela- divided. Husband and wife are out models of faithfulness and In the Old Testament book of the man” (Genesis 2:21-22). tion to a woman and vice versa. blended, as it were, into one being. maturity, without examples of Malachi God rebukes the man The image of the rib taken Woman and man are incomplete This is the ideal, this is the self-discipline and dedication. who, as he grows older, “deals The children treacherous- of these mar- “ Marriage often is ly with the riages grow up wife of his and find other no cure for loneliness. youth”—that troubled chil- is, he divorc- dren to marry, People find that they es her, and and so through marries some- the generations can be just as alone one younger there is deep (Mal.2:14-16). trouble. in marriage as before, A friend, Marriage a psychother- often is no and often more so.” apist, tells cure for lone- me that he liness. People takes only one find that they can be just as alone or two couples for counseling a in marriage as before, and often year. “My reason is that marriage more so. Indeed, someone said counseling rarely works, and most that no one who is not married of those who do benefit usually understands the true meaning of relapse. I’ve come to believe that loneliness. There is nothing lone- most couples could not be helped, lier than being with the wrong so I don’t want to take their money person. or waste their time.” The main cause of unhappy A stable marriage, much less marriages is that people choose a happy one, even less a joyful their mates poorly. The basis one, is a rarity, the exception, not of a good marriage is that you the rule. However, there are cou- marry the right person. The real ples who do find their own true problem is that people are mis- loves, and achieve a state where matched. Julia Alvarez, in her they are “two hearts that beat as book Homecoming, has the fol- one.” One can sense their happy lowing: involvement in each other. They She: Statistics say most cou- live in mutual confidence of each ples get divorced. other, become truly loving and He: Better to love and lose lovely. The water becomes wine. than not at all. They make the words wife and She: Better to read the writing husband the dearest appellations on the wall. of human life. The question is not: where did What greater thing is there for it all go wrong? But: when was it two human beings than to feel ever right? that they are joined for life—to “Forsaking all others, and strengthen each other in all labor, keeping only unto thee…” to rest on each other in all sor- Adultery makes a true union row, to minister to each other between spouses almost impos- in all pain, and to be with each sible. If there is no trust, couples other with silent memories at the will never unite. John Updike has last parting? Each spouse knows 25 May 2017 Column: Joe Pisani Talk less, listen more

The other day, a former class- knew I’d never get off the phone Every single day of our lives, mate text-messaged me four times and he’d take an hour to tell me Jesus will put people in our path Swimming Upstream in two minutes. I didn’t have something that should take only who need our help, our sympathy time to read them or respond ten minutes. and our love—and we have an By Joe Pisani because I had too many other He left one message, he left obligation to deliver. We have issues to deal with. He wanted to two messages, and then he left a an obligation to listen compas- tell me about the sermon at Mass, third message that said, “I need sionately and not be concerned about a prayer group he joined, to talk to you. You’re the only about our To Do lists or our next Joe Pisani has been a writer and about something else I can’t one I could think of calling. My adventure. Compassionate lis- remember, but I never got back to wife left me and I don’t know tening is like a spiritual work of and editor for 30 years. him, and he didn’t text again. what to do.” A week later, I attended a talk I was so by a man who is known nation- ashamed of “Quite honestly, I wasn’t paying once worked for a boss who I also knew a priest, a beloved wide for his accomplishments myself. The had a listening problem. priest who was committed to his in the media business. He’s run first thing I attention and I certainly wasn’t He didn’t have a hearing vocation 110 percent, but when- some of the most successful publi- did was beg problem. He just didn’t pay ever I tried to tell him something, cations in America and is consid- Jesus for for- listening with compassion.” ​I giveness, the attention when someone else I got the feeling he was in a hurry ered a visionary. was talking. Whenever you went to get to his next appointment While I was at the event, a second thing I did into his office to tell him some- and not really listening to what I woman I know began to tell me was call him, the third thing I did mercy. It’s not always easy, but thing, he’d be shuffling papers, had to say, even though he’d nod about her frail elderly mother, was vow I’d never again ignore it’s always necessary. talking to his assistant or scrolling his head in agreement. whom she cares for. I listened for someone who needed to talk ... The next time you find your- through email. So I talked to my wife instead a minute or so and then found and that I would listen compas- self zoning out when someone is He’d accuse the staff of not and it went like this: myself looking over her shoulder sionately. talking to you, ask Jesus immedi- keeping him informed, even Me (on mobile phone): “Hello, to see who else was in the audi- I wish I could say I’ve always ately to come into the conversa- though we could cite the month, Honey, how are you?” ence. A noted writer or a political kept that promise, but I haven’t. tion and lead you where he wants the day and the minute when Her: “Busy.” leader perhaps? Quite honestly, Some people annoy me, and oth- you to go because he led that per- he’d been told important infor- Me: “Oh.” I wasn’t paying attention and I ers want to talk when I have too son to you for a reason. Ask him mation. Her: “What do you want?” certainly wasn’t listening with many things to do. But you know to help you say what he wants Some people like to talk more Me: “I just thought I’d call to compassion. what? There are no excuses. I’m that person to hear ... because he than listen. Some are too lazy say hi and ...” Several years ago, a friend convinced that on Judgment has a plan that involves you. His to listen. Some think they’re too Her: “I have to go because kept calling my cell phone and Day, I’ll see the times I dropped formula is simple: stop, look and busy or too important to listen. Julie is bringing the baby over leaving messages. He said he had the ball when someone needed a … listen. Here’s a secret: Listening is more and I have to blah, blah, blah.” to talk to me, but I didn’t really sympathetic ear. It’s called a sin Listen hard and show important than talking. You get the idea. want to talk to him because I of omission. compassion. n

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For more info, visit College Mentoring Program will Andrew Parish, Bridgeport on Fairfield. Light refreshments every month (May 18), at 7:30 www.facebook.com/jennings- be hosted on Mon., May 22, Sun., May 28, at 11:30 am. will be served immediately pm at St. Mary Parish, Norwalk. beachcarnival or email jennings- at 7 pm in the Alumni House. Bishop Frank J. Caggiano will following the Mass. If you For more info, contact straposto- [email protected]. Mentors guide and encourage be the main celebrant. A special are an adult survivor of abuse [email protected]. 50th REUNIONS for Notre small groups of 6-8 students with presentation will follow the Mass, as a minor and would like to DINNER WITH A CAUSE Dame High School classes of the support of university staff. with speeches from state and learn more about this Mass, sponsored by the St. Catherine 1966 and 1967: Class of 1966 For more info, contact Marianne local dignitaries. A coffee social upcoming gatherings, and of Siena Parish, Riverside, Social (Boys and Girls) the weekend of O’Connell Neville coordinator: follows. All are welcome. For resources that are available Justice Committee features May 19- 21; Class of 1967 (Boys 203.254.2404 or mneville@ more info, contact Ray Berry: in our diocese, please contact Building 1 Community (formerly and Girls), the weekend of Oct. fairfield.edu. To register for the [email protected] or 860.919.5762. one of our Victim Assistance Neighbor’s Link Stamford) on 27-29. For more info, contact reception, go to https://orgsync. BONNIE TIEGEL Coordinators, Erin Neil, Thurs., May 18. Catalina Horak, Notre Dame’s Alumni Office: com/116068/forms/256410. MEMORIAL SCHOLARSHIP LCSW: 203.650.3265 or executive director, will explain its [email protected]. MAKING A DIFFERENCE program is available for high Michael Tintrup, LCSW: mission to bring people together PAPER SHREDDING will award/scholarship event for school seniors (at least 17 years of 203.241.0987. to help immigrants and their fam- take place at St. Catherine of Kolbe Cathedral High School will age), graduates, or undergraduates ilies. 6:30 pm light supper; 7:15- Siena Parish, Trumbull, on Sat., be held on Sun., May 21. Mass who plan to enroll in full-time MASSES OF HEALING 8:30 presentation. Free will offer- May 20, from 9 am-12 noon. of remembrance for Msgr Frank undergraduate study and pursue a AND HOPE: the Charismatic ing. For more info or to RSVP, Papers and documents will be C. Wissel in St. Mary Church, degree in journalism. The student Renewal Services announces a call 203.637.3661, ext 310, and shredded while you wait by a Greenwich, followed by dinner will receive a $2,500 award. The Mass of Healing and Hope on leave your name, phone number professional shredding truck. No at Gabriele’s Italian Steakhouse. application deadline is Wed., May Mon., May 15, at 7:30 pm at St. and number in your party. need to remove staples or paper- Honorees are Brian O’Connor 31. For more info, go to Bonnie Lawrence Parish, Shelton, with DIVORCED AND clips. Cost: $10 for one box; $25 and John Torres. Tickets: $250/ Tiegel Memorial Scholarship Fr. Larry Carew; and Mon., SEPARATED Catholics are for three boxes. For info, con- person. For more info, contact Program (http://usascholarships. June 19, at Assumption Church, invited to join “Hearts Renewed,” tact the parish: 203.377.3133 or Principal Jo-Anne Jakab: jjakab@ com/bonnie-tiegel-memori- Fairfield, with Fr. Carew. For a support group for divorced [email protected]. kolbecaths.org or 203.335.2554. al-scholarship-program/) more info, call the Charismatic or separated men and women. LADIES ANCIENT ORDER THE ASCENSION: Catholic ADULT SURVIVORS of Renewal Office: 203.456.5610. Meetings are held in Fairfield on OF HIBERNIANS, Mae King Young Adults of Greater abuse as a minor are invited to “ARTS IN THE PARK” at the first and third Fri. of every Division # 65, will hold a meet Danbury, (ages 18-35), will two upcoming gatherings at the Immaculate High: Thurs., May month (May 19; June 1) at 7:30 and greet meeting on Sat., gather on Thurs., May 25, at Bridgeport Public Library at their May 20, at 10 am at the Gaelic 6:45 pm to celebrate the Feast North Branch, 3455 Madison American Club, Fairfield. Any of the Ascension Holy Day of Ave, Bridgeport, on Thurs., June POSITION AVAILABLE woman of Irish decent or married Obligation with Mass at Sacred 1, from 6-7 pm. This is an oppor- to an Irishman is welcome to Heart Parish, Danbury, followed tunity to meet with fellow adult Organist - Part Time join. For more info and for reser- by ice cream at Double Twister. survivors of abuse, together with vations, call 203.261.6182. For more info, email catholic. the Diocesan Victim Assistance Saint Joseph Parish, Brookfield - Diocese of Bridgeport ANGEL-ADE volunteers [email protected]. Coordinator. For more info, needed. Al’s Angels needs vol- STOP HUMAN contact Erin Neil, LCSW: Purpose unteers to help host lemonade TRAFFICKING will be the 203.650.3265 or Michael Tintrup, To support congregational singing, to accompany the church choirs, stands at locations throughout cantor, and to support the worship service with musical offerings. Fairfield County on Sat., May Responsibilities 20. For more info, email Al POSITION AVAILABLE To coordinate with the Director of Music preparing, and playing of music DiGuido: [email protected] ASAP. appropriate to each service of worship. To prepare appropriate music Musician to lead for annual special services including Easter, Christmas, and all holy days WORLD WAR I Lecture Series at the Knights of the contemporary liturgical music group of obligation. To prepare sufficiently for optimum performance on the Columbus Museum will pres- organ or piano for both rehearsals and worship. To accompany scheduled Saint Jerome Parish, Norwalk - Diocese of Bridgeport ent “Trench Warfare and its rehearsals with the Choirs. To provide special music as needed, especially Evolution” by Nicholas Murray, Purpose for Summer outdoor services, but also throughout the year. D.Phil., U.S. Naval War College, We are looking for a person with good key board skills To play for funerals or weddings as available. To provide for appropriate Newport, R.I. on Sat., May 20, who can continue to foster the deep sense of community in this group. substitutes for worship services or special events when not available. at 2 pm. The exhibition on World Responsibilities Evaluation War I: Beyond the Front Lines, Responsibilities would include one evening rehearsal and the 9:15am 30 day trial period. Performance reviews will be conducted annually continues through Dec. 30, 2018. Mass on Sunday mornings, with a possibility of playing at the 6pm as well. For more info, call 203.865.0400 by the Administrator as the head of staff, with the assistance Remuneration is commensurate with experience. of the Director of Music. Possibility to split this job for flexibility or visit kofcmuseum.org “COME AND SEE” if you For an interview, contact Fr. David Blanchfield at: 203.847.5349 Please send resume to: [email protected] are being called to a vocation in the Secular Franciscan Order. 27 May 2017 Bits and Pieces LCSW: 203.241.0987. Eileen Bianchini: 203.847.5727 or Lecture Series at the Knights of and dinner daily, sightseeing, friends and family of loved ones FAIRFIELD PREP ALUMNI [email protected]. Columbus Museum will present transportation to JFK, and gra- with same sex attractions or gen- are invited for Reunion Weekend BACON AND BREW FEST Finding Molly Johnson: Canada tuity. For more info, contact Fr. der ID confusion holds confiden- on June 2-3. Golf Outing, Fri., (a 21 and over event) at Notre and the Orphans of the Great Marcel Saint Jean: 203.434.7208 tial meetings monthly. For more June 2, followed by Prep’s first Dame High School, Fairfield, Irish Famine by Mark McGowan, or 203.268.8695, email marcel- info email EnCourageNorwalk@ Athletic Hall of Fame Dinner in will provide an afternoon of beer Ph.D., of the University of [email protected]. gmail.com. the quad. On June 2, for classes sampling, live music, food and Toronto on Thurs., June 15, at PILGRIMAGE to Fatima, COURAGE apostolate ending in 2s and 7s, alumni are fun on Sat., June 10. Calling all 5 pm. The exhibition on Fleeing Lourdes and Barcelona, Sun., provides pastoral care and sup- invited to reunion breakfast, alum- local firehouses, police stations, Famine: Irish Immigration to Oct. 1-Tues., Oct. 10. Price: port for men and women who ni sports games, Mass, and dinner church groups, civic organi- North America continues through $3,548/person double occupancy experience same-sex attractions on campus. To register, go to zations, restaurants, etc., for a Sun., Sept. 17. For more info, includes airfare, taxes, hotels, and want to live chaste lives. www.fairfieldprep.org/reunion. Bacon Cookoff. For more info, call 203.865.0400 or visit kofcmu- breakfasts, one lunch, and dinner. Confidential meetings are held TRADITIONAL LATIN contact Theresa Marzik: tmar- seum.org. For more info, contact Fr. Cyrus weekly. For more info call MASS is celebrated at St. [email protected]. Tickets can FAMILY SUMMER Bartolome: 203.652.1155. 203.8031564 or email Courage@ Marguerite Bourgeoys Parish, be purchased on line at https:// RETREAT, a vacation to grow clos- ENCOURAGE apostolate for diobpt.org. n Brookfield, the first Sun. of ndbaconandbrew.eventbrite.com. er as a family will be held the week each month (June 4) at 4 pm. ST. ANTHONY FEAST will of July 2-7, at the Miramar Retreat For more info, call the parish: be held at St. Margaret Shrine, Center, Duxbury, Mass. For more Creating memories 203.775.5117. Bridgeport, the weekend of June info, contact Deacon John or Peggy: WOMEN’S GROUP at 9-11. Fri., June 9, from 6-11 pm, 845.621.7000 or StarofSeaRetreat@ since 1920 Christ the King Parish, Trumbull, Sat., June 10, from 2-11 pm and gmail.com, or visit www.catholic- will hold their closing luncheon Sun., June 11, from 12 noon-10 familyretreats.com. Family owned Tues., June 6, at 12 noon at pm. Delicious Italian food, fam- PILGRIMAGE to the major & operated Nostrano Italian Eatery, Monroe. ily-friendly fun, daily entertain- shrines of Portugal, Spain and Open Sundays For more info, call 203.261.8020. ment, rides and a raffle. An out- France, an 11-day journey, will JOIN IN PRAYING the door Mass will be celebrated on depart from New York on Sun., www.HansensFlowerShop.com Sorrowful Mysteries of the Sun., June 11, at 11 am, followed Sept. 24, returning Wed., Oct. 1040 Post Road, Fairfield Rosary for Persecuted Christians by a procession in honor of St. 4. Price: $3,175/person includes from your home/car/office the Anthony. For more info, call the airfare, taxes, hotels, breakfast (203) 255-0461 first Tues. of every month (June shrine: 203.333.9627. 6) at 7 pm. How? Before 7 pm, SAINT SCHOLASTICA’S call 877.216.5269 and type in the SHAKESPEAREAN PLAYERS pin number 96869. (a group of children ranging in CATHOLIC YOUNG age from 6-18) and Father Shawn ADULTS of Greater Danbury W. Cutler will be performing The will gather on Tues., June 6, Merry Wives of Windsor at 11 from 7-9 pm for a Praise and am on Sat., June 10, at St. Worship Holy Hour at Sacred Marguerite Bourgeoys Parish, Heart Parish, Danbury, followed Brookfield, followed by English by a social. This event is open Low Tea (salads, sandwiches to all ages. For more info, go to and dessert). Tickets: Adults $20; [email protected]. seniors $15; children $12 ages Join us on Facebook: “Catholic 6-12; children 5 & under free! Young Adults of Greater $60 Maximum per family. For Danbury” for updates. tickets, go to stmarguerite.org/ GOSPEL OF LIFE wp-content/uploads/2017/04/ SOCIETY meets at St. Mary MerryWivesofWindsor.pdf or call Parish, Norwalk, the second Sat. 203.521.2390. Tickets must be of each month (June 10) from 10 purchased in advance; they will am-12 noon, after the 9 am pro- not be sold at the door. life Mass. For more info, contact FLEEING FAMINE

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