Adoption As a Calling: DUCK DYNASTY Reaching out To: the HOMELESS the HELPLESS the HURTING the HUNGRY the HOPELESS …With the Love and Compassion of the Savior

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Call 205-365-1800 to receive a free DVD of the 21st Annual Summer Music Camp Concert available to anyone interested in learning more about the ministry and how they can help. Daniel Cason Ministries, 538 7th Street North, Birmingham Learn more at www.danielcason.org November 2017 3 From the Publisher In association with WORKING TOGETHER to Deliver Good News! It takes a lot of work every month for Birmingham Christian Family magazine to Publisher: The Christian Family Publication, Inc./ make it into your hands. It is the work of a Laurie Stroud, [email protected] • 205-408-7150 group of people- many who work tireless- Birmingham Christian Family @CFPBirmingham @cfpbirmingham ly behind the scenes and never see their Copy Editor: Marlys Kuehnert names in print: Contributing Writers: Jean Bowick, YMCA Rev. J. Mark Franks Dr. Walt Mueller Lyle and Jimmy who each month prepare Melanie Bradford Holliman Darrel Holcombe Camille Platt our files for print at Franklin Web. Chris Tony Cooper Rev. Dr. J. Mark Kuehnert Laurie Stroud who has literally walked the dock at the John Croyle Thomas Maple, PhD. Teen Challenge of Alabama shipping terminal to make sure the maga- S. Joey Elmore Mark’s Outdoors zines left the bindery and were on a truck Art Director: Wendy Satterwhite headed our way. Crystal who has tracked Sales and Marketing: Laurie Stroud, [email protected] the delivery of many a magazine issue- Sales Assistant: Meghan Vanamburgh even through snow- until she knew we had them. Bob who delivers magazines with his grandsons to area churches and businesses in Shelby County. Ginger who takes care of readers in Bluff Park Birmingham Christian Family is published monthly by The Christian Family Publication, Inc., P.O. Box 382724, Birmingham, AL 35238, 205-408-7150, and Mountain Brook. Glynda who distributes in Blount County. Greg and ® 205-408-0468(Fax). Visit www.BirminghamChristian.com Trent covering Gardendale, Fultondale and more. Mark, Marlys and Ben- Reproduction of any part of Birmingham Christian Family without permission of the publisher ton who have logged thousands of miles delivering Good News all around is prohibited. Distribution of this magazine does not constitute an endorsement of informa- town. Meghan who ensures you can easily read articles on line and makes tion, products or services. Views expressed in Birmingham Christian Family do not necessarily represent those of the publisher. Every effort has been made by Birmingham Christian Family sure you know all about our great giveaways. Trae who posts our monthly staff to insure accuracy of the publicationcontents. However, we do not guarantee the accuracy issues. Kevin who responds to any digital SOS. Wendy whose design skills of all information nor the absence of errors and omissions; hence, no responsibility can be or is and flexibility are a treasure. Keith, Kolby, Zared, Alistair, Jacob and the assumed. All Rights Reserved. Copyright 2017 by The Christian Family Publication, Inc. Unless otherwise noted, scripture taken from the Holy Bible, New International Version, copy- rest of the team at the UPS Store on Valleydale Road who make sure copies right 1973, 1978, 1984 by International Bible Society. Used by are mailed out and much more! permission of International Bible Society. Circulation & Distribution: Birmingham Christian Family is free and available at targeted, high traffic locations throughout the Birmingham area and direct mailed to some households. All this work plays a critical role in delivering the Good News of Jesus to you each month.

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4 Publisher’s Note 19 Money Matters WORKING TOGETHER Steps to Protect Yourself Against to Deliver Good News! Identity Theft

7 Cool Stuff 20 Faith at Work • Great Gift Finds at the Briarwood 101 Mobility: Improving Lives in Christmas Shop Our Community • 35th Annual St. Nicholas Russian ON THE COVER 16 Food Festival 22 Bringing Out the Winner Duck Dynasty stars, Korie and Willie Robert- Where’s Your Focus? 8 Mission Makers son, are passionate about adoption and con- A Thanksgiving Message from 22, 23 Healthy Living sider it their calling. Korie reflects on the beau- Alabama Teen Challenge • ty of an intentionally large family and the need ROW, ROW, ROW for adoptive families in the U.S. Read more on for Your Health 11 Best Books • page 16. Keys to Successful The Daniel Dilemma Marriage Therapy 13 FEATURES 11 Music Notes 24 Photo Fun My Story My Song: Birmingham’s • Bridge for Life Brother Bryan 12 500TH Anniversary of the Cheryl McWhorter Golf Tournament Reformation Celebration • Sav-A-Life Golf fore Life 13 Are We There Yet? • OLS Peer Helpers • Bringing Birmingham to • Restoration Complete at 16 Adoption as a Calling: Duck Dynasty New Heights Historic Hillcrest Manor • Name the New Attraction at Alabama Splash Adventure for a 26 Education Extra 25 Governor’s Salute to Alabama Chance to Receive Season Passes 5 Ways to Equip Your Kids for Veterans at American Village Faithful Living 14 Church Leaders It’s a Dangerous Calling and 27 Great Outdoors You Can Help Great Gifts for those who Love the Outdoors NEXT ISSUE 14 Encouraging Word The Untouchable, Touched by Jesus 28 Calendar 20 19 Legal Matters 29 About Our Advertisers Holiday Conversations 29 Support Groups

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NovemberNovember 20172017 55 This fall as we share nourishing meals, conversation, and the promise of Christ with the lonely and homeless – there is thankfulness and hope. On Thanksgiving Day, as volunteers take plates brimming with turkey and all the trimmings to each hungry person, the hearts of recipients and servers are impacted. At times such as this, the love of Christ that you and I expressed with someone who is alone and without hope, can begin to change a life forever. Thank you!

In November - December BBM will serve over 8,500 free hot meals, provide 4,400 bed-nights, hot showers, and warm clothes. Your gift to Brother Bryan Mission that brings hot meals and shelter also helps provide Christ centered programs of recovery and hope.

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6 www.BirminghamChristian.com Birmingham Christian Family Cool Stuff Great Gift Finds at the Briarwood Christmas Shop Find wonderful gifts for friends and family while supporting Christian education at the annual Briarwood Christmas Shop. The free admission event features more than 60 different artists and vendors and is hosted by the Briarwood High School Parent Teacher Fellowship (PTF). “All of the money raised is used to support our teachers in the classroom, the school’s faculty and administration and of course the students they teach and minister to,” explains PTF Pres. Amy Pylant. “It also Find stocking stuffers and more at the gives our school family the opportunity Briarwood Christmas Gift Shop Novem- to meet and minister to people in our ber 16-17 at the church, 2200 Briar- community!” wood Way, 35243. Door prizes given away each day, no purchase necessary! Shop the event Thursday, November 16 from Noon-6pm and Friday, November 17 from 9am-4pm in the Briarwood Presbyterian Church Fellowship Hall. A few of the featured vendors include t-shirts and gift items from Tagged and Happy, useful and beautiful pieces of pottery from Mike Davis Pottery, art- work from Crown Creations, hip jew- elry from Sha’s Creations and Grandma Betty’s Pepper Jelly. The Neighborhood Brew Truck will be onsite Friday morn- ing so you can enjoy coffee or a smooth- ie and a delicious breakfast treat before coming inside to shop with friends.

35th Annual St. Nicholas Russian Food Festival Enjoy traditional Eastern European foods and pastries, drink Russian tea, shop in a Russian Beriozka store and tour the historic St. Nicholas church at the 35th annual St. Nicholas Russian Orthodox Church Food Festival. The festivi- ties will be from 10am to 4pm on Saturday, November 4 and Noon to 5pm on Sunday, November 5. Signature to the event is the opportunity to sample such foods as pigachi, kolach, pirohy, varenyky, schi, borsch, kasha, blini, holupki, kolbasa and kraut, and halushky. St. Nicholas parish was founded over 100 years ago in Brookside by immigrants from Galacia in the Austro-Hungarian Empire, an area that is known today as Slovakia and western Ukraine. The church is located off U. S. Highway 78 West via Interstate I-59 or via Interstates I-65 and I-22. Learn more at www.stnicholasbrookside.org or call 205-285- 9648.

November 2017 7 Mission Makers A Thanksgiving Message from Alabama Teen Challenge The Proven Cure for the Drug Epidemic presented by Alabama Teen Challenge Adult Men’s and Women’s Centers As we approach the Thanksgiving holiday, we you are 701/2 years old or older, we would also ask that you consider donating want to embrace the words of the Apostle Paul your RMD tax-free to Alabama Teen Challenge in 2017. A donation counts that he spoke to the Philippian Christians. He as your required minimum distribution, but does not increase your adjusted said, “Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it gross income. If the Lord enables you to do so, your donations will provide a again: Rejoice! Let your gentleness be evident much appreciated blessing to Alabama Teen Challenge. Thank you for con- to all. The Lord is near. Do not be anxious sidering this request and for all that you mean to this vital work of the Lord. about anything but in everything by prayer and petition, with THANKSGIVING, present your — Robert Angles requests to God. And the peace of God which Executive Director, Alabama Teen Challenge, Adult Men’s and Women’s Centers transcends all understanding, will guard your 205-763-0909, P.O Box 270, Lincoln, AL 35096, www.alatc.org hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” Philippi- A Special Messsage From ans 4:4-9 the Desk of Robert Angles, Executive Director, Alabama The staff and the students of the Alabama Teen Teen Challenge Challenge ministry are truly thankful for all of you who help with the process of transforming lives with the proven cure for the drug epidemic. We are humbled by your generosity and we pray that the Lord continues to meet all of your needs according to His glorious riches in Christ Jesus. “Too many young people have already lost their lives, and too many others have (Hebrews 6:10) suffered serious injury for us to ignore the problems. Programs such as Teen Challenge work to change people’s lives by changing their hearts. Let us bring to We have a pressing need right now for monetary donations, and we ask that all Americans who struggle with drug addiction this hope: The miracle of you consider including Alabama Teen Challenge in your year-end giving. If recovery is possible, and it could be you.” President George W. Bush

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10 www.BirminghamChristian.com Birmingham Christian Family Best Books Music The Daniel Dilemma by Chris Hodges We are living in ungodly days. By every assess- My Story My Song: ment, our nation has experienced significant spiritual decline, exemplified by a fall in church Birmingham’s Cheryl McWhorter attendance, unacceptable behavior, and moral decay. I suppose ungodliness has always been with us - but our celebration of ungodliness is new indeed. We are now a post-Christian nation, and those who wish to live as disci- ples of Jesus must do so in increasingly hostile territory.

The Daniel Dilemma (Thomas Nelson, $16.99) by Birmingham’s Rev. Chris Hodges offers time- ly advice for Christians who want to influence our culture instead of being influenced by it. Hodges, who is the founder and senior pastor of Church of the Highlands, encourages us to build bridges, be gracious, and offer hope instead of condemnation. We should keep our standards high and our grace deep, and speak truthfully without being contentious or argumentative. We are to stand firm in our faith, but do so with patience and humility. Sin is our enemy, not sinners. We must be careful not Cheryl McWhorter will be appearing confuse the two. Birmingham gospel recording artist, Cheryl McWhorter, recently November 11 at the “Dressed Up But Messed Up Symposium/A Conversa- Daniel lived in one of history's most ungodly released her new single titled “No More.” The single was co-produced tion about Abuse” at Hope Everlast- nations. Babylon was an economic and mili- ing Ministry in Trussville. She is also by Birmingham composer, Lin- tary powerhouse, a culture which mocked God performing December 15 at the Per- and righteousness. Even though Daniel lived a coln Byron Morgan Thomas and is fect Note Jazz Restaurant in Hoover. life of service to Babylon's rulers, he remained meant to bring consciousness to the faithful to God. He knew when to accommo- problem of domestic violence. A date and when to stand firm, when to speak up percentage of the proceeds from the single will be donated to safehouses and when to remain silent. We can learn from across the country. In addition to being a gospel singer, McWhorter is a such a man, and The Daniel Dilemma offers survivor of spousal abuse and the founder of No More, a ministry to vic- valuable lessons on how to navigate a life of tims of domestic violence. McWhorter is known for blending Christian faith in a culture of compromise. melodies with smooth contemporary sounds of jazz, traditional gospel, and a sampling of neo-soul. She got her musical start early. Her father, — Darrel Holcombe, Owner, a pastor would frequently call her up to sing before and after his ser- Author Chris Hodges is the founding and senior mons when she was only seven years old. Her mother, lead singer of an pastor of Church of the Highlands which offers Sanctuary Christian Books and Gifts a cappella gospel group would have her to fill-in when one of the group’s weekly worship services at sixteen campuses across members could not attend an event. Soon she was singing everywhere Alabama, including Birmingham. Listen to his recent Colonial Promenade, she could; at church and in local talent competitions, a pattern that sermon series on the Daniel Dilemma at Alabaster, 205-663-2370 www.churchofthehighlands.com/media/message. continued all the way through high school. She completed her 11-track Find his books at Sanctuary Christian Books and debut album, Cheryl McWhorter: My Story My Song, in 2016. Gifts in Alabaster. Learn more at www.cherylmcwhorter.com

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November 2017 11 Mission Makers 500th Anniversary of the Reformation Celebration Join Christians throughout the world in observing the 500th Anniversary of the Reformation. The Lutheran Church of Vestavia Hills is sponsoring a Reformation Celebration at Hodges Chapel on the campus of Samford University on November 15. There will be preservice music by the Shades Mt. Brass Quintet at 6:30pm and worship at 7 pm. Service music will feature hymns that are a confession of a Lutheran’s faith. Luther under- stood the significance of music: “Next to theology I give music the highest and greatest honor.” Luther desired to communicate the Gospel message that sets people free from the bondage of sin. What better way to spread that message than to teach what we believe through music.

Rev. Dr. Gregory Steltz, who has served as speaker of the Lutheran Hour Radio Program from 2011 to 2017, will Rev. Dr. Gregory Seltz will speak at the 95 theses to the church door of All Saints Church in be the keynote speaker at the Reformation Celebration. November 15 500th Anniversary of the Wittenberg, Germany on October 31, 1517. These theses Dr. Steltz follows in the footsteps of Dr. Walter A. Maier Reformation Celebration at Hodges Chapel called the church leaders to discuss major teachings the first and founding speaker of the Lutheran Hour Samford University. Learn more at of the church that Luther believed were contrary to ministry that gained worldwide popularity in the 30’s www.vestavialutheran.org. Scripture and to stop the unbiblical practice of selling and 40’s with the largest radio audience of the 20th cen- indulgences which the common people were led to be- tury. The Lutheran Hour has a current audience of over lieve shorten time in purgatory and even forgave sins. As a young man, Luther 1 million listeners, airing on more than 1,600 stations across North America had an obsessive fear that he stood under the judgment of a harsh God, “my sin as well as the Armed Forces network. lay heavy night and day” he wrote. In his study of Scripture, he discovered that a person’s relationship with God was a total gift – it is by grace through faith Dr. Martin Luther gave the Reformation its impetus when he nailed the in what Jesus accomplished on the cross that a person stands justified before God. Man is not saved by doing good works but by the good work that Jesus did when He died on the cross for the sins of the world. Luther taught that God does not need our good works but our neighbor does. Good works are the evidence that the person is walking and living in a faith relationship with God through Jesus Christ.

Martin Luther’s reforms focused on these three solas: sola scriptura, sola gratica, and sola fide. Scripture alone is the source of teaching and doctrine; grace alone is responsible for sins forgiven; faith alone receives the gift of a relationship with God for now and in eternity.

“For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith – and this is not from your- selves, it is a gift of God – not by works, so that no one can boast. For we are God’s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.” Ephesians 2:8-10 — Rev. Dr. J. Mark Kuehnert

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12 www.BirminghamChristian.com Birmingham Christian Family Are We There Yet? Bringing Birmingham to NEW HEIGHTS One year ago, this month, Birmingham was introduced to the Sundays from 5-8pm High Point world class climbing facility, High Point Climbing and Fitness. offers a reduce priced day pass “We are really thankful for the opportunity to introduce the perfect for youth groups. Also ask community to climbing and to those who already love the sport, about special church rates, a way to climb to greater heights,” explains High Point General www.highpointclimbing.com. Manager, Tony Levy, who moved to the area to open the facility on Highway 280 after serving as assistant manager at High Point Climbing and Fitness in Chatta- nooga. “Our team is really given the privilege of sharing with parents and kids something they will be able to enjoy the rest of their lives. High Point offers activities at all skill levels. “The Kid Zone is an awesome area for people of all ages to experience climbing- see what climbing is about in a very non-intimidating manner. It’s a really fun introduction to climbing,” says Levy adding, “We have something for everyone from beginning climber to experienced boulderer or rope climber.”

To introduce families to all that High Point as to offer, January 5-6, 2018. About the facility offers day passes as well as monthly and annual member- 60 professional climbers ships. There are also Kids and Youth Club climbing opportunities and will compete and oppor- High Point offers not only opportunities to climb at all a more regimented High Point Birmingham Climbing Team. A cardio tunities will be available for the public to watch skill levels but also a cardio studio, weight room and yoga studio, weight room and yoga classes are available free with a day pass classes which are free with a day pass or membership. or membership. High Point also has special facilities to host birthday qualifiers for free Friday parties and other special events including youth group outings. and Saturday night for $5 per person.

In celebration of their one year anniversary, High Point will host the This month, Birmingham Christian Family is giving away a Family Day Pass to new Reel Rock 12 film November 9 at 7:30pm. Watch the best climbing High Point (4 people/$84 Value). Simply visit Facebook.com/BirminghamChris- and adventure films of the year at this high energy community event. tianFamily, LIKE/FOLLOW our Facebook page AND Share the High Point post Admission is $10 for non-members and $5 for members. High Point to be entered to win! Offer Ends 11/20/17. Winner Announced on Facebook will also host the last stop of the USA Climbing National Cup Series Wednesday, November 22, 2017! Name the New Attraction at Alabama Splash Adventure for a Chance to Receive Season Passes After recently being named one of the five friendliest parks in the world, Alabama Splash Adventure is adding a new kids slide complex and interactive play structure which will debut in May 2018 and feature 5 colorful slides. Some slides will offer gentle, yet exciting hills, while others will offer twists and turns. The interactive play structure will offer various water features that will spray in all directions and provide a fun place for kids to cool off. “Our guests have been requesting a new water attraction and we are listening to our guests,” says Dan Koch, Pres- ident of Alabama Splash Adventure. “This new Here is a rendering of what attraction will be perfect for the children and families that visit Alabama the new interactive play area Splash Adventure, and will help us increase our waterpark capacity as at Alabama Splash Adventure we continue to expand.” In addition, the Park will add additional seating will look like. Submit a name and new cabanas around the attraction so guests can stay cool. The Park for the new attraction for an opportunity to win four compli- Birmingham’s Alabama Splash Adventure was re- is turning to the public to decide on a name for the new attraction. The cently named one of the top five friendliest parks winning entry in the naming contest will receive four complimentary mentary season passes, www.alabamasplash.com. in the world by readers of Amusement Today, a season passes for the 2018 season. Submit your name at www.Ala- national amusement industry news leader. bamaSplash.com.

November 2017 13 Church Leaders It’s a Dangerous Calling and You Can Help There are days when your minister loves his nately, he lives in a glass house with dressed, take the lead, calling. He is absolutely convinced he has the best everyone watching and weighing-in. offer constructive job in the world. Imagine spending hours stud- suggestion, and go to ying God’s Word, expressing the wisdom he has • He also feels less than qualified work. discovered, extending God’s undeserved grace, for his job description. Who can • Relentlessly, point transforming his city, molding tomorrow’s lead- be the total package – scholar, counselor, coach, him to the Gospel and grant him the same grace ers, and orchestrating the worship of God. And and communicator? How can he be an expert on and forgiveness you have received from Christ. atop all this, he gets paid for doing so. However, everything? And though his heart is broken for • Finally, send your minister and other fellow there are also days when he wants to retire, run, sinners, he is forced to wait on the Holy Spirit to leaders to a conference on church health. Perhaps or roll-over into a fetal position. There is no doubt affect the hearts of his beloved. even consider signing them up for the Embers to about it, there are seasons of life when your loving, a Flame conference taking place this January in faithful, and smiling minister feels like he is falling • Perhaps, it is the “competition” that wears him Birmingham (www.Emberstoaflame.org). For al- apart. Why? out. He is very aware he is not to see other church- most twenty years, ministers, elders, and deacons es around him as such, but in his worst of days he from many denominations have been gathering, • It could be his personal sin. He is the profession- sinfully does, and most in leadership around him learning, praying, fellowshipping, repenting, and al who studies and teaches the Father’s holy law unwillingly encourage such thinking. They prove returning home encouraged to carry on. It is an and knows His goodness. More than anyone, he it by their words and actions, and many vote with annual shot-in-the-arm for leaders in the church. knows his own shortcomings. He would tell you their feet. It is a time to freshly focus on church health in- his struggles, but his position requires him to at stead of church growth. least look holy. Yes, your minister has a fantastic calling, but he has a dangerous calling. And unless he is assisted Friends, I encourage you to encourage your minis- • Or consider the unnecessary struggles in the by God, his fellow leaders, and congregants, he ter. Yes, he loves you. But he may be slowing down, church. He enlisted in the Lord’s Army to fight the might wear out; his ministerial knees cut out from wearing out, and be in great danger. You can help world, the flesh, and the devil. It never crossed his under him, and be left with no vitality to minister and encourage. Now, will you? mind that he would encounter it in the ranks. to you. But you can help. — Rev. Joseph Franks has pastored • Then there is the weight of always being on- • First, pray for your minister. Then stop by and in South Carolina, South Florida call. He is always available because he wants to be pray with him. and Birmingham, Ala. In his current available to minister in a moment of need. He can’t • Write him a note of encouragement. position at Briarwood Presbyterian, he “leave his work at the office.” • Help him and his spouse schedule a date-week- is called to be a pastor to pastors. He is end but take away his mobile phone first. eager to talk about the Gospel, the • You have family problems? So does he. He is not • Guard your words, for what you say has unin- Church, the pastorate and Embers always the perfect leader; his home is not neces- tended consequences. Listen more; pray more, and to a Flame, [email protected], sarily a place of perpetual bliss. Like you, he has talk less. 205-533-2396, his fair share of discord and dysfunction. Unfortu- • As you see something that needs to be ad- www.emberstoaflame.org. Encouraging Word The Untouchable, Touched by Jesus One of my favorite biblical accounts is recorded in “I am willing, be cleansed.” You were not supposed Luke 5:12-14 in which Jesus heals a man with a seri- to touch a leper! Jesus didn’t have to touch him. He ous medical condition. Luke, a physician, described could just have said the word and the leper would the man as one “full of leprosy,” meaning it was in an have been healed. Yet, He touched this “untoucha- advanced stage. In Jesus day, this infectious disease ble!” made one religiously and socially unclean. Lepers were ostracized and quarantined from society. No You see there is no sin too bad; no person too evil; one wanted them around. They were considered the no problem too big; no sickness so severe; and no “untouchables.” Leprosy was debilitating and caused one beyond God’s reach. If you will come to Jesus in one to feel helpless and hopeless. The leper was at a faith, submitting to His will; He will touch you and point of despair with no place to go and no one to make you whole. I’m reminded of the Bill Gaither turn to; until he saw Jesus. song, “He Touched Me.” It says, “shackled by a heavy burden; beneath a load of guilt and shame; Apparently, the leper had heard about Jesus and had then the hand of Jesus touched me; and faith that Jesus could do for him what others could not. Luke records that now I am no longer the same.” I pray that Jesus has touched your when the leper saw Jesus, he fell on his face in worship and implored Him life and made you clean and whole. saying, “Lord, if you are willing, You can make me clean.” What Jesus did next just blows me away. Jesus stretched out His hand and touched him, saying, — Tony Cooper, Celebrating 26 Years of Service as Exec. Director Jimmie Hale Mission, www.jimmiehalemission.com

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November 2017 15 According to Duck Dynasty stars Korie and Willie Robertson, 100,000 children currently in the foster care system in the United States are adoptable because their parents’ rights have been terminated. Statistically, 30,000 of those children will never get a “forever family.” The couple has been passionate about adoption since high school and has welcomed three different youth into their home since 2001—an infant, a foreign exchange student and an older child from foster care. In honor of National Adoption Awareness Month, Korie reflects on the beauty of an intentionally large family, the need for adoptive families in the United States, and the re-release of her book Strong and Kind, with added material in honor of newest family member Rowdy, officially adopted last year at 12 years old.

Growing up in a family that made hospitality a priority gave Korie a clear model of the kind of mother she wanted to be when she had a home of her own. During her childhood, her parents hosted more than 80 people who needed a temporary place to live. “We had an extra bedroom that was always full,” she remembers. “They took in families, teenagers that were struggling at home, or single mothers with kids. That really impacted me—to say what’s mine is yours, and if I have an extra room, then someone can have it.” Korie’s first exposure to the adoption process came from her high school Bible teacher, who adopted a little boy her senior year and spent much of instruction time talking about how important it is that Chris- tian families care for orphans. She married Willie in 1992, and after John Luke and Sadie were born, becoming pregnant a third time proved difficult. They took it as a sign that it was time to adopt. Five-week-old Will was living with a foster family in Baton Rouge, Louisiana, when they brought him home in December 2001. In January, Willie surprised Korie with a 10-year wedding anniversary trip to Cancun. She came back pregnant with Bella. “I had two babies on my hip for a while, and it was a lot of fun,” Korie remembers. “It was a little crazy because of Destructo 1 and Destructo 2. They got into everything.”

The next invitation the Robertsons extended to a youth in need of a home was to a foreign exchange student. Sixteen-year-old Rebecca came from Taiwan for one year of high school in 2005. Korie and Willie invited her back the following year, and she never left. Now 28 years old, she had Willie walk her down the aisle at her wedding last year. “Her dad passed away when she was 11, but she still has a mom in Taiwan,” Korie explains. “Her mom was at the wedding, and we sat beside each other as mothers of the bride. So, we are her American family. We never officially adopted her, but she’s ours just like the rest.”

In 2015, Korie had just published the book Strong and Kind and was speaking at an adoption fundraiser when presented with the opportunity to provide a permanent home for an older child from Texas foster care. Familiar with the struggles older children often have finding a home, a woman approached her at the event and asked if she knew of anyone who would take a 12-year-old boy. “We hadn’t really planned on adopting again, but we’ve always remained open to God’s tugging on our heart. It was one of those moments that I thought, ‘Alright, God. This is probably us. I called Willie and he said, ‘Why not? We can do this. Why not us?’ We got In the new content in her re-release of Strong and Kind: And Rowdy a few weeks later, and he became ours last September officially. He makes six.” Korie Other Important Character Traits Your Child Needs to Succeed explains that bringing an older child into the home and adjusting him to sibling relationships (Thomas Nelson, 2017), Korie Robertson shares how a missed had its challenges but also its rewards. “It’s been incredible to see how our other children have flight to Birmingham and the adoption of son, Rowdy, remind- responded to him and accepted him and loved him. At one point Will looked at me and said, ed her that “God’s plans for us are greater than we could ever ‘Mom, have you noticed that me and Bella don’t fight anymore?’ It was like we all had a greater imagine.”

16 www.BirminghamChristian.com Birmingham Christian Family purpose and everyone just stepped up to the plate.” In 2016, the Robertsons celebrated the addition of Rowdy had been raised an only child, and Korie their sixth child, 12-year-old Rowdy. “It’s been a cra- admits that looking back she realizes the transition zy transition but God has been so good and faithful he had to make—into a family of brothers, sisters, throughout it,” says Korie Robertson. cousins, aunts, uncles and grandparents—was monumental. “There was a point where I asked They are going to bed each night thinking, ‘Am him, was it harder or easier than you thought it I going to get a mom and dad? Is this going to was going to be? I said you can be honest. He said happen for me?’ There’s a lot of problems in the it was harder.” world that I know I cannot fix. This is one of the problems that is really solvable,” she says. “A lot After 11 seasons on A&E, the final episode of Duck of people are scared of what it looks like bring- Dynasty aired in April 2017. Today Korie contin- ing in an older child and how the rest of the ues to work in the Duck Commander® business children will react. God doesn’t give us a spirit overseeing licensing for the family’s brands and of fear but one of power that He will take care does philanthropic work as a board member for of our needs. Not that it’s going to be perfect The Congressional Coalition for Adoption Insti- or simple, but raising children biologically isn’t tute and Help One Now, an organization dedicated perfect or simple either.” to ending extreme poverty and providing care for orphans worldwide. Korie and Willie also found- Adopting Rowdy inspired Korie to rerelease a ed the Drive Adoption fund at last year’s Duck paperback edition of Strong and Kind this year, Commander 500 NASCAR race at Texas Motor Speedway. DriveAdoption. with additional content reflecting on the legacy org gives fans the opportunity to learn about domestic and international she wants to pass down to the next generation. The Afterward is a nod to adoption, connect with adoptive organizations, and donate financially to the Rowdy’s assimilation into the Robertson family and how adoption is sym- cause. bolic to the Christian faith. “I have always loved everything about adoption,” she writes. “How it makes families whole; how it is full of hope and promises Korie regularly speaks on behalf of older children waiting to be adopted and to love a child forever and always… how it redeems something broken and says youth who turn 18 and age out of foster care are at a much higher risk makes it whole; how it reminds us that we all are adopted as sons and daugh- for homelessness, early pregnancy or drug addiction than those who gain the ters into God’s family through His Son, Jesus Christ…how it has made our support of a family. She stresses that for all the wealth in the United States, family complete.” finding a home for the 100,000 foster youth currently available for adoption should be simple. “We should be able to have homes for those children. — Camille Smith Platt

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Click on News/Family/Finances November 2017 19 Faith @ Work 101 Mobility: Improving Lives in Our Community Birmingham Christian Family recently sat down with 101 Mobility of Alabama’s Derek Gann who shared with us how God is using his team to serve others in our community. Q. How does owning 101 Mobility allow you to live out your faith in the marketplace? A. As business owners, our main objective is to serve: to serve our customers, community and our employees. My wife Ashley and I believe that emulating the traits of Christ is our greatest earthly calling. From owning a business, to leading my family, and rearing our children, it all points to Jesus. Because 101 Mobility focuses on improving life, what a ministry! We get the opportunity to help people navigate through a difficult and often fragile time. When families and individuals are faced with circumstances that are often beyond their control whether it’s the reality of aging parents, a tragic accident that claims Owners of 101 Mobility Alabama, Derek and one’s mobility, or a Ashley Gann, with their children Reagan and family member with D.C. at their 101 Mobility office on Highway a disability it is easy 280 near Greystone. to feel discouraged or broken. That’s the Q. How does your faith impact how you run your business? beauty of Jesus and A. Simply put, our faith drives us. Each day we remind ourselves that all what we get to do as that we do on this side of eternity should all point to the greatness of Jesus. owners of 101 Mobility. We get to be a part of restoring others. We can bring Even leading up to the decision to become business owners, every day was back some hope and dignity. We make the days ahead easier than the days filled with prayer. We asked for wisdom, discernment and direction. Ashley before. 101 Mobility provides mobility devices to help individuals regain that and I feel that God has led us to right where we are and we must be faithful independence. We help families live longer in their homes and provide free stewards of what we’ve been given. We think the greatest leader of all time face to face consultations that help guide customers through all their options is Jesus and we try daily to replicate those traits. Our faith doesn’t mean our and what works best for their needs. business is void of difficult decisions or tough calls, but our faith guides us and reassures us of our purpose. We strongly believe that you have to have vision and our vision is to love our customers well, build strong community relationships, and provide top-notch service. These goals are all predicated on our faith and our hope to be a glimmer of light in what can be a dimmer time in one’s life.

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November 2017 21 Healthy Living Keys to Successful Marriage Therapy Why do some couples benefit from mar- In addition, it is important that the thera- riage therapy while other couples do not? pist is of the same faith as the clients. I’m My work has led me to the following con- reminded of an individual client who came clusions. to me for an initial session even though she was already engaged in therapy with anoth- The most important factor is a faith-based er psychologist. She told me that when she foundation of the marriage. I have tried to asked the other psychologist whether she provide therapy to spouses who were not and he could incorporate spirituality into devoted to God; the results were not good. their work together, he had replied, “We can Here’s why: talk about religion some if you want, but I don’t want it to get in the way of our work.” • A person with little or no faith likely will In the way? If your spirituality has the enter into a marriage with the goal of find- importance that it should have in your life, ing happiness through the relationship. This you don’t attempt anything without it; and is an inherent problem. God wants each of you certainly can’t expect to improve your us to find joy and peace through Christ; the thoughts, feelings, and behaviors without it. spouse should be a help to that goal, not a substitute for that goal. To explore the opportunities to participate in online therapy in our practice • In marriages not based in faith, typically, one’s own happiness is the top pri- or to explore the opportunities to attend our Marriage Bread workshop, ority. This seems perfectly natural, but God calls us to rise above our nature please visit our website at www.crosswalknow.com, call our office at 334-744- and to live a life of sacrifice. When I give to a couple the homework assign- 3694, or email us at [email protected]. ment, “Each day, find a new way to demonstrate your love for your spouse,” the faithless couple returns and reports to me that they only made a slight — Dr. Thomas Maple is an Alabama-licensed psychologist and effort to do the homework. Why? Because, as they display in our discussions, the founder of Crosswalk Psychological Services, LLC. His clini- each spouse is chiefly focused on what he or she isn’t getting from the mar- cal background includes work in private practice and in univer- riage rather than what he or she isn’t giving to it. sity clinics. Born and raised in the Birmingham area, he resides in Auburn with his wife and his two daughters.

Bringing Out The Winner

When I heard this phrase it made a lot of sense-

“I don’t have trouble with what I don’t understand from the Bible – what I have trouble with is what I DO understand.”

As parents, sometimes we forget the basics God wants us to know and do. We worry about how we look, how we dress, and how others perceive us. However, I have never read in the Bible any command to buy a bigger house, drive a better car or wear nicer clothes. What we ARE reminded of repeatedly is building strong character, having good morals and ethics, developing decision-making skills, choosing our friends wisely, and being honest. I think you get the point!

You and I need to do a regular check-up regarding where our focus is, and in turn what we are teaching our children to be focused on. Great homes fall, money can be lost, and clothes will deteriorate – but Godly character, strong values, and good decision making skills will, literally, last a — John Croyle lifetime. Founder, Big Oak Ranch, Author, Who You Are/Defying the Circumstances that Define Us, Bringing Out the Winner in Your What are you focused on today? Better yet, what are your children focused Child, The Two Minute Drill to Manhood and on? Don’t let the simplicity of Proverbs 22:6 escape us. Training is a consist- Raising a Princess, www.bigoak.org ent, daily process. May we build champions for Christ today! Read more of John Croyle’s columns for parents at www.BirminghamChristian.com.

22 www.BirminghamChristian.com Birmingham Christian Family Healthy Living ROW, ROW, ROW for Your Health! No matter what your age is, a fitness plan that in- workout is finally gaining speed • Sit Up Straight. cludes cardio (or aerobic exercise) is an important and getting its proper due with Maintain good contributor to your overall health. The benefits mainstream America. And it’s posture throughout; of regular aerobic exercise include weight loss, well placed. Rowing is high your entire core increased stamina, and a stronger immune system. intensity and low impact, so it’s a should be in line Endorphins released while you work out can also win-win at the onset. Even better all the way down to help improve your mood and sleep quality. Be- – when it’s done correctly, row- your seat. cause it requires the use of so many major muscle ing engages about 85% of your • Breathe Well. groups, a rowing machine is an effective way to muscles. Now that’s a champion- Exhale going back- raise your heart rate and increase your oxygen in- ship workout! ward; inhale going take for an effective cardio workout. The adjustable forward. resistance on most rowers lets you easily work up There’s a proper technique to oaring, though, • Stay Fluid. Don’t drive the seat into your feet; to your target heart rate as well as slow back down both in and out of the water. Below are a few keep your motion steady and smooth to the finish to your resting rate. Great for weight loss, toning training tips to help you maximize the benefits of – not choppy. and building muscles, and increasing stamina, this your rowing routine: machine is a fitness game changer. Rowers work • Don’t Grip the Handles Too Tightly. This will So, who’s ready to row? It’s a great workout for all out several major muscle groups and will help you protect your hands and forearms from pain and ages and fitness levels. Best of all, you don’t need develop both your upper and lower body. Most soreness later. an Ivy League coach, eight-man crew or frigid importantly, using a rowing machine gets your • Lead with Your Legs. If you’re doing it right, winter waters – just your heart pumping and lungs working, providing a your leg (and butt) muscles should be doing the neighborhood Y! serious aerobic workout. most work. • Legs, Hips, Arms – Reverse! This is the progres- -Jean Bowick It has been called the “new spinning.” Yet this sion of movement for rowing. Very important! YMCA of Greater Birming- fitness craze is based on a sport that dates back to • Pull Straight Back. If you’re pulling back – not ham, www.ymcabham.org Ancient Egypt, and the machine itself has been up – your body should stay firmly seated through- around since the Civil War era. So why, suddenly, out the workout. Read more healthy information has rowing skimmed ahead of many modern fit- • Pull with Your Legs, NOT Your Arms. Keep your from the YMCA at ness fads and longtime cardio standards? Besides elbows straight, but relaxed, while your legs are www.BirminghamChristian.com. the fact that “vintage is in,” it seems this age-old doing the heft. Click on News/Health

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24 www.BirminghamChristian.com Birmingham Christian Family Special Feature Voices of the South PRESENTS Christmas at the Lyric Saturday, December 9 at 7:00 pm

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For more information, Armed Forces and their families are invited to join Governor Kay Ivey at go to the the American Village in Montevallo for the Governor’s Salute to Alabama Voices of the South website: Veterans. The event is free and begins with a Service of Recognition and www.voicesofthesouth.com Thanksgiving at 10:15 and concludes with lunch. “On this day we will come together to recognize, honor, and thank Alabama’s veterans, active members Voices of the South of the United States Armed Forces, and their families,” explains Tom Walk- presents er, Founder and President, The American Village Citizenship Trust. “Our Nation, our State, and the people of Alabama must never forget the service Christmas and sacrifices made for our liberty and for our freedoms.” at the Lyric Saturday, December 17 at 7:00 pm.

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All veterans and their families are encouraged to attend the Governor’s Salute to Alabama Veterans at the American Village in Montevallo November 10.

The Service of Recognition and Thanksgiving will take place in the Amer- ican Village’s Colonial Chapel and will honor WWII veterans and their families. Special organ music will be provided by Dr. Laurie Middaugh. The Veterans Day Program and Governor’s Salute to all U.S. veterans will begin at 11am at the National Veterans Shrine with music provided by Ms. Mil- dred Lanier, Mrs. Denise George, Dr. Joe Ardovino and the University of Montevallo Concert Band. The Salute will conclude with free lunch provided by the American Village and Full Moon Bar-B-Q while quantities last. Although the event is free, attendees are asked to register online at www. americanvillage.org/2017governorssalutetoalabamaveterans or call 205-665- 3535 extension 1776.

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November 2017 25 Education Extra 5 Ways to Equip Your Kids for Faithful Living Since we as parents are called to equip our kids for they have a bent toward academic laziness? Are we Are you teaching them to put others first? a lifetime of living under the Lordship of Jesus, it pushing back on the anxiety-producing obsession is essential for us to prepare them for a lifetime of and academic competitiveness some kids have, 5.Driving. There’s a reason why states and insur- weaving together the inseparable bond that must where they are never satisfied with the results of ance companies place restrictions on new teenage exist between belief and behavior. What we must their best efforts? Are we teaching them to study drivers. They’re new to this, without experience, instill in our kids is both a knowledge of the Gos- first and foremost to increase their knowledge of and developmentally impulsive. Are you teaching pel message (belief), along with how that message God and His world, as opposed to achieving the your kids to see driving as an act of worship where must inform, shape, and transform, every square idol of good grades? Are we helping them see that they can bring glory to God through safe driving inch of life (behavior). As I look around at today’s academic achievements are not an end in and of habits. . . beginning with putting their smartphone youth culture, there are numerous aspects of child- themselves, but that they are a path to contributing aside while behind the wheel? hood and adolescent life where Christian parents to God’s work in the world? The life of the Christian is one that is to be lived must begin challenging and equipping their kids to counter-culturally and around the clock. Equip see how Christian beliefs speak to their behaviors. 3.Posting. Our kids will be engaging with social your kids for faithful living and for effective Here are five key areas to consider: media and technology for the rest of their lives. mission by nurturing them into playing, studying, Are you teaching them to live out their faith on so- posting, relating, and driving to the glory of God. 1.Playing. Many of our kids are involved in athlet- cial media by setting up clear borders and bounda- ics. Are we teaching them what it means to play to ries, along with endeavoring to bring glory to God — Dr. Walt Mueller, God’s glory as opposed to the glory of self? And, rather than trying to solicit glory and attention for Founder & President, are we equipping them to prioritize rather than self? Are you leading them to find their identity in Center for Parent/Youth Understanding overprioritize or idolize sport and play? Are we Christ alone, rather than in the frequency of “likes” helping them put their lives in order by teaching and positive comments to their curated/fabricated Learn more from Dr. Mueller, them to see opportunities for spiritual nurture posts and photos that typically don’t even come February 3, at his “No Parent and gathering with the Body of Christ as a higher close to representing their true selves. Left Behind” seminar at the Bir- mingham Parenting Collective priority than practices and games? Conference, Oak Mountain High 4.Relating. Are you teaching your kids to honor, School auditorium. For details 2.Studying. Do we expect them to work to the best love, and respect authority? Are you equipping and tickets go to of their ability, producing the best work they can if them to glorify God through their friendships? www.bhamparentingcollective.com

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Registration, call college age or older and have join us whether you have St. Vincent’s East, Cancer Treat- Every Monday at 6:00pm, Group, 1st Tuesday of month, call 410-2156 933-0790 lost a close family member, vision, low vision, some vision ment Center Christian support for people Facilitator Louis Josof, One Eighty/Clearbranch DivorceCare please call 205.991.5430 or or no vision, Call Gwendolyn 2nd Wednesday of the month. recovering from addiction or 12:00pm-1:30pm, free lunch UMC Ministry, Every Friday Asbury United Methodist, email [email protected] for Brown 205-685-0570 for more 12:00pm, free lunch provided. life issues. Family members provided. Call 930-2217, at 6:00pm, 5770 U.S. Highway Sundays, September 18 - questions and/or registration. information. 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First 35126, call 681-9762 Safe Harbor Age): Shades Valley Presby- 408-6551 addiction. Also groups for Wednesday of every month, Every Tuesday faith-based terian, Tues 5:30pm; St. John their spouses. Visit www. Presbyterian Church COPD Multiple Myeloma 4th Tuesday of every month. 11:00am, free lunch provided. support for those who have AMEMon 5:30pm; Trussville route1520.com for locations, Call 838-3519 for details St. Vincent’s Blount teens in rebellion. Signs of UMC, Thurs 5:30pm. Southern Legacy BBQ dates, times throughout the 6:00-7:30pm, 6110 Deerfoot Rays of Hope General Spousal Loss Asbury Parkway, Trussville. Call First Tuesday of every month, rebellion can be disrespect, 2943 John Hawkins Parkway, Birmingham area Hunter Street Baptist 2600 6:00pm social withdrawal, dropping UMC, Sun 5:30 pm. Hoover, AL 35244, 2nd Satur- Diane at 205-681-6431. Visit Loss of Adult Child, Dawson Weight Loss www.fambridge.org John Hawkins Parkway, grades, truancy, substance day of month, 11:00am-1pm, Hoover, call 985-7295, email Divorce/Grief Recovery abuse, call 981-0995, visit Baptist, Mon 6pm. email [email protected] Indian Springs First Baptist [email protected] Rebuilding www.thesafeharbor.org Loss of Parent, Grandparent, Mondays, 5:30-6:30pm, 3375 Alzheimers and Sibling, Ostomy Covenant Place, Gardendale A Divorce and Grief Recovery Dawson Baptist, Cahaba Valley Rd, www.tops. Celebrate Recovery Group- Interdenominational, Grief Thurs 6pm. 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