Howard County Council Weighs Gender-ID Bill By Steve Charing Twenty advocates of a bill to ban discrimination based on gender identity in Howard County testified before the County Council on OUT December 2, 2011 | Volume IX Issue 15 November 21. The bill, CB-54, was introduced on October 27 and was City Aims for 25% Reduction in New HIV Infection sponsored by four of the five council members – all Democrats: Chairman By Dana LaRocca all resources available. the national AIDS strategy. She asked at- Calvin Ball, Mary Kay Sigaty, Mayor Stephanie Rawlings-Blake received “This is a comprehensive roadmap for tendees to be not just a part of the spirit, Jennifer Terrasa and Courtney the prevention plan from the Baltimore City HIV/AIDS coordination, treatment, and re- but also a part of the hard work that lies Watson. The fifth member, Greg Fox, Commission on HIV/AIDS and announced duction in Baltimore,” said Mayor Raw- ahead. a Republican did not sign on. it at a press conference on Tuesday No- lings-Blake. “It is a call to action that In reference to the The B’more The bill was crafted and placed vember 29. It is an aggressive plan to can change lives and change our Aware of HIV: The Living Red Rib- before the council as a result of the dramatically reduce new HIV infections, city with a coordinated set of strate- bon event to be held on World Aids work of Gender Rights Maryland expand treatment, and coordinate services gies, which can help those who are Day, she asked Baltimoreans to and the Howard County chapter of in order to make a significant improvement not infected stay HIV-free, improve “show the world what we know, PFLAG. It would prohibit discrimi- in fighting the HIV/AIDS crisis in Baltimore the lives of those who are HIV-pos- and that is that Baltimore is aware, nation based on gender identity and by 2015. itive, and improve that provision of that Baltimore cares, and that Balti- expression in the areas of housing, The ambitious goals of the plan are to health care to the most at-risk popu- more is committed to stopping the law enforcement, public accom- reduce new HIV infections by 25 percent in lations.” spread of HIV.” modations, financing, employment, Baltimore City by 2015, to provide earlier She explained that in Balti- The mayor introduced Fran and health and social services. intervention, to provide more continuous more, “countless people from Phillips (Deputy Secretary The bill states the following: “An and comprehensive care, and to reduce all walks of life have died from for Public Health Services, act amending the Health and Social health disparities by focusing on more at HIV and AIDS, more than DHMH), who spoke next. Services Title of the Howard Coun- risk populations. The Baltimore City Com- 13,000 people, 2 percent of Secretary Phillips said that ty Code to include gender identity mission of HIV/AIDS believes these goals the city’s population, are living we look forward to a future for and expression as a classification are realistically achievable by 2015. The with HIV,” the Mayor said. She Maryland in which there are no protected against certain types of strategy is aligned with the U.S. national added that Baltimore should be new HIV infections and pointed unlawful, discriminatory practices; goals for HIV/AIDS established in 2010 in leading the way, that this strategy is our to the governor’s commitment to that goal. and generally relating to the Human an effort to improve the City of Baltimore’s path forward, and that she is especially The latest comprehensive data available Rights law of Howard County.” Gen- ability to access and effectively implement pleased that Baltimore’s vision aligns with —continued on page 7 der identity or expression means a gender-related identity or appear- ance of an individual regardless of SCREEN SAVOR: 2011 HOLIDAY GRAB BAG the individual’s assigned sex at birth. If passed gender identity would become the 16th protected class Happy Anniversaries in Howard County, a jurisdiction known for its progressive record on By Gregg Shapiro mond Edition and Bambi II: Special Edition diversity, and it would join two other Disney delights – Beloved animat- (both Disney, $39.99) both include newly Maryland jurisdictions, Baltimore ed flying circus elephant Dumbo enhanced digitally restored blu-rays and City and Montgomery County with (Disney, $39.99) turns 70 and is DVDs, as well as an array of bonus fea- —continued on page 3 celebrated with a double disc, tures. newly enhanced digital restoration The 30th anniversary edition of The anniversary edition that includes Fox and the Hound (Disney, $39.99) fea- the cartoon classic on blu-ray and turing the voices of Sandy Duncan, Kurt DVD. One of Disney’s earliest and Russell and the late Pearl Bailey, among most inspirational commemora- others, comes in a triple disc combo pack. tions of being different, the movie The blu-ray disc includes The Fox and the also contains the glorious lullaby Hound and its 2006 sequel The Fox and “Baby Mine.” Both the blu-ray and the Hound II, plus bonus material. The two the DVD contain an abundance of DVDs contain each of the films individually. bonus material. Following close behind, War stories R ichard Espey of GLSEN – Bambi which turns 70 in 2012, Dances with Wolves (MGM, $29.99), ‘Transgender and gender- and Bambi II which turns five, the winner of 7 Academy Awards, includ- nonconforming students are have also been given the reis- ing Best Picture of 1990, commemorates particularly vulnerable in schools’ sue treatment. The Bambi: Dia- —continued on page 18 photo: Steve Charing news // LOCAL

Homeless in Baltimore Town Hall Recently, Baltimore City introduced a ten- year plan to end homelessness, entitled “The Co-Publishers Journey Home.” This plan intends to combat Jim Becker • Jim Williams Meeting at homelessness through ensuring affordable [email protected] housing, comprehensive healthcare, suffi- Executive Editor cient incomes, and comprehensive preven- Jim Becker the TDOR tive and emergency services. In a city with [email protected] thousands of abandoned homes, there are Managing Editor By Corey Reidy Dana LaRocca also thousands living homeless. As of the last [email protected] For 13 years, the Transgender Day of Remem- census, over 4000 individuals stated that they Production Director brance (TDOR) has been commemorated both experience homelessness. Bill Andriette to honor those who have died at the hands of On November 19, 2011, over 300 advo- Sales Director anti-trans hatred and to bring visibility to lives cates to fight homelessness had their second Mary Taylor that are so often forgotten. On November 20, annual sleep-out action: “A Bench is Not a Bed.” [email protected] Baltimore gathered in memorial for TDOR. This action was meant to stimulate conversa- Leather Columnist Rodney Burger On November 19, Baltimore also had its tion on how communities can collaboratively first Transgender Day of Celebration (TDOC). Contributing Writers combat homelessness. The organizing group Shawn Bradley • Cathy Brennan • Terrence Brower • This celebration brought positive visibility to the Activist Owen Smith remembering the dead Steve Charing • Jeffrey Clagett • Jeffrey Clouser • Chuck Duncan was granted a permit from 6 pm to 9 pm. su- photo: Clayton Conn trans-community. TDOC was a space for the prisingly, this permit was not extended through • Gerry Fisher • Eva Hersh MD • Sam Kunz • Jessica Lemmo • Jay Loane • Meredith Moise • Vann Mills • Colin Riley • community, and allies, to collaboratively envi- the night. Shortly after 9 pm, the police force- there isn’t an overflow plan for women. Yet, Gregg Shapiro • sion future realities, educate one another, and fully removed the demonstrators. there is an overflow plan for men. When all to support each other in becoming activists. On the city’s “Journey Home” website, they 175 male beds are filled, they transport an ad- Graphics These exercises in empowerment happened ask the community to “do their part.” In a Balti- ditional 100 men to a nearby shelter. When Joe Velasquez • Bob Wellington in various ways from watching a trans-positive more Sun article, organizer Lisa Klingenmaier, the female beds are filled, women are turned Cartoonist Bruce Garrett (www.brucegarrett.com) PSA, participating in an anti-oppression train- writes, “the way city officials (through the police away. ing, and various workshops. TDOC ended with force) responded to our presence sends the Photographers On November 1, HRC added an addi- Bruce Garrett • Jay W Photos • Justin Nixon the Town Hall Meeting: “Homelessness and message that the city does not welcome the tional 20 female beds. There is still no female Transgender Communities, part 2” (referenc- Web Editor help of students, advocates and people affected overflow plan. Anja Saine ing July’s Town Hall as part 1). by homelessness... our voices were silenced.” There is no visible discussion on how to [email protected] Managed Web Services This past summer, the city opened its first ensure more beds for transgender individuals. The Fusio Group year-round 24/7 shelter: Housing and Re- 866-322-7498, www.thefusiogroup.com source Center (HRC). The shelter is meant to The Town Hall National Advertising Rep Dawning of replace Code Blue. Code Blue had become Town Hall Meeting “Homelessness and Rivendell Media notorious for its shockingly deplorable condi- Transgender Communities, part 1” took place 908-232-2021 Occupy Baltimore tions and alleged abusive staff. HRC houses on June 14, 2011. Despite some anticipated Founders Jim Becker • Joe Berg • Mike Chase • The Bank of America building watches a hundred fewer occupants than Code Blue, at flaws, it was hailed as an important step forward Lee Mooney (1959-2007) • Jim Williams from above as the 99 percent awakens 250 per night. 175 of HRC’s beds are allocated in galvanizing the city on trans-homelessness from their slumber. for males. 75 of those beds are earmarked for issues. Baltimore OUTloud women. Eight beds in the shelter have been set The 2010 National Transgender Discrimi- P.O. Box 3640, Baltimore, Maryland 21214 410-244-6780 aside, “with transgender people in mind,” ac- nation Survey reports that discrimination affects www.baltimoreoutloud.com cording to JHR’s (Jobs – Housing – Recovery) every trans-person. Through analyzing how Gabby Knighton. However, those beds are first discrimination enacts on the trans-body, the Additional Information come, first serve. It is unclear if trans-individuals Baltimore OUTloud is published every other Friday by Pride survey relates that one of the all-too-frequent Media, Ltd. in Baltimore, Maryland. Readers comments and ever actually utilize the rooms. realized results is the chronic lack of housing. unsolicited materials are welcomed and may be sent to: editor@ On November 29, 2011, the American TDOC’s Town Hall Meeting: “Homeless and baltimoreoutloud.com. All materials appearing in this newspaper are the property of Pride Media, Ltd. and may not be reproduced Civil Liberties Union of Maryland (ACLU) and Transgender Communities, part 2” was meant without the written permission of the editor. the Homeless Persons Representation Proj- to continue the conversation; as well as to incite ect (HPRP) had its first hearing against the the trans-community into action. Transgender city on a “resolution calling for an investiga- Response Team (TRT) members organized tion of gender discrimination at the Baltimore and facilitated the meeting. The panel included City homeless shelter.” Kate Briddell, director of homeless services, ACLU and HPRP were asked to testify in Kevin Cleary, deputy director of the Mayor’s response to a letter they wrote to the mayor, Office of Neighborhoods, Mary Slicher, the ex- “...asking for immediate intervention to remedy ecutive director of Project PLASE, and Veronica the city’s policy of providing overflow shelter Thomas from the investigative division of the beds only to men... the city’s policy unlawfully Office of Civil Rights and Wage Enforcement. The opinions expressed in Baltimore OUTloud are solely those of discriminates against women in violation of the The panel initiated the dialogue by stating the writers unless otherwise indicated and do not necessarily reflect the views of Pride Media, Ltd. Equal Protection Clause of the 14th Amend- their hope for the meeting to be done in good ment to the U.S. Constitution and the Equal faith and towards productive outcomes. The © 2011 – All rights reserved Rights Amendment to the Maryland Constitu- crowd first heard from the panel participants, Chair of the Board of Trustees – Jim Becker ‘I fear all we have done is to awaken a tion.” (ACLU press release, 11/29/11) both in ways of introduction and in discussion President – Jim Williams sleeping giant and fill him with a terrible This case is not only in reference to there about hopes and concerns. The second part Secretary and Treasurer – Mike Chase resolve.’ (Isoroku Yamamoto) being less allotted beds for women than for of the meeting was Q&A. photo: Bruce Garrett men, but is also responding to the fact that —continued on page 7 2 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD DECEMBER 2, 2011 • baltimoreoutloud.com snew // LOCAL

Howard County Council gate Gail Bates, a Republican from West Weighs Gender-ID Bill Friendship. He lambasted several of the – continued from front page protected classes under the county’s anti-discrimination law including sexual similar protections. A statewide bill is ex- orientation and called the proposed bill pected to be introduced in the 2012 Gen- “a knee-jerk reaction” to the Chrissy Lee eral Assembly. Polis beating at a Baltimore County Mc- Those testifying on behalf of the bill Donalds last spring. received support from several dozen Kathy Stefano said “it’s not a well-writ- backers, most of whom donned purple as ten bill” and told the council that her rights a way of expressing unity. People from a would be taken away if individuals “with variety of professional backgrounds testi- male parts” were allowed to enter a rest- fied including Howard County Register of room she was using. Wills Byron Macfarlane; Gender Rights All four sponsors told Baltimore OUT- Maryland Board members Sharon Brack- loud at the conclusion of the proceedings ett, Dr. Dana Beyer and Jonathan Shurb- that there was nothing offered by the op- erg; Donna Cartwright of Pride at Work; ponents that would cause them to re-think Richard Espey of the Gay, Lesbian and their positions, virtually guaranteeing pas- Straight Education Network; Liz Seaton sage of the bill on December 5. “The data of the National Center for Lesbian Rights, demonstrated that ending the discrimina- Wesley Garson of National Gay and Les- tion is the right thing to do,” said Council bian Task Force and Carrie Evans, the Chairman Calvin Ball. new Executive Director of Equality Mary- Dana LaRocca, Baltimore OUTloud’s land. managing editor, who did not testify, later In addition, people from all walks of asked Ball to explain a vague provision in life – transgender folks as well as parents the bill: “Public accommodations does not and relatives of children who identify as include accommodations that are distinctly transgender – testified how discrimination private or personal.” He stated that the based on gender identity and expression language was derived from the success- has hurt them or their loved ones economi- ful Montgomery County bill but offered no cally and socially. Catherine Hyde from clarification. PFLAG offered a compelling testimony on Those supporting the bill were ecstatic how she almost lost her transgender child over the way the proceedings went. “Our to suicide. friends and allies pulled out all the stops Beyer was the architect of the success- and we made a great, and compelling, ful Montgomery County anti-discrimination showing for our community,” said Brack- bill, and Shurburg, an attorney from Silver ett. “I am very confident that this compre- Spring, Md., defended the bill that took ef- hensive bill will become the law in Howard fect in September 2008. He said, “There County. I could not ask for a better Christ- were a lot of arguments put forward about mas gift.” what was going to happen if that bill passed “I think tonight was a resounding suc- … and quite frankly, none of it happened. cess,” said Hyde. “I’m grateful to all of my People have learned that the law exists, fellow Howard Countians who came out in particularly large employers have educat- support of us and all the magnificent na- ed themselves.” This apparently resonated tional experts – I am absolutely thrilled with the council members. how it went tonight.” Only four opponents to the bill testified. Caroline Temmermand, a transwoman, They mainly relied on scare tactics using posted on Facebook: “If you were there stereotypes and selected biblical referenc- tonight you know that your presence mat- es to augment their positions. Two women ter. It mattered to the elected officials, it – Vanessa Ali and Grace Harley – were mattered to those in opposition, and it mat- asked by council members to provide sta- tered to those who once wrongly believed Offering Bankruptcy Assistance tistical data to back up their claims. Neither that they were all alone in this world – that could produce that information. no one would understand them – or that HPK will recommend various options that may be One of the opponents was David their neighbors wouldn’t ever stand up for available to protect your assets Bates, the husband of anti-LGBT dele- them.” t [ [ [ [ [ [

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BALTIMORE OUTLOUD DECEMBER 2, 2011 • baltimoreoutloud.com q 3 snew // LOCAL Ten Questions for Carrie Evans Carrie Evans is poised to become the be your role in this new coalition? next executive director of Equality Mary- CE: EQMD is on the steering commit- land (EQMD). Following several turbulent tee for MME. We are involved in every as- months, the organization is ex- pect of the marriage fight periencing a comeback both fi- and all of the strategic nancially and structurally. with a decisions. new board of directors and a new SC: How will your leader at the helm, EQMD is po- organization support sitioning itself to effectively fight Gender Rights Mary- on a statewide basis for marriage land’s (GRMD) efforts equality and to help secure pro- to secure a compre- tections based on gender identity hensive law that offers and expression. protections based on Just a few days before Ms. gender identity? Evans officially begins her tenure, CE: We will be meet- she answered questions from Bal- ing with GRMD in early timore OUTloud’s senior political December to discuss analyst, Steve Charing. She dis- Carrie Evans how we will work togeth- cusses the upcoming General As- er to get this long over- sembly, Governor O’Malley’s role, due bill passed. There is and how a leaner Equality Maryland can plenty of work to be done, so we will de- be effective. cide who is doing what, and we will work in Steve Charing: You left Equality partnership to make it happen. Maryland in 2009. What made you want SC: In the 2011 General Assem- to come back? bly Governor O’Malley claimed he had Carrie Evans: The time was right. worked behind the scenes to secure There is a terrific new Board ready to help passage of a marriage equality bill. He rebuild the organization coupled with this has promised to be more proactive in being a critical time for LGBT equality in the upcoming session. What makes you Maryland. believe he can change the minds of a SC: As you assume your duties, few delegates this time? what is your first priority? CE: When the chief executive of the CE: Being ready for the legislative ses- state makes something his legislative pri- sion that begins on January 11th. ority the nature of the discussion chang- SC: Equality Maryland experienced a es. He has access to legislators who rather public free-fall following the last may never talk to us or our lobbyists. The General Assembly. What do you intend governor’s legislative team will be work- to do to restore the confidence of the ing alongside the MME lobbyists, which LGBT community in the organization? makes for a powerful collection of some of CE: The best way to restore confidence the best mind-changers in Annapolis. Ad- in EQMD is to continue doing the hard work ditionally, I think the power of the gover- it takes to make this state a better place to nor’s intellectual and religious journey to live for LGBT Marylanders. being supportive of marriage equality can- SC: From an organizational stand- not be overstated. For the legislators still FEATURING Ellen Greene, point and with the new expanded board struggling with reconciling their religious/ Broadway’s original Audrey from Little Shop of Horrors of directors, to what extent has Equality spiritual beliefs with supporting marriage Maryland’s structure and responsibili- equality, I think they can find insight and ties changed? assistance in the governor’s progression. CE: Because this is the smallest staff SC: If such a bill passes and signed EQMD has had in a long time [executive into law, a petition to referendum is a director, office manager and field organizer near certainty with well-funded oppo- for transgender equality] the organization nents ready to launch an anti-marriage DECEMBER 16 – 18 will need to rely heavily on our new Board equality campaign. Is it wise to wait un- LisnEr Auditorium members and their skills as well as asking til the General Assembly is completed the community to take a more active role in to counter the opposition or should the assisting the organization in our work. planning begin now? SC: For several years Equality Mary- CE: We absolutely cannot wait until the for tickets call 202.293.1548 or visit gmcw.org land led the fight for marriage equality, session ends. We are working on a refer- Presenting Sponsors: Media Sponsor Proud Sponsors and last year the bill advanced further endum campaign plan now. Jim & Barbara Tozzi than ever before. In July, the new group SC: Please tell us about the Equality Marylanders for Marriage Equality Maryland fundraiser on December 6. (MME) had assumed the lead. What will —continued on page 7 4 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD DECEMBER 2, 2011 • baltimoreoutloud.com news // INTERNATIONAL

rubles ($32,000). could consider options for compulsory treat- Alexander Podrabinek Culture War in Russia Writing in his ment of homosexuality, as well as a ban for journal, Podrabinek calls this the “return to these individuals to work in government ser- By Dana LaRocca with pedophilia. This universally recognized barbarism.” Years in labor camps have failed vice.” In the early days of the Gay Rights Movement misrepresentation conflates legal acts be- to soften his tone, he does not speak of “lov- Sergei Malinkovich, a right wing leader in in America, it was not uncommon for activists tween consenting adults and crimes against ing committed couples,” he speaks of human the St. Petersburg-Leningrad region, says that to be ostracized, to lose their livelihood, and to minors. It misleads the public into believing rights, denied, by a system that has taken on a gay club is like an extremist organization. suffer the loss of dignity and reputation. In 21st that they equate each other, whilst the garb of the former Soviet Union. Podrabinek says that the forces that seek century Russia, it is worse. it is clearly not the case.” “Slaves always try to copy their mas- to limit freedom and human rights because it is Alexander Podrabinek was the co-found- On November 23 the spokes- ters,” he says. “Therefore, when Putin easier to take the rights of a few, than to take er, in Russia, of the Workers’ Commission to person for the U.S. Department of suffers from shame for the collapse them all, all at once. “To take away the freedom Investigate the Use of Psychiatry for political State said in the daily press brief- of the Soviet Union, smaller servants of all at once, no one is obtained, [but to] limit purposes. In 1978, he was arrested for slan- ing, “We are deeply concerned by are dragged into the light of Soviet it, step by step, it is quite possible,” he says. der against the Soviet system, sentenced to 5 proposed local legislation in Rus- customs and laws.” He suggests that “And there’s nothing better than to begin it with years of exile in the northeastern Siberia. sia that would severely restrict the current regime could not “resist a sexual minorities, the rights which within tra- Today he fights a new battle in opposi- freedoms of expression and as- A lexander dipping on all fours and give vent to ditionalist society, few people care about. What tion to a recent St. Petersburg law that would sembly for lesbian, gay, bisexual, Podrabinek its animal instincts.” a devilish fun – take from the public under the prohibit “the promotion of homosexuality, les- and transgender (LGBT) individu- The lofty language of the HRC freedom of his own to the applause!” bianism, and transgenderism to minors.” This als, and indeed all Russians. As Secretary or Equality Maryland would be lost on a man He sees this as a purely political question, law outlaws public expression of being gay, Clinton has said, gay rights are human rights who has never mentioned marriage equality or carefully disguised as moral. He compares the Pride events, it would even outlaw newspa- and human rights are gay rights.” claimed to be good as you. Just as in America, authors of these laws to “the most odious fun- pers similar to Baltimore OUTloud. The new The draft law just passed in the St. Peters- the forces on the right have joined hands with damentalist regimes.” Podrabinek sees this as Russia is equating gayness with pedophilia, burg Legislative Assembly against “public ac- the Church. The Russian Orthodox Church is a slope that, because it is not very steep, the stirring up the tired meme that gays are “re- tions aimed at promoting sodomy, lesbianism, working with political powers, Archpriest Vladi- movement to the right will not be too notice- cruiting” children. bisexuality, transgenderism” to minors, as well mir Smirnov, offered to publish lists of “enemies able, “But it would be difficult to stop. Along The European Parliament’s intergroup on as similar actions “aimed at promoting pedo- of the family.” This means gay folk. In 2008, this road you can regress to the days when the LGBT rights wrote in a letter to the chairman philia,” has a penalty of up to 50 thousand Smirnov suggested that prayer could restore law of the tribe was the will of the strongest.” t of the Legislative Assembly of St. Petersburg rubles ($1600), according to a November Russia to Tsarist rule within five or ten years. Quotes from Alexander Podrabi- on November 17, “We are deeply concerned 24 report by GayRussia.ru. The Communist Conservatives are hoping that the St. Pe- nek’s journal are translated from http:// that this legislation combines homosexuality, Party’s stance is that the penalties for “gay tersburg law will become national. Federation ej.ru/?a=note&id=11497; errors or omissions bisexuality and transgenderism into one law propaganda” should be increased to 1 million Council member Valery Shnyakin said, “We are my own.

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BALTIMORE OUTLOUD DECEMBER 2, 2011 • baltimoreoutloud.com q 5 beyond the beltway compiled by Jim Becker cate of the Transgender Equal Rights Bill up to 30 people from his organization will predicted, conservatives responded to the from the earliest days of his administra- participate when 1n10 organizes an offi- pictures with much more intense disgust Remembering daily tion,” said Gunner Scott, executive director cial walking team for the event for the first than did liberals. Attitudes in opposition to life with HIV on of the Massachusetts Transgender Politi- time. “We want to be involved to honor the same-sex marriage were highly connect- cal Coalition (MTPC). “We are so grateful ones we’ve lost,” Cavaliere said. ed. “The proper interpretation of the find- World AIDS Day for his leadership in getting this bill passed More than 33,000 people die by suicide ings (in the current study) is not that biol- and for his unwavering commitment to en- each year in the U.S. and it’s the second ogy causes politics or that politics causes Chicago, IL – For 30 years, people have suring that all residents of the Common- leading cause of death among college biology,” the authors write, “but that certain been struggling with HIV and AIDS. They wealth, including transgender people, are students, according to the foundation. Fa- political orientations at some unspecified have been living every moment of every treated with dignity and respect under the hey said that the foundation is working on point become housed in our biology, with day knowing laws of our state.” programs for the LGBT community. The meaningful political consequences.” (PloS that they carry Gov. Patrick has been a longtime sup- local chapter recently implemented a pro- One at http://www.sciencedaily.com/re- something inside porter of LGBT rights, and submitted writ- gram at Arizona State University, she said. leases/2011/10/111025122617.htm) them that could ten testimony in support of the bill to the The foundation organizes 200 community kill them. Thirty Joint Committee on the Judiciary. “Once walks in U.S. cities. Walks were held in years ago, when again, Governor Tucson and Payson in October. The group ‘Pregnant man’ it first came to Patrick has shown also participated in Phoenix Pride. (Echo light, it was a death sentence. The end of that he is a true Magazine – Glenn Gullickson at Echomag. estranged from their lives was coming sooner, not later. By champion for the com) the time they knew they had it, it was too LGBT commu- LGBT community late, and there was nothing to be done. nity, said MassE- After three decades of advances in quality Execu- Study: Biology Phoenix, AZ – After living in Arizona for treatment, HIV is no longer the death sen- tive Director Kara a year, Thomas Beatie – who became fa- tence it once was. It might not be some- MA Governor S u f f r e d i n i . ” W e plays role in mous worldwide as the “pregnant man” – thing easily managed, especially for those Deval Patrick applaud his un- said his family is feeling at home, but he unable to afford the costly medications, wavering leadership in creating a Com- political orientation said he’s still estranged from the LGBT but it is not the immediate and agonizing monwealth where all hardworking people, community. “We’ve been assimilating pret- demise it was even 15 or 20 years ago. including transgender people, will have the Lincoln, NE – Most likely, you would be ty well,” Beatie said about the move to a With new breakthroughs come new opportunity to make a living, put a roof over disgusted if confronted with a picture of a house in north Phoenix. Beatie is female- challenges, and Positively America maga- their heads, and get an education without man eating a mouthful of writhing worms. to-male transgender. He caused a sensa- zine illustrates these challenges in a new fear of being discriminated against simply Or a particularly bloody wound. Or a hor- tion in 2008 when he announced that he photographic essay, “A Day with HIV in because of who they are. “The governor ribly emaciated but still living was pregnant, and was recognized as the America.” To create the essay, they asked has long understood that this is a matter of body. But just how much disgust you first married man to give birth. Since then over 120 people living with HIV to photo- basic fairness.” (Bay Windows – Hannah feel may lend important insight into your he’s had two more children. graph a moment of their day on Septem- Clay Wareham at Baywindows.com) personal political proclivities. Beatie said that while his story helped ber 21. Some of the images are simple, In a new study, political scientists put female-to-male transgender on the some multifaceted, all powerful. Like the closely measured people’s physiological map, the LGBT community has failed to photograph of Kenneth from Indiana, hold- reactions as they looked at a series of embrace him. ing his weekly regimen of medications. Suicide prevention pleasant and unpleasant images. Partici- He said she’s “This is the first time I have ever submitted group raises funds pants who identified themselves as con- reached out to a picture of myself acknowledging to the servative – and, in particular, those who national organi- world that I live with HIV,” he notes in the in Arizona said they were against gay marriage – had zations, but only caption. The essay debuted at the United strong physiological reactions when shown found a handful States Conference on AIDS in Chicago on Tempe, AZ – Up to 1000 walkers are expect- the gross pictures. The study, the latest to of supportive indi- November 10-13, and 31 images will be ed to participate in the fourth annual Out of examine the connection between political viduals. “General- published in the magazine. Those who do the Darkness Community Walk in Tempe differences and humans’ built-in physiolog- ly the LGBT com- Thomas Beatie (left) not get the magazine can also view them that brings ical traits, was co-authored by University munity doesn’t online at Adaywithhivinamerica.com. (Gay attention to of Nebraska-Lincoln political science pro- like me,” Beatty said during a telephone People’s Chronicle – Anthony Glassman at suicide pre- fessors Kevin Smith and John Hibbing and interview. “The concept of a pregnant man Gaypeopleschronicle.com) vention. Or- appears this month in the online journal was too much. They thought it didn’t rep- ganized by PLoS ONE, published by the Public Library resent the community. “The general con- the Ameri- of Science. sensus from the trans community is very can Founda- “This is one more piece of evidence critical,” he said. “Our family has basically Trans protection tion for Suicide Prevention, the three-mile that we, quite literally, have gut feelings been blacklisted from the community.” the law in walk will be December 3, starting and end- about politics,” Smith said. “Our politi- Beatie said he’s been the target of hate ing at Kiwanis Park. cal attitudes and behaviors are reflected mail and Internet postings. He was criti- Massachusetts Heather Fahey, coordinator of the local in our biology.” Researchers worked with cal of the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against event, said she’s noticed more participa- 27 women and 23 men who were chosen Defamation (GLAAD), which he said didn’t Boston, MA – On November 23, Massa- tion in the organization’s events since last from a larger pool of participants who also come to his defense against attacks from chusetts Governor Deval Patrick signed year, when the news media put the spot- underwent thorough political questioning. conservative media when his story went into law the Transgender Equal Rights Bill. light on suicides by LGBT youth. Among The subjects were shown a series of dis- public. The proposed legislation had been passed the groups walking in the Tempe event will gusting and also relatively pleasant im- Originally from Hawaii, Beatie, 37, by the House on Nov. 15 and the Senate be a team from the 1n10 youth services ages while electrodes on their skin mea- started hormone treatment and chest re- on November 16. agency. Stacey Jay Cavaliere, 1n10 pre- sured subtle skin conductance changes, construction in his 20s and legally became “Governor Patrick was a staunch advo- vention coordinator, said he hopes that which indicated an emotional response. As a man. In 2003, he married his wife, Nan- 6 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD DECEMBER 2, 2011 • baltimoreoutloud.com beyond the beltway cy, who is originally from Phoenix. Beatie paign.” The Cincinnati council race was City Aims for Town Hall Meeting said he and Nancy met 21 years ago. “She one of the organization’s “Ten Races to HIV Reduction at the TDOR was there to support me during my transi- Watch” in the election, and Seelbach will – continued from front page – continued from page 2 tion,” he said. But Nancy is unable to have be one of three freshman councilors when children. So since Beatie retained his fe- he is sworn in, along with one returning from the Centers for Disease Control is The forum traversed diverse topics. How- male reproductive organs, he was able to councilor who lost a reelection bid in 2007. from December of 2009. At that time, she ever, the discussion solely stayed within the interrupt testosterone treatments and be In the election, the top nine candidates explained, Maryland had 29,000 people confines of analyzing situations where one is artificially inseminated. Beatie’s first child, go on to City Council; Seelbach came in living with HIV/AIDS, 45 percent of whom already experiencing homelessness, rather Susan, was followed by two sons, Austin in ninth out of 23 candidates, 1,000 votes were living in Baltimore City when they than conceptualizing the end of homeless- 2009 and Jensen last year. (Echo Maga- ahead of the next-placed hopeful. It is the were diagnosed. Additionally, she said, an- ness. Nevertheless, with half of surveyed zine – Glenn Gullickson at Echomag.com) first time in recent memory that four sitting other 6000 to 9000 people are estimated to council members were voted out; three trans-folks reporting that they were either be infected but do not know it yet. saw defeat in 1985. The election decimat- verbally, physically, or sexually harassed, Baltimore City Commissioner of ed the conservative voting bloc on council, while they were in the care of homeless ser- Health, Dr. Oxiris Barbot spoke after Ms. leaving Mayor Mark Mallory free to pursue vice providers. This is if they weren’t turned Philips. She said that we are the richest a city agenda without opposition to street away entirely, it appears appropriate to ad- state in the country and it is time that we car proposals and other issues. (Gay Peo- dress reality. At various points, the panelists put those resources to the benefit of our ple’s Chronicle – Anthony Glassman at expressed gratitude for these conversations. community and to reducing this epidemic. Gaypeopleschronicle.com) They stated that it is important for providers She explained that 87 percent of new HIV to have a good rapport with the trans-commu- infections in Baltimore City are African nity because they are admittedly unaware of American and that the plan will reduce what the community needs and how to accu- Senate panel okays racially-based health disparities, “Even rately address homelessness in transgender DOMA repeal, but though it’s really ambitious it’s something populations. that we can and we will get to,” she said. When the audience asked what provid- passage unlikely “I’m pleased with the work of the Com- ers were doing to eradicate their in-house Chris Seelbach mission,” said Barbot. “This plan helps to discrimination, panelists spoke of building Washington, DC – The Senate Judiciary further cement the work that needs to be bridges through employing more transgender Committee on November 8 approved the done to quell the ongoing HIV epidemic. workers, the need for cultural sensitivity train- Cincinnati Respect for Marriage Act, a bill to repeal It clearly lays out a plan that we will use ings, being openly unsure of many solutions, elects first gay the “defense of marriage act” barring fed- to hold ourselves and each other account- looking for community-brought suggestions, eral recognition of same-sex marriage. The able to achieving measurable results.” and posting nondiscrimination policies all councilman party-line vote sends the measure to the Members of the Commission stressed throughout shelters. full Senate. But, even if it gets a vote there that the report provides critical guidelines On the question of trans-specific outreach, Cincinnati, OH – Chris Seelbach has and passes, the odds are slim it would sur- for dramatically reducing HIV/AIDS in Bal- panelists discussed the need for more public done many things in his 32 years. He was vive in the Republican-controlled House of timore, but reaching the target goals that forums and that they have no outreach resourc- one of the founders of the Xavier Univer- Representatives. have been established cannot be achieved es; that they need community support. sity gay-straight alliance, and he helped Sen. Dianne Feinstein, the chief Sen- unless communities and individuals also When asked how providers were making lead the fight to repeal Cincinnati’s anti- ate sponsor of the Respect for Marriage make effective prevention and treatment of their services more trans-friendly and safe, gay Article 12. On November 8, he made Act said that she is committed to present- HIV/AIDS a priority. t panelists discussed the potential to restructure history, being elected the city’s first openly ing the bill until it passes, which she ac- facilities to single or double bedrooms to ensure gay city council member. “If some gay or knowledged will be a long fight. She said more privacy, change intake forms to offer more lesbian kid in Cincinnati walks into school that she currently does not have the votes gender identifications, and fund more commu- with their head held a little higher after this, to get it out of the Senate. “Virtually any Ten Questions nity-initiated trans-positive programs. that’s the most important thing,” he said af- advance in civil rights or any kind of rights for Carrie Evans As the meeting wrapped, there were no ter the election. has been carried by the Democratic Party. – continued from front page actionable items stated or specific goals set “This is an important victory for LGBT It’s just a fact,” she said, according to Polit- to execute. Yet, some of the trans-community, people in Cincinnati and for Chris, who will ico. “So, we’ll just march on. We’ll continue and allies, had directly engaged with home- be an outstanding leader on the council,” this. And if I have to reintroduce it next ses- CE: “Celebration and Welcome Home” less service providers on critical issues, in said Chuck Wolfe, the head of the Victory sion, I’ll reintroduce it. Session after that, is a small event at Brown Memorial (1316 implementable and public ways. Fund, an organization that works to elect I’ll reintroduce it,” she concluded. Park Ave) welcoming me back to EQMD. It As people were leaving, one participant LGBT candidates nationally. “We were In addition to the legislative challenge to also provides an opportunity for the com- remarked, “Two years ago, I don’t think this proud to endorse him and support his cam- DOMA, which was passed in 1996, there are munity and our allies to meet some of the conversation would’ve happened. And I’m also court challenges pending. In a case in new members of our Board and to hear grateful to the organizers, to the providers, federal court in Massachusetts, the Obama about our 2012 plans. to the community, for bringing us to a place, These news notes have been compiled from the on administration refused to defend DOMA, SC: Besides contributing funds where we could all participate and hold each line version of various newspapers and other web backed up by the Justice Department. to the organization, how else can the other accountable. Because, while we are LGBT community get involved? sites. We thank those publications that have allowed Obama and Attorney General Eric Holder talking about specifically trans-issues, which, opined that one of the provisions of the law CE: Because of our small staff, it would us to bring you their news stories. Usually the reports I’m mean, I’m trans, and I believe that these violates the Constitution. Rep. John Boeh- be helpful if people who have skills and issues desperately need attention; yet, we’re have been significantly edited and you can read the ner of Cincinnati, the Speaker of the House, services that they think can benefit the talking about human issues. Now, before an- full story by going to the web site mentioned following stepped in and is using House of Representa- organization and who wish to volunteer other Town Hall happens, the item. Comments are strictly the opinions of Jim tive’s powers to defend DOMA in the case. t would email us at info@equalitymaryland. I hope we’ve all made some real change. Becker and not of Baltimore Outloud or Pride Media. (Gay People’s Chronicle – Anthony Glass- org to introduce themselves and tell us This winter, I don’t want anyone to be without t man at Gaypeopleschronicle.com) about those skills and services. a roof or a bed.” t BALTIMORE OUTLOUD DECEMBER 2, 2011 • baltimoreoutloud.com q 7 The day before, however, was the we would go from the discussions at the of followers, the people that do the work. kicker. I looked in the Herald Mail, a Hag- tea-table to ‘conspiratia’; but nobody was Catholic Charities’ soup kitchen at Our erstown newspaper, and saw a picture of definite as to how and when the change Daily Bread may have lovely management, my son. His head was bowed low and he would take place. In excusing our delay, but employees and volunteers are serving looked very sad, as he escorted the moth- we usually told each other that we must the meals and stacking the chairs at the er of a young woman whose daughter had prepare; and we weren’t so far wrong, after end of the day. Equality Maryland has de- been murdered to court. Some months all.” (My Life, Leon Trotsky, 1930) lightful board members, but right now, they ago, after the brutal murder of a friend, he Perhaps he missed the point implicit in have only three employees, three workers. decided what was worth fighting for, and his own words. Change takes place when “Discussions at the tea-table” do not he became, oh, yummy, an activist! we stop talking (tweeting) and actually do amount to very much. Ask Mr. Trotsky, he Like the frog in the pot as the tempera- something. The mayor mentioned this, as will tell you that it was a proletarian revo- Marriage is ture rises we do not know we are about to an aside, during her press conference. lution. That ice pick eventually kills the be boiled. It starts easy. In my son’s case, “See what you can do to be part of the so- nominal leaders. for Old Folks it started with anger, and then he realized lution. I don’t know about you, but I get real So, what are we fighting for? he could actually do something. He held a tired of complainers, you know, people that Is it marriage equality? Cathy Brennan asks a disturbing question, rally in a park, had buttons made, the sort are very skilled at pointing out faults. Twit- One would think so since that’s what “So, what are we fighting for?” of thing many activists do at some point. ter is the best place for that.” gets the most attention in the LGBT press. I am taking this question as a personal Poor Froggy was starting to boil though. In this week’s issue, Dr. Dana Beyer But that’s not for me, as Nina Simone sang challenge in determining my New Year’s Now he has an agenda, a network, and an refers to them as “keyboard kamikazes.” in the old song, “Marriage is for Old Folks.” resolution for Baltimore OUTloud. Cathy’s idea for a plan for legislation. She correctly assesses that “Organizing I do not know what my New Year’s reso- question hit me hard as I was leaving the I think every activist has had that turn- meetings, be they for social or political ac- lutions will be for Baltimore OUTloud. It will mayor’s press conference on Tuesday, a ing point when she stops sitting around tion, often devolve into shouting matches, not be “all marriage, all the time.” We will conference regarding HIV/AIDS. A friend talking and actually does something. Dur- jockeying for position and leadership, and get that, and we will achieve gender identity stopped me and told me about a hear- ing the Tuesday press conference, Mayor a complex of frustration and hurt feelings.” rights. However, if newspapers like ours and ing going on in another part of the build- Rawlings-Blake asked attendees to be not She says, “If you want to rise to leader- organizations like Equality Maryland and the ing concerning homelessness. Then I just a part of the spirit, but also a part of ship, show up, give of yourself, and show HRC are to have any legitimacy after those stopped at Red Emma’s for coffee on the the hard work that lies ahead. What makes your leadership potential.” I suppose that goals are achieved we will have to look at a way home and met up with another friend. that happen, I think, is that turning point word “potential” is the key. It’s like a tightly larger picture or choose to leave the game. Among the things we discussed was the when people realize that their actions ac- wound rubber band. Forget leadership. “So, what are we fighting for?” Cathy burnout, and retirement, of many of our tually accomplish something. Think about the goal, not your place in it. Brennan asks. Let me know. I’m listening LGBT leaders who had fought the good In Leon Trotsky’s autobiography he Every movement has leaders, but lead- as I stack the chairs. It is up to you. I just fight, “back in the day.” wrote, “We had no doubt that in the end ers do not create change. That is the job work here. t

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and public accommodations were clad in League teams are located in those states Although Equality Maryland will not be purple to demonstrate unity. Twenty pro- that allow anti-gay firings,” Tico Almeida, the sole force to achieve marriage equal- ponents of the bill offered solid and per- president of Freedom to Work told the ity and transgender protections in the up- suasive testimony – much of which came Washington Blade. “No player should have coming legislative session, it will be a key from transgender individuals who related to fear harassment or workplace retaliation player. Its viability and stability are crucial OUT personal experiences with discrimination. if he were to publicly come out as gay.” to pass these key initiatives. Spoken Council Chairman Calvin Ball, one of This de- velopment means that Unfriendly Newt. Another kind of re- four sponsors of the bill, asked those at the a player can- naissance has taken place in the presiden- Steve Charing hearing to rise if they supported passage Sharon not be tial race. Former Speaker Newt Gingrich of the bill. A sea of purple rose, which Brackett (l) and ter- has risen from the ashes of an earlier made a strong impression on Catherine Hyde flame-out and has surged in the polls to friend and foe alike. It was grati- showing their support become a serious contender for the Re- Some Post- for transgender pro- fying to see that. The bill is a tections by wearing purple publican nomination. (Does President near certainty to pass on De- photo: Steve Charing Obama really have that good fortune?) Turkey Day cember 5 making Howard In its quest to find an anti-Romney County the third jurisdic- who conservatives rightly mistrust, Musings tion in Maryland to offer several wannabes had emerged dur- such protections. Now ing the pre-primary season. Now it’s I hope you all had a wonderful Thanksgiv- “purple power” needs to Newt’s turn to fill that void. ing and survived the Black Friday insanity. be applied in 2012 to get While all the GOP candidates As we reflect on our families, friends, our- the job done statewide. are virulently anti-gay, Gingrich selves and the world we live in, I want to Friendly diamonds. actually has a record of oppos- share some thoughts as we thrust deeper While we continue to ing rights for LGBT Americans. Ac- into the holiday season. revel in the success of cording to Davidmixner.com, Gin- The color purple. Baltimore Ravens the Ravens, Major League grich has been an active and vocal fans have been donning purple in sup- Baseball and the Major supporter of placing an amendment port of their team throughout the football League Players’ Associa- banning marriage in the United States season and especially so following the tion has given us some good Constitution. He has called marriage impressive victory over the San Francisco news as well. They added non- equality an aberration! He supports the 49ers Thanksgiving night. Yet purple took discrimination protections for gay lawsuit by congressional Republicans to on another meaning just a few days be- players in the new 5-year bargaining m i - defend DOMA. He is even opposed to fore. agreement. This was a result of lawyers on nated or domestic partnerships in private industry. Most of the 70 or so folks who attend- both sides agreeing that such protections face harass- He is absolutely against adoption by same ed the hearing before the Howard County should be in place. ment should he come out as gay. The fear sex couples. He is against the passage of Council in support of a bill that would end “In a majority of states in our country, of harassment from teammates has always ENDA. He has personally called homosex- discrimination based on gender identity it is still perfectly legal to fire someone been a major impediment for a gay base- uality a sin and should be treated as such. and expression in employment, housing just for being gay, and 13 of the 30 Major ball (or any professional sport) athlete to Newt Gingrich would be a dangerous come out. It is just a matter of time when president if elected, especially for LGBT we will welcome the first openly gay base- people. However, his reluctance until now, ball player, and the reaction will be more to lay the gloves on Mitt (The Switch) Rom- positive than negative. ney will most likely allow the former Mas- Equality Maryland’s renaissance. sachusetts governor to cruise to the GOP Many people believed that following the prize. t disappointing 2011 General Assembly Steve Charing’s OUTspoken blog is at and the ugly finger pointing that ensued, www.SteveCharing.blogspot.com. it was the end of the line for Equality Maryland, the state’s erstwhile leading LGBT civil rights organization. A major- ity of paid staff had been let go, with the Executive Director either having re- signed or was fired depending on who you talk to. And the Chairman of the Board resigned leaving a gaping hole in the hierarchy. But under the leadership and de- termination of Lisa Polyak, Patrick Wojahn, Mark Yost, Jr. and other re- maining board members, the organiza- tion did not wither on the vine. It paid down debt, put in place a new and expanded board, and hired a new ex- ecutive director, Carrie Evans, who is determined to restore the confidence of the community.

BALTIMORE OUTLOUD DECEMBER 2, 2011 • baltimoreoutloud.com q 9 film that no doubt will make some men very and rock n roll music couldn’t be sold to “happy” for five minutes. the American masses unless it was pack- Occupy My Throat? Really? Porn glo- aged in white masks. Elvis fit the bill per- Ladybug’s rifies sexualized violence and encourages fectly! Blessed with great looks and also Political humans to separate intimacy from arousal. Crossroads coming from the South, he was the face Smackdown Occupation means possession, which can Chronicles that could sell the blues and rock n roll. Cathy Brennan be nonconsensual. Is this liberation? What Rev. Mother Meredith Moise He made the profit and the Black artists are we fighting for? that he “borrowed” from largely remained Recently, I asked Sue Hyde, the direc- anonymous. Even the term “rock ’n’ roll” tor of NGLTF’s Creating Change, to pro- was stolen from the Black vernacular as Porn Occupies vide me with the list of workshop topics for Gaga: Artist it was an old Ebonics term for sex. Again, Creating Change 2012 – a “skills building borrowing without recognition doesn’t re- Everything conference” to “explore current issues in innovation or Elvis redux? ally make somebody a great artist. It does the LGBT community.” This is the confer- raise eyebrows of thievery and imitation. I Almost every woman I know has been sex- ence to advance The Gay Agenda. Out of As the holidays roll through, super star prefer the real thing, actually. ually abused. more than 200 topics, the word “lesbian” Lady Gaga has released a holiday album. Then we have Gaga clearly taking pag- Let me repeat this. I am 41 years old, appears exactly once. And although you This student of fame has burned up the es from Madonna. She has often been re- and I know lots of women – and almost ev- can attend sessions like “69 Ways to Use charts with a variety of dance hits and ferred to as the “Madonna for the millenni- ery woman I know has been sexually ex- Saran Wrap: Queering Up Your Campus” or many LGBT people absolutely love her. um”. From the gimmicks to the outrageous ploited. one of 14 workshops in the “Sexual Free- She has publicly come out in support of costumes, it’s like Madonna all over again. Usually, more than once. dom” block of programming, not a single marriage equality, the repeal of “Don’t Ask, She has been compared to the Material girl Among these women, this anecdotal session seems to address sexual assault Don’t Tell,” HIV education/prevention as and has even spoken about the compari- experience is common and discussed with and abuse or the negative effects of Porn. well as anti bullying legislation. Her public son. The one glaring difference: Madonna a fatalistic, “that’s life” approach. It’s an ac- You mean there are negative effects of stances is admirable, but let’s face it, she clearly acknowledged her inspiration from cepted fact of female life that men grope, Porn? Say it ain’t so! needed to do it. She has borrowed, some urban gay street culture! From “Vogue” assault, or otherwise inappropriately touch Yes, Virginia, Porn Culture has nega- say pilfered so much urban gay street cul- to her numerous interviews talking about us at some point in our lives. It’s a “normal” tive effects. Andrea Dworkin said porn nor- ture, she has to show us some love! the gay men she clubbed with, Madonna part of being a woman. malizes the ways in which women are de- I find it ironic that one of her best chart made it known. Lady Gaga, not so much. As a woman who loves women and as meaned and attacked so that humiliations topping songs “Born This Way” is actu- Is she pimping urban gay street culture? a mother of a daughter, this kills me. and insults towards us seem natural and ally an old disco song by Unity Fellowship Sometimes, it feels like that. However, it is But as a progressive and gay activist, inevitable. If you see something every day, Church Movement prelate, Archbishop still early in her career. I am sure there are I’ve been expected to adopt the personal it becomes normal. If you see women pre- Carl Bean. Hearing this song hundreds more surprises in store. freedom approach to sexuality and sex. sented as sex objects, it becomes normal of time at Pride and various LGBT events As our community’s influence has That is, if it feels good between consenting to view and treat women as sex objects. around town, I am amazed how young and grown, the gay aesthetic is everywhere. adults, do it. This is “equality” and “libera- Normal. old queer folk get their life on the dance Used to sell everything from clothes to tion.” Yay! But for gay activists, occupiers and floor to this jingle of self-affirmation. How- shoes to music, the gay aesthetic is what’s Let’s talk about equality. Not that long other leftists, the party line is “sex posi- ever, very few know about how a gay Black hot, what’s popping! However, any mention ago, women of the left gathered and spoke tivism.” Sex positivism, of course, means man courageously sang this mantra years of the origin of these things is scrubbed against sexual assault and exploitation, Porn Culture is great and lots of sex with ago when it wasn’t cute or glamorous to from popular culture, sanitized and pack- staging Take Back the Night marches and lots of people is great. If you reject this line, be out. He sang from his soul, proudly aged for the masses. Our lives are good other events in a show of force against you are a prude, anti-sex, “sex negative” or proclaiming his reality. Fast forward to enough to sell shoes but our rights as hu- sexual violence. We united against this gasp Man Hating! This reminds me of the the millennium, Gaga grabbed hold to the man beings need not be respected. What’s common enemy. “Feelies” in Aldous Huxley’s Brave New theme and turned it into platinum. Ironi- wrong with this picture and how do we Now, more people of the left fight sexual World, where dystopian leaders created cally, has anybody heard her publicly give change the view? t assault by denying its existence or recast- movies to reach one’s sense of touch as Archbishop Bean a shout out regarding the ing the problem as one of interpretation. well as sight and sound – perfect for porn, song? His concept, darn near his words This trend has taken recent shape through and enough to keep the masses seemingly with some embellishment plus Madonna’s Occupy Wall Street, where Occupy spaces satisfied so that they didn’t notice that they “Express Yourself” melody gave her this Rev. Mother Meredith have provided fertile ground for “inappro- actually had no power, agency or freedom. anthem....hmmm...but no mention of Carl priate touching” and rape, and through the So, what are we fighting for? Are we Bean! I smell Elvis. Moise, ordained porn-loving SlutWalk phenomenon. fighting for the right to get our rocks off Elvis? Yes, Elvis! He often took the Instead of prioritizing female safety, the with as many random strangers as pos- songs of southern Black artists, particu- Old Catholic priest, Occupy Movement seems more interested sible? Are we fighting for the right to make larly of the Mississippi Delta, and made in showing its disdain for law enforcement and consume porn? them into his records. At that time, blues specializing in weddings, by adopting policies rejecting police inter- If this is what the left wants, we would baptisms, funerals, vention in cases of “alleged” sexual as- do well to reject the left and organize our- Bullshit. We gain no freedom from per- sault. Occupy Baltimore found itself with a selves against Porn Culture. Fortunately, petuating a genre that creates a culture home blessings, public relations problem for its policies that this is happening. Many efforts – Stop Porn where sexual abuse of women is consid- discouraged sexual assault survivors from Culture and Men Can Stop Rape – chal- ered normal. spiritual direction. For contacting police and seemed to invalidate lenge porn culture and works to eliminate It’s enough. Porn lessons are not ones concerns for female safety. sexual exploitation. We need more of this. I want my daughter to learn. more information, And it’s not just sexual assault. Let’s The left’s porn problem has tortured (Thanks to Elizabeth Hungerford for talk about porn. Yes, it’s anathema to be me for years, as fellow leftists have long making me smarter.) t 410-900-2021 or “anti-porn” in the gay movement and on chided me to support porn as part of the You can find Cathy Brennan on Face- [email protected] the left, and in that spirit, enterprising gay left’s love affair with freedom of expression book at http://www.facebook.com/ladybug- men have produced Occupy My Throat, a (or something). spoliticalsniffdown.

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By Dana Beyer and staff. This past Monday, Congressman Our trans community often gets caught in Barney Frank, a gay rights icon who has a battle between words and actions. With not always had the smoothest of relation- the widespread acceptance of social net- ships with the trans community, announced working, words are far more prevalent than his upcoming retirement. Barney, as he is ever, and highlight the general dearth of affectionately known, grew over the years action. Organizing meetings, be they for in his understanding of the trans experi- social or political action, often devolve into ence. After the ENDA debacle of 2007 he shouting matches, jockeying for position ran a hearing in Congress, the first ever, and leadership, and a complex of frustra- where he called upon his colleagues for tion and hurt feelings. greater understanding of the trans com- Recent relevant examples include leg- munity, asking for the same change of islation in Maryland earlier this year and, heart for us that he had asked for himself most recently, Massachusetts. Our trans two decades earlier. He then hired Diego community seems to enjoy beating up on Sanchez, an articulate and passionate ourselves when the progress is less than trans man, making Diego the first out trans complete. Fortunately for Massachusetts, Congressional staffer. Bringing about that their process is radically different, leading change takes time and personal, face-to- to passage through a joint committee and face effort. Which is what our community both chambers in just 48 hours, leaving recently did in Howard County. no time for recriminations. Now, however, Catherine Hyde, a PFLAG mom of a some keyboard kamikazes are using that trans woman, decided last summer she speed as evidence of a conspiracy to de- had had enough and reached out to her prive the trans community of public accom- District Councilmember. That council- modations protections. woman, who knew little about Some believe that a past trans issues, listened care- HRC donation to the fully, and over the period of MTPC (Massachusetts two months, they enlisted the Trans Political Coalition) support of three of the other caused the bill to be trun- four councilmembers. Gender cated, or blame the Ex- Rights Maryland, asked for ecutive Director’s testos- help in handling the political terone levels, or believe and legislative aspects of the that it happened because process, offered support, and the Massachusetts trans along with PFLAG built a co- community was infected alition of like-minded organi- by a Maryland anti-trans zations and people to pull off virus. a terrific hearing. The materials provided Such conspiracy-theorizing is mis- to the Council prepared them to ask sharp placed, distracting and ultimately just a and penetrating questions of the bill’s op- waste of time. The political process in this ponents, forcing them into knots and ex- country is byzantine and undemocratic in posing them as small-minded, fanatic and many respects, but it is how business gets fearful. done. Until we can change it, even a little, The bottom line? Talk is cheap, ex- we have to work the system. tremely cheap these days. Action is re- Jonathan Chait recently described this quired, and we don’t always have to agree classic parody of leftist politics in a piece to be able to work towards the same goal entitled, “When did liberals become so un- and complete the mission that can best reasonable?” “Monty Python’s Life of Brian serve the community. Perfection is seldom has a classic skit depicting the followers achievable, but we strive for it anyway and of “Brian,” a thinly disguised satire of Je- sometimes surprise even ourselves when sus, as left-wing activists. The movement we succeed. contains bitterly feuding splinter groups Stop talking, start working; don’t com- with such names as the People’s Front plain, join in. Trans persons have thick of Judea, the Judean People’s Front, the skins by necessity to navigate the outside Judean Popular People’s Front, the Cam- world. We need to keep them on during paign for a Free Galilee, and the Popular political campaigns as well. If you want to Front of Judea – the last consisting of one rise to leadership, show up, give of your- man – all of which hate each other more self, and show your leadership potential. than the Romans.” You will be recognized. t We need to work the system, continu- The author is Executive Director of ing to build relationships with legislators Gender Rights Maryland. BALTIMORE OUTLOUD DECEMBER 2, 2011 • baltimoreoutloud.com q 11 tion away from managing what is right in CELEBRATE THE SEASON front of you in that moment, and it gets you to focus on “I wish the reality of the situation AND GIVE THE GIFT OF FITNESS! was different… let me count the ways.” It Getting pulls you away from dealing with your life, and it pulls you up into your head for a pain- Unstuck ful round of “what ifs” and “if onlys.” Gerry Fisher You might wish that your holidays un- folded in the same way that they did for your family of origin or for your friend who Avoid that extra Pain always seems so darned perfect. 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Dear Bear, You have Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD), a form of depression that is trig- gered by decreasing sunlight. One in every 5 people has SAD. It is more common in Open Wide women than in men. ask Dr Eva Each person who suffers from SAD has Dr Eva Hersh a personal pattern of symptoms and individ- ual timing of when the problem starts and ends, but each person’s pattern repeats in pretty much the same way every year. Shorter Days, Most people with SAD notice low feelings and tiredness starting in October or Novem- Lower Moods ber, although for some it can start as early as August. Most people with S A D will start to feel better by Dear Dr. Eva, March or April. Every year, I seem to get depressed Many SAD symp- and have a big drop in energy as the days toms are like other get shorter. It gets harder to get out of bed types of depres- and much harder to deal with people. I cry sion: low energy, way more easily than normal. A lot of the decreased ability people I work with also seem to be feel- to concentrate, sad ing bad. Other than move to the Southern feelings, and irritability. hemisphere for the winter, what can I do to SAD is like hiberna- keep my mood from falling in the fall? tion in some ways: just like bears preparing for a long winter sleep, Ready to Hibernate people with SAD crave carbohydrates, sleep more, exercise less, and avoid others. The most effective treatment for SAD is light therapy. This does not just mean turn- ing on all the lights in the house, although Managing that can help somewhat. Light therapy Winter Depression / requires a light source producing 10,000 lumens, which is the equivalent of four S.A.D. four-foot 40-watt fluorescent bulbs. (Fluo- rescent bulbs put off far more lumens per watt than incandescent bulbs do.) • Light therapy: sit in front of a bright This light source can be purchased light for at least 20 continuous minutes as a light therapy box, or in the less por- twice daily, once between 6 and 8 AM table, and less expensive, form of two and once between 6 and 8 PM. 2-bulb shop lights. Light therapy is simple: • Exercise is a natural antidepres- sit facing the light about an arm’s length sant. Gentle exercise four times a week away, for 20 to 40 minutes, twice a day, will help. with about 12 hours between treatments. • Physical warmth and comfort are Light treatment gives the brain a message important: wear soft clothes, get mas- that the day length is over 12 hours, which sages, and hug your friends often. counteracts SAD. It’s the intensity of light, • Sleep: It’s helpful to get 30-60 min- not the spectrum, which is the key to treat- utes more sleep nightly than you need in ment. Full-spectrum bulbs do not seem to summer, but sleeping more than that can work any better than fluorescents. worsen the problem. Because SAD and the Thanksgiving/ • Be careful about giving in to food Christmas/New Years holidays occur at the cravings-gaining weight may make you same time of year, SAD can be confused feel worse. with “holiday blues”, but the two conditions • Cut yourself some slack-don’t take are not the same. A person with holiday on extra projects now, do less where you blues has unhappy or conflicted feelings, can. or painful memories, about the holidays, • Decrease your work week: during and SAD sufferers do not. In holiday blues, the shortest days, take a day of leave there are no hibernation-like symptoms. t from work every week or two. Dr. Eva Hersh is a physician at Chase Brex- • If SAD symptoms are still trouble- ton Health Services. Send questions to editor@ some despite using these methods, con- baltimoreoutloud.com, or to Eva Hersh MD, sider antidepressant medication. Chase Brexton Health Services, 1001 Cathedral St., Baltimore, MD 21201 BALTIMORE OUTLOUD DECEMBER 2, 2011 • baltimoreoutloud.com q 13 FAITH

A Season of Thanksgiving ing General Conference in St. Michael the Archangel late April 2012. By Nancy J. Webb Over 1000 United Methodist clergy Catholic Church Goodness and blessing are a part of each across the United States have signed a of our lives, year round. We may encounter pledge that it is their intention to perform Father Bill Christ, Jr. into you life as friends, co-workers or men- challenges of one magnitude or another that same-sex weddings in states and districts If you are out, you are in with us. Hello, I am tors. Look back to when someone helped you may seem to eclipse the goodness and bless- where that is legal in order to provide pasto- Father Bill Christ, Jr.; Pastor of Saint Michael in difficult times. These unexpected people ing, but God’s good gifts never stop coming. ral care to all their members and neighbors. the Archangel Church. We are located at 410 were truly gifts from God. As allies and mem- There is so much Pontiac Avenue, Brooklyn, Maryland 21225. We live and work together for a common bers of the lesbian, Evangelical more needed to be ac- My church is newly formed, and I am very goal. That goal, according to religious tradi- gay, bi-sexual, and complished on the state, proud to say that “All are wel- tions, is to give of yourself. If you transgendered commu- Lutherans voted federal, and denomina- come!” Our worship and fel- have been blessed along life’s nities, we have much tional levels if justice, lowship experience is Sun- journey, give God thanks to be thankful for since that all qualified fairness, and full inclu- days at noon. and praise. If you are sad last Thanksgiving. candidates for sion are to be achieved. Life and people can some- and sorrowful, re- joice again in Through their form We at Grace United times be very challenging, the knowledge that God’s love is of church governance, ministry, regardless Methodist Church, Bal- especially for those of us who there, simply for the asking. That the Evangelical Lu- of orientation, are timore City, 5407 N. are trying to cope with peer ac- call will not be on your phone bill! theran Church in Amer- Charles St. at Northern ceptance. Family, friends, the Real quick, here is my story: ica has voted that all eligible. Parkway, celebrate the workplace, and schools are of- I was never a jock, and was bul- qualified candidates for progress that has been ten battle grounds for our emo- lied in high school. I had a 20 ordained ministry, regardless of sexual ori- made this year and give thanks for each of tions. We desperate- ly want to year career as a teacher. I never entation, are eligible to be considered for you who is working hard, where you can, so fit in. God has created us for a purpose. God got music as a kid. Now, I play piano. I was ordination.Likewise, since last Thanksgiv- that justice will be done. has given us gifts and talents that we can use shown how to draw as a child. Today, I am a ing, the Presbyterian Church in the United We pray for those LGBT persons who feel to help our fellow neighbors. We must stand professional artist and architectural designer. States has followed their denomination’s alone and separated from the love of fami- our ground! Do not permit yourselves to be In college, I took one writing course. Today I procedures and voted for an inclusive wel- lies during the Thanksgiving and Christmas forced by others to become someone you are am a published novel- ist. Three years ago, I come to all who are called to serve. seasons, and we would welcome them into a not. We must always strive to be happy. was invited into ministry! Today, I would en- The United Methodist Church will be church family that is supportive and caring es- When you feel good about yourself, you joy being called your pastor. Enjoy your pride considering a similar change at its upcom- pecially during this sometimes-difficult time.t can do anything. God will assist you by allow- weekend, and remember you are empowered ing doors to be opened, individuals to enter by God’s love. t Christmas Eve Services: Children’s Christmas Pageant with Band 5:30pm Candlelight Service of Lessons & Carols with Choir & Pipe Organ 8:00pm Christmas Eve Midnight Mass is at 10:30pm Christmas Day Masses are 9:30am & 12 Noon Christmas Day New Years Eve Mass is at 6pm 11:00am New Years Day Masses are 9:30am & 12 Noon If You are OUT, then You are IN with Us! “ALL ARE WELCOME!” 5828 York Road St. Michael The Archangel Catholic Church 410-435-9188 3701 4th Street, Brooklyn, MD 21225 443-869-5548 www.govanspres.org Sunday Mass 9:30am and 12:00 Noon A Parish of the New Catholic Church of North America

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BALTIMORE OUTLOUD DECEMBER 2, 2011 • baltimoreoutloud.com q 15 Live ly Arts // out on STAGE Toby’s Delivers a Joyous White Christmas By Steve Charing history, this production of White Christmas met that bar Larry Munsey as Bob was likewise fabulous. He Sometimes nostalgia can be a powerful escape because and then some. showed off his big, strong voice and great acting chops, with troubled times like these, no one could be blamed A superb cast directed by David James and Larry which he carries out with flair. When he and the superb for harking back to a simpler, genteel era. This escape Munsey (both played the male leads, Phil Davis and Bob dancing chorus performed “Blue Skies” to close out the can be found at Toby’s, the Dinner Theatre of Columbia, Wallace, respectively) led the audience in a delightful trip first act, the audience nearly leapt to its feet. Munsey is with its completely entertaining mounting of Irving Berlin’s down memory lane with so many references to the 1950’s a venerable performer and director at Toby’s, and his role White Christmas. you may think you were in a time machine. Younger mem- as Edna in Hairspray, as an example, was superb. He was The musical stage production was based on the 1954 bers of the audience, including those young cast mem- also the Costume Designer, and the costumes were mag- movie of the same title that starred Bing Crosby and Dan- bers, would probably not understand all those allu- ny Kaye as well as Rosemary Clooney and Vera-Ellen. It sions and quips from days of yore, but the music and began as a regional production in San Francisco in 2004 choreography seem timeless and upbeat. It didn’t and moved on to several other venues in the U.S. and hurt that the first number was that Christmastime Canada. The show opened on Broadway in 2008 and standard “Happy Holiday” that had you humming closed in 2009. Later that year, a revival was produced from the get-go. and again was short-lived but it garnered two Tony Award The show opens up, however, not in the 1950’s nominations for Best Choreography and Best Orchestra- but 1944 where Bob and Phil, then two GI’s, were tions. singing and dancing to cheer up the troops stuck in The oft-recognized music and straight-forward lyrics war-shattered Europe on Christmas Eve. It is here were composed by Irving Berlin. The book was penned the title song “White Christmas” first appeared in the by David Ives and Paul Blake. White Christmas has been show. both praised and criticized for its simplicity. But I like sim- The next scene takes place 10 years later at the ple as long as there is talent, and this production has that. Ed Sullivan Show where the fellas continued what Taking any musical to the tight stage of Toby’s and in appeared to be a successful song and dance act and the round no less, is a daunting challenge. But just like reprised “Happy Holiday” and “Let Yourself Go.” so many other musicals in Toby’s long and distinguished From there the guys – skirt-chasing Phil Davis and his buddy Bob Wallace – pursue photo: Kirstine Christiansen Haynes sisters, another singing duo. nificent and numerous. Judy Haynes played by Another Toby’s veteran is David James. The two-time Julia Lancione and Phil Helen Hayes winner played Phil beautifully with fine sing- hit it off early on despite ing and dancing performances, and he adroitly threw in Phil’s wandering eyes. his well-timed, clever lines. Betty Haines (Janine Gu- Both Janine Gulisano-Sunday and Julia Lancione as lisano-Sunday) and Bob the Haynes sisters shined brightly and played off the male struggle to connect. leads with precision. Vocally, one couldn’t ask for better. They travel to a Ver- The remaining actors did a creditable job, and there was mont lodge owned by the excellent chemistry among the company. The dancing cho- guys’ former Army com- rus or Ensemble hoofed it up skillfully with lots of energy and mander who has fallen graceful movement to the tuneful songs. Credit Choreogra- on bad luck, General pher Paula Lynn for designing the playbook so effectively al- Henry Waverly (Samn lowing the dancers to show off their talents on a tight stage. Huffer). The gals were Veteran Set Designer David Hopkins also deserves a on their way to perform in pat on the back for his work. The cute train car used in the a Christmas show. We’ll scene where the guys and the sisters were traveling to leave it there as the fa- Vermont stood out. miliar 1954-type theme I would be remiss if I didn’t mention Music Director boy meets girl, boy loses Pamela Witt as well as the accomplished three-piece or- girl, boy gets girl back chestra for bringing to life Berlin’s magical score. provides one of the key Popular standards, such as “Count Your Blessings In- threads in the show’s stead of Sheep,” “I Love a Piano” and “How Deep is the plot. Ocean” were wonderful. The Finale had the entire Compa- Jane C. Boyle, as ny singing “White Christmas.” Then as an encore number, Martha the lodge’s out- they all performed “I’ve Got My Love to Keep Me Warm” spoken manager, is sen- as snowflakes drifted down from the ceiling. sational. Blustery, power- This is a special show for a special time of year, and ful, comedic, Boyle gives a good one for the entire family. And bring an appetite. t the show the right punch. White Christmas runs through January 8 at Toby’s-Co- Her rendition of “Let Me lumbia. For more information, call 410-995-1969 – Balti- Sing and I’m Happy” re- more area or 410-730-8311 – Columbia or visit Tobysdin- ally hit the mark. nertheatre.com. 16 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD DECEMBER 2, 2011 • baltimoreoutloud.com Live ly Arts // out on STAGE The Sound of Music Hits the Right Notes at Olney By Steve Charing teaches them to sing and a whole new world opens up to conveyed her empathy and love for the children. Many musicals provide a plot simply to connect the songs. the kids and Maria. George Dvorsky, a Broadway veteran, was excellent In The Sound of Music the plot is as integral as the per- The Captain had intended to marry Baroness Elsa as Captain von Trapp. He also had great stage presence, formances to the entertainment value of the show. The Shraeder (Jena Sokolowski), a wealthy socialite. But dif- sang effectively and portrayed his character with verve. inevitability that Austria will fall to Nazi Germany formed ferences in the way they see the imminent Anschluss – The sisters all sang like bells – beautiful, on pitch, and the backdrop for the musical, and the improbable love be- the annexation by Nazi Germany of Austria – and a grow- resounding. The supporting actors were strong with no- tween two disparate individuals was the focus. ing affection for Maria doom the union. table performances from Bobby Smith (Uncle Max) and an The Sound of Music is sure to lift the spirits of the- After being shaken by the real prospect that she and the acrobatic Danny Yoerges who played Rolf, the young love atergoers during this holiday season. The mounting of this Captain are falling in love, she runs back to the abbey and lis- interest for the eldest von Trapp daughter, Liesl (Mag- classic at the Olney Theatre Center was a beauty to be- tens to the Mother Abbess (Channez McQuay). She then re- gie Donavan). Yoerges had previously demonstrated his hold – both visually and through its superb score penned turns to the von Trapps’ house to determine if there is indeed strong acting skills as the lead in Olney’s Farragut North. by the legendary team of Rodgers and Hammerstein. The love between the Captain and her. They eventually marry. And the children – all of them – simply tugged at the book was written by Howard Lindsay and Russel Crouse. Max Detwiler (Bobby Smith), a mutual friend of the heartstrings. They were fantastic. For Oscar Hammerstein II, The Sound of Music repre- Baroness and the Captain whom the kids refer to as Uncle Scenic Designer James Fouchard should be saluted sented his final production as he died nine months after Max is a pushy music promoter. He convinces the Cap- because the scenery was simply exquisite, and the set the show debuted on Broadway in November 1959 with tain that the kids should perform at the upcoming Salzburg changes (13 different scenes in Act I alone) were exe- Mary Martin and Theodore Bikel as the leads. It closed in Music Festival. cuted flawlessly and seamlessly. Also, kudos to Costume 1963 after 1,443 performances. Meanwhile the Captain is under intense pressure to Coordinators Jeanne Bland and Seth Gilbert and Musical Several revivals both on Broadway and London fol- accept a commission in the Third Reich’s Navy, who as Director Christopher Youstra. lowed and, of course, the 1965 film based on the musical an Austrian, is loathe doing. Leaving him no choice, the This is a must-see family show. A nine-year-old boy, starring Julie Andrews and Christopher Plummer, went on Captain decides to escape from Austria and pulls it off seated in front of me and attending his first show, was to become a spectacular box office success. following the children’s performance at the festival, which celebrating his birthday with his grandmother. What a way t While the musical was based on true events, there took place with a huge Nazi banner behind them. to introduce him to quality theatre! were a number of changes made. As Director Mark Wal- Mark Waldrop skillfully directed a superbly talented The Sound of Music runs through January 8 at Olney’s drop put it, “Biography is not drama, and Lindsay and and charismatic cast. All the parts and pieces moved in Mainstage Theatre, 2001 Olney-Sandy Spring Road, Ol- Crouse took a number of liberties with the truth” to in- perfect harmony. The music, so well integrated in the ney, MD 20832. For more information, call 301-924-3400 crease the emotional impact, humor and suspense. show’s dramatic plot, was performed splendidly. or visit Olneytheatre.org. The Sound of Music contains a bunch of well-known As Maria, Jessica Lau- songs, such as, “My Favorite Things,” “Do-Re-Mi,” “Six- ren Ball, who played Sandy teen Going on Seventeen,” “So Long, Farewell,” “Climb in Olney’s production of Every Mountain,” “Edelweiss” as well as the title song. Grease this past summer, The Theatre at CCBC presents … The story is about a former postulant, Maria, per- was a standout who would formed brilliantly by Jessica Lauren Ball, who has been triumph in this role any- sent to be the governess of the seven children of Captain where. Ball brightened the Georg von Trapp (George Dvorsky), a widower and former stage with her shiny pres- Austro-Hungarian Navy Captain. ence and her glorious sing- He treats his children like military underlings but Maria ing voice. She delightfully

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SCREEN SAVOR: 2011 HOLIDAY GRAB BAG – continued from front page Holiday Grab Bag: TV on DVD its 20th anniversary, with a double disc, extended cut, blu- By Gregg Shapiro determined than ever after the loss at Regionals. That is if ray debut in 7.1 audio and new hi-def transfer. Directed From the delightfully twisted Saturday morning minds of their raging hormones or coach Sue Sylvester (out actress by and starring Kevin Costner as Civil War hero Lt. Dun- Sid and Marty Krofft, the three DVD set Sigmund and The Jane Lynch) don’t derail them. The gay romance storyline bar, who befriends the Sioux Indians while stationed at a Sea Monsters: Season One (Vivendi, $29.93), originally between Kurt (out actor Chris Colfer) and Blaine (Dar- desolate American frontier outpost, Dances with Wolves is aired on NBC from 1973 to 1975. The show followed the ren Criss) also continues. 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In ers, Johnny (a post-Family to name only a few. one of the last of the Vietnam dra- Affair Johnny Whitaker) and Brothers And Sisters: mas, Sheen’s breakout performance, Scott (Scott Kolden), who The Complete Fifth and as naïve American soldier Private keep Sigmund hidden in Final Season (ABC Stu- Chris Taylor, is the stuff of legends. their backyard clubhouse. dios, $45.99), the heartfelt Also loaded with special features, Special features include dramatic series created by Platoon includes audio commentary commentary by Whitaker out filmmaker and writer from director Stone, deleted and ex- and Kolden, with an exclu- Greg Berlanti, comes to tended scenes, documentaries and sive look at a 2010 H.R. a close with the Walker more. Winner of four 1986 Academy Pufnstuf American Cinema- family, portrayed by Sally The Secret of Awards, this is a classic that reso- theque event in Los Ange- Field, Rachel Griffiths and Dorian Gray nates with modern times. les. Calista Flockhart, among Based on the acclaimed Broad- Talk Soup and stand-up others supporting one way musical about a Shakespearean turf war, the limited edi- stud Joel McHale leads the another through joy and tion four-disc set (two blu-rays, one DVD and a CD of cover cast of Greendale Community College’s students and heartache, facing relatable life issues, including relation- songs from the soundtrack) 50th anniversary edition of West faculty on Community: The Complete Second Season ship trouble between gay couple Kevin (Matthew Rhys) Side Story (MGM, $69.99) gives the film, winner of 10 Acad- (Sony Pictures Home Entertainment, $45.99), which also and Scotty (Luke Macfarlane ). Bonus features include emy Awards, a chance to be discovered by a whole new gen- includes Ken Jeong, Chevy Chase, Donald Glover (now deleted scenes, outtakes, bloopers and more on the five eration. Called the greatest love story ever told and the most making a name for himself as rapper Childish Gambino) DVD set. cherished musical of all time West Side Story, directed by and others. Season two guest star found on this four DVD The first-ever complete and collectible 11 DVD box Robert Wise and starring Richard Beymer and Natalie Wood, set include Betty White, Drew Carey, Hilary Duff, Malcolm- set for JEM and The Holograms: The Truly Outrageous holds up well. Special features include choreographers illu- Jamal Warner and Josh Holloway. Uncensored special Complete Series! (Shout Factory, about animated ’80s minating the film’s famous dance sequences, song specific features include outtakes and deleted scenes, cast and pop diva, with her trademark pink hair, outrageous make- commentary and a look back at the iconic film and its impact crew commentary on every episode, season two cast up and star earring, contains all 65 original episodes. on the world. evaluations and more. Give or get this piece of TV history Combining glamour, glitter, fashion and fame, musical as Community is being removed from NBC’s midseason numbers and clashes with rivals The Misfits and The Colorful assortment primetime lineup. Stingers, the popular series ran from 1985-88 and is said With an additional 50 minutes of previously unseen The six disc, 22 episode Glee: The Complete Second to have influenced a whole generation of viewers. Bonus lost footage, the 25th anniversary blu-ray edition of David Season (20th Century Fox Home Entertainment) finds Wil- features include a retrospective featurette with brand new Lynch’s Blue Velvet (MGM, $24.99) is one of the season’s liam McKinley High School Glee Club more driven and interviews, video jukebox and much more. t must-haves. Lynch’s classic portrayal of the suburban un- derbelly not only revived the careers of Dennis Hopper, Dean Stockwell and Hope Lange, but also made stars of Kyle McLachlan, Laura Dern and Isabella Rosselini. Blu- ray special features include the Mysteries of Love doc, the original “Siskel & Ebert” review and more. The late Gwen Welles (Desert Hearts, Nashville) head- lines the cast of women in the 20th anniversary edition DVD reissue of Henry Jaglom’s Eating (Breaking Glass, $26.95). Described as “a very serious comedy about wom- en & food,” Eating’s DVD special features include com- mentary by Jaglom, the cast’s appearance on The Phil Donahue Show and more. Originally released theatrically 40 years ago, The Se- cret of Dorian Gray/Il Dio Chiamato Dorian (Raro Video, $19.98), Italian filmmaker Massimo Dallamano’s modern retelling of the Oscar Wilde classic novel, makes it onto a domestically released DVD. Starring the stunning, and of- ten half-undressed, Helmut Berger as the ageless Dorian, it’s a campy, sexy, queer period piece. DVD special fea- tures include an interview with assistant director Maurizio Tanfani and more. t

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collaborations) later. iMusic: Chicago Sound Check Wilco has mostly shed its No-Depres- By Gregg Shapiro sion direction in favor of a more experimental power-pop In 1991, while the rest of the civilized world was embrac- sound. It’s a good fit, beginning with 1999’s Summerteeth ing grunge, purveyed by the likes of Nirvana and Pearl and continuing with the new The Whole Love (Anti-/dBpm). Jam (led by Chicago native Eddie Vedder), the Chicago Literate and lively, The Whole Love benefits from a whole lot music scene sounded like it was still suffering from an of variety, from the dangerous pop of I Might to ’80s hangover. One of the the vintage shuffle of Capitol City and the ex- biggest releases by a Chi- quisite One Sunday Morning, Wilco remains cago band, Material Issue’s one of the most consistently rewarding bands, International Pop Over- from Chicago or anywhere else. throw, even had a distinctly Young Chicago soul diva Syleena John- ’80s Boston-band ring to it. son continues telling her story in song on Gish (Virgin/EMI), the Chapter V: Underrated (Shanachie). John- reissued, remastered and son displays a righteous reverence for old expanded debut disc by school R&B on songs such as “Like Thorns,” Smashing Pumpkins, didn’t “Little Things,” “My Shoes,” “Label Me” sound like the ’80s, and only and “The Champ. But that doesn’t prevent vaguely echoed grunge. her from sounding utterly up-to-date on “A Anything but blah, Thank You, Thank You (Blahblah- The music was metallic, but Boss,” “Fade Away” and “Go Head.” blahmusic.com) the six-song EP by Blah Blah Blah is a it was saved by Billy Cor- Anyone put off by former Chicagoan Ra- promising introduction to the band. As comfortable making gan’s distinctive and emo- chael Yamagata’s challenging, but ambitious dance-floor-friendly pop on songs such as “Crazy Fools” tive vocals. Two years later, 2008 Elephants… Teeth Seeking into Hearts and “Why Am I The Only One Laughing” as they are go- after grunge had predictably album will be thrilled by her more accessible ing for the emotional core on “Say Your Name,” Blah Blah run its course and alterna- new disc Chesapeake (Frankenfish). The fan- Blah is a band with something to say. t tive was the predominant funded effort opens with the bright and airy piano-driven force, Smashing Pumpkins’ remarkable Siamese Dream “Even If I Don’t,” the musical equivalent of being welcomed (Virgin), also reissued, remastered and expanded, set the with open arms. “Starlight” is as dark and twinkly as a clear, standard. Shimmering with the shards of grunge, Siamese night sky and the slinky “Saturday Morning” lets the sunshine Dream also dared to go where few others had ventured, in through blinds. Yamagata hasn’t lost her knack for heart- exemplified in the rapturous “Today” and the disarming breaking drama as she exhibits on both the tearjerker “You Movie Magic “Disarm,” complete with chimes and a string section. Gish Won’t Let Me” and “Miles on a Car,” as well as “Full On.” and Siamese Dream are nothing less than essential. In the tradition of retro soul revivalists such as Sharon In 1995, the year that Smashing Pumpkins released Jones & the Dap Kings and Fitz & the Tantrums, Chicago’s their double disc Mellon Collie and the Infinite Sadness set, JC Brooks & the Uptown Sound return with their sopho- Wilco, one of the bands in Chicago’s burgeoning alt-country more release Want More (Bloodshot). The funky title track scene, released their major-label debut A.M. Sixteen years might leave you wanting more, but “Everything Will Be (and nine albums – including a live disc and two Billy Bragg Fine” and especially “I Got High” deliver in full. What bet- ter compliment could there be than one Chicago band paying homage to another as Brooks and company do on their soulful reinvention of Wilco’s “I Am Trying To Break Your Heart”? Other soul Baltimore’s Favorite! sensations include “I Can See Everything,” “Don’t 4-8pm Lock the Door,” “Missing Things” and “Sister Ray Hour Daily Charles.” Happy Neverendless (Drag City) is the right name for the latest disc by psychedelic jammers Cave. Al- bum opener “WUJ” gets things started on an al- most irresistibly funky vibe, where such repetition is ideally suited for a dark and sweaty dance-floor. I propose! – This picture was captured just prior to the The ironically titled “This is the Best” however, showing of director Morgan Fox’s film This is What Love which goes on “neverendlessly” for almost 15 min- in Action Looks Like, a recent movie about a 16-year- utes, is something else altogether. old boy who was tossed into a “pray away the gay” fun- Jazz legend Ramsey Lewis is still going strong damentalist Christian program. The movie premiered more than 50 years after releasing his first album. in Memphis, Tennessee. During that premier, direc- Ramsey, Taking Another Look (Hidden Beach) by tor Morgan Jon Fox proposed to his boyfriend, Declan Lewis and his Electric Band, does precisely that, re- Michael Deely. Associate producer of the film and examining five of the seven tracks from his landmark Baltimore OUTloud cartoonist and photographer Bruce 1974 jazz fusion album Sun Goddess. In addition to Garrett, caught the precious moment on film. Look for- the title tune, you will find “Love Song,” “Tambura,” ward to a free screening of This is What Love in Action 3607 FLEET STREET “Jungle Strut” and Lewis’ reading of Stevie Wonder’s Looks Like at the Creative Alliance on Saturday January BALTIMORE, MD 410-563-2617 Check us out “Living for the City.” The new recording also includes 21 at 11 a.m. at The Den. photo: Bruce Garrett AMPLE PARKING • ATM AVAILABLE on Facebook a cover of “Betcha By Golly, Wow” and more.

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tration like any kid. When they finally have a therapist break the The Descendants: Goes for the (Oscar) Gold news to her about her mother’s stealing his wife. What Matt learns about lywood to do what he wants to do. This role condition (she’s already been b cky Chu Duncan his children, his wife, the affair, and himself will almost certainly earn him another Os- disconnected from life support by this The Descendants stars George Clooney makes The Descendants one of the best car nomination, if not the win. He inhabits point), Payne basically kills the audio so as Matt King, a busy lawyer and trustee movies of the year. the role of George King so completely that we just see the therapist talking in a sort of of land in Hawaii owned by his family for It’s been seven years (seven!) since di- you pretty much forget you’re watching the slow motion and the expression of Scottie over a hundred years. Matt is busy working rector Alexander Payne’s last feature film, biggest movie star in the world playing this changes as her eyes well up with tears. It’s with his cousins to determine the winning Sideways, a delightful slice of real life, average guy who has more drama on his a truly heartbreaking moment, and Miller bidder for the land, the last piece of virgin with all the ups and downs that comes with plate than anyone deserves at one time. pulls it off like a seasoned pro (in her first property in Hawaii, before they are forced it. The Descendants, role!). to dissolve the trust in seven years. During which is misleadingly Shailene Woodley, the process, Matt’s wife is gravely injured being billed as a rau- most recently seen on the in a boating accident, in a coma and kept cous comedy, is another ABC Family series The alive only by a machine. Matt is suddenly honest look at real life Secret Life of the Ameri- saddled with a 10-year-old daughter he but one filled more with can Teenager, also turns has no connection with, and a 17-year-old tragedy than comedy. in a strong performance daughter who was sent away to boarding That’s not to say that that surprises as well. school for her issues with drugs and gen- there aren’t any funny When we first meet Alex- eral bad behavior. moments in the movie, andra, she’s drunk and As Matt gathers his family together, his but when you find your- risking expulsion from oldest daughter, Alexandra, reveals some self sniffling through a boarding school, she’s startling news – his wife was having an af- greater portion of the got a lot of anger towards fair and planning to ask for a divorce, which film than laughing, you’d her dad, but when it’s re- led to the falling out between her and her be hard-pressed to call vealed that the problem mother. Devastated by the news, Matt still it a comedy. But that’s lies with her mother’s in- has to find a way to tell his youngest, Scot- what makes the film so fidelity, she does a 180 tie, that her mother is going to die, as he satisfying emotionally… and becomes her father’s conspires to track down the guy who was amidst all the drama ally in his quest to find of real life, even at the the “other man.” Wood- worst of times, someone ley also reminded me of a can always find some- younger Natalie Portman, thing to have a laugh about to lighten the It’s a beautifully nuanced and subtle per- and if she continues to turn in performances moment, and just as things start to get too formance, and he surprises at times when like this one, I think we’ll be seeing a lot of heavy in the movie, something funny hap- you think Matt will have a specific reaction her on the big screen. pens and it never feels forced. to his situation and then goes in the op- The rest of the movie is populated by The whole movie feels like a documen- posite direction. 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Going Gay on the Big Island crushed macadamia Hilo, make sure to make a stop at the Mauna Loa macada- nuts were easily pre- mia nut plantation. It is massive with over 2500 acres and By Kevin Leap pared and devoured. Yes, we did gain pounds. For some- 250,000 trees. It is only a few miles before you hit town, Gaytravel.com place with nothing to do, you will never get a chance to but it’s easy to miss with the sudden entrance on your Everyone has that special place to just leave the whole do it all. right. It’s worth the swerve though. Check out dumb world behind. They aren’t as easy to find these days If you’re staying on the Kona side of the Island, check the manufacturing floor that is with wi-fi, Blackberry’s and universal internet access. out the Mauna Kea, which was built a bazillion years ago viewable through the big win- Spots that once were havens for seasoned travelers are by Nelson Rockefeller. This is probably why his wife dows on the right side of the now playgrounds for anyone who can access the web. Ha- was named “Happy.” The place has seen better days, parking lot. waii is possibly the most trampled upon group of islands but the snorkeling on the beach is unbeatable. We They still have live hu- in the world if you don’t include those little slices of earth went way the heck out along the rocks to swim with mans dipping the nuts in owned by the cruise ship companies. sea turtles, schools of pencil fish, that one fish with chocolate and putting Consider the hoards of people at the airport in Waikiki all the vowels in its name, and some other tanned them in boxes. The whole jamming five boxes of chocolate covered macadamia nuts adventurers. thing is very reminiscent in their bags for their friends at work. So here is a thought… You don’t need to stay at the hotel to hang at of Lucy and Ethyl in the when you have the chance to go to Hawaii, why not go to the beach, but get there early because public park- ever-famous candy factory Hawaii? The “Big Island,” ing is very limited and only avail- skit. The adjoining store and the one that is really able with a permit. The permit is has “everything macada- called “Hawaii,” is prob- free, but there are only about 50 of mia” from pasta, oils, candy ably the least visited of them, and when they’re gone, they’re and spreads. Yum! If you’re by the landmasses making gone. We got there at 9 a.m. on a Sat- chance there on a Tuesday, tell up the 49th state. A little urday and there were only a few spots them you are from the cruise piece of advice for you… left. ship and you will get a discount. go to Kona, go to Kona, As we mentioned before, there is one Sometimes it is okay to lie. go to Kona. small gay bar in Kona, located in strip Hilo is a bit of an industrial town and not worth more Now my husband and shopping center no less. “Mask” is a bitsy than a quick drop in. On Wednesday and Saturday, there I may be a little preju- little place, but it was fun to go hang and is a killer farmer market with stuff we have never seen diced here as our friend play darts while shooting the breeze with before. Talk about some very cool fruits and vegetables, has a really cool house a couple locals. I must say we could’ve not to mention my new sunglasses. You should also have we stay in every year, done without the exceptionally bad drag the local Hawaiian hottie hack up a fresh coconut with a but the hotels there look pretty dang nice! Being insatiable show that seemed to manifest itself out of nowhere. It cer- machete so you can drink the luxurious milk right out of foodies, all trips include visiting local restaurants along tainly made for good stories later. Um…does this place the shell. Thoroughly worth the three bucks if you know with sampling neighborhood stores and farmers markets. have a mirror? Mask is at 75-5660 Kopiko Plaza, just past what we mean. What a treat to learn upon our Saturday arrival that the the Rite Aid. Really. The Big Island is a place that gets in your blood and Hawaiian Islands HIV/AIDS Foundation was hosting their They couldn’t have been nicer there, and despite the draws you back for future visits. From a total dive bar in signature event “Taste of Life” at the Sheraton Keauhou. lack of local meeting places, Kona has a very active In- Hilo, full of locals singing native songs, to a sumptuous The evening featured tastes from many of the Island’s top ternet gay community that is pretty easy to find. Many meal at the Canoe House or Beach Tree at the Four Sea- restaurants and hotels. It was also a great way to meet up couples and singles have escaped to the Island and are sons, you’re hooked. Mahalo. t with other gay couples and like-minded individuals on an great to hang out with. Taking a few days to drive around Island with only one tiny little gay bar. How cool is that? the whole island is a So our first night in Kona was spent indulging in bites fun adventure. The from a few dozen restaurants and mingling with the locals South end sports the who could have not been more welcoming. We feasted most active volcano upon endless morsels and after having spent hours with the in the world, replete incredibly hospitable owners, Erik and his partner Scott, we with sulfur belching selected Huggo’s as our home base while we were there. craters, lava flows Founded in 1969, this place is still way cool. You seri- and a cocktail bar ously couldn’t build a place like this these days consid- right on the edge. ering the permit process and political correctness of not Who can stop prog- using the coastline. Huggo’s has two distinct spaces, both ress? dead on the water. Yeah baby! For lunch, the über casual The flora around place actually has sand for a floor with a menu perfect the crest of the main for an island hangover. Righteous Mai Tai’s, huge burg- crater is unbelievable ers and really nice fish sandwiches got us though the first with wild orchids, afternoon. Dinner a few nights later was awesome in the dense ferns and trees upscale dining room. that are very Jurassic Do not leave Kona without trying the teriyaki steak. Park. Take your time How the heck did they make that soooooo good? On the and wander a bit, es- nights we didn’t dine out, the local farmers markets provid- pecially if there aren’t ed a bounty of delicious delights. Gigantic Rib Eyes from five giant tour buses local Parker Ranch cattle were so tender and flavorful that there, which, fair our eyes still well up at the thought of them. Brochettes of warning, may be rare. Mahi Mahi with island vegetables or Opa encrusted with On the way into

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BALTIMORE OUTLOUD DECEMBER 2, 2011 • baltimoreoutloud.com q 25 my case I saw this 1960’s television show with AIDS cannot afford the drugs when it was current. Joe probably saw it in that are needed to provide a bet- on “Nick at Night.”) Joe played football in ter quality of life. He is very ex- high school and is still turned on by gear. cited to have been given the title Before moving to Baltimore for his job with of Mr. Maryland Leather 2012 and Quest Diagnostic, Joe lived in Harrisburg, considers Mr. Maryland Leather Pennsylvania. Being from a rural area he 2009 Rik Newton-Treadway one thought Harrisburg was a big city. He is of his role models for his many now very excited to be living in the Balti- years of community service. He more area. also hopes to reach out to all Meet the New Although he had always been attracted members of the LGBT community to men in leather, Joe only became in- with a platform of acceptance. He Mr. Maryland volved in the Leather Community about spoke passionately about a time a year in a half ago when he met his Sir. in his life when he was very un- I was interested in how he met Sir Andy happy with himself because he Leather! Liu and Joseph sheepishly informed me was overweight. He finally took con- that they had met on Recon and had their trol of his life and lost well over 130 On the Saturday, November 19 before first face-to-face meeting at the Baltimore pounds. Although it was healthy to heading to Washington for the Mr. D.C. Eagle. Joe was terribly embarrassed that lose all the extra weight, he discov- Eagle 2012 Contest, I headed over to Mid- he arrived at the Eagle ten minutes late ered that it was even more important dle River, Maryland and the beautiful new for their date. This past August Joe and to find himself and become comfort- colonial style home of Maryland’s newest Andy Liu made history as one of the first able with who he is. leather titleholder Joseph Chmielowski- gay couples to get married in Queens, New Joseph takes great strength Liu. It was clear that Joe was still delight- York. When asked why they got married in from the strong work ethic of his fully stunned to have recently been se- New York, Joe informed me that Andy had family. He took me into his living lected Mr. Maryland Leather 2012. I was family there and that is was really exciting room a showed me an old black warmly greeted by Joseph and his part- to get married on the first day. The judges and white photo of a man work- ner Sir Andy Liu (Mid-Atlantic LeatherSIR at the courthouse even donated their time ing in a coalmine He informed Joseph Chmielowski-Liu, (left) to be a part of this event. 2008) and I made sure that I brought with me that the man in the picture Mr. Maryland Leather 2012 me the current issue of Baltimore OUT- I warned Joe that for some leather title- was his grandfather. He keeps loud, which had just come out the day holders having a partner could create prob- the framed photo on the wall and before. Joe beamed as he looked at our lems in the relationship. Joe is not worried looks at it often. “Don’t forget where you funds because they have such a program paper’s two-page spread with many pic- about his busy schedule. He added that he can from,” he says. He plans to give 100% in place. He already has a bar night sched- tures of the Mr. Maryland Leather 2012 and Andy just really “get each other” and it during his title year and although not cur- uled for December 17 at the Baltimore contest. After relaxing on the porch for a will be very helpful to him to have a partner rently involved in any of the local leather Eagle and he cannot wait to get started few minutes in the unusually warm Novem- who is also a leather titleholder and has clubs, he hopes to explore them and per- raising funds and meeting more folks in the ber weather, we went into the kitchen and been through the experience before. Plus haps join one when his year is up. leather community. over coffee and hors d’ouvres; I was able he plans to set aside at least one weekend That brought me to my last question. I Later that evening Joe met Kevin Jordan, to learn more about our very friendly and a month to make time for his other half. reminded Joe that a title year can go very a member of the ONYX Leather Club who warm new titleholder. Community service is a big part of be- quickly. I asked him to flash ahead to No- was selected over three other contestants Joseph was born in New York State ing a leather titleholder and Joe is plan- vember 2012 and that moment when he for the title of Mr. D.C. Eagle 2012 during the and grew up in a rural area near Scranton, ning to help raise funds for AIDS Action steps down. 40th anniversary of the D.C. Eagle. Joe and Pennsylvania. His childhood home was on Baltimore. He recently had the honor of I wanted to know what he hopes to ac- Kevin will both be a part of the Class of 2012 a dirt road. I asked him when he first real- presenting AIDS Action Baltimore with a complish by the end of his year. Joe said at the International Mr. Leather 2012 contest ized that he was gay and I quickly discov- Pantheon of Leather award for small non- that he hopes to meet many people and in Chicago over the Memorial Day weekend. ered that we had something in common. profit organization. He hopes to use his to travel to as many events as he can. He For both Mr. Maryland Leather 2012 Joseph Growing up we both had a crush on Burt connections with Quest Diagnostics to hopes to raise lots of funds for AIDS Ac- Chmielowski-Liu and Mr. D.C. Eagle 2012 Ward who played Robin in the television help in his fundraising. He feels that it is tion Baltimore and hopes that his employer Kevin Jordan their leather journey has only series “Batman & Robin.” (Unfortunately, in really a shame that many persons dealing Quest Diagnostic will match some of the just begun. t

26 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD DECEMBER 2, 2011 • baltimoreoutloud.com time. Along with those, he is a great person by accident. People We Like Mark Hunter all around. He would drop everything for Then editor and good friend, Andy you if you need help and he has a huge Chmielowski-Liu asked him to write an by Jay Loane Mark came out. heart. I could keep article on musician Tom First, let me start off by saying that the “My ex and I get along great. She has going on how great Goss. rumors of my demise were greatly exag- since remarried and Samantha has made of an individual [he “I’m not a writer,” he gerated. Like what you are about to read, me the happiest father and grandfather is] but most of us said. “It happened all of a “People We Like” and I, are back! in the world”, he added. A proud grandfa- already know. And sudden and after I wrote I first met Mark Hunter several years ther he is. On Mark’s Facebook page, he to those who don’t, that article, I started ago. I can’t recall the reason for our meet- proudly talks about and shows us all up- you need to!” writing the ‘about town’ ing just that we met and with his demeanor, dated photos of his grandchildren. You can also piece.” we quickly became friends. Four years ago, Mark retired from his find Mark appear- He has been writing Born on September 13, 1957, he was job with the Maryland Transit Authority Po- ing in clubs around his article for Gay Life for originally from Reynoldsville, Pennsylva- lice where he was an officer. town as Marketta a little over one and a half nia (northeast of Pittsburgh), though Mark Though you would think that someone Buffet. His debut years. spent most of his childhood in Linthicum who has recently retired would take it easy, as a female imper- “I’ve known Mark for in Baltimore County. He attended Andover Mark is still very much on the move. He sonator came about ten years now,” remarked High School and graduated in 1975. was a bartender at The Phoenix (since while working at The Robert Isaacs. “He is Mark briefly attended Anne Arundel closed); tends bar at The Quest, writes a Phoenix. very loyal to his friends Community College majoring in Business column for Gay Life and keeps busy with “We had a ‘turn- and would drop every- but his part time job soon became full time his grandchildren Bubba (21 months old) about’ show (where thing if you needed help and ultimately he didn’t finish college. and the newest arrival to the Hunter clan, men dress as wom- with anything.” Like many people back in the 70s, Kaitlyn (5 months old). en and vice-verse). Currently single, Mark got married and they had a daughter, “My father is a man of many charac- It was a lot of fun Mark Hunter photo: Jose Gomez Mark’s ideal partner Samantha. teristics,” stated Samantha Hunter Dick- and it is not like I am should be honest, loyal, “I was always attracted to men,” he said. ens. “He is not only a great father but my making a career out have a sense of humor “But back then, it was looked down upon.” best friend as well. Also, he is a excellent it – I simply do it as fun entertainment.” but most importantly, “they should accept It wasn’t until he was about 30 that grandfather; my kids express that all the His career as a journalist came about me – for me.” t

SK: What do you think is more im- eyeliner, and I thought I looked like a real burg, Virginia. portant, dance preparation or song se- girl. Then, after seeing certain performers SK: Where would you like to be with lection? really getting into the community, I started your craft in ten to thirty years from NA: I think for me personally it would to try to play around a little more. Until, I now? be song selection, for the simple fact that actually found Arione on Facebook. After a NA: I would like to be either A. Headlin- Sam you could pick the choreography and then few weeks of giving me pointers and help, I er or B. Running my own show at a club or Unfiltered a boring a song, and because of Erica An- asked her if she would be my drag mother. having a huge national title like Miss Gay Sam Kunz drews, dance house down boots. God love her, she said “let me think about America. I want to the first white girl to win SK: Do you belong to a drag family? it and I will get back to you.” The next day Miss Black Universe. NA: Yes I do. The Kel- she told me yes. She is my for- SK: Now, Why would you want to win lys. The matriarch would tune cookie. She always has Miss Black Universe? Nick A. be Kristina Kelly, Arione words of wisdom that I can apply NA: Because I believe that we should Decardeza. She is my drag to my everyday life. have pride in all races, whether they be (Kit Valentine) mother. SK: Were you nervous? black, white, Latino, purple, green or polka SK: I have talked to so NA: I was so nervous, I didn’t dotted. I know I have pride in all races. I Sam Kunz: Thank you for talking to us many drag queens and it move. I walked. My legs were feel as though I could represent a title like here at Baltimore OUTloud. I know you seems that the consen- shaking and my feet went numb. that and give it the dignity it deserves. have a busy schedule. So let’s get right sus is split right down the Kit Valentine It was in front over a 100 people SK: What is your dream gig? to it, what is your full drag name? middle. Do you think be- at Town. NA: Hmm... I would have a show on the Nick A: Kit Valentine. longing to a Drag Family SK: Imagine a boy of 16 White House lawn with Ru Paul, Shannel, SK: And how did you come by it? is important? If not, why? was just watching To Wong Foo for the Alexis Matteo, and all the Kelly family for NA: Umm, It was actually very simple. NA: Yeah I do feel like it is important. first time and he decided he wanted to President Obama and his family. I just thought of my favorite girl’s name. Not just to learn from someone who has be a drag queen, what advice would you SK: What do you want Baltimore to Then I thought of my favorite color. I been doing this for multiple years and to give to him? know about you? thought, “What represents red?” That’s my learn from all they have done, but to grow NA: A clean-shaven face, no stubble, NA: When I put the makeup on, I see favorite color. Bam! Valentine’s Day. community and acceptance so that some- stubble is bad. After making sure the face my mom’s face. It sounds complicated, but SK: How many pageants have you one who might be very talented can have is nice and smooth, no matter what hap- to me, it’s not. This is for her. Because of entered? someone to perfect their look or help them pens, no matter how you think someone that, it’s given me more fire and determina- NA: Would be three. to achieve their goal. else is going to feel, do it with your heart. tion to reach the goals doing drag and in SK: How many crowns do you have? SK: How did you get your start in Go for what you feel is best. Don’t listen to life. No matter what I know, she would be NA: I currently have one, Miss Harri- drag? those who would bring you down. Go for it. proud of me. I am doing what she would sonburg at large. (Harrisonburg, Virginia, NA: I was the makeup crew head in the Just do what you feel in your heart. want me to do and I am living my dreams. not Pennsylvania). Actually, the venue is theater department of my high school and SK: What is next? If anyone out there has any dreams they not a club. It’s a music store. It has all the I spent too much time next to the makeup NA: Well, I will actually be crowning the feel they can’t accomplish, go for it. Be- equipment that they needed to run a pag- counter. I decided to play around with it. next Miss Harrisonburg at large on March cause whether you fail or succeed, it will eant, it was Downtown Music 34. At first, it was just foundation, blush and 24th at Downtown Music 34 in Harrison- be the best thing you ever do. t

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