November 2019 • Volume 73 • Number 10

Thanksgiving By Lars Olson, Executive Pastor In This Issue “I thank my God every time I remember you, for their friendship in Christ even while he is experiencing an constantly praying with joy in every one of my uncertain future and the loss of his freedom. In a very deep • God, Miracles, and the Modern World. . . . .2 prayers for all of you because of your sharing in way, he is filled to overflowing with the blessings of God— • Eschatology: End of Days...... 2 the gospel” (Philippians 1:3-5). friendship, distress, and especially faith. • Thankful Stewardship...... 2 Giving thanks seems easy when the harvest This is similar to how our congregation shares in the blessings • Advent...... 2 is plentiful; bank balances aren’t troublingly of God together. A member dies; we all mourn and pray. • Meet the Women of Lois Circle...... 3 low; and relationships with family, friends, and A member is baptized; we celebrate together the death and • The Road to Dignity: Hope Haven. . . . 3 neighbors are solid, loving, and caring. Yet it is in the times resurrection of Christ. We do not just experience the joy of life • Grieving a Loss During the Holidays . . . 4 of plenty that we often neglect to appreciate all that we have. with one another, but we experience the struggles and burdens • Milestone Minute ...... 5 On the other hand, giving thanks in times of need, worry, and that come among us. And at times, we find deep divisions • That Time of Year...... 5 hardship can be a burden in the midst of stress-filled lives. It within the congregation that threaten to split us apart. Capital • Council News, Nominations...... 6 just seems disingenuous to be thankful for things that we don’t campaign votes, financial crunch, disputes between ministries • Senior Lunch...... 6 really like, want, or appreciate! over use of space and resources all can seem too much to handle. All need to be attended, but even more to the point, • Gifts and Memorials...... 7 Every November in our nation, however, the gears of progress Christ calls us through the words of the scriptures to pause, • Media Sponsorships Available...... 7 and commerce come to a halt for a day in order to give thanks. remember one another, and give thanks time and time again • Essential safety services are available, but by and large everyone How Will they Hear if No One for one another because in the times of ease or difficulty, we gets a day or two off work to rest and give thanks. If we’ve had Tells Them? ...... 8 are united by a common hope and faith. • November Special Offering: Pueblo de Dios a year of plenty or a season of trial, we pause together and give thanks. If we’ve lost friends and family, or if we’ve gained new Paul wrote how we dare to give thanks in everything and Vecinos Unidos...... 8 relationships through birth or meeting new people, we stop for a exceedingly well toward the end of Philippians. “In any and all moment of thankfulness. There is a great gift for us in this holiday circumstances I have learned the secret of being well-fed and of that reminds us to give thanks for everything God has given. going hungry, of having plenty and of being in need. I can do all things through him who strengthens me” (Philippians 4:12- And I mean everything—the plentiful and the sparse, the A Prayer in the 13). Whatever the particular circumstances of my day bring, I good and the bad—for our lives are full of so much of both. know Christ Jesus is to whom I give thanks and praise to God Our focus tends to be trained on one or the other, but St. Paul Spirit of Thanksgiving for everything. offers us another perspective in his letter to the Christians at Lord God, of all nations … guide your people Philippi, what we call the book of Philippians. At the very With thanksgiving to God for each of you, of these United States of America to be a beginning, he lets them know that he gives thanks to God for Pastor Lars republic that stands in a humble position of them. He writes these words from prison, expressing thanks sails unfurled, yes, wide open … filled by the directing inspiration of your Holy Spirit for greater justice and peace. Grant us what prosperity may be your will; but above God’s Grace: all things, give us faith in you, that our nation may bring glory to your holy name, and Our Heritage and Future blessing to all your people on earth: red and Capital Campaign Update yellow, black and white, each precious in your At the special congregational meeting held on September sight. One nation under you, O Lord, within 29, the $5.3 million capital campaign was approved by over your kingdom come. In Jesus’ name. Amen. 63% of the members present. Now the fundraising portion of the capital campaign, God’s Grace: Our Heritage and – Pastor John Christopherson Future, begins. Please prayerfully consider how you might be able to support the campaign. The next step is member visits, which will take 3-4 months. Thanksgiving Eve Dinner and Worship Watch for more information via U.S. Mail. You will then be contacted by a First Lutheran pastor or a member of Wednesday, November 27. A tasty Thanksgiving meal with the church leadership to arrange a visit. If you would like all the fixings will be served 5-6 p.m. in Reformation Hall. to schedule your visit, please contact Jean Hoff, Capital Homemade apple and pumpkin pie donations are needed. Campaign Coordinator, at (605) 339-1983 ext. 242. Sign up in the Youth and Family office Thanksgiving Eve service is at 6:30 p.m. in the Sanctuary.

What are you thankful for? Here is a fun activity for the whole family. Choose a large pumpkin; wash and dry it thoroughly. Over the next few weeks, using a medium-tip permanent marker, write all the things The church office will be you and your family members are thankful for. On Thanksgiving use the thankful pumpkin as a centerpiece for your Thanksgiving meal. Around closed on Thanksgiving Day the table talk about the things written on the pumpkin. and Friday, Nov. 29. 2 First Word • November 2019 Adult Education and Discipleship Advent Musings God, Miracles, and the Modern World Join LaMoyne Pederson for two Thursday evening classes in apologetics, focusing on miracles. Among the issues to be discussed are: • What are miracles anyway, and do they happen today? • How would you know you had seen one? • How are miracles related to the laws of nature? • Does science tell us miracles cannot happen? • How were miracles understood in biblical times, and was it easier to believe in miracles back then? The class will meet in the Friendship Room on Thursdays, November 7 and 14, 6:30-7:30 p.m. LaMoyne Pederson, emeritus professor of philosophy, will offer comments and lead the discussion. Wednesday Mid-week Worship Services. This year, the season of Advent starts on Sunday, December 1. We will not only celebrate each Advent week in Sunday worship, but we will also have mid-week services on Wednesdays, December 4-18, Eschatology: End of Days 6:30-7:30 p.m., in the Sanctuary. What would you do if the world were going to end tomorrow? Would you reconcile To complement our Advent worship, we will offer a podcast series throughout Advent with a long-lost family member or friend? Finish a project you started years ago? Tell with some practical conversations led by Pastor Jeff Backer. Topics will include: special people in your life you love them one last time? What would you do? • Advent I: What is Advent? Why is it important to recognize this season of the church when everyone has been focused on Christmas since October? Asking these types of questions has an amazing way of clarifying for us those values and • Advent II: The traditions of Advent: Why the funky wreath with four candles? priorities we hold dear. And it’s not a bad question to ask as we move—or perhaps better What do these traditions stand for and symbolize? yet, “glitzen and blitzen”—from the festivities of Thanksgiving to the headlong “dashen” • Advent III: The hymnody of Advent: some of the stories behind our favorite Advent toward Christmas. Why? Well … because as we often think: “How is it that we so easily and Christmas music get caught up in the cultural pressure to have the perfect Christmas that we can lose a • Advent IV: O Come Emmanuel: The eve of Christmastide sense not only of what Christmas is supposed to mean, say nothing of ourselves?” We hope that through worship opportunities and the engagement in the podcast Advent is a season, a time to ponder, the sheer “comfort and joy” of Christ’s advent conversations, Advent will prepare you for the “Comfort and Joy” of the birth of the among us—now, and still to come. Advent is a time that offers us space, a time for us Christ child. as Christians to be quiet, to experience a bit of calm, and to be reminded of who we are as God’s beloved children. These Scripture First studies on the theme of “End Times” will be held on Sundays Celebrate Advent, Christmas, and at 9:30 and 10:45 a.m. in the Friendship Room: • November 10, Pastor John • November 17, Pastor Lars • November 24, Pastor Jeff Epiphany at First Lutheran Watch for Pastor Jeff’s Advent podcast series coming in December. Catch up on past “Prepare the Royal Highway—the King is Near!” series at flcsf.org/podcasts. A Festival Service of Scripture and Sacred Music Sunday, December 15; 8 and 9:30 a .m . Reflections on the season of Advent will be offered by Pastor Katherine Olson. First Library News Lutheran choirs, bells, orchestra, and vibrant congregational singing support God’s The First Lutheran Church Library is transitioning to better serve the ministries of Word as we anticipate the arrival of our Lord. our congregation. The current books that have filled the library have been carefully Nativity of Our Lord—Christmas Eve sorted to make sure the most useful, faithful, and unique resources will be available Tuesday, December 24; 2:30, 4:30, 7:30, and 9:30 p .m . for teaching and learning. Books that focus on Bible study, theology, and history— Flute, violin, brass, timpani, organ, and choirs proclaim the birth of Christ. especially history of First Lutheran—have been prioritized. Other sets of books, such as fiction and self help, which can be found in public libraries, have been selected Nativity of Our Lord—Christmas Day for donation to other more suitable collections, or to be sold at the FLC Bazaar. The Wednesday, December 25, at 10 a .m . longer term hope is to make the library both a reference library and a collection of Please Note: We will hold two morning worship services at 9:30 and 11 a.m. on resources for small groups to use for study. Transitions and changes take time, so we Sunday, December 22, to celebrate the Fourth Sunday of Advent. Saturday evening appreciate your patience and understanding through this process. worship will be held as usual in Christ the Victor Chapel at 5 p.m. on December 21.

Blessed,Blessed, II GiveGive Thankful Stewardship By Lars Olson, Executive Pastor support our ministries while Capital Campaign funds 2020 Stewardship Pledge are designated for one-time projects beyond the church’s One of the important themes of stewardship is “Thanks!” Thank you to all who have returned your pledge for 2020. budget. Please remember that we only ask for Capital and there are so many reasons to give thanks to the These commitments allow us to confidently plan for next Campaign gifts you can give joyfully. people of First Lutheran. In financial terms, this has been year’s ministry budgets. At the same time, they help you a challenging year. Low attendance through the cold Luther House of Study Challenge remember to support your congregation, and they are a part of each ministry! Thank you to all who plan to return winter greatly affected giving, and it has been a struggle First Lutheran is completing the second year of a five-year a pledge for 2020. It is not too late. You can turn in a to catch up through the summer. However, we still give commitment to support Luther House of Study with pledge online at flcsf.org/pledge, by calling Jody Bymers at thanks in this challenge. In September, after sending special gifts of $50,000 per year. Thank you to everyone (605) 339-1983 ext. 211, or in person whenever you are out a letter asking for help, the congregation responded who has contributed! Luther House provides great at First Lutheran. strongly. Since the letter went out, we have received teaching for our seminary students as well as any who significantly higher than average weekly gifts. We hope would like to learn more in-depth Lutheran theology. “Bunching” or Double Pledge this trend continues so that we can more closely reach The changes in the IRS codes have caused some rethinking out budget goals. Thank You! Two matching challenges have been offered to start the funding for next year’s commitment. There is just $3,000 of charitable giving. It is possible to give a double gift by Capital Campaign remaining in the first $10,000 match. A second matching “bunching” your pledge offering or designating your gift Of course, the capital campaign is presently on the minds challenge of $5,000 has been made. Thank you! this year for next year’s pledge in order to take advantage of the people of First Lutheran. To everyone who took of tax deductions. Your gift will be distributed monthly to Here are some further considerations about stewardship part in the focus group conversations, shared their hopes the church. and giving: and critiques for the proposals, and engaged in debate at Stocks, IRA, Mutual Funds the congregational meeting—thank you! Stewardship Podcasts IRA, stocks, and mutual funds are also giving options. As the fundraising portion of the Capital Campaign Did you know First Lutheran created a four-session These transactions must be completed by December 10, begins, please recognize the common misunderstanding podcast series on stewardship this fall? Take a listen at flcsf. 2019, to guarantee they are received by year-end. that capital campaign funding is in competition with org/podcasts to these conversations about how stewardship All gifts must be received or postmarked regular annual, weekly, or monthly giving. Capital is not mere fundraising and how generosity is a spiritual campaign giving is always “extra-mile” or “beyond-regular” matter rather than a burden you need to carry. by December 31, 2019, in order to be giving. Our first priority is to fund the annual budget to accounted for the 2019 tax year.

First Lutheran Church • 327 South Dakota Avenue • Sioux Falls, South Dakota 57104 • Phone 605-336-3734 • flcsf.org 3 First Word • November 2019 Women’s Ministries Meet the Women of Lois Circle The Road to Dignity: By Arlene Bich In other early recollections of Faith’s, Lois Circle met at the Penitentiary (Faith chuckles) when One of the meanings of the Hope Haven International it was hosted by Mazie Solem, whose husband, word circle is shared professions, Herm, was the Warden. They lived in the house on On November 7, at 10 a.m. in the Gathering Room, WELCA interests, or acquaintances, but the “hill.” will hear the speaker, Marilyn Korsten, a for Judy Erickson, long-time representative of Hope Haven International. member of Lois Circle, the Faith also recalls that for many years of the Bazaar, Since 1994, Hope Haven International meaning is shared interests or each Circle had their own “booth” of items for Ministries has manufactured and distributed achievements, serving together sale, unlike today’s offering of the Bazaar’s various wheelchairs to children and adults worldwide. as a ‘Circle’ of friends. Lois Shoppes. Lois Circle offered cookbooks some For many of these people, owning a wheelchair Circle is about our friendships, Bible study, and years. One she has is from 1981, for “Soups & in their country is a luxury. As of June 30, volunteering to serve. To quote Judy, “We have Sandwiches.” Another from 1983, is “Cookies 2019, wheelchairs totaling 127,385 have been been blessed with wonderful women of faith…age and Bars.” She recalls another from 1989, which distributed to people in 109 countries by Hope just doesn’t matter.” She knows firsthand, as she has may have been one on “Microwave Recipes.” After Haven International. Mobility transforms lives, been a member of Lois Circle since about 1972. joining the Circle, Faith used her skills to “type” offering hope, independence, and dignity. the templates used to produce at least a couple of I (Arlene) joined Lois Circle when we moved to the cookbooks. Some books were different sizes, Marilyn Korsten enjoys her work Sioux Falls 15 years ago. Lois Circle is a group like a smaller one for “Specialty Desserts.” of telling the amazing story of HHI inspired through monthly Bible studies, led and is looking forward to sharing it primarily in the past by Norma Hofer, but more Lois Circle’s booths also featured other items such with the wonderful congregation of recently, by ladies who step up and take turns. as birdhouses and angels (made by former Circle First Lutheran that she is a part of. Our discussions are always helpful and thought member Esther Sidlo). With that new organization She will explain how the building provoking. What strikes me most about Lois of the Bazaar, the primary emphasis of Lois Circle of these wheelchairs has enabled Circle is the longevity of the members and the became making sandwiches. In addition to Faith’s and blessed both the builder and camaraderie. What “wondrous joy” it is to attend recollection, to quote Judy Erickson again, “We the recipient. In addition, there are Circle. You just want this for every woman of First are now known for making the fillings” and the touching examples: Imagine traveling Lutheran! sandwiches on the day of the Bazaar. over 60 miles to a distribution site Members gather in the early hours with disabled twin boys—with hopes prior to the church doors opening ending in securing wheelchairs for the to create the delicacies! Jan Erkes brothers. Marilyn will inform us of was the main person, followed by their expanded work in Guatemala in Faith Christiansen for many years. many capacities! Together they made fillings with Come to learn of how, in yet others on Friday, and on Saturday another unique way, God is enabling directed the sandwich makers. Christians to bless others both here Meeting Times and around the world, as we hear Marilyn’s presentation! Our hosts Lois Circle meets at 9 a.m. on will be Katie and Ruth Circles. the third Tuesday of the month The WELCA Board Meeting will in members’ homes, September immediately follow the presentation through April. In May, we have a in the Gathering Room. Above front L-R: Carol Carney, Suzanne Toll, Arlene Bich, Marcia Salad Supper where we take time to Huffman. Back: Judy Morstad, Rose Ramstad, Georgia Larson, enjoy our friendships, new and old! Judy Van Veldhuizen The two pictures were taken at our Below front: Norma Hofer, Faith Christensen, Judy Erickson, Bev 2019 evening gathering, held at the Simpson. Back: Elaine Berg, Linda Munson, Sherri Goldammer, home of Judy Morstad. Joanne Goldammer At the time of the Salad Supper in May, I collected a few thoughts on how members feel about Lois Circle: Linda Munson: “I joined Lois Circle in 1972 after marrying Dave and becoming a member of his church, First Lutheran. It was an evening circle then, and I was a teacher. When our sons were “Bazaar” Song for FLCW born, I transferred to a morning circle. After I returned to teaching, To the tune of “The Church’s One Foundation” Lois Circle began meeting in the Author Unknown morning. I’ve enjoyed re-joining Bazaar time is approaching. November 2 is set. since retiring.” The day of preparation, for us the tasks are met. There’s crafts of many stages, and ornaments galore, Tidbits of Lois Circle History Another member says: “We have the hardest working members in our Circle. It is like a family! That bless the halls with Christmas, and gifts we all adore. Recently I visited with Faith Christensen. There is The food is made in earnest, with sandwiches and pies, the “keeping it going” factor for any Circle, people Members are all so pleasant and easy to work with, And rommegrot, cookies, and meat balls feast our eyes. who contribute over the years, directing, managing, whether at the Bazaar, funerals, etc. Always good The candy shop is toted with sweets of every kind, and being the liaison from the Circles to WELCA. food, too.” But everyone is looking – for lefse’s on our mind. That person was Faith Christensen, who for 20 Georgia: “As a relatively new member, I have found years was Chair. Faithfulness to the greater cause this to be a welcoming group of women. Plus, There’s linens and there’s quilts and fancy doilies, too. was always Faith’s aim. Faith transferred her church they’re a lot of fun!” The shop of Scandinavia, shows heritage so true. membership to FLC in 1985 and immediately The attic treasure’s flourish, with wares of many things. joined Lois Circle. She clearly remembers how Faith Christensen: “Wonderful friendships, and we It keeps the people shopping, and meets their personal “whims.” active Ruth Johnson was and how she contributed think of and often remember all our special people greatly to Circle and to FLC. who are no longer here (deceased) or some who are The music through the hallways sends Christmas cheer to all. unable to attend.” Reminding us of Jesus – who laid in the stall. Faith became Chair early on and served 20 years, For flutes and harps and singing, and bells with ringing tones, the first few while still employed, passing the Judy Morstad: “I was asked to join by Judy E., who Bring pleasure to the people – who share with us alone. Circle Chair duties down to Joanne Goldammer, I have known for many years. I have enjoyed the a wonderful replacement who continues with ladies, socializing, and working with them….a fine Our blessings are abundant, rejoicing on this day. that same faithfulness! Over the years, others have group and VERY dedicated Christian women.” For service to the needy, with money we relay. stepped up to serve in the Circle, in the FLC The hours we spend in labor, gives wholeness to our souls. WELCA organization, and in Bazaar preparations. For what we have accomplished, and met our sacred goals.

First Lutheran Church • 327 South Dakota Avenue • Sioux Falls, South Dakota 57104 • Phone 605-336-3734 • flcsf.org 4 First Word • November 2019 Care and Health Ministry

Grieving a Loss During the Holidays Breakfast, Presentation, and Chapel Service at First Lutheran

Saturday, November 16, 9:30 a.m. – 12 p.m. First Lutheran Church has many members who have served in the Armed Forces — World War II, Vietnam, All adults grieving the death of a loved one are invited to Korea, the Persian Gulf, Afghanistan, Iraq, and other operations around the world. We also have veteran men and attend this special event. A free breakfast will be served women who served during peace time either stateside or internationally to ensure our country’s safety. Veterans Day, in the Gathering Room at 9:30, and a video presentation Monday, November 11, is a time to recognize and honor those who were willing to sacrifice everything for their on “Surviving the Holidays.” A discussion led by Pastor country and the freedoms we cherish. Katherine Olson will follow. The morning concludes Pictured left to right are Bob Bauman (stateside, during a time of peace), Norm Ekeland (WWII, France), Larry with a prayer service in the chapel of First Lutheran as we Anderson (Korea), Gerry Gackle (Germany, peacetime), Roger Coon (Vietnam). honor our loved ones with a candle-lighting ceremony and encounter comforting words of hope through Scripture and music. This event is free and open to all adults, but advance registration is required. Register online at flcsf.org/ Healthy Snacks and holidaygrief, or contact Care and Health Coordinator Jordan Stone at 339-1983 ext. 237 or [email protected]. Care Items Needed Care and Health Ministries is looking to restock some of the snacks and hygiene kit supplies that are running low in their office. These items are given to persons coming into the church seeking assistance. Often, these items are paired with a list of community resources and a prayer. Faith in Motion Listings are through September 2019 By John Hegg Births We are in need of: In a spirit of fun and to encourage and May 5 Remi Lynn MacRandall, daughter of Jordan and • Beef sticks promote living a healthier lifestyle, six Megan MacRandall • Soft granola bars Lutheran congregations in Sioux Falls Aug. 8 Bryer Robert Haight, son of Matthew and • Chicken and tuna packets challenged each other to determine Rayna Haight For our hygiene kits, we need: which congregation team could Aug. 17 Christopher Dudley Thames ,V son of Lindsey • Deodorant accumulate the most steps by walking and Christopher Thames, IV • Toothpaste or running during the month of Sept. 25 Theodore “Teddy” Budmayr, son of Ryan and • Toothbrushes September! Molly Budmayr • Dental floss Sept. 26 Cainen Dean Kyle, son of Korey and Abby Kyle Each congregation established a team of interested • Razors participants with most teams headed by a pastor. The Weddings • Combs total steps for the month of September by each team Sept. 28 Joshua Allan Hart and Nena Ellen Kay McCalla • Gallon-sized Ziploc bags to assemble the kits were divided by the number on each team to establish an average. Deaths The congregations involved Sept. 11 Glen Jamtgaard were Gloria Dei, Our Savior’s, Sept. 23 Jill Greenfield Spirit of Joy, Peace, East Sept. 23 Marvin Menge Side and First Lutheran. Sept. 28 Arden ‘Flip’ Fjellanger The First Lutheran team was 35 members strong headed by Pastor Lars and Jordan Stone, Caring and Health Ministry coordinator. The Foot Clinic winning team and capturing Do you have diabetes, neuropathy, or other foot the traveling trophy was ailments? Visiting Sanford foot care nurses will Our Savior’s. Watch for screen, assess, soak, trim toenails, buff your feet, For our walk-ins we need: more information about and do a gentle massage while educating you on a celebration will be held the proper care and treatment of your feet. The With the colder weather already here, we could use in November to award the Healthy Feet Community Foot Care Clinic is held donations of hats, gloves, scarves and any other winter trophy and congratulate the winning team. each month on the fourth Tuesday from 9 a.m. to 3 gear. We most often hand out adult hats and gloves with The walking/running program at First Lutheran remains p.m. in the Parish Meeting Room. gender neutral colors. a high priority with the Caring and Health Ministry The cost is $25. Scholarships may be available if Can you help us meet someone’s most basic needs? Please team. The positive health benefits of an active lifestyle cost is of concern. Appointments are necessary and drop off supplies at the reception desk or in the Care and have been heavily researched. Stay tuned for the next clinics fill so please call (605) 336-3734 to schedule Health office. Questions? Please contact Jordan Stone at walking/running session and next year’s Faith in Motion an appointment today. [email protected] or (605) 339-1983 ext. 237. competition!

First Lutheran Church • 327 South Dakota Avenue • Sioux Falls, South Dakota 57104 • Phone 605-336-3734 • flcsf.org 5 First Word • November 2019 Youth and Family Ministry Milestone Minute That Time of Year 4-Year-Old Prayer Pillow Milestone By Elias Johnson-Youngquist So it’s that time of year again…. Or at least it is for my wife and me. September 1 rolled around so it’s officially okay to sort of start listening to Christmas music. And maybe even pull out a decoration or two. Like the vague ones, the holiday neutral centerpiece that you know is actually your advent candles. I can move my Charlie Brown’s Christmas record a little closer to the front of my stack. A month ago we had friends over and waited to see how long before they noticed the jazz music we were playing was actually Christmas music. I. Love. Christmas. Always have. I came home last Sunday after work and my wife had put up my chalk sign that says _____ Above: Pastor Jeff teaches the children about the many ways and places they can pray. Middle: Dan days until Christmas (it’s 54 if any of you are wondering, or just Lindquist practices praying with his son, Jimmy, and big brother, Will. Right: Choosing just the right eight Saturdays until Christmas). pillows are Richard Phocole and Liliana Brooks. I’ve been wondering why 2-Year-Old We Are the Church Milestone I’m so infatuated with the holiday, but a few weeks ago in a lecture, I heard an explanation to perhaps what makes that time of year so special. In class at Luther House of Studies, my professor broke down the differences between good examples and gifts. In the rest of our life (and even sprinkled throughout Christmas), we have all sorts of good examples. New Year’s Eve is a time of good examples, or goals, that we set for the year. This year I’m going to do better, this year I’m going to wait Above-left: Aspen Hathaway chooses her Milestone pebble. Middle-left: Zachary Zuraff searches for until at least November to put up Christmas decorations. And yet the fish on Pastor John’s stole. Middle-right: Owen Deibert’s dad, Michael, helps him make a cross we inevitably fail to live up to these goals and examples. The good during craft time. Right: Richmond Phocole reminds us that we are all a child of God. examples are the things you say every year and after a while your spouse or loved ones go “yes, dear.” I’m sure this year will be the one where you clean the garage and fix up the spare bedroom. 2020 really Milestones in November feels like a good year to finally run that half marathon. It inundates Fourth-Grade Apostles’ Creed Milestone is Sunday, November 3, at 9:30 a.m. in Fellowship Hall. the rest of our year, you do this, you get this... 4th graders are learning about what we believe! Christmas on the other hand, is a time of gift. You see, while Santa Affirmation of Baptism Milestone is Sunday, November 3, at 2 p.m. The following sophomores will Claus always hung there threatening the law, you do good, you get confirm their faith: Ryan Amundson, Alexis Brady, Paige Breuer, Mollie Brown, Elizabeth Crawford, a gift, if you’re a bad boy or girl, you get coal. Each year I would Al Deak, Ashli Elyea, Luke Glanzer, Scott Glen, Grace Glover, Berkley Halstenson, Alyssa Hangman, look back at the year, the headaches I caused my parents, the times Sofia Hein, Alexis Kraft, Joshua Leiseth, Justice Lloyd, Tyman Long, Sophia Lunn, Mya Rogers, I ended up in the hallway for being wild in the classroom and think Tristan Schlechter, Elijah Schramm, Blake Stark, Donnie Stoltz, Ella Van Veldhuizen, Gabrielle Van “man, this is the year I find out what coal is.” And yet each year there Veldhuizen, Damen Visscher, Quinn Wessel, Milaana Wollman, and Easton Zueger. were presents I didn’t earn with my behavior. That is mercy, that is the gospel. A joyful, good, and comforting “message.” If this was a Baby’s First Christmas Milestone is Saturday, November 9, 10:30-11:30 a.m. in Fellowship Hall. All children’s message, I’d say we made it all on the naughty list. But you families with babies born in the last 18 months are invited to come, talk about family traditions and all know better, you are sinners. And we know the wages of sin are rituals, and take a picture of their child with a plush baby Jesus doll (to take home!). not coal, but death. You did not deserve this gift, but here it is, no strings attached. Or foundation of faith by hearing and seeing God’s as Isaiah 9:6 gives us: “To us a child is born, to us a son is given.” In Did You Know? grace and gospel. And we talk about how important Christmas, God is giving us himself entirely. No strings attached. By Marnie Dahle Backer, Youth & Family Director our role as parents is to their life of faith. Children This gift is given to us in our baptism, where God puts this promise watch and learn from their parents. To help families The Lutheran Church with this amazing yet daunting task, we give them into water and it is applied to us. And God comes to us again and celebrates two sacraments: Holy a Family Faith Kit filled with items that might help again whenever we hear the gospel, but for a few awesome weeks, the Communion and Baptism. them at home. We know not everything we give world gets tricked into reflecting the gospel at Christmastime. There Both give us reason to celebrate will resonate with every family, but we encourage are stories within our history and our mythology that accidentally and ponder our own need parents to try and then use what works. One tip we let loose the gospel like a dim glimpse of the real promise. I think for forgiveness, as well as the share is to talk about your faith and where you see of the Christmas truce of 1914, in WWI where for one day, British knowledge that God has called us God. When children are young, it feels less awkward and German soldiers called truce, sang Christmas carols across lines, by name and claimed us to be his. Baptism at First for us as parents, and soon they will be talking and and even crossed over no-mans land to exchange presents and shake Lutheran is an exciting milestone for families, for the sharing faith right back with you. hands with the enemy. Both sides ignored the commands of their congregation, and for Youth & Family Ministries. higher-ups, ignored the law that was on them, and instead heard the And this is a reminder to us as well, caring adults in Now, did you know that when a family is ready for good news, even if it was a short-lived message in the midst of the the lives of these baptized children, to share our faith worst ugliness humans could fathom at the time. a baptism, they first join Pastor Lars and me for the with them, to show them God’s love in our actions, “Pre-Baptism Class” held on the first Thursday of and to welcome them into the body of Christ. Christmas is a time to hope. My professor called the gospel, “the every month. We have the great honor of meeting Good news of victory in the midst of battle.” The ugliness doesn’t with mothers and fathers, siblings, godparents, and Included in the stop, but we’ve already heard the joyful news of victory, and at the one being baptized. What a blessed time this is Family Faith Kit is a Christmas time that news is all around us. So, while I recognize to get to know these families. We begin the night children’s Bible—the that not everyone is going to start donning their Christmas sweaters talking about names—naming our children is a same one that is in quite yet. Hopefully this takes the edge off for some who walk pretty big deal, with lots of discussion and often a our church pews—a through Hobby Lobby and are shocked to see the building filled with good story around how the name came to be. notebook to write Christmas decorations. Or see the Christmas stock of things looming down people to pray on the top shelves at Target. Let the lights, songs, even persistently Then we talk about this amazing sacrament and for, a simple photo annoying advertising be a reminder, Christ has come and won the how important names are to God! Pastor Lars shares album for photos of victory against sin, death, and the devil on our behalf. that we don’t say “hey you—you’re baptized” or loved ones or those “take out the hose and spray the congregation,” but we need to pray for A Prayer: each baptism is “for you.” Your name is claimed each day, a table Lord, give us ears to hear your good news of salvation and grace. by God, and you are now a child of God! We talk grace prayer die, Forgive us our sins and give us words to speak the good news about milestones and how important it is to bring caring conversation to others that they may have joy. Oh, and may we have a white your children to worship. We want these precious starters, a bookmark with the FAITH5, and more! Christmas but maybe not a white November. Amen. children in church! This is how they build the

First Lutheran Church • 327 South Dakota Avenue • Sioux Falls, South Dakota 57104 • Phone 605-336-3734 • flcsf.org 6 First Word • November 2019 Mission Nominations Church Council First Lutheran Church welcomes all Board and Council members are elected every year at the Annual Congregational Officers/Executive Committee people into the community of Jesus Meeting, held the first Sunday in February. The nomination process, however, Aaron Ellingsen ...... President Michael Paulson ...... Vice President Christ, equipping and sending them begins in October and November by exploring which seats will be open, what forth to serve and witness in Jesus’ name. Randy Eide ...... Treasurer boards need for the coming year, and gathering names of possible interested Mindy Moore ...... Secretary members of First Lutheran Church. John Christopherson ...... Senior Pastor uiding rinciples Boards typically meet monthly for about one hour each month. Each board has Terri Carlson ...... Member-at-Large G P a different ministry focus and yearly plan, but each board oversees a budget and Lenae Schwartz ...... Member-at-Large We are grounded in the great program and carries out ministry throughout the year. Council Representatives commandment of Jesus. Care & Health ...... Barney Brandenburg If you or someone you know is interested in serving on a board, please speak with Education & Discipleship . . . Cami Jacobsen (Matthew 22:34-40) Business Administrator Marilyn McNeill ([email protected]) to learn more Evangelism & Outreach . . . Colleen Kokenge We are grounded in the great about this opportunity to lead in your congregation. Finance, Admin. & Property . . Michael Kedik commission of Jesus. FLCW ...... Kathy Stelzer (Matthew 28:16-20) Foundation ...... Somer Anderson Stewardship & Giving . . . . .Birgit Peterson We are committed to welcome Council Highlights Welcome & Community . . . . . Deb Nelson and minister to all people. If church members wish to add to an upcoming Council meeting agenda, please Worship & Music ...... James Moore contact Marilyn McNeill, Business Administrator, at 339-1983 ext. 236 or Youth & Family ...... Ben Ready We are committed to equipping [email protected]. Meetings are held the fourth Thursday of each month. First people for ministry. Lutheran Church members are welcome to visit meetings. First Lutheran Church We are committed to service in our community and world. September 26, 2019 taff irectory • Through August, financials were (Total projects – $4,900,000) S D We are committed to a ministry down. A letter of encouragement along o 10% Mission Support (10% of Pastoral Staff of relationship building. with contribution statements were sent projects), $490,000 (203) Dr. John Christopherson . . Senior Pastor We are committed to our heritage to the congregation this week. Total with Mission Support, (210) Rev. Lars Olson . . . . Executive Pastor and identity as a reforming church. • Approximately $3,200 is still needed $5,390,000 (209) Rev. Jeff Backer . . . . Associate Pastor We are committed to excellence to fulfill First Lutheran’s $50,000 (214) Rev. Katherine Olson* . . Associate Pastor o The projects will be funded as in broadcast ministry. commitment to Luther House. A (202) Rev. Bob Chell* ...... Visitation member has offered a challenge to determined by the Church Council (202) Rev. David Houck* . . . . . Visitation members to match the next $10,000 as pledged funds are received and (202) Rev. Roger Noer* ...... Visitation received. We have until the end of the available, recognizing that pledges may (202) Rev. Dennis Tranberg* . . . . Visitation year to fulfill our annual commitment. be designated for specific projects and (202) Rev. Dave Johnson ...... Emeritus recognizing that priority will be given • The proposed capital campaign and Administrative Staff to paying the existing long-term debt (236) Marilyn McNeill . Church Administrator the Special Congregational Meeting to on the HVAC loan. No long-term be held on Sunday September 29 was (211) Jody Bymers . . . Finance Administrator debt will be incurred in connection (202) Donna Jahr . . . Secretary to the Pastors discussed at length. Aaron brought with any project. The Church (225) Kristy Zuraff* . . Admin/PM Receptionist forth the following motion: Council is authorized to manage the (201) Cleo Sorensen* . . . Receptionist/Secretary o“To authorize a capital campaign and projects listed above, with advice Care and Health Ministries certain capital projects in connection from outside contractors, architects, (237) Jordan Stone . . . . Caring Coordinator Worship Services with the 100th Anniversary of First designers, and consultants, as well (202) Cheryl Satterlee* . Wedding Coordinator Lutheran Church to begin in the as all boards and special committees Saturday (Chapel) fall of 2019 with major activities to of the Congregation organized for Media Ministry 5 p.m. Vespers/Communion be concluded in the spring of 2020. the purpose of providing technical (231) Jodi Hoyt ...... Director (213) Susan Bell . Communications Coordinator Sunday (Sanctuary) The goal of this campaign is to raise assistance and advice with respect to $5.39 million dollars for the following particular projects. All council and Kathy Hein* ...... Broadcast Director 8 a.m. Traditional Worship Garrett Masters* . . . . . Broadcast Director projects: committee meetings are open to the David Palmer* ...... Broadcast Director with Communion public unless convened in executive 9:30 a.m. Traditional Worship o HVAC Loan Repayment, $1,400,000 Hons Oakland* ...... Broadcast Director session as authorized by the bylaws”. Tanner Wangsness* . . . . Broadcast Director 11 a.m. Contemporary Worship o Sanctuary Improvements (ceiling The motion was unanimously passed. replacement, sound system, chancel Facilities Media Ministries Broadcasts • paraments, repair and artistic The boards were asked to forward (201) Dave Wilson . . . . . Facility Manager 8 a.m. KELO-FM Radio (101.9) painting), $1,475,000 names of outgoing board members and Rick East ...... Custodian 11 a.m. KSFY (Sioux Falls), chairs and start forwarding names for Jeff Hartnett ...... Custodian KPRY (Pierre) and o Atrium and Welcome Center the Nominating Committee. Remodel (Welcome Center, Atrium, Worship and Music Ministries KABY (Aberdeen) • and Reception, Gathering Room The October board agendas should (260) Zachary Brockhoff . . Director/Organist, youtube.com/flcsf and classroom, kitchen, furniture, include proposed 2020 budgets drafts. FLYGHT and Jubilant Singers Director facebook.com/flcsf allowances, signage, construction), • The 100th year anniversary (261) Shirley Barlow* . Administrative Assistant $1,350,000 committee is continuing work on the Larry Olson* . . . . .Contemporary Worship @FirstLutheranSF celebration for 2020. Dr. Paul Nesheim* . . . .Adult Choir Director, o Building Maintenance and Reserve Women’s Choir Director @firstlutheransf Funds (tuck pointing, steeple repair, Bonnie Lindgren* . . . .Carol Choir Director windows, flooring, parking lot, reserve Donna Hamilton* ...... Accompanist fund, misc.), $675,000 Sue Severson* ...... Accompanist Mary Ryrholm* . . . . Agape Ringers Director Pam Sonnichsen* . . . .Instrumental Coordinator Marcia Kittelson* ...... Organist Emerita First Word is the monthly newspaper Youth and Family Ministries of First Lutheran Church in Sioux (204) Marnie Dahle Backer . . . . . Director Falls, SD. It is distributed to members (235) Elias Johnson-Youngquist . Youth Minister of the congregation and others upon (228) Mark Nassen* ...... Coordinator request. Opinions expressed in First (238) Heather Smith . . . .Children’s Minister Word are those of the authors and Nancy Henrichsen* . . . . Nursery Attendant are not necessarily shared by the First Gayle Johnson* ...... Nursery Attendant Lutheran Church congregation or Irma Rodriguez Leon* . . . Nursery Attendant staff. The editors of First Word reserve Kris Stark* ...... Nursery Attendant the right to edit submissions. ( )=Direct dial phone extensions. If no extension is Newsletter submissions are due the listed, please call the Director of the ministry area. first business day of the month.Please Senior Luncheon – November 12 * Part-time staff submit articles or questions regarding All First Lutheran senior adults and their friends are invited to join us for a Main phone ...... (605) 336-3734 First Word to Communications delicious catered lunch and an entertaining program on the second Tuesday of Direct dial to extensions . . . . (605) 339-1983 Director, Jodi Hoyt, at [email protected]. each month. On Tuesday, November 12, at noon, the menu is goulash, Caesar Toll-free ...... (800) 425-9899 Reader feedback is always welcome. salad, and bread stick, and the program will be by the Norway Nurses from Fax ...... (605) 336-8370 Augustana University. Please RSVP for the luncheon by calling the church Pastoral emergency ...... (605) 610-9431 First Word is available online to read Custodian cell ...... (605) 351-8281 or download at flcsf.org/firstword. receptionist at 336-3734, by Wednesday, November 6. Need a ride? Please call Project CAR, 332-2777, by 9 a.m. on Monday, November 11. Project CAR ...... (605) 332-2777

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Support First Lutheran in providing a weekly worship experience for people 90th Birthday who are unable attend worship in person. Sponsor a radio broadcast, television broadcast, or closed captioning in honor of or in memory of a Open House for loved one, to celebrate a special life event, or to the glory of God. Contact First Lutheran at (605) 336-3734. Pastor Jim Christopherson Thank You Saturday, November 9 October Broadcast Sponsors First Lutheran Church’s worship can be seen every Sunday at 11 a.m. on KSFY, 2-4 p.m. KPRY, and KABY in South Dakota; southwest Minnesota; northwest Iowa; and Reformation Hall northeast Nebraska. Sunday’s 8 a.m. worship is broadcast live on KELO-FM, 101.9. October 13: Radio broadcast was KSFY telecast was sponsored in memory sponsored in loving memory of Vi of Terry Graves by his family. Smith by her family. October 27: Radio sponsored by the October 20: Radio broadcast was First Lutheran Church Women in sponsored in loving memory of parents, appreciation for all the volunteers who Leo and Ingrid Knutson and Adolph help with the bazaar. Financial Services and Lucile Quail; and brother, Leonard Quail; by Allan and Phyllis Knutson. Financial Update as of Sponsorships available September 2019 The cost of un-sponsored broadcasts, telecasts, and closed captioning is a Total Revenue, year-to-date budget expense. Please consider sponsoring a radio broadcast, telecast, or closed captioning. To learn more, please call the church at (605) 336- 2019 Actual ...... $1,468,001 3734. Additional open dates may be available. 2018 Actual ...... $1,510,590 Total Expenses, year-to-date 2019 Actual ...... $1,613,672 November December 2018 Actual ...... $1,491,127 November 3: Radio sponsor filled. December 1: Television sponsorship Contract For Deed Ideal ...... $220,080 Television and closed captioning filled. Radio and closed captioning sponsorships available. sponsorships available. HVAC System...... $1,281,423 November 10: Radio sponsor filled. December 8: Radio, closed captioning Worship Attendance ...... 2,951 Television and closed captioning and television sponsorships available. sponsorships available. December 15: Radio and television November 17: Radio, closed captioning, sponsorships filled. Closed captioning and television sponsorships filled. sponsorship available. Gifts and Memorials, September November 24: Radio, closed captioning, December 22: Television sponsorship Gifts to the First Lutheran Gaylen Haber: First Lutheran Church and television sponsorships filled. filled. Closed captioning and radio Women Church Foundation in memory November 28 Thanksgiving Day: sponsorships available. Marvin, Marian, and John Hallberg: of: Closed captioning sponsorship filled. December 24, Christmas Eve: Mary Ann Hallberg No radio Television sponsorship available. No Jill Greenfield: Dorothy Grevlos Jeremy Halstenson: Stephen Johnson sponsor needed. Evening telecast radio sponsor needed. Jeremy Haltenson: Dorothy Grevlos Arlis Hetland: Ione Pereboom sponsorship on The CW filled. Closed John Hillgren: Stephen Johnson John Hilgren: Mary Ann Hohman, captioning sponsorship available. David Munson, Don Toft December 25, Christmas Day: KSFY Gifts to First Lutheran Church Alan Jamtgaard: Mary Eich Holiday Broadcasts telecast and closed captioning Media Ministries in memory of: Sandra Reif: First Lutheran Church Christmas Eve worship will sponsorships filled. No radio sponsor Women be recorded at 7:30 p.m. and needed. Violet Gusarson Belfage: Agnes Fillaus Frank Reurink: Robert & Karen broadcast on The CW at 11 December 29: Radio, closed captioning, Wava Enger: Darlene Colwill, First Hemre p.m. It will be rebroadcast and television sponsorships available. Lutheran Church Women Vernelle Swanson: Darlene Colwill, on Christmas Day at 11 a.m. Donna Fodness: Carol Lerdal First Lutheran Church Women on KSFY. Miller Glanzer: Carol Lerdal

Are you Lost? And whatever you do, Have you or a household member moved to a whether in word or deed, different home, apartment, or senior living center? Have you dropped your land line? do it all in the name Do you have a new cell phone number or email? of the Lord Jesus, Be sure to let the church office know about these changes in your life. We have recently tried to reach out to members only to discover that we no longer have current addresses or phone giving thanks to God the numbers. They're lost!Call 605-336-3734 and let us know. Father through him. –Colossians 3:17

First Lutheran Church • 327 South Dakota Avenue • Sioux Falls, South Dakota 57104 • Phone 605-336-3734 • flcsf.org 8 First Word • November 2019 Evangelism and Outreach Ministry How Will they Hear if No One Tells Them? November Special Offering: By Jeff Backer, Associate Pastor of Evangelism & Outreach to those considering a church do not always match up. We poke fun at the line, “This Pueblo de Dios and I recently read an article about the is the way we have always done things results of a recent study called Reviving around here,” but this is not far off of the Evangelism. The study had been truth of what keeps younger people from Vecinos Unidos commissioned by Alpha USA, the parent engaging in a church. It is difficult to walk By Dan Lindquist, E & O Board Member organization to the Alpha courses that were through the doors of a church and feel you taught at FLC some years ago. The study This month’s special offering supports Pueblo have a place or a voice. We certainly have set out to find key factors in the millennial de Dios and Vecinos Unidos—Spanish an ingrained tradition in our own church generation as to how to have conversations communities of faith here in Sioux Falls. culture that can be difficult for new people about faith and how millennials see the church. to assimilate to. Pueblo de Dios (translated “People, or There was much to learn from this study, but one of the Community, of God”) is a mission ministry In the end, what the data showed was not statistics that stood out to me was that people in the millennial developed under the SD Synod of the ELCA. something radically different about how age group (Pew Research put these people at ages 23-38 years This congregation is the first Spanish-speaking people come to faith and feel like they have old) possess on average four friends or family members in Lutheran congregation in Sioux Falls with members who have a place. The gospel is relational, meaning their life who profess a spiritual life that is NOT Christian. recently come from Mexico as well as Central and South America. people hear the good news of Jesus Christ Comparatively, the baby-boomer group (55-73 years old) While you may recognize Pueblo de Dios as the organization that by hearing it from one person to another. possess one or fewer people who profess a spiritual life other occasionally sells tamales, they are so much more! Having faith conversations is a fundamental than Christian. Generally, even people who are non-practicing act of vulnerability and radical openness Pueblo de Dios churchgoers still identify as Christian. What this tells me is to listen to the other. People exploring was birthed at that sharing the gospel is seemingly much harder amongst the what faith looks like in their lives are First Lutheran millennial age group than we might have realized. more likely do so because they were able Church, then to have a casual, non-judgmental, one- moved to share on-one conversation with an ordinary space with person simply speaking about their own Augustana faith. It absolutely depends on active, Lutheran in loving listening. What became evident was the Cathedral that people longed for honest and open historic relationships. neighborhood. Pastor Maria Cabello Solomon currently serves as the full- I have heard that it is “my job” to evangelize time pastor of Pueblo de Dios. The congregation meets weekly new people into the church. While to worship together in Spanish and is a positive presence in vocationally it is a part of my job, it is supporting the Latinx community in Sioux Falls. You are always actually the job of all who profess Jesus invited to attend a festive worship at 12:30 p.m. each Sunday at Christ. More importantly, it is more openly Augustana Lutheran (235 North Prairie Avenue). received from people not paid to have these conversations. And so you must ask yourself Amidst all of the celebrations, activities, and food, the principal how you as a member of the body of Jesus mission of Pueblo de Dios is to share the love that Christ shows Having conversations of faith can be seen as offensive in Christ is faring in your role as an heir of us and teach people to be disciples of Jesus Christ like we learn the current societal mindset, and there is some bad news/ Jesus’ call. from the gospel of Matthew. good news in all of this. There is a growing population of unchurched people, meaning that more and more people are The gospel is an offense. It interrupts Vecinos Unidos (VU), formerly Ayuda, translated as “Neighbors growing up without a faith emphasis in their life. This opens people’s lives and creates a new reality when United,” is a closely related initiative and is a partnership up all kinds of opportunity for the church. Similarly, the faith takes hold. This faith gives direction supported by the ELCA congregations of Sioux Falls. The VU millennials in the study were more likely to agree with the and purpose in our lives as we turn to group helps to establish relationships between the people of statements, “I experience a general sense of emptiness,” and share it with others. It is good news to the Pueblo de Dios and the other predominantly Anglo-Lutheran “I often feel rejected,” than the older participants. In reality, broken, it is comforting to the afflicted, and churches in Sioux Falls. there are very few drastic differences between the millennial it gives hope when all we can see is hopeless. In addition to selling tamales, volunteers are encouraged to help and older non-Christians when it comes to spiritual hunger Each of you possesses a powerful knowledge with the Logos program at Pueblo, which is their version of or experiences, yet clearly the younger people sense that when you trust that you are a child of church school (like our Scripture First) on Wednesday nights. something is wrong. God and have received forgiveness and They also have a language partners program where an English- restoration in your relationship with God. There is more sobering data, however. The ideas that active speaking person is paired with a Spanish-speaking person, and Take this knowledge and go, tell others church-going Christians have about what is most important they learn each other’s language. If you have always wanted to about it! learn Spanish, seek to help in this amazing ministry.

VU also looks to provide pathways for people seeking asylum and helps the recently emigrated find pathways to establish a life here in Sioux Falls. Please prayerfully consider financially supporting these important local ministries. Your offering makes a difference in the lives of our Latinx neighbors. Also, please keep Pastor Maria and all of the members of Pueblo de Dios in your prayers during this especially turbulent climate surrounding immigration issues. Special offering envelopes are included with your regular offering envelopes. If you do not have one, please use the yellow envelope in the pew, bring your donation to the Information Desk at church, or visit flcsf.org/give to donate online. Ordination Celebration Daylight Saving Time Ends Austin Nickel will be ordained as an ELCA pastor on November 2 in Texas. Please join us for a reception in Katie’s Commons on Sunday, Fall Back November 17, to celebrate Austin’s ordination into ministry. Austin is a former member of First Lutheran November 3 Church who has been serving as an associate at a church in Waco, Texas.