NMS0010.1177/1461444814542311new media & societyBrubaker et al. 542311research-article2014 Article new media & society 2016, Vol. 18(3) 373 –390 Departing glances: A © The Author(s) 2014 Reprints and permissions: sociotechnical account sagepub.co.uk/journalsPermissions.nav DOI: 10.1177/1461444814542311 of ‘leaving’ Grindr nms.sagepub.com Jed R Brubaker University of California, Irvine, USA Mike Ananny University of Southern California, USA Kate Crawford Microsoft Research, USA Abstract Grindr is a popular location-based social networking application for smartphones, predominantly used by gay men. This study investigates why users leave Grindr. Drawing on interviews with 16 men who stopped using Grindr, this article reports on the varied definitions of leaving, focusing on what people report leaving, how they leave and what they say leaving means to them. We argue that leaving is not a singular moment, but a process involving layered social and technical acts – that understandings of and departures from location-based media are bound up with an individual’s location. Accounts of leaving Grindr destabilize normative definitions of both ‘Grindr’ and ‘leaving’, exposing a set of relational possibilities and spatial arrangements within and around which people move. We conclude with implications for the study of non-use and technological departure. Keywords departure, Grindr, leaving, location-based social media, non-use, quitting, sociotechnical, technology refusal Corresponding author: Jed R Brubaker, Department of Informatics, Donald Bren School of Information and Computer Sciences, University of California, Irvine, Donald Bren Hall 5042, Irvine, CA 92697-3440, USA. Email:
[email protected] 374 new media & society 18(3) Introduction Leaving a service or technology may seem like a straightforward process.