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RecoveryTimes A newsletter from Alcoholics Anonymous San Fernando Valley Central Office VOL 34, NO. 2 FEB 2010 A Few Things I Want To Say “Even when we think they aren’t listening, our sponsees hear the message” I received an email from a sponsee who recently relo- I went to your house for Thanksgiving because I cated to a new town. When I saw the subject line – was still nervous around my family and I didn’t “A Few Things I Want To Say” – I immediately thought want to get sh*t from you for not showing up. I the worst. For some reason, she’s going to give me a had no idea how many people had no where else piece of her mind. Instead her simple message touched to go and were so grateful to be there. Thank you. my heart: And the panels I was afraid to do but you thought « « « » » » might be a good idea. I thought you were being December 2009 mean to me. Thank you. Dear Dawn: Don’t know if you remember some of And oh goody! Let’s all meet at the metro and these things: take it downtown to see Joe & Charley…the whole freaking weekend! Shoot me now. Then I You used to bug the sh*t out of me to join you for began to understand that stupid book and even fellowship after the meeting on Wednesday learned the Fourth Step wasn’t a novel or an nights. Now if I’m not there, I’m picturing all of essay test. Thank you. you, every Wednesday night. Thank you. There are so many more memories. I’ve been You used to make me go to the stupid movies. I thinking about this because we had a really hate the movies. I hate finding a parking spot in messed up newcomer at the meeting last night. stupid Burbank. I went so that you’d shut up And because of you, when someone’s annoying about it. And now I miss it. Thank you. as Hell, I ask myself why? And the answer is, he’s just like I was. Thank you. You asked if I’d join you for the stupid conven- « « « » » » tion planning meetings by driving to stupid Tarzana from Burbank at the height of the rush I share this because every one of the points for which hour, into the sun, in the summer, with no air my sponsee gave me credit were suggestions that were conditioning. You listened to all this and said try passed on to me first by those of you who walked be- to get there around seven. I did. Thank you. fore me. I vividly remember my first potluck with new sober friends, or my first sober holiday season, or my You told me there was a pool party at the house first trip to the movie theater without a drink concealed of someone I didn’t know. I said I don’t go out in in my purse. For my part, I was only passing along the the sun and I don’t wear a bathing suit. You said message to my sponsee. But her message of gratitude bring a salad. I did. Thank you. says it all. Even when we think they aren’t listening, our sponsees hear the message. The message still gets You had a Fourth of July party. I went early so I through… could leave early. I didn’t want to go at all. I was the first one there and the last to leave. Thank Di V. you. December 2009 Calendar Events Upcoming Events Service Committee Schedule 38th Annual ACYPAA Round-Up Feb. 15, 2010 SFV H&I February 11 - 14, 2010 THIRD MONDAY San Diego, CA 8PM Business Meeting Website: www.acypaa2010.org 7PM Get Acquainted Workshop 5657 Lindley Ave. 33rd Annual San Diego Spring Round Up ******** April 1 - 4, 2010 Mar. 1, 2010 G.S. District #11 San Diego, CA FIRST MONDAY Info: Michael S. (619) 972-3763 - [email protected] 6PM New GSR orientation, 6:30pm meeting Website: www.SanDiegoSpringRoundUp.com 315 W. Vine St., Glendale ******** 22nd Annual Indian Wells Valley AA Roundup Mar. 1, 2010 G.S. District #16 April 16 - 18, 2010 FIRST MONDAY Ridgecrest, CA 6:15PM meeting Email: [email protected] 15950 Chatsworth (church), Granada Hills Website: www.orgsites.com/ca/iwvroundup ******** Mar. 1, 2010 G.S. District #17 34th Annual Springtime in the Ozarks FIRST MONDAY April 15 - 18, 2010 6PM New GSR orientation, 6:30pm meeting Eureka Springs, AR 5000 Colfax (church), N. Hollywood Website: www.nwarkaa.org ******** Mar. 2, 2010 G.S. District #2 Miracles Happen 2010 FIRST TUESDAY April 30 - May 2, 2010 5:30PM, 4011 Dunsmore, La Crescenta Laguna Beach, CA ******** Website: www.miracleshappen.org Mar. 3, 2010 G.S. District #1 FIRST WEDNESDAY 26th Annual South Bay Roundup 6:30PM, 7552 Remmet, Canoga Park May 28 - 31, 2010 ******** Torrance, CA Mar. 3, 2010 SFV Board of Directors Website: www.southbayroundup.org 6:30PM, Central Office ******** A.A. Desert Pow Wow Mar. 13, 2010 G.S. District #7 June 3 - 6, 2010 SECOND SATURDAY Indian Wells, CA 9AM, Agua Dulce Woman’s Club Info: SherAli J. (760) 321-6568 33201 Agua Dulce Cyn Rd Website: www.desertpowwow.com ******** Mar. 8, 2010 SFV Intergroup SECOND MONDAY 6:30PM Orientation, 7PM Business Meeting Things We Cannot Change… St. Innnocents Church Michael C. — 25 Years 5657 Lindley Ave., Tarzana Ben H. — 33 Years Don G. — 40+ Years Opportunities for Service Your Central Office needs Obviously, the staff of Valley Central Office cannot telephone volunteers for all shifts, know all the members of the local fellowship. If you especially the Overnight (12 Midnight - 9 AM) shift. have knowledge of the passing of one of our mem- bers, please notify us here at Central Office during If you have one year or more of continuous literature sales hours or mail us the obituary from the sobriety, we invite you to join us and help your local newspaper. You can also email us at fellow alcoholics. You can sign up in the office [email protected]. or online at http://www.sfvaa.org/involve.html. To All Meeting Secretaries Help us keep your meeting information up to date. If your meeting has changed its Location, Time of Meeting, Meeting Name or Type of Meeting, please update this information as soon as possible with your Central Office.Updates can be completed by mail or in person during Literature Sales Hours at San Fernando Valley Central Office. Our address in listed on the back cover of this newsletter. Meeting updates must be completed in writing. Any questions can be answered by calling your Central Office at (818) 988-3001 and asking for a staff member. 2 Service Opportunities & News Service Opportunities in the San Fernando Valley PUBLIC INFORMATION COMMITTEE - Provides information to the general public about what A.A. does and does not do. Could always use volunteers, especially young people and Spanish speaking A.A.’s for health fairs and to speak at various schools and businesses. Contact Central Office (818) 988-3001. HOSPITAL AND INSTITUTIONS COMMITTEE - Carries the message of Alcoholics Anonymous into hospitals, prisons & treatment facilities to those who are unable to get out to meetings. Meets the third Monday of each month 8:00 pm (Get Acquainted Workshop, 7:00 pm) at St. Innocent's Church, 5657 Lindley Ave, Tarzana, CA. For more information, contact Central Office at (818) 988-3001. SAN FERNANDO VALLEY INTERGROUP - Elected Intergroup representatives maintain and develop policies for Central Office, and inform other IG Reps about Alkathons, fund raisers, etc. Meets second Monday, monthly, St. Innocent's Church, 5657 Lindley Ave, Tarzana, CA. Orientation 6:30 pm, Meeting at 7:00 pm. Contact: Central Office at (818) 988-3001. SAN FERNANDO VALLEY CONVENTION - Volunteers are welcome to participate in the planning of the 2011 Convention. The Committee meets the 3rd Tuesday of each month (except February and March); 7 pm at St. Innocent's Church, 5657 Lindley Ave, Tarzana, CA. Central Office News San Fernando Valley Central Office is On the Web The SFV Central Office website is now available for Internet browsers. On the website, you can find a map to our office in Van Nuys, a listing of upcoming events in the Valley, service organiza- tion information and links to other cool A.A. websites. Our meeting schedule is also accessible on the website. Meetings are listed by day, Sunday through Saturday. Check it out: http://www.sfvaa.org Do you have an article for the Recovery Times? Email it to us at: [email protected] HAPPY BIRTHDAY! January 2010 San Fernando Valley Central Office Intergroup Representatives Meeting Dave M. 5 years January 11, 2009 Margaret M. 30 years Hal S. Chairperson – Meeting opened at 7:00 PM Treasurer’s Report: See Insert Service Committee information - see page 2 and 3 of the Recovery Times for more information Old Business: None. New Business: None Birthdays: Laurie - 2 years, Brian - 3 years, Jimmy - 4 years, Will - 6 years Motion to adjourn 7:18 PM Your Birthday Gift to Central Office The long form of the Intergroup Meeting Minutes Many A.A. members share their birthdays with those who need the for January is available at Central Office same help and opportunity that A.A. gave to them. or at the Intergroup Meeting. By sending a donation to Central Office you share your birthday with These minutes are pending approval on February 8, 2010 Recovery Times readers. Send a dollar ($1.00) a year - or $1.00 for Next Meeting - February 8, 2010 each year of your sobriety - or send as much as you wish to give to Prepared and submitted by: celebrate your birthday.