THE CHURCH OF JESUS CHRIST OF LATTER-DAY SAINTS • NOVEMBER 2014

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Christ among the Lepers, by J. Kirk Richards

Through Jesus Christ, “the blind receive their sight, and the lame walk, the lepers are cleansed, and the deaf hear, the dead are raised up, and the poor have the gospel preached to them” (Matthew 11:5). 10/7/14 5:10PM

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© LINDA CURLEY CHRISTENSEN, MAY NOT BE COPIED Contents November 2014 Volume 38 • Number 11

SATURDAY MORNING SESSION 59 The Preparatory Priesthood GENERAL WOMEN’S SESSION 4 Welcome to Conference President Henry B. Eyring 111 Prepared in a Manner That Never President Thomas S. Monson 67 Guided Safely Home Had Been Known 6 The Reason for Our Hope President Thomas S. Monson Linda K. Burton President Boyd K. Packer 114 Covenant Daughters of God SUNDAY MORNING SESSION 9 Which Way Do You Face? Jean A. Stevens Elder Lynn G. Robbins 70 Continuing Revelation 117 Sharing Your Light President Henry B. Eyring 12 The Sacrament—a Renewal for Neill F. Marriott the Soul 74 Sustaining the Prophets 120 Living the Gospel Joyful Cheryl A. Esplin Elder Russell M. Nelson President Dieter F. Uchtdorf 14 Rescue in Unity 77 Live according to the Words Elder Chi Hong (Sam) Wong of the Prophets Carol F. McConkie 64 General Authorities and General 16 Free Forever, to Act for Themselves Officers of The Church of Jesus Elder D. Todd Christofferson 80 Eternal Life—to Know Our Heavenly Christ of Latter-day Saints Father and His Son, Jesus Christ 20 Receiving a Testimony of Light Elder Robert D. Hales 124 Conference Story Index and Truth 125 News of the Church President Dieter F. Uchtdorf 83 The Sacrament and the Atonement Elder James J. Hamula SATURDAY AFTERNOON SESSION 86 Ponder the Path of Thy Feet 24 The Sustaining of Church Officers President Thomas S. Monson President Henry B. Eyring SUNDAY AFTERNOON SESSION 25 Loving Others and Living with Differences 89 Stay in the Boat and Hold On! Elder Dallin H. Oaks Elder M. Russell Ballard 28 Joseph Smith 92 Make the Exercise of Faith Your Elder Neil L. Andersen First Priority Elder Richard G. Scott 32 Parents: The Prime Gospel Teachers of Their Children 96 The Lord Has a Plan for Us! Tad R. Callister Elder Carlos A. Godoy 34 Approaching the Throne of 99 The Book God with Confidence Elder Allan F. Packer Elder Jörg Klebingat 102 Our Personal Ministries 37 Yes, Lord, I Will Follow Thee Elder Hugo E. Martinez Elder Eduardo Gavarret 104 Trifle Not with Sacred Things 40 Are We Not All Beggars? Elder Larry S. Kacher Elder Jeffrey R. Holland 107 Come and See 43 Finding Lasting Peace and Elder David A. Bednar Building Eternal Families 110 Until We Meet Again Elder L. Tom Perry President Thomas S. Monson

PRIESTHOOD SESSION 46 Choose Wisely SHARE GENERAL Elder Quentin L. Cook CONFERENCE Scan this quick-response 50 I Know These Things of Myself (QR) code or visit lds.org/ Elder Craig C. Christensen go/share1114 to find social 53 The Law of the Fast: A Personal media links for sharing Responsibility to Care for the conference messages. Poor and Needy Bishop Dean M. Davies 56 “Lord, Is It I?” President Dieter F. Uchtdorf

November 2014 1 That My Savior Loves Me,” Bell and Creamer; Summary for the 184th Semiannual General “I Know That My Redeemer Lives,” Hymns, no. 136, arr. Tall and Margetts, unpublished; Conference “I Am a Child of God,” Children’s Songbook, 2, arr. Zabriskie, unpublished; “Let Zion in SATURDAY MORNING, OCTOBER 4, 2014, no. 19; “Ye Elders of Israel,” Hymns, no. 319, Her Beauty Rise,” Hymns, no. 41, arr. Ward, GENERAL SESSION arr. Spiel, unpublished. unpublished. Presiding: President Thomas S. Monson. Conducting: President Henry B. Eyring. SUNDAY MORNING, OCTOBER 5, 2014, CONFERENCE TALKS AVAILABLE Invocation: Bonnie L. Oscarson. GENERAL SESSION To access general conference talks on the Benediction: Elder Bradley D. Foster. Presiding: President Thomas S. Monson. Internet in many languages, visit conference. Music by the Tabernacle Choir; Mack Wilberg Conducting: President Dieter F. Uchtdorf. lds.org and select a language. Talks are also and Ryan Murphy, directors; Richard Elliott Invocation: Elder Don R. Clarke. available on the Gospel Library mobile app. and Andrew Unsworth, organists: “The Benediction: Rosemary M. Wixom. Generally within six weeks following general Morning Breaks,” Hymns, no. 1; “High on the Music by the Tabernacle Choir; Mack conference, English video and audio record- Mountain Top,” Hymns, no. 5, arr. Wilberg, Wilberg, director; Andrew Unsworth and ings are available at distribution centers. unpublished; “Beautiful Zion, Built Above,” Clay Christiansen, organists: “Sing Praise to Information on general conference in acces- Hymns, no. 44, arr. Wilberg, unpublished; Him,” Hymns, no. 70; “Praise the Lord with sible formats for members with disabilities is “Guide Us, O Thou Great Jehovah,” Hymns, Heart and Voice,” Hymns, no. 73; “Praise available at disability.lds.org. no. 83; “If I Listen with My Heart,” DeFord, arr. to the Man,” Hymns, no. 27, arr. Wilberg, Murphy, unpublished; “From All That Dwell unpublished; “Come, Ye Children of the HOME AND VISITING TEACHING MESSAGES below the Skies,” Hymns, no. 90, arr. Wilberg, Lord,” Hymns, no. 58; “Softly and Tenderly,” For home and visiting teaching messages, unpublished. Thompson, arr. Wilberg, unpublished; “How please select an address that best meets the Firm a Foundation,” Hymns, no. 85, arr. needs of those you visit. SATURDAY AFTERNOON, OCTOBER 4, 2014, Wilberg, unpublished. GENERAL SESSION ON THE COVER Presiding: President Thomas S. Monson. SUNDAY AFTERNOON, OCTOBER 5, 2014, Front: Photograph by Nathaniel Ray Edwards. Conducting: President Dieter F. Uchtdorf. GENERAL SESSION Back: Photograph by Leslie Nilsson. Invocation: Elder Wilford W. Andersen. Presiding: President Thomas S. Monson. Benediction: Elder Edward Dube. Conducting: President Henry B. Eyring. CONFERENCE PHOTOGRAPHY Music by a combined choir from stakes in Invocation: Elder David F. Evans. Scenes of general conference in Salt Lake Tooele, Grantsville, and Stansbury Park, Benediction: John S. Tanner. City were taken by Welden C. Andersen, Utah; Hollie Bevan, director; Linda Margetts, Music by the Tabernacle Choir; Mack Cody Bell, Janae Bingham, Randy Collier, organist: “Arise, O God, and Shine,” Hymns, Wilberg and Ryan Murphy, directors; Bonnie Weston Colton, Craig Dimond, Nathaniel no. 265, arr. Wilberg, pub. by Oxford; “I Know Goodliffe and Linda Margetts, organists: “Lo, Ray Edwards, Ashlee Larsen, August Miller, That My Redeemer Lives,” Hymns, no. 136, the Mighty God Appearing!” Hymns, no. Brian Nicholson, Leslie Nilsson, Matthew arr. Huff, unpublished; “Redeemer of Israel,” 55, arr. Murphy, unpublished; “Count Your Reier, Christina Smith, and Byron Warner; Hymns, no. 6; “Abide with Me; ’Tis Eventide,” Blessings,” Hymns, no. 241; “I Am a Child of in Alexandria, Virginia, USA, by Chance Hymns, no. 165, arr. Gates, pub. by Jackman. God,” Hymns, no. 301, arr. Murphy, unpub- Hammock; in Verona, Wisconsin, USA, lished; “We Ever Pray for Thee,” Hymns, no. by Jenifer Ann Lee; in Peachtree Corners, SATURDAY EVENING, OCTOBER 4, 2014, 23, arr. Wilberg, unpublished. Georgia, USA, by David Winters; in San PRIESTHOOD SESSION Lorenzo, Paraguay, by Rebeca Ríos Benites; Presiding: President Thomas S. Monson. SATURDAY EVENING, SEPTEMBER 27, 2014, in Saipan, Northern Mariana Islands, by Del Conducting: President Henry B. Eyring. GENERAL WOMEN’S SESSION Benson; in Cuauhtémoc, Mexico, by Niltza Invocation: Elder Bruce A. Carlson. Presiding: President Thomas S. Monson. Beatriz Santillan Castillo; in Sobral, Brazil, Benediction: Elder James B. Martino. Conducting: Rosemary M. Wixom. by Wesley Dias; in Las Piñas, Philippines, Music by a priesthood choir from the Provo Invocation: Dorah Mkhabela. by Daniel Sanchez Labajo Jr.; in Waterford, Missionary Training Center; Ryan Eggett Benediction: Amy Caroline White. Ireland, by Eymard Martin; in Canoas, Brazil, and Elmo Keck, directors; Clay Christiansen, Music by a combined Primary, Young by Michael Morris Jr.; in Bariloche, Argentina, organist: “Rise Up, O Men of God,” Hymns, Women, and Relief Society choir from stakes by Josué Peña; and in Cape Town, South no. 324, arr. Wilberg, unpublished; Missionary in Magna, Hunter, and Taylorsville, Utah; Africa, by Samantha Scales. Medley: “I Hope They Call Me on a Mission,” Erin Pike Tall, director; Linda Margetts, Children’s Songbook, 169; “I Will Be Valiant,” organist: “On This Day of Joy and Gladness,” Children’s Songbook, 162; “We’ll Bring the Hymns, no. 64, arr. Tall and Margetts, World His Truth,” Children’s Songbook, 172; unpublished; “I Love to See the Temple,” “Called to Serve,” Children’s Songbook, 174, Children’s Songbook, 95, performed by arr. Evans and Eggett, unpublished; “We a children’s choir from Seoul, Korea, arr. Thank Thee, O God, for a Prophet,” Hymns, Zabriskie, unpublished; Medley: “I Know

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November 2014 3 SATURDAY MORNING SESSION | October 4, 2014

By President Thomas S. Monson Welcome to Conference As we listen, may our hearts be touched and our faith increased.

y brothers and sisters, how broadcast via television, radio, cable, pleased I am to welcome you satellite transmission, and the Internet, Mto this great world conference. including on mobile devices. We are gathered together in locations During the past six months since around the world to listen to and learn we last met, one new temple has from the brethren and sisters whom we been dedicated and one rededicated. have sustained as General Authorities In May, President Dieter F. Uchtdorf and general ofcers of the Church. dedicated the Fort Lauderdale Florida They have sought heaven’s help con- Temple. A wonderful youth cultural cerning the messages which they will celebration was presented the day present, and they have felt inspiration prior to the dedication. The following regarding what will be said. day, on Sunday, May 4, the temple was This conference marks the 90-year dedicated in three sessions. anniversary of radio broadcasts of Just two weeks ago it was my priv- general conference. During the October ilege to rededicate the Ogden Utah conference of 1924, the sessions Temple, originally dedicated in 1972 were broadcast on the radio for the by President Joseph Fielding Smith. rst time through Church-owned A grand cultural celebration took KSL. This conference also marks the place the day before the rededication, Arizona Temple will be dedicated, 65-year anniversary of television with so many youth participating and next year, in 2015, we anticipate broadcasts of conference. At the that two separate performances were dedicating or rededicating at least ve general conference held in October presented, with a different cast for temples, with more possible, depend- 1949, the sessions were rst televised each. In all, 16,000 youth participated. ing on completion. throughout the Salt Lake area over The rededication services took place As I mentioned in April, when all KSL television. the following day, with many of the the previously announced temples We acknowledge the blessings of Brethren participating, along with the are constructed and dedicated, we modern media in allowing millions auxiliary leaders and the temple presi- will have 170 operating temples of members of the Church to watch dent, his counselors, and their wives. throughout the world. Because we are or listen to general conference. The Our temple building continues in concentrating our efforts on complet- sessions of this weekend are being earnest. Next month the new Phoenix ing temples which were previously 4

E14N04-23 Sat a.m. session.indd 4 10/14/14 3:10 PM announced, we are not at the present message the world over. We reafrm in our conference sessions. All who time announcing any new temples. that missionary work is a priesthood have been asked to speak feel a great However, in the future, as we iden- duty, and we encourage all worthy responsibility in doing so. As we tify needs and locate properties, and able young men to serve. We are listen, may our hearts be touched and announcements of additional temples very grateful for the young women our faith increased, I humbly pray in will be made. who also serve. They make a signi- the name of Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ The Church continues to grow. cant contribution, although they are We are now more than 15 million not under the same mandate to serve strong and increasing in numbers. Our as are the young men. Shareable Video and Quote missionary efforts are going forward Now I invite you to give your atten- Scan this QR code or visit lds.org/go/ Oct14Conf1 to watch this talk or to unhindered. We have over 88,000 mis- tion to the brethren and sisters who nd a shareable video highlight and sionaries serving, sharing the gospel will participate today and tomorrow picture quote.

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E14N04-23 Sat a.m. session.indd 5 10/14/14 3:10 PM By President Boyd K. Packer prepared from the foundation of the President of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles world to redeem my people. Behold, I am Jesus Christ. . . . In me shall all mankind have life, and that eternally, even they who shall believe on my name; and they shall become my sons The Reason and my daughters” (Ether 3:14). There are many, many other references throughout the standard for Our Hope works which proclaim the divine role of Jesus Christ as the Redeemer of all who have ever been or ever will be A testimony of the hope of redemption is something which born into mortality. cannot be measured or counted. Jesus Christ is the source Through the Atonement of Jesus of that hope. Christ we are all redeemed from the Fall of man, which occurred when Adam and Eve partook of the for- bidden fruit in the Garden of Eden, everal years ago, Sister Packer “However you follow these refer- as stated in 1 Corinthians: “For as in and I went to Oxford University. ences,” I told him, “side to side, up Adam all die, even so in Christ shall all SWe were looking for the records and down, book to book, subject be made alive” (1 Corinthians 15:22). of my seventh great-grandfather. The after subject—you will nd that they The Book of Mormon teaches, head of Christ’s College at Oxford, Dr. are a consistent, harmonious witness “For it is expedient that an atonement Poppelwell, was kind enough to have to the divinity of the mission of the should be made . . . , or else all man- the college archivist bring the records. Lord Jesus Christ—His birth, His life, kind must unavoidably perish; yea, all There in the year 1583 we found my His teachings, His Crucixion, His are hardened; yea, all are fallen and ancestor’s name, John Packer. Resurrection, and His Atonement.” are lost, and must perish except it be The following year we returned to After I shared with the chaplain through the atonement . . . an innite Oxford to present a beautifully bound some of the teachings of the Savior, and eternal sacrice” (Alma 34:9–10). set of the standard works for the the atmosphere changed, and he gave We may not live perfect lives, and library at Christ’s College. It seemed us a tour of the facility, including a there are penalties for our mistakes, but a bit awkward for Dr. Poppelwell. recent excavation revealing murals before we came to earth, we agreed to Perhaps he thought we were not really which dated to Roman days. be subject to His laws and to accept the Christians. So he called for the college Among the references listed in the punishment for violating those laws. chaplain to receive the books. Topical Guide is this one from the “For all have sinned, and come Before handing the scriptures to the Book of Mormon: Another Testament short of the glory of God; chaplain, I opened the Topical Guide of Jesus Christ: “We preach of Christ, “Being justied freely by his grace and showed him one subject: 18 pages, we prophesy of Christ, and we write through the redemption that is in very ne print, single-spaced, listing according to our prophecies, that our Christ Jesus” (Romans 3:23–24). references to the subject of “Jesus children may know to what source The Savior wrought the Atonement, Christ.” It is one of the most compre- they may look for a remission of their which provides a way for us to become hensive compilations of scriptural refer- sins” (2 Nephi 25:26). clean. Jesus Christ is the resurrected ences on the subject of the Savior that In His own words, the Savior has Christ. We worship and recognize Him has ever been assembled in the history declared, “I am the way, the truth, for the pain He suffered for us collec- of the world—a testimony from the and the life: no man cometh unto the tively and for the pain He endured Old and New Testaments, the Book of Father, but by me” ( John 14:6). for each of us individually, both in the Mormon, the Doctrine and Covenants, And from the Book of Mormon, He Garden of Gethsemane and on the and the Pearl of Great Price. declares: “Behold, I am he who was cross. He bore all with great humility 6

E14N04-23 Sat a.m. session.indd 6 10/14/14 3:10 PM and with an eternal understanding of The mercy and grace of Jesus Christ sorrow and questioning, she wrote that His divine role and purpose. are not limited to those who commit there came into her heart an immediate Those who will repent and forsake sins either of commission or omis- reply: “Someone already has paid.” sin will nd that His merciful arm is sion, but they encompass the promise If we are not aware of what the outstretched still. Those who listen to of everlasting peace to all who will Savior’s sacrice can do for us, we and heed His words and the words of accept and follow Him and His teach- may go through life carrying regrets His chosen servants will nd peace ings. His mercy is the mighty healer, that we have done something that was and understanding even in the midst even to the wounded innocent. not right or offended someone. The of great heartache and sorrow. The I recently received a letter from a guilt that accompanies mistakes can result of His sacrice is to free us from woman who reported having endured be washed away. If we seek to under- the effects of sin, that all may have great suffering in her life. A terrible stand His Atonement, we will come guilt erased and feel hope. wrong, which she did not identify to a deep reverence for the Lord Jesus Had He not accomplished the but alluded to, had been committed Christ, His earthly ministry, and His Atonement, there would be no against her. She admitted that she strug- divine mission as our Savior. redemption. It would be a difcult gled with feelings of great bitterness. The Church of Jesus Christ of world to live in if we could never be In her anger, she mentally cried out, Latter-day Saints was restored to move forgiven for our mistakes, if we could “Someone must pay for this terrible throughout the world the knowledge never purify ourselves and move on. wrong.” In this extreme moment of of the life and teachings of the Savior.

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This great conference is being broad- married and single. We need to teach started as a 14-year-old boy who had cast in 94 languages by satellite to the gospel of Jesus Christ to men, a question: “Which of all the churches 102 countries but is also available on women, and children, those of every should I join?” (see Joseph Smith— the Internet to every nation where race and nationality, the rich and the History 1:10). Joseph’s faith and testi- the Church is present. We have over poor. We need the recent convert and mony of the Savior grew as ours must 3,000 stakes. Our full-time missionary those among our numbers descended grow, “line upon line, precept upon force exceeds 88,000, and total Church from the pioneers. We need to seek precept, here a little and there a little” membership has passed 15 million. out those who have strayed and assist (2 Nephi 28:30; see also D&C 128:21). These numbers serve as evidence them to return to the fold. We need Joseph knelt to pray, and what marvel- that the “stone which is cut out of the everyone’s wisdom and insight and ous things have come about as a result mountain without hands” continues to spiritual strength. Each member of this of that prayer and the First Vision. roll forth and will eventually ll “the Church as an individual is a critical As one of the Twelve Apostles, I whole earth” (D&C 65:2). element of the body of the Church. bear witness of the Lord Jesus Christ. But no matter how large the organi- “For as the body is one, and hath He lives. He is our Redeemer and zation of the Church becomes or how many members, and all the members our Savior. “Through the Atonement many millions of members join our of that one body, being many, are one of Christ, all mankind may be saved” ranks, no matter how many continents body: so also is Christ. (Articles of Faith 1:3). He presides and countries our missionaries enter “For by one Spirit are we all bap- over this Church. He is no stranger or how many different languages we tized into one body. . . . to His servants. As we move into the speak, the true success of the gospel “For the body is not one member, future with quiet condence, His Spirit of Jesus Christ will be measured by but many” (1 Corinthians 12:12–14). will be with us. There is no end to His the spiritual strength of its individual Each member serves as a testimony power to bless and direct the lives of members. We need the strength of of the life and teachings of Jesus Christ. those who seek truth and righteous- conviction that is found in the heart of We are at war with the forces of the ness. I bear witness of Him in the every loyal disciple of Christ. adversary, and we need each and every name of Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ A testimony of the hope of redemp- one of us if we are going to succeed in tion is something which cannot be the work the Savior has for us to do. measured or counted. Jesus Christ is You might think, “What can I do? I Shareable Video and Quote the source of that hope. am only one person.” Scan this QR code or visit lds.org/go/ Oct14Conf2 to watch this talk or to We seek to strengthen the testi- Certainly Joseph Smith felt very alone nd a shareable video highlight and monies of the young and old, the at times. He rose to greatness, but he picture quote. 8

E14N04-23 Sat a.m. session.indd 8 10/14/14 3:10 PM By Elder Lynn G. Robbins the mission eld and fail to report the Of the Presidency of the Seventy ¬agrant disobedience of a companion to their mission president because they don’t want to offend their wayward companion. Decisions of character are made by remembering the right order Which Way of the rst and second great command- ments (see Matthew 22:37–39). When these confused missionaries realize Do You Face? they are accountable to God and not to their companion, it should give them courage to do an about-face. Trying to please others before pleasing God is inverting At the youthful age of 22, even the rst and second great commandments. Joseph Smith forgot which way he faced when he repeatedly importuned the Lord to allow Martin Harris to bor- row the 116 manuscript pages. Perhaps hich way do you face?” coexistence with those who point Joseph wanted to show gratitude to “ President Boyd K. Packer ngers, but when this fear of men Martin for his support. We know that Wsurprised me with this tempts us to condone sin, it becomes Joseph was extremely anxious for puzzling question while we were a “snare” according to the book of other eyewitnesses to stand with him traveling together on my very rst Proverbs (see Proverbs 29:25). The against the distressing falsehoods and assignment as a new Seventy. Without snare may be cleverly baited to appeal lies being spread about him. an explanation to put the question in to our compassionate side to tolerate Whatever Joseph’s reasons were, context, I was baf¬ed. “A Seventy,” he or even approve of something that or as justied as they may appear, the continued, “does not represent the has been condemned by God. For the Lord did not excuse them and sharply people to the prophet but the prophet weak of faith, it can be a major stum- rebuked him: “How oft you have to the people. Never forget which way bling block. For example, some young transgressed . . . and have gone on in you face!” It was a powerful lesson. missionaries carry this fear of men into the persuasions of men. For, behold, Trying to please others before pleasing God is inverting the rst and second great commandments (see Matthew 22:37–39). It is forgetting which way we face. And yet, we have all made that mistake because of the fear of men. In Isaiah the Lord warns us, “Fear ye not the reproach of men” (Isaiah 51:7; see also 2 Nephi 8:7). In Lehi’s dream, this fear was triggered by the nger of scorn pointed from the great and spacious building, causing many to forget which way they faced and to leave the tree “ashamed” (see 1 Nephi 8:25–28). This peer pressure tries to change a person’s attitudes, if not behav- ior, by making one feel guilty for giving offense. We seek respectful

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E14N04-23 Sat a.m. session.indd 9 10/14/14 3:10 PM you should not have feared man more on [the Lord]; but because of the had been, and were, and ever would than God” (D&C 3:6–7; emphasis Pharisees they did not confess him, be, like unto Moroni, behold, the added). This poignant experience lest they should be put out of the very powers of hell would have been helped Joseph remember, forever synagogue: for they loved the praise shaken forever; yea, the devil would after, which way he faced. of men more than the praise of God” never have power over the hearts of When people try to save face with ( John 12:42–43). The scriptures are the children of men” (Alma 48:17). men, they can unwittingly lose face full of such examples. Prophets through the ages have with God. Thinking one can please Now listen to some inspiring always come under attack by the God and at the same time condone examples: nger of scorn. Why? According to the disobedience of men isn’t neutral- the scriptures, it is because “the guilty ity but duplicity, or being two-faced or • First, Mormon: “Behold, I speak taketh the truth to be hard, for it cut- trying to “serve two masters” (Matthew with boldness, having authority teth them to the very center” (1 Nephi 6:24; 3 Nephi 13:24). from God; and I fear not what man 16:2), or as President Harold B. Lee While it certainly takes courage to can do; for perfect love casteth out observed, “The hit bird ¬utters!” 2 face perils, the true badge of courage all fear” (Moroni 8:16; emphasis Their scornful reaction is, in reality, is overcoming the fear of men. For added). guilt trying to reassure itself, just as example, Daniel’s prayers helped him • Nephi: “Wherefore, the things with Korihor, who nally admitted, “I face lions, but what made him lion- which are pleasing unto the world always knew that there was a God” hearted was defying King Darius (see I do not write, but the things which (Alma 30:52). Korihor was so convinc- Daniel 6). That kind of courage is a are pleasing unto God and unto ing in his deception that he came to gift of the Spirit to the God-fearing those who are not of the world” believe his own lie (see Alma 30:53). who have said their prayers. Queen (1 Nephi 6:5). The scornful often accuse prophets Esther’s prayers also gave her that same • Captain Moroni: “Behold, I am of not living in the 21st century or of courage to confront her husband, King Moroni, your chief captain. I seek being bigoted. They attempt to per- Ahasuerus, knowing that she risked not for power, but to pull it down. suade or even pressure the Church into her life in doing so (see Esther 4:8–16). I seek not for honor of the world, lowering God’s standards to the level Courage is not just one of the but for the glory of my God, and of their own inappropriate behavior, cardinal virtues, but as C. S. Lewis the freedom and welfare of my which in the words of Elder Neal A. observed: “Courage is . . . the form country” (Alma 60:36). Maxwell, will “develop self-contentment of every virtue at the testing point. instead of seeking self-improvement” 3 . . . Pilate was merciful till it became Moroni had such great courage and repentance. Lowering the Lord’s risky.” 1 King Herod was sorrowful in remembering which way he faced standards to the level of a society’s at the request to behead John the that it was said of him, “If all men inappropriate behavior is—apostasy. Baptist but wanted to please “them Many of the churches among the which sat with him at meat” (Matthew Nephites two centuries after the 14:9). King Noah was ready to free Savior’s visit to them began to “dumb Abinadi until peer pressure from his down” the doctrine, borrowing a wicked priests caused him to waver phrase from Elder Holland.4 (see Mosiah 17:11–12). King Saul As you listen to this passage from disobeyed the word of the Lord by 4 Nephi, look for parallels in our day: keeping the spoils of war because “And it came to pass that when two he “feared the people, and obeyed hundred and ten years had passed their voice” (1 Samuel 15:24). To away there were many churches in the appease rebellious Israel at the foot land; yea, there were many churches of Mount Sinai, Aaron crafted a which professed to know the Christ, golden calf, forgetting which way he and yet they did deny the more parts faced (see Exodus 32). Many of the of his gospel, insomuch that they did New Testament chief rulers “believed receive all manner of wickedness, 10

E14N04-23 Sat a.m. session.indd 10 10/14/14 3:10 PM and did administer that which was charity, such as healing the sick, the gift (see John 14:9). To hear the Son was sacred unto him to whom it had been often came with the request to “tell no to hear the Father (see John 5:36). He forbidden because of unworthiness” man” (Matthew 8:4; Mark 7:36; Luke had, in essence, become indistinguish- (4 Nephi 1:27). 5:14; 8:56). In part, this was to avoid able from His Father. His Father and Déjà vu in the latter days! Some the very fame which followed Him in He were one (see John 17:21–22). He members don’t realize they are falling spite of His efforts to eschew it (see ¬awlessly knew which way He faced. into the same snare when they lobby Matthew 4:24). He condemned the May His inspiring example for acceptance of local or ethnic Pharisees for doing good works only to strengthen us against the pitfalls of “tradition[s] of their fathers” (D&C be seen of men (see Matthew 6:5). ¬attery from without or of conceit 93:39) that are not in harmony with The Savior, the only perfect being from within. May it give us courage the gospel culture. Still others, self- who ever lived, was the most fear- to never cower or fawn at the feet of deceived and in self-denial, plead or less. In His life, He was confronted by intimidation. May it inspire us to go demand that bishops lower the stan- scores of accusers but never yielded to about doing good as anonymously as dard on temple recommends, school their nger of scorn. He is the only per- possible and not “aspire to the honors endorsements, or missionary appli- son who never once forgot which way of men” (D&C 121:35). And may His cations. It isn’t easy being a bishop He faced: “I do always those things that incomparable example help us always under that kind of pressure. However, please [the Father]” ( John 8:29; empha- remember which is “the rst and great like the Savior who cleansed the sis added), and “I seek not mine own commandment” (Matthew 22:38). temple to defend its sanctity (see John will, but the will of the Father which When others demand approval in de- 2:15–16), bishops today are called hath sent me” ( John 5:30). ance of God’s commandments, may upon to boldly defend the temple Between 3 Nephi chapter 11 and we always remember whose disciples standard. It was the Savior who said, 3 Nephi chapter 28, the Savior used we are, and which way we face, is “I will manifest myself to my people in the title Father at least 150 times, my prayer in the name of Jesus Christ, mercy . . . if my people will keep my making it very clear to the Nephites amen. ◼ commandments, and do not pollute that He was there representing His NOTES this holy house” (D&C 110:7–8). Father. And from John chapters 14 1. C. S. Lewis, The Screwtape Letters, rev. ed. The Savior, our great Exemplar, through 17, the Savior refers to the (1982), 137–38. always faced His Father. He loved Father at least 50 times. In every way 2. Harold B. Lee, in Mine Errand from the Lord: Selections from the Sermons and and served His fellowmen but said, “I possible, He was His Father’s perfect Writings of Boyd K. Packer (2008), 356. receive not honour from men” ( John disciple. He was so perfect in repre- 3. Neal A. Maxwell, “Repentance,” Ensign, 5:41). He wanted those He taught to senting His Father that to know the Nov. 1991, 32. 4. Jeffrey R. Holland, “The Call to Be follow Him, but He did not court their Savior was also to know the Father. Christlike,” Ensign, June 2014, 33; favor. When He performed an act of To see the Son was to see the Father Liahona, June 2014, 35.

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E14N04-23 Sat a.m. session.indd 11 10/14/14 3:10 PM By Cheryl A. Esplin Apostles around Him and instituted Second Counselor in the Primary General Presidency the sacrament. He broke bread, blessed it, and said, “Take, eat; this is in remembrance of my body which I give a ransom for you.” 5 Next He took a cup of wine, gave thanks, gave it to The Sacrament— His Apostles to drink, and said, “This is in remembrance of my blood . . . , which is shed for as many as shall a Renewal for the Soul believe on my name.” 6 Among the Nephites and again at the Restoration of His Church in The Spirit heals and renews our souls. The promised blessing the latter days, He repeated that we of the sacrament is that we will “always have his Spirit to be are to take the sacrament in remem- with [us].” brance of Him.7 As we partake of the sacrament, we witness to God that we will remem- ber His Son always, not just during group of young women once a renewal for the soul” each week? the brief sacrament ordinance. This asked me, “What do you wish The sacrament becomes a spiritu- means that we will constantly look to A you had known when you ally strengthening experience when the Savior’s example and teachings to were our age?” If I were to answer that we listen to the sacrament prayers and guide our thoughts, our choices, and question now, I would include this recommit to our covenants. To do this, our acts.8 thought: “I wish when I was your age we must be willing to take upon us The sacrament prayer also I had understood the signicance of the name of Jesus Christ.2 Speaking reminds us that we must “keep his the sacrament better than I did. I wish of this promise, President Henry B. commandments.” 9 I had understood the sacrament in Eyring taught: “That means we must Jesus said, “If ye love me, keep my the way that Elder Jeffrey R. Holland see ourselves as His. We will put Him commandments.” 10 The sacrament described. He said, ‘One of the invi- rst in our lives. We will want what gives us an opportunity for introspec- tations inherent in the sacramental He wants rather than what we want or tion and an opportunity to turn our ordinance is that it be a truly spiritual what the world teaches us to want.” 3 heart and will to God. Obedience to experience, a holy communion, a When we take the sacrament, we the commandments brings the power renewal for the soul.’ 1” also covenant to “always remember” 4 of the gospel into our lives and greater How can the sacrament “be a truly Jesus Christ. On the night before He peace and spirituality. spiritual experience, a holy communion, was crucied, Christ gathered His The sacrament provides a time for a truly spiritual experience as we re¬ect upon the Savior’s redeem- ing and enabling power through His Atonement. A Young Women leader recently learned about the strength we receive as we strive to thoughtfully partake of the sacrament. Working to complete a requirement in Personal Progress, she set a goal to focus on the words in the sacrament hymns and prayers. Each week, she conducted a self- evaluation during the sacrament. She 12

E14N04-23 Sat a.m. session.indd 12 10/14/14 3:10 PM recalled mistakes she had made, and she committed to be better the next week. She was grateful to be able to make things right and be made clean. Looking back on the experience, she said, “I was acting on the repentance part of the Atonement.” One Sunday after her self- evaluation, she began to feel gloomy and pessimistic. She could see that she was making the same errors over and over again, week to week. But then she had a distinct impression that she was neglecting a big part of the Atonement—Christ’s enabling power. She was forgetting all the times the Savior helped her be who of our sins, to go to those against “Now, when the multitude had all she needed to be and serve beyond whom we have sinned or transgressed eaten and drunk, behold, they were her own capacity. and obtain their forgiveness and then lled with the Spirit.” 14 With this in mind, she re¬ected repair to the sacrament table where, With these words, Christ teaches us again on the previous week. She said: if we have sincerely repented and that the Spirit heals and renews our “A feeling of joy broke through my put ourselves in proper condition, we souls. The promised blessing of the melancholy as I noted that He had shall be forgiven, and spiritual healing sacrament is that we will “always have given me many opportunities and will come to our souls. . . . his Spirit to be with [us].” 15 abilities. I noted with gratitude the “I am a witness,” Elder Ballard When I partake of the sacrament, ability I had to recognize my child’s said, “that there is a spirit attending I sometimes picture in my mind a need when it wasn’t obvious. I noted the administration of the sacrament painting that depicts the resurrected that on a day when I felt I could not that warms the soul from head to Savior with His arms outstretched, as if pack in one more thing to do, I was foot; you feel the wounds of the spirit He is ready to receive us into His loving able to offer strengthening words to being healed, and the load being embrace. I love this painting. When I a friend. I had shown patience in a lifted. Comfort and happiness come think about it during the administration circumstance that usually elicited the to the soul that is worthy and truly of the sacrament, my soul is lifted as opposite from me.” desirous of partaking of this spiritual I can almost hear the Savior’s words: She concluded: “As I thanked God food.” 11 “Behold, mine arm of mercy is extended for the Savior’s enabling power in my Our wounded souls can be healed towards you, and whosoever will come, life, I felt so much more optimistic and renewed not only because the him will I receive; and blessed are those toward the repentance process I was bread and water remind us of the who come unto me.” 16 working through and I looked to the Savior’s sacrice of His ¬esh and Aaronic Priesthood holders repre- next week with renewed hope.” blood but because the emblems also sent the Savior when they prepare, Elder Melvin J. Ballard taught how remind us that He will always be our bless, and pass the sacrament. As a the sacrament can be a healing and “bread of life” 12 and “living water.” 13 priesthood holder extends his arm to cleansing experience. He said: After administering the sacrament offer us the sacred emblems, it is as if “Who is there among us that does to the Nephites, Jesus said: the Savior Himself were extending His not wound his spirit by word, thought, “He that eateth this bread eateth of arm of mercy, inviting each one of us or deed, from Sabbath to Sabbath? We my body to his soul; and he that drin- to partake of the precious gifts of love do things for which we are sorry and keth of this wine drinketh of my blood made available through His atoning desire to be forgiven. . . . The method to his soul; and his soul shall never sacrice—gifts of repentance, forgive- to obtain forgiveness is . . . to repent hunger nor thirst, but shall be lled. ness, comfort, and hope.17

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E14N04-23 Sat a.m. session.indd 13 10/14/14 3:10 PM The more we ponder the signif- By Elder Chi Hong (Sam) Wong icance of the sacrament, the more Of the Seventy sacred and meaningful it becomes to us. This was what a 96-year-old father expressed when his son asked, “Dad, why do you go to church? You can’t see, you can’t hear, it’s hard for you to Rescue in Unity get around. Why do you go to church?” The father replied, “It’s the sacrament. I In order to assist the Savior, we have to work together in unity go to partake of the sacrament.” May each of us come to sacrament and in harmony. Everyone, every position, and every calling meeting prepared to have “a truly spir- is important. itual experience, a holy communion, a renewal for [our] soul.” 18 I know that our Heavenly Father and our Savior live. I am grateful e often hear President home, a man who was sick with palsy. for the opportunity the sacrament Thomas S. Monson say, I can visualize one of them coming provides to feel of Their love and to W“Reach out to rescue.” 1 An from the Relief Society, one from the partake of the Spirit. In the name of account in the New Testament comes elders quorum, one from the Aaronic Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ to my mind. It is a perfect illustration Priesthood, and, last but not least, of how members and missionaries can one full-time missionary. In the most NOTES work together in unity through ward recent ward council, after counseling 1. Jeffrey R. Holland, Christ and the New Covenant: The Messianic Message of the councils to reach out and rescue. The together about the needs in the ward, Book of Mormon (1997), 283. story is found in Mark 2:1–5. I nd that the bishop had given out “rescuing” 2. See Doctrine and Covenants 20:77. the experiences Jesus used to teach assignments. These four were assigned 3. Henry B. Eyring, “That We May Be One,” Ensign, May 1998, 67. us certain doctrines or principles are to help this man suffering with palsy. 4. Doctrine and Covenants 20:77, 79. always most inspiring and easy to They could not wait for him to come 5. Joseph Smith Translation, Matthew 26:22 understand. to church by himself. They had to go (in Matthew 26:26, footnote c, and in the Bible appendix). One of the characters in this to his home and visit him. They had to 6. Joseph Smith Translation, Matthew 26:24 account is a man with palsy, someone seek him out, and so they went. The (in the Bible appendix); see also Matthew who was not able to move without man was being brought to Jesus. 26:26–28; Mark 14:22–24; Luke 22:15–20. 7. See 3 Nephi 18:7, 11; Doctrine and assistance. This man could only stay “And they [came] unto him, bring- Covenants 20:75. home, waiting for rescue. ing one sick of the palsy, which was 8. See “How Do I Keep My Covenant to In our day, it might happen like this. borne of four” (Mark 2:3). Always Remember the Savior?” Come, Follow Me Sunday School curriculum; lds. Four people were fullling an assign- However, the room was too org/ youth/ learn/ ss/ ordinances -covenants/ ment from their bishop to visit, at his crowded. They could not get in remember; True to the Faith: A Gospel Reference (2004), 147–48. 9. Doctrine and Covenants 20:77. 10. John 14:15. 11. Melvin J. Ballard, in Melvin R. Ballard, Melvin J. Ballard: Crusader for Righteousness (1966), 132–33. 12. John 6:48. 13. John 4:10. 14. 3 Nephi 20:8–9. 15. Doctrine and Covenants 20:77. 16. 3 Nephi 9:14. 17. I’m grateful to Ann Madsen for her insight on this principle. 18. Jeffrey R. Holland, Christ and the New Covenant, 283.

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E14N04-23 Sat a.m. session.indd 14 10/14/14 3:10 PM through the door. I am sure they been too difcult for him. His home Finally, the sick, palsied man was tried everything they could think of, teaching companion from the elders laid before Jesus. “When Jesus saw but they just could not get through. quorum and the tall and strong full-time their faith, he said unto the sick of the Things did not happen as smoothly missionary would have pushed really palsy, Son, thy sins be forgiven thee” as planned. There were obstacles hard from below. The Relief Society (Mark 2:5). Jesus showed mercy on along their way of “rescue.” But they sister would have reminded them to him and healed him—not only physi- did not give up. They did not leave be careful and given them words of cally but also spiritually: “Son, thy sins the man with palsy by the door. They encouragement. The men would then be forgiven thee.” Isn’t that wonderful? counseled together on what to do uncover the roof while the sister con- Wouldn’t we like that to happen to all next—how they could bring the man tinued to comfort the man as he waited of us too? Certainly I would. unto Jesus Christ for healing. The to be healed—to be able to move by Do we know anyone in our life who work to assist Jesus Christ in saving himself and to be free. is af¬icted with spiritual palsy, some- souls, at least for them, was never This rescue assignment needed one who just cannot come back to the too demanding. They came up with everyone working together. At the Church by himself or herself? He or she a plan—not an easy one, but they crucial moment, it would take careful could be one of our children, one of acted on it. coordination to lower the man with our parents, a spouse, or a friend. “And when they could not come palsy from the roof. The four people With so many more full-time nigh unto him for the press, they would have to work in unity and in missionaries now available in each uncovered the roof where he was: and harmony. There could not be any Church unit, it will be wise for bishops when they had broken it up, they let discord among the four. They would and branch presidents to make better down the bed wherein the sick of the have to lower the man with palsy at use of their ward and branch councils. palsy lay” (Mark 2:4). the same pace. If someone released The bishop can invite each member They brought him up to the roof. the rope faster than the other three, of the ward council to come with a Assuming there was no outside stair- the man would fall out of his bed. He list of names of those who may need case for them to climb, it would have could not hold on by himself due to assistance. Members of the ward coun- taken them quite some time to get his weakened condition. cil will counsel together carefully on everyone onto the roof. I think it might In order to assist the Savior, we have how they might best help. Bishops have happened this way: the young to work together in unity and in har- will listen attentively to the ideas and man from his ward would have climbed mony. Everyone, every position, and make assignments. up to the roof rst. As he was young every calling is important. We have to Full-time missionaries are great and full of energy, it would not have be united in our Lord Jesus Christ. resources to the wards in these rescue

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E14N04-23 Sat a.m. session.indd 15 10/14/14 3:10 PM efforts. They are young and full of By Elder D. Todd Christofferson energy. They love to have a list of spe- Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles cic names of people to work with. They enjoy working together with ward members. They know these are great nding opportunities for them. They are devoted to establishing the Free Forever, Lord’s kingdom. They have a strong testimony that they will become more Christlike as they participate in these to Act for Themselves rescuing efforts. In conclusion, may I share with you one more hidden treasure found in It is God’s will that we be free men and women enabled this scripture account. It is in verse 5: to rise to our full potential both temporally and spiritually. “When Jesus saw their faith” (empha- sis added). I had not noticed this in the past—their faith. Our combined faith will also affect the well-being illiam Shakespeare’s play The Not surprisingly, King Henry of others. Life of King Henry V includes disagrees. “Every subject’s duty is Who were those people that Jesus a nighttime scene in the the king’s; but every subject’s soul is W 1 mentioned? They could well include camp of English soldiers at Agincourt his own.” the four who carried the man with just before their battle with the French Shakespeare does not attempt to palsy, the man himself, the people army. In the dim light and partially resolve this debate in the play, and in who had prayed for him, and all disguised, King Henry wanders unrec- one form or another it is a debate that those who were there listening to ognized among his soldiers. He talks continues down to our own time— the preaching of Jesus and cheering with them, trying to gauge the morale who bears responsibility for what quietly in their hearts for the soon- of his badly outnumbered troops, and happens in our lives? to-come miracle. They could also because they do not realize who he is, When things turn bad, there is a include a spouse, a parent, a son or they are candid in their comments. tendency to blame others or even a daughter, a missionary, a quorum In one exchange they philosophize God. Sometimes a sense of entitlement president, a Relief Society president, about who bears responsibility for arises, and individuals or groups try a bishop, and a faraway friend. We what happens to men in battle—the to shift responsibility for their welfare can all help one another. We should king or each individual soldier. to other people or to governments. In always be anxiously engaged in seek- At one point King Henry declares, spiritual matters some suppose that ing to rescue those in need. “Methinks I could not die any where men and women need not strive for I testify that Jesus Christ is a God so contented as in the king’s company; personal righteousness—because God of miracles. Jesus Christ loves us all his cause being just.” loves and saves us “just as we are.” and has the power to save and heal, Michael Williams retorts, “That’s But God intends that His children both physically and spiritually. When more than we know.” should act according to the moral we assist Him in His mission of saving His companion agrees, “Ay, or more agency He has given them, “that every souls, we too will be rescued in the than we should seek after; for we man may be accountable for his own process. I so testify in His holy name, know enough, if we know we are the sins in the day of judgment.” 2 It is even Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ king’s subjects: if his cause be wrong, His plan and His will that we have This address was delivered in Cantonese. our obedience to the king wipes the the principal decision-making role in crime of it out of us.” our own life’s drama. God will not NOTE Williams adds, “If the cause be not live our lives for us nor control us as 1. See, for example, Thomas S. Monson, “Our Responsibility to Rescue,” Ensign or good, the king himself hath a heavy if we were His puppets, as Lucifer Liahona, Oct. 2013, 5. reckoning to make.” once proposed to do. Nor will His 16

E14N04-23 Sat a.m. session.indd 16 10/14/14 3:10 PM prophets accept the role of “pup- pet master” in God’s place. Brigham Young stated: “I do not wish any Latter Day Saint in this world, nor in heaven, to be satised with anything I do, unless the Spirit of the Lord Jesus Christ,—the spirit of revelation, makes them satised. I wish them to know for themselves and understand for themselves.” 3 So God does not save us “just as we are,” rst, because “just as we are” we are unclean, and “no unclean thing can dwell . . . in his presence; for, in the language of Adam, Man of Holiness is his name, and the name of his Only Begotten is the Son of Man [of Holiness].” 4 And second, God will not act to make us something we do not choose by our actions to become. Truly He loves us, and Christ and His grace, our failures to But as a consequence of being per- because He loves us, He neither live the celestial law perfectly and fectly just, there are some things God compels nor abandons us. Rather He consistently in mortality can be erased cannot do. He cannot be arbitrary in helps and guides us. Indeed, the real and we are enabled to develop a saving some and banishing others. He manifestation of God’s love is His Christlike character. Justice demands, “cannot look upon sin with the least commandments. however, that none of this happen degree of allowance.” 13 He cannot We should (and we do) rejoice in without our willing agreement and allow mercy to rob justice.14 the God-ordained plan that permits us participation. It has ever been so. Our It is compelling evidence of His jus- to make choices to act for ourselves very presence on earth as physical tice that God has forged the compan- and experience the consequences, or beings is the consequence of a choice ion principle of mercy. It is because as the scriptures express it, to “taste each of us made to participate in He is just that He devised the means the bitter, that [we] may know to prize our Father’s plan.9 Thus, salvation is for mercy to play its indispensable the good.” 5 We are forever grateful certainly not the result of divine whim, role in our eternal destiny. So now, that the Savior’s Atonement overcame but neither does it happen by divine “justice exerciseth all his demands, original sin so that we can be born will alone.10 and also mercy claimeth all which is into this world yet not be punished Justice is an essential attribute her own.” 15 for Adam’s transgression.6 Having of God. We can have faith in God We know that it is “the suffer- been thus redeemed from the Fall, we because He is perfectly trustworthy. ings and death of him who did no begin life innocent before God and The scriptures teach us that “God doth sin, in whom [the Father] wast well “become free forever, knowing good not walk in crooked paths, neither pleased; . . . the blood of [His] Son from evil; to act for [ourselves] and not doth he turn to the right hand nor which was shed” 16 that satises the to be acted upon.” 7 We can choose to to the left, neither doth he vary from demands of justice, extends mercy, become the kind of person that we that which he hath said, therefore his and redeems us.17 Even so, “accord- will, and with God’s help, that can be paths are straight, and his course is ing to justice, the plan of redemption even as He is.8 one eternal round” 11 and that “God is could not be brought about, only on The gospel of Jesus Christ opens no respecter of persons.” 12 We rely on conditions of repentance.” 18 It is the the path to what we may become. the divine quality of justice for faith, requirement of and the opportunity Through the Atonement of Jesus condence, and hope. for repentance that permits mercy to

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E14N04-23 Sat a.m. session.indd 17 10/14/14 3:10 PM perform its labor without trampling or justice. It is a world where moral and immutable truths, the gift of justice. relativism reigns supreme. agency would be meaningless since Christ died not to save indis- Relativism means each person is we would never be able to foresee criminately but to offer repentance. his or her own highest authority. Of and intend the consequences of our We rely “wholly upon the merits of course, it is not just those who deny actions. As Lehi expressed it: “If ye him who is mighty to save” 19 in the God that subscribe to this philosophy. shall say there is no law, ye shall also process of repentance, but acting Some who believe in God still believe say there is no sin. If ye shall say to repent is a self-willed change. So that they themselves, individually, there is no sin, ye shall also say there by making repentance a condition decide what is right and wrong. One is no righteousness. And if there be for receiving the gift of grace, God young adult expressed it this way: “I no righteousness there be no happi- enables us to retain responsibility don’t think I could say that Hinduism ness. And if there be no righteous- for ourselves. Repentance respects is wrong or Catholicism is wrong ness nor happiness there be no and sustains our moral agency: “And or being Episcopalian is wrong—I punishment nor misery. And if these thus mercy can satisfy the demands think it just depends on what you things are not there is no God. And of justice, and encircles them in the believe. . . . I don’t think that there’s if there is no God we are not, neither arms of safety, while he that exercises a right and wrong.” 21 Another, asked the earth; for there could have been no faith unto repentance is exposed about the basis for his religious beliefs, no creation of things, neither to act to the whole law of the demands of replied, “Myself—it really comes down nor to be acted upon; wherefore, all justice; therefore only unto him that to that. I mean, how could there be things must have vanished away.” 23 has faith unto repentance is brought authority to what you believe?” 22 In matters both temporal and about the great and eternal plan of To those who believe anything or spiritual, the opportunity to assume redemption.” 20 everything could be true, the declara- personal responsibility is a God-given Misunderstanding God’s justice and tion of objective, xed, and universal gift without which we cannot realize mercy is one thing; denying God’s truth feels like coercion—“I shouldn’t our full potential as daughters and existence or supremacy is another, be forced to believe something is sons of God. Personal accountability but either will result in our achiev- true that I don’t like.” But that does becomes both a right and a duty that ing less—sometimes far less—than not change reality. Resenting the we must constantly defend; it has our full, divine potential. A God who law of gravity won’t keep a person been under assault since before the makes no demands is the functional from falling if he steps off a cliff. Creation. We must defend accountabil- equivalent of a God who does not The same is true for eternal law and ity against persons and programs that exist. A world without God, the living justice. Freedom comes not from would (sometimes with the best of God who establishes moral laws to resisting it but from applying it. That intentions) make us dependent. And govern and perfect His children, is is fundamental to God’s own power. we must defend it against our own also a world without ultimate truth If it were not for the reality of xed inclinations to avoid the work that is 18

E14N04-23 Sat a.m. session.indd 18 10/14/14 3:10 PM required to cultivate talents, abilities, and women enabled to rise to our to take responsibility and go to work and Christlike character. full potential both temporally and so that there is something for God to The story is told of a man who spiritually, that we be free from the help us with. simply would not work. He wanted humiliating limitations of poverty and I bear witness that God the Father to be taken care of in every need. To the bondage of sin, that we enjoy self- lives, that His Son, Jesus Christ, is our his way of thinking, the Church or the respect and independence, that we be Redeemer, and that the Holy Spirit is government, or both, owed him a liv- prepared in all things to join Him in present with us. Their desire to help us ing because he had paid his taxes and His celestial kingdom. is undoubted, and Their capacity to do his tithing. He had nothing to eat but I am under no illusion that this so is innite. Let us “awake, and arise refused to work to care for himself. can be achieved by our own efforts from the dust, . . . that the covenants of Out of desperation and disgust, those alone without His very substantial the Eternal Father which he hath made who had tried to help him decided and constant help. “We know that it unto [us] may be fullled.” 25 In the that since he would not lift a nger to is by grace that we are saved, after all name of Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ sustain himself, they might as well just we can do.” 24 And we do not need take him to the cemetery and let him to achieve some minimum level of NOTES pass on. On the way to the cemetery, capacity or goodness before God will 1. William Shakespeare, The Life of King Henry V, act 4, scene 1, lines 127–29, one man said, “We can’t do this. I have help—divine aid can be ours every 131–37, 183–85. some corn I will give him.” hour of every day, no matter where 2. Doctrine and Covenants 101:78. So they explained this to the man, we are in the path of obedience. But 3. Brigham Young, “Sermon,” Deseret News, Oct. 31, 1855, 267; quoted in Terryl Givens and he asked, “Have the husks been I know that beyond desiring His help, and Fiona Givens, The Crucible of Doubt: removed?” we must exert ourselves, repent, and Reˆections on the Quest for Faith (2014), 63. They responded, “No.” choose God for Him to be able to 4. Moses 6:57. 5. Moses 6:55. “Well, then,” he said, “drive on.” act in our lives consistent with justice 6. See Articles of Faith 1:2; see also 2 Nephi It is God’s will that we be free men and moral agency. My plea is simply 2:25; Moses 6:53–56. 7. 2 Nephi 2:26; see also Doctrine and Covenants 93:38. Bariloche, Argentina 8. See 3 Nephi 12:48; 27:27; see also Romans 8:16–17; Doctrine and Covenants 84:37–38. 9. See Revelation 12:7–9; Doctrine and Covenants 29:36–38; Moses 4:3–4. 10. See Doctrine and Covenants 93:29–31. 11. Doctrine and Covenants 3:2. 12. Acts 10:34. 13. Doctrine and Covenants 1:31. 14. See Alma 42:25. 15. Alma 42:24. 16. Doctrine and Covenants 45:4. 17. See Mosiah 15:9. 18. Alma 42:13; emphasis added. 19. 2 Nephi 31:19. 20. Alma 34:16. 21. In Christian Smith, Souls in Transition: The Religious and Spiritual Lives of Emerging Adults (2009), 156. 22. In Smith, Souls in Transition, 156. 23. 2 Nephi 2:13. 24. 2 Nephi 25:23. 25. Moroni 10:31.

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E14N04-23 Sat a.m. session.indd 19 10/14/14 3:10 PM By President Dieter F. Uchtdorf and understand this truth changed dra- Second Counselor in the First Presidency matically. And with that greater light, mankind was introduced to glorious vistas we had never before imagined.

It Is Hard for Us to Believe Receiving a Testimony What We Cannot See Suppose you were able to travel back in time and have a conversation of Light and Truth with people who lived a thousand or even a hundred years ago. Imagine trying to describe to them some of the Your personal testimony of light and truth will not only bless modern technologies that you and I you and your posterity here in mortality, but it will also take for granted today. For example, accompany you throughout all eternity. what might these people think of us if we told them stories of jumbo jets, microwave ovens, handheld devices that contain vast digital libraries, and s an airline pilot, I ¬ew numerous that lay beyond our galaxy was an videos of our grandchildren that we hours across continents and immense nothingness, an innite instantly share with millions of people A oceans during the darkness void—empty, cold, and devoid of around the world? of night. Watching the night sky out stars, light, and life. Some might believe us. Most would of my cockpit window, especially the As telescopes became more ridicule, oppose, or perhaps even seek Milky Way, often made me marvel sophisticated—including telescopes to silence or harm us. Some might at the vastness and depth of God’s that could be launched into space— attempt to apply logic, reason, and creations—what the scriptures describe astronomers began to grasp a spec- facts as they know them to show that as “worlds without number.” 1 tacular, almost incomprehensible we are misguided, foolish, or even It was less than a century ago that truth: the universe is mind-bogglingly dangerous. They might condemn us most astronomers assumed that our bigger than anyone had previously for attempting to mislead others. Milky Way galaxy was the only galaxy believed, and the heavens are lled But of course, these people would in the universe.2 They supposed all with numberless galaxies, unimagin- be completely mistaken. They might ably far away from us, each containing be well-meaning and sincere. They hundreds of billions of stars.3 might feel absolutely positive of their In a very short period of time, opinion. But they simply would not be our understanding of the universe able to see clearly because they had changed forever. not yet received the more complete Today we can see some of these light of truth. distant galaxies.4 We know that they are there. The Promise of Light They have been there for a very It seems to be a trait of human- long time. ity to assume that we are right even But before mankind had instru- when we are wrong. And if that is the ments powerful enough to gather case, what hope is there for any of us? celestial light and bring these galaxies Are we destined to drift aimlessly on into visibility, we did not believe such an ocean of con¬icting information, Watching the night sky often made a thing was possible. stranded on a raft we have poorly me marvel at the vastness and depth The immensity of the universe didn’t pieced together from our own biases? of God’s creations. suddenly change, but our ability to see Is it possible to nd truth? 20

E14N04-23 Sat a.m. session.indd 20 10/14/14 3:10 PM The purpose of my remarks is way and in His own time, and there- Second, you must consider, ponder, to proclaim the joyful message that fore, you need to learn to listen to His fearlessly strive to believe,8 and be God Himself—the Lord of Hosts who voice. God wants you to nd your grateful for how merciful the Lord has knows all truth—has given His chil- way back to Him, and the Savior is been to His children from the time of dren the promise that they can know the way.5 God wants you to learn of Adam to our day by providing proph- truth for themselves. His Son, Jesus Christ, and experience ets, seers, and revelators to lead His Please consider the magnitude of the profound peace and joy that come Church and help us nd the way back this promise: from following the path of divine to Him. The Everlasting and Almighty God, discipleship. Third, you must ask your Heavenly the Creator of this vast universe, will My dear friends, here is a fairly Father, in the name of His Son, Jesus speak to those who approach Him straightforward experiment, with a Christ, to manifest the truth of The with a sincere heart and real intent. guarantee from God, found in a book Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day He will speak to them in dreams, of ancient scripture available to every Saints unto you. Ask with a sincere visions, thoughts, and feelings. man, woman, and child willing to put heart and with real intent, having faith He will speak in a way that is it to the test: in Christ.9 unmistakable and that transcends First, you must search the word of There is also a fourth step, given human experience. He will give them God. That means reading the scrip- to us by the Savior: “If any man will divine direction and answers for their tures and studying the words of the do [God’s] will, he shall know of the personal lives. ancient as well as modern prophets doctrine, whether it be of God, or Of course, there will be those who regarding the restored gospel of Jesus whether I speak of myself.” 10 In other scoff and say such a thing is impossible, Christ—not with an intent to doubt or words, when you are trying to verify that if there were a God, He would criticize but with a sincere desire to the truth of gospel principles, you have better things to do than hear and discover truth. Ponder upon the things must rst live them. Put gospel doc- answer a single person’s prayer. you will feel, and prepare your minds trine and Church teachings to the test But I tell you this: God cares about to receive the truth.6 “Even if ye can in your own life. Do it with real intent you. He will listen, and He will answer no more than desire to believe, let this and enduring faith in God. your personal questions. The answers desire work in you . . . that ye can give If you will do these things, you to your prayers will come in His own place for [the word of God].” 7 have a promise from God—who is

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E14N04-23 Sat a.m. session.indd 21 10/14/14 3:10 PM bound by His word 11—that He will the things of the Spirit of God,” he our own light begins to dim—not in manifest the truth to you by the power wrote to the Corinthians, “for they are a day or a week but gradually over of the Holy Ghost. He will grant you foolishness unto him: neither can he time—until we look back and can’t greater light that will allow you to know them, because they are spiritu- quite understand why we had ever look through the darkness and witness ally discerned.” 12 believed the gospel was true. Our unimaginably glorious vistas incom- In other words, if you want to previous knowledge might even seem prehensible to mortal sight. recognize spiritual truth, you have to foolish to us because what once was Some may say that the steps are use the right instruments. You can’t so clear has again become blurred, too hard or that they are not worth come to an understanding of spiritual hazy, and distant. the effort. But I suggest that this per- truth with instruments that are unable This is why Paul was so insistent sonal testimony of the gospel and the to detect it. that the message of the gospel is fool- Church is the most important thing The Savior has told us in our day, ishness to those who are perishing, you can earn in this life. It will not “That which is of God is light; and he “but unto [those who] are saved it is only bless and guide you during this that receiveth light, and continueth in the power of God.” 14 life, but it will also have a direct bear- God, receiveth more light; and that ing on your life throughout eternity. light groweth brighter and brighter There Is No Litmus Test until the perfect day.” 13 The Church of Jesus Christ of The Things of the Spirit Can Be The more we incline our hearts and Latter-day Saints is a place for people Understood Only by the Spirit minds toward God, the more heav- with all kinds of testimonies. There are Scientists were struggling to under- enly light distills upon our souls. And some members of the Church whose stand the breadth of the universe until each time we willingly and earnestly testimony is sure and burns brightly instruments became sophisticated seek that light, we indicate to God within them. Others are still striving enough to gather in greater light so our readiness to receive more light. to know for themselves. The Church they could understand a more com- Gradually, things that before seemed is a home for all to come together, plete truth. hazy, dark, and remote become clear, regardless of the depth or the height The Apostle Paul taught a parallel bright, and familiar to us. of our testimony. I know of no sign on principle regarding spiritual knowl- By the same token, if we remove the doors of our meetinghouses that edge. “The natural man receiveth not ourselves from the light of the gospel, says, “Your testimony must be this tall to enter.” The Church is not just for perfect people, but it is for all to “come unto Christ, and be perfected in him.” 15 The Church is for people like you and me. The Church is a place of welcoming and nurturing, not of separating or criticizing. It is a place where we reach out to encourage, uplift, and sustain one another as we pursue our individual search for divine truth. In the end, we are all pilgrims seeking God’s light as we journey on the path of discipleship. We do not condemn others for the amount of light they may or may not have; rather, we nourish and encourage all light until it grows clear, bright, and true. 22

E14N04-23 Sat a.m. session.indd 22 10/14/14 3:10 PM A Promise to All Let us acknowledge that most often gaining a testimony is not a task of a minute, an hour, or a day. It is not once and done. The process of gathering spiritual light is the quest of a lifetime. Your testimony of the living Son of God and His restored Church, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, may not come as quickly as you desire, but I promise you this: if you do your part, it will come. And it will be glorious. I offer you my personal witness that spiritual truth will ll your heart and bring light to your spirit. It will reveal to you pure intelligence with wonderful joy and heavenly peace. I have experienced this for myself by the power of the Holy Ghost. As the ancient scriptures promise, the unspeakable presence of the Spirit of God will cause you to sing the song of redeeming love,16 lift your eyes to heaven, and raise your voice in praise to the Most High God, your Refuge, your posterity here in mortality, but it revealed to the Prophet Joseph Smith in your Hope, your Protector, your will also accompany you throughout June 1830, nearly a century before Edwin Hubble announced his discovery of distant Father. The Savior promised that if you all eternity, among worlds without galaxies. seek, you will nd.17 end. Of this I testify and leave you my 4. See, for example, the Hubble Heritage I testify that this is true. If you seek blessing in the name of Jesus Christ, Image Gallery at heritage.stsci.edu/gallery/ gallery.html. God’s truth, that which now may amen. ◼ 5. See John 14:6. appear dim, out of focus, and distant NOTES 6. See 3 Nephi 17:3. will gradually be revealed and claried 1. Moses 1:33. 7. Alma 32:27. 2. See Marcia Bartusiak, The Day We Found 8. See Doctrine and Covenants 67:3. and become close to your heart by the the Universe (2009), xii. It is always 9. See Moroni 10:3–5. light of God’s grace. Glorious spiritual surprising to me that we can be so 10. John 7:17; see also Psalm 25:14; vistas, unimaginable to the human con¥dent of our conclusions. Sometimes John 3:21. our con¥dence is so great that we assume 11. See Doctrine and Covenants 82:10. eye, will be revealed to you. we have all the truth there is. Case in point: 12. 1 Corinthians 2:14. It is my testimony that this spiri- “Simon Newcomb, the dean of American 13. Doctrine and Covenants 50:24. tual light is within the reach of every astronomy in the late nineteenth century, 14. 1 Corinthians 1:18. child of God. It will enlighten your remarked at an observatory dedication 15. Moroni 10:32; see also Doctrine and in 1887 that ‘so far as astronomy is Covenants 20:59. mind and bring healing to your heart concerned . . . we do appear to be fast 16. See Alma 5:26. and joy to your days. My dear friends, approaching the limits of our knowledge. 17. See Doctrine and Covenants 88:63. please do not delay the moment to . . . The result is that the work which really occupies the attention of the astronomer seek and strengthen your own per- is less the discovery of new things than sonal testimony of God’s divine work, the elaboration of those already known’” Shareable Video and Quote even the work of light and truth. (Bartusiak, xv). Scan this QR code or visit lds.org/go/ 3. It is interesting to consider Moses 1:33, 35 Oct14Conf4 to watch this talk or to Your personal testimony of light in light of this “recent” discovery. The book nd a shareable video highlight and and truth will not only bless you and of Moses in the Pearl of Great Price was picture quote.

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Presented by President Henry B. Eyring prophets, seers, and revelators. First Counselor in the First Presidency All in favor, please manifest it. Contrary, if there be any, by the same sign. It is proposed that we release with appreciation for their distinguished service Elders Carlos H. Amado and William R. Walker as members of The Sustaining the First Quorum of the Seventy and designate them as emeritus General Authorities. of Church Of cers Those who wish to join with us in expressing gratitude for their devoted service, please manifest it. Elders Arayik V. Minasyan and t is proposed that we sustain Quorum of the Twelve Apostles and Gvido Senkans have been released as Thomas Spencer Monson as prophet, the following as members of that Area Seventies. It is proposed that we Iseer, and revelator and President quorum: Boyd K. Packer, L. Tom Perry, extend to them a vote of appreciation of The Church of Jesus Christ of Russell M. Nelson, Dallin H. Oaks, for their service. Latter-day Saints; Henry Bennion M. Russell Ballard, Richard G. Scott, All in favor, please signify. Eyring as First Counselor in the First Robert D. Hales, Jeffrey R. Holland, It is proposed that we sustain Presidency; and Dieter Friedrich David A. Bednar, Quentin L. Cook, the other General Authorities, Area Uchtdorf as Second Counselor in the D. Todd Christofferson, and Neil L. Seventies, and general auxiliary presi- First Presidency. Andersen. dencies as presently constituted. Those in favor may manifest it. Those in favor, please manifest it. Those in favor, please manifest it. Those opposed, if any, may mani- Any opposed may so indicate. Any opposed may manifest it. fest it. It is proposed that we sustain Thank you, brothers and sisters, It is proposed that we sustain Boyd the counselors in the First Presi- for your faith and prayers in our Kenneth Packer as President of the dency and the Twelve Apostles as behalf. ◼

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E14N24-45 Sat p.m. session.indd 24 10/14/14 4:16 PM By Elder Dallin H. Oaks 5:6–8). His followers cannot do that Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles if they associate only with those who share their beliefs and practices. But the Savior also taught that if we love Him, we will keep His command- Loving Others and ments (see John 14:15). II. The gospel has many teachings Living with Differences about keeping the commandments while living among people with different beliefs and practices. The As followers of Christ we should live peacefully with others who teachings about contention are central. do not share our values or accept the teachings upon which When the resurrected Christ found the they are based. Nephites disputing over the manner of baptism, He gave clear directions on how this ordinance should be performed. Then He taught this great I. Jesus prayed for His followers: “I have principle: In the concluding days of His mor- given them thy word; and the world “There shall be no disputations tal ministry, Jesus gave His disciples hath hated them, because they are among you, as there have hitherto what He called “a new command- not of the world, even as I am not of been; neither shall there be dispu- ment” ( John 13:34). Repeated three the world” ( John 17:14). Then, to the tations among you concerning the times, that commandment was simple Father He pleaded, “I pray not that points of my doctrine, as there have but dif¦cult: “Love one another, as I thou shouldest take them out of the hitherto been. have loved you” ( John 15:12; see also world, but that thou shouldest keep “For verily, verily I say unto you, verse 17). The teaching to love one them from the evil” (verse 15). he that hath the spirit of contention is another had been a central teaching of We are to live in the world but not not of me, but is of the devil, who is the the Savior’s ministry. The second great be of the world. We must live in the father of contention, and he stirreth commandment was “love thy neigh- world because, as Jesus taught in a up the hearts of men to contend with bour as thyself” (Matthew 22:39). Jesus parable, His kingdom is “like leaven,” anger, one with another. even taught, “Love your enemies” whose function is to raise the whole “Behold, this is . . . my doctrine, (Matthew 5:44). But the command- mass by its in¥uence (see Luke 13:21; that such things should be done away” ment to love others as He had loved Matthew 13:33; see also 1 Corinthians (3 Nephi 11:28–30; emphasis added). His ock was to His disciples—and is to us—a challenge that was unique. “Actually,” President Thomas S. Monson taught us last April, “love is the very essence of the gospel, and Jesus Christ is our Exemplar. His life was a legacy of love.” 1 Why is it so dif¦cult to have Christlike love for one another? It is dif¦cult because we must live among those who do not share our beliefs and values and covenant obligations. In His great Intercessory Prayer, offered just before His Cruci¦xion,

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E14N24-45 Sat p.m. session.indd 25 10/14/14 4:16 PM The Savior did not limit His warn- cast us as combatants in the eternal in marriage at all. Some don’t believe ing against contention to those who contest between truth and error. There in having children. Some oppose were not keeping the commandment is no middle ground in that contest. any restrictions on pornography or about baptism. He forbade contention The Savior showed the way when dangerous drugs. Another example— by anyone. Even those who keep the His adversaries confronted Him with familiar to most believers—is the chal- commandments must not stir up the the woman who had been “taken lenge of living with a nonbelieving hearts of men to contend with anger. in adultery, in the very act” ( John spouse or family member or associat- The “father of contention” is the devil; 8:4). When shamed with their own ing with nonbelieving fellow workers. the Savior is the Prince of Peace. hypocrisy, the accusers withdrew and In dedicated spaces, like temples, Similarly, the Bible teaches that left Jesus alone with the woman. He houses of worship, and our own “wise men turn away wrath” (Proverbs treated her with kindness by declin- homes, we should teach the truth and 29:8). The early Apostles taught that ing to condemn her at that time. But the commandments plainly and thor- we should “follow after the things [that] He also ¦rmly directed her to “sin no oughly as we understand them from make for peace” (Romans 14:19) and more” ( John 8:11). Loving-kindness the plan of salvation revealed in the “[speak] the truth in love” (Ephesians is required, but a follower of Christ— restored gospel. Our right to do so is 4:15), “for the wrath of man worketh just like the Master—will be ¦rm in protected by constitutional guarantees not the righteousness of God” ( James the truth. of freedom of speech and religion, as 1:20). In modern revelation the Lord well as by the privacy that is honored commanded that the glad tidings of IV. even in countries without formal con- the restored gospel should be declared Like the Savior, His followers stitutional guarantees. “every man to his neighbor, in mildness are sometimes confronted by sinful In public, what religious persons and in meekness” (D&C 38:41), “with behavior, and today when they hold say and do involves other consider- all humility, . . . reviling not against out for right and wrong as they under- ations. The free exercise of religion revilers” (D&C 19:30). stand it, they are sometimes called covers most public actions, but it is “bigots” or “fanatics.” Many worldly subject to quali¦cations necessary to III. values and practices pose such chal- accommodate the beliefs and practices Even as we seek to be meek and to lenges to Latter-day Saints. Prominent of others. Laws can prohibit behavior avoid contention, we must not com- among these today is the strong tide that is generally recognized as wrong promise or dilute our commitment to that is legalizing same-sex marriage or unacceptable, like sexual exploi- the truths we understand. We must not in many states and provinces in the tation, violence, or terrorist behavior, surrender our positions or our values. United States and Canada and many even when done by extremists in The gospel of Jesus Christ and the other countries in the world. We also the name of religion. Less grievous covenants we have made inevitably live among some who don’t believe behaviors, even though unacceptable 26

E14N24-45 Sat p.m. session.indd 26 10/14/14 4:16 PM to some believers, may simply need including persecution based on race, and practices that deliberately in¥ict to be endured if legalized by what a ethnicity, religious belief or nonbelief, pain on others. All of these violate the Book of Mormon prophet called “the and differences in sexual orientation. Savior’s command to love one another. voice of the people” (Mosiah 29:26). The Savior taught that contention is On the subject of public discourse, V. a tool of the devil. That surely teaches we should all follow the gospel teach- I have spoken of general princi- against some of the current language ings to love our neighbor and avoid ples. Now I will speak of how those and practices of politics. Living with contention. Followers of Christ should principles should apply in a variety of policy differences is essential to pol- be examples of civility. We should familiar circumstances in which the itics, but policy differences need not love all people, be good listeners, and Savior’s teachings should be followed involve personal attacks that poison show concern for their sincere beliefs. more faithfully. the process of government and punish Though we may disagree, we should I begin with what our young participants. All of us should banish not be disagreeable. Our stands and children learn in their play activities. hateful communications and practice communications on controversial Too often non-Mormons here in Utah civility for differences of opinion. topics should not be contentious. We have been offended and alienated The most important setting to should be wise in explaining and pur- by some of our members who will forgo contention and practice respect suing our positions and in exercising not allow their children to be friends for differences is in our homes and our in¥uence. In doing so, we ask that with children of other faiths. Surely family relationships. Differences are others not be offended by our sincere we can teach our children values and inevitable—some minor and some religious beliefs and the free exercise standards of behavior without having major. As to major differences, sup- of our religion. We encourage all of them distance themselves or show pose a family member is in a cohab- us to practice the Savior’s Golden disrespect to any who are different. itation relationship. That brings two Rule: “Whatsoever ye would that men Many teachers in church and important values into con¥ict—our should do to you, do ye even so to school have grieved at the way some love for the family member and our them” (Matthew 7:12). teenagers, including LDS youth, treat commitment to the commandments. When our positions do not prevail, one another. The commandment to Following the Savior’s example, we we should accept unfavorable results love one another surely includes love can show loving-kindness and still be graciously and practice civility with and respect across religious lines and ¦rm in the truth by forgoing actions our adversaries. In any event, we also across racial, cultural, and eco- that facilitate or seem to condone should be persons of goodwill toward nomic lines. We challenge all youth what we know to be wrong. all, rejecting persecution of any kind, to avoid bullying, insults, or language I close with another example of a family relationship. At a stake confer- ence in the Midwest about 10 years ago, I met a sister who told me that her nonmember husband had been accompanying her to church for 12 years but had never joined the Church. What should she do? she asked. I counseled her to keep doing all the right things and to be patient and kind with her husband. About a month later she wrote me as follows: “Well, I thought that the 12 years was a good show of patience, but I didn’t know if I was being very kind about it. So, I practiced real hard for over a month, and he got baptized.”

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E14N24-45 Sat p.m. session.indd 27 10/14/14 4:16 PM Kindness is powerful, especially in By Elder Neil L. Andersen a family setting. Her letter continued, Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles “I am even trying to be kinder now because we are working on a temple sealing this year!” Six years later she wrote me another letter: “My husband was [just] Joseph Smith called and set apart as the bishop [of our ward].” 2 Jesus Christ chose a holy man, a righteous man, to lead the

VI. Restoration of the fulness of His gospel. He chose Joseph Smith. In so many relationships and cir- cumstances in life, we must live with differences. Where vital, our side of these differences should not be denied n his ¦rst visit to the Prophet The Lord told Joseph of his destiny: or abandoned, but as followers of Joseph Smith at age 17, an “The ends of the earth shall inquire Christ we should live peacefully with Oangel called Joseph by name after thy name, and fools shall have others who do not share our values or and told him that he, Moroni, was a thee in derision, and hell shall rage accept the teachings upon which they messenger sent from the presence against thee; are based. The Father’s plan of sal- of God and that God had a work for “While the pure in heart, . . . the vation, which we know by prophetic him to do. Imagine what Joseph must wise, . . . and the virtuous, shall seek revelation, places us in a mortal cir- have thought when the angel then . . . blessings constantly from under cumstance where we are to keep His told him that his name would “be had thy hand.” 7 commandments. That includes loving for good and evil among all nations, Why does the Lord allow the evil our neighbors of different cultures and kindreds, and tongues.” 1 Perhaps the speaking to chase after the good? One beliefs as He has loved us. As a Book shock in Joseph’s eyes caused Moroni reason is that opposition against the of Mormon prophet taught, we must to repeat again that both good and things of God sends seekers of truth to press forward, having “a love of God evil would be spoken of him among their knees for answers.8 and of all men” (2 Nephi 31:20). all people.2 Joseph Smith is the prophet of the As dif¦cult as it is to live in the The good spoken of Joseph Smith Restoration. His spiritual work began turmoil surrounding us, our Savior’s came slowly; the evil speaking began with the appearance of the Father and command to love one another as immediately. Joseph wrote, “How very the Son, followed by numerous heav- He loves us is probably our greatest strange it was that an obscure boy . . . enly visitations. He was the instru- challenge. I pray that we may under- should be thought . . . of suf¦cient ment in God’s hands in bringing forth stand this and seek to live it in all of importance to attract . . . the most sacred scripture, lost doctrine, and our relationships and activities, in the bitter persecution.” 3 the restoration of the priesthood. The name of Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ While love for Joseph grew, so also importance of Joseph’s work requires NOTES did hostility. At the age of 38, he was more than intellectual consideration; 1. Thomas S. Monson, “Love—the Essence murdered by a mob of 150 men with it requires that we, like Joseph, “ask of the Gospel,” Ensign or Liahona, painted faces.4 While the Prophet’s of God.” 9 Spiritual questions deserve May 2014, 91. 2. Letters to Dallin H. Oaks, Jan. 23, 2006, life abruptly ended, the good and evil spiritual answers from God. and Oct. 30, 2012. spoken of Joseph was just beginning. Many of those who dismiss the work Should we be surprised with the of the Restoration simply do not believe evil spoken against him? The Apostle that heavenly beings speak to men on Shareable Video and Quote Paul was called mad and deranged.5 earth. Impossible, they say, that golden Scan this QR code or visit lds.org/go/ Our Beloved Savior, the Son of God, plates were delivered by an angel Oct14Conf5 to watch this talk or to nd a shareable video highlight and was labeled gluttonous, a winebibber, and translated by the power of God. picture quote. and possessed of a devil.6 From that disbelief, they quickly reject 28

E14N24-45 Sat p.m. session.indd 28 10/14/14 4:16 PM while awaiting a taxi to take me to the airport after our meetings were over, I stretched out on the lawn to soak in a few welcome rays of sunshine before returning to the winter weather of Utah. . . . Later I received a photograph in the mail taken by a photographer with a telephoto lens, capturing my moment of relaxation on the lawn. Under it was a caption, ‘Governmental consultant at the National Center.’ The picture was true, the caption was true, but the truth was used to promote a false impres- Joseph’s testimony, and a few unfortu- testify before God, angels, and men, sion.” 17 We do not discard something nately sink to discrediting the Prophet’s that [ Joseph] was a good, honorable, we know to be true because of some- life and slandering his character. [and] virtuous man— . . . [and] that thing we do not yet understand. We are especially saddened when his private and public character was We might remind the inquirer someone who once revered Joseph unimpeachable—and that he lived that Joseph was not alone in the visit retreats from his or her conviction and and died as a man of God.” 13 of angels. then maligns the Prophet.10 We might remind the sincere The Book of Mormon witnesses “Studying the Church . . . through inquirer that Internet information does wrote, “We declare with words of the eyes of its defectors,” Elder Neal A. not have a “truth” ¦lter. Some infor- soberness, that an angel of God came Maxwell once said, is “like interviewing mation, no matter how convincing, is down from heaven, and . . . we beheld Judas to understand Jesus. Defectors simply not true. and saw the plates.” 18 We could quote always tell us more about themselves Years ago I read a Time magazine many others as well.19 than about that from which they have article that reported the discovery of A sincere inquirer should see the departed.” 11 a letter, supposedly written by Martin spreading of the restored gospel as Jesus said, “Bless them that curse Harris, that con¥icted with Joseph the fruit of the Lord’s work through you, . . . and pray for them which Smith’s account of ¦nding the Book the Prophet. despitefully use you, and persecute of Mormon plates.14 There are now more than 29,000 you.” 12 Let us offer kindness to those A few members left the Church congregations and 88,000 missionaries who criticize Joseph Smith, knowing in because of the document.15 teaching the gospel across the world. our own hearts that he was a prophet Sadly, they left too quickly. Months Millions of Latter-day Saints are seeking of God and taking comfort that all this later experts discovered (and the to follow Jesus Christ, live honorable was long ago foretold by Moroni. forger confessed) that the letter was a lives, care for the poor, and give of How should we respond to a sin- complete deception.16 You may under- their time and talents in helping others. cere inquirer who is concerned about standably question what you hear on Jesus said: negative comments he or she has the news, but you need never doubt “A good tree cannot bring forth evil heard or read about the Prophet Joseph the testimony of God’s prophets. fruit, neither can a corrupt tree bring Smith? Of course, we always welcome We might remind the inquirer that forth good fruit. . . . honest and genuine questions. some information about Joseph, while “. . . By their fruits ye shall know To questions about Joseph’s char- true, may be presented completely out them.” 20 acter, we might share the words of of context to his own day and situation. These explanations are convincing, thousands who knew him personally Elder Russell M. Nelson illustrated but the sincere inquirer should not and who gave their lives for the work this point. He said: “I was serving as a rely on them exclusively to settle his he helped establish. John Taylor, who consultant to the United States govern- or her search for truth. was shot four times by the mob that ment at its National Center for Disease Each believer needs a spiritual killed Joseph, would later declare: “I Control in Atlanta, Georgia. Once con¦rmation of the divine mission and

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E14N24-45 Sat p.m. session.indd 29 10/14/14 4:16 PM be family members and friends who help ful¦ll Moroni’s prophetic words will need your help. Now is the time to to speak good of the Prophet. Here adjust your own spiritual oxygen mask are two ideas: First, ¦nd scriptures in so that you are prepared to help others the Book of Mormon that you feel who are seeking the truth.21 and know are absolutely true. Then A testimony of the Prophet Joseph share them with family and friends Smith can come differently to each in family home evening, seminary, Adjust your own spiritual oxygen of us. It may come as you kneel in and your Young Men and Young mask so that you are prepared to help prayer, asking God to con¦rm that he Women classes, acknowledging that others who are seeking the truth. was a true prophet. It may come as Joseph was an instrument in God’s you read the Prophet’s account of the hands. Next, read the testimony of character of the Prophet Joseph Smith. First Vision. A testimony may distill the Prophet Joseph Smith in the Pearl This is true for every generation. upon your soul as you read the Book of Great Price or in this pamphlet, Spiritual questions deserve spiritual of Mormon again and again. It may now in 158 languages. You can ¦nd it answers from God. come as you bear your own testimony online at LDS.org or with the mission- Recently while I was on the East of the Prophet or as you stand in aries. This is Joseph’s own testimony Coast of the United States, a returned the temple and realize that through of what actually occurred. Read it missionary spoke to me about a friend Joseph Smith the holy sealing power often. Consider recording the testi- who had become disillusioned with was restored to the earth.22 With faith mony of Joseph Smith in your own information he had received about the and real intent, your testimony of the voice, listening to it regularly, and Prophet Joseph Smith. They had spo- Prophet Joseph Smith will strengthen. sharing it with friends. Listening to the ken several times, and the returned mis- The constant water balloon volleys Prophet’s testimony in your own voice sionary seemed to have some doubts from the sidelines may occasionally will help bring the witness you seek. himself as a result of the discussions. get you wet, but they need never, There are great and wonderful days Although I hoped he could never extinguish your burning ¦re ahead. President Thomas S. Monson strengthen his friend, I felt concerned of faith. has said: “This great cause . . . will for his own testimony. Brothers and To the youth listening today or continue to go forth, changing and sisters, let me give you a caution: you reading these words in the days blessing lives. . . . No force in the won’t be of much help to others if ahead, I give a speci¦c challenge: entire world can stop the work of your own faith is not securely in place. Gain a personal witness of the God. Despite what comes, this great A few weeks ago I boarded a plane Prophet Joseph Smith. Let your voice cause will go forward.” 23 for South America. The ¥ight attendant directed our attention to a safety video. The Testimony of the Prophet Joseph Smith is now in 158 languages. “It is unlikely,” we were warned, “but if cabin pressure changes, the panels above your seat will open, revealing oxygen masks. If this happens, reach up and pull a mask toward you. Place the mask over your nose and mouth. Slip the elastic strap over your head and adjust the mask if necessary.” Then this caution: “Be sure to adjust your own mask before helping others.” The negative commentary about the Prophet Joseph Smith will increase as we move toward the Second Coming of the Savior. The half-truths and subtle deceptions will not diminish. There will 30

E14N24-45 Sat p.m. session.indd 30 10/14/14 4:16 PM I give you my witness that Jesus is the Christ, our Savior and Redeemer. He chose a holy man, a righteous man, to lead the Restoration of the fulness of His gospel. He chose Joseph Smith. I testify that Joseph Smith was an honest and virtuous man, a disciple of the Lord Jesus Christ. God the Father and His Son, Jesus Christ, did appear to him. He did translate the Book of Mormon by the gift and power of God. he was arrested, turned in his favor on 21. President Henry B. Eyring, in speaking In our society beyond the veil of [knowing him better]. . . . about those with doubts, said: “In your “. . . Brother Behunin remarked: ‘If I love for them you may decide to try to give death, we will clearly understand the should leave this Church I would not do them what they ask. You may be tempted sacred calling and divine mission of as those men have done: I would go to to go with them through their doubts, the Prophet Joseph Smith. In that some remote place where Mormonism had with the hope that you can ¥nd proof or never been heard of, settle down, and no reasoning to dispel their doubts. Persons not-too-distant day, you and I and one would ever learn that I knew anything with doubts often want to talk about what “millions [more] shall know ‘Brother about it.’ they think are the facts or the arguments Joseph’ again.” 24 In the name of Jesus “[ Joseph] immediately replied: ‘Brother that have caused their doubts, and about Christ, amen. ◼ Behunin, you don’t know what you would how much it hurts. . . . do. No doubt these men once thought as “You and I can do better if we do not NOTES you do. Before you joined this Church stay long with what our students see as the 1. Joseph Smith—History 1:33. you stood on neutral ground. . . . When source of their doubts. . . . Their problem 2. See Joseph Smith—History 1:29–46. you joined this Church you enlisted to does not lie in what they think they see; it 3. Joseph Smith—History 1:23. serve God. When you did that you left lies in what they cannot yet see. . . . We do 4. See Doctrine and Covenants 135:1. the neutral ground, and you never can best if we turn the conversation soon to the 5. See Acts 26:24. get back on to it. Should you forsake the things of the heart, those changes of the 6. See Matthew 11:19; John 10:20. Master you enlisted to serve, it will be by heart that open spiritual eyes” (“‘And Thus 7. Doctrine and Covenants 122:1–2. the instigation of the evil one, and you will We See’: Helping a Student in a Moment 8. President Dieter F. Uchtdorf said: “First follow his dictation and be his servant’” of Doubt” [address to Church Educational doubt your doubts before you doubt your (in Teachings of Presidents of the Church: System religious educators, Feb. 5, 1993], 3, faith. We must never allow doubt to hold Joseph Smith [2007], 324). 4; si. lds. org). us prisoner and keep us from the divine 11. Neal A. Maxwell, “All Hell Is Moved” 22. President Gordon B. Hinckley said: “Many love, peace, and gifts that come through (Brigham Young University devotional, years ago when at the age of twelve I was faith in the Lord Jesus Christ” (“Come, Nov. 8, 1977), 3; speeches. byu. edu. ordained a deacon, my father, who was Join with Us,” Ensign or Liahona, Nov. 12. Matthew 5:44. president of our stake, took me to my ¥rst 2013, 23). Elder Jeffrey R. Holland said: 13. Teachings of Presidents of the Church: stake priesthood meeting. . . . [The opening “This is a divine work in process, with John Taylor (2001), 83; see also Doctrine hymn was “Praise to the Man.”] They were the manifestations and blessings of it and Covenants 135:3. singing of the Prophet Joseph Smith, and as abounding in every direction, so please 14. See Richard N. Ostling, “Challenging they did so there came into my heart a great don’t hyperventilate if from time to time Mormonism’s Roots,” Time, May 20, 1985, surge of love for and belief in the mighty issues arise that need to be examined, 44. Prophet of this dispensation. . . . I knew understood, and resolved. They do and 15. See Ostling, “Challenging Mormonism’s then, by the power of the Holy Ghost, that they will. In this Church, what we know Roots,” 44; see also Gordon B. Hinckley, Joseph Smith was indeed a prophet of God” will always trump what we do not know ” “Lord, Increase Our Faith,” Ensign, Nov. (“Praise to the Man,” Ensign, Aug. 1983, 2; (“Lord, I Believe,” Ensign or Liahona, May 1987, 52; Neil L. Andersen, “Trial of Your Tambuli, Jan. 1984, 1, 2). 2013, 94). Faith,” Ensign or Liahona, Nov. 2012, 41. 23. Thomas S. Monson, “As We Gather Once 9. James 1:5; see also Joseph Smith—History 16. See Richard E. Turley Jr., Victims: The Again,” Ensign or Liahona, May 2012, 4. 1:11–13. LDS Church and the Mark Hofmann Case 24. “Praise to the Man,” Hymns, no. 27. 10. Daniel Tyler recalled: “Brother Isaac (1992). Behunin and myself [visited the Prophet] 17. Russell M. Nelson, “Truth—and More,” at his residence. His persecutions were Ensign, Jan. 1986, 71. the topic of conversation. He repeated 18. “The Testimony of Three Witnesses,” Book Shareable Video and Quote many false, inconsistent and contradictory of Mormon. Scan this QR code or visit lds.org/go/ statements made by apostates. . . . He also 19. See Joseph Smith—History 1:71, note; see Oct14Conf6 to watch this talk or to told how most of the of¥cials who would also Doctrine and Covenants 76:23. nd a shareable video highlight and . . . have [willingly] taken his life, when 20. Matthew 7:18, 20. picture quote.

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E14N24-45 Sat p.m. session.indd 31 10/14/14 4:16 PM By Tad R. Callister life except when required to do so at Sunday School General President school. They protested, they com- plained, they argued, but it was to no avail. Then Ben re¥ected, “She laid down the law. I didn’t like the rule, but her determination to see us improve Parents: The Prime changed the course of my life.” And what a change it made. By the seventh grade he was at the top of Gospel Teachers his class. He went on to attend Yale University on a scholarship, then Johns Hopkins medical school, where at age 33 he became its chief of Their Children of pediatric neurosurgery and a world-renowned surgeon. How was When all is said and done, the home is the ideal forum for that possible? Largely because of a teaching the gospel of Jesus Christ. mother who, without many of the advantages of life, magni¦ed her calling as a parent.1 The scriptures speak of the role of parents—that it is their duty to teach en Carson said of himself, “I was One day a turning point came in her their children “the doctrine of repen- the worst student in my whole life and that of her sons. It dawned on tance, faith in Christ the Son of the B¦fth-grade class.” One day Ben her that successful people for whom living God, and of baptism and the took a math test with 30 problems. she cleaned homes had libraries—they gift of the Holy Ghost” (D&C 68:25). The student behind him corrected it read. After work she went home and As parents, we are to be the prime and handed it back. The teacher, Mrs. turned off the television that Ben and gospel teachers and examples for Williamson, started calling each stu- his brother were watching. She said in our children—not the bishop, the dent’s name for the score. Finally, she essence: You boys are watching too Sunday School, the Young Women got to Ben. Out of embarrassment, he much television. From now on you or Young Men, but the parents. As mumbled the answer. Mrs. Williamson, can watch three programs a week. their prime gospel teachers, we can thinking he had said “9,” replied that In your free time you will go to the teach them the power and reality of for Ben to score 9 out of 30 was a library—read two books a week and the Atonement—of their identity and wonderful improvement. The student give me a report. divine destiny—and in so doing give behind Ben then yelled out, “Not nine! The boys were shocked. Ben said them a rock foundation upon which . . . He got none . . . right.” Ben said he had never read a book in his entire to build. When all is said and done, he wanted to drop through the ¥oor. At the same time, Ben’s mother, Sonya, faced obstacles of her own. She was one of 24 children, had only a third-grade education, and could not read. She was married at age 13, was divorced, had two sons, and was raising them in the ghettos of Detroit. Nonetheless, she was ¦ercely self- reliant and had a ¦rm belief that God would help her and her sons if they did their part. 32

E14N24-45 Sat p.m. session.indd 32 10/14/14 4:16 PM the home is the ideal forum for teach- ing the gospel of Jesus Christ. About a year ago I was on assign- ment in Beirut, Lebanon. While there, I learned about a 12-year-old girl, Sarah. Her parents and two older siblings had converted to the Church in Romania but were then required to return to their homeland when Sarah was just 7 years of age. In their home- land there was no Church presence, no organized units, no Sunday School or Young Women program. After ¦ve years this family learned of a branch in Beirut and, just before I arrived, sent their 12-year-old daughter, Sarah, took me to visit the elderly—how most important decision you will accompanied by older siblings, to be we would stop by to pick up ice ever make.” Those words sunk deep baptized. While there, I gave a devo- cream for one or a chicken dinner for into my heart, and so for the next six tional on the plan of salvation. With another or his ¦nal handshake with years, I prayed that God would help some frequency Sarah raised her hand some money enclosed. I remember me ¦nd a good wife. And, oh, how He and answered the questions. the good feeling and the desire to be answered that prayer. After the meeting, and knowing like him. As parents, we can teach our of her almost nonexistent Church I remember my mother, age 90 children to pray for things of eternal exposure, I approached her and or so, cooking in her condominium consequence—to pray for the strength asked, “Sarah, how did you know kitchen and then exiting with a tray to be morally clean in a very challeng- the answers to those questions?” She of food. I asked her where she was ing world, to be obedient, and to have immediately replied, “My mother going. She replied, “Oh, I am taking the courage to stand for the right. taught me.” They did not have the some food to the elderly.” I thought to No doubt most of our youth have Church in their community, but they myself, “Mother, you are the elderly.” their evening prayers, but perhaps did have the gospel in their home. Her I can never express enough gratitude many of them struggle with the habit mother was her prime gospel teacher. for my parents, who were my prime of personal morning prayer. As par- It was Enos who said, “The words gospel teachers. ents, as their prime gospel teachers, which I had often heard my father One of the most meaningful things we can correct this. Which parent in speak concerning eternal life, and the we can do as parents is teach our Book of Mormon times would have joy of the saints, sunk deep into my children the power of prayer, not just let their sons march out to the front heart” (Enos 1:3). There is no question the routine of prayer. When I was of battle without a breastplate and who Enos’s prime gospel teacher was. about 17 years of age, I was kneeling shield and sword to protect them I remember my father stretched out by my bed, saying my evening prayers. against the potentially mortal blows by the ¦replace, reading the scriptures Unbeknown to me, my mother was of the enemy? But how many of us let and other good books, and I would standing in the doorway. When I our children march out the front door stretch out by his side. I remember ¦nished, she said, “Tad, are you asking each morning to the most dangerous the cards he would keep in his shirt the Lord to help you ¦nd a good wife?” of all battle¦elds, to face Satan and his pocket with quotes of the scriptures Her question caught me totally myriad of temptations, without their and Shakespeare and new words off guard. That was the furthest thing spiritual breastplate and shield and that he would memorize and learn. from my mind. I was thinking about sword that come from the protective I remember the gospel questions basketball and school. And so, I power of prayer? The Lord said, “Pray and discussions at the dinner table. I replied, “No,” to which she responded, always, . . . that you may conquer remember the many times my father “Well, you should, Son; it will be the Satan” (D&C 10:5). As parents, we can

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E14N24-45 Sat p.m. session.indd 33 10/14/14 4:16 PM help instill within our children the By Elder Jörg Klebingat habit and power of morning prayer. Of the Seventy We can also teach our children to use their time wisely. On occasion, like Sonya Carson, we will need to put our foot lovingly but ¦rmly down to restrict our children’s time with television and Approaching other electronic devices that in many cases are monopolizing their lives. Instead we may need to redirect their the Throne of God time into more productive gospel- oriented efforts. There may be some initial resistance, some complaining, but like Sonya Carson, we need to have with Con dence the vision and the will to stick with it. One day our children will understand By applying the Atonement of Jesus Christ, you can begin and appreciate what we have done. If increasing your spiritual condence today if you are willing we do not do this, who will? We might all ask ourselves: do our to listen and act. children receive our best spiritual, intellectual, and creative efforts, or do they receive our leftover time and talents, after we have given our all n a scale of 1 to 10, how of tender mercies and even mighty to our Church calling or professional would you rate your spiritual miracles—goes hand in hand with a pursuits? In the life to come, I do not Ocon¦dence before God? Do personal con¦dence that you are striv- know if titles such as bishop or Relief you have a personal witness that your ing to choose the right. For that reason Society president will survive, but I do current offering as a Latter-day Saint he will seek access to your heart know that the titles of husband and is suf¦cient to inherit eternal life? Can to tell you lies—lies that Heavenly wife, father and mother, will continue you say within yourself that Heavenly Father is disappointed in you, that the and be revered, worlds without end. Father is pleased with you? What Atonement is beyond your reach, that That is one reason it is so important to thoughts come to mind if you had a there is no point in even trying, that honor our responsibilities as parents personal interview with your Savior everyone else is better than you, that here on earth so we can prepare for one minute from now? Would sins, you are unworthy, and a thousand those even greater, but similar, respon- regrets, and shortcomings dominate variations of that same evil theme. sibilities in the life to come. your self-image, or would you simply As long as you allow these voices As parents, we can proceed with experience joyful anticipation? Would to chisel away at your soul, you can’t the assurance God will never leave us you meet or avoid His gaze? Would approach the throne of God with real alone. God never gives us a responsi- you linger by the door or con¦dently con¦dence. Whatever you do, what- bility without offering divine aid—of walk up to Him? ever you pray for, whatever hopes that I can testify. May we in our divine Whenever the adversary cannot for a miracle you may have, there role as parents, and in partnership persuade imperfect yet striving Saints will always be just enough self-doubt with God, become the prime gospel such as you to abandon your belief chipping away at your faith—not only teachers and examples for our chil- in a personal and loving God, he your faith in God but also your con- dren, I so pray in the name of Jesus employs a vicious campaign to put as ¦dence in yourself. Living the gospel Christ, amen. ◼ much distance as possible between in this manner is no fun, nor is it very you and God. The adversary knows healthy. Above all, it is completely NOTE 1. See Ben Carson, Gifted Hands: The Ben that faith in Christ—the kind of unnecessary! The decision to change Carson Story (1990). faith that produces a steady stream is yours—and yours alone. 34

E14N24-45 Sat p.m. session.indd 34 10/14/14 4:16 PM I would like to share six practi- for your own spiritual well-being by and especially how much you eat, and cal suggestions that, if heeded, will applying the Atonement of Jesus Christ regularly give your body the exer- dissipate these evil voices and restore daily. cise it needs and deserves. If you are to you the kind of peaceful assurance 2. Take responsibility for your physically able, decide today to be the and spiritual con¦dence that is yours own physical well-being. Your soul master of your own house and begin to have if you only want it. Regardless consists of your body and spirit a regular, long-term exercise program, of the rating you gave yourself on (see D&C 88:15). Feeding the spirit suited to your abilities, combined with that 1-to-10 scale, by applying the while neglecting the body, which is a a healthier diet. Spiritual condence Atonement of Jesus Christ, you can temple, usually leads to spiritual disso- increases when your spirit, with the begin increasing your spiritual con¦- nance and lowered self-esteem. If you help of the Savior, is truly in charge of dence today if you are willing to listen are out of shape, if you are uncom- your natural man or woman. and act. I will speak boldly, hoping to fortable in your own body and can do 3. Embrace voluntary, whole- edify and not to offend. something about it, then do it! Elder hearted obedience as part of your life. 1. Take responsibility for your own Russell M. Nelson has taught that we Acknowledge that you cannot love spiritual well-being. Stop blaming should “regard our body as a temple God without also loving His com- others or your circumstances, stop of our very own” and that we should mandments. The Savior’s standard is justifying, and stop making excuses “control our diet and exercise for clear and simple: “If ye love me, keep for why you may not be fully striving physical ¦tness” (“We Are Children of my commandments” ( John 14:15). to be obedient. Accept that you are God,” Ensign, Nov. 1998, 87; Liahona, Selective obedience brings selective “free according to the ¥esh” and “free Jan. 1999, 103). blessings, and choosing something bad to choose liberty and eternal life” President Boyd K. Packer has taught over something worse is still choosing (2 Nephi 2:27). The Lord knows your “that our spirit and our body are wrong. You can’t watch a bad movie circumstances perfectly, but He also combined in such a way that our body and expect to feel virtuous because knows perfectly well whether you becomes an instrument of our mind you did not watch a very bad one. simply choose not to fully live the and the foundation of our character” Faithful observance of some command- gospel. If that is the case, be honest (“The Instrument of Your Mind and the ments doesn’t justify neglecting others. enough to admit it, and strive to be Foundation of Your Character” [Church Abraham Lincoln rightly said, “When I perfect within your own sphere of Educational System ¦reside, Feb. 2, do good I feel good, when I do bad I circumstances. Spiritual condence 2003], 2; speeches.byu. edu). Therefore, feel bad” (in William H. Herndon and increases when you take responsibility please use good judgment in what Jesse William Weik, Herndon’s Lincoln:

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E14N24-45 Sat p.m. session.indd 35 10/14/14 4:16 PM consequences follow. Spiritual con- dence increases when you voluntarily and joyfully repent of sins, both small and great, in real time by applying the Atonement of Jesus Christ. 5. Become really, really good at for- giving. “I, the Lord, will forgive whom I will forgive, but of you it is required to forgive all men” (D&C 64:10). Forgive everyone, everything, all the time, or at least strive to do so, thus allowing forgiveness into your own life. Don’t hold grudges, don’t be easily offended, forgive and forget quickly, and don’t ever think that you are exempt from this commandment. Spiritual con- dence increases when you know that the Lord knows that you bear no ill feelings toward another soul. 6. Accept trials, setbacks, and “surprises” as part of your mortal experience. Remember that you are here to be proved and tested, “to see if [you] will do all things whatsoever the Lord [your] God shall command [you]” (Abraham 3:25)—and may I The True Story of a Great Life, 3 vols. live accordingly (see Joshua 24:15). just add, “under all circumstances.” [1889], 3:439). Spiritual condence increases when Millions of your brothers and sisters Also, do the right things for you are truly striving, for the right rea- have been or are being thus tested, the right reasons. The Lord, who sons, to live a consecrated life in spite so why would you be exempt? Some “requireth the heart and a willing of your imperfections! trials come through your own dis- mind” (D&C 64:34) and who “is a 4. Become really, really good at obedience or negligence. Other trials discerner of the thoughts and intents repenting thoroughly and quickly. come because of the negligence of of the heart” (D&C 33:1), knows why Because the Atonement of Jesus Christ others or simply because this is a you go to church—whether you are is very practical, you should apply fallen world. When these trials come, present in body only or truly wor- it generously 24/7, for it never runs the adversary’s minions begin broad- shipping. You can’t sing on Sunday, out. Embrace the Atonement of Jesus casting that you did something wrong, “O Babylon, O Babylon, [I] bid thee Christ and repentance as things that that this is a punishment, a sign that farewell” and then seek or tolerate its are to be welcomed and applied daily Heavenly Father does not love you. company again moments later (“Ye according to the Great Physician’s Ignore that! Instead, try to force a Elders of Israel,” Hymns, no. 319). orders. Establish an attitude of on- smile, gaze heavenward, and say, “I Remember that casualness in spiritual going, happy, joyful repentance by understand, Lord. I know what this is. matters never was happiness. Make making it your lifestyle of choice. In A time to prove myself, isn’t it?” Then the Church and the restored gospel doing so, beware of the temptation partner with Him to endure well to your whole life, not just a part of to procrastinate, and don’t expect the the end. Spiritual con¦dence increases your outward or social life. Choosing world to cheer you on. Keeping your when you accept that “often trials and this day whom you will serve is eyes on the Savior, care more about tribulations are allowed to come into lip service only—until you actually what He thinks of you, and let the [your life] because of what [you] are 36

E14N24-45 Sat p.m. session.indd 36 10/14/14 4:16 PM doing right” (Glenn L. Pace, “Crying By Elder Eduardo Gavarret with the Saints” [Brigham Young Of the Seventy University devotional, Dec. 13, 1987], 2; speeches.byu. edu). While presiding over the Ukraine Kyiv Mission, I once asked one of my most faithful sisters why she was Yes, Lord, I Will always so hard on herself, why she was always beating herself up over the smallest things. Her answer was a Follow Thee classic example of someone listening to the wrong voice as she replied, “So no one can beat me to it.” The Lord invites us using various verbs: “Come unto me,” “Follow Brothers and sisters, my counsel me,” “Walk with me.” In each case it is an invitation to act. to this sister missionary is my counsel to you: acknowledge and face your weaknesses, but don’t be immobilized by them, because some of them will or behold, the Lord doth grant in the group that had followed the be your companions until you depart “ unto all nations, of their own wrong voice. “It sounded so much this earth life. No matter what your nation and tongue, to teach his like the right one,” I said to myself. F 1 current status, the very moment you word.” Today this scripture is ful¦lled That experience of 39 years ago voluntarily choose honest, joyful, daily once more as I have been given the had a lasting effect on me. I told repentance by striving to simply do opportunity to express my feelings in myself, “Never, ever again follow the and be your very best, the Savior’s my native tongue. wrong voice.” Then I told myself, “Yes, Atonement envelops and follows you, It was the year 1975, and I was Lord, I will follow Thee.” as it were, wherever you go. Living serving in the Uruguay-Paraguay I want to relate this experience with in this manner, you can truly “always Mission as a young missionary. During the Savior’s tender invitation to us: retain a remission of your sins” my ¦rst month in the mission, the zone “I am the good shepherd, and (Mosiah 4:12) every hour of every leaders held an activity to demonstrate know my sheep. . . . day, every second of every minute, a gospel principle. Each missionary “My sheep hear my voice, and I and thus be fully clean and acceptable in the zone was blindfolded, and we know them, and they follow me.” 2 before God all the time. were told that we were to follow a path The invitation to “follow Him” is the Yours is the privilege, if you want leading to the cultural hall. We were most simple, direct, and powerful invi- it, to come to know for yourself, today to follow the voice of one particular tation we can receive. It comes from a or soon, that you are pleasing God in leader, a voice we heard before starting clear voice that cannot be confused. spite of your shortcomings. I testify of to walk. However, we were warned The Lord invites us using various a loving Savior who expects us to live that during the journey, we would hear verbs: “Come unto me,” “Follow me,” the commandments. I testify of a lov- several voices that would try to confuse “Walk with me.” In each case it is not a ing Savior who is so very anxious to us and get us to stray from the path. passive invitation; it is an invitation to bestow His grace and mercy. I testify After some minutes of hearing act. It is addressed to all mankind by of a loving Savior who rejoices when noises, talking, and—in the midst the one who is the Prophet of proph- we apply His Atonement daily with of it all—a voice that said, “Follow ets, the Teacher of teachers, the Son of the calm and happy assurance that we me,” I felt con¦dent I was following God, the Messiah. are facing in the right direction. I tes- the right voice. When we arrived at tify of a loving Savior who is anxious the cultural hall of the chapel, we The Invitation to “Come unto Me” for your “con¦dence [to] wax strong in were asked to take off our blind- “Come unto me, all ye that labour the presence of God” (D&C 121:45). In folds. When I did so, I realized that and are heavy laden, and I will give the name of Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ there were two groups and that I was you rest.” 3

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E14N24-45 Sat p.m. session.indd 37 10/14/14 4:16 PM “Come, . . . follow me.” 8 However, even though the invitation was simple, it was not without sacri¦ce. It required effort—coupled with deci- sion and action. The prophet Nephi invited self- re¥ection when he questioned: “And [ Jesus] said unto the children of men: Follow thou me. Wherefore, my beloved brethren, can we follow Jesus save we shall be willing to keep the commandments of the Father?” 9 The invitation to “come unto me,” to listen to His voice, and to follow it has been the message of missionaries from the beginning, helping many to change their lives for good. You who are not yet members of no more coffee with milk for me. Just Fifty years ago the missionaries the Church will receive this invitation milk.” That response was the visible entered my father’s watchmaker through the voice of the missionaries manifestation of her desire to accept shop to leave a watch to be repaired. with the words, “Will you read the the invitation to follow Christ, as As good missionaries do, they took Book of Mormon? Will you pray? Will extended by the missionaries. advantage of the opportunity to you attend church? Will you follow Both Carlos Badiola and Norma speak with my father and mother the example of Jesus Christ and be were baptized. Later on, following about the gospel. My father accepted baptized by those who have author- Norma’s example, her mother, father, the missionaries, and my mother ity?” 4 How will you answer this invita- and siblings were also baptized. accepted the message and invitation tion today? 5 Norma and I grew up together in that to follow Christ. From that day to I invite you to listen to and accept little but powerful branch. Later on, this, she has remained active in the the message by saying, “Yes, Lord, I when I returned from serving a mis- Church. She said, “Yes, Lord, I will will follow Thee!” sion, we were married. I always knew follow Thee!” Carlos Badiola and his family, of that it would be easier to follow the As you strive to come to Him, you Minas, Uruguay, were meeting with the Savior with her by my side. will gain the power to relieve life’s missionaries. Since the elders asked One who is a member of the burdens, whether physical or spiri- a lot of questions during the lessons, Church and has accepted this invi- tual, and experience a positive inner they decided to invite a nonmember tation renews the commitment each change that will help you be happier. neighbor—a beautiful 14-year-old week by partaking of the sacrament.6 girl named Norma—to help them Part of that commitment includes The Invitation to “Walk with Me” answer. Norma was a dedicated high keeping the commandments; by doing Enoch was called to preach the school student who was studying the so you are saying, “Yes, Lord, I will gospel to a dif¦cult, hard-hearted Bible at school that year, so when the follow Thee!” 7 people. He did not feel quali¦ed. He missionaries asked a question, Norma had doubts about whether he could answered. She was a “golden investi- The Invitation to “Follow Me” do it. The Lord calmed his doubts and gator.” The lesson taught that day was “Follow me” was the Lord’s invita- strengthened his faith through the about the Word of Wisdom. tion to the rich young ruler. The rich invitation “Walk with me”—an invita- When she returned home after the man had kept the commandments tion that, like a blind man’s cane or a lesson with the missionaries, Norma throughout his life. When he asked friend’s arm, can guide the footsteps knew what she had to do. She said what more he could do, he received of one whose step is not sure. By to her mother, “Mom, from now on, an answer with a clear invitation: taking the Savior’s arm and walking 38

E14N24-45 Sat p.m. session.indd 38 10/14/14 4:16 PM with Him, Enoch found that his step “Yes, Lord, I will follow Thee!”—and 5. Persevere in the decision you have became ¦rm and he became a great walk with Him. made by exercising these principles missionary and a prophet.10 “Come unto me,” “Follow me,” daily.19 The decision to “come unto me” and “Walk with me” are invitations and “follow me” is personal. When containing inherent power—for those May the words of our beloved we accept this invitation, our level of who accept them—to transform your prophet, President Thomas S. Monson, commitment is raised, and it is then life and generate a change within you motivate us to action in our desire to that we can “walk with Him.” This that will lead you to say, “[I] have no accept the Savior’s invitation. President level establishes a closer relation- more disposition to do evil, but to do Monson said: “Who is the King of glory, ship with the Savior—the fruit of our good continually.” 13 this Lord of hosts? He is our Master. accepting the ¦rst invitation. As an outward manifestation of that He is our Savior. He is the Son of God. Norma and I individually accepted change, you will feel the strong desire He is the Author of our Salvation. He the invitation to “come unto me” and to “succor the weak, lift up the hands beckons, ‘Follow me.’ He instructs, ‘Go, to “follow me.” Then, together, sup- which hang down, and strengthen the and do thou likewise.’ He pleads, ‘Keep porting each other, we have learned to feeble knees.” 14 my commandments.’” 20 walk with Him. What steps can we take today to May we make the decision today The effort and the determination “walk with Him”? to increase our level of worship and to seek Him and to follow Him commitment to God, and may our will be rewarded with the blessings 1. Feed the desire to be a better fol- response to His invitation be heard we need. lower of Christ.15 loud and clear: “Yes, Lord, I will follow Such was the case of the woman 2. Pray for this desire that your faith in Thee!” 21 In the sacred name of the who, with great effort, managed to Him may grow.16 Lord Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ touch the Savior’s garment 11 or of 3. Obtain knowledge from the scrip- This address was delivered in Spanish. Bartimaeus the blind man, whose tures, lighting the way and strength- determination was a key factor in the ening your desire to change.17 NOTES 12 1. Alma 29:8. miracle that happened in his life. In 4. Make the decision today to act and 2. John 10:14, 27. both cases a healing of body and spirit say, “Yes, Lord, I will follow Thee!” 3. Matthew 11:28; see also Isaiah 55:3. was granted. Simply knowing the truth will not 4. See Preach My Gospel: A Guide to Missionary Service (2004), 31, 195–202. Reach out your hand, touch His change your world unless you turn 5. See Acts 2:37–38. garment, accept His invitation, say, knowledge into action.18 6. See Doctrine and Covenants 20:37, 77–79. 7. See Doctrine and Covenants 42:29. 8. Mark 10:21. 9. 2 Nephi 31:10. 10. See Moses 6:33–35. 11. See Luke 8:43–48. 12. See Mark 10:46–52. 13. Mosiah 5:2. 14. Doctrine and Covenants 81:5; see also Isaiah 35:3. 15. See Alma 22:15–16; Dallin H. Oaks, “Desire,” Ensign or Liahona, May 2011, 42–45. 16. See Alma 34:17–27; 37:37. 17. See Psalm 119:105; Helaman 3:29. 18. See Mosiah 5:5. 19. Ralph Waldo Emerson said, “That which we persist in doing becomes easier to do, not that the nature of the thing has changed but that our power to do has increased” (in Heber J. Grant, Gospel Standards, comp. G. Homer Durham [1941], 355). 20. Thomas S. Monson, “Finding Joy in the Journey,” Ensign or Liahona, Nov. 2008, 88. 21. See “Lord, I Would Follow Thee,” Bariloche, Argentina Hymns, no. 220.

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E14N24-45 Sat p.m. session.indd 39 10/14/14 4:16 PM By Elder Jeffrey R. Holland commanded the members to “look to Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles the poor and . . . needy, and admin- ister to their relief that they shall not suffer.” 6 Note the imperative tone of that passage—“they shall not suffer.” That is language God uses when He Are We Not means business. Given the monumental challenge of addressing inequity in the world, what All Beggars? can one man or woman do? The Master Himself offered an answer. When, prior to His betrayal and Cruci¦xion, Mary Rich or poor, we are to “do what we can” when others anointed Jesus’s head with an expen- are in need. sive burial ointment, Judas Iscariot protested this extravagance and “mur- mured against her.” 7 Jesus said: hat a wonderful new ele- “Foxes have holes, and . . . birds . . . “Why trouble ye her? she hath ment introduced into our have nests; but the Son of man hath wrought a good work. . . . Wgeneral conference format. not where to lay his head.” 2 Apparently “She hath done what she could.” 8 Bien hecho, Eduardo. the Creator of heaven and earth “and “She hath done what she could”! In what would be the most startling all things that in them are” 3 was, at least What a succinct formula! A journalist moment of His early ministry, Jesus in His adult life, homeless. once questioned Mother Teresa of stood up in His home synagogue in Down through history, poverty has Calcutta about her hopeless task of Nazareth and read these words proph- been one of humankind’s greatest rescuing the destitute in that city. He esied by Isaiah and recorded in the and most widespread challenges. Its said that, statistically speaking, she Gospel of Luke: “The Spirit of the Lord obvious toll is usually physical, but was accomplishing absolutely nothing. is upon me, because he hath anointed the spiritual and emotional damage it This remarkable little woman shot me to preach the gospel to the poor; can bring may be even more debilitat- back that her work was about love, he hath sent me to heal the broken- ing. In any case, the great Redeemer not statistics. Notwithstanding the stag- hearted, to preach deliverance to the has issued no more persistent call gering number beyond her reach, she captives, and . . . set at liberty them than for us to join Him in lifting this said she could keep the command- that are bruised.” 1 burden from the people. As Jehovah, ment to love God and her neighbor Thus the Savior made the ¦rst pub- He said He would judge the house of by serving those within her reach with lic announcement of His messianic Israel harshly because “the spoil of the whatever resources she had. “What ministry. But this verse also made clear [needy] is in your houses.” we do is nothing but a drop in the that on the way to His ultimate aton- “What mean ye,” He cried, “that ye ocean,” she would say on another ing sacri¦ce and Resurrection, Jesus’s beat my people to pieces, and grind occasion. “But if we didn’t do it, the ¦rst and foremost messianic duty the faces of the poor?” 4 ocean would be one drop less [than would be to bless the poor, including The writer of Proverbs would make it is].” 9 Soberly, the journalist con- the poor in spirit. the matter piercingly clear: “He that cluded that Christianity is obviously From the beginning of His ministry, oppresseth the poor reproacheth his not a statistical endeavor. He reasoned Jesus loved the impoverished and the Maker,” and “whoso stoppeth his ears that if there would be more joy in disadvantaged in an extraordinary way. at the cry of the poor . . . shall [also] heaven over one sinner who repents He was born into the home of two of cry himself, but shall not be heard.” 5 than over the ninety and nine who them and grew up among many more In our day, the restored Church need no repentance, then apparently of them. We don’t know all the details of Jesus Christ had not yet seen God is not overly preoccupied with of His temporal life, but He once said, its ¦rst anniversary when the Lord percentages.10 40

E14N24-45 Sat p.m. session.indd 40 10/14/14 4:16 PM So how might we “do what we can”? their houses of prayer “because of the thrift, self-reliance, and ambition is as For one thing, we can, as King coarseness of their [wearing] apparel.” strong as that of any man or woman Benjamin taught, cease withholding They were, Mormon says, “poor as to alive. We are always expected to help our means because we see the poor things of the world; and also . . . poor ourselves before we seek help from as having brought their misery upon in heart” 13—two conditions that almost others. Furthermore, I don’t know themselves. Perhaps some have cre- always go together. Missionary com- exactly how each of you should ful¦ll ated their own dif¦culties, but don’t panions Alma and Amulek counter that your obligation to those who do not the rest of us do exactly the same reprehensible rejection of the shabbily or cannot always help themselves. But thing? Isn’t that why this compassion- dressed by telling them that whatever I know that God knows, and He will ate ruler asks, “Are we not all beg- privileges others may deny them, they help you and guide you in compas- gars?” 11 Don’t we all cry out for help can always pray—in their ¦elds and sionate acts of discipleship if you are and hope and answers to prayers? in their houses, in their families and in conscientiously wanting and praying Don’t we all beg for forgiveness for their hearts.14 and looking for ways to keep a com- mistakes we have made and troubles But then, to this very group who mandment He has given us again we have caused? Don’t we all implore had themselves been turned away, and again. that grace will compensate for our Amulek says, “After [you] have [prayed], You will recognize that I speak weaknesses, that mercy will triumph if [you] turn away the needy, and here of dif¦cult societal needs that go over justice at least in our case? Little the naked, and visit not the sick and well beyond members of the Church. wonder that King Benjamin says we af¥icted, and impart of your substance, Fortunately the Lord’s way of assisting obtain a remission of our sins by if [you] have [it], to those who stand in our own is easier: all who are physi- pleading to God, who compassion- need—I say unto you, . . . your prayer cally able are to observe the law of the ately responds, but we retain a remis- is vain, and availeth you nothing, and fast. Isaiah wrote: sion of our sins by compassionately [you] are as hypocrites who do deny “Is not this the fast that I have responding to the poor who plead the faith.” 15 What a stunning reminder chosen? . . . to us.12 that rich or poor, we are to “do what “Is it not to deal thy bread to the In addition to taking merciful action we can” when others are in need. hungry, and that thou bring the poor in their behalf, we should also pray for Now, lest I be accused of propos- that are cast out to thy house? when those in need. A group of Zoramites, ing quixotic global social programs or thou seest the naked, that thou cover considered by their fellow congregants of endorsing panhandling as a growth him . . . ? [that thou] undo the heavy to be “¦lthiness” and “dross”—those are industry, I reassure you that my burdens, and . . . let the oppressed go scriptural words—were turned out of reverence for principles of industry, free . . . ?” 16

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E14N24-45 Sat p.m. session.indd 41 10/14/14 4:16 PM good tidings, that publisheth peace.” 20 More than any man I know, President Monson has “done all he could” for the widow and the fatherless, the poor and the oppressed. In an 1831 revelation to the Prophet Joseph Smith, the Lord said the poor would one day see the kingdom of God coming to deliver them “in power and great glory.” 21 May we help ful¦ll that prophecy by coming in the power and glory of our membership in the true Church of Jesus Christ to do what we can to deliver any we can from the poverty that holds them captive and destroys so many of their dreams, I pray in the merciful name of Jesus Christ, amen. ◼

NOTES 1. Luke 4:18. 2. Matthew 8:20. I bear witness of the miracles, both occasion, but I have never been poor, 3. 2 Nephi 2:14; 3 Nephi 9:15. 4. Isaiah 3:14–15. spiritual and temporal, that come to nor do I even know how the poor 5. Proverbs 14:31; 21:13. those who live the law of the fast. I feel. Furthermore, I do not know all 6. Doctrine and Covenants 38:35. bear witness of the miracles that have the reasons why the circumstances of 7. See Mark 14:3–5; see also Matthew 26:6–9; John 12:3–5. come to me. Truly, as Isaiah recorded, birth, health, education, and eco- 8. Mark 14:6, 8; emphasis added. I have cried out in the fast more than nomic opportunities vary so widely 9. Mother Teresa of Calcutta, My Life for the once, and truly God has responded, here in mortality, but when I see the Poor, ed. José Luis González-Balado and 17 Janet N. Playfoot (1985), 20. “Here I am.” Cherish that sacred priv- want among so many, I do know that 10. See Malcolm Muggeridge, Something ilege at least monthly, and be as gen- “there but for the grace of God go Beautiful for God (1986), 28–29, 118–19; erous as circumstances permit in your I.” 18 I also know that although I may see also Luke 15:7. 11. Mosiah 4:19. fast offering and other humanitarian, not be my brother’s keeper, I am my 12. See Mosiah 4:11–12, 20, 26. educational, and missionary contribu- brother’s brother, and “because I have 13. Alma 32:2–3. tions. I promise that God will be gener- been given much, I too must give.” 19 14. See Alma 34:17–27. 15. Alma 34:28; emphasis added. ous to you, and those who ¦nd relief at In that regard, I pay a personal 16. Isaiah 58:6–7. your hand will call your name blessed tribute to President Thomas Spencer 17. Isaiah 58:9. forever. More than three-quarters of a Monson. I have been blessed by an 18. Attributed to John Bradford; see The Writings of John Bradford, ed. Aubrey million members of the Church were association with this man for 47 years Townsend (1853), xliii. helped last year through fast offerings now, and the image of him I will cher- 19. “Because I Have Been Given Much,” administered by devoted bishops and ish until I die is of him ¥ying home Hymns, no. 219. © Harper San Francisco. 20. Isaiah 52:7. Relief Society presidents. That is a lot of from then–economically devastated 21. Doctrine and Covenants 56:18; see also grateful Latter-day Saints. East Germany in his house slippers verse 19. Brothers and sisters, such a ser- because he had given away not only mon demands that I openly acknowl- his second suit and his extra shirts but edge the unearned, undeserved, the very shoes from off his feet. “How Shareable Video and Quote unending blessings in my life, both beautiful upon the mountains [and Scan this QR code or visit lds.org/go/ Oct14Conf7 to watch this talk or to temporal and spiritual. Like you, I shuf¥ing through an airline termi- nd a shareable video highlight and have had to worry about ¦nances on nal] are the feet of him that bringeth picture quote. 42

E14N24-45 Sat p.m. session.indd 42 10/14/14 4:16 PM By Elder L. Tom Perry My peace I give unto you, You shall Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles receive power, You shall rejoice’” (The Character of Jesus [1908], 7, 11, 15–16). Men and women are shaped partly by those among whom they choose to Finding Lasting Peace live. Those to whom they look up and try to emulate also shape them. Jesus is the great Exemplar. The only way and Building Eternal to ¦nd lasting peace is to look to Him and live. What about Jesus is worthy of our study? Families “The New Testament writers . . . cared nothing for [ Jesus’s] stature, It is the gospel of Jesus Christ that provides the foundation the clothes he wore or the houses he upon which we can nd lasting peace and build eternal lived in. . . . He was born in a stable, worked in a carpenter’s shop, taught family units. for three years, and then died on a cross. . . . The New Testament was written by men who were determined that we . . . ¦x our eyes on [Him]” (The ur journey through life has “To be a Christian is to admire Character of Jesus, 21–22) with an periods of both good times Jesus so sincerely and so fervently that assurance that He truly was and is the Oand bad. Each presents differ- the whole life goes out to him in an Son of God, the Savior and Redeemer ent challenges. How we learn to adjust aspiration to be like him. of the world. to the changes which come along “. . . We may come to know him One of the Savior’s parables, I depends on the foundation on which through the words he spoke, through believe, especially applies to our cur- we build. The gospel of our Lord the deeds he did, and also through rent day. and Savior provides a sure and solid his silences. We may know him also It is contained in Matthew chapter foundation. It is constructed piece by by the impression which he made ¦rst 13, where we read: piece as we gain knowledge of the upon his friends and secondly upon “But while men slept, his enemy Lord’s eternal plan for His children. his foes, and thirdly upon the general came and sowed tares among the The Savior is the Master Teacher. We body of his contemporaries. . . . wheat, and went his way. follow Him. “One of the notes of twentieth cen- “But when the blade was sprung The scriptures testify of Him tury life is discontent [and trouble]. . . . up, and brought forth fruit, then and provide an example of perfect “. . . The world is crying out for appeared the tares also. righteousness for us to follow. I have something, it scarce knows what. “So the servants of the householder shared with the body of the Church Wealth has come, . . . [and] the world came and said unto him, Sir, didst not at a previous conference that I have is ¦lled with . . . inventions of human thou sow good seed in thy ¦eld? from a number of notebooks in which my skill and genius, but . . . we are [still] whence then hath it tares? mother had recorded material she was restless, unsatis¦ed, [and] bewildered. “He said unto them, An enemy hath using to prepare her Relief Society . . . [If we open] the New Testament done this. The servants said unto him, lessons. The notes are as timely today [we are greeted by these words], Wilt thou then that we go and gather as they were then. One of these was ‘Come unto me and I will give you them up? a quote written in 1908 by Charles rest, I am the bread of life, I am the “But he said, Nay; lest while ye Edward Jefferson on the character of Light of the world, If any man thirst gather up the tares, ye root up also the Jesus Christ. It reads: let him come unto me and drink, wheat with them.

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E14N24-45 Sat p.m. session.indd 43 10/14/14 4:16 PM “Let both grow together until the say unto you that if ye will enter in by Our homes must be holy places in harvest: and in the time of harvest the way, and receive the Holy Ghost, it order to stand against the pressures of I will say to the reapers, Gather ye will show unto you all things what ye the world. Remember that the greatest together ¦rst the tares, and bind them should do” (2 Nephi 32:5). of all the blessings of the Lord come in bundles to burn them: but gather the We must never let the noise of the through and are given to righteous wheat into my barn” (verses 25–30). world overpower and overwhelm that families. That old enemy of all mankind has still, small voice. We must carefully continue to found as many devices as he can think We certainly have been warned of evaluate our performance as parents. of to scatter tares far and wide. He has events that we will be facing in our The most powerful teaching a child found ways to have them penetrate day. Our challenge will be how we will ever receive will come from even the sanctity of our own homes. prepare for the events the Lord has concerned and righteous fathers and The wicked and worldly ways have said are surely still to come. mothers. Let us ¦rst look at the role of become so widespread there seems to Many in our worried society the mother. Listen to this quote from be no real way of weeding them out. understand that the disintegration of President Gordon B. Hinckley: They come by wire and through the air the family will bring only sorrow and “Women who make a house a into the very devices we have devel- hopelessness into a troubled world. As home make a far greater contribution oped to educate and entertain us. The members of the Church, we have the to society than those who command wheat and the tares have grown close responsibility to preserve and protect large armies or stand at the head of together. A steward managing the ¦eld the family as the basic unit of soci- impressive corporations. Who can put must, with all his or her power, nourish ety and eternity. The prophets have a price tag on the in¥uence a mother that which is good and make it so warned and forewarned about the has on her children, a grandmother on strong and beautiful the tares will have inevitable and destructive consequence her posterity, or aunts and sisters on no appeal either to the eye or the ear. of a deterioration of family values. their extended family? How blessed are we as members of the As the world continues to watch us, “We cannot begin to measure or Lord’s Church to have the precious gos- let us be certain that our example will calculate the in¥uence of women pel of our Lord and Savior as a founda- sustain and support the plan the Lord who, in their own ways, build stable tion on which we can build our lives. has designed for His children here in family life and nurture for everlasting From the Book of Mormon in mortality. The greatest teaching of all good the generations of the future. 2 Nephi we read: “For behold, again I must be done by righteous example. The decisions made by the women of this generation will be eternal in their consequences. May I suggest that the mothers of today have no greater opportunity and no more serious challenge than to do all they can to strengthen the [home]” (Standing for Something: 10 Neglected Virtues That Will Heal Our Hearts and Homes [2000], 152). Now let’s look at the role a father plays in our lives: Fathers give blessings and perform sacred ordinances for their children. These will become spiritual highlights in their lives. Fathers are personally involved in leading family prayers, daily scripture reading, and weekly family home evenings. 44

E14N24-45 Sat p.m. session.indd 44 10/14/14 4:16 PM Fathers build family traditions by being involved in helping plan vaca- tion trips and outings that will involve all of the family members. Memories of these special times together will never be forgotten by their children. Fathers hold one-on-one visits with their children and teach them gospel principles. Fathers teach sons and daughters the value of work and help them estab- lish worthy goals in their own lives. Fathers set an example of faithful gospel service. Please remember, brethren, your sacred calling as a father in Israel— your most important calling in time and eternity—a calling from which you are never released. The older of the two sons ¦rmly We must instill in future generations an Many years ago at stake confer- planted his feet and asked, “Which is ever stronger reliance on the teachings ences, we would show a ¦lm clip the most important, prayers or fruit?” of our Lord and Savior. to illustrate the theme of the mes- (See Teachings of Presidents of the “And now, my sons, remember, sage we were presenting. During Church: Harold B. Lee [2000], 143–44.) remember that it is upon the rock of the course of a year, as we traveled Sometimes we ¦nd ourselves in our Redeemer, who is Christ, the Son around the Church on our assigned situations when we have the opportu- of God, that ye must build your foun- stake conference visits, we became nity to teach children a lesson which dation; that when the devil shall send very familiar with the content of the will have a lasting effect on their forth his mighty winds, yea, his shafts ¦lm. We could almost quote it by young lives. Of course, prayers are in the whirlwind, yea, when all his heart. The message has remained more important than fruit. A success- hail and his mighty storm shall beat in my mind over all these years. ful parent should never be too busy upon you, it shall have no power over The ¦lm was narrated by President to capture a moment in a child’s you to drag you down to the gulf of Harold B. Lee and gave an account life when an important lesson can misery and endless wo, because of the of an occurrence in the home of his be taught. rock upon which ye are built, which daughter. It goes something like this: It is my ¦rm conviction that there is a sure foundation, a foundation One evening the mother of the has never been a period in my many whereon if men build they cannot fall” home was frantically trying to ¦nish years of life when our Father in (Helaman 5:12). bottling some fruit. Finally the children Heaven’s children have needed the It is the gospel of Jesus Christ that were ready for bed and were settled guiding hand of faithful, devoted par- provides this foundation upon which down. It was now time to get to the ents more. We have a great and noble we can ¦nd lasting peace and build fruit. As she began to peel and pit the heritage of parents giving up almost eternal family units. Of this I testify in fruit, two little boys appeared in the everything they possess to ¦nd a place the name of our Lord and Savior, even kitchen and announced that they were where they could rear their families Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ ready for their bedtime prayers. with faith and courage so the next gen- Not wanting to be interrupted, the eration would have greater opportuni- mother said very quickly to the boys, ties than had been theirs. We must ¦nd Shareable Video and Quote “Why don’t you just say your prayers within ourselves that same determined Scan this QR code or visit lds.org/go/ Oct14Conf8 to watch this talk or to alone tonight, and Mother will just spirit and overcome the challenges we nd a shareable video highlight and keep working on the fruit?” face with the same spirit of sacri¦ce. picture quote.

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E14N24-45 Sat p.m. session.indd 45 10/14/14 4:16 PM PRIESTHOOD SESSION | October 4, 2014

By Elder Quentin L. Cook Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles Choose Wisely “Refuse the evil, and choose the good” (Isaiah 7:15).

y beloved brethren, my desire “How do you expect me to catch the this evening is to share some ball when I am worried about our Mcounsel about decisions and country’s foreign policy?” choices. This was one of many ‚y balls Lucy When I was a young lawyer in the dropped through the years, and she San Francisco Bay Area, our rm did had a new excuse each time.2 While some legal work for the company that always humorous, Lucy’s excuses were produced the Charlie Brown holiday rationalizations; they were untrue rea- TV specials.1 I became a fan of Charles sons for her failure to catch the ball. Schulz and his creation—Peanuts, During the ministry of President with Charlie Brown, Lucy, Snoopy, Thomas S. Monson, he has often taught and other wonderful characters. that decisions determine destiny.3 In One of my favorite comic strips that spirit my counsel tonight is to rise involved Lucy. As I remember it, above any rationalizations that prevent Charlie Brown’s baseball team was in us from making righteous decisions, an important game—Lucy was playing especially with respect to serving Jesus right eld, and a high ‚y ball was hit Christ. In Isaiah we are taught we must to her. The bases were loaded, and “refuse the evil, and choose the good.” 4 it was the last of the ninth inning. If I believe it is of particular impor- Lucy caught the ball, her team would tance in our day, when Satan is raging win. If Lucy dropped the ball, the in the hearts of men in so many new other team would win. and subtle ways, that our choices and As could happen only in a comic decisions be made carefully, consis- strip, the entire team surrounded Lucy tent with the goals and objectives by as the ball came down. Lucy was which we profess to live. We need thinking, “If I catch the ball, I will be unequivocal commitment to the the hero; if I don’t, I will be the goat.” commandments and strict adherence The ball came down, and as her to sacred covenants. When we allow teammates eagerly looked on, Lucy rationalizations to prevent us from dropped the ball. Charlie Brown threw temple endowments, worthy missions, his glove to the ground in disgust. and temple marriage, they are particu- Lucy then looked at her teammates, larly harmful. It is heartbreaking when put her hands on her hips, and said, we profess belief in these goals yet 46

E14N46-69 Priesthood session.indd 46 10/15/14 9:48 AM neglect the everyday conduct required My concern is not only about to achieve them.5 the big tipping-point decisions but Some young people profess their also the middle ground—the work- goal is to be married in the temple but aday world and seemingly ordinary do not date temple-worthy individuals. decisions where we spend most of To be honest, some don’t even date, our time. In these areas, we need to period! You single men, the longer you emphasize moderation, balance, and remain single after an appropriate age especially wisdom. It is important to and maturity, the more comfortable rise above rationalizations and make you can become. But the more uncom- the best choices. fortable you ought to become! Please A wonderful example of the need get “anxiously engaged” 6 in spiritual for moderation, balance, and wisdom and social activities compatible with is the use of the Internet. It can be your goal of a temple marriage. used to do missionary outreach, to Some postpone marriage until edu- assist with priesthood responsibilities, cation is complete and a job obtained. to €nd precious ancestors for sacred While widely accepted in the world, temple ordinances, and much more. this reasoning does not demonstrate The potential for good is enormous. faith, does not comply with counsel of We also know that it can transmit modern prophets, and is not compati- much that is evil, including pornog- ble with sound doctrine. raphy, digital cruelty,8 and anony- I recently met a €ne teenage young mous yakking. It can also perpetuate man. His goals were to go on a mis- foolishness. As Brother Randall L. Ridd sion, obtain an education, marry in poignantly taught at the last general the temple, and have a faithful happy conference, speaking of the Internet, family. I was very pleased with his “You can get caught up in endless goals. But during further conversation, loops of triviality that waste your time it became evident that his conduct and and degrade your potential.” 9 the choices he was making were not Distractions and opposition to righ- consistent with his goals. I felt he gen- teousness are not just on the Internet; uinely wanted to go on a mission and they are everywhere. They affect not was avoiding serious transgressions just the youth but all of us. We live that would prohibit a mission, but his in a world that is literally in commo- day-to-day conduct was not preparing tion.10 We are surrounded by obses- him for the physical, emotional, social, sive portrayals of “fun and games” intellectual, and spiritual challenges and immoral and dysfunctional lives. he would face.7 He had not learned These are presented as normal con- to work hard. He was not serious duct in much of the media. about school or seminary. He attended Elder David A. Bednar recently church, but he had not read the Book cautioned members to be authentic in of Mormon. He was spending a large the use of social media.11 A prominent amount of time on video games and thought leader, Arthur C. Brooks, has social media. He seemed to think that emphasized this point. He observes showing up for his mission would be that when using social media, we tend suf€cient. Young men, please recom- to broadcast the smiling details of our mit to worthy conduct and serious lives but not the hard times at school preparation to be emissaries of our or work. We portray an incomplete Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. life—sometimes in a self-aggrandizing

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E14N46-69 Priesthood session.indd 47 10/15/14 9:49 AM or fake way. We share this life, and eroded and overall happiness and Meaningful study and preparatory then we consume the “almost exclu- well-being have diminished. work experience were always at the sively . . . fake lives of [our] social When the Apostle Paul was invited to top of my father’s recommended media ‘friends.’” Brooks asserts, “How speak on Mars Hill in Athens, he found priorities. He appreciated that extra- could it not make you feel worse to some of the same intellectual pretension curricular activities like debate and spend part of your time pretending to and absence of true wisdom that exist student government might have a be happier than you are, and the other today.15 In Acts we read this account: direct connection with some of my part of your time seeing how much “For all the Athenians and strangers important goals. He was less certain happier others seem to be than you?” 12 which were there spent their time in about the extensive time I spent par- Sometimes it feels like we are nothing else, but either to tell, or to hear ticipating in football, basketball, base- drowning in frivolous foolishness, some new thing.” 16 Paul’s emphasis was ball, and track. He acknowledged that nonsensical noise, and continuous the Resurrection of Jesus Christ. When athletics could build strength, endur- contention. When we turn down the the crowd realized the religious nature ance, and teamwork but asserted that volume and examine the substance, of his message, some mocked him; perhaps concentrating on one sport there is very little that will assist us others essentially dismissed him, saying, for a shorter time would be better. In in our eternal quest toward righteous “We will hear thee again of this mat- his view, sports were good but not the goals. One father wisely responds ter.” 17 Paul left Athens without any suc- best for me. He was concerned that to his children with their numerous cess. Dean Frederic Farrar wrote of this some sports were about building local requests to participate in these distrac- visit: “At Athens he founded no church, celebrity or fame at the expense of tions. He simply asks them, “Will this to Athens he wrote no epistle, and in more important long-term goals. make you a better person?” Athens, often as he passed its neigh- Given this history, one of the reasons When we rationalize wrong bourhood, he never set foot again.” 18 I like the account of Lucy playing base- choices, big or small, which are incon- I believe Elder Dallin H. Oaks’s ball is that, in my father’s view, I should sistent with the restored gospel, we inspired message distinguishing have been studying foreign policy and lose the blessings and protections we between “good, better, best” provides not worrying about whether I was going need and often become ensnared in an effective way to evaluate choices to catch a ball. I should make it clear sin or simply lose our way. and priorities.19 Many choices are not that my mother loved sports. It would I am particularly concerned with inherently evil, but if they absorb all have taken a hospitalization for her to foolishness 13 and being obsessed of our time and keep us from the best miss one of my games. with “every new thing.” In the Church choices, then they become insidious. I had decided to follow my dad’s we encourage and celebrate truth Even worthwhile endeavors need advice and not play intercollegiate and knowledge of every kind. But evaluation in order to determine if sports in college. Then our high when culture, knowledge, and social they have become distractions from school football coach informed me mores are separated from God’s plan the best goals. I had a memorable that the Stanford football coach of happiness and the essential role discussion with my father when I was wanted to have lunch with Merlin of Jesus Christ, there is an inevitable a teenager. He did not believe enough Olsen and me. Those of you who are disintegration of society.14 In our day, young people were focused on or younger may not know Merlin. He despite unprecedented gains in many preparing for long-term important was an incredible all-American tackle areas, especially science and commu- goals—like employment and provid- on the Logan High School football nication, essential basic values have ing for families. team where I played quarterback 48

E14N46-69 Priesthood session.indd 48 10/15/14 9:53 AM and safety and returned kickoffs and However, I encourage everyone, 4. Isaiah 7:15. 5. “If to do were as easy as to know what were punts. In high school Merlin was young and old, to review goals and good to do, chapels had been churches recruited by most football powers objectives and strive to exercise and poor men’s cottages princes’ palaces” across the nation. In college he won greater discipline. Our daily conduct (William Shakespeare, The Merchant of Venice, act 1, scene 2, lines 12–14). the Outland Trophy as the nation’s and choices should be consistent 6. Doctrine and Covenants 58:27. best interior lineman. Merlin was with our goals. We need to rise above 7. See Adjusting to Missionary Life (booklet, ultimately the third overall pick in the rationalizations and distractions. It is 2013), 23–49. 8. See Stephanie Rosenbloom, “Dealing with National Football League draft and especially important to make choices Digital Cruelty,” New York Times, Aug. 24, played in an amazing 14 consecutive consistent with our covenants to serve 2014, SR1. Pro Bowls. He was inducted into the Jesus Christ in righteousness.21 We 9. Randall L. Ridd, “The Choice Generation,” 20 Ensign or Liahona, May 2014, 56. Pro Football Hall of Fame in 1982. must not take our eyes off or drop that 10. See Doctrine and Covenants 45:26. The lunch with the Stanford coach ball for any reason. 11. See David A. Bednar, “To Sweep the Earth was at the Bluebird restaurant in Logan, This life is the time to prepare to as with a Flood” (speech delivered at BYU 22 Campus Education Week, Aug. 19, 2014); Utah. After we shook hands, he never meet God. We are a happy, joyous lds. org/ prophets -and -apostles/ unto -all -the - once made eye contact with me. He people. We appreciate a good sense world/ to -sweep -the -earth -as -with -a -¢ood. talked directly to Merlin but ignored of humor and treasure unstructured 12. Arthur C. Brooks, “Love People, Not Pleasure,” New York Times, July 20, 2014, SR1. time with friends and family. But we 13. Unfortunately, one diversion that has need to recognize that there is a seri- increased in our day is pure foolishness. ousness of purpose that must under- When the Savior enumerated some of the things that can de¥le man, He included gird our approach to life and all our foolishness (see Mark 7:22). choices. Distractions and rationaliza- 14. This happened in ancient Greece and tions that limit progress are harmful Rome, as well as with the Book of Mormon civilizations. enough, but when they diminish faith 15. See Frederic W. Farrar, The Life and Work of in Jesus Christ and His Church, they St. Paul (1898), 302. There were philosophers are tragic. of all kinds, including Epicureans and Stoics, rival groups who some described as the My prayer is that as a body of Pharisees and the Sadducees of the pagan priesthood holders, we will make our world. See also Quentin L. Cook, “Looking conduct consistent with the noble pur- beyond the Mark,” Ensign, Mar. 2003, 41–44; Liahona, Mar. 2003, 21–24. poses required of those who are in the 16. Acts 17:21. service of the Master. In all things we 17. Acts 17:32. should remember that being “valiant 18. Farrar, The Life and Work of St. Paul, 312. 19. See Dallin H. Oaks, “Good, Better, Best,” in the testimony of Jesus” is the great Ensign or Liahona, Nov. 2007, 104–8. me. At the end of the lunch, for the dividing test between the celestial and 20. Merlin Olsen was a hall of fame football ‡rst time, he turned toward me, but terrestrial kingdoms.23 We want to player, actor, and NFL commentator for NBC. He won the Outland Trophy playing he could not remember my name. He be found on the celestial side of that football for Utah State University. He played then informed Merlin, “If you choose divide. As one of His Apostles, I bear pro football for the Los Angeles Rams. On Stanford and want to bring your friend fervent testimony of the reality of the TV he played Jonathan Garvey opposite Michael Landon on Little House on the with you, he has good enough grades Atonement and the divinity of Jesus Prairie and had his own TV program, Father and it could probably be arranged.” Christ, our Savior. In the name of Jesus Murphy. Merlin is now deceased (Mar. 11, This experience con‡rmed for me that Christ, amen. ◼ 2010), and we miss him very much. 21. See Doctrine and Covenants 76:5. I should follow my dad’s wise counsel. NOTES 22. See Alma 34:32. My intent is not to discourage par- 1. Lee Mendelson-Bill Melendez Production 23. Doctrine and Covenants 76:79. ticipation in sports or the use of the TV Specials. 2. From the moons of Saturn distracting Internet or other worthwhile activities her to worrying about possible toxic young people enjoy. They are the kind substances in her glove, Lucy always Shareable Video and Quote of activities that require moderation, rationalized why she dropped the ball. Scan this QR code or visit lds.org/go/ 3. See “Decisions Determine Destiny,” chapter Oct14Conf9 to watch this talk or to balance, and wisdom. When used 8 in Pathways to Perfection: Discourses of nd a shareable video highlight and wisely, they enrich our lives. Thomas S. Monson (1973), 57–65. picture quote.

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E14N46-69 Priesthood session.indd 49 10/15/14 9:53 AM By Elder Craig C. Christensen are truly our own? To quote President Of the Presidency of the Seventy Monson again: “I maintain that a strong testimony of our Savior and of His gospel will . . . protect you from the sin and evil around you. . . . If you do not already have a testimony of I Know These Things these things, do that which is neces- sary to obtain one. It is essential for you to have your own testimony, for the testimonies of others will carry of Myself 2 you only so far.”

Learning for ourselves that the restored gospel of Jesus Christ I Know These Things of Myself is true can be one of the greatest and most joyful experiences Learning for ourselves that the restored gospel of Jesus Christ is in life. true can be one of the greatest and most joyful experiences in life. We may have to begin by relying on the testimonies of others—saying, as the y dear brethren, we are to withstand all the forces pulling us stripling warriors did, “We do not continually inspired by the in the wrong direction . . . , we must doubt our mothers knew it.” 3 This is a Mpersonal example and priest- have our own testimony. Whether good place to start, but we must build hood service of President Thomas S. you are 12 or 112—or anywhere in from there. To be strong in living the Monson. Recently, several deacons between—you can know for yourself gospel, there is nothing more impor- were asked, “What do you admire that the gospel of Jesus Christ is true.” 1 tant than receiving and strengthening most about President Monson?” Although my message tonight is our own testimony. We must be able One deacon recalled how President directed to those who are closer to 12 to declare, as Alma did, “I . . . know Monson, as a child, gave his toys to than 112, the principles I share apply these things of myself.” 4 needy friends. Another mentioned to everyone. In response to President “And how do ye suppose that I how President Monson cared for the Monson’s statement, I would ask: know of their surety?” Alma continued. many widows in his ward. A third Does each of us know for ourselves “Behold, I say unto you they are made noted that he was called as an Apostle that the gospel is true? Can we say known unto me by the Holy Spirit of at a very young age and has blessed with con›dence that our testimonies God. Behold, I have fasted and prayed people all around the world. Then one many days that I might know these young man said, “The thing I admire things of myself. And now I do know most about President Monson is his of myself that they are true.” 5 strong testimony.” Indeed, we have all felt our proph- I Desire to Behold the Things Which et’s special witness of the Savior Jesus My Father Saw Christ and his commitment to always Like Alma, Nephi also came to follow the promptings of the Spirit. know the truth for himself. After listen- With each experience he shares, ing to his father speak of his many President Monson invites us to live spiritual experiences, Nephi wanted to the gospel more fully and to seek know what his father knew. This was for and strengthen our own personal more than simple curiosity—it was testimonies. Remember what he said something he hungered and thirsted from this pulpit just a few conferences after. Even though he was “exceed- ago: “In order for us to be strong and ingly young,” he had “great desires to 50

E14N46-69 Priesthood session.indd 50 10/15/14 9:58 AM know of the mysteries of God.” 6 He young” when his “mind was called up So What Is a Testimony? yearned to “see, and hear, and know to serious re‘ection” about spiritual We often hear members of the of these things, by the power of the truths. For Joseph, it was a time of Church say that their testimony of the Holy Ghost.” 7 “great uneasiness,” being surrounded gospel is their most prized posses- As Nephi “sat pondering in [his] by con‘icting and confusing mes- sion. It is a sacred gift from God that heart,” he was carried “away in the sages about religion. He wanted comes to us by the power of the Holy Spirit . . . into an exceedingly high to know which church was right.10 Ghost. It is the calm, unwavering cer- mountain,” where he was asked, Inspired by these words in the Bible, tainty we receive as we study, pray, “What desirest thou?” His response “If any of you lack wisdom, let him and live the gospel. It is the feeling was simple: “I desire to behold ask of God,” 11 he acted for himself to of the Holy Ghost bearing witness to the things which my father saw.” 8 nd an answer. On a beautiful morn- our souls that what we are learning Because of his believing heart and ing in the spring of 1820, he entered and doing is right. his diligent efforts, Nephi was blessed a grove of trees and knelt in prayer. Some people speak of a testimony with a marvelous experience. He Because of his faith and because God as if it were a light switch—it’s either received a witness of the forthcom- had a special work for him to do, on or off; you either have a testimony, ing birth, life, and Cruci xion of the Joseph received a glorious vision of or you do not. In reality, a testimony Savior Jesus Christ; he saw the com- God the Father and His Son, Jesus is more like a tree that passes through ing forth of the Book of Mormon and Christ, and learned for himself what various stages of growth and develop- the Restoration of the gospel in the he was to do. ment. Some of the tallest trees on last days—all as a result of his sincere Do you see in Joseph’s experience earth are found in Redwood National desire to know for himself.9 a pattern you could apply in gaining Park in the western United States. These personal experiences with or strengthening your own testimony? When you stand at the base of these the Lord prepared Nephi for the Joseph allowed the scriptures to massive trees, it is amazing to think adversity and challenges he would penetrate his heart. He pondered that each one grew from a tiny seed. soon face. They enabled him to stand them deeply and applied them to So it is with our testimonies. Although strong even when others in his family his own situation. He then acted they may begin with a single spiritual were struggling. He could do this on what he had learned. The result experience, they grow and develop because he had learned for himself was the glorious First Vision—and over time through constant nourish- and he knew for himself. He had been everything that came after it. This ment and frequent spiritual blessed with his own testimony. Church quite literally was founded on encounters. the principle that anyone—including It’s not surprising, then, that when Let Him Ask of God a 14-year-old farm boy—can “ask of the prophet Alma explained how we Similar to Nephi, the Prophet God” and receive an answer to his develop a testimony, he spoke of a Joseph Smith was also “exceedingly prayers. seed growing into a tree. “If ye give

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E14N46-69 Priesthood session.indd 51 10/15/14 9:58 AM day, I have had many sacred experi- ences with the Holy Ghost that have reaf rmed to me that Jesus Christ is the Savior of the world and that His restored gospel is true. With Alma, I can say with certainty that I know these things of myself. My young friends, now is the time and today is the day to learn or reaf rm for ourselves that the gospel is true. Each of us has an important work to Cape Town, South Africa do. To accomplish that work, and to be protected from worldly inŒuences place,” he said, “that a seed may be it hath no root it withers away, and ye that seem to be constantly looming, planted in your heart, behold, if it be pluck it up and cast it out.” 13 we must have the faith of Alma, Nephi, a true seed, or a good seed, if ye do In most cases, our testimonies will and young Joseph Smith to obtain and not cast it out by your unbelief, . . . it grow the same way a tree grows: develop our own testimony. will begin to swell within your breasts; gradually, almost imperceptibly, as a Like the young deacon I spoke of and when you feel these swelling result of our constant care and diligent earlier, I admire President Monson motions, ye will begin to say within efforts. “But if ye will nourish the for his testimony. It is like a towering yourselves—It must needs be that this word,” Alma promised, “yea, nourish redwood, yet even President Monson’s is a good seed, or that the word is the tree as it beginneth to grow, by testimony had to grow and develop good, for it beginneth to enlarge my your faith with great diligence, and over time. We can come to know for soul; yea, it beginneth to enlighten my with patience, looking forward to the ourselves, just as President Monson understanding, yea, it beginneth to be fruit thereof, it shall take root; and has, that Jesus Christ is our Savior delicious to me.” 12 behold it shall be a tree springing up and the Redeemer of the world, that This is often how a testimony unto everlasting life.” 14 Joseph Smith is the prophet of the begins: with sacred, enlightening, Restoration, including the restoration assuring feelings that demonstrate Now Is the Time; Today Is the Day of the priesthood of God. We bear that to us that the word of God is true. My own testimony began as I holy priesthood. May we learn these However, as wonderful as these feel- studied and pondered the teachings things and know them for ourselves is ings are, they are only the beginning. found in the Book of Mormon. As I my humble prayer in the sacred name Your work to grow your testimony is knelt down to ask God in humble of Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ not done—any more than the work prayer, the Holy Ghost testi ed to NOTES of growing a redwood tree is done my soul that what I was reading was 1. Thomas S. Monson, “Dare to Stand Alone,” when the rst tiny sprout pokes out true. This early witness became the Ensign or Liahona, Nov. 2011, 62. of the ground. If we ignore or neglect catalyst for my testimony of many 2. Thomas S. Monson, “Priesthood Power,” Ensign or Liahona, May 2011, 66. these early spiritual promptings, if we other gospel truths, for, as President 3. Alma 56:48. do not nurture them by continuing to Monson taught: “When we know 4. Alma 5:46. study the scriptures and pray and by the Book of Mormon is true, then it 5. Alma 5:45–46. 6. 1 Nephi 2:16. seeking more experiences with the follows that Joseph Smith was indeed 7. 1 Nephi 10:17. Spirit, our feelings will fade and our a prophet and that he saw God the 8. 1 Nephi 11:1–3. testimonies will diminish. Eternal Father and His Son, Jesus 9. See 1 Nephi 11–14. 10. See Joseph Smith—History 1:8–10. As Alma put it: “If ye neglect the Christ. It also follows that the gos- 11. James 1:5. tree, and take no thought for its pel was restored in these latter days 12. Alma 32:28. nourishment, behold it will not get through Joseph Smith—including the 13. Alma 32:38. 14. Alma 32:41. any root; and when the heat of the restoration of both the Aaronic and 15. Thomas S. Monson, Ensign or Liahona, sun cometh and scorcheth it, because Melchizedek Priesthoods.” 15 Since that Nov. 2011, 67. 52

E14N46-69 Priesthood session.indd 52 10/15/14 10:04 AM By Bishop Dean M. Davies Church resources were made Second Counselor in the Presiding Bishopric available in the very early hours fol- lowing this disaster. Church members living in the Philippines rallied to the rescue of their brothers and sisters by providing food, water, clothing, and The Law of the Fast: hygiene kits to members and non- members alike. Church meetinghouses became A Personal Responsibility places of refuge to thousands of the homeless. Under the leadership of the Area Presidency and local priest- hood leaders, many of whom had lost to Care for the Poor everything they had, assessments were made as to the condition and safety of all members. Inspired plans began to and Needy take shape to help restore members to acceptable living conditions and As followers of the Savior, we have a personal responsibility to self-reliance. Modest resources were provided care for the poor and needy. to help Church members rebuild their wood-frame shelters and homes. This was not just a free handout. Members received training and performed the y dear brethren, I love the Haiyan left in its wake extensive needed labor for themselves and then priesthood, and I love being destruction and suffering. Complete for others. Mwith you. I am so deeply cities were destroyed; many lives were One resulting blessing was that as grateful that we can serve together in lost; millions of homes were severely members developed carpentry, plumb- this great cause. damaged or destroyed; and basic ing, and other construction skills, they We live in remarkable times. services such as water, sewer, and were able to secure meaningful work Miraculous advances in medicine, sci- electricity ceased functioning. opportunities as nearby cities and ence, and technology have improved communities began rebuilding. the quality of life for many. Yet there is Caring for the poor and needy is a also evidence of great human suffering fundamental gospel doctrine and an and distress. In addition to wars and essential element in the eternal plan rumors of wars, an increase in natural of salvation. disasters—including ‰oods, Šres, Prior to His mortal ministry, Jehovah earthquakes, and disease—is impact- declared through His prophet: “For the ing the lives of millions worldwide. poor shall never cease out of the land: Church leadership is aware of and therefore I command thee, saying, vigilant regarding the well-being of Thou shalt open thine hand wide unto God’s children everywhere. When and thy brother, to thy poor, and to thy where possible, Church emergency needy, in thy land.” 1 resources are provided to respond In our day, caring for the poor to those in need. For example, last and needy is one of four divinely November, Typhoon Haiyan hit the When and where possible, Church appointed Church responsibilities that island nation of the Philippines. emergency resources are provided to help individuals and families qualify A Category 5 super typhoon, respond to those in need. for exaltation.2

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E14N46-69 Priesthood session.indd 53 10/15/14 10:04 AM Caring for the poor and needy offering equal to at least the value of Lord can answer. We can cry and the contemplates both temporal and spir- the food they would have eaten. Lord will say, ‘Here I am.’” itual salvation. It includes the service Isaiah’s words should be prayerfully President Lee adds: “Do we ever of individual Church members as considered and taught in every home: want to be in a condition where we they personally care for the poor and “Is not this the fast that I have cho- can call and he won’t answer? We will needy, as well as formal Church wel- sen? to loose the bands of wickedness, cry in our distress and he won’t be fare, which is administered through to undo the heavy burdens, and to with us? I think it is time we are think- priesthood authority. let the oppressed go free, and that ye ing about these fundamentals because Central to the Lord’s plan for caring break every yoke? these are the days that lie ahead, for the poor and needy is the law of “Is it not to deal thy bread to the when we are going to need more and the fast. “The Lord has established the hungry, and that thou bring the poor more the blessings of the Lord, when law of the fast and fast offerings to that are cast out to thy house? when the judgments are poured out without bless His people and to provide a way thou seest the naked, that thou cover mixture upon the whole earth.” 6 for them to serve those in need.” 3 him; and that thou hide not thyself Our beloved prophet, President As followers of the Savior, we have from thine own ‚esh?” 4 Thomas S. Monson, has shared his a personal responsibility to care for Isaiah then went on to list the won- testimony of these principles—a testi- the poor and needy. Faithful Church derful blessings promised by the Lord mony borne of personal experience. members everywhere assist by fasting to those who obey the law of the fast. He said: “No member of the Church each month—abstaining from food He says: who has helped provide for those in and water for 24 hours—and then “Then shall thy light break forth need ever forgets or regrets the expe- giving to the Church a nancial fast as the morning, and thine health rience. Industry, thrift, self-reliance, shall spring forth speedily: and thy and sharing with others are not new righteousness shall go before thee; to us.” 7 the glory of the Lord shall be thy Brethren, members of The Church rearward. of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints are “Then shalt thou call, and the Lord a covenant-making, commandment- shall answer; thou shalt cry, and he keeping people. I cannot think of any shall say, Here I am. . . . law, any commandment, which, if kept “And if thou draw out thy soul to the faithfully, is easier to keep and which hungry, and satisfy the af‚icted soul; provides greater blessings than the then shall thy light rise in obscurity, and law of the fast. When we fast and give thy darkness be as the noonday: an honest fast offering, we contribute “And the Lord shall guide thee to the Lord’s storehouse what would continually, and satisfy thy soul in have been expended on the cost of drought.” 5 the meals. It does not require mone- Regarding this scripture, President tary sacrice in excess of what would Harold B. Lee had this to say: “The be expended normally. At the same tremendous blessings that come [from time, we are promised the extraordi- fasting] have been spelled out in every nary blessings, as previously noted. dispensation, and here the Lord is tell- The law of the fast applies to ing us through this great prophet why all Church members. Even young there is fasting, and the blessings that children can be taught to fast, begin- come from fasting. . . . If you analyze ning with one meal and then two, . . . the 58th chapter of the book of as they are able to understand and Isaiah you will nd unraveled why the physically keep the law of the fast. Lord wants us to pay fast offerings, Husbands and wives, single members, why he wants us to fast. It’s because youth, and children should begin the by qualifying thus we can call and the fast with prayer, giving gratitude for 54

E14N46-69 Priesthood session.indd 54 10/15/14 10:19 AM blessings in their lives while seek- holders magnify your priesthood ought ye to be?” He responded, “Even ing the Lord’s blessings and strength responsibilities and extend this as I am.” 9 As we take upon ourselves through the fast period. Complete opportunity to all Church members, the name of Christ and strive to fol- fulllment of the law of the fast occurs you frequently facilitate the promised low Him, we will receive His image when the fast offering is made to the blessings of the fast to those who may in our countenance and become Lord’s agent, the bishop. need them the most. You will witness more like Him. Caring for the poor Bishops, you direct welfare in that the spirit of caring for the poor and needy is inherent in the ministry the ward. You have a divine man- and needy has the power to soften of the Savior. It is in everything He date to seek out and care for the otherwise hardened hearts and blesses does. He reaches out to all and lifts poor. With the support of the Relief the lives of those who may infre- us. His yoke is easy, and His burden Society president and Melchizedek quently attend Church. is light. I invite each of us to become Priesthood quorum leaders, your goal President Monson has said, “Those more like the Savior by caring for the is to help members help themselves bishops who organize their Aaronic poor and needy, by faithfully keeping and become self-reliant. You minister Priesthood quorums to participate the law of the fast, and by contribut- to the temporal and spiritual needs of in the collection of fast offerings will ing a generous fast offering. I humbly members by carefully using fast offer- nd increased success in this sacred testify that faithfully caring for the ings as a temporary support and as a responsibility.” 8 poor and needy is a re“ection of spir- supplement to extended family and Bishops, remember that circum- itual maturity and will bless both the community resources. As you prayer- stances vary widely from one area to giver and the receiver. In the sacred fully exercise priesthood keys and another and from country to country. name of Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ discernment in helping the poor and Door-to-door contacting by Aaronic needy, you will come to know that the Priesthood quorum members may NOTES 1. Deuteronomy 15:11. correct use of fast offerings is intended not be practical in the region where 2. See Handbook 2: Administering the to support life, not lifestyle. you live. However, we invite you Church (2010), 2.2. Aaronic Priesthood quorum pres- to prayerfully consider the proph- 3. Handbook 2, 6.1.2. 4. Isaiah 58:6–7. idents, you hold keys and have the et’s counsel and seek inspiration 5. Isaiah 58:8–11. power to administer in outward ordi- on appropriate ways in which the 6. Harold B. Lee, “Listen, and Obey” (Welfare nances. You work with the bishop and Aaronic Priesthood holders in your Agricultural Meeting, Apr. 3, 1971), copy of typescript, 14, Church History Library, Salt instruct quorum members regarding wards can magnify their priesthood Lake City. their duties in the priesthood and in by participating in the collection of 7. Thomas S. Monson, “Are We Prepared?” seeking out Church members to give fast offerings. Ensign or Liahona, Sept. 2014, 4. 8. Thomas S. Monson, in a meeting with the them the opportunity to contribute to In chapter 27 of 3 Nephi, the risen Presiding Bishopric, Feb. 28, 2014. the fast. As you Aaronic Priesthood Lord asked, “What manner of men 9. 3 Nephi 27:27.

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E14N46-69 Priesthood session.indd 55 10/15/14 10:20 AM By President Dieter F. Uchtdorf This solitary dandelion bothered Second Counselor in the First Presidency him beyond description, and he wanted to do something about it. Should he just pluck it out? Or spray it with weed killer? Perhaps if he went under cover of night, he could remove “Lord, Is It I?” it secretly. These thoughts totally occupied his We must put aside our pride, see beyond our vanity, and in mind as he walked toward his own home. He entered his house without humility ask, “Lord, is it I?” even glancing at his own front yard— which was blanketed with hundreds of yellow dandelions.

t was our beloved Savior’s nal night his neighborhood. He particularly Beams and Motes in mortality, the evening before He looked forward to walking past his Does this story remind us of the Iwould offer Himself a ransom for neighbor’s house. This neighbor kept words of the Savior? all mankind. As He broke bread with his lawn perfectly manicured, ‹owers “Why beholdest thou the mote that His disciples, He said something that always in bloom, the trees healthy is in thy brother’s eye, but consider- must have lled their hearts with great and shady. It was obvious that the est not the beam that is in thine own alarm and deep sadness. “One of you neighbor made every effort to have a eye? . . . shall betray me,” He told them. beautiful lawn. “. . . First cast out the beam out of The disciples didn’t question the But one day as the man was walking thine own eye; and then shalt thou truth of what He said. Nor did they past his neighbor’s house, he noticed in see clearly to cast out the mote out of look around, point to someone else, the middle of this beautiful lawn a sin- thy brother’s eye.” 2 and ask, “Is it him?” gle, enormous, yellow dandelion weed. This business of beams and motes Instead, “they were exceeding sor- It looked so out of place that it sur- seems to be closely related to our rowful, and began every one of them prised him. Why didn’t his neighbor inability to see ourselves clearly. I’m to say unto him, Lord, is it I? ” 1 pull it out? Couldn’t he see it? Didn’t not sure why we are able to diagnose I wonder what each of us would do he know that the dandelion could cast and recommend remedies for other if we were asked that question by the seeds that could give root to dozens of people’s ills so well, while we often Savior. Would we look at those around additional weeds? have dif culty seeing our own. us and say in our hearts, “He’s prob- Some years ago there was a news ably talking about Brother Johnson. story about a man who believed that I’ve always wondered about him,” or if he rubbed lemon juice on his face, it “I’m glad Brother Brown is here. He would make him invisible to cameras. really needs to hear this message”? Or So he put lemon juice all over his face, would we, like those disciples of old, went out, and robbed two banks. Not look inward and ask that penetrating much later he was arrested when his question: “Is it I?” image was broadcast over the evening In these simple words, “Lord, is it news. When police showed the man I?” lies the beginning of wisdom and the videos of himself from the security the pathway to personal conversion cameras, he couldn’t believe his eyes. and lasting change. “But I had lemon juice on my face!” he protested.3 A Parable of Dandelions When a scientist at Cornell Once there was a man who University heard about this story, he enjoyed taking evening walks around was intrigued that a man could be so 56

E14N46-69 Priesthood session.indd 56 10/15/14 10:24 AM painfully unaware of his own incompe- tence. To determine whether this was a general problem, two researchers invited college students to participate in a series of tests on various life skills and then asked them to rate how they did. The students who performed poorly were the least accurate at evalu- ating their own performance—some of them estimating their scores to be ve times higher than they actually were.4 This study has been replicated in numerous ways, conrming over and over again the same conclusion: many of us have a difcult time seeing ourselves as we truly are, and even successful people overestimate their own contribution and underestimate the contributions that others make.5 strength, something unfortunate was meetings and family home evenings, It might not be so signicant to happening in the hearts and lives of or not paying an honest tithe and overestimate how well we drive a car the members. And the troubling thing offerings. or how far we can drive a golf ball. is that this situation is not unique. My dear brethren, will you please But when we start believing that our Such terrible and often unnecessary look inside your hearts and ask the contributions at home, at work, and at things happen when members of the simple question: “Lord, is it I?” church are greater than they actually Church become disengaged from Have you disengaged—even are, we blind ourselves to blessings and gospel principles. They may appear slightly—from “the . . . gospel of the opportunities to improve ourselves in on the outside to be disciples of Jesus blessed God, which was committed signicant and profound ways. Christ, but on the inside their hearts to [your] trust”? 6 Have you allowed have separated from their Savior and “the god of this world” to darken your Spiritual Blind Spots His teachings. They have gradually minds to “the light of the glorious An acquaintance of mine used to turned away from the things of the gospel of Christ”? 7 live in a ward with some of the highest Spirit and moved toward the things My beloved friends, my dear statistics in the Church—attendance of the world. brethren, ask yourselves, “Where is my was high, home teaching numbers Once-worthy priesthood hold- treasure?” were high, Primary children were ers start to tell themselves that the Is your heart set on the convenient always well behaved, ward dinners Church is a good thing for women things of this world, or is it focused included fantastic food that members and children but not for them. Or on the teachings of the diligent Jesus rarely spilled on the meetinghouse some are convinced that their busy Christ? “For where your treasure is, ‚oor, and I think there were never any schedules or unique circumstances there will your heart be also.” 8 arguments at Church ball. make them exempt from the daily Does the Spirit of God dwell in My friend and his wife were subse- acts of devotion and service that your hearts? Are you “rooted and quently called on a mission. When they would keep them close to the Spirit. grounded” in the love of God and of returned three years later, this couple In this age of self-justication and your fellowmen? Do you devote suf- was astonished to learn that during the narcissism, it is easy to become quite cient time and creativity to bringing time they were away serving, 11 mar- creative at coming up with excuses happiness to your marriage and fam- riages had ended in divorce. for not regularly approaching God ily? Do you give your energies to the Although the ward had every in prayer, procrastinating the study sublime goal of comprehending and outward indication of faithfulness and of the scriptures, avoiding Church living “the breadth, and length, and

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E14N46-69 Priesthood session.indd 57 10/15/14 10:24 AM depth, and height” 9 of the restored May I suggest that the holy scrip- with some of the most competent gospel of Jesus Christ? tures and the talks given at general and intelligent men and women Brethren, if it is your great desire conference are an effective mirror we this world has to offer. When I was to cultivate Christlike attributes of can hold up for self-examination. younger, I was impressed by those “faith, virtue, knowledge, temperance, As you hear or read the words of who were educated, accomplished, patience, brotherly kindness, godli- the ancient and modern prophets, successful, and applauded by the ness, charity, humility, [and service],” 10 refrain from thinking about how the world. But over the years, I have Heavenly Father will make you an words apply to someone else and ask come to the realization that I am far instrument in His hands unto the sal- the simple question: “Lord, is it I?” more impressed by those wonderful vation of many souls.11 We must approach our Eternal and blessed souls who are truly good Father with broken hearts and teach- and without guile. The Examined Life able minds. We must be willing to learn And isn’t that what the gospel Brethren, none of us likes to admit and to change. And, oh, how much we is all about and does for us? It is when we are drifting off the right gain by committing to live the life our the good news, and it helps us to course. Often we try to avoid looking Heavenly Father intends for us. become good. deeply into our souls and confronting Those who do not wish to learn The words of the Apostle James our weaknesses, limitations, and fears. and change probably will not and most apply to us today: Consequently, when we do examine likely will begin to wonder whether the “God resisteth the proud, but giveth our lives, we look through the €lter Church has anything to offer them. grace unto the humble. . . . of biases, excuses, and stories we tell But those who want to improve “Humble yourselves in the sight of ourselves in order to justify unworthy and progress, those who learn of the the Lord, and he shall lift you up.” 13 thoughts and actions. Savior and desire to be like Him, those Brethren, we must put aside our But being able to see ourselves who humble themselves as a little child pride, see beyond our vanity, and in clearly is essential to our spiritual and seek to bring their thoughts and humility ask, “Lord, is it I?” growth and well-being. If our weak- actions into harmony with our Father And if the Lord’s answer happens nesses and shortcomings remain in Heaven—they will experience the to be “Yes, my son, there are things obscured in the shadows, then the miracle of the Savior’s Atonement. They you must improve, things I can help redeeming power of the Savior will surely feel God’s resplendent Spirit. you to overcome,” I pray that we will cannot heal them and make them They will taste the indescribable joy accept this answer, humbly acknowl- strengths.12 Ironically, our blindness that is the fruit of a meek and humble edge our sins and shortcomings, and toward our human weaknesses will heart. They will be blessed with the then change our ways by becoming also make us blind to the divine desire and discipline to become true better husbands, better fathers, better potential that our Father yearns to disciples of Jesus Christ. sons. May we from this time forward nurture within each of us. seek with all our might to walk stead- So how can we shine the pure light The Power of Good fastly in the Savior’s blessed way—for of God’s truth into our souls and see Over the course of my life, I have seeing ourselves clearly is the begin- ourselves as He sees us? had the opportunity to rub shoulders ning of wisdom. 58

E14N46-69 Priesthood session.indd 58 10/15/14 10:33 AM As we do so, our bountiful God will By President Henry B. Eyring lead us by the hand; we will “be made First Counselor in the First Presidency strong, and blessed from on high.” 14 My beloved friends, a ‡rst step on this wondrous and ful‡lling path of true discipleship starts with our asking the simple question: The Preparatory “Lord, is it I?” Of this I testify and leave you my blessing in the name of Jesus Christ, Priesthood amen. ◼

NOTES In priesthood preparation, “show me” counts more 1. Matthew 26:21–22; emphasis added. 2. Matthew 7:3, 5. than “tell me.” 3. See Errol Morris, “The Anosognosic’s Dilemma: Something’s Wrong but You’ll Never Know What It Is,” New York Times, June 20, 2010; opinionator. blogs.nytimes.com/2010/06/20/ am grateful to be gathered with the therefore this life became a probation- the-anosognosics-dilemma-1. priesthood of God, which stretches ary state; a time to prepare to meet 4. See Justin Kruger and David Dunning, “Unskilled and Unaware of It: How I across the world. I appreciate your God; a time to prepare for that endless Dif–culties in Recognizing One’s faith, your service, and your prayers. state which has been spoken of by us, Own Incompetence Lead to In›ated My message tonight is about the which is after the resurrection of the Self-Assessments,” Journal of Personality 3 and Social Psychology, Dec. 1999, 1121–34. Aaronic Priesthood. It is also to all of dead.” “Across 4 studies, the authors found us who help in the realization of the Just as the time we have been given that participants scoring in the bottom Lord’s promises for those who hold to live in mortality is to prepare to quartile on tests of humor, grammar, and logic grossly overestimated their test what is described in scripture as the meet God, the time we are given to performance and ability. Although their “lesser priesthood.” 1 It is also called serve in the Aaronic Priesthood is an test scores put them in the 12th percentile, the preparatory priesthood. It is that they estimated themselves to be in the 62nd” (from the abstract at psycnet.apa. glorious preparation about which I org/?&fa=main.doiLanding&doi=10.1037/ will speak tonight. 0022-3514.77.6.1121). The Lord’s plan for His work is 5. See Marshall Goldsmith, What Got You Here Won’t Get You There (2007), chapter 3. ‡lled with preparation. He prepared The researcher asked three partners to the earth for us to experience the tests rate their own contributions to the success and the opportunities of mortality. of the company. Their self-assessed contributions added up to 150 percent. While we are here, we are in what the 6. 1 Timothy 1:11. scriptures call a “preparatory state.” 2 7. 2 Corinthians 4:4. The prophet Alma described the 8. Luke 12:34. 9. Ephesians 3:18. crucial importance of that preparation 10. Doctrine and Covenants 4:6. for eternal life, where we may live 11. See Alma 17:11. forever in families with God the Father 12. See Ether 12:27. 13. James 4:6, 10. and Jesus Christ. 14. Doctrine and Covenants 1:28. He explained the need for prepara- tion this way: “And we see that death comes upon mankind, yea, the death Shareable Video and Quote which has been spoken of by Amulek, Scan this QR code or visit lds.org/go/ which is the temporal death; nev- Oct14Conf10 to watch this talk or to nd a shareable video highlight and ertheless there was a space granted picture quote. unto man in which he might repent;

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E14N46-69 Priesthood session.indd 59 10/15/14 10:34 AM opportunity to prepare us to learn how a widow. I don’t remember what the the little leather binder on one knee to give crucial help to others. Just as the project was, but I do remember feel- and at the well-worn and marked Lord gives the help we require to pass ing that the priesthood power joined scriptures he had open on the other the tests of mortal life, He also sends us in doing what I later learned the Lord knee. I can remember the thrill as he help in our priesthood preparation. had said we must all do to have our recounted the stories of bravery from My message is to those whom the sins forgiven and so be prepared to the book of Daniel and his testimony Lord sends to help prepare Aaronic see Him. of the Savior, the Lord Jesus Christ. Priesthood holders as much as it As I look back now, I feel gratitude I will always remember how the is to those who hold the Aaronic for a branch president who called a Lord calls companions carefully Priesthood. I speak to fathers. I speak new convert to help the Lord prepare chosen for his priesthood holders in to bishops. And I speak to those of two boys who would in turn someday preparation. the Melchizedek Priesthood who are be bishops, charged to care for the My bishop had powerful counsel- trusted to be companions and teachers poor and the needy and also to pre- ors, and for reasons I did not under- of young men who are in priesthood side over the preparatory priesthood. stand then, more than once he called preparation. I was still a deacon when our me on the phone at home and said, I speak in praise and in gratitude family moved to a large ward in Utah. “Hal, I need you to go with me as for many of you across the world and It was the rst time I had felt the a companion to make some visits.” across time. power of a full quorum in the Aaronic Once, it was to take me with him to I would be remiss if I did not speak Priesthood. In fact, it was the rst time the home of a widow living alone and of a branch president and a bishop I saw one. And later it was the rst without any food in the house. On the of my youth. I became a deacon at time I felt the power and the bless- way home he stopped his car, opened the age of 12 in a little branch in the ing of a bishop presiding in a priests his scriptures, and told me why he eastern part of the United States. The quorum. had treated that widow as if she had branch was so tiny that my older The bishop called me to be his the power not only to care for herself brother and I were its only Aaronic rst assistant in the priests quorum. I but would, at some time in the future, Priesthood holders until my father, remember that he taught the quorum be able to help others. who was the branch president, invited himself—busy as he was, with other Another visit was to a man long a middle-aged man to join the Church. gifted men whom he could have absent from the Church. My bishop The new convert received the called to teach us. He had the chairs in invited him back to be with the Saints. Aaronic Priesthood and, with it, a call the classroom arranged in a circle. He I felt my bishop’s love for someone to watch over the Aaronic Priesthood. had me sit in the chair next to him, to who seemed to me an unlovable and I still remember as if it were yesterday. his right. rebellious enemy. I can recall the beautiful fall leaves as I could look over his shoulder as On yet another occasion we visited that new convert accompanied my he taught. He looked down occasion- a home where two little girls were brother and me to do something for ally at the carefully typed notes in sent to meet us at the door by their 60

E14N46-69 Priesthood session.indd 60 10/15/14 10:42 AM alcoholic parents. The little girls said Melchizedek Priesthood holder, and know of what he did with people and through the screen door that their the Lord were preparing a boy to be missionaries and friends of the Church mother and father were asleep. The a priesthood man and someday a when presiding over the mission in bishop kept talking to them, smiling bishop. Toronto motivates me to action. and praising their goodness and their Now, such stories of success in In priesthood preparation, “show bravery, for what seemed to me 10 priesthood preparation are familiar me” counts more than “tell me.” minutes or more. As I walked away at to you from what you have seen and That is why the scriptures are so his side, he said quietly, “That was a what you have experienced in your important to prepare us in the priest- good visit. Those little girls will never own lives. You have known and have hood. They are lled with examples. I forget that we came.” been such bishops, companions, and feel as if I can see Alma following the Two of the blessings that a senior parents. You have seen the hand of angel’s command and then hurrying priesthood companion can give are the Lord in your preparation for the back to teach the wicked people in trust and an example of caring. I saw priesthood duties which He knew Ammonihah who had rejected him.4 I that when my son was given a home would lie ahead of you. can feel the cold in the jail cell when teaching companion who had vastly All of us in the priesthood have an the Prophet Joseph was told by God more priesthood experience than he obligation to help the Lord prepare to take courage and that he was did. His senior companion had been others. There are some things we watched over.5 With those scripture a mission president twice and had can do that could matter most. Even pictures in mind, we can be prepared served in other leadership positions. more powerful than using words in to endure in our service when it Before they were to visit one of our teaching the doctrine will be our seems hard. their assigned families, that seasoned examples of living the doctrine. A father or a bishop or a senior priesthood leader asked to visit my son Paramount in our priesthood home teaching companion who shows in our home beforehand. They allowed service is inviting people to come that he trusts a young priesthood me to listen. The senior companion unto Christ by faith, repentance, bap- holder can change his life. My father opened with prayer, asking for help. tism, and receiving the Holy Ghost. was once asked by a member of the Then he said something like this to my President Thomas S. Monson, for Quorum of the Twelve Apostles to son: “I think we should teach a lesson instance, has given sermons to stir the write a short paper on science and reli- that will sound to this family like a call heart on all those doctrines. But what I gion. My father was a famous scientist to repentance. I think they won’t take it very well from me. I think they would take the message better from you. How do you feel about that?” I remember the terror in my son’s eyes. I can still feel the happiness of that moment when my son accepted the trust. It was not by accident that the bishop put that companionship together. It was by careful prepara- tion that the senior companion had learned about the feelings of that family they were about to teach. It was by inspiration that he felt to step back, to trust an inexperienced youth to call older children of God to repentance and to safety. I don’t know the outcome of their visit, but I do know that a bishop, a

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E14N46-69 Priesthood session.indd 61 10/15/14 10:42 AM Church presides over the preparatory priesthood as well. His messages over the years of going to the rescue ‘t per- fectly the mandate to take the gospel of repentance and baptism into the lives of others. Quorums of deacons, teachers, and priests counsel regularly to draw every member of the quorum to the Lord. Presidencies assign members to reach out in faith and love. Deacons pass the and a faithful priesthood holder. But Holy Ghost; and then showing forth sacrament with reverence and with I can still remember the moment he afterwards an increase of love toward faith that members will feel the effect handed me the paper he had written him whom thou hast reproved, lest he of the Atonement and resolve to keep and said, “Here, before I send this to esteem thee to be his enemy.” 6 commandments as they partake of the Twelve, I want you to read it. You The word increase has special those sacred emblems. will know if it is right.” He was 32 years meaning in preparing priesthood hold- Teachers and priests pray with older than me and immeasurably more ers when they need correction. The their companions to ful‘ll the charge wise and intelligent. word suggests an increase of a love to watch over the Church, person by I still am strengthened by that trust that was already there. The “showing person. And those companionships from a great father and priesthood forth” is about the increase. Those of pray together as they learn the needs man. I knew that his trust was not in you who are preparing priesthood and the hopes of heads of families. me but that God could and would tell holders will certainly see them make As they do, they are being prepared me what was true. You seasoned com- mistakes. Before they receive your cor- for the great day when they will pre- panions can bless a young priesthood rection, they must have felt of your love side as a father, in faith, in a family of holder in preparation whenever you early and steadily. They must have felt their own. can show him that kind of trust. It will your genuine praise before they will I testify that all who serve together help him trust the gentle feeling of accept your correction. in the priesthood are preparing a inspiration for himself when it comes The Lord Himself held those of the people for the coming of the Lord as he someday places his hands to lesser priesthood with a regard that to His Church. God the Father lives. seal the blessing to heal a child the honors their potential and their value I know—I know—that Jesus is the doctors say will die. That trust has to Him. Listen to these words, spoken Christ and that He loves us. President helped me more than once. by John the Baptist when the Aaronic Thomas S. Monson is the Lord’s living Our success in preparing others in Priesthood was restored: “Upon you prophet. I so testify in the sacred the priesthood will come in propor- my fellow servants, in the name of name of Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ tion to how much we love them. That Messiah I confer the Priesthood of NOTES will be especially true when we must Aaron, which holds the keys of the 1. Doctrine and Covenants 84:26, 30; 107:14. 2. Alma 42:10, 13. correct them. Think of the moment ministering of angels, and of the gos- 3. Alma 12:24. when an Aaronic Priesthood holder, pel of repentance, and of baptism by 4. See Alma 8:14–18. perhaps at the sacrament table, makes immersion for the remission of sins; 5. See Doctrine and Covenants 122:9. 6. Doctrine and Covenants 121:43. a mistake in performing an ordinance. and this shall never be taken again 7. Doctrine and Covenants 13:1. That is a serious matter. Sometimes the from the earth, until the sons of Levi 8. See Doctrine and Covenants 107:14. error requires public correction with a do offer again an offering unto the possibility of resentment, a feeling of Lord in righteousness.” 7 humiliation or even of being rejected. The Aaronic Priesthood is an Shareable Video and Quote You will remember the Lord’s appendage to the greater Melchizedek Scan this QR code or visit lds.org/go/ 8 Oct14Conf11 to watch this talk or to counsel: “Reproving betimes with Priesthood. As the president of all nd a shareable video highlight and sharpness, when moved upon by the the priesthood, the President of the picture quote. 62

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General Authorities and General Officers of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints

THE FIRST PRESIDENCY

Henry B. Eyring Thomas S. Monson Dieter F. Uchtdorf First Counselor President Second Counselor THE QUORUM OF THE TWELVE APOSTLES

Boyd K. Packer L. Tom Perry Russell M. Nelson Dallin H. Oaks M. Russell Ballard Richard G. Scott

Robert D. Hales Jeffrey R. Holland David A. Bednar Quentin L. Cook D. Todd Christofferson Neil L. Andersen

THE PRESIDENCY OF THE SEVENTY 10/15/14 9:39AM

Ronald A. Rasband L. Whitney Clayton Donald L. Hallstrom Richard J. Maynes Craig C. Christensen Ulisses Soares Lynn G. Robbins Ronald A. Rasband L. Whitney Clayton Donald L. Hallstrom Richard J. Maynes Craig C. Christensen Ulisses Soares Lynn G. Robbins E14N00_GA_Chart.indd 73

THE FIRST QUORUM OF THE SEVENTY THE SECOND QUORUM OF THE SEVENTY (in alphabetical order) (in alphabetical order)

Marcos A. Aidukaitis Jose L. Alonso Ian S. Ardern Mervyn B. Arnold David S. Baxter Shayne M. Bowen Craig A. Cardon Yoon Hwan Choi Don R. Clarke Carl B. Cook Lawrence E. Corbridge Claudio R. M. Costa Wilford W. Andersen Koichi Aoyagi Randall K. Bennett Bruce A. Carlson

LeGrand R. Curtis Jr. Benjamín De Hoyos Edward Dube Kevin R. Duncan Larry J. Echo Hawk Stanley G. Ellis David F. Evans Enrique R. Falabella Eduardo Gavarret Robert C. Gay Carlos A. Godoy Christoffel Golden J. Devn Cornish Timothy J. Dyches Bradley D. Foster Randy D. Funk

Gerrit W. Gong Walter F. González C. Scott Grow James J. Hamula Daniel L. Johnson Paul V. Johnson Patrick Kearon Jörg Klebingat Erich W. Kopischke Marcus B. Nash S. Gifford Nielsen Brent H. Nielson O. Vincent Haleck Kevin S. Hamilton Larry S. Kacher Larry R. Lawrence

Allan F. Packer Kevin W. Pearson Anthony D. Perkins Paul B. Pieper Rafael E. Pino Bruce D. Porter Dale G. Renlund Michael T. Ringwood Joseph W. Sitati Steven E. Snow Michael John U. Teh José A. Teixeira Per G. Malm Hugo E. Martinez James B. Martino Jairo Mazzagardi

Juan A. Uceda Arnulfo Valenzuela Francisco J. Viñas W. Christopher Waddell Scott D. Whiting Chi Hong (Sam) Wong Kazuhiko Yamashita Jorge F. Zeballos Claudio D. Zivic W. Craig Zwick Adrián Ochoa Kent F. Richards Gregory A. Schwitzer Terence M. Vinson

THE PRESIDING BISHOPRIC

Larry Y. Wilson

Gérald Caussé Gary E. Stevenson Dean M. Davies First Counselor Presiding Bishop Second Counselor GENERAL OFFICERS SUNDAY SCHOOL YOUNG WOMEN RELIEF SOCIETY PRIMARY YOUNG MEN

10/15/14 9:40AM John S. Tanner Tad R. Callister Devin G. Durrant Carol F. McConkie Bonnie L. Oscarson Neill F. Marriott Carole M. Stephens Linda K. Burton Linda S. Reeves Jean A. Stevens Rosemary M. Wixom Cheryl A. Esplin Larry M. Gibson David L. Beck Randall L. Ridd First Counselor President Second Counselor First Counselor President Second Counselor First Counselor President Second Counselor First Counselor President Second Counselor First Counselor President Second Counselor

October 2 014 Pictured clockwise from top left are Church members and missionaries in Alexandria, Virginia, USA; Johannesburg, South Africa; Cuauhtémoc, Mexico; Saipan, Northern Mariana Islands; Peachtree Corners, Georgia, USA; Canoas, Brazil; San Lorenzo, Paraguay; Verona, Wisconsin, USA; and Waterford, Ireland.

E14N46-69 Priesthood session.indd 66 10/15/14 3:09 PM in an effort to nd and to sink the By President Thomas S. Monson mighty Bismarck. During these battles, shell after shell in‚icted only supercial damage on the Bismarck. Was it unsinkable after all? Then a torpedo Guided Safely Home scored a lucky hit, which jammed the Bismarck’s rudder. Repair efforts proved fruitless. With guns primed We look heavenward for that unfailing sense of direction, and the crews at ready, the Bismarck that we might chart and follow a wise and proper course. could only steer a slow circle. Just beyond reach was the powerful German air force. The Bismarck could not reach the safety of home port. rethren, we are assembled as a Hood, engaged in battle the Bismarck Neither could provide the needed mighty body of the priesthood, and the German cruiser Prinz Eugen. haven, for the Bismarck had lost the Bboth here in the Conference Within ve minutes the Bismarck ability to steer a charted course. No Center and in locations throughout had sent to the depths of the Atlantic rudder, no help, no port. The end the world. I am honored yet humbled the Hood and all but three men of drew near. British guns blazed as the by the responsibility which is mine to a crew of over 1,400. The other German crew scuttled and sank the address a few remarks to you. I pray British battleship, the Prince of Wales, once seemingly indestructible vessel. for the Spirit of the Lord to attend me had suffered heavy damage and The hungry waves of the Atlantic rst as I do so. turned away. lapped at the sides and then swal- Seventy-ve years ago, on Over the next three days the lowed the pride of the German navy. February 14, 1939, in Hamburg, Bismarck was engaged again and The Bismarck was no more.1 Germany, a public holiday was again by British warships and aircraft. Like the Bismarck, each of us is celebrated. Amid fervent speeches, In all, the British concentrated the a miracle of engineering. Our cre- cheering throngs, and the playing of strength of ve battleships, two aircraft ation, however, was not limited by patriotic anthems, the new battleship carriers, 11 cruisers, and 21 destroyers human genius. Man can devise the Bismarck was put to sea via the River Elbe. This, the most powerful vessel a‚oat, was a breathtaking spectacle of armor and machinery. Construction required more than 57,000 blueprints for the 380-millimeter, radar-controlled, double-gun turrets. The vessel fea- tured 28,000 miles (45,000 km) of electrical circuits. It weighed over 35,000 tons, and armor plate provided maximum safety. Majestic in appear- ance, gigantic in size, awesome in repower, the mighty colossus was considered unsinkable. The Bismarck’s appointment with destiny came more than two years later, when on May 24, 1941, the two most powerful warships in the British Navy, the Prince of Wales and the

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E14N46-69 Priesthood session.indd 67 10/15/14 10:52 AM most complex machines but cannot As with the mighty Bismarck, so it venturing into places or participating give them life or bestow upon them is with man. The thrust of the turbines in activities which are not worthy of the powers of reason and judgment. and the power of the propellers are you or of that priesthood, pause to These are divine gifts, bestowed only useless without that sense of direction, consider the consequences. by God. that harnessing of the energy, that We who have been ordained to the Like the vital rudder of a ship, directing of the power provided by the priesthood of God can make a differ- brethren, we have been provided a rudder, hidden from view, relatively ence. When we maintain our personal way to determine the direction we small in size but absolutely essential in purity and honor our priesthood, we travel. The lighthouse of the Lord function. become righteous examples for others beckons to all as we sail the seas Our Father provided the sun, the to follow. The Apostle Paul admon- of life. Our purpose is to steer an moon, and the stars—heavenly galaxies ished, “Be thou an example of the undeviating course toward our desired to guide mariners who sail the lanes of believers, in word, in conversation, in goal—even the celestial kingdom of the sea. To us, as we walk the pathway charity, in spirit, in faith, in purity.” 3 He God. A man without a purpose is like of life, He provides a clear map and also wrote that the followers of Christ a ship without a rudder, never likely points the way toward our desired should be “as lights in the world.” 4 to reach home port. To us comes the destination. He cautions: beware the Providing an example of righteous- signal: chart your course, set your sail, detours, the pitfalls, the traps. We can- ness can help to illuminate an increas- position your rudder, and proceed. not be deceived by those who would ingly dark world. lead us astray, those clever pied pipers Many of you will remember of sin beckoning here or there. Instead, President N. Eldon Tanner, who we pause to pray; we listen to that still, served as a counselor to four small voice which speaks to the depths Presidents of the Church. He provided of our souls the Master’s gentle invita- an undeviating example of righteous- tion, “Come, follow me.” 2 ness throughout his career in industry, Yet there are those who do not during service in the government in hear, who will not obey, who prefer to Canada, and as an Apostle of Jesus walk a path of their own making. Too Christ. He gave us this inspired coun- often they succumb to the temptations sel: “Nothing will bring greater joy and which surround all of us and which success than to live according to the can appear so enticing. teachings of the gospel. Be an exam- As bearers of the priesthood, we ple; be an in‰uence for good.” have been placed on earth in troubled He continued: “Every one of us times. We live in a complex world has been foreordained for some work with currents of con‰ict everywhere as [God’s] chosen servant on whom to be found. Political schemes ruin the he has seen —t to confer the priest- stability of nations, despots grasp for hood and power to act in his name. power, and segments of society seem Always remember that people are forever downtrodden, deprived of looking to you for leadership and you opportunity and left with a feeling of are in‰uencing the lives of individu- failure. The sophistries of men ring in als either for good or for bad, which our ears, and sin surrounds us. in‰uence will be felt for generations Ours is the responsibility to be to come.” 5 worthy of all the glorious blessings We are strengthened by the truth our Father in Heaven has in store for that the greatest force in the world us. Wherever we go, our priesthood today is the power of God as it works goes with us. Are we standing in holy through man. To sail safely the seas places? Please, before you put yourself of mortality, we need the guidance of and your priesthood in jeopardy by that Eternal Mariner—even the great 68

E14N46-69 Priesthood session.indd 68 10/15/14 10:58 AM Jehovah. We reach out, we reach up to manner of hurt was found upon him, Daniel, that we might remain true and obtain heavenly help. because he believed in . . . God.” 7 In a faithful despite the sin and temptation A well-known example of one who time of critical need, Daniel’s determi- which surround us. May our testimo- did not reach upward is that of Cain, nation to steer a steady course yielded nies be as deep and as strong as that son of Adam and Eve. Powerful in divine protection and provided a of Jacob, the brother of Nephi, who, potential but weak of will, Cain per- sanctuary of safety. Such protection and when confronted by one who sought in mitted greed, envy, disobedience, and safety can be ours as we also steer that every way possible to destroy his faith, even murder to jam that personal rudder steady course toward our eternal home. declared, “I could not be shaken.” 8 which would have guided him to safety The clock of history, like the sands With the rudder of faith guiding and exaltation. The downward gaze of the hourglass, marks the passage our passage, brethren, we too will ‘nd replaced the upward look; Cain fell. of time. A new cast occupies the stage our way safely home—home to God, In another time and by a wicked of life. The problems of our day loom to dwell with Him eternally. That such king, a servant of God was tested. ominously before us. Throughout the may be so for each of us, I pray in the Aided by the inspiration of heaven, history of the world, Satan has worked sacred name of Jesus Christ, our Savior Daniel interpreted for the king the tirelessly for the destruction of the and Redeemer, amen. ◼ writing on the wall. Concerning the followers of the Savior. If we succumb proffered rewards—even a royal to his enticings, we—like the mighty NOTES 1. See Ludovic Kennedy, Pursuit: The Chase robe, a necklace of gold, and politi- Bismarck—will lose that rudder and Sinking of the Bismarck (1974). cal power—Daniel said, “Let thy gifts which can guide us to safety. Instead, 2. Luke 18:22. be to thyself, and give thy rewards surrounded by the sophistication of 3. 1 Timothy 4:12. 4. Philippians 2:15. 6 to another.” Great riches and power modern living, we look heavenward 5. N. Eldon Tanner, “For They Loved the had been offered to Daniel, rewards for that unfailing sense of direction, Praise of Men More Than the Praise of representing the things of the world that we might chart and follow a wise God,” Ensign, Nov. 1975, 74. 6. Daniel 5:17. and not of God. Daniel resisted and and proper course. Our Heavenly 7. Daniel 6:23. remained faithful. Father will not leave our sincere peti- 8. Jacob 7:5. Later, when Daniel worshipped tion unanswered. As we seek heavenly God despite a decree declaring such help, our rudder, unlike that of the to be forbidden, he was thrown into a Bismarck, will not fail. Shareable Video and Quote den of lions. The biblical account tells As we venture forth on our individ- Scan this QR code or visit lds.org/go/ Oct14Conf12 to watch this talk or to us that the following morning, “Daniel ual voyages, may we sail safely the seas nd a shareable video highlight and was taken up out of the den, and no of life. May we have the courage of a picture quote.

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confusion. The dream included a command from God for Lehi’s sons By President Henry B. Eyring to run the terrible risk of returning to First Counselor in the First Presidency Jerusalem for the plates which con- tained the word of God so that they could take them on their journey to the promised land. We often quote Nephi’s brave dec- Continuing Revelation laration when his father asked them to go back to Jerusalem. You know Human judgment and logical thinking will not be enough to the words: “I will go and do the things which the Lord hath commanded.” 2 get answers to the questions that matter most in life. We need When Lehi heard Nephi speak revelation from God. those words, the scripture says that “he was exceedingly glad.” 3 He was glad because he knew that Nephi had been blessed with conrming y hope for us today is that The very existence of the Church we may all feel love and light stems from a young boy knowing that Mfrom God. There are many lis- was true. Young Joseph Smith knew tening today who feel a pressing need that he could not of himself know for that blessing of personal revelation which church to join. So he asked of from our loving Heavenly Father. God, as the book of James told him he For mission presidents, it may be could. God the Father and His Beloved a pleading prayer to know how to Son appeared in a grove of trees. encourage a struggling missionary. They answered the question that was For a father or a mother in a war- beyond Joseph’s power to resolve. ravaged place in the world, it will be Not only was he then called of a desperate need to know whether to God to establish the true Church of move their family to safety or whether Jesus Christ, but with it was restored to stay where they are. Hundreds the power to invoke the Holy Ghost of stake presidents and bishops are so that revelation from God could be praying today to know how to help continuous. the Lord rescue a lost sheep. And for President Boyd K. Packer described a prophet, it will be to know what the that identifying mark of the true Church Lord would have him speak to the this way: “Revelation continues in the Church and to a world in turmoil. Church: the prophet receiving it for We all know that human judg- the Church; the president for his stake, ment and logical thinking will not be his mission, or his quorum; the bishop enough to get answers to the ques- for his ward; the father for his family; tions that matter most in life. We need the individual for himself.” 1 revelation from God. And we will That wonderful process of revela- need not just one revelation in a time tion begins, ends, and continues as of stress, but we need a constantly we receive personal revelation. Let’s renewed stream. We need not just take the great Nephi, son of Lehi, as one ‚ash of light and comfort, but we our example. His father had a dream. need the continuing blessing of com- Others in Nephi’s family viewed munication with God. Lehi’s dream as evidence of mental 70

E14N70-88 Sun a.m. session.indd 70 10/16/14 6:33 AM revelation that his father’s dream was a curfew for herself but also kept the If you had listened, you would have true communication from God. Nephi Sabbath just as she had been taught at thought it was only friendly talk about did not say, “I will go and do what my home. The revelation of a parent has life. But to this day, what she said father told me to do.” Rather he said, its lasting effect in the personal revela- comes back to my mind with the same “I will go and do the things which the tion that continues in the child. power I feel when I read the transcript Lord hath commanded.” My mother must have understood of my patriarchal blessing. From your experience in your own that principle of revelation. As a young I don’t know what she was asking families, you also know why Lehi was man, I would close the back door for in prayer as she waited for me “exceedingly glad.” His joy came from very quietly when I came home late in those nights. I suppose it would have knowing that Nephi had received the evening. I had to pass my moth- been in part for my safety. But I am con rming revelation. er’s bedroom on the way to mine. sure that she prayed as a patriarch Many parents have set family rules However quietly I tiptoed, just as I got does before he gives a blessing. He for when a teenage child is to return to her half-opened door, I would hear prays that his words will come to the home at night. But think of the joy my name, ever so quietly, “Hal, come recipient as the words of God, not his. when the parent learns, as one did in for a moment.” My mother’s prayers for that blessing just a few weeks ago, that a child who I would go in and sit on the edge were answered on my head. She is in had recently left home not only set a of her bed. The room would be dark. the spirit world and has been for more

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E14N70-88 Sun a.m. session.indd 71 10/16/14 6:33 AM than 40 years. I am sure she has been elders quorum presidents reported life. As a very young man I was called exceedingly glad that I was blessed, as what they had done. They described to be counselor to an elders quorum she asked, to hear in her counsel the what direction they had received and president. I have in turn been coun- commands of God. And I have tried to followed from their leaders. They selor to two district presidents and to go and do as she hoped I would. talked as well about what they had a Presiding Bishop of the Church, a I have seen that same miracle of been inspired to do as they carried out member of the Quorum of the Twelve continuing revelation in stake presi- the instructions to nd families and to Apostles, and a counselor to two dents and bishops in the Church. And, help them. It was late that day. They Presidents of the Church. I have seen as is true in the revelation to family were all too tired to show much emo- the revelation given to them and then leaders, the value of the revelation tion except their love of the people. con rmed to their followers. depends on those who are being led The stake president gave a few nal That personal revelation of accep- receiving con rming revelation. directions to the bishops, and then he tance, for which we all long, does not I saw that miracle of revelation in announced a time for the next report come easily, nor does it come simply the aftermath of the breaking of the meeting, early the following morning. for the asking. The Lord gave this stan- Teton Dam in Idaho in 1976. Many of The next morning the leader of dard for the capacity to receive such you know the story of what happened. the federal team arrived 20 minutes witnesses from God. It is a guide for But the example of continuing revela- before the report and assignment anyone seeking personal revelation, as tion that was passed through a stake meeting was scheduled to begin. I we all must. president could bless all of us in the stood nearby. I heard him say quietly “Let thy bowels also be full of days ahead. to the stake president, “President, what charity towards all men, and to the Thousands of people were evacu- would you like me and the members household of faith, and let virtue ated as their homes were destroyed. of my team to do?” garnish thy thoughts unceasingly; then Directing the relief efforts fell to a local What that man saw I have seen in shall thy con dence wax strong in the stake president, a farmer. I was in a times of distress and testing all over presence of God; and the doctrine of classroom at Ricks College just a few the world. President Packer was right. the priesthood shall distil upon thy days after the disaster. A leader from Continuing revelation comes to stake soul as the dews from heaven. the federal disaster agency had arrived. presidents to lift them above their own “The Holy Ghost shall be thy con- He and his chief assistants came to the wisdom and capacities. And, beyond stant companion.” 4 large room where the stake president that, the Lord gives to those whom the From that I draw counsel for us all. had assembled bishops and even some president leads a con rming witness Don’t take lightly the feeling you get of ministers of other local religions. I was that his commands come from God love for the prophet of God. Wherever there because many of the survivors through the Holy Ghost to an imper- I go in the Church, whoever the prophet were being cared for and housed on fect human being. is at the time, members will ask, “When the campus of the college where I was I have been blessed to be called to you get back to Church headquarters, the president. follow inspired leaders much of my will you please tell the prophet how As the meeting began, the rep- much we love him?” resentative from the federal disaster That is far more than hero worship agency stood and began to say with or the feelings we sometimes have the voice of authority what needed to of admiring heroic gures. It is a gift be done. After he listed each of the from God. With it you will receive ve or six tasks he said were essential, more easily the gift of con rming rev- the stake president responded quietly, elation when he speaks in his of ce as “We’ve already done that.” the Lord’s prophet. The love you feel After a few minutes, the man is the love the Lord has for whoever is from the federal disaster agency His spokesman. said, “I think that I will just sit down That is not easy to feel continu- and watch for a while.” He and his ally because the Lord often asks His deputies then listened as bishops and prophets to give counsel that is hard 72

E14N70-88 Sun a.m. session.indd 72 10/16/14 6:50 AM bind people for eternity in the celestial kingdom. She had conrmed to her mind and heart that the promise the Lord made to Peter still continued in the Church: “Whatsoever thou shalt bind on earth shall be bound in heaven.” 5 She knew that for herself, by revelation, from God. Let us go back to our starting point. “Revelation continues in the Church: the prophet receiving it for the Church; for people to accept. The enemy of Tears owed down his cheeks. I the president for his stake, his mis- our souls will try to lead us to take saw that his wife was also weeping. sion, or his quorum; the bishop for offense and to doubt the prophet’s I waited for them to compose them- his ward; the father for his family; the calling from God. selves. She stood up and stepped individual for himself.” 6 I have seen how the Holy Ghost toward me. She looked up and then I bear you my witness that is true. can touch a softened heart to protect said timidly that she was happy but Heavenly Father hears your prayers. a humble disciple of Jesus Christ with also sad. She said that she had so He loves you. He knows your name. conrming revelation. loved going to the temple with her Jesus is the Christ, the Son of God, The prophet sent me to confer the husband but that now she felt that she and our Redeemer. He loves you sacred sealing power on a man in a should not go with him because God beyond your ability to comprehend. small city far away. Only the prophet had chosen him for so glorious and God pours out revelation, through of God has the keys to decide who sacred a trust. Then she said that her the Holy Ghost, on His children. He is to receive the sacred power which feeling of being inadequate to be his speaks to His prophet on the earth, was given by the Lord to Peter, the temple companion came because she who today is Thomas S. Monson. I senior Apostle. I had received that could neither read nor write. witness that he holds and exercises all same sealing power, but only by direc- I assured her that her husband the keys of the priesthood on earth. tion of the President of the Church would be honored by her company in As you listen in this conference to could I confer it on another. the temple because of her great spiri- the words of those God has called to So, in a room in a chapel far from tual power. As well as I could with my speak for Him, I pray that you will Salt Lake, I laid my hands on the head small grasp of her language, I told her receive the conrming revelation you of a man chosen by the prophet to that God had revealed things to her need to nd your way on the journey receive the sealing power. His hands beyond all earthly education. home again, to dwell with Him in a showed the signs of a lifetime of tilling She knew by the gift of the Spirit sealed family forever. In the sacred the soil for a meager living. His tiny that God had given, through His name of Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ wife sat near him. She also showed prophet, a supernal trust to the hus- signs of years of hard labor alongside band she loved. She knew for her- NOTES 1. Boyd K. Packer, “We Believe All That God her husband. self that the keys to give that sealing Has Revealed,” Ensign, May 1974, 95. I spoke the words given by the power were held by a man she had 2. 1 Nephi 3:7. prophet: “Under delegation of author- never seen and yet knew for herself 3. 1 Nephi 3:8. 4. Doctrine and Covenants 121:45–46. ity and responsibility from,” and then was the living prophet of God. She 5. Matthew 16:19. the name of the prophet, “who holds knew, without having to be told by 6. Boyd K. Packer, Ensign, May 1974, 95. all the keys of the priesthood on any living witness, that the prophet earth at this time, I confer the sealing had prayed over the name of her hus- power on,” and I gave the name of band. She knew for herself that God Shareable Video and Quote the man and then the name of the had made the call. Scan this QR code or visit lds.org/go/ Oct14Conf13 to watch this talk or to temple where he would serve as a She also knew that the ordinances nd a shareable video highlight and sealer. her husband would perform would picture quote.

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E14N70-88 Sun a.m. session.indd 73 10/16/14 6:50 AM By Elder Russell M. Nelson head of God’s Church in all dispensa- Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles tions, from Adam to the present day.4 Prophets testify of Jesus Christ—of His divinity and of His earthly mission and ministry.5 We honor the Prophet Joseph Smith as the prophet of this Sustaining the Prophets last dispensation. And we honor each man who has succeeded him as Our sustaining of prophets is a personal commitment that we President of the Church. When we sustain prophets and will do our utmost to uphold their prophetic priorities. other leaders,6 we invoke the law of common consent, for the Lord said, “It shall not be given to any one to go forth to preach my gospel, or to build resident Eyring, we thank you experience doing such a procedure on up my church, except he be ordained for your instructive and inspiring a 77-year-old patient in heart failure. I by some one who has authority, and Pmessage. My dear brothers and did not recommend the operation and it is known to the church that he sisters, we thank you for your faith so informed President Kimball and the has authority and has been regularly and devotion. Yesterday, we were First Presidency. But, in faith, President ordained by the heads of the church.” 7 each invited to sustain Thomas S. Kimball chose to have the operation, This gives us, as members of the Monson as the prophet of the Lord only because it was advised by the Lord’s Church, con€dence and faith and President of the Lord’s Church. First Presidency. That shows how he as we strive to keep the scriptural And often we sing, “We thank thee, sustained his leaders! And his decision injunction to heed the Lord’s voice 8 O God, for a prophet.” 1 Do you and made me tremble! as it comes through the voice of His I really understand what that means? Thanks to the Lord, the opera- servants the prophets.9 All leaders in Imagine the privilege the Lord has tion was a success. When President the Lord’s Church are called by proper given us of sustaining His prophet, Kimball’s heart resumed beating, it authority. No prophet or any other whose counsel will be untainted, did so with great power! At that very leader in this Church, for that matter, unvarnished, unmotivated by any moment, I had a clear witness of the personal aspiration, and utterly true! Spirit that this man would one day How do we really sustain a become President of the Church! 3 prophet? Long before he became You know the outcome. Only President of the Church, President 20 months later, President Kimball Joseph F. Smith explained, “It is an became President of the Church. And important duty resting upon the Saints he provided bold and courageous who . . . sustain the authorities of leadership for many years. the Church, to do so not only by the Since then we have sustained lifting of the hand, the mere form, but Presidents Ezra Taft Benson, in deed and in truth.” 2 Howard W. Hunter, Gordon B. Well do I remember my most Hinckley, and now Thomas S. Monson unique “deed” to sustain a prophet. As as Presidents of the Church—prophets a medical doctor and cardiac surgeon, in every sense of the word! I had the responsibility of perform- My dear brothers and sisters, ing open-heart surgery on President if the Restoration did anything, it Spencer W. Kimball in 1972, when he shattered the age-old myth that God was Acting President of the Quorum had stopped talking to His children. of the Twelve Apostles. He needed a Nothing could be further from the very complex operation. But I had no truth. A prophet has stood at the 74

E14N70-88 Sun a.m. session.indd 74 10/16/14 6:56 AM has ever called himself or herself. No The living Lord leads His living The Apostle with the longest prophet has ever been elected. The Church! 12 The Lord reveals His will for seniority in the of€ce of Apostle pre- Lord made that clear when He said, the Church to His prophet. Yesterday, sides.15 That system of seniority will “Ye have not chosen me, but I have after we were invited to sustain usually bring older men to the of€ce chosen you, and ordained you.” 10 You Thomas S. Monson as President of of President of the Church.16 It pro- and I do not “vote” on Church leaders the Church, we also had the privilege vides continuity, seasoned maturity, at any level. We do, though, have the to sustain him, the counselors in the experience, and extensive preparation, privilege of sustaining them. First Presidency, and members of the as guided by the Lord. The ways of the Lord are different Quorum of the Twelve Apostles as The Church today has been orga- from the ways of man. Man’s ways prophets, seers, and revelators. Think nized by the Lord Himself. He has remove people from of€ce or busi- of that! We sustain 15 men as prophets put in place a remarkable system of ness when they grow old or become of God! They hold all the priesthood governance that provides redundancy disabled. But man’s ways are not and keys that have ever been conferred and backup. That system provides never will be the Lord’s ways. Our sus- upon man in this dispensation. for prophetic leadership even when taining of prophets is a personal com- The calling of 15 men to the holy the inevitable illnesses and incapaci- mitment that we will do our utmost to apostleship provides great protection ties may come with advancing age.17 uphold their prophetic priorities. Our for us as members of the Church. Why? Counterbalances and safeguards sustaining is an oath-like indication that Because decisions of these leaders abound so that no one can ever lead we recognize their calling as a prophet must be unanimous.13 Can you imagine the Church astray. Senior leaders are to be legitimate and binding upon us. how the Spirit needs to move upon constantly being tutored such that one Twenty-six years before he became 15 men to bring about unanimity? day they are ready to sit in the highest President of the Church, then-Elder These 15 men have varied educational councils. They learn how to hear the George Albert Smith said: “The obli- and professional backgrounds, with voice of the Lord through the whisper- gation that we make when we raise differing opinions about many things. ings of the Spirit. our hands . . . is a most sacred one. It Trust me! These 15 men—prophets, While serving as First Counselor to does not mean that we will go quietly seers, and revelators—know what the President Ezra Taft Benson, who was on our way and be willing that the will of the Lord is when unanimity is then nearing the end of his mortal prophet of the Lord shall direct this reached! They are committed to see life, President Gordon B. Hinckley work, but it means . . . that we will that the Lord’s will truly will be done. explained: stand behind him; we will pray for The Lord’s Prayer provides the pattern “The principles and procedures him; we will defend his good name, for each of these 15 men when they which the Lord has put in place for and we will strive to carry out his pray: “Thy will be done on earth as it the governance of His church make instructions as the Lord shall direct.” 11 is in heaven.” 14 provision for any . . . circumstance. It is

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E14N70-88 Sun a.m. session.indd 75 10/16/14 6:56 AM First Presidency and Quorum of the Twelve [Apostles] assures [us] that it will always be in good hands and that, come what may, there is no need to worry or to fear. Our Savior, Jesus Christ, whom we follow, whom we worship, and whom we serve, is ever at the helm.” 19 President Monson, we thank you for those truths! And we thank you for your lifetime of exemplary and dedicated service. May I presume to speak for the members of the Church throughout the world in our united and sincere expression of gratitude for you. We honor you! We love you! We sustain you, not only with uplifted hands but with all our hearts and consecrated efforts. Humbly and fervently, “we ever pray for thee, our prophet dear”! 20 In the name of Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ important . . . that there be no doubts doctrine are considered deliberately or concerns about the governance of and prayerfully by the First Presidency NOTES 1. “We Thank Thee, O God, for a Prophet,” 18 the Church and the exercise of the and the Twelve together.” Hymns, no. 19. prophetic gifts, including the right to Last year, when President Monson 2. Teachings of Presidents of the Church: inspiration and revelation in adminis- reached the milestone of 5 years of Joseph F. Smith (1998), 211; emphasis added. This statement was made in tering the affairs and programs of the service as President of the Church, he 1898, when President Smith was Second Church, when the President may be ill reŒected on his 50 years of apostolic Counselor in the First Presidency. or is not able to function fully. service and made this statement: “Age 3. For further details, see Spencer J. Condie, Russell M. Nelson: Father, Surgeon, Apostle “The First Presidency and the eventually takes its toll on all of us. (2003), 153–56. Council of the Twelve Apostles, called However, we join our voices with King 4. See Bible Dictionary, “Dispensations.” and ordained to hold the keys of the Benjamin, who said, . . . ‘I am like as 5. A number of prophets foretold the coming of the Lord, including Lehi (see 1 Nephi priesthood, have the authority and yourselves, subject to all manner of 1:19), Nephi (see 1 Nephi 11:31–33; responsibility to govern the Church, to in rmities in body and mind; yet I have 19:7–8), Jacob (see Jacob 4:4–6), Benjamin administer its ordinances, to expound been chosen . . . and consecrated by (see Mosiah 3:5–11, 15), Abinadi (see Mosiah 15:1–9), Alma (see Alma 40:2), and its doctrine, and to establish and main- my father, . . . and have been kept and Samuel the Lamanite (see Helaman 14:12). tain its practices.” preserved by his matchless power, to Before the Savior was born in Bethlehem, President Hinckley continued: serve you with all the might, mind and they foresaw His atoning sacri¥ce and His subsequent Resurrection. “When the President is ill or not strength which the Lord hath granted 6. The principle of sustaining leaders is able to function fully in all of the unto me’ (Mosiah 2:11).” fundamental throughout the Lord’s Church. duties of his of ce, his two Counselors President Monson continued: A person is sustained before being set apart to a calling or being ordained to an together comprise a Quorum of “Despite any health challenges that of¥ce in the priesthood. the First Presidency. They carry on may come to us, despite any weak- 7. Doctrine and Covenants 42:11. The with the day-to-day work of the ness in body or mind, we serve to practice of sustaining our leaders was implemented on April 6, 1830, when the Presidency. . . . the best of our ability. I assure you Church was organized, and in March 1836, “. . . But any major questions of that the Church is in good hands. The when members of the First Presidency and policy, procedures, programs, or system set up for the Council of the the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles were 76

E14N70-88 Sun a.m. session.indd 76 10/16/14 7:01 AM sustained as prophets, seers, and revelators By Carol F. McConkie (see History of the Church, 1:74–77; 2:417). First Counselor in the Young Women General Presidency 8. The Book of Mormon warns of danger if we disregard prophetic teachings. From it we read that “the great and spacious building was the pride of the world; and it fell, and the fall thereof was exceedingly great. And the angel of the Lord spake . . . , saying: Thus shall be the destruction of all Live according to the nations, kindreds, tongues, and people, that shall ¥ght against the twelve apostles of the Lamb” (1 Nephi 11:36). 9. See Daniel 9:10; Amos 3:7; Doctrine and Words of the Prophets Covenants 21:1, 4–5; 124:45–46. 10. John 15:16. The ¥fth article of faith clari¥es: “We believe that a man must be called of God, by prophecy, and by To be in harmony with heaven’s divine purposes, we sustain the laying on of hands by those who are the prophet and choose to live according to his words. in authority, to preach the Gospel and administer in the ordinances thereof.” 11. Teachings of Presidents of the Church: George Albert Smith (2011), 64; emphasis added. This quotation came from a ur Father in Heaven loves which he shall give unto you as he conference address by Elder George Albert Smith in 1919. He became President of the all of His children and receiveth them, walking in all holi- Church in 1945. desires that they know and ness before me; 12. See Doctrine and Covenants 1:30, 38. O understand His plan of happiness. “For his word ye shall receive, as if 13. See Doctrine and Covenants 107:27. 14. 3 Nephi 13:10; see also Matthew 6:10; Therefore, He calls prophets, those from mine own mouth, in all patience Luke 11:2. who have been ordained with power and faith. 15. When a President of the Church dies, and authority to act in God’s name for “For by doing these things the gates the First Presidency is dissolved and the 3 counselors take their places in the Quorum the salvation of His children. They are of hell shall not prevail against you.” of the Twelve Apostles. The Quorum of the messengers of righteousness, wit- To be in harmony with heaven’s Twelve then presides over the Church until nesses of Jesus Christ and the in›nite divine purposes, we sustain the the First Presidency is reorganized. That period of time is known as an apostolic power of His Atonement. They hold prophet and choose to live according interregnum. Historically, that interval has the keys of the kingdom of God on to his words. varied in length from four days to three earth and authorize the performance We also sustain President Monson’s and a half years. 16. Of course, that pattern of succession did of saving ordinances. counselors and the Quorum of the not apply to the calling of Joseph Smith, In the Lord’s true Church, “there is Twelve Apostles as prophets, seers, who was foreordained to be the prophet never but one on the earth at a time on and revelators. “They have the right, of the Restoration and the ¥rst President of the Church (see 2 Nephi 3:6–22; see also whom this power and the keys of this the power, and authority to declare the 1 Abraham 3:22–23). priesthood are conferred.” We sustain mind and will of [the Lord] . . . , subject 17. We know that the Lord Himself can call President Thomas S. Monson as our to . . . the President of the Church.” 4 any of us home anytime He chooses. prophet, seer, and revelator. He reveals They speak in the name of Christ. 18. Gordon B. Hinckley, “God Is at the Helm,” Ensign, May 1994, 54; see also Gordon B. the word of the Lord to guide and They prophesy in the name of Christ. Hinckley, “He Slumbers Not, nor Sleeps,” direct our entire Church. As President They do all things in the name of Jesus Ensign, May 1983, 6. J. Reuben Clark Jr. explained, “The Christ. In their words we hear the voice 19. “Message from President Thomas S. Monson,” Church News, Feb. 3, 2013, 9. President of the Church . . . alone of the Lord and we feel the Savior’s 20. “We Ever Pray for Thee,” Hymns, no. 23. has the right to receive revelations for love. “And whatsoever they shall speak the Church.” 2 when moved upon by the Holy Ghost Concerning the living prophet, the shall be scripture . . . and the power of Shareable Video and Quote Lord commands the people of His God unto salvation.” 5 The Lord Himself Scan this QR code or visit lds.org/go/ Church: has spoken: “Whether by mine own Oct14Conf14 to watch this talk or to nd a shareable video highlight and “Thou shalt give heed unto all voice or by the voice of my servants, it picture quote. his words and commandments is the same.” 6

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E14N70-88 Sun a.m. session.indd 77 10/16/14 7:02 AM We are grateful for a church “built The Lord instructed the prophet Elijah Imagine for a moment the dif€culty upon the foundation of the apostles to go to Zarephath, where he would of what the prophet was asking a and prophets, Jesus Christ himself €nd a widow woman whom God starving mother to do. Certainly, God being the chief corner stone.” 7 The had commanded to sustain him. As Himself could have provided food Lord’s house is a house of order, and Elijah approached the city, he saw for His faithful servant. But, acting in we need never be deceived about her gathering sticks. He called to her, the name of the Lord, Elijah did as where to look for answers to our “Fetch me, I pray thee, a little water in directed, which was to ask a beloved questions or uncertain about which a vessel, that I may drink.” 10 daughter of God to sacri€ce that voice to follow. We need not be “And as she was going to fetch which she had in order to sustain the “tossed to and fro, and carried about it, he called to her [again], and said, prophet. with every wind of doctrine.” 8 God Bring me, I pray thee, a morsel of But Elijah also promised a blessing reveals His word through His ordained bread in thine hand. for obedience: “For thus saith the Lord servants, “for the perfecting of the “And she said, As the Lord thy God God of Israel, The barrel of meal shall saints, for the work of the ministry, liveth, I have not a cake, but an hand- not waste, neither shall the cruse of oil for the edifying of the body of Christ: ful of meal in a barrel, and a little oil fail.” 12 The Lord gave the widow the till we all come in the unity of the in a cruse: and, behold, I am gathering opportunity to choose to believe and faith, and of the knowledge of the two sticks, that I may go in and dress obey the words of the prophet. Son of God.” 9 When we choose to live it for me and my son, that we may eat In a world threatened by a famine according to the words of the proph- it, and die.” of righteousness and spiritual starva- ets, we are on the covenant path that Elijah responded, “Fear not; go and tion, we have been commanded to leads to eternal perfection. do as thou hast said: but make me sustain the prophet. As we give heed From a single mother struggling to thereof a little cake rst, and bring it to, uphold, and af€rm prophetic word, survive a season of famine, we learn unto me, and after make for thee and we witness that we have the faith to what it means to sustain a prophet. for thy son.” 11 humbly submit to the will, the wis- dom, and the timing of the Lord. We heed prophetic word even when it may seem unreasonable, inconvenient, and uncomfortable. According to the world’s standards, following the prophet may be unpop- ular, politically incorrect, or socially unacceptable. But following the prophet is always right. “For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts.” 13 “Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.” 14 The Lord honors and favors those who will heed prophetic direction. For the widow of Zarephath, obedience to Elijah saved her life and ultimately the life of her son. As the prophet had promised, “she, and he, and her house, did eat many days . . . accord- ing to the word of the Lord, which he spake by Elijah.” 15 78

E14N70-88 Sun a.m. session.indd 78 10/16/14 7:15 AM The Lord “will feed those who trust Him.” 16 The words of the prophets are like manna to our souls. When we partake, we are blessed, protected, and preserved both temporally and spiritually. When we feast upon their words, we learn how to come unto Christ and live. Elder Bruce R. McConkie wrote that through the prophets “the Lord reveals the truths of salvation, . . . the salvation that is in Christ; and he charts . . . the course leading to eternal life. . . . In every age the Lord gives his people the direction they need at the moment of their peril and danger. And surely in the days ahead there will be times when nothing you, it shall have no power over you NOTES but the wisdom of God, descending to drag you down to . . . misery and 1. Doctrine and Covenants 132:7; see also 18 Handbook 2: Administering the Church from heaven and ƒowing forth from endless wo.” (2010), 2.1.1: “Jesus Christ holds all the prophetic lips, will be able to save his We have a choice. We may choose keys of the priesthood pertaining to His people.” 17 to ignore, triƒe with, trample upon, Church. He has conferred upon each of His Apostles all the keys that pertain For me, the words of prophets or rebel against the words of Christ to the kingdom of God on earth. The taught by my Laurel teacher gave me spoken by His ordained servants. But senior living Apostle, the President of a vision of what a covenant marriage the Savior taught that those who do the Church, is the only person on earth authorized to exercise all priesthood relationship should look like. The so will be cut off from His covenant keys.” words of the prophets gave me the people.19 2. J. Reuben Clark Jr., “When Are the Writings faith and hope that I could prepare As we prayerfully read and study and Sermons of Church Leaders Entitled to the Claim of Scripture?” (address to for and obtain a happy home. Con- sacred prophetic word with faith in seminary and institute personnel, Brigham sistently studying the teachings of the Christ, with real intent, the Holy Ghost Young University, July 7, 1954). prophets, both ancient and modern, will speak truth to our minds and 3. Doctrine and Covenants 21:4–6; emphasis added. sustained me during the strenuous hearts. May we open our ears to hear, 4. J. Reuben Clark Jr., “When Are the Writings and often exhausting years of bear- our hearts to understand, and our and Sermons of Church Leaders Entitled to ing, teaching, and nurturing seven minds that the mysteries of God may the Claim of Scripture?” 20 5. Doctrine and Covenants 68:4. children. The words of the prophets be unfolded to our view. 6. Doctrine and Covenants 1:38. in the scriptures and taught from I bear my witness that Joseph 7. Ephesians 2:20. this pulpit are words of comfort, Smith was and is the prophet called 8. Ephesians 4:14. 9. Ephesians 4:12–13. love, strength, and good cheer that of God to restore the gospel of Jesus 10. 1 Kings 17:10. embrace us all. Christ and His priesthood to the 11. 1 Kings 17:11–13; emphasis added. When we heed the words of the earth. And I testify that in President 12. 1 Kings 17:14. 13. Isaiah 55:9. prophets, we build our homes and our Monson we are led by a true prophet 14. Proverbs 3:5. lives upon an eternally sure foun- of God today. May we choose to 15. 1 Kings 17:15–16. dation, “the rock of our Redeemer, stand with the prophets and live 16. Roger Hoffman, “Consider the Lilies.” 17. Bruce R. McConkie, A New Witness for the who is Christ, the Son of God, . . . according to their words until we Articles of Faith (Deseret Book Company, that when the devil shall send forth become uniŠed in faith, puriŠed in 1985), 478; punctuation modi¥ed; used by his mighty winds, yea, his shafts in Christ, and Šlled with the knowledge permission. 18. Helaman 5:12. the whirlwind, yea, when all his hail of the Son of God. In the sacred 19. See 3 Nephi 20:23. and his mighty storm shall beat upon name of Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ 20. See Mosiah 2:9.

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E14N70-88 Sun a.m. session.indd 79 10/16/14 7:13 AM By Elder Robert D. Hales the Holy Ghost. As I exercised faith and Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles obeyed the commandments, the Holy Ghost testi€ed that what I was learning was true. This is how I came to know for myself. In this process, seeking for personal Eternal Life—to Know revelation is a key. Nephi invites each of us to “feast upon the words of Christ; for behold, the words of Christ will tell Our Heavenly Father you all things what ye should do.” 4 Before my eighth birthday, I sought to know more about baptism. I read the scriptures and prayed. I learned and His Son, Jesus Christ that I would receive the gift of the Holy Ghost when I was con€rmed. God and Christ are literally a Father and a Son—separate, I also began to understand that God distinct, individual beings who are wholly unied in and Christ are literally a Father and a Son—separate, distinct, individual Their purpose. beings who are wholly uni€ed in Their purpose. “We love [Them], because [They] €rst loved us.” 5 And over and over again I observed how They love any years ago I took the feel His love? As a boy, I used to gaze one another and work together for opportunity to study the €nal into the starry sky and ponder and our good. Listen to a few of the many Mtestimonies of the prophets in feel His presence. I thrilled to explore scriptures that teach this truth: each dispensation. Each bore a pow- the magni€cent beauties of God’s cre- Teaching about our premortal life, erful witness of God the Father and ations—from tiny insects to towering Heavenly Father referred to Jesus His Son, Jesus Christ. trees. As I recognized the beauty of Christ as “my Beloved Son, which was As I have read these testimonies— this earth, I knew that Heavenly Father and many others like them over the loved me. I knew that I was a literal years—it has always touched my heart spiritual offspring, that we are all sons to sense how deeply Heavenly Father and daughters of God. loves His eldest Son and how Jesus How did I know this? you might shows His love by His obedience to ask. The scriptures teach, “To some it His Father’s will. I testify that when we is given by the Holy Ghost to know do what is necessary to know Them that Jesus Christ is the Son of God, and know Their love for one another, and . . . to others it is given to believe we will obtain “the greatest of all the on their words, that they also might gifts of God”—even eternal life.1 For have eternal life if they continue “this is life eternal, that they might faithful.” 3 From my perspective, this know thee the only true God, and does not mean that some people will Jesus Christ, whom thou hast sent.” 2 forever be dependent upon the testi- How can this gift be ours? It comes monies of others. through a matter of personal revela- My own testimony grew as I learned tion, which has been spoken of and about Heavenly Father and the Savior taught this morning. from the teachings and testimony of Do you remember the €rst time my parents, teachers, the scriptures— you knew there was a God and could which I read diligently—and especially 80

E14N70-88 Sun a.m. session.indd 80 10/16/14 7:25 AM my Beloved and Chosen from the beginning.” 6 When the Father created the earth, He did so “by [His] Only Begotten” Son.7 Jesus’s mother, Mary, was told she would bring forth “the Son of the Highest.” 8 And when Jesus was a young man, He told His mother that He “must be about [His] Father’s business.” 9 Years later, when the Savior was baptized, Heavenly Father spoke from the heavens, saying, “This is my beloved Son, in whom I am well pleased.” 10 To teach His disciples to pray, Jesus spoke these words: “Our Father which art in heaven, Hallowed be thy name. “Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done in earth, as it is in heaven.” 11 He taught Nicodemus, “God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son.” 12 And He explained His miracles by saying, “The Son can do nothing of himself, but what he seeth the Father do: for what things soever [the Father] doeth, these also doeth the Son likewise.” 13 As the hour of the Atonement drew near, Jesus prayed, saying: “Father, appeared to Mary Magdalene, saying, “Verily . . . the Father and I are the hour is come. . . . I have glori‹ed “I ascend unto my Father, and [to] one.” 22 thee on the earth: I have ‹nished the your Father.” 18 Can we see a pattern in these scrip- work which thou gavest me to do.” 14 When He came to the people on tures that testi‹es of the Father and the Then, as the weight of our sins befell the American continent, His Father Son as distinct individuals and beings? Him, He pled, “O my Father, if it be introduced Him, saying, “Behold my How, then, are They one ? Not because possible, let this cup pass from me: Beloved Son, in whom I am well They are the same person but because nevertheless not as I will, but as thou pleased, in whom I have glori‹ed They are uni‹ed in purpose, equally wilt.” 15 In His last moments on the my name.” 19 When Jesus descended dedicated to “bring[ing] to pass the cross, Jesus prayed, “Father, forgive among the people at the temple, He immortality and eternal life of man.” 23 them; for they know not what they introduced Himself, saying: “Behold, I Jesus is a God, yet He continually do” and then cried out, “Father, into am Jesus Christ. . . . I have . . . glori- distinguishes Himself as a separate, thy hands I commend my spirit.” 16 ‹ed the Father in taking upon me the individual being by praying to His He then visited the spirits of those sins of the world.” 20 When He taught Father and by saying that He is doing who had died, in the spirit world, His doctrine, He explained: His Father’s will. During His minis- to give “them power to come forth, “It is the doctrine which the Father try among the Nephites, He pled, after his resurrection from the dead, hath given unto me; and I bear record “Father, I pray not for the world, but to enter into his Father’s kingdom.” 17 of the Father, and the Father beareth for those whom thou hast given me After the Savior’s Resurrection, He record of me.” 21 out of the world, . . . that I may be in

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E14N70-88 Sun a.m. session.indd 81 10/16/14 7:33 AM Father in the name of Jesus Christ, His Beloved Son. There we glorify and give gratitude to Them. There we receive the Holy Ghost and “the promise which [He gives] unto [us] of eternal life, even the glory of the celestial kingdom.” 32 I bear my special witness that our Savior is Jesus Christ, that He lives, that our Eternal Heavenly Father loves us and watches over us, that we have a prophet in this dispensation—even President Thomas S. Monson—to lead and to guide us. The Holy Spirit testi- them as thou, Father, art in me, that “And when ye shall receive these es that this is true to each who goes we may be one, that I may be glori- things”—including what I have shared and seeks the knowledge. In the name ed in them.” 24 today—“I would exhort you that ye of Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ With this in mind, we are not sur- would ask God, the Eternal Father, NOTES prised that the Restoration of the gos- in the name of Christ, if these things 1. Doctrine and Covenants 14:7. 2. John 17:3. pel began with the appearance of not are not true; and if ye shall ask with a 3. Doctrine and Covenants 46:13–14. one but two glori ed beings. Of his sincere heart, with real intent, having 4. 2 Nephi 32:3. First Vision, the Prophet Joseph Smith faith in Christ, he will manifest the 5. 1 John 4:19. 6. Moses 4:2. testi ed: “One of them spake unto me, truth of it unto you, by the power of 7. Moses 2:1. calling me by name and said, pointing the Holy Ghost. 8. Luke 1:32. to the other—This is My Beloved Son. “And by the power of the Holy 9. Luke 2:49. 25 10. Matthew 3:17. Hear Him! ” Ghost ye may know [with a surety] the 11. Matthew 6:9–10. The young prophet, who went into truth of all things.” 27 12. John 3:16. the grove to nd out which church he Brothers and sisters, I testify that 13. John 5:19; see also verse 17. 14. John 17:1, 4. should join, went with faith unwaver- our Heavenly Father wants us to seek 15. Matthew 26:39. ing and came out with the knowledge this knowledge now. The words of 16. Luke 23:34, 46. and a witness of the only true God the prophet Helaman cry from the 17. Doctrine and Covenants 138:51. 18. John 20:17. and Jesus Christ, whom God had dust: “Remember, remember that it is 19. 3 Nephi 11:7. sent. Joseph, like the prophets before upon the rock of our Redeemer, who 20. 3 Nephi 11:10–11. him, was then to be an instrument for is Christ, the Son of God, that ye must 21. 3 Nephi 11:32. 22. 3 Nephi 11:27. restoring to the world the knowledge build your foundation . . . , a founda- 23. Moses 1:39. that leads to eternal life. tion whereon if men build they cannot 24. 3 Nephi 19:29. You too can seek our Heavenly fall.” 28 Indeed, we will not fail. 25. Joseph Smith—History 1:17. 26. Ether 12:41. Father and “this Jesus of whom the That sure foundation is Jesus Christ. 27. Moroni 10:4–5. prophets and apostles have [testi- He is “the Rock of Heaven.” 29 When 28. Helaman 5:12. ed]” 26 in the scriptures and in this we build our house upon Him, the 29. Moses 7:53. 30. See 3 Nephi 14:24–25. general conference. As you seek a rains of the latter days may descend, 31. Doctrine and Covenants 88:119; 109:8, 16. personal witness—your personal the ”oods may come, and the winds 32. Doctrine and Covenants 88:4. revelation—you will discover that may blow, but we will not fall. We will Heavenly Father has provided a spe- not fail, for our home and our family cial way for you to know the truth for will be founded upon Christ.30 Shareable Video and Quote yourself: through the third member of I testify that such a home is “a Scan this QR code or visit lds.org/go/ 31 Oct14Conf15 to watch this talk or to the Godhead, a personage of spirit we house of glory.” There we gather nd a shareable video highlight and know as the Holy Ghost. together to pray to our Heavenly picture quote. 82

E14N70-88 Sun a.m. session.indd 82 10/16/14 7:38 AM By Elder James J. Hamula over” them, and eternal life would be Of the Seventy assured. In the hours and days that followed, Jesus entered into Gethsemane, was taken to Calvary, and triumphantly departed the Arimathean’s tomb. After The Sacrament and His departure from them, Jesus’s faith- ful disciples in and about Jerusalem came together on the rst day of the week to “break bread,” 12 and they did the Atonement 13 so “steadfastly.” Surely, they did so not only to remember their departed The ordinance of the sacrament needs to become more holy Lord but also to express gratitude for and sacred to each of us. and faith in His marvelous Redemp- tion of them. Signicantly, when Jesus visited His disciples in the Americas, He n the eve of Gethsemane a Christ who was yet to come.10 also instituted the sacrament among and Calvary, Jesus gathered Instead, emblems of the broken ‚esh them.14 In doing so, He said: “This OHis Apostles together one and spilled blood of the Christ who shall ye always observe to do,” 15 and last time to worship. The place was had already come would be taken “it shall be a testimony unto the Father the upper room of a disciple’s home and eaten in remembrance of His that ye do always remember me.” 16 in Jerusalem, and the season was redeeming sacrice.11 Participation Again, at the outset of the Restoration, Passover.1 in this new ordinance would signify the Lord instituted the ordinance of Before them was the traditional to all a solemn acceptance of Jesus the sacrament, giving instructions to Passover meal, consisting of the sac- as the promised Christ and whole- us similar to those He gave His earlier ricial lamb, wine, and unleavened hearted willingness to follow Him and disciples.17 bread, emblems of Israel’s past salva- keep His commandments. To those The ordinance of the sacrament tion from slavery and death 2 and of a who would so signify and conduct has been called “one of the most future redemption yet to be realized.3 their life, spiritual death would “pass holy and sacred ordinances in the As the meal drew to a conclusion, Church.” 18 It needs to become more Jesus took bread, blessed and broke holy and sacred to each of us. Jesus it,4 and gave it to His Apostles, saying, Christ Himself instituted the ordinance “Take, eat.” 5 “This is my body which is to remind us what He did to redeem given for you: this do in remembrance us and to teach us how we may avail of me.” 6 In a similar manner, He took ourselves of His Redemption and the cup of wine, offered a blessing on thereby live with God again. it, and passed it to those around Him, With torn and broken bread, we saying: “This cup is the new testament signify that we remember the physi- in my blood,” 7 “which is shed . . . for cal body of Jesus Christ—a body that the remission of sins.” 8 “This do in was buffeted with pains, af‚ictions, remembrance of me.” 9 and temptations of every kind,19 a In this simple yet profound man- body that bore a burden of anguish ner, Jesus instituted a new ordinance sufcient to bleed at every pore,20 a for God’s covenant people. No longer body whose ‚esh was torn and whose would animal blood be spilled or heart was broken in crucixion.21 We animal ‚esh be consumed in antic- signify our belief that while that same ipation of a redeeming sacrice of body was laid to rest in death, it was

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E14N70-88 Sun a.m. session.indd 83 10/16/14 12:32 PM raised again to life from the grave, Through mortality, every one of us we are cleansed and puri„ed. Jesus never again to know disease, decay, becomes soiled with sin and trans- made this doctrine very clear: or death.22 And in taking the bread to gression.29 We will have had thoughts, “No unclean thing can enter into ourselves, we acknowledge that, like words, and works that will have been [God’s] kingdom; . . . nothing entereth Christ’s mortal body, our bodies will less than virtuous.30 In short, we will into his rest save it be those who be released from the bonds of death, be unclean. And the consequence have washed their garments in my rise triumphantly from the grave, and of uncleanliness in the presence of blood. . . . be restored to our eternal spirits.23 God, Jesus made perfectly clear: “No “Now this is the commandment: With a small cup of water, we sig- unclean thing can dwell . . . in his Repent, all ye ends of the earth, and nify that we remember the blood Jesus presence.” 31 That reality was brought come unto me and be baptized in my spilled and the spiritual suffering He home to Alma the Younger, who, name, that ye may be sancti„ed by the endured for all mankind. We remem- when confronted by a holy angel, was reception of the Holy Ghost, that ye ber the agony that caused great drops so racked, harrowed, and tormented may stand spotless before me at the of blood to fall in Gethsemane.24 We by his uncleanliness that he desired to last day.” 33 remember the bruising and scourg- become “extinct both soul and body, This is the doctrine of Christ.34 ing He endured at the hands of His that [he] might not be brought to stand When we receive this doctrine and captors.25 We remember the blood He in the presence of . . . God.” 32 conduct our lives accordingly, we are spilled from His hands, feet, and side In partaking of the sacramental in effect washed in the blood of Christ while at Calvary.26 And we remem- water, we are taught how we may be and made clean.35 ber His personal reection on His made clean from sin and transgression Through the sacramental prayers, suffering: “How sore you know not, and thus stand in the presence of God. we express our acceptance of this how exquisite you know not, yea, By the shedding of His innocent blood, doctrine of Christ and our commit- how hard to bear you know not.” 27 Jesus Christ satis„ed the demands of ment to live according to it. In our In taking the water to ourselves, we justice for every sin and transgression. petition to God, our Eternal Father, acknowledge that His blood and suf- He then offers to make us clean if we declare that we will “always fering atoned for our sins and that He we will have faith in Him suf„cient to remember” His precious Son. First, we will remit our sins as we embrace and repent; accept all the ordinances and witness our “willingness” to remem- accept the principles and ordinances covenants of salvation, beginning with ber. Then we witness that we “do” of His gospel. baptism; and receive the Holy Ghost. remember. In so doing, we are making Thus, with bread and water, we are Upon our receipt of the Holy Ghost, solemn commitments to exercise faith reminded of Christ’s Redemption of us from death and sin. The sequence of bread „rst and water second is not inconsequential. In partaking of the bread, we are reminded of our own inevitable personal resurrection, which consists of more than just the restoration of body and spirit. By the power of the Resurrection, all of us will be restored to the presence of God.28 That reality presents to us the fundamental question of our lives. The fundamental question facing all of us is not whether we will live but with whom we will live after we die. While every one of us will return to the pres- ence of God, not every one of us will remain with Him. 84

E14N70-88 Sun a.m. session.indd 84 10/16/14 7:43 AM 11. See John 6:51–57; 1 Corinthians 11:24–26; Doctrine and Covenants 20:40. 12. Acts 20:7. 13. Acts 2:42. 14. See 3 Nephi 9:19–20; 18:1–11; 20:3–9; 26:13. 15. 3 Nephi 18:6. 16. 3 Nephi 18:7. 17. See Doctrine and Covenants 20:75; 27:2; 59:9–12. 18. Teachings of Presidents of the Church: Joseph Fielding Smith (2013), 96. “In my judgment the sacrament meeting is the most sacred, the most holy, of all the meetings of the Church” (Teachings: Joseph Fielding Smith, 95). in Jesus Christ and in His Redemption baptism and thereby pursue and 19. See Alma 7:11. of us from death and sin. complete the process of sancti‡ca- 20. See Luke 22:44; Mosiah 3:7; Doctrine and We further declare that we will tion. Indeed, the ordinance of the Covenants 19:18. 21. See Psalm 22:16; John 19:33–34; 20:25–27; “keep his commandments.” That is a sacrament helps us faithfully endure 3 Nephi 11:14; Doctrine and Covenants solemn commitment to repent. If our to the end and receive the fulness of 6:37; James E. Talmage, Jesus the Christ, thoughts, words, or actions have been the Father in the same way Jesus did, 3rd. ed. (1916), 669. 40 22. See Matthew 28:6; Luke 24:6, 39; John less than what they should have been grace for grace. 20:20; Doctrine and Covenants 76:22–24. in days past, we recommit ourselves to I bear witness of the power of Jesus 23. See John 6:51–59; Alma 11:42–44; 40:23; more closely align our lives with His Christ to redeem us all from death and 3 Nephi 27:13–15. 24. See Luke 22:44; Mosiah 3:7; Doctrine and in days to come. sin and of the power of the ordi- Covenants 19:18. Next, we declare that we “are will- nances of His priesthood, including 25. See Isaiah 53:5; Matthew 26:67; 27:26, 29– ing to take upon [us] the name of [the] the sacrament, to prepare us to “see 30; Mark 14:65; 15:15, 19; Luke 22:63–65; 36 John 19:1; Mosiah 15:5. Son.” That is a solemn commitment the face of God, even the Father, and 26. See Matthew 27:35; Mark 15:15; Luke to submit ourselves to His authority live.” 41 May we receive the sacrament 23:33; John 19:16, 33–34. and to do His work, which includes next week, and each week thereafter, 27. Doctrine and Covenants 19:15. 28. See Alma 11:42–45; 3 Nephi 27:13–15. receiving for ourselves every saving with deeper desire and more earnest 29. See Moses 6:55. ordinance and covenant.37 purpose, I pray in the name of the 30. See Matthew 5:27–28; 12:36; James 3:1–13; When we commit ourselves to Lord Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ Mosiah 4:29–30; Alma 12:14. 31. Moses 6:57; see also 1 Corinthians 6:9; these principles, we are promised NOTES Ephesians 5:5; 1 Nephi 10:21; 15:33–34; in the sacramental prayers that we 1. See Matthew 26:17–20; Mark 14:12–17; Alma 7:21; 11:37; 40:26; 3 Nephi 27:19; will “have his Spirit to be with [us].” 38 Luke 22:7–18. Doctrine and Covenants 1:31–32. 2. See Exodus 12; Numbers 28:16–25; Bible 32. Alma 36:15; see also verse 14; Revelation Receiving anew the Spirit is a consum- Dictionary, “Feasts.” 6:15–17; Alma 12:14. mate blessing because the Spirit is the 3. See Exodus 13:12–13; Mosiah 2:3–4; Moses 33. 3 Nephi 27:19–20. agent who cleanses and puri‡es us 5:5–8. 34. See 2 Nephi 31:2–21; 3 Nephi 11:31–41; 39 4. See Matthew 26:26; Mark 14:22; Luke 27:13–22; Doctrine and Covenants 76:40– from sin and transgression. 22:19; 1 Corinthians 11:24. By contrast, 42, 50–54, 69–70. Brothers and sisters, the most when Jesus institutes the sacrament among 35. See 3 Nephi 27:19; see also Revelation important event in time and eternity the Nephites after His Resurrection, He 1:5–6; 7:14–15; Alma 5:21; 13:11–12; Ether is the Atonement of Jesus Christ. He breaks the bread, then blesses it (see 13:10–11; Moses 6:59–60. 3 Nephi 18:3). 36. Doctrine and Covenants 20:77; Moroni 4:3. who accomplished the Atonement has 5. Matthew 26:26; Mark 14:22; 1 Corinthians 37. See Dallin H. Oaks, His Holy Name (1998); given us the ordinance of the sacra- 11:24. Dallin H. Oaks, “Taking upon Us the Name ment to help us not only remember 6. Luke 22:19; see also 1 Corinthians 11:24. of Jesus Christ,” Ensign, May 1985, 80–83. 7. Luke 22:20; see also Matthew 26:28; Mark 38. Doctrine and Covenants 20:77, 79; Moroni but also claim the blessings of this 14:24; 1 Corinthians 11:25. 4:3; 5:2. supreme act of grace. Regular and ear- 8. Matthew 26:28. 39. See Romans 15:16; 1 Corinthians 6:11; nest participation in this sacred ordi- 9. Luke 22:19; see also 3 Nephi 18:11. 2 Nephi 31:17; Alma 5:54; 13:12; 3 Nephi 10. See 2 Nephi 11:4; 25:24–25; Jacob 4:5; 27:20; Moroni 6:4. nance helps us continue to embrace Alma 34:14; 3 Nephi 9:17, 19–20; Moses 40. See Doctrine and Covenants 93:6–20. and live the doctrine of Christ after 5:5–8. 41. Doctrine and Covenants 84:22.

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E14N70-88 Sun a.m. session.indd 85 10/16/14 12:32 PM Heavenly Father to live with Him for- By President Thomas S. Monson ever. Said the prophet Nephi, “Unless a man shall endure to the end, in fol- lowing the example of the Son of the living God, he cannot be saved.” 6 One woman, each time she related Ponder the Path experiences she had during a visit to the Holy Land, would exclaim, “I walked where Jesus walked!” of Thy Feet She had been in the vicinity where Jesus lived and taught. Perhaps she stood on a rock on which He had As we look to Jesus as our Exemplar and as we follow in His once stood or looked at a mountain footsteps, we can return safely to our Heavenly Father. range He had once gazed upon. The experiences, in and of themselves, were thrilling to her; but physically walking where Jesus walked is less y beloved brothers and sisters, Him, that we might gain the exalta- important than walking as He walked. I am humbled as I stand be- tion He planned for us and which we Emulating His actions and following Mfore you this morning. I ask ourselves so much wanted. Although His example are far more important for your faith and prayers in my behalf we are left to Šnd and follow that path than trying to retrace the remnants of as I share with you my message. which will lead us back to our Father the trails He traversed in mortality. All of us commenced a wonderful in Heaven, He did not send us here When Jesus extended to a certain and essential journey when we left the without direction and guidance. Rather, rich man the invitation, “Come, follow spirit world and entered this often- He has given us the tools we need, and me,” 7 He did not intend merely that challenging stage called mortality. The He will assist us as we seek His help the rich man follow Him up and primary purposes of our existence and strive to do all in our power to down the hills and valleys of the upon the earth are to obtain a body endure to the end and gain eternal life. countryside. of –esh and bones, to gain experience To help guide us we have the We need not walk by the shores that could come only through separa- words of God and of His Son found in of Galilee or among the Judean hills tion from our heavenly parents, and our holy scriptures. We have the coun- to walk where Jesus walked. All of us to see if we would keep the com- sel and teachings of God’s prophets. can walk the path He walked when, mandments. In the book of Abraham Of paramount importance, we have with His words ringing in our ears, chapter 3 we read: “And we will prove been provided with a perfect example His Spirit Šlling our hearts, and His them herewith, to see if they will do to follow—even the example of our teachings guiding our lives, we choose all things whatsoever the Lord their Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ—and to follow Him as we journey through God shall command them.” 1 we have been instructed to follow mortality. His example lights the way. When we came to the earth, we that example. Said the Savior Himself: Said He, “I am the way, the truth, and brought with us that great gift from “Come, follow me.” 2 “The works the life.” 8 God—even our agency. In thousands which ye have seen me do that shall As we examine the path Jesus of ways we are privileged to choose for ye also do.” 3 He posed the question, walked, we will see that it took Him ourselves. Here we learn from the hard “What manner of men ought ye to through many of the same challenges taskmaster of experience. We discern be?” And then He answered, “Verily we ourselves will face in life. between good and evil. We differenti- I say unto you, even as I am.” 4 “He For example, Jesus walked the path ate as to the bitter and the sweet. We marked the path and led the way.” 5 of disappointment. Although He expe- learn that decisions determine destiny. As we look to Jesus as our rienced many disappointments, one of I am certain we left our Father with Exemplar and as we follow in His the most poignant was depicted in His an overwhelming desire to return to footsteps, we can return safely to our lament over Jerusalem as He closed 86

E14N70-88 Sun a.m. session.indd 86 10/16/14 7:51 AM His public ministry. The children of a loved one’s choices, or a choice we sight to the eyes of the blind, hearing Israel had rejected the safety of the ourselves make. The path of temp- to the ears of the deaf. protecting wing which He had offered tation too will be the path of each. Jesus walked the path of prayer. them. As He looked out over the city We read in the 29th section of the He taught us how to pray by giving us soon to be abandoned to destruction, Doctrine and Covenants: “And it must the beautiful prayer we know as the He was overcome by emotions of needs be that the devil should tempt Lord’s Prayer. And who can forget His deep sorrow. In anguish He cried out, the children of men, or they could not prayer in Gethsemane, “Not my will, “O Jerusalem, Jerusalem, which killest be agents unto themselves.” 12 but thine, be done”? 14 the prophets, and stonest them that Likewise shall we walk the path of Other instructions given to us by are sent unto thee; how often would pain. We, as servants, can expect no the Savior are at our ›ngertips, found I have gathered thy children together, more than the Master, who left mortal- in the holy scriptures. In His Sermon as a hen doth gather her brood under ity only after great pain and suffering. on the Mount, He tells us to be merci- her wings, and ye would not!” 9 While we will ›nd on our path ful, to be humble, to be righteous, to Jesus walked the path of tempta- bitter sorrow, we can also ›nd great be pure in heart, to be peacemakers. tion. Lucifer, that evil one, amassing happiness. He instructs us to stand up bravely his greatest strength, his most invit- We, with Jesus, can walk the path for our beliefs, even when we are rid- ing sophistry, tempted Him who had of obedience. It will not always be iculed and persecuted. He asks us to fasted for 40 days and 40 nights. Jesus easy, but let our watchword be the let our lights shine so that others may did not succumb; rather, He resisted heritage bequeathed us by Samuel: see them and may desire to glorify our each temptation. His parting words: “Behold, to obey is better than sac- Father in Heaven. He teaches us to “Get thee hence, Satan.” 10 ri›ce, and to hearken than the fat of be morally clean in both our thoughts Jesus walked the path of pain. rams.” 13 Let us remember that the end and our actions. He tells us it is far Consider Gethsemane, where He was result of disobedience is captivity and more important to lay up treasures in “in an agony . . . and his sweat was death, while the reward for obedience heaven than on earth.15 as it were great drops of blood falling is liberty and eternal life. His parables teach with power and down to the ground.” 11 And none can We, like Jesus, can walk the path authority. With the account of the forget His suffering on the cruel cross. of service. As a glowing searchlight good Samaritan, He teaches us to love Each of us will walk the path of of goodness is the life of Jesus as He and to serve our neighbors.16 In His disappointment, perhaps because of ministered among men. He brought parable of the talents, He teaches us an opportunity lost, a power misused, strength to the limbs of the cripple, to improve ourselves and to strive for

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E14N70-88 Sun a.m. session.indd 87 10/16/14 8:10 AM or a television, nor did they do any of the things to which the world usually pays attention. Yet the faithful beat a path to their door in order to partake of the spirit that was there. Their home was a heaven on earth, and the spirit they radiated was of pure peace and goodness. We too can have that spirit and can share it with the world as we walk the path of our Savior and follow His perfect example. We read in Proverbs the admoni- tion, “Ponder the path of thy feet.” 19 As we do, we will have the faith, even the desire, to walk the path which Jesus walked. We will have no doubt that we are on a path which our Father would have us follow. The Savior’s example provides a framework for everything that we do, and His words provide an unfailing guide. His path will take us safely home. May this be our blessing, I pray in the name of Jesus Christ, whom I love, whom I serve, and of whom I testify, amen. ◼ NOTES 1. Abraham 3:25. 17 2. Luke 18:22. perfection. With the parable of the Wacker—two of the most Christlike 3. 3 Nephi 27:21. lost sheep, He instructs us to go to the individuals I have ever known. They 4. 3 Nephi 27:27. rescue of those who have left the path were native Germans who had immi- 5. Eliza R. Snow, “How Great the Wisdom and 18 the Love,” Hymns, no. 195. and have lost their way. grated to eastern Canada, and I met 6. 2 Nephi 31:16. As we strive to place Christ at the them when I served as a mission pres- 7. Luke 18:22. center of our lives by learning His ident there. Brother Wacker earned 8. John 14:6. 9. Luke 13:34. words, by following His teachings, and his living as a barber. Though their 10. Matthew 4:10. by walking in His path, He has prom- means were limited, they shared all 11. Luke 22:44. ised to share with us the eternal life they had. They were not blessed with 12. Doctrine and Covenants 29:39. 13. 1 Samuel 15:22. that He died to gain. There is no higher children, but they nurtured all who 14. Luke 22:42. end than this, that we should choose to entered their home. Men and women 15. See Matthew 5; 6. accept His discipline and become His of learning and sophistication sought 16. See Luke 10:30–37. 17. See Matthew 25:14–30. disciples and do His work throughout out these humble, unlettered servants 18. See Luke 15:4–7. our lives. Nothing else, no other choice of God and counted themselves for- 19. Proverbs 4:26. we make, can make of us what He can. tunate if they could spend an hour in As I think of those who have truly their presence. tried to follow the example of the Their appearance was ordinary, Shareable Video and Quote Savior and who have walked in His their English halting and somewhat Scan this QR code or visit lds.org/go/ Oct14Conf16 to watch this talk or to path, there comes readily to my mind dif‡cult to understand, their home nd a shareable video highlight and the names of Gustav and Margarete unpretentious. They didn’t own a car picture quote. 88

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By Elder M. Russell Ballard Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles Stay in the Boat and Hold On! If we keep our focus on the Lord, we are promised a blessing beyond comparison.

ecently, a friend of mine took his times, we encounter white-water rapids son on a trip down the Colorado that are metaphorically comparable RRiver through Cataract Canyon, to those found in the 14-mile stretch located in southeastern Utah. The through Cataract Canyon—challenges canyon is famous for its 14 miles that may include physical and mental (23 km) of white-water rapids that health issues, the death of a loved one, can be particularly hazardous. dashed dreams and hopes, and—for In preparation for their adven- some—even a crisis of faith when ture, they had carefully reviewed the faced with life’s problems, questions, National Park Service website, which and doubts. contains important information about The Lord in His goodness has pro- personal preparedness and common, vided help, including a boat, essential hidden hazards. supplies such as life jackets, and expe- At the beginning of the trip, one of rienced river guides who give guid- the experienced river guides reviewed ance and safety instructions to help us important safety instructions, empha- make our way down the river of life to sizing three rules that would ensure our nal destination. the group’s safe travel through the Let’s think about rule number one: rapids. “Rule number one: stay in the stay in the boat! boat! Rule number two: always wear a President Brigham Young com- life jacket! Rule number three: always monly employed “the Old Ship Zion” hold on with both hands!” He then as a metaphor for The Church of Jesus said again, with even more emphasis, Christ of Latter-day Saints. “Above all, remember rule number He said on one occasion: “We are one: stay in the boat!” in the midst of the ocean. A storm This adventure reminds me of our comes on, and, as sailors say, she mortal journey. Most of us experience labors very hard. ‘I am not going to periods in our lives where the tranquil stay here,’ says one; ‘I don’t believe waters of life are appreciated. At other this is the “Ship Zion.”’ ‘But we are in

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E14N89-111 Sun p.m. session.indd 89 10/15/14 8:06 AM apostatize. Tragically, they often experience short-term and eventually long-term unintended consequences, not only for themselves but also for their families. Our local Church leaders, like seasoned river guides, have been tutored by life’s experiences; have been trained and mentored by apos- tles and prophets and other of›cers of the midst of the ocean.’ ‘I don’t care, but regularly. Alma asked, “And now the Church; and, most important, have I am not going to stay here.’ Off goes behold, I say unto you, my brethren been tutored by the Lord Himself. the coat, and he jumps overboard. Will [and sisters], if ye have experienced On another occasion this year, he not be drowned? Yes. So with those a change of heart, and if ye have felt I spoke to the young adults of the who leave this Church. It is the ‘Old to sing the song of redeeming love, I Church in the May CES devotional Ship Zion,’ let us stay in it.” 1 would ask, can ye feel so now?” 4 broadcast. I said: On another occasion, President The experienced river guides “I have heard that some people Young said that he also worried about today can be likened to the Church’s think the Church leaders live in a people losing their way when they apostles and prophets and inspired ‘bubble.’ What they forget is that we were being blessed—when life was local priesthood and auxiliary leaders. are men and women of experience, good: “It is in calm weather, when They help us arrive safely to our ›nal and we have lived our lives in so the old ship of Zion is sailing with a destination. many places and worked with many gentle breeze, [and] when all is quiet Recently, I spoke at the new mis- people from different backgrounds. on deck, that some of the brethren sion presidents’ seminar and coun- Our current assignments literally take want to go out in the whaling boats seled these leaders: us around the globe, where we meet to have . . . a swim, and some get “Keep the eyes of the mission on the political, religious, business, and drowned, others drifted away, and the leaders of the Church. . . . We will humanitarian leaders of the world. others again get back to the ship. Let not and . . . cannot lead [you] astray. Although we have visited [leaders in] us stick to the old ship and she will “And as you teach your mission- the White House in Washington, D.C., carry us [safely] into the harbor; you aries to focus their eyes on us, teach and leaders of nations [and religions] need not be concerned.” 2 them to never follow those who think throughout the world, we have also And ›nally, President Young they know more about how to admin- visited the most humble [families and reminded the Saints: “We are on the ister the affairs of the Church than . . . people] on earth. . . . old ship Zion. . . . [God] is at the helm Heavenly Father and the Lord Jesus “When you thoughtfully consider and will stay there. . . . All is right, sing Christ do” through the priesthood our lives and ministry, you will most Hallelujah, for the Lord is here. He dic- leaders who have the keys to preside. likely agree that we see and experi- tates, guides and directs. If the people “I have discovered in my ministry ence the world in ways few others do. will have implicit con›dence in their that those who have become lost [and] You will realize that we live less in a God, never forsake their covenants nor confused are typically those who have ‘bubble’ than most people. . . . their God, He will guide us right.” 3 most often . . . forgotten that when the “. . . There is something about the Given the challenges we all face First Presidency and the Quorum of individual and combined wisdom today, how do we stay on the Old the Twelve speak with a united voice, of the [Church leaders] that should Ship Zion? it is the voice of the Lord for that time. provide some comfort. We have expe- Here is how. We need to expe- The Lord reminds us, ‘Whether by rienced it all, including the conse- rience a continuing conversion by mine own voice or by the voice of my quences of different public laws and increasing our faith in Jesus Christ servants, it is the same’ [D&C 1:38].” 5 policies, disappointments, tragedies, and our faithfulness to His gospel In other words, they leave the and deaths in our own families. We are throughout our lives—not just once Old Ship Zion—they fall away; they not out of touch with your lives.” 6 90

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E14N89-111 Sun p.m. session.indd 91 10/15/14 8:08 AM willing, as Paul taught, to “bear ye one By Elder Richard G. Scott another’s burdens, and so ful‡l the law Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles of Christ.” 13 To bear another’s burdens includes helping, supporting, and understand- ing everyone, including the sick, the in‡rm, the poor in spirit and body, Make the Exercise of the seeker and the troubled, and also other member-disciples—including Church leaders who have been called Faith Your First Priority by the Lord to serve for a season. Brothers and sisters, stay in the boat, use your life jackets, and hold on Despite all of the negative challenges we have in life, we must with both hands. Avoid distractions! take time to actively exercise our faith. And if any one of you have fallen out of the boat, we will seek you, ‡nd you, minister to you, and pull you safely back onto the Old Ship Zion, hen Adam and Eve were in able to understand peace because we where God our Father and the Lord the Garden of Eden, all that feel turmoil.2 Jesus Christ are at the helm and will Wthey needed for daily suste- Our Father in Heaven knew this guide us right, to which I humbly nance was abundantly given to them. would happen to us. It is all part of testify in the name of Jesus Christ, They had no dif‡culties, challenges, His perfect plan of happiness. He amen. ◼ or pain. Because they had never prepared a way through the life of His experienced hard times, they did not perfectly obedient Son, Jesus Christ, NOTES know they could be happy. They had our Savior, for His Atonement to 1. Teachings of Presidents of the Church: Brigham Young (1997), 82–83. never felt turmoil, so they could not overcome every dif‡culty that we may 2. Brigham Young, “Discourse,” Deseret News, feel peace. experience in mortality. Jan. 27, 1858, 373. Eventually Adam and Eve trans- We live in trying times. I need not 3. Brigham Young, “Remarks,” Deseret News, Nov. 18, 1857, 291. gressed the command to not eat of list all of the sources of evil in the 4. Alma 5:26. the fruit of the tree of knowledge of world. It is not necessary to describe 5. M. Russell Ballard, “Mission Leadership” good and evil. By so doing they were all of the possible challenges and (address given at the seminar for new mission presidents, June 25, 2014), 8. no longer in a state of innocence. heartaches that are a part of mortality. 6. M. Russell Ballard, “Be Still, and Know They began to experience principles Each of us is intimately aware of our That I Am God” (Church Educational of opposition. They began to encoun- own struggles with temptation, pain, System devotional, May 4, 2014); lds.org/ broadcasts. ter sickness that weakened their and sadness. 7. Alma 17:2. health. They began to feel sadness as We were taught in the premortal 8. Alma 17:3. well as joy. world that our purpose in com- 9. First Presidency and Quorum of the Twelve Apostles letter, June 28, 2014. Through Adam and Eve’s partaking ing here is to be tested, tried, and 10. Joseph Smith, Elders’ Journal, July 1838, 44. of the forbidden fruit, knowledge of stretched.3 We knew we would face 11. 2 Nephi 31:20. good and evil was introduced into the the evils of the adversary. Sometimes 12. First Presidency and Quorum of the Twelve Apostles letter, June 28, 2014. world. Their choice made it possible we may feel more aware of the nega- 13. Galatians 6:2. for each of us to come to this earth to tive things of mortality than we are of be tried and tested.1 We are blessed the positive. The prophet Lehi taught, with agency, which is our ability “For it must needs be, that there is an Shareable Video and Quote to make decisions and to become opposition in all things.” 4 Despite all Scan this QR code or visit lds.org/go/ accountable for those decisions. The of the negative challenges we have Oct14Conf17 to watch this talk or to nd a shareable video highlight and Fall made possible in our lives feelings in life, we must take time to actively picture quote. of both happiness and sadness. We are exercise our faith. Such exercise 92

E14N89-111 Sun p.m. session.indd 92 10/15/14 8:08 AM invites the positive, faith-Šlled power of the Atonement of Jesus Christ into our lives. Our Father in Heaven has given us tools to help us come unto Christ and exercise faith in His Atonement. When these tools become fundamental habits, they provide the easiest way to Šnd peace in the challenges of mortality. Today I have chosen to discuss four of these tools. As I speak, consider eval- uating your personal use of each tool; then seek the guidance of the Lord to determine how you could make better use of each one of them.

Prayer The Šrst tool is prayer. Choose to converse with your Father in Heaven often. Make time every day to share your thoughts and feelings with Him. Tell Him everything that concerns you. He is interested in the most important as well as the most mundane facets Scripture Study There are many prophetic promises of your life. Share with Him your full The second tool is to study the of the blessings of daily studying the range of feelings and experiences. word of God in the scriptures and the scriptures.6 Because He respects your agency, words of the living prophets. We talk I add my voice with this prom- Father in Heaven will never force you to God through prayer. He most often ise: as you dedicate time every day, to pray to Him. But as you exercise communicates back to us through His personally and with your family, to that agency and include Him in every written word. To know what the voice the study of God’s word, peace will aspect of your daily life, your heart of the Divine sounds and feels like, prevail in your life. That peace won’t will begin to Šll with peace, buoyant read His words, study the scriptures, come from the outside world. It will peace. That peace will focus an eter- and ponder them.5 Make them an come from within your home, from nal light on your struggles. It will help integral part of everyday life. If you within your family, from within your you to manage those challenges from want your children to recognize, own heart. It will be a gift of the Spirit. an eternal perspective. understand, and act on the prompt- It will radiate out from you to in–u- Parents, help safeguard your chil- ings of the Spirit, you must study the ence others in the world around you. dren by arming them morning and scriptures with them. You will be doing something very night with the power of family prayer. Don’t yield to Satan’s lie that you signiŠcant to add to the cumulative Children are bombarded every day don’t have time to study the scriptures. peace in the world. with the evils of lust, greed, pride, Choose to take time to study them. I do not declare that your life will and a host of other sinful behaviors. Feasting on the word of God each day cease to have challenges. Remember Protect your children from daily is more important than sleep, school, when Adam and Eve were in the gar- worldly in–uences by fortifying them work, television shows, video games, den, they were free from challenges, with the powerful blessings that result or social media. You may need to yet they were unable to experience from family prayer. Family prayer reorganize your priorities to provide happiness, joy, and peace.7 Challenges should be a nonnegotiable priority in time for the study of the word of God. are an important part of mortality. your daily life. If so, do it! Through daily, consistent scripture

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E14N89-111 Sun p.m. session.indd 93 10/15/14 8:08 AM study, you will ‘nd peace in the tur- family traditions; to talk to each other; Him there. Remember that many more moil around you and strength to resist and more important, to have a marvel- blessings come from providing your temptations. You will develop strong ous time together! own family names in the temple. faith in the grace of God and know At last April’s conference, Sister These four tools are fundamen- that through the Atonement of Jesus Linda S. Reeves boldly declared: “I tal habits for securing your life in Christ all will be made right according must testify of the blessings of daily the power of the Atonement of to God’s timing. scripture study and prayer and weekly Jesus Christ. Remember our Savior family home evening. These are the is the Prince of Peace. Peace in this Family Home Evening very practices that help take away mortal life comes from His atoning While you are working to strengthen stress, give direction to our lives, sacri‘ce. When we are consistently your family and cultivate peace, and add protection to our homes.” 8 praying morning and night, studying remember this third tool: weekly family Sister Reeves is a very wise woman. our scriptures daily, having weekly home evening. Be cautious not to I strongly urge you to earn your own family home evening, and attending make your family home evening just an testimony of these three crucial habits. the temple regularly, we are actively afterthought of a busy day. Decide that responding to His invitation to “come on Monday night your family will be Temple Attendance unto Him.” The more we develop together at home for the evening. Do The fourth tool is to go to the these habits, the more anxious is Satan not let employment demands, sports, temple. We all know there is no more to harm us but the less is his ability to extracurricular activities, homework, or peaceful place on this earth than in the do so. Through the use of these tools, anything else become more important temples of God. If you don’t have a we exercise our agency to accept the than that time you spend together at temple recommend, qualify to get one. full gifts of His atoning sacri‘ce. home with your family. When you have a recommend, use it I am not suggesting that all of The structure of your evening is not often.9 Schedule a regular time to be life’s struggles will disappear as you as important as the time invested. The in the temple. Don’t let anyone or any- do these things. We came to mortal gospel should be taught both formally thing prevent you from being there. life precisely to grow from trials and and informally. Make it a meaning- While you are in the temple, testing. Challenges help us become ful experience for each member of listen to the words of the ordinances, more like our Father in Heaven, and the family. Family home evening is a ponder them, pray about them, and the Atonement of Jesus Christ makes it precious time to bear testimony in a seek to understand their meaning. possible to endure those challenges.10 safe environment; to learn teaching, The temple is one of the best places I testify that as we actively come unto planning, and organizational skills; to to come to understand the power of Him, we can endure every tempta- strengthen family bonds; to develop the Atonement of Jesus Christ. Seek tion, every heartache, every challenge we face, in the name of Jesus Christ, amen. ◼

NOTES 1. See Moses 5:11. 2. See Moses 4–5. 3. See Abraham 3:25. 4. 2 Nephi 2:11. 5. See Doctrine and Covenants 18:36; see also verses 34–35. 6. Some examples include: President Thomas S. Monson said: “As we read and ponder the scriptures, we will experience the sweet whisperings of the Spirit to our souls. We can ¥nd answers to our questions. We learn of the blessings which come through keeping God’s commandments. We gain a sure testimony of our Heavenly Father and our Savior, Cuauhtémoc, Mexico Jesus Christ, and of Their love for us. When

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E14N89-111 Sun p.m. session.indd 94 10/15/14 8:10 AM scripture study is combined with our areas of activity will automatically come. a brushstroke on the canvas of our souls. prayers, we can of a certainty know that Testimonies will increase. Commitment will No one event may appear to be very the gospel of Jesus Christ is true. . . . As we be strengthened. Families will be fortied. impressive or memorable. But just as the remember prayer and take time to turn to Personal revelation will šow” (“The Power yellow and gold and brown strokes of paint the scriptures, our lives will be innitely of the Word,” Ensign, May 1986, 81). complement each other and produce an more blessed and our burdens will be President Spencer W. Kimball declared: impressive masterpiece, so our consistency made lighter” (“We Never Walk Alone,” “I nd that when I get casual in my in doing seemingly small things can lead Ensign or Liahona, Nov. 2013, 122). relationships with divinity and when it to signicant spiritual results” (“More President Gordon B. Hinckley said: seems that no divine ear is listening and no Diligent and Concerned at Home,” Ensign “Without reservation I promise you that divine voice is speaking, that I am far, far or Liahona, Nov. 2009, 19–20). if each of you will observe this simple away. If I immerse myself in the scriptures 7. See 2 Nephi 2:13. program, regardless of how many times the distance narrows and the spirituality 8. Linda S. Reeves, “Protection from you previously may have read the Book of returns. I nd myself loving more intensely Pornography—a Christ-Focused Home,” Mormon, there will come into your lives those whom I must love with all my heart Ensign or Liahona, May 2014, 16–17. and into your homes an added measure and mind and strength, and loving them 9. President Howard W. Hunter said: “In that of the Spirit of the Lord, a strengthened more, I nd it easier to abide their counsel” spirit I invite the Latter-day Saints to look to resolution to walk in obedience to His (Teachings of Presidents of the Church: the temple of the Lord as the great symbol commandments, and a stronger testimony Spencer W. Kimball [2006], 67). of your membership. It is the deepest of the living reality of the Son of God” (“A President Marion G. Romney said: “I feel desire of my heart to have every member Testimony Vibrant and True,” Ensign or certain that if, in our homes, parents will read of the Church worthy to enter the temple. Liahona, Aug. 2005, 6). from the Book of Mormon prayerfully and It would please the Lord if every adult President Howard W. Hunter said: regularly, both by themselves and with their member would be worthy of—and carry—a “Families are greatly blessed when wise children, the spirit of that great book will current temple recommend. The things that fathers and mothers bring their children come to permeate our homes and all who we must do and not do to be worthy of a about them, read from the pages of the dwell therein. The spirit of reverence will temple recommend are the very things that scriptural library together, and then discuss increase; mutual respect and consideration ensure we will be happy as individuals and freely the beautiful stories and thoughts for each other will grow. The spirit of as families. Let us be a temple-attending according to the understanding of all. contention will depart. Parents will counsel people. Attend the temple as frequently Often youth and little ones have amazing their children in greater love and wisdom. as personal circumstances allow. Keep a insight into and appreciation for the Children will be more responsive and picture of a temple in your home that your basic literature of religion” (“Reading the submissive to the counsel of their parents. children may see it. Teach them about the Scriptures,” Ensign, Nov. 1979, 64). Righteousness will increase. Faith, hope, purposes of the house of the Lord. Have President Ezra Taft Benson said: “Often and charity—the pure love of Christ—will them plan from their earliest years to go we spend great effort in trying to increase abound in our homes and lives, bringing in there and to remain worthy of that blessing” the activity levels in our stakes. We work their wake peace, joy, and happiness” (“The (“Exceeding Great and Precious Promises,” diligently to raise the percentages of those Book of Mormon,” Ensign, May 1980, 67). Ensign, Nov. 1994, 8). attending sacrament meetings. We labor President Boyd K. Packer said: “True 10. See 2 Nephi 2:2. to get a higher percentage of our young doctrine, understood, changes attitudes and men on missions. We strive to improve the behavior. The study of the doctrines of the numbers of those marrying in the temple. gospel will improve behavior quicker than a All of these are commendable efforts and study of behavior will improve behavior” (“Do Shareable Video and Quote important to the growth of the kingdom. Not Fear,” Ensign or Liahona, May 2004, 79). Scan this QR code or visit lds.org/go/ But when individual members and families Elder David A. Bednar said: “Each family Oct14Conf18 to watch this talk or to immerse themselves in the scriptures prayer, each episode of family scripture nd a shareable video highlight and regularly and consistently, these other study, and each family home evening is picture quote.

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E14N89-111 Sun p.m. session.indd 95 10/15/14 8:10 AM By Elder Carlos A. Godoy At the conclusion of his visit, he Of the Seventy made a comment and asked a ques- tion that unsettled my convictions. He said, “Carlos, everything seems to be going well for you, your family, your career, and your service in the Church, The Lord Has but—” and then came the question, “if you continue to live as you are living, will the blessings promised in your a Plan for Us! patriarchal blessing be ful€lled?” I had never thought about my patriarchal blessing in this way. I read If we continue to live as we are living, will the promised it from time to time but never with the blessings be fullled? intent of looking toward the blessings promised in the future and evaluating how I was living in the present. After his visit, I turned my attention hat a privilege to be a part I will use a personal experience to to my patriarchal blessing, wonder- of this historic moment illustrate my message. ing, “If we continue to live as we are Wwhen general conference At the end of the 1980s, our young living, will the promised blessings be speakers have the option of speaking family was made up of my wife, ful€lled?” After some pondering, I had in their native language. The last time Mônica, two of our four children, and the feeling that some changes were I spoke at this pulpit, I was worried me. We lived in São Paulo, Brazil, I necessary, particularly in relation to about my accent in English. Now, I worked for a good company, I had my education and profession. am worried about the speed of my €nished my university studies, and I It was not a decision between what Portuguese. I do not want to speak had recently been released as bishop was right and wrong but between more quickly than the subtitles. of the ward where we had lived. Life what was good and what was better, All of us have experienced or will was good, and everything seemed to as Elder Dallin H. Oaks taught us yet experience moments of great be as it should be—until one day an when he said: “As we consider various decision in our lives. Should I pursue old friend came to visit us. choices, we should remember that it this career or that one? Should I serve is not enough that something is good. a mission? Is this the right person for Other choices are better, and still me to marry? others are best” (“Good, Better, Best,” These are situations in different Ensign or Liahona, Nov. 2007, 104–5). areas of our lives in which a small How then can we ensure that we change in direction can have signif- are making the best decision? icant future consequences. In the Here are some principles that I words of President Dieter F. Uchtdorf: have learned. “Through years of serving the Lord . . . , I have learned that the difference Principle Number One: We Need between happiness and misery in to Consider Our Options with individuals, in marriages, and families the End in Mind often comes down to an error of only Making decisions that can impact a few degrees” (“A Matter of a Few our lives and those we love without Degrees,” Ensign or Liahona, May having the broader vision of their 2008, 58). consequences can bring some risks. How can we avoid these small However, if we project the possible errors in calculation? consequences of these decisions into 96

E14N89-111 Sun p.m. session.indd 96 10/15/14 8:11 AM the future, we can see with greater tribulation in the desert and lead Israel And what about us? What does the clarity the best path to take in the back to its home. Lord expect from each of us? present. Lehi, the great prophet of the We do not need to see an angel to Understanding who we are, why Book of Mormon, dreamed a dream, obtain understanding. We have the we are here, and what the Lord and in his visions he learned of his scriptures, the temple, living proph- expects from us in this life will help mission to lead his family to a prom- ets, our patriarchal blessings, inspired give us the broader vision we need. ised land. leaders, and, above all, the right to We can €nd examples in the scrip- “And it came to pass that the Lord receive personal revelation to guide tures in which having a broader vision commanded my father, even in a our decisions. gave clarity regarding which path to dream, that he should take his family take. and depart into the wilderness. Principle Number Two: We Need Moses spoke with the Lord face- “. . . And he left his house, and the to Be Prepared for the Challenges to-face, learned about the plan of land of his inheritance, and his gold, That Will Come salvation, and thereby better under- and his silver, and his precious things” The best paths in life are rarely stood his role as the prophet of the (1 Nephi 2:2, 4). the easiest. Often, it is exactly the gathering of Israel. Lehi remained faithful to this vision opposite. We can look to the exam- “And God spake unto Moses, in spite of the dif€culties of travel and ples of the prophets I have just saying: Behold, I am the Lord God having to leave behind a comfortable mentioned. Almighty. . . . life in Jerusalem. Moses, Lehi, and Joseph Smith did “. . . And I will show thee the work- The Prophet Joseph Smith is not have easy journeys in spite of the manship of mine hands. . . . another great example. Through many fact that their decisions were correct. “And I have a work for thee, Moses, revelations, beginning with the First Are we willing to pay the price for my son” (Moses 1:3–4, 6). Vision, he was able to complete his our decisions? Are we prepared to With this understanding, Moses mission of restoring all things (see leave our comfort zones to reach a was able to endure many years of Joseph Smith—History 1:1–26). better place?

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E14N89-111 Sun p.m. session.indd 97 10/15/14 8:11 AM “And it came to pass after I, Nephi, having heard all the words of my father, concerning the things which he saw in a vision, . . . I . . . was desirous also that I might see, and hear, and know of these things, by the power of the Holy Ghost” (1 Nephi 10:17). With this vision, Nephi was able not only to overcome the challenges of the journey but also to lead his fam- ily when it became necessary. It is very likely that when we decide to take a certain path, the peo- ple we love will be affected, and some will even share with us the results of this choice. Ideally, they should be able to see what we see and share our Returning to the experience with Happily, earthly parentage was not same convictions. This is not always my patriarchal blessing, I came to the a deciding factor, and I was accepted possible, but when it occurs, the jour- conclusion at that time that I should that year, in 1992. ney is much easier. seek additional education and apply We are children of Almighty God. In the personal experience I have for a scholarship from an American He is our Father, He loves us, and He used as an illustration, I undoubtedly university. If I were selected, I would has a plan for us. We are not here in needed the support of my wife. The have to leave my job, sell everything this life just to waste our time, grow children were still young and did not we had, and come to live in the old, and die. God wants us to grow have much of a say, but my wife’s sup- United States as a scholarship student and achieve our potential. port was essential. I remember that, at for two years. In the words of President Thomas S. ‘rst, Mônica and I needed to carefully Tests such as the TOEFL and GMAT Monson: “Each of you, single or mar- discuss the change in plans until she felt became the ‘rst challenges to be ried, regardless of age, has the oppor- comfortable and also became commit- overcome. It took three long years of tunity to learn and to grow. Expand ted. This shared vision caused her not preparation, many “nos,” and some your knowledge, both intellectual only to support the change but also to “maybes” before I was accepted at a and spiritual, to the full stature of become an essential part in its success. university. I still remember the tele- your divine potential” (“The Mighty I know that the Lord has a plan for phone call I received at the end of the Strength of the Relief Society,” Ensign, us in this life. He knows us. He knows third year from the person responsible Nov. 1997, 95). what is best for us. Just because things for scholarships. are going well does not mean that we He said, “Carlos, I have some good Principle Number Three: We Need should not from time to time consider news and some bad news for you. to Share This Vision with the People whether there might be something The good news is that you are among We Love better. If we continue to live as we are the three ‘nalists this year.” There Lehi made more than a few living, will the promised blessings be was only one opening at that time. attempts to help Laman and Lemuel ful‘lled? “The bad news is that one of the understand the importance of the God lives. He is our Father. The other candidates is the son of some- change they were making. The fact Savior Jesus Christ lives, and I know one important, the other is the son that they did not share their father’s that through His atoning sacri‘ce we of someone else important, and then vision caused them to murmur during can ‘nd the strength to overcome our there is you.” the journey. Nephi, on the other hand, daily challenges. In the name of Jesus I quickly responded, “And I . . . I sought the Lord in order to see what Christ, amen. ◼ am a son of God.” his father had seen. This address was delivered in Portuguese. 98

E14N89-111 Sun p.m. session.indd 98 10/15/14 8:11 AM By Elder Allan F. Packer medical exams, visas, and stamps. Of the Seventy As we arrived, our documents were inspected, and when all the require- ments were met, we were allowed to enter. Qualifying for exaltation is like The Book entering another country. We must each obtain our spiritual passport. Family history and temple work should be a regular part We do not set the requirements, but, individually, we must meet all of of our personal worship. them. The plan of salvation contains all of the doctrines, laws, command- ments, and ordinances needed for all to qualify for exaltation.2 Then, s a young 12-year-old Scout, the cover off the hatchet. I can report, “through the Atonement of [ Jesus] I received a gift of a much- however, the cover was chopped to Christ, all mankind may be saved.” 3 A desired addition to my shreds. The lesson: I became dis- The Church helps but cannot do it for Scouting equipment. It was a hatchet tracted with other things. us. Qualifying for exaltation becomes with a heavy leather cover! On the As we work toward exaltation, we a quest of a lifetime. next overnight hike, we arrived in must work on all of the requirements Christ organized His Church to help camp after dark, wet and cold from and not become distracted by focusing us. He has called 15 men we sustain the heavy snow on the trail. All I could on one or two requirements or other as prophets, seers, and revelators to think about was building a big roaring unrelated things. Seeking the kingdom guide the Church and to teach the ‹re. I immediately went to work of God leads to joy and happiness.1 people. The First Presidency 4 and the chopping a fallen tree with my new If needed, we must be willing to Quorum of the Twelve Apostles 5 are hatchet. As I chopped, I was frustrated change. Frequent small corrections are of equal power and authority,6 with because it didn’t seem to be cutting less painful and disruptive than large the senior Apostle designated as the very well. In my frustration, I worked course corrections. President of the Church. The Seventy harder. Disappointed, I returned to Not long ago, Sister Packer and I are called to assist.7 The leaders did camp with only a few pieces of wood. traveled to several foreign countries. not set the requirements for exaltation. By the light of someone else’s ‹re, I We prepared our passports and other God did! These leaders are called to discovered the problem. I hadn’t taken documents. We obtained the shots, teach, expound, exhort, and even warn so that we stay on course.8 As explained in the Church hand- book: “In ful‹lling its purpose to help individuals and families qualify for exaltation, the Church focuses on divinely appointed responsibilities. These include helping members live the gospel of Jesus Christ, gathering Israel through missionary work, caring for the poor and needy, and enabling the salvation of the dead by building temples and performing vicarious ordinances.” 9 These four focuses and all other laws, commandments, and ordinances are required and not optional. Through the Atonement

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E14N89-111 Sun p.m. session.indd 99 10/15/14 9:15 AM of Jesus Christ and by doing each of From the Doctrine and Covenants Like partaking of the sacrament, these, we are adding required stamps we read: “The great day of the Lord attending meetings, reading the scrip- to our spiritual passports. is at hand. . . . Let us, therefore, as a tures, and saying personal prayers, During this conference we are church and a people, and as Latter-day doing family history and temple being taught about changes that will Saints, offer unto the Lord an offering work should be a regular part of our help us all be better prepared. in righteousness; and let us present in personal worship. The response of our The family is the center of the plan his holy temple, . . . a book containing youth and others to prophetic invita- of salvation and perhaps why it is the records of our dead, which shall tions has been inspiring and proves also called the “great plan of happi- be worthy of all acceptation.” 14 this work can and should be done by ness.” 10 President Boyd K. Packer has This “book” will be prepared using all members at any age. said, “The ultimate end of all activity the records of names and ordinances As Elder Quentin L. Cook in the Church is that a man and his in the Church’s FamilyTree database. explained, “We [now] have the doc- wife and their children can be happy I am checking and adding records trine, the temples, and the technol- at home.” 11 to this database because I want the ogy.” 16 Doing the work now is much President Spencer W. Kimball said, names of all those I love to be in the easier and limited only by the number “Our success, individually and as a book. Don’t you? of members who make this a priority. Church, will largely be determined by Doctrine and Covenants section 128 The work still takes time and sacri—ce, how faithfully we focus on living the says, “For we without [our ancestors] but all can do it, and with relative ease gospel in the home.” 12 Temple and cannot be made perfect; neither can compared to just a few years ago. family history work is part of living they without us be made perfect.” 15 To assist members, the Church has the gospel at home. It should be a Family history is more than gene- gathered records and provided tools so family activity far more than a Church alogy, rules, names, dates, and places. that much of the work can be done in activity. It is more than a focus on the past. our own homes or in the ward build- There has been a renewed empha- Family history also includes the pres- ings and the temple. Most obstacles sis on family history and temple work ent as we create our own history. It have been removed. Whatever your from the First Presidency and the includes the future as we shape future past perception, it is different now! Quorum of the Twelve.13 Your re- history through our descendants. A However, there is one obstacle sponse to this emphasis will increase young mother, for example, sharing the Church cannot remove. It is an your individual and family joy and her family stories and pictures with her individual’s hesitation to do the work. happiness. children is doing family history work. All it requires is a decision and a 100

E14N89-111 Sun p.m. session.indd 100 10/15/14 8:25 AM little effort. It does not require a large exaltation or that of our families for the Home,” Ensign, May 1978, 101. block of time. Just a little time on a less important interests. 13. See Thomas S. Monson, “Hastening the Work,” Ensign or Liahona, June 2014, consistent basis will yield the joy of This is the work of God, to be done 4–5; Henry B. Eyring, “The Promise of the work. Make the decision to take a by members and nonmembers alike, Hearts Turning,” Ensign or Liahona, July step, to learn and ask others to help young and old, male and female. 2014, 4–5; Russell M. Nelson, “It All Starts with Love” (video), lds. org/ prophets -and - you. They will! The names you —nd I close quoting the —rst verse of apostles/ unto -all -the -world/ it -all -starts - and take to the temple will become hymn 324, changing one word: with -love; Russell M. Nelson, “Adding the records for “the book.” 17 ‘Family’ to Family History Work” (video), lds. org/ prophets -and -apostles/ unto -all - Even with the dramatic increase Rise up, O [Saints] of God! the -world/ adding -family -to -family -history - in member participation, we —nd that Have done with lesser things. work; Russell M. Nelson, “Generations relatively few members of the Church Give heart and soul and mind and Linked in Love,” Ensign or Liahona, May 2010, 91–94; Richard G. Scott, “The Joy of are regularly involved in —nding and strength Redeeming the Dead,” Ensign or Liahona, doing temple ordinances for their To serve the King of Kings.21 Nov. 2012, 93–95; Quentin L. Cook, family.18 This calls for a change in “Roots and Branches,” Ensign or Liahona, May 2014, 44–48; David A. Bednar, our priorities. Don’t —ght the change, Jesus Christ is the King! I testify “The Hearts of the Children Shall Turn,” embrace it! Change is part of the great of Him in the name of Jesus Christ, Ensign or Liahona, Nov. 2011, 24–27; plan of happiness. amen. ◼ Neil L. Andersen, “A Classroom of Faith, Hope, and Charity” (address to Church This work needs to be done, not NOTES Educational System religious educators), for the bene—t of the Church but for 1. See 2 Nephi 2:22–25; 9:18; Mosiah 2:41. lds. org/ broadcasts; Neil L. Andersen, “Find our dead and for ourselves. We and 2. See Guide to the Scriptures, “Plan of Our Cousins!” (address at RootsTech Family Redemption”; scriptures.lds.org. History Conference, Feb. 8, 2014), lds. org/ our deceased ancestors need the 3. Articles of Faith 1:3. prophets -and -apostles/ unto -all -the -world/ stamps in our spiritual passports. 4. See Doctrine and Covenants 107:22. –nd-our -cousins. The “welding together” 19 of our 5. See Doctrine and Covenants 107:23. 14. Doctrine and Covenants 128:24. 6. See Doctrine and Covenants 107:24. 15. Doctrine and Covenants 128:18. families across generations can occur 7. See Doctrine and Covenants 107:25–26. 16. Quentin L. Cook, Ensign or Liahona, May only in the temples through the seal- 8. See Guide to the Scriptures, “First 2014, 47. ing ordinances. The steps are simple: Presidency,” “Apostle,” “Seventy”; 17. Doctrine and Covenants 128:24. scriptures.lds.org. 18. See Quentin L. Cook, Ensign or Liahona, just nd a name and take it to the 9. Handbook 2: Administering the Church May 2014, 47. temple. Over time you will be able to (2010), 2.2. 19. Doctrine and Covenants 128:18. help others do it also. 10. Alma 42:8. 20. David A. Bednar, “The Hearts of the 11. Boyd K. Packer, “The Witness,” Ensign or Children Shall Turn,” Ensign or Liahona, With few exceptions, everyone— Liahona, May 2014, 95. Nov. 2011, 26, 27. everyone —can do this! 12. Spencer W. Kimball, “Living the Gospel in 21. “Rise Up, O Men of God,” Hymns, no. 324. There are tangible blessings which attend this work. Many parents and leaders are concerned about current world conditions and the impact on families and youth. Elder David A. Bednar has prom- ised: “I invite the young people of the Church to learn about and experience the Spirit of Elijah. . . . I promise [that] you will be protected against the intensifying inžuence of the adversary. As you participate in and love this holy work, you will be safeguarded in your youth and throughout your lives.” 20 Brothers and sisters, it’s time to take the cover off our hatchets and go to work. We must not sacri—ce our

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E14N89-111 Sun p.m. session.indd 101 10/15/14 8:26 AM By Elder Hugo E. Martinez President Thomas S. Monson is Of the Seventy a great example of this principle. In January of 2005, he was presid- ing over a priesthood leadership conference in Puerto Rico when he demonstrated how the Savior and Our Personal Ministries His servants render service through personal ministry. At the conclu- The love of Jesus Christ must be our guide if we are to become sion of that wonderful meeting, President Monson began to greet all aware of the needs of those we can help in some way. the priesthood leaders in attendance. Suddenly, he noticed that one of them was watching everything from afar, off by himself. n The Church of Jesus Christ of The love of Jesus Christ must President Monson walked away Latter-day Saints, we are given the be our guide if we are to become from the group, toward that brother, Iopportunity and personal blessing aware of the needs of those we can and spoke to him. With emotion, to serve. For as long as I have been a help in some way. The teachings José R. Zayas told him it was a miracle member, I have served in many ways. of our Lord, Jesus Christ, show us that he had approached him and an Like Brother Udine Falabella, father the way. And that is how our per- answer to the prayers that he and his of Elder Enrique R. Falabella, used to sonal ministry begins: discovering wife, Yolanda, had offered before the say, “He who serves in some thing is needs, then tending to them. As meeting. He told President Monson good for something; he who serves in Sister Linda K. Burton, Relief Society that his daughter was in very poor no thing is good for nothing.” These general president, said, “First observe, health and that he had with him a are words that we need to keep in our then serve.” 3 letter from his wife that she wanted minds and in our hearts. As I have sought guidance during my service, I have found comfort in remembering that the Savior focuses on the individual and the family. His love and tender attention to the individual have taught me that He recognizes the great worth of each of Heavenly Father’s children and that it is essential for us to ensure that each individual is ministered to and strengthened by the gospel of Jesus Christ. In the scriptures we read: “Remember the worth of souls is great in the sight of God. . . . “And if it so be that you should labor all your days . . . and bring, save it be one soul unto me, how great shall be your joy with him in the kingdom of my Father!” 1 Every soul is of great worth to God, for we are His children and we have the potential to become as He is.2 102

E14N89-111 Sun p.m. session.indd 102 10/15/14 8:26 AM delivered to President Monson. Brothers Noel Muñoz and Herminio ministrations. Then they will recognize Brother Zayas had told his wife that it Gómez loaded three large water tanks His voice, and they will follow Him. would be impossible since President onto a žatbed truck. They showed Such personal ministry is integral to Monson would be too busy. President up at our house unexpectedly and keeping our baptismal covenants. Monson listened to the story and —lled every available water bottle Likewise, being a good example of asked for the letter, which he read with drinking water, also inviting our a disciple of Jesus Christ is our best silently. Then he put it in his suit neighbors to —ll theirs. letter of introduction to those with pocket and told Brother Zayas that he Our prayers were answered by whom we can share His gospel. As would take care of their request. their personal ministries. The faces of we open our mouths and share the In this way, that family was touched those three brethren režected the love restored gospel of Jesus Christ, we by our Lord, Jesus Christ, through that Jesus Christ has for us, and their become “His undershepherds, charged His servant. I believe the words of service—in other words, their per- with nourishing the sheep of His pas- the Savior in the parable of the good sonal ministry—brought much more ture and the lambs of His fold” 5; we Samaritan apply to us: “Go, and do than drinking water into our lives. To become “the weak and the simple” 6 thou likewise.” 4 every son or daughter of God, know- “—shers of men.” 7 On September 21, 1998, Hurricane ing that people are interested in and Our service and personal ministry Georges hit Puerto Rico, causing watching out for his or her welfare is are not limited to the living on this extensive damage. Sister Martinez, our essential. earth. We can also do work for the —ve children, and I managed to sur- I testify to you that Heavenly Father dead—for those who live in the spirit vive that great storm and its hurricane- and our Lord, Jesus Christ, know us world and who, during their mortal force winds by staying in our home. individually and personally. For that rea- life, did not have the opportunity to However, we went two weeks without son, They provide what we need so we receive the saving ordinances of the running water and without power. will have the opportunity to reach our gospel of Jesus Christ. We can also When our supply of water ran out, divine potential. Along the road, They keep a journal and write our family obtaining more was dif—cult. I will place people who will help us. Then, as histories to turn the hearts of the living never forget the brethren who minis- we become instruments in Their hands, toward the living—as well as the tered to us by providing that precious we are able to serve and help those hearts of the living toward their ances- liquid, nor will I forget the loving way They show to us by revelation. tors. It is all about linking our family, the sisters also served us. In this way, the Lord Jesus Christ generation by generation, in eternal Germán Colón came to our house will reach all of Heavenly Father’s chil- bonds. As we do so, we become “sav- with a large plastic water container dren. The Good Shepherd will gather iours . . . on mount Zion.” 8 in a pickup truck. He told us he was all His sheep. He will do so one by We have the special opportunity to doing it because, in his words, “I one as they make good use of their be instruments in His hands. We can know you have little children who moral agency—after hearing the voice be so in our marriages, in our fam- need water.” A couple of days later, of His servants and receiving their ilies, with our friends, and with our

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E14N89-111 Sun p.m. session.indd 103 10/15/14 8:26 AM fellowman. That is our personal minis- By Elder Larry S. Kacher try as true disciples of Jesus Christ. Of the Seventy “And before him shall be gathered all nations: and he shall separate them one from another, as a shepherd divideth his sheep from the goats: “And he shall set the sheep on his Trie Not with right hand, but the goats on the left. “Then shall the King say unto them on his right hand, Come, ye blessed Sacred Things of my Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world: Examine your choices by asking yourself the question, “For I was an hungred, and ye gave “Are my decisions rmly planted in the rich soil of me meat: I was thirsty, and ye gave me the gospel of Jesus Christ?” drink: I was a stranger, and ye took me in: “Naked, and ye clothed me: I was sick, and ye visited me: I was in prison, and ye came unto me. rothers and sisters, the decisions control were pulling me farther out “Then shall the righteous answer we make in this life greatly affect to sea. What made matters worse was him, saying, Lord, when saw we thee Bthe course of our eternal life. that my wife, trusting my decision, had an hungred, and fed thee? or thirsty, There are both seen and unseen forces followed me. and gave thee drink? that inžuence our choices. This point Brothers and sisters, I thought “When saw we thee a stranger, was brought home some —ve years ago there was a high likelihood I would and took thee in? or naked, and in a way that almost cost me dearly. not survive and that I, because of my clothed thee? We were traveling with family decision, would also cause my wife’s “Or when saw we thee sick, or in and friends in the south of Oman. death. After great effort and what I prison, and came unto thee? We decided to relax on the beach believe was divine intervention, our “And the King shall answer and along the coast of the Indian Ocean. feet somehow touched the sandy bot- say unto them, Verily I say unto you, Soon after our arrival, our 16-year-old tom and we were able to walk safely Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one daughter, Nellie, asked if she could back to our friends and daughter. of the least of these my brethren, ye swim out to what she thought was a There are many currents in this have done it unto me.” 9 sandbar. Noticing the choppy water, I earthly life—some safe and others not. That we may do so is my prayer in told her that I would go —rst, thinking President Spencer W. Kimball taught the name of Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ there might be dangerous currents. that there are powerful forces in our This address was delivered in Spanish. After swimming a short while, own lives much like the unseen cur- 2 NOTES I called to my wife, asking if I was rents of the ocean. These forces are 1. Doctrine and Covenants 18:10, 15; close to the sandbar. Her response real. We should never ignore them. emphasis added. was, “You have gone way past it.” Let me tell you about another 2. See Guide to the Scriptures, “Soul”; scriptures. lds. org. Unbeknownst to me I was trapped in current, a divine current, that has 3. Linda K. Burton, “First Observe, Then a riptide 1 and was being pulled rap- become a great blessing in my life. I Serve,” Ensign or Liahona, Nov. 2012, 78. idly out to sea. am a convert to the Church. Prior to 4. Luke 10:37. 5. Alexander B. Morrison, “Nourish the Flock I was unsure what to do. The only my conversion, my life’s ambition was of Christ,” Ensign, May 1992, 13. thing I could think of was to turn to ski and, accordingly, I moved to 6. Doctrine and Covenants 1:23. around and swim back toward shore. Europe after high school to ful—ll that 7. Matthew 4:19. 8. Obadiah 1:21. That was exactly the wrong thing to desire. After several months of what 9. Matthew 25:32–40. do. I felt helpless. Forces beyond my seemed an ideal life, I felt I should 104

E14N89-111 Sun p.m. session.indd 104 10/15/14 8:26 AM leave. At the time I did not understand the source of that feeling, but I chose to follow it. I ended up in Provo, Utah, with a few good friends who, like me, were members of a different faith. While in Provo I met people who were living a much different life than I was. I felt drawn to them, though I did not know why. Initially, I resisted these feelings, but I soon found a peace and comfort that I had never known. I began to embrace a different current—one that brought me to an understanding of a loving Heavenly Father and to His Son, Jesus Christ. I was baptized with my friends in 1972. This new current I chose to follow, the gospel of Jesus Christ, provided direction and meaning to my life. However, it was not without its challenges. Everything was new to me. At times I felt lost and confused. Questions and challenges were posed Still, there were many questions the churches he should join. Hold the by both friends and family. I could not answer. How would I Doctrine and Covenants in your hand, I had a choice to make. Some address the uncertainty they created? and know that much of what has been of their questions created doubt Rather than allow them to destroy the revealed in this inspired record has and uncertainty. The choice was an peace and happiness that had come been the result of a humble search for important one. Where would I turn into my life, I chose to set them aside truth. As Joseph found out, “If any of for answers? There were many who for a season, trusting that in the Lord’s you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, wanted to convince me of the error time, He would reveal all things. I [who] giveth to all men liberally, . . . of my ways—“riptides” determined found solace in His statement to the and it shall be given him.” 7 By asking to pull me away from the peaceful Prophet Joseph: “Behold, ye are little sincere questions and by seeking current that had become a wonder- children and ye cannot bear all things divine answers, we learn “line upon ful source of happiness. I learned now; ye must grow in grace and in the line, precept upon precept,” 8 as we very clearly the principle that there knowledge of the truth.” 5 I chose not increase in knowledge and wisdom. is “opposition in all things” and the to forsake what I knew to be true by The question is not, “Is there room importance of acting for myself and following an unknown and a ques- for honest, sincere inquiry?” but rather, not forsaking my agency to others.3 tionable current—a potential “riptide.” “Where do I turn for truth when I asked myself, “Why would I turn As President N. Eldon Tanner taught, I questions do arise?” “Will I be wise away from that which had brought learned “how much wiser and better it enough to hold fast to what I know me such great comfort?” As the Lord is for man to accept the simple truths to be true in spite of a few questions I reminded Oliver Cowdery, “Did I not of the gospel . . . and to accept by might have?” I testify there is a divine speak peace to your mind concern- faith those things which he . . . cannot source—One who knows all things, ing the matter?” 4 My experience had understand.” 6 the end from the beginning. All things been similar. Therefore, I turned, with Does this mean there is no room are present before Him.9 The scrip- yet more commitment, to a loving for honest inquiry? Ask the young tures testify that He does “not walk Heavenly Father, to the scriptures, and boy who sought refuge in a sacred in crooked paths, . . . neither doth he to trusted friends. grove wanting to know which of all vary from that which he hath said.” 10

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E14N89-111 Sun p.m. session.indd 105 10/15/14 8:26 AM to my daughter Nellie, “Yes, go ahead. Swim out to the sandbar.” Or if she too had followed my example and had been unable to swim back? What if I had to live life knowing that my example resulted in her being pulled by a riptide out to sea, never to return? Are the currents we choose to follow important? Do our examples matter? Heavenly Father has blessed us with the supernal gift of the Holy Ghost to guide our choices. He has On this mortal journey we must Louise Miller, my wife’s parents, who promised us inspiration and revelation never think that our choices affect despite never having much by way of as we live worthy to receive such. I only us. Recently, a young man visited worldly possessions, chose to teach invite you to take advantage of this my home. He had a good spirit about the pure doctrine of the restored divine gift and examine your choices him, but I sensed he was not fully gospel to their children and to live it by asking yourself the question, “Are participating in Church activity. He every day of their lives. By so doing my decisions —rmly planted in the rich told me that he had been raised in a they have blessed their posterity with soil of the gospel of Jesus Christ?” I gospel-centered home until his father the fruits of the gospel and the hope invite you to make whatever adjust- was unfaithful to his mother, resulting of eternal life. ments are needed, whether small or in their divorce and inžuencing all his In their home they established a large, to ensure the eternal blessings siblings to question the Church and pattern where the priesthood was of Heavenly Father’s plan for you and to fall away. My heart was heavy as respected, where love and harmony those you love. I spoke with this young father who were abundant, and where the prin- I testify that Jesus Christ is our now, affected by his father’s choices, ciples of the gospel directed their Savior and Redeemer. I testify that was raising these precious spirits lives. Louise and LaRue, side by side, the covenants we make with Him are outside the blessings of the gospel demonstrated what it meant to live sacred and holy. We must never triže of Jesus Christ. lives patterned after Jesus Christ. Their with sacred things.13 May we remain Another man I know, a onetime children could clearly see which of ever faithful, I pray in the name of faithful Church member, had ques- life’s currents would bring peace and Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ tions regarding certain doctrine. happiness. And they chose accord- Rather than ask Heavenly Father for ingly. As President Kimball taught, “If NOTES 1. Riptide: “a tide that opposes another or answers, he chose to rely solely on we can create . . . a strong, steady cur- other tides, causing a violent disturbance in secular sources for guidance. His heart rent žowing toward our goal of righ- the sea” (Dictionary.com). turned in the wrong direction as he teous life, we and our children may be 2. See Spencer W. Kimball, “Ocean Currents and Family In›uences,” Ensign, Nov. 1974, sought what seemed to be the honors carried forward in spite of the contrary 110–13. of men. His pride may have been grat- winds of hardship, disappointment, 3. See 2 Nephi 2:11, 16. i—ed, at least temporarily, but he was [and] temptations.” 12 4. Doctrine and Covenants 6:23. 5. Doctrine and Covenants 50:40. 11 cut off from the powers of heaven. Do our choices matter? Do they 6. N. Eldon Tanner, in Conference Report, Rather than —nd truth, he lost his affect only us? Have we set our course Oct. 1968, 49. testimony and brought with him many —rmly in the eternal current of the 7. James 1:5. 8. Doctrine and Covenants 98:12. family members. restored gospel? 9. See Moses 1:6. These two men became trapped From time to time I have an 10. Doctrine and Covenants 3:2. in unseen riptides and brought many image that haunts me. What if that 11. See Doctrine and Covenants 121:35–37. 12. Spencer W. Kimball, Ensign, Nov. 1974, with them. September day, while relaxing on the 110. Conversely, I think of LaRue and beach of the Indian Ocean, I had said 13. See Doctrine and Covenants 6:12. 106

E14N89-111 Sun p.m. session.indd 106 10/15/14 8:26 AM By Elder David A. Bednar When we invite you to attend Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles church with us or to learn with the full-time missionaries, we are not trying to sell you a product. As members of the Church, we do not receive prizes or bonus points in a heavenly contest. We Come and See are not seeking simply to increase the numerical size of the Church. And most The Church of Jesus Christ always has been and always will be importantly, we are not attempting to coerce you to believe as we do. We are a missionary church. inviting you to hear the restored truths of the gospel of Jesus Christ so you can study, ponder, pray, and come to know for yourself if the things we are sharing y message is directed specif- “Teaching them to observe all with you are true. ically to individuals who are things whatsoever I have commanded Some of you may respond, “But I Mnot members of The Church you: and, lo, I am with you alway, already believe in Jesus and follow His of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. I even unto the end of the world. teachings,” or “I am not sure if God will address a fundamental question Amen” (Matthew 28:19–20). really exists.” Our invitations to you many of you may have: “Why are Latter-day Saints take seriously are not an attempt to diminish your Latter-day Saints so eager to tell me this responsibility to teach all people religious tradition or life experience. about what they believe and to invite in all nations about the Lord Jesus Bring all that you know is true, good, me to learn about their church?” Christ and His restored gospel. We and praiseworthy—and test our mes- I pray the Spirit of the Lord will believe the same Church founded by sage. Just as Jesus beckoned two of help me to communicate effectively, the Savior anciently has been rees- His disciples to “come and see” ( John and you to understand clearly, my tablished on the earth by Him in the 1:39), so we urge you to come and see response to this important question. latter days. The doctrine, principles, if the restored gospel of Jesus Christ priesthood authority, ordinances, and enlarges and enriches that which you A Divine Commission covenants of His gospel are found already believe to be true. Devoted disciples of Jesus Christ today in His Church. Indeed, we feel a solemn respon- always have been and always will be sibility to carry this message to every valiant missionaries. A missionary is a nation, kindred, tongue, and people. follower of Christ who testi—es of Him And that is precisely what we are as the Redeemer and proclaims the doing with a force today of more than truths of His gospel. 88,000 full-time missionaries laboring The Church of Jesus Christ always in over 150 sovereign states around has been and always will be a the world. These remarkable men missionary church. The individual and women help the members of our members of the Savior’s Church have Church ful—ll the divinely appointed accepted the solemn obligation to and individual responsibility each of assist in ful—lling the divine com- us has to proclaim the everlasting gos- mission given by the Lord to His pel of Jesus Christ (see D&C 68:1). Apostles, as recorded in the New Testament: More Than a Spiritual Duty “Go ye therefore, and teach all But our eagerness to declare this nations, baptizing them in the name of message is not merely the result of the Father, and of the Son, and of the a sense of spiritual duty. Rather, our Holy Ghost: desire to share the restored gospel of

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E14N89-111 Sun p.m. session.indd 108 10/15/14 8:26 AM long suffered, or we receive counsel that enables us to face challenges with courage and perplexities with patience. Sharing with other people things that are most meaningful to us or have helped us is not unusual at all. This same pattern is especially evi- dent in matters of great spiritual impor- tance and consequence. For example, an account in a volume of scripture known as the Book of Mormon high- lights a dream received by an ancient prophet-leader named Lehi. The central feature in Lehi’s dream is the tree of life—which is a representation of “the love of God” that is “most desirable above all things” and “most joyous to the soul” (1 Nephi 11:22–23; see also 1 Nephi 8:12, 15). Lehi explained: “And it came to pass that I did go forth and partake of the fruit thereof; and I beheld that it was most sweet, his earnest and pleading prayer was the Nephites; wherefore, I did pour above all that I ever before tasted. Yea, heard and answered by God. out my whole soul unto God for them” and I beheld that the fruit thereof was He said: (Enos 1:4–9; emphasis added). white, to exceed all the whiteness that “And my soul hungered; and I As Enos turned to the Lord “with I had ever seen. kneeled down before my Maker, and full purpose of heart” (2 Nephi 31:13), “And as I partook of the fruit thereof I cried unto him in mighty prayer and his concern for the welfare of his fam- it lled my soul with exceedingly great supplication for mine own soul; and ily, friends, and associates increased joy; wherefore, I began to be desirous all the day long did I cry unto him; simultaneously. that my family should partake of it also” yea, and when the night came I did The enduring lesson we learn from (1 Nephi 8:11–12; emphasis added). still raise my voice high that it reached these two episodes is the importance The greatest manifestation of the heavens. of experiencing in our personal lives God’s love for His children is the “And there came a voice unto me, the blessings of the Atonement of Jesus mortal ministry, atoning sacri—ce, and saying: Enos, thy sins are forgiven Christ as a prerequisite to heartfelt Resurrection of the Lord Jesus Christ. thee, and thou shalt be blessed. and authentic service that stretches The fruit on the tree can be consid- “And I, Enos, knew that God could far beyond merely “going through the ered a symbol for the blessings of the not lie; wherefore, my guilt was swept motions.” Much like Lehi, Enos, and Savior’s Atonement. away. our little boy in the story I recounted, Lehi’s instant response to partaking “And I said: Lord, how is it done? we as members of The Church of Jesus of the fruit of the tree and experienc- “And he said unto me: Because of Christ of Latter-day Saints have felt ing great joy was an increased desire thy faith in Christ, whom thou hast the anguish associated with spiritual to share with and serve his family. never before heard nor seen. . . . uncertainty and sin. We also have Thus, as he turned to Christ, he also Wherefore, go to, thy faith hath made experienced the cleansing, the peace turned outward in love and service. thee whole. of conscience, the spiritual healing and Another important episode in the “Now, it came to pass that when I renewal, and the guidance that are Book of Mormon describes what had heard these words I began to feel obtained only by learning and living happened to a man named Enos after a desire for the welfare of my brethren, the principles of the Savior’s gospel.

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E14N89-111 Sun p.m. session.indd 109 10/15/14 8:26 AM The Atonement of Jesus Christ provides the cleanser necessary to be By President Thomas S. Monson made pure and clean, the soothing salve to heal spiritual wounds and remove guilt, and the protection that enables us to be faithful in times both good and bad. Until We Meet Again Absolute Truth Exists May we all ponder the truths we have heard, and may they To you family members and friends who are not members of The help us to become even more valiant disciples. Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, I have attempted to explain fundamental reasons why we are missionaries. y brothers and sisters, we of the entire Church to our Brethren Absolute truth exists in a world that have experienced two glo- who have been released at this increasingly disdains and dismisses Mrious days of inspired mes- conference. We will miss them. Their absolutes. In a future day, “every knee sages. Our hearts have been touched contributions to the work of the Lord [shall] bow” and “every tongue [shall] and our faith strengthened as we have have been enormous and will be felt confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the partaken of the spirit which has been throughout generations to come. glory of God the Father” (Philippians present during these conference ses- May we return to our homes with 2:10–11). Jesus the Christ absolutely is sions. As we conclude, we thank our a resolve in our hearts to be a little the Only Begotten Son of the Eternal Heavenly Father for His many bless- better than we have been in the past. Father. As members of His Church, we ings to us. May we be a little kinder and more witness He lives and His Church has We have been lifted and inspired thoughtful. May we reach out in been restored in its fulness in these by the beautiful music that has been helpfulness, not only to our fellow latter days. provided during the sessions. The members but also to those who are The invitations we extend to you prayers which have been given have not of our faith. As we associate with to learn about and test our message drawn us nearer to heaven. them, may we show our respect for grow out of the positive effects the May I express the heartfelt thanks them. gospel of Jesus Christ has had in our lives. Sometimes we may be awkward or abrupt or even relentless in our attempts. Our simple desire is to share with you the truths that are of greatest worth to us. As one of the Lord’s Apostles, and with all of the energy of my soul, I bear witness of His divinity and reality. And I invite you to “come and see” ( John 1:39), in the sacred name of the Lord Jesus Christ, amen. ◼

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There are those who struggle every day with challenges. Let us extend to them our concern, as well as a helping By Linda K. Burton hand. As we care for each other, we Relief Society General President will be blessed. May we remember the elderly and those who are homebound. As we take time to visit them, they will know that they are loved and valued. May we fol- Prepared in a Manner low the mandate to “succor the weak, lift up the hands which hang down, and strengthen the feeble knees.” 1 That Never Had May we be people of honesty and integrity, trying to do the right thing at all times and in all circumstances. May we be faithful followers of Christ, Been Known examples of righteousness, thus becoming “lights in the world.” 2 May we prepare to worthily receive saving ordinances drop My brothers and sisters, I thank you by drop and keep the associated covenants wholeheartedly. for your prayers in my behalf. They strengthen me and lift me as I strive with all my heart and strength to do God’s will and to serve Him and to serve you. hen our youngest daughter is well groomed but not distracting. As we leave this conference, I returned home after her She takes her seat, glances about, invoke the blessings of heaven upon W‘rst day of school, I asked, and then is suddenly overcome with each of you. May you who are away “How did it go?” emotion. It seems that her tears come from your homes return to them safely She answered, “It was good.” because of the awe and reverence she and ‘nd all in order. May we all pon- The next morning, however, when has for both the place she is in and the der the truths we have heard, and may I woke her up for school, she folded sacred ordinance awaiting her and the they help us to become even more her arms and ‘rmly stated, “I already love of her life. Her demeanor seems valiant disciples than we were when went to school!” Apparently I had not to say, “How grateful I am to be in the this conference began. prepared her or explained that going Lord’s house today, ready to begin an Until we meet again in six months’ to school was not a onetime event but eternal journey with a beloved eternal time, I ask the Lord’s blessings to be that she was expected to go to school companion.” She seems prepared for upon you and, indeed, upon all of us, ‘ve days a week for many, many years. much more than just an event. and I do so in His holy name—even As we consider the principle of Our cute teenage granddaughter Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior— being prepared, imagine with me the recently left a note for me on my amen. ◼ following scene. You are sitting in pillow that in part said: “One thing the celestial room of the temple and that strikes me as I enter the temple is NOTES 1. Doctrine and Covenants 81:5. notice a number of brides and grooms the peaceful, loving spirit that dwells 2. Philippians 2:15. being reverently ushered in and out there. . . . People can go to the temple as they wait to be married for time to receive inspiration.” 1 She is right. and all eternity. A bride enters the We can receive inspiration and revela- Shareable Video and Quote celestial room, hand in hand with her tion in the temple—and also power to Scan this QR code or visit lds.org/go/ sweetheart. She is wearing a simple cope with the adversities of life. What Oct14Conf20 to watch this talk or to nd a shareable video highlight and but beautiful temple dress and a calm, she is learning about the temple as picture quote. peaceful, warm smile on her face. She she consistently participates in taking

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E14N111-123 Women's meeting.indd 111 10/15/14 1:31 PM her own family names to do temple diligence, and this pattern will require you: but go ye rather to them that sell, baptisms and con€rmations will pre- the same. and buy for yourselves. pare her to receive additional temple I never seem to tire of the beautiful “And while they went to buy, the ordinances, covenants, and blessings, parable the Savior told of the €ve wise bridegroom came; and they that were both for herself and those on the other and €ve foolish virgins. Though this ready went in with him to the mar- side of the veil. parable refers to being prepared for riage: and the door was shut. Elder Russell M. Nelson taught, “As the Second Coming of our Savior, we “Afterward came also the other vir- temples are prepared for the people, could also liken it to being prepared gins, saying, Lord, Lord, open to us. the people need to prepare them- for temple blessings, which can be “But he answered and said, Verily I selves for the temple.” 2 like a spiritual feast for those who are say unto you, Ye know me not.” 5 As I am again reading about well prepared. I don’t think there is anyone, espe- Captain Moroni in the Book of In Matthew 25 we read: cially among those with tender hearts, Mormon, I am reminded that one of “Then shall the kingdom of heaven who doesn’t feel sad for the foolish Moroni’s greatest accomplishments be likened unto ten virgins, which young women. And some of us just was his careful preparation of the took their lamps, and went forth to want to say to the others, “Can’t you Nephites to withstand the frighten- meet the bridegroom. just share so everyone can be happy?” ing Lamanite army. He prepared his “And €ve of them were wise, and But think about it. This is a story the people so well that we read, “Behold, €ve were foolish. . . . Savior told, and He is the one who to [the Lamanites’] uttermost astonish- “[They that were] wise took oil in calls €ve of them “wise” and €ve of ment, [the Nephites] were prepared for their vessels with their lamps. them “foolish.” them, in a manner which never had “While the bridegroom tarried, they As we consider this parable as a been known.” 3 all slumbered and slept. pattern for temple preparation, con- That phrase, “prepared . . . in “And at midnight there was a sider the words of a latter-day prophet a manner which never had been cry made, Behold, the bridegroom who taught that “the oil of spiritual known,” really caught my attention. cometh; go ye out to meet him. preparedness cannot be shared.” 6 How can we better prepare for “Then all those virgins arose, and President Spencer W. Kimball helped sacred temple blessings? The Lord trimmed their lamps. clarify why the €ve “wise” young taught, “And again, I will give unto “And the foolish said unto the wise, women could not share the oil in their you a pattern in all things.” 4 Let’s Give us of your oil; for our lamps are lamps with those who were “foolish” consider a scriptural pattern to help us gone out. when he said: “Attendance at sacra- prepare well. Moroni’s preparation for “But the wise answered, saying, Not ment meetings adds oil to our lamps, the enemy took consistent and faithful so; lest there be not enough for us and drop by drop over the years. Fasting, 112

E14N111-123 Women's meeting.indd 112 10/15/14 8:40 AM family prayer, home teaching, control welcome, we will be prepared to feel sign of obedience to God and His of bodily appetites, preaching the gos- more “at home” when we enter the prophets.” 12 pel, studying the scriptures—each act house of the Lord. World-class athletes and university of dedication and obedience is a drop As we prepare ourselves to wor- doctoral students spend hours and added to our store. Deeds of kindness, thily enter the temple and are faithful days and weeks and months and even payment of offerings and tithes, chaste to temple covenants, the Lord will years of preparation. Daily drops of thoughts and actions . . . —these, too, bestow “a multiplicity of blessings” 10 preparation are required of them to contribute importantly to the oil with upon us. My good friend Bonnie come out on top. Likewise, those who which we can at midnight refuel our Oscarson recently turned a scripture wish to qualify for exaltation in the exhausted lamps.” 7 inside out when she said, “Where celestial kingdom are expected to live Can you see the pattern of pre- much is required, much more will a higher standard of obedience that paredness—drop by drop—that can be given.” 11 I couldn’t agree more! comes by practicing the virtue of obe- help us as we think how we might be Because we come to the temple to dience day by day and drop by drop. more diligent in our preparation to receive eternal blessings, it should As we consistently and diligently receive sacred ordinances for our- not surprise us that a higher stan- add oil, drop by drop, to our spiritual selves and others? What other small dard is required to qualify for those lamps, doing these small and sim- and simple things might we do to add blessings. Again Elder Nelson taught: ple things, we can have our lamps precious spiritual drops of oil to our “Because the temple is the house “trimmed and burning” 13 with aston- lamps of preparation? of the Lord, standards for admission ishing preparation. My cute husband, We learn from Elder Richard G. are set by Him. One enters as His who is a stake president, recently Scott that “personal worthiness is an guest. To hold a temple recommend remarked that he can almost always essential requirement to enjoy the is a priceless privilege and a tangible tell when someone is prepared and blessings of the temple. . . . Worthy character is best forged from a life of consistent, correct choices centered in the teachings of the Master.” 8 I love the word consistent. To be consistent is to be steady, constant, and depend- able. What a great description of the principle of worthiness! We are reminded in the Bible Dictionary: “Only the home can compare with the temple in sacred- ness.” 9 Do our homes or apartments ›t that description? A darling young woman in our ward came to our home recently. Knowing her brother had just returned from his mission, I asked her what it was like to have him back home. She said it was great, but he would occasionally ask if the music could be turned down. She said, “And it wasn’t even bad music!” It may be worthwhile for us to check ourselves now and then to make sure our homes are places we are prepared to feel the Spirit. As we prepare our homes to be places where the Spirit is

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E14N111-123 Women's meeting.indd 113 10/15/14 8:41 AM worthy to enter the temple, because By Jean A. Stevens “they light up the room” when they First Counselor in the Primary General Presidency come seeking a temple recommend. In the dedicatory prayer of the Kirtland Temple, the Prophet Joseph Smith asked the Lord “that all people who shall enter upon the threshold of Covenant Daughters the Lord’s house may feel thy power, . . . that they may grow up in thee, and receive a fulness of the Holy of God Ghost, . . . and be prepared to obtain every needful thing.” 14 It is my prayer that for us, going to When daughters of God focus on the temple and on their the temple will be much more than sacred covenants, God is able to send blessings in personal a onetime event. May we prepare to and powerful ways. worthily receive saving ordinances drop by drop and keep the associated covenants wholeheartedly. As we do so, I know we will qualify to receive ear sisters, I greet you with so there—ready and willing with all their the promised blessings of a fulness much love. Right now, wherever eight-year-old hearts to make their ‘rst of the Holy Ghost and the power of Dyou are in the world, I hope you covenant with God. the Lord in our homes and individ- feel the Lord’s love for you personally Think back and picture your own ual lives. In the name of Jesus Christ, and the Spirit witnessing to your heart baptismal day. Whether you can amen. ◼ the message just sung by this beautiful remember many details or just a few, choir. I add my voice of testimony to try to feel now the signi‘cance of NOTES 1. Personal note from Aydia Kaylie Melo to theirs: I know that my Redeemer lives the covenant you individually made. Linda K. Burton, Aug. 31, 2014. and that He loves each one of us. Having been called by your own 2. Russell M. Nelson, “Prepare for the Tonight we gather as covenant name, you were immersed in water Blessings of the Temple,” Ensign or Liahona, Oct. 2010, 41. daughters of God. Our ages, circum- and came forth as God’s daughter—a 3. Alma 49:8; emphasis added; see also verses stances, and personalities cannot covenant daughter, one willing to be 6 –7. separate us, because above all we 4. Doctrine and Covenants 52:14. 5. Matthew 25:1–2, 4–11; Joseph Smith are His. We have made a covenant to Translation, Matthew 25:12 (in Matthew remember His Son always. 25:12, footnote a). The power of that individual 6. Marvin J. Ashton, “A Time of Urgency,” Ensign, May 1974, 36. covenant was impressed upon my 7. Spencer W. Kimball, Faith Precedes the heart three weeks ago as I attended Miracle (1972), 256. a baptismal service. There before me 8. Richard G. Scott, “Receive the Temple Blessings,” Ensign, May 1999, 25; Liahona, were eight beautiful children sitting July 1999, 29. with reverent anticipation that ‘nally 9. Bible Dictionary, “Temple.” their special day had arrived. But as I 10. Doctrine and Covenants 104:2. 11. Bonnie L. Oscarson, “Greater Expectations” looked into their bright faces, I did not (Seminaries and Institutes of Religion see just a group of children. Instead I satellite broadcast, Aug. 5, 2014); lds.org/ saw them as I think the Lord would— broadcasts; see also Luke 12:48; Doctrine and Covenants 82:3. individually. I saw Emma and Sophia 12. Russell M. Nelson, “Personal Preparation and Ian and Logan and Aden and for Temple Blessings,” Ensign, May 2001, William and Sophie and Micah. Each 33; Liahona, July 2001, 38. 13. Doctrine and Covenants 33:17. baptismal covenant is made one by 14. Doctrine and Covenants 109:13, 15. one. Each dressed in white, they were 114

E14N111-123 Women's meeting.indd 114 10/15/14 8:41 AM called by the name of His Son and I was an eyewitness to the power to his sweetheart, Helen, and they promising to follow Him and keep His of covenants as I watched my righ- determined without question he commandments. teous parents, who loved and lived would serve. Covenants with God help us the gospel. In my sweet mother I was For two weeks before he left, Mom to know who we really are. They privileged to see clearly the daily met Dad each day for a picnic lunch connect us to Him in a personal way decisions of a covenant daughter of in Memory Grove near downtown through which we come to feel our God. Even when she was a girl, her Salt Lake City. During one of their value in His sight and our place in choices re ected her priorities and lunches, having sought direction His kingdom. In a way we can’t fully identied her as a true disciple of through fasting and prayer, Mother comprehend, we are known and Jesus Christ. I have seen the peace, told her dear Claron that if he still loved individually by Him. Think of the power, and the protection that wanted to, she would marry him it—each of us holds such a place in came into her life as she made and before he left. In the early days of His heart. His desire is that we will kept sacred covenants on her journey. the Church, men were sometimes choose the path that will bring us Her life on this earth re ected her called to missionary service and left home to Him. love for the Savior and her desire to wives and families at home. So it was As essential and signicant as the follow Him. Oh, how I want to follow with my mother and dad. With the covenant of baptism is, it is only the her example. approval of his priesthood leaders, beginning—the gate that puts us on My parents’ lives together began they decided to be married before he the path to eternal life. Ahead on our in an unusual way. It was 1936. They departed for his mission. journey are temple covenants to be were dating seriously and were plan- In the Salt Lake Temple, Mother made and priesthood ordinances to ning to marry, when my dad received received her endowment, and then receive. As Elder David A. Bednar a letter inviting him to serve as a they were married for time and reminds us, “As we stand in the waters full-time missionary in South Africa. all eternity by President David O. of baptism, we look to the temple.” 1 The letter said that if he was worthy McKay. Theirs was a humble begin- It is not only in making covenants and willing to serve, he was to con- ning. There were no photographs, no but also in faithfully keeping these tact his bishop. You can quickly see beautiful wedding dress, no owers, covenants that we are prepared to that the process of being called as and no reception to celebrate the receive eternal life. That is our hope, a missionary was very different in occasion. Their clear focus was on our goal, and our joy. those days! Dad showed the letter the temple and their covenants. For

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E14N111-123 Women's meeting.indd 115 10/15/14 8:41 AM choice to believe and keep covenants will leave a rich legacy of faith for those who follow you. So, dear sisters, how can we access the power and blessings of temple covenants? What can we do now to prepare for those blessings? As I have traveled, I have come to know there are sisters of all ages, in Las Piñas, Philippines all circumstances, whose lives provide answers to these questions. them, the covenants were everything. others, he enlisted in the military. He I met Mary shortly after her eighth After only six days of marriage and was away from home for another four birthday. Like so many others, she is with a tearful good-bye, my dad left years as he served in the navy aboard excited about doing family history and for South Africa. battleships in the Pacic. has contributed over 1,000 names for But their marriage was more than It was a difcult time for my par- temple work. Mary is preparing herself just the deep love they had for each ents to be separated again. But for now for the blessing of entering the other. They also had a love of the Lord my mother, those days of loneliness, temple when she turns 12. and a desire to serve Him. The sacred worry, and uncertainty were also Brianna is 13 and loves doing temple covenants they had made gave marked by whisperings of the Spirit family history and temple work. She them strength and power to carry that spoke of eternal promises, of has accepted Elder Neil L. Andersen’s them through the two years of separa- comfort and peace amid the storm. temple challenge.4 She has prepared tion. They had an eternal perspective Despite her challenges, my mother hundreds of names for temple work of life’s purpose and of promised lived a rich life, full of happiness, and, along with herself, has included blessings that come to those who are joy, love, and service. Her love of the her family and friends in performing faithful to their covenants. All these Savior was re‚ected in the way she the baptisms. In this sacred work, blessings transcended their short-term lived her life. She had a remarkable Brianna’s heart is turning not only to sacrice and separation. connection to heaven and a gift and her earthly fathers but to her Heavenly While it certainly wasn’t an easy way capacity to love and bless everyone Father as well. to begin married life, it proved to be around her. Her faith in God and Although Anssa is a busy young an ideal way to lay a foundation for an hope in His promises are re‚ected in adult who is working and going eternal family. As children came along, President Thomas S. Monson’s words to graduate school, she still makes we knew what mattered most to our about the temple when he said, “No time to attend the temple each parents. It was their love for the Lord sacrice is too great, no price too week. She seeks revelation and nds and their unwavering commitment to heavy, no struggle too difcult in order keeping the covenants they had made. to receive those blessings.” 3 Though my parents have both passed In all the seasons of her life, Mother away, their pattern of righteousness is was strengthened and blessed by her blessing our family still. love of the Lord and by the covenants The example of their lives is she faithfully made and kept. re‚ected in the words of Sister There is no doubt the details of Linda K. Burton: “The best way to your story will be different than hers. strengthen a home, current or future, But principles from her life apply to all is to keep covenants.” 2 of us. When daughters of God focus Their season of hardship and trial on the temple and on their sacred cov- was not over. Three years after Dad enants, God is able to send blessings returned from his mission, World in personal and powerful ways. Like War II was raging, and like so many my mother’s example to me, your 116

E14N111-123 Women's meeting.indd 116 10/15/14 9:01 AM peace as she serves in the house of By Neill F. Marriott the Lord. Second Counselor in the Young Women General Presidency Katya, a dear sister in Ukraine, has a deep love for the temple. Before the temple in Kyiv was built, she and others in her branch sacri‡ced to travel 36 hours on a bus to attend Sharing Your Light the temple once a year in Germany. These devoted Saints prayed, studied We must stand rm in our faith and lift our voices scriptures, sang hymns, and discussed the gospel as they traveled. Katya told to proclaim true doctrine. me, “When we ‡nally arrived at the temple, we were prepared to receive what the Lord had to give us.” If we are to receive all the blessings onight I would like to consider women. We need them to learn the God so generously offers, our earthly two important responsibilities we doctrine and to understand what we path must lead to the temple. Temples carry: ‡rst, consistently adding believe so that they can bear their tes- T 1 are an expression of God’s love. He gospel light and truth to our lives, and timonies about the truth of all things.” invites us all to come, learn of Him, second, sharing that light and truth Sisters, you strengthen my faith feel His love, and receive the priest- with others. in Jesus Christ. I have watched your hood ordinances necessary for eternal Do you know how important you examples, heard your testimonies, life with Him. Each covenant is made are? Every one of you—right now—is and felt of your faith from Brazil to one by one. Every mighty change of valuable and essential in Heavenly Botswana! You carry a circle of inu- heart matters to the Lord. And yours Father’s plan of salvation. We have ence with you wherever you go. It is will make all the difference to you. For a work to do. We know the truth of felt by the people around you—from as we go to His holy house, we can the restored gospel. Are we ready to your family to the contacts in your be “armed with [His] power, . . . [His] defend that truth? We need to live it; cell phone and from your friends on name . . . upon [us], . . . [His] glory . . . we need to share it. We must stand social media to those seated next to round about [us], and [His] angels have ‡rm in our faith and lift our voices to you tonight. I agree with Sister Harriet charge over [us].” 5 proclaim true doctrine. Uchtdorf, who wrote, “You . . . are I share with you my certain witness In the September 2014 Ensign and vibrant and enthusiastic beacons in that our loving Father in Heaven lives. Liahona, Elder M. Russell Ballard an ever-darkening world as you show, It is through His Beloved Son, Jesus writes: “We need more of the distinc- through the way you live your lives, Christ, that every hope, every promise, tive, inuential voices and faith of that the gospel is a joyful message.” 2 and every blessing of the temple is ful‡lled. May we have faith to trust in Him and His covenants, I pray in the name of Jesus Christ, amen. ◼

NOTES 1. David A. Bednar, “Honorably Hold a Name and Standing,” Ensign or Liahona, May 2009, 98. 2. Linda K. Burton, “Wanted: Hands and Hearts to Hasten the Work,” Ensign or Liahona, May 2014, 123. 3. Thomas S. Monson, “The Holy Temple—a Beacon to the World,” Ensign or Liahona, May 2011, 92. 4. See templechallenge. lds. org. 5. Doctrine and Covenants 109:22.

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E14N111-123 Women's meeting.indd 117 10/15/14 9:01 AM weaknesses, and I was shocked. In that spiritually instructive moment, I saw a prideful woman doing things her own way, not necessarily the Lord’s way, and privately taking credit for any so-called accomplishment. I knew I was looking at myself. I cried out in my heart to Heavenly Father and said, “I don’t want to be that woman, but how do I change?” Through the pure spirit of revelation in the temple, I was taught of my utter need for a Redeemer. I turned imme- diately to the Savior Jesus Christ in my thoughts and felt my anguish melt away and a great hope spring up in my heart. He was my only hope, and I longed to cling only to Him. It was clear to me that a self-absorbed natural woman “is an enemy to God” 7 and to people in her sphere of in‘uence. In the temple that day I learned it was President Thomas S. Monson In 1877, President George Q. only through the Atonement of Jesus pointed out, “If you want to give Cannon said, “Every Temple . . . less- Christ that my prideful nature could a light to others, you have to glow ens the power of Satan on the earth.” 6 change and that I would be enabled to yourself.” 3 How can we keep that light I believe that wherever a temple is do good. I felt His love keenly, and I of truth glowing within us? Sometimes built on the earth, it pushes back knew He would teach me by the Spirit I feel like a dim lightbulb. How do we the darkness. The temple’s purpose and change me if I gave my heart to grow brighter? is to serve mankind and give all of Him, holding back nothing. The scriptures teach, “That which is Heavenly Father’s children the ability I still ght my weaknesses, but of God is light; and he that receiveth to return and live with Him. Isn’t our I trust in the divine help of the light, and continueth in God, receiv- purpose similar to these dedicated Atonement. This pure instruction eth more light.” 4 We must continue in buildings, these houses of the Lord? To came because I entered the holy God, as the scripture says. We must serve others and help them push back temple, seeking relief and answers. go to the source of light—to Heavenly the darkness and return to Heavenly I entered the temple burdened, and Father and Jesus Christ and the scrip- Father’s light? I left knowing I had an all-powerful tures. We can also go to the temple, Sacred temple work will increase and all-loving Savior. I was lighter and knowing that all things within its walls our faith in Christ, and then we can joyful because I had received His light point to Christ and His great atoning better in‘uence the faith of others. By and accepted His plan for me. sacri ce. the nourishing spirit of the temple, we Placed around the world, temples Think of the effect temples have can learn the reality, the power, and have their own unique look and on their surroundings. They beautify the hope of the Savior’s Atonement in design on the outside, but inside they inner cities; they shine from promi- our personal life. all contain the same eternal light, nent hills. Why do they beautify Some years ago our family encoun- purpose, and truth. In 1 Corinthians and shine? Because, as the scriptures tered a major challenge. I went to the 3:16 we read, “Know ye not that ye are say, “Truth shineth,” 5 and temples temple and there prayed earnestly for the temple of God, and that the Spirit contain truth and eternal purpose; help. I was given a moment of truth. of God dwelleth in you?” We too as so do you. I received a clear impression of my daughters of God have been placed 118

E14N111-123 Women's meeting.indd 118 10/15/14 9:01 AM all around the world, like temples, and Think of the in‰uence that the faith Apostles.” On the third night of camp, we each have our own unique look of a Primary-aged girl can have on her all 900 young women stood together and outward design, like temples. We family. Our daughter’s faith blessed and recited the entire document word also have a spiritual light within us, our family when we lost our young for word. like temples. This spiritual light is a son at an amusement park. The family The Spirit —lled the vast hall, and re‰ection of the Savior’s light. Others rushed around frantically looking for I yearned to join in. But I couldn’t. I will be attracted to this brightness. him. Finally, our 10-year-old daughter hadn’t paid the price of memorization. We have our own roles on the tugged on my arm and said, “Mom, I have now begun to learn the earth—from daughter, mother, leader, shouldn’t we pray?” She was right! words of “The Living Christ” as these and teacher to sister, wage earner, The family gathered in the middle of sisters did, and because of their in‰u- wife, and more. Each is in‰uential. a crowd of onlookers and prayed to ence I am more fully experiencing Each role will have moral power as —nd our child. We found him. To all the sacramental covenant to always we re‰ect gospel truths and temple the Primary girls I say, “Please keep remember the Savior as I repeat over covenants in our lives. reminding your parents to pray!” and over the Apostles’ testimony of Elder D. Todd Christofferson said, This summer I had the privilege Christ. The sacrament is taking on a “In all events, a mother can exert an of attending an encampment of deeper meaning for me. in‰uence unequaled by any other per- 900 young women in Alaska. Their My hope is to offer the Savior a son in any other relationship.” 8 in‰uence on me was profound. Christmas gift this year of having “The When our children were young, I They came to the camp spiritually Living Christ” memorized and securely felt like the cocaptain, with my hus- prepared, having read the Book of held in my heart by December 25th. I band, David, of a ship, and I pictured Mormon and having memorized “The hope I can be an in‰uence for good— our 11 children as a ‰otilla of little Living Christ: The Testimony of the as the sisters of Alaska were for me. boats bobbing around us in the har- bor, preparing to set forth on the sea of the world. David and I felt a need to consult the compass of the Lord daily for the best direction to sail with our small ‰eet. My days were full of forgettable things like folding laundry, reading children’s books, and putting casse- roles together for dinner. Sometimes in the harbor of our homes, we can’t see that by the simple, consistent acts —including family prayer, scripture study, and family home evening—great things are brought to pass. But I testify that these very acts carry eternal signi—- cance. Great joy comes when those little boats—our children—grow into mighty seafaring vessels —lled with gospel light and ready to “embark in the service of God.” 9 Our small acts of faith and ser- vice are how most of us can continue in God and eventually bring eternal light and glory to our family, our friends, and our associates. You truly carry a circle of in‰uence with you!

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E14N111-123 Women's meeting.indd 119 10/15/14 9:02 AM Can you nd yourself in the fol- By President Dieter F. Uchtdorf lowing words of this document, “The Second Counselor in the First Presidency Living Christ”? “He entreated all to follow His example. He walked the roads of Palestine, healing the sick, causing the blind to see, and raising the dead.” 10 Living the Gospel Joyful We, sisters of the Church, do not walk the roads of Palestine healing the Trust in the saving power of Jesus Christ; keep His laws and sick, but we can pray for and apply the healing love of the Atonement to a commandments. In other words—live the gospel joyful. sickened, strained relationship. Though we will not cause the blind to see in the manner of the Savior, we can testify of the plan of salvation y beloved sisters, my dear of my daughter, granddaughters, and to the spiritually blind. We can open friends and blessed disciples future generations of faithful women the eyes of their understanding to Mof Jesus Christ, I am honored who will one day follow. the necessity of priesthood power in to have this opportunity to be with you And, of course, I am eternally grate- eternal covenants. as we open another general confer- ful to my wife, Harriet, who enchanted We will not be raising the dead ence of The Church of Jesus Christ of me as a teen, bore the heaviest bur- as did the Savior, but we can bless Latter-day Saints. In the coming week dens of our young family as a mother, the dead by nding their names for the First Presidency and the Twelve stands with me as a wife, and loves temple work. Then we will indeed Apostles will meet with all the General and cherishes our children, grandchil- raise them from their spirit prison and Authorities and general auxiliary dren, and great-grandchildren. She has offer them the path of eternal life. leaders, and the remaining sessions of been the strength in our home during I testify we have a living Savior, our worldwide general conference will both good times and bad. She brings Jesus Christ, and with His power and follow on the coming Saturday and sunshine into the lives of all who light we will be enabled to push back Sunday. I am most grateful to President know her. the darkness of the world, give voice Thomas S. Monson, the prophet of God Finally, I am very grateful to all to the truth we know, and in“uence for our days, for asking me to represent of you, the millions of faithful sisters others to come unto Him. In the name the First Presidency as I speak to the worldwide of any age who do so of Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ sisters of the Church. much to build the kingdom of God. As I contemplated what I might I am grateful to you for the countless NOTES say, my thoughts went back to the ways you inspire, nurture, and bless 1. M. Russell Ballard, “Men and Women and Priesthood Power,” Ensign, Sept. 2014, 32; women who have shaped my life and those around you. Liahona, Sept. 2014, 36. helped me through the challenges of 2. Harriet R. Uchtdorf, The Light We Share mortality. I am grateful for my grand- Daughters of God (Deseret Book Company, 2014), 41; used by permission. mother who decades ago decided to I am pleased to be among so many 3. Thomas S. Monson, “For I Was Blind, but take her family to a Mormon sacra- daughters of God. When we sing the Now I See,” Ensign, May 1999, 56; Liahona, ment meeting. I am grateful for Sister song “I Am a Child of God,” the lyrics July 1999, 69. 4. Doctrine and Covenants 50:24. Ewig, an elderly single German lady, penetrate our hearts. Pondering this 5. Doctrine and Covenants 88:7. whose name translates into English as truth—that we are children of heav- 6. George Q. Cannon, in Preparing to Enter “Sister Eternal.” She was the one who enly parents 1—lls us with a sense of the Holy Temple (booklet, 2002), 36. 7. Mosiah 3:19. extended this courageous and won- origin, purpose, and destiny. 8. D. Todd Christofferson, “The Moral Force of derful invitation to my grandmother. It is good to remember that you Women,” Ensign or Liahona, Nov. 2013, 30. I am so very grateful for my mother, are always a child of God. This 9. Doctrine and Covenants 4:2. 10. “The Living Christ: The Testimony of the who led four children through the knowledge will carry you through Apostles,” Ensign or Liahona, Apr. 2000, 2. turmoil of World War II. I think also the most difcult times in your life 120

E14N111-123 Women's meeting.indd 120 10/15/14 9:02 AM and will inspire you to accomplish We speak of obedience to God’s to bring to pass our immortality and remarkable things. However, it is also commandments. eternal life.5 important to remember that being We speak of living the gospel joy- In other words, He not only knows a daughter of eternal parents is not fully, with all our heart, might, mind, what is best for you; He also anx- a distinction you earned or you will and soul. iously wants you to choose what is ever lose. You will always and forever best for you. remain a daughter of God. Your God Knows Something We Don’t If you believe this in your hearts— Heavenly Father has high aspirations And yet for some of us, obedience if you truly believe the great mission for you, but your divine origin alone to God’s commandments doesn’t of our Heavenly Father is to exalt does not guarantee you a divine always feel very joyful. Let’s face it: and glorify His children and that He inheritance. God sent you here to there may be some that seem harder knows best how to do it—doesn’t it prepare for a future greater than any- or less appealing—commandments make sense to embrace and follow thing you can imagine. that we approach with the enthusi- His commandments, even the ones The promised blessings of God to asm of a child sitting before a plate of that appear dif€cult? Should we not the faithful are glorious and inspiring. healthy but hated vegetables. We grit cherish the light posts He has given Among them are “thrones, kingdoms, our teeth and force ourselves to com- that guide us through the darkness principalities, and powers, dominions, ply so that we can move on to more and the trials of mortality? They mark all heights and depths.” 2 And it takes desirable activities. the way back to our heavenly home! more than a spiritual birth certi€cate Perhaps during times such as these, By choosing Heavenly Father’s path, or a “Child of God Membership Card” we might €nd ourselves asking, “Do you lay a divine foundation for your to qualify for these incomprehensible we really need to obey all of God’s personal progress as a daughter of blessings. commandments?” God that will bless you throughout But how do we attain them? My response to this question is your life. The Savior has answered this ques- simple: Part of our challenge is, I think, tion in our time: I think God knows something that we imagine that God has all of “Except ye abide my law ye cannot we don’t—things that are beyond His blessings locked in a huge cloud attain to this glory. our capacity to comprehend! Our up in heaven, refusing to give them to “For strait is the gate, and nar- Father in Heaven is an eternal being us unless we comply with some strict, row the way that leadeth unto the whose experience, wisdom, and paternalistic requirements He has set exaltation. . . . intelligence are in€nitely greater up. But the commandments aren’t like “. . . Receive ye, therefore, my law.” 3 than ours.4 Not only that, but He is that at all. In reality, Heavenly Father For this reason, we speak of walk- also eternally loving, compassionate, is constantly raining blessings upon ing the path of discipleship. and focused on one blessed goal: us. It is our fear, doubt, and sin that,

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E14N111-123 Women's meeting.indd 121 10/15/14 9:03 AM like an umbrella, block these blessings from reaching us. His commandments are the loving instructions and the divine help for us to close the umbrella so we can receive the shower of heavenly blessings. We need to accept that the com- mandments of God aren’t just a long list of good ideas. They aren’t “life hacks” from an Internet blog or motivational quotes from a Pinterest board. They are divine counsel, based on eternal truths, personal way to increase their love of if there is anything we can do!” Then given to bring “peace in this world, and God, nd peace, uplift others, seek the they would have cheerfully been on eternal life in the world to come.” 6 Spirit, and renew their commitment to their way, thankful that they had 100 So we have a choice. On the one follow Jesus Christ will nd a far richer percent for another month. hand, there is the opinion of the experience than those who simply put Fortunately, these sisters were true world with its ever-changing theories in their time sitting in a pew. Sisters, it disciples of Christ. They noticed their and questionable motives. On the is very important that we attend our sister’s needs and put their many other hand, there is God’s word to His Sunday meetings, but I’m fairly certain talents and their experience to work. children—His eternal wisdom, His cer- our Heavenly Father is even more They cleared up the chaos, brought tain promises, and His loving instruc- concerned about our faith and repen- light and clarity into the home, and tions for returning to His presence in tance than about attendance statistics. called a friend to bring over some glory, love, and majesty. Here is another example: much-needed groceries. When they at The choice is yours! A single mother of two small last nished their work and said their The Creator of the seas, sands, and children recently came down with good-byes, they left that young mother endless stars is reaching out to you chicken pox. Of course, it wasn’t long in tears—tears of gratitude and love. this very day! He is offering the grand before her children got sick as well. From that moment on, the young recipe for happiness, peace, and eter- The task of caring for herself and her mother’s opinion of visiting teaching nal life! little ones alone was almost too much changed. “I know,” she said, “that I To qualify for these glorious bless- for the young mother. And, as a result, am not just a check mark on someone ings, you must humble yourself, exer- the normally spotless house became else’s to-do list.” cise faith, take upon you the name of cluttered and messy. Dirty dishes piled Yes, visiting teachers need to be Christ, seek Him in word and deed, up in the sink, and laundry piled up faithful in making their monthly visits, and resolutely “stand as witnesses of everywhere else. all without missing the most important God at all times and in all things, and While she was struggling with why behind this commandment: to in all places.” 7 crying children—and wanting to cry love God and fellowmen. herself—a knock came at the door. It When we treat God’s command- The Why of Obedience was her visiting teachers. They could ments and our part in building His Once you understand the true see the young mother’s distress. They kingdom like something to check off nature of God and His command- could see her house, her kitchen. They on a to-do list, we miss the heart of ments, you will also better understand could hear the cries of the children. discipleship. We miss the growth that yourselves and the divine purpose of Now, if these sisters had been comes from joyfully living the com- your existence. With this, your motiva- concerned only with completing their mandments of our Father in Heaven. tion for following the commandments assigned monthly visits, they might Walking in the path of discipleship changes, and it becomes your heart’s have handed the mother a plate of does not need to be a bitter expe- desire to live the gospel joyfully. cookies, mentioned that they had rience. It “is sweet above all that is For example, those who see missed her at Relief Society last week, sweet.” 8 It is not a burden that weighs attendance at Church meetings as a and said something like, “Let us know us down. Discipleship lifts our spirits 122

E14N111-123 Women's meeting.indd 122 10/15/14 9:03 AM and lightens our hearts. It inspires us for the times you have fallen short or More than you could ever imagine, with faith, hope, and charity. It ‡lls our failed. And still He loves you. He wants you to achieve your destiny spirits with light in times of darkness, And God knows of your successes; —to return to your heavenly home in and serenity during times of sorrow. though they may seem small to you, honor. It gives us divine power and He acknowledges and cherishes each I testify that the way to accomplish lasting joy. one of them. He loves you for extend- this is to place sel‡sh desires and ing yourself to others. He loves you unworthy ambitions on the altar of Living the Gospel Joyful for reaching out and helping others sacri‡ce and service. Sisters, trust in My dear sisters in the gospel, bear their heavy burdens—even when the saving power of Jesus Christ; keep whether you are 8 or 108, there is one you are struggling with your own. His laws and commandments. In other thing that I hope you truly understand He knows everything about you. words—live the gospel joyful. and know: He sees you clearly—He knows you It is my prayer that you will expe- You are loved. as you really are. And He loves you— rience a renewed and an expanded You are dear to your heavenly today and always! measure of the beautiful love of God parents. Do you suppose it matters to our in your lives; that you will ‡nd the The in‡nite and eternal Creator of Heavenly Father whether your makeup, faith, determination, and commitment light and life knows you! He is mind- clothes, hair, and nails are perfect? Do to learn God’s commandments, trea- ful of you. you think your value to Him changes sure them in your hearts, and live the Yes, God loves you this very day based on how many followers you gospel joyful. and always. have on Instagram or Pinterest? Do I promise that as you do so, you He is not waiting to love you until you think He wants you to worry or will discover your best self—your real you have overcome your weaknesses get depressed if some un-friend or self. You will discover what it truly and bad habits. He loves you today un-follow you on Facebook or Twitter? means to be a daughter of the ever- with a full understanding of your Do you think outward attractiveness, lasting God, the Lord of all righteous- struggles. He is aware that you reach your dress size, or popularity make the ness. Of this I testify and leave you my up to Him in heartfelt and hope- slightest difference in your worth to the blessing as an Apostle of the Lord, in ful prayer. He knows of the times One who created the universe? the name of Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ you have held onto the fading light He loves you not only for who NOTES and believed—even in the midst of you are this very day but also for the 1. God is not only our Ruler and Creator; He growing darkness. He knows of your person of glory and light you have the is also our Heavenly Father. All men and sufferings. He knows of your remorse potential and the desire to become. women are literally the sons and daughters of God. President Joseph F. Smith taught that “man, as a spirit, was begotten and born of heavenly parents, and reared to maturity in the eternal mansions of the Father, prior to coming upon the earth in a temporal [physical] body” (Teachings of Presidents of the Church: Joseph F. Smith [1998], 335). 2. Doctrine and Covenants 132:19. 3. Doctrine and Covenants 132:21–22, 24. 4. See Isaiah 55:9. 5. See Moses 1:39. 6. Doctrine and Covenants 59:23. 7. Mosiah 18:9. 8. Alma 32:42.

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E14N111-123 Women's meeting.indd 123 10/15/14 9:04 AM Conference Story Index The following list of selected experiences related during general conference can be used in personal study, family home evening, and other teaching. The number refers to the rst page of the talk.

SPEAKER STORY Neil L. Andersen (28) Neil L. Andersen counsels a returned missionary regarding his testimony of Joseph Smith. M. Russell Ballard (89) A river guide warns rafters to “stay in the boat” as they prepare for a trip through white-water rapids. David A. Bednar (107) After receiving treatment for a minor injury, David A. Bednar’s son offers similar treatment to his friends. Linda K. Burton (111) A full-time missionary nishes his mission with a rened spirit after giving his heart, might, mind, and strength to the Lord. Tad R. Callister (32) The mother of Ben Carson turns his life around. A Lebanese girl learns the gospel from her mother. Tad R. Callister’s parents teach him the gospel. Craig C. Christensen (50) Several deacons say why they admire President Monson. Craig C. Christensen gains a testimony by studying the Book of Mormon. D. Todd Christofferson (16) King Henry V tells his men that each is the master of his own soul. A man who refuses to care for himself consents to being taken to a cemetery. Quentin L. Cook (46) Lucy of the comic strip Peanuts makes excuses for dropping šy balls. A young man makes choices inconsistent with his goals of serving a mission and marrying in the temple. A visit with a college coach conrms Quentin L. Cook’s decision to follow his father’s advice. Dean M. Davies (53) The Church and its members in the Philippines rescue members and nonmembers following a devastating typhoon. Cheryl A. Esplin (12) A Young Women leader learns about the sacrament’s enabling power. A 96-year-old man attends church so he can partake of the sacrament. Henry B. Eyring (59) A new convert helps young Henry B. Eyring and his brother prepare for priesthood service. Henry B. Eyring’s father and bishop show condence in him by asking for his help. A senior home teaching companion shows trust in Henry B. Eyring’s son. (70) The mother of Henry B. Eyring prays that he will hear the word of God in her counsel. Church leaders in Idaho, USA, receive revelation to help victims of a šood. The wife of a man who receives the sealing power knows by revelation that her husband is called by God. Eduardo Gavarret (37) As a full-time missionary, Eduardo Gavarret learns a lesson about following the Savior’s voice. Parents and siblings of a 14-year-girl in Uruguay follow her example and join the Church. The parents of Eduardo Gavarret accept the missionaries and their message. Carlos A. Godoy (96) To receive the blessings promised in his patriarchal blessing, Carlos A. Godoy, with his wife’s support, seeks additional education. Robert D. Hales (80) Young Robert D. Hales gains a testimony as he learns about Deity from his parents, teachers, the scriptures, and the Holy Ghost. Jeffrey R. Holland (40) Thomas S. Monson returns from Germany in his slippers after giving away his shoes and extra suit and shirts. Larry S. Kacher (104) Larry S. Kacher and his wife are caught in a riptide but make it to shore thanks to divine intervention. Two men make choices that lead their families away from the Church. The in-laws of Larry S. Kacher bless their posterity by living the gospel and teaching it to their children. Jörg Klebingat (34) Jörg Klebingat counsels a sister in the Ukraine Kyiv Mission not to be immobilized by her weaknesses. Neill F. Marriott (117) Neill F. Marriott leaves the temple knowing she can trust in the Savior. Neill F. Marriott’s daughter encourages her family to pray after the family’s young son is lost. Nine hundred young women in Alaska recite from memory “The Living Christ.” Hugo E. Martinez (102) President Monson ministers to a father whose daughter is ill. Brothers bring water to the Martinez family following a hurricane. Thomas S. Monson (67) A torpedo strikes the rudder of the battleship Bismarck, leaving it unable to steer a charted course. (86) Church members in Canada frequent the home of a German immigrant couple so they can partake of the peaceful spirit there. Russell M. Nelson (74) After operating on President Spencer W. Kimball, Russell M. Nelson receives a witness that President Kimball will become the prophet. Dallin H. Oaks (25) Because of his wife’s patience and kindness, a nonmember husband decides to get baptized. Allan F. Packer (99) While focusing on chopping wood, young Allan F. Packer forgets to take the cover off his hatchet. Boyd K. Packer (6) A woman realizes that the Savior has already paid for a terrible wrong committed against her. L. Tom Perry (43) A grandson of President Harold B. Lee reminds his mother of the importance of prayer at bedtime. Lynn G. Robbins (9) President Boyd K. Packer asks Lynn G. Robbins which way he faces, reminding him that he represents the prophet to the people. Jean A. Stevens (114) The parents of Jean A. Stevens hold fast to their covenants and their love for the Lord. Young women prepare for temple covenants. Dieter F. Uchtdorf (56) A man obsesses over a single dandelion in his neighbor’s yard. A bank robber rubs lemon juice on his face, believing it will make him invisible. In an ostensibly strong ward, 11 marriages end in divorce. (120) Visiting teachers come to the aid of a single mother struggling with two sick children.

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Film about Joseph Smith Now on Hulu

President Thomas S. Monson speaks during the Sunday afternoon session of general conference. illions of people now have access to M a Church-produced movie honoring the Prophet “Two Glorious Days Joseph Smith. Joseph Smith: The Prophet of the Restoration, of Inspired Messages” a film that depicts the life and legacy of the Prophet, is now available for viewing free of e have experienced Quorum of the Seventy were released charge on Hulu, a website “ two glorious days of and granted emeritus status. Elder offering streaming video. Winspired messages,” Arayik V. Minasyan and Elder Gvido The movie is the first Church President Thomas S. Monson said Senkans were released as Area film to penetrate an exclusive, at the conclusion of the 184th Seventies. major distribution channel like Semiannual General Conference For the first time in general Hulu, where some 4 million sub- on Sunday, October 5, 2014. conference, some speakers whose scribers can watch on-demand, Those messages included the impor- primary language is not English deliv- streaming video through Roku, tance of developing a testimony that ered their addresses in their native Apple TV, Xbox, PlayStation, and will enable you to endure all circum- tongue. Elder Chi Hong (Sam) Wong smartphones and tablets that stances; following the path of the Savior spoke in Cantonese, Elder Eduardo connect to the Internet. Having and becoming a devoted disciple; Gavarret and Elder Hugo E. Martinez the film on Hulu not only makes following and sustaining the prophets; in Spanish, and Elder Carlos A. it more accessible for Church using agency wisely; and making the Godoy in Portuguese. members, but it also provides home a place of love, safety, example, Crowds filled the 21,000-seat an opportunity for more people and gospel learning. Conference Center and overflow areas who are not LDS to watch and In his opening remarks on on Temple Square in Salt Lake City, learn more about the Church. Saturday, President Monson noted Utah, USA, for each of the conference Members who watch, leave that the Church continues to grow. sessions, which were translated into comments, and rate the movie “We are now more than 15 million more than 90 languages and broad- can make the movie easier for strong and increasing in numbers,” cast to more than 170 countries and others to find. ◼ President Monson said. “Our mis- territories. In addition, proceedings sionary efforts are going forward were available on television, radio, unhindered. We have over 88,000 mis- satellite transmission, and the Internet, sionaries serving, sharing the gospel including mobile devices. This confer- message the world over.” ence marked the 90-year anniversary At the Saturday afternoon ses- of radio broadcasts and the 65-year sion, Elder Carlos H. Amado and anniversary of television broadcasts Elder William R. Walker of the First of conference. ◼

November 2014 125 MINISTERING RESOURCES Progress on Temples Continues AVAILABLE TO COUNCILS take and ward council mem- Sbers now have access to a hen all the previously new Church web page called “ announced temples are Ministering Resources, available constructed and dedi­ at ministering.lds.org, to help W individuals and families with their cated, we will have 170 operating temples throughout the world,” temporal and spiritual needs, President Thomas S. Monson said including difficult and sensitive issues. Access is available to those during the October 2014 general with current callings in stake and conference. “Because we are con­ ward councils through their LDS centrating our efforts on complet­ account. ing temples which were previously Resources previously available announced, we are not at the present only to bishops and stake pres- PHOTOGRAPH BY SARAH JANE WEAVER, CHURCH NEWS PHOTOGRAPH BY SARAH JANE WEAVER, time announcing any new temples. idents have been updated and However, in the future, as we iden­ expanded with specific guidance tify needs and locate properties, about how to help victims of announcements of additional temples abuse, those who struggle with will be made.” addictions, single expectant When President Monson rededi­ parents, pornography users, those who experience same-sex attrac- cated the Ogden Utah Temple in The Ogden Utah Temple was rededi- tion, and those struggling with September 2014, it brought to 143 the cated on September 21, 2014. financial and employment issues. number of operating temples of the Under the direction of the Church worldwide. bishop, ward councils can use The Fort Lauderdale Florida The Phoenix Arizona Temple will be Ministering Resources to counsel Temple was dedicated in May 2014 dedicated on November 16, 2014, and together for the benefit of indi- by President Dieter F. Uchtdorf, Second at least five other temples will be ded­ viduals and families within their Counselor in the First Presidency. icated or rededicated in 2015. ◼ ward boundaries. ◼

Teachings for Our Time

rom November 2014 through choose which talks will be used in FMarch 2015, Melchizedek their areas, or they may delegate Priesthood and Relief Society les- this responsibility to bishops and sons on fourth Sundays should be branch presidents. prepared from one or more talks Those attending fourth-Sunday given in the October 2014 general lessons are encouraged to study the conference. In April 2015, talks may selected talks beforehand. Conference be selected from either the October talks are available in many languages 2014 or the April 2015 conference. at conference.lds.org. ◼ Stake and district presidents should

126 HELP AVAILABLE FOR THOSE AFFECTED BY A LOVED ONE’S ADDICTION pouses and families affected by

Sa loved one’s addictive behav- DESERET NEWS PHOTOGRAPH BY SCOTT G WINTERTON, iors can turn to a new online Young adults listen to a devotional address at the Marriott Center guide to nd help, hope, and at Brigham Young University in Provo, Utah, USA. healing. The Spouse and Family Support Guide, located at AddictionRecovery.lds.org, is intended to help spouses and Adjustments Begin in January family members heal from chal- lenges they experience because for Young Adult Devotionals of the addictive behaviors of loved ones involved with drugs, alcohol, pornography, or other he First Presidency and the Publication: Within a few harmful substances or practices. Church Board of Education days after each devotional, the In addition to English, it will have announced adjustments to talks in text, audio, and video soon be available in Spanish, T the frequency, location, and publica- formats will be available in English Portuguese, French, Italian, tion of devotionals for young adults, on LDS.org and the Gospel Library German, Russian, Chinese, effective January 2015. Adjustments app, in a new Young Adult collec- Japanese, and Korean. include: tion. Language versions will fol- The guide is split into 12 sec- tions focused on healing, increas- Name: Worldwide Devotional low. Summaries of the talks will ing hope, and nding strength for Young Adults: An Evening with be included in the Liahona and through Jesus Christ. (name of speaker). Ensign, and a variety of text quotes, Many practical suggestions Frequency: Three times a year, picture quotes (memes), and video are provided, such as how to set on the second Sunday in January, highlights will also be published limits and rules, how to discuss the ‘rst Sunday in May, and the live and after the devotional through addiction and recovery with a second Sunday in September. the Church’s social media channels, loved one, and how to appropri- Audience: All young adults, including the speaker’s speci‘c ately respond to a relapse. both married and single, are invited social pages. The guide is used for discussion to attend. Students ‘nishing high Speakers will continue to be in condential spouse and family school or the equivalent are also chosen by the First Presidency from support group meetings offered by LDS Family Services. It can invited to attend. among the General Authorities and also be used for personal study Locations: January devo- general of‘cers of the Church. or used by Church leaders when tionals will be held at Brigham Adjustments were announced interviewing and counseling. ◼ Young University in Provo, Utah; to young adults during the CES at BYU–Idaho; or at BYU–Hawaii. devotional on November 2, 2014, May devotionals will be held in the and to priesthood leaders in an Conference Center in Salt Lake City August 28, 2014, First Presidency let- or at other sites at Church head- ter that included the 2015 Broadcast quarters. September devotionals Schedule. ◼ will be held at other locations in the United States.

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E14N125-128_news.indd 127 10/15/14 3:49 PM Charities is distributing food CHURCH NEWS PHOTOGRAPH BY SARAH JANE WEAVER, LDS Charities packets, blankets, medical sup- plies, hygiene kits, bedding, and Provides Aid winter clothing. In Iraq and the Kurdish region, wheelchairs and other mobility equipment have ince the earliest days of the been delivered to people injured Restoration, members of The in con†icts. The Amman Jordan District SChurch of Jesus Christ of Latter- • In Gaza, pharmaceuticals, medical president and his daughter (right) day Saints have been known for their supplies, and powdered milk were meet refugees. determination to reach out and lift up donated to the central hospital. those who are suffering. • In Israel, ultrasound equipment four other people in building theirs. In recent years, Church members was donated to a medical facility. The Church is also restoring crops and others have, through generous • In Ukraine and Russia, the Church and providing training in home contributions, provided the means has partnered with the United gardening. for Church Humanitarian Services Nations Development Program to • In Mexico, when a hurricane left programs to bless the lives of people provide food, bedding, clothing, thousands of homes damaged or throughout the world. In 2013 alone, and personal hygiene items for destroyed, local Church leaders LDS humanitarian programs helped 30,000 people displaced during provided food and water to affected more than 10.5 million people in 130 civil unrest. members, and the Church worked countries. with the state government to pro- This effort extends from providing LDS Charities works to remain vide food kits. comfort and life-sustaining goods politically neutral and to help people to making clean water available; to of any faith. What You Can Do training midwives and doctors to save Donations to the Humanitarian Aid the lives of thousands of newborn Relief Efforts Fund enable the Church to respond babies; to providing wheelchairs. The Church also responds when immediately to crises. In addition, In addition, the Church assists with natural disasters occur. wherever they live, members can vision care and training, immuniza- demonstrate Christlike love, provide tions, and growing nutritious food • In Sierra Leone and Liberia, the service, and build respect for all people. in selected communities. Church has engaged 1,600 local Noticing refugees and immigrants in our volunteers to provide training on own communities, or those weathering Refugee Assistance how to avoid Ebola and provided a personal disaster, and offering them The Church has made consistent food and basic sanitation and medi- friendship, interest, and a welcoming and considerable effort to aid refugees cal supplies. environment is a Christlike act that will as well as others suffering from con- • Following †ooding caused by a never be in vain. †icts and food shortages. Recently: heavy monsoon in Pakistan and Through its humanitarian arm, the India, the Church provided food, Church strives to implement the coun- • The Church donated thousands hygiene kits, and medical supplies. sel of President Thomas S. Monson that of tents and basic food supplies to • In Tonga, a cyclone destroyed hun- “we can strengthen one another; we families in Chad and constructed dreds of homes, including the homes have the capacity to notice the unno- hand-pump wells, latrines, and of 116 member families. Members ticed. When we have eyes that see, shower buildings in refugee camps will assist with the rebuilding of their ears that hear, and hearts that know in Burkina Faso. homes. They receive training about and feel, we can reach out and rescue” • In Jordan, Syria, Lebanon, Iraq, how to construct their own shelter (“The Call to Serve,” Ensign, Nov. 2000, and the Kurdish region, LDS and are then asked to assist at least 47; Liahona, Jan. 2001, 58). ◼ 128

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Sacred Prayer, by Linda Curley Christensen

The Prophet Joseph Smith wrote of his experience at age 14 in the Sacred Grove: “I retired to the woods . . . on the morning of a beautiful, clear day, early in the spring of eighteen hundred and twenty. . . . Amidst all my anxieties I had never as yet made the attempt to pray vocally. “. . . Having looked around me, and nding myself alone, I kneeled down and began to offer up the desires of my heart to God” ( Joseph Smith—History 1:14–15).

E14N00-00_IFC-IBC_Richards_Christensen.indd 3 10/7/14 4:26 PM “As we strive to place Christ at the center of our lives by learning His words, by following His teachings, and by walking in His path, He has promised to share with us the eternal life that He died to gain,” said President Thomas S. Monson during the 184th Semiannual General Conference of the Church. “There is no higher end than this, that we should choose to accept His discipline and become His disciples and do His work throughout our lives. Nothing else, no other choice we make, can make of us what He can.”