SNN THIS MONTH SPOKANE Ð Nathan Lane demon- strated John Wayne’s walk in The Birdcage. Now we get to see The Duke act Ð in the same manner Ð at Gay Movie Night at CenterStage. Vol. XIII, No. 12 Serving the Gay and Lesbian Community of the Inland Northwest December 2004 Page 17. SPOKANE Ð events in Cincinnati after voters ap- Like a young Jim proved the amendment in 1993. Carrey, Damon Cincy loses $25 million Mentzer’s rubbery Those conventions had been ex- features light up pected to bring $25 million to the Inspecting Carol at in tourism revenue due area. “We’ll follow up with every Interplayers. Page group that canceled,” said Alan 14. Welch, interim bureau president. Damon Mentzer to discrimination of gays Some groups say repealing the SPOKANE Ð In CINCINNATI Ð Tourism officials after city and business leaders warned amendment could be the first step to- its search for new strategies effective here are targeting organizations and ward bringing their business back. in halting the spread of HIV and that it was harming the city’s groups that previously had taken their AIDS, Spokane AIDS Network is economy, said the AP. Earlier, the convention business elsewhere be- shelving a program it pioneered a de- Greater Cincinnati Convention and Only state to allow cause of a charter provision banning cade ago. Page 7. Visitors Bureau sent letters to 200 laws protecting gay people from dis- groups that cited gay rights issues as gay marriage has SPOKANE Ð New monarchs for crimination, according to the Associ- a reason for not hosting meetings in lowest divorce rate the Imperial Sovereign Court of Spo- ated Press. Cincinnati. Bureau representatives kane for 2004-2005 include an em- Cincinnatians voted to repeal the also are considering meeting with BOSTON Ð In an irony on the ra- press and two emperors. Page 5. 11-year-old Article XII in November eight groups that canceled scheduled dar of both conservatives and liber- als, researchers have noted that the COEUR D’ALENE Ð Five years areas of the country where divorce ago, Keith Wolter won the coveted rates are highest also are the same Rainbow Award for his activism in the Remembering areas where many conservative Chris- gay community. This month, he’s tians live, according to the New York stepping down from his post at North Times. Idaho AIDS Coalition. Page 8. Voters in states like Kentucky, Mis- SEATTLE Ð Pe- sissippi and Arkansas, for example, ter Boal, a princi- overwhelmingly approved state con- pal with New York stitutional amendments to ban gay City Ballet since marriage. But those three states also 1989, will succeed had the highest divorce rates in 2003, Kent Stowell and according to figures from the Census Francia Russell as Bureau and the National Center for artistic director of Health Statistics, the Times reported. Pacific Northwest Peter Boal The state with the lowest divorce Ballet at the end of rate Ð Massachusetts Ð is the only state the current season. that currently allows same-sex mar- riage. SEATTLE Ð The Seattle Men’s Chorus and the Seattle Women’s Cho- “Some people are saying, ‘The rus will present holiday concerts this Bible Belt is so pro-marriage, but gee, month. Calendar, page 9. they have the highest divorce rates in photo by Christopher Lawrence the country,’” Barbara Dafoe White- PORTLAND Ð Travelers to the A mother and her daughter joined upwards of 100 people at the Northwest head, co-director of the National Mar- Rose City in mid-December are in- Museum of Arts and Culture to commemorate World AIDS Day Dec. 1. The riage Project at Rutgers University, vited to enjoy the Portland Gay Men’s somber, yet inspirational program was presented by Spokane AIDS Network, told the Times. Chorus in concert. For tickets and Unity Church of Truth, Spokane Regional Health District and the museum (MAC). information, phone (503) 226-2588. TRENTON Ð The former governor of New Jersey is touted as the next Saskatchewan 7th in Canada INSIDE “powerful voice” for the gay commu- nity. Page 10. to legalize marriage for gays Arts & Entertainment ...... 14 Business Directory ...... 13 ATLANTA Ð A close shave on cer- SASKATOON, Saskatchewan Ð A and Nova Scotia have already ruled in tain parts of the body may be hazard- Saskatchewan court ruling Nov. 5 the same way. Elsewhere in the coun- Classifieds ...... 25 ous to one’s health. Page 11. made this Canadian prairie province try, gay couples are challenging the Garden Clippings ...... 22 the country’s seventh jurisdiction to law in Newfoundland and Labrador. WASHINGTON, D.C. Ð The U.S. International News ...... 12 Supreme Court says it will not hear a allow gay couples to wed. The Supreme Court of Canada cur- challenge to the legality of same-sex According to the Associated Press, rently is evaluating a draft federal law Ken Lovering ...... 23 marriage in Massachusetts. Page 21. Justice Donna Wilson agreed with from Prime Minister Paul Martin’s National News ...... 10 courts in five other provinces and one government that could make gay wed- JAMAICA Ð Human rights advo- territory, saying existing marriage dings legal from coast to coast. Political News...... 20 cates here see anti-gay violence and laws discriminate against gay couples The high court is expected to rule Regional News ...... 8 homophobia as deterrents to HIV and and were unconstitutional. The next year. Resource Directory...... 26 AIDS education. Page 12. Saskatchewan ruling came after five The decision in Saskatchewan Reviews & Previews ...... 18 NORTH POLE – Santa’s coming gay couples went to court seeking the came three days after American vot- and Stonewall’s got some gift ideas, right to marry. ers in 11 states indicated their disap- Spokane News ...... 4 whether you’re shopping for others or High courts in Quebec, British Co- proval of legalizing marriage benefits Tell Trinity ...... 17 for yourself. Pages 16 and 24. lumbia, Ontario, the Yukon, Manitoba for gay couples. Voices...... 2 Page 2 Stonewall News Northwest December 2004

This paper proudly dedicates itself to the spirit of the Voices Stonewall Patriots who, on May 5, 1997, courageously committed themselves to the achievement of Freedom and Liberty and Justice for all people of the City of Spokane Hey, big spender! “Equal Rights for All” Dean Lynch ❖ Bill Nourse ❖ Ella Hartson Act on your and prepaid gift cards will be more tions like Stonewall News Northwest Dennis Davis ❖ Jay Castro ❖ Janice Marx ‘consumer smarts’ popular than ever. Ð and Web sites. There are books and the Reverend Linda J. Laster Amid this frenzy of spending, the Web sites that provide that informa- Marianne Hurmence-Dawson before spending question to be asked is whether and tion. your money how we can effectively use the A second way would include money we are going to be spending preferentially patronizing companies by Paul Varnell anyway to bolster our standing and targeted for boycotts by our oppo- legitimacy in the country. nents like Focus on the Family Founder and Publisher Every year with the regularity of a (FOTF) or the American Family 1992 - 1995 metronome Ð and the foresight of a It seems likely that, for the next Lawrence B. Stone four years, gays will make few gains Association (AFA) to counter any parsnip Ð I forget to write a Thanks- possible impact of their boycotts. Vol. XIII, No. 12 giving column. But this year I am at in the political sphere, at least at the national level. That means we would For instance, one conservative Publisher and Executive Editor least writing a Christmas column. John M. Deen And it is about, as you might guess, be wise to look to other areas where group called a boycott of Procter and we can influence social change. The Gamble because the company Production Editor “the true meaning of Christmas.” Mark Southwick Which is, of course: Gifts. most obvious is the business sector. supported repeal of an anti-gay provision in Cincinnati’s city charter. Contributors The Christmas (aka “holiday”) Capitalism, after all, is a system Graham G. Ames where the consumer gets the final (Related story on page 21.) Procter Su Docekal shopping season is huge. Many and Gamble, alas, probably doesn’t retailers count on the Christmas say: If a consumer does not like a Kurt Erichsen product (or the producer), he doesn’t make many products that qualify as Christopher Lawrence shopping season to put them, at the Christmas gifts, but a check of the Michael Loundagin last minute, in the black rather than have to buy; there are always alterna- Earl Storm tive products and producers. “Con- FOTF and AFA Web sites would turn Trinity the red. Some make 25 percent of up a full list of boycott targets. their annual sales in the four weeks sumerism,” rightly understood, is Paul Varnell between Thanksgiving and Christ- simply the evaluation and purchasing A cautionary note: No one should mas. side of the economy. Our task is to feel obligated to buy an inferior News and Advertising make our consumerism work for us. product no matter how gay-friendly Contact Information The National Retail Federation the manufacturer, nor patronize a projects total sales of $220 billion Ð Some ways to do that are already rude retailer no matter how gay or Stonewall News Northwest almost $750 for every man, woman familiar. The most obvious is to patronize manufacturers and retailers officially gay friendly. After all, P.O. Box 2704 and born child. Clothing, luxuries “smart consumerism” is also a way Spokane, WA 99220 and high-end electronics Ð digital that are “gay friendly,” as proven by their nondiscrimination policies, of rewarding product quality and News and Advertising televisions, digital photography and retail courtesy. Those count in our Phone: (509) 456-8011 their offering of partner benefits for Fax: (509) 455-7013 downloadable music items Ð are quality of life, too. expected to show the biggest in- gay employees, and/or their outreach E-mail: [email protected] creases. Online shopping is likely to to gays by advertising in gay publi- But in addition to selective When sending artwork/graphic files by show a 20- to 30-percent increase, cations Ð at the local level, publica- purchasing, there is a whole addi- e-mail, please use: Continued on page 26 [email protected] Subscription Information Subscribe by sending $20 (12 issues) Do You Remember? with your name and address to the address above, or call Stonewall News Northwest in December (509) 456-8011 for credit card billing. Last Year Ð The big news, of along with panel and roundtable dis- Bijou Matinee’s annual Diva © 2004 SNN. All Rights reserved. course, comes from the other side of cussions, an art project and film pre- Show attracts a crowd of 385 and, Stonewall News Northwest is published by the country. The highest court in sentations. In Coeur d’Alene, some 80 although admission is free, raises Stonewall Publishing, Inc., a Washington state corporation founded in March 1992, Massachusetts tells the Legislature clients of North Idaho AIDS Coalition $1,900 to benefit Inland Northwest John M. Deen, president. Advertisers assume it has six months to enact laws le- are honored at a special candle cer- Pride’s sponsorship of Pride Day in all liability for claims or suits based on the subject matter of their ad and agree to hold galizing marriage for same-sex emony. June. Dempseys throws a New Years Stonewall Publishing, Inc. harmless from couples. Locally, the Human Rights Eve party to welcome the new mil- any such claim. The publisher assumes no Commission announces yet another Five Years Ago Ð At the polls, by a lennium. liability for typographical errors or omis- sions. Publication of the name or photo- stab to draft an ordinance to place margin of 52.2 percent to 47.7 percent, graph of any person, organization or before the City Council that would Spokane residents vote to retain the 10 Years Ago Ð Buddies will business in articles or advertising in Stonewall News Northwest is not to be provide domestic partnership ben- city’s nine-month-old Human Rights morph into Hour Place, but new construed as an indication of the sexual efits for city employees. Ordinance that affords gay men and owner Roma Sinn assures the com- orientation of such person, organization or business. Opinions expressed in by-lined To commemorate World AIDS lesbians equal rights protections in em- munity that Spokane’s longest-run- columns, guest editorials, letters, articles Day on Dec. 1, Gonzaga University’s ployment, housing and public accom- ning gay bar at 415 W. Sprague will and cartoons are those of the writers and artists and do not necessarily represent the Kaleidoscope Activities displays modations. remain gay, with few other changes. opinions of Stonewall News Northwest. panels from The Names Project Emmanuel Metropolitan Commu- The Advent season begins at AIDS Memorial Quilt that concludes nity Church ($3,100), North Idaho Emmanuel MCC with the election of Letters Policy with a candlelight vigil. An open AIDS Coalition ($4,400), the Rainbow the Reverend Linda J. Laster as se- Stonewall News Northwest welcomes letters house precedes a candlelight vigil on nior pastor. More than 130 guests at- and e-mails. All submissions will be consid- Regional Community Center ($7,000), ered for publication. They should be typed and the lawn at Spokane AIDS Network. and SAN’s Friend-to-Friend project tend a ceremony at West Central 250 words or less. Each submission may be ($2,500) receive grants from the Pride Community Center to unite Tony J. edited for length and/or coherence. Full name, The University of Idaho sponsors address, and phone number must be included, a weeklong program that includes Foundation and its local Statewide af- Politelli and Mark in a spiritual and if written, signature of the author is re- panels from the national AIDS Quilt filiate. union. quired. Names withheld by request only. Sub- missions will not be returned. You Are Cordially Invited Christmas Appreciation

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The Merq: Your Home for the Holidays 706 North Monroe St. Convenient, Hassle-free Parking Page 4 Stonewall News Northwest December 2004 Spokane January trial set ■ a history-museum-education Workshop crowd offers project to highlight gay history, for two men who ■ rainbow flags, and ■ racial, social and cultural diver- started bar brawl numerous ideas for gay area sity. Two Spokane-area men who started by Christopher Lawrence Research, it was said, suggests that The few people present who indi- a fight in Dempseys recently are in jail the three Ts, technology, talent and tol- cated opposition to a gay district were and scheduled for trial on Jan. 24, ac- Interested representatives from the erance, are interdependent and neces- civil, but clearly misunderstood the na- cording to authorities. The trial date Greater Seattle Business Association, sary to create a stronger economy. In ture of the workshop and the promise was set at an arraignment on Nov. 30. Lambda Alliance of Seattle and vari- order to attract talent and technology that greater gay visibility would be a ous factions of the Spokane gay com- positive contribution to Spokane’s Ronald L. Trammell, 24, was ar- to Spokane, gay men and women must munity were among the 90 people be perceived as being tolerant. community at large. Said Reguindin, rested Oct. 24, within hours after start- congregated for a Vision Workshop “As long as we are a grassroots move- ing a fight around 10 p.m. with patrons held Nov. 20. When asked what ways the gay ment and not involving the govern- in Dempseys. Police charged him with community is an asset to Spokane, au- ment, we have nothing to fear from second-degree assault for a hate bias Marvin Reguindin and Bonnie As- dience members offered that gay pen, co-chairs of the Inland Northwest dissenters.” crime. Trammell has five charges of people: Business Alliance Vision Committee malicious harassment and two other ■ Straight allies of the gay commu- and workshop moderators, led an in- are trendsetters, ■ nity showed interest and voiced their charges for second-degree assault, po- teractive dialogue about the creation of raise diversity, lice said. ■ opinions, as well. Kathy Ferguson of a gay neighborhood or district. provide services (teachers, doc- Cheney, who attended with her teen- The Spokane County ProsecutorÍs tors, nurses), age daughter, told the crowd: “We According to surveys conducted at ■ Office said a warrant was issued on the Pride Day in June and, later, at city gay are part of the professional work moved here from Seattle, and it wasn’t other assailant, Todd E. Bridges, 22, force, very long before I realized how de- bars: ■ but Bridges is in jail in another county ■ volunteer in prived of diversity pending charges there. The 57 percent of Spokane’s gay greater numbers, population go to Seattle or Portland for and culture my prosecutor’s office said he will be ar- ■ are a huge cul- daughter would be. I rested and charged in Spokane when a “gay getaway” weekend, tural influence, ■ look forward to he is released. Mark Cipolla is the act- 84 percent feel “somewhat in- ■ renovate and re- these positive ing prosecutor for the case. spired” to “very inspired” to help cre- vitalize neighbor- changes that em- As many as four bar patrons were ate a gay neighborhood, and hoods, brace a more diverse said to have been injured in the fracas. ■ 81 percent go out of their way to ■ are creative, community.” One man was treated at a hospital and support gay businesses and services. ■ attract the arts, “GLBTQ Customer” business card As Tom Bellinger, released. The consensus was that the gay and another straight ally, stated in a letter Police officers at the time praised community becomes invisible after ■ are enduring and courageous. to the The Spokesman-Review, “All Dempseys patrons for “the presence of Pride Week and there is no catalyst to Attendees also contributed what they (gay people) want is the chance mind to get the description of the (as- create tolerance and acceptance in the they would like to see included in the to be known, tolerated, accepted and sailants’) car and the license plate num- general community. project to create a gay district in Spo- allowed to pursue the ‘American ber.” The also said witnesses at the Solutions presented were to become kane. Among the suggestions were: Dream.’ Let us, let them.” scene gave excellent descriptions of the more visible every day and to estab- ■ gay and allied businesses, Comment cards collected from the perpetrators. lish a physical presence. ■ a more successful community participants will be compiled for the center or facility, next workshop, to be scheduled in ■ a family-friendly newspaper, March. ■ a bookstore, “Let’s Get Visible” cards were ■ parks, handed out and will be distributed and ■ a daycare center, used at businesses to signal their gay- Happy ■ housing, friendly businesses, and for gay cus- ■ a C.O.P.S. station, tomers to notify businesses when they Ho-Ho-Ho ■ youth support from adults, are spending “gay dollars.” Tw o -bit auction raises Fairie Awards show two grand for SAN nets $250 for Pride Holidays The volunteer members of Friends Last month’s Fairie Awards show, of SAN held their annual Quarter which featured a variety of entertain- Auction in November and raised just ers and prizes valued at more than more than $2,000 for Spokane AIDS $3,000 by the organizer, netted some- Network, according to President Mat- where between $222 and $251 for In- thew Vela. Raffle ticket sales for a land Northwest Pride. Security said basket of chocolates also contributed 230 people attended. to the total. Organizer Seymore Fairies said Vela said he considered the receipts INPride was given tips entertainers more than the value of the prizes won received and proceeds from a raffle top notch at the auction. of 30 baskets containing the donated “Folks had a fantastic time help- products and services. ing raise money for SAN,” he said. Receipts for the night, he said, “were cafe The wild and wooly affair at Demp- close to $500, about half of which went Your host, Cliff seys attracted about 150 people in- to the caterer and for rental of The terested in helping the AIDS agency Dancing Place. The owner of the now- N. 825 Monroe • Spokane, WA financially and having a good time closed The Detour received the pro- (509) 327-7988 while doing it. ceeds from liquor sales. December 2004 Stonewall News Northwest Page 5

Wake-up call: main at home rather than attending school, daycare or work, where others New monarchs of the realm would be exposed. Individuals ¥ Wash hand frequently. This will reduce the likelihood of transmitting the flu bug Ð as well as many other dis- key to flu eases.

prevention Hospice invites personal The season’s first case of influenze notes on community tree in Spokane County was confirmed in mid-November and, although the case Hospice of Spokane will sponsor a appeared several weeks after the start community memorial tree at the STA of the typical flu season, the head of Plaza this month and the hosts invite the Spokane Regional Health District families and friends who have lost urges everyone to protect themselves loved ones to place a memorial dove against the spread of germs. among the branches. Simply put: wash hands frequently Hospice will provide white paper with soap and water, stay at home dove ornaments for visitors to write when ill and cover a cough with a tis- names, messages or short poems, said sue. Hospice Communications Coordinator Alyssa Biolchini. The tree will be on “This is the time of year that we display at the downtown bus center be- typically see our first case of the flu,” tween Dec. 8 and Christmas Day. said SRHD chief Dr. Kim Marie Thorburn. The typical flu season, she said, generally runs October through photo courtesy of ISCS March, often peaking in late Decem- The jurisdiction of the Imperial Sovereign Court of Spokane this year will be ber and through January. Tlgrw Bfspaf governed by Empress 33 Courtney Cox, center, and two emperors, LaDonna, on the corner of 29th & Bernard and Robert Surreal. The monarchs were installed at investitures in November “All indicators point to minimal flu following Coronation. activity so far,” Thorburn said, “but the first confirmed case means that the vi- Invites you to a rus is in our community. It is a wake- unique Christmas experience... handling bookings for Ellen up call to practice those measures that will minimize its spread.” Christmas Eve Candlelighting Services DeGeneres. Both are comics. December 24, 2004 Big name While the pointer on the room ther- Those familiar with the misery the respiratory infection causes Ð fever, AA Family Christmas Service Service featuring featuring the Youth the mostat seemed frozen on 56, the seven Choir & Pageant titled A Christmas headache, achy muscles, weakness, Youth Choir & Pageant titled people exchanging ideas were warmed A ChristmasCandle Candle“ 5:00 pmÐ 5:00 pm is key for by the treasurer’s report: $1,700 in the runny nose, sore throat and dry cough Ð will appreciate Thorburn’s recom- A Christmas Service featuring the bank and $222 from the Fairie Awards AdultAdult Choir“Choir Ð 8:00 8:00 pmpm awaiting deposit. mended measures to avoid transmitting Pride Day flu germs: A Contemplative The colleagues for Pride reaffirmed !#ontemplative ExperienceExperience -Ð 10:0010:00 pm Brainstorming ideas to boost atten- their favoring a silent march Ð perhaps ¥ Use good personal hygiene. Cover the nose and mouth when sneezing or dance at Pride Day, a chilled, but oth- even supplying black arm bands for December 31st erwise determined cluster of people participants Ð and that it would culmi- coughing and follow up by hand wash- ing. World Peace Meditation decided that Inland Northwest Pride nate at the customary festival grounds 3:45 a.m needed to go after big name entertain- in Riverfront Park. They also liked the ¥ Isolate children and adults who ment. idea of retaining a mass wedding cer- have an illness with sneezing, cough- 2900 S. Bernard • 838-6518 www.unityspokane.org Between shivers caused by the fur- emony as feature of Pride Day. ing, aches and fever. They should re- nace being out of service at the Rain- Bridget Potter was reelected co- bow Regional Community Center for chair of the committee, with Thomas last month’s meeting of Inland North- the second half of the duo. Bonnie west Pride, Denise Thomas volun- Aspen was elected secretary and John teered to contact Margaret Cho’s Brindle treasurer. Next meeting, before manager. Christopher Lawrence said a planning retreat in January, is Dec. Jerry J. Davis he would attempt a linkup with those 13 at 6:30 p.m. at the center. Attorney at Law Certified Notary Public Criminal Defense Product Liability Real Estate • in association with Brant L. Stevens Bankruptcy Family Law Personal Injury New address: 1319 N. Howard St. • Spokane, WA 99201 Office: (509) 325 0125 • Fax: (509) 325 0127 • Cell: (509) 869 2168 Email: [email protected] • Website: www.sddlawoffices.com Page 6 Stonewall News Northwest December 2004

pends upon how it’s approached. For Saturday. The following guide to ■ The Loft will open at its custom- many employed in the hospitality in- what’s open and what’s not can be ary times, 2 p.m. on Christmas Eve and Area bars dustry, home is where they work, holi- folded into a wallet or taped to the re- New Year’s Eve and at noon on Christ- day or not. frigerator door for handy reference. mas Day and New Year’s Day. For a set hours For those who participate in the tra- ■ Dempseys will maintain regu- potluck from 4-7 p.m. on Christmas ditional definition of home for the holi- lar hours on Christmas Eve and open Day, The Loft invites patrons who cook days, lights at a favorite restaurant or on Christmas Day at 6 p.m. Hours of to bring a favorite dish to accompany for holiday lounge can be an inviting opportunity operation will extend to 4 a.m. both a ham and turkey to be supplied by the to join the camaraderie and exchange days. The New Year’s holiday will not bar. On New Year’s Day, Bloody Marys festivities greetings with nontraditional family alter the club’s normal schedule, 3 p.m. and margaritas will be specially-priced members. to 4 a.m., although reservations are en- from open to close. Phone 455-7260. As an expression, “Home for the Holiday hours at “family” busi- couraged for Dempseys’ special prime ■ The Merq will celebrate its first holidays” is a hologram. It presents an nesses were influenced this year by rib dinner beginning at 6 p.m. on New holiday season with a Christmas Ap- appealing image, but its meaning de- Christmas and New Year’s falling on Year’s Eve. Phone 747-5362. Continued on next page December 2004 Stonewall News Northwest Page 7

fact that, each year, new young men source of HIV prevention for the In- New program at SAN to focus ‘come out’ as gay or bisexual who have land Northwest.” he said. not been exposed to the prevention The first Friend-to-Friend coordina- more on group events, functions campaigns of previous years. Thus, tors were Joe Tomlinson at SAN and HIV prevention for young gay and bi- Craig Peterson at Spokane Regional Friend-to-Friend gives Friend-To-Friend helped decrease new sexual men must be ongoing and dy- cases of HIV, he said. Health District. Following their pioneer- way to MPOWERMENT namic. ing efforts to stem the infection of HIV Hemphill said the new program Ð Spokane AIDS Network is phasing “We know that men who report hav- and AIDS, were Kevan Gardner, Rob MPOWERMENT Ð incorporates some ing unprotected sex in the past are more Crumley, Tracy Mikesell, Jeffrey out its highly-acclaimed Friend-to- aspects of the Friend-to-Friend pro- Friend program, utilizing peer opinion likely to have unprotected sex again in Weldon, Christopher Zilar. Joe Sullivan gram that are still effective in the new the future. Therefore, to have the great- and, since June 2003, Hemphill. leaders to talk frankly with other men century. about safe sex, in favor of a new, com- est impact, HIV prevention programs “Through building a core group munity-level project that will rely more must intervene at an early point in of gay and bisexual men, on small groups and group functions. men’s sexual initiation and continue to MPOWERMENT will create activities reinforce safer sex norms. Launched with a picnic in High that will bring people together,” “HIV-prevention planning councils Bridge Park in August 1995, Friend- Hemphill said, for better providing to-Friend for nearly a decade fulfilled across the country consistently iden- people with up-to date information tify young gay and bisexual men as one an urgent need that served a targeted about HIV and AIDS. Small, group and vulnerable population in the state. of the highest priority groups for HIV functions, he said, “will allow partici- prevention efforts.” In those days, 80 percent of the new pants opportunities to have dialogue HIV transmission cases occurred in about safer-sex practices along with Spokane AIDS Network, Hemphill gay, bisexual and two-spirited (Native other issues that are often cofactors in said, not only will coordinate the core American) men. the transmission of HIV. Since multiple group of men who will form the Although there have been changes factors contribute to HIV risk-taking MPOWERMENT, but also will help in the distribution of the epidemic, the among young gay and bisexual men, initiate a community advisory group HIV/AIDS impact in the state remains MPOWERMENT’s multilevel preven- of health educators and mentors from most heavily concentrated among men tion programming will address this the larger gay community. who have sex with men, said Russ wide range of factors.” To that end, SAN will continue to Hemphill, Friend-to-Friend coordina- According to the MPOWERMENT partner with agencies, social groups tor and community health educator for Web site, “there is a grave public and businesses to elevate and support SAN. misperception that the gay community the new program. Through this effort, By reducing the occurrences of un- has been saturated with AIDS preven- Hemphill hopes to create a community protected sex among these men, tion services. This myth ignores the that understands, supports and diffuses HIV education and prevention infor- mation that will impact the future. “MPOWERMENT will be a commu- Continued from previous page Year’s Eve, 7 a.m. to 2 p.m., but will nity effort and will become the next preciation Party on Dec. 22 beginning be closed on both Christmas Day and at 7 p.m. On Christmas Day it will open New Year’s Day. Phone 327-7988. at 6 p.m., but maintain its regular Elsewhere: schedule Ð 3 p.m. to 2 a.m. Ð on Christ- ■ The Y Tavern in Prichard Ð a mas Eve, New Year’s Eve and New short and scenic drive north on a well- Year’s Day. Reservations are advised maintained road from I-90 Exit 43 Ð Season’s Gree for the special dinner menu the Merq will maintain regular hours during the is planning for New Year’s Eve, with holidays but will serve a free dinner from your friends at Emmanuel MCC seating at 5, 7 or 9 p.m. Phone 325- on Christmas Day until about 10 p.m. 3871. or until the food is gone. Champagne The Advent season is here! ■ The Top Notch Cafe will serve and caviar will be served for the New breakfast and lunch during regular Year’s Eve party. Phone (208) 682- This year’s theme for Advent is hours on Christmas Eve and New 4036. “Celebrating Jesus: the REAL reason for the season” With messages on PEACE - Dec. 5 ¥ JOY - Dec. 12 ¥ LOVE - Dec. 19 • Asset Preservation REFLECTION AND HOPE - Dec. 26 SENIOR LAW & Disability Planning Christmas Eve Service •Medicare and Medicaid “Candles & Carols” 11 p.m. Members: Spokane Estate Planning Council • Guardianships & Trusts New Year’s Eve Service “Now is the Hour” • 11 p.m. Memorial Poinsettia Sale Names of the ones you would like to honor and remember will be placed on a card on the plant and the plants will be displayed around the church. A special recognition dedication of the plants will be done on Sunday, Dec. 19. Plants can be picked up on Dec. 26. Call the church office at 838-0085 to order. $10 325-7330 Our prayer for each of you in the GLBT community is this: For many of us, this time of year can be a time of loneliness, depression and heartache because of past experiences. 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Sunday at 5 p.m. Page 8 Stonewall News Northwest December 2004 Regional Burien affirms civil rights with Keith Wolter steps down Top court law against to rule on discrimination as director at NIAC BURIEN Ð City Council members Shared the successes support groups and retreats, sitting marriage here took the occasion of the eve of of health, grief of loss with folk individually Ð the work we the national elections to adopt an anti- have done together gives me comfort discrimination ordinance. Keith Wolter is serving his last days as I grieve my departure of NIAC and in March look forward to my new duties at The action, according to Council- this month as the executive director of SEATTLE Ð Same-sex couples must CHAS.” man Stephen Lamphear, boosts Burien North Idaho AIDS Coalition. Starting be allowed to marry in Washington as the first suburban King County city in January, he will become program de- Wolter also directed grant writing State, according to a brief filed Nov. to adopt a comprehensive anti-dis- velopment and fundraising for the agency, includ- 24 at the state Supreme Court by crimination ordinance. manager for ing NIAC’ signature wine tasting Lambda Legal and the Northwest CHAS, the fundraiser each fall. Not surprisingly, Lamphear, who campaigned and Women’s Law Center. The brief asks Community for a man with his personality and hu- the state’s high court to uphold a rul- won election to his post as an openly- Health Asso- mor, Wolter allowed that “working gay man in 1997 and 2001, said ing earlier this year that said the ciation of with the good people of North Idaho state’s prohibition on gay couples Burien’s bill was patterned after an Spokane. has brought me the greatest joy.” ordinance currently under review by marrying is a violation of the Wash- the King County Council. Following Under Wolter’s guidance, NIAC’s ington Constitution. Wolter an- role in HIV and AIDS prevention de- “Burien again chose to be a leader “Our clients pay all the same taxes nouncing his veloped from its base in Coeur d’Alene as their neighbors and coworkers, and in the area of civil rights,” Lamphear resignation on to now include all the panhandle of said. “I’m proud to live in and repre- file photo they deserve all the same legal pro- Nov. 15, the Idaho. sent the citizens of this progressive, Keith Wolter tections. As long as gay couples can- board of di- Pondering the impact of the epi- pioneering community.” not marry, they are not being treated rectors named Dani Mahoney interim demic, he revealed: “Sharing in the equally under the law,” said Jennifer In 2001, this community wedged director until a plan for selecting a per- struggles of HIV and AIDS Ð both the C. Pizer, senior counsel in Lambda between Puget Sound and Sea-Tac In- manent replacement is approved. successes of health and the grief of Legal’s Western Regional Office and ternational Airport became the first Mahoney is a case manager at NIAC. loss, finding meds and docs in the early one of the lead attorneys in the case. suburban city in the state to adopt do- days, finding cool office space on the “We believe that the Washington Su- mestic partner benefits. Wolter described his six years as NIAC’s chief executive officer as “both hot summer days, hearing clients speak preme Court will look closely at the satisfying and rewarding. of their joys and sorrows Ð I have been important issues this case raises and Gay owned ¥ People Friendly humbled and honored to serve such come to the same conclusion the “Finding resources and ensuring wonderful folk in times of adversity.” that people can have access to quality lower court reached.” Y Tavern healthcare has been a priority for me,” In Spokane, where Wolter has main- In an historic ruling Aug. 4, King Excellent Cuisine he said in announcing his resignation. tained his home through the years, one County Superior Court Judge William (208) 682-4036 “Providing HIV testing and prevention of his first assignments at CHAS, he Downing said the state Constitution I-90 Exit 43 to Prichard, Idaho outreach, organizing prevention and said, will be to provide oversight for guarantees basic rights to lesbian and the HIV clinic as it goes through staff- gay people, and that those rights are ing changes. The job will keep him in violated by a state law prohibiting touch with old colleagues as well as same-sex couples from marrying. new administrators and technicians. Downing’s ruling said the state Constitution requires same-sex Women invited for couples to have equal access to mar- free health checkup riage, and that the couples represented by Lambda and the Law Center must SEATTLE Ð Middle-aged and older be given marriage licenses. One lesbians, bisexual women and month after Downing’s ruling in King transgendered individuals who will be County, Judge Richard D. Hicks in in the Seattle area Dec. 7 are invited to Thurston County Superior Court ruled stop by The Wild Rose on Capitol Hill similarly. Before you waste your valuable time for a free health examination. 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Equal Rights Washington Mala Nagarajan of the group’s state- Oregon gays claim Regional wide summit planning committee. marriage ban does Nagarajan said the group is seeking not cancel earlier, Calendar Gears up for volunteers to help create a statewide network that can quickly respond to legal weddings December events: legislative, policy or political matters PORTLAND Ð Proponents of gay quick action, that affect the gay community. ▼ Dec. 5-20 Ð Seven perfor- marriage are conceding that a voter- mances of Seattle Men’s Chorus Special areas of involvement, she approved ban on same-sex marriage holiday concert Underneath the future civic said, could include advocacy, commu- in November’s elections shuts the Mistletoe, Benaroya Hall, Seattle, nication, community mobilization, door to state-sanctioned nuptials be- $18-$57, (206) 323-2992. education, fundraising, political action tween gay and lesbian couples Ð at engagement or research. ▼ Dec. 9, 10 and 11 Ð Conclud- least for now. SEATTLE Ð Gay individuals and ing weekend for the Amy and “Those opposed to equal rights for According to the Associated Press, organizations committed to ending dis- our community are well organized and activists claim the ban does not invali- David Sedaris dramedy The Book crimination in the state that is targeted of Liz, Off-Broadway Theater, positioned to mislead and mobilize date the marriages of the 2,961 gay to sexual orientation and gender iden- their community to action,” Nagarajan men and lesbian couples who tied the Boise, 8 p.m., $10, (208) 363- tity are encouraged to sign on with 7053 said. “We need to be an equal force … knot in Oregon earlier this year, when Equal Rights Washington. with a strong network of civic engage- ■ Multnomah County briefly permitted Dec. 10 Ð Tim Behrens in Membership in ERW is available ment and community mobilization.” Patrick McManus’ Pot Luck: A gay marriage, before a judge stopped through the organization as a political the practice. Salad of Seldom-Seen Stories The first step, she said, is learning action committee or through its non- about each other. Nagarajan invites Served a la Carte, Panida Theater, Nor does it shut the door to civil profit education fund, according to prospective participants to take a few Sandpoint, 8 p.m., $12-$15, Eve’s unions, said the AP, according to legal minutes to complete an online sur- briefs filed with the Oregon Supreme Leaves, Pack River Potions, Mon- vey. The online link to the survey arch Mountain Coffee and (509) Court by the American Civil Liberties Campaigns to target may be found at: https:// Union on Nov. 18. 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In his opin- the legislature, despite the state hav- ion issued in November, district Judge for upcoming gay issues ing one of the highest rates of HIV Frank Stewart said it was impossible from intravenous drug use. to determine whether Sandy Clarissa McGreevey’s preparations to trans- Gast had intended to lie on the appli- TRENTON, N.J. Ð New Jersey Gov. gay rights group Empire State Pride fer the state’s executive leadership to cation or whether she truly believed James E. McGreevey took the oppor- Agenda, told the Associated Press that Senate President Richard Cody (D- herself to be female. tunity of his farewell address at the McGreevey would be a welcome State Museum here last month to vig- spokesperson for gay issues. West Orange), next in line to assume Gast was on trial on a misdemeanor orously defend his decision to come the office, was overshadowed by a long charge of false swearing, which car- out as a gay man. investigative report in the Nov. 7 edi- ries a $500 fine. Prosecutors said she tion of the Newark Star-Ledger that should have been listed as a man on “To be clear, I am not apologizing for being a gay American,” he told provided the most detailed account the marriage license application filed thus far of McGreevey’s personal life. in February. some 400 assembled supporters and members of the press, “but rather for The article in the state’s largest daily Gast, 48, was born Edward Gast and having let personal feelings impact my newspaper said McGreevey’s aides and underwent sex change surgery in Oc- decision-making and for not having political allies tried to hide his homo- tober after living for several years as a had the courage to be open about sexuality as he rose through the ranks woman. She had planned to marry whom I was.” of New Jersey politics. McGreevey George “Georgi” Somers, who is a himself seemed to want to paint him- man but lives as a woman. Gast said The governor was referring to his affair with a man, later identified as self as a heterosexual, according to the she was not sure if she would apply Star-Ledger. for another license, which would re- Golan Cipel, which led to his resigna- The story also regaled readers with quire a court challenge. She and tion in August. a narrative from various sources about Somers went through what they called McGreevey said he was standing AP photo by Mike Derer McGreevey’s relationship with Cipel, a “holy union” ceremony in Topeka on before them as “a man who has expe- Former Gov. James McGreevey who served as the head of the state’s March 20. rienced the freedom that comes with the truth,” adding that he has “been do- task force on terrorism and other paid ing some mending in my soul. I so McGreevey appeared at an Empire state positions. In a letter dated Aug. want the words of my mouth and the Pride fundraiser after coming out. 27, McGreevey acknowledged that his actions of my hands and thoughts of “I’ve spoken to the governor and actions had “significant public conse- my heart to be one and the same thing,” told the governor in the next several quences.” he said. months when he settles down, I think Anthony Caldwell, a former execu- 301 South Freya The popular, 47-year-old governor his is going to be a powerful voice for tive with the state Commerce and Eco- Spokane, WA 99202 stunned the country on Aug. 12 when (gay) issues,” Van Capelle told the AP. nomic Growth Commission and a close he revealed he is gay and resigned, ef- McGreevey’s family, including his confidante to McGreevey, told the pa- Inter net: www.emmanuelmcc.com per that Cipel had “special access” to E-Mail: [email protected] fective Nov. 15. McGreevey admitted wife, Dina, and his parents, were no- having an extramarital affair. ticeably absent as he delivered his the governor. Caldwell worked with Worship: Sundays at 5 p.m. Cipel to plan a trade mission to Israel McGreevey did not indicate what his speech. Dina McGreevey has bought 838-0085 her own house but has not announced in early 2003 and said that Cipel often future plans might include, but Alan called McGreevey to seek his advice. Wheelchair Accessible Van Capelle, executive director of the any plans to separate legally from her husband. Regardless, McGreevey “They were very close,” Caldwell again apologized to his family and the told the Star-Ledger. “He’d call and people of New Jersey for the affair and he’d get right through. When that num- for his sudden resignation. ber popped up on the governor’s cell Threats of Lewd Conduct/Trespassing? “I am sorry to those that I love in phone, he picked up.” my personal and political lives,” he Former McGreevey administration said. “I am sorry to those who vested officials also told the paper that Cipel Free legal services for Problems in the Park their careers with me that this abrupt was a frequent guest at Drumthwacket, transition has caused them upheaval. the governor’s official residence out- Ronnie Rae And I am sorry that I have disappointed side Princeton. One official said he saw the citizens of the state of New Jersey Cipel inside the mansion on two sepa- Attorney at Law who gave me this enormous trust.” rate occasions when he arrived there During his 15-minute speech, for early morning meetings. McGreevey made no mention of the Cipel, according to the official, was (509) 323-9000 corruption scandals that rocked his dressed in a sweat suit and his hair was short-lived administration. Instead, he unkempt. “It was very obvious that he • Criminal Defense touted his achievements as governor, spent the night,” the official said. “You • Traffic Infractions - startng at $49 citing New Jersey’s Domestic Partner- don’t go to the governor’s mansion • Huge “Family” Discounts ship Act, which grants gay couples with a sweat suit on.” • DUI, Drug Charges some of the same rights as married Drumthwacket employees also said people, as one of his administration’s they saw Cipel leave the mansion early 1408 W. Broadway • Stiley Building • Spokane, WA 99201 greatest accomplishments. in the morning on two separate occa- “We helped to bring more decency sions. One employee told the Star-Led- Emergency Curbside or Jailhouse: (509) 879-4082 and equality to our state,” he said, “fly- ger that Cipel was “dressed and ready ing in the face of national trends.” But for work.” Affordable Legal Services Available 24/7 December 2004 Stonewall News Northwest Page 11

Advice to men: Clip, don’t shave their chances of contracting staph if Birds of a feather to they develop acne or other skin infec- flock to South Beach tions, Melton said. ‘Manscaping’ body shaves Skin-to-skin contact is the most com- MIAMI Ð Tickets for the 12th annual mon mode of transmission for commu- Winter Party Festival here March 2-7 nity-acquired MRSA, which usually go on sale this month. More than tied to staph infection appears in the form of a swollen, puss- 10,000 people from all over the world Body contact, sharing The compromised skin integrity cat- filled skin boil. But the infection also are expected to attend the festivities for egory includes tiny abrasions that may may progress into a life-threatening the gay, lesbian, bisexual and towels also ill-advised occur during “manscaping,” the cos- blood stream infection if antibiotics fail transgendered (GLBT) community. Events are scheduled at several of the ATLANTA Ð Commonly mistaken by metic shaving of body parts popular to control it, said the CDC. hottest nightclubs, hotels, restaurants, patients and doctors as a spider bite, a with some gay men. Staph is the most common cause of museums and venues in South Beach. strain of staph continues to puzzle A recent study of a college football skin or soft tissue infection in the health experts who aren’t sure how team in Connecticut found that 10 of United States, and 90 percent of infec- Tickets may be purchased online at prevalent the drug-resistant bacterial the team’s 100 players acquired MRSA tions continue to occur in a hospital www.winterparty.com beginning De- skin disease is, or exactly what con- during an eight-week period, and those setting, according to the CDC. But no c. 10. Organizers suggest the most eco- tributes to its spread. who shaved body parts other than the national reporting system to track the nomical way to attend is to purchase one of the six event passes, which are “There’s still no clear reason why face were six times more likely to be prevalence of staph exists, mainly be- priced to save up to $295. Two-thirds this particular strain of staph is spread- infected. cause of how varied its severity is. of the proceeds will be distributed to ing,” said Dennis Melton, a physician “Body shaving is likely to produce The CDC said four states Ð Connecti- the South Florida gay community with the Infectious Disease Group of microabrasions,” wrote study author cut, Minnesota, Georgia and Maryland through a granting program adminis- Atlanta. “But the incidence seems to Elizabeth Begier, a researcher with the Ð are collecting data on MRSA to help tered by the Dade Community Foun- continue to increase.” Connecticut Department of Public the center better understand the illness. dation, with the balance going to the The infection, known medically as Health. “This emerging cosmetic be- National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. methicillin-resistant Staphylococcus havior among young men may contrib- aureus, or MRSA, surfaced more than ute to the risk of infection in Conn. officials support two decades ago, but was commonly populations of athletes, especially in benefits for gay couples found only in the elderly or individu- areas covered by clothing.” DANBURY, Conn. Ð Connecticut More national news als who had been hospitalized. Both body shaving and the whirl- legislators may buck the national trend on page 21. Medical experts now are observing pools found at bathhouses are suspected in which 11 states in November ap- the emergence of a relatively new of helping fuel the spread of staph proved constitutional bans on gay mar- strain, known as community-acquired among gay men, Melton said. riage. According to the Danbury News MRSA, among gay and bisexual men, “It’s been known for some time that Times, Democratic leaders favor some LICENSED MIDWIFERY CARE athletes, prisoners and Native Ameri- shaving could promote skin infection,” type of civil unions to grant same-sex cans. said Melton, who noted many doctors couples many of the rights given to Since a staph outbreak among gay now clip, instead of shave, a patient married heterosexual couples. Demo- • Home birth men in Los Angeles in early 2003, the before surgery. crats hold strong majorities in both • Water birth Centers for Disease Control and Pre- Towels and linens recycled among houses of the legislature. • Clinic births vention (CDC) in Atlanta has identi- men at bathhouses and in locker rooms Republican Gov. M. Jodi Rell and Free initial consultation fied five major factors that facilitate the at gyms also may facilitate the spread House Minority Leader Robert Ward transmission of the infection: of staph, Melton said. Midwifery Care, both have said they may be willing to Doula Service & ¥ close contact, People with HIV may be more at risk extend some rights to gay couples, al- ¥ crowding, for acquiring staph because of their “in- though both said they oppose same-sex Childbirth Classes ¥ cleanliness, creased exposure to antibiotics and the marriage, according to the News Times. Medicaid & Many ¥ contaminated items and surfaces, healthcare setting,” according to the “Connecticut may be the first state Insurances Accepted and CDC. They also may be more suscep- in the nation where the legislature ¥ compromised skin integrity. tible to severe illness if infected with cobbles something together,” said Rep. Tamy Roloff LM, CPM, CD, ICCE MRSA, Melton said. Robert Godfrey, the Democrat chair of Gay men who use anabolic steroids the screening committee that decides 509-534-6057 Sexual orientation at for bodybuilding also may increase which bills go to the House floor. 509 South Thor Street • Spokane crux of student violence APPLE VALLEY, Minn. Ð Three high school students, one allegedly armed with a bat, were charged with attack- ing a pro-President Bush classmate after he reportedly said only gays would support Sen. John Kerry. “It’s a what do you know? good thing to see young people inter- ested and excited about politics,” Da- kota County attorney James Backstrom 46 million people are living with AIDS told the Associated Press. “It’s obvi- ously very disturbing to see this kind 5 people worldwide die of AIDS every minute of violence over it.” According to the AP, authorities said the 17-year-old was assaulted in the high school parking lot following a class discussion about the election. He anonymous HIV testing was treated for cuts and bruises and re- leased. All three alleged assailants 324.1542 or 1.800.456.3236 were charged, one with felony assault because he allegedly went to his car to get a bat during the assault, one with misdemeanor assault and one with dis- orderly conduct. Page 12 Stonewall News Northwest December 2004 International Israel honors 40-year would have rendered current marriage was refused, the couple sought the said to be investigating whether he relationship of gay men law gender-neutral. Christian Demo- higher judicial review, according to was killed because he was gay. crats, linked to the Lutheran Church media reports. The vigil came amid more violence NAZARETH, Israel — A Nazareth in Norway and led by Prime Minister Gilligan and Zappone are the first against gays in the city, as a second gay District Court has ruled that same-sex Kjell Magne Bondevik, opposed the gay couple in Ireland to go to court to man was nearly stabbed to death while partners are eligible to be considered Labor party-sponsored bill, according seek state recognition of a foreign mar- riding a London night bus. The victim, common-law spouses under inherit- to press reports. riage. The case is also a legal first for whose name was not given, was listed ance law, setting a new precedent in Europe, where Belgium and the Neth- in “serious but stable condition” after Israel, the news agency Ha’aretz re- UK says OK to domestic erlands already allow same-sex mar- being taken to a hospital. According ported. riages and several other nations grant to the Guardian, the 25-year-old vic- Voting 2-1, the three-judge panel in partner rights, benefits gay couples similar tax, inheritance tim and his partner were going home November decided that a 77-year-old LONDON Ð The United Kingdom’s and child-rearing rights as husbands about 4 a.m. after a night out in early man who maintained a joint household House of Lords has passed a law giv- and wives have. Britain and Spain plan November when another passenger, a for some 40 years with his partner, who ing gay couples the right to legal rec- to follow suit soon. stranger, stabbed him four times with died in 2000, may inherit the deceased ognition and the same rights and Under current Irish law, a married a knife, in what police called a ho- man’s apartment even though the de- responsibilities that married couples in couple, in which one partner does not mophobic attack. cedent did not have a will, according England, Wales and Northern Ireland work outside the home, has tax advan- Six people were arrested and to Ha’aretz. Without formally leaving have long received. When the legisla- tages in comparison to other couples charged with Morley’s murder. They the apartment to his partner and with- tion approved Nov. 18 takes effect, the who live together. If the couple’s case also face charges for attempted assaults out any close family members as heirs, United Kingdom will join 12 other is successful, it could have a wide on two other men in the same area that his property was to be transferred to countries in legally recognizing same- range of implications for all unmarried night, the Guardian said. the state according to Israeli law. sex couples. couples in Ireland who live together, Nine countries, Denmark, Finland, estimated to be more than 77,000 Civil unions prevail as France, Germany, Iceland, Norway, couples, newspapers reported. Homophobia hinders Norway nixes marriage Portugal, Sweden and Switzerland, HIV/AIDS education grant rights and protections to gay OSLO, Norway Ð A measure that Slovakia says it will not KINGSTON, Jamaica Ð New re- couples that are more limited than mar- search by Human Rights Watch details would have allowed same-sex couples riage but more extensive than those recognize gay marriage in Norway to marry and to adopt chil- an increase in anti-gay violence in Ja- provided in the United States. Three BRATISLAVA, Slovakia Ð Despite maica amid growth of the nation’s dren was defeated in the country’s Par- countries, Belgium, the Netherlands liament last month, according to news widespread approval for gay couples’ HIV/AIDS epidemic. An HRW report, and Canada, extend gay couples the rights in the European Union, officials “Hated to Death: Homophobia, Vio- reports. Norway already allows civil right to marry. unions, through which gay couples can here have declared that Slovakia will lence & Jamaica’s HIV/AIDS Epi- obtain most of the benefits and respon- not recognize gay marriages con- demic,” was released as Caribbean sibilities that are included with hetero- Lesbians wed in Canada ducted in other EU member countries. leaders met to discuss HIV/AIDS, sexual marriage, but gay Norwegians seek equality in Ireland At a meeting of EU foreign affairs stigma and discrimination in St. Kitts/ are not allowed to adopt. ministers in Brussels in early No- Nevis, officials said. DUBLIN Ð A lesbian couple is seek- vember, Slovakian leaders an- Violence and discrimination against Gay rights advocates pushed for full ing judicial review in the Ireland High marriage rights and adoption that nounced their opposition. “Slovakia people living with and at high risk for Court to have their marriage recog- has taken this measure unilaterally, HIV/AIDS Ð particularly men who have nized by the government. Dubliners which means that we will have dif- sex with men Ð is on the rise, according Catherine Zapaonne and Louise ferent laws in this area than the rest to the report. Many Jamaicans believe Gilligan applied to the Irish Revenue of the EU,” said Foreign Affairs Min- that the disease is specific to gays and Commissioners to be recognized as a ister Eduard Kukan, according to the sex workers whose “moral impurity” married couple following their Sep- Spectator. Kukan told the newspaper makes them vulnerable to it, the Human tember 2003 wedding in Vancouver, that the decision will help Slovakia Rights Watch study found. Widespread British Columbia. When their request guarantee against recognition of gay homophobia, in turn, hinders access to marriages. HIV prevention information, condoms and health care for Jamaicans who need it, the report shows. Two violent deaths GET alarm gay Londoners Openly-gay politician LONDON Ð A candlelight vigil for sees benefit of goodwill NAKED DSL! a gay man beaten to death by a gang drew more than 1,000 mourners to VARNA, Bulgaria Ð The nation’s first NO central London on Nov. 5, according openly-gay politician Ð not surprisingly to the Guardian newspaper. Barman Ð is a member of the Socialist Party, de- PHONELINE David Morley, 37, of Chiswick in west scribed by its leader, Sergey Stanishev, REQUIRED London, was attacked by a gang as he as a left-wing party in Europe that Basic DSL Only $10 walked home along the South Bank champions equality and protection of of the Thames on Halloween week- gays and other minorities. $48 per month end, the Guardian said. gets you an Ivelin Yordanov, 26, who recently ac- As the gang attacked Morley, a sur- knowledged his sexual orientation, is UP TO 1.5 vivor of a Soho pub bombing in 1999 employed in a nongovernmental orga- MEG CIRCUIT in which three people died, two nization and works to fight discrimina- people took photographs using their tion against gays, according to news mobile phones, the Guardian reported. outlets in Bulgaria. Yordanov is a gradu- Morley died in a hospital later the ate of Economy University and a na- same day from injuries that included tive of Dobrich. He said that a party that a ruptured spleen, broken ribs and defends different sexual orientations can dozens of bruises. Detectives were only benefit in goodwill from voters. 535.1169 • WWW.ASISNA.COM December 2004 Stonewall News Northwest Page 13

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Holiday treat at Interplayers: Of particular note is the delightful, British-tongued Kathie Doyle-Lipe, a well-known local character actor whom I feel compelled to dub: Her Royal Highness, the Essence of Subtlety. It was difficult to tear my eyes away from her in many scenes because her energy and commitment to her craft are so It’s great fun solid. Gorgeous, crisp and self-absorbed, Stephanie Brush is delightful as the high-maintenance director, beleaguered with a cast whose lives are every bit as laughing at comical, zany and melodramatic as the parts they play. Damon Mentzer’s debut as the sadly underdeveloped aspiring wannabe actor mistaken for the inspector is charming and winning. He has just enough gee- other people’s whiz in his characterization to convince us of his sincere, but misguided attempts to gain his grasp on fame. Like a young Jim Carrey, his handsome good looks are readily distorted to a rubbery advantage. Alycia Delmore joins us from Seattle and gives her part as the stage manager problems enough weight to remember that the director is seldom the only boss in the theatre. Her portrayal of frustration over the lack of professionalism by the Soap by Christopher Lawrence Box Theater Company of actors and her character’s focus on making the show work rang true. This may be the best treat of the holiday season! Get your tickets to Wes Deitrick, as the frustrated, egocentric, self- see Interplayers’ rowdy and hilarious tortured and self-aggrandizing leading man, is a send-up of a struggling, second-rate, knot of emotions and desperate in his need for amateur theatre company presenting recognition as the genius he knows he is. Is it the the Charles Dicken’s classic. Do not devil that makes him do it? Possibly. delay. Roger Welch, though more low key, is another The convoluted premise of a play standout, with excellent timing and lines delivered within a play, which goes dreadfully with acerbic wit and an acid tongue. wrong, is fraught with delicious Troy Nickerson is a joy to watch as the slightly characters who suffer the slings and cloying and effete portrayal of the company’s arrows of being small actors in a financial manager. His body language and line small-town production, with large delivery are always unique and winning despite his egos and enough comical idiosyncra- character’s lack of spinal sies to fill … well, a theatre full of column. actors. Bryan Jackson and The hilarity begins with the Barrie MacConnell Ð as discovery of a possible foreclosure of well as Dan Heggem for his the company and its rather long-in- Marcel Marceau interpreta- the-tooth annual Christmas produc- tion of a thankless role Ð tion. An amateur budding actor, photos by Christopher Lawrence deserve special mention for mistaken for the inspector who might In the photo above, Troy Nickerson, left, as financial countless humorous decide their financial fate, is given a manager of the struggling Soap Box Theater Company, moments filled with angst part in the production and allowed to argues turkey props with Scrooge, in the person of Wes and confusion. Truthfully, rewrite the annual play only three Deitrick. all the actors are working days before opening night. At right, Kathie Doyle-Lipe’s emotional portrayal of small- with a great director, a first- town actress Dorothy Tree-Hapgood convulsed The results are sidesplitting, top- audiences. rate script Ð and they rise to notch entertainment, filled with the occasion masterfully. scenes that leave the audience rolling Niké Imoru’s exceptional direction obviously See it! with laughter. A few people howled inspired her ensemble of players to be an outstanding example of what team- Inspecting Carol runs to Dec. 18 on a Tuesday and hooted so loudly I want to see it work is about. Their polished, physical and verbal timing are worthy of any of through Saturday schedule. For tickets and all over again, in case I missed any the best situation comedies I have seen. Nearly every character has flashes of times, call the Interplayers box office at 455- of the lines. brilliance onstage. They obviously relish each second and each other. PLAY.

More than 70 groups in Spokane’s gay community 14 and tickets, $10, may be purchased Gay Movie Night: people showed up participated in applauding the pub- at the door. A full bar will be available. for dinner and a lisher, joined by gay allies, including Jeffrey is set in the mid-1990s, with movie in Novem- the marketing staff at the MAC, the Steven Weber as the title character, a Jeffrey next ber to enjoy a Northwest Museum of Arts and Cul- single, sex-obsessed gay man who re- five-course meal, ture. alizes that the threat of AIDS has taken screening at watch Beautiful This month’s Tuesday treat is Jeffrey, the fun out of his sex life. When he Thing and honor announced Jerry Davis, the board mem- vows to make changes and stop his John Deen for his ber at CenterStage who initiated Gay sexual escapades, he immediately CenterStage nine years de- Move Night and orchestrated the sur- meets the man of his dreams. Enter the by Christopher Lawrence voted to the pub- prise dinner salute to Deen. Unlike the very hunky Steve (Michael T. Weiss). lication of kickoff event, which included popcorn, But for Jeffrey, there’s a problem. Steve Kudos to CenterStage for a memo- Stonewall News and last month’s feature following din- is HIV-positive. The fun comes in rable evening filled with camaraderie, Northwest and ner, Jeffrey’s showing at 8:15 will be working out that problem. Jeffrey moving entertainment and excellent for his support of the arts in Spokane. preceded by a social hour with desserts comes with a “warning” of nudity and cuisine. People from a number of agencies and and coffee served at 7. The date is Dec. sexual scenes … thankfully. December 2004 Stonewall News Northwest Page 15

SJO offers musical Dream men want more salute to Russia The Spokane String Quartet will sa- than peace in the world lute Russia in the Dark of Winter at CenterStage on Dec. 8. Highlights of SAN FRANCISCO Ð What do you and actor from Perth, with a positive the Wednesday evening program in- clude String Quartet No. 13 by Dmitri & get when you take five hot hunks from outlook: “Life is such a beautiful jour- A E around the world, fly them to New York ney, I embrace its challenges and un- Shostakovich and Beethoven’s Op. 9, ARTS & ENTERTAINMENT and offer them the chance to compete derstand that every moment moulds me No. 1, first of his quartets to use a Rus- against each other for $25,000? into the person I am.” sian theme. That question will be answered Dec. Humble says he loves traveling, Dinner, reflecting the evening’s 12 at the Mr. Gay.com Universe Con- dancing, cooking, gardening, sports theme, is at 6:30 p.m. The concert is MAC to show century of test with television personality Graham and he just “adores” the beach. This at 7:30. Tickets are $43 per person. Norton emceeing the event at Club masculine jock has bulging muscles Show-only tickets, including dessert America in photography Crobar. Even better, admission is free, and a big heart and spends his free time and beverage, are $22 per person and One hundred years of photography said Gay.com’s Trea Robinson. Doors entertaining friends and volunteering $17 for children 17 and under. Phone catalogued by the National Archives open at 9:30 p.m. and the winner will with kids. the CenterStage box office at 747- will arrive this month for a brief ex- be crowned at 11 p.m. or midnight. Philip 8243 for reservations and informa- hibit at the Northwest Museum of Arts The contestants “don’t need an ex- Hewson, tion. and Culture (MAC). treme make-over,” Robinson said, 26, Mr. The exhibition celebrates 100 years “they are already smokin’ hot.” Judge Gay.com of American life and chronicles events for yourself: UK, is a The Artisans is open for business in Colville ranging from the Wright Brothers’ first Michael Lunde, 25, Mr. Gay.com software flight to footprints on the moon. The USA and consultant Colville Arts Foundation is open National Archives and Records Ad- North in London, this winter for scheduled workshops ministration created the exhibit from America, Angel Alonso Gonzalez who admits and other small group meetings only its extensive photography collection is a to not being and will return to its regular sched- and the Smithsonian Institution Trav- model not very do- ule March 16 with an exhibit by lo- eling Exhibition Service organized it from Ho- mestic. He says cal painters Rachael Hill and Violet for travel. nolulu, he is spiritual Collen, according to Gloria de los This significant exhibit at the MAC, (he’s into Santos, the foundation’s acting di- who said, Michael Lunde which hosted Spokane’s recent com- “I believe leather) and rector. memoration of World AIDS Day, is in the right to that his best at- The Artisans, a co-op business that slated to open Dec. 10 and continue love who you tribute is his in- shares space with CAF, will continue through Jan. 23. Regular admission want, marry telligence. to maintain regular business hours. prices apply. whoever you Philip Hewson Hewson want. The say- likes to inline- ing on a popular skate, read, mess around with comput- T-shirt, ‘Mar- ers, eat out, shop, travel, entertain riage is a human friends, watch live music and films and right, not a het- work out at the gym. erosexual privi- Angel Alonso Gonzalez, 22, Mr. lege,’ is what I Gay.com Spain, lives in Madrid. He believe.” Brett Humble feels strongly about education: “I think Lunde’s that the education each new generation a Neil Dia- receives is the basis for everything, so mond-lov- I would improve the basic education, ing, starting with early childhood.” sun- Alonso Gonzalez is an outdoorsman drenched who loves to shop and decorate. Ex- surfer with troverted, yet serious, he enjoys read- a passion ing, movies, music and TV, and for fashion Julius Udem considers his personality as his best at- who has modeled for Nike and other tribute. firms and can be seen in this year’s Now, one last question. Which one Men of Hawaii calendar. Michael is would you want to hang with? sporty, a family man and loves to tip a few back and sing karaoke. Julius Udem, 23, Mr. Gay.com Ger- CenterStage to help many, works in the media in Cologne. Said the athletically-gifted contestant, teens gain special skills “It’s up to each one of us to make a CenterStage is on the lookout for difference. Let’s start with more toler- teenagers who would like to try their ance and the same rights for every- hand at acting, stage combat, martial body!” arts, juggling, writing and a choice of Udem is outgoing and funny, and many other theatre-related crafts. Ev- claims he can cross his eyes and touch ery Wednesday afternoon from 3 to 5 his nose with his tongue. He enjoys p.m., free classes will be offered in kickin’ it with friends, cooking, trav- theatre, drama and comedy in the first eling, reading and shopping, as well floor ballroom. as pop art, kitch and “plastic trash from Those who would like to learn these Japan.” special skills or work with the Internet Brett Humble, 32, Mr. Gay.com and computers, telephone CenterStage Australia, is a gym manager, model at 747-8243. Page 16 Stonewall News Northwest December 2004

Walk into an up to the library fireplace while a lo- Tip for Santa: Best of (Jive Electro), a career-span- cal celebrity reads Twas the Night Be- ning collection of 14 tracks, which in- old-fashioned fore Christmas. “Historic cooking” cludes the previously unreleased Take Christmas at demonstrations will be conducted in Me Home. the kitchen while local music students Stuff some Linda Ronstadt’s new Hummin’ to the Campbell perform at the piano. Days-of-yore Myself (Verve) is a great collection of coats, cloaks and wintertime clothing 11 pop standards from the likes of Cole For rekindling nostalgic memories and artifacts from the MAC collections of “Over the river and through the stockings Porter, Duke Ellington and Frank will be on display. Scavenger hunts Loesser. More intimate than her record- woods” – whether real or imagined – also are planned. a visit to the historic Campbell House ings with Nelson Riddle, Ronstadt sings should be on your must-do list this A visit to the Campbell House is in- with music these timeless classics in top form and holiday season. cluded with admission to the museum, by Graham Ames irreproach- $7 for adults and $5 for students and able style. Festive holiday decorations, the seniors, with children 5 and under and Buying music for someone else The more scent of hot cookies baking in the oven, MAC members admitted free. can be tricky. Many choices are entertaining children’s activities and contempo- available, and personal taste plays rary offer- storytelling will conjure visions of such an enormous role in whether an Christmases past. ing from album is beloved or forgotten. To Julia The brick residence on the campus simplify the Fordham, of the Northwest Museum of Arts and task, here That’s Life Culture in Browne’s Addition will be are a few (Vanguard), open between Dec. 18 and Jan. 2, ex- “quickie” resonates cept Mondays and Christmas Day. Vis- suggestions. with Julia’s iting hours are 11 a.m. to 5 p.m. & A E Country rich alto contemplating life’s quirky Each afternoon at 3 before Christ- ARTS & ENTERTAINMENT fans will ap- mysteries across 10 delightful, intro- mas Eve, guests will be invited to cozy- preciate the spective debut album tracks. from The Sugarland, Broadway Have a great holiday season this Twice the musical fan Speed of (everybody Life (Mercury), 11 upbeat, show- knows one) December in Spokane stopping songs from Kristen Hall, a might ap- lesbian; Jen- “Spokane. Near nature. Near perfect.” preciate the nifer Nettles original and Kristian cast record- Saturday the 4th – The Spokane Jazz Orchestra, Bush. ing of joined by Seattle jazz artist Charlotte An alter- Caroline, Carruthers, presents its Holiday in Jazz at the native or Change. This Tony-nominated might be sung-through musical has soaring Met at 8 pm. Shania gospel and T wain’s Motown Friday the 10th – The Rainbow Regional Greatest melodies Hits (Mer- throughout Community Center debuts its weekly Friday cury), its Movie Night at 6 pm. which features an astounding 21 Sondheim- tracks, most of which have been Top influenced Saturday the 11th – The Imperial Sovereign Ten favor- score. Court of Spokane presents its Monarch ites, and the But you addition of don’t just Christmas Show at Dempseys at 9 pm. four new have to lis- tracks, re- ten to show Tuesday the 14th – CenterStage continues its corded just tunes: You Gay Movie Night with Jeffrey. Social hour at for this re- Oughtta be on Broadway (SSF lease. Records) contains 12 favorite 7 pm; film at 8:15 pm. If you are Broadway looking for tunes, each Thursday the 16th – Dempseys hosts Men big beats recorded magazine’s 20th Anniversary with a special and dance once with grooves, search out Virgin Records’ vocals and party starting at 9 pm. Dance Hits (mix by Jason Nevins). once with- You will out. Fi- Wednesday the 22nd – The Merq hosts a find 16 nally, you great floor- can be the Christmas Appreciation Party starting at 7 pm. fillers. Not a star, in your bomb in the own car or Saturday the 25th – MERRY CHRISTMAS! lot and living mixed for room. Friday the 31st – HAPPY NEW YEAR! nonstop en- There’s a little something for ev- ergy and eryone. They are all great albums and joyous fun. any of them would make a great holi- More day gift, stocking-stuffer or even a great energy nice escape for oneself. Happy mu- can be found on Groove Armada’s The sic shopping!

More gift ideas on page 24. December 2004 Stonewall News Northwest Page 17

Midnight in Mongolia: Dear Doubts, If you have to ask what is so great Watch what about self-exploration, self-accep- tance and self-actualization, then you step in, Tell here are: Trinity’s Rational Tips for pilgrim, it’s Knowing When It’s Time to GRIP Trinity (Get Right Into the wurst Psychotherapy) 1. If you hate your job, your of Wayne spouse, your body and your parents, then it’s GRIP time! CenterStage continues its Saturday 2. If you swear all money is series of “The Worst Midnight Movie Forgiveness, relationships evil, all air is dirty, all food is Series Ever” on Dec. 4 with 1956’s toxic and all people are unkind, highly radioactive, big-budget fiasco, then you may be paranoid and The Conqueror. and when to GRIP need to GRIP! The Conqueror was hot, hot, hot Ð Dearest Trinity, Internet connection and a cell phone 3. If you won’t clean your literally. Dubbed “an RKO radioactive with free “nights and weekends!” house, your body or your picture,” it was filmed near an A-bomb I haven’t talked to my ex in years. And I just found out he’s clothes, and you won’t talk to test site, and more than 60 tons of fer- anyone who does, then GRIP! tile fallout soil was shipped back to very ill. I’d like to forgive Hollywood for retakes. Wannabe film him and call but why 4. If you always talk about mogul Howard Hughes put up the should I when he was so what troubles you now, what bucks for this cellu-loser, including the awful to me during our troubled you in your past and dirt breakup? what troubles you about the ship- Why Forgive future, then it’s time to GRIP. ment. Indianapolis, Ind. 5. If your lover abuses you It’s physically, emotionally and Dearest Why, verbally Ð and you think you said that “Forgive but never he was deserve it Ð then GRIP! forget” is a common 6. If you’re a rageaholic, so over- Holocaust survivor’s come alcoholic, sexaholic and/or sentiment. Also, “If you let shopaholic, but complain, “At with your enemies have the best guilt least I go to work each day!” you of you, then your enemies still need to GRIP! that he have truly won!” paid 7. If you haven’t dated in $12 mil- Pumpkin, forgiveness years, traveled in years, seen lion to doesn’t mean giving up, your family in years or left your buy up giving in or righting house in years, then it’s time to every someone’s wrong, it means Dating Dilemma No. 95 GRIP! print. looking someone in the John Wayne as eye – or in your mind’s eye Ð and 8. If you have a deep need to Para- Hey Trinity, kill your boss, your mother, your Genghis Kahn mount saying, “I start to release you!” Once you do this, whether it feels How do you know when “dating spouse and/or your dog, well finally gained the rights to show it for then … GRIP! the first time on television in 1974. true for you or not, you will someone” turns into “having a suddenly begin an incredible relationship with someone”? 9. If you’re about to turn 50 Truly, the only way to watch The journey. Thanks, Relationship Twist and you still live with your Conqueror is with friends. Gag in uni- parents, except for that time you son as The Duke (Genghis Khan) Forgiving is about you, pump- New Orleans kin, your emotional happiness and ran away for five months to comments on the beautiful and am- Hey Relationship Twist, Amarillo, then it’s time to GRIP! ply-endowed Susan Hayward (a Tar- your mental freedom, not about tar princess) as he sidles his way some other fool! It’s also a journey You’ll really know you’re in a 10. Lastly, if you dislike my through Mongolia: “I feel this Tartar which may take an entire lifetime. relationship Ð and not just dating writing, have a distaste for my wuh-man is fer me.” Good luck, Trinity someone Ð when you both have a cartoons and won’t visit my Web fight and you still talk the next day. site, well then honey, I may need It’s no wun-der that this may well Dear Trinity, And you’ll really really know, when to GRIP! be the most horrible case of miscast- one day you get asked to have the ing in all of movie-dumb. I have just started a long distance relationship (LDR). “Big Talk,” which consists of, “Are Reverend Trinity has a masters of divinity and hosts the weekly radio drama Spiritu- Upcoming horror-ible movies in- Help! we exclusive?” clude: Ed Wood Jr.’s Plan 9 from Outer ally Speaking. She also performs globally. Yours truly, LDR Other signs and signals include To “Tell Trinity,” send e-mail to Space on Dec. 11 and Reefer Madness, when your date gives you lots of with more tragedies here than Fort Lauderdale, Fla. [email protected] or a letter to Tell jewelry, gives you more headaches Trinity, P.O. Box 1362, Provincetown, MA Shakespeare could shake a roach at, on Dear LDR, than heartbreaks and is living in the 02657-5362. Dec. 18. An episode from a Flash Gor- same house as you! don serial precedes each movie. “Worst I’d like to say something com- Sponsored by PBG: Midnight” takes a holiday intermission forting about LDRs, but there’s Happiness, Trinity the Provincetown Business Guild on Dec. 25 or Jan. 1. nothing. LDRs are, at best, compli- Dearest Trinity, (800) 637-8696 or www.ptown.org Since battles can’t be fought on an cated, troublesome and often You talk a lot about psycho- WWW. TELLTRINITY.COM empty stomach, cocktails, beer, pop- depressing, except to say that with corn and snacks will be available. Tick- the Internet and cheap airline therapy. What is so great about it? ets are $3 per person and can be tickets, LDRs are not as bad as And how do you know you need it? purchased at the door the night of the they used to be. So, if you must Sincerely, Therapeutic Doubts show. have an LDR, get a laptop, an Dallas Page 18 Stonewall News Northwest December 2004 S & PR REVIEW BOOKS EVIEWS world that preceded Stonewall and the A Face in the beginning of our freedom to express Crowd: the truth of who we are. Ð C.L. Expressions of Gay Life in America The Phoenix edited by John Peterson and Martin Bedogne Ruth Sims The Writers’ Collective, 353 pages, Prospect Publishing, 132 pages, paperback, $16.95 paperback, $24.95 ($29.95 with CD) Want a wonderful holiday gift idea? This enthralling historic gay novel This striking book, perched invitingly that spans the last two decades of the on coffee tables everywhere, might 19th century focuses first on Kit St. help break down barriers rooted in Denys, a young man who is savagely prejudice and hate. From deeply mov- abused by and, finally, murders his fa- ing and often humorous accounts of ther in order to escape his tragic sur- coming out to alliances forged between roundings. gay and straight communities, these are Kit is spirited away by an actress and arresting images that portray our youth, benefactress who finds a place for him our families and our elders with as- in the theater and assures that he is tounding valor. Lust Unearthed groomed into a fine actor who, ulti- True stories and positive imagery il- mately, attains fame and widespread luminate the truth … gay life in Thomas Waugh acclaim. Haunted by terrifying memo- America does not fit a single stereo- ries, he eventually crosses paths with Arsenal Pulp Press, 316 pages, Nick Stuart, a young physician from a type. Seeing so many examples of gay paperback, $23.95 champions overcoming the pain of not the paradigms and belief systems religious fundamental background, and being accepted and learning to thrive, handed to us from the medical estab- Waugh’s colorful professional cred- both men are drawn into an emotional how can we not be filled with pride lishment, the Bible, social scientists its include being CBS’s head designer and forbidden relationship. when our amazing abilities to survive and even Darwin’s work regarding and decorator in New York, as well as Each wrestles with his own treach- are so beautifully demonstrated? gender expression, sexual orientation, a designer for Paramount and Colum- erous demons in a series of tragedies and sexual selection, it’s time for us to bia Pictures in Hollywood. Some may and triumphs throughout this saga writ- The Matthew Shepard Foundation sit up and take notice. sponsors this 132-page powerful trib- think this to be merely a sequel to the ten in the finest tradition of a Victo- ute to our strength. In the introduction We are presented here with astound- author’s last, highly touted work, Out/ rian romance. The morays and politics by Judy and Dennis Shepard, Judy ing information that belies contempo- Lines: Underground Gay Graphics of the era bear directly on the decisions Shepard writes: This book “is a reflec- rary and historic convictions based on Before Stonewall, and, in some re- and choices made by these riveting tion of Matthew’s dreams. He knew misinterpretations and, in some cases, spects, that is true. characters as they struggle to overcome that judging people before knowing lack of rigorous scientific methodol- Just before he was finished, the San their hostile culture and all that keeps them was the loss of an opportunity.” ogy. Roughgarden’s challenge to the Francisco Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, them apart. evolutionary theory of sexual selection The foreword by Betty DeGeneres, Transgender Historical Society, a ma- Interestingly, this grandmotherly is supported by hundreds of peer-re- jor contributor to his last work, in- and first-time author’s elegant work “poster parent” for PFLAG (Parents, viewed examples of sexual ambiguity Families and Friends of Lesbians and formed him that a “humungous new has been banned in many bookstores throughout the animal and plant king- collection” had just been acquired from across the country for its “question- Gays), relates her own personal jour- doms. ney and caring acceptance of her Ambrose Dubek. Dubek was an invet- able” content. daughter, Ellen, when she came out. Suppose, instead, we now learn that erate advocate and patron of the arts The only question I have: How soon sex is not only meant for purposes of over the years and had many close per- can we treat ourselves to another of PFLAG members will receive a 25 creating new life or breeding, but is sonal friendships with such prominent percent discount off the cover price. In- Ruth Sims’ richly drawn novels? She actually useful for social selection, homoerotic artists as Jean Cocteau, seems to understand the soul and its terested in having a reading and dis- which is a form of managing social re- Paul Cadmus, Touko Laaksonen (Tom cussion group? Contact Tiina torment well enough to fill her char- lationships. This is not only possible, of Finland), Dom Orejudos (Etienne), acters with life and purpose. This su- Buckaloo at 927-9152 or Tim Bartley but also probable when studying rela- and Kneeland Bate (Blade). at 891-3662. perior example of literature is worth tively recent and highly rigorous sci- Too late to include more than a few reading more than once. Ð C.L. entific investigation. frames, this new book became Evolution’s In the second part of her book she Waugh’s next working goal. Fortu- examines and demonstrates how this nately, by the time he was finished with GLBT Book Group Rainbow: can apply to the human species. She that project, most of the research and finds support from history as well as categorizing had already been lovingly Spokane’s Gay, Lesbian, Diversity, Gender, and indications in the Bible that much of Bisexual and Transgendered Book Sexuality in Nature done by Willie Walker. what humankind has believed to be the The reproductions are a chronicle of Group meets monthly in the and People second floor conference room of foundation of our social structure is se- the underground homoerotic works Joan Roughgarden verely flawed and can more easily be Auntie’s Bookstore. Facilitator and are captioned with rich narration Julie Smith says review sessions explained in a way that is inclusive of to help the reader understand the sig- University of California Press, 474 ALL gender and orientation. begin at 7 p.m. and visitors are nificance of each of the illustrations in welcome. pages, hard cover, $27.50 Consider reading this book. I found regard to the historical placement and The question to ask is, do we have it very affirming to the human condi- societal acceptance of homosexuality. Upcoming reviews include: to see it to believe it or do we have to tion and its rainbow of possibilities. A A journey of discovery and more than Dec. 1: Dead Beat by V.L. believe it to see it? Anytime a distin- great mix of fascinating information just another collection of homoerotica, McDermid. guished evolutionary biologist takes on and introspective spirituality. Ð C.L. we become privy to the underground Jan. 5: Jeffrey Eugenides’ Middlesex. December 2004 Stonewall News Northwest Page 19 S & PR REVIEW MUSIC EVIEWS & VIDEO acoustic tracks with power and emo- An Intimate tion I seldom hear these days. Christmas The vocals bring to mind Uncle Danny Wright Bonzai, but the comparison ends there. These songs recall Shaun Mullins or Atco/Atlantic Records CD even Peter, Paul and Mary: personal in- sights into relationships with people, Requested Steinway artist Danny society and the universe. Their queer Wright’s first Christmas album in sensibility and sense of humor are evi- seven years is a quiet gem, perfect for dent throughout the album, even in the long Inland Northwest winter Reception, be- their band name. This is a gender-bend- nights. Gentle solo piano arrangements ret and back again. Contra*dick*tions gins quietly but ing, delightful first album, and once of familiar carols and original works ramps up the en- they are finished thrilling crowds as an are occasionally underscored by subtle makes the parental advisory label necessary. ergy, featuring opening act, I can’t wait to hear what string arrangements to create a late- such artists as Chixie Dix, the they do next. Ð G.A. night-by-the-fireplace mood full of Through it all, Athena writes about relationships as viewed bootLICKERS and Bill Budd. holiday peace and magic. Quiet and Fifty percent of the proceeds contemplative, these 12tracks echo the through the eyes of a punk les- bian goddess. Men, women and from CD sales will go to the Upstairs At Larry’s mellow moods of George Winston. ACLU Foundation’s Lesbian even Canada provide a focus for Lawrence Welk Uncorked Danny has gained popularity over 20 her passion, and she plays and and Gay Rights and AIDS years of hard-fought, grassroots per- sings with such involving energy projects, which is fighting na- various artists, Lawrence Welk severance. Although he has never been that the listener shares her emo- tionally for equal marriage Orchestra on television or radio, he is known tional ride. This is an album not rights. If not found at any lo- Vanguard Records CD across North America for his relaxing easily ignored or forgotten, by cal record stores, it can be or- style and inventive arrangements. His an artist whose fierce devotion dered online. Marry Me’s Creating dance mixes out of big next release, Real Romance, will be to her art keeps her completely in- release is scheduled Dec. 7. band music really should not work, but issued shortly before Valentine’s Day. dependent, in all the best ways.Ð G.A. This is a win/win/win purchase Ð here it does. This is the most surpris- Until then, pour yourself a brandy, curl excellent music, an excellent cause and ing, joyful album I have heard for quite up with a good book and share the mys- a great introduction to queer artists from some time. Using samples from Welk’s tery of Christmas with this beautiful Marry Me across the country. Ð G.A. vast catalog of recordings and televi- holiday album. Ð G.A. sion appearances, the DJs on this CD various artists have created 15 tracks filled with in- Remember Who I Am fectious energy and spirit, without ever Figjam Records 2-disc CD Stranger Things Girlyman falling into the trap of the novelty al- Have Happened Marry Me is an outstanding double- bum. They all took this task seriously CD compilation from a collection of Daemon Records CD and their respect for the source mate- Athena Reich gay and allied artists celebrating love The buzz on the Internet about rial is evident throughout as they weave and produced to benefit the fight for something completely original for the www.AthenaReich.com CD Girlyman’s sets opening for Indigo same-sex marriage. Focusing on the Girls had been intense. After reading new millennium. Truly an independent artist, Athena universal nature of love, the 21 tracks such praise as “harmonic perfection There is the slightly funky Baby El- defies easy categorization and descrip- run through a wide range of genres …divine … one of the best openers,” I ephant Safari, the sample-happy tion. Her newest album is an intense, ec- (folk, rock, gospel, even a dance num- rushed this album into my player when Bubbles in the Wine, and You Are My centric journey across musical genres as ber from RuPaul) and offer up heart- it arrived. The trio of Tammy Sunshine comes out as a dance hall far apart as classical, folk, punk, rock and felt emotion and excellent music. Greenstein, Doris Muramatsu and Nate anthem. It’s difficult to explain exactly jazz. She calls to mind, at various mo- There is something guaranteed for ev- Borofsky trade off song writing, lead how well this all works because the ments, artists such as Nina Hagen, Tori ery taste on this album and plenty to vocal singing and various instruments idea sounds so silly without actually Amos, Kate Bush, Alanis Morrissette and broaden horizons, as well. many times during the 12 tracks, al- hearing the tracks. Welk’s trademark Gwen Stefani, but her unique approach The Ceremony disc is quiet, focus- ways with the focus on tight harmo- champagne music filled dance floors transcends drawing any clear parallels. ing on sincere, deep statements of love nies and insightful, witty lyrics. There when it was first played and, here, it Jesse is a sweet, up-tempo pop single. by artists like Yolanda, Marcella Detroit is more folk than rock in these tracks, stands reborn, ready to do it all over Limbs swings strongly from jazz to caba- and Freddy Freeman. The second disc, and the harmonies shine above the again. “Vonderful, vonderful!” – G.A.

In any ro- in the obvious mugging of stand-up co- more convincing than most of the 10 attitudes mantic comedy medians. They seem to be improvis- other men. I expect we will see more Michael Gallant, Jason Stuart the storyline ing rather than emoting from a of him. must be inter- well-rehearsed script, which already Ariztical Entertainment (1:33) The sound quality and cinematog- esting, and we bordered on shallow. raphy could be likened to that of a Jason Stuart clearly had a vision can only hope Jason stayed close to his comic per- documentary shot with a home video when he co-wrote and co-produced this the dialogue to sona of the humble, slightly apolo- camera. Perhaps this was intended as send-up of an average (wink, wink) gay be equally getic Jewish gay man, which, I admit, a cinema verite. If it was intentional, man who breaks off his long time re- strong. Unfor- has a certain charm and serves him the experience was not enhanced by lationship and begins husband shop- tunately, not all well. Judy Tenutta, as the aging diva, this technique. Plenty of eye candy ping in L.A. The premise is a good one the actors were group therapist, was a refreshing throughout, so it may be worth a rental and leaves plenty of room for a series up to the task of change from the brassy, out-there co- for a few of you, but I doubt anyone of 10 stereotypical dates in hopes of delivering lines convincingly. A few medic character she usually belts us associated with this film will hold it finding Mr. Right. Of course, each one had brief moments of clarity in their with, and newcomer Christopher up as a golden moment from their past proves to be Mr. Wrong. focus but, mostly, the viewer is mired Cowen was charmingly sweet and in the not-so-distant future. Ð C.L. Page 20 Stonewall News Northwest December 2004 Political

Ð to this same standard? Instead, Looking for love in all Foreman helpfully said that the Scores of gay answer to what gay activists should do now “will not and cannot come candidates the wrong places from me or any other national by Su Docekal organization Ð it has to come from sweep to wins state constitutions that defined you, from the people who will lead “Don’t blame gays!” was the marriage as being between a man the charge and bear the brunt.” in 27 states and woman only. refrain from queer organizations Thanks heaps, Matt. The Christian Coalition still WASHINGTON, D.C. – “Despite after Bush’s Nov. 2 victory. But that vicious attacks and well-funded oppo- hasn’t given Well, let’s take him up on his is exactly what Democratic Na- sition,” at least 40 candidates supported tional Committee attack dogs began up on race challenge. With the “anybody but Bush” approach such a proven by the Gay and Lesbian Victory Fund to do before the ink even dried on segregation, prevailed in November’s elections at Kerry’s “let the healing begin” either. disaster, I think the queer commu- nity is ready for a more radical, all levels of government in 27 states concession speech. During the and the District of Columbia in 2004. fall elections, inspiring and winning vision. Let’s California Sen. Diane Feinstein Following are some of the year’s sig- it success- remember this is a long haul fight lamented that “the issue of gay for liberation. Winning marriage nificant wins announced by the Victory marriage has been too much, too fully mobi- Fund, including notable victories in lized to rights alone will prove an unsatisfy- fast, too soon.” Mayor Gavin ing victory Ð just ask straight Northwest states: Newsom was castigated for having defeat an Su Docekal people. Only a fight for fundamen- ¥ Julia Boseman, North Carolina outraged middle America by Alabama ballot measure that would have tal economic and social change, State Senate (first-ever gay legislator issuing marriage licenses to one in the state). repealed the 1956 segregation alongside our allies around the and all in San Francisco in summer globe, can win a world based on the ¥ Nicole LeFavour, Idaho state 2004. amendment. Civil rights activists are pushing for a recount. moral values of cooperation and House (first-ever gay official in state). It’s as though the Democrat Party sharing, respect for differences and, Obviously, most U.S. voters are ¥ Jeanette Mott Oxford, Missouri is suffering from a collective case yes, free love. state House (will be the only gay per- of sudden-onset Alzheimer’s. not yet won over to the idea of same-sex marriage. Nevertheless, son in the state Legislature). Su Docekal is a journalist for the Freedom Hello-o-o! It wasn’t queers but public acceptance of gay rights has ¥ Rives Kistler, Oregon State Su- far-right Christian crusaders who Socialist in Seattle. She receives e-mail at preme Court (first openly-gay person increased dramatically in the last [email protected]. put same-sex marriage on the ballot two years, with 25 percent now elected statewide). in 13 states. They unveiled this reported to support marriage ¥ Christine Kehoe, California state strategy at a meeting in July of equality and another 35 percent Harbinger Senate (state representative who won 2003 Ð four months before the endorsing civil unions. higher office). Massachusetts Supreme Court ruled ¥Ed Flanagan, Vermont state Senate in favor of equal rights to marriage African American lesbians and gays in the National Black Justice (first-ever openly-gay state senator in benefits. And seven months before Vermont). hundreds of jubilant gay couples Coalition mounted an exemplary ¥ Sam Adams, Portland, Ore., City lined the streets in San Francisco, education project around same-sex marriage, pressuring black leaders Council (first-ever openly-gay City in Multnomah County, Ore., and in Council member). New Paltz, N.Y., awaiting their turn to take a stand, reaching out to civil to get hitched. rights organizations and the church, ¥ Lupe Valdez, Dallas County Sher- and building alliances that will iff (first-ever Latina lesbian sheriff). Rightwing Catholics and outlast Bush’s term in office. evangelicals called their 2003 national summit in response to the The Human Rights Campaign Thoughtful dialogue Fund and other mainstream gay AP photo by Josh Reynolds U.S. Supreme Court decision that Congressman Barney Frank (D- better than sound bytes struck down anti-gay sodomy laws. groups, on the other hand, chose to raise millions to get out the vote for Mass.) warned gay couples last WASHINGTON, D.C. Ð In the wake They declared their intention to spring that the marriages being block any further advances by a Democratic Party candidate who of the November elections in which celebrated in San Francisco, New voters in 11 states approved constitu- doesn’t support gay marriage and Mexico, Oregon and New York queers, including domestic partner- tional amendments to deny marriage ship rights, civil unions and gay who backed a bill to rescind it in might do long-term damage to the the only place where it is currently overall gay marriage movement. to gay couples Ð as well as civil unions adoptions. They chose same-sex and domestic partnership rights in marriage for their opening salvo. legal Ð his home state of Massachu- setts. Talk about ignoring the some states Ð Human Rights Campaign So these religious bigots took a elephant in the room Ð or, in this Gov. Bush would not President Cheryl Jacques said, “These page from the history of the South- case, the ass! amendments protect no one, but in- ern white racists who are their core support amendment stead discriminate against millions of support. In 1956, two years after Matt Foreman, executive director American families. These amendments of the National Gay and Lesbian TALLAHASSEE, Fla. Ð In an article the Supreme Court outlawed school published in the Nov. 6, post-election were put on the ballot to divide people segregation, Alabama voters passed Task Force, told a gathering of during the heat of the campaign.” 2,500 queer activists 10 days after issue of the Florida Times-Union, an amendment to their state consti- Florida Gov. Jeb Bush indicated he Jacques’ solution? “We need a tution outlawing classroom integra- the election: “I’m furious that some would not support an amendment to thoughtful conversation about ensur- tion. Fast forward 47 years, and of my own in-laws refused to take a the state constitution to ban marriage ing that every family has the same many of these same preacher- stand for me … And they want me rights for same-sex couples and their rights and responsibilities. Fair-minded politician types Ð some of them the to come down to visit for the families. Americans know that gay, lesbian, bi- very same people Ð announced that holidays. Hell no.” Despite Florida laws already ban- sexual and transgender people are their they would “defend Western Why doesn’t Foreman hold the ning gay marriage, a constitutional friends, their families, their coworkers civilization” against “activist Democratic Party Ð which was amendment to that effect is being sug- and we deserve equal protection un- judges” by passing amendments to never once mentioned in his speech gested by Southern Baptists. der law,” she said. December 2004 Stonewall News Northwest Page 21

Tide and Crest now assault, a misdemeanor, according to sual relationship” involving bondage indication of respondents’ sexual ori- even more appealing Mobile County Metro Jail spokesper- and torture. Van’s lawyers argued that entation, but tips for prudent holiday son Christina Bowersox. Following an the 36-year-old Houston man, identi- buying may apply universally. CINCINNATI Ð Procter & Gamble, internal investigation, Godsey was fied in court papers as J.G.C., con- To help shoppers save money, the food and home products giant fired and Etheredge resigned, she said. sented to being beaten, bound and Myvesta recommends shopping early headquartered here, came under attack Etheredge faces trial and a new arrest branded. to find the best buys, avoiding “skip by Christian conservatives just before warrant has been issued for Godsey, Before meeting in Wayne, the men payment” and “buy now, pay later” last month’s election for its perceived who failed to appear at a court hear- exchanged scores of messages and ne- offers, and recording all purchases in role in being “actively involved in ef- ing. gotiated a no-limits relationship in- the checkbook to assure that money forts to overturn a city ordinance ... in Inmate Jayson Payne said that after volving torture and bondage, defense will be available when credit card bills effect since 1993, that forbids the he was booked into the jail in March lawyers said. In one e-mail message, arrive. granting of ‘special rights’ to homo- and told jailers he was gay, he was ver- J.G.C. indicated he might try to escape sexuals,” said Focus on the Family About those two credit cards, bally harassed by the two former cor- and that Van should prevent that from Myvesta urges using one with a zero founder and chairman Dr. James C. rections officers and physically happening. Dobson. balance for purchases that will be paid assaulted in his cell, said AP. Assistant in full. Use the other Ð preferably a Dobson also charged, “In addition District Attorney Nicki Patterson said Texas executes star QB low-interest card Ð for purchases to be to giving $10,000 to the campaign to evidence supports Payne’s allegations. paid off in three to six months. repeal the law, (P&G) has said that it Payne is now serving a burglary sen- for 1994 gay slaying ‘will not tolerate discrimination in any tence at Fountain Correctional Facil- HUNTSVILLE, Texas Ð A former Gay, journalism pioneer form, against anyone, for any reason.’” ity near Atmore. high school football star was executed While P&G does not explicitly en- Nov. 9 for the abduction, robbery and Leroy Aarons dead at 70 dorse same-sex marriage, Dobson said Resort chain relents, fatal shooting of a 29-year-old gay SANTA ROSA, Calif. Ð Leroy F. the company’s statements and policies Houston man 10 years ago. In a final Aarons, the former Oakland Tribune “clearly indicate support for the gay- accepts gay couples statement, Demarco McCullum ex- executive editor who founded the Na- activist notion that restricting marriage SAN FRANCISCO Ð The resort pressed appreciation and love “to all tional Lesbian and Gay Journalists to one man and one woman is discrimi- chain Sandals has reversed its policy those who supported me over the years. Association (NLGJA) in his living natory.” banning gay and lesbian couples from And I want to let my mom know I love room and grew it into a force in Ameri- In response to the company’s tacit its facilities, a move that ends the last her and will see her in heaven.” can journalism, is dead after a 10- endorsement of gay marriage, Dobson high-profile discriminatory policy im- McCullum, month battle with cancer. Aarons, 70, urged listeners to his syndicated radio posed by a major hospitality company. 30, was pro- died of heart failure Nov. 28 at Kaiser show to boycott two of the best-known Sandals’ reversal follows years of nounced dead Permanente Medical Center here. products in the P&G line, Tide laun- consumer pressure generated by orga- seven min- The highly respected journalist and dry detergent and Crest toothpaste. nizations like Out&About, a travel sub- utes after the his partner of 24 years, Joshua Boneh, sidiary of PlanetOut, which gave injection of made their home in nearby Sebastopol, Sandals its “Rock Bottom” designation chemicals. a community about 50 miles north of Gay bar, abortion clinic for the 11th consecutive year in its an- The victim’s San Francisco. He is also survived by in Olympics bombing trial nual Editor’s Choice Awards for 2004. mother was a brother, Ronald Aarons of Boulder, among the BIRMINGHAM, Ala. Ð The first trial Web editor-in-chief Ed Salvato com- AP photo Colo. of alleged serial bomber Eric Rudolph mended Sandals for its “better-late- Demarco McCullum witnesses. An accomplished news writer who will focus on a trail of clues between than-never policy change.” “Demarco spent 14 years as a reporter and editor Birmingham and North Carolina, but Until this fall’s policy change, how- McCullum viciously murdered our at the Washington Post, Aarons sent evidence from three Atlanta-area ever, O&A criticized Sandals as “one son,” said Kay Burzinski. Of the ex- shockwaves through the news indus- bombings is at the center of a dispute of the most blatantly homophobic ecution, she said, “I’m sure he was try in 1990 when he emotionally ac- in the Alabama case. travel organizations in the world by nervous, I’m sure he was afraid and, knowledged that he was gay at a In what the Associated Press sees as expressly prohibiting gay couples from possibly, it gave him a slight taste of conference of the American Society of a reversal of roles, prosecutors say they their resorts.” It had recommended that what our Michael went through 10 Newspaper Editors. don’t plan to tell Birmingham jurors “friends and family members of gay years ago.” That announcement, which came at about the Atlanta blasts in which and lesbian people need to be aware Authorities linked McCullum and the end of a speech in which he also Rudolph is charged, including the of Sandals’ policies before they choose companions to a series of robberies and unveiled results of a landmark survey deadly 1996 Olympics bombing and a to spend their vacation dollars at a re- assaults. Prosecutors said McCullum of gay and lesbian journalists that bombing at a gay bar, but defense law- sort that discriminates against their and three friends approached Burzinski showed most were unhappy with their yers are seeking the Atlanta evidence loved ones.” outside a club. He was beaten and taken professional treatment and coverage of for possible use in the trial. in his own car to withdraw $400 from gay issues, served as the catalyst for a bank machine, then shot in the back The defense says the Atlanta evi- Conviction holds in sex, Aarons’ formation of the NLGJA. dence might show that Rudolph has of the head. Never before had a top editor of a ma- been falsely depicted as the Atlanta bondage, torture case jor newspaper come out so publicly. bomber and could “bolster an argu- LINCOLN, Neb. Ð A former flower Hold a tight rein ment of lingering doubt on the Bir- shop owner who sexually assaulted, on ‘dear’ shopping mingham offenses.” The Birmingham tortured and held a Texas man captive High court nixes review blast followed a series of five explo- in the basement of his store has lost ROCKVILLE, Md. Ð When shopping of Mass. gay marriage sions at three sites in Atlanta in 1996 his appeal. Roger Van had asked the for Christmas presents, do what Santa WASHINGTON, D.C. Ð The U.S. and 1997: Olympic park, a lesbian bar Nebraska Supreme Court to vacate his does: make a list and check it twice. Supreme Court on Nov. 29 declined to and a building that housed an abortion conviction because his victim agreed And carry only two credit cards when hear challenges to same-sex couples clinic. to such treatment. you go, adds Myvesta. marrying in Massachusetts. Van was sentenced to up to 30 years The Maryland nonprofit consumer Officials at Lambda Legal said they Ex prison guards cited in prison last month on several counts, education organization says the aver- were “not at all surprised” the court de- for attacking gay inmate including sexual assault and false im- age American plans to spend $716 on clined to weigh in on the state marriage prisonment, related to the 2001 inci- holiday purchases this year, down from law. “This was a weak and misguided MOBILE, Ala. Ð Two former county dent at his flower shop in Wayne, in $835 last year. People in the West will legal effort from right-wing, anti-gay corrections officers here have been the northeast part of the state. spend the most, $794 per person. The groups that never really stood much charged with assaulting a gay inmate The defense alleged that Van’s con- group’s survey also pointed to 48 per- chance of being heard at the Supreme earlier this year at the jail, according viction was unconstitutional because cent of Americans planning to spend Court. Bottom line is that nobody is to the Associated Press. the “Nebraska Legislature did not in- $500 or less. being harmed by the Massachusetts Jamie Godsey and Sean Etheredge tend these statutes to apply to conduct The survey in November of 1,000 law treating all couples equally,” said have been charged with third-degree that occurs during a private, consen- men and women did not include an Lambda’s David Buckel. Page 22 Stonewall News Northwest December 2004

Foamin’ Fred, Christians Garden Clippings cauterized by council TOPEKA, Kan. Ð Kansas is as reli- See the nakedness ably Republican as any state, but its capital city has taken a small step to- ward protecting gay men and lesbi- and look for beauty ans from discrimination, said the Associated Press following the To- Plus: tips for plants as gifts peka City Council’s approval of an or- dinance prohibiting bias based on COLUMN sexual orientation in city hiring or employment. by Michael Loundagin The wire service said activists had hoped for a broader ordinance against Today is November 20th and, up nervous, scatter some leaves or pine Can the plant be cared for properly? discrimination in housing, lending until this morning, I had geraniums needles over them. What’s the house like? Good light? and private employment and were dis- blooming and roses in cuttable This is a good time, before things Or dark as a tomb, like mine? appointed, but took a bit of comfort condition. You know, good enough to get crazy with holiday stuff, to sit Animals or kids around? Some in the small progress they did per- bring indoors. What an amazing fall down and write up a summary of plants, like poinsettia and kalanchoe, ceive. Part of it was timing. we’ve had. Plus, the stupid sycamore how things turned out for you in the aren’t meant to be kept long term. trees on our street were able to shed But orchids, anthuriums (more on Action by the nine-member City garden this year. You can still re- their leaves without them freezing on member and, later this winter, as you that anon), azaleas or foliage plants Council on Nov. 16 came two weeks the tree, like they did the previous can live for years. Think about it. after President Bush carried the Sun- start plotting for the coming season, two years. They came down veerrryy your notes may come in handy. Also, We have the coolest plants at work flower State with 62 percent of the slooowwlly, a few at a time, then the vote, his reelection and GOP fortunes use this naked time (the garden’s) to right now. You know what anthuri- city’s leaf-cleaning crews came look at its structure. Perhaps you see ums are? Flamingo Flower? The bolstered by support from conserva- through around the 15th. Two days tive Christians. In Shawnee County, things now that you would rather not, flowers look like plastic hearts with a later we had wind and rain, and the like a neighbor’s junk pile. Make a curved spadix coming from the dent home to Topeka, Bush carried 54 per- remaining half came down. cent of the vote. note to plant some sort of evergreen at the top of the heart … any bells I’m still potting bulbs. I have screen there. Or, while driving ringing? Anyway, these things are “We’ve just come out of an elec- finished with the hyacinths; they around, maybe you’ll notice a tree or growing on porous rock. You set the tion that was very bruising to the gay went into hanging baskets, with ivy shrub that really stands out in the rock in a saucer holding about a third community,” said Matt Foreman, ex- cascading over the edges. Still to go: landscape. Find out what it is, and of an inch of water, and the rock ecutive director of the National Gay 110 tulips. Where did I get so many? consider finding a place in your wicks up the water. The anthurium and Lesbian Task Force. “This small I thought I had just 50, then I discov- garden for one. Too many of our absorbs what it needs. Too cool. And step by the Topeka City Council just ered a couple bags I’d bought earlier. gardens are boring now. That’s not sooo easy to grow. I’m going to set shows that we are going to keep mak- Sometimes my remembery slips a good for us, because beauty should one next to an orchid, and maybe the ing progress.” bit. While looking around for spots be everywhere, 24/7. Come next orchid will get a clue. About 20 clergy held a news con- to tuck in snowdrops and things, I month (January), as the holidays fade The next time I sit down to write ference outside City Hall to protest the saw the ones I already have are up into memory and the bills become this column, it’ll be for 2005. Time’s proposed ordinance. They were mem- about an inch. Daffodils and spring the reality, a beautiful view out the passing too quickly. Here’s a sugges- bers of two groups, the Topeka Afri- crocuses are sticking points up, too. window would be welcome. tion for a New Year’s resolution: See can-American Pastors Coalition and Don’t worry about this, kids. These But let’s not think about that bills something, or do something, that’s the Evangelical Association of shoots are like periscopes, monitor- thing just yet. How about the idea of beautiful, every day. Happy holidays! Greater Topeka, which together rep- ing conditions at the surface. They’re giving someone the gift of a plant? resent more than 100 churches, they looking for changes in day length, Personally, I love it. But, when SNN garden guru Michael Loundagin makes told the AP. average number of hours with making a selection, don’t forget to his home in Spokane and receives e-mail at Topeka also is home to Fred “God temperatures above freezing, things consider the situation, especially [email protected]. Hates Fags” Phelps. like that. If they still make you from the recipient’s point of view. Gay man used drug to set up sexual assaults TAMPA, Fla. Ð An indictment unsealed Subscribe Now! in last month accuses a well-known Enjoy the convenience of having The Stonewall delivered to your door. Tampa man of drugging and sexually as- saulting several area men, according to A full year’s subscription only $20 • Two years for only $35. media reports. 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In another four years Heaven help Loretta and the PTA COLUMN essay by Ken Lovering As had become my habit over the Americans in simple terms that the don’t even want to think about what That evening of Nov. 3, I hap- past several weeks, I turned on the majority understand Ð good versus happens to children who get sick on pened to be in downtown Boston. I local television news when I rose at evil, right versus wrong. Face it: the the nurse’s off-day. drove by Copley Square, where five to see the results of the previous man does not encourage people to So the PTA was raising funds for bleachers, scaffolding, huge TV night’s contest. I had been living on think for themselves; he’s even made its school, illicitly sending the monitors and spotlights had been the periphery of Red Sox Nation, in a sure that less people will become message that this bake sale was erected for Kerry’s victory. An eerie remote province you might say, critical thinkers by cutting funds to made possible by your incumbent quiet had settled over the plaza after tuning in for an occasional nail- schools and increasing unemploy- president. Not that Massachusetts last night’s performances by Sheryl biting inning. I am not a baseball fan, ment. These dubious trends discour- needed the swaying; Democrats Crow, James Taylor, Carole King, not even close, but this year it was age both elementary and higher always take the state (yet we typi- and after John Edwards’ “it ain’t over the Red Sox out there vying for the education, the cornerstones of cally have a Republican governor!). til it’s over” address. title in a way we had never seen them independent thinking. I’ll get back to Perhaps Loretta should have sold Now, the underdog who stole the this later. vie before. her cakes in Ohio. Democratic primaries last winter will My interest was nostalgic, and my Second, Dems really never had a not celebrate here, as his baseball chance with a wily campaigner. And so the good news: Bush is team had just four days before. There husband Paul, who reluctantly now essentially a lame duck presi- watched with me, shot me quizzical When Bush was governor of Texas, won’t be another JFK from Massa- he relentlessly attacked the incum- dent. He’ll no doubt do more harm chusetts in the White House. And the looks as I enlightened him on ground than good between now and 2008. rule doubles and base stealing. At bent Ann Richards on many fronts, party that was to happen here will But he’ll be gone. I don’t know about one point, one of the Sox bunted but it was a covert action that very simply be postponed another four you, but I’m buckling up for a rough with a man on first, and I cajoled his well might have won him the seat: years. ride, one that might annul my choice. “That’s not a very strategic without explanation, flyers with marriage, one that will strain my time to bunt,” I said. Then the photos of bare-chested men kissing Ken Lovering makes his home in central Mas- announcer said, “What an odd choice appeared throughout the state, parents’ fixed retirement income, one sachusetts and receives e-mail at to bunt,” and Paul looked at me and emblazoned with some message that will preach morality over policy. [email protected]. said, “Who are you and what have suggesting moral apocalypse. All the you done with my husband?” while, Bush spoke of family values and the sin of homosexuality. He The morning of Nov. 3 was wet never took responsibility for the and cold here in Massachusetts. The flyers, the moral majority elected Pentagon to halt sponsorship World Series and the city parade him, and the soon-to-be-president were behind us by less than a week, heathen saw the power of morality and the state was riding a wave of of Boy Scout troops politics that he still plays today. triumph that I had never seen. If you CHICAGO Ð The Defense Depart- that the Boy Scouts of America “vio- believe the folklore that had dogged Case in point: Ohio, where a ment has agreed to warn military lates its own Scout law and remains Fenway Park for 86 years, a curse similar strategy (state referendums bases worldwide that they may not the largest and most dishonest and dis- had been lifted. banning gay marriage took the place directly sponsor Boy Scout troops, criminatory outdoor youth program in of the soft-porn flyers from his Texas I was hoping for a curse of quite resolving, in part, claims that the gov- America. The recent out-of-court antics) saw the far right mobilize for ernment has improperly supported a settlement … is another inevitable re- another sort to be lifted on this their higher morality with tactics that morning, infused with the hope that group that requires members to be- sult of the Boy Scouts’ insistence on were specifically aimed to hurt and lieve in God, the Associated Press re- practicing discrimination.” the underdog would come out ahead discredit gays and lesbians. yet again. Though I never considered ported in November. While a ruling by the Supreme myself a full citizen of Red Sox On Election Night, I stopped at A settlement resulted from a law- Court four years ago granted the Boy Nation, I knew that this nation the local elementary school to vote. suit filed by the American Civil Lib- Scouts the right to discriminate needed lifting from a four-year My neighbor Loretta welcomed me, erties Union of Illinois, which says against gay men, Cozza said federal slump that had seen big-brother said she’d been waiting for me all American military units have spon- and state governments are still bound policies shaped by the tyranny of the day (since 5:30 a.m.). She and her sored hundreds of Boy Scout troops. by nondiscrimination laws and the majority, that had alienated global PTA members had a huge spread The Pentagon said it has long had a U.S. Constitution and cannot legally allies with its “bring it on” cowboy before them of apple and banana rule against sponsorship of nonfederal “own and operate” troops or cub machismo, that was calling my breads, muffins, pastries, and I came organizations and denied the rule had packs and continue to practice such marriage illegitimate, sanctioned by prepared to purchase some. Of been violated, but it agreed to send a discrimination. a group of rogue, irresponsible course it seemed out of place to message to posts warning them not to hold a bake sale at the voting Cozza said the BSA “continues to judges. sponsor Boy Scout troops or other issue unit charters to government booths, but Loretta thought it was such groups. Even so, I never believed Kerry more “out of place” for her agencies that cannot legally practice would win, and I talked about it children’s school to lack funds for The agreement bars military units such discrimination, for example, openly, regrettably, in the days textbooks, supplies and a full-time from chartering Scout troops as long as public schools and, until now, mili- leading up to the election. school nurse. Yes, you read that members are required to recite an oath tary bases and military units. For one thing, the climate is too right: the school can only employ a avowing belief in God. The Boy Scouts On Nov. 20, the House of Repre- heated for the majority of Americans nurse two or three days a week. So also ban gays from serving as leaders sentatives voted 391-3 to commend to embrace change. Of course, it’s parents of children who require or becoming members, a ban that was the Boy Scouts and condemn legal ef- Bush who has been sure to turn up daily medication have to figure out upheld by the U.S. Supreme Court. forts to limit government ties to the that heat with his personal vendetta Ð some way to give it to them, be- In Petaluma, Calif., Scott Cozza, group because of its requirement that er, I mean war. And he’s spoken to cause teachers aren’t allowed. And I president of Scouting for All, charged members believe in God. Page 24 Stonewall News Northwest December 2004 Gift Ideas

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New reggae stars on Jamaican proponents of so-called Man Booker Prize for his The Line of Porn’s Johnny Rahm spurn anti-gay lyrics “murder music,” which incites hatred Beauty. Set in the 1980s, the book tells dead from suicide of gays, the Standard said. Gay activ- the story of a gay, 20-year-old Oxford LONDON Ð Artists banned from this ists say the popularity of dance-hall grad who takes a room in the home of ATLANTA – Barry “J.T.” Rogers – year’s Urban Music Awards are under music is linked to the rising numbers an ambitious conservative politician known as Johnny Rahm in dozens of fire for their anti-gay lyrics from a new of gay bashing incidents in Britain, ac- and his wealthy family. The story ex- adult films for gay men, committed generation of reggae stars. cording to the Standard. plores a world of cocaine, gay cruis- suicide here Nov. 7. He was 39. Savannah, a dance-hall act that won ing and the self-confidence of wealth, Rogers hung himself with a wire on best reggae artist, told the Evening set against a background of social the fence line of the Atlanta Botanical Standard that “We’re keeping it clean. Best British book set in problems, including AIDS. Garden, according to the Atlanta Po- We don’t want to hate anybody. We’re ‘ghastly’ Thatcher era The Line of Beauty is Hollinghurst’s lice Department. A native of Georgia, the younger generation and we’re try- fourth book and explores an era shaped Rogers was reared as a fundamental ing to bring love where others did not. LONDON Ð A tale of a young, gay by Thatcher’s hard-driving, free-mar- Baptist, attended a Christian high Reggae music is about love. We think man dazzled by drugs, power and ket ethos, “a ghastly period to live school, then Bob Jones University in everybody has the right to live their money in Margaret Thatcher’s London through,” the 50-year-old author told Greenville, S.C., before moving to lives.” has won Britain’s most prestigious lit- BBC, which carried the recent awards California in the late 1980s and work- Artists Beenie Man and Vybz Car- erary award. ceremony. “We’re very much living ing for about a decade in the gay sex tel were taken off the list of nominees Author Alan Hollinghurst bested with the consequences of what hap- film industry. He received best support- for best reggae act as police honed in five other finalists to win the $90,000 pened in the Thatcher years now.” ing actor awards in 1993 and 1995. Classifieds PEOPLE and EVENTS JOB MARKET PERSONALS PERSONALS PERSONALS PERSONALS 11-Special Person: 31- Help Wanted: 76-Body Work: 78-Pen Pals: 78-Pen Pals: 78-Pen Pals:

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EDITORIAL: HEY, BIG SPENDER! items include a “consumer response” ing about politics and candidates’ Lambda campaigns Continued from page 2 card you can make a notation on. policy positions to decide who to for organ transplants tional mode of making your economic Writing a letter is probably most vote for, even though their one vote vote in the market economy count. And effective. Writing a letter takes longer has negligible effect on the outcome, NEW YORK Ð On the eve of World that is to let the manufacturer or re- and, again, you have to figure out and no impact at all if their candi- AIDS Day, Lambda Legal announced tailer know that you chose their prod- whom to send it to (Human Re- date loses. it will push the nation’s largest health uct or their store because you approve sources? Marketing? The President? So, keep in mind that business and insurance providers to release any poli- of their gay-friendly policies and/or All of them?), but a letter doesn’t have corporate decisions affect our lives cies they have on covering lifesaving support for the gay community. (Re- to compete with hundreds of spam just as much. And unlike politics, organ transplants for patients with HIV. lated local story on page 4.) messages and it is hard to delete a let- which is strictly “win or lose,” the Lambda said many people are de- Some company Web sites have con- ter. And letters are more likely to get marketplace registers each individual nied coverage for transplants because tact e-mail addresses, although those a response, which lets you know sales increment no matter what other they have HIV, even though more than are often just “spam-catchers.” Bet- someone actually read what you people do. That can be a winning a decade of scientific and medical re- ter is to call the company’s public in- wrote. proposition for any minority. search shows that organ transplants for formation office and find out who the Most people, no doubt, will say infected people are effective and safe. Paul Varnell makes his home in Chicago. Pre- right person would be to send a com- that this is too much trouble for too vious columns of his are posted at the Inde- HIV clients are often in greater need ment to and what their e-mail address little payoff. Yet many of these same pendent Gay Forum (www.indegayforum.org), of transplants because of higher rates is. For that matter, many big ticket people will spend endless hours read- and he receives e-mail at [email protected]. of hepatitis-C. Resource Directory Landlord Tenant SAN Ð North Idaho College Stonewall Health Project Lesbian Avengers SPOKANE AREA Information Hotline Spokane AIDS Network Gay-Straight Alliance Great times and group discussions re- A direct action group focused on is- BiNet Spokane Volunteers provide information and re- Call: (509) 455-8993 or Email: [email protected] lating to men’s issues. sues vital to lesbian survival and vis- ferrals to landlords and tenants. Free 1-888-353-2130 ibility. A social support group for bisexual Call: (800) 493-8367 resource materials. Does not provide Website: www.spokaneAIDSnetwork.org Panhandle Health District Call: (406) 523-6608 men and women. legal advice, but may refer. STD/HIV testing, condoms, and other University of Idaho Call: (509) 217-1271 Call: (509) 325-3037 Spokane County Domestic methods of birth control, physical ex- Gay-Straight Alliance Our Montana Family Violence Consortium ams, shots, cancer screening, Promoting a fabulous, positive and in- Supporting Montana’s GLBT parents Eastern Washington University SAFE Northwest Fair Housing Alliance Students’ Alliance for Equality A private, nonprofit organization with resouce nurse voucher program, re- clusive environment for all people on and their children. Private, nonprofit organization pro- members from a variety of professions ferrals to area resources and educa- campus and encouraging individual Email Barbara: [email protected] Weekly meetings for students, faculty vides education, outreach and en- who have come together to end inti- tion. All services are confidential. growth and understanding by devel- and staff. PRIDE! forcement assistance for those who mate partner violence. ¥ Kootenai County oping outreach programs, improving Call: Kat Olson: (509) 359-4253 have experienced discrimination and Call: (509) 487-6783 visibility and recognition of queer is- Statewide lesbigaytrans civil rights http://iceberg.ewu.edu/safe/safe.htm the general public. Call: (208) 667-3481 sues and history. advocacy group. Spokane Falls Community College ¥ Boundary County Call: (208) 885-2691 EMCC Ð Call: (509) 325-2665 or - The Alliance Call: (406) 442-9322 Emmanuel Metropolitan (800)-200-3247 GLBT and allies group to provide a Call: (208) 267-5558 or, in Montana: (800) 610-9322 Community Church Odyssey Youth Center safe space; to educate our commu- ¥ Shoshone County TRI-CITIES PRIDE Celebration Christian church with an outreach to nity. Discussion/support group and social Call: (208) 786-7474 Benton-Franklin Group in charge of annual Montana the GLBT community. Call: (509) 533-4507 drop-in center for GLBT and question- ¥ Bonner County District Health Department June PRIDE celebrations. Call: (509) 838-0085 ing youth. Spokane Human Rights Commission Confidential and anonymous HIV test- Call: (406) 442-9322 Website: www.emmanuelmcc.com Call: Elizabeth: (509) 325-3637 Call: (208) 263-5159 Call: Equity Office: (509) 625-6263 ing, case management, educational The Rainbow Connection ¥ Benewah County and referral services. Friends of SAN Outreach Center Spokane Regional Health District Gay group for Billings and Eastern Call: (208) 245-4556 Fundraising organization for people Condoms, needle exchange, AIDS in- Providing health services and refer- Call: (Pasco) (509) 547-9737, ext. 234 Montana meets monthly. Website: www2.stateid.us/phd1 living with HIV/AIDS to improve the formation. Open M-F, 3-5 p.m. at 1103 rals for the public. HIV testing. Confidential voice mail also. Website: www.rainbowconnection- quality of their lives. W. First Ave. Call: (509) 324-1542 or PFLAG - Sandpoint Ð River of Life montana.com. Call: (509) 838-6859 Write: 1212 E. Front Ave. 1-800-456-3236 Parents, Families & Friends Metropolitan Community Church of Lesbians and Gays Spokane, WA 99202 Papillon Website: www.spokanecounty.org.health Christian church celebrating diversity WASHINGTON Support, education and advocacy and affirming GLBT people. Sunday Gay/Lesbian Info Line A social support group for the Stonewall News Northwest Bi MEN Group transgendered community. group for Sandpoint gay people, par- services at 11:30 a.m. Call: (509) 489-2266 Flagship publication for the gay and ents, family and friends. Bi and bi-curious men and gay men Call: (509) 292-8852 Call: (509) 542-8860 Immediate Crisis: (509) 838-4428 lesbian community and the Inland Call: (208) 263-6699 who enjoy and support bisexual men. Northwest. GLBT Book Group PFLAG - Spokane Ð Tri-Cities Chaplaincy / Website: www.egroups.com/group/bi- Parents, Families & Friends Tri-Cities CARES men-west Discusses selected works at Auntie’s Call: (509) 456-8011 of Lesbians and Gays LEWISTON/CLARKSTON Columbia AIDS relief, education and Bookstore at 7 p.m. the first Wednes- Fax: (509) 455-7013 Legal Marriage Alliance Support group for parents, family, support. Survivor support group and day each month. PFLAG - Lewis-Clark Ð Working to achieve the right of same- friends and members of the GLBT Spokane Gender Center Parents, Families & Friends HIV/PWA support group. Call: Julie Smith: (509) 838-0206 community. Resources and support for sex couples to marry legally in Wash- of Lesbians and Gays Call: (509) 783-7416 ington. Gonzaga University Call: (509): 624-6671 transgendered people. Support, education and advocacy Website: www.lmaw.org GLBT Resource Center Website: www.gendercenter.com group for Lewis-Clark gay people, PJALS Ð WALLA WALLA Lesbian Resource Center For information and to contact re- Peace and Justice Action Unitarian Universalist Church parents, family and friends. Meets in source organizations on the GU cam- Lewiston. Resources and referrals, groups and League of Spokane Gay, lesbian resource committee. Blue Mountain Heart to Heart pus, September-May. Call: (509) 758-6437 AIDS prevention education, support events. Monthly newspaper. Independent, membership organiza- Call: (509) 325-6383 HERO (Helping Educate Regarding tion building foundations for a just and and services. Call: (206) 322-3953 Orientation) gay-straight alliance. Website: uuspokane.org Stonewall Health Project nonviolent world. Great times and group discussions re- Call: (509) 529-4744 Lifelong AIDS Alliance SODA (Sexual Orientation Diversity Call: (509) 838-7870 Vanessa Behan Crisis Nursery lating to men’s issues. Toll Free: (888) 875-2233 (pin Providing support, prevention and Alliance) law school support group. advocacy for people with HIV/AIDS. Planned Parenthood of Call: 535-3155 Call: (800) 493-8367 #4744) Direct line: Bryce: 323-5847 Spokane & Whitman Counties Website: www.vanessabehan.org Spanish: (509) 529-2174 Call: (206) 329-6923 Hospice of Spokane HIV antibody testing and counseling. Women and Friends MOSES LAKE Seventh-day Adventist Kinship PositiveVoice Washington Physical, emotional and spiritual care Call: Clinic for Appt.: (509) 326-2142 Women-only activities and events in Call: (509) 525-0202 Advocates for programs and services for the terminally ill and loved ones; Administration: (509) 326-6292 the Spokane area. AACW Ð needed by people with HIV. Offers bereavement support and HIV/AIDS Call: (509) 458-4709 Alternative Alliance of self-advocacy training. counseling services. Quest Youth Group Central Washington YAKIMA Call: (888) 704-0099 Call: (509) 456-0438 To “inspire, encourage and support” Women’s Cultural Exchange A social and support group to help PFLAG - Yakima/Yakima Valley Pride Foundation gay and bisexual guys, 18-25, in the Promoting arts and entertainment bring together people in the GLBT Parents, Families & Friends ISCS Ð Inland Northwest through free monthly events by women, for women. community. Grants to organizations that benefit Imperial Sovereign Court of Spokane of Lesbians and Gays the GLBT community. Awards educa- recreational activities, discussions, Write: P.O. Box 4795, Write: P.O. Box 1282, Call: Secretary Clyda: (509) 533-1903. service projects and movie nights. Promotes the health and well-being tional scholarships. Moses Lake, WA 98837 Website: www.iscspokane.com Spokane, WA 99202 of GLBT individuals, their families and Call: (800) 735-7287 Call: Ryan: (509) 290-3519 friends. Website: www.pridefoundation.org INBA Ð Website: www.QuestYouthGroup.org Call: (509) 576-9625 Inland Northwest Business Alliance IDAHO PULLMAN / MOSCOW Spokane-Kootenai Pride Supports and promotes gay-owned Rainbow Cathedral A program of the Pride Foundation to Idaho for Basic Rights Washington State University Metropolitan Community Church BRITISH COLUMBIA and gay-friendly businesses and the GLBA Program professional community; publishes involve Washingtonians outside of Citizen action group to work for civil An MCC Seattle parish extension. ANKORS Ð and legal equality on basis of sexual Fun, fellowship and socializing. annual directory. King County in activities beneficial to Call: (509) 457-6454 AIDS Network, Outreach the GLBT community. orientation. Call: (509) 455-3699 Call: (509) 335-6428 and Support Society Call: Spokane office: (509) 327-8377 Call: (208) 343-7402 Website: http://cubwsu.edu/GLBAP West Kootenay and Boundary sup- Inland Northwest Pride MONTANA Rainbow Regional Community Center NIAC Ð port, outreach and networking for Committee organizes annual Pride Out There people infected and affected by HIV/ North Idaho AIDS Coalition Flathead Valley Alliance march and celebration and other com- Support services for GLBT community Safer-sex information and supportive AIDS, with outreach to Creston. munity events. and individuals exploring their sexual HIV/AIDS prevention, education and programs for young men who have Northwest Montana information and orientation and/or gender identity. assistance for people infected/af- sex with men. referral services. ¥ West Kooteny Call: (250) 505-5506 Integrity fected with HIV. Call: (509) 489-1914 Call: Melinda: (509) 335-6428 Call: (406) 758-6707 ¥ East Kootenay Call: (250) 426-3383 Gay and lesbian Episcopalians meet Call: (208) 665-1448 Website: www.ankors.bc.ca Gay Helena monthly for communion and simple Website: www.nicon.org/niac meal. Web site features gay social life in Montana: www.gayinhelena.com. Call: Chuck: (509) 326-7707 or Ann: (509) 624-6671

To have your group listed in this directory, contact Stonewall News Northwest for a Resource Dirctory listing form at (509) 456-8011. December 2004 Stonewall News Northwest Page 27

Weekly Calendar of Events Jan. 2, except for Mondays and Christmas Spokane’s entertainment and meeting calendar for December Day. $7 includes museum, S/s. SUNDAYS ISCS Emperors Robert and LaDonna and 9 and 11 am: Worship services at UNITY Empress Courtney will present a CHURCH at 29th and Bernard. Foodbasket Fundraiser show at Dempseys at 8 pm. 5 pm: EMMANUEL METROPOLITAN December 2004 COMMUNITY CHURCH worship service Eckart Preu will conduct the Spokane in sanctuary of Bethany Presbyterian Birthstone: Turquoise Symphony world premiere of Polar Express Church, 301 S. Freya. Suite in the Opera House tonight at 8 and Flower: Poinsettia tomorrow at 2 pm. $16-$38, s WEDNESDAYS With nothing but Saturday holidays ahead, 7 pm: GLBT AA meets at Emmanuel Astrological Guide: Sagittarius to the 20th; Capricorn begins Dec. 21st it’s curtains (for 2004) for The Worst MCC/Bethany Presbyterian Church, Midnight Movie Series Ever at 301 S. Freya. CenterStage. Tonight you can relive those glory days from high school with Reefer THURSDAYS Pizzaria and Bakery beginning at 11:30 Ð Madness. An episode from the Flash 5:30-8 pm: RAINBOW REGIONAL will also serve as a fundraiser for the 12 Gordon serial precedes the movie. $3 COMMUNITY CENTER. ▼ Rainbow Regional Community Center. Sunday FRIDAYS $15-$18 21 The Kosher Red Hots, a Klezmer band, will 2-6 pm: RAINBOW REGIONAL Speak Out and Act Up, a new group for ▼ teen youth to develop special skills, gathers celebrate Hanukkah in music at the Tuesday COMMUNITY CENTER. CenterStage dinner-theatre. Dinner at 5:30 at CenterStage today and every Wednesday Winter Solstice. (When known, the price of admission for from 3 to 5 pm. Free pm, show at 7. $43, show-only $22, s one adult is shown. S/s indicates dis- The Spokane String Quartet moves to 13 22 counted ticket prices are available for CenterStage for a dinner concert at 7:30 pm ▼ Seniors and for students with ID.) ▼ saluting Russia in the Dark of Winter. $43. Wednesday Show-only, $22 Monday Inland Northwest Pride will meet at the The owners and staff of The Merq will throw 3 9 Rainbow Regional Community Center at a Christmas Appreciation Party, with free ▼ 6:30 pm to plan next June’s Pride Day. hors d’oeuvres, drink specials and live music, ▼ beginning at 7 pm. Free Friday Thursday 14 In the lounge at Dempseys, tonight and The musical Seussical continues tonight 24 every Friday and Saturday this month at 10 ▼ through Dec. 18 at Spokane Civic Theatre. Tuesday ▼ pm and midnight, BlowMe Bubbles $19, S/s Friday entertains on stage. Gay Movie Night continues at CenterStage, Special Candlelighting Services at Unity Alberta Ballet and Ballet British Columbia but with a new twist. A social hour at 7 pm Ð Church of Truth will feature the Youth join Spokane Symphony in four perfor- Choir and pageant, A Christmas Candle, at mances of the Nutcracker at the Opera 5 pm; the Adult Choir at 8 pm, and a House this weekend. $17-$30, s Contemplative Experience at 10 pm. First Friday, a self-guided tour of art spaces Emmanuel Metropolitan Community between 5 and 9 pm, includes the Rainbow Church will hold a special Candles and Regional Community Center, The Merq Carols Christmas Eve program in its home and Interplayers. The Rainbow Center will chapel at Bethany Church at 11 pm. host a reception for Cheney artist Megan Schmall beginning at 6 pm. 25 The hilarious Inspecting Carol continues its ▼ Tuesday through Saturday romp at Saturday Interplayers, running through Dec. 18. $20, S/s Christmas. Take a dish, if you’re able, to the Pot Luck 4 Christmas Dinner at The Loft from 4-7 pm. ▼ The bar will provide the ham and turkey. Free Saturday Seattle jazz artist Charlotte Carruthers joins 26 the Spokane Jazz Orchestra for its popular ▼ holiday concert, Holiday in Jazz, at the Met Sunday at 8 pm. $24.50, S/s Full Moon. Alberta Ballet, Ballet British Columbia and Kwanzaa begins. Spokane Symphony will present the Nutcracker tonight and at two performances photo by Christopher Lawrence 31 tomorrow at the Opera House. $17-$30, s Alycia Delmore and Damon Mentzer in Interplayers’ side-splitting production ▼ The Worst Midnight Movie Series Ever of Inspecting Carol which continues through Dec. 18. Friday resumes at CenterStage with a Flash New Year’s Eve. Gordon serial preceding The Conqueror. $3 with desserts and coffee Ð precedes the 10 showing of Jeffrey at 8:15. $10 For early risers, Unity Church of Truth will 5 ▼ open at 3:45 am for World Peace Medita- ▼ Friday 16 tion. Sunday An inspiring photography exhibit from the ▼ Friday Movie Night at the Rainbow National Archives, chronicling 100 years in Thursday Regional Community Center features Greece is featured in tonight’s world-music America, opens at the MAC, the Northwest Claire of the Moon from 6-8 pm. Free concert at the CenterStage dinner-theatre. Men magazine will celebrate its 20th Museum of Arts and Culture, today through A New Year’s Eve Party at The Merq begins Dinner at 5:30 pm and a performance by Jan. 23. $7, S/s anniversary with a special party at Pangéo at 7. $43. Show-only, with dessert Dempseys starting at 9 pm. Gobs of prizes, with dinner service at 5, 7 and 9 pm. $19.95. and beverage, $22, s Friday Movie Night debuts at the Rainbow gifts, giveaways and drink specials. Free Champagne toast at midnight. Regional Community Center tonight with Members of the Imperial Sovereign Court A New Year’s Eve Party at Dempseys the showing of The Pillow Book from 6-8 begins with a special prime rib dinner from 6 of Spokane (ISCS) will gather at Dempseys pm. Free 17 for a board meeting at 6 pm, followed by a ▼ to 8:30 pm. $18.95. New Year’s Eve show at court meeting at 7:30. Friday 10:30 pm, with dancing continuing until 4 in 11 the morning of 2005. ▼ Friday Movie Night continues at the 6 Saturday Rainbow Regional Community Center with Guests are invited to join members of the ▼ the feature Girls Will be Girls from 6-8 pm. congregation of EMCC in ringing in the new Monday The OWLS (Older and Wiser Lesbian Free year. Now is the Hour will be presented at Sensations) will meet for dinner at Old 11 pm. An art exhibition featuring mixed media and Country Buffet, in the Franklin Park Mall on The star search for Dempseys Drag Idol neon sculpture by Wade Eldean of Michigan Division, at 5:30 pm. wraps up this weekend with finals slated and Spokane’s Ken Yuhasz concludes this tonight and tomorrow at 10 and midnight. January 1 week at the Eastern Washington University At Dempseys at 9 pm, the Monarch ▼ Gallery of Art. Free Christmas Show, featuring ISCS emperors Saturday and empresses from the past, will raise 18 ▼ New Year’s Day. 8 money to fill food baskets the court will Saturday ▼ distribute to needy families and individuals At The Loft, tootin’ in 2005 includes special Wednesday just before Christmas. Step into Christmas Past with a visit to the prices on Bloody Marys and margaritas from At CenterStage, The Worst Midnight Movie historic Campbell House on the grounds of noon to closing. Hanukkah. 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