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The New Jewish Voice Non-profit Organization 1035 Newfield Ave. U.S. POSTAGE PAID Rabbi Borowitz will discuss 60 years of 3 Stamford, CT 06905-2521 Permit # 428 Reform Judaism; The Center Women Binghamton, NY will perform “Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat.” Change Service Requested 7 CAS will host a Jewish education panel. A new Lion of Judah pin initiative aimed 9 at young women is being spearheaded by Eileen and Fred Springer.

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December 2013/Kislev-tevet 5774 a publication of United jewish federation of Volume 15, Number 10 Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Darien Limmud NY Comes to Stamford December 8 is Super Sunday! Weekend Retreat Celebrates Everything The Whole Community Giving, Helping and Jewish Fund-raising For the first time in its 10-year history, Sunday, December 8, is a day of unity to the agencies who do the key work of Limmud NY is coming to Stamford, for the Stamford Jewish community – a “making amazing things happen.” “Super CT! day to come together to make the world Sunday is the day UJF reaches the most From Friday-Monday, February a better place for those who are less for- families, and my husband, Nimrod, and 14-17, more than 600 Jews, from the tunate. In the spirit of “Better Together,” I have eagerly volunteered to co-chair tri-state area and beyond, from infants both UJF’s Super Sunday and the JCC’s Super Sunday because we understand to grandparents, of all affiliations – Re- Community Mitzvah Day will take place its importance to the success of UJF’s form, Conservative, Reconstructionist, at the Stamford JCC on that Sunday. Annual Community Campaign,” Rachel Orthodox, secular, post-denominational “Super Sunday 2014” is the local Dayan stated. – will gather to celebrate the richness Jewish community’s biggest one-day Raising money on Super Sunday of Jewish life for an extended weekend fundraising event of the year. More than is not just for adults. The annual retreat filled with text study, discussions, 100 volunteers will gather to call family children’s competition for most money performances, meals, late-night jam ses- People of all ages and affiliations attend members, friends and neighbors to so- collected by area Jewish schools and sions and opportunities to learn about Limmud NY. licit donations to UJF for all the projects youth groups has already begun. The themselves and each other. At Limmud and work for those in need right here in school or youth group collecting the NY, everyone is considered a teacher and learning Torah to learning how to make Stamford, as well as Jews in need in Israel most money will win a pizza party. Each everyone is a student. gefilte fish; from Middle Eastern politics and in 79 countries around the world. participating child will receive a certifi- “Limmud” is Hebrew for “learning” to Jewish Kirtan chanting; from Refuse- The money is raised by United Jewish cate from UJF congratulating them on and Limmud NY seeks to offer Jewish niks to slam poetry; from Schneerson Federation of Greater Stamford, New their donations. Teenagers can do their learning in every conceivable form, from See “Limmud” on page 2 Canaan and Darien and then distributed See “Super Sunday” on page 8 Israeli Group Quietly Feeding TribeFest 2014 Syrian Refugees in Jordan Young Jewish Adults Gather in New Orleans By Ben Sales – the word “Jewish.” Thousands of young Jewish adults will alik, “Saturday Night Live” star Rachel MAFRAQ, Jordan (JTA) – The purple Going sack by sack with a pair of scis- gather in New Orleans for the Jewish Dratch, best-selling humorist and author plastic sacks fill two rooms in the other- sors, an aid worker begins to cut. Federations of North America’s TribeFest A.J. Jacobs, Olympic gold-medal swimmer wise sparsely furnished headquarters of “We don’t announce with trumpets 2014. The marquee event for young Jews Lenny Krayzelburg, Idealist.org founder a Jordanian NGO, awaiting distribution that we’re Israeli,” the worker says. will gather major speakers, hit musical Ami Dar and author of “The Accidental to Syrian refugees already lined up on “There’s no need for that. Once you let acts and scores of leading Jewish organiza- Billionaires,” Ben Mezrich. the sidewalk. that cat out of the bag, everything starts tions under the Jewish Federations’ tent TribeFest, for Jews ages 22-45, offers They contain an array of staple dry to blow up.” in the Big Easy, March 16-18. a diverse range of experiences and goods – lentils, pasta, powdered milk, tea The sacks are paid for by IsraAid, an TribeFest 2014, based at the Sheraton events. Participants can choose from – as well as a range of hygiene products Israeli nonprofit that provides disaster New Orleans, will feature programming workshops, panel discussions, commu- like soap and detergent, enough for 250 relief and humanitarian aid across the that seeks to engage and inspire young nity-service opportunities and social refugee families. But before the goods are world. The group has provided medical Jews. Previous TribeFest headliners have events. Programs will focus on issues handed out, one thing will be removed See “Refugees” on page 18 included Hollywood actress Mayim Bi- See “TribeFest” on page 4 Candle 6 Family 13 Adult 17 Voices & 18 Professional Bits & Pieces 6 Lighting Central Education Views Support 19

Federation’s Impact on One Young Man’s Life At a recent event of Ben Gurion Society, a Young Leadership Division program of United Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Darien, Bradley Sherman spoke about Federation’s direct and tremendous impact on his life. L-r: Leon and Kayla Hanna, speaker Bradley Sherman, Parry Berkowitz, Devra Jaffe Berkowitz, host and hostess Nimrod and Rachel Dayan, UJF President Shoshana Dweck, Alix Field Eben and David Eben. See page 5 for further coverage. 2 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ december 2013 december 2013 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 3 CEO’s Message community news A Confluence of Miracles By James Cohen Bradley Sherman, a member of National Cabinet for launched an “impact” campaign that gives donors the Rabbi Borowitz – a Personal Odyssey Much has been made in recent JFNA Young Leadership, when he spoke at our recent opportunity to give an additional gift this year to help weeks of the phenomenon we are Ben Gurion Society event. Bradley very eloquently those in need (see ad on page 15), I humbly submit Sixty Years of Reform Judaism about to experience: the simulta- walked the audience through the turning points in that as we remember the miracles of old, and rejoice neous celebration of Thanksgiving his life, noting that at every critical juncture – when in the blessings of freedom and plenty so many of us By Camille A. Kramer the New York School of Hebrew Union College-Jewish In Sh’ma, a Journal of Jewish Re- and Chanukah. If we put aside the he was orphaned in infancy, as a teenager searching enjoy today, that we take the time to think about how Dr. Eugene B. Borowitz, rabbi, professor, Reform Institute of Religion, where he has taught since 1962. sponsibility, which he founded in rather tacky images of turkeys with for himself, or when he was in need of support when we add to the cadre of brethren who are the recipients Judaism leader and philosopher, and recipient of the A prolific author, Rabbi Borowitz’s body of work 1970 and edited for 23 years, he menorahs drawn in their feathers, caring for an elderly parent, his local Federation was of these modern miracles. We simply cannot take these lifetime Jewish Cultural Achievement medal from the addresses the dilemma of the postmodern Jew to provided a forum for all segments there is a beautiful message worth there for him. He defined the presence of Federation things for granted. As President Kennedy understood National Foundation for Jewish Culture, will speak on incorporate individual autonomy with commitment of the Jewish community to express remembering during this doubly and Federation supported programs as “miracles” that when he called our nation into service in 1961, “Here Sunday, January 12, at 1:30-3 pm, as part of the Jewish to God, Torah and Israel. His 1974 work, “The Mask themselves on a wide range of Historical Society of Fairfield County’s January Featured Jews Wear,” received the National Jewish Book Award controversial topics. festive season. Both holidays cel- shaped his own life. on Earth, God’s work must truly be our own.” th ebrate the gift of freedom and the James Cohen, UJF Stamford provides individuals in our commu- Happy Thanksgiving. Happy Chanukah. Program. Rabbi Borowitz will talk about the last 60 years in the field of Jewish thought. His 19 book, “A Touch Among the innumerable hon- impact miracles have had through UJF CEO nity with the opportunity to make a miracle happen in of the Reform movement and his role in it. of the Sacred, a Theologian’s Informal Guide to Jewish ors for this “dean” of American the centuries. As Jews and as Americans, we are indeed someone’s life every single day. Through the generosity Rabbi Borowitz is the Sigmund L. Falk Distinguished Belief,” co-authored by Frances W. Schwartz, has been Jewish philosophers is the Eisen- fortunate to be the bearers of the legacy of both of of our donors, the orphan in Israel, the out-of work Hadassah Big Gifts Professor of Education and Jewish Religious Thought at called particularly accessible to the general reader. drath Prize for his contributions Rabbi Eugene B. these wonderful traditions. dad in New Canaan, the bubbie in Russia, the student to Reform Judaism awarded him Borowitz, Ph.D. Nonetheless, we can recognize the majesty of these who gets a local scholarship are all experiencing these by the Union for Reform Judaism past miracles while taking responsibility for living up miracles regularly. We are continuously looking for Brunch Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor at its 2005 biennial convention. In 1982, the Harvard to our individual and collective obligation to “repair additional ways to have a meaningful impact. University Divinity School invited him to inaugurate its the world.” I was reminded of this when I heard With Super Sunday on December 8 and having newly established List Professorship of Jewish Studies. Dreamcoat He is still the only Jew to have been president of the American Theological Society. JCC Center Women production Rabbi Borowitz received his bachelor’s degree from In the wake of sellout performances of Center “It is a toe-tapping, finger-snapping masterpiece and Ohio State University. He was ordained at Hebrew Union Women theatrical productions for the past three we hope that everyone will enjoy our production of College, where he earned his first doctorate degree. In Everyone gets years, women from throughout the Stamford Jewish this popular musical.” his long career of religious service, he was Navy chaplain community will once again take center stage at the Appropriate for children and adults alike, the entire during the Korean War and served numerous congrega- Jewish Community Center, this time singing and community is invited to attend. There is no charge for tions around the country. Rabbi Borowitz currently lives dancing in the musical “Joseph and the Amazing admission, however a donation of $5 per child and $10 in Stamford. Every Saturday, Temple Sinai, Stamford, a shot. Technicolor Dreamcoat.” per adult is suggested, and reservations are required. To offers Bible Study with Rabbi Borowitz at 9 am. This At Stamford Hadassah’s recent Tikvah Big Gifts Brunch, Our eighth graders can calculate the speed of a Sponsored by The Center Women of JCC, there will register, visit stamfordjcc.org or call the JCC welcome group has been together more than a decade and it is Jill Kaplan (middle) and Janet Welkovich (right) talked be three performances: Saturday, January 25, at 7:30 desk at 203-322-7900. slapshot algebraically, discuss the effect of global open to welcome new participants. with Dr. Sagit Arbel-Alon (left), director of Bat Ami Center, pm, and Sunday, January 26, at 11 am and 2:30 pm. For more information, visit www.stamfordjcc.org. The program is free and open to the public with the Hadassah’s center for the treatment of sexual abuse and warming on the polar ice cap and put the puck “‘Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat’ is The Jewish Community Center is a recipient agency of See “Odyssey” on page 14 in the net. Congratulations to our girls’ varsity domestic violence. Tim Rice and Andrew Lloyd Webber’s biblical story of United Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan hockey team who won the Upland Regional ARZA Executive Director to Speak Joseph,” said Center Women President Sheryl Young. and Darien. Tournament. Again. No wonder our graduates During Friday evening services on January 31, Temple Deadlines for go to their top choice of schools. Sinai will host guest speaker Barbara Kavadias, acting executive director of ARZA, the Association of Reform L’Chaim! Yankel’s Tavern articles New Canaan Country School Zionists of America/The Reform Israel Fund. She will speak about ARZA as an organization and the part it plays Jews, Liquor, and Life in the Kingdom of Poland The deadlines for the next three issues of the new jewish voice are: Begin Here, Go Everywhere in both Israeli and American Jewish life. She will address By Camille A. Kramer University. He is currently the NEH senior scholar at Monday, December 30...... February liberal Judaism in Israel, the role that ARZA has and con- Dr. Glenn Dynner, professor of the Center for Jewish History in New York. His schol- Monday, January 27...... March tinues to have in that fight and why it is so important for Judaic Studies at Sarah Lawrence arly focus is on the social history of Chasidism and the Monday, February 24...... April liberal Jews to continue to visit and support Israel. College and scholar of East Euro- Haskalah, also known as the Jewish Enlightenment. Send New Jewish Voice article submissions to Sandy Services will begin at 7:30 pm. For more informa- pean Jewry, will speak on Sunday, Dynner received a Koret Publication Award for “Men Golove at [email protected] marked “Stamford Voice” 635 Frogtown Road • New Canaan, CT 06840 tion, contact Temple Sinai at 203-322-1649 or Melissa December 8, as part of the Jewish of Silk: The Hasidic Conquest of Polish Jewish Society” in the subject line. Expect an acknowledgement; 203-972-0771 • [email protected] Cohavi at [email protected]. Historical Society of Fairfield and was a finalist for the National Jewish Book Awards. please re-send if you do not receive one. www.countryschool.net County’s December featured See “Tavern” on page 4 An independent school for Beginners through Grade 9 Limmud Continued from page 1 program. Dynner’s talk about his to Seinfeld; from Kol Nidre to klezmer. Limmud was newly released book, “Yankel’s Tav- founded in England in 1980; there are now more than ern: Jews, Liquor, and Life in the Dr. Glenn Dynner 80 Limmud affiliates around the world. Kingdom of Poland,” is free and Limmud NY runs on nearly 100-percent volunteer open to the public. It will be held at the Congregation Join us for our Open House power. Limmud NY seeks to create community through Agudath Sholom, 301 Strawberry Hill Ave., Stamford, on December 3, 2013 at 9:00 a.m. volunteering. Limmud NY has only one paid employee starting at 10:30 am, with refreshments at 10 am. who facilitates the work of its numerous volunteers, who Dynner reveals newly discovered evidence of a flour- th are empowered to oversee every aspect of the event, ishing underground Jewish liquor trade in 19 century beginning a year in advance and continuing on-site Eastern Europe. At that time in the Kingdom of Poland, throughout the weekend. Limmud NY has been called a semi-autonomous province of the Russian empire, all a participatory event, a communal collaboration and social, business, and even some segment of religious life a celebration of what is possible when a community revolved around the tavern. The noblemen owners be- all work together. lieved that the Jews were the only people sober enough Already confirmed for this year’s program are Asher to profitably run their taverns. Not only did the Jews suc- Lopatin, rabbi and president of Yeshivat Chovevei To- ceed in that mission, but in the process they themselves rah Rabbinical School; text, sex and religion scholars became integral to the civic and community life of the th Doreen and Chaim Seidler-Feller; pianist, songwriter, 19 century province. Yet, government officials and composer and conductor Scott Stein; Samuel Norich, reformers soon blamed them for peasant drunkenness publisher of The Forward and former executive director and then forbade them from being tavern keepers. of YIVO Institute for Jewish Research; nationally-ac- While history portrayed this period as the end of DENTISTRY FOR CHILDREN claimed slam poet Aaron Samuels; Daniel Roth, rabbi the Polish liquor industry, Dynner’s research reveals Most insurance accepted with no out-of-pocket expense for check-ups* and director of the Pardes Center for Judaism and a thriving underground industry run by the Jews and *As long as you are eligible, have met all deductibles, have bene ts remaining and your plan is UCR or equivalent. Conflict Resolution in Jerusalem; artist Hanoch Piven; supported and promoted by the noblemen owners Wall Street Journal reporter Lucette Lagnado, author of themselves who “fronted” the operations. Dental Care Kids “Man in the White Sharkshkin Suit;” artist Deborah Dynner earned his Ph.D. and bachelor’s degree Uguretz; and many more. from Brandeis University, and his master’s degree from Open 7 Days A Week! One of the highlights of this year’s Limmud will be McGill University. A recipient of the Fulbright Award, Sunday night’s Limmudapolooza, featuring Six13, a six- he has been a fellow at the Katz Center for Advanced man vocal group that seeks to bring an unprecedented Judaic Studies at the University of Pennsylvania and a style of Jewish music to the stage. The group’s five award- member of the Institute for Advanced Study at Princeton winning albums are among the top Jewish music on iTunes and Six13 has become a viral Internet sensation with more than one million views on YouTube. Limmud NY will be held at the Stamford Hilton Hotel and Executive Meeting Center, right off Route 95 and less than a mile from the Stamford Metro BoardBoa Certied Pediatric North/Amtrak station. DDentistsen & Orthodontists! Registration opened in early November at www.lim- IV sedationsedatio for high fear & special needs children mudny.org. There will be program-only options for local residents who do not wish to stay at the hotel. Complete 1500 Summer St.,St., Stamford,St CT information, including a regularly-updated conference 203.883.4457 Call Today for New Patient Special O ers! schedule and list of presenters and conference, can be www.DentalCareOrthodontics.com www.DentalCareKids.com found on the Limmud website. Limited financial aid is available. For more information, call 212-908-2539 or e-mail [email protected]. ÊVisit www.ujf.org, facebook.com/stamfordFederation, or tweet UJF at ujfstamford 4 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ december 2013 december 2013 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 5 BCDS Celebrates Chanukah at Turkey, Latkes and Apple Sauce Stamford Town Center Miracles Happen! Bi-Cultural Day School will be promoting the gift By Ronnie Fein Peel, core and slice the apples and pears, and Federation’s Impact on One Young Man’s Life of reading at Barnes and Noble at Stamford Town Everyone is talking about place them in a deep, non-reactive saucepan. Add Center on Tuesday, December 3, the seventh night By Emily Wirgin tion’s “direct and tremendous impact” professional. He said each miracle was tion system,” said Amanda Shapiro, YLD the fact that for the first time the apricot halves, lemon juice, cinnamon and up to of Chanukah. The community is invited to shop at On October 19, Rachel and Nimrod on his life, and discussed the meaning of life altering and character shaping, and president. Robert and Tricia Hoff said, in many years Chanukah and 6 tablespoons sugar (or no sugar). Cover the pan and See “Miracles” on page 18 Barnes and Noble (mention Bookfair ID #11224771* Dayan hosted an intimate evening for the miracles. In his view, he was the benefi- each miracle stemmed from a UJF sup- Thanksgiving fall on the same cook over low heat for 20-25 minutes or until the fruit at checkout) starting at 4:30 pm. A percentage of all United Jewish Federation’s Young Lead- ciary of several miracles that were made ported organization. “All who attended day. This eliminates the usual is very soft, stirring ingredients occasionally. Remove sales will go to the Parents Association of BCDS. Several ership Division Ben Gurion Society. Ben possible by the Federation system. were inspired by his story, by being able Chanukah-Christmas issue, the cover and cook for 15-20 minutes or until the Chanukah and literacy-related happenings will take Gurion Society is a donor recognition The first miracle occurred shortly to hear first-hand how a contemporary because most Jews celebrate mixture is thick. Puree in a food processor or with a place during this time. Older BCDS students will read program for individuals age 25-45 who after his birth when he was orphaned, and peer could benefit from the Federa- Thanksgiving, like Americans hand blender if desired. stories to younger children, giving adults the opportu- have made a minimum household gift of sent to a UJF-supported orphanage and of every other ethnic group. Makes about 3½ cups. nity to shop and socialize. At 5pm, BCDS students cast $1,000 to UJF’s Annual Campaign. adopted by Jewish parents. They raised For us, the only problem is Applesauce with Jam in the upcoming BCDS production of “Disney’s High After wine-tasting led by sommelier him in a traditional Jewish home and the food. Of course! 3 pounds apples School Musical” will perform excerpts from the show, and comedian W.R. Tish and followed by as a teenager sent him on a Federation- The dilemma this year is, if The cover of Ronnie 3 Tbsp. orange juice which will have three full performances at the school dinner, Bradley Sherman, a former chair sponsored summer program in Israel. you are going to serve potato Fein’s cookbook, “Hip 3 Tbsp. honey on April 1, 3 and 6. of the YLD of the Cleveland Federation While on the summer program, he said latkes with your Thanksgiv- Kosher” 2 Tbsp. lemon juice At 7 pm, the BCDS Choir, along with the BCDS kin- and current National Young Leadership the second miracle of his life occurred ing turkey, then you can’t 1/ cup orange marmalade 3 dergartners, will sing Chanukah favorites in the atrium Cabinet member, spoke about Federa- – he met his wife. accompany the latkes with sour cream. It has to ½ tsp. ground cinnamon, optional of the mall under the direction of Jonathan Cahr as part Sherman then went on to describe a be applesauce. Peel, core and slice the apples, and place them in of Stamford Town Center’s “Holidays In Harmony.” Dur- difficult period. While on spring break in Because of the special, festive nature that the a deep, non-reactive saucepan. Add the orange juice, ing this time, there will also be a community menorah college, Sherman learned that his mother “What kind of wine was it?” President of combination of Thanksgiving and Chanukah bring, honey, lemon juice, marmalade and cinnamon, and lighting. Additionally, there will be Chanukah treats was killed by a drunk driver. Following Young Leadership Division Amanda Shapiro rather than buy the same old jarred applesauce, why stir to combine the ingredients. Cover the pan and and Chanukah-themed cookie decorating. Those who the shiva period, Sherman went back to and her husband, Dave Shapiro, looked at the not make your own special version? cook over low heat for 20-25 minutes or until the fruit would like their purchases gift-wrapped can stop by the school, but was struggling emotionally Dani and Lael Shapiro wine-tasting menu. (Photos by Lee Peskin) Here are two recipes: is very soft, stirring ingredients occasionally. Remove gift-wrapping table, where BCDS parents (and kids) will and was depressed. A friend, who had Homemade Apple-Apricot-Pear Sauce the cover and cook for 15-20 minutes or until the be wrapping gifts; all “tips” will go toward the school’s also recently lost a parent, suggested that 2 pounds apples mixture is thick. Puree in a food processor or with a theater program. The event is being sponsored by the Sherman say Kaddish every day at Hillel. Celebrating Partnership 2 Bartlett, Anjou or Comice Pears hand blender if desired. BCDS Parents Association as well as the BCDS Players. The ritual of Kaddish and the support he 12 dried apricot halves Makes about 3½ cups. For more information, contact the BCDS Parents As- found from the Hillel community gave 2 Tbsp. lemon juice Ronnie Fein is the author of the cookbook “Hip Kosher” sociation at [email protected]. Sherman his third miracle – the support ½ tsp. cinnamon and is a cooking teacher in Stamford. Visit her food blog, *BCDS will receive credit for both online and in-store sales and strength to overcome tragedy and 0-6 Tbsp. sugar Kitchen Vignettes, at www.ronniefein.com. from Tuesday-Friday, December 3-8. Sam and Amy Gettler go on to become a successful father and Bi-Cultural Day School is a recipient agency of United Jewish Tavern Continued from page 3 Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Darien. In “Holy Dissent: Jewish and Christian Mystics in Eastern he is chatting with you at a local bar!” Europe,” he gathers highly regarded scholars of Jewish Registration online (optional, but preferred) can be Continued from page 1 and Christian mysticism in Eastern Europe to analyze done by visiting https://jhsdecfeaturedprogram.event- TribeFest the overlap of mysticism in the two religions. brite.com/ and clicking on “sign up with email.” such as Jewish environmentalism, social activism in Dynner lives in Riverdale, NY, with his wife and daughter. Those with questions about the program should Israel, Jews in pop culture and more. The event will According to Elissa Kaplan, co-vice president for education contact Marcie Schoenfeld at 203-359-9148 or elissa@ be co-chaired by National Young Leadership Cabinet and programming, “We are in for a real treat. Jewish his- de-kaplan.com. members Emma Samuels of Boston and David Kline tory can happen in the synagogue, in the halls of power, The Jewish Historical Society of Fairfield County is a of Austin. UJF and community leaders gathered on October 23 to welcome Judy Yuda, director of or in a tavern. Dr. Glenn Dynner has the ability to deliver beneficiary agency of United Jewish Federation of Greater “TribeFest provides a lens for young adults to see the Partnership2Gether, which manages relationships with Afula-Gilboa, Stamford’s sister region a great deal of scholarly information, while sounding like Stamford, New Canaan and Darien. various ways they can engage and participate in Jewish in Israel. L-r: Ellen Weber, UJF Women’s Philanthropy president; Rabbi Joshua Hammerman life in their communities,” said Jerry Silverman, presi- L-r: Meredith and David Cohen; Michael Wirgin and Rob Hoff, Cardozo Society event chairs; of Temple Beth El; James Cohen, UJF chief executive officer; Jerry Knopf, UJF board member; dent and CEO of JFNA. “We have seen the profound Lael and Dani Shapiro; and Emily Wirgin. Yuda; Nancy Mimoun, UJF past president; and Dan Benjamin, UJF board member. effects that this exciting and inspirational program has on Jewish young adults. We look forward to traveling to New Orleans, and have already begun to build an outstanding program.” Co-chair Kline credits past TribeFests for “amazing friends, experiences and memories,” and expects partici- pants will find this year’s TribeFest even more meaningful. “TribeFest is the pinnacle for outreach and engagement t is about! to young Jews who want to get involved with the Jewish temen he exci community. It’s a jumping-off point for young leaders to Come see what all t get active and to grow in the Jewish community locally, nationally and internationally,” he said. “I’m excited to mold the platform that will offer these opportunities to other young Jewish people in our community.” Danielle Alexander, director of community engage- ment and outreach for United Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Darien, attended TribeFest two years ago. “It was my first national Federa- tion event and I had no idea what to expect. It turned out to be such a meaningful, fun experience that I have been excitedly awaiting this upcoming TribeFest and the opportunity to take others from our community. I felt so proud to be a part of the Jewish community in a room with over 1,500 other young adults engag- ing in discussions and attending evening concerts and comedy nights, and socializing with old and new Autumn Driscoll Photography friends,” she said. Thanksgiving! ah and For more information on TribeFest 2014, visit Tribe- W Chanuk Fest.org or contact Alexander at [email protected] or ishing you a Happy 203-321-1373, ext. 104. To schedule a tour or for ‘ An education that fosters a more information contact: love of learning, Judaism and Joanne Karow, Director of Admissions social responsibility. 203-329-2186 Ext. 1310 ‘ Individualized and differentiated or [email protected] instruction to ensure a program well tailored for every child’s needs. Jacqueline Herman, Head of School Rabbi David Israel, Rabbinic Dean ‘ Recipient of numerous awards including the Jerusalem Prize by the State of Israel, a citation by the U.S Department of Education for Excellence in Education, and two 2186 High Ridge Road Stamford, CT 06903 staff recipients of the distinguished www.bcds.org Grinspoon Steinhardt Award.

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מ חנכים ילדים, נוגעים בלבבות .Teaching Minds. Reaching Hearts ÊVisit www.ujf.org, facebook.com/stamfordFederation, or tweet UJF at ujfstamford 6 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ december 2013 december 2013 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 7 bits and pieces Challenges in Jewish Come Read with Us! By Sandy Golove Abraham Lebow and Carole Bolen- Constance Elkinson on the loss of her Mark Kirshner on the loss of his father, To submit informa- sky on the engagement of their grand- mother, Gladys Field. Stephen Kirshner. Reading Partners Off to a Strong Start tion to Bits and Pieces, daughter, and Sherry and Bennet Irma Farberov, Michael Farberov and Marc Passy on the loss of his father, Education call 321-1373, ext. Kfare and Frimet and Bryan Herstic, Liliya Glusker on the loss of his wife and Meir Passy. Under the new leadership of Marlyn Jim Cohen, C.E.O. of UJF, said, “The 107, or e-mail me at of New Rochelle, NY, on the engage- their mother, Mariya Farberova. Family and friends of Rose Raff. Agudath Sholom to Host Panel Agatstein, Reading Partners is off to a enthusiasm and dedication of Marlyn [email protected]. ment of their children, Zach Kfare Jerry Jacobs on the loss of his wife, Dennis Schoen on the loss of his father, strong start this year. Nearly 40 new vol- and Ellen is infectious, and is really help- MAZEL TOV TO NEW and Naama Herstic. Bobbi Jacobs. Richard Schoen. Congregation and Practical Solu- unteers have already signed up to join ing the program to expand and reach a the cadre of veteran volunteers who read higher level.” FAMILIES: Amy and Mark Schneider on Jules Kaplove on the loss of his father, Linda Weiss on the loss of her mother, Agudath Sholom tions,” a subject Danielle and Rabbi their daughter Sara Kocek’s first Jay J. Kaplove. Sylvia Gilman. will host the an- about which many for an hour each week with children in Anat Chavkin, associate vice president Yehuda Jeiger on the novel being published, “Promise Me nual “Challenges parents of day- grades kindergarten to three in the pub- of UJF, added, “It is wonderful to see so birth of a son and a daughter. Something.” in Jewish Education school children are lic schools and after-school programs. many new and longtime volunteers who Debra Adler Klein and Matthew Klein Paula Simon on receiving the Distin- Panel,” which will deeply concerned. There are now 140 active volunteers in are part of the Reading Partners program. New Around Town be held at the syna- “The annual edu- the Reading Partners program and new This is an excellent example of how, on the birth of a grandson, Zachary Miles, guished Service Award from Rensselaer son of Morgan and Joshua Klein. Polytechnic Institute. Alison Patnick, UJF gogue on Shabbat, cation panel is one volunteers are welcome. through dedicated volunteers, we leverage Joseph Macy on the birth of a great- Linda Spilka and Ed Spilka and Bar- Alison Patnick recently joined the United Jewish Federation of Saturday, January of the most excit- Marlyn Agatstein, director of Reading the impact we have in the community on grandson, and Toby Schaffer and Hyman bara Smith and Ilan Burstein on the Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Darien as the office manager. 11, immediately af- ing and anticipated Partners, and Ellen Weber, team leader Jewish and non-Jewish students.” Rabbi Joshua Harry Bloom Schaffer on the birth of a grandson, son engagement of their children, Raquel Patnick has experience in office management and computers. ter morning ser- events that the com- at the Boys and Girls Club and Chester Reading Partners is underwritten by the Lookstein of Tova and Daniel Schaffer. Spilka and Eytan Burstein. She has been responsible for all aspects of IT infrastructure, vices and kiddush at munity sponsors Addison Center, led three orientations Herbert and Sarah M. Gibor Foundation. Cori SaNogueira and Adam Farstrup Louise Stein on the engagement of including purchasing and leasing of equipment and software approximately noon. during the programming year,” said for new volunteers in October, one at The funding has enabled the program on the birth of a daughter. her daughter, Brenna Stein, to Charles and hardware troubleshooting. She has also been responsible This year, the panel will feature Rabbi Michael Feldstein, who is chairing the UJF offices for the school tutors and to move from a volunteer run organiza- Angelika and Jeff Schlanger on the Schnur, of Philadelphia. for benefit plan administration, office supply purchasing and Joshua Lookstein, the head of school at program. “We’ve set the bar pretty high two at the after-school program sites. tion to one with a dedicated professional birth of a son. Hildi and David Todrin on their assisting with employee recruitment, as well as organizing corpo- Westchester Day School in Mamaroneck, with many outstanding speakers in past The orientation/trainings focused on overseer. At the school orientation, Ed Louise Stein on the birth of a grand- daughter, Maya Todrin, being chosen rate events and activities such as United Way Day of Caring. She Alison Patnick NY, and Harry Bloom, strategy manager years, but I’m very confident that this three primary components of learning Smith, trustee for the Gibor Foundation, daughter, Harper Rachel, daughter of to be part of Team Connecticut playing speaks basic German and French. Patnick is originally from Sheffield, England. for financial sustainability at the Partner- year’s panelists will meet and even exceed to read: decoding, comprehension and recounted his personal and professional Kim and Greg Stein. unified doubles tennis at the Special She has lived in the area since 1988. UJF CEO Jim Cohen welcomed Patnick at a ship for Excellence in Jewish Education. our high expectations.” fluency. Weber, also a Reading Partner, relationship with Herbert Gibor, a fellow Julie and Rabbi Jay TelRav on the Olympics National Games in June in recent event, noting, “Alison’s exceptional computer and technological skills will be Rabbi David Israel, the rabbinic dean at The entire community is invited to shared key ideas and guidelines for mak- lawyer. He highlighted the “tikkun olam” birth of a daughter, Nili Lu. Princeton, NJ. a tremendous asset to the organization. We are so happy she has joined our team.” Bi-Cultural Day School, will moderate attend the panel. For additional informa- ing the sessions more effective. Agatstein philosophy of helping people to improve the panel discussion. tion about the panel program, contact highlighted the importance of creating a their lives, enabling them to be stronger MAZEL TOV TO: MAZEL TOV TO B’NAI MITZVAH: The topic for this year’s panel is “Day relationship with the students by utilizing and more fulfilled adults. Adrienne and Michael Alexander and Benjamin Glicksman, son of Audrey Feldstein at michaelgfeldstein@gmail. School Affordability: The Challenge… “praise” phrases that can maintain high The school orientation included a Lori and Joel Alhadef on the engagement Samers and David Blicksman, and grand- Notes from a Jewish Educator com or 203-973-6279. levels of student motivation. viewing of the “Greater Boston Jewish of their children, Caroline Alexander son of Edith Samers and Ed Smith There is much flux in the Stamford Coalition for Literacy” video. Boston and Brad Alhadef. Matthew Greenbaum, son of Allison “Emotionally Responsive Practice” educational community and the recently began the first pilot program. It was Judith Altmann, recipient of the and Frederic Greenbaum Meeting of Connecticut Jewish adopted “Common Core Standards” are considered so successful that the local ADL Daniel R.Ginsberg Humanitarian Noa Kraus, daughter of Tamar and A Foundational Value in Jewish Early pushing younger students to progress Reading Partners program was based Award. Daniel Kraus earlier and reach stricter competency on that model. The National Jewish Jim Benjamin on harvesting more than David Lang, son of Elicia and Jay Childhood Education Family Service Executives standards. “There are still vast pools of Coalition for Literacy now operates in 184 pounds of produce from the Harvest Lang By Vivi Deren supporting a young child’s separation emerging readers who struggle with these many cities across the U.S. The video Now Garden for the hungry. Helene Leichter, daughter of Belle- “What does Moses at the Burning Bush anxiety; holding a favorite blanket can Matt Greenberg, CEO of Jewish pro tempore of the Connecticut Senate standards because they haven’t had the highlighted the meaningfulness of the Amy and Richard Breslow and Susan Ann Abrams and Jerrold Leichter have in common with a 4-year-old who soothe those feelings and allow the child Family Service Stamford attended the and co-chair of the Human Services benefit of starting reading at an early stage program, not only to its students, but to and Phillip Clark, of Wayne, PA, on the EJ Rimerman, son of Claudia and is anxious about Daddy being away on to enter into the classroom activities.” Connecticut Jewish Family Service Execu- Committee, joined the group to hear the of life,” said Agatstein. “What the program the volunteers as well. engagement of their children, Rebecca Howard Rimerman, and grandson of a business trip? What can the custom of Citing findings by leading researchers, tives meeting to discuss the needs and concerns raised by the JFS executives. brings to the table is a corps of dedicated The program recruits and trains Breslow and Timothy William Clark. Norma Kraut and Ron Schacht covering the challah on the Shabbat table Isaacs went on to explain how extend- concerns of local non-profit social service The many subjects discussed related to volunteers who can re-assure these students people on an ongoing basis. To become Guta Fischel on the engagement Max Roitman, son of Sonia and Brian teach us about dealing with a child who is ing this concept into the classroom can agencies. At the meeting in October, State the delivery of human services in Con- with ‘Yes you can!’ and ‘I believe in you.’ a Reading Partner, contact Agatstein at of her grandson, and Flossy and Sam Roitman embarrassed about spilling his juice?” have a powerful impact: “In her book Senator Gayle Slossberg (representing necticut, in particular, those performed Reading Partners are in their corner, one [email protected] or 203-321- Fischel and Ellen and Richard Weber on Andrew Spezzano, son of Stacy and I thought about these questions at a ‘Bears, Bears, Everywhere! Supporting Milford, West Haven, Orange and Wood- by JFS and its sister agencies. See “Executives” on page 18 day a week, for one hour.” 1373, ext. 115. the engagement of their children, Jason Steven Spezzano recent Gan program. Children’s Emotional Health in the bridge), who is the assistant president Fischel and Robin Weber. Eli Stockman, son of Karen and Alan Three times a year, parents and staff Classroom,’ Leslie Koplow, director of Wendy and John Fitzgerald on the Stockman at Gan Yeladim come together for “Win- the Center for Emotionally Responsive marriage of their son, Adam Fitzgerald, Elizabeth Yamron, daughter of Jen- dows on their World.” They spend time Practice at Bank Street College, describes to Dana Forsthoefel. nifer and Bernard Yamron together in the classroom so that parents how including stuffed animals in the Arline Gewanter and Lloyd Contract Gabriel Yaghoubian, son of Neda can become familiar with what their child classroom process can give children a on their marriage. Khaghan and Robert Yaghoubian experiences each day at Gan, and to share voice for fears, worries and conflicts Loralee and Philip Granowitz on the Marissa Young, daughter of Sheryl the big picture of how learning happens that sometimes underlie inattentive and engagement of their son, Danny Granow- and Daniel Young in the early-childhood educational setting. disruptive behavior in the classroom. By itz, to Jennifer Stern. Nathan Haron, son of Rachel and Dan Each year, the staff studies a particular supporting childrens’ emotional growth, Sherry Hertzberg, Tracy Shevell and Haron, and grandson of Nancy and Ka- area in order to deepen their under- we help them develop and articulate emo- Sandy Speter, who were honored at mal Haron and Linda and Larry Rezak standing of children and to enhance the tional vocabulary to instill confidence Chabad’s Loaves of Love. Ryan Meiteles, son of Meryl and Larry learning process. This is shared with the and risk taking.” Meiteles parents, and enables deeper collaboration As founding director of Gan, my role CONDOLENCES TO: between home and school. For the 2013- was to highlight how Gan addresses these candle David Arditti on the loss of his father, 2014 school year, the area is “Emotionally issues from a Jewish perspective. I was L-r: Robert Fishman, JFACT coordinator; Harvey Paris, executive director, Bridgeport; Lisa Ralph Arditti. Responsive Practice.” fascinated to find that when examining Smith, executive director, Greenwich; Gayle Slossberg; Matt Greenberg, CEO, Stamford; Debbie lighting times Jill Cymrot on the loss of her father, Emotionally responsive practice is an ap- Torah through this lens, the examples Horowitz, executive director, Waterbury; Jonathan Garfinkle, executive director ,New Haven; and Nov. 22...... 4:12 pm Dr. Howard Altman. proach to education that builds on research are abundant and varied. In the case of Roz Kopfstein, director, Danbury. Missing from photo: Anne Danaher, ED, West Hartford. Nov. 29...... 4:08 pm Susan Darer, Anne Darer, John Darer showing the effect of social and emotional Moses at the Burning Bush, Rashi teaches and Sarah Darer Littman on the loss of her experience on the developing brain, and that God first called to Moses in the voice Dec. 6...... 4:07 pm husband and their father, Stanley Darer. the positive effects of working partner- of his father, Amram. Think about what Dec. 13...... 4:08 pm ships between educators and school-based an overwhelming experience it was, and Dec. 20...... 4:10 pm UJF Tribute Cards are a psychologists. This includes working with how reassured Moses must have been to Dec. 27...... 4:14 pm curriculum, classroom routines, and teach- hear his father’s voice first, before know- wonderful way to connect with er-child interaction to promote emotional ing that God was speaking to him. Jan. 3...... 4:20 pm your family and friends and mark intelligence in children. As to the challah cover? We cover the Jan. 10...... 4:27 pm any occasion while supporting the Hillary Isaacs, the Gan school psychol- challah because we are making Kiddush ogist, introduced the topic and rationale on wine, and not on challah, and we don’t Jan. 17...... 4:34 pm extraordinary work of UJF. Jan. 24...... 4:43 pm behind this choice: “Childrens’ emotions want to embarrass the challah. If we’re To send a tribute, span diverse landscapes, far beyond so careful not to embarrass challah, how Jan. 31...... 4:51 pm their ability to verbalize. It is crucial for much more careful must we be with the Feb. 7...... 5 pm go to www.ujf.org. the adults in their lives to understand feelings of real people? what facilitates healthy growth and de- Vivi Deren is the founding director of the velopment. To cite a common example: Gan Yeladim Early Childhood Center. Transitional objects can be critical in

Sylvie Rosenberg and Ori Port welcomed their Aharon Parhi, Boaz Moreen, Joshua new stuffed animals in their Gan classroom. Schwartz and Sagiv Siegel introduced their Each child at Gan received a stuffed animal stuffed animals to tzedakah in their Gan to give voice to his/her emotions and use as classroom. a transitional object at school. ÊVisit www.ujf.org, facebook.com/stamfordFederation, or tweet UJF at ujfstamford 8 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ december 2013 december 2013 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 9 Super Sunday Continued from page 1 Your Federation Dollars at Work... to help Jews in Israel and 79 countries around the World. Pinning on the Pride part by joining their friends in the Teen in Israel, donate kosher non-perishable Room to make calls from 1-3 pm. Stem- food items and more. To help Jews overseas A New Lion of Judah Pin Initiative ming from the success experienced Anat Chavkin, associate vice presi- Jewish Agency for Israel (JAFI) and the American Jewish Joint Distribution Committee (JDC)** By Anat Chavkin chasing of the lion women and girls by helping to secure the during last year’s Super Sunday, UJF dent at UJF and professional liaison These 2 organizations co-ordinate the programs that help Jews in need in Israel and in countries Ask any woman who wears the Lion pin to be a barrier future of our Jewish people and enhance will again provide incentives to partner to Super Sunday for the agency, un- around the world with funds raised by 155 Federations in the US. By co-ordinating efforts, relief work is maximized. In Israel, the funds are used for Jews who need support such as the destitute, the disabled, of Judah pin and she’ll tell you: there’s to that important the quality of Jewish life.” agencies. There will be many ways to derscores the fact that, “If you look at individuals at risk, troubled teens and to facilitates aliyah to Israel. The JDC provides relief for Jews in need $287,860 nothing like being in the same room decision. We look For Devra Jaffe Berkowitz, Young win and multiple winners. UJF dollars at work (see the table to the in 79 countries, for example providing food packages and medicines for aged holocaust survivors who can not afford the basics and the renewal of Jewish communal life for Jews in Soviet countries that had lost all with like-minded women who “roar.” forward to seeing Leadership Division past president and As part of the JCC’s Community Mitz- right on this page), one can see that their Jewishness. This total includes the contributions to the Global Bucket and JDC projects, as well as the YLD Chibuki program. The pin symbolizes women’s “success, UJF’s new lions current National Young Leadership chair vah Day, more than a dozen Stamford Jew- a contribution to Federation has such strength and commitment to Jewish wearing their pins designate, the Lion of Judah is a symbol ish organizations will spearhead projects an impact in our community, Israel Completing the Journey ** Through JAFI, this program brought the last 8,000 Falash Mura from Gondar, Ethiopia to Israel from 2010- peoplehood.” The Lion of Judah is a with great pride, of a young woman’s dedication to the for children, families and adults of all and all over the world. No other gift $6,100 2013 symbol of a woman’s “caring about the and serving as role A Lion of Judah pin. Jewish community, both locally and glob- ages. The community is invited to come reaches so many lives! Come to Super Partnership 2Gether and other Programs in our Afula/Gilboa sister Region in Israel* organized Jewish world.” Created in models for other ally. It represents a “powerful network” of from 1-3 pm to make rainbow bracelets Sunday, volunteer, answer the phone Provides help for programs in our sister city Afula/Gilboa in Israel, for example the work of the Ethiopian Miami nearly 40 years ago, the Lion of women within our community.” women who believe in the values of tikkun for children in shelters, challah for new- call and be part of this powerful com- National Project, providing hospital equipment, supporting programs to raise up Ethiopian teens and sup- $178,750 porting a program for rape victims. Judah now roars with more than 16,000 Eileen, a UJF board member, said: “We olam and Jewish continuity. Jaffe Berkowitz comers, decorate a planter for seniors, munitywide day.” women worldwide. A Lion of Judah refers are honored and humbled to recognize the said: “When I see a woman wearing the bring gently-used children’s books for For more information or to volunteer Israel Relief Fund During the crisis in Israel, through JFNA, we supported our partners, JAFI, JDC, the Israel Trauma Coali- to a woman who commits at least $5,000 women in our community who have stepped Lion pin, it is not a symbol for me about children in need, donate eight inches or for Super Sunday 2014, e-mail jeff@ujf. tion and World ORT, to deliver immediate services and assistance on the ground throughout the South. $7,620 to the Federation Annual Campaign. up to the level of financial commitment to how much money she contributes, but Eileen and Fred Springer more of your hair for kids with cancer org or visit www.ujf.org. Such services include trauma counseling, financial assistance, portable bomb shelters, and moving more than 4,000 school age children to safer parts of Israel, so they can remain out of harm’s way. The pin was nationalized in 1980, be a Lion of Judah. Our hope is to see many rather about the passion and commitment Beit Singer with a campaign logo created in 1983. more women wearing their Lions with pride, she has to the mission of Federation.” Judah pin, contact Anat Chavkin, associate JCC Nursery School Offers Modern Parenting Workshop In collaboration with 4 other Federations, we organized the united Israel@65 program and raised funds for Gemstones are added to denote levels of knowing that they are role models for other For more information about the Lion of vice president of UJF, at [email protected]. the creation of recreation rooms at Beit Singer, which manages and operates various frameworks to care $7,500 On Thursday, January 30, at 7 pm, at Temple Sinai, the Jewish Community Center for at-risk children and youth in our P2G Afula/Gilboa sister region. giving, with more variations added over time as the pin’s popularity grew. Sara Walker Nursery School will host an informative workshop and social evening for **Other Afula/Gilboa and projects in Israel separated from Partnership 2Gether: $6,750 “The Lion of Judah program has Comedy Night at Temple Beth El parents of children ages 2-8 years. Guest lecturers will explore topics such as nutri- Schools and Educational Services - Helps Jewish Schools cover expenses for children from our tion, religion in the home, bullying, children using technology and understanding community that are not covered by school fees including scholarship funds for over 30% of the children brought together women of all ages Temple Beth El both the Marshall’s and has never looked back. He went on who attend the schools, aids to assist children with learning disabilities and enrichment programs child behaviors. The parenting program is returning for the third year. Emunah Children’s Center - Residential and afterschool therapeutic day care facility in Afula for at-risk and from many walks of life in order to will sponsor a Com- Woman’s Comedy tour with several theater companies star- Topics and speakers will include “Cultivating Courage in Your Kids,” with Rabbi children. play an essential role in building Jewish edy Night featur- Festival and the ring in plays ranging from Shakespeare to Daniel Cohen; “Self-Esteem: Do Our Kids Really Need It?” with Betsy Stone, Ph.D.; Tom Youth Village in Israel identity,” said Ellen Weber, Women’s ing two headliner Toyota Comedy Neil Simon. His comedic timing has been “Positive Parenting: How to Stop the Bribing, Nagging, Threatening and Yelling” To help Jews locally Philanthropy president. comedians, Marion Festival. On TV, called a bright spot in those productions Jewish Family Service* “Symbols often represent our deepest Grodin and Buddy Grodin has been and, with a little prodding, he took the with Alisa Slatin Rohdie, M.A.; “Keeping Kids Safe: Empowering our kids to feel These funds provides counseling and many varieties of help to Jews locally who are facing mental and safe and handle potentially dangerous situations, including bullies, strangers, good emotional problems and who do not have insurance and can not afford the care they need. These funds $188,000 passions, our deepest values, far more Fitzpatrick, on Sat- seen on NBC’s next step to the comedy club stage. Soon also provide basic needs for Jews in crisis who have lost everything. powerfully than words can,” said Malerie urday, December 7, “Late Night with after, Fitzpatrick was a regular at showcase touch, bad touch and more” with Kristen M. Tomasiewicz and Emily Goldschmid, Jewish Community Center* M.S.W.; “The Well Balanced Child,” with Jennifer Sabbah, L.C.S.W., S.E.P.; and “De- These funds support an array of social programs for the elderly, for children with special needs, and for Yolen Cohen, a Women’s Philanthropy at 8 pm, at Temple Conan O’Brien,” clubs in New York City, honing his craft veloping Independent, Problem-Solving Children,” with Jeffrey DeTeso, Ph.D. cultural, recreational and social Jewish programming for all ages – services that are not covered by Mem- $103,000 board member. Beth El. The en- Metro Channel’s night after night. The positive response bership Fees. Buddy Fitzpatrick Marion Grodin Admission is $15 per person for the general public and $10 for JCC members. Mazon Grant -- obtained and managed by JFACT, received by UJF and administered by the JCC $750 Eileen and Fred Springer, longtime tire community is “New Joke City” to his work fueling the fire, he has been Registration is available online at stamfordjcc.org or at the welcome desk at the Jewish Engagement and Education activists and supporters of UJF, who invited to join the fun. Dessert will be with Robert Klein, “Inside Edition” and busy on the comedy circuit the last seven JCC. Temple Sinai is located at 458 Lakeside Dr., Stamford. Schools and Educational Services - Helps Jewish Schools cover expenses for children from our community that recognize the power of symbols, initiated served and guests can bring their own ABC’s “The View.” years. Fitzpatrick is a regular on Comedy are not covered by school fees including scholarship funds for over 30% of the children who attend the schools, $8,500 For additional information, contact Sandi Waldstreicher, JCC Sara Walker Nursery aids to assist children with learning disabilities and enrichment programs the Lion of Judah pin campaign for the drinks to enjoy during the show. Fitzpatrick, a native of Philadelphia, Central and has made appearances on School curriculum coordinator, at 203-322-6541 or [email protected]. Bi-Cultural Day School* $100,500 Young Leadership Division of UJF. The Grodin, daughter of actor Charles is currently touring the United States A&E’s “An Evening At The Improv” and The Jewish Community Center is a recipient agency of United Jewish Federation of Greater Carmel Academy* $15,000 initiative provides the funds for purchas- Grodin, has been called one of the fun- sharing his comedy perspective. His “Caroline’s Comedy Hour.” He has also Stamford, New Canaan and Darien. Special Ed Teacher to work with children with learning disabilities at synagogue schools $10,000 ing Lion of Judah pins for new Young niest working stand-up comedians today. act combines the skill of a monologist appeared on HBO’s “The Sopranos,” as Adult Learning Leadership Division Lions. In New York City, she is a regular at all with a physical style that helps bring his well as a number of films. Opportunities to promote community unity through Jewish Education. Classes are open to all adults and teens in the community and reach both affiliated and unaffiliated. Fred, UJF past president, said: “We felt the top clubs, including The Gotham observations to life. At the age of 18, he The cost is $36 per person. For reser- ***Tapestry - A Night of Jewish Learning - A communitywide evening of Jewish learning for adults and $9,878 that becoming a Lion was an important Comedy Club, Stand Up NY, Carolines left Philadelphia to pursue a career in the vations and further information, contact children throughout the community. ***Adult Classes - Community wide adult education classes reaching affiliated and unaffiliated members of philanthropic step for a young woman at on Broadway and The Duplex Caba- arts. He enrolled in the American Acad- the TBE office at 203-322-6901, ext. 301, $23,000 our community. UJF to take, and we didn’t want the pur- ret. Grodin has also been featured in emy of Dramatic Arts in New York City or at [email protected]. Community Engagement and Continuity Programs Programs that promote community unity and indivdual or family engagement with the Jewish community in an effort to promote Jewish continuity. ***Yom Hashoah - Community wide commemoration of the Holocaust. $12,105 ***Reading Partners - A program dedicated to transforming struggling young readers into confident read- $19,772 ers who are excited about learning in the Greater Stamford Community. Preschool Holiday Happenings ***The Behrend Institute for Leadership -- A nine session, multi faceted program designed to prepare graduates for leadership roles within the organizations which nominate them and for community-wide $20,000 positions of leadership. Jewish Camping Scholarships* (administered by JFS) $1,000 Camp Laurelwood - Support for the only Jewish overnight camp facility in Connecticut. $600 ***PJ Library - A Jewish Family Engagement program which mails free, high-quality Jewish children’s $18,584 literature and music to local families and provides educational programs throughout the community. Discover Leadership and teacher awards $3,600 Community Scholar-in-Residence (multi-generational programming hosted by UJF in partnership with $16,267 many local agencies, with scholar Rabbi Yitz Greenberg) Explore Birthright Israel and Gift of Israel - Provides first time peer group trip to Israel for young adults; claims to change the course of Jewish history and ensure the continuity of the Jewish people by strengthening Jew- $12,000 ish identity, Jewish communities, and solidarity with Israel and other scholarships for youth travel to Israel. Learn ***Teacher Education Evening - Community wide evening for teachers of both day schools, preschools and $1,670 congregationsal schools. ***Jewish Educators Council - Bimonthly meetings of local administrators to discuss ways to support Jew- $3,200 ish education and to find ways to collaborate. ***New Jewish Voice - The community newspaper -highlighting events and happenings in the Stamford, Experience the Carmel $52,348 New Canaan and Darien Jewish Community as well as Jewish events around the world and in Israel. "I did not nd the world desolate when I entered it. Jewish Teen Education and Engagement Academy Difference As my parents planted for me before I was born, ***Kulanu – After school program for high school teens from all synagogues and the unaffiliated. $46,700 So do I plant for those who will come aer me." BBYO* – Enhances teen Jewish communal life. $3,500 at our Preschool Holiday e Talmud Friendship Circle* – Jewish teens helping special needs Jewish children. $4,500 ***Youth Council - Facilitates coordination of teen events, federation staff attending various youth Happenings Series $12,400 UJF is excited to announce the formation of a new Legacy Team. Federation has taken the rst committee steps to empower the Jewish organizations, agencies and synagogues of our community to work Jewish College Programming Hillel at UConn* - Enhances Jewish Life on campus. Note that each Hillel is supported by different with you to create your Jewish Legacy. $10,500 Federations. UConn Center for Judaic and Middle Eastern Studies in Stamford* - Provides Jewish studies opportunities
is is not about the Federation, this is about our community. While the Federation will be $3,500 B’ruchim Habayim– A hands-on series for Pre-K stewarding this eort, your legacy will support the organizations and programs that live your for students and for the Jewish community at large. children and their parents. personal Jewish and philanthropic values. Jewish Home for the Elderly* $3,000 Be Our Guest! Jewish Historical Society* - Preserves our local Jewish history and provides educational programming. $500 Wednesday, October 30th, 1:30 p.m. Space is limited. Programs are We know you are wondering: Is this a new Foundation? JFACT (Jewish Federation Association of CT) the government and community relations arm of the Jewish Federation system in Connecticut.The Jewish Federation Association of Connecticut, (JFACT), speaks offered free of charge.
e answer is simple: No. Funding your legacy will be in coordination with third parties. Thanksgiving– with one voice for the nine Connecticut Jewish Federations, four Jewish community centers, eight Jewish Family Services, and three Jewish nursing homes in Connecticut. JFACT is the government and commu- We Give Thanks For more information and to RSVP, We are blessed that our community's Legacy Team is headed by Carol Karsch, who retired last nity relations arm of the Jewish Federation system in the state, and lobbies for legislation that is of interest $12,115 year as executive director of the Jewish Community Foundation of Southern Arizona. Carol has to Connecticut’s Jewish community of approximately 130,000. Thursday, November 21st, 1:30 p.m. please contact our Director of deep ties to our community through her family, and lives here in Stamford when she is not in JFACT also advocates for the interests of Connecticut’s Jewish community, works in collaboration with a Tu B’Shvat–Rooted in Israel, Admissions, Daneet Brill at Israel. She has helped create Jewish legacies both in Tuscon and throughout the United States. variety of interfaith and secular nonprofit agencies advocating social services to the needy in our state, [email protected] Currently joining her on the Team are Rabbi Daniel Cohen, Ron Gross, Michael Moskowitz, and promotes statewide advocacy on behalf of Israel. Blossoming at Carmel Dues - Funds given to various professional institutional organizations. $6,717 Edith Samers, and Isaac Shalev. Wednesday, January 15th , 1:30 p.m. or 203-983-3503 Sandy, Newtown and Oklahoma Relief Funds $11,616 Our rst product will be a brochure that all organizations, agencies and synagogues can use to Grant-writing support for community in 2014 -- financial and in-kind support for UJF Grant-writing and the $20,000 Presidents’ Day– start this conversation with their supporters and members. Over the next year, we will be rolling support of grant writing by community agencies out a program for all to use. We are deeply committed to making this thrive: it will be a part of Hail to the Chief! Federation's living legacy for the whole community. Wednesday, February 12th, 1:30 p.m. TOTAL $1,240,902 We look forward to sharing more information soon. In the meantime, if you want to start your * Grants recommended by the Allocations Committee and approved by the UJF Board. Purim–Welcome to Shushan Legacy conversation now for any part of our community, please contact James Cohen at ** Gifts to the Overseas Bucket, additional gifts, and grants recommended by the Allocations Committee and approved by the UJF Board. Wednesday, March 12th, 1:30 p.m. [email protected]. *** Includes professional and administrative support ◊Due to the coming change in the UJF Fiscal year, these numbers include the 2012-3 budget year, United Jewish Federation 2013 allocations, and pass-through grants through December 31, 2013. A private K-8 school for children of all Let Your Good Deeds of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Darien Jewish affi liations Exceed Your Studies B77 TB7G7 United Jewish Federation 270 Lake Avenue, Greenwich, CT 06830 • (203) 863-9663 • www.carmelacademy.com 1035 Newfield Avenue, Suite 200, Stamford, CT 06905 of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Darien 203-321-1373 • WWW.UJF.ORG B77 TB7G7 ÊVisit www.ujf.org, facebook.com/stamfordFederation, or tweet UJF at ujfstamford

FILE: Carmel_NJV v3 10.16.13 LAYOUT: New SIZE: 5.125 x 7.875 CLIENT: PUBS: New Jewish Voice PAGE #: 1 REV #: 0 DATE: 10 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ december 2013 december 2013 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 11 United Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan & Darien and the Jewish Community Center Present Super Sunday & Community Mitzvah Day United Jewish Federation Sunday, December 8 of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Darien B77 TB7G7 Fun activities for families Face painting • Balloon animals PJ Library crafts and stories • 10:00am-12:pm Clowns • Free popcorn Pre-schoolers and Kindergarteners can join us for fun crafts and a chance to win PJ Library books. Free snow cones Have fun decorating superhero masks! Tzedakah Challenge 9:30 am-3 pm Calling kids of all ages! Bring your full tzedakah cup to Super Sunday! Throw the money into The coin counters and receive your own UJF Tzedakah Certificate & a Super Hero surprise! And a thank you listing in the New Jewish Voice. The class that brings in the most money wins a pizza party!

Ian Handler: Once giving Teen Room from 1-3 pm for 8th-12th graders Tzedakah, always giving Come make calls on Super Sunday. Tzedakah.” Pizza lunch will be served! 2005 2013 Community Mitzvah Day from 1-3 pm A day of unity for the Stamford Jewish Community! More than a dozen Stamford Jewish organizations will spearhead meaningful projects for children, families and adults for all ages. Join us to make rainbow bracelets for children in shelters, Challah for newcomers, decorate planter for seniors, bring gently used children’s books for children in need, donate 8 inches or more of your hair for kids with cancer in Israel, donate kosher non-perishable food items and much, much, more.

Co-Chaired by Rachel & Nimrod Dayan Be a Super Sunday Phone sponsor F or only $100, businesses, organizations and individuals can show their support of the s Jewish community while advertising to the hundreds of community members present Win a Starbuck on Super Sunday. Sign up to be a Super Sunday sponsor at www.ujf.org gift card by being the n Volunteer on Super Sunday first perso Sign up to be a Super Sunday volunteer at www.ujf.org to correctly Volunteer options include: identify and label • Organize Pledge Cards all of the • Set-Up (beginning at 7:30am) • Clean-Up UJF/JCC • Make Phone Calls • Registration Desk • PJ Library Crafts and Story time Superheroes! • Stuff Envelopes • Supervise Coin Counter 12 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ december 2013 december 2013 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 13 Tech Rules for Parents at BCDS Encouraging Exercise and December 2013 & January 2014 By Mara Dresner program. With power, comes Laptops in the classroom are responsibilities,” said Freund. Healthy Eating here to stay and with evolving “The second theme is practicing family central technology come new challenges good citizenship. For example, for parents. To help parents downloading images, movies or JCC’s New Early Childhood Wellness All events listed are open to the entire community in addition to members. You will be welcomed. navigate through this brave new music from file-sharing websites Program FOR THE WHOLE FAMILY KIDS GRADES pre K to 8 world, Bi-Cultural Day School is theft, and you don’t bully.” CHABAD JCC hosted a Middle School Parent The third area is boundaries. Built on the premise that it is easier foods, which are less healthy and should • Giant Menorah Lighting at Latham Park. Wednesday, Nov. 27, 5 pm. Jewish pride • Grades K-5 Movie Night. Saturday, Dec. 14, 6-8 pm. Bring friends, stuffed animals Technology Workshop on Octo- Freund says that since he pays to create good health habits than it is to be approached with caution.” as Fairfield County’s largest menorah is lit. Enjoy music, hot latkes & applesauce, for pajamas and pancakes. Enjoy a movie while eating breakfast for dinner. Fee: ber 15, led by Bud Freund, owner for his children’s devices, he change bad ones, the Jewish Commu- Discover CATCH: Early Childhood hot apple cider and special gelt treat for kids. For info, contact Chabad. $11 per child /$7 JCC members. of API, a tech support services makes the rules about filters to nity Center Sara Walker Nursery School employs a holistic approach to child • Chanukah Wonderland for Kids. Shows, meet Judas Maccabee, arts and crafts, • Dinner with Joseph. Wednesday, Jan. 8, 5:30-6:30 pm. Families with young children. Bud Freund led company. He also teaches tech- block websites or phone num- will soon implement Discover CATCH: health. At the Stamford JCC, it will in- multimedia station, Lego menorah building, Chanukah superstore. Food refreshments Share a pizza dinner and enjoy musical entertainment with Joseph and his Amazing nology classes at BCDS. a workshop on bers that he finds objectionable. the new child wellness program from clude the nursery school, KinderPlace and more. Monday, Dec. 2 for nursery school ages; Wednesday, Dec. 4 for school Technicolor Dreamcoat cast. “Our job as parents has technology for middle- That includes a “no-games until the JCC Association that seeks to bring child care, youth fitness programs and aged kids with parent. 5 - 7 pm. 109 Bedford Street, Stamford. Fee: $10 per child max • O-la-mi Reunion and Dance Party. Saturday, Jan. 11, 7-8:30 pm. For returning O-la-mi changed,” said Freund. He school parents at homework is done” rule. the gift of healthy habits to the young- Jewish Life programs. The program $36 family. Includes dinner. campers and those interested for next year’s summer program. Have a blast at the noted that parents need to be BCDS. “That is under my control as a est members of the community and engages teachers, children and families • Mega Family Brunch. Pancakes, waffles eggs and all the trimmings. Actvities and O-la-mi Tel Aviv night club with lights, glow sticks, games and music. Dress to impress. educated to supervise their children parent,” he said. “Parents need to partner their families. to work together to build healthy habits. fun for all ages. Wednesday, Dec. 25, 10:30 am - 12:30 pm. At Chabad. Fee: $12 Free. For info, contact Virginia Clark (203) 487-0973 or [email protected] online. He calls parents “digital immi- with their children and their schools.” To help address the nation’s obesity A series of parent tip sheets brings the per person, max $36 family. CHABAD grants,” having grown up with VCRs and Freund said that people should re- problem, JCC Association, in collabora- learning home from school and helps AGUDATH SHOLOM Community Chanukah Celebration Day. Light 4th candle and • Loaves for Love Cooking Marathon for grade school kids. Monday, Dec. 23, 9:30 am rotary phones, while their children are member that “everything is traceable. tion with the University of Texas School Havdalah sing with Rabbi Cohen and Chazzan Bokow. Latkes & hot cider. Saturday, Nov. families think more carefully about food to noon. From kneading dough to peeling vegetables to cooking. Free. 30, 6 - 7 pm. Bring art supplies for camps for children with cancer in NY & Israel. “digital natives,” who are being raised Parents need to explain to their kids of Public Health and its CATCH (Co- and nutrition. • P.O.G.S. (Parsha & Other Great Stuff) Grades K-2. A weekly science & cooking club. on Smartphones, tablets and digital TV. that you can’t hide what you’re doing ordinated Approach to Child Health) “Together, through Discover CATCH: • JCC FAMILY ROLLER SKATING PARTY. Saturday, Dec. 7, 6 - 8:30 pm. The JCC will Every Wednesday, (not 11/27, 12/4, 12/25, 1/1) 4 - 5 pm. $10 per session. “It’s different than when I went to on the computer.” Program, has created Discover: CATCH Early Childhood, we can create an envi- turn into a holiday roller rink for an evening of roller blading, music and arrts and • Bat Mitzvah Clubs & BMC Beyond. Sunday, Dec. 8, 6 - 7:30 pm for girls in grades school. There’s a whole new set of rules It also means stepping in to avoid Early Childhood. ronment where physical activity, health crafts. Enjoy latkes and donuts. Visit www.stamfordjcc.org for details and fees. 6-8. $20 per session. that need to be created so that our kids a potentially embarrassing situation. JCC Association is the umbrella or- education and healthy eating behaviors • HAVDALAH & HOOPS TOURNAMENT. Saturday, Jan. 18, 6:30 pm. Grades 6-12. • Chai Five Chesed Club. Grades 3-6. Get involved in community needs and projects. are safe online, respectful and making He relates a story about a mother who ganization for North American Jewish are valued and taught,” Johnson con- Father and son 3-on-3-basketball tournament. For info, contact Mo Concepcion Wednesdays, Dec. 11 & Jan. 15, 5:30 - 7 pm. Dinner included. Fee: $20 per session. the best use of the technology they have,” collected everyone’s cell phone at a Community Centers. cluded, “and help put the community’s (203) 487-0971 or [email protected]. Fee: $18 per person. TEMPLE BETH EL said Cheryl Bader, mother of eighth- sleepover. She said it was in case a parent Based on a foundation of Jewish youngest members on a lifelong path of JFS: The Race To College. Monday, Dec. 2, 5:30 pm. Pre-planning for college for 8th - 11th Adat (Community) Shabbat. Drop off program for grades K-2. Lively Shabbat - sights and grader Danny Goldblum. called early in the morning, but it was values, Discover: CATCH Early Child- health and caring for their bodies.” graders and their parents conducted by Claire Friedlander, JFS College Consultant. At Harry sounds. Prayers plus fun engaging songs, stories, and dancing. Followed by communal All BCDS middle-school students are really because one child occasionally still hood seeks to nurture a love of physical Initial funding for the program is Bennett Branch of Ferguson Library, 115 Vine Road. Free. For more info, contact Claire at Kiddush. Saturday, Dec. 14 & Jan. 25, 11 am. Free. required to use laptops, which offer op- sucks his thumb and she didn’t want a activity in children ages 3-5, and encour- provided through the generosity of [email protected] or (203) 921-4161. portunities for research, filmmaking and cell phone photo snapped and the image ages them to develop life-long healthy the Steven A. and Alexandra M. Co- TEMPLE SINAI connecting with Israeli classes, as well as posted to Facebook. eating habits. hen Foundation Inc. and Stamford YOUNG KIDS WITH PARENT/CAREGIVER Shevet Achim (Guys getting together). Sundays, Dec. 15 & Jan. 26, 12:20 - 2:20 pm. For learning common computer programs, And that leads to Freund’s next hard- “Children learn to have fun while Hospital. JCC Association will provide BI-CULTURAL DAY SCHOOL boys in Grade 7. Programming that addresses confidence, greed, materialism, including Word, PowerPoint and Excel, and-fast rule: No lashon hara (negative exercising and developing locomotor, ongoing support. Mommy, Daddy, Music and Me. For toddlers. With Jonathan Cahr and Rachel Bahar body image and healthy relationships. With Rabbi Jay TelRav. No Fee. all of which are used extensively in higher speech) online. “It lasts forever. If you non-locomotor,and manipulative skills To learn more about the JCC Associa- Wednesdays Dec 4 (chanukah special) & 18, Jan 8 (Tu B’shvat & trees special) & 22,1:30 - education and the business world. don’t want it on the front page of The in a series of age-appropriate, non-com- tion’s Discover: CATCH Early Childhood 2:10 pm. Music, movement, nursery rhymes, Jewish songs and story telling. Join in whenever TEENS GRADES 8+ Freund recommends that parents fo- New York Times, you don’t want to post it petitive activities,” said Anne Liss John- program, contact Johnson at 203-322- you can. Free. cus on three general areas when thinking online,” he said. son, managing director of the JCC Sara 6541 or [email protected]. JCC TEMPLE BETH EL about technology. While he said it can feel overwhelming Walker Nursery School. “They learn to The Jewish Community Center is a recipient • Martin Luther King, Jr. Day 3-on-3 Basketball Tournament. Monday, Jan. 20, 10 am. • Torah for Tots. Age 5 & under. A fun interactive service with stories, prayers and “The first key theme is empowerment. for parents sometimes, he also noted, differentiate between ‘go’ foods, which agency of United Jewish Federation of Greater Teens 15-18 years. Participants receive a t-shirt. For info, Mo Concepcion at songs. Communal Kiddush to follow. Saturday, Dec. 14 & Jan. 25, 11:15 am. Laptops are enormously powerful tools. “You’re not alone. We are all in this togeth- means that they’re healthy, and ‘whoa’ Stamford, New Canaan and Darien. (203) 498-0971 or [email protected]. $25 per person/JCC members $20. • Tot Kabbalat Shabbat. Age 5 & under with adult. Older siblings welcome. Service Most people don’t realize that they give er and we are all learning as we go.” • Midnight Run. Saturday, Jan. 25, 9 pm - 4 am. Grades 9-12. Collect and organize food, with music, stories and song led by Cantor George Mordecai and Rabbi Joshua a machine to their kids that’s capable Bi-Cultural Day School is a recipient toiletries, and clothing, and distribute them to people in need on the streets of Hammerman. Light Shabbat dinner for kids. Friday, Dec. 6 & Jan. 10, 5:30 pm. of creating Angry Birds or Stuxnet, the agency of United Jewish Federation of Greater New York City. Fee: a food donation approx. $20 in value. virus that shut down the Iranian nuclear Stamford, New Canaan and Darien. Honor Roll Students Show TEMPLE SINAI Tot Shabbat. Birth to age 7. Friday, Dec. 13, 5 pm & Saturday, Jan. 11, 9 am. Dancing singing, KULANU praying and playing. Learn about Shabbat and the holidays. Age appropriate services led by Classes meet each Wednesday 7 - 9 pm at JCC. Fun diverse opportunities for students to Torah Knowledge Rabbi TelRav and Cantor Morgovsky. Free. connect to Judaism. Fee: $36 /month. Contact [email protected] or (203) 321-1373 x104 BCDS students in third through eighth grades JCC SPEAK UP FOR ISRAEL are focusing on the weekly Torah portion or • Wonderful Ones 1-2 years, with Sandi Waldstreicher. Social classroom experience with free play, For 11th-12th graders. Israel gets a bad rap, especially on college campuses. Join an elite parasha. Parasha sheets are distributed art projects, stories, songs for children; parenting tips and discussions for parents. At the JCC group to learn how to respond and take action. Attend the AIPAC Policy Conference in on Fridays and students are quizzed on the Sara Walker Nursery School. Thursdays, 9:15 - 10:15 am, Jan. 9 - Apr. 10 (No class 1/20 & 2/17) Fees: March. For info, contact the JCC Israeli Shaliach at (203) 487-0961. A program of JCC and information on Mondays. Those who answer $234/JCC Members $195 (13 sessions, prorated). UJF. Meets monthly Sundays, 5 - 7 p m at the JCC. more than 85 percent correctly are named to • Movin’ and Groovin’ 12-30 months. Children will swing, spin, KURIANSKY TEEN TZEDAKAH CORPS the “Parshah Honor Roll.” The sheets were jump, stretch, leap, roll and climb. Rhythm, music and song. Help develop fine/gross motor, For 10th graders – teaching teens about philanthropy and how to make grants to non- originally developed by Rabbi Abraham listening and social skills. Mondays, Tuesdays or Wednesdays, 10:30 - 11:15 am. profits. Sundays, 7 pm at the JCC. Contact [email protected] or (203) 321-1373 x104. Lieberman z’l. Jan. 6 – Apr. 9 (not 1/20, 2/17-19) Fees: $299 / JCC Members, $247 for 13 sessions. MARCH OF THE LIVING “The reintroduction of the sheets/quizzes brings • Music Together at the JCC. Birth-5 years. Nurture your child’s natural enthusiasm for music and movement. To register, call Music Together of Fairfield County at (203) 256-1656. For 10th-12th graders. In April/May 2014, March of the Living will bring Jewish teens from back a fond remembrance of Rabbi Lieberman all over the world to Poland to march from Auschwitz to Birkenau on Holocaust Memorial CHABAD and how proud he was of the students and Day, and then to Israel to observe Israel’s Memorial and Independence Days. Contact Tiny Treasures. Birth to 30 months. Warm Jewish atmosphere. Connect with other moms. Fee: their zest for Torah knowledge,” said Yospa Danielle Alexander [email protected] or (203) 321-1373 x104. Lieberman (left), Rabbi Lieberman’s widow, $15 per class. First class free. a 30-plus-year teacher, pictured with Michal • Wednesdays, (not 12/25 & 1/1) 9:15 - 10:15 am. FRIENDSHIP CIRCLE. For volunteers in Grades 9-12 Smart, director of Judaic studies. • Fridays, (not 12/27, 1/3) 10 - 10:45 am. “Got Shabbat?” feel, taste, touch, see and • At Home: Every week, pairs of teen volunteers visit special needs children in their experience a hands-on Shabbat celebration. homes offering friendship and unconditional support. • Children’s/Teen Circle: 15 Sundays through the year. Volunteer to work with special needs children. Activities include art, music, cooking and sports. At Chabad. For info, CHILDREN WITH SPECIAL NEEDS contact Malya Shmotkin (203) 329-0015 #414, [email protected] Friendship Circle: Teen friends and social and Judaic programs. Contact: Malya Shmotkin (203) BBYO 329-0015 #414 or [email protected] For Grades 8-12. Meets every 2nd Monday 7 - 9 pm at the JCC. Leviticus AZA (Boys) & JCC Tikvah BBG (Girls). Teens engaged in opportunities for leadership, athletic, social and com- • Jump Start: Therapeutic classes for ages 2-4. Language, social and motor skills encouraged. munity service. Free. Safe, fun, accepting environment. JEWISH STUDENT CONNECTION. Grades 9-12 • R&R (Relax & Recreate) Social group for grades 6-8. Fun, structured, safe environment. Build Meets Tuesdays at 2 pm at Stamford High in room 925 & Thursdays at 2:05pm at Westhill social skills and relationships. Wednesdays, 3:30 pm; Sundays, 1:30 pm. Jan. 8 - Mar. 30 (not High in Mrs. Tobias’ room. 1/15, 2/12, 2/28, 3/12) Fee: $250 / $200 JCC members for 10 sessions. Transportation assistance from public schools available. TEMPLE SINAI • Music, Movement, and Yoga. Parents and children grades K-5. Mark Covello provides Rosh Chodesh for Girls. It’s a Girl’s Thing. Grades 6-12. Led by Erica Santiago. Sundays, techniques to work on improving concentration, mindfulness, and self-control, hand-eye Dec. 15 & Jan. 26, 12:20 - 2:20 pm. Builds self-esteem, leadership skills and Jewish identity. Free. coordination and thoughtful breath. Sundays, Jan. 5 - Feb. 9. Grades K-2 11 - 11:30 am. CHABAD Grades 3-5 11:30 am - noon. $150/JCC members $120 for 6 sessions Loaves for Love Cooking Marathon for grade school kids. Monday, Dec 23, 9:30 am - Contact Dinushka De Silva at (203)487-0946 or [email protected] for R&R and Music noon. From kneading dough to peeling vegetables to cooking. Free. Movement & Yoga. Contact Sue McGraw (203) 487-0966 for Jumpstart To RSVP or for more information on these events and groups, contact…. Agudath Sholom: 301 Strawberry Hill Ave, Stamford • (203) 358-2200 • www.agudathsholom.org BBYO: BBYO Regional Office (203) 389-2127 • [email protected] • www.cvrbbyo.net Chabad: 770 High Ridge Road, Stamford • (203) 3-CHABAD #418 • [email protected] • www.chabadhousestamford.org Friendship Circle: 770 High Ridge Road, Stamford • Malya Shmotkin • (203) 329-0015 #414 • [email protected] • www.friendshipct.com JCC: Jewish Community Center: 1035 Newfield Ave, Stamford • (203) 322-7900 • www.stamfordjcc.org JFS: Jewish Family Service: (203) 921-4161 • 733 Summer Street, Suite 602, Stamford • www.ctjfs.org • Claire Friendlander (203) 921-4161#109 • [email protected] Jewish Student Connection: Rebecca Shapiro [email protected] (914) 481-5505 Kulanu: Danielle Alexander (203) 321-1373 #104 • [email protected] • www.KulanuStamford.org Temple Beth El: 350 Roxbury Road, Stamford • (203) 322-6901 • www.tbe.org Temple Sinai: 458 Lakeside Drive, Stamford • (203) 322-1649 • www.templesinaistamford.org • Melissa Cohavi • [email protected] 14 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ december 2013 december 2013 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 15 Friendship Day: A Cause for Celebration Score for the Cure Temple Sinai Partners with By Chanie Teldon More than 500 people came to the Friendship Carmel Academy Raises $1,000 for Breast Cancer ConverJent Circle Center in Stamford on October 13 to celebrate By Julie Lapin staff wore their pink shirts and cheered Temple Sinai recently partnered with form of a situated documentary. Working as the spirit of friendship and the success of its new fall Pink was the name of the game at for the game. ConverJent, an organization that nurtures, a reporter for the Jewish Time Jump Gazette, fund-raising event, Friendship Day. The Friendship Carmel Academy on October 15 as “This was very empowering for our develops and spreads Jewish games for learn- the player is tasked by their editor with Day celebration, a free family event for individuals the students, faculty and varsity soccer student leaders,” said Carmel’s student ing. Temple Sinai sixth-graders and parents traveling back through time to Greenwich of all ages and abilities, featured activities ranging team banded together to raise money government co-advisor Yoni Shear. “They participated in Jewish Time Jump: New York Village section of New York City of the early from puppet and animal shows to crafts, sports and for breast cancer awareness during took this on as a challenge and encour- on October 20. Jewish Time Jump: New York 1900s. The sixth-grade students and parents baking. It concluded with an African drum show the school’s annual Score for the Cure aged their peers to participate. It was is a mobile, place-based augmented reality said the experience helped bring Jewish and the announcement of the raffle-prize winner. fund-raiser. impressive to see how excited they got, game, simulation and interactive story in the See “Sinai” on page 19 Raffle tickets were awarded for every $100 donated The student body raised $1,000 for the how seriously they took the fund-raiser or raised by an individual. As the top teen fund-raiser Susan G. Komen Foundation in the day-long and how well they worked together as a Cotton candy in one hand, funky glasses in the other; some fund-raiser. Students and staff who made a team. The payoff was raising $1,000. for Friendship Day, Sally Klapper earned her raffle wonderful volunteers took advantage of the activities at prize, a new MacBook Pro. donation were permitted to wear pink shirts “This is Carmel Academy’s third year Friendship Day. L-r: Alexa Schwartz, Maya Weiner, Sophie and jeans to school. The day ended with a holding a ‘Score for the Cure’ fund-raiser Due to the online fund-raising efforts of teen and Teitel and Mia Brenner. adult volunteers and the generosity of hundreds Score for the Cure soccer game. and soccer game. Each year, the enthu- of donors, The Friendship Circle exceeded its People of all ages participated in the Drum Circle finale. Carmel’s soccer players traded their siasm has grown and the participation fund-raising target of $100,000. In addition to the Wall Street Comes blue and white soccer jerseys for pink increases,” Shear said. “This year was our funds raised, Friendship Day garnered many new in the lives of individuals with special needs, visit shirts, which they wore during the game. most successful yet, with our students volunteers for its diverse programs. The Friend- www.FriendshipCT.com or contact Program Director The student council organized a game pulling together to break our past fund- ship Circle currently offers programs to more than Malya Shmotkin at 203-329-0015, ext. 414. to BCDS fund-raiser, selling pink t-shirts, snacks raising record. There was a tremendous and raffle tickets. A sea of pink dotted amount of school spirit and pride.” 100 special-needs individuals and their families Friendship Circle is a recipient of United Jewish By Mara Dresner the sidelines as students, parents and See “Cure” on page 18 throughout Fairfield County. To learn more about Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and People visiting Bi-Cultural Day School shouldn’t the Friendship Circle and how to make a difference Darien. be surprised to hear students talking about hot stocks and P/E ratios (price-to-earnings). They’re probably members of the school’s new Wall Street Club. “The idea to start the club originated from the inter- est I noticed from students when I would discuss my background in finance. Popular culture seems to have led us into a time when investing is cool, yet our col- lective understanding seems to have moved very little,” said club advisor Ed Miranti, a BCDS math teacher who has a financial engineering degree. “The Wall Street Club allows students to have a con- nection to the world around them, tap into their interests and demonstrate an increased awareness of how math plays a role in their world. Students are becoming more analytical through this club. They are paying attention to numbers in a way that they might not have before,” said Director of Secular Studies Adrianne Robinson. About 20 students participate in the club, which meets on Thursday afternoons. The students were divided into small groups and given $10,000 (in pretend money) to invest in a minimum of five stocks. Google, Apple, Microsoft and McDonald’s were popular choices. Carmel Academy students and staff wore pink on October 15 and raised $1,000 for breast “We invested in Verizon because we thought with cancer awareness during the school’s annual “Score For The Cure” fund-raiser. the amount of phones coming out, they would get bigger. We also invested in Wal-Mart because we think with the ‘Black Friday’ sales coming up, a lot of people PJ Library and Children with are going to buy more stuff at a cheaper price,” said eighth-grader Sam Terr. Seventh-grader Nathan Links has several reasons for Special Needs joining the club: “I wanted to know how to invest for when I’m older. I also thought it seemed interesting. PJ Library founder Harold Grinspoon young children across North America And I want to make money.” is familiar with special needs. Growing up each month, starting at age 6 months, “Positive and negative results of trading days on as a child with dyslexia, he faced many ob- and continuing to age 8. But there is American stock exchanges are typically explained us- stacles. The PJ Library program of United no age limit for participation in the ing percentages. By investigating movements in the Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, program for children with special needs. market, and in particular equities, students can see New Canaan and Darien wants to continue The books sent to the child and family one way to apply the skills they have accrued to the his legacy and honor him by touching will be age appropriate to the learning real world,” said Miranti. families who face similar obstacles. abilities of the child. Books can be sent It’s also a way to use math as a lens to look at the world “We are very excited for people in the until the family decides they no longer as a whole; for example, how the recent government community to know that PJ Library of- wish to participate in the program. The shutdown affected stock prices and how instability in fers books to families with special-needs family does not have to meet parameters the Middle East influences the price of oil. children no matter what age the child is! to determine their needs; simply reach- “Typically, we think of politics as social studies and It is our hope to include these families ing out to Alexander will be sufficient we think of the percentage part as math. This ties to- and make them a long-lasting part of for inclusion in this program. gether a lot of subjects. Understanding mathematics our dynamic and rewarding PJ Library Anyone with a child with any special helps us understand the world; it’s not just an isolated program for many years to come,” says learning needs who is older than the stated subject,” said Miranti. Danielle Alexander, PJ Library coordina- age group, and who may benefit from re- “It also has become a connection with their parents,” tor and director of community engage- ceiving Jewish books each month, should noted Robinson. “Parents are impressed and amazed with ment and outreach for UJF. contact Alexander at [email protected] or what they take away from that class. It gives the students It is a goal of PJ Library to reach out 203-321-1373, ext. 104. “PJ Library welcomes a new platform – they’re now turning the pages in The to children in the community who may your child’s enrollment in the PJ Library and New York Times to check the stocks instead of turning on have special needs. PJ Library sends Jew- will be delighted to work with you to meet a television. These are the little victories that make us ish-themed books to more than 140,000 your family’s needs,” said Alexander. proud to be educators. This club has brought new found confidence to our young mathematicians and an eagerness to take their new skills to the street – Wall Street.” J Do you LOVE to read? Bi-Cultural Day School is a recipient agency of United Jewish J Do you LOVE to be around children? Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Darien. J Are you looking for a WAY to contribute? Odyssey Continued from page 3 Join our corps of 125 volunteers as a READING PARTNER! venue and time to be determined. For additional informa- Please contact: Marlyn Agatstein, Director of Reading Partners tion check JHS’s website at http://jhsfc-ct.org/programs. at [email protected] or 203-321-1373 x115 html. Registration for the JHS featured January program online (optional, but preferred) can be made by visiting United Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Darien https://jhsfcjanfeaturedprogram.eventbrite.com and B77 TB7G7 clicking on “sign up with email.” Those with questions about the program should contact Marcie Schoenfeld at 203-359-9148 or [email protected], or visit JHSFC’s website at http://jhsfc-ct.org/programs.html. The Jewish Historical Society of Fairfield County is a beneficiary agency of United Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Darien. ÊVisit www.ujf.org, facebook.com/stamfordFederation, or tweet UJF at ujfstamford 16 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ december 2013 december 2013 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 17 Comparative Religion Class Visits Historic Church Students in Rabbi Seth Riemer’s “Comparative Re- Jews and early Christians in the Roman era. ence has for my students as Jews,” says Rabbi Riemer. “It ligion” class at the Jewish High School of Connecticut The students toured the historic church – even peek- provides a kind of shock of recognition: in reflecting attempt to tackle some pretty challenging questions. ing down into the centuries-old crypt – and met with on another religious culture, they are learning, I think, Recently, they took a field trip to Center Church in the church’s pastor, The Rev. Dr. Sandra Olsen. The to appreciate their own all the more! As a teacher and ADULT EDUCATION New Haven to bring an even greater perspective to visit gave students an opportunity to mull over basic rabbi, I am thrilled by what I see as a very intellectually their first major topic: a comparison of Judaism and differences between Jewish and Christian ideas about and spiritually engaged, enthusiastic group of students Christianity, with particular emphasis on theological God, human nature and community. who (each in his and her delightfully unique way!) bring DECEMBER 2013 & JANUARY 2014 background and parting of the ways between Pharisaic “I am especially struck by the value this study experi- See “Class” on page 18 You are invited to attend all classes listed regardless of your membership status. See contact info below for more info, to confirm programs and to register.

What’s On for Adults UJF jcc December 2013 & January 2014 TAPESTRY: Annual evening of Jewish Learning. Saturday, Nov. 23, 6:30 Lunch And Learn With Matan Samovsky, Israeli Shaliach. Series focused You are invited to attend all programs listed regardless of your membership status. pm. Program starts with Havdalah. Then choose two lectures to attend - on topics and current events related to Israel. Sessions will often include See contact info below for more info, to confirm programs and to register. choose from diverse speakers on a wide range of topics. Desert reception to short videos and time for questions and answers. Bring your lunch. OPEN EVENTS ADULT VOLUNTEER OPPORTUNITIES follow. At the JCC (Co-sponsor). Desert (dairy) provided. Thursdays, 12 - 1 pm at the JCC. Dec. 19: The Israeli Arab Conflict: Brief Overview. Jan. 16: The Arab Spring. Feb. 13: JCC ISRAELI FILM SERIES UJF’S WOMEN’S PHILANTHROPY IEngage. A discussion about the enduring significance of the State of Israel Award-winning films direct from Israel each month followed by a discussion led Winter holiday toy drive to stock David’s Treasure Tree for sick children at Stamford for contemporary Jews worldwide. The course, developed by the Shalom Wait! What’s the difference between an Israeli Arab and a Palestinian? by JCC’s Israeli Shaliach, Matan Samovsky. Thursdays, 7 pm. Hospital. Drop off toys at UJF by Dec. 3 or help fill the “Tree” at Stamford Hospital on Hartman Institute, explores key questions such as why should American Jews Free. To register or for info, contact Matan Samovsky at (203) 487-0961 or Dec. 12: “Fill the Void” Jan. 9: “Bonjour Monsieur Shlomi”. $5 suggested donation for Wednesday, Dec. 4, 11:45 am. Co-sponsored with Bi-Cultural Day School, Carmel Academy care about Israel? What values should a Jewish state embody? How can Israel [email protected]. and Hadassah. For info contact Anat Chavkin [email protected] or (203) 321-1377 x 108 each film. To register or for more info, contact Matan Samovsky at (203) 487-0961 or create and maintain a Jewish democracy? How should a Jewish state exercise “Kaddish: Women’s Voices” Wednesday, Jan. 15, 7 pm at the JCC. Co-authors [email protected] JCC military power ethically? Each iEngage class includes a video lecture by Rabbi Michal Smart and Barbara Ashkenas will discuss their book. A program of JCC TOURS Kosher Lunch Program for Seniors. Help set up and serve lunch on Tuesdays, Thursdays and Fridays. Contact Connie Freeman: (203) 487-0983 or [email protected] Donniel Hartman which frames the class, followed by a discussion facilitated the Jewish Arts & Film Festival of Fairfield County. For information, contact • Yale University Gallery. Visit the oldest but now renovated and expanded by rotating local rabbis. Sundays, Jan. 5 – Feb. 9, 9:30 - 11:30 am. At the JCC Nancy Schiffman at (203) 487-0941 or [email protected] university art museum. Tuesday, Dec. 10. Guided tour of collection highlights JFS led by the Gallery’s teaching staff. Lunch on your own at a local eatery. Fee: Drivers needed to deliver food from the Kosher Food Pantry to individuals in the (Cosponsor). Fee: $15 per session/$50 series. Includes continental breakfast. $32/$28 JCC member: includes admission and transportation. Register by community. Contact Rebekah Kanefsky: (203) 921-4161 or [email protected] Minimum enrollment of ten students needed. To register or for info, contact JEWISH HISTORICAL SOCIETY Nov. 21. JHS (JEWISH HISTORICAL SOCIETY) Rabbi Molly Karp, Adult Education Coordinator: [email protected] • Discovery Museum. One hour docent led special exhibition on Connecticut • Harry Rosenbaum Judaica Library. At the JCC. Cover 2 hour slot (or more once a L’Chaim! Yankel’s Tavern: Jew’s, Liquor, and Life in the Kingdom of Poland. Inventions and Innovations. Monday, Jan. 6. Displayed objects and photographs week. You’ll be trained on the computer system and the arrangement of books in Speaker: Dr. Glenn Dynner, Professor at Sarah Lawrence, Scholar of East Euro- illustrate the Bridgeport carriage trade, early automobile design, construction the library. Call (203) 487-0957 AGUDATH SHOLOM pean Jewry and author. Sunday, Dec. 8, 10:30 am. (Nosh at 10 am) At Agudath of the Merritt Parkway, Sikorsky helicopters, Hamilton Sunstrand and the • Help protect the pieces of our Jewish history: Do you enjoy finding out early space program and Columbia Records. Enjoy a private planetarium about our region’s early Jewish settlers? Do you want to help Jewish organizations Challenges in Jewish Education Panel: “Day School Affordability: The Sholom. For info: Marcie (203) 359-9148 or [email protected] show and time for a self-guided exhibit and gallery tour. Includes kosher box retain their history and documents? Call (203) 359-2196 Challenge…and Practical Solutions.” Saturday, Jan. 11, immediately after The Last Sixty Years of Reform Judaism, A Very Personal Odyssey. lunch. Member $35/ Community $40. Register by Dec. 23. morning services and kiddush at approx 12 noon. Featuring Rabbi Joshua Speaker: Dr. Eugene B. Borowitz. Sunday, Jan. 12. Place And Time To Be Tours depart JCC at 9 am. Limited capacity. Fee includes admission and HADASSAH Tea@2. Every other Tuesday, 2 - 3 pm in the Family Lounge, Oncology floor, Stamford Lookstein, Head of School, Westchester Day School and Harry Bloom, Strategy Announced For info: Marcie (203) 359-9148 or [email protected] transportation. Register online at stamfordjcc.org or contact Connie Cirillo Hospital. Volunteers bake desserts, ‘schlep’ and set up OR serve the tea to patients, Manager for Financial Sustainability at the Partnership for Excellence in Jewish Book Talks Wednesdays at 10 am at the JCC. For info: Marcie (203) 359-9148. Freeman at (203) 487-0983 or [email protected]. family members and staff. For info: email Connie at [email protected] TEMPLE BETH EL COMEDY NIGHT Education (PEJE). Rabbi David Israel of Bi-Cultural Day School, will moderate • Dec. 18: “The Imposter Bride” by Nancy Richter.A young woman refugee Two headliner comedians, Marion Grodin and Buddy Fitzpatrick. Saturday, Dec. 7, the panel discussion. arrives in Montreal in 1945 to marry a man she never met. Presenter: 8 pm at Temple Beth El. The entire community is invited to join the fun. Desert SINGLES & YOUNG PROFESSIONALS Contemporary Issues in Halacha. Fifth Annual Woman Scholar Program. Judy Katz. served. BYOB. Fee: $36 per person. For reservations and info, (203) 322-6901 x TEMPLE BETH EL YOUNG JEWISH PROFESSIONALS Wednesdays, Jan. 15 – Feb. 12, 7:30 pm. Speaker: Dina Najman, Head of • Jan. 22: “Rav Hisda’s daughter” by Maggie Anton. A compelling heroine 301 or [email protected]. (See Article). Happy Hour at Hudson Grille. Thursday, Dec. 12, 7 - 10 pm. For info, join the Kehilat Orach Eliezer, Instructor of Judaic Studies at SAR Academy. Open to and a vivid picture of Jewish life in 3rd century Babylon. Presenter: TEMPLE SINAI Facebook group “Fairfield County YJP at TBE” or email [email protected] men and women. Rabbi Nicole Wilson-Spiro. • MARTIN LUTHER KING SERVICE. Friday, Jan. 17. Moving tribute to a great CHABAD Dvar Yom B’Yomo. With Rabbi Walk. Mondays 12:20 pm at Bicultural Day leader. Temple Sinai choir and Union Baptist Church Choir to sing Hebrew folk • 20s & 30s Shabbat Dinner. Enjoy a four-course meal; be uplifted by Shabbat songs and gospel arrangements. Share a festive meal. At Temple Sinai. (See songs, and inspired by the shared words of Torah. Friday, Dec. 13, 7 pm. At School, 2186 High Ridge Road. An in-depth look at one topical issue each TEMPLE BETH EL article) the Shemtov Home, 10 Brandt Road. Free. week, either from the weekly portion or an upcoming Jewish holiday. Lunch and Learn. Jewish Fairy Tales with Dr. Elissa Kaplan. 4 Mondays • COOKING CLUB. Thursdays Monthly. Dec. 12 & Jan. 23, 6:30 pm. • Café Chabad. Open to Singles & Couples. Great company, food & good times! Parsha Perspectives and Paradigms. Tuesdays at noonwith Rabbi Daniel Join chefs Betsy Stone and Randy Skigen for a holiday odyssey of Jewish Join us for the night on the town. Saturday, Jan. 11, 8 pm. At the home of Dec. 2 – Dec. 23. Noon - 1 pm. Read and experience Jewish fairy tales. cooking. Be wiling to get your hands dirty. Fee: $36 per session. Craig & Randi Price. Fee: $25 per person. Cohen. Glean relevant life messages from the weekly torah portion in this Fee: Free members/$18 others. YOGA engaging and upbeat class. Free. • JCC NESHAMA YOGA. Fridays, Jan. 24 – Apr. 11 (not 2/14), 9 - 10:30 am. FOR WOMEN Taste of Torah. Fridays 8:15 - 8:45 am with Rabbi Daniel Cohen. Unlock TEMPLE SINAI At the JCC. A fusion of Kundalini Yoga and Jewish spirituality - provide a a fresh perspective and fascinating idea from the Torah. Deepen your pathway to connect with G-d on a deep spiritual level. Led by Jackie Tepper CHABAD JWC Shabbat Speaker: Barbara Kavadias, Acting Executive Director, ARZA, The understanding of the Torah as a guide for life through the prism of classic Robinov. Fee $231 / $198 JCC members for 11 sessions. • PACKAGE PARTY. Bring a wrapped gift (worth $10 or more) to benefit “Loaves Reform Israel Fund. Friday, Jan. 31, 7:30 pm. Topic: The role ARZA plays in • TEMPLE BETH EL SHAL-OHM YOGA. Thursdays, 5:30 - 6:45 pm. of Love”. Featuring a martini bar. Tuesday, Dec. 3, 7:45 pm. At the home of commentators. Get a spiritual boost for Shabbat. Gentle Vinyassa sequence (Yoga that flows) led by Pamela Tinkham. Beautiful Vered Links. Fee: $15/JWC members free. both Israeli and American Jewish life, Liberal Judaism in Israel, and why it chanting by Cantor Mordecai to start and end. All levels welcome. If you cannot • PAINT DRAW & MORE. An evening of fun, laughter, painting and drinks; masterpiece is important for liberal Jews to visit and support Israel. sit on the floor, you can do chair yoga. Bring Yoga mat, water bottle and towel. painted by you that looks fabulous and professional! Monday, Jan. 13, 7:45 pm at HADASSAH Paint Draw & More, Atlantic Street. Fee: $45/$35 JWC Members “Beautiful Souls” Book Discussion & Centropa. Taught by Melissa Cohavi. At Temple Beth El. Fee: $12 per session / $10 TBE Member. Book Club Monday, Dec. 9, 7 pm. What impels ordinary people to defy authority ISRAELI FOLK DANCING: SENIORS • Tuesday, Dec. 10, 7 pm: “In the Garden of Beasts” by Eric Larson and convention and resist evil? Not only radicals seeking to overthrow the Thursdays at Temple Beth El. Beginners: 6:45 - 7:30 pm. Open Session: 7:30 - • Wednesday, Jan. 15, 7 pm: “Suddenly a Knock at the Door” by Etgar system but also true believers who cling to their convictions. Book draws 10:00 pm. Fee: $12/$10 TBE Member. For more info, contact Leng at (203) 912-4086 JCC SOCIAL SENIOR PROGRAMS Keret. For location and more info, contact [email protected] or or [email protected] Tuesdays, Thursdays and Fridays at the JCC. on research by moral psychologists and neuroscientists and examines the (203) 829-9341 • Tuesdays & Thursdays: Chair Exercise: 10:15 - 11 am. Senior Life Enhancement choices and dilemmas we all face when our principles collide with our MAH JONGG Classes: 11 - 11:45 am. Topics cover local to international events, health and • At Temple Sinai. Mondays 6:30 - 9 pm & Wednesdays 1 - 4 pm. wellness, Jewish history, unique personal stories etc. loyalties and duties. Discuss the choices we make in life and how they No Fee. Bring your own card. Contact Temple Sinai for more info. • Fridays: Morning movie: 10 am. Discussions about Israel with Matan Samovsky: 11 am. CHABAD affect those around us. No fee • JCC Lessons. Learn to play from Mah Jongg masters. All levels welcome. • Kosher Lunch each day, 12 - 1 pm. Chanukah lunch, Dec. 3; New Year’s lunch, Lunch & Learn. Explore Kabbalistic insights on different topics that pertain Beginners’ Torah Study Taught by Melissa Cohavi. Every Friday, noon - 1 Contact Connie Cirillo Freeman (203) 487-0983 or [email protected] Dec. 26. No lunch Nov. 28 & Dec. 25. to schedule lessons. Thursdays, 1 - 3 pm. Fee: $35/$25 JCC member for 5 • Thursdays: Fun and Games, 1 - 3 pm. Mah Jongg, Scrabble, Bridge, etc. to our lives today. Every Wednesday (not 12/25, 1/1), 11:30 am - 12:45 pm. pm. Have you always wanted to learn about Torah but don’t have the sessions. All welcome. Transportation available for Stamford residents. No prior sign up necessary Lunch served. $5 per class. time? Or maybe you think it might be too difficult? A beginners’ Torah JCC LEARN TO CROCHET except 2 day advance reservation for lunch and for transportation. Fee: Free except $3 An Intimate Discussion on Love and Marriage.Lecture with Rivky Slonim. study group meets to have basic discussions about the Torah, its laws, its Tuesdays, Jan. 7 – Mar. 25 (not 1/14, 2/4-11, 3/18) 1 - 2 pm. suggested donation for lunch and $1 suggested donation each way for transportation. For info: Connie Cirillo Freeman 203-487-0983 or [email protected] For men and women. Sunday, Dec. 15, 7 pm. Location TBA. stories, and the ancient people. Bring your lunch. No fee In 4 sessions learn how to crochet a scarf or hat. Taught by expert Madeline Field. Limited capacity. Contact Connie Cirillo Freeman at (203) 487-0983 or JCC RETIRED MEN’S CLUB [email protected]. Fee: $42 / $32 JCC members for 4 sessions, plus Meets Mondays. Schedule: 10 -11 am: fellowship, humor, and vibrant discussions FOR MORE INFORMATION ON THESE AND OTHER PROGRAMS AND TO REGISTER CONTACT: cost of materials (purchased separately). (members only) 11 am - 1 pm: speaker and kosher lunch. (community welcome). Bridge game after lunch. 2 days advance lunch reservations required, $3 suggested donation. At the JCC. Member Free/Community $50 per year. For info: Connie UJF Jewish Education & Temple Beth El Chabad Congregation Agudath Sholom UConn Center for Judaic & Cirillo Freeman 203-487-0983 or [email protected] Engagement Program 350 Roxbury Rd., Stamford 770 High Ridge Road, Stamford 301 Strawberry Hill Ave., Stamford Middle Eastern Studies FOR MORE INFORMATION / ADDRESSES: (203) 321-1373 (203) 322-6901, ext. 306 (203) 3-CHABAD, ext. 418 (203) 358-2200 1 University Place, Stamford www.ujf.org [email protected] [email protected] www.agudathsholom.org (203) 251-9525 Agudath Sholom: 301 Strawberry Hill Ave, Stamford (203) 358-2200 www.agudathsholom.org [email protected] www.tbe.org www.stamford.uconn.edu/cjmes Chabad: 770 High Ridge Road, Stamford (203) 3-CHABAD #418 [email protected] www.chabadhousestamford.org [email protected] JCC: Jewish Community Center 1035 Newfield Ave, Stamford (203) 322-7900 www.stamfordjcc.org JFS: Jewish Family Service: (203) 921-4161; Stamford office: 733 Summer Street, Suite 602; Westport office: 431 Post Road East, Suite 11 www.ctjfs.org Temple Sinai JCC - Jewish Community Center Jewish Historical Society Young Israel of Stamford Jewish Historical Society (203) 321-1373 #150 [email protected] www.stamfordhistory.org/jhslfc.htm 458 Lakeside Drive, Stamford 1035 Newfield Ave., Stamford (203) 321-1373, ext. 150 69 Oaklawn Ave., Stamford Temple Beth El: 350 Roxbury Road, Stamford (203) 322-6901 www.tbe.org (203) 322-1649 (203) 322-7900 [email protected] or (203) 348-3955 Temple Sinai: 458 Lakeside Drive, Stamford (203) 322-1649 www.templesinaistamford.org www.templesinaistamford.org www.stamfordjcc.org www.stamfordhistory.org/jhslfc.htm www.yistamford.org 18 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ december 2013 december 2013 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 19 voices and views Food Collected for JFS Kosher Two Choirs Sing with One Voice On Friday evening, January 17, in Sinai, led by Kathy Storfer. The group now honor of the life and legacy of Martin shares their music with the congregation young voices Food Pantry Luther King Jr., Temple Sinai’s sanctu- regularly throughout the year. Congregation Agudath Sholom orga- ary will be filled with song. For the sixth All these years later, the two singing nized and collected more than 100 bags year running, Temple Sinai will welcome groups feel they have become one in What the Friendship Circle Means to Me of food with more than 1,000 items for members of the Union Baptist Church’s friendship and in music. Kolot Sinai and By Karen Lob your haircut to planning an outing with the visit rewarding. the JFS Kosher Food Pantry. Sanctuary Choir to join with Kolot Sinai, the Sanctuary Choir rehearse together in My family has been involved with the a friend. For a while, Ellie only wants to What I value most about our friendship Since 2008, the number of individuals the temple’s volunteer adult choir, as they the weeks leading up to this joint service Friendship Circle for more than 10 years. read this book, but as she begins to trust is the fact that Ellie and I completely ac- assisted with food and gift cards from the come together in fellowship, worship and and they now share in various singing For most of this time, I watched from me, she lets me pick different ones. cept each other and only see the good in Kosher Food Pantry has increased about song. These two singing communities will events together during the year. “It has the sidelines as teens came to our home Fast forward to 2013. Ellie and I read at one another. In a teen world, where social 20 percent each year. Organizations that share a traditional Shabbat dinner, where become a meaningful camaraderie which each Sunday to play with my brother, least four books per visit. In between read- dynamics are often confusing and pain- would like to collect Kosher Food Pantry they will break bread together, spend speaks to the shared ethics, values, and Mark. Although I participated in a few ing, we use letters to spell out the names ful, I cherish the fact that we completely donations for JFS are asked to contact some time in conversation and then priorities of the constituents of both sibling and family events, I thought of of her classmates and family members. trust one another and feel free to say and Rebekah Kanefsky at 203-921-4161 or mingle their prayers and voices during groups,” said Cantor Micah Morgovsky. the Friendship Circle as Mark’s world, We’ve been to Broadway performances do whatever we want together. This year [email protected] for assistance. To a music-filled Shabbat service. The musical service, featuring both Kolot not mine. together, birthday dinners, walks in the marks our third year of friendship and receive assistance from the JFS Kosher The tradition started six years ago when Sinai and the Sanctuary Choir, is open to Four years ago, Sora Margolis Milecki, park and I’ve even driven her home from even though I’ll be away at college next Food Pantry, contact Rita Halpert at the Union Baptist Church Sanctuary the entire community and Temple Sinai the program coordinator, asked me to at- dance class. Although our fixed routine at year, I know the special bond we have 203-921-4161 or [email protected]. Full Choir, under the baton of Professor Louis welcomes any and all guests to this celebra- tend an evening of appreciation in honor her home can feel monotonous at times, will last beyond our weekly visits. confidentiality is assured. JFS CEO Matt Greenberg loaded a car with Gibson, first came to sing at Temple Sinai. tory commemoration of Reverend King. The of the teen volunteers. She thought I all it takes is a smile from Ellie when we Karen Lob is a 12th-grader at Greenwich Karen Lob (on right) with her friend, Ellie The JFS Kosher Food Pantry accepts all collections from Congregation Agudath After experiencing the “spiritual sound goal of the service, in addition to honoring could answer questions that potential finish reading “Go, Dog, Go!” to make Academy. [last name withheld on request]. non-perishable goods with a valid expira- Sholom for the JFS Kosher Food Pantry. and soulful presence” of their choir, the and remembering Reverend King, is to volunteers might have about working with tion date and kosher certification. Gift Temple Sinai community was inspired to inspire everyone – through prayer, through kids with special needs, so I agreed to go. cards for supermarkets and pharmacies United Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, reinvigorate its own adult volunteer choir. song and through action – to always work to As I watched the video and listened to Refugees Continued from page 1 are also most appreciated. New Canaan and Darien. Thus emerged Kolot Sinai, the Voices of create positive change in the world. the different speakers, I realized that the care and psychological services following the aid worker later tells JTA. “You’re still melded into what was left of her palm. Jewish Family Service is a recipient agency of Friendship Circle had made a difference earthquakes in Japan and Haiti, and sup- being inundated with refugees. They’re After the bombing that caused her injury, Continued from page 15 in my life, too. That night, I decided that I plies food and other materials to refugees always going to need food until the situ- she joined her children and grandchil- Sinai wanted to embrace the Friendship Circle at two camps in Kenya. ation is stable.” dren on the 60-mile trek. Now she says history alive. A number of the sixth-graders Jewish studies specializing in nated for most innovative on new terms, as a teen volunteer. IsraAid began working in Jordan early The next stop for the IsraAid workers is nothing, her wrinkled face and sunken expressed that the combination of learning digital media and games for game of 2013 by the Games Skip to 2011. It is my first visit with Ellie this year. Since then, the organization says Hamra, an impromptu refugee camp set up eyes conveying a resigned helplessness. history through a video game and on the learning. He is also a HAS- for Change Festival. [last name withheld on request], a teen- it has provided approximately $100,000 a month ago 20 minutes outside Mafraq. Zahavi hopes that within a month, Is- site where the history actually happened TAC Scholar. ConverJent A priority of the Temple age girl who has autism. Although she is worth of supplies to refugees who have Situated under power lines, surrounded raAid can bring social workers to Mafraq was “incredible.” received a signature grant Sinai education program is two years older than I, she is more petite escaped Syria’s brutal civil war. by desert and about to be clouded by a to help refugees cope with the psycho- Founded in 2010, ConverJent was from the Covenant Founda- to combine technology with and has quizzical eyebrows that define But because Syria and Israel techni- suffocating sandstorm, the camp is home logical trauma. Israelis, Zahavi says, are incubated at Clal in Manhattan and has tion to fund the design and learning so Jewish educa- her face. From the moment I greet her cally have been at war for four decades, to 25 families from a Damascus suburb experts in trauma care after decades of been awarded a PresenTense New York development of a digital tion can be brought into the in the basement of her house until the discretion and security are paramount in who had walked 60 miles to the Jordanian dealing with terror attacks. City fellowship. Rabbi Owen Gottlieb, the mobile game/simulation for 21st century, and be in line end of my hour-long visit, all she wants IsraAid’s Jordanian operation. Most aid border to escape the fighting. “My main agenda is to put Israelis on Herb Winter, volunteer at Jewish Family founder and director of ConverJent, is a teaching Jewish history, which Max Meister received with the student’s current is to get rid of me. Our visits continue workers interviewed requested anonym- Now they share space in 10 tents with the ground around the world and show Service, restocked and organized shelves at Jim Joseph Fellow and Ph.D. candidate became Jewish Time Jump: instruction on the game out public and private school on this painstakingly slow trajectory for ity, as did the Jordanian nongovernmen- dirty, beige flaps featuring the block letters the world that Israel cares about them,” the Kosher Food Pantry. at New York University in education and New York. It has been nomi- in the field. learning situations. a month until she decides she wants to tal organization that is IsraAid’s partner U.N.H.C.R. – for United Nations High he says. read a social skills book with me. This on the ground. Working with Israelis, they Commissioner for Refugees – in faded IsraAid receives support from several 223-page book provides detailed descrip- say, could endanger their work and the blue. Inside one, seven thin mattresses sit foundations, but the organization says December 2013 & January 2014 tions of activities ranging from getting lives of the refugees they help. in a square on a tattered rug. A second some of its donors initially were reluc- Israelis may travel freely to Jordan, but room, with a small burner and piles of pots tant to fund its work in Jordan for fear The New Jewish Voice when the IsraAid delegation crossed the and pans, serves as the tent kitchen. of becoming involved in the Syria-Israel Support for Those in Need border recently, it brought a letter from Although they eagerly crowd the dis- conflict. But the aid worker says that when “The New Jewish Voice” (USPS #428) is published monthly by the the Jordanian NGO that would facilitate tribution truck, most refugees appear refugees discover the Israeli connection, United Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and the distribution, as well as a list of indi- healthy, if needy. While the distribution they are still grateful for the help – no JFS COUNSELING, MEDIATION & CRISIS JFS CARING FOR SENIORS Darien Inc., 1035 Newfield Ave., Stamford, CT 06905-2521. viduals in its party. goes on, one resident insists that the matter its political implications. www.ujf.org for updates and donations A police escort joined the group’s workers sit for some coffee. “You’re talking about hungry people,” For Children/ Adolescents Diagnosed With ADD/ADHD. Finding Your Focus. JFS Counseling At-Home for Seniors: A therapeutic, counseling program to serve Wednesday afternoons. With Dr Lee Combrinck-Graham MD. Service includes older community members in their homes. A skilled social worker will help Shoshana Dweck...... President bumpy ride through northern Jordan, But an elderly woman shakes as she she says. “These people are in a dire situa- psychiatric evaluation, review of previous evaluations, family assessment, on-going people explore a variety of issues, such as the adjustments to living independently, James A. Cohen...... Chief Executive Officer past small villages of flat-roofed houses, pulls a deformed hand out of her robe, tion. If I hand someone a can of tuna, do support, and medication management Qualifies for insurance reimbursement. For improving social interaction, separation from family members and emotional Advisory Committee lemon groves and vegetable fields. In her two fingers wrapped backwards and they really care where it’s coming from?” the distance were the mountains of info, contact Eve Moskowitz, at 203-921-4161 or [email protected] issues. Service can be billed to Medicare. Strictly confidential. For more info, contact Meryl Gordon...... Chair Eve Moskowitz at (203) 921-4161, ext 122 or [email protected] Stephne Behrend, Caryn Halbrecht, Meryl Japha, southern Syria. Community and Family Mediation Services. Use third party mediator to help Continued from page 15 Nancy Schulman...... Members “We try to work by the book and Cure families and individuals resolve conflict. Nominal fees - available on a sliding JFS Home Companions & Certified Nursing Assistants: Trained aides assist Reporter Group Staff not go under the radar,” says Shachar “After finding out that we raised Student Council Co-President Alyssa scale. Resolve conflicts such as an unsatisfactory purchase or repair, landlord seniors with daily activities, chores, and socialization. Services provided hourly, Rabbi Rachel Esserman...... 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Opinions ters, next to an empty lot filled with trash necessities, housing, medical, social, legal and financial matters. Fees based on The views expressed in editorials and opinion pieces are on a side street in this city. The capital ability to pay. Contact Rita Halpert, JFS (203) 921-4161 #118 or [email protected] JCC CARING FOR SENIORS city of a region of the same name, half of those of each author and not necessarily the views of the Continued from page 16 United Jewish Federation. Mafraq’s 100,000 residents are refugees Class Kosher Food Pantry: Non-perishable staples for those in need. Donations welcomed. Additional listings on ADULTS WHATS ON page under SENIORS. Call JFS (203) 921-4161 Letters from the conflict next door. their Jewish knowledge, sensibilities and it serves students from New Haven, Fair- JCC Alzheimer’s Caregiver Support Group. Tuesdays Dec. 17, Jan. 28, 6 – 7 pm The New Jewish Voice welcomes letters on subjects of In total, half a million Syrians have commitments into the discussion. Con- field, Litchfield and Hartford counties. at the JCC. Facilitated by Michele PIskin and Debbie Katz Shapiro, MSW, LCSW. interest to the Jewish community. All letters must be taken refuge in Jordan. Most of them versations in class are both serious and Jewish High School of Connecticut is a Co-sponsored by the Connecticut Alzheimer’s Association. Free. RSVP Required to signed and include a phone number. The editor may are here, in the border region, and most high-spirited.” recipient agency of United Jewish Federation JFS DIVORCE & BEREAVEMENT withhold the name upon request. Connie Cirillo Freeman (203) 498-0983 or [email protected] arrived this year. The Jewish High School of Connecti- of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Bereavement Support Group. Wednesdays, 10:30 – 11:30 am at JFS Stamford JCC Support for Blind and Visually Impaired Adults. Thursday, Dec. 19. Monthly Kashruth Directed by a soft-spoken, gray-haired cut is NEASC accredited and pluralistic; Darien. office. Are you searching for a safe haven to explore your thoughts and feelings speakers on topics relevant to vision loss at the JCC. Meet new friends over lunch: We are not responsible for the Kashruth of any advertiser’s retiree working without pay, the Jordanian about grief? JFS can provide a protected environment that provides emotional, product or establishment. 12 - 1 pm. Speaker & discussion: 1 – 2:30 pm. $3 donation suggested. For info, con- NGO focuses on aiding the 200,000 local physical, and spiritual support. For info, contact Rosemarie Delia (the facilitator) Continued from page 5 tact Connie Cirillo Freeman: [email protected] or 203-487-0983. Deadline refugees not living in Zaatri, the massive Miracles at (203) 921-4161 or [email protected] Regular deadline is the last Wednesday of the month “It was great to hear a contemporary tell Carmel Academy. “Be sure to save United Nations refugee camp nearby. Divorce Support Group. Mondays, 7:45 - 9:45 pm. For adults. Discuss all aspects for the next issue; i.e., the last Wednesday in July for The director keeps meticulous records his story. It was relatable and really hit the date and have a chance to relive of separation and divorce. Fee: $5 per session the September issue. home. Summer programs, Hillel, these your prom!” said Lisa Manheim, Chai of the constantly growing number of aid • At JFS Westport office facilitated by Melanie Donathan, JFS Psychotherapist. JFS EMPLOYMENT & TRAINING How to reach the editor: recipients, registering every new arrival, were services we benefitted from, and we Society’s Awesome ‘80s Prom co-chair. Registration required: Contact Melanie at [email protected] or (631) 355-1120. support UJF so our kids can, too.” For more information on Ben Gurion Computer Training Courses: Variety of courses - all levels, individuals or small Mail: Sandy Golove noting the size of their family and when • At JFS Stamford office facilitated by Kathy Anderson. To enroll, contact Kathy at 1035 Newfield Avenue - Suite 200 they last received aid. Seventy volunteers Those who attended said they are Society or the Young Leadership Divi- (201) 921-4161, ext. 121 or [email protected] groups. Nominal fee. Contact Larry Morowitz: (203) 921-4161 or [email protected] looking forward to the next YLD sion and its programs, contact Anat Stamford, CT 06905-2521 help purchase and package supplies with Divorce with Dignity - Avoid Adversarial Dissolution: Divorce mediation program Seniors2Work: Job Bank for age 50+. Lower Fairfield employers can list full / part event, Chai Society’s Awesome ‘80s Chavkin at [email protected] or 203-321- E-mail: [email protected] funds from groups like IsraAid. at JFS. Contact Eve Moskowitz (203) 921-4161 #122 or [email protected] time jobs for dedicated, skilled mature workers. No fees. Call Ilene Locker or Jodi Fax: (203) 322-3277 With the word “Jewish” removed, the Prom on Saturday, December 14, at 1373, ext. 108. Focus on Kids: Program for divorced or separated parents experiencing high conflict Maxner (203) 921-4161. www.seniors2work.org Phone: (203) 321-1373, ext. 107 purple bags begin to travel in a human around parenting decisions. Teaches both parents strategies for communicating Life Transitions: Wednesdays at 11:30 am. A support group for the unemployed at the Send article submissions via e-mail to chain down a tight stairwell to the refu- gees below, almost all of them women Continued from page 7 in a non-hostile manner. Contact Erika Garcia, JFS (203) 921-4161 or [email protected] Stamford JFS office. Discuss concerns and issues related to job loss and alternative Sandy Golove at [email protected] Executives solutions for career satisfaction. Supported by both JFS Counseling and Employment & wearing long black dresses and matching Slossberg is co-chair of the Human Ser- Parent Education Program (PEP): State-mandated workshop for divorcing parents with marked “Stamford Voice” in the subject line. tive state representatives and senators. Training Departments. Contact Rebekah Kanefsky at (203) 921-4161 or [email protected] Expect an acknowledgement; hijabs. Bags are loaded onto trucks or vices Committee, which has responsibility She is in the process of advocating to children. At the Stamford JFS office. $125 pp. Call (203) 324-3167 for dates and to register. please re-send if you do not receive one. carried in hand back to wherever they for state grants and programs for chil- restore the Neighborhood Assistance Act How to reach are staying. dren, families and the elderly. She said Program to its original mandate, which FOR MORE INFORMATION, CONTACT: the advertising Representative: One woman approaches a volunteer to that she is working to help Connecticut’s will allow for additional funding to JFS’s JFS: Jewish Family Service: 203-921-4161; Stamford office: 733 Summer Street, Suite 602; Westport office: 431 Post Road East, Suite 11. www.ctjfs.org explain, through basic Arabic and hand Phone: 1-800-779-7896, ext. 244 Jewish Family Service agencies succeed from small corporations. JCC: Jewish Community Center 1035 Newfield Ave, Stamford (203) 322-7900 www.stamfordjcc.org motions, that a relative has cancer. Where, Subscription Information: and encouraged the JFS executives and Jewish Family Service is a recipient agency of Phone: (203) 321-1373 ext. 107 she asks, can she find medicine? their boards to convey their needs and United Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, “We’re still at this beginning stage,” their accomplishments to their respec- New Canaan and Darien. ÊVisit www.ujf.org, facebook.com/stamfordFederation, or tweet UJF at ujfstamford 20 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ december 2013

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