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December 8,ommentator 2017 Vol. 55, No. 22 SERVING THE DIOCESE OF BATON ROUGE SINCE 1963 thecatholiccommentator.org C A WORK IN PROGRESS Special collection to assist abbey set Dec. 9-10

By Richard Meek special case of great need for The Catholic Commentator the abbey,” vicar general Fa- ther Tom Ranzino said. As St. Joseph Seminary Col- Floodwaters from a nearby lege in St. Benedict continues overflowing river deposited its recovery from floodwaters two to four feet of water on that inundated the abbey in the sprawling 1,200-acre early 2016, the Diocese of Ba- campus, damaging every one ton Rouge is chipping in with a of the 31 main buildings. Al- special collection. though the church itself did Diocesan officials - an not flood, several feet of wa- A special collection in the Diocese of Baton Rouge is scheduled on the weekend of Dec. 9-10 to assist nounced that funds from a ter filled the basement, de- St. Joseph Seminary College in St. Benedict, which continues to recover from a devastating flood in second collection at weekend stroying electrical and air March 2016, above. Up to four feet of water flooded the 1,300-acre abbey. Photo provided by St. Joseph Abbey. Masses Dec. 9-10 will be do- conditioning systems. Three nated to St. Joseph. The spe- months passed before the ance on the buildings, leaving before the diocesan Presbyter- were discussed, and one that cial collection is replacing the church reopened. the abbey to shoulder the $30 al Council in September brain- gained approval was replacing annual Religious Retirement The popular retreat center million tab. Although repairs storming as to how the Diocese the Religious Retirement col- National collection tradition- remains closed, with an early have inched past the halfway of Baton Rouge might assist lection with a special collection ally held that same weekend. January date set for reopening. mark, much work remains. in the recovery effort. Father for the abbey. “It seemed that this was a There was no flood insur- Seminary officials appeared Ranzino said several ideas SEE COLLECTIONS PAGE 19 Teen suicide on the rise

By Debbie Shelley and that she wanted to watch it. Wary of the The Catholic Commentator messages the series may be presenting, she suggested that she and her daughter watch it Suicide is the second leading cause of death together. among those 15–24 years old, according to the “I left the series traumatized,” said Fargason, World Health Organization. Therefore, concern who said the messages presented no hope or over the Netflix series “13 Reasons Why,” which anything of a spiritual nature. is seen by many as glamorizing teen suicide, was a catalyst for the Nov. 14 presentation “13 Part 1 of a series Reasons Why (Not),” which looked at the issue of teen suicide and the response of faith and sci- ence. The Offices of Marriage and Family Life The series revolves around a teen named and Youth and Young Adult Ministry of the Dio- Hannah who descends into despair brought on A DAY OF THANKS – Bishop Robert W. Muench is shown giv- cese of Baton Rouge sponsored the presenta- by betrayal, bullying and sexual assault, and ing the blessing at St. Vincent de Paul Society’s annual tion, which was held at the Catholic Life Center. commits suicide. She details the 13 reasons Thanksgiving dinner for the homeless. Thanksgiving activi- Dr. Donna Fargason of Family Focus and As- why she decided to end her life in an audio di- ties were scattered throughout the Diocese of Baton Rouge. sociates of Baton Rouge said she was motivated ary which was mailed to a friend two weeks For a sampling of the Turkey Day events please turns to pages to give a talk after her experiences of watching after her death. The series, which is popular 10-11. Photo by Richard Meek | The Catholic Commentator “13 Reasons Why.” Her teenage daughter indi- among teens, has been blamed by families and cated that her peers were watching the show SEE REASONS PAGE 15 2 The Catholic Commentator December 8, 2017 Preserving the past Testify to the light

By Renee Richard ans. Former archivist Dr. Emilie Gagnet Leumas spearheaded the recovery that By Dina Dow paring others to hear the The Archives Department was creat- went beyond the current standards for Life-Giving Good News? Are my ac- ed by Bishop Robert E. Tracy within six wet records. She applied for and received I rejoice heartily FAI H tions rooted in the virtues months of his installation and the newly grants to help offset the costs of the effort, in the LORD, in my God of prudence, justice, fortitude, formed Diocese of Baton Rouge. earning the diocese the Joseph is the joy of my soul … (Isa- temperance, faith, hope and The diocesan history was Cardinal Bernadin Award for iah 61:10) love? Am I open to the movement of just beginning in 1962, an outstanding archives The liturgical season of Advent is the Holy Spirit?” but the history of the program from the Asso- upon us. Churches, adorned in purple, Prayer and praise churches and the peo- ciation of Catholic Dioc- signify the “posture” by which the faith- Preparation involves prayer, which ple within the diocese esan Archivists. Since ful are to journey through this season. includes praise. St. Paul closed his began with the arriv- then, the archivists of As the nation hopes for an economic first letter to the Thessalonians with al of the settlers and the diocese have been boost in retail sales, a Christian’s “eco- a hearty reminder to “pray without the missionaries who leaders in this national nomic” boost is realized by investing in ceasing” and encouragement to live in ministered to them. Sac- association serving various preparation, prayer and joy! gratitude for all circumstances we may raments recorded their lives roles on the board of directors Prepare the way of the Lord face. This means to live in the moment, in the Catholic Church beginning in and in educational capacities. A chant is sung during Taize’ Advent offering ourselves, our work and daily 1728. Bishop Tracy initiated a “call in” of Since 2005, the archives department Prayer with the words, “Prepare the activities for the glory of God. Whatev- all the church records dating before 1870 has expanded its services to include di- way of the Lord. Prepare the way of the er we do, we do it for God. and established the first central housing saster recovery and developed and imple- Lord, and all people will see the salva- Where does prayer come from? We of diocesan church records in Louisiana. mented policies to protect records in the tion of our God.” The season is about find in Paragraph 2562 of the Cate- The work of the archives for the first event of flooding or similar disasters. In getting ready for the second most im- chism of the Catholic Church this an- 10 to 15 years consisted of translating recent years, the department has played portant event in salvation history: first swer, “Whether prayer is expressed in and abstracting the early records of the a key role in assisting with the closure of being the resurrection, and second, the words or gestures, it is the whole man church parishes. Many of the sacramen- church parishes and schools. Manage- initial coming of the Messiah. who prays. But in naming the source tal books were in disrepair with pages ment of closed school records, including Week Two of Advent clearly shines of prayer, Scripture speaks sometimes torn and fragile, providing tran- the light on the proclamation of the of the soul or the spirit, but most often causing breaking, scripts, is handled much anticipated savior of the world of the heart (more than a thousand fading and loss through the ar- announced by a bold and courageous times). According to Scripture, it is of information. chives. Other work soul: St. John the Baptist. The cousin the heart that prays. If our heart is far In an effort to of the department of our Lord, relying on the simplicities from God, the words of prayer are in fund the repair of includes partner- of the world for food and clothing, “nei- vain.” the sacramental ing with Catho- ther eating nor drinking” (Mk 11:18), Our prayer is from our heart. Our registers, the de- lic Life Televison spent his adult life baptizing people for body frames us; our soul is the source partment began to produce the the repentance of their sins to signify of life; and our spirit is the capacity for to publish the ab- shows “Roots of an inner purity. Yet, he fully acknowl- praise and worship. Ceaselessly pray- stracts from these Faith” and “Roots edged the one who was to come “will ing leads to an openness of heart. An registers and sell of Faith: Ances- baptize you in the Holy Spirit.” (Mk 1:8) openness of heart leads to prayer. Ask the books to indi- try,” workshops As foretold by the prophet Isaiah, yourself, “Are my preparations during viduals, libraries on proper record the Messiah will come to rescue the na- Advent opening my heart? How can I and historical so- keeping, presenta- tions from sin, selfishness, evil; all that increase my prayer?” cieties for genea- tions to local histo- separates the faithful from God. Jesus Rejoice logical purposes. The current archives vault is filled to capaci- ry groups, librar- is the revelation of the inner voice of Gaudete Sunday is the mid-point of Since 1978, the ty. The new building will include a vault that ies and schools, God through words and works. This the season. We are called to REJOICE, archives has pro- is designed to hold over 2000 cubic feet of and assisting re- is the proclamation of the Good News. just as Mary, filled with the Holy Spir- duced more than records and artifacts. Photo provided by the Archives searchers. In order to better prepare for the cel- it, proclaimed in her Magnificat which 27 volumes of Department of the Diocese of Baton Rouge The archives ebration of the priceless gift of Jesus’ we pray in the Psalm. She rejoiced in “The Diocese of department has birth, our hearts should be attuned to the good God bestowed upon her, re- Baton Rouge: Catholic Church Records,” a been fortunate to partner with the LSU how we are living. Ask yourself, “Am I calling his unending mercy and resto- series that is available for research world- Graduate School of Library and Informa- focused on others during this season? ration of his people. Mary’s ‘yes’ opens wide. tion Science to develop an internship pro- Am I investing more in time-shared the passageway of one who will “bring The archives department operated gram for students interested in archival with others than gifts? How am I pre- SEE GOSPEL PAGE 7 with one part-time archivist and a large studies. The department was awarded the volunteer staff until 1999. The depart- Community Partner Award by LSU’s Col- ment has traditionally relied on the work lege of Human Sciences and Education in of volunteers, a program which still con- 2015 for their continued support and edu- tinues today. In 2000, work began to ex- cation of future archivists. pand the role of the archivist to full-time, After spending nearly 50 years in of- thecatholiccommentator.org | Facebook.com/TheCatholicCommentator adding a Records Management program fices at the Catholic Life Center, a new to manage all the records of the diocese. archives building is underway and due Bishop Robert W. Muench Publisher Wanda L. Koch Advertising Manager This included developing the policies for for completion in the spring of 2018. This Father Tom Ranzino Associate Publisher Bonny Van Staff Writer record retention, destruction and man- new building will give the archives de- Richard Meek Editor Lisa Disney Secretary/Circulation agement. partment the much-needed space that Debbie Shelley Assistant Editor Nicole Latiolais Graphic Designer Hurricane Katrina proved the ex- is vital to continue its mission to identi- The Catholic Commentator (ISSN 07460511; USPS 093-680) traordinary capabilities of the depart- fy, protect, preserve and make available Published bi-weekly (every other week) by the Catholic Diocese of Baton Rouge,1800 South Acadian ment when the Diocese of Baton Rouge for research the historical records of the Thruway, Baton Rouge, LA 70808; 225-387-0983 or 225-387-0561. Periodical Postage Paid at Baton took over the salvage and remediation of Catholic Church in this area. 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Surviving holiday stress Give Something Lasting For Christmas By Debbie Shelley redirecting blood flow to our “First of all, positive stress The Catholic Commentator large muscles and increasing acid can actually serve as a motiva- “In The Land O’ Sugar” in our stomachs to clear our di- tor prompting us to prepare, in rench Anticipating Christmas may gestive tract. All of these changes advance, for whatever is coming. A book about F start off in a jingly, dashing off are meant to prepare us to either Secondly, positive stress can be Louisiana circa 1896-1908 to a perfect Christmas festive address the threat (fight) or run a cognitive enhancer since it can By Mary Louise Johnson mood. But stress may build from from danger (flight).” help the brain focus on the task endlessly swiping the credit card He added, “Most people use at hand to find solutions. Third- Call (225) 927-0654 while shopping, slugging through the term stress to designate an ly, positive stress is physically a crammed schedule of gath- experience that is uncomfort- enhancing. Because it increases erings – which includes people able and disturbing. This is what adrenaline, it also increases re- we’re glad we rarely see – and psychologists refer to as nega- actions and reflexes. It even acts Family Christmas Traditions swallowing disappointment for tive stress or ‘distress.’ As a re- as a painkiller to achieve greater not getting everything done. sult, people are often looking for endurance.” Then we drop to our knees before ways to reduce negative stress What makes the difference NEW! Lights crossing the finish line as a gong by avoiding situations that make between positive and negative Up! tolls “you failed.” them uncomfortable. Once again, stress is perception, according to How can one keep the “heav- the key to understanding nega- Ducote. Ornaments Advent Calendars & enly peace” as sung about in a fa- tive stress lies with the concept “If we view a situation as a Storybooks vorite Christmas carol? of ‘perception’. In other words, if I threat, then we will experience Light Up Angel Tree Toppers “While the holiday season can believe that a situation is a threat, negative stress,” he said. “If we With 6 or be filled with many happy mo- either to my physical well-being view a situation as an opportu- Nativities for both more ments, it can also be a time of or to my emotional well-being, I nity or a challenge, then we will Children & Adults! Advent- Christmas Items great stress depending on how will experience negative stress experience positive stress and we get 10% off we view the events,” said Darryl (distress). For example, if I think, will be able to harness that ener- Ducote, director of the Office of ‘No one will like the holiday din- gy to accomplish our goals. Marriage and Family Life for the ner I have prepared,’ my stress “As the holidays approach, Diocese of Baton Rouge. level will increase since I believe it will be important to monitor The experience of stress is ac- that my self-esteem might be what we are telling ourselves tually a survival mechanism that threatened.” about an upcoming situation. human beings have developed While stress may have a bad We will need to examine our per- Catholic Art & Gifts through the process of evolution name, there is such a thing as ceptions. If we are assessing an 6184 Florida Blvd. Baton Rouge to deal with a perceived threat, good stress, according to Ducote. upcoming event as a threat, we 225.926.1216 • www.zieglers.com according to Ducote. “Since stress is actually a sur- will experience negative stress. Hours: M-F 9am-5pm; Sat. 9:30am-4:30pm “The key concept in under- vival mechanism, it can have a If we can recognize our negative standing stress is the term ‘per- positive effect in what psycholo- perceptions, and re-label them ceived threat.’ When our brain gists call positive stress or ‘eus- as challenges, we can experience determines that something is tress,’ ” said Ducote. “Once again, positive stress and actually grow threatening, our bodies react the brain puts the body on alert, from those events.” by shifting into ‘fight or flight’ but this time it views the situation To help keep their perception mode,” said Ducote. “Our brain as an opportunity, rather than a positive, people need to know tells our body to release adren- threat. With this viewpoint at the difference between guilt and aline that causes our heart rate work, the stress has many posi- inappropriate guilt, said mental and blood pressure to rise, while tive features. SEE STRESS PAGE 20

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WASHINGTON (CNS) – Miami Arch- Proposed changes, bishop Thomas G. Wenski said laws need or laws, should consid- to be changed to fix the country’s broken er human dignity and immigration system, but in the process, the national interest, immigrants should not be demonized. he said, otherwise, “bad “Fixing illegal immigration does not laws will be replaced by require the demonization of the so-called worse ones.” ‘illegals,’ ” said Archbishop Wenski, ad- He mentioned Rosa dressing an audience at a Nov. 28 event Parks, as well as “patri- in Miami sponsored by the Immigration ots” who participated Partnership and Coalition Fund. in the Boston Tea Party “America has always been a land of in 1773, as examples of promise and opportunity for those will- those who opposed laws ing to work hard. We can provide for that didn’t advance the our national security and secure borders common good. By re- without making America, a nation of im- fusing to sit in the back migrants, less a land of promise or oppor- of the bus, Parks broke tunity for immigrants.” a law in 1955 requiring His comments were posted on the racial segregation on Archdiocese of Miami’s website. buses, and the Boston Laws, he said, are “meant to benefit, Tea Party participants not to enslave, mankind,” and the laws in protested taxation the country, regarding immigration, are without representation. too “antiquated” and “inadequate” to deal Some laws, Arch- with the problem. bishop Wenski said, can “Outdated laws, ill adapted to the in- even legally sanction an creasing interdependence of our world underclass and such and the globalization of labor, are bad was the case of the Jim laws,” the archbishop said. Crow laws that segre- Photo provided by CNS

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By Richard Meek although tailored to fit the balance without breaking the said. “We want to be a spiritual ford said. “He has a generous The Catholic Commentator needs of the Diocese of Baton bank,” he said. “Look at the fi- father, but we have our broth- heart and really likes people. Rouge. nancial shape you are in and ers to take care of.” “He connects me to his expe- Embarking on a new career, “It’s a mentoring direction if you are in the red, do not be Father Ryan Hallford, who rience, connects me to the dio- much less a new job, can be relationship, helping guys no spending money.” was ordained in May and is cese. It’s been a very valuable overwhelming under any cir- matter how old they are, help- “It was a very honest talk,” currently serving as parochial relationship for me, and it’s im- cumstances. ing to adjust to the priesthood,” added Father Palermo, who vicar at Holy Family Church, portant to helping me under- Perhaps, those challenges Father Alello said. “Whether spearheaded fundraising ef- Port Allen in his first assign- stand my identity.” are even more daunting among you are 27 or 56 (at the time forts to help pay off the exist- ment, said he appreciated the Father Alello said the pro- newly ordained priests. Shortly of ordination) you are still a ing debt of St. Joseph Church, opportunity during the retreat gram provides an opportunity after the glow of ordination has new priest and with that comes which was built in 2006, and to ask questions and speak to walk with his brother priests faded the newly minted priest some challenges. to construct the Port Vincent openly about his concerns as and assist them in their own may find himself alone in a rec- We want them to succeed.” Chapel. “The message is to have well as having everything pre- formation. He noted that none tory, wondering what’s next. Earlier this year, 10 mentor a parish in a better place than sented in one place. of the mentors have all of the Father Jason Palermo, pas- priests went through training, you found it spiritually, physi- “I really enjoyed it,” he said, answers but they do have the tor at St. Joseph Church in and each now has a one-on- cally and financially.” adding that he is fortunate to experience to offer each other. French Settlement and St. one relationship with a recently Mentors are scheduled to have Father Charlie Landry, “And that’s really what it is,” Stephen the Martyr Church in ordained priest. Father Paler- meet with their mentees at pastor at St. Gabriel Church in he said. “It’s offering our lived Maurepas, says he was fortu- mo said the mentor must be least once a month for at least St. Gabriel, as his mentor. experiences to a brother priest nate to be able to participate in open to “hearing new priests two years. However, that might “To be able to visit with him, to help them be a better pastor. a mentoring program that was out and to be able to ask the be extended until the mentee get his perspective has been It’s not just showing up and be- in place when he was ordained mentee open-ended questions reaches his five-year ordination very beneficial,” Father Hall- ing a great preacher.” in 2009. He credits Father Phil and come up with solutions. anniversary. Spano, currently pastor at Most The mentor may see things the “It helps with the reality Blessed Sacrament Church in mentee may not see.” of the situation we are facing Baton Rouge, for helping guide During a recent two-day and gives us the experience of him through the uncertainty of retreat directed by Father Pal- what they have gone through,” those early days. ermo and Father Alello, the said Father Matthew Graham, “It got me through some novice priests were exposed administrator of St. Eliza- pretty rough times,” Father to the practicalities of every beth Church in Paincourtville Palermo said. “He was a sea- day life, and provided with ad- and St. Jules Church in Belle soned priest, and when I need- vice on how to navigate those Rose. “They want to help with ed to bounce ideas off of Father tricky waters. Topics included best practices as we look into Phil I would call him. everything from learning to the administration of parish- “It’s good to have someone budget their personal finances, es. Our biggest challenge is like that.” working with a parish staff, tax we don’t know what we don’t The program was subse- codes, effective ways of spend- know. quently discontinued, but this ing money for a car and vehicle “It makes our eyes open to past summer, a similar men- expenses, and even such basic things we should know and toring program was re-estab- issues as planning for retire- gives us an outlet with all of lished, with Father us being recently Palermo serving ordained, we can as the director and “He connects me to his experience, learn from each St. Thomas the other as well.” More Church in connects me to the diocese. It’s been Father Graham Baton Rouge pas- noted that when a tor Father Michael a very valuable relationship for me, pastor walks into Alello providing a new parish he  Large Selection of Nativities assistance. The and it’s important to helping me begins to receive a  Large Selection of Happy program, which multitude of phone Birthday Jesus Items was borne out of understand my identity.” calls. He said the the Diocesan Plan- mentoring program  Boxed Christmas Cards ning Task Force, is Father Ryan Hallford assists rookie pas-  Saints’ Statues  Advent designed to mentor Parochial Vicar Holy Family Church, Port Allen tors in making in- priests who have formed decisions. Wreaths  Ornaments  Medals been ordained five Along with  Bibles  Large selection of years or less. ment and housekeeping. learning the nuts and bolts Stocking Stuffers Children’s Books Training to become a pas- “All of us used to have full- of clergy life, Father Graham 99¢ tor is also included, especially time housekeepers,” Father said one important benefit is because of the priest shortage Palermo said. “Not so much building up a friendship with many parochial vicars are be- anymore.” the mentor, who can also “chal- ing appointed pastors two to Becoming good stewards in lenge how you are taking care 25% Off Any single item with three years after ordination, the parish was stressed contin- of yourself and how you are en- coupon excluding books. compared to the traditional uously throughout the retreat, riching yourself.” One per customer. eight to 10 years in the past. with Father Palermo emphasiz- “It’s about the overall Expires Dec. 23, 2017. The mentoring program was ing the importance of a priest priestly development, pray- developed according to a simi- leaving a parish better off than ing together, talking about the M-F 10 - 6; Sat. 10 - 4 • 11232 Florida Blvd., Baton Rouge 225-272-4030 lar model at St. Meinrad Arch- when he arrived. human side, about how you A Holy Family Institute Apostolate abbey in St. Meinrad, Indiana, “You have to have a great handle certain situations,” he 6 The Catholic Commentator December 8, 2017 Fasting and holy Communion/ Preference for death penalty

I’ve heard several different of Canon Law. They provide that one evening before. (Since my family usually be taken into the peace of heaven and to takes on the rules with regard to must abstain for one hour from all food went to one of the later Masses on Sun- be released from the pain of the present Qfasting before receiving Com- and drink, with the exception of water day morning, I can tell you that this rule life. I think, though, that as a faithful munion. On the one hand, or medicine, prior to was something of a challenge.) Catholic, you should not be seeking the I’ve been told that we are receiving the Eucha- In 1953, Pope Pius XII decided that death penalty. not to ingest any food or rist (Canon 919). water or medicine no longer broke the In October 2017, Pope Francis stated drink within one half-hour But that same fast. Four years later, that same pontiff quite clearly that the death penalty “is, of a service. But I’ve also canon notes that “the anxious to make the Eucharist more in itself, contrary to the Gospel.” He said heard that water or even elderly, the infirm easily available while still wanting to this in a talk marking the 25th anniver- coffee are not included in and those who care maintain proper reverence for this sacred sary of the publication of the Catechism this prohibition. for them can re- gift reduced the time period; no longer of the Catholic Church and suggested Someone had men- ceive the most holy would you have to fast from midnight that the catechism’s rejection of the death tioned to me also that Eucharist even if they but, instead, for only three hours. penalty needs to be stronger and more this fasting doesn’t apply have eaten something Then, in 1964, Pope Paul VI reduced it explicit. if there are health issues within the preceding even further to only one hour and that is The original text of the catechism in involved. It seems to me hour.” Perhaps the still the rule. Note that fasting is required 1992 allowed for the use of the death that older parishioners fact that these rules for one hour before the actual reception penalty but said that other means to pro- take a stricter view on this have changed several of Communion, not one hour before the tect human life should be used whenever and younger parishioners, Question Corner times within my own start of Mass. (And note, too, that coffee possible. Five years later, that language a more relaxed one. Can lifetime may explain drinkers do not get a pass; coffee does was strengthened to prohibit the use you clarify for me what the Father Kenneth Doyle why, in your words, break the fast!) of capital punishment except in those real rules are? (southern there are “several situations where the identity and guilt of Indiana) different takes.” My question as a faithful Cath- the perpetrator were certain and where The current rules on fasting be- For centuries, Catholics were re- olic is this: Is it wrong for me the death penalty was “the only possi- fore holy Communion are simple quired to abstain from all food and drink Qto pray daily and unceasingly ble way of effectively defending human Aand clearly expressed in the Code (including water) from midnight of the for death? I have been lives against the unjust in prison now for 25 aggressor” (No. 2267). years. I am so tired of “In October 2017, Now, in his recent Look for this existence that I October address, Pope he aThoLiC ommenTaTor am seeking legal action Pope Francis stated Francis has made the T C C to have my sentence church’s rejection of the aT your LoCaL ouTLeTs inCLuding: changed from life in quite clearly that the death penalty explicit prison to the death and total. He said that ✔ Affinity Nursing Home, Baton Rouge ✔ Oak Point Supermarket, Central penalty. death penalty “is, the death penalty “heav- ✔ Anthony's Deli, Baton Rouge ✔ Oak Wood Nursing Home, Zachary I have always been ily wounds human digni- ✔ Albertsons, Baton Rouge ✔ Old Jefferson Community Care, opposed to capital pun- ty,” is an “inhuman mea- ✔ Alexander’s Highland Market, Baton Rouge in itself, contrary to ishment, but the past sure” and extinguishes, Baton Rouge ✔ Our Lady of the Lake College, few years have made not only a human life ✔ Ascension Books & Gifts, Gonzales Baton Rouge the Gospel.” He said ✔ Baton Rouge General Hospital, ✔ Our Lady of the Lake Regional me realize the unbe- but the possibility that Baton Rouge Medical Center, Baton Rouge and lievable suffering that this in a talk marking a person will recognize ✔ Baton Rouge Healthcare, Baker Walker results from a life term his or her errors, request ✔ Benedetto’s Market, Addis ✔ Our Lady of the Lake Physician and what a relief death the 25th anniversary forgiveness and begin a ✔ Bohning Supermarket, Ponchatoula Group, offices with locations would bring. Nearly new life. ✔ Calandro’s Supermarkets, throughout the Diocese every one of my fellow of the publication of More than anything Baton Rouge ✔ Reeve’s Supermarket, Baton Rouge prisoners, even those else, though, I would like ✔ Catholic Art and Gifts, Baton Rouge ✔ St. Elizabeth Hospital, Gonzales on death row, thinks the Catechism of the to respond to your plain- ✔ Daigle’s Supermarket, White Castle ✔ St. Mary’s Books & Gifts, that execution is much tive cry, “Is there any ✔ Grace Healthcare, Slaughter Baton Rouge less cruel than life with- Catholic Church and help for me?” I believe ✔ Hi Nabor Supermarkets, Baton Rouge ✔ St. Vincent dePaul Stores throughout out parole. that there is. Why not ✔ Hubbins Grocery, Port Allen the diocese I used to believe that suggested that the speak to a priest-chap- ✔ Lane Regional Hospital, Zachary ✔ Schexnayer Supermarket, Vacherie God had a job for me lain or counselor at your ✔ LeBlanc’s Food Stores, Baton Rouge, ✔ Southside Produce, Baton Rouge to do here in prison, a catechism’s rejection prison to help sort out Gonzales, Donaldsonville, Hammond, ✔ Tony’s Seafood, Baton Rouge role to play – but I’ve the agony you are experi- Plaquemine, Prairieville and Zachary ✔ UPS Store, Coursey Blvd., Baton never been able to find of the death penalty encing? Perhaps, through ✔ Louisiana Vet Home, Jackson Rouge it, and the many years God’s grace and human ✔ Matherne’s Supermarkets, ✔ Whole Foods Market, Baton Rouge in prison have hard- needs to be stronger guidance, you might Baton Rouge ✔ Winn Dixie in Hammond, New Roads ened my heart. It is so be able to play a part in ✔ Magnuson Hotel, St. Francisville and Ponchatoula difficult to be talked and more explicit.” lifting some of the daily ✔ North Ridgely Healthcare, Baker about all the time and burdens of your fellow as well as your local church parish never really talked to. Is Father Kenneth Doyle inmates. there any help for me? THE CATHOLIC Is there anybody on my side? (Jefferson FATHER DOYLE is a retired priest in the City, Missouri) Diocese of Albany, NY. Questions may I don’t see a problem with your be sent to Father Kenneth Doyle at praying for death. There are [email protected] and 30 CSERVING THE DIOCESE O F BATON ROUGE SINCE 1962 Amany accounts of saints asking to Columbia Circle Dr., Albany, NY 12203. December 8, 2017 faith journey The Catholic Commentator 7

GOSPEL  born for God. What we choose Prison work can be demanding From page 2 to do with our life is up to our free will. Yet, we, as living glad tidings, heal, release, disciples, are called to testify By Bonny Van proclaim and announce.” Car- to the light. St. John explains The Catholic Commentator dinal Joseph Ratzinger writes that John the Baptist “came in “Mary, The church at the for testimony, to testify to the On a sunny afternoon in early Source,” that “Joy comes from light.” November, more than a half doz- grace.” What do we testify about? en deacons gathered in a private We are also called to be What is the source of this dining room of the Catholic Life open recipients of grace from light? Well, follow the star Center in Baton Rouge for lunch. God in order to grow in fruit- and there you will find the They had traveled from towns fulness and in holy joy! How source of life. The shepherds and cities throughout the Dio- can we become more open to witnessed the star. The Magi cese of Baton Rouge for this spe- the graces of God? There are followed the star. They testi- cial gathering, which only takes many ways. First and fore- fied as to what they found. Ask place twice a year, bringing with most is by participating in the yourself, “Am I following the them tales from behind prison sacraments of reconciliation light of the star which will lead walls. (to restore the path of grace) me from darkness?” Just as a Linda Fjeldsjo, coordina- and Eucharist (joyfully par- reminder, add a star to your tor for Prison Ministry/Joseph ticipating in Mass). Second decorations within your home Homes for Catholic Charities of is living the Ten Command- this season and with it place the Diocese of Baton Rouge, said ments, Beatitudes and serving the words, “Joy to the World!” even though working in a prison through the Works of Mercy. Dow is the director of is rewarding, chaplains need a Follow the Star Evangelization and Cat- “sounding board” not only to air We are naturally drawn to a echesis for the Diocese of Ba- their frustrations but to support joy-filled, radiant light. We are ton Rouge. each other in their calling. “Each institution has its own unique challenges and different programs,” said Fjeldsjo. “Some- times in prison ministry, you feel like nobody understands what (you’re) going through. They un- Carl Taylor, who spent 20 years in Angola prison, spoke to prison min- derstand, they’re doing the work istry chaplains during a lunch meeting Nov. 7 at the Bishop Robert E. and they love to tell stories.” Tracy Center. Taylor works as a supervisor at St. Vincent de Paul Home- Guest speaker Carl Taylor, less Shelter. He clerked for a chaplain when he was incarcerated and who clerked for a chaplain during encouraged the chaplains to keep doing their “great work.” Photo by Bonny the 20 years he was incarcerated Van | The Catholic Commentator at Louisiana State Penitentiary at Angola, told the chaplains the glowing, upbeat stories to share. difficulty of released prisoners work they are doing is difficult Deacon Tommy Benoit of St. learning to sleep without lights but necessary. Isidore Church in Baker, spoke and noise and prison housing “The objective here is to share about the need for a new Catholic conditions, such as a long-time Refugee Relax – Families the love of Jesus Christ with chaplain at Dixon Correctional problem with a broken window from Afghanistan, Iraq, Vene- people who are down and out. Institute in Jackson, which has in a shower room resulting in ex- zuela and Burma in the Refugee Jesus was kind of partial to un- a large Catholic population with tremely cold conditions during Resettlement program of Cath- derdogs,” said Taylor. “But, when many serving lengthy sentences. winter months. But the one thing olic Charities of the Diocese of people in the position that those Only one of the more than 1,500 they shared during that after- Baton Rouge visited the Knock men and women are, when they prisoners was among those noon of breaking bread together Knock Children’s Museum on hear the message of hope and the granted an early release Nov. 1 was the compassion and love of Dec. 3. The event was orga- message of love and they begin under Louisiana’s new criminal Jesus through their call to prison nized by LSU Lab School stu- to see what you’re talking about, justice reform laws. ministry. dent Avery Mann as part of an you’re on the brink of having a “It’s a wonderful community, “I stand here today to tell you English class service project in- new person, or a new woman or it’s a wonderful place to minis- that I’m glad it was people such spired by the novel “The Kite new man; that’s what we want to ter,” said Deacon Benoit. “We do as yourselves that were coming Runner” written by Khaled Hos- see return to society.” a service every Friday. Twelve from the outside to the inside to seini, an Afghan-American au- Deacon Zeke Nola, of Our La- priests volunteered to come once share this message of love and thor. Photo by Bonny Van | The Catholic dy of Mount Carmel Church in a month to do Mass, but even hope,” said Taylor to the chap- Commentator St. Francisville, told the group he though they were coming one lains. “I know that many times was “delighted” to be minister- time a year, with a deacon assist- you don’t feel like it. Many times ing at Angola. And, he credited ing them, still had to go through you don’t seem to have enough former Angola warden Burl Cain the DOC (Department of Cor- hours in the day. But we do it for the positive programs going rections) training. That became anyway. And, after we’ve done on at Angola. a bit of problem in maintaining it, we’re glad that we did it. And “Working in grace with all be- that list of volunteer priests.” so I want to encourage you all to lievers, we have seen hundreds Other deacons shared stories stick with it. Make sure you do of people lives transformed be- of not being allowed to visit in- what God calls you to do, which cause of the work of that great mates at some institutions or is share the love of Jesus Christ team headed up by Burl Cain, being turned away at the gate with men who are in situations who invited Jesus into prison,” because a chaplain of another that any of us could possibly he said. denomination had already visit- have been in, if they had gotten But not everyone had such ed that day. Others discussed the caught.” 8 The Catholic Commentator December 8, 2017 Congress urged to ‘fix fundamental flaws’ in final tax reform bill

WASHINGTON (CNS) – Bishop Frank J. Dewane of “Congress must act now to provements that are necessary in our previous letters,” Bishop Congress must “fix the funda- Venice, Florida, the chairman, fix the fundamental flaws found before a final agreement should Dewane said. mental flaws” in both the Senate issued a statement Dec. 2 in re- in both bills, and choose the be reached and moved for- He was referring to Nov. 9 and House versions of the tax sponse to Senate passage of the policy approaches that help in- ward,” he said. and Nov. 22 letters from the reform proposal as lawmakers Tax Cuts and Jobs Act in a 51- dividuals and families strug- “For the sake of all people U.S. Conference of Catholic try to reach an agreement on a 49 vote at 1:50 a.m. Washington gling within our society,” said but especially those we ought, Bishops addressing the House final bill, said the chairman of time. Both chambers must meet Bishop Dewane. in justice, to prioritize Congress and Senate versions, respec- the U.S. bishops’ Committee on in conference to reconcile dif- “We are reviewing the fi- should advance a final tax re- tively. Domestic Justice and Human ferences in the two measures to nal Senate bill and will soon form bill only if it meets the key Quoting St. John XXIII’s Development. bring a final bill to a vote. provide analysis about key im- moral considerations outlined 1961 social encyclical, “Mater et Magistra,” the bishops said that “decisions about taxation involve fundamental concerns Please remember Saint Joseph Abbey and of ‘justice and equity,’ with the Seminary College in the parish collection goal of taxes and public spend- ing ‘becoming an instrument of on the weekend of Dec. 9th & 10th. development and solidarity.’ ” Because tax-policy is “so far-reaching,” they also urged Congress to provide “ample time for Americans to discuss the complexities of these re- forms and fully understand their effects.” Signing the three-page Nov. 9 letter were Bishop Dewane; Bishop Oscar Cantu of Las Cruces, New Mexico, outgoing chairman, Committee on In- ternational Justice and Peace; and Bishop George V. Murry of Youngstown, Ohio, chairman, Committee on Education. The letter referenced Bish- Flood of op Dewane’s Oct. 25 letter to March 11, 2016 House members in which he of- fered moral guidelines for law- makers to consider in any tax reform proposal. The guidelines focused on the country’s responsibilities to care for the poor; form and strengthen families; develop a progressive tax code; raise ad- equate revenues for the sake of the common good; avoid cuts to poverty programs to finance any tax cuts; and incentivize Blessing of monastery in July with Abbot Justin Brown and Fr. Gregory Boquet, Record enrollment at Seminary College Seminarian Eric Gruspier stands Archbishop Gregory M. Aymond President-Rector in the floodwater charitable giving. Overall, in light of those moral guidelines, the Nov. 9 “As we rebuild toward the future, our faith remains resolute.” letter called the Tax Cuts and –Abbot Justin Brown, O.S.B. Jobs Act of 2017 “unacceptable” as currently written and said it contained “many fundamental Renovations to the extensively • More than $6 million still needed structural flaws that must be damaged buildings have begun • Not only renovating buildings from the 2016 flood corrected.” The three signers praised the or have been completed, but also rebuilding for the next 125 years provision to double the stan- including: the historic Abbey Church, • The monks of Saint Joseph Abbey remain true to dard deduction, saying that it “will help some of those in pov- Monastery, Seminary College their mission of educating young men to serve the erty to avoid tax liability, and classrooms, residence halls, library, Church as priests and community leaders this is a positive good contained gym, dining halls, and kitchen. • $8.6 million raised in the bill.” But the bishops also said that because tax-policy is “so far-reaching,” Congress also must provide “ample time for Visit www.helptheabbey.com to find out how you can help. Americans to discuss the com- Thank you for your prayers and generosity. plexities of these reforms and fully understand their effects. December 8, 2017 The Catholic Commentator 9 Court ruling disappoints pro-life officials

By Richard Meek supporters have consistently op- “What we are saying is those court of Appeals currently has Duncan, who is also the former The Catholic Commentator posed any funding for Planned health services that (Planned three unfilled vacancies, which counsel of the Becket Fund for Parenthood, the country’s lead- Parenthood) provides that are Seghers says, is detrimental to Religious Liberty. Pro-life officials expressed ing abortion provider. The case not abortion services are provid- the pro-life movement. Of par- “(Duncan) is a highly qualified disappointment about a federal dates to 2015 when then-Gov. ed throughout the state from 100 ticular concern and what had nominee with deep Louisiana appeals court in New Orleans on Bobby Jindal attempted to block different health care centers,” rankled pro-life supporters was roots,” said Benjamin Clapper, Nov. 28 that essentially allows the funding but but was cut Seghers said, adding that those Sen. John Kennedy’s initial re- executive director of Louisiana Planned Parenthood facilities in off by a federal judge in Baton services include cancer screen- luctance in supporting Baton Right to Life. “National Right to Louisiana to continue to receive Rouge and subsequently a three- ings, birth control and a variety Route native and LSU graduate Life and Louisiana Right to Life, Medicaid funding. judge panel of the 5th Circuit. of other options. “So what this Kyle Duncan, one of four of Pres- in radio ads and other communi- The 7-7 vote provided a rare On Nov. 28 the state was seek- case is doing is placing impor- ident Donald’s Trumps nomi- cations, had encouraged Louisi- glimpse into an apparently deep- ing a full court hearing, which tance on what Planned Parent- nees to a court that is generally ana citizens to contact Sen. Ken- ly divided court. However, by the tie effectively denied. hood provides rather than if recognized as one of the most, if nedy’s offices in support of Mr. not permitting a hearing on a The state’s case focuses on they are actually qualified by the not the most, conservative in the Duncan, and thousands did so.” previous court ruling, Planned Planned Parenthood’s eligibil- state.” country. “After eight years of appoint- Parenthood will be allowed to ity to operate in Louisiana. The “It’s a shame that our tax Kennedy had publicly ques- ments by President Obama, the continue to provide abortions state alleges Planned Parent- dollars would needlessly go to tioned Duncan’s ties to Loui- federal judiciary is heavily pop- throughout the state. hood is disqualified to practice an organization that is killing siana, despite the fact the LSU ulated with liberal activists who “I don’t know that we were in the state because it has been innocent human beings and graduate has previously worked believe they have a license to surprised but we were very dis- investigated nationally for illegal selling body parts,” she added. on appellate cases in the Loui- impose their policy preferences appointed that the court of ap- activities, chiefly the selling of “The ramification of this (ruling) siana Attorney General’s office. by decree,” he added. “With con- peals denied a hearing based on baby body parts. is allowing a medical center to Kennedy had also expressed dis- sequential decisions being made a razor thin margin,” said Alex The panel ruled that cutting provide medical services in New may with the nomination pro- daily by federal courts across Seghers of Louisiana Right to off funding would deny health Orleans and how they are doing cess. Apparently, Trump did not America, time is of the essence Life. care accessibility to low-income that. It is, of course, a danger to consult with Kennedy regarding in confirming nominees who The Medicaid funding is in- women. The 5th Circuit also clients and to deny the standard the nomination, as has been the will respect the proper separa- tended to provide health care maintains that Medicaid pa- of integrity, especially for wom- custom in the past. tion of constitutional powers.” services other than abortion for tients have a right to choose pro- en’s health care in Louisiana.” However, on Dec. 1 Kenne- Sen. Bill Cassidy had already low-incomecatholic women, commentator but october pro-life 2017.pdf 1 10/20/2017viders of 12:36:49 their PM choice. Currently, the 5th Circuit dy threw his support behind SEE COURT PAGE 20

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THANKSGIVING 2017

By Richard Meek At St. Paul Church in Baton Rouge, nearly 200 people The Catholic Commentator showed up for what was a veritable feast, featuring a buffet that offered everything from turkey to lasagna. As a nip in the air greeted Thanksgiving morning, and Helping dish out the food were a number of volunteers, while many cooks were fretting over every detail of their including St. Michael the Archangel Diocesan Regional prized turkey, Mary Ann Muscarelo was pulling into the High School students Lance Robinson and Demond parking lot at Mater Dolorosa School in Independence, Garner. money in hand, understanding that sometimes peace of “I’m here because it’s a sense of humility, it’s about mind comes at a small price. being humble and helping the less fortunate,” said Rob- Within minutes, she was driving away, savoring the inson, a sophomore at St. Michael. St. Vincent DePaul director Michael Acaldo, right, enticing aroma of the freshly fried turkey resting in the “I’m here to give back to people who don’t have any- and food director Denise Terrance are handed the back seat. The most difficult part of the day was done thing or who can’t afford to have a good Thanksgiving ceremonial torch by Reginald Brown to symbolize and not even one pot had been dirtied. dinner,” said Garner, a St. Michael junior. “It’s impor- taking over the Holiday Helpers annual Thanksgiving Muscarelo was one of almost 200 people who took tant because Thanksgiving is about being thankful for dinner at the Raising Cane’s River Center. This was the advantage of Mater Dolorosa’s nearly 30-year tradi- what you have. Some people don’t have some of the first year St. Vincent has put on the dinner, which for the tion of frying and selling the birds on things (they need) and you want to give past 30 years was hosted by Holiday Helpers. Thanksgiving morning to those seek- them (what they need).” ing an appetizing alternative to slav- Although most of the activities were ing for hours over a hot stove. For a wrapped up by mid-afternoon, it’s a sure bargain price of $50, once could buy bet that none began as early as that at “An early wave of volunteers a fully fried turkey ranging from 14 to Mater Dolorosa. An early wave of vol- 16 pounds. Some folks expecting big- unteers began showing up at midnight, ger crowds even purchased more than making final preps on the turkeys and began showing up at midnight, one turkey. getting the oil heated. Three hours later, “This is fantastic, the best thing I’ve the first batch of what would be 180 tur- making final preps on the turkeys [A] ever done,” Muscarelo gushed, saying keys were being placed into the boiling she had also purchased a turkey a year oil, veiling the cooking area in a steamy ago. “This helps me out so much. I just fog. and getting the oil heated. have to worry about the side dishes Three fryers containing 10 turkeys and the dressing.” each were operated non-stop, with each Three hours later, the first batch While turkeys were being distrib- Demond Garner, a junior at St. turkey taking about 45 minutes to cook. More than 100 volunteers assisted in the serving line as uted at Mater Dolorosa, many long- Michael the Archangel Dioce- Parishioner Joe Patanella, who has been well as serving diners at the annual St. Vincent DePaul of what would be 180 turkeys standing and some new traditions san Regional High School vol- helping for nearly 30 Thanksgiving Thanksgiving meal at the dining room. Approximately were being carried out throughout the unteered to work the serving mornings, said the cooks use a thermom- 600 homeless people in the Baton Rouge community Diocese of Baton Rouge. At St. Joseph line at the St. Paul lunch. “I’m eter and once the bird hits 165 degrees, were able to enjoy a Thanksgiving dinner with all of the were being placed into the boiling Church in Ponchatoula, pastor Father here to give back to people it’s time for it be removed, immediately trimmings. Paul McDuffie blessed the bread and who don’t have anything.” wrapped in aluminum foil and placed in wine that parishioners would be serv- a styrophone ice chest to keep it warm. oil, veiling the cooking area ing later in the day. “We have a good time and it’s for a A similar tradition was renewed on Thanksgiving eve good cause,” Patanella said, adding that the proceeds go in a steamy fog.” at St. Joseph Cathedral. toward the school. “There is a lot of community involve- [B] A new era was unveiled at the Raising Cane’s River ment.” Center in Baton Rouge, when the St. Vincent de Paul So- Volunteer Jeanette Patanella said she spent much of ciety was handed the keys to the Holiday Helpers’ annu- her morning helping out because the money goes to the al Thanksgiving dinner. St. Vincent de Paul chief execu- school where she and her children were educated. tive officer Michael Acaldo agreed to take the reins from “I love this school and I want it to last forever, “ she Reginald Brown and the Holiday Helpers, who had been said. “It’s a community.” serving 1,000 Thanksgiving Day meals for 30 years. As late fall’s early dusk began to settle, many of the While diners were digging in at the River Center, same volunteers were finally with family, enjoying their Photos by Richard Meek | The Catholic Commentator [A] Joe Patanella stands sentry as 10 fried turkeys [B] Father Paul McDuffie, pastor at St. Joseph Church Bishop Robert W. Muench was giving the blessing that own tradition, but with the added satisfaction of making are lifted from the hot oil. Patanella has been vol- in Ponchatoula, blesses parishioners’ bread and wine would kick off the annual Thanksgiving meal for 600 the day special for those less fortunate. North Baton Rouge residents gathered at St. Paul Church unteering on Thanksgiving morning frying tur- that were to be served later during their respective homeless people at St. Vincent’s dining room. Follow- After going to a family member’s house to eat, Mater for the annual holiday dinner, which has become a keys at Mater Dolorosa Church in Independence family dinners. Father McDuffie blessed the bread ing the blessing, Bishop Muench visited with diners, ex- Delorosa parishioner Michael Lemary said he was going relatively new tradition. The selection included everything for almost 30 years. and wine during the Thanksgiving Day Mass. changing stories and offering encouragement. home and “pass out.” from turkey to lasagna and everything in between. 12 The Catholic Commentator December 8, 2017 Students receive ‘cheesy’ award for good behavior

By Bonny Van criteria for selection on good behavior. The Catholic Commentator Proceeding principals have used themes to set the basis on how students are cho- “We need all students that are to eat sen by their teachers. Two students are pizza with the principal to head to the chosen from each grade level. cafeteria.” And, with that announcement, “It was an opportunity to try to give made once a month from the principal’s recognition to kids who excelled in other office at Sacred Heart of Jesus School in things besides A/B honor roll,” said Lisa Baton Rouge, students that do their best Cosse, communications coordinator for in ways that cannot be measured by a Sacred Heart. “It was probably estab- grade are given a moment of recognition. lished to highlight those students and to And, once they arrive in the cafeteria, give them an opportunity to shine a little that special time continues for the next bit, those that were working to the best of 45 minutes. their ability.” “I’ve been about six times,” said sixth- Principal C.J. Laird is continuing the grader Danny Woods as he took a bite of tradition, using the seven virtues as the pizza. “I like that we get to eat pizza and monthly theme, the four cardinal virtues hang around the principal and enjoy the and the three theological virtues. company of our friends.” “The thing that was most important to “It’s always a certain theme. This one is me about the program is that it gives me a prudence and it’s always something to do chance to celebrate particular things with with your personality, how you act,” said the kids and previous principals have Tavio Cinquemano, another sixth-grader. chosen characteristics that they wanted C.J. Laird, principal of Sacred Heart of Jesus School in Baton Rouge, joins a lively discus- “It’s really fun because you can hang out to encourage and one of the things that sion with students during the school’s monthly program “Pizza with the Principal.” The with your friends.” I did, kind of in my prayer and thought them for each month focuses on the seven virtues. Photo by Bonny Van | The Catholic Commentator Pizza with the Principal began more about things, was to make it a little more than 20 years ago with Sister Patricia Sul- catechetical,” said Laird. dents, Laird spoke briefly about pru- break and socialize. livan CSJ. Sister Patricia established the After greeting the group of 30 stu- dence, this month’s theme, calling it “a “I like that you get to miss class,” said two-phase virtue; one, knowledge of what Sophia Guillory, an eighth-grade stu- is good in any particular situation and dent. “I also like to get to talk to people. two, the courage and strength and will to It’s another chance to hang out with your do what’s right in every situation.” friends.” Coming “If you don’t have prudence, you really Eighth-grader Brooklyn Hoffman also can practice the other vir- enjoyed the special rec- tues,” he said. “If you can’t ognition “because you get choose what’s good, then “It was an thanks for the things that January 5, 2018 you certainly can’t choose you’ve done good. I think love or faith really; you opportunity they’re looking for people have to have prudence in with good values that other order to really be able to to try to give people see.” 2018 Mass Schedule grow in the other virtues.” As Laird ate pizza and January 5, 2018 2018 MASS SCHEDULE The Catholic Commentator 32 Volunteer moms sign recognition walked around the tables The Mass Schedules has up to serve pizza each visiting with students, some • The most current schedules for the month. Melissa Horton, to kids who of the younger kids asked churches in the Diocese of Baton Rouge. serving for the first time, for his help getting straws 2018 Mass • The most current clergy, phone was surprised and proud excelled in other into juice pouches. He has Schedule numbers, mailing and email addresses, to see her kindergartener three children currently at- directions to the churches and website daughter, Isabella, walk things besides tending Sacred Heart: Co- into the cafeteria. lin, third grade; Ellie, first names. “I love (this program),” A/B honor roll” grade; and, Teresa, kinder- • Index Masses both alphabetically by she said. “I think it’s a garten. He said the kids feel towns and by time of day. great way for the kids to Lisa Cosse like they know him because • Lists Spanish and signed Masses for meet the principal and see Communications Coordinator “I’m also a dad of their Hearing Impaired Masses. him in a different light be- Sacred Heart School friend.” • Is inserted into all The Catholic cause he’s very interactive He said the casual set- Diocese of Baton Rouge Commentator and circulated into area with the kids and very energetic.” ting of eating pizza with the principal also

Supplement of The Catholic Commentator hotels for guests to use Allison Ray, whose son Lions is in allows him to have a deeper discussion third grade, was called to serve pizza for about the meaning of the virtues and why To reserve your space call by another mom who was unable to make it. the students were selected based on how Lions had been selected to eat pizza with they exhibited it. December 13 or until all spaces are sold out! the principal. “Long term, what I hope is that if we re- Advertising space is limited and sold on “He didn’t know I was going to be here peat this kind of process that they will get so he was happy when he walked in,” she this drilled into their heads, ‘Well these a first come first serve basis. said. “It’s great because the kids get a lit- are the seven virtues, this is what a Chris- Advertisers will receive complimentary color in their ad. tle special attention and they get to meet tian person should be striving for, defin- the principal and get recognized.” ing our life by these virtues and striving Call Wanda Koch at 225-387-0983 From the happy, pizza sauce stained to live them in their fullness,’ ”said Laird. or email [email protected] faces, this program is certainly a hit with “And, over the years, I think we’ll see students, who enjoy the chance to take a that.” December 8, 2017 The Catholic Commentator 13

UP, UP AND AWAY – A wonder- ful surprise for students at Ma- ter Dolorosa School in Inde- pendence happened recently when pilot Jacob Dreher, fa- ther of students Andrew and Sarah Dreher, and co-pilot Eric Monteset landed in the base- ball field and spoke to the chil- dren about saying no to drugs! Photo provided by Erin Mendez | Mater Do- lorosa School

Youth Briefs Six members of the St. Joseph’s Acade- gail Haynes and Sivi Miller was named my volleyball team have been named to Coach of the Year. the District 3-5A All-District Team. They are Fran Okpalobi, who was named Out- St. Alphonsus School in Greenwell standing Offensive Player, Tess Hiller, Springs has named Lily May, fifth grade, Caroline Starns, Julia Welsh and Amber and Grace Toler, eighth grade, Students Haynes. Honorable mention went to Abi- of the Year for 2017-2018.

GIRL POWER – Members of Girl Scout Troop #12644 from Sacred Heart of Jesus School in Baton Rouge volunteer at the St. Vincent de Paul dining room. Pictured front row from left, Gretchen Payne, Brennan Colbert, Tayler Brown, Morgan John- son. Back row from left, Kennedy Papillion, Chloe Christophe, Derianah Williams, Sheridyn Carr, McKenzie Hamilton, Madison Rambo. Photo provided by Kimberly Papillion

VICTORY AT THE FINISH – Kinsley McCrory, fom left, Cianna Newton, Bronwyn A WORK OF ART – Harper Ricker, an eighth-grader at St. Jean Vianney School in Ba- Doan, Bella Theriot, Kylie Bates and Riley Fitzhugh proudly show off their plaque ton Rouge, holds a framed replica of her winning artwork, which will be used for after being named the NIAL (Northshore Independent Athletic League) Cross Christmas cards for the Diocese of Baton Rouge. Dr. Melanie Verges, superintendent Country champs in the elementary division. The third- and forth-grade students of Catholic Schools for the diocese, presented the award to Ricker on Dec. 1. Photo pro- attend Holy Ghost School in Hammond. Photo provided by Cindy Wagner | Holy Ghost School vided by Judith Farr | St. Jean Vianney School 14 The Catholic Commentator ENTERTAINMENT December 8, 2017

Motion Picture Association of America issues. Like the crime itself, and an earlier mise from cancer embittered him against MOVIE ratings: tragedy to which it seems to be tied, these God. An uneasy blend of sincere religious G – General audiences; all ages admitted ethical questions are unsuitable for kids. sentiment and political propaganda char- PG – Parental guidance suggested; some But Branagh’s take on this classic tale, acterizes the proceedings once Fox News REVIEWS material may not be suitable for children USCCB Office for Film & Broadcasting made into a 1974 film by Sidney Lumet, personality Sean Hannity, the film’s ex- PG-13 – Parents are strongly cautioned to classifications: is sufficiently restrained in other respects ecutive producer, appears on screen. Even give special guidance for attendance of A-I – General patronage as to be possibly acceptable for older ado- before that, several twists and turns in children under 13; some material may be A-II – Adults and adolescents lescents. A vengeance theme, scenes of the dialogue, penned by Dan Gordon inappropriate for young children A-III – Adults violence, some gory images, a couple of and Sorbo’s wife, Sam, who also plays his R – Restricted; under 17 requires accom- A-IV – Adults, with reservations panying parent or adult guardian uses of profanity, a few milder oaths, oc- character’s ex, come out sounding odd. So L – Limited adult audience NC-17 – No one under 17 admitted casional sexual references. A-III; PG-13 too does the “Sopranos”-style sermonette O – Morally offensive delivered by a convict-turned-pastor (Mi- Novitiate chael Franzese) who describes in vivid Daddy’s Home 2 strictly off-limits for young viewers. Much Sony Classics terms the miraculous event that trans- Paramount sexual humor, including a sight gag about At a time when the reforms of Vatican II pired after the Lord got “whacked.” Ma- Silly slapstick predominates in this homosexuality, a few mild oaths, occa- caused some nuns to leave the convent, a ture themes, scenes of excessive alcohol follow-up to the 2015 comedy about the sional crude and frequent crass language, wide-eyed young woman (Margaret Qual- use. A-III; PG-13 blending pains of a post-divorce family. an obscene gesture. A-III; PG-13 ley) decides to enter, having fallen in love As the stepfather (Will Ferrell) and bio- with God. There, a rigid tyrant of a moth- No Greater Love logical dad (Mark Wahlberg) whose rival- Murder on the Orient Express er superior (Melissa Leo) lords it over her Atlas ry fueled the first outing try to preserve Fox new charges, making it her mission to Compelling documentary about the ex- the fragile harmony they’ve achieved dur- Sleek ensemble whodunit, set in the scrutinize them to see if they are up to the periences of U.S. combat soldiers in Af- ing a Christmas visit by their own temper- 1930s, presents Agatha Christie’s famed rigors of life in the order. Writer-director ghanistan as well as their postwar strug- amentally contrasting fathers (sensitive Belgian detective, Hercule Poirot (Ken- Margaret Betts follows the novices as they gles to resume their lives back home. In John Lithgow and trouble-loving wom- neth Branagh, who also directed), with an struggle with faith, sexuality and the ef- 2011, Justin D. Roberts, who directed and anizer Mel Gibson), returning director array of plausible suspects after a gang- fects of change in the church. An artistic co-wrote the narration with Alan Wain, and co-writer Sean Anders busies him- ster (Johnny Depp) meets a grisly end on drama with compelling performances, served in Afghanistan as an Army chap- self finding outlandish mishaps for Fer- the luxurious train of the title. As Poirot the film nonetheless reveals its creator’s lain. He carried a camera to document his rell’s character to undergo. Although the questions the victim’s secretary (Josh lack of familiarity with Catholicism and service with the 327th Infantry Regiment film is mostly harmless, late scenes mix Gad), butler (Derek Jacobi) and fellow ultimately takes a stand viewers of faith of the 101st Airborne Division. Using war lame holiday-themed sentimentality with passengers, most prominently, Michelle are bound to reject. Strong sexual con- footage, he follows the tight-knit band of weirdly uncomfortable attempts to wring Pfeiffer, Penelope Cruz and Willem Dafoe, tent, including full nudity, same-sex kiss- brothers as it faces constant sniper fire, laughs from one shared child’s (Owen religious undertones are interwoven into ing, implied masturbation and lesbian explosions and suicide bomb attacks. The Vaccaro) emerging sexuality, putting this a narrative that raises significant moral sexual activity, one use of profanity, sev- battle overseas won, a new one begins as eral instances of rough language, at least soldiers return to America and struggle one crude term. O; R (along with their families) with post-trau- matic stress disorder, depression and, for Justice League many, the lingering effects of damaging Warner Bros. brain injuries. Graphic wartime violence With Superman (Henry Cavill) dead, and bloodshed, mature themes, some and the world threatened by a giant alien rough language. A-III; Not rated by the (Ciaran Hinds) with a scheme to unleash Motion Picture Association of America. apocalyptic destruction, Batman (Ben Af- fleck) and Wonder Woman (Gal Gadot) Wonder assemble a team of superheroes, or, in DC (Lionsgate) Comics parlance, metahumans, the Flash Gentle, moving drama about a 10-year- (Ezra Miller), Aquaman (Jason Momoa) old boy (Jacob Tremblay) born with facial and Cyborg (Ray Fisher), to thwart the in- deformities and his struggle to win ac- vader. Picking up where his 2016 feature, ceptance from his peers as he transitions “Batman v Superman: Dawn of Justice,” from being educated at home to attending left off, director Zack Snyder deploys pre- the fifth grade of his local middle school. dictably outsized special effects. But the His sympathetic parents (Julia Roberts meager, been-here-before story laid out and Owen Wilson) offer support as does in Chris Terrio and Joss Whedon’s screen- his older sister (Izabela Vidovic), despite play features a crucial plot development the fact that his emotional needs have left that may not go down well with Christian her feeling overlooked by Mom and Dad. viewers and offers little in the way of hu- The attitudes of his fellow students (most man interest, though there are laughs prominently Noah Jupe, Bryce Gheisar to be had from the Flash’s socially inept and Millie Davis) range from open friend- persona. Constant stylized violence, two liness to cruel hostility with Jupe’s char- uses of profanity, a milder oath, several acter representing a case study in moral crude and a couple of crass terms, some subtlety and the negative effects of peer bleeped-out swearing. A-III; PG-13 pressure. In adapting R.J. Palacio’s best- seller, director and co-writer Stephen Let There Be Light Chbosky has created a winning and mem- Atlas orable film about the significance of ordi- Evangelical Christian drama with a fa- nary life and the lasting impact of every- miliar plot: A wayward sinner, in this case day choices. The movie’s ethical lessons a famous atheist author (Kevin Sorbo, make it appropriate and valuable fare for who also directed), undergoes a change most teens. A scene vaguely referencing of heart. His conversion is sparked by a married sexuality, fleeting scatological near-death experience during which he material, a couple of fistfights, one use of is temporarily reunited with his young profanity, a single mildly crass term. A-II; son (Ethan Jones) whose untimely de- PG December 8, 2017 The Catholic Commentator 15

with other at risk teens, that abortion, chronic illness, loss REASONS  1234 56789 11120 131 From page 1 made Hannah prone to suicide. or conflict with close friends Few were willing to befriend her or family, alcohol or drug prob- 41 51 61 mental health experts, who and include her, few were will- lems, someone with depression, 71 81 91 have been interviewed by the ing to notice dramatic changes substance abuser, a “cutter,” media, as being tied to a rise in (such as drastic changes to her family or friend history of sui- 02 12 22 teen suicide. hair and quitting a job). Few cide, prior attempts to commit 243 2 265 2 Fargason said the series pres- also noticed her isolation. She suicide, impulsive attention ents particular problems for was kicked when she was down seeker, poor emotional support, 72 82 92 310 323 youth with emotional and spiri- by being blamed for her trou- access to weapons, suicidal 343 353 3367 tual problems. bles. Also, no one involved their notes or giving away cherished She looked at the symptoms own parents or adults to try to items or a member of the LB- 83 93 04 displayed by Hannah before help her. The guidance coun- GTQ community. 421 4 34 she committed suicide, and selor didn’t ask the tough ques- There are reasons for concern how they can generally apply to tions or call her parents with about suicide in that they can 44 54 64 teens at risk for suicide, to help concern, and the school tried to create “copy cat behavior” in 74 498 4 parents, adults who work with cover up the issue rather than communities. Suicide can also youth and loved ones of teens at help other kids through the suf- be glorified by TV shows and 510 525 35 554 565 risk of committing suicide. fering of her death. movies. 75 598 5 06 Hannah was a new girl in Even her parents didn’t ask Teens are very “self” and town and school who was scru- enough questions, monitor “now” oriented – longitudinal 16 26 36 tinized by others and tried to fit enough or seek help for her, Far- thinking is difficult and the re- 46 56 66 in and make friends. Her peers gason pointed out. alization that pain will pass is had emotional and psychologi- There were also places where difficult, according to Fargason. moc.scilohtacrofsemagdrow.www cal problems and her par- Teens also tend to avoid ACROSS 2 Sashes ents were distracted by the their parents and adults 1 Jesus called Simon this 3 Young horses Who‘s at Risk to Suicide? 5 An epistle 4 Lock opener move, according to Far- who can help and are easily 10 Son of Adam 5 Religion of Jesus gason. embarrassed and feel scru- 14 Musical instrument 6 Pains She was also a target of Someone with depression tinized, Fargason said. 15 Eleve’s place 7 Flightless birds cyberbullying and seen as She encouraged parents, 16 Samoan capital 8 Former measure of length Substance user–clouded judgement 17 Greasy 9 Holy ___ an unworthy object. The however, to not be intimi- 18 Large marine mammal 10 Dominic who is patron saint of “established kids” rejected Cutter dated by their tendency to 19 Unit of potential difference choirboys her, “friends” rejected her secrecy and to get involved 20 Winter hrs. in the Diocese of 11 Epic poetry Cheyenne because they didn’t want and to know where they are 12 “…and there was no man to ___ the Family or friend history of suicide 21 “___ Irae” ground” (Gen 2:5) guilt by association, and and what they are doing. 22 Road to the altar? 13 Detest her peers rejected her to Prior attempts to commit suicide “Don’t assume, ‘Oh, you’ll 23 Vatican Guard 21 Direction (abbr.) avoid similar treatment be fine and send them on 25 Too 22 John Paul II’s “Ecclesia in ___” 28 Encouraging word 24 Birds (“thank God it’s not me”). Impulsive Attention Seeker their way,’ ” said Fargason, 29 507, to Nero 25 Cardinal Dulles 30 Follower of spy or web As many teens at risk for who advised those who no- 26 Calcium compound 33 Like some vbs. suicide tend to do when Poor emotional support tice some signs that could 27 Branches 36 Before its time 29 Stage play faced with problems, Han- indicate a youth is troubled 38 Celestial body used in dating Easter Access to weapons 30 ___ of Ars, title by which the patron nah isolated herself. She to talk to them. 39 Friend of St. Francis of Assisi saint of priests is known avoided true friends and Above all, Fargason ad- 40 Bothers Suicide notes or giving 41 Expression of disrespect for God 31 Commandment carrier, and others family, listened to self- away cherished items vised parents and adults to 43 Make the sign of the cross 32 Sloppy negative talk, her grades be open and approachable 44 Rev.’s alma mater 34 Stage goal dropped, furthering her when the teens approach 45 Brass wind instrument 35 Wander Perfectionists 46 Stimulus 36 Common person of ancient Rome self-doubt, and she disso- them with problems. 47 Small child 37 Like some bathrooms ciated from groups where LBGTQ community Fargason noted, “De- 48 White silk garment worn by the 39 Fish the symptoms might have pression is real and neu- Pope 42 Egyptian deity 43 Papal order been picked up. She was rological, not something to 50 Wise man gift 53 Knot in wool 46 Elijah held his challenge here reluctant to seek help and de- Hannah went wrong, said Far- be embarrassed about.” 54 The flood is found here (abbr.) 47 “You ___ of vipers!” (Lk 3:7) pression set in. gason. Hannah had friends She showed a slide compar- 57 A Rachael Ray favorite 48 Rage Like many teens who face who were trying to help, but ing a scan of a depressed brain, 58 Tempest 49 ___ in the Garden 60 Commotion 50 List from which to choose continued objectification, Han- she didn’t recognize that. She which had significantly more 61 Nautilus captain 51 “Y” in YSL nah stopped feeling like she was also didn’t recognize that her darkened areas than a second 62 Paroxysm 52 Where the Vatican is a person. Her anxiety increased parents cared. She didn’t seek scan of a not depressed brain. 63 Singles 53 Half of a Pacific paradise’s name and she found it hard to trust professional help until it was There are things teens can do 64 Applied 55 Home of Adam and Eve 65 June birthstone 56 Prying anyone, which led to further too late. if they are depressed or suicidal 66 MSG site 58 NASCAR sponsor isolation. Furthermore, she lost hope or know someone who is, said 59 Start of many a title The downward spiral for Han- and assumed she was alone in Fargason. They can tell a true DOWN 60 Unit of weight 1 There was none at the inn nah continued as she detached her sufferings. She didn’t have friend, teacher, guidance coun- Solution on page 18 herself from physical and emo- faith in a risen Lord who knew selor or parent, resist the urge tional experiences, according her every thought and loved her to be embarrassed or ashamed, to Fargason. This caused her from the beginning said Far- pray and seek or encourage pro- anxiety to increase even more gason. fessional help. Tree Service and neutral events triggered ex- So who is at risk for suicide? Two important resources Mr. D’s aggerated responses. Like many Fargason listed the follow- for suicide prevention are the ovEr 35 yEars ExpErIEncE victims, she didn’t seek help. ing: history of being bullied National Suicide Prevention Don Decell, owner “When she started slipping, or abused, stressful academic Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK carl BaBin, owner you don’t know what’s wrong load, uncertain (or fear regard- (8255) and the Crisis Text line • Economical with her,” Fargason said. ing) sexual orientation, stress- at 741741. • Fully Insured • Quality Work According to Fargason, there ful home life, those who do not Next: An integrated faith and CALL TODAY! were also places where others trust easily or seek help, physi- science approach to teen sui- 225-292-6756 went wrong, as may be the case cal issues such as pregnancy/ cide. 16 The Catholic Commentator VIEWPOINT December 8, 2017 A season of what kind of correctness?

t this time of year a priest, and which I was of one’s self, one’s complete love, to the to his disciples by pointing out the widow we begin receiv- unqualified to answer, that other. who gave her two mites to the temple Aing cards that say, too was one. But, because Most important is not what we give, treasury box. “Season’s Greetings.” I have a foolish difficulty but why we give. All giving should sym- And how often do the mere pennies What season? Depart- in passing up challenges, I bolize self-giving. of others replenish us? I know that I ment stores are so hard tried anyway. “If you love (It is the opposite of wedding gifts to am most grateful for the kind words of up for customers that they her, you will know, and if the boss’ daughter whom the employees parishioners after Mass. I have been a won’t risk losing any by you don’t, no amount spent don’t know, but not to give might be con- priest long enough to realize that this wishing a Jewish person will be adequate.” At least, sidered an insult.) may be a mark of south- Merry Christmas or a it was one of those ambig- The story in the ern graciousness and not Christian person Happy uous Jesus-like answers. Old Testament of the He gave the an exact measure of the Hanukkah, or an athe- Gift-giving is a human begging Elijah and the quality of the homily. ist who belongs to the instinct that marketing widow who was down greatest gift of all, Nevertheless, in one of the ACLU any feast that has majors spend four years to her last cup of flour parishes I pastored, I found a biblical or spiritual as- Another learning about. Around beautifully captures his life, to God for myself often waiting for one sociation. I don’t under- Christmas, Mother’s Day, what Jesus was trying to greeting from a little girl stand why it is such a big Perspective Father’s day, wedding an- teach. As Christmas ap- our sakes. who was handicapped. It problem. I have Jewish niversaries and birthdays, proaches, we brace our- happens in those moments friends who wish me Father John Carville millions are made on our selves for the number In so doing, when someone seems to Merry Christmas, and I desire to express our affec- of giving-requests that have nothing much to give reply Happy Hanukkah. Even Muslims tions for loved ones by giving presents. we will receive. How do he showed us the us: nothing to educate us, recognize the Old and New Testaments (“Say it with flowers,” “Diamonds say ‘I I divide up what little I no sound advice, no solu- as sacred writings. I guess the gods love you forever.’ ”) Giving is a beautiful have? Many of you have true meaning of tion to our problems. Yet, of commercialism just make the most symbolical way of saying: “I love you; I children for whom you if they do not dismiss us, noise. am grateful; I am sorry, please forgive must first provide. Yet, gift-giving, to mean give up on us, but give us This season of Christmas, which for me.” During this Christmas season we the story of Elijah and something else, their mite, Catholics begins with a four-week prepa- remember the three wise men of the the widow is more than by the gift the all that they have, it is more ration called Advent, is a special time Gospel who honored the child Jesus with a tale about a jar of flour than enough. We find that of year that has deep spiritual meaning, gold, frankincense and myrrh. and jug of oil that would offering of one’s they have offered us their even in some of its commercial aspects. In primitive cultures and in the more not go empty. It has a being, their presence, their Yes, it is difficult to keep a spiritual focus sophisticated Jewish temple worship, wider meaning, and of- self, one’s complete hearts. What they have when there is so much shopping to do, men and women offered sacrifices fers a miracle that we all given us is no mere human and so many Christmas cards to send, of food, lambs and bulls as a sign of can experience. love, to the other. asset but the love of God. gifts to buy and parties to plan. None- submission, of atonement for sins, and There are times when May a prayerful Advent theless, there is a lot of spirituality in as a preliminary to asking favors. In we are down, and we lead you to a Merry Christ- much of the traditional music we hear, the New Testament, the writers used think we have nothing left to give. Little mas and many gifts of love. in the effort we make to entertain and this well known symbolism to explain remains in the barrel of our lives. Then, celebrate with those whom we love, and why Jesus freely accepted death for our for some reason, we still manage to give FATHER CARVILLE is a retired priest in even in the gifts we exchange. sakes. He gave the greatest gift of all, his more out of the nothing we feel we have the Diocese of Baton Rouge and writes “Father, how much should I spend on life, to God for our sakes. In so doing, left, and grace is born again. We are re- on current topics for The Catholic my wife’s Christmas present?” Among he showed us the true meaning of gift- newed as we give of ourselves. This is so Commentator. He can be reached at the many questions I have been asked as giving, to mean by the gift the offering true that Jesus made the point explicitly [email protected].

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ilence. night and my cell phone asleep forever. that it is in silence we message. I recalled the Gospel Quite the novel concept in a I had a horrific flashback to the 1980s, hear his voice. passage that is so difficult for Stechnology-driven society, where experiencing an unexplainable desire to Who am I to dis- most of us to comprehend, “Not a few minutes away from our electronic tune in to FM radio (did anyone know agree? in our time but in his time.” devices can create a tsunami of anxiety. that it still exists?) and listen to Ol- So I began to speak Many have debated in the Through a confluence of events and ivia Newton John singing “Physical.” I out loud to God – a bit past if I possess any virtues, but the stars apparently aligning with the Age glanced down to see if I was wearing Ree- weird at first since I be assured if I do, patience is not of Aquarius, I was presented with that bok high tops (for anyone under the age was alone in the car – one. But that call for patience, ghastly scenario. Shortly before leaving of 40 they were quite the rage in another discussing some recent and humility, was undoubtedly work on a recent afternoon, the battery era) and looked in the mirror to check personal difficulties, God’s message to this aging soul. on my laptop, which I never leave home on my coiffed mullet, so popular three questioning him if he And with that came a feel- or anywhere else without, expressed its decades ago which I once wore proudly. had been asleep on the ing of peace, a peace I had not desire to be charged. No problem, right? Panic began to seep in, perhaps even a job or had just perma- experienced in not only years First salvo of disaster: I had lost my few beads of sweat broke out. No emails, nently forgotten about Wandering but at least two decades. Tears charger. No laptop? Not good, but man- no texting later, no phone calls for at least his old friend. But God, of joy ensued. Thankfully, no ageable. the next day since the landline has gone I’ve been repeatedly one passed me on the high- Then, I was confronted by the most the way of FM radio. told, never gives up on Catholic way as they surely would have unspeakable of horrors when I got in my What should I do? us. wondered who was the crazy old car on the way to an assignment and my Silence. To be sure, I did not Richard Meek man crying at the wheel. cell phone died. Not dead like in I need And how golden that turned out to be. hear his voice but in God does indeed work a charge dead, but as in securing a plot Since I had no one else to talk to – I that silence certainly felt his presence. in strange ways, but who would have in Apple’s Garden of Memories dead. As find myself incredibly boring when I Emotions bounced off the interior of the thought he would use a dead cell phone to it turned out, the phone took more than try to hold a conversation with me – I car like an old pinball machine, from reach me? Maybe because he realized that 200 contacts and countless photos with it. decided to ask God to join in, with the despair to feelings of abandonment, to the exterior wall of noise I had insulated And no I did not back up the info on hope he had a few minutes to kill. I had encouragement and finally to a feeling of myself in was impenetrable. the cloud. Don’t judge. recently spoken to several clergy mem- just being patient. Although not verbal- Being unplugged is not so bad after all. I was suddenly facing a long drive bers about how the noise of our modern ized, I did receive a powerful “I got your You never know who might be trying to knowing my laptop was asleep for the day lives drowns out the voice of God, back, quit all of your whining, trust me” call you through the silence. Playing loose with the truth

t can be quite dis- dismissed as just how the biblical text unfolds: but is guilty of an eternal sin.” es so that we can no longer tell heartening to watch another opinion Jesus has just cast out a demon. (Mk 3,28-29 parallel text in Mt truth from falsehood or false- Ithe news these days. with the result Part of the Jewish faith at that 12, 31-32). What exactly is this hood from truth. Our world is full of that we are creat- time was the belief that only warning? Theology teaches us that God hatred, bigotry, racism ing an entire someone who came from God Jesus is saying this: Be care- is One, this means that God’s and over-stimulated society within had power to cast out a demon. ful about what you are doing inner integrity assures that all of greed and ego. The which it’s becom- Jesus had done that, but the just now, putting a false spin reality also has an inner integ- gap between the rich ing more and Scribes and Pharisees who have on something because it is too rity, an intelligibility, meaning and poor is widening more difficult just witnessed this found it to awkward to accept as true. The that something cannot be and and random, senseless for any of us to be an inconvenient truth since danger is that if you continue do- not be at the same time; meaning violence is an everyday trust what’s a fact they denied Jesus’ goodness. So ing this you may eventually come that two plus two cannot equal occurrence. One lives and what isn’t. in the face of truth they had to to believe your own lie. That will anything but four; meaning that with hope, but without That’s danger- either acknowledge something be unforgiveable, given that you a tree is always a tree no matter much optimism. ous territory, not that they did not want to or they will no longer want to be forgiven what you say it is; and meaning Among all of this, In Exile just politically had to manipulate the truth to because you will see truth as a that black can never be white. perhaps the most but especially give it a different meaning. They lie and a lie as the truth. The sin God’s oneness allows us to both distressing thing of all Father Ron Rolheiser spiritually. chose the latter and, clearly cannot be forgiven, not because trust reality and trust our nor- is the erosion of our ca- Scripture aware that they were manipulat- God doesn’t want to forgive it but mal perception of it. pacity to recognize and acknowl- tells us that Satan is the prince ing the truth, accused Jesus of because we no longer want to be That’s what’s under attack edge the truth. From the highest of lies and Jesus makes it clear performing the miracle through forgiven. today, most everywhere. It’s the government offices, to the major that, among all sins, failure to the power of Satan. They knew Dictionaries tell us that ultimate moral danger: God is media outlets, to our local news- acknowledge the truth is far and better, knew they were lying, but blasphemy is the act of insult- One and so two plus two can papers, to the thousands of blog- away the most dangerous. We the actual truth was too difficult ing or showing contempt or lack never be five and if it is, then we gers, down to our dinner tables, see this motif particularly in the to accept. of reverence for God. We don’t are no longer in touch with God we are becoming irresponsible, text that warns us that we can Jesus initially tries to argue blaspheme when we use foul or with reality, are warped in manipulative and outright dis- commit a sin that’s unforgiveable with them, pointing out that language when we’re frustrated; conscience, and are blaspheming honest with the truth, denying it because it’s a blasphemy against there’s no logic in suggesting nor do we blaspheme when we the Holy Spirit. where it’s inconvenient, bending the Holy Spirit. that Satan is casting out demons. shake our fists at God in anger or Oblate Father Ron Rolheiser, it to suit our own purposes or What’s this sin? Why is it They persist, and it’s then Jesus turn away from him in bitter- theologian, teacher, and award- labeling it as “fake news,” “an al- unforgiveable? And what has it utters his warning: “In truth I ness. God can handle that. The winning author, is President of ternative fact,” “misinformation,” got to do with telling lies? tell you, all human sins will be one thing God cannot handle is the Oblate School of Theology “a truth that’s no longer opera- The unforgiveable sin is pre- forgiven, and all the blasphemies lying, where we lie to the point of in San Antonio, TX. He can be tive,” or as “political correctness” cisely the sin of lying which can ever uttered, but anyone who believing our own lies (the real contacted through his website with no truth value. Studies from become unforgiveable because blasphemes against the Holy danger in lying) because that ronrolheiser.com and major scientific institutes are of what lying can do to us. Here’s Spirit will never be forgiven, eventually warps our conscienc- facebook.com/ronrolheiser 18 The Catholic Commentator COMING EVENTS December 8, 2017

Christmas Pilgrimage – The annual pilgrimage of hosting a Theology of the Body Middle School training, Silent Retreat – Paula Darcy, writer, playwright, re- downtown churches, a musical walk from church to presented by Ascension Press’s Colin Maclver, one of treat leader and seminar speaker, will present a silent church, will take place Sunday, Dec. 10. The schedule of the lead authors of the program, on Saturday, Jan. 6, 9 retreat, “Waling the Road to Bethlehem,” Friday, Dec. the pilgrimage will be First United Methodist Church, a.m. – 3 p.m., at St. John the Evangelist Church, 15208 15 – Sunday, Dec. 17, at Rosaryville Retreat Center, 6 p.m.; First Presbyterian Church, 6:30 p.m.; St. Joseph Hwy. 73, Prairieville. Principals, DREs, catechists, dea- 39003 Rosaryville Road, Ponchatoula. For more infor- Cathedral, 7 p.m.; St. James Episcopal Church, 7:30 cons, youth ministers, campus ministers and anyone mation, call 225-294-5039. p.m.; and First Baptist Church, 8 p.m. For more infor- who work with preteens (sixth-eight grade) are invited mation, call 225-387-5928. to attend. A fee of $45 will cover all materials, a TOB MS Catechist Certification – Registration is being ac- leaders guide, continental breakfast and lunch. Register cepted for the spring session of catechist certification Women’s Advent Reflection – A women’s Advent online at evangcatbr.org/registration. The deadline to for the ministry and theology program for the Diocese evening of reflection, “Making Room for God’s Great- register is Wednesday, Dec. 20. For more information, of Baton Rouge. Class topics include Christian moral- est Gift,” will be held Monday, Dec. 11, 7-8:30 p.m., at call Shannon Baldridge at 225-336-8760, ext. 136. ity, creed, conversion and spirituality, Luke/Acts, cat- St. Aloysius Church, 2025 Stuart Ave., Baton Rouge. echism and catechesis and Catholic identity in the The event will include prayer, fellowship and reflection. Healing from Loss – “The Long Night,” a non-de- Catholic school. For dates and times and to register, RSVP by Dec. 8 at beckyeldredge.com. nominational prayer service for anyone who has experi- visit evangcatbr.org. enced a loss during the past year, will be held Thursday, Feast of St. Lucy Mass – Our Lady of Mercy Church, Dec. 21, 6 p.m., at St. Aloysius Church, 2025 Stuart Ave., STM Advent Reflections– St. Thomas More Church, 445 Marquette Ave., Baton Rouge, will celebrate a Mass Baton Rouge. Whether the loss of a loved one, the loss 11441 Goodwood Blvd., Baton Rouge will host a couple in honor of St. Lucy, patron saint of those with diseases of property, the loss of a job or the loss of a relationship, of Advent evenings of reflection: “Busy Lives and Rest- of the eye, Tuesday, Dec. 12, 6 p.m. All eye care profes- this service will provide an opportunity to be comfort- less Souls,” presented by Becky Eldredge, Tuesday, Dec. sionals and anyone experiencing illness or diseases of ed by the shared expression of grief and the promise of 12, 6:30 p.m., and “A Holy Longing and a Certain Pres- the eye are encouraged to attend and receive a blessing. the Lord’s healing presence. For more information, call ence,” by Deacon Clayton Hollier, Tuesday, Dec. 19, 6:30 Traditional Italian St. Lucy bread will also be distrib- the Office of Marriage and Family Life of the Diocese of p.m. For more information, call 225-275-3940. uted. For more information, call 225-926-1883 Baton Rouge at 225-242-0323. NO Day of Reflection – Sister Dorothy Trosclair, OP, Pro-life Mass – A monthly pro-life Mass will be cele- Remember Our Children – St. Alpohonsus Church, director of the Archdiocesan Spirituality Center in New brated Tuesday, Dec. 12, 5:30 p.m., at St. Agnes Church, 14040 Greenwell Springs Road, Greenwell Springs, will Orleans, will present an Advent day of reflection Tues- 749 East Blvd., Baton Rouge. For more information, call host a candlelight service for people who have lost a day, Dec. 12 at the Archdiocese of New Orleans Retreat 225-383-4127. child or support them to celebrate the life of the child Center, 5500 St. Mary St., Metairie. Minimum offer- Sunday, Dec. 10, 6 p.m. For more information, call 225- ing is $35. To register and for more information, visit TOB Training – The Diocese of Baton Rouge will be 261-4650. retreats.arch-no.org or call 1-866-937-9170.

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As we celebrate the birth of Christ, we are reminded that His message of love and compassion lives on through us. When we Christmas Memories respond to a plea for help with an act of kindness, it is His hand that guides us. This is the best Christmas present we can give: to serve on His behalf in the triumph of faith over adversity. During the holidays, most of us look forward to sharing the peace and joy of this season with family and friends. But for some people, the spirit of Christmas is slowly drowning in an ocean of worries: How will I pay the rent this month? The kids need new clothes. Will I have to tell them that Santa isn’t coming again this year? For the poor, the meaning of peace and joy is having enough money to pay the rent and buy a few gifts. For many of those who come to St. Vincent de Paul for assistance, life has always been hard, and their Christmas memories are a source of sadness; for some, the holidays started with a job loss, an accident, illness or homelessness. The photos you see here represent just a few of the people whose memories now include St. Vincent de Paul – a place of second chances and new beginnings. The people who come to us for help are counting on us. This year, our dining room will serve more than 250,000 meals; our Bishop Ott Shelter will provide over 25,000 guest nights of shelter; and our pharmacy will fill life- sustaining prescriptions worth $1 million for people who have nowhere else to turn. And A Christmas Prayer the expansion of our Sweet Dreams Shelter will allow us to help even more homeless On this day, joy was reborn into the world, mothers and children this Christmas Season. -may we share the joy of Christ with everyone. We’ll do our best to make this Christmas Season a good one for as many people as On this day, hope was reborn into the world, possible. Bishop Muench will once again serve as our St. Nick, distributing gifts to needy -may we bring the hope of Christ to those most in need. children. Our dining room will serve thousands of meals. Our shelters will provide warm On this day, peace was reborn into the world, beds to homeless men, women and children. -may we bring the peace of Christ to our family People are fighting a daily battle to survive in a complicated world, and they need your and our world. Amen help. We have included our Christmas Prayer, and that’s our first request to you – to use this prayer and join us in praying for the poor and homeless during this holy season. If you are able to help financially, we also ask you to consider adding one more person to your Christmas list: $1 will provide Cut out and send in with your financial gift. a hot meal; $10 will provide a night of shelter for a homeless family; I have enclosed a Christmas gift of $______to St. Vincent de Paul. and $28 will fill a life-sustaining prescription; so you can imagine what Name: ______a difference a larger gift can make. Any gift, no matter how small, Address: ______will bring the Christmas spirit to someone in need. City, State, Zip: ______@svdpbatonrouge Give online at: www.svdpbr.org or mail your gift to St. Vincent de Paul, P.O. Box 127, Baton Rouge, LA 70821