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was very excited to start I kindergarten. I liked going to school, and I made some new friends. After a couple of months, though, I became frightened of a boy in the other class. He was big and chased children at recess. I didn’t want to go to school or play at recess anymore. I would stand next to a teacher the whole time. My mom asked my family to fast and pray to help me be brave at school. My teacher arranged for me to have recess buddies so I wouldn’t be afraid. I was still afraid, though. My mom told me that maybe I needed to get to know the boy who frightened me. I told my teacher and she took me to meet the boy. I found out that we both have a big brother and liked the color blue. I also found out that the boy was nice and needed a friend. I am happy that Heavenly Father blessed me with Stuck! courage to face my fears. I am no longer afraid to go to school or play at recess, and I have a new friend! ust before my family was ready to Mitchell G., age 5, Oregon, with help from his mom Jleave for sacrament meeting, I got my fi nger stuck inside the end of a baseball bat. I pulled and pulled, but it Helping People would not come out. When my mom hen I was fi lling out my tith- tried to get it out, it began to hurt and Wing slip, I noticed the words swell. I did not want to pull anymore. We decided to “Perpetual education.” I asked my say a prayer and ask for Heavenly Father’s help. Right mom what that meant. She said that after we prayed, my mom had an idea. She poured some you could donate money to help cooking oil on my fi nger. Finally, after some effort it people in different countries get a popped out, and we were able to make it to church on good education. I decided to donate some money to time. I know that Heavenly Father answers our prayers. help them. I am glad I can serve people in need! Drew C., age 7, Arizona, with help from his mom McKenna B., age 9, Utah
ILLUSTRATION BY DAVID DEITRICK VOLUME 38 NUMBER 10 OCTOBER 2008
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