Spring 2019
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Welcome to the latest edition events or writing articles. Please contact of the ‘Out and About’ Poole, Andrew on 01202 743910 or your Branch Bridport and Yeovil District Secretary for more information. Events Diary. As everyone is welcome at all Oddfellows events please feel free to This edition contains even more events invite your friends and neighbours to which your branches are organising join you because we like to think that for you to enjoy. Please use this we can guarantee you a good time. handy guide so that you know what is happening in our area. On pages 31 Some of our events are now so and 32 there is an ‘At a Glance’ guide popular that we have had to refuse to all the events so please make a note late applicants – so please book of the ones that are of interest to you in early to avoid disappointment. your personal diary. Booking is essential. In addition all our branches hold Please note: Events may be added, monthly business meetings which all amended or cancelled during the members are more than welcome to period of the current diary. attend. At these meetings you will have the opportunity to learn more about our Society and become involved in A bit about us... the administration of your branch if you so wish. We really need more The Oddfellows is a friendly members to come along to these society with Branches across the meetings so it would be wonderful UK. Through friendship and social to welcome you. Details of these events, we help our members get meetings can be found on page 29 more enjoyment out of life, and offer care, advice and support Would you like to get involved in in times of need. We welcome other ways? everyone of all ages. Find out If so, there is plenty for you to get more at www.oddfellows.co.uk or involved in with the Oddfellows. You call 01202 743910. could help with care support, social
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3 March 2019
THURS Coffee Morning and Speaker THURS Benefits Information 07 from Autism Wessex 07 Event Pride of Bournemouth Branch Acorn Branch
10.30am £2 2pm Free
Please come and join us for our Acorn Branch would like to invite regular coffee morning - first Thursday members and friends to a very of each month. Tea, coffee, biscuits, informal afternoon event where you cake, a lovely chat over a cuppa - can learn more about all the benefits what a lovely way to spend a relaxing that are available to our members. time with friends old and new. This The benefits that we all know about time we have invited Tom from Autism and maybe some that you don’t - Wessex to tell us more about their Credit Union, Junior ISA, Guaranteed work so it should be an interesting Investment Bond, Citizens Advice, morning. Tuckton Social Club, Tuckton Legal Aid, etc. Road, Bournemouth BH6 3AA. Contact Margaret on 01202 775122 to book - We will also discuss what’s available we don’t want to run out of cake! for our Junior Members which is really interesting and important to us all. We will have a cuppa and a biscuit, maybe some cake! Please contact Flo to let her know you will be coming. Book by Tuesday 5 March. Three Cross Village Hall, Village Hall Lane, Three Legged Cross BH21 6SG. Contact Flo on 01202 820965.
SAT Skittles Night 09 Phoenix Branch
7pm £5
Due to the success of the Blackmore Vale Skittles Night, we have again booked The Swan in Stalbridge for another round of skittles and some good, hot food. We hope you can come and join in the fun! Book by Thursday 7 March. The Swan, High Street, Stalbridge, Sturminster Newton DT10 2LL. Contact Judy on 01963 363119.
4 March 2019
SAT Bingo Mania SAT 09 Pride of Bournemouth Branch Afternoon Tea 16 Brownsea Branch 7.30pm £3.50 2.30pm Free Something different! Join us for our Bingo Mania event - we will have conventional Bingo, Card Bingo and Irish Bingo as well! We will have a Bring and Share Supper with tea and coffee provided, but if you would like an alcoholic drink please bring your own. The raffle will be in aid of the Pulmonary Long Term Rehabilitation, Thursday night group at Bournemouth Hospital, which is our chairman, Marion Walker’s charity for the year. Prizes would be very welcome. Why not come along and join in the Bingo We would like to invite you to a Fun! Book by Thursday 7 March. new venue for us, the Poole Scout Tuckton Social Club, Tuckton Road, Hall on Canford Heath, to enjoy an Bournemouth BH6 3AA. Contact Afternoon Tea. We hope to have Margaret on 01202 775122 to book. some stalls and a raffle for our chairman’s charity - Forest Holme Hospice. Why not join us for the afternoon, see if you can win a prize and better still, make some new friends.
This is a free event - everyone welcome - the more the merrier! Book by Thursday 14 March. Poole Scout Hall, Sherborn Crescent, Poole BH17 8AP. Please contact Andrew on 01202 743910 or Margaret on 01202 775122 to book your place - we don’t want to run out of cake!
5 March 2019
MON Easter Tea Party TUES Annual Chocolate Party 18 Acorn Branch 19 Phoenix Branch
2pm £4 7.30pm Free Easter Tea Party - have a go at colouring a foam egg, small gift for ladies prettiest Easter hat! And one for the gents poshest Easter hat! Free raffle for Easter goodies. Bring and buy, books and hopefully some puzzles. Guess the weight of Teddy Acorn’s box of Easter bits and bobs. Please come and join us for our Everyone welcome as always. Annual Chocolate Party after our meeting in March. A selection of The Acorn charity for 2019 will be chocolates are eagerly tasted and Riding for the Disabled in Three enjoyed by all! We hope you can Legged Cross. The venue is on the come and join in the fun - don’t main road through the village and worry about the calories! Yeovil Ex- this again, as last month, is the Services Social Club, Preston Road, Acorn Branch Meeting at 7.30pm. Yeovil BA21 3AZ. Contact Judy on Feel free to wait at Ron and Flo’s 01963 363119 for more information. if you attend the meeting to save going home and back again. Book WED by Saturday 16 March. West Moors Lunch Club Memorial Hall, Station Road, West 20 Brownsea Branch Moors, Dorset BH22 0HS. Contact As per 12 noon Flo on 01202 820965. menu
We are going back to the New Inn for lunch, meeting at 12 noon for 12.30pm. We hope you would like to join us for what is always a good meal, with a good choice on the menu. Book by Monday 18 March. The New Inn, 222 Wimborne Road, Poole BH15 2EL. Please let Andrew on 01202 743910 or Margaret on 01202 775122 know if you would like to join us so that we can arrange to all sit together and have a good natter.
6 March 2019 April
WED SUN Lunch at the Bailey Bridge Spring Lunch 27 Pride of Bournemouth Branch 07 Brownsea Branch
As per 12 noon menu 12 noon £17
Meeting at 12.00 for 12.30 it would We have enjoyed some lovely meals at be lovely to welcome you to the the Mayfair so we’ve decided to return Bailey Bridge for lunch. A chance for our Spring Lunch this April. We will to catch up with friends and enjoy meet at 12 for 12.30pm and have our a very reasonably priced meal. usual raffle for our Chairman’s Charity, Contact Margaret to book so that the Forest Holme Hospice, so a prize we can all sit together. Book by would be very welcome. If the sun Monday 25 March. Bailey Bridge is shining it would be lovely to relax Table Table, Barrack Road, outside in the pretty garden area, but Christchurch BH23 2BN. Contact if not we will enjoy a chat with friends Margaret on 01202 775122. old and new in the lovely Garden Room Restaurant. Book by Monday April 1 April. Mayfair Hotel, Bath Road, Bournemouth BH1 2NW. Please contact THURS Andrew on 01202 743910 or Margaret Coffee Morning on 01202 775122 to book. 04 Pride of Bournemouth Branch
10.30am £2
Our regular Coffee Mornings are always a nice way to spend an hour or so, enjoying good company, a chat TUES over tea or coffee, lovely cakes and Social Lunch biscuits. We always have a raffle for 09 Phoenix Branch our chairman’s charity, which this As per 12 noon year is the Pulmonary Long Term menu Rehabilitation, Thursday night group, at Bournemouth Hospital - why not Please join us for our lunch at the see if you can win a prize? Book by White Hart. This is a lovely venue and Wednesday 3 April. Tuckton Social we hope you will want to come and Club, Tuckton Road, Bournemouth BH6 join in a relaxing lunch with friends 3AA. If you would like to come and join old and new. Book by Saturday 6 in the fun please give Margaret a call April. White Hart, Main Road, Bishop’s on 01202 775122 - bring a friend or two Caundle, Sherborne DT9 5ND. - the more the merrier. Contact Judy on 01963 363119 to book.
7 April
THURS SAT Coffee Morning Champagne Breakfast 18 Brownsea Branch 13 Acorn Branch 10.30am As per menu 9.30am £5.50 It would be lovely to see you for It’s Champagne coffee and cake at Harry’s. Tim does Breakfast time lovely breakfasts - it doesn’t have again, but to be cake! Why not bring a friend please book along to meet us? Have a chat over by March 31st your coffee, put the world to rights - as spaces are hopefully a raffle for Forest Holme. A limited. The nice way to spend the morning. Book usual glass of bubbly, continental by Tuesday 16 April. Harry’s Bar, 14 or English Breakfast. Please order Haven Road, Poole BH13 7LP. Please which you prefer when booking. contact Andrew on 01202 743910 or Margaret on 01202 775122 to book. At this event we will be presenting all monies raised during the last 12 MON months to Diverse Abilities, West Pub Quiz and Supper Moors. As always we welcome 29 Brownsea Branch your bring and buy, paperbacks, jigsaws and raffle prizes. Also 7pm £9 there will be the first tombola of the year together with a free raffle We would like to invite you to join for plants. There is always great us for Supper followed by a Quiz at The Pilot on Canford Heath. Eating fun in the kitchen at this event at 7pm the quiz will follow at 8pm as the eggs get cracked, bacon and we will also have a raffle for and sausages get cooked and our Chairman’s Charity. There will the beans have been in the slow be the opportunity to have a very cooker since early on. reasonably priced sweet after your meal if you so wish. We hope The Acorn charity for 2019 will be you will join us for a fun evening, Riding for the Disabled in Three a chance to win prizes during the Legged Cross - thank you for quiz and support a very worthy your support. Book by Sunday 31 cause - the Forest Holme Hospice. March. Three Cross Village Hall, Book by Saturday 27 April. The Pilot, Village Hall Lane, Three Legged 1 Adastral Road, Poole BH17 8SA. Cross BH21 6SG. Contact Flo on Contact Andrew on 01202 743910 or 01202 820965. Margaret on 01202 775122 to book. The menu is available now!
8 May
THURS SAT Gems, Tiaras and Coffee Morning 02 Pride of Bournemouth Branch 11 Crowns High Tea Acorn Branch
10.30am £2 2pm £4
We would like Ladies, why not wear a to invite you fun tiara, and gents a to our regular crown?? Free raffle for Coffee Morning fruit, quiz on jewels and - just a lovely gems, small gift for pearl themed flower opportunity to arrangement. Usual raffle. Bring and get together over buy and books always welcome. Please a cuppa, enjoy each other’s company come and join us at a gem of a tea, - and a cake or two of course! Raising admire the crowns and tiaras, try your money for our chairman’s charity as hand at the quiz, meet friends and relax usual by having a little raffle. Book for the afternoon with a glass of Pimms. by Wednesday 1 May. Tuckton Social The Acorn Charity for 2019 will be Club, Tuckton Road, Bournemouth Riding for the Disabled in Three Legged BH6 3AA. Please let Margaret know Cross. Book by Thursday 9 May. Three if you would like to come along on Cross Village Hall, Village Hall Lane, 01202 775122. Three Legged Cross BH21 6SG. Contact Flo on 01202 820965.
THURS Afternoon Tea Party and Gardening Talk 09 Pride of Bournemouth Branch
2.30pm £3.50
We would like to invite you to join us for our Afternoon Tea Party at Tuckton Social Club. We hope to welcome a speaker on ‘Gardening’ and will have our usual raffle for our chairman’s charity - prizes would be very much appreciated. This year Marion Walker has chosen the Pulmonary Long Term Rehabilitation, Thursday night group, at Bournemouth Hospital as her charity. Hopefully we’ll have a few garden themed quizzes with appropriate prizes. Why not join us for a relaxing Afternoon Tea, have a chat with friends and enjoy the talk. Book by Tuesday 7 May. Tuckton Social Club, Tuckton Road, Bournemouth BH6 3AA. Contact Margaret on 01202 775122 or Edna on 01202 677101 to book. 9 May June
THURS MON Charity Coffee Morning Summer Afternoon Tea 16 Pride of Bournemouth Branch 03 Acorn Branch
Free, but donations 10.30am 2pm £4 welcome
Norman and Edna would like to Please come along welcome you to their house once and join us for again for another fundraising coffee an afternoon of morning. This is a free event, but Summer “things”, donations for our Chairman’s Charity sports, sun and scenery. Maybe some summer items would be very welcome. We will have to purchase on the bring and buy and all the usual stalls and a raffle, so paperbacks to read in your garden please come and join us for a relaxing chair. Free raffle for vegetables, usual time with friends old and new. If the raffle, all are welcome together with weather is fine we will be able to enjoy friends and neighbours. Lets have a Edna and Norman’s beautiful garden. bit of fun as we celebrate Royal Ascot, Book by Tuesday 14 May. Edna and Henley sailing, cricket and Wimbledon. Norman’s house, 49 Warburton Road, The Acorn charity for 2019 will be Riding Canford Heath, Poole BH17 8SD. for the Disabled in Three Legged Cross. Contact Margaret on 01202 775122 or Book by Saturday 1 June. Three Cross Edna on 01202 677101 to book. Village Hall, Village Hall Lane, Three Legged Cross BH21 6SG. Contact Flo on 01202 820965. WED Afternoon Tea THURS 22 Brownsea Branch Coffee Morning 06 Pride of Bournemouth Branch 3pm £4.50 10.30am £2 We hope you can come and join us for Afternoon Tea at Julie and Andrew’s Raising money for our chairman’s house - 105 Sandbanks Road. We charity, the Pulmonary Long Term will have a raffle for our chairman’s Rehabilitation, Thursday night group charity, the Forest Holme Hospice, and at Bournemouth Hospital, our regular maybe a quiz. We’re hoping for fine coffee mornings are a really nice way to weather so that we can enjoy their keep in touch with friends over a cup of lovely garden, but if it’s chilly we will be indoors. Book by Monday 20 May. Julie tea or coffee and enjoy a cake or two. and Andrew’s House, 105 Sandbanks We hope you will want to come and join Road, Poole BH14 8BT. Contact us! Tuckton Social Club, Tuckton Road, Margaret on 01202 775122 or Andrew Bournemouth BH6 3AA. Please just give on 01202 743910. Margaret a ring on 01202 775122 to let us know you’re coming. 10 June
SAT SUN District Coffee Morning Annual District 08 and Light Refreshments 09 Church Service
Adults: 20p 2.30pm Free 10.30am Children Free Our Annual Church Service will be at St Mark’s Talbot Village, followed by refreshments All monies raised will go to the in the church Ferndown District Support Group hall. All members and friends for Parkinsons, which Ron Munro, are very welcome to join us, but the Chairman of the District, has please let the District Secretary chosen as his charity. Coffee, know you are coming to ensure biscuits, light lunch refreshments at we cater for everyone. Ron a nominal charge. Children’s toys Munro, our District Chairman, and games, cake stall, plant stall, looks forward to welcoming tombola, have a go on winning a you all to the service and hopes hamper, face painting for children that everyone will have a very and other attractions. enjoyable afternoon.
The Acorn Branch are pleased A fantastic opportunity to catch to host this event which will be up with friends from across advertised in and around the the District, and of course local area to promote the District. neighbouring Districts, that we Please pay us a visit and join in the don’t see so often, so please come fun and atmosphere, meet your along and make it a special day friends, enjoy a cuppa and support for Ron. the Parkinsons Group. There is ample parking at West Book by Friday 7 June. St Mark’s Moors Memorial Hall, Station Church, Talbot Village, Wallisdown Road, West Moors, Dorset Road, Bournemouth BH10 4HY. BH22 0HS. Contact Flo on Contact Andrew on 01202 743910. 01202 820965.
11 June
MON WED Coffee Morning Afternoon Tea 10 Brownsea Branch 19 Brownsea Branch
10.30am £2.50 3pm £3.50
Julie and Andrew would be happy Sandra and Nigel are welcoming to welcome you to their house for us back to their beautiful garden a Coffee Morning in aid of our for an Afternoon Tea. Come and Chairman’s Charity for the year - relax in the sunshine (hopefully) Forest Holme Hospice. Why not join and enjoy good company, good us for coffee, cake and a natter? We’ll food, and a good natter! We will be have a raffle, maybe a book stall, so supporting Forest Holme by having a raffle prize would be appreciated. a raffle so prizes would be very Book by Saturday 8 June. Julie and much appreciated. Book by Monday Andrew’s House, 105 Sandbanks 17 June. Sandra and Nigel’s house, Road, Poole BH14 8BT. Please contact 176 Verity Crescent, Poole BH17 8TZ. Andrew on 01202 743910 or Margaret Contact Andrew on 01202 743910 or on 01202 775122 to book - we don’t Margaret on 01202 775122 to book want to run out of cake! your place.
THURS Healthy Afternoon Tea and Speaker 13 Pride of Bournemouth Branch
2.30pm Free
We would like to invite you to join us for our Healthy Afternoon Tea to find out how to keep ourselves healthy and to learn more about our Society. We hope to welcome a speaker who will give us advice on healthy living. We will have a lovely afternoon tea with lots of healthier options, a raffle, an opportunity to meet like minded people and to have some fun together. This is a free healthy event, but please let Margaret know you will be coming along - we don’t want to run out of our healthy food! Or the cake! Book by Tuesday 11 June. Tuckton Social Club, Tuckton Road, Bournemouth BH6 3AA. Contact Margaret on 01202 775122.
12 June July
SAT THURS Quiz Night Coffee Morning 22 Pride of Bournemouth Branch 04 Pride of Bournemouth Branch
7.30pm £3.50 10.30am £2
Why not join We’d love to see you at our Coffee us for our Morning - why not bring along a Quiz Night at friend or two? We have tea, coffee, the Tuckton cake, biscuits, a lovely venue and Social Club good company - what more could with a bring you need? During the morning we’ll and share have a raffle in aid of our chairman’s buffet supper. Please bring your own charity for the year, the Pulmonary alcoholic drinks and glasses - tea Long Term Rehabilitation Thursday and coffee will be provided as usual. night group, at Bournemouth We hope you will come and join us Hospital, so your support is very much to test your ‘grey cells’ and have fun appreciated. Book by Wednesday with friends. We’ll have our usual 3 July. Tuckton Social Club, Tuckton raffle and prizes for the top scorers Road, Bournemouth BH6 3AA. Hope on the quizzes. Book by Thursday 20 to see you there! Please contact June. Tuckton Social Club, Tuckton Margaret on 01202 775122 to let us Road, Bournemouth BH6 3AA. Contact know you’ll be coming. Margaret on 01202 775122 to book.
SUN Annual Lunch 23 Phoenix Branch
12 noon £18
The Phoenix Annual Lunch will be at the Henstridge Golf Club this year. We hope you would like to come and join us for our annual event. A three course lunch, tea or coffee, will be served. The bar will be open! Book by Wednesday 19 June. Henstridge Golf Club, Marsh Lane, Henstridge, Templecombe BA8 0TG. Please contact Judy on 01963 363119 to book your place.
13 July
MON FRI July Tea Party Blackmore Vale Branch 08 Acorn Branch 12 Annual Walk
Free to walk, as 2pm £4 6.30pm menu for lunch
Should be Summer, fingers crossed, Blackmore Vale Branch annual walk, so an afternoon related to sunshine! ending with a pub meal. Contact Judy Here, there and everywhere and on 01963 363119 for details. anywhere else in between! Use your building skills with marshmallows SAT and spaghetti, free raffle for fruit, the Early Evening BBQ usual raffle and hopefully some bring 13 Brownsea Branch and buy to purchase. Summer hats and boaters welcome. Small prize 4pm £6.50 for the best lady and gent’s seasonal ‘titfers’. West Moors Memorial Hall, Last year’s Station Road, West Moors, Dorset BBQ was BH22 0HS. Please let Flo know by such a Thursday 4 July if you would like to lovely event join in a sunshine afternoon. that we’ve decided THURS to do it all again! Please come Walk to Highcliffe Castle and join us in Sandra and Nigel’s 11 Pride of Bournemouth Branch beautiful garden, enjoy the food, good company and maybe a quiz. Free to walk, as 11am menu for lunch We are hoping for nice weather so that we can really enjoy the Meeting at Steamer Point we will walk garden. Please bring your own to Highcliffe Castle. Either bring your alcoholic drinks - tea and coffee own picnic to enjoy or have lunch at and soft drinks will be provided. the restaurant at the Castle. If you would prefer not to walk and just join As usual we will have a raffle for us at the Castle for lunch that’s fine, Margaret White’s charity - Forest we should be there by 12 noon and it Holme Hospice - so a raffle prize would be lovely to see you. Everyone would be very much appreciated. welcome, either for the walk and lunch, Book by Thursday 11 July. Sandra or just for the lunch. Book by Tuesday and Nigel’s house, 176 Verity 9 July. Steamer Point Car Park, Penny Crescent, Poole BH17 8TZ. Please Way, Christchurch BH23 4TA. Contact contact Andrew on 01202 743910 or Margaret on 01202 775122 if you would Margaret on 01202 775122 to book like to join us. your place.
14 July
THURS Coffee Morning 25 Brownsea Branch
10.30am £2
We are going back to Julie and Andrew’s house for our July Coffee Morning and hope that you will want to join us. A chat over coffee or tea and lovely cakes and biscuits will be the order of the day, with savouries too for those who don’t like to eat too many sweet things. We’ll have a raffle for Forest Holme, so a prize would be wonderful. Book by Tuesday 23 July. Julie and Andrew’s House, 105 Sandbanks Road, Poole BH14 8BT. Contact Andrew on 01202 743910 or Margaret on 01202 775122 if you would like to come along and join in the fun.
SUN Annual Garden Party 28 Pride of Bournemouth Branch
12.30pm £6
We are returning to Norman and Edna’s house again for our Annual Garden Party. Please come and enjoy their beautiful garden, the flowers, the food, the stalls and the fun!
We will have a buffet lunch followed by sweets and puddings - tea and coffee will be provided but if you would like something stronger please bring your own. Please bring a chair and hope for fine weather! We hope we will all have a relaxing afternoon in good company, join in the raffle for our chairman’s charity, and have a wonderful time. Our chairman, Marion Walker, is raising money for the Pulmonary Long Term Rehabilitation, Thursday night group, at Bournemouth Hospital this year.
49 Warburton Road, Canford Heath, Poole BH17 8SD. This is usually a very popular event so please book early, or at the very latest by Friday 26 July, with Margaret on 01202 775122 or Edna on 01202 677101.
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THURS Coffee Morning 01 Pride of Bournemouth Branch
10.30am £2
Do you enjoy cake? How about a natter over a coffee? Well, we can provide both, and biscuits as well! We will also be raising money for our chairman’s charity by having a raffle during the morning. Tuckton Social Club, Tuckton Road, Bournemouth BH6 3AA. Please contact Margaret to book on 01202 775122.
SAT August Coffee Morning and Lunch 03 Acorn Branch
10.30am £4
Coffee at 10.30am, with lunch at 12.15pm - this month we hope to feature the skills of our members with homemade cooking and photography. There will be six classes to enter, suitable for both ladies’ and gents’ skills. All recipes and photography classes available from Flo so please have a go and there will be a small prize for the best in each class. Ham or cheese salad lunch, please order when booking, assorted desserts, tea and coffee. Have a go on guessing Teddy Acorn’s favourite pudding, book stall, raffle, bring and buy, glass of Pimms, free raffle for vegetables, guess which country eats what puddings! Have a go on the bottle top challenge! Please join us at this Summer event, bring a friend or neighbour, but please let Flo know you wish to attend for catering purposes. All monies raised will go to the Riding for the Disabled at Three Cross. Book by Thursday 1 August. Three Cross Village Hall, Village Hall Lane, Three Legged Cross BH21 6SG. Contact Flo on 01202 820965.
17 August
MON Coffee Morning at SAT Barbeque The Spire 05 10 Phoenix Branch Brownsea Branch
10.30am As per menu 2.30pm £5
We are off to the The Spire once Jo and Dave again for our Coffee Morning. Come Maidment and join us for a chat over coffee, one are opening of their lovely cakes, or even a bacon their sandwich! The Spire is in the heart of garden for the old Poole area so there are plenty a barbeque of shops to have a look at, or you can in August. take a walk along the Quay and enjoy They will supply the food so you just the summer sunshine. We hope you need to bring something to drink. will want to come and join us and The cost is just £5 and any profits maybe bring a friend along to meet will go to charity. Jo and Dave’s us. Book by Friday 2 August. The Spire, house, 5 Foxs Close, Sherborne DT9 High Street, Poole BH15 1DF. Contact 5LH. Numbers will be limited to 20 Andrew on 01202 743910 or Margaret so please book as soon as possible on 01202 775122. with Judy on 01963 363119.
THURS Evening Boat Trip - Poole Quay 08 Pride of Bournemouth Branch
6pm TBC
We thought we would try something new - an Evening boat trip with a Fish and Chip Supper. Hopefully the weather will be kind to us and we will enjoy a lovely trip around the harbour - beautiful views, fresh air and good company!
Poole Quay, Poole, Dorset BH15 1HJ. For more details about booking and pricing please contact Margaret on 01202 775122.
18 August
SUN MON Buffet Lunch Forest Picnic 11 Brownsea Branch 12 Acorn Branch
12 noon £6.50 2pm Free
The picnic will be at Wilverly Plain Julie and Andrew look forward in the New Forest and SO42 7UP to welcoming you to our annual is the nearest postcode for your Buffet Lunch at their house once SATNAV if you have one - it is again! We will hope for fine situated on the Brockenhurst to weather, but it might be an idea to Burley Road. bring your brolly! We will have our usual raffle in aid of Margaret’s Please contact Flo on 01202 chosen charity for the year - 820965 to book and please turn Forest Holme. up (weather permitting) with your own choice of picnic and we Tea and coffee will be included will endeavour to find some new in the price but if you would easy games for this now annual like something stronger please event. We spend most of the time bring your own. We hope to have laughing at all of our antics as we Mary’s fantastic puddings - not to try to either throw or catch balls be missed! Why not bring a friend and skittles etc. Sometimes the along to find out about all the ice-cream van is near, if so we benefits of being a member? can all have one on the branch. Book by Thursday 8 August. We will still hold a raffle and a Julie and Andrew’s House, 105 quiz. All monies for Riding for the Sandbanks Road, Poole BH14 8BT. Disabled at Three Cross. Book by Contact Andrew on 01202 743910 or Sunday 11 August. Wilverly Plain, Margaret on 01202 775122 to book. New Forest SO42 7UP.
19 August September
THURS Southbourne 22 Clifftop Walk Pride of Bournemouth Branch
10.30am
As per menu - coffee and/or lunch
We enjoyed our Clifftop Walk so much MON Friendship Coffee last year we are doing it again! Why 02 Morning not join us this time for a lovely walk Brownsea Branch along the cliffs at Southbourne - actually it was more of a gentle stroll 10.30am Free as it was so hot last year! We would like to invite you to join us Meeting at Cafe Riva at 10.30am for a for our Friendship Coffee Morning coffee, then a walk along the cliff top, at Julie and Andrew’s house. Coffee, followed by lunch at the Boscombe cake and biscuits will be the order of Cliff Bowling Club. Blow away those the day, and we hope you will bring cobwebs, have a chat with friends, a friend along who would benefit and enjoy a lovely lunch - brilliant! from learning about what a fantastic Hopefully the weather will be kind organisation the Oddfellows is. This is again this year, but bringing a brolly a free event and everyone is welcome. is always a good plan. We really hope We’ll have a raffle for Forest Holme you can join us. If you can’t manage during the morning so if you can bring the walk why not meet us at the along a prize that would be brilliant. bowling club at about 12 noon and Book by Saturday 31 August. Julie join us for the lunch? and Andrew’s House, 105 Sandbanks Road, Poole BH14 8BT. Please contact Book by Tuesday 20 August. Cafe Andrew on 01202 743910 or Margaret Riva, Boscombe Overcliff Drive, on 01202 775122 to let us know you will Southbourne, Bournemouth BH5 2EL. be coming. Contact Margaret on 01202 775122 so we can book a table or two at the bowling club and all sit together.
20 September
MON THURS Friendship Tea and Friendship Tea Party 05 Coffee Morning 09 Acorn Branch Pride of Bournemouth Branch 2pm £3.50 10.30am Free As this is usually the Society’s Friendship Month we invite all members and friends from around as far as possible to join us for the Tea Party. This will take the form of friends we have or friends we have known. If possible please bring a photograph of them, or of the two of you together. We will bring a board so that they can be displayed. Maybe these friends live abroad, but never-the-less we will enjoy meeting them from a photograph. Scones and cream for tea together with the other goodies, bring and buy, raffle and free meat raffle. Hopefully meet new folk, catch up with everyone as Autumn approaches. Book by Friday 6 September. Ferndown Welcome to Friendship Month! We Guide Hall, Entrance to Tesco Car hope you will bring along a friend Park, Ferndown, Dorset BH22 9TH. or two for a chat and a cuppa. Please contact Flo on 01202 820965. If There will be home made cakes, possible please park in the bottom of some stalls and a raffle. Why not Tesco car park as spaces are limited join us and see if you can win at the Guide Hall. a prize or two, better still make some new friends, and learn a bit more about our Society. This is a free event and everyone is very welcome - the more the merrier! Book by Tuesday 3 September. Tuckton Social Club, Tuckton Road, Bournemouth BH6 3AA. Please contact Margaret on 01202 775122 to book your place.
21 September
SAT Bingo and Fish and Chip Supper 21 Pride of Bournemouth Branch
7.30pm £6 WED Friendship Afternoon 18 Tea Brownsea Branch
2.30pm Free
Our Friendship Afternoon Tea will be at the East Dorset Lawn Tennis and Croquet Club once again this year. The club put on a fantastic spread last year - lovely sandwiches, cake and We all had savouries will be available to try, so a brilliant we hope you will want to come and time last join in the fun. Please bring along a year at friend or two who might benefit from our Bingo joining us - learn more about what we and have to offer our members - and have Supper a relaxing afternoon together. We’ll evening have a raffle for our charity - Forest and we hope you will want to join Holme - and if the weather is fine we us this time! Eyes down and look in might be able to sit outside and watch for our second Friendship Month the tennis or the croquet. This is a free event - why not bring along a event, so please bring your friends. friend or two? We will have a Book by Monday 16 September. East raffle as usual for our chairman’s Dorset Lawn Tennis and Croquet charity, so prizes would be very Club, Salterns Road, Poole BH14 8BL. welcome please. Why not come Contact Margaret on 01202 775122 or and join in the fun and try to win Andrew on 01202 743910. a prize - including cash prizes for a full house! Tuckton Social Club, Tuckton Road, Bournemouth BH6 3AA. This event was very popular last year so please book early with Margaret (01202 775122) to avoid disappointment, and by Thursday 19 September at the very latest.
22 September
SAT 28 District Coffee Morning and Light Refreshments
Adults 20p, 10.30am Children Free
The District Chairman, Ron Munro, and the Acorn Branch take pleasure in inviting as many as possible to the second event at the Memorial Hall, from 10.30am to 3pm, in aid of the Ferndown Support Parkinsons Group. This is the chosen charity and Ron would like to thank everyone for the monies raised so far during his year as Chairman. This event will take the same format as the one in June with maybe some different attractions. Coffee, biscuits and light refreshments will be available at a nominal charge. It is hoped to have a guest to open the event and as in June the event will be advertised locally to encourage new membership for the District. As this will still be Friendship Month please encourage friends who may be interested in the Oddfellows. West Moors Memorial Hall, Station Road, West Moors, Dorset BH22 0HS. Contact Flo on 01202 820965. October
THURS Coffee Morning 03 Pride of Bournemouth Branch
10.30am £2
We will be meeting once again for our regular coffee morning at Tuckton Social Club. Please come and join us for a relaxing morning, a chat over your tea or coffee, and enjoy one of our lovely cakes. An opportunity to meet new friends in a friendly environment. Raising money by having a raffle for our chairman’s charity, the Pulmonary Long Term Rehabilitation, Thursday night group at Bournemouth Hospital - so prizes would be very much appreciated. Book by Wednesday 2 October. Tuckton Social Club, Tuckton Road, Bournemouth BH6 3AA. Please contact Margaret on 01202 775122 to book your place.
23 October
MON Harvest Tea Party SUN 07 Acorn Branch 13 Annual District Lunch
2pm £4 12.30pm TBC Assorted rolls and bread, together with cold meats and pickles and This year our Annual District Lunch will be at a wonderful new venue - the some of the normal refreshments Remedy Oak Golf Club. We hope that for Afternoon Tea with a difference. many members and friends will be Have a go spinning the wheel, brush able to join us. Our Chairman this year up on your cheeses and cereal grains is Ron Munro and after lunch we will for a quiz, and 10 ball pick up game, have a raffle to support his charity, time permitting. Ample parking. Bring the Ferndown District Support Group and buy with bookstall. All raffle for Parkinsons, so raffle prizes would prizes gratefully accepted. Free raffle be very much appreciated as always. for biscuits and cheeses. Hopefully Remedy Oak Golf Club, Horton Road, some jigsaws on sale for the winter Woodlands, Wimborne BH21 8ND. Ron evenings. Come along room for all, looks forward to welcoming you to the and be assured of a warm welcome Remedy Oak - numbers are limited so as always. Book by Friday 4 October. please contact Andrew on West Moors Memorial Hall, Station 01202 743910 to book your place. Book Road, West Moors, Dorset BH22 0HS. by Friday 4 October. Contact Flo on 01202 820965. WED Afternoon Tea at the 16 Sweet Home Brownsea Branch £16 for two 3pm approximately
Emma does a fantastic Afternoon Tea so we hope you will want to join us for a relaxing afternoon, have a chat over SAT your cuppa and enjoy the lovely food. Skittles Night We’ll have a raffle for Forest Holme as 12 Blackmore Vale Branch usual, so a prize would be appreciated. Why not join us and hopefully meet 7pm TBC some new friends at the same time. Book by Monday 14 October. Sweet Blackmore Vale Skittles Night, venue Home Inn, 25 Ringwood Road, Poole to be arranged. Contact Judy on BH14 0RF. Please contact Sandra on 01963 363119 for details. 01202 770929 to book.
24 October
SAT WED Ploughman’s Supper Lunch Club 26 Pride of Bournemouth Branch 30 Brownsea Branch
As per 7.30pm £3.50 12 noon menu
Why not join us for our Ploughman’s We are trying the New Inn again for Supper and an autumn/harvest our lunch club and it would be lovely themed evening. We may have a quiz to welcome you. Enjoy a nice lunch, or two and harvest inspired activities. chat with friends and generally put the Something to cheer us all up as the world to rights. Book by Monday 28 weather will probably be ‘Autumnal’ October. The New Inn, 222 Wimborne by now. Our social events are always Road, Poole BH15 2EL. Please contact good fun - everyone will be made Andrew on 01202 743910 or Margaret very welcome. on 01202 775122 to book.
The usual raffle for our District November Chairman’s charity will be held and we would be grateful to receive WED Supper at the prizes for this year’s very worthy 06 Sweet Home cause - the Pulmonary Long Term Brownsea Branch Rehabilitation, Thursday night group at Bournemouth Hospital. Book by 7pm £10 Thursday 24 October. Tuckton Social Club, Tuckton Road, Bournemouth We are returning BH6 3AA. Please book early to avoid to the Sweet disappointment with Margaret on Home for supper 01202 775122. and hopefully a game of Bingo or a Quiz - more details in the next diary. Emma always looks after us very well at the Sweet Home so we hope you will come and join in the fun, buy a raffle ticket for our chairman’s charity - Forest Holme Hospice - and win a prize or two. Book by Monday 4 November. Sweet Home Inn, 25 Ringwood Road, Poole BH14 0RF. Contact Andrew on 01202 743910 or Margaret on 01202 775122 to book as we will need to pre-order our menu choices.
25 November
THURS 07 Coffee Morning THURS Afternoon Tea and Talk Pride of Bournemouth Branch 14 by a Guest Speaker Pride of Bournemouth Branch 10.30am £2 2.30pm £3.50 Our regular coffee mornings have been going strong for over a year now - we hope you will want to come along and join in the fun! Tea, coffee, cake, biscuits, a raffle for our chairman’s charity and good company is the order of the day. Tuckton Social Club, Tuckton Road, Bournemouth BH6 3AA. Please contact Margaret on 01202 775122 to book. We would love to welcome you to TUES Social Lunch our Afternoon Tea - sandwiches, 12 Phoenix Branch cake, savouries, tea or coffee and hopefully a guest speaker, yet to As per 12 noon be arranged, all for £3.50! We will menu have more details in the Autumn Why not join us for our social lunch diary regarding the speaker. at Pen Mill Hotel in Yeovil? It would Come and join us for a relaxing be wonderful to welcome you to this afternoon and hopefully meet lovely hotel - enjoy a lovely meal some new friends. We are raising and catch up with friends. Book by money for our chairman’s charity Friday 8 November. Pen Mill Hotel, as usual, so if you could bring Sherborne Road, Yeovil BA21 5DB. along a raffle prize that would Please contact Judy on 01963 363119 be very much appreciated. Our to book. charity this year is the Pulmonary Long Term Rehabilitation, Thursday night group at Bournemouth Hospital. Please book early, but by Tuesday 12 November at the latest with Margaret on 01202 775122. Tuckton Social Club, Tuckton Road, Bournemouth BH6 3AA.
26 November December
THURS SUN Christmas Lunch with Coffee Morning 21 Brownsea Branch 01 Brownsea Branch Pride of Bournemouth Branch
10.30am As per menu 12.30pm TBC
We’re going back to Harry’s for our We are hoping to join together again coffee morning this time. Why not come this year for our Christmas festivities. along and enjoy a relaxing morning There will be more details in the with friends old and new, a chat over Autumn diary. Please be aware that your coffee, lovely cakes or breakfast, the venue may change. Riviera Hotel, and good company - what more Burnaby Road, Alum Chine BH4 8JF. could we ask for? A raffle for Forest Contact Margaret on 01202 775122 or Holme will be held, so prizes would be Andrew on 01202 743910 to express welcome - we hope you can join us. your interest please. Book by Tuesday 19 November. Harry’s Bar, 14 Haven Road, Poole BH13 7LP. Please contact Andrew on 01202 743910 or Margaret on 01202 775122 to let us know you are coming. MON Pre-Christmas 25 Coffee Morning Acorn Branch THURS Christmas Coffee 10am TBC 05 Morning Pride of Bournemouth Branch
All details 10.30am £2 will be in the September Our Christmas Coffee Morning Events Diary should be great fun and we hope but please you will be able to join us for festive save the date refreshments, tea or coffee, good of Monday 25 November for the Pre- friends, in a lovely venue, and try Christmas Coffee Morning. There to win a prize in our usual raffle. will be a nominal charge. Teddy Why not bring a friend along to Acorn will attend. Festive goodies enjoy a relaxing morning? Book to munch and much more. Book by by Wednesday 4 December. Friday 22 November. Three Cross Tuckton Social Club, Tuckton Road, Village Hall, Village Hall Lane, Three Bournemouth BH6 3AA. Contact Legged Cross BH21 6SG. Contact Flo Margaret on 01202 775122 to book on 01202 820965. your place.
27 December
SAT SAT Festive Lunch Christmas Lunch 07 Acorn Branch 14 Pride of Bournemouth Branch
11.30am £5 12 noon TBC
All details in the September Events The Blackmore Vale Branch will be Diary, but please save the date holding their Christmas Lunch at of Saturday 7 December. 11.30am Yeovil Golf Club. We hope you can for 12 noon. Festive Lunch, glass of join us for the festivities. Book by bubbles, competitions, raffle, etc. This Monday 9 December. Yeovil Golf must be booked and names written Club, Sherborne Road, Yeovil BA21 down when booking please. Book by 5BW. Please contact Judy on 01963 Wednesday 4 December. Three Cross 363119 if you would like to join us. Village Hall, Village Hall Lane, Three Legged Cross BH21 6SG. Contact Flo TUES on 01202 820965. Christmas Party 10 Phoenix Branch MON Christmas Coffee 09 Morning 7.30pm Free Brownsea Branch
10.30am £2.50 Our Christmas Party is always good fun, so why not join us? We will have Our a bring and share supper, a game Christmas or two, maybe a Christmas Quiz. We Coffee will have a raffle for our chairman’s Morning charity, so prizes would be very much will be at appreciated. We hope you can come Julie and and enjoy the festivities! Book by Andre’s Sunday 8 December. Tuckton Social house - Club, Tuckton Road, Bournemouth please come along and join in the BH6 3AA. As usual this is a free event, fun! All the usual Christmas goodies - so please book early with Margaret mince pies, savouries, tea and coffee, on 01202 775122. a raffle for Forest Holme, good friends, maybe a cracker or two! Book by Saturday 7 December. Julie and Andrew’s House, 105 Sandbanks Road, Poole BH14 8BT. Please contact Andrew on 01202 743910 or Margaret on 01202 775122 to join in the festivities! 28 Business Meetings
Every Oddfellows Branch is run independently by a committee of members. Regular meetings are held to discuss matters such as Branch finances, membership and member support. Any member is welcome to attend these meetings, if you’d like to know more or come along to one, please contact the Branch Secretary. See below for further meeting details.
Acorn Branch Secretary: Judith Parkin 43 Branksome Wood Road, Bournemouth BH4 9JT. Telephone: 01202 762553 Email: [email protected]
Meeting third Monday of every month at Ferndown United Church, 505 Wimborne Road, East Ferndown BH22 9NF.
Brownsea Branch Secretary: Andrew Hampton 105 Sandbanks Road, Poole BH14 8BT Telephone: 01202 743910 Email: [email protected]
Meeting third Tuesday of every month at East Dorset Lawn Tennis and Croquet Club, Salterns Road, Poole BH14 8BL.
Hand-in-Hand Branch Secretary: Stephen Slade 21 Great Western Road, Dorchester DT1 1UF. Telephone: 01305 260081 Email: [email protected]
Meeting second Tuesday of every month at Wessex Royale Hotel, 32 High West Street, Dorchester DT1 1UF.
Phoenix Branch (Incorporating Blackmore Vale meetings) Secretary: Judy Penfold 39 Grosvenor Road, Stalbridge DT10 2PL. Telephone: 01963 363119 Email: [email protected]
Meeting third Tuesday every month at Yeovil Ex-Services Social Club, Preston Road, Yeovil BA21 3AZ.
Pride of Bournemouth Branch Secretary: Margaret White, 15 Playfields Drive, Poole BH12 2EG. Telephone: 01202 775122 Email: [email protected]
Meeting fourth Tuesday of every month at Tuckton Social Club, Tuckton Road, Bournemouth BH6 3AA. District Meetings Half-Yearly District Meeting Saturday 17 August 2019, 10.30am.Three Cross Village Hall.
29 Traditional Meetings Wessex Provincial Branch of Past Grands Secretary: Robert Southam Flat 4, 24-28 Sea View Road, Parkstone, Poole BH12 3JY. Telephone: 01202 734705 This is a ritual Branch and all members who have taken their Purple Degree are welcome to attend. Please contact Robert for venue and date details. Bournemouth and District Minor Degree Branch Secretary: Robert Southam Flat 4, 24-28 Sea View Road, Parkstone, Poole BH12 3JY. Telephone: 01202 734705 This is a ritual Branch and the taking of the Minor Degrees is a prerequisite for being Noble Grand (Chairman) of one’s Branch. Please contact Robert for venue and date details. At a glance March 2019 April Thurs 7 Coffee Morning 10.30am Thurs 4 Coffee Morning 10.30am and speaker from (Pride of Autism Wessex (Pride Bournemouth Branch) of Bournemouth Branch) Sun 7 Spring Lunch 12 noon Thurs 7 Benefits Information 2pm (Brownsea Branch) Event (Acorn Branch) Tues 9 Social Lunch 12 noon Sat 9 Skittles Night 7pm (Phoenix Branch) (Phoenix Branch) Sat 13 Champagne 9.30am Sat 9 Bingo Mania (Pride 7.30pm Breakfast (Acorn Branch) of Bournemouth Branch) Thurs 18 Coffee Morning 10.30am Sat 16 Afternoon Tea 2.30pm (Brownsea Branch) (Brownsea Branch) Mon 29 Pub Quiz and Supper 7pm Mon 18 Easter Tea Party 2pm (Brownsea Branch) (Acorn Branch) Tues 19 Annual Chocolate 7.30pm May Party (Phoenix Branch) Thurs 2 Coffee Morning 10.30am Wed 20 Lunch Club 12 noon (Pride of (Brownsea Branch) Bournemouth Branch) Wed 27 Lunch at the Bailey 12 noon Thurs 9 Afternoon Tea 2.30pm Bridge (Pride of Party and Gardening Bournemouth Branch) Talk (Pride of Bournemouth Branch) Sat 11 Gems, Tiaras and 2pm Crowns High Tea (Acorn Branch)
30 At a glance May July Thurs 16 Charity Coffee 10.30am Thurs 11 Walk to Highcliffe 11am Morning (Pride of Castle (Pride of Bournemouth Branch) Bournemouth Branch) Wed 22 Afternoon Tea 3pm Fri 12 Blackmore Vale 6.30pm (Brownsea Branch) Branch Annual Walk Sat 13 Early Evening BBQ 4pm June (Brownsea Branch) Mon 3 Summer Afternoon 2pm Thurs 25 Coffee Morning 10.30am Tea (Acorn Branch) (Brownsea Branch) Thurs 6 Coffee Morning 10.30am Sun 28 Annual Garden 12.30pm (Pride of Party (Pride of Bournemouth Branch) Bournemouth Branch) Sat 8 District Coffee 10.30am Morning and Light August Refreshments Thurs 1 Coffee Morning 10.30am Sun 9 Annual District 2.30pm (Pride of Church Service Bournemouth Branch) Mon 10 Coffee Morning 10.30am Sat 3 August Coffee 10.30am (Brownsea Branch) Morning and Lunch Thurs 13 Healthy Afternoon 2.30pm (Acorn Branch) Tea and speaker (Pride Mon 5 Coffee Morning at 10.30am of Bournemouth Branch) The Spire Wed 19 Afternoon Tea 3pm (Brownsea Branch) (Brownsea Branch) Thurs 8 Evening Boat Trip - 6pm Sat 22 Quiz Night (Pride 7.30pm Poole Quay (Pride of Bournemouth of Bournemouth Branch) Branch) Sat 10 Barbeque 2.30pm Sun 23 Annual Lunch 12 noon (Phoenix Branch) (Phoenix Branch) Sun 11 Buffet Lunch 12 noon (Brownsea Branch) July Mon 12 Forest Picnic 2pm Thurs 4 Coffee Morning 10.30am (Acorn Branch) (Pride of Thurs 22 Southbourne Clifftop 10.30am Bournemouth Branch) Walk (Pride of Mon 8 July Tea Party 2pm Bournemouth Branch) (Acorn Branch)
31 At a glance September - Friendship Month November Mon 2 Friendship Coffee 10.30am Wed 6 Supper at the 7pm Morning (Brownsea Sweet Home Branch) (Brownsea Branch) Thurs 5 Friendship Tea and 10.30am Thurs 7 Coffee Morning 10.30am Coffee Morning (Pride (Pride of of Bournemouth Branch) Bournemouth Branch) Mon 9 Friendship Tea 2pm Tues 12 Social Lunch 12 noon Party (Acorn Branch) (Phoenix Branch) Wed 18 Friendship Afternoon 2.30pm Thurs 14 Afternoon Tea and 2.30pm Tea (Brownsea Branch) talk by a guest Sat 21 Bingo and Fish 7.30pm speaker (Pride of and Chip Supper (Pride Bournemouth Branch) of Bournemouth Branch) Thurs 21 Coffee Morning 10.30am Sat 28 District Coffee 10.30am (Brownsea Branch) Morning and Light Mon 25 Pre-Christmas 10am Refreshments Coffee Morning (Acorn Branch) October Thurs 3 Coffee Morning 10.30am December (Pride of Sun 1 Christmas Lunch 12.30pm Bournemouth Branch) with Brownsea Mon 7 Harvest Tea Party 2pm Branch (Pride of (Acorn Branch) Bournemouth Branch) Sat 12 Skittles Night 7pm Thurs 5 Christmas Coffee 10.30am Blackmore Vale Branch Morning (Pride of Bournemouth Branch) Sun 13 Annual District Lunch 12.30pm Sat 7 Festive Lunch 11.30am Wed 16 Afternoon Tea at the 3pm (Acorn Branch) Sweet Home (Brownsea Branch) Mon 9 Christmas Coffee 10.30am Morning (Brownsea Sat 26 Ploughman’s Supper 7.30pm Branch) (Pride of Bournemouth Branch) Tues 10 Christmas Party 7.30pm (Pride of Wed 30 Lunch Club 12 noon Bournemouth Branch) (Brownsea Branch) Sat 14 Christmas Lunch 12 noon (Phoenix Branch)
The Oddfellows is the trading name of The Independent Order of Odd Fellows Manchester Unity Friendly Society Limited, incorporated and registered in England and Wales No. 223F. Registered Office: Oddfellows House, 184-186 Deansgate, Manchester M3 3WB since 1810 Wessex Wanderer
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Welcome to the 27th edition of your Newsletter The Wessex Wanderer
Our first edition was issued in Spring 2006 and on the front page was the Disneyland Garden Party organised by the Acorn Branch and held at the home of Ron and Flo Munro. Since then we have seen a steady increase in the number of events being held for you, our members, by all our Branches. Annual District Lunch
This year Ron Munro is our Tony Luckett, the Immediate Past District Chairman once again and Chairman of our Society was our warmly invites you to attend any Guest of Honour at this year’s Annual of the events listed in the District District Lunch. We returned to the Events Diary. Mayfair Hotel for the event and some of us made a weekend of it, including We rely on you, our members, to Tony and his wife Christine. Robert submit articles and contributions Southam, our District Chairman, which you would like to share was very pleased to welcome over with our members. Do you have 50 members and friends to the lunch a recipe, celebration or holiday and he would like to thank everyone that you could tell us about? If for supporting the raffle either by so please send it to the District donating the prizes or buying the Tony Luckett for his charity, the HA Secretary at the address below - raffle tickets – a brilliant £185 was Andrews Memorial Fund and Sandra he would love to hear from you. raised towards Robert’s goal to buy Compton presented a cheque to Robert a defibrillator for the community. for his charity. Finally Margaret White How to contact your presented a cheque to James Warren from These pictures show the presentations Alzheimer’s Research for the money which District which were made after our lunch when the District had raised during her second Robert presented a cheque to our guest year as District Chairman. District Secretary: Andrew Hampton
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www.facebook.com/ dorset-yeovil-oddfellows Annual Garden Party Talk on Pride of Bournemouth In July, we had a fantastic time at brought prizes for the raffle which Bournemouth our Annual Garden Party. Edna and enabled us, together with the monies Norman were our wonderful hosts raised on the bring and buy stalls, to Aviary and we had a brilliant time in their raise an amazing £323.74 for April beautiful garden. The bad weather Court Amenities Fund. It was lovely had caused us to have to move the to welcome guests from April Court party which meant that a few less once again, and we hope everyone people were able to attend, but we had a wonderful time. Thanks to still had a great time! As usual the Edna and Norman for a wonderful food was amazing and the bring day and for everyone who came to and buy was also well supported. help make it such a success. We would like to thank everyone who
After our Lodge meeting in July we had a very interesting and entertaining talk by Darrell Sturmey, one of our new members, on the Aviary in Bournemouth Gardens. Darrell has a great love of birds and had worked for many years as a volunteer for the Aviary, and he has been involved in the fundraising efforts to try to provide a new Aviary in Bournemouth Gardens. The picture shows Darrell and Norman, our chairman, at our Garden Party, also in July. Darrell kindly brought along his photos of the birds in the aviary and also the lovely picture of ‘Daffodil’ - his own beloved Walk and Lunch by the River at Tuckton parakeet as we hadn’t taken any pictures during his talk. Thank The Pride of Bournemouth ‘walkers’ around Christchurch! After our walk you Darrell! had a lovely time when they met at some of us went on to the Bailey the Tuckton Tea Rooms before going Bridge restaurant for lunch. The for a leisurely stroll by the river in Bailey Bridge were very hospitable August. It wasn’t the hottest of days, and we had our own private area Brownsea but at least it didn’t pour with rain where we enjoyed more chatting, as like it did last year when we walked well as the eating! Lunch Club
We tried a new venue in July Brownsea BBQ which was well received – The New Inn in Wimborne Road. We Brownsea Branch tried a new idea fun with some very interesting had a lovely meal which was in July – a late afternoon BBQ in models being produced! As usual excellent value but unfortunately Sandra and Nigel’s lovely garden. we had a raffle for Margaret the venue has been taken over, We all had a wonderful time with Fry’s charities, Macmillan Caring with new management now in Sandra and Nigel’s daughter Locally and the Maritime Voluntary charge, so we will wait and see Helen and son-in-law Neil doing Service, which was very well how things go before booking a brilliant quiz. We also had to supported. We must thank Sandra there again. make a plasticine model depicting and Nigel for their hospitality and ‘Friendship’. Julian and Margaret’s we hope to have another BBQ in 7 year old grandson, William, the summer – please come and picked the winners – it was great join in the fun!
2 Traditional Terms
These are terms, which are used by the Oddfellows in meetings and in publications. For those who are unfamiliar with some of them, it may be helpful to refer to the list provided below. It is by no means exhaustive, but these are some of the most commonly August Coffee and Lunch used terms. The original terms Acorn Branch have their origin in the history and ceremony associated with the Oddfellows. At this event members and friends had Everyone had a chance to enter the numbers a chance to enter a photo, cookery or quiz and guess where Teddy Acorn was Grand Master (GM) - craft competition to be judged just for going on his hols! It was a special day for Chairman of the Society fun. There were some splendid entries our member Derek who was celebrating his and the judges had a difficult job birthday. After a bit of previous cloak and Provincial Grand Master (PGM) - on their hands. There were splendid dagger secrecy between Ann, his wife, and District Chairman scarecrows, tasty cookery and lovely the Branch, Marion as always did a splendid countryside photographs. Coffee and stage set with all his favourite things. Holiday Past Provincial Grand Master tea were soon at hand as folk viewed destinations, flowers, Chinese cookery and (PPGM) - Former District the bring and buy stall. This was of course his wine. Our secretary, Judith, Chairman certainly a bumper one ranging from presented Derek with a gift and card from lawn mower, fishing rods, puzzles, us and we all raised our glass of bubbly to Provincial Corresponding jars of jam, flower decorations, books Secretary - District Secretary and so much more. Derek with a bumper toast. All too soon it was time for the raffle, a happy event and Immediate Past Provincial Our grateful thanks go to everyone for thank you to everyone who attended and Grand Master (IPPGM) - their participation in any way to its success. joined in the fun. Immediate Past District Chairman
Vice Grand (VG) - Deputy Branch Chairman
Noble Grand (NG) - Branch Chairman
Lodge - Local Branch
Sister and Brother - Skittles Evening at Moordown The Oddfellows is a fraternal organisation which means Conservative Club membership is like belonging to a family. This is why many Pride of Bournemouth members refer to each other as Although we were limited to only 30 flip, and landed back down, mostly Brother and Sister (as members of the trade unions used to). guests when we played skittles at upside down but otherwise fairly intact! the Moordown Conservative Club, It was great to welcome Ethan, Mary a good time was had by all! The Annual Movable Conference and Peter’s grandson who helped with (AMC) - Held each year in buffet supper was very good and a the ‘sticking up’, and it was lovely to see lot of heckling took place, especially the month of May at different Amber, one of our Young Oddfellows locations. when Dave managed to completely with her grandmother, Janet Olden. miss the alley and tried to demolish the remains of the buffet! This may have been our last effort at Ritual - Traditional Oddfellows skittles, but if you would like to see Ceremonies The few remaining sandwiches and us carry on, albeit at a different venue, cheesecake leapt into the air, did a back please do let us know.
3 Brownsea Coffee Morning – Richard and Sandra’s House
August saw us enjoying a lovely coffee morning in Richard and Sandra’s garden. It was a scorching hot day and we were all fighting for the shade, but we had a good natter over our coffee, cake and biscuits. Thanks so much to Richard and Sandra for being our hosts and to everyone for coming and supporting the raffle. Coffee and Cake Pride of Bournemouth Branch
We tried a new venue for our Coffee event. We apologised to the staff for Half-Yearly and Cake get-together in August the disruption but they said they were when we visited the Mocha Turtle in only too pleased to see the coffee Tuckton. There was a great choice of shop so full – which was lovely. District cakes and the coffee was excellent. We were joined by a photographer, You may have seen a similar article in the Meeting organised by Head Office, who took Daily Express featuring Tony. Tony had photos throughout the morning. This agreed that they could use the Echo article was because one of our members, as a basis for a feature page in the Daily Tony Goble, was being featured in Express. He hopes that his experience of a lovely article which went in the the Oddfellows will help other people. Bournemouth Echo, following the
We would just like to thank Mary and her team for always making us so welcome at Crossways Village Hall for our District Meetings. This August was no exception and we thought you might like to see the effort that goes into making the hall look Bingo with Fish so attractive for us. We enjoyed Friendship a lovely buffet lunch after our and Chip Supper deliberations and the raffle Afternoon Tea raised £63 for our chairman’s Pride of Bournemouth Brownsea Branch endeavours to buy a Defibrillator Our second Friendship Month for the community. You will have Our Friendship Afternoon Tea event was a big success. Eyes noticed the lovely floral table at East Dorset Lawn Tennis and down and look in! Everyone centres, which Mary always Croquet Club proved to be very enjoyed the Fish and Chip encourages us to take as gifts for popular. The club put on a lovely Supper, and of course winning our poorly members. Thank you spread for our enjoyment and it the prizes for a line and cash so much Mary! was brilliant to welcome so many prizes for the full houses. We members and non-members had our usual raffle for April alike. The friendly atmosphere Court and everyone was very was very enjoyable and we generous with £96 being raised. had a well-supported raffle for As usual Trevor was our brilliant Macmillan Caring Locally and ‘caller’ and Amber, one of our the Maritime Voluntary Service. junior members, helped him Thanks to all who came along and check the lines and full houses – made the afternoon a success. thank you Trevor and Amber.
4 September Food Afternoon Talk by Acorn Branch It was a pleasure to welcome everyone prize. Then the important bit of the Wessex to the Guide Hall for friendship with afternoon – a cuppa and the buffet. food guessing afternoon. If we meet Previously members and friends, Cancer Trust with friends it’s usually a cup of tea as always had been generous in and something to eat. Therefore the bringing items for the bring and buy We have had several talks after theme was food facts together with and raffle. The lucky winners of the our Branch meetings this year six boxes of ‘what was it?’ Ranging free vegetable raffle were assured and in September we welcomed from crushed up Weetabix to ground of their veg for the next few days. Charlotte from the Wessex cumin. Everyone did well on this Again a very happy afternoon and as Cancer Trust who came to tell with three couples tying for first always our grateful thanks go to all. us all about the work that they do locally for those suffering from cancer. We joined in the ‘Save your Pennies’ for October scheme and took away our boxes to fill with pennies and have since sent our joint donations off to Charlotte. We are hoping to go to their Hinton Road centre for a tour in the New Year to learn more about their work.
Friendship Tea and Coffee Morning Pride of Bournemouth Branch It was a full house for our Friendship Tea and Coffee by all. The raffle was very well supported for April Court Morning at the beginning of September. We welcomed Amenities Fund and hopefully new friends were made! lots of non-members to the event and a good time was had
District Friendship Talk by LPA In October, we welcomed Ginny from LPA after our Quiz and Supper Lodge meeting to talk to us about the need to have Lasting Power of Attorney in place. Ginny was able This year the District held their own Friendship to explain the difference between Lasting Power of Month event! We organised a Quiz and Supper Attorney and Enduring Power of Attorney which is now at Harry’s Bar in Canford Cliffs and were very superseded by LPA. Ginny answered several questions pleased to welcome 10 non-members to the event. from the members and was happy to talk to any of us Chris Bloomfield was once again our fantastic Quiz on a one-to-one basis after the meeting. Margaret has Master – we had boggles, picture quizzes and some information if you would like to contact Ginny. general knowledge rounds which were all excellent fun – the Quiz Master’s decision is final!
This year we are raising money to buy a Defibrillator and Robert Southam, our chairman, was very grateful for the support that he received as the raffle raised a goodly sum towards his charity fundraising efforts. We would like to thank everyone who came to support this event.
5 Ploughman’s Harvest Supper Pride of Bournemouth Branch
We had a late Harvest Supper with The mouli can be seen here in the picture a Ploughman’s meal with a harvest on Judy and Richard’s table - although themed evening in October. One some of us may have already had a slice! of our newer members, Darrell Sturmey, gave us a very entertaining We would like to say a huge ‘thank you’ and interesting talk on farming and to Darrell for entertaining us all and brought along a ‘mouli’ as a focal also thanks are due once again to Chris point. And what is a ‘mouli’? you may Bloomfield who prepared some ‘Harvest’ ask – well it is a giant white radish, themed quizzes for us to enjoy. Our raffle which we were able to have a piece for April Court was well supported as of during the evening! usual. Thanks to all who came and made it such a fun evening.
October Get Together Afternoon Tea Acorn Branch Brownsea Branch
Bar skittles, throw the dice, and with some of the knitted hats, An Afternoon Tea at Stewarts is spin the wheel made for a different mittens etc eagerly snatched up. always a super way to relax with afternoon social. There was a play The winners of the free fruit raffle friends, catch up with a natter, off between two Peters and Pat were well pleased as always and and maybe take a look at the with the lady being the winner of all too soon tea was served both plants and gifts. October’s event the skittles. Sincere thanks go to the savouries and the puddings. was no exception and we all had a everyone who helped with the food, Two new folk were happy to take fabulous tea - there is usually far sold the raffle tickets and manned some leaflets and events diaries so too much food and some of us take the bring and buy. A ‘Buy early for hopefully we will see them again home what we can’t manage - Christmas’ sign attracted attention very soon to join in future events. Stewarts are very obliging and let us have ‘boxes’ for our left-overs!
Bingo at the Parkstone Club Brownsea Branch
Sadly the Parkstone Club have decided to discontinue their monthly Bingo evenings so our November event had to be cancelled. We will do our best to organise a new venue for Bingo – if we do it on our own the prizes will, of course, be smaller – but hopefully we will still have an exciting time and it would be easier to have a raffle for our chairman’s charity. Watch this space!
6 Coffee Club Brownsea Branch
In November we tried a fantastic new venue for our coffee get- together – the Spire in Poole High Street. The Spire is the coffee shop attached to the Methodist Church and is very popular with the shoppers. They serve lovely cakes, bacon rolls, soup etc, all in Bristol and Reading a relaxing atmosphere. Pride of Bournemouth’s Edna and Norman During the Southern Group both Bristol and Reading Districts worship at the church regularly Conference this year a group of us for an excellent weekend of fun and and Edna has raised many were invited to join Bristol District friendship. The picture below left thousands of pounds towards the for their Annual Dinner Dance in shows us firstly in our ‘glad rags’ refurbishment works. When we November. So we decided to support for the Bristol Dinner Dance, picture had enjoyed our coffee, some of the Bristol event and then to travel below right Chris and Ruth at the us enjoyed a wonder round Old on to Reading for their Annual Lunch Dinner, and then (picture top) the Poole, while others had some retail on the Sunday. We all journeyed to group of us at Reading - appreciating therapy! We plan to go to the Spire Bristol on the Saturday and enjoyed a cup of coffee before we all enjoyed again this year – take a look at the their hospitality and excellent Dinner our Sunday Lunch. Chris and Ruth new Events Diary for the date. Dance, stayed overnight in Bristol aren’t in the Reading ‘group photo’ and then on we went to Reading as they arrived a bit later than the the following morning. We all had a rest of the group, but still in time to Afternoon Picnic great time and would like to thank have a coffee! Acorn Branch
Would the clouds disperse? Would it be sunny? At about 1.15pm a short sharp shower soon disappeared to leave a sunny afternoon with a nice breeze. Tribute to Neville Chard We all had some exercise as we tossed the wellies, a large one for Bisterne United Football Club. He and a small one, tried and failed continued to still mark out the ground to throw the rings over the stakes when in his eighties. and had a game of bowls. A quiz on the New Forest and guessing Being public spirited Neville was on the the number of hardware pieces Ringwood Town Council from 1973 in the jar caused much laughter. until 2015. During this period he became It was a pleasure to have some the first Mayor of Ringwood and was young folk with us who had more energy than us to run around and eventually awarded Honorary Freeman of retrieve the hoops and balls. We Ringwood Town, the only person to date to achieve this honour. had a visit from a very long horned Brother Neville was a member of the cow and her baby. They took one Manuels Branch which later became After his death the building consortium look and moved away very quickly the Loyal Acorn Branch. Neville was Linden Homes approached the Town although we held our breath for a a member of over seventy years few seconds. Just as we finished standing and a Ringwood man born Council to request that the primary road the raffle there were a few more and bred. He started his working in this large development be named Chard spots of rain so how lucky we were life as a telegraph boy becoming a Lane in his memory. His family and to be able to relax in the sunshine postman all his working life. As he was partner, Jenny Bursey, were honoured that and chat with friends. interested in sport, for over fifty years the dedication Neville gave to Ringwood he was the coach and groundsman will be remembered in this way. 7 Joint Presentation Evening 2018 Brownsea and Pride of Bournemouth The Pride of Bournemouth Branch Oncology Unit, told us that she was a Alzheimer’s Society were thrilled to welcome the consultant for the oncology, chemo and Brownsea Branch members to radiotherapy service. They worked closely their Lodge meeting in October, with Forest Holme. Charitable donations followed by our joint Presentation that they receive help to provide the Evening. During the Presentation extra things which make the patient’s life Evening the two Branches welcomed more tolerable. There was a huge team representatives from the charities delivering the care. that the members nominated at their Annual Summoned Meetings to Andrew explained about the Oddfellows support during the year. being linked to The Grove Hotel in John Major, a volunteer from the Bournemouth and how we are able to This year the two Lodges supported a total Alzheimer’s Society, told us that his wife send our members suffering with cancer of 11 local charities, with the Brownsea had been diagnosed with Alzheimer’s to the Grove for convalescence. Branch also supporting the Orphan Gift in her early 50s. He was motivated to Fund and the HA Andrews Memorial help and reminded us that it was a sad Fund. Andrew Hampton, Branch Secretary thing that every few seconds someone is for the Brownsea Branch was our master diagnosed. One in three of the people in of ceremonies, doing the introductions the room had the dementia clock ticking. throughout the evening. Each charity had Alzheimer’s starts 20 years before the been invited to say a few words during the symptoms present themselves. Dementia event after collecting their cheque. was the most prevalent disease on death certificates, yet there was no cure, no Julie Hampton, Past Chairman of the medication and care was not fully funded! Brownsea Branch presented the first Youth Cancer Trust three cheques. Julie explained that each The Alzheimer’s Society helps in three charity had been chosen by the members areas – support services help sufferers to because they were close to our hearts. live better eg singing for the brain etc, For example, Forest Holme had been raising awareness helps the general public nominated because both of Andrew’s be more aware and research with £150 parents had been cared for there. The million going on research. The longer Youth Cancer Trust was nominated by those with the disease can live at home the one of our elderly members. better their life will be. Forest Holme Hospice Derek Smith, Fundraising and Events Autism Wessex Manager from the Youth Cancer Trust explained that they have had a house in Alum Chine for 21 years where children suffering from cancer can enjoy a free holiday. One holiday can cost £900 as travel costs etc are included. They also have speciality weeks eg wellness, yoga, lifestyle choices, and cookery weeks when they visit a boutique chocolate maker. They Paul Tucker, Fundraising and also have an on-line community where the Tom Johnston, Fundraising Manager from Communications Manager from Forest children can share their experiences with Autism Wessex, told us that Autism was a Holme Hospice, explained that the those going through the same thing. neuro developmental condition affecting hospice was based in Poole and was part 1 in 100, with 7,000 affected in Dorset. of the Poole Hospital NHS. They needed Andrew reminded us that the Chairman 69 children attended Portfield School and £850K extra for nursing posts, equipment, of the District, Robert Southam, was there were 8 residential homes in the Wessex care for families, lymphedema clinic etc. raising money to buy a defibrillator which area for adults. The Autism advice service Over 1000 people a year were supported we hoped to possibly locate in the western received over 11,000 enquiries within the by Forest Holme – all suffering from life side of the district. Over the last two area. They provided a lifeline for people in limiting and terminal illnesses including years the District Chairman had raised really difficult circumstances. Motor Neurone Disease, Parkinsons etc. over £4K for Alzheimer’s Research. The following eight cheques were presented by Cherry Tree Nursery Tish Borrowman, Assistant Manager from Poole Oncology Unit Norman Daniels, Chairman of the Pride Cherry Tree Nursery explained that they Maxine Flubacher, Clinical Director of of Bournemouth Branch. ran a therapeutic plant nursery for adults Cancer Services at the Poole Hospital
8 government or lottery funding but they he thanked us for sending patients there. need 2.5 million per annum - £3K They were not just about providing per flight. They responded to 1197 outstanding care but supporting patients incidents last year, plus 21 critical with dignity. transfers to hospital. 8-9 call outs per day. They were based in Henstridge Neal told us about one lady who loved and can get anywhere in the area in 20 the Red Arrows and they had arranged for minutes. The pilots are specially trained her to go to see them at the Bournemouth and very experienced. Air Show, but she was not well enough with mental health problems. They now to go. However, typical of the team they run a satellite college doing the Royal Julia’s House provided a private ambulance who came Horticultural Society Level 1 examination and took her in her bed to the air show. in Practical Horticulture at Cherry Tree With pain control she was able to see them with 6 students on the course, including with her family and amazing memories one of our members who was doing really were made. Our donation would help well and was growing in confidence and facilitate that sort of support. self-belief. The course had opened doors for the students and the only concession Poole Heart Support Group that is made is that they are allowed more time to complete the course – 18 months instead of a year. The 6 students are on It was wonderful to welcome Reuben schedule with a 100% pass rate so far. Johnston, a Young Ambassador from Julia’s House, to receive our cheque on their behalf. Chesthelp Andrew pointed out that Reuben was the youngest recipient that we had every welcomed to our Presentation Evening events. Reuben explained that his sister had been Keith Matthews, Chairman of the Poole taken into Julia’s House with a rare genetic Heart Support Group knew that their syndrome. The hospice had helped her charity was dear to Norman’s heart. greatly and she was now discharged after Norman had been a member for 8 years 9 years. The help they had given her was and they kept him active! Keith explained immense. Reuben said that Julia’s House that a heart attack usually comes as a bit Mary Brackley, Trustee and Chairman was one of the happiest places to be, a place of a shock but it need not be the end of from Chesthelp told us that their charity of pure happiness. Everyone was terrific – the world. The NHS gives 8 weeks of had been formed in 1947 when TB was they help the children but also the families support, then patients can join the Heart rife – and it still is! The TB capital of including siblings and grandparents. They Support Group. They run 15 courses Europe is London. They help those with organise residential trips away with people across the county, each under the control TB and COPD. The patient’s BMI is who understand their situation and know of a trained fitness expert. It costs £1,200 usually very low and they need building the struggles of having a disabled child. each to train them. up. The charity provides milk, eggs etc They receive 6% of their funding from the and winter heating. The patient is usually government, but 94% has to be donated. It goes without saying that each recipient helped for 6 months and they must build was very grateful for the support that the up their BMI for the drugs to work. It Macmillan Caring Locally two lodges had been able to give them. costs between £500 and £600 per patient. Mary reminded us that Ernie Fage, Past Andrew thanked the 11 recipients for Grand Master of the Oddfellows, had giving up their time for us. We would put been a Trustee of the charity for many the pictures on Facebook and he asked years and was still well remembered. them to link up and ‘like’ us and promote the Oddfellows if at all possible. Dorset and Somerset Air Ambulance
Neal Williams, Trust Secretary from Macmillan Caring Locally, was pleased to be with us once again. He reminded us that they were not connected to Macmillan Cancer Support. Macmillan Caring Locally is based in Christchurch and provided palliative care, similar to Sue Woollam, a volunteer from the Forest Holme. They were the owners Dorset and Somerset Air Ambulance and operators of The Grove Hotel and explained that they receive no
9 Poole Methodists at the Spire Retirement of to Friday for Together at One, this is a Blackmore Vale short ecumenical 20 minute service led by various people of different Faiths, it is Lodge Secretary small but has held 25 at times. The Chapel is open whenever Wesley’s is and anyone Jackie Jackson can access it. Wesley’s was opened in early Past Provincial 2015 and I continued selling cards etc. on Saturdays. The second phase meant the old Grand Master In 2008 five Methodist Churches halls were demolished and the new halls, I would like to pay tribute to Jackie in Poole joined together to form kitchen, meeting room / offices were built. Jackson, who has retired after Poole Methodists as some of the The bottom was fitted out but upstairs, being Secretary of the Blackmore congregations were too small for Vale Lodge. Jackie was secretary them to be viable in the long term. including above Wesleys was left as a shell. of the Branch for several years They were Newtown which was In October 2015 the Congregation moved before amalgamation of the converted along with the land into to the downstairs hall for Sunday worship Lodges in the District took place in affordable houses and flats. Oakdale and all associated activities. 1988, and continued as secretary now a children’s nursery. Ashley The fundraising continued for the third of Blackmore Vale Lodge which is Road now the Gateway Church and phase. This was started in spring 2018 now a Social Branch. Jackie was the hall was demolished and houses also a Secretary of the Phoenix built. High Street is the one that was and is almost complete, it includes the Branch for a few years. kept and converted into the Spire installation of the lift, which has to be large enough to accommodate a coffin. and Salterns Road now in use for Jackie became Provincial Grand The Church/Community area, now foreign students. Master of the Poole, Bridport and known as The Rose Hall named because Yeovil District and also helped four We worshipped at Ashley Road while of the Rose window at the front is a large of our members become chairman initial fundraising and sales of properties area suitable for Church, productions, of the lodge. Jackie was chairman of took place. Coffee Mornings already conferences, bazaars etc. there is another the Wessex Provincial Lodge of Past took place in the old halls at High Street hall, a small kitchen and more offices/ Grands in 1998/9, and was secretary on Tuesdays and Fridays and in 2010 community rooms. We will be moving for over 10 years and organised the on Saturdays Stop and Snack started. I upstairs in early spring. At the Spire Wessex Lodge Dinner and Dances at started selling my hand made cards and we have several Partners who use our the Orchid Hotel. She was the third later added Bric-a-Brac. building, including Poole and Parkstone longest serving secretary of the Lodge. Productions. The whole project has cost The project was in three parts, the first over £4 million pounds raised through the being converting the church space into Jackie represented both her Lodge and sale of buildings, grants and loans from Wesley’s Café. When the rebuild started District at numerous Southern Group various charities and trusts and our own the inside of the church was stripped Conferences and the Annual Movable fundraising. I have raised over £10,000 bare, all that was left were the walls, as Conference. Jackie and her husband with my sales. the space was high a floor was put in. In Ian have now moved out of the area, and we wish her a Happy Retirement. the downstairs is the café, toilets, rooms Edna Daniels that can be used for offices/small meetings Christine Smith and the Chapel which is used Monday Social Lunch at the Red House Phoenix Branch On Tuesday 13 November, 14 to see. Thanks go to John Pople for members of Phoenix Branch enjoyed arranging these lunches and also a sociable lunch at the Red House, to the staff at the Red House who Yeovil. The tables look a bit sparse looked after us so well. but that is because we stuffed ourselves and there was nothing left Judy Penfold
10 Afternoon Tea and speaker from the Pain Clinic Pride of Bournemouth
It was a pleasure to welcome Alison, a Anything stressful can aggravate pain. The The Afternoon Tea was superb and our specialist nurse from the Pain Clinic, reason that the weather often affects our thanks must go as usual to Edna for her a multi-disciplinary pain service for pain is because we are made up of over lovely home-made cakes and to the team people with persistent pain of over 60% water, so air pressure changes and our for the sandwiches, savouries, etc. The 3 months duration, to our Afternoon pain is affected. Also bad weather affects raffle for April Court was well supported Tea in November. Alison was an our mood, our stress levels and therefore and Norman would like to thank excellent speaker and we all learned our pain. Alison gave us information everyone for coming along and making a lot during the afternoon. Alison leaflets about their service and Margaret, the afternoon such a success. Alison has brought two University students with our lodge secretary, has some if you would offered to come again if we would like her who were also charming and all like a copy. another talk. three stayed to enjoy the tea. Many questions were asked and it was interesting to learn that persistent We would like to thank one of our newer Pride of Bournemouth pain affects a third of the population. members, Gulsen Hinchley, for suggesting Their service covers Sherbourne and that we invite a speaker from the pain Regular Coffee Weymouth as well as our area. Some clinic to give us a talk. It was certainly an Mornings of their patients have suffered for interesting afternoon and everyone went years before they are referred to the home having learned something new clinic. They are able to help patients about ‘pain’ and the different strategies to manage their pain through physio, that are used to cope with it. mindfulness, therapists etc.
Several of our members had asked us to have more daytime events - so we decided to try Coffee Mornings on a regular basis at Tuckton Social Club. We started in September and the get-togethers have been well supported so we’ve agreed to carry on in 2019. We will continue to meet up on the first Thursday of each month, so if you would like to come and join us for a chat over your coffee and enjoy Edna’s Skittles Match fantastic homemade cakes we Phoenix Branch would be so pleased to see you. The pictures show our Christmas Blackmore Vale Lodge invited of braised beef, baby potatoes, Coffee Morning, where the raffle members of the Blackmore Vale U3A carrots and cauliflower and there for April Court was well supported to a skittles match at the Swan pub in was enough for seconds! The £5 fee as usual, and we all enjoyed a pre- Stalbridge on Saturday 24 November. covered the cost of this meal and the Christmas natter over our mince pies, The evening was well supported with balance went to the pub’s charity of 26 people attending of which 19 were choice which is Macmillan Cancer sausage rolls, and festive cup-cakes players. There were prizes for the top Care. The raffle raised £49 for the – all courtesy of Edna of course! We scoring man and lady, and prizes for Noble Grand’s charity, Dorset and always have some savouries – cheese the lowest scoring man and lady. The Somerset Air Ambulance. and biscuits etc, for those who prefer prizes were presented by Phoenix not to have the sweet treats – so we Noble Grand, Chris Bloomfield. Hot Judy Penfold hope everyone is catered for. food was supplied which comprised
11 Christmas Party Pride of Bournemouth Branch
Yes! We had a reindeer invasion again this year! This time they came complete with flashing red noses! Some of the reindeer were badly behaved, but Marion, and the reindeer union rep - Darrell - soon had them under control and the reindeer races began. Eventually they got the hang of the rules, which included compulsory stops for carrot pieces from Darrell, and the winner was Sandra - better known as reindeer number 6.
As usual we had a brilliant ‘bring and share’ supper, and we had great fun joining in Colin’s special card game and Trevor’s seasonal card bingo. Of course we all wanted to win the chocolate bars and the Christmas decorations, rather than the pencils and erasers in Colin’s card game!
The raffle was a big success and this was the last fundraising event for April Court Amenities Fund. Norman has raised well over £1,700 this year for April Court and he would like to thank everyone for Pride of Bournemouth’s oldest Christmas Jumper to the raffle – which their generous support for his charity attending member Maud Jones (a Margaret won, and put on to celebrate throughout the year. mere 99 years young) had donated a as the picture shows. Joint Christmas Lunch Brownsea and Pride of Bournemouth
As we had such a brilliant time in Court Amenities Fund for the second 2017 we returned to the Riviera Hotel year running. Similarly, Margaret in Alum Chine at the beginning of has now been raising money for December for our joint festivities. Macmillan Caring Locally and the Picture bottom right is of one of our As usual this was a very informal Maritime Voluntary Service for the visitors, Ian Field from Salisbury, who affair, no speeches, just a lovely time second year, having taken over as found it necessary to use ear plugs (spent together. Norman Daniels, Pride of chairman from her late husband, party poppers) during the raffle to Bournemouth and Margaret Fry, David, and continuing to raise funds minimise Norman’s raffle number calling! Brownsea were thrilled to welcome in his memory for the charities that We nicknamed him ‘Shrek’ for the rest nearly 80 members and friends to join he had chosen. A huge thank you is of the afternoon! We hope to be able to in the fun, and a wonderful meal was due to everyone who came and made come together again next year for our joint enjoyed by us all. The raffle raised this such a lovely event and also for celebration of Christmas – keep an eye out an amazing £197 which was shared supporting the raffle, whether it was equally between the two lodges, with by bringing prizes or buying the raffle for the details in the next ‘Out and About’ Norman having raised money for April tickets. Thank you all! Events Diary.
12 Acorn Christmas Party
As usual the Village Hall had been beautifully decorated in the kitchen, tea was soon laid out and everyone tucked into the so after the tables had been laid all was ready to begin savouries, puddings, mince pies and Christmas Cake. Guess the the afternoon. There were many gift items on the bring weight of the Dundee Cake was spot on by one of our visitors and buy which were soon snapped up, together with who had a well deserved round of applause. The raffle was very puzzles, books and other goodies which had been so generously supported and a huge thanks goes to all, the helpers, generously donated. those who donated refreshments, made cakes, and to all our members and friends for attending the Acorn Christmas Party. Father Christmas was the first to arrive but had no elves with him, but a huge list of who had been naughty through the year and those who had been good. The naughty list outnumbered the good! Bubbly was then served to get everyone into the Christmas spirit, the Twelve Days of Christmas was sung with the usual gusto and the Five Gold Rings Choir raised the Village Hall roof! The free raffle for festive goodies was well received and Richard sold out of the Tombola tickets. Thanks to a superb team of helpers
Christmas Meeting Acorn Branch
Christmas at the Ash Phoenix Branch The Blackmore Vale Lodge held their annual Christmas lunch at the Virginia Ash on Saturday It was great to have a good number for the December 15 December and was enjoyed by all 21 members business meeting. As always we welcome as many as attending. The weather was cold and wet and as can possibly make it to the monthly meeting, where soon as we walked in we were offered free tea and one can learn a little bit more about the running of coffee to warm us up. the Branch. We usually have a small buffet and a cuppa, where afterwards, everyone can have a chat Although we were served just two courses, the portions were and relax. Obviously, we had a few Christmas nibbles a bit oversized but very tasty. Mince pies were served with as well and there were some festive related raffle the coffee and tea which put most of us in the ‘I’ve-eaten- prizes. Maybe others would like to join us in the new too-much’ frame of mind. We all thanked Katy and her team year at the Ferndown United Church, 505 Wimborne for such a lovely warm welcome, good food and polite and Road, Ferndown BH4 9JT. The meeting is held the pleasant service from her staff. third Monday of every month at 7.30pm. You would be most welcome. Judy Penfold
13 Pre-Christmas Coffee Get Together Acorn Branch It was a pleasure to welcome members and friends to this annual event and we were fortunate to have more bring and buy goodies for sale this year. Some of these were suitable as small Christmas gifts and the stall holders were soon busy selling and pricing. As always the paperback books were popular as were the jigsaws. Meanwhile Derek was in the kitchen cooking the bacon for the rolls whilst the tables were being laid with the savoury nibbles and biscuits. Teddy Acorn attended and everyone had a go at guessing what he wanted as a Christmas gift. It turned out to be a chocolate log so could not be better. A raffle for Christmas food was soon under and as always members and friends had been generous in their way and the quiz to guess which food is eaten in which country at donations. A happy morning and an excellent start to the festive Christmas proved a teaser. All too soon it was time for the raffle season. Thanks to everyone who attended and assisted in any way.
We are here for you! If we don’t know, we can’t help This is just a reminder to all our members to please let us know if you need our help. Each Branch has at least Care and Welfare one Welfare Officer who can visit or phone you if you To request contact from a Welfare Visitor and are poorly or if you would just like to have a chat. Our for local help and information about Branch Welfare Officers and Branch Secretaries are there to benefits and benevolence contact your Branch help you and put you in touch with the services available Secretary, or Andrew on 01202 743910 or email at Head Office. We have a wonderful Care Department [email protected] at our Head Office and there is also the Adviceline run for the Oddfellows by Citizens Advice. Oddfellows Advice Line Support that is available to you includes: Call 0800 0149 821* • Your local Branch Welfare Service (free to callers from any landline or mobile number) • Oddfellows Care and Welfare Helpline Monday - Friday, 9.30am - 4.30pm • Oddfellows Adviceline* Email: [email protected] • Convalescence, Care and Carers Respite Benefits *The Oddfellows cannot provide legal advice and accepts no • Oddfellows Legal Aid Scheme liability whatsoever for advice provided by Citizens Advice, • Oddfellows Orphan Gift Fund which is an independent advice agency. If you have any queries about the advice you have received or wish to make a complaint Convalescent stays of one or two weeks have always been then you should contact Citizens Advice directly. Citizens Advice available to our members after two years membership. operate a formal complaints process. Alternatively, members can now apply for short term care at home normally delivered by Home Instead, if that is Care and Welfare Helpline more appropriate to your needs. Call 0800 0149 822 If you think we can help then please get in touch - if we (free to callers from any landline or mobile number) don’t know, we can’t help. We are here to help you and Monday to Thursday, 9.30am - 4.30pm, we will always do our best for you. Your Lodge Secretary Friday, 9.30am - 4pm can send you the ‘Looking After You - Care, Advice and Email: [email protected] Support’ booklet, which has more information, if you would like a copy. Ref: CC/PBY/0219
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We need little excuse to get together. their cup of tea, then they know we’re here A cup of tea and a biscuit, or a chance to if they change their mind. grab a lunch, usually does the trick. We’re fortunate to have this opportunity to go So for 2019, it’s right for us to continue to along to one of our Branch events and celebrate the extraordinary things in our spend time with others. Regular, friendly calendar – Friendship Month, AMC and catch-ups, or just sitting with company, our major HA Andrews Memorial Fund really does fuel happiness. donation. But let’s not forget to celebrate the wonderful everyday at the Oddfellows, too. It saddens me that there are people out there who don’t get the chance to spend time with Thank you for every cup of tea shared, others, and who don’t have anyone to fall caring phone call made and idea given at a This quote recently caught my back on when times get tough. meeting. Thank you for each pot washed, eye. Many of us are guilty of being new face welcomed and friendly email caught up in the day-to-day. We It might be that they’ve had a change of written. These little things make a huge often get so focused on the task at personal circumstance and the people they difference to people’s everyday lives and the hand that our proverbial blinkers used to mix with have moved on, or they running of our Society. Despite life’s rush, stop us from having a REALLY just don’t see them as often. It happens rest assured, they do not go unnoticed. good look around. all too frequently, and it’s shocking how I wish you and your families every quickly your confidence gets knocked and happiness – big and small – for 2019. I’m sure many of us could benefit from you drift into chronic loneliness. slowing down a little, to take stock of those daily pick-me-up moments – people asking If there’s anyone you know that could do how you are, having a coffee made for you, with some friendly company or support, being at the bus stop at exactly the right please don’t forget to mention the time… Those simple things. Oddfellows and welcome them to your next get-together. There’s no hard sell in this at Jane Nelson, CEO I must say that us Oddfellows are pretty all. If they like it, then brilliant. If we’re not good at making the most of the everyday. On your marks, get set, parkrun There aren’t many things left in life that are free, but one growing phenomenon that is completely gratis is parkrun. The 5km community events take place in parks each Saturday morning, but parkrun is more than a way of keeping fit, it’s a way of making friends, being part of a community, and even inspiration to travel the world. The events have a great reputation for being friendly and Parkrun isn’t a race. There are no winners, volunteer Tail often there’s a catch-up after the event at a local café over tea. Walkers ensure that nobody finishes last, and the emphasis It’s easy to get started. Register on the website is on regular participation rather than performance. There www.parkrun.org.uk and you will be given an individual are more than 550 5km courses in the UK and 1,600 across barcode. Print it out and turn up at the event you fancy the world, with more than 235,000 adults and juniors taking part in. The events all start at 9am in the UK, taking part on a good weekend globally. Additionally, there except for in Scotland and Northern Ireland where they are 250 junior parkruns on Sunday mornings for 4-14 year- kick off at 9.30am. olds and their families that are 2k in distance. If you don’t fancy walking or running, then volunteering You don’t need to be a top athlete. at the events is a brilliant way to meet people and give back At any event you will find parents with pushchairs, dog to the community. Each event is self-organising and has its walkers and people who have never taken part in organised own team of volunteers who would be very pleased to have physical activity before. If you use a wheelchair, then an extra pair of hands. you’re also welcome, but it’s probably worth checking the individual course you fancy doing is accessible with the Get in touch with your local parkrun to find out how you organisers before setting off. can volunteer www.parkrun.org.uk/events/events
15 Members of Distinction Whether through the old Portraits Scheme, or the recently launched Making a Difference Award – we love to recognise and celebrate members who go over-and-above in their support of the Society and its work. So thank you to three of Portraits 2018’s final winners Gerald, Miriam and Adrian for everything you do for the Oddfellows. We appreciate it.
Gerald Gordon Baxter Miriam Witcomb Adrian Taylor Nene and Welland District Heart of England District Beds and Bucks District
Meet Gerald, member of the The Oddfellows is very fortunate Introduced to the Oddfellows by his Nene and Welland District, who to have people such as Miriam in father at age 16, Adrian’s constant was singled out for his long- its membership. She embodies the energy has kept him incredibly standing support to the Society at Society’s humanitarian spirit through busy and active in his District and many different levels – from local her commitment to helping others. regional group conference. Branch through to International Conference. Since joining in her 40s, Miriam has Since 2006, he has been a member of served as Noble Grand for Leigh and Beds and Bucks District Committee Some of Gerald’s notable positions Knightly Branch, as well as Heart of of Management, in which he serves held over his seven decades as an England District Oddfellows Club as Trustee and second-time Deputy Oddfellow include Noble Grand and President and Trustee. Provincial Grand Master. It was during Vice Grand for his Branch, Provincial his tenure as Provincial Grand Master Grand Master for his District, 28 However, what sets Miriam apart in 2009 that his career reached new years’ service as a District and Branch is her devotion to fundraising and heights – as he undertook a charity Trustee, as well as Past President volunteering. Year-round, she knits indoor skydive for the East Anglian (1988-1989) at East Anglia Group items to sell and organises regular Air Ambulance. Other appreciated Conference. tombolas to raise money for her contributions include his time as Past Provincial Grand Master’s chosen Worthy Master of the Provincial Reflecting on his 71-year charities. Lodge of Past Grands, Midland Group relationship with the Oddfellows, Conference President and, while Gerald shared: “I liked the idea of For over 20 years, she has provided studying at university in Birmingham, what Oddfellowship stood for – fellow members with care and support attendance at monthly Branch meetings Friendship, Love and Truth. in their times of need as Branch and District annual meetings. Welfare Officer. Speaking about his time with the “We all need friends that we can turn Oddfellows, he explained: “It to when we need them. There are In the words of her District provides excellent opportunities to times when we all need support and Committee of Management, Miriam be able to meet people at home and the Oddfellows has been there for me is ‘a much loved member’. And as a overseas. An example of this is when and my family.” Society, we couldn’t agree more! I travelled around Australia and New Zealand and visited Lodges in Brisbane and Wellington.”
Well done and thank you to all our members who’ve featured as portraits over the years. We can’t wait to continue celebrating members who go the extra mile in supporting our Society through a Making A D ifference Award.
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