Working with Men and Boys: Emerging strategies from across Africa to address Gender-based Violence and HIV/AIDS Edited by Orly Stern, Dean Peacock and Helen Alexander Produced by Sonke Gender Justice Network and the MenEngage Network Sonke Gender Justice Network Johannesburg Office: Sable Centre, 16th Floor 41 De Korte Street Braamfontein 2017 T: +27 11 339 3589 F: +27 11 339 6503 Cape Town Office: Westminster House, 4th Floor 122 Longmarket Street Cape Town 8001 T: +27 21 423 7088 F: +27 21 424 5645 Email address:
[email protected] Web: www.genderjustice.org.za MenEngage Alliance www.menengage.org 2009 Working with Men and Boys: Johannesburg Office: Emerging strategies from Sable Centre, 16th Floor 41 De Korte Street across Africa to address Braamfontein 2017 T: +27 11 339 3589 Gender-based Violence F: +27 11 339 6503 and Cape Town Office: Westminster House, 4th Floor 122 Longmarket Street HIV/AIDS Cape Town 8001 T: +27 21 423 7088 Edited by Orly Stern, Dean Peacock and Helen Alexander F: +27 21 424 5645 Produced by Sonke Gender Justice Network Email address:
[email protected] and the MenEngage Network Web: www.genderjustice.org.za MenEngage Alliance www.menengage.org 2009 Contents Setting the context Making Gender Truly Relational: Engaging Men in Transforming Gender Inequalities, Reducing Violence and Preventing HIV/AIDS 8 Working “Gender-based and sexual violence was the daily bread of my life”: with men Pascal Akimana’s Story 23 and boys Men with Guns: Masculinity, Arms, Conflict and Post-Conflict 26 “The war is over.